I blame their mother. She has been brutal to those sisters their entire lives. When your own mother constantly points out their flaws and pushing them into modeling, you can see why Bella decided to give in to the pressure to “conform”.
Agreed. But I do think if she was getting mocked and bullied at school, even without her mom, she would’ve still gotten cosmetic work Done Like I’d probably want a nose job too dealing with those types of private school ultra rich kids
and, now that she has "transformed" herself, the whole world now thinks bella is equal to her sister .. the world will skinny shame her but at the same time girls are starving to look like her
I was sincerely shocked when I realized that Bella was actually younger than Gigi. I think these proceedures have aged her considerably. Bella was beautiful as she was, but I can imagine having a sibling famous for her outward appearance would be difficult to deal with pschologically without good parenting. It's really sad for Bella and for the young women who idolize her.
I’m 38. When I was a child I was called ugly. I would be compared with one of my friends and kids (and adults) would say that I was “the ugly girl”. Fast forward, I accepted that my looks would not get me far, so I focused on studying, and I got good at it. I am aware that these experiences hurt me and left a scar, but I have built a life that does not rely on my appearance. I can’t even imagine what young people are being exposed to…constantly bombarded with beauty standards that are unattainable. I am a new mom, and when I saw my newborn I cried so much thinking…he is beautiful and perfect just the way he is…I wouldn’t change anything…why do I keep seeing flaws in the mirror…they do not exist. I know that anyone can do whatever they want to their bodies, but if no one has told you today: you are beautiful, you’ve always been and will always be. 💜💜💜
Wow your story mirrors mine! My cousin and I are the same age and we were very close. Growing up, we were best friends. But to everyone around us, she was always the pretty one and I was the smart one. I also focused on my studies (and developed an elitist mentality that I’m trying to work on). Sad thing is, it was all external. We never compared ourselves. I’m 37 this year. And I truly hope to be looking into the adorable face of my newborn by next year too ❤
You were conditioned to think that way during a time when that was the norm for women to view themselves superficially. Just keep reminding yourself that you are a human being. Not just a face and a body. We all grow old (if we are lucky) , ultimately our souls are what matter.
I thank God I stumbled upon this channel. I am 40 and was bullied a lot in junior high school. I’m a Black woman and as a girl I was constantly teased for having a large flat nose, chubby cheeks. I’ve been in therapy for 3 years I’ve also traveled the world and learned that beauty standards are entirely subjective. In Argentina my face is considered gorgeous because it’s not the norm there. Men stopped on the street and told me how beautiful I was. In Brazil my face was not considered classically beautiful but I saw myself in so many Afro-Brazilian women that I learned to love myself. Now watching this channel I’m thankful that learning to love the face I have is the journey that I’m on. ❤️
Hmm... Not quite, obviously beauty standards are _not_ entirely subjective at all. Even if it's true that they can vary through regions and time. Still, there is some universal traits to a beautiful face (such as symmetry, balance, regularity, etc.). But of course, saying that a black woman for instance, has to resemble a white woman as much as possible to be judged beautiful is plain wrong and stupid. Yet this is sadly what some people think, and even more sadly, some black women!
I was always made fun of for having a larger Jewish nose. I wanted surgery so bad growing up, now I just embrace looking Jewish. I’m in therapy as well. ❤
Totally! Travelling and experiencig other cultures is is important. Western beauty standards exist only in the west and can be the complete opposite elsewhere - and they're not even consistent in the west, as you can see from your experience in Argentina. I come from Ireland and was always ashamed of my pale skin (we mostly all are back home). Now I live in the Mediterranean and they tell me how much they love it
Something interesting when you look up Bella and Gigi together side by side, there’s hardly any pictures of Bella smiling while Gigi is not afraid to smile. It’s such an interesting contrast.
It’s deeply troubling that Bella had a nose job at 14. In Australia (and I presume it’s the same in the USA), a minor can’t have any cosmetic procedures performed without parental consent. This would mean that Yolanda signed off on it. In fact, I would bet that she encouraged it and was the driving force behind it happening… what kind of 14 year old even thinks to get a nose job, let alone go through with one? I highly doubt it was Bella’s idea. And that thought alone makes me really sad for Bella 😔
It’s sad because Bella is not unattractive pre surgery - she’s quite beautiful - but she didn’t conform to USA beauty standards per se. She looked more like a Middle Eastern Princess. It’s sad that the Eurocentric beauty standards are so dominant. I wish the curved nose would be seen as beautiful other than the European upturned button nose (that honestly not even many European people have themselves).
She wanted to be more successful in her modelling career. That's what makes the difference. She wasn't in a position to say that she could look however the hell she wanted. In order to be successful, some standards have to be met. And it worked. She is now one of the most iconic model in the modelling industry. However, her mental state is a mess. I guess being successful doesn't automatically make you happy. If I had as much money as she does, I would have reconstruct my entire body if possible, let alone my face. My mind will probably go insane but at least I will look good every time I look into the mirror.
yes, she was quite beautiful but it is her body and her right to decide what she wants and does not like. I am not fond of other people trying to control what others do with their bodies.
Yes this 100%! I wish people could accept and love the beauty of their non-european features. God delights in the diversity of His creation and we should too.
@@elladapetrosyan9610 i think it did age her a bit as she has a more carved out look, certainly not 10 years though and she turned from unremarkable looking (basically a cute girl) to supermodel. her surgeons understood the assignment.
We should blame ourselves. We call people names and comment about their appearance in a negative way and think it is okay...and then we say OMG why would they do that to their face.
Fortunately having grown as an ugly girl that had to buy beauty with brain I can say with pride that nothing I said or did could have made anyone feel this way. I've learned not to give unwanted advice unless it's something minute that can be quickly fixed - a leaf in your hair, spinach in teeth or a stain/rip in clothes. Beyond that - I say something nice if situation calls for it or say nothing at all about appearance and just compliment their personality and personal achievement. As long as beauty can buy success,there will be cosmetic surgery but stopping unwanted criticism can help many "average" people avoid becoming self conscious. Excessive criticism, even a single time can even trigger dysmorphia.
It’s a shame folks can’t leave what they were naturally gifted with alone. It’s nice to see the doctor adds his critique, however, he’s always kind and careful with his words. True professional!
Litigiousness. He'll be sued if he says anything definitive about what people have undergone. The surgeon can only speculate. Note that this professional behavior is a safety net, so he focuses on the cost of a general procedure and steps back from direct questions.
This is where I disagree with your statement. Genetics is strange, and combining it with another person produces interesting offspring. Now not all offsprings come out like their parents; for example, a parent of a child might have a smaller nose, but the child might be born with a more prominent nose (or vice versa) because of a recessive gene carried by the parents, or the child might be born with attributes not found in their parents but in their grandparents. Some people gifted with these attributes by their parents might love it, and some might not, which prompts them to go under the knife. It is not just facial features people go under the knife for; it can be to enhance their breasts after repeated breastfeeding or remove loose skin from pregnancy, or even have their genitals tightened after multiple childbirths. All of these things won't kill you as it is natural, but it doesn't stop people from having them corrected. Cosmetic Surgery has a lot of negative connotations because it is seen as going against nature, and altering your natural-born feature can be seen as an a front to nature. The truth is cosmetic Surgery is neither good nor bad unless you overdo it, which then becomes bad. Ps Besides, if everyone accepted their gifts, people like Dr Linkov would be out of a job so would Stephanie's TH-cam channel.
This is exactly what I love about Cher, Jane Fonda and most of all Dolly Parton. They don't pretend not to have done a bunch of work (much of it unnecessary, imho) these ladies just openly acknowledge that it is part of show business. Jane Fonda recently admitted to regretting much of the work she had done, but she does look very elegant and balanced. I definitely agree with Stephanie regarding traumatizing childhoods and extreme surgery. Michael Jackson was a tragic poster boy. I think that poor Bella has ruined her face at this point.
Gary Motkye surgery plastic surgeon who does videos like this Dr Gary calls them out as good examples of plastic surgery too. Michael Jackson had a lot of issues not all his fault both Dr Garys do great videos on him.
She didn't need to make any changes to her face. She had her own unique and pretty look to her. Her sister, to me, has a more typical look, like "California girl" look whereas she has a more exotic look. If she let herself mature to her full-grown look she could have seen how pretty she was as an individual. So sad that she fell victim to the pressures of the celebrity world around her.
Her mother is the one who convinced her that she had to live off of almonds and hack her face up to be successful as a model. It obviously worked. Our culture towards women and beauty is gross on so many levels.
@@Rita1984 well that’s a matter of opinion then eh? She certainly had authentic ethnic features & that’s an exotic look where I’m from. Wishing you a blessed Thursday ✌🏻
Is it just me or is it outrageous that she was starting her plastic surgery journey at 14?! Nobody actual likes how they look at 14 - that's the pathway of puberty & being a teenager; struggling with comparing your appearance with others, feeling inadequate, unsure & lacking in confidence. If you just opt for surgery to try & fix all your perceived flaws as a young teen - or older teen for that matter - you're not actually resolving the origin of your insecurities. Perhaps her parents should have helped her work on her inner self esteem & self worth before agreeing to allow her to undergo external surgical changes, maybe then she wouldn't feel the need to surgically alter her face so regularly. P.S Love yr videos Dr Gary 😉
The bit about the asymmetry in her cupids bow was fascinating!! It makes so much sense, and pointing out that the higher nostril corresponds with the higher lip made it crystal clear to understand. I love your videos Dr. Gary!! Please do a follow up on her surgeries in 10 years haha
The thing that saddens me is not plastic surgery itself but the fact these women erase their ancestral beauty traits. Those that made you stand out from the rest. The unconventional beauty of today ! Instead they all morph into the same standard face becoming generic. Almost like society is deliberately trying to erase all diversity of ethnic beauty !
Every time I think I’d be interested in slight changes to my nose, I stop and think why would I want to get rid of my moms nose? That’s a feature of hers that would be erased, my grandpas and so on. I get to have her features and she gets to see her likeness in her kids, maybe it’s too deep to think a parent would be hurt by a nose job but that’s a big reason that stops me in my tracks for sure.
I agree with you totally. I find Middle Eastern,Jewish, African and Indian people to be very attractive. But I know so many girls of these heritages hate their faces and have work done. It’s not wrong at all, but I find it sad that they want to look more Western. They are beautiful in their own way. We all are. The Western aesthetic was pushed as the “most beautiful” or standard of beauty. Now, beauty is beyond exotic, more catlike, or, dare I say it otherworldly?
@@miask western aesthetics being pushed yes totally ! But not even western women look like that. To have big lips , high cheek bones, slim perfect noses , big eyelids (God forbid hooded eyes) , fox eyes , chiseled jawline etc. How many western women do you see that have all that naturally in a face? Not many if any. Usually nature will pick some of those features but remove others to bring balance to face. Even the western ancestral features are being erased too. I feel like society took all the best features from all ethnicities and put them into one generic face which we see today and tries to erase all other features (like they’re seemed not good enough)
You know, you’re right again! I was thinking back to Christie Brinkley. A lot of girls, big and little wanted to look like her. I would think she would be an ideal of Western beauty. There are many more, but when I was growing up, I wanted to look more like her-I was blonde haired with blue eyes-so in my mind, that was attainable. 😅My downfall was being the strong, hardy daughter of a mother who was exotically beautiful, but never had a nose job. He patrician nose is what was special about her-and set her apart. She constantly dieted to fit in to a 4 or 6. I was hounded to lose 10lbs, 15 would be better, she said. So I grew up believing I was fat and no boy would like me because of it. Not too long ago, I was going through old photos. I saw myself as I looked back then. Not fat at all. Sadly due to an accident, illness and meds, I really am fat now. I hate myself for it too! This is what living up to impossible standards will do to that to a young person. I’m sure you know girls who, for their 16th birthday, got a nose job or breast implants. I’m glad you didn’t change your grandpa’s nose. I’m sure you’re a beautiful lady just as your are. Perhaps Bella was trying to emulate, or surpass Gigi. So sorry, I got a bit carried away!🫶🏼
@@miask Your story is much like mine. I have a naturally more fleshy, voluptuous body type (the Kibbie Romantic) while my mother was a very thin gamine body type. Looking back, I didn't look fat at all, just more fleshy than my mom, my aunt, two stepsisters and even my sister who is fleshier,too. Had I been born in the 50's, my body type would have been envied, but instead, I was told I looked fat and so thought I was. Fast forward three decades and I am fat for real. What a predatory world in which we live.
I truly belive kids and teens shouldn't be allowed to get plastic surgery ,Bella may have grown into her original features, would she have waited until she was an adult , Teens don't seem to understand that once you operate your nose there is no coming back
For most US states, it is not legal to do cosmetic procedures until the person is 18. This includes lip fillers, which the FDA approves for 21+. Surgeries like breast augmentation, liposuction etc. it is firmly set at 18. Special exceptions are sometimes made, and girls as young as 13 have had nose jobs, with the justification that they are being bullied to an extent where they require it. A good surgeon would not take on someone that young, because they know the face has not fully developed. Young celebrities that get these procedures must have gotten parental consent and went to doctor that ignores their better judgement. The laws are in place but they aren't followed as they should be.
@@ultra_cosmic Transitioning before 18 involves no surgery or cosmetics procedures which would be illegal. At this age transitioning consists of wearing gender-confirming clothes, going by preferred pronouns etc. The only approved medical treatment, as recommended by American Academy of Pediatrics, International Pediatric Associations and other medical experts, is puberty blockers (which are reversible). Hormone therapy is not discussed until you are 16, at which point you begin a years long process to get approved for hormones. This process is supervised by doctors, psychiatrist, other mental health professionals. Only at 18 can the person get surgery, but again it is unlikely they are approved at this age, as the person generally have be on 2+ years of hormone therapy before considering surgery. I hope this information is helpful.
I don’t have childhood trauma but I work with a lot of clients who do, so I have some background. I’m also a domestic violence survivor (severe, attempted murder 3 counts on top of severe violence while pregnant daily, whether it be psychological, financial, or physical). There is definitely a correlation between trauma and changing yourself (just like some turn to drugs, alcohol, etc. others turn to plastic surgery or changing their looks.) I know when I got freed of my experience I changed my hair for safety reasons but oddly after watching this I’m realizing it did a lot for me to move forward and not associate myself NOW to the traumatized old self. I didn’t get surgery but I changed styles, behaviour, and what we all do in a breakup - HAIR ! Also look at trauma survivors and the correlation with the punk goth looks or anything out of the norm. It is a sense of control and not wanting to be the self that was so deeply hurt. (Extreme cases like cutting, but in a diff perspective).
This scares me as I think about it, as I don’t have childhood trauma my daughter was abandoned by her father at 3 months old and has not seen him since. At 5.5 years old now, she displays emotions she can’t express. She will be one of many with childhood trauma no matter what I do. I will do everything in my power to make sure this doesn’t happen, turning to alternate sources for security whether it be plastic surgery, rebellion, drugs/alcohol, etc. We have to be so mindful of this!
I honestly think at this point that just growing up in Southern California qualifies as trauma for a young girl. Women there are held to such ridiculous standards, and body augmentation is so rampant that no natural face/body can possibly measure up. I look forward to the day when women revolt against these expectations, from BBLs and poofy lips, to lasered hair and bleached bum holes. It really is time for a massive social correction.
Absolutely! agree. It is time, indeed. If we're going to embrace the planet and save it, maybe we should start by embracing our uniqueness. My friends are gorgeously funny, kind and compassionate; I can't tell you whether they're beautiful or not, who knows? I surely don't care. The surface is not WHO they are. What happened to ME TOO? The mantra seems to be ME.
True to an extent. I’ve grown up on the coast in Orange County and the amount of skinny big boobed PTA moms is kind of nauseating to grow up looking at.
I had a co worker that had a lot of work done and she had a 13 year old daughter that looked like her before all the plastic surgery. She would tell her daughter that she will fix her face once she's 16. It was so sad. 💔
Depends on the person. I would have loved it if my mom had been willing to get my nose fixed at 16. I hated it so much and it affected my self esteem. I had it fixed myself much older. I wish I'd done it sooner.
I went through pure depression bc my mom would keep on telling me i‘m too fat so I wouldn’t know what would happen to me if my mom told me THIS, especially at a younger age than 16? I‘m baffled
I have an opinion about the childwood trauma theory, based on my own experience. I had a troubled childwood: lots of family conflicts, psychological abuse, religious abuse, health issues, being bullied at school... When I was 14 I had a traumatic experience, which opened my eyes on the fact my parents were systematically denying my needs. It took me many years to actually realize that experience was a trauma. That experience changed many things about my way of life; among other things, I felt a strong urge to change my appearance, with clothes, with makeup, and if I had the means to resort to plastic surgery I would have done it massively! (I talked about it a lot, even had a clear list of the procedures I desired) At first, I justified it by saying that meeting beauty standards would improve my social life and the chances of being successful. When I grew up I abandoned the wish of surgically alter my appearance, since I realized for me it was just a way to separate myself from my family. It was like saying: "I am repulsed by everything you have given me. I want to dissociate myself from the look you chose for me with the clothes you provided for me. I want to dissociate myself from the image you expect me to maintain in social contexts, from your upbringing. I reject your distorted perception of me as a submissive person, unable to express my will, stand up for my rights, be assertive. I even reject this body, because it comes from your genetics, and I don't want to be known as one of you."
She had lovely skin but was not beautiful, but should have been happy with being average-looking and relied on her personality and skills like most people who don’t want, and can’t afford surgery.
Thank you for opening up the discussion around trauma and the desire for plastic surgery. It’s not always a factor but definitely could be. Patient mental and emotional motivations should always be considered. Dr Gary, your channel is an amazing resource for those curious about surgery as it’s very even handed and thoughtful about the topic, overall.
Why do celebs feel the need to lie even in the 2020s, when this stuff is WIDELY accepted for non-celebs even? Is it pressure from their management just in case they ever want to sell a skincare/beauty line? There HAS to be a bigger reason than shame, because it just doesn't make sense anymore.
i guess because, especially in the model, "appearance" industry, admitting to as little as possible work done is the best move. Imagine the headlines if everyone "discovered" that most of the top 10 best paid models all had plastic surgery. I guess staying publicly "natural" gives models some kind of "approval" for their success top 10 best paid models 2022: Kendall Nicole Jenner Gisele Caroline Bündchen Rosie Huntington-Whiteley Cara Jocelyn Delevingne Adriana Lima Jelena "Gigi" Noura Hadid Isabella "Bella" Khair Hadid Joan Smalls Rodríguez Liú Wén Candice Susan Swanepoel I don't know much about them, but i bet my ass AT LEAST 7 had work done. Which is not a bad thing! But you know, "7 out of 10 Best Paid Models Worldwide are not natural?!?!?!?!? Fake women! Liars!!!"
The most problematic issue I see with this industry is that the prominent figures aren’t being honest about the work they’ve had done. It’s not right to shame someone for getting cosmetic surgery - but when you as a person outright deny any of it, the conversation is shut down and you leave a lot of important details unaddressed. Such as the risks involved with each surgery you may consider getting. I hope people take better care of their personal/mental health first before succumbing to the idea that a nose job or face lift will make their lives immensely better. Regardless of what the world may say, focus more on your internal beauty longterm. Love and prayers 💛💛💛
the fact that she admitted to the nose job tells me all i need to know. usually, when people start getting procedures, it never just stops at one. they usually have more because sometimes the one procedure can off balance the rest of your face and require some more modifications to balance it all out.
I looked awkward as a teen and I used to want fillers esp chin fillers. Now that I’m 27, my nose doesn’t look as big, my baby fat started to shed, my eyes look larger now and my jaw doesn’t dominate my face. Trust me, you will grow into your face. Your body and face are ever changing.
Not necessarily. I always hated my nose and never "grew" into it. Finally got it fixed at 41 years old. My only regret is not doing it much younger to enjoy it longer.
@@debbielockhart7762 cool but I’m speaking to the children who do not want to change themselves but society has brainwashed them into thinking this is what beautiful is supposed to look like.
Hey Gary, Thanks for the thorough videos Have you considered making one about people who don't seem to have had any work, to show what natural aging looks like (and maybe that it's not as scary as the entertainment industry seems to think it is)?
I remember reading Michael Jackson's biography when I was much younger. One part that really stuck with me was when he described seeing his father whenever he looked in the mirror, due to his distinctive nose - I can't remember whether he specifically gave it as a reason for his initial surgery, but considering the abusive relationship they had, it was at least inferred as a reason...
Yes, his father was the main reason for his body dysmorphia and low self esteem about his appearance. He constantly bullied MJ for having a "bigger nose" .
As I age, I start to look more like my mother in some ways, and it's triggering. I didn't mind aging until I noticed this about myself. I don't look like my mom and I just didn't see it coming.
She looks matured after her surgery. It's funny models before were hired or discovered due to their authentic beautiful or unique looks. Now a days almost everyone looks the same with filler plump lips, some with almost buck teeth, augmented breasts & others. I still admire the models from the 70s, 80s, 90s to early 2000s.
Psychological trauma often causes people to feel "not good enough" and plastic surgery can definitely give the impression that with these tweaks, they become good enough. Of course, the healing all has to happen on the inside. There are so many things people resort to in finding somekind of outlet for trauma take gambling addiction, every kind of addiction really, eating disorders, much confusion about identity, so maybe plastic surgery isn't the worst when you can afford it especially considering sadly some don't survive at all. I've worked with trauma survivors for about a decade, am a survivor myself, and a therapist.
Great comment, couldn't have written it better myself and I'm happy to hear that someone like you with this knowledge works as a therapist and helps others struggling!
Perfectly said Michael Jackson said he wanted to change his nose because it reminded him of his father and he wanted nothing to do with him. Imagine the trauma.
I think there is some selective effect taking place when people choose plastic surgery to deal with trauma: You need a certain minimum of wealth and physical health to get most of these procedures.
@@drgarylinkov I hope the skincare will be suitable for pregnant women. It's sad when some skincare routine is medically unsuitable for particularly mother-to-be and lactating women :((
I love these video's. I'm 28 and a mother of 2 and living in the Netherlands. My little sister of 26 wanted to have a nose job since she was like 14 y/o. I always told her that her nose is just beautiful and it fits her. Also I have the nose of my mother and it is not straight like hers. But she is so insecure about it. But when I was 17 and was grocerie shopping with my best friend (who is really pretty) an older woman spoke to me about my nose. And that it was so unfortunately that my nose was so big and that a young girl like me should get it fixed. She gave me a card to call her plastic surgeon. She also just told my best friend how pretty she was. I always felt insecure about my appearance, like many girls I think. But that remark almost made me cry in front of everyone. I was so ashamed! And made me so self aware of my bigger nose. But now I see all these young persons do all these procedures. I have two little girls and I want them to love themselves just as they are. Im so happy I didn't do anything. If my girls would get my nose and they see that I alterated it... that sends a message to them. So please love yourself everybody. Your facial appearance has a history! Wear it with pride ❤
Looking at the pictures of Bella before the surgeries, she was quite pretty. I can't see anything that could be considered ugly. Can't believe she was bullied. Some of the pictures pre tweaks were beautiful. She had a kind face, even angelic, she could have been a pre-Raphaelite model. Examples: 0:54 1:41 3:28 6:02 6:09 6:12 6:38 6:41
Ever since I started reading into celebrity plastic surgeries, Ive been feeling so much better about myself. Dr when will you drop your skin care routine? You are glowing and no wrinkles!! 😊
Bella's natural look reminds me of my childhood friend. I think it's such a beautiful, friendly face. Her face now appears harsh and aged in my opinion. I watch this show all the time thinking of myself as "natural," but I just remembered that I've had a lower eye "lid" surgery in high school. My lower eyelash used to grow upward into my eyes and the eyeballs often get scratched. Eventually, my mom took me to get a surgery to cut the lower eyelids downward a bit. The surgery has changed the shape of my eyes. I don't think I look better or worse, just different. I've never heard of anyone else having this surgery. Just curious if anyone here has had it or know anyone who did ^^
I've heard of it. I don't know anyone whose had it. I'm hoping one day to get surgery on just one eye. My right top eye lid started drooping a bit in between 1st and 2nd grade and got moderately severe by 3rd grade. I had to develop a habit of constantly opening my eyes as wide as I could and raising that eye brow to let that eye lid fold and sit at the normal height of the other one. It's been decades and it's mostly subconscious now, but that doesn't change the inconvenience and physical discomfort when it isn't sitting right. And that eyebrow is now noticeably higher than the other from years of constantly lifting it for the eyelid adjustment. I don't know yet, but I can imagine feeling like getting that fixed would register emotionally as "getting work done". It's an issue I've hated for a long time that's uncomfortable. It's fixing a problem my other eye doesn't have. I love the idea of thinking as little about that eye as I think about my normal one. I'm glad your surgery worked. That condition sounds miserable to live with and pretty important to fix
@@thayerwilliams905 Thank you for sharing! It sounds like you could certainly find a good surgeon who would be able to help you achieve the balanced look that you desire. I think Forest Whitaker has a similar look to what you described? I apologize if it's nothing alike. But I've always loved Forest's performance. The drooping eye did nothing to hinder his fantastic ability as an actor.
I do know people who had this type of procedure done. It's actually quite common as it seems to be used to combat many different issues, including very dry eyes as well. Personally, I've never felt it made a big difference in people's eye shape. After surgery the eyes do look different, but I've always attributed it to swelling. Once the swelling goes down, I'm already used to how the person looks and therefore don't really noticed any major changes in eye shape. I imagine it being similar to people who are super self-conscious of their uneven nostrils after a rhinoplasty (- myself being one of those lol), yet no one else notices it. It's natural that it would be more apparent to you. Have the results held up well? Or has the lower lid turned a bit more upwards/inwards over the years? Hope those questions aren't too personal. I just find it really interesting. But no pressure to answer :)
@@mejuliie Thank you for the insight; I never knew it could help with dry eyes too! Before the surgery I have very small eyes (typical Asian monolid eyes). The surgery made my eyes slightly bigger, maybe that's why the change is obvious to me. I hope you are happy with your rhinoplasty; I'm sure people can't tell the slight imperfection that you can see. I had the surgery almost 20 years ago and, and the effect has been permanent. My lower lashes have never been a problem since. 😁
It actually is done fairly commonly in dogs and horses when the eyelids turn inward they will rub the cornea and eventually can cause blindness. You surgically corrected what was a health issue, it was not because of vanity.
All the talk about Yolanda has hit a nerve with me. I specifically remember when I was 9yrs old and we were away camping with other family members at Christmas time. My aunt proceeded to put sunscreen on her child/my cousin and made a comment how much I don’t like my freckles. It made me feel sick and ashamed hearing my own aunt say that. I’m 53 now and these days they have makeup to put on your face to give the impression that one was born with freckles. 😥
@@Buttercup697 haha But he's a billionaire 🤔 😏 Tbh, both girls look like Yasser Arafat in the face. I'm I calling them ugly? No. Yet, they wouldn't be modelling at all without their parents' connections/bankrolling. So, if someone IS pushing surgery on them (which I doubt) then there's really no point since beauty was never really the underpinning factor in their modeling careers to begin with.
Your theory is 100% true in my case, I don’t even like to look at old pictures of myself because I see the pain I was going through. When I see pictures of myself now, all I know is the happiness I’ve found since I’ve made these chsnges
I think she was naturally pretty. I went to college with a set of twins who looked like this and they had the boys at our D2 school eating out of their hands lol. One went into business, one went into nursing. If you met a girl like this in Walmart, you’d double take. (The original face I mean, she was just cute)
The filler under my eyes sunk and the type of filler cannot be dissolved - Radiesse. Now I am stuck with new eye bags that I never had before. It really sucks.
As a neuroscience therapist, yes agree these stars try to be a new person by changing their appearance.either from bullying, shaming or familial trauma as well as mgmt or pressure from their agent, can cause insecurities and can possibly explain why they have so much work done.
Honestly, it's the logic of the situation that baffles me. She wasn't ugly before, she had tons of opportunity and I remember hearing she was an excellent student, she was near Olympic caliber equestrian, she came from money. Yet, she chose to undergo massive amounts of surgery to completely alter her appearance to participate in a profession that doesn't value her as a person only as an aesthetic and with a major expiration date. It just baffles me, what on earth could this woman and her family have been thinking to undergo this much pain, suffering and change for something so ephemeral when she already had so much
Interesting....in addition to Stephanies theory, i also think that looking for perfection in plastic surgery comes from lack of unconditional love in childhood. An adult with unresolved trauma will think that the apperance is their issue, but never get to the sattisfaction they crave...maybe they also feel the pain when they look in the mirror and want to change because it reminds them of the childhood, their parents, and they want to escape that.
Bella’s physical change through plastic surgery is definitely due to her mother’s advice and ambition for her children to follow in her footsteps, as seen on RHOBH when the girls were practically unknown. Yolanda continues to be a strong (if not controlling) and determined influence in her children’s life. And her aim was fulfilled. It seems that the modelling « industry » rewards the results of the procedures, combined with a complying overall physical (supervised) slenderness. Kendall Jenner is another such example. Finally, the money and the fame hopefully obtained in the end as a result of all endeavours, render common people’s opinion insignificant.
Yolanda actually ruined these girls lives. Imagine how natural and beautiful they would be now if not for their controlling mother, and mostly happier. These now women weren’t ugly or bad looking. Now they look strange. Like she said Bella looks 40 years old when she’s 26…that’s tragic really.
@@KittenBowl1 Had the girls (esp. Bella) not had work done, they wouldn't be nearly successfully in their career as they are now. Toxic as you think she may be, she gave the girls lots of valuable guidance that led them to a successful career. Plus, it's not just in the modeling industry that looks matter. Unless your job involves is not people-facing whatsoever, having good looks will have a positive impact. People are naturally superficial like that.
I think their mother is the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in Hollywood. I don’t see her as a monster, or controlling; she’s always been into health food etc. if those girls wanted plastic surgery you can believe they could get the money from their dad if she wouldn’t let them. I don’t think that lovely , well Mannered woman is this is this horrible creature. The girls have seen beautiful women ( none as beautiful as their mom) everywhere where- look where they live. Shop in any wealthy neighborhood. They probably think it goes with the territory and hasn’t hurt any that went along financially.
I just recently turned 40. And i never gave aging much thought until that magical number hit me. You just know from here on out there is no turning back to a youthful face. It can be hard to deal with at times because the sudden realisation that life is only going into 1 direction from a time perspective can be difficult to come to terms with. That said, i do not think that medical procedures should be recommend. You might make yourself look a bit younger for the time being but it will have the opposite effect a couple of years later and then it will hit you even harder. One needs to slowly but steadily accept oneself. Aging is for everyone. Its simply nature. Forms that are born will die. The time in between there is a transformation happening. Each life stage has its own challenges and rewards.
People forget that they might have kids… and the kids will look like the original you. Imagine how confusing and sad that must be for a child… to not look like their mother/father. It’s heartbreaking how Bella’s mother pressured her own children to make such drastic changes… these changes are for LIFE. Once you go under the knife, you can not undo it. Sometimes parents literally project their own insecurities onto their children to try to fulfil their own…comfort… it’s so messed up.
@@sydneyelise7260 Adopted children know (or should know) that they have different genes than their parents. As biological kid it can be heartbreaking that you don't even look related to your parents who had drastically changed their original characters. Another aspect is that you have kids with a person who has the features you like, but instead of the beautiful eyes, lips and nose, you will get a not so attractive kid who looks exactly the same as their parent at that age. Surely you can be prepared for that at some extent, but very drastic changes might be problematic for some.
@@sydneyelise7260as someone who was adopted myself, I think I can speak to this. I don't feel heartbroken when I look at my parents' faces versus my own. I just wonder what my biological parents looked like. What I think could be "heartbreaking" as a child is seeing that you and one of your parents share (or shared) a facial feature that your parent has "fixed" or "edited out" with surgery. Knowing that your parent disliked this facial feature enough to get rid of it but YOU still have it could logicslly cause a drop in self esteem and maybe even make a kid wonder if their parent loves THEM because they still have that facial feature?
5:58 I agree with Stephanie’s armchair diagnosis, I think there’s some truth to it. Also it’s really sad what Bella went through I’m sure her mom played a huge role in those comparisons. Its crazy cause there was absolutely nothing wrong with Bella’s nose and she was just as beautiful as her sister with her natural face
@Robbie👾 because she was borned with the face she has now and that face is what people want to see. There is nothing wrong with the way she looked she was a beautiful girl. But the industry looks for features she didn't have. So instead of changing her face she should have just left the industry in my opinion.
@Robbie👾 yes very accurate. Some models actually managed to break beauty standards with their charm and charisma. But some "broken standards" are actually made by the industry and they fool us into believing they are authentic. The gap between the teeth the boyish figure shaved head ethnic features are all parts of the political woke mouvement. They are not really to make everybody feel pretty. They only serve some political agenda and they they go back to be the same as always.
@Robbie👾 I used the word should because I noticed that she was bullied for her looks and compared to her sister. People like to call it "the ugly duckling". And I thing that there are a lot of people like her who look up to her. And there is nothing worse than a person who didn't fit in the beauty standards who through surgery is the beauty standards itself now. Let's call it the revenge of the duckling. People are all crazy about glow ups and revenge. They use this new beauty to harm others and themselves. Naturally beautiful people tend to feel shy about showing off their beauty to other people who are considered less beautiful. Bu the duckling would fat and ugly shame you and push the standards to the extreme.
What has always struck me as so strange are people who freak out over Barbie dolls. I’ve heard & seen women & girls freaking out that that is what THEY are suppose to look like. WTF? My parents bought me the dolls & said SHE is a doll. What clothes, house, car whatever do YOU want to go with HER? Do these people not have a sense of personal IDENTITY to begin with? That mental aspect in plastic surgery patients I have never understood. Wow! Thanks for the channel. Always enjoy.
I have seen that girls who are called not pretty or ugly at their teenage time or upto 22 , in mid 20’s or early 30’s they become pretty . So your face will always change will be grown or enhance in natural ways. So, girls save yourself from such insecurities and mental trauma. Focus on your inner goodness and your uniqueness and that will enhance your beauty from inside to outside.
Dr. Gary, I’ve noticed your eyebrows are growing in! I’m unsure if there were videos of you talking about something new you’re trying but I’m happy for you with whatever is going on!
To be fair 16:50, Bella lost about 30-40 pounds. She has been diagnosed with an eating disorder. To say she was always tall and slim is a minor misrepresentation. Note: not saying she hasn’t had fat removal to her face, she possibly could. But I am saying she has had a significant weight loss that can contribute to her appearance.
@@ls-l1518 not an explanation. I did not say that. The truth. What is wrong with saying, "yes I've benefitted from an excellent surgeon" rather than a lie?
‘Once you can’t pop your can’t stop’. Yes agree, I’m 34 and have had 16 procedures all up. Iv also had a lower and just now a mid face life. I should mention I’m a recovering alcoholic, and been left with premature aging and v poor skin laxity. Half of my surgeries have corrected this.
I am a mental health, professional and I do feel as though this could, for sure be a thing... whenever somebody has had a traumatic childhood event they could use any number of things to change something about themselves to gain or show control in an area that they can control, whereas the trauma was something that they had no control over. It can show itself in a number of ways such as OCD, changing their hair color, tattoos, piercings...all different kinds of things.
I’m 26 and Bella definitely doesn’t look 26 I always thought she is in her 30s! I know everybody ages differently ,it’s just I found out today that she is my age! Great review doc! I wish to become as professional and as good with words like him!
What’s absolutely horrifying is how young she is to have already gone through so many procedures. As beautiful as she is now, it won’t last long because you can already see the beginnings of her transformation into a scary Jocelyn Wildenstein. She will morph into that probably way before the actual Jocelyn did, possibly in her mid to late 30s.
no she won’t she is beautiful and she will stay that way. she will begin to age more when she hits 40 but for the time being she will continue to look youthful. she has lost some weight which has aged her slightly but guess what? she’s rich. she can get filler. she can get treatments. you all seem to wish that she will have some sort of tragic end so you can feel better about yourselves and morally superior. she is successful, she is beautiful, she is wealthy and she has everything she needs to help her mental health to become whole. you know what i see? a beautiful girl who will mature as she ages, grow, learn, change and thrive. that’s what i see.
@@beckysuperswag Jocelyn Wildenstein received $2.5 billion in her divorce settlement and $100 million each year for the following 13 years. More money than Bella will make in her lifetime. So having an obscene amount of money does not equate to making the best life choices now, does it? What I’m trying to convey is that Bella has nipped and tucked and pulled her face so tightly already at only the age of 26 that she is well on her way to becoming another catwoman à la Wildenstein. You don’t think she will further tighten everything she had done already once age catches up to her and past procedures start to sag? The body dysmorphia will kick into high gear at that time and she will never be satisfied with a temporary fix and will continue to cut up her face until her end. The more money she has, the more she can get done. It’s a vicious cycle.
@@bokuphishp684 is your life perfect? why do you judge her so harshly and project this terrible future on her? are there bad habits you need to kick? why on earth do you care so much about bella hadid dying old and miserable? you seem like you hate women.
As a psychologist, I’m weighing in that is a lot of factors. She was targeted as the less attractive sister, and after all her mother was a model and viewed good. Looks as the Aryan blonde, blue-eyed daughter that had perfect little features. I think she also was very compared and I can just remember reading a quote that Gigi and Bella‘s mother said Gigi said she was so hungry. She almost fainted, and her mother‘s reply was “they need a couple of almonds but she’s in very slowly“ now as a therapist, a normal mother‘s response would be are you OK? Are you OK? Sit down and eat some thing you know and rest but that wasn’t her response. I think a lot of pressure was put on her and I think she felt like the ugly duckling, and most of the time people change their outside appearance, thinking that it’s going to go along with their inside appearance, and it doesn’t always work, so you just have to be as healthy on the inside as you are on the outside when you get plastic surgery because the two have to match because one alone will not make you happy. Bella also has talked about her great anxiety that she has and continues to have that she’s an anxious 99% of the time so I feel like her feeling like she looks better, make sure feel a little less anxious but it still hasn’t done that because she still anxious so mental health work is in order along with the plastic surgery
aryan means persian or iranian, it doesnt mean european instead u can just say eurocentric or something, and isnt Bella Hadid half arab? Her mother must have some type of racism in her since she couldnt accept the fact that her daughter had semi Arab features.
How did this become about race? Bella was unattractive based on her face not her eyes or skin tone. Her skin is white and her eyes ard blue so what is your point anyways? Hair can bleached if one wants to be blonde. She is still unattractive btw.
@E M race has a factor because the standard for beauty is the European kind. You're even perpetuating it yourself "Bella was unattractive because of her face" - which was more ethnic and middle eastern, but still pretty- but it didn't fit your and the worlds eurocentrism
@@hittheroadjack2014 I am middle eastern and I can assure you that Bella never looked "middle eastern"... lol Her eyes, eyebrows and lips are also the opposite of our beauty standards. You're actually the one stereotyping people... because I don't even know what you're imagining as "middle eastern"...🙄😂 Bella's face is simply not attractive. In ANY ethnicity. She's just a bone-thin American girl with billionaire family connections that made her a model.
@UserMll Her nose especially beheld her roots- and the way her face used to be was very cute. I don't disagree that her connections made her a model, nor do I disagree that she's unattractive (to me) now- but it's especially funny how you continue to project those eurocentric standards thinking they're middle eastern to begin with- your entire comment is a riot and its a shame I can't tell you why entirely 🙃
I find this heart breaking. As someone with a very painful disability, I cannot imagine being so insecure about my appearance that I would willingly put myself through that many painful surgeries and procedures. I say this as someone who is not at all happy with the changes that both age and disability have wrought upon my body and face. But I am not insecure enough about it to put myself in even more pain than I'm already in. On another note, hasn't Stephanie gotten lip filler? I ask because she says she's committed to aging naturally.
What side about this, is that Bella Hadid has been held as the standard for beauty for quite a while. I believe she was listed as the perfect face at one time. Shame on us for falling for this over and over and over again. Including shame on Bella for passing this off as natural beauty.
I really like this channel. It keeps me away from unnecessary procedures. When the doctor was talking about the pony tail lift. I was thinking it looked like her edges were thinning. Didn't know that a ponytail lift was even a thing! 😂
Yes exactly!! Her mom is horrible, she instilled both her daughter’s insecurities. She still controls everything their daughter’s eat etc. Very sad so no wonder she literally changed her face & body to an extreme. I’m not saying she doesn’t look good. She is very pretty now & she seems happy with her surgeries & I respect that but still feel her mom messed with her self esteem.
Not only are these people blatant liars but they also think we are all blind. How on earth can anyone deny doing any work on their face when it's all out there for the world to see!
You’d be shocked how many people defend them as if they were their best friend. We need to focus more on our actual families & friends instead of glorifying celebrities… who clearly don’t care too much about their fans I mean they are acting as if we are blind 😅
For a non professional this girl's assessments were crazy! I've never seen neither her channel nor this surgeon's, but her video merely required a little tweaking ALONE - sometimes none at all. He even said at one point caught off guard, "Oh! Good point!" For bringing up a possible procedure.
Really enjoyed this collab! ;) It makes me sad that face lifts are becoming more common in younger (under 40) people. Why is our body showing signs of a life lived so horrible?
Dr. Linkov, you’re just the best! I could watch you all day, you have such a cute personality & calm way of speaking whilst being expertly informed when delivering the very important & much needed info. on what happens/can happen in these various surgery scenarios. You’re so enjoyable to watch & listen to that I actually learn a lot & somehow feel better about my own self, all under the guise of being entertained. Which is why I know you’ve gotta be make a big difference in the lives of many kids & teens as well. Giving us the benefit of your expertise via these videos is hugely important! Hope you continue for years to come.
That reinventing theory... girls do that with hair very often. After a break up... I've had many friends (also me) who completely redid their look. Bright colors, bob cuts, black hair etc. I could see people with money reinventing themselves after experiences.. with surgery.
I dont think she had Buccal fat removal. 2:35 In the picture on the left she is really young and was not as thin as she is now.. with age and weight loss it's normal to lose the fat in your cheeks.. especially if she did had fillers to make her jaw bigger, it's normal that with weight loss the cheeks will look more sunken. it's not normal to compare a picture of when she was 16 with how she is now and say that she had all those procedures. the face is still developing at that age
5:50 i mean we girls sometimes dye our hair after traumatic relationships/events in the idea of “new hair new me” to like get over it quicker And from my experience it did not help. At. All. But now I can also worry that I do not like my hair so I can be aswell occupied by that and let the trauma sit for a bit to work through it after Of course dying hair does not compare to plastic surgery or the likes of procedures but it definetly has some similar mechanics behind it in cases of people with trauma among many other
"They don't last forever. A really good facelift can last maybe 10 years" That immediately made me think of the Radiohead song Fake Plastic Trees: "She lives with a broken man A cracked polystyrene man Who just crumbles and burns He used to do surgery For girls in the eighties But gravity always wins She looks like the real thing She tastes like the real thing My fake plastic love"
Think about Bella’s experience as a hadid. Your mother was a super model. Your sister, a natural beauty, tall, blonde, blue eyed. And then there’s you. Your name is BELLA. you HAVE to be beautiful. The world is watching. Your mother and sister are gorgeous. But you have a hooked nose, hooded eyes and a round face. Oh yea, and you live in LA. It’s a wonder she didn’t go so overboard that she ruined her face. I can’t even understand the pressure she must’ve felt.
@@diddlybop Yes now it's like a typical instagram nose. She does have a high fashion face now, more than Gigi. And Gigi is overall prettier. According to me anyway.
her surgeries have definitely paid off, although I do think she should’ve at least kept half of her buccal fat, she’s beautiful nonetheless. most celebrities have had something done, we only pressure the ones that are conventionally attractive to come out and say they had something done.
Her surgeries have paid off now, but she probably just shortened the length of her modeling career by a lot. Getting major plastic surgery procedures done at such a young age means she will never be able to stop and she will not age naturally in a beautiful way. It's incredibly sad that people permanently change things about themselves on the off chance that it might make them feel better for a limited amount of time.
@@rosequartz7841 i don’t think she’s doing anything to anti-age herself as she’s only 26, lol? “you can’t stop the years”, her looks have improved, idk why you guys are denying this.
@@blackrainfell9969 yeah, i sort of lump age groups by similarities in appearance by 18-22 year olds, 23-26, then 27-early 30’s, she seems to be in her early 30’s for sure.
With all the money her family has, they didn't really think to get Bella a good psychologist to work on her self esteem before going through all these surgeries?
Franky, money has nothing to do with it. I see mental and behavior problems the most with filthy rich families. She's technically the one with the least drama in her family. Her dad has rape allegations, her mother Yolanda claims that her son in law hit her, her mother also urged her to get a nose job at 14 and told her sister gigi not to play softball so she doesn't look like a muscular lesbian. There's many compilations of Yolanda telling her kids not to eat. Gigi once called her mother saying she was dizzy from not eating and her mother told her to eat a few almonds lol. Yolanda also got mad at gigi for eating a bite of her own birthday cake. They're the cause of her mental issues. So how can they suggest mental help for her?
Honestly! It’s almost child abuse to have a 14 yr old come up to you and say “I’m bullied for my looks, please by me a new face” and then just BUY HER THE NEW FACE??? Not assuring her own beauty, not emphasizing inner beauty, not talking to schools about getting their fucking students in check, not one therapy appointment. Just an agreement.
I think even celebrities should hold the right to privacy on this kind of thing since it's essentially medical history. They could just agree that they've had things done and leave it at that if they don't want to disclose the particular procedures because anyone with eyes will be able to see a difference and know what parts have been worked on. And if you want to know because you want it done for yourself, go for a consultation and find out your options, that's inevitable if you're looking into cosmetic surgery.
Thank you Dr Gary for your great content. I think weight loss definitely has an effect as well. I can see this on my own face as I lost a lot of weight after a stressful period and had no surgeries but my face changed noticeably.
When talking about traumatic childhoods, she should have definitely said those who have had extensive and almost obsessive surgeries fall into this category more, not those who have just had a few enhancements.
And the Egyptian actress Zubeida Therawat! But Jennifer Lawrence is the one who looks the most like her, Bella’s previous face only partially looked like her. And Jennifer Lawrence is still an actress right now, and her career began in the early 2000’s, not the 90’s. I personally LOVED when Bella looked like Jennifer, because I think that Jennifer is absolutely gorgeous. I hate how Bella has completely ruined her face and is bound to start to regret this very soon.
Then, when the nerve damage from the surgeries begin to happen, she will say it's from lyme disease. I'm still convinced a lot of the celebrities blame their health issues on ANYTHING except things they've done or injected into their bodies. Shania claimed her face swelling was from lyme disease. Sorry, she had more going on than lyme disease. She was using a lot of fillers. Now Shania's face is completely different. She dissolved her fillers and had a face lift or something. Also. I've noticed a lot of celebrities who over use botox are simultaneously diagnosed with lyme disease. I'm thinking all these fillers, botox and surgeries mimic lyme.
I've had 3 nose jobs. First was botched, second two were reconstructive. I did have a traumatic childhood to some extent, but I only ever wanted my nose done because it was crooked and had a big hump. The botch turned out to be very traumatic in itself because my nose collapsed. I'm ok now but I wouldn't do any other surgeries.
I agree. It's like when people say "new hair, new me" or when you change part of your appearance, it somehow transforms you into a new or better version of yourself. Like a rebirth in some way
I blame their mother. She has been brutal to those sisters their entire lives. When your own mother constantly points out their flaws and pushing them into modeling, you can see why Bella decided to give in to the pressure to “conform”.
Agree.
her mom is brutal and harsh. agreed.
Yeah but that's just one half, the other half is us also, who consequently prized her for her beauty, so the mom was proven right. By us.
Agreed. But I do think if she was getting mocked and bullied at school, even without her mom, she would’ve still gotten cosmetic work Done Like I’d probably want a nose job too dealing with those types of private school ultra rich kids
and, now that she has "transformed" herself, the whole world now thinks bella is equal to her sister .. the world will skinny shame her but at the same time girls are starving to look like her
I was sincerely shocked when I realized that Bella was actually younger than Gigi. I think these proceedures have aged her considerably. Bella was beautiful as she was, but I can imagine having a sibling famous for her outward appearance would be difficult to deal with pschologically without good parenting. It's really sad for Bella and for the young women who idolize her.
Wait Bella is younger than Gigi?? She looks so much older..
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@@lauraporto9508 no she’s not
Did you hit your head? Who told you bella is younger than gigi?😂 pls bfr bella is older than Gigi
@@bettysavage Yes she is
I’m 38. When I was a child I was called ugly. I would be compared with one of my friends and kids (and adults) would say that I was “the ugly girl”. Fast forward, I accepted that my looks would not get me far, so I focused on studying, and I got good at it. I am aware that these experiences hurt me and left a scar, but I have built a life that does not rely on my appearance. I can’t even imagine what young people are being exposed to…constantly bombarded with beauty standards that are unattainable. I am a new mom, and when I saw my newborn I cried so much thinking…he is beautiful and perfect just the way he is…I wouldn’t change anything…why do I keep seeing flaws in the mirror…they do not exist.
I know that anyone can do whatever they want to their bodies, but if no one has told you today: you are beautiful, you’ve always been and will always be. 💜💜💜
Wow your story mirrors mine! My cousin and I are the same age and we were very close. Growing up, we were best friends. But to everyone around us, she was always the pretty one and I was the smart one. I also focused on my studies (and developed an elitist mentality that I’m trying to work on). Sad thing is, it was all external. We never compared ourselves.
I’m 37 this year. And I truly hope to be looking into the adorable face of my newborn by next year too ❤
As we age, so does our "beauty." We live in a disgusting society that values youth, not wisdom.
Your face does not define you. Your soul does.
As we age, so does our "beauty." We live in a disgusting society that values youth, not wisdom.
Your face does not define you. Your soul does.
You were conditioned to think that way during a time when that was the norm for women to view themselves superficially. Just keep reminding yourself that you are a human being. Not just a face and a body. We all grow old (if we are lucky) , ultimately our souls are what matter.
Thank you for this 🙏 congrats on your new baby 🌝
I thank God I stumbled upon this channel. I am 40 and was bullied a lot in junior high school. I’m a Black woman and as a girl I was constantly teased for having a large flat nose, chubby cheeks. I’ve been in therapy for 3 years I’ve also traveled the world and learned that beauty standards are entirely subjective. In Argentina my face is considered gorgeous because it’s not the norm there. Men stopped on the street and told me how beautiful I was. In Brazil my face was not considered classically beautiful but I saw myself in so many Afro-Brazilian women that I learned to love myself. Now watching this channel I’m thankful that learning to love the face I have is the journey that I’m on. ❤️
Hmm... Not quite, obviously beauty standards are _not_ entirely subjective at all. Even if it's true that they can vary through regions and time.
Still, there is some universal traits to a beautiful face (such as symmetry, balance, regularity, etc.).
But of course, saying that a black woman for instance, has to resemble a white woman as much as possible to be judged beautiful is plain wrong and stupid. Yet this is sadly what some people think, and even more sadly, some black women!
I was always made fun of for having a larger Jewish nose. I wanted surgery so bad growing up, now I just embrace looking Jewish. I’m in therapy as well. ❤
I am really sorry you had to experience bullying. I hope your confidence and self esteem continue to soar!
Totally! Travelling and experiencig other cultures is is important. Western beauty standards exist only in the west and can be the complete opposite elsewhere - and they're not even consistent in the west, as you can see from your experience in Argentina. I come from Ireland and was always ashamed of my pale skin (we mostly all are back home). Now I live in the Mediterranean and they tell me how much they love it
@@frontenac5083Beauty is subjective. We are taught that symmetry is conventionally attractive, but that is an opinion based on feelings and not fact.
Something interesting when you look up Bella and Gigi together side by side, there’s hardly any pictures of Bella smiling while Gigi is not afraid to smile. It’s such an interesting contrast.
It’s deeply troubling that Bella had a nose job at 14. In Australia (and I presume it’s the same in the USA), a minor can’t have any cosmetic procedures performed without parental consent. This would mean that Yolanda signed off on it. In fact, I would bet that she encouraged it and was the driving force behind it happening… what kind of 14 year old even thinks to get a nose job, let alone go through with one? I highly doubt it was Bella’s idea. And that thought alone makes me really sad for Bella 😔
Now I understand why Zayn didn't want her daughter around Yolanda
I mean she is now "the most beautiful woman in the world" so she probably feels justified
America is just crazy hey. I feel like we're heading there though
In USA usually 16 is your first nose job. Only because you’re not finished growing
rich people shit tbh
It’s sad because Bella is not unattractive pre surgery - she’s quite beautiful - but she didn’t conform to USA beauty standards per se. She looked more like a Middle Eastern Princess. It’s sad that the Eurocentric beauty standards are so dominant. I wish the curved nose would be seen as beautiful other than the European upturned button nose (that honestly not even many European people have themselves).
She wanted to be more successful in her modelling career. That's what makes the difference. She wasn't in a position to say that she could look however the hell she wanted. In order to be successful, some standards have to be met.
And it worked. She is now one of the most iconic model in the modelling industry. However, her mental state is a mess. I guess being successful doesn't automatically make you happy.
If I had as much money as she does, I would have reconstruct my entire body if possible, let alone my face. My mind will probably go insane but at least I will look good every time I look into the mirror.
yes, she was quite beautiful but it is her body and her right to decide what she wants and does not like. I am not fond of other people trying to control what others do with their bodies.
Yea because it's not European it's child-like and the infantilazation of women is becoming more and more extreme
Not to say no adult has it but there's few of them the nose never stops growing
Yes this 100%! I wish people could accept and love the beauty of their non-european features. God delights in the diversity of His creation and we should too.
The work she had done aged her 10 years.
it made her look more modelesque and that was her goal. it's her face.
@@candicewatson5508 I realize it's her face.
Jokes on you. I like old women. Grannies
I don't agree that it aged her. It did improve her look. She does look stunning after the surgeries. She looked ok with no surgeries.
@@elladapetrosyan9610 i think it did age her a bit as she has a more carved out look, certainly not 10 years though and she turned from unremarkable looking (basically a cute girl) to supermodel. her surgeons understood the assignment.
No idea how I ended up on a cosmetic surgery video but this doctors voice is extremely therapeutic.
We should blame ourselves. We call people names and comment about their appearance in a negative way and think it is okay...and then we say OMG why would they do that to their face.
Yours is the best comment made here! Very true!!!!!
Exactly I don’t get why people hate on celebs for getting work done and then say they were ugly before like pick a side
Please continue this series...
Fortunately having grown as an ugly girl that had to buy beauty with brain I can say with pride that nothing I said or did could have made anyone feel this way. I've learned not to give unwanted advice unless it's something minute that can be quickly fixed - a leaf in your hair, spinach in teeth or a stain/rip in clothes. Beyond that - I say something nice if situation calls for it or say nothing at all about appearance and just compliment their personality and personal achievement.
As long as beauty can buy success,there will be cosmetic surgery but stopping unwanted criticism can help many "average" people avoid becoming self conscious. Excessive criticism, even a single time can even trigger dysmorphia.
I’m not blaming myself I wasn’t involved
It’s a shame folks can’t leave what they were naturally gifted with alone. It’s nice to see the doctor adds his critique, however, he’s always kind and careful with his words. True professional!
Litigiousness. He'll be sued if he says anything definitive about what people have undergone. The surgeon can only speculate. Note that this professional behavior is a safety net, so he focuses on the cost of a general procedure and steps back from direct questions.
This is where I disagree with your statement. Genetics is strange, and combining it with another person produces interesting offspring. Now not all offsprings come out like their parents; for example, a parent of a child might have a smaller nose, but the child might be born with a more prominent nose (or vice versa) because of a recessive gene carried by the parents, or the child might be born with attributes not found in their parents but in their grandparents. Some people gifted with these attributes by their parents might love it, and some might not, which prompts them to go under the knife.
It is not just facial features people go under the knife for; it can be to enhance their breasts after repeated breastfeeding or remove loose skin from pregnancy, or even have their genitals tightened after multiple childbirths. All of these things won't kill you as it is natural, but it doesn't stop people from having them corrected.
Cosmetic Surgery has a lot of negative connotations because it is seen as going against nature, and altering your natural-born feature can be seen as an a front to nature. The truth is cosmetic Surgery is neither good nor bad unless you overdo it, which then becomes bad.
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Besides, if everyone accepted their gifts, people like Dr Linkov would be out of a job so would Stephanie's TH-cam channel.
Why? I was "naturally gifted" with a nose I hated - so I fixed it. Best thing I ever did for myself.
LOL her mother was always very critical of her appearance and encouraged her to make changes. This is more than just someone accepting who they are.
it’s not that easy when you’re bullied for your looks or have body dysmorphia
This is exactly what I love about Cher, Jane Fonda and most of all Dolly Parton. They don't pretend not to have done a bunch of work (much of it unnecessary, imho) these ladies just openly acknowledge that it is part of show business. Jane Fonda recently admitted to regretting much of the work she had done, but she does look very elegant and balanced. I definitely agree with Stephanie regarding traumatizing childhoods and extreme surgery. Michael Jackson was a tragic poster boy. I think that poor Bella has ruined her face at this point.
Exactly! And we love them more for their honesty!
Jane fonda lied for years. Whike getting rich on workout videos. Please don't lump her in.
Poor girl looks sad. That baby face is gone. Wonder shoes telling her to do that
After a while you can’t hide it, but you also stop giving a crap about what people say when you cross 40
Gary Motkye surgery plastic surgeon who does videos like this Dr Gary calls them out as good examples of plastic surgery too. Michael Jackson had a lot of issues not all his fault both Dr Garys do great videos on him.
She didn't need to make any changes to her face. She had her own unique and pretty look to her. Her sister, to me, has a more typical look, like "California girl" look whereas she has a more exotic look. If she let herself mature to her full-grown look she could have seen how pretty she was as an individual. So sad that she fell victim to the pressures of the celebrity world around her.
Her mother is the one who convinced her that she had to live off of almonds and hack her face up to be successful as a model. It obviously worked. Our culture towards women and beauty is gross on so many levels.
I thought she had a beautiful unique and exotic look before too!
@@dvorahm7213 definitely had an authentic , ethnic & exotic look although she’s still beautiful.
@@Rita1984 well that’s a matter of opinion then eh? She certainly had authentic ethnic features & that’s an exotic look where I’m from.
Wishing you a blessed Thursday ✌🏻
Truthfully she should have stopped after that one nose job, nothing else made any sense at all
Is it just me or is it outrageous that she was starting her plastic surgery journey at 14?! Nobody actual likes how they look at 14 - that's the pathway of puberty & being a teenager; struggling with comparing your appearance with others, feeling inadequate, unsure & lacking in confidence. If you just opt for surgery to try & fix all your perceived flaws as a young teen - or older teen for that matter - you're not actually resolving the origin of your insecurities.
Perhaps her parents should have helped her work on her inner self esteem & self worth before agreeing to allow her to undergo external surgical changes, maybe then she wouldn't feel the need to surgically alter her face so regularly.
P.S Love yr videos Dr Gary 😉
The bit about the asymmetry in her cupids bow was fascinating!! It makes so much sense, and pointing out that the higher nostril corresponds with the higher lip made it crystal clear to understand. I love your videos Dr. Gary!! Please do a follow up on her surgeries in 10 years haha
Really informative...
haha? you're weird
The thing that saddens me is not plastic surgery itself but the fact these women erase their ancestral beauty traits. Those that made you stand out from the rest. The unconventional beauty of today ! Instead they all morph into the same standard face becoming generic. Almost like society is deliberately trying to erase all diversity of ethnic beauty !
Every time I think I’d be interested in slight changes to my nose, I stop and think why would I want to get rid of my moms nose? That’s a feature of hers that would be erased, my grandpas and so on. I get to have her features and she gets to see her likeness in her kids, maybe it’s too deep to think a parent would be hurt by a nose job but that’s a big reason that stops me in my tracks for sure.
I agree with you totally. I find Middle Eastern,Jewish, African and Indian people to be very attractive. But I know so many girls of these heritages hate their faces and have work done. It’s not wrong at all, but I find it sad that they want to look more Western. They are beautiful in their own way. We all are. The Western aesthetic was pushed as the “most beautiful” or standard of beauty. Now, beauty is beyond exotic, more catlike, or, dare I say it otherworldly?
@@miask western aesthetics being pushed yes totally ! But not even western women look like that. To have big lips , high cheek bones, slim perfect noses , big eyelids (God forbid hooded eyes) , fox eyes , chiseled jawline etc. How many western women do you see that have all that naturally in a face? Not many if any. Usually nature will pick some of those features but remove others to bring balance to face. Even the western ancestral features are being erased too. I feel like society took all the best features from all ethnicities and put them into one generic face which we see today and tries to erase all other features (like they’re seemed not good enough)
You know, you’re right again! I was thinking back to Christie Brinkley. A lot of girls, big and little wanted to look like her. I would think she would be an ideal of Western beauty. There are many more, but when I was growing up, I wanted to look more like her-I was blonde haired with blue eyes-so in my mind, that was attainable. 😅My downfall was being the strong, hardy daughter of a mother who was exotically beautiful, but never had a nose job. He patrician nose is what was special about her-and set her apart. She constantly dieted to fit in to a 4 or 6. I was hounded to lose 10lbs, 15 would be better, she said. So I grew up believing I was fat and no boy would like me because of it. Not too long ago, I was going through old photos. I saw myself as I looked back then. Not fat at all. Sadly due to an accident, illness and meds, I really am fat now. I hate myself for it too! This is what living up to impossible standards will do to that to a young person. I’m sure you know girls who, for their 16th birthday, got a nose job or breast implants. I’m glad you didn’t change your grandpa’s nose. I’m sure you’re a beautiful lady just as your are. Perhaps Bella was trying to emulate, or surpass Gigi.
So sorry, I got a bit carried away!🫶🏼
@@miask Your story is much like mine. I have a naturally more fleshy, voluptuous body type (the Kibbie Romantic) while my mother was a very thin gamine body type. Looking back, I didn't look fat at all, just more fleshy than my mom, my aunt, two stepsisters and even my sister who is fleshier,too. Had I been born in the 50's, my body type would have been envied, but instead, I was told I looked fat and so thought I was. Fast forward three decades and I am fat for real. What a predatory world in which we live.
I truly belive kids and teens shouldn't be allowed to get plastic surgery ,Bella may have grown into her original features, would she have waited until she was an adult , Teens don't seem to understand that once you operate your nose there is no coming back
don't agree, if teens and kids can transition, then they should be allowed to get surgery if it really bothers them
@@ballerman22345 they should not be allowed to transition either wtf
For most US states, it is not legal to do cosmetic procedures until the person is 18. This includes lip fillers, which the FDA approves for 21+. Surgeries like breast augmentation, liposuction etc. it is firmly set at 18. Special exceptions are sometimes made, and girls as young as 13 have had nose jobs, with the justification that they are being bullied to an extent where they require it. A good surgeon would not take on someone that young, because they know the face has not fully developed. Young celebrities that get these procedures must have gotten parental consent and went to doctor that ignores their better judgement. The laws are in place but they aren't followed as they should be.
@@ultra_cosmic Transitioning before 18 involves no surgery or cosmetics procedures which would be illegal. At this age transitioning consists of wearing gender-confirming clothes, going by preferred pronouns etc. The only approved medical treatment, as recommended by American Academy of Pediatrics, International Pediatric Associations and other medical experts, is puberty blockers (which are reversible). Hormone therapy is not discussed until you are 16, at which point you begin a years long process to get approved for hormones. This process is supervised by doctors, psychiatrist, other mental health professionals. Only at 18 can the person get surgery, but again it is unlikely they are approved at this age, as the person generally have be on 2+ years of hormone therapy before considering surgery. I hope this information is helpful.
I had a very wide nose and had a rhinoplasty at 16 and it was a great thing
I think it is so nice how you call these patients beautiful...you are a real gentleman
HE can't call them "aliens". He needs them as clients.
The mother didn't even want Gigi to eat a slice of birthday cake on her bday. Not surprised her kids don't love themselves unconditionally.
I don’t have childhood trauma but I work with a lot of clients who do, so I have some background. I’m also a domestic violence survivor (severe, attempted murder 3 counts on top of severe violence while pregnant daily, whether it be psychological, financial, or physical). There is definitely a correlation between trauma and changing yourself (just like some turn to drugs, alcohol, etc. others turn to plastic surgery or changing their looks.) I know when I got freed of my experience I changed my hair for safety reasons but oddly after watching this I’m realizing it did a lot for me to move forward and not associate myself NOW to the traumatized old self. I didn’t get surgery but I changed styles, behaviour, and what we all do in a breakup - HAIR ! Also look at trauma survivors and the correlation with the punk goth looks or anything out of the norm. It is a sense of control and not wanting to be the self that was so deeply hurt. (Extreme cases like cutting, but in a diff perspective).
This scares me as I think about it, as I don’t have childhood trauma my daughter was abandoned by her father at 3 months old and has not seen him since. At 5.5 years old now, she displays emotions she can’t express. She will be one of many with childhood trauma no matter what I do. I will do everything in my power to make sure this doesn’t happen, turning to alternate sources for security whether it be plastic surgery, rebellion, drugs/alcohol, etc. We have to be so mindful of this!
I am motivated thank you.
I honestly think at this point that just growing up in Southern California qualifies as trauma for a young girl. Women there are held to such ridiculous standards, and body augmentation is so rampant that no natural face/body can possibly measure up. I look forward to the day when women revolt against these expectations, from BBLs and poofy lips, to lasered hair and bleached bum holes. It really is time for a massive social correction.
Absolutely! agree. It is time, indeed. If we're going to embrace the planet and save it, maybe we should start by embracing our uniqueness. My friends are gorgeously funny, kind and compassionate; I can't tell you whether they're beautiful or not, who knows? I surely don't care. The surface is not WHO they are. What happened to ME TOO? The mantra seems to be ME.
Not all of SoCal. Just L.A. and Orange County.
@@emiliabolsas Fair enough. I'm from The DC Metro, so don't know the specifics.
True to an extent. I’ve grown up on the coast in Orange County and the amount of skinny big boobed PTA moms is kind of nauseating to grow up looking at.
Big trauma. Lucky those people born is Syria, or Congo, or Afghanistan...
I had a co worker that had a lot of work done and she had a 13 year old daughter that looked like her before all the plastic surgery. She would tell her daughter that she will fix her face once she's 16. It was so sad. 💔
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Fix her face? Poor girl :(
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Depends on the person. I would have loved it if my mom had been willing to get my nose fixed at 16. I hated it so much and it affected my self esteem. I had it fixed myself much older. I wish I'd done it sooner.
I went through pure depression bc my mom would keep on telling me i‘m too fat so I wouldn’t know what would happen to me if my mom told me THIS, especially at a younger age than 16? I‘m baffled
A girl admitting to surgery is like a gym bro admitting to steroids
Exactly! They say they've done it once, but we all know it was more than that...
This!!!!
“a girl” lol more like influencers and models
dudes also never admit to surgery...
And gym gals don’t admit to steroids lol, a bit of a presumptuous comment
I have an opinion about the childwood trauma theory, based on my own experience. I had a troubled childwood: lots of family conflicts, psychological abuse, religious abuse, health issues, being bullied at school... When I was 14 I had a traumatic experience, which opened my eyes on the fact my parents were systematically denying my needs. It took me many years to actually realize that experience was a trauma. That experience changed many things about my way of life; among other things, I felt a strong urge to change my appearance, with clothes, with makeup, and if I had the means to resort to plastic surgery I would have done it massively! (I talked about it a lot, even had a clear list of the procedures I desired)
At first, I justified it by saying that meeting beauty standards would improve my social life and the chances of being successful.
When I grew up I abandoned the wish of surgically alter my appearance, since I realized for me it was just a way to separate myself from my family.
It was like saying: "I am repulsed by everything you have given me. I want to dissociate myself from the look you chose for me with the clothes you provided for me. I want to dissociate myself from the image you expect me to maintain in social contexts, from your upbringing. I reject your distorted perception of me as a submissive person, unable to express my will, stand up for my rights, be assertive. I even reject this body, because it comes from your genetics, and I don't want to be known as one of you."
When I see the before and after photos, I think it's really tragic that so many people are destroying their beautiful faces. 😥
8:48 AKA "angry eyebrows"
She had lovely skin but was not beautiful, but should have been happy with being average-looking and relied on her personality and skills like most people who don’t want, and can’t afford surgery.
Thank you for opening up the discussion around trauma and the desire for plastic surgery. It’s not always a factor but definitely could be. Patient mental and emotional motivations should always be considered.
Dr Gary, your channel is an amazing resource for those curious about surgery as it’s very even handed and thoughtful about the topic, overall.
Thanks G
@@drgarylinkov Gary ur funny lol
@@drgarylinkov The Book Psycho-Cybernetics from Maxwell Maltz is very good to that topic;)
Love your garden...
Why do celebs feel the need to lie even in the 2020s, when this stuff is WIDELY accepted for non-celebs even? Is it pressure from their management just in case they ever want to sell a skincare/beauty line? There HAS to be a bigger reason than shame, because it just doesn't make sense anymore.
i guess because, especially in the model, "appearance" industry, admitting to as little as possible work done is the best move. Imagine the headlines if everyone "discovered" that most of the top 10 best paid models all had plastic surgery. I guess staying publicly "natural" gives models some kind of "approval" for their success
top 10 best paid models 2022:
Kendall Nicole Jenner
Gisele Caroline Bündchen
Rosie Huntington-Whiteley
Cara Jocelyn Delevingne
Adriana Lima
Jelena "Gigi" Noura Hadid
Isabella "Bella" Khair Hadid
Joan Smalls Rodríguez
Liú Wén
Candice Susan Swanepoel
I don't know much about them, but i bet my ass AT LEAST 7 had work done. Which is not a bad thing! But you know, "7 out of 10 Best Paid Models Worldwide are not natural?!?!?!?!? Fake women! Liars!!!"
It takes away their superior beauty, they are meant to be the standard
Theres still a lot of stigma
"Plastified" look is considered a bad one, it can end an acting career. They are afraid that knowledge would change the perception.
Because it's none of yours or my business
The most problematic issue I see with this industry is that the prominent figures aren’t being honest about the work they’ve had done. It’s not right to shame someone for getting cosmetic surgery - but when you as a person outright deny any of it, the conversation is shut down and you leave a lot of important details unaddressed. Such as the risks involved with each surgery you may consider getting. I hope people take better care of their personal/mental health first before succumbing to the idea that a nose job or face lift will make their lives immensely better. Regardless of what the world may say, focus more on your internal beauty longterm.
Love and prayers 💛💛💛
The design looks so cool.
the fact that she admitted to the nose job tells me all i need to know. usually, when people start getting procedures, it never just stops at one. they usually have more because sometimes the one procedure can off balance the rest of your face and require some more modifications to balance it all out.
Love this channel...
I was thinking of something right now
Not true.
Bella looked like Mona Lisa before all the procedures
I looked awkward as a teen and I used to want fillers esp chin fillers. Now that I’m 27, my nose doesn’t look as big, my baby fat started to shed, my eyes look larger now and my jaw doesn’t dominate my face. Trust me, you will grow into your face. Your body and face are ever changing.
Not necessarily. I always hated my nose and never "grew" into it. Finally got it fixed at 41 years old. My only regret is not doing it much younger to enjoy it longer.
@@debbielockhart7762 cool but I’m speaking to the children who do not want to change themselves but society has brainwashed them into thinking this is what beautiful is supposed to look like.
Everyone is different, I look exactly the same
Not necessarily...possibly...but no guarantees! You'd know this if you actually had a scientific basis upon which you were evaluating those faces.
@@whosyourdaddy4579 I guess I’m lucky :)
Hey Gary,
Thanks for the thorough videos
Have you considered making one about people who don't seem to have had any work, to show what natural aging looks like (and maybe that it's not as scary as the entertainment industry seems to think it is)?
I would like to see that too from Dr. Linkov, especially if he mentions what "others usually do" in comparison...
hes done some!! i don’t remember who but it mightve been angelina jolie or scarlett johannson or someone
@@Filmdheva I just saw the Angelina one so not that one... Maybe Sacrlett Johanson? He talks a little bit about effects of aging in the Maddona video
@@if3359 Scarlett Johansson has had work done. I believe Angelina has, too.
@@if3359 ah yes i think its the scarlet johanson one!!
I remember reading Michael Jackson's biography when I was much younger. One part that really stuck with me was when he described seeing his father whenever he looked in the mirror, due to his distinctive nose - I can't remember whether he specifically gave it as a reason for his initial surgery, but considering the abusive relationship they had, it was at least inferred as a reason...
He deserves no sympathy or pity. He was a disturbing child abuser. This is a fact.
Yes, his father was the main reason for his body dysmorphia and low self esteem about his appearance. He constantly bullied MJ for having a "bigger nose" .
I really liked your video so much.
He also had a skin condition, but I've forgotten the name of it
As I age, I start to look more like my mother in some ways, and it's triggering. I didn't mind aging until I noticed this about myself. I don't look like my mom and I just didn't see it coming.
Doc talking about adjusting for height mismatch during operating shows me what a professional and also what an artist he is.
She was so adorable before the surgeries. She doesn't look bad now, but she was a beautoful young girl and I feel so sorry for her. ❤
She looks matured after her surgery. It's funny models before were hired or discovered due to their authentic beautiful or unique looks. Now a days almost everyone looks the same with filler plump lips, some with almost buck teeth, augmented breasts & others. I still admire the models from the 70s, 80s, 90s to early 2000s.
Psychological trauma often causes people to feel "not good enough" and plastic surgery can definitely give the impression that with these tweaks, they become good enough. Of course, the healing all has to happen on the inside. There are so many things people resort to in finding somekind of outlet for trauma take gambling addiction, every kind of addiction really, eating disorders, much confusion about identity, so maybe plastic surgery isn't the worst when you can afford it especially considering sadly some don't survive at all. I've worked with trauma survivors for about a decade, am a survivor myself, and a therapist.
Great comment, couldn't have written it better myself and I'm happy to hear that someone like you with this knowledge works as a therapist and helps others struggling!
Perfectly said Michael Jackson said he wanted to change his nose because it reminded him of his father and he wanted nothing to do with him. Imagine the trauma.
@@user-nv6ho9lk4u imagine indeed. A very tragic case.
@@user-qp6lj6gu7s thanks so much for the love!
I think there is some selective effect taking place when people choose plastic surgery to deal with trauma: You need a certain minimum of wealth and physical health to get most of these procedures.
We need a skincare routine from Dr Gary. How is his skin so smooth and no lines on his neck 😮…
Oh it’s coming ;)
@@drgarylinkov we know it’s Tretinoin ;)
He doesnt move his face very much when he talks. Probably why he doesnt have wrinkles.
@@drgarylinkov I hope the skincare will be suitable for pregnant women. It's sad when some skincare routine is medically unsuitable for particularly mother-to-be and lactating women :((
Its ironic that Bella is considered the most beautiful/perfect woman in the world and her face to have the perfect "golden ratio"
I love these video's. I'm 28 and a mother of 2 and living in the Netherlands. My little sister of 26 wanted to have a nose job since she was like 14 y/o. I always told her that her nose is just beautiful and it fits her. Also I have the nose of my mother and it is not straight like hers. But she is so insecure about it. But when I was 17 and was grocerie shopping with my best friend (who is really pretty) an older woman spoke to me about my nose. And that it was so unfortunately that my nose was so big and that a young girl like me should get it fixed. She gave me a card to call her plastic surgeon. She also just told my best friend how pretty she was. I always felt insecure about my appearance, like many girls I think. But that remark almost made me cry in front of everyone. I was so ashamed! And made me so self aware of my bigger nose. But now I see all these young persons do all these procedures. I have two little girls and I want them to love themselves just as they are. Im so happy I didn't do anything. If my girls would get my nose and they see that I alterated it... that sends a message to them. So please love yourself everybody. Your facial appearance has a history! Wear it with pride ❤
Looking at the pictures of Bella before the surgeries, she was quite pretty. I can't see anything that could be considered ugly. Can't believe she was bullied. Some of the pictures pre tweaks were beautiful. She had a kind face, even angelic, she could have been a pre-Raphaelite model.
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The painting,
"Terry Allen Choosing "
Comes to mind
Ever since I started reading into celebrity plastic surgeries, Ive been feeling so much better about myself. Dr when will you drop your skin care routine? You are glowing and no wrinkles!! 😊
Bella's natural look reminds me of my childhood friend. I think it's such a beautiful, friendly face. Her face now appears harsh and aged in my opinion.
I watch this show all the time thinking of myself as "natural," but I just remembered that I've had a lower eye "lid" surgery in high school. My lower eyelash used to grow upward into my eyes and the eyeballs often get scratched. Eventually, my mom took me to get a surgery to cut the lower eyelids downward a bit. The surgery has changed the shape of my eyes. I don't think I look better or worse, just different. I've never heard of anyone else having this surgery. Just curious if anyone here has had it or know anyone who did ^^
I've heard of it. I don't know anyone whose had it.
I'm hoping one day to get surgery on just one eye. My right top eye lid started drooping a bit in between 1st and 2nd grade and got moderately severe by 3rd grade. I had to develop a habit of constantly opening my eyes as wide as I could and raising that eye brow to let that eye lid fold and sit at the normal height of the other one. It's been decades and it's mostly subconscious now, but that doesn't change the inconvenience and physical discomfort when it isn't sitting right. And that eyebrow is now noticeably higher than the other from years of constantly lifting it for the eyelid adjustment.
I don't know yet, but I can imagine feeling like getting that fixed would register emotionally as "getting work done". It's an issue I've hated for a long time that's uncomfortable. It's fixing a problem my other eye doesn't have. I love the idea of thinking as little about that eye as I think about my normal one.
I'm glad your surgery worked. That condition sounds miserable to live with and pretty important to fix
@@thayerwilliams905 Thank you for sharing! It sounds like you could certainly find a good surgeon who would be able to help you achieve the balanced look that you desire. I think Forest Whitaker has a similar look to what you described? I apologize if it's nothing alike. But I've always loved Forest's performance. The drooping eye did nothing to hinder his fantastic ability as an actor.
I do know people who had this type of procedure done. It's actually quite common as it seems to be used to combat many different issues, including very dry eyes as well.
Personally, I've never felt it made a big difference in people's eye shape. After surgery the eyes do look different, but I've always attributed it to swelling. Once the swelling goes down, I'm already used to how the person looks and therefore don't really noticed any major changes in eye shape.
I imagine it being similar to people who are super self-conscious of their uneven nostrils after a rhinoplasty (- myself being one of those lol), yet no one else notices it. It's natural that it would be more apparent to you.
Have the results held up well? Or has the lower lid turned a bit more upwards/inwards over the years?
Hope those questions aren't too personal. I just find it really interesting. But no pressure to answer :)
@@mejuliie Thank you for the insight; I never knew it could help with dry eyes too! Before the surgery I have very small eyes (typical Asian monolid eyes). The surgery made my eyes slightly bigger, maybe that's why the change is obvious to me. I hope you are happy with your rhinoplasty; I'm sure people can't tell the slight imperfection that you can see.
I had the surgery almost 20 years ago and, and the effect has been permanent. My lower lashes have never been a problem since. 😁
It actually is done fairly commonly in dogs and horses when the eyelids turn inward they will rub the cornea and eventually can cause blindness. You surgically corrected what was a health issue, it was not because of vanity.
All the talk about Yolanda has hit a nerve with me. I specifically remember when I was 9yrs old and we were away camping with other family members at Christmas time. My aunt proceeded to put sunscreen on her child/my cousin and made a comment how much I don’t like my freckles. It made me feel sick and ashamed hearing my own aunt say that.
I’m 53 now and these days they have makeup to put on your face to give the impression that one was born with freckles. 😥
As someone who got onto these videos immediately after watching Stephanie, the little "hi Stephani" is hilarious and I'm here for it.
her mom contributed massively.
Thank you… People brush past how cutthroat Yolanda is about their looks.
I agree, Yolanda is quite pushy and a bit frightening in regards to her children's appearances.
@@JaniceWithTheTarlovCysts she kept comparing her to her sister even the diet stuff were nasty.
She should have married a better looking man. 🤷🏻♀️🙄
@@Buttercup697 haha
But he's a billionaire 🤔 😏
Tbh, both girls look like Yasser Arafat in the face. I'm I calling them ugly? No. Yet, they wouldn't be modelling at all without their parents' connections/bankrolling. So, if someone IS pushing surgery on them (which I doubt) then there's really no point since beauty was never really the underpinning factor in their modeling careers to begin with.
Your theory is 100% true in my case, I don’t even like to look at old pictures of myself because I see the pain I was going through. When I see pictures of myself now, all I know is the happiness I’ve found since I’ve made these chsnges
I feel the same. Much happier now that I’m a mother. It’s crazy how trauma and pain has that effect.
I think she was naturally pretty. I went to college with a set of twins who looked like this and they had the boys at our D2 school eating out of their hands lol. One went into business, one went into nursing.
If you met a girl like this in Walmart, you’d double take. (The original face I mean, she was just cute)
I agree. She actually looks sweeter, and HAPPIER pre-surgery.
The filler under my eyes sunk and the type of filler cannot be dissolved - Radiesse. Now I am stuck with new eye bags that I never had before. It really sucks.
Sookie the warning you published is much appreciated.
As a neuroscience therapist, yes agree these stars try to be a new person by changing their appearance.either from bullying, shaming or familial trauma as well as mgmt or pressure from their agent, can cause insecurities and can possibly explain why they have so much work done.
Honestly, it's the logic of the situation that baffles me. She wasn't ugly before, she had tons of opportunity and I remember hearing she was an excellent student, she was near Olympic caliber equestrian, she came from money. Yet, she chose to undergo massive amounts of surgery to completely alter her appearance to participate in a profession that doesn't value her as a person only as an aesthetic and with a major expiration date. It just baffles me, what on earth could this woman and her family have been thinking to undergo this much pain, suffering and change for something so ephemeral when she already had so much
I shudder to think what her face would look like in 10-15 years!!!
Like a cat lady.
@@janellepas sadly I think you’re right.
Full of botox and with a facelift
@@TheStepmonkey I’m pretty sure she’s already had both
@@ilove6kiesgood, vanity should be rewarded in such a way.
Interesting....in addition to Stephanies theory, i also think that looking for perfection in plastic surgery comes from lack of unconditional love in childhood. An adult with unresolved trauma will think that the apperance is their issue, but never get to the sattisfaction they crave...maybe they also feel the pain when they look in the mirror and want to change because it reminds them of the childhood, their parents, and they want to escape that.
nice commentary. you're always so respectful and informative. thank you.
not a big fan of this type of before after analysis, but Dr. Linkov makes it very enjoyable to watch :-)
I absolutely love how genuine and down to earth your commentary is.
👍Very nice
she literally went to the doctor and bought a modeling career
Bella’s physical change through plastic surgery is definitely due to her mother’s advice and ambition for her children to follow in her footsteps, as seen on RHOBH when the girls were practically unknown. Yolanda continues to be a strong (if not controlling) and determined influence in her children’s life. And her aim was fulfilled. It seems that the modelling « industry » rewards the results of the procedures, combined with a complying overall physical (supervised) slenderness. Kendall Jenner is another such example. Finally, the money and the fame hopefully obtained in the end as a result of all endeavours, render common people’s opinion insignificant.
Love fashion and makeup...
@@changeeyecolor3891 me too! 😃
Yolanda actually ruined these girls lives. Imagine how natural and beautiful they would be now if not for their controlling mother, and mostly happier. These now women weren’t ugly or bad looking. Now they look strange. Like she said Bella looks 40 years old when she’s 26…that’s tragic really.
@@KittenBowl1 Had the girls (esp. Bella) not had work done, they wouldn't be nearly successfully in their career as they are now. Toxic as you think she may be, she gave the girls lots of valuable guidance that led them to a successful career. Plus, it's not just in the modeling industry that looks matter. Unless your job involves is not people-facing whatsoever, having good looks will have a positive impact. People are naturally superficial like that.
I think their mother is the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in Hollywood. I don’t see her as a monster, or controlling; she’s always been into health food etc. if those girls wanted plastic surgery you can believe they could get the money from their dad if she wouldn’t let them. I don’t think that lovely , well Mannered woman is this is this horrible creature. The girls have seen beautiful women ( none as beautiful as their mom) everywhere where- look where they live. Shop in any wealthy neighborhood. They probably think it goes with the territory and hasn’t hurt any that went along financially.
I just recently turned 40. And i never gave aging much thought until that magical number hit me.
You just know from here on out there is no turning back to a youthful face. It can be hard to deal with at times because the sudden realisation that life is only going into 1 direction from a time perspective can be difficult to come to terms with.
That said, i do not think that medical procedures should be recommend. You might make yourself look a bit younger for the time being but it will have the opposite effect a couple of years later and then it will hit you even harder. One needs to slowly but steadily accept oneself.
Aging is for everyone. Its simply nature. Forms that are born will die. The time in between there is a transformation happening. Each life stage has its own challenges and rewards.
People forget that they might have kids… and the kids will look like the original you. Imagine how confusing and sad that must be for a child… to not look like their mother/father. It’s heartbreaking how Bella’s mother pressured her own children to make such drastic changes… these changes are for LIFE. Once you go under the knife, you can not undo it. Sometimes parents literally project their own insecurities onto their children to try to fulfil their own…comfort… it’s so messed up.
I think that’s a stretch. Are adopted children heartbroken because they don’t look like their parents ? Gonna say no
@@sydneyelise7260 Adopted children know (or should know) that they have different genes than their parents. As biological kid it can be heartbreaking that you don't even look related to your parents who had drastically changed their original characters. Another aspect is that you have kids with a person who has the features you like, but instead of the beautiful eyes, lips and nose, you will get a not so attractive kid who looks exactly the same as their parent at that age. Surely you can be prepared for that at some extent, but very drastic changes might be problematic for some.
@@sydneyelise7260as someone who was adopted myself, I think I can speak to this. I don't feel heartbroken when I look at my parents' faces versus my own. I just wonder what my biological parents looked like.
What I think could be "heartbreaking" as a child is seeing that you and one of your parents share (or shared) a facial feature that your parent has "fixed" or "edited out" with surgery. Knowing that your parent disliked this facial feature enough to get rid of it but YOU still have it could logicslly cause a drop in self esteem and maybe even make a kid wonder if their parent loves THEM because they still have that facial feature?
5:58 I agree with Stephanie’s armchair diagnosis, I think there’s some truth to it. Also it’s really sad what Bella went through I’m sure her mom played a huge role in those comparisons. Its crazy cause there was absolutely nothing wrong with Bella’s nose and she was just as beautiful as her sister with her natural face
Love your life...
She's beautiful. I don't think there's a celebrity that has had as much surgery that looks this good. Her surgeon must be an absolute virtuoso.
She was such a pretty, lovely looking young woman. It’s so sad that she felt that wasn’t good enough.
@JoaquinElfbruh 💀
She shouldn't have chosing modeling as a carreer. She didn't have the "model" face but she could have gone to uni or do anything she wanted.
@Robbie👾 because she was borned with the face she has now and that face is what people want to see. There is nothing wrong with the way she looked she was a beautiful girl. But the industry looks for features she didn't have. So instead of changing her face she should have just left the industry in my opinion.
@Robbie👾 yes very accurate. Some models actually managed to break beauty standards with their charm and charisma. But some "broken standards" are actually made by the industry and they fool us into believing they are authentic. The gap between the teeth the boyish figure shaved head ethnic features are all parts of the political woke mouvement. They are not really to make everybody feel pretty. They only serve some political agenda and they they go back to be the same as always.
@Robbie👾 I used the word should because I noticed that she was bullied for her looks and compared to her sister. People like to call it "the ugly duckling". And I thing that there are a lot of people like her who look up to her. And there is nothing worse than a person who didn't fit in the beauty standards who through surgery is the beauty standards itself now. Let's call it the revenge of the duckling. People are all crazy about glow ups and revenge. They use this new beauty to harm others and themselves. Naturally beautiful people tend to feel shy about showing off their beauty to other people who are considered less beautiful. Bu the duckling would fat and ugly shame you and push the standards to the extreme.
What has always struck me as so strange are people who freak out over Barbie dolls. I’ve heard & seen women & girls freaking out that that is what THEY are suppose to look like. WTF? My parents bought me the dolls & said SHE is a doll. What clothes, house, car whatever do YOU want to go with HER? Do these people not have a sense of personal IDENTITY to begin with? That mental aspect in plastic surgery patients I have never understood. Wow! Thanks for the channel. Always enjoy.
I have seen that girls who are called not pretty or ugly at their teenage time or upto 22 , in mid 20’s or early 30’s they become pretty . So your face will always change will be grown or enhance in natural ways. So, girls save yourself from such insecurities and mental trauma. Focus on your inner goodness and your uniqueness and that will enhance your beauty from inside to outside.
Dr. Gary, I’ve noticed your eyebrows are growing in! I’m unsure if there were videos of you talking about something new you’re trying but I’m happy for you with whatever is going on!
Spontaneous recovery! I’ll take it.
@@drgarylinkov yup---and I can see your mustache, too!
To be fair 16:50, Bella lost about 30-40 pounds. She has been diagnosed with an eating disorder. To say she was always tall and slim is a minor misrepresentation.
Note: not saying she hasn’t had fat removal to her face, she possibly could. But I am saying she has had a significant weight loss that can contribute to her appearance.
Thank you Dr L for your videos. And Stephanie, your comments and videos are great! I think what bothers me is the denial. Denying is lying!
Ah, people don't owe others an explanation. But it makes you look stupid of course.
@@ls-l1518 not an explanation. I did not say that. The truth. What is wrong with saying, "yes I've benefitted from an excellent surgeon" rather than a lie?
Its like a drunk sitting in a wrecked car, strapped in behind the wheel. "I didn't have a crash".
@Robbie👾 because like on stage, they are pretending
@@LuvBorderColliesuh not that’s definitely different in that instant you’re drunk and in the wrecked vehicle. Lol
‘Once you can’t pop your can’t stop’. Yes agree, I’m 34 and have had 16 procedures all up. Iv also had a lower and just now a mid face life. I should mention I’m a recovering alcoholic, and been left with premature aging and v poor skin laxity. Half of my surgeries have corrected this.
Move to Wisconsin we wear sweatpants to bars lol
I am a mental health, professional and I do feel as though this could, for sure be a thing... whenever somebody has had a traumatic childhood event they could use any number of things to change something about themselves to gain or show control in an area that they can control, whereas the trauma was something that they had no control over. It can show itself in a number of ways such as OCD, changing their hair color, tattoos, piercings...all different kinds of things.
I’m 26 and Bella definitely doesn’t look 26 I always thought she is in her 30s! I know everybody ages differently ,it’s just I found out today that she is my age! Great review doc! I wish to become as professional and as good with words like him!
Lol. Ppl in their 30s don't look like that! Id say mid to late 40s maybe.
What’s absolutely horrifying is how young she is to have already gone through so many procedures. As beautiful as she is now, it won’t last long because you can already see the beginnings of her transformation into a scary Jocelyn Wildenstein. She will morph into that probably way before the actual Jocelyn did, possibly in her mid to late 30s.
no she won’t she is beautiful and she will stay that way. she will begin to age more when she hits 40 but for the time being she will continue to look youthful. she has lost some weight which has aged her slightly but guess what? she’s rich. she can get filler. she can get treatments. you all seem to wish that she will have some sort of tragic end so you can feel better about yourselves and morally superior. she is successful, she is beautiful, she is wealthy and she has everything she needs to help her mental health to become whole. you know what i see? a beautiful girl who will mature as she ages, grow, learn, change and thrive. that’s what i see.
@@beckysuperswag Jocelyn Wildenstein received $2.5 billion in her divorce settlement and $100 million each year for the following 13 years. More money than Bella will make in her lifetime. So having an obscene amount of money does not equate to making the best life choices now, does it?
What I’m trying to convey is that Bella has nipped and tucked and pulled her face so tightly already at only the age of 26 that she is well on her way to becoming another catwoman à la Wildenstein. You don’t think she will further tighten everything she had done already once age catches up to her and past procedures start to sag? The body dysmorphia will kick into high gear at that time and she will never be satisfied with a temporary fix and will continue to cut up her face until her end. The more money she has, the more she can get done. It’s a vicious cycle.
@@bokuphishp684 is your life perfect? why do you judge her so harshly and project this terrible future on her? are there bad habits you need to kick? why on earth do you care so much about bella hadid dying old and miserable? you seem like you hate women.
Scary! Yes, I see the cat woman already in her face. It's too extreme. Too much 😮
@@beckysuperswag have you seen Madonna?
As a psychologist, I’m weighing in that is a lot of factors. She was targeted as the less attractive sister, and after all her mother was a model and viewed good. Looks as the Aryan blonde, blue-eyed daughter that had perfect little features. I think she also was very compared and I can just remember reading a quote that Gigi and Bella‘s mother said Gigi said she was so hungry. She almost fainted, and her mother‘s reply was “they need a couple of almonds but she’s in very slowly“ now as a therapist, a normal mother‘s response would be are you OK? Are you OK? Sit down and eat some thing you know and rest but that wasn’t her response. I think a lot of pressure was put on her and I think she felt like the ugly duckling, and most of the time people change their outside appearance, thinking that it’s going to go along with their inside appearance, and it doesn’t always work, so you just have to be as healthy on the inside as you are on the outside when you get plastic surgery because the two have to match because one alone will not make you happy. Bella also has talked about her great anxiety that she has and continues to have that she’s an anxious 99% of the time so I feel like her feeling like she looks better, make sure feel a little less anxious but it still hasn’t done that because she still anxious so mental health work is in order along with the plastic surgery
aryan means persian or iranian, it doesnt mean european instead u can just say eurocentric or something, and isnt Bella Hadid half arab? Her mother must have some type of racism in her since she couldnt accept the fact that her daughter had semi Arab features.
How did this become about race? Bella was unattractive based on her face not her eyes or skin tone. Her skin is white and her eyes ard blue so what is your point anyways? Hair can bleached if one wants to be blonde. She is still unattractive btw.
@E M race has a factor because the standard for beauty is the European kind.
You're even perpetuating it yourself "Bella was unattractive because of her face" - which was more ethnic and middle eastern, but still pretty- but it didn't fit your and the worlds eurocentrism
@@hittheroadjack2014 I am middle eastern and I can assure you that Bella never looked "middle eastern"... lol
Her eyes, eyebrows and lips are also the opposite of our beauty standards.
You're actually the one stereotyping people... because I don't even know what you're imagining as "middle eastern"...🙄😂
Bella's face is simply not attractive. In ANY ethnicity. She's just a bone-thin American girl with billionaire family connections that made her a model.
@UserMll Her nose especially beheld her roots- and the way her face used to be was very cute. I don't disagree that her connections made her a model, nor do I disagree that she's unattractive (to me) now- but it's especially funny how you continue to project those eurocentric standards thinking they're middle eastern to begin with- your entire comment is a riot and its a shame I can't tell you why entirely 🙃
I find this heart breaking. As someone with a very painful disability, I cannot imagine being so insecure about my appearance that I would willingly put myself through that many painful surgeries and procedures. I say this as someone who is not at all happy with the changes that both age and disability have wrought upon my body and face. But I am not insecure enough about it to put myself in even more pain than I'm already in.
On another note, hasn't Stephanie gotten lip filler? I ask because she says she's committed to aging naturally.
What side about this, is that Bella Hadid has been held as the standard for beauty for quite a while. I believe she was listed as the perfect face at one time. Shame on us for falling for this over and over and over again. Including shame on Bella for passing this off as natural beauty.
I really like this channel. It keeps me away from unnecessary procedures. When the doctor was talking about the pony tail lift. I was thinking it looked like her edges were thinning. Didn't know that a ponytail lift was even a thing! 😂
It's really sad that she felt the need to completely change her face so much -- and let's be honest, it's because of her mother. What a shame.
Yes exactly!! Her mom is horrible, she instilled both her daughter’s insecurities. She still controls everything their daughter’s eat etc. Very sad so no wonder she literally changed her face & body to an extreme. I’m not saying she doesn’t look good. She is very pretty now & she seems happy with her surgeries & I respect that but still feel her mom messed with her self esteem.
Not only are these people blatant liars but they also think we are all blind. How on earth can anyone deny doing any work on their face when it's all out there for the world to see!
I know. Pathological liars with low self esteem.
You’d be shocked how many people defend them as if they were their best friend. We need to focus more on our actual families & friends instead of glorifying celebrities… who clearly don’t care too much about their fans I mean they are acting as if we are blind 😅
@JoaquinElfsame difference cmon now
@@sierraposet1889 I enjoyed how you worded that
LOL
u must have no eyes then
For a non professional this girl's assessments were crazy! I've never seen neither her channel nor this surgeon's, but her video merely required a little tweaking ALONE - sometimes none at all. He even said at one point caught off guard, "Oh! Good point!" For bringing up a possible procedure.
Really enjoyed this collab! ;) It makes me sad that face lifts are becoming more common in younger (under 40) people. Why is our body showing signs of a life lived so horrible?
Dr. Linkov, you’re just the best! I could watch you all day, you have such a cute personality & calm way of speaking whilst being expertly informed when delivering the very important & much needed info. on what happens/can happen in these various surgery scenarios. You’re so enjoyable to watch & listen to that I actually learn a lot & somehow feel better about my own self, all under the guise of being entertained. Which is why I know you’ve gotta be make a big difference in the lives of many kids & teens as well. Giving us the benefit of your expertise via these videos is hugely important! Hope you continue for years to come.
public service announcement: you're not ugly. You're just poor.
She is not nor ever was pretty and has money 🤣
Dunno if money van fix all things.
@@Alieortwo she is stunning and I am gay af
Public service announcement: You’re not ugly. Full stop.
@@fenzirulfr That is the thing. She doesnt look feminine at all. Never did.
@@Alieortwo please stop
That reinventing theory... girls do that with hair very often. After a break up... I've had many friends (also me) who completely redid their look. Bright colors, bob cuts, black hair etc. I could see people with money reinventing themselves after experiences.. with surgery.
I got a “stress bob” recently 😅😅
Hmm. I also noticed that with guys, too. Like, that "I'm gonna go to the gym and get on the daily grind" thing.
I dont think she had Buccal fat removal. 2:35 In the picture on the left she is really young and was not as thin as she is now.. with age and weight loss it's normal to lose the fat in your cheeks.. especially if she did had fillers to make her jaw bigger, it's normal that with weight loss the cheeks will look more sunken. it's not normal to compare a picture of when she was 16 with how she is now and say that she had all those procedures. the face is still developing at that age
5:50 i mean we girls sometimes dye our hair after traumatic relationships/events in the idea of “new hair new me” to like get over it quicker
And from my experience it did not help. At. All. But now I can also worry that I do not like my hair so I can be aswell occupied by that and let the trauma sit for a bit to work through it after
Of course dying hair does not compare to plastic surgery or the likes of procedures but it definetly has some similar mechanics behind it in cases of people with trauma among many other
Yes she has obviously had lots of work done but I must admit her surgeon(s) have done a darn good job.
Images, except the hollowing of her cheek, eyebrow height and nose. Something looks off but the rest so good??
"They don't last forever. A really good facelift can last maybe 10 years"
That immediately made me think of the Radiohead song Fake Plastic Trees:
"She lives with a broken man
A cracked polystyrene man
Who just crumbles and burns
He used to do surgery
For girls in the eighties
But gravity always wins
She looks like the real thing
She tastes like the real thing
My fake plastic love"
Happy I found this channel. Finally somebody that can explain everything throughly!
Think about Bella’s experience as a hadid. Your mother was a super model. Your sister, a natural beauty, tall, blonde, blue eyed. And then there’s you. Your name is BELLA. you HAVE to be beautiful. The world is watching. Your mother and sister are gorgeous. But you have a hooked nose, hooded eyes and a round face. Oh yea, and you live in LA. It’s a wonder she didn’t go so overboard that she ruined her face. I can’t even understand the pressure she must’ve felt.
Gigi has a very round face. It was more about the prominent nose and then she couldn't stop.
@@valamoss and i feel like they went too far and basically erased her nose 🥲
@@diddlybop Yes now it's like a typical instagram nose. She does have a high fashion face now, more than Gigi. And Gigi is overall prettier. According to me anyway.
I really don't understand the "buccal fat" (sp?) removal trend.... instead of looking like young girls, women want to look like old witches?
Bella's evolution breaks my heart. She was stunningly beautiful before all the procedures. All it's done is prematurely age her.
her surgeries have definitely paid off, although I do think she should’ve at least kept half of her buccal fat, she’s beautiful nonetheless. most celebrities have had something done, we only pressure the ones that are conventionally attractive to come out and say they had something done.
Her surgeries have paid off now, but she probably just shortened the length of her modeling career by a lot. Getting major plastic surgery procedures done at such a young age means she will never be able to stop and she will not age naturally in a beautiful way. It's incredibly sad that people permanently change things about themselves on the off chance that it might make them feel better for a limited amount of time.
Disagree that it's paid off. You cannot keep holding back the years. It's all very sad. Spend the money on therapy and heal the child within!
@@rosequartz7841 i don’t think she’s doing anything to anti-age herself as she’s only 26, lol? “you can’t stop the years”, her looks have improved, idk why you guys are denying this.
I'm 24 and she looks like she's in her thirties.
@@blackrainfell9969 yeah, i sort of lump age groups by similarities in appearance by 18-22 year olds, 23-26, then 27-early 30’s, she seems to be in her early 30’s for sure.
With all the money her family has, they didn't really think to get Bella a good psychologist to work on her self esteem before going through all these surgeries?
Franky, money has nothing to do with it. I see mental and behavior problems the most with filthy rich families. She's technically the one with the least drama in her family. Her dad has rape allegations, her mother Yolanda claims that her son in law hit her, her mother also urged her to get a nose job at 14 and told her sister gigi not to play softball so she doesn't look like a muscular lesbian. There's many compilations of Yolanda telling her kids not to eat. Gigi once called her mother saying she was dizzy from not eating and her mother told her to eat a few almonds lol. Yolanda also got mad at gigi for eating a bite of her own birthday cake. They're the cause of her mental issues. So how can they suggest mental help for her?
self-esteem may be part of it but the biggest motivation is keeping the money machine humming along. seems to be working thus far.
They themselves need one you fool
Honestly! It’s almost child abuse to have a 14 yr old come up to you and say “I’m bullied for my looks, please by me a new face” and then just BUY HER THE NEW FACE??? Not assuring her own beauty, not emphasizing inner beauty, not talking to schools about getting their fucking students in check, not one therapy appointment. Just an agreement.
Her mother is the one who made her feel like shit even more about her looks lol
I think even celebrities should hold the right to privacy on this kind of thing since it's essentially medical history. They could just agree that they've had things done and leave it at that if they don't want to disclose the particular procedures because anyone with eyes will be able to see a difference and know what parts have been worked on. And if you want to know because you want it done for yourself, go for a consultation and find out your options, that's inevitable if you're looking into cosmetic surgery.
Thank you Dr Gary for your great content. I think weight loss definitely has an effect as well. I can see this on my own face as I lost a lot of weight after a stressful period and had no surgeries but my face changed noticeably.
When talking about traumatic childhoods, she should have definitely said those who have had extensive and almost obsessive surgeries fall into this category more, not those who have just had a few enhancements.
yep and she definitely meant that, you can tell from the celebrity examples she showed
She used to look like Jennifer Lawrence/leelee Sobieski (actress from the 90s).
And the Egyptian actress Zubeida Therawat! But Jennifer Lawrence is the one who looks the most like her, Bella’s previous face only partially looked like her. And Jennifer Lawrence is still an actress right now, and her career began in the early 2000’s, not the 90’s. I personally LOVED when Bella looked like Jennifer, because I think that Jennifer is absolutely gorgeous. I hate how Bella has completely ruined her face and is bound to start to regret this very soon.
Then, when the nerve damage from the surgeries begin to happen, she will say it's from lyme disease. I'm still convinced a lot of the celebrities blame their health issues on ANYTHING except things they've done or injected into their bodies. Shania claimed her face swelling was from lyme disease. Sorry, she had more going on than lyme disease. She was using a lot of fillers. Now Shania's face is completely different. She dissolved her fillers and had a face lift or something. Also. I've noticed a lot of celebrities who over use botox are simultaneously diagnosed with lyme disease. I'm thinking all these fillers, botox and surgeries mimic lyme.
I've had 3 nose jobs. First was botched, second two were reconstructive. I did have a traumatic childhood to some extent, but I only ever wanted my nose done because it was crooked and had a big hump. The botch turned out to be very traumatic in itself because my nose collapsed. I'm ok now but I wouldn't do any other surgeries.
Thank you for explaining that surgery can sometimes be a disaster .
I agree. It's like when people say "new hair, new me" or when you change part of your appearance, it somehow transforms you into a new or better version of yourself. Like a rebirth in some way