I dont think thats true. Because beautiful people tend to get paid more not that they are more qualified but probably people feel like they are more competent. Even in the films bad guys must be bad and if you are the main character they have to pick someone beautiful otherwise audiance will have a hard time to connect to the character. But we should just accept this realite and work for our goals and be more capable humans in general I think.
@@axps4964 i think that depends on your definition of beauty - i think that someone with a notsopretty face can be far more beautiful that a pretty person, and that inner, real beauty has the real influence on other people. Think of a pretty face who seems not very interesting and someone with average features who is charming as hell - i bet that the second one does indeed win the hearts in long run
I like being a realist about ugliness and beauty, or different kinds of physical attractiveness. But it’s true that a horrible person who’s beautiful is still a horrible person.
1- 0:32 they compliment others + are kind 2- 1:25 they make it a habit to smile 3- 1:53 they dress well all the time 4- 2:23 they pamper themselves 5- 2:49 they set their standards high 6- 3:23 they push themselves to be better 7- 3:54 they are intentionally positive
Doing This Only Because I’m Not There For Myself. But There Are Times I Will Push Everyone Away Because I Do Not Want Any Help From Them. Every Help Cost More Problems. How I Know It? Because I Have Experienced It.
I've seen all 7 signs and I genuinely love to be a good/friendly person as it makes me feel good as a person. I suffer from Aspergers syndrome so my lack of eye contact, tripping over my words and blanking out what to talk about weirds them out in a romantic/sexual setting.
Same here. I also have Asperger’s and also geniunely try to be as good of a person as I can be, not to impress anyone but I feel that it’s more of a show of strength to be kind in a world that embraces rudeness. However, I’ve always been as “too odd” in my romantic endeavors, and after only having one woman say “yes” after 15 or so years of asking women out, I’ve come to realize that I’m not cut out for this sort of thing.
You can also make sure that people feel included. Also, let people shine. Don't hog the spotlight or let someone else hog the spotlight. If you're in a group setting, notice people who seem to be overlooked and bring them into the conversation in a positive way, but if they seem really shy or to have anxiety about talking, don't hold the spotlight on them if they don't seem to want to talk. Also, notice when someone is doing a good job and compliment them on that, so many people do stuff that doesn't get noticed. You could ask them to show you their techniques, if it seems appropriate in the situation. Remember people's names and how to spell them or say them correctly. This can make a difference, especially when someone's name is a bit unusual. It can be a small way to show respect and that you care.
The tips in this video are nice, but there's something I'd like to say; Don't do these things because you want a significant other. Do them because they're good for *you*! As many have said before me, you shouldn't enter a relationship (be it romantic or otherwise) because the other person completes you; they should be an added bonus to your life. Going out and meeting people, putting yourself out there, is the alpha and omega of nurturing relationships. Now, that might be done digitally, but a lot of the tips still apply. If you feel good, and you look like you're feeling good, others will notice. You should love yourself before you love others
If you have trauma, it may take someone loving you in order for you to be able to love yourself. You have to be shown what love is if you've never experienced it.
@@charlottetaylor4471 I can't really speak on the matter, as I don't know whether the things I have experienced count as trauma. But! I am pretty sure everyone - and especially those suffering from trauma - would benefit from therapy. I know it's old advice and it might not be as accessible to everyone, but I'm hoping that those that need help are able to seek it out. The difficult thing is that what love is depends on each person. My love might not be the same as your love. I definitely don't think that someone with trauma is not deserving of love. My angle is more that you have to at least be able to find someone, to meet people. Hopefully everyone finds some platform where they can seek kinship :) And friendship is a very good place to start. I hope nothing I wrote comes off as... well, anything bad. I just try to understand as best I can and pull from my own experiences.
@@goatsfluff I dont know. When you have never been desired by someone else even imagining getting into a relationships with the opposite gender just becomes impossible. And okay I dont need anyone I should love myself talk sometimes is just not enough especially if you are Post 20 and never even held hands with someone before. You see other peoole talk about it and you just can't help but wonder "what is wrong with me?"
There exists not even a single good reason for me to grow fond of myself, to start seeing myself, as a person, in a brighter shade. No. I have no rational grounds whatsoever to set my mind to a positive frame and, then, as a subsequent result, to entangle my heart's strings with my own self and appreciate myself for who I am and for all that I have done. We all are the painters of ourselves, but I, during the recent while, have been painting the image of my very own self with the darkest, the bleakest, and the most dismal shades and colors one could ever possibly come to imagine!
Especially the case in the first point about being kind and helping others. You should be doing does things with no ulterior motive, but simply out of the kindness of your heart. The only “ulterior” motive I can accept, and I think most people can accept, is if you say you are doing so because you are compelled by your faith, whether it be in Christ, Allah, or some other religious figure.
+Psych2Go *Thanks for the list o' potential tips:* 0:30 (1) Compliments as routine 1:24 (2) Smile as routine 1:53 (3) Routinely good dress 2:23 (4) Good self-care 2:47 (5) Reasonably high standards 3:24 (6) Reasonably difficult goals 3:53 (7) Intentional positivity
0:00 intro 0:30 1、they compliment others + are kind 1:24 2、they make it a habit to smile 1:52 3、they dress well all the time 2:22 4、they pamper themselves 2:47 5、they set their standards high 3:23 6、they push themselves to be better 3:53 7、they are intentionally positive 4:41 outro
Quite a bit of this has to do with self-love. Taking care of yourself, improving yourself, and setting boundaries are all part of it. Loving who you are, respecting and accepting yourself go a long way and taking time to improve self-love is always worth the effort
Yes. Do these things, take care of you, and do this for you. Don't be worried of how the others look at you or think about your apearance, it should became an obsession. Don't be obsessed on a person that looks better than you physically, you think that, but you should forget youself to someone who doesn't matter. Don't try to imitate anybody else because "they looks great in this outfit", but find what looks good on YOU, prefer go shopping in stores more than online. It's better to find something that could really suits you. Don't ruin your time and energy on your appearance if that make you unhappy, only use these in a correct level, and don't forget to enjoy things. Don't worry on how attractive you are to stranger, prefer to focus on what really matters to you. Don't try a glow up or anything else to impress somebody or some people, but because you want to take care of youself. Don't deny you can't have everything : you can't have the right shape for a haircut or a clothe, can't have the right tone to wear some colors, can't afford everything, accept it and don't blame yourself for that, try to see what you have and understand yourself. Don't think too much, just take care of you in a sane way. Hope it can help. (sorry for any mistakes)
Attraction comes down to hygiene, health and genes (natural beauty) on physical, mental and emotional level. If you think about it from a historical standpoint, these qualities secure survival and therefore increase attraction. We have yet to outgrow most of our instincts. Which is why we still love petrichor, the smell before it rains, because it reassured us of a bountiful harvest ☀️🌧️🌾
Realistically, physical attractiveness is the Most important factor in determening whether someone will like you. People say intelligence and kindness, but when tested it's attractiveness by a large margin. What people dont realize is that beauty is just an aspect of physical attractiveness. Hygiene, dress, facial expression, weight, smell, and health all contribute to physical attractiveness as well. You can be ugly and still be attractive, and I'm sure we've all met people who weren't beautiful but we found attractive anyway.
It's never likely to change either since there are so many aspects of attraction and many of the factors are important qualities. Even physical attraction is fairly important to the species, we tend to find healthy people attractive and things like asymmetrical appearances can be a sign of genetic disorders. Same goes for obvious things like clear skin, lack of visible deformaties, outward signs of illness, physical fitness, etc. There are also parts of "physical attractiveness" that arent themselves hardwired into us so much as we relate the physical traits with attractiveness but it's actually success we find attractive, a good example is wealth: throught history and culture there are traits we found attractive that have changed but they all relate to wealth. Having some extra fat was always viewed as attractive since that meant you werent a menial laborer, being pale was viewed as attractive (and still is sometimes) since that means you didnt have to work outside all the time, and things like elaborate hair styles or more esoteric things like foot binding, neck elongation, or skull deformation were all viewed as attractive in the past but in the modern day being fat is a sign of poverty (rich people can afford more time at the gym, personal trainers, healthier food, etc) and tans are more attrative (a sign you can lounge around outside and sunbath or afford a tanning booth) and even farmers tans (which you'd get from working outside) isnt viewed as especially attractive compared to an all over tan (which means lazily sunbathing or a tanning booth). Also why fashion and jewelry is viewed as attractive, its a sign the person is wealthy. That may all sound shallow but it serves a purpose: a wealthier person is more able to provide for their partner AND their potential children. It's not the phyisical traits themselves that we find attractive, it's what the represent which is why so many physical traits are considered attractive in some cultures but not others, and why those traits attractivness has changed over time.
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In my experience not excessively worrying about looking nice is what makes your personality a bigger selling point when you converse with someone for the first time. I've done that for a long time, and it's worked out well for me considering my big 3 when you add astrology to the mix. (Libra, Libra, Scorpio)
Wait this actually works, there’s this one guy in my class I’ve literally never cared about (back then he was just some screw up who got bad grades and goofed around) but one year he actually started to put in the effort to study and work out and stuff His grades became extremely high, he’s more confident and he also compliments ppl and like talks to them (saying hi and stuff) and damn he became way more attractive than back then
I have already 1, 5, 6, 7 and I'm working on 4. For the 3 it's ok I guess since I don't dress badly but just without much attention and nothing particular, it's just that I don't really care as long as it isn't ugly. 2, my by default face is "-_-" blasé and tired face as if I was about to pass out so.... Btw at the end of the day don't take those criterias as "Sacred truth" and applying them to get attention...Focus on improving yourself, making oneself a better/happier person and the world a slightly better place to live on, doesn't it sound like the right thing to do ? People's attention might follow if you become a better version of yourself but don't crave for it otherwise you will be disappointed and unhappy. if someone reads this message, I wish you to find yourself and come to peace of mind to finally wander without tripping throughout the sinuous path that is life
Thank you for this video. My biggest struggle is knowing my self-worth. I believe mine is honestly very low. I'd be surprised and thankful anyone sees anything worth keeping in me. I'm not sure if it's just my pessissism and distorted view of the world or just reality. How does one really know? I can't see myself worth any sort of pampering (nevermind actually being able to afford that).
I think we start knowing that we have SELF worth. Simply because we already exist. That's probably one of the hardest thing to practice and realized. And sometimes, we do things like contribute to the world or become a better human being to feel like we have more worth. But in reality, we have self worth and not we're just extending that to others.
Basically, be perfect. And I’m not gonna go through all that struggle just to make others like me. I’m good enough for myself and I can live with that.
the "struggle" that you're talking is actually self love. sure, it's complicated at first but when you are starting to love yourself, you become more positive, you want to care of you and you want others to feel good too. And you only do it for yourself because you know your worth. it's not "be perfect", perfection doesn't exist. It's all about self love.
@@topazbutterfly1853 i'm not sure if i get it well but... that's the goal ! not everyone will love us and it's normal. people have their own preference. the goal is to love and to accept who we are.
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People can be good-looking as well as they can be total jerks. The heart would be difficult to see at the first sight, but nonetheless is a more important point than looks. Imagine good looks like a packaging while the content we actually want is inside. Thank you for the video, Psych2Go!
Wow. 1. Too shy and afraid of negative response to compliment. 2. My go-to facial expression is just neutral. It feels right to me. I also enjoy wearing a face mask, something about not showing my face makes me feel more comfortable, 3. I hate having to do high maintenence and prefer simplicity, so I basically don't ever intentionally put together a look, and doing so is annoying to me. Shirt, pants, underwear, jacket, done. I did throw in the baseball cap recently though, started to enjoy it. 4. I don't go out. 5. I don't even know what my standards are, but I do know that I walk away from any sensed disrespect. 6. Ah yes, my eternal struggle: trying my damndest to be better and failing. 7. I need not write anything else. Asides the bonus tip (I always try to be kind, to my disbenefit even), that makes 0/7. Nice.
Dressing is a hard subject. Im a trans person but I can't afford to transition. But I've always dressed how I feel. But....it doesn't mean it looks good on me. What are my options? Dress what matches me but completely give in to what society wants of my body, or be myself and look even more unattractive then I already am born into?
The hell you talking about? Of course you can be good looking with dressing like how you feel. It's just a matter of putting clothes on that really suits you - not what you think what a male / female would normally wear. If you're already doing that than maybe you need some styling tips e.g. jewelry to make your fit stunning or different colour combining techniques. Dammit, now I wanna give you some styling tips 😁
If you are a trans woman but "look manly"... There are ways to make you look more feminine. The same goes for trans men. If you look very muscular and wide, dress like a flamboyant natural would in the kibby body type system and you'll be good to go. I am androgynous in appearance (5 11 tall, broad shoulders, naturally more muscular) but feel very much like the female and feminine woman that I am and this works for me! It's about dressing how you feel but making it make sense with what you were born with. It's all shapes and proportions. And there are many tips for either look you are trying to achieve to look put together.
I guess having high functioning anxiety, social anxiety, and being introvert on top of it all makes me automatically less attractive because I don't talk or interact with others in person a lot since I constantly get worried about what to say and get worried about how they veiw me. I keep to myself mainly, though I do try to be friendly and kind when I am talking to other people. It is what it is. Who needs a significant other, anyway, when I got a family that I feel the happiest around and I feel more comfortable to be my loud, happy, excited self? I know some people don't have that, however, and I truly feel sorry for them. I hope all of them find something that brings them joy and find someone they can feel comfortable around. I wish for the best for everyone!
I'm being honest. I have all of this but I have social anxiety and other mental health issues. Also people come and go which mean they didn't stay longer with me. *But I love it.*
Hm. Complimenting people: ✅ Smiling: ✅ Dressing Smartly: ✅ Pampering: ✅ High Standards: ✅ Push myself to be better: ✅ Being positive all the time or making jokes when it's not inappropriate: ✅ Guys, I think I might be attractive-
Regarding #1 and #2, why am I constantly told that in the contrary, being arrogant and “mean” will actually make you more attractive? I was told girls don’t like nice guys apparently.
I couldn't agree more. reminds me of my crush for example. yes he is cute, but what I truly love about him is, well, *him* . I love how he always worries a lot for his friends, how he always puts so much effort into what he cares about and enjoys, the jokes he cracks in class, just enough to get a laugh outta a few people but not get the teacher mad, I love his ranting about any video game he knows stuff about, I love him. Just, people, I know it's hard to believe, I myself have severe lack of self esteem and hate my body, but, remember, you like someone on first impressions and looks, you *love* someone for themselves💜
I have 1,2,4 and 7 mostly because that's the thing I learned from my family. But making myself better and setting a higher standard for myself is impossible for me. My parents and siblings thought that to me but I never got it. I'm just lazy as hell hahahah Edit: I'm really the opposite of attractive... Annoying, yes. I am annoying but not to the point where people don't talk to me. I'm
This is great, but is it just me or a lot of these points (tho definitely not all of them) seem hard to achieve when struggling with mental issues and life in general? Like I know that doing these things will be a great self confidence boost + self care, but I can’t seem to bring myself to do them…
As someone who was fat and unattractive growing up I learned this. Im more subjectivity attractive now but i am way more interested in the vibe or energy of the person. 😊
Change your personality in such a manner that you are irresistible to others. Develop your physique in such a manner that you become an oomph factor and when people pass by you,they connot stop gazing at you and sighing heavily.
I'm not looking to look attractive because I want to be loved/attractive as I'am as a person not to please others ,but I won't lie these are good advices I find myself doing some of them naturally ,but good luck to anyone that want to follow these ! ^__^
I can’t help but say this for each point… 1- Compliments work for women more as it’s seem as a more feminine trait. It’s not very masculine. 2- Kindness is also seen to be more weak for most men as it shows you’re more likely to be a pushover. Works far better for women. 3- Dressing well only really works if you are already relatively physically attractive. 4- Pampering may boost self esteem for a short while, but it only benefits those with a positive mindset and already strong self esteem, especially when they know they are attractive. Otherwise, I suppose it’s good as a treat or reward if you’ve achieved something you’ve set out to do. 5- Setting standards high works when you are already attractive. It’s just something you know when you are, kind of a natural feeling. Setting standards high can also result in no opportunities being created as you can outclass yourself. But again, if you were ALREADY attractive, then this could work. 6- completely agree with 7- Usually comes from the bench mark of ‘looks’ though. More attractive people will see more validation and positively than their ‘unattractive’ peers. This is usually during school years which can be some of the toughest years in one’s life. I’m trying to look at this constructively as I can only see good looks grant the opportunities to better one’s personality and good nature than those without that in the beginning.
Hey, for the past 5 years I’ve struggled with Drugs and alcohol and just turned 21. I’m starting to think more seriously about seeking sobriety… I was wondering if you could make a video normalizing addiction and kind of a guide as to when they should start considering sobriety, because the only thing getting in the way of my recovery is the stigma surrounding addicts and my mind telling me that it’s not that bad and that I’ll be able to get my addiction under control after every “slip-up”; but that’s obviously not true, as each time I relapse it’s only more challenging to get back on track
I believe everyone is already attractive the way they are. It's not about a certain look or personality type. As long as you are happy and have something you are passionate about, the right people will be attracted to you.
There's a difference between a compliment from a kind person and someone with an agenda. A narcissist trying to be liked for their own ego sounds like cringe. Not to mention social anxiety can ring volumes some of the time. Mean your words.
omg i actually poses most of those things! i think the only one im lacking is the dressing part, which i'm already trying to work on. Yet the only thing every girl around me seems to be atracted to is the looks which i dont have cause im fat and ugly. couple years back i wouldn't have been able to say i poses that much of the things named in this video so im making progress. still people seem to just not like me. i have friends tho, so i know im likable, just not by girls i guess. wonder what it's like to have a girlfriend though. just a hug from somebody that genuinly likes you you know. can't even imagine how much happiness that'd give me.
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"Outer beauty might turn people's heads, but it's the inner beauty that wins hearts in the end."
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I dont think thats true. Because beautiful people tend to get paid more not that they are more qualified but probably people feel like they are more competent. Even in the films bad guys must be bad and if you are the main character they have to pick someone beautiful otherwise audiance will have a hard time to connect to the character. But we should just accept this realite and work for our goals and be more capable humans in general I think.
@@axps4964 i think that depends on your definition of beauty - i think that someone with a notsopretty face can be far more beautiful that a pretty person, and that inner, real beauty has the real influence on other people. Think of a pretty face who seems not very interesting and someone with average features who is charming as hell - i bet that the second one does indeed win the hearts in long run
@@HannahMarieee True but average ain't ugly mate
I like being a realist about ugliness and beauty, or different kinds of physical attractiveness. But it’s true that a horrible person who’s beautiful is still a horrible person.
1- 0:32 they compliment others + are kind
2- 1:25 they make it a habit to smile
3- 1:53 they dress well all the time
4- 2:23 they pamper themselves
5- 2:49 they set their standards high
6- 3:23 they push themselves to be better
7- 3:54 they are intentionally positive
Thanks 💖 😊
Thank u sm
I have all of this but I realized that I have social anxiety😐
Doing This Only Because I’m Not There For Myself. But There Are Times I Will Push Everyone Away Because I Do Not Want Any Help From Them. Every Help Cost More Problems. How I Know It? Because I Have Experienced It.
@M Y T H I C A L N O V A oh hell nah what the hell
Well that was a confidence booster !! Really opened my eyes with the self respect/high standards thing.
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Goals accomplished!
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Finally someone acknowledges that “not having good looks” actually exists
Yes, satisfied? :)
@@Psych2go yes
@@Psych2go very lol
it feels like response to black pill ideology
boom,that's Psychology🤣
I've seen all 7 signs and I genuinely love to be a good/friendly person as it makes me feel good as a person. I suffer from Aspergers syndrome so my lack of eye contact, tripping over my words and blanking out what to talk about weirds them out in a romantic/sexual setting.
Same here. I also have Asperger’s and also geniunely try to be as good of a person as I can be, not to impress anyone but I feel that it’s more of a show of strength to be kind in a world that embraces rudeness. However, I’ve always been as “too odd” in my romantic endeavors, and after only having one woman say “yes” after 15 or so years of asking women out, I’ve come to realize that I’m not cut out for this sort of thing.
I know all too well.
The right person will see through that. Asperger’s or not, you deserve to have love in your life.
Thank you for the love :)
Women look at me as just a friend. I don’t know how to turn them into a lover.
You can also make sure that people feel included. Also, let people shine. Don't hog the spotlight or let someone else hog the spotlight. If you're in a group setting, notice people who seem to be overlooked and bring them into the conversation in a positive way, but if they seem really shy or to have anxiety about talking, don't hold the spotlight on them if they don't seem to want to talk.
Also, notice when someone is doing a good job and compliment them on that, so many people do stuff that doesn't get noticed. You could ask them to show you their techniques, if it seems appropriate in the situation.
Remember people's names and how to spell them or say them correctly. This can make a difference, especially when someone's name is a bit unusual. It can be a small way to show respect and that you care.
Yesss and it is also a way to make friends that are not toxic and will help you in the end just like you helped them
The tips in this video are nice, but there's something I'd like to say;
Don't do these things because you want a significant other. Do them because they're good for *you*!
As many have said before me, you shouldn't enter a relationship (be it romantic or otherwise) because the other person completes you; they should be an added bonus to your life.
Going out and meeting people, putting yourself out there, is the alpha and omega of nurturing relationships. Now, that might be done digitally, but a lot of the tips still apply.
If you feel good, and you look like you're feeling good, others will notice.
You should love yourself before you love others
If you have trauma, it may take someone loving you in order for you to be able to love yourself. You have to be shown what love is if you've never experienced it.
@@charlottetaylor4471 I can't really speak on the matter, as I don't know whether the things I have experienced count as trauma. But! I am pretty sure everyone - and especially those suffering from trauma - would benefit from therapy. I know it's old advice and it might not be as accessible to everyone, but I'm hoping that those that need help are able to seek it out.
The difficult thing is that what love is depends on each person. My love might not be the same as your love. I definitely don't think that someone with trauma is not deserving of love. My angle is more that you have to at least be able to find someone, to meet people. Hopefully everyone finds some platform where they can seek kinship :) And friendship is a very good place to start.
I hope nothing I wrote comes off as... well, anything bad. I just try to understand as best I can and pull from my own experiences.
@@goatsfluff I dont know. When you have never been desired by someone else even imagining getting into a relationships with the opposite gender just becomes impossible. And okay I dont need anyone I should love myself talk sometimes is just not enough especially if you are Post 20 and never even held hands with someone before. You see other peoole talk about it and you just can't help but wonder "what is wrong with me?"
There exists not even a single good reason for me to grow fond of myself, to start seeing myself, as a person, in a brighter shade. No. I have no rational grounds whatsoever to set my mind to a positive frame and, then, as a subsequent result, to entangle my heart's strings with my own self and appreciate myself for who I am and for all that I have done. We all are the painters of ourselves, but I, during the recent while, have been painting the image of my very own self with the darkest, the bleakest, and the most dismal shades and colors one could ever possibly come to imagine!
Especially the case in the first point about being kind and helping others. You should be doing does things with no ulterior motive, but simply out of the kindness of your heart. The only “ulterior” motive I can accept, and I think most people can accept, is if you say you are doing so because you are compelled by your faith, whether it be in Christ, Allah, or some other religious figure.
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+Psych2Go *Thanks for the list o' potential tips:*
0:30 (1) Compliments as routine
1:24 (2) Smile as routine
1:53 (3) Routinely good dress
2:23 (4) Good self-care
2:47 (5) Reasonably high standards
3:24 (6) Reasonably difficult goals
3:53 (7) Intentional positivity
Thank you!
0:00 intro
0:30 1、they compliment others + are kind
1:24 2、they make it a habit to smile
1:52 3、they dress well all the time
2:22 4、they pamper themselves
2:47 5、they set their standards high
3:23 6、they push themselves to be better
3:53 7、they are intentionally positive
4:41 outro
Thank you!
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Thanks
@Random Stuff:) seek professional help
Only kinda related to two points here. The math has spoken: I'm not attractive.
Not with that attitude! I know it's probably mostly a joke, but you don't gotta put yourself down like that, king!
Let the blackpill guide you, brother.
well u can always try
@@lilianaday1319 I mean... I want to. I'm just afraid I'll mess it up and hurt someone.
These tips just make you an overall better person and i love it! Being attractive is so much more than skin deep ❤️
Yes, which ones do you find the most practical?
The smile says it all about a person and is one of the most attractive features with first impressions. .
I love this channel so much! Thank you for the good advice I will keep it in mind also the art is amazing!
Thank you and glad you enjoyed this video! :)
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this channel always posts videos the moment i need them!
The most attractive thing in the world is confidence, intelligence and a heart of gold....❤💕❤💕
Agreed💗
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Welp, I suppose I’ll try to do these things more often. Thank you for always making such helpful videos, much love ❤️
Quite a bit of this has to do with self-love. Taking care of yourself, improving yourself, and setting boundaries are all part of it. Loving who you are, respecting and accepting yourself go a long way and taking time to improve self-love is always worth the effort
Yes. Do these things, take care of you, and do this for you.
Don't be worried of how the others look at you or think about your apearance, it should became an obsession.
Don't be obsessed on a person that looks better than you physically, you think that, but you should forget youself to someone who doesn't matter.
Don't try to imitate anybody else because "they looks great in this outfit", but find what looks good on YOU, prefer go shopping in stores more than online. It's better to find something that could really suits you.
Don't ruin your time and energy on your appearance if that make you unhappy, only use these in a correct level, and don't forget to enjoy things.
Don't worry on how attractive you are to stranger, prefer to focus on what really matters to you.
Don't try a glow up or anything else to impress somebody or some people, but because you want to take care of youself.
Don't deny you can't have everything : you can't have the right shape for a haircut or a clothe, can't have the right tone to wear some colors, can't afford everything, accept it and don't blame yourself for that, try to see what you have and understand yourself.
Don't think too much, just take care of you in a sane way.
Hope it can help. (sorry for any mistakes)
Thanks man this really helped my self esteem and confidence out 👍
Attraction comes down to hygiene, health and genes (natural beauty) on physical, mental and emotional level. If you think about it from a historical standpoint, these qualities secure survival and therefore increase attraction. We have yet to outgrow most of our instincts. Which is why we still love petrichor, the smell before it rains, because it reassured us of a bountiful harvest ☀️🌧️🌾
Realistically, physical attractiveness is the Most important factor in determening whether someone will like you. People say intelligence and kindness, but when tested it's attractiveness by a large margin. What people dont realize is that beauty is just an aspect of physical attractiveness. Hygiene, dress, facial expression, weight, smell, and health all contribute to physical attractiveness as well. You can be ugly and still be attractive, and I'm sure we've all met people who weren't beautiful but we found attractive anyway.
It's never likely to change either since there are so many aspects of attraction and many of the factors are important qualities. Even physical attraction is fairly important to the species, we tend to find healthy people attractive and things like asymmetrical appearances can be a sign of genetic disorders. Same goes for obvious things like clear skin, lack of visible deformaties, outward signs of illness, physical fitness, etc.
There are also parts of "physical attractiveness" that arent themselves hardwired into us so much as we relate the physical traits with attractiveness but it's actually success we find attractive, a good example is wealth: throught history and culture there are traits we found attractive that have changed but they all relate to wealth. Having some extra fat was always viewed as attractive since that meant you werent a menial laborer, being pale was viewed as attractive (and still is sometimes) since that means you didnt have to work outside all the time, and things like elaborate hair styles or more esoteric things like foot binding, neck elongation, or skull deformation were all viewed as attractive in the past but in the modern day being fat is a sign of poverty (rich people can afford more time at the gym, personal trainers, healthier food, etc) and tans are more attrative (a sign you can lounge around outside and sunbath or afford a tanning booth) and even farmers tans (which you'd get from working outside) isnt viewed as especially attractive compared to an all over tan (which means lazily sunbathing or a tanning booth). Also why fashion and jewelry is viewed as attractive, its a sign the person is wealthy. That may all sound shallow but it serves a purpose: a wealthier person is more able to provide for their partner AND their potential children. It's not the phyisical traits themselves that we find attractive, it's what the represent which is why so many physical traits are considered attractive in some cultures but not others, and why those traits attractivness has changed over time.
I love how u talk softly but clear so i can be relaxed while watching this 😊
Its what makes ur videos so great!
Couldnt agree more ☺️
Mango or pineapple?
Mango brah 🫡
Pineapple
Pineapple
mango
both good but i prefer mango! :)
Honestly, just be nice. As a goblin man, I attracted a beautiful lady to my side just by being nice, it's as effective as it sounds.
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In my experience not excessively worrying about looking nice is what makes your personality a bigger selling point when you converse with someone for the first time. I've done that for a long time, and it's worked out well for me considering my big 3 when you add astrology to the mix. (Libra, Libra, Scorpio)
Wait this actually works, there’s this one guy in my class I’ve literally never cared about (back then he was just some screw up who got bad grades and goofed around) but one year he actually started to put in the effort to study and work out and stuff
His grades became extremely high, he’s more confident and he also compliments ppl and like talks to them (saying hi and stuff) and damn he became way more attractive than back then
I have already 1, 5, 6, 7 and I'm working on 4. For the 3 it's ok I guess since I don't dress badly but just without much attention and nothing particular, it's just that I don't really care as long as it isn't ugly. 2, my by default face is "-_-" blasé and tired face as if I was about to pass out so....
Btw at the end of the day don't take those criterias as "Sacred truth" and applying them to get attention...Focus on improving yourself, making oneself a better/happier person and the world a slightly better place to live on, doesn't it sound like the right thing to do ? People's attention might follow if you become a better version of yourself but don't crave for it otherwise you will be disappointed and unhappy.
if someone reads this message, I wish you to find yourself and come to peace of mind to finally wander without tripping throughout the sinuous path that is life
I have a general idea about attractiveness and I am glad that they match what you describe. Now I just need to apply them to myself... 🙈
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@@Psych2go psych2go, do u know how to talk around your crush normally? thank u !
Love your videos...both animations and narrative are so calm and joyful!
Thank you for this video. My biggest struggle is knowing my self-worth. I believe mine is honestly very low. I'd be surprised and thankful anyone sees anything worth keeping in me. I'm not sure if it's just my pessissism and distorted view of the world or just reality. How does one really know? I can't see myself worth any sort of pampering (nevermind actually being able to afford that).
I think we start knowing that we have SELF worth. Simply because we already exist. That's probably one of the hardest thing to practice and realized. And sometimes, we do things like contribute to the world or become a better human being to feel like we have more worth. But in reality, we have self worth and not we're just extending that to others.
Basically, be perfect. And I’m not gonna go through all that struggle just to make others like me. I’m good enough for myself and I can live with that.
the "struggle" that you're talking is actually self love. sure, it's complicated at first but when you are starting to love yourself, you become more positive, you want to care of you and you want others to feel good too. And you only do it for yourself because you know your worth. it's not "be perfect", perfection doesn't exist. It's all about self love.
@@ateezztrit248 I feel like I can love myself without others loving me. That’s based on my experience.
@@topazbutterfly1853 i'm not sure if i get it well but... that's the goal ! not everyone will love us and it's normal. people have their own preference. the goal is to love and to accept who we are.
"they make it a habit to smile"
yeah no i dont think thats happening bud
And I swear this channel said that is a sign of a psychopath, like mf what💀
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People can be good-looking as well as they can be total jerks. The heart would be difficult to see at the first sight, but nonetheless is a more important point than looks. Imagine good looks like a packaging while the content we actually want is inside. Thank you for the video, Psych2Go!
Wow.
1. Too shy and afraid of negative response to compliment.
2. My go-to facial expression is just neutral. It feels right to me. I also enjoy wearing a face mask, something about not showing my face makes me feel more comfortable,
3. I hate having to do high maintenence and prefer simplicity, so I basically don't ever intentionally put together a look, and doing so is annoying to me. Shirt, pants, underwear, jacket, done. I did throw in the baseball cap recently though, started to enjoy it.
4. I don't go out.
5. I don't even know what my standards are, but I do know that I walk away from any sensed disrespect.
6. Ah yes, my eternal struggle: trying my damndest to be better and failing.
7. I need not write anything else.
Asides the bonus tip (I always try to be kind, to my disbenefit even), that makes 0/7. Nice.
I mean I couldn't go through this list bc of how unpleasant and negative and self-pitying it sounded. Get it together! There's hope.
@@guesswho5790 It's no pity, it's fact. I learn every day why I feel these ways though, and the more I know, the more solace I feel.
Dressing is a hard subject. Im a trans person but I can't afford to transition. But I've always dressed how I feel. But....it doesn't mean it looks good on me. What are my options? Dress what matches me but completely give in to what society wants of my body, or be myself and look even more unattractive then I already am born into?
The hell you talking about? Of course you can be good looking with dressing like how you feel. It's just a matter of putting clothes on that really suits you - not what you think what a male / female would normally wear. If you're already doing that than maybe you need some styling tips e.g. jewelry to make your fit stunning or different colour combining techniques. Dammit, now I wanna give you some styling tips 😁
If you are a trans woman but "look manly"... There are ways to make you look more feminine. The same goes for trans men. If you look very muscular and wide, dress like a flamboyant natural would in the kibby body type system and you'll be good to go. I am androgynous in appearance (5 11 tall, broad shoulders, naturally more muscular) but feel very much like the female and feminine woman that I am and this works for me! It's about dressing how you feel but making it make sense with what you were born with. It's all shapes and proportions. And there are many tips for either look you are trying to achieve to look put together.
It’s how you comport or carry yourself that makes the difference
I just like the animation and tips
Clicked for the thumbnail, stayed for the good advice :)
Build a really good relationship with yourself. Self awareness and self love are very attractive qualities, and they're learnable too!
Yes, how do you practice self love?
I guess having high functioning anxiety, social anxiety, and being introvert on top of it all makes me automatically less attractive because I don't talk or interact with others in person a lot since I constantly get worried about what to say and get worried about how they veiw me. I keep to myself mainly, though I do try to be friendly and kind when I am talking to other people. It is what it is. Who needs a significant other, anyway, when I got a family that I feel the happiest around and I feel more comfortable to be my loud, happy, excited self?
I know some people don't have that, however, and I truly feel sorry for them. I hope all of them find something that brings them joy and find someone they can feel comfortable around. I wish for the best for everyone!
I'm in love with the dark empath's character design
Point 7 is core for me!
At this point I just watch your videos because the animation is so adorably calming 🥰
I'm being honest. I have all of this but I have social anxiety and other mental health issues. Also people come and go which mean they didn't stay longer with me.
*But I love it.*
ANYA FORGER AS THE THUMBNAIL
Hm.
Complimenting people: ✅
Smiling: ✅
Dressing Smartly: ✅
Pampering: ✅
High Standards: ✅
Push myself to be better: ✅
Being positive all the time or making jokes when it's not inappropriate: ✅
Guys, I think I might be attractive-
Regarding #1 and #2, why am I constantly told that in the contrary, being arrogant and “mean” will actually make you more attractive? I was told girls don’t like nice guys apparently.
This animation is gorgeous! 😍🤩
this is a confidence booster for me
I couldn't agree more.
reminds me of my crush for example.
yes he is cute, but what I truly love about him is, well, *him* .
I love how he always worries a lot for his friends, how he always puts so much effort into what he cares about and enjoys, the jokes he cracks in class, just enough to get a laugh outta a few people but not get the teacher mad, I love his ranting about any video game he knows stuff about, I love him.
Just, people, I know it's hard to believe, I myself have severe lack of self esteem and hate my body, but, remember, you like someone on first impressions and looks, you *love* someone for themselves💜
Your voice is so soothing I could listen to it for hours
I have 1,2,4 and 7 mostly because that's the thing I learned from my family. But making myself better and setting a higher standard for myself is impossible for me. My parents and siblings thought that to me but I never got it. I'm just lazy as hell hahahah
Edit: I'm really the opposite of attractive... Annoying, yes. I am annoying but not to the point where people don't talk to me. I'm
The art of this video is sooooooo cute
This is great, but is it just me or a lot of these points (tho definitely not all of them) seem hard to achieve when struggling with mental issues and life in general? Like I know that doing these things will be a great self confidence boost + self care, but I can’t seem to bring myself to do them…
Be patient and gentle with yourself. Focus on what you can do and do it! We are all doing the best we can
You have such a soothing and calming voice dear. I really appreciate you. Thank you for putting out such informative and interesting videos.
Point 7 would be the biggest hill to climb for me. Hard to be positive when it keeps looking more and more like the end of the world out there.
Okay, that was a good ask for a like. I rarely give them out, but you get one.
I always try to compliment people. I’m naturally a bit shy, but I still try to 😂
I've started complimenting the way people ignores me, it worked
man i loved this video, really says about good things that are even obvious but we don't even think
Step 1: be attractive
Thank you man you changed my life. I now own a Bugatti and I got million trillion billion morbillion dollars🙏
@@crazymadstriker766 anytime man 🙏
As someone who was fat and unattractive growing up I learned this. Im more subjectivity attractive now but i am way more interested in the vibe or energy of the person. 😊
Definitely having self love and confidence for yourself. It's noticable to people if you're insecure.
Very true
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0:37 “how do you feel when others complement you”
I don’t get complements 😂
Change your personality in such a manner that you are irresistible to others.
Develop your physique in such a manner that you become an oomph factor and when people pass by you,they connot stop gazing at you and sighing heavily.
Wow Psych2Go watches spy x family!
We need our own psi character
The spam bot infection is rapidly spreading
Smiling all the time does wonders
It is great when people notice and compliment so yeah this video is so true
I'm not looking to look attractive because I want to be loved/attractive as I'am as a person not to please others ,but I won't lie these are good advices I find myself doing some of them naturally ,but good luck to anyone that want to follow these ! ^__^
That is so attractive!
so, basically people with depression can't be attractive. yeah that will help them be less depressed for sure.
I always love the art and calm voice
That orange dude’s scarves are fire
As true as all this may be. Where i live, people become attracted to others for completely different reasons
More like 7 things i can't do 💀.
New animator really up ur whole video game. Keep it up psych2go team
Really good daily uploads
"everything is good.... if you do it in limits."
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Can you please do how to assess if someone wants to become friends with you or not
I can’t help but say this for each point…
1- Compliments work for women more as it’s seem as a more feminine trait. It’s not very masculine.
2- Kindness is also seen to be more weak for most men as it shows you’re more likely to be a pushover. Works far better for women.
3- Dressing well only really works if you are already relatively physically attractive.
4- Pampering may boost self esteem for a short while, but it only benefits those with a positive mindset and already strong self esteem, especially when they know they are attractive. Otherwise, I suppose it’s good as a treat or reward if you’ve achieved something you’ve set out to do.
5- Setting standards high works when you are already attractive. It’s just something you know when you are, kind of a natural feeling. Setting standards high can also result in no opportunities being created as you can outclass yourself. But again, if you were ALREADY attractive, then this could work.
6- completely agree with
7- Usually comes from the bench mark of ‘looks’ though. More attractive people will see more validation and positively than their ‘unattractive’ peers. This is usually during school years which can be some of the toughest years in one’s life.
I’m trying to look at this constructively as I can only see good looks grant the opportunities to better one’s personality and good nature than those without that in the beginning.
True to me being kind is just being a pushover and being fake. I'd rather have someone more honest and truthful
I’d add it’s attractive when one is enthusiastic about their interests/hobbies
Holy Sh*t Being Attractive is WAAY more Hard Work then i thought.
Hey, for the past 5 years I’ve struggled with Drugs and alcohol and just turned 21. I’m starting to think more seriously about seeking sobriety… I was wondering if you could make a video normalizing addiction and kind of a guide as to when they should start considering sobriety, because the only thing getting in the way of my recovery is the stigma surrounding addicts and my mind telling me that it’s not that bad and that I’ll be able to get my addiction under control after every “slip-up”; but that’s obviously not true, as each time I relapse it’s only more challenging to get back on track
Anya and Bond in the thumbnail, so cute!
I have all these traits
makes sense.
I believe everyone is already attractive the way they are. It's not about a certain look or personality type. As long as you are happy and have something you are passionate about, the right people will be attracted to you.
One thing too is being nice and yourself, don’t fake anything. Hella made some people consider me attractive though m not the cutest😉
I'm simple. I see Anya, I click.
I am here for the same reason ❤️
Liked for thumbnail.
Thank youuuuu 💓
There's a difference between a compliment from a kind person and someone with an agenda. A narcissist trying to be liked for their own ego sounds like cringe. Not to mention social anxiety can ring volumes some of the time. Mean your words.
Thumbnail promised anya forger.
omg i actually poses most of those things! i think the only one im lacking is the dressing part, which i'm already trying to work on. Yet the only thing every girl around me seems to be atracted to is the looks which i dont have cause im fat and ugly. couple years back i wouldn't have been able to say i poses that much of the things named in this video so im making progress. still people seem to just not like me. i have friends tho, so i know im likable, just not by girls i guess. wonder what it's like to have a girlfriend though. just a hug from somebody that genuinly likes you you know. can't even imagine how much happiness that'd give me.
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I love this channel!