Pleasure marriages or temporary relationships in Shia Islam | Faith Love Desire (3/3)

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  • @rachaelprice363
    @rachaelprice363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    I once had a Muslim man tell me that because he was a good man and provided for his family that gods reward to him was to have a good time with me. I’m Aussie. I said FO mate.

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Well said! 😂

    • @FR-zz2bj
      @FR-zz2bj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

      As a Muslim, I can tell you his sentiment has nothing to do with our beautiful, pure, faith

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      @@FR-zz2bj agreed! Islam is a beautiful religion but some of the followers make it look bad unfortunately. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Fatima-yx3uo
      @Fatima-yx3uo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      You did the right thing. He was lying to you.

    • @animegod1714
      @animegod1714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@user-kc6so2nu3m it is not. It is bigoted, violent and the prophet is a slave owner

  • @Isabela2024-yr
    @Isabela2024-yr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    A Shia guy told me, the woman agreed to marry her temporarily to help her with her finances. The woman was broke. She's a widow. Her kids are hungry. And I replied, why don't you just donate her some foods or money instead of marrying her for a few hours or days? And don't take advantage of her. The jackass smiled & tongue tied.

    • @earthynomad7160
      @earthynomad7160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      He knows his faith doesn't agree with that. What a disgusting man calling himself Muslim . Shia sect is crazy

    • @sharonhewitt1382
      @sharonhewitt1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Amen! Amen! No need to marry a widow or single mother with children just provide food and the necessities of life. But in Islam, Muhammed married widows not to help them but to satisfy is own sexual desires. That was his motivation in the first place. So when Muslims make the excuse that the reason why Muhammed had more than the four wives( most regular Muslims are allowed to have ) is because he married widows it is infered that they needed fianacial help & a protector that's why he married them. Was Muhammed being altruistic ? Of course not. With all the caravan thieving he did, the getting of one-fifth of all the bouty collected from all the conquered lands and the selling of thousands of slaves his right hand possess, he sure had enough money to help these poor widows, he did'nt have to marry them to take care of them. Muhammed looked after number one as always and as per blaspher says it was god that told him too do it or say it. And of course he is the best of human kind according to Muslims. So if he is the best of human kind what is the worst?

    • @rosebibis631
      @rosebibis631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@sharonhewitt1382 obviously someone who hasn't read the Qur'an and islamic history properly ,the islamic prophet married poor widows, as well as his best friends daughter ,as prophets were allowed to take extras wives as a divine allowed injunction...the widow's wanted to marry the prophet becos of his piety and knowing they'd be cared for ,and not abused .. ,he cared for them generously although he was poor , as he shunned riches and gave away his wealth generously to the poor n needy just like the other prophets did ...prophet Solomon had over a hundred slaves/wives ... This islamic prophet did not go instigating wars ,these were wars of self defense or his followers would have been obliterated..the war booty was fairly , generously given out to all the fighters as was the custom in many lands ,this was around 600AD, and customs were not like the 20 century ,so we see what happened in 600 as barbaric ,(you could say people nowadays are worse!) Growing up in Makkah , before prophethood ,he was known by the nickname 'the trustworthy one ' , when propherhood was bestowed on him at the age of 40 , people already knew how he was like.. history has writing about him ,how he chose a life of extreme austerity and gave away his wealth .DO you think he would have chosen to live a poor life (giving away all his excess wealth )if he was not a true prophet ??

    • @sharonhewitt1382
      @sharonhewitt1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rosebibis631 I stand by my first statement. Muhammed should show his benevelance by fiancially secureing their welfare he need'nt have married them. The responsibiltity of marriage is having conjugal rights and that is what Muhammed was fullfilling - his sexual desires because he seems unable to control himself. Your Hadith actually says if his eye's falls on a woman who is married her husband must divorce her so that he can have her. ( go find it in your Koran or Hadith ) Of course he is the best of human kind and that includes what his right hand possesse.

    • @sharonhewitt1382
      @sharonhewitt1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rosebibis631 I actually have a Koran and i have read it for your information, but know it is not the word of God in fact it does'nt even make sense and it plagerizes the Bible and other holy scriptures. The stories, names of people, prophets are not even consistant with the Bible. Some stories are made up and some just good old fabrication. So yes, i've read the Koran and it is most definately is not the word of God. It could be the the words of one or more of the many gods that pagan Arabs worshiped in the Kabaa. Sorry one of the 365 gods in the Kabaa, including the 3 goddesses Muhammed bowed down too. But definately not God the creater of heaven & earth. I urge you to check the Bible to see if there are any prophets who bowed themselves in an act of worship to a god or godesses.

  • @zahrajames5941
    @zahrajames5941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I'm a Sunni Muslim. I was shocked when a Shiite offered me a "mutta marriage"...I told him, " no thanks, I value myself too much to let a man use me that way and just by his request, he is not worthy"...I was REALLY insulted. This is NOT Islam!

    • @arashamiri9622
      @arashamiri9622 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah, asking legally is haram. But when you have sex without any nikah that's fine.

    • @zahrajames5941
      @zahrajames5941 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@arashamiri9622 EXCUSE ME!...do you know me?. I'm very proud of being the Muslimah that I am and I will wait until someone can make a real commitment to me!!!.. maybe others find it acceptable, I don't!!!

    • @zk321
      @zk321 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@zahrajames5941 sister respect your self they are doing prostitution, Islam alcohol was allowed at one point , doesn’t mean it’s allowed rn . They manipulate the religion. We follow the sunnah of the prophet Mohammed he clearly forbid these acts once Islam was complete just like he did for alcohol may Allah bless you for rejecting their zina

    • @LadooCrew
      @LadooCrew ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@arashamiri9622 do you offer your sisters in the same way to as I'm interested and before you say it it ain't Halal for our women but it is yours ;

    • @Akil_khazali
      @Akil_khazali ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@zahrajames5941subhanallah. I hope that you get good husband

  • @aromaseawater1492
    @aromaseawater1492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    The whole purpose of a marriage is to acknowledge a union and a long term commitment. How does a temporary marriage honor this principle. ? It offers no moral or ethical benefit to either partner.

    • @livelikeacat9955
      @livelikeacat9955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Justinthe Comments and what would your perspective be? Just curious

    • @livelikeacat9955
      @livelikeacat9955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @Justinthe Comments I wouldn't call that a marriage in the first place, it's just a sick and twisted loophole for the religious people to justify fornication or adultery.

    • @fama0043
      @fama0043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Am Sunni Muslim this type of marriage is wrong in Islam is like legalised adultery there is no such a thing as temporary marriage

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The real meaning of " Nikah word" is sex. So in Islam these marriages are not legal but in war captured women whose husbands are still alive and can be use for sex is legal😄

    • @juliabenredjem772
      @juliabenredjem772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Hazara26 This is not correct. The word Nikah can have multiple meanings like many other words in the Qur‘an. That‘s why it is important always to use the Tafsir beside reading the Qur‘an to really understand the meanings of the verses and the message behind.

  • @africanbeautifulgirl
    @africanbeautifulgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    “I’ll marry you for one hour for $30” is solicitation and prostitution not temporary marriage. Marriage is more than sex, there’s so many layers to it that to reduce it to “halal” is a different kind of hell reserved for people who engage in this practice (on both sides).

    • @danielyonas9928
      @danielyonas9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is Mut’ah Abrogated & Who Abrogated it?

    • @mohamedkandil1789
      @mohamedkandil1789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@danielyonas9928 The Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him abrogated Mut'ah and consumption of the meat of the donkey in the same hadith. But then again the Shi'ah dispute the validity of the hadith as being questionable at best. Thus why, the Shi'ah still practice Mut'ah.

    • @danielyonas9928
      @danielyonas9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mohamedkandil1789:: Where is your proof?

    • @mohamedkandil1789
      @mohamedkandil1789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@danielyonas9928 Let me start with a more fundamental question: what proof do you consider to be acceptable? I can post what I believe to be very convincing and acceptable evidence per Islamic jurisprudence, however if you don't believe that the sources I cite are credible, then it doesn't really matter what proof I provide.

    • @touringthecitywalking9209
      @touringthecitywalking9209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mohamedkandil1789 Wow!! What a great answer, sir. JazakAllah khair.

  • @melodymzoubi4140
    @melodymzoubi4140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    Allah has ordered for a man and a woman to be married permanently. In sunni Islam there is no such thing as a temporary marriage. If your marriage is irrevocably broken and you cannot fix it you may divorce and re marry someone else permanently. No games here. Do not try to change the rules of the almighty to suit your needs and desires because Allah (god) knows best

    • @MirzaSarkar
      @MirzaSarkar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Nikah Misyar is there.

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mutah is sahih authentic.

    • @shelleyphilcox4743
      @shelleyphilcox4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If divorce is permissable, and there are no constraints on the reasons for divorcing (for a man, strict constraints for a woman), and you can be married to four people at the same time (men only, not women), and divorce them at will and remarry at any point, that doesnt strike me as being permanent commitment to another person. Christianity varies in that you can divorce, but any remarriage whilst the original spouse still lives is not recognised by the church, but men and women have equal rights for the grounds for divorce, which are limited. In some circumstances the Catholic church will permit an annulment provided there are grounds within narrow canonical law e.g. you find you are related. Orthodox Judaism gives divorce rights to men and women, but only men can initiate divorce proceedings, except in very rare circumstances, and men can remarry (although its frowned upon if he has not issued a get) but women are not if they do not obtain a Gett, which essentially states 'You are now permitted to all men'. If she does remarry it is not recognised and is considered adultery, and if she has children, the children are considered illegitimate, although if a man remarried and has children, his subsequent children are not considered illegitimate and he is not regarded as having committed adultery. So, it seems that there are quite a lot of issues in many different ways in all the religious ideas when it comes to marriage, divorce and remarriage rights.

    • @nazliefayker460
      @nazliefayker460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@skellingtonmeteoryballoon . It was permissable only before Shariah was implemented. It is haraam plain and simple.

    • @hamzamahdi104
      @hamzamahdi104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good jokes Masyar and jihad marriage are famous in Sunnis 😆😆😆😆😃😃

  • @askingwhyisfree7436
    @askingwhyisfree7436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    temporary marriage is going around the bush but they know exactly what they're doing. They don't want to call it its right name "prostitution" and resorts to excuses. It's like a politician saying he's not corrupting funds. He's only relocating funds for personal matters. It's the same thing.

    • @danielyonas9928
      @danielyonas9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The meaning of Mut’ah or Nikah is have sexual pleasure.

    • @danielyonas9928
      @danielyonas9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Check out Christian Prince debate on TH-cam VS Islam ☪️ Muslims.

    • @aromaseawater1492
      @aromaseawater1492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน The women are not paid. So it’s not even a business arrangement.

    • @teresahiggs4896
      @teresahiggs4896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Watch David Wood series Islamisize me! Where one episode deals wirh temporary marriage! David Wood is merciless !

    • @sueforte4947
      @sueforte4947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's called ''adultery''.

  • @user-hw9yf2wn4v
    @user-hw9yf2wn4v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    This applies to men too. When I married at 25 I was a virgin man - by choice. My parents taught me that I had to be chaste before GOD. And I made sure I found a woman who was chaste as well. The first time we had to consummate our marriage I have to admit I felt nervous and uneasy. It's normal. But that initial embarrassment went out the window after 10-20 minutes as we both realized that it was o.k. How happy we were that we made this conscious choice to be clean before GOD. We have lived a very fulfilling life and now we are grandparents. We have instilled these ideas in our children and grandchildren. It has worked for us. My wife and I worked very hard to give our children a wonderful home-schooled education. They have missed out on nothing.

    • @zahrajames5941
      @zahrajames5941 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AlhamduLILLAH!!!

    • @974pk
      @974pk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️

    • @user-ux9ys2yu2d
      @user-ux9ys2yu2d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so proud of you. It is so beautiful to share your body and thoughts with someone they really belong to. Sadly, that culture is vanishing away. I hope I will promote that too

  • @maryclairfitzpatrick8135
    @maryclairfitzpatrick8135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    No: temporary marriage is not halal. It is cheap fornication. Don't try to justify it through inaccurate religious ref.

    • @sobhi1423
      @sobhi1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is shia thing

    • @internettrihard2955
      @internettrihard2955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not halal but better than the cheating they do in the west

    • @freedylo8124
      @freedylo8124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@internettrihard2955 Are you shia?

    • @internettrihard2955
      @internettrihard2955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@freedylo8124 this is not a Muslim thing. Doesn’t matter if you’re Shia or Sunni. And no, I’m Sunni....

    • @marypaquet3372
      @marypaquet3372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@internettrihard2955
      It’s not cheating, it’s prostitution plain and simple.

  • @beth-bi9yv
    @beth-bi9yv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    "Sexual morality, in all major religions, has always been determined by men"----huh, I can somehow suddenly understand why it is so flawed.

    • @roamin24
      @roamin24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. But to be fair if it was Created by women it would probably end up just as corrupt. Look at any position of power and when you replace men by women we somehow end up with the same thing. Queens of the past, Korean president etc..corrupt women.

    • @tapasyatyaga4041
      @tapasyatyaga4041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BRIFFAULT'S LAW says otherwise

    • @KD-vb9hh
      @KD-vb9hh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Truth Seeker Funny how every religious person always thinks their way is the one right "true" way. ONe wonders what you would think if you had been, let's say, adopted by parents of a different faith or born in a different place. Probably you would think that would be the "truth."

    • @gradosa8272
      @gradosa8272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      men are envious that women can have a longer sexual period during lifetime than they physically are able to.

    • @angel12boucher17
      @angel12boucher17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You said it….all of it is designed to serve men! And to keep women as their property….women are waking up finally….god love us all! Equally….mens perversions run the rules….give me a break!…

  • @aromaseawater1492
    @aromaseawater1492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    It says a lot if a man only wants a woman for short term pleasure before he moves onto his next taste test.

    • @mucheq5386
      @mucheq5386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

    • @maxpayne3628
      @maxpayne3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It happens every day in the West.

    • @aromaseawater1492
      @aromaseawater1492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@maxpayne3628 But it in that case its not sanctified by religion

    • @maxpayne3628
      @maxpayne3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@aromaseawater1492 It doesn't matter. I'm a Sunni and I will criticize the Mutah marriage ( btw it's not very common in Iran atleast, it's taboo there, although it does happen but it's very taboo and very less) but when the white man starts to criticise us as he's some God who thinks we're uncivilized People, that just seems absurd. They cheat our their partners all the times and want to criticize Muslims when they do something similar to that

    • @swefil6277
      @swefil6277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@maxpayne3628 Temporary marriage is basically prostitution which the evil cult of islam propagates aside from child marriage (pedophilia), sex slavery, polygamy (max 4 for muslims but as many as the false prophet mo-Ham-Mad wants - 13 wives +1000's sex slaves), necrophilia, zoophilia (yes, approved by the teachings of islam), etc.

  • @keminiwai
    @keminiwai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    It's called prostitution. Amen ✝️💟

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes and Al nikah mu'tah.
      Jesus is Prince of Peace and King of Kings. Jesus is Lord amen 🙏

    • @saforen6618
      @saforen6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN

    • @zahirkhan-yq3gr
      @zahirkhan-yq3gr หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes there is prostitution in shia religion and shia-ism is Not ISLAM

  • @africanqueen1595
    @africanqueen1595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I'm a Muslim and I've never heard of this temporary marriage thing, wow... just for sometime with multiple men and getting paid, I think we all know what that is and please don't say Islam allow this bcuz it doesn't and that imam need to go back and study the Quran and Sunna again, just saying.

    • @karn1m.680
      @karn1m.680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Facts I ain't never herd of this till now and no matter what u call it it's disrespectful of the religion

    • @tocababyloe7622
      @tocababyloe7622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This are all true its practices of the Shia Muslims,

    • @africanqueen1595
      @africanqueen1595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@skellingtonmeteoryballoon yeah.. I think someone did a wrong translation because Islam is very clear with it teachings and practices

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@africanqueen1595
      Ibn Juraih reported: Ata’ reported that Jabir Ibn Abdullah came to perform Umra, and we came to his abode, and the people asked him about different things, and then they made a mention of temporary marriage, whereupon he said: Yes, we had been benefiting ourselves by this temporary marriage during the life time of the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) and during the time of Abu Bakr, and Umar.
      استمتعنا على عهد رسول الله و أبي بكر و عمر
      al-Raghib al-Isbahani reported:
      Ibn Zubair denounced Ibn Abbas for his opinion on Mut’a. Thus Ibn Abbas told him: "Go and ask your mother what she did with your father.”When Ibn Zubair asked her, she said: "By God, I did not conceive you except through Mut’a."
      Sunni reference: al-Muhadhiraat, by al-Raghib al-Isbahani, v2, p96
      "So for those of whom you have pleasure with them (by the contract), you are required to give (them) their wages. And there is no sin for you in what you both agree after the requirement...”(Qur’an 4:24)
      "And among His great Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves so that you get tranquillity by them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.”(Qur’an 30:21)
      "Successful indeed are the believers... those who abstain from sex, except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or with the slave girls whom they rightfully possess for (in their case) they are free from blame. But those who go beyond that are transgressors.”(Qur’an 23:1-7)
      "And those who guard their private parts, except with their wives or the slave girls who rightfully possess for (in their case) they are free from blame. But those who go beyond that are transgressors.”(Qur’an 70:29-31)
      It's hard to imagine that the entire Quran and sunna were translated wrong . Otherwise, al-nikah mutah dahman dahman wouldn't exist.

    • @faizaan2804
      @faizaan2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@skellingtonmeteoryballoon please don't quote any random hadit out of context. our ( pbuh ) had never advocated this practice in his life time. world over except for shias no other muslim sect follows this practice.

  • @adelhmonteiro2849
    @adelhmonteiro2849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I am a reverted sunni muslim, and where I live we have a lot of Lebanese, they are Shia. And yes they do the temporary marriage.
    And it's so wrong

    • @juliabenredjem772
      @juliabenredjem772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      May god guide them the right path.
      This is prostitution and not allowed in Islam.
      A marriage needs to be official with 2 witnesses and there walis (fathers) about this new bound.

    • @juliabenredjem772
      @juliabenredjem772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Prophet Xi jinping Yes for three nights and not just for hours and against money as handled in prostitution. As well the marriage needs to be official, with drums and witnesses for this new bound. This is just adultery and needs normally to get punished through death. Astaghfirullah. Just disgusting

    • @juliabenredjem772
      @juliabenredjem772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Prophet Xi jinping Look, you are comparing here apples with melons. Sex with slaves is permitted through god and even mentioned in the Qur‘an. But today there are no slaves existing anymore and this has absolutley nothing to do with this temporary marriages thing or do you want now to equalize the slaves from ancient days with women from today? Do me a favor and stay within the topic or gain your knowledge before raising your voice as it is a big sin in Islam to talk without and spreading the untruth. May god bless and love you and guide you to the straight path.

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@juliabenredjem772 so God say you can have sex with slave no problem because slaves aren't human being right. Quran say earth is flat and so many things which are proved wrong now. I am sure you have never studies Islamic history and don't know nothing about your religion.

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@juliabenredjem772 there are slaves available now in today's time. Go and visit the Kings and Shieks palaces in Arab Gulfs countries and you will know. Arabs Gulf rich used to buy young Pakistani children for camel racing and lot of them used to die by falling. What you are talking. Muslims say Islamic teaching are forever and you are saying since no slaves now the teachings don't apply. Go learn first.

  • @sabah4123
    @sabah4123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Marriage is sacred, not taken seriously. Shame on humanity! 🙄

    • @maggiefollett636
      @maggiefollett636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shame on the misinterpretation of sacred rules by clerics!

    • @toddmaek5436
      @toddmaek5436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who told you that?

    • @sipandbite2090
      @sipandbite2090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @touringthecitywalking9209
      @touringthecitywalking9209 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ali al-Dulaimi علي الدليمي Correct; however, some Sunni clergies in Saudi Arabia also authorizes such an un-Islamic marriage under the name of Misyaar, which is also wrong!

    • @blondecat666
      @blondecat666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage is BS.

  • @hupomone0609
    @hupomone0609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    To call that arrangement a “temporary marriage” makes no sense at all. They need to call it something else because marriage is meant to be permanent, for life, till death.

    • @potato0269
      @potato0269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Muttah is haram.

    • @incumbentvinyl9291
      @incumbentvinyl9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's what it is, de jure.
      It's Sharia Law. No one claims it needs to make sense, as long as men benefit from it and women remain objects.

    • @incumbentvinyl9291
      @incumbentvinyl9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ali al-Dulaimi علي الدليمي It is a valid marriage according to Sharia Law.
      Religion is cancer.

    • @incumbentvinyl9291
      @incumbentvinyl9291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Truth Seeker Why are you copy pasting that everywhere?
      Perhaps you'd like to answer twice then:
      Every religion claims to be ''truth'', and they all claim that their deity, out of thousands of deities, is the real deity.
      What evidence do you have that your religion in particular is the truth, Truth Seeker?
      Explain to me why money is being exchanged during mutah. Let me guess, out of the goodness of the man's heart. Priceless!
      Windowed, haha!
      ''By your logic marriages are just like live together and doing adultery''
      How so? What of my words indicates this? How are you committing adultery if you are having sexual intercourse with your spouse?
      Well yes, marriage is a legal concept. What difference does it make if a lifelong couple devoted to each other are married or unmarried?
      ''bible says Abraham married his own sister sarah. Judaism christianity are production of siblings marriage.''
      Did someone ask? Why are you bringing this up? What relevance does it hold concerning Islam and blatant prostitution?
      It's also very intriguing that you would claim a prophet in Islam, Ibrahim, committed incest. In some countries you would get the death penalty for such blasphemy.
      Don't forget that Islam is the newest of the three main Abrahamic Religions.
      Good luck.

    • @luluah1198
      @luluah1198 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@incumbentvinyl9291 it’s actually an abolished practise . It was only permitted in times of war and those texts were abrogated when more were revealed thereafter . Wars which went on for a long time . Wars where people were without spouse or widowed. There is no relationship permitted or friendship without marriage, it’s not considered halal. So this one’s a means of offering protection to these women. The world was not as we know it in the west . It was a place where women had very few rights afforded to them.
      Shia have taken abrogated texts and taken them of of context . There is nothing in Quran and sunnah that supports Mutha today. But then nothing supports self flagellation in Quran or Sunnah either and most of them practises .

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Alhamdullilah for being a Sunni Muslim woman, we marry to stay with each other we don't say we marry for "short term"

    • @ghafranhaque7161
      @ghafranhaque7161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sunnis have come up with their own version, is called Mesyar and obviously is not from Islam but sadly endorsed by corrupt scholars and embraced by ignorant men and women. These false marriages are meant to destroy families and to normalize promiscuity.

    • @bluej6127
      @bluej6127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But isn't short term marriage arrangements allowed in your religion ? It's in your holy book . So why should it be wrong if it's in your book ?

    • @omanicc9854
      @omanicc9854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ghafranhaque7161 Misyar is not a temporary marriage, get it right. It simply means marriage but you don't have to fully belong to the man. He will be your husband but you can choose not to live with him. Normal nikah still has to be done and if they decide to divorce proper talaq still needs to be done. It is ideal for people who are in situations where they aren't ready to be a full time wife i.e long distance relationship, they want to marry so that they can be intimate without it being haram but this way she can take her time before moving in with him or the classic one if they are both students and want to marry - again so that they can be intimate - but if the girl doesn't want to leave her family yet or feels not ready to move in with him or if the boy isn't financially ready to provide for her then misyar is so that they can be protected with marriage but they give up some of the rights (her moving out, him providing for her). Temporary marriage is strictly time-based, no different to prostitution. Misyar is not time-based.

    • @bluej6127
      @bluej6127 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ديار عبد الرضا هادي عبود what is muttah ?

    • @bluej6127
      @bluej6127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@omanicc9854 u just twisted and turned words. Essentially it means u can hve sex with a woman whom you don't want to marry, or bcos u r already married and you r sexually deprived...which can be done in a temporary arrangements .
      Tell me after all this shit, what is happening to that girl . In this time and era, this is called prostitution. Your religion is trying to give prostitution a higher standard just bcos men just want to have sex and they find some woman to serve them.. isn't this a shame in your society ? If it's not, I don't know what kind of society u live in.

  • @amaleley
    @amaleley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The woman talking about the temporary marriage being Haram is so right. There's nothing like that in islam

    • @danielyonas9928
      @danielyonas9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is Mut’ah Abrogated & Who Abrogated it?

    • @madhukohli4472
      @madhukohli4472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No if you are a Muslim..and you are unaware then, pl gather some knowledge.
      I'm a non muslim and I know this a widely practiced, form of halala, practiced, by one of your Nabi.
      I have just seen this y'day only.
      Nikah e mutah..that's what it is called.

    • @sharonhewitt1382
      @sharonhewitt1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@madhukohli4472 Amen! Nika mean" Fuck" and Mutah means pleasure temporary marriage. Prostitution by any other name is still prostitution and that is exactly what Mutah is dressed up as marriage. Making a mockery of the institution of marriage and proving in the process that Islam cannot be from God. God wouldn't destroy something he instituted like marriage. The Quran is partly authored by Muhammed himself and by other plagerized religions. So it is that the Quran is false as is their so called prophet who never prophesied anything that came true or made sense.

    • @alwayshopeful7587
      @alwayshopeful7587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      halala is not permissible at all,nowadays it is being carried out soo much but ,a man can only marry his divorced wife again if she marries another man and decides to spend her life forever with him in true meanings with this intention but fails again then the first man can remarry her again.halala was put forward because some men were abusing women by divorcing them whenever they want and bringing them back whenever they want ,so that's why this condition came to stop them .Halala is being misused nowadays

    • @sharonhewitt1382
      @sharonhewitt1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alwayshopeful7587 It is silly for a woman not to be able to return to a former husband if that is what they both want without the woman marrying another man to get access to her first husband. It is prostituting the woman out, being used by another sexually for what purpose. Islam treats woman as baby making machines after which she has no further use or served any purpose. In fact doesn't your prophet say that wo me en ate mentally deficient and two men equals one woman's testimony or evidence or witness in court. Islam has no respect for women

  • @gab31282
    @gab31282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    When you do evil shit, but you want God's blessing while doing it

    • @elbowstancenow1519
      @elbowstancenow1519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Haha. True

    • @nathanielhamilton5841
      @nathanielhamilton5841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's exactly what it is, facts.

    • @chawquee
      @chawquee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      2 days ago an İraqi shia man talked to me in istanbul about this fake marriage called pleasure marriage who has no foundation in islam. I listened to him than asked him do you accept this to your daughter and his face turned blue .A prostitution mere and simple since money is involved and a time limited marriage is completely opposite of what Islam requires As a person who comes from Tunisia which is completely Sunni Islam such concepts are funny for me

    • @endisnear306
      @endisnear306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chawquee where did this concept of pleasure marriage come from?

    • @toddmaek5436
      @toddmaek5436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like America

  • @valenl5825
    @valenl5825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This is called the evilness of men's heart.

    • @travelsphereuk-7090
      @travelsphereuk-7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shia only make up 15% of the muslim world population. They are not classified as real muslim by the real sunni Muslims who make up the other 85% of Muslims around the world. This type of sexual marriage is totally forbidden in Islam and there will be a grave eternal punishment in the hereafter according to the 85% sunni muslim who follow the Quran and Sunnah of the final Messenger Prophet Muhammed (pbuh).

    • @khashayar8989
      @khashayar8989 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome to Islam

    • @zahirkhan-yq3gr
      @zahirkhan-yq3gr หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@khashayar8989shia religion is Not ISLAM , Mutah(Temporary Marriage) is allowed in shia religion and shia religion is Not ISLAM so research before you write comment

    • @khashayar8989
      @khashayar8989 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @zahirkhan-yq3gr
      Sunni : marrying 4 wives if not more no difference
      Slavery : allowed in Islam allowed on conditions
      Mohammad himself having slaves even worse
      Taking ones wife as war slave allowed again in Islam the ultimate
      Even allowed a child
      Sunni and shia major difference:
      Caliphate they believe in
      Read and study :
      Ali Hussain hassan
      Then Usman. Yazid .Moaviyeh and rest of ummayds whom lived in palaces .Gold .Money. luxury
      Which Islam isn't about
      At least shias emams lived poor and lived Islam as should
      While you sunni Caliphate lived in palaces and had luxury lives

    • @khashayar8989
      @khashayar8989 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @zahirkhan-yq3gr
      Sunnis today 90 % :
      Palestine issue ?
      You all Quiet
      Do nothing
      Saudi all Gulf Arabs / US and Israel Allies and slaves
      Who is standing against occupation?
      Shias are
      Lead by Iran
      I say you sunnis are a Disgrace
      I know Islam and its evil history back to front I think you have no clue what crimes your religion did
      Read its history
      Research it
      Biggest Slavery in man's history is through Islam
      All legal allowed by Islam
      It's centre was Mecca
      Till 1962
      Gulf was the very last place on earth for stopping Slavery
      Which not stopped totally
      Still exist
      Travel to Dubai. Saudi.kuwait
      You see it
      I am a X Muslim
      Last thing you want to teach me be Islam

  • @hollysmith1347
    @hollysmith1347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    So can the wife get a temporary marriage? Would he be ok with it?

    • @asanabright538
      @asanabright538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You already know. Its sinful how they treat women and they claim it is written and they go top mosque and pray. Its no wonder the world is so messed up.

    • @hollysmith1347
      @hollysmith1347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@asanabright538 yes. I know the answer, she'd be condemned, outcast, and bad case scenario killed. So glad I don't live in such a society.

    • @kjnazari4734
      @kjnazari4734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@asanabright538 we treat women really nicely, you don't know anything about our religion and yet you judge, How about you worry about your religion and problems in your country.

    • @kjnazari4734
      @kjnazari4734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@hollysmith1347 where do you get your facts from? from your bs media that makes the whole world look bad? look at your own society, you have kids that don't know who their mom or dad is. At least we believe in Gods words. Everything's seems wrong to you guys if its different from your society. I'm glad i don't live in your society. Stop having this view towards other peoples religion, culture and traditions.

    • @hollysmith1347
      @hollysmith1347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@kjnazari4734 first I am half middle eastern (Egyptian/Cypriot), so I know what it can happen in remote areas. Second would she be allowed to cheat?, would he just allow it like she has to?
      I am not stating all men from middle east or Muslims mistreat women, but you know in the some remote areas they still do such punishments.

  • @hikmah
    @hikmah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Not just Shia Muslims do this. I've come across alot of Sunni men trying to do this with women as means to "date in a halal (permissable) way" "free from sin" supposedly, but that puts the woman at a huge disadvantage when it comes to getting out of such an arrangement. Men want the sex without the full commitment and responsibility whilst at the same time stripping a woman of her rights. They typically prey on women who don't know any better.

    • @aniscosic8225
      @aniscosic8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      the is no such thing as temporary marriage in islam

    • @sfamzs7554
      @sfamzs7554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is just a pure lie, it is not allowed in Sunni Islam to have a temporary marriage. Yes, you may find some so-called "Muslim" pays for sex, but he is considered a sinner because it is NOT allowed in Sunni Islam.

    • @sobhi1423
      @sobhi1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This isn't true...muttah is haram

    • @user-ux9ys2yu2d
      @user-ux9ys2yu2d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mutah in real Sunni Islam is not allowed but as we are trying to adjust into each other sects and are accepting them many of sunni man do that too...!

  • @etloo1971
    @etloo1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This temporary or muta marriage is similar to one night stand practiced by Europeans.

    • @neilnelmar8007
      @neilnelmar8007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @E A most europeans have such onenight stand ,at the end of it both parties disappear

    • @SR-hu7qr
      @SR-hu7qr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Buy why to be hopocrites and call this marrage not prostitution.It is not one night stand,there is no money involved in one night

    • @RB-jx4vp
      @RB-jx4vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OST Europeans do not do this though you might be given that impression from the media.

    • @AquaGirlOo
      @AquaGirlOo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And coated with halal sugar 🙄

  • @christinebrument6851
    @christinebrument6851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Permanent marriage and temporary marriage???, great for the man as always not for his permanent wife. Nothing to do with faith or religion how about fidelity and morals????

    • @SUPERNOVA-sunrise
      @SUPERNOVA-sunrise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, indeed... ''The hypocrisy'' It's Disgusting

    • @Noonooooo
      @Noonooooo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Here in my country Saudi Arabia this kind of marriages are forbidden they are completely Haram. Marriage meant to be permanent forever the woman should always have the right to inherit and to have kids

    • @Noonooooo
      @Noonooooo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Justinthe Comments No you are Lying if mutta marriage is in any way in Quran then why sunny muslim never do it

    • @RaginYak
      @RaginYak 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      On the dot.

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Noonooooo there are lots of thing in Quran which Sunnis don't follow. The problem with most of Sunnis are they don't know their religion and the ones they know they don't tell the truth.

  • @dobrezycie1
    @dobrezycie1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    2.17 I like Jewish family, they look happy and faithful to each other. I Polish christian, in happy marriage for 20 years, 2 kids.

  • @aishabowes4020
    @aishabowes4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Temporary marriage is not Islamic their is no degnity in it, Allah doesn't sleep

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But what about capturing women in wars? They can be use for sex without marriage. So what you say about this?

    • @robrob6719
      @robrob6719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Hazara26 where there's war there's slave

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@robrob6719 😄

    • @swefil6277
      @swefil6277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@robrob6719 Ha ha ha. Go back to your cave or join the evil cult of islam!

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abdillahijalalkhan2128 why should I read Bible. I am not talking here about the Bible but Islam. If you think Bible is right for the reference then you are rejecting Islam based on the Bible.

  • @remazawi7889
    @remazawi7889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    i am a practicing sunni muslim and what this video is showing about shia muslim and temporary marriages is not acceptable nor allowed in islam. Sunni make up 80% of all muslims. marriage is sacred and for the long term and must be publicly known not temporary and not in secret. The woman's status is honored and respected in public. The married couple needs to have patience with each other, mercy, compassion and understanding. The man can't just go find another woman like a new toy. How can you honor and respect a woman if you marry her temporarily and in secret? that is not islam. Its a business and they are abusing and using religion wrongly to justify their desires (whether money or lust). May God guide us all to the right path. amen.p.s. these women might be poor and in need of money so they subject themselves to these temporary marriages. its unfortunate and in this case, be a man, marry her properly and give her a good life.

    • @learningis7857
      @learningis7857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is why men can have 4 wife’s ? Is that for pleasure or love, how can you be inlove with 4 people at the same time, what kind of a cult is this 😂

    • @alwayshopeful7587
      @alwayshopeful7587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      men were not obligated to have 4 wives ,they were allowed to have 4 wives in certain situations if if was necessary for them ,like if they wanted kids and the first wife couldn't have them and they dont want to leave her so she can marry for kids again without leaving his first wife ,and having kids especially sons was a big deal back then even now.secondly at that time there used to be alot of widowers and women's converting to islam being rejected by their families ,soo the muslims were advised to have them as wives to provide financial support as well as sexual satisfaction so that they are not in need of sinning. but only if you can treat all wives equally .if cannot then they cannot marry .now this not a common practice for men now I think ,it is seen more as a bad thing nowadays even in some Muslim countries.and it is a right for the first wife to divorce her husband if she does want him to have second wife also she can state in the marriage certificate that she does not allow him to have a second wife ,then he cannot.

    • @learningis7857
      @learningis7857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry but this just shows you know nothing about your religion, first of all marriage in islam is called nikkah, but nikkah also means sexual intercourse, can you imagine the English word sex also meaning marriage ? how ridiculous would that be 😂😂 literally reducing women to just sexual objects, why would you use the word sex also as marriage that’s disgusting, but that’s exactly the case in islam, that’s why you can have up to 4 because they are literally your sex partners nothing to do with marriage, and you said it was a temporary thing ? Please show me one source we’re it says marrying 4 wife’s was a temporary thing, you can’t because it wasn’t just meant for that time it was meant for all the time other wise it would have said it clearly that it’s only meant for this time but as I said you cannot show me any proof, also the fact that you msulsims Are making up so many excuses saying it was only meant for that time even tho it doesn’t say that anywhere shows how embarrassed and ashamed you guys are of this practice, at least shia Muslims are proud and aren’t shamed 😂😂 your prophet Mohamed had 13 wife’s and he’s sippouse to be the best example lol how you guys can call Mohamed the best example for mankind is mind boggling, war is not an excuse to have so many female partners, if he really wanted to help them then he could have just help, did he have to marry them in order to help them ? also if this was only meant for that time then please tell me why millions of Muslims still practice this till today, do you know why ? Because it does NOT say anywhere that it was meant just for that time, Mohamed hijab was being interview the other day by Jordan Paterson daughter and he proudly said to her that YES it is Islamic to have up to 4 wife’s so please stop telling people it was only meant for that time unless you can show proof!!!

    • @banannas2300
      @banannas2300 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's prostitution

    • @alwayshopeful7587
      @alwayshopeful7587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@learningis7857 I didn't say it was for that time only .I said it is allowed but not obligated .if you are happy with one then there is nothing wrong in it.also it doesn't only happen in islam it happens in alof of other religions like all 4 5 men marrying a same lady or men marrying 9 or 10 women in Thailand etc .so there is always some sort of polygamy happening everywhere let it be a couple with a mistress on the side or a couple with an extramarital affair on side soo please stop this nonsense of yours.and dont pretend to be such a pure soul not wanting or having sexual needs.being intimate is the most important part of a relation ship.

  • @Mooodyyhhh
    @Mooodyyhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Temporary marriage is a joke and most Muslim including myself know it's wrong. I have three different men propose me to have sex with them by doing temporary marriage. Young men use it as a "loophole" for premarital sex. You say a sentence and then its "halal" to have sex. Ridiculous

    • @gracewillis6535
      @gracewillis6535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Allah revealed that alcohol was haram in three different stages, like for instance, it was haram to be drunk and pray, but I don’t understand why allah didn’t reveal that sex slavery was wrong, Child marriage is wrong and physically damaging ,that mutah was wrong, fgm was permissible still but should have been abolished too and if your wife doesn’t behave .. Allah will “give you new and better wives” making it a huge excuse and free pass for domestic violence against women. research his relationship to the sex slave Maria; that ordeal with him getting caught in his wives bed with her 🤦🏾‍♀️ ..and his obtaining of his wife sofia
      Or in qran sr 33 when you visit the prophet don’t stay too long, eat and leave soon (says prophet is too shy to Say anything)
      This is clearly a man made religion to satisfy his needs and desires
      Now I ask you kindly step back and see what yeshua the messiah says, do unto others what you want done to you .. love your neighbor , treat women like a fragile glass, love your enemy ... may Adonai make his light shine over you and his Messiah reveal himself to you.. shalom 👋

    • @Mooodyyhhh
      @Mooodyyhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gracewillis6535 im good thanks lol

    • @nailaf6832
      @nailaf6832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gracewillis6535 you talk about perfect Christ's message as if Christians never practice sex slavery or polygamy or child bride in their history
      Catholic Spanish colonisation brought slavery to the indigenous Americans and yes, ofcourse it includes sex slavery.
      Oh i come from Indonesia, which was colonised by Christian Dutch and Catholic Portuguese. (And also see Tordesillas agreement in which Portuguese and Spanish agreed to just divide all non Christian lands .... then colonised them, including servitude aka slavery. all in pretext of Christian teachings). until now there are Christian sects that allow polygamy practices. In 1729 Infanta Mariana Victoria of Spain married at 10 years old, after first engaged when she was only 3.

    • @GalacticEgg
      @GalacticEgg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nailaf6832 Few will disagree that the Christianity practiced by Spanish imperialists was manipulative and false, dear. You will also find that the vast majority of Christians believe polygamist Mormonism is a cult following of Joseph Smith and not really the spirit of God. Christ, however, did not marry a 10 year old. Christ did not solicit new wives, nor did he encourage his followers to do the same. His mission was against the corrupt and false church and to show the true way. He sought no personal power, unlike false prophets. He was not angry toward women. There is no scripture of Christ that could be construed to condone the behaviors common to followers of other faiths.

    • @GalacticEgg
      @GalacticEgg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nailaf6832 just as it is unfair of others to compare all of Islam to Wahhabist literalism, it's unfair to assert the behavior of Catholic Spaniards in the 18th century is true Christian dogma when there's really no evidence of this in the new testament of Christ.

  • @chelseasparis6369
    @chelseasparis6369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This cannot be halal no way ...absolutely impossible

    • @mk.9520
      @mk.9520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are right. The prophet declared it haram and it still stands till this day

    • @user-uc4ot3jv5g
      @user-uc4ot3jv5g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fools! Allah approved it in the Quran, but Mohammed (SAW) abolished it in thé Hadith. I say that Muslims worship Mohammed and Allah otherwise, how do you make it haram on the basis of the prophets word whiles Allah approved of it. The Shia are right to be following this Sunna.

    • @perizat1888
      @perizat1888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@user-uc4ot3jv5g , can you give a single verse of the Holy Qur'an supporting the idea of temporary marriage?

  • @ramonawalker5473
    @ramonawalker5473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why do women endure any religion that dictates that she is a drag on humanity, when in fact she is the means by which humanity must exist? Are men envious of that and act out by punishing women? But, it is fair to mention that there have been societies that respect womanhood. We must again explore that.

  • @coacherni
    @coacherni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is totally wrong.. shiah is not Islam. Even they hate our Prophet Muhammad saw and recite in Saidina Ali name. Their prayer also different than us .

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's sahih authentic.

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skellingtonmeteoryballoon no it's not lol

    • @laibah6011
      @laibah6011 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      No they don't hate the prophet, they put him before Hazrat Ali, don't call them wrong entirely just because you disagree with one aspect or two. That's quite immature, do your research please.

  • @australiaprisonisland9156
    @australiaprisonisland9156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Anyone wearing those sunglasses inside is hiding the truth from his very own soul.

    • @touringthecitywalking9209
      @touringthecitywalking9209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Sss Sss How come to only those two Shia (the woman and the guy) were having eye problems from the others in this video?!

    • @touringthecitywalking9209
      @touringthecitywalking9209 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sss Sss Actually these two were wearing those dark glasses to hide their facial identities, or how they thought lol. If this is true (trying conceal their identities) tells you that they know that they were doing something are unacceptable in the society and that they felt shame about it.

    • @itshalo837
      @itshalo837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg I was wondering if anyone will talk about that

    • @australiaprisonisland9156
      @australiaprisonisland9156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@touringthecitywalking9209 Exactly my thoughts.

    • @meyergaelle8108
      @meyergaelle8108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Depands some have problems to see in slightest lights

  • @raven113p6
    @raven113p6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Who is he kidding? If a friend or his wife happens to be watching this (long shot of course), she can see it is him with the sunglasses.

  • @974pk
    @974pk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    " No one knows I've lost my virginity"
    Well girl, they do now!!!!

    • @eunjungbong5856
      @eunjungbong5856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No hay was the point of this message?

    • @974pk
      @974pk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@eunjungbong5856 she said that nobody knows that's she lost her virginity, and I said that after watching this video, it will be known by many.
      That's what my message says, so there was a point to it.

    • @974pk
      @974pk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jaci Abu well, we will never know!

    • @touringthecitywalking9209
      @touringthecitywalking9209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@974pk Maybe they won't because she was "cleverly" wearing that black glasses, which will conceal her "identity" lol!

    • @974pk
      @974pk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@touringthecitywalking9209 exactly. That was clever, wish I'd have thought of that 🤣🤣🤣

  • @carolewilson1311
    @carolewilson1311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We call it prostitution or adultery. Abuse but not temporary marriage.

    • @saforen6618
      @saforen6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN

  • @Abdulrahman_Hi
    @Abdulrahman_Hi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    38:40 you just guided people to do the same sinful act you're warning them about, but gave it a different name to legalize it. What nonsense is this?

  • @purple4377
    @purple4377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    There is no such thing as temporary marriage in Islam. Full stop!

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you Islamic scholor and have studies Islamic history and studies? If not then don't just say things like this.

    • @purple4377
      @purple4377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Hazara26 Read the Quran and the Seerah of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم. You will find your answer clear as day. Masalama.

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@purple4377 Quran is not true book and written by someone. And only Muslims think Quran is divine which is not actually. If you read Islamic history and research how Ummayad governer destroyed Kabba and killed so many people. And there is another guy who took black stone for 23 years and made his toilet but when Abbasi empire came they did some deal with him and brought the black stone back. Why Allah hasn't protacted his house. I have done my research and that is why don't follow Islam anymore.

    • @juliabenredjem772
      @juliabenredjem772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Hazara26 Oh dear now I understand why you are so resistent against Islam. It is proven that the whole Qur’an is a wonder and no Poet or Writer in the ancient of days and until today was ever capable of to build some equal verses like you find in this book. And there are many other related wonders not only to the stylistic itself. Search and you will find some information which will leave you breathless. I promise. I am sorry that you lost your way and pray that god my guide you pack to the right path. Take care

    • @Hazara26
      @Hazara26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@juliabenredjem772 first of all research about history of the Quran. The Quran at Mohd's time no where to be found now. And you said, Quran is confirmed and wonder. So for your information there are things written in Quran proven to be wrong like earth is flat etc. 2nd the things written in Quran stolen from Bible and people already knew 500 years before Islam. Quran is wonder only for Muslims which they claim but not for the rest of the world.

  • @zahirmamdani2319
    @zahirmamdani2319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It looked more like a deliberate attempt to discredit Islam.
    They show orthodox jews which have similar values to main stream Sunni Islam but go to show a very different picture of Islam.

    • @qmr0n
      @qmr0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @mo_7199
      @mo_7199 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      they should discredit both religions lol. it doesn't make their point any less valid

    • @fibby-enymore6601
      @fibby-enymore6601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bloody pathological born liar like your.. islam is a curse upon women and humanity at large.. Islam is all about sex & Senseless Killing of non believers of Islam... Demons

    • @qmr0n
      @qmr0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fibby-enymore6601 Islam is not even close to being like that. Think: if Islam is about terrorism and there are billions of Muslims in the world, don't you think you would be dead by now?
      Where did you get these ideas? Christian Prince? This man himself has been caught lying so many times. His videos are based upon slandering Islam. If you actually care about the truth, why don't you talk to Muslims about Islam rather than someone with a hateful agenda. If I want to learn about Christianity, should I talk to a militant atheist or a Christian?

    • @fibby-enymore6601
      @fibby-enymore6601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@qmr0n Plss don't bring that your Taqiyya here okay.. I know better okay as a Christian now.. Explain the below Quran verses for me:
      Quran 9v28-30
      Quran 5v51
      Quran 3v28 etc..

  • @karencrofts1724
    @karencrofts1724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Men make up the religious rules to suit themselves and then change them to suit themselves...

  • @priya72588
    @priya72588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    please put the original title of the documentary to give a clearer perspective and context to the viewer

  • @nomystery547
    @nomystery547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I thank God everyday for not being born into a middle eastern culture as a woman, it's unconscionable, the rules that apply to the gratification of only men.

    • @lk-vi5wx
      @lk-vi5wx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep it’s a shithole

    • @----f
      @----f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is shia Islam, a sect of Islam that make their own rules

    • @majestic6303
      @majestic6303 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Doesn’t matter what race you are born into. A specific sect of Islam is distorting what’s allowed and not allowed.

  • @ItsMeToYou
    @ItsMeToYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The only thing that I disagree with about this video is the perspective of Christianity only coming from a Catholic point of view. It's so vague and does not represent all Christians denominations.

    • @marywilkinson5937
      @marywilkinson5937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It would be the same if any other Christian denomination was chosen. I think the documentary is focusing on more orthodox faiths, many of which aren’t understood by all.

    • @rk2770
      @rk2770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same with what theyve done with representing islam

    • @qmr0n
      @qmr0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And it's the same with Islam. They've represented Islam with Shias who are very different from your average Sunni orthodox Muslim. These Shia tend to be far from Islam and their beliefs don't even fit in with the basic tenants of Islam.

    • @teresahiggs4896
      @teresahiggs4896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True! Catholics do NOT represent all Christians!

    • @xanithkl
      @xanithkl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most audiences would understand that, no problem

  • @marwitta5640
    @marwitta5640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I have never seen such a thing, that is innovation ! in Islam, marriage complets half of your religion, it's not a way to just fulfill your desires, how come muslims ended up thinking this ? Allah yhfad wAllah

    • @abbysheyba8421
      @abbysheyba8421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's the Shia, people of innovation not mainstream muslims

    • @marwitta5640
      @marwitta5640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@abbysheyba8421 yes, that is sad, but they're attached to Islam

    • @omanicc9854
      @omanicc9854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      because its human nature, we are controlled by our hormones even though we shouldn't be. I say this as a woman.
      Isn't this the main reason why men wish they could take a second wife? Its never been about anything other than sex.

    • @marwitta5640
      @marwitta5640 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omanicc9854 Human are torn between desires and reason, we make the choice between them, we are to blame for choosing our desires over wisdom and reason (it doesnt mean it is to late to change our mind). Men take a second wife for other reasons, the sole purpose of this arrangement is to finnancially support women.

  • @bouse23
    @bouse23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    In medieval Ireland there was different degrees of marriage. From marriage that would last a lifetime to a marriage that would last a night. Its thought it protected children from the scar of illegitimacy.

    • @hassannur7443
      @hassannur7443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Then the medieval Irish must have been practising something similar to Shia's way of life

    • @incumbentvinyl9291
      @incumbentvinyl9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hassannur7443 Of course. Catholism and Shiite Islam are very similar. After all, they are both Abrahamic Religions.

    • @m_d1905
      @m_d1905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It was before Christianity became wide spread. It was a Druidic belief that every child was legitimate and was coveted by some definition of marriage.

    • @mikeoxsmal8022
      @mikeoxsmal8022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@m_d1905 no the druids went extinct in the 6th century, This was law til the 17th century

  • @karunakaranveeramuthu7081
    @karunakaranveeramuthu7081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep all your religions aside and be a human first

  • @pjq420
    @pjq420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    there was clearly written it's a shia practice. if you're educated please bear in mind that this is not an islamic teaching at all!! talks about civilization while not even can understand how to read!

  • @olafshomkirtimukh9935
    @olafshomkirtimukh9935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    1) Both Muslim protagonists wore dark glasses... very telling!
    2) While the Jewish wife reiterated, again & again, that intimacy with any man other than her husband was forbidden to her, he never once made that specific reciprocal affirmation... wonder why?
    3) Why only the sexuality of a Buddhist monk was explored, but not that of the clergy of the monotheistic faith?

    • @alanle1471
      @alanle1471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Regarding Judaism in your second assertion, the same laws of gender separation and purity of marriage applies equally to men.

  • @codaalive5076
    @codaalive5076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    From all religions shown, only Buddhist monks openly talk about their desire for physical love and seem to find solutions to avoid it. Others just bend the rules so that man can do what they want with no regards to women's rights, dignity, opportunities and so on.
    I find it hard to believe that man and woman are created equal, if man create all sorts of rules to exploit women.

  • @jaerrios
    @jaerrios 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woman is a threat to a man striving to be a divine creature? Wow, that sounds harsh. I thought women were supposed to be helping the man be more... divine at some point. Sheesh.

  • @heathergustafson4237
    @heathergustafson4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Once again those are men making the rules that it’s okay to have sex when your married. Such total BS

  • @BioTransXX
    @BioTransXX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's funny how they claim to love God so much, that God is perfect, all seeing, all knowing, but they think that they can deceive God with their "temporary marriage", like they really think they are smarter than God. Well we all know who won't be making it to Jannah with their "temporary marriages".

    • @----f
      @----f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Commom practice in shia countries. That's what happens when they move away from the Sunnah and make their own Islam

    • @punkqueen5664
      @punkqueen5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is nothing forbypu in jannat! Only for the gross men!

  • @nobody8328
    @nobody8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The mature German couple are absolutely beautiful! I hope I can be that sanguine as I age.

    • @swefil6277
      @swefil6277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank Catholicism!

    • @Iflie
      @Iflie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah I think you can tell which relationship was blessed, they were in love, they got married and still love eachother. You don't need 19 kids to prove your marriage works. I've heard in some of the countries that have honor killing religious leaders say that a "love marriage" has a 90% or more chance to fail so they should absolutely avoid that and instead get an arranged marriage. Then where do all the happy couples in my family and in the west come from? I don't think marriage from obligation leads to real love like these catholic people have. Especially not with all the female oppression and rape, how can you want to have sex with a guy you don't know? So the wedding night starts with rape by a guy who has no idea how to please a woman.

    • @narnilawson869
      @narnilawson869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Was literally just about the say the same thing. So wholesome :-) I love how they made their decisions together and made them because of love for each other

    • @MonaLisa-lu8zi
      @MonaLisa-lu8zi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The life long bond must have been created with a friendship first, before they embarked on a relationship. I think that is why, they can and do hold hands, after the passion has waned. 🤔

    • @renataostertag6051
      @renataostertag6051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Iflie Yep, that's about it.

  • @fatimahconteh3971
    @fatimahconteh3971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This ain't allowed in Islam that's all have a nice day.

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @nazzynaz1905
      @nazzynaz1905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯 👍

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I read that it is acceptable in the Quran!

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@schoolwork232 Nope. Read it again. Read a real english translated Quran and not something from google written by a random person.

    • @sobhi1423
      @sobhi1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@schoolwork232 no it isn't.

  • @Random-JustAnother
    @Random-JustAnother 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I guess it's not surprising that people use any argument to convince themselves that they're not sinning against God... But still makes me sad.

  • @passionatepapercraft
    @passionatepapercraft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The german who is commenting on Jewish sexuality and customs give explanations colored through the lens of his religious background and traditions. Jewish women don't shake hands with random men, but it is not because of menstruation but a realistic perspective of how men and women function and how 'grey areas can lead to unacceptable behaviors that run rampant in today's world, often ruining marriages.

    • @maggiefollett636
      @maggiefollett636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So shaking hands in the modern context can lead to impure thoughts? Good gracious, but this is hardly permissive. Can't righteous people keep their pants on? Doesn't this type of religious stricture actually nurture naughty thoughts instead of quelling them? (Also, I know that amongst the Orthodox, a woman's menstrual cycle does make her "unclean" and untouchable, even to her own husband. I still ask, without bias if anyone can explain why these archaic laws still exist in contemporary society.

    • @passionatepapercraft
      @passionatepapercraft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maggiefollett636 The most concise and detailed explaination I have ever found is in a book by Rabbi Manis Friedman called, 'The Joy of Intimacy'. It is an easy and facinating read.

    • @luluah1198
      @luluah1198 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like the same reasons it’s forbidden in Islam . I don’t see why Muslims and Jews should feel ashamed to say so if asked about it. I wouldn’t want to shake a strange man’s hands either . It just feels awkward and why should I make something that feels awkward as normal by repeated practise ? Because society says so? Society tells us to do many things that are
      Immoral also . Do we do all those things ? No because l get to decide how i choose to live . And last time I checked it wasn’t illegal to refuse to shake a man’s hand. In fact not very long ago even in the west women were seen as somewhat loose or immodest if they didn’t wear gloves and shook a man’s hands skin on skin ,’more so if she had “just come out”. Even the queen wore gloves . Perhaps they should ask why she was so apparently backward ?😂

    • @luluah1198
      @luluah1198 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@passionatepapercraft I don’t think she cares those people just like to argue and put their beliefs on a pedestal . Believe in their beliefs otherwise they will never accept you . I say tell them respectfully to take a hike

  • @ChicagosSinfulSwede
    @ChicagosSinfulSwede 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Brilliant documentary! I find other cultures extremely interesting.
    Okay, from baking cakes and cookies to journeys on trains and now all the way i fell into a whole new rabbit hole on TH-cam.
    Pardon me, I'm off to learn everything I possibly can on life as a 'Monk'.

  • @cryptoknowledgeispower
    @cryptoknowledgeispower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s amazing, but this is true of all religions, that the rules can be interpreted and reinterpreted for convenience, so almost any transgression can be justified in some way. And, who are theses women that would even agree to a “temporary marriage” ? I wonder if they are forced into it.

  • @TheSlaveOfAllah1992
    @TheSlaveOfAllah1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It was narrated from al-Rabee’ ibn Sabrah al-Juhani that his father told him that he was with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said, “O people, I used to allow you to engage in mut’ah marriages, but now Allaah has forbidden that until the Day of Resurrection, so whoever has any wives in a mut’ah marriage, he should let her go and do not take anything of the (money) you have given them. Muslim
    Allah has made marriage one of His signs which calls us to think and ponder. He has created love and compassion between the spouses, and has made the wife a source of tranquility for the husband. He encouraged us to have children and decreed that a woman should wait out the ‘iddah period and may inherit. None of that exists in this haraam form of marriage.
    Shiism has nothing to Do with islam!

    • @mutashim123
      @mutashim123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok so this basically used to happen in the time of jahiliya

    • @reezis1619
      @reezis1619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mutashim123 No majority of the people of sahaba used to practice Mut'ah during the prophets lifetime, however it was banned later on. It did not happen in jahilya

  • @investigacaoeleitv
    @investigacaoeleitv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "You can't shake the woman's hands because she may be menstruating..." , when I think I heard all crazy stuff in my life I realize there is much more.WTF, lol

  • @kellytrindles984
    @kellytrindles984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    But what happens to the women when they have these temporary marriages they wouldn’t be able because they won’t be virgins

    • @heidikindon5182
      @heidikindon5182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Exactly. This is not freedom for the women. It is simply religiously permitted prostitution.

    • @juliabenredjem772
      @juliabenredjem772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      In fact it is not religious permitted but the Shia do what they want and believe what they want. It‘s a big issue in the Muslim community.

    • @oscaroursoeakwaytoofastros943
      @oscaroursoeakwaytoofastros943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Temporary marriage in Shia is that if a woman gets pregnant the man has to support his child

    • @swefil6277
      @swefil6277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@juliabenredjem772 It is permitted in the evil cult of islam!

    • @oscaroursoeakwaytoofastros943
      @oscaroursoeakwaytoofastros943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Poor widows might find temporary Marriage a way to be supported by men.if she gets pregnant the father will have to support the child

  • @justintime4028
    @justintime4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Btw people temporary marriage is forbidden in sunni islam. How ever in shii'ite islam is allowed. But the majority of muslim world reject these pre islamic pegan practices how ever these practices have been in persian society way before islam is culture of theres and they havent fully let these pre islamic culture alone .. even tho its forbidden. Yes it is prostitution

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly👍

    • @balance3201
      @balance3201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ever heard of Misyar marriage? Well maybe educate yourself.

    • @justintime4028
      @justintime4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@balance3201 like i said its cultural traditions not religious tradition.. Jewish Christians and islam is same religion of different sects this mutah practices is forbidden in jewish law so it is forbidden in christianity and islam. But cultural traditions is up to them

    • @balance3201
      @balance3201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justintime4028 not same religions at all. All have different texts to abide by.

    • @justintime4028
      @justintime4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@balance3201 sorry to tell u bro christianity and islam is another jewish sect.. if the colonial master wants to say its different now thats up to them... in christianity jesus was jewish so they folllow the way of jesus aka jewish laws from old testament aka the torah... so is christianity another way of saying a jew that belives in jesus.. and islam is the same is jewish ancectors. So shall we call muslims a jew that believes in jesus and muhammed.. they drevive from same ancestors.. adam and abraham etc. So they call it abrahamic religions because is ssme religion but different sect.. just like catholic Christians and hadidic jew. are they are new religion? is it even Christianity its still a branch and others are to a branch including islam no matter if the colonial masters agree of it or not... in african and arabia where these religions started its the same people .. European and persions took it and u seperated us. Like you do with borders and nationality and race.. the devils work... so religion from European ancestry is bull shit.. real history is in ancient hebrew and semetic regions.. European power can change and devide if they want to.. jesus is the truth and we muslims stand with jesus how ever the romans aka europe was always against jesus they tried to kill him god rose him up. These devils are still out there trying to seperare us. The way of jesus is the truth.. unity of the holy spirit.. aka the one body .. believers are part of 1 body.. like muhammed said . Same way of jesus.. part of the same holy spirit...

  • @yunanossenko6047
    @yunanossenko6047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I forget what it's called but basically it is a marriage where the wife lives seperately pays her own way. The husband is not responsible for any of her expenses but they can legally sleep together

  • @esterherschkovich6499
    @esterherschkovich6499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The German guy speaking about Judaism is talking about I.d say the Haraidim(Ultra Othodox)Very strict rules,the live in Israel but like in a ghetto.The young couple I.d class them Modern Orthodox,there's so many different levels of the Jewish faith.Shabbat Shalom💙

    • @desiboy1669
      @desiboy1669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shia are not Muslims..they brand of yahoodi (jews) so they get married temporarily..Sunni Muslims do not get married like that..because Islam does not allow us to get married temporarily

    • @alanle1471
      @alanle1471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@desiboy1669 Sorry mate Shia’s are Muslim.

    • @luluah1198
      @luluah1198 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn’t say they’re Jewish that’s not accurate . They are a sect and not part of Islam true . They have too many beliefs which seem to be steeped in other religions and even pagan practises .

  • @ultimatem3261
    @ultimatem3261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We majority (Sunni) Muslims don’t agree with temporary marriages just for the record. As the woman in the video perfectly described it as “prostitution” and that’s exactly what it is..

  • @JuliaSochnikova
    @JuliaSochnikova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What about if she has a kid from that temporary marriage? Would the "husband" accept the kid and help raise it?

    • @wynsday
      @wynsday 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, from what i’ve read. but some don’t have intercourse in the way that is conducive to procreation if you catch my drift.

  • @syedabdulwahidsohaily493
    @syedabdulwahidsohaily493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It is indeed a Nobel Public Awarenesses Education Services from your part.👍🏻 keep it up Sohail Karachi.

  • @mhogomchungu7168
    @mhogomchungu7168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Even though I am Sunni and I don't believe in these marriages. I think Christians should be the last people to call out others on adultery and prostitution . How would you say and classify the couples who live together without marriage ? Majority of Christian couples living together before marriage and will get married only after they get pregnant or after having children

    • @sweetman5249
      @sweetman5249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is way better than temporary marriage ( prostitution in the name of marriage 😝) . Don’t defend the indefensible…..

    • @reezis1619
      @reezis1619 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sweetman5249 Temporary marriage can't be prostitution since the woman has a waiting period of 3 months after leaving such contract. It is called Idda' period in Islam. It is more like a boyfriend/girlfriend contract. You can't make money jumping from one man to one man with 3 months waiting period.

    • @sweetman5249
      @sweetman5249 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reezis1619 Don’t defend Islam. It has so many ugly things as any other religion. Islam is worse than others . Don’t appreciate islam . The whole world knows it .

  • @giuliaromani6178
    @giuliaromani6178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Marriage may last 3 hours or even less, and the man must pay for that time married with a woman? Do they have a marriage party as well and invite all their relatives and friends to know that they are going to marry for 3 hours? Just wondering... In the respect of the religion, of course.

    • @saforen6618
      @saforen6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN

  • @Imadma67
    @Imadma67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just want to clear that it’s not Islam that condones/permits temporary marriages for men’s sexual pleasure. The Shia is not a Islamic sect. Temporary marriages is a form of prostitution this is FORBIDDEN in Islam - it’s a sin. Shame on you who condones it. may Allah direct you in the straight path.

  • @mma-gb3si
    @mma-gb3si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    @4:01
    The Jewish brother is talking about Jewish men can only “shake hand with mother, wife, and daughters. “beyond that it’s strictly”. So it’s ok if they do it, but if Muslims practice the same law we are picked on. Do you ladies and gentlemen see the double standards???

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see it!

    • @mma-gb3si
      @mma-gb3si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-kc6so2nu3m
      Thank you

    • @Mikrokozma33
      @Mikrokozma33 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But in real life every Jew ever greeted me with hand shake, so... Do reality check, please.

    • @mma-gb3si
      @mma-gb3si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Mikrokozma33 I don’t mean to show any disrespect towards your faith. I am just say that Islam is not the only religion that suggest that men and women should not shake hands.
      Weather you do it or not it’s for bidden in your religion. And you heard the gentleman himself saying it.

    • @mma-gb3si
      @mma-gb3si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Zs
      What the hell is that???

  • @DA-gb8vk
    @DA-gb8vk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This use of mutaa marriage is taboo and unacceptable, I'm shiaa and its taboo in my community because of this wrong use of the marriage!!

  • @MuhammadIsmail-ii6yc
    @MuhammadIsmail-ii6yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A nikah mut'ah contract invariably involves the woman being financially compensated for agreeing to the short term "marriage". In which case it is merely prostitution approved by Allah. But when Islam's founder was a man who himself used Allah to justify sex with a nine year old child, his own daughter-in-law and the surviving womenfolk of his defeated adverseries, then it is no wonder that Muslims have such a warped sense of morality.
    I just "thank God" I found the strength to discard this evil and immoral ideology.

  • @iam_muslim8054
    @iam_muslim8054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry...temporal marriage is haram / forbidden in Islam but Shia teaching allowing it.

  • @jandeboer5611
    @jandeboer5611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Normal nikah is a contract between a man and a woman and the woman gets money from the man and they marry indefinitely. The man can divorce the woman whenever he feels like and can have sex slaves and 3 more wives ALL without the woman's permission. Sunni hadith confirm that the people at the time of prophet did nikah mut'ah, but was only banned in the time of Umar.
    Are sunnis calling something the prophet allowed, prostitution? Do you follow umar or the prophet (pbuh)?

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      يَخْرُجُ مِن بَيْنِ الصُّلْبِ وَالتَّرَآئِبِ(Proceeding from between the backbone and the ribs.) meaning, the backbone (or loins) of the man and the ribs of the woman, which is referring to her chest. Shabib bin Bishr reported from `Ikrimah who narrated from Ibn `Abbas that he said,يَخْرُجُ مِن بَيْنِ الصُّلْبِ وَالتَّرَآئِبِ(Proceeding from between the backbone and the ribs.) "The backbone of the man and the ribs of the woman. It (the fluid) is yellow and fine in texture. The child will not be born except from both of them (i.e., their sexual fluids).'' Concerning Allah's statement,
      Better to be safe and follow the ummrah for backbones and ribs protection.

  • @SuperBeetox
    @SuperBeetox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You can tell from this video how life become so pretensious or even hard to get by when it's not supposed to be. Just because of these cultures, beliefs, costumes, traditions and etc. Time and life is wasted..

  • @Yelta
    @Yelta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Great documentary about the different beliefs and perceptions of the relationships between a man and a woman.

  • @MJAZ-kd1yx
    @MJAZ-kd1yx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    And in the books of the Sunnis, some of the companions of the Prophet who were born with the temporary marriage
    I want to add mental proof
    The legality of temporary marriage is a marriage so that a Muslim person does not adultery

    • @sfamzs7554
      @sfamzs7554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is not true my friend. Nowhere in Sunni books, you will find such a thing. It is a cheap try by the Shia to make it legitimate.

  • @princdubai
    @princdubai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is zinna , and its stongly condemned and rejected in the Kor'an.
    This has nothing to do with Islam.
    Maybe you can fool the law and society,
    But you cant fool Allah .
    He's allknowing and he knows whats in our hearts.
    And to any reasonable human beeing this practice accurs wrong.
    My heart tells me its wrong.

    • @AquaGirlOo
      @AquaGirlOo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is Islam itself 😂

  • @LadooCrew
    @LadooCrew ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shia men who enjoy this practice ironically don't allow the women of there own house to do it 😅, it is nothing to do with Islam it's just shiaism.

  • @aaishazahrakarima6792
    @aaishazahrakarima6792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wonder why the content doesn't match the title. INteresting neverthless

  • @wonderfulworld5240
    @wonderfulworld5240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    In Islam their is no such thing as temporary marriage

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's called mutah which sounds much like nuftah! Look it up, it's SAHIH.

    • @user-kc6so2nu3m
      @user-kc6so2nu3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@skellingtonmeteoryballoon ignorance

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muhamed saw practiced it and his biography Is available in qurans and hadiths sahih and da'if.
      It's easy to read them all and not be brainwashed by imams or fake "scholars". 🌛🍌🧞🧞

  • @rolandrayn4869
    @rolandrayn4869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    @34:10, on marriage definition and matters of the hearts, the Lady says it very clearly and correctly.

  • @ehsanhaseeb
    @ehsanhaseeb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What’s the difference between temporary marriage and prostitution???
    She is saying I marry you for one ☝️ hour for 30 dollars 💵.
    ???
    Is there any other religion on earth which has such traditions

    • @sharonhewitt1382
      @sharonhewitt1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no difference between temporary marriage and prostitution. Prostitution by any other name is still prostitution. The contract is still the same, money for sex. The marriage part is to legitimise the contract under the guise of religion, but prostitution by any other name is still prostitution. No other religion sanctions prostitution except Islam and ancient idol woshipping cults.

  • @imalwaysright1408
    @imalwaysright1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    There’s an important Hadith that deals with this situation as well as every situation possible.
    “Every action, depends on the intention”
    Even if no person is watching them or asking about their intention. Allah (God) knows what they hide and what’s in their hearts.
    Edit: to add to the lady talking at 34:00. The prophet (pbuh) clearly said in numerous Hadith. If a marriage is kept a secret and not announced to the public then it’s not halal (paraphrasing).

    • @xrayz1094
      @xrayz1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s deep what you said because I’m sure there is a Hadith or saying that when you get married make sure the drums bang loud or something like that

    • @noobie7719
      @noobie7719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not Muslim...but I couldn’t agree more! 👍

    • @imalwaysright1408
      @imalwaysright1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@xrayz1094 Yup! The two times when drums were heard (usually) was either for a wedding celebration or for an incoming battle (war).

  • @Streetplaces
    @Streetplaces 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Man and woman shall become one body but anything than this is SIN....Our Lord JESUS CHRIST

    • @ggdiaz8007
      @ggdiaz8007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why don't you focus on acceptance, tolerance and love instead of spewing your intolerance and hate.

  • @tinaroney9383
    @tinaroney9383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “And they will cause themselves to believe a lie and be dammed.”
    Shame be upon you and all men who would defile the mariage będ which Is sacred!
    And two shall become ONE...you’re explaining will fall upon deaf ears one day. So play on but you will pay.

    • @juliebella1221
      @juliebella1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And if they never have to pay because men created Earth TO be disgusting? How do you know you're not just in a West World and you're memory will just be wiped upon death and you won't just be used again and again and again by these sick men. Cherry 2000, Stepford Wives - if they feared hell or punishment at all this whole realm wouldn't exist. To ape means to copy or to clone add and r to the front of that word and that's how men keep aping themselves to assault their own children and relatives generationally. You're telling me when they were doing this 100 years ago, God or whatevs couldn't stop it then? Why does it keep being allowed if there is punishment? Evil knows far more than us and only says to us fear hell to not retaliate, but if there was punishment they would fear it too and they don't. You soothe yourself with "one day they'll get theirs" and I'm curious, what if they don't and what if you truly realized they don't get theirs. How does that make you feel? It's why they laugh so - they KNOW there are NO consequences as that is what this place was made for and they laugh at our cries knowing we are just disposable Wii Characters. Do you care what happens to your Wii characters?

  • @-faalinkyt5785
    @-faalinkyt5785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Narrated ‘Ali: I said to Ibn ‘Abbas, “During the battle of Khaibar Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho
    Alaihi Wasallam) forbade (Nikah) Al-mut’a and the eating of donkey’s meat.”
    Sahi Bukhari (Book #62, Hadith #50)

  • @arrriadna
    @arrriadna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    A perfectly made documentary, congrats!

  • @bebeveritas7306
    @bebeveritas7306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Too much music filler. Otherwise good, interesting video.

    • @saforen6618
      @saforen6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN

  • @johnchristie7013
    @johnchristie7013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Shame that the cleric is encouraging sin and suffering

  • @wandascott2090
    @wandascott2090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm glad to have seen this and had so many commentators place their knowledge, thoughts and concerns. I was looking to convert to Islam from Christianity and I have to research everything on my own. So the chances of coming across something heinous and sinful is quite high. These deviations can cause someone to be taken advantage of if they are not equipped with the correct knowledge. Thank you to everyone that posted their opposition.

    • @Nancy-hi3er
      @Nancy-hi3er 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Two groups of islam- sunni and Shia. Sunni is about 90% Muslim. This video was talking about Shia practice. Sunni Muslims do not practice or believe in that practice.

    • @da5214
      @da5214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Do a lot more research if you want to convert. Watch apostate prophet he does a good job criticizing. I promise you the more research you’ll do the more you’ll want to distance yourself from Islam

    • @hawax5828
      @hawax5828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      if you convert know that this isn't islam. Islam is with the sunni's. Shia's are doing things that are not ok in Islam ahstagfoerAllah

    • @mogamatwilliams7907
      @mogamatwilliams7907 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Islam is perfect, Muslims is not. We living in very difficult, hypersexual time. We must also understand that people like to change things. And this temporary marriage is not allowed in islam. This is innovation and every innovation leads to misguidance and misguidance leads to hell. In islam there is only a muslim and follow the Quran and the sunnah hadith of prophert Mohammed peace be upon him but check the authenticity of the hadith and the chain of narration. Bcz people make up and have their own beliefs.

    • @saadel348
      @saadel348 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@da5214apostate prophet has vdieo of 4 hours of his 107 lies exposed

  • @paulatristan8189
    @paulatristan8189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    What a great video😃👍🏼🎉 please make more video's like this one. From all over the world regarding marriages, cheating the consequences etc..
    Thank you for showing your video ☺️👍🏼💞

    • @saforen6618
      @saforen6618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN

  • @faiza.2427
    @faiza.2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    With all the people calling it prostitution because of a payment / mahr/ dowery, yall forget that in a permanent Islamic marriage there is also a dowery or mahr, and the dowery system exists all over the world, doesn’t matter if it’s permanent or temporary marriage. So if muta is prostitution, then permanent marriage also prostitution plus slavery.

    • @AbzerKelminalPM
      @AbzerKelminalPM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is indeed prostitution.. I think the meaning of mahr in old times was different than this.. I don't know so much so I am not commenting on that.. But even if you take the dowry out of this setup, it still counts as prostitution.. Because your only expectation out of that 'temporary marriage' is sex and sometimes more vulgar sex.. Because these men have fantasy that they cannot ask their wives or they disagreed.. So they are asking these temporary wives.. This whole idea sounds bullshit and destroys the purpose of marriage

    • @faiza.2427
      @faiza.2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AbzerKelminalPM there are so many people who do it to get to know another person, and they decide not have sex. Think of it like dating. Long term this does away with so many issues such as finding the right fit before locking it down permanently.
      Second point: Abraham was married to Sarah, but had his first child through Hagar from where Ismael and his descendant, Prophet Muhammad pbuh came from. Abraham and Hagar did not have ever a permanent marriage. Pray tell, how did Abraham legitimately have son from Hagar? Those who want to use muta for sex and pleasure will use it the same way some can use a car to run over people. The problem here is ignorance. Research it deeper.
      I really don’t know how you are talking about vulgar sex and seems your biases and ignorance is showing. Please check your sources and common sense, you can have vulgar sex with your permanent wife as well. Depends if you are a pervert or not.
      I have never heard of temporary marriage as a pleasure marriage, maybe it is being nicknamed as a pleasure marriage by people who only use it for sex. There are strict rules to muta, such as that after the contract ends the couple cannot get married to anyone else for 2 menstruation cycles after, same a permanent marriage. Yes some may misuse muta the same way polygamy is misused.
      Finally, this was allowed by the Prophet and since the Prophet Muhammad pbuh was under direct orders from God, not one has the right to make halal into haram. Please use some common sense and look into it.
      Islam is such a modern religion, shame that most of the “Muslims” here commenting are backwards af.

    • @luluah1198
      @luluah1198 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@faiza.2427 mutha has been abrogated. What do you mean Islam
      Is a modern religion ? If you mean it’s applicable to modern times and all times I agree . But Islam isn’t a modern religion as such.
      If you are Shia obviously you will see Mutha as a legitimate practise .

  • @heatherzloty7143
    @heatherzloty7143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So according to Orthodox Judaism there is no sex for a married couple with the woman who has had menopause around 45??? If the only reason to have intercourse is procreation then that would be the rule!!! I’m glad I’m not Jewish but believe in Jesus and that all that is done in the marriage bed is holy and allowed and smiled on by God!

    • @LiaHartman
      @LiaHartman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is sex between husband and wife beyond menopause in Judaism.

  • @darkthought784
    @darkthought784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Islam differentiates between sexual relations and marriage (He is not recognized unless there is a childbearing, and marriage is not a condition that it be permanent)

  • @khadijahh3095
    @khadijahh3095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They do the same in Saudi.. the shiek just renamed it Miser marriage .. it's still mutah and Allah forbid temporary marriage

    • @skellingtonmeteoryballoon
      @skellingtonmeteoryballoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      يَخْرُجُ مِن بَيْنِ الصُّلْبِ وَالتَّرَآئِبِ(Proceeding from between the backbone and the ribs.) meaning, the backbone (or loins) of the man and the ribs of the woman, which is referring to her chest. Shabib bin Bishr reported from `Ikrimah who narrated from Ibn `Abbas that he said,يَخْرُجُ مِن بَيْنِ الصُّلْبِ وَالتَّرَآئِبِ(Proceeding from between the backbone and the ribs.) "The backbone of the man and the ribs of the woman. It (the fluid) is yellow and fine in texture. The child will not be born except from both of them (i.e., their sexual fluids).'' Concerning Allah's statement,
      Temporary hugs is okay 🫂🫂💧💦☔🌙🍌🥷🏼🕋🥷🏼🖋️🦵👈take beer 🍻

    • @Hezbollah313
      @Hezbollah313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allah did not forbade it Umar did. It was practiced in the time of the prophet s.a.w. And the dunno first caliph. Research before you speak

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      but it is in the Quran so how is it forbidden?

    • @Hezbollah313
      @Hezbollah313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No he didn't Omar forbade mutah

    • @sobhi1423
      @sobhi1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it isn't ...nistar isn't temporary Marriage

  • @StepHanie-fb9nn
    @StepHanie-fb9nn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The part, „where you do things to or with another woman but not your wife...“
    Are we talking „not being able to control urges“ which on every spiritual level within any religion is the ultimate goal in order to not fall apart/astray? Who initiated prostitution and still „declares it a service“…and makes sure it‘ll always be available...under whatever name or condition? The common men.
    Having worked on two occasions with monks in Asia, I can attest everything that was said. Nevertheless, some of them were very funny and some of them left the monastery to live regular lives.
    Schöne Doku und ich danke für die verschiedenen Ansichten ☺️👍🏻

  • @m.g.5440
    @m.g.5440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well, this series did a good job affirming the basic evil of organized religion for me.

    • @travelsphereuk-7090
      @travelsphereuk-7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shia only make up 15% of the muslim world population. They are not classified as real muslim by the real sunni Muslims who make up the other 85% of Muslims around the world. This type of sexual marriage is totally forbidden in Islam and there will be a grave eternal punishment in the hereafter according to the 85% sunni muslim who follow the Quran and Sunnah of the final Messenger Prophet Muhammed (pbuh).

  • @hijabizrock7949
    @hijabizrock7949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Temporary marriage is not halal. It is 1000% haram. It is forbidden for a man to or a woman to put a time frame on how long they will be married let alone a price. Also you can not marry without witnesses. This is an act of shame on both parts.

    • @danielyonas9928
      @danielyonas9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is Mut’ah Abrogated & Who Abrogated it?

  • @ummzakariyyaa
    @ummzakariyyaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wonder why Shia Muslims are being interviewed while the majority of Muslims are Sunni and this is not allowed in our religion. Mu'tah marriage is abrogated and illegal in Shari'ah