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Yo Matt I already became a fan of you quickly (just came across your profile the other day and my name is also Matt lol) but you have no idea how warm and fuzzy I feel seeing you and your girl are BOTH NOT JABBED!!!! I will only date a girl that's not jabbed and that's hard to find where I'm from. You and your girl look so good together, couldn't be happier for you two. You are lucky to have her and she's lucky to have you.
Hey matt I'm 15 currently, subbed to you at 50k You have no idea about how much youve helped me get ahead in life Most of the teenagers here are lost causes and i actually feel like I'll make a good living in the future Your mindset has had an amazing influence on me and your currently helping me get through high school with ease Thanks alot buddy Love from India
Been watching since around 11K really seeing you and your content leveling up. Everyone that reads this dont just mindlessly watch, actually TAKE ACTION! Love the vids Matt keep up the good work
Grinning ear to ear watching this. Your guy's vibes together are contagious. And this was really inspiring I had such a similar story to this with my ex. Met her on retention while at work, just such a similar story but I won't get into it. We had a kid together and split up, and she went total psycho on me. Found out she had borderline personality disorder. This makes me believe in love again, your guy's connection is super genuine. I don't believe in soulmates but I do genuinely believe there are people out there we can really click with. And being on retention, focusing on your best self. Gets you a good partner. And this just reminded me of that.
Matt, I have to thank you for your videos. I started watching a few months ago and now I have a girlfriend. Your story is very similar to mine, I waited months and locked in for about a year too. Amazing how that works
as the saying goes, everything happens for a reason. I think when we decide to focus our attention to those areas that we are lacking in, things seem to turn towards them. I had been on this journey off and on and as a college student, can definately attest that during the time on A & P 2, I went through retension and helped me become more grounded and focused. appreciate the sharing and glad to hear you both are doing well and supporting each others journey.
Love that moment at the end haha that’s awesome finding someone who aligns with your beliefs and values. That’s truly rare and I’m glad it’s working out.
Great video Matt! Your story proves that there is hope as long as you work on other aspects of life and become the best version of yourself. I’m currently focusing on myself by finishing graduate school, finding a job, and quitting bad habits. Once these things are complete, I can be ready for a happy and healthy relationship.
This is what happens when you work on yourself. A great amount of blessings come your way. And life gets better for you. Through every win and loss on your journey. Just keep moving forward fellas. Let’s keep improving together.
Hey man, awesome video. I was curious to hear how you’ll met. I have personally struggled with my dating life. I want to find my ride or die partner but haven’t felt like god really cares much. I wish the two of you the best. Keep of the great work Matt! Love your videos bro
Matt, what do you think about me cold approaching when i go out to find a gf, btw i feel fitted for a relationship, like i’m always constantly improving
You have such a wonderful girlfrienjd my guy. FedEx is a good job, im 19 and I work for FedEx but on the airplane side of things and go to school full time. That kind of job helps you work on yourself in ways
Your girl looks like female version of Brooklyn Beckham… similar features. Better make sure they both don’t meet - it’s said that people are attracted to people who look like themselves. Funny enough Brooklyn looks a bit like Chloe Grace Moretz and they were dating.
Dang… anti-vax? Well, I have to say… I still really appreciate your stories and advice. We’re definitely different in some ways, but a lot of your advice is universal and I really appreciate it. I’ll look for the things that unify us rather than what separates us. :)
man this atm feels so bittersweet to me... gonna ramble a bit, so prepare xD week ago had a picknick with a girl, wasn't spoken out that it was a date but (to me) the vibe was totally there lots of fun in the chatting building up to the picknick, i was sometimes even astonished on the flow of it all, so needless to say i was pretty excited in a good way! picknick itself was also really fun and connective, believe both of us had a great time Now hold in mind this was my first ever real 'date' that came from mutual connection. And i'm 34years old. (soooo anyone reading this and feeling "behind" in life, I probably one-up ya! 😉)
the picknick was great and to me totally felt good for keeping the contact going and a time in the future go do another thing together but afterwards the contact didn't happen sadly :( i whatsapped some stuff that i thought was fun and in the line of our chatting before, but no responses from her and this confuses the sh*t out of me... like if this is not how vibe and connection is, than what is? and if i misread this so much.. is it even possible for me to get to a real connection and relationship with a woman? lots of stuff going through my mind, like if i'm maybe autistic or something... 😅 and to roll it back, watching this video, this love story, makes me hope but also wonder if it all is possible for me so.... if God or Universe or what name does fit, has a path or plan for me, i hope he/it/they understand i find it very tough to hold faith atm i'm very much confused and out of hope atm a clear sign (or something) would be much appreciated 🙏
@@RuudAwakeningYou can look at other Matt’s videos on why this happens. In fact, you gotta stay busy. I know it’s hard for not being in contact, but stay busy. So do not worry about anything. Trust your instincts
Dating someone for months with kissing and sleepovers without having a label to the relationship is so American lol In France we just cut to the chase and say we're boyfriend and girlfriend
Amazing video Matt enjoyed watching it I want you’ve really helped me be more confident as a man and you’ve helped me to become better as a man appreciate you Fr keeping making these videos also Matt just a question I need your advice on something if a girl I like shows interest in my friend should I completely cut her off or should I stay neutral with her?
You we're not looked relationship but when you hang out with girls back then i guess you had in mind "maybe she will be good gf". I'm i right? Did you told her about SR back then?
Damn as a 16 year old I’m worried about finding a girl to share a connection with but my crush ended up liking my best friend but good luck hope you’ll find someone special who enters into your life
Don't rush my friend, try to find someone you can connect with so when you'll have the relationship you'll understand what emotional stability is, and this will change your perspective forever. And when you get older you will realize it doesn't change a thing loosing virginity early, I lost with 19 and now I see I wouldn't mind loosing it later on as well.
Andddd I messed up the audio again… technology is not my thing 🤦♂️
But we’re not redoing this a third time lol
I’ll get it fixed for future vids
Audio sounds good to me 🤷♂️
Yo Matt I already became a fan of you quickly (just came across your profile the other day and my name is also Matt lol) but you have no idea how warm and fuzzy I feel seeing you and your girl are BOTH NOT JABBED!!!!
I will only date a girl that's not jabbed and that's hard to find where I'm from. You and your girl look so good together, couldn't be happier for you two. You are lucky to have her and she's lucky to have you.
Dude Matt you have an awesome girlfriend. She’s so funny lol. She’s a keeper for sure. Love the vids Matt
Appreciate you Jackson!
@@MattSpear99 always, Matt❤️
This was hands down the best “Storytime” by far!!!
Hey matt
I'm 15 currently, subbed to you at 50k
You have no idea about how much youve helped me get ahead in life
Most of the teenagers here are lost causes and i actually feel like I'll make a good living in the future
Your mindset has had an amazing influence on me and your currently helping me get through high school with ease
Thanks alot buddy
Love from India
Been watching since around 11K really seeing you and your content leveling up. Everyone that reads this dont just mindlessly watch, actually TAKE ACTION! Love the vids Matt keep up the good work
Grinning ear to ear watching this. Your guy's vibes together are contagious. And this was really inspiring
I had such a similar story to this with my ex. Met her on retention while at work, just such a similar story but I won't get into it. We had a kid together and split up, and she went total psycho on me. Found out she had borderline personality disorder. This makes me believe in love again, your guy's connection is super genuine.
I don't believe in soulmates but I do genuinely believe there are people out there we can really click with. And being on retention, focusing on your best self. Gets you a good partner. And this just reminded me of that.
Matt, I have to thank you for your videos. I started watching a few months ago and now I have a girlfriend. Your story is very similar to mine, I waited months and locked in for about a year too. Amazing how that works
You’re gonna get really big here on TH-cam soon Matt, keep up the great work bro!
Love these vids brother! Love from wales 🏴
His girlfriend has a great energy for sure
This was an awesome story Matt. So happy for both of you. 🙏💚
This just goes to show that if you work on yourself everyday and do what you know is right good things will come
as the saying goes, everything happens for a reason. I think when we decide to focus our attention to those areas that we are lacking in, things seem to turn towards them. I had been on this journey off and on and as a college student, can definately attest that during the time on A & P 2, I went through retension and helped me become more grounded and focused. appreciate the sharing and glad to hear you both are doing well and supporting each others journey.
Love that moment at the end haha that’s awesome finding someone who aligns with your beliefs and values. That’s truly rare and I’m glad it’s working out.
Glad i found this channel, this 9 to grind has been stressful but this gives me even more of a reason to just stay on my path
Great video Matt! Your story proves that there is hope as long as you work on other aspects of life and become the best version of yourself. I’m currently focusing on myself by finishing graduate school, finding a job, and quitting bad habits. Once these things are complete, I can be ready for a happy and healthy relationship.
Bullshit, just go find one
Great story time my guy, happy for u bro 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Watched full 30 min and I got some hope thanks
love these vids bro
This is what happens when you work on yourself. A great amount of blessings come your way. And life gets better for you. Through every win and loss on your journey. Just keep moving forward fellas. Let’s keep improving together.
Hey man, awesome video. I was curious to hear how you’ll met. I have personally struggled with my dating life. I want to find my ride or die partner but haven’t felt like god really cares much. I wish the two of you the best. Keep of the great work Matt! Love your videos bro
You two are a gorgeous couple ,I wish you all the happiness you both can find together !
I have been married for 20 years and my fella TRULY is the BEST man I’ve ever known. Everything about him draws me to God.
Keep going bro it's cool story
Nice video i didnt get jabbed either
Beautiful couple. Be happy!
Matt, what do you think about me cold approaching when i go out to find a gf, btw i feel fitted for a relationship, like i’m always constantly improving
Good vid. Thanks for not being fake
You guys are a genuine couple!
Great video.I hope you propose soon. Don't wait too long!
That so cool you guys organically discovered both of you are Purebloods!!!
You have such a wonderful girlfrienjd my guy. FedEx is a good job, im 19 and I work for FedEx but on the airplane side of things and go to school full time. That kind of job helps you work on yourself in ways
Your girl looks like female version of Brooklyn Beckham… similar features. Better make sure they both don’t meet - it’s said that people are attracted to people who look like themselves. Funny enough Brooklyn looks a bit like Chloe Grace Moretz and they were dating.
Awesomeness
God bless you brother
I would already have 30 girlfriends if I also had a Tina in my life
just clicked to say the title reminds me of how i met your mother the sitcom LOL
Dang… anti-vax? Well, I have to say… I still really appreciate your stories and advice. We’re definitely different in some ways, but a lot of your advice is universal and I really appreciate it. I’ll look for the things that unify us rather than what separates us. :)
man this atm feels so bittersweet to me...
gonna ramble a bit, so prepare xD
week ago had a picknick with a girl,
wasn't spoken out that it was a date but (to me) the vibe was totally there
lots of fun in the chatting building up to the picknick, i was sometimes even astonished on the flow of it all,
so needless to say i was pretty excited in a good way!
picknick itself was also really fun and connective, believe both of us had a great time
Now hold in mind this was my first ever real 'date' that came from mutual connection. And i'm 34years old.
(soooo anyone reading this and feeling "behind" in life, I probably one-up ya! 😉)
the picknick was great and to me totally felt good for keeping the contact going and a time in the future go do another thing together
but afterwards the contact didn't happen sadly :(
i whatsapped some stuff that i thought was fun and in the line of our chatting before, but no responses from her
and this confuses the sh*t out of me...
like if this is not how vibe and connection is, than what is?
and if i misread this so much.. is it even possible for me to get to a real connection and relationship with a woman?
lots of stuff going through my mind, like if i'm maybe autistic or something... 😅
and to roll it back,
watching this video, this love story, makes me hope but also wonder if it all is possible for me
so.... if God or Universe or what name does fit, has a path or plan for me,
i hope he/it/they understand i find it very tough to hold faith atm
i'm very much confused and out of hope atm
a clear sign (or something) would be much appreciated 🙏
@@RuudAwakeningYou can look at other Matt’s videos on why this happens. In fact, you gotta stay busy. I know it’s hard for not being in contact, but stay busy. So do not worry about anything. Trust your instincts
@@RuudAwakeningI’ve followed you btw
@@nitrianskehosamospravnehok4397 thanks man! lessons i mentally know but sometimes a refresh is just what's needed 💪
what do you do since deleting social media?
@@OG_2006_ depends on what youre scrolling through, my social medias sunshine
I mean if your using social media for good then theres nothing wrong with it but using it to waste time and being addicted to it is a no
Dating someone for months with kissing and sleepovers without having a label to the relationship is so American lol
In France we just cut to the chase and say we're boyfriend and girlfriend
Wish i had a gf damn she's so cute
It’s over for us Brodie getting rich is the only goal now
Amazing video Matt enjoyed watching it I want you’ve really helped me be more confident as a man and you’ve helped me to become better as a man appreciate you Fr keeping making these videos also Matt just a question I need your advice on something if a girl I like shows interest in my friend should I completely cut her off or should I stay neutral with her?
Probably stay neutral unless she's too distracting
The eyes chico they never lied
I see red flags in her lol
@@KaiserBPwhat red flags fo you see
You we're not looked relationship but when you hang out with girls back then i guess you had in mind "maybe she will be good gf". I'm i right?
Did you told her about SR back then?
I'm tryna be like u my boy 😭
Sheesh w vid let’s go
Matt❤
💯💯
What does It means "mum she is not jabt" or something like that. They say it in the last minute
Cute couple matt
❤❤
you are so cute together😁
Your girlfriend is Legit LOL 🔥💙💜
Is Matt mixed race?
Haha no. Lots of people think this for some reason
soooo hanging out 1-on-1 with a woman is a date?? Just so I am clear LOL
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In my case it would be how I knew what it was like to be single and virgin hahahahaha
Shit I'm 19 years old
are you in the military or joining the military?
@@ssoTechnicom It's just a photo, I'll change it because I'm in physical change
Damn as a 16 year old I’m worried about finding a girl to share a connection with but my crush ended up liking my best friend but good luck hope you’ll find someone special who enters into your life
Don't rush my friend, try to find someone you can connect with so when you'll have the relationship you'll understand what emotional stability is, and this will change your perspective forever. And when you get older you will realize it doesn't change a thing loosing virginity early, I lost with 19 and now I see I wouldn't mind loosing it later on as well.
Tina🤣
Ahwww CUTEE
This is simp behavior
First
I respect you so much, how you made it to this point.🫵🏼💪🏽✌🏽