I once had a Muslim man tell me that because he was a good man and provided for his family that gods reward to him was to have a good time with me. I’m Aussie. I said FO mate.
This applies to men too. When I married at 25 I was a virgin man - by choice. My parents taught me that I had to be chaste before GOD. And I made sure I found a woman who was chaste as well. The first time we had to consummate our marriage I have to admit I felt nervous and uneasy. It's normal. But that initial embarrassment went out the window after 10-20 minutes as we both realized that it was o.k. How happy we were that we made this conscious choice to be clean before GOD. We have lived a very fulfilling life and now we are grandparents. We have instilled these ideas in our children and grandchildren. It has worked for us. My wife and I worked very hard to give our children a wonderful home-schooled education. They have missed out on nothing.
I am so proud of you. It is so beautiful to share your body and thoughts with someone they really belong to. Sadly, that culture is vanishing away. I hope I will promote that too
The whole purpose of a marriage is to acknowledge a union and a long term commitment. How does a temporary marriage honor this principle. ? It offers no moral or ethical benefit to either partner.
@Justinthe Comments I wouldn't call that a marriage in the first place, it's just a sick and twisted loophole for the religious people to justify fornication or adultery.
The real meaning of " Nikah word" is sex. So in Islam these marriages are not legal but in war captured women whose husbands are still alive and can be use for sex is legal😄
@@Hazara26 This is not correct. The word Nikah can have multiple meanings like many other words in the Qur‘an. That‘s why it is important always to use the Tafsir beside reading the Qur‘an to really understand the meanings of the verses and the message behind.
A Shia guy told me, the woman agreed to marry her temporarily to help her with her finances. The woman was broke. She's a widow. Her kids are hungry. And I replied, why don't you just donate her some foods or money instead of marrying her for a few hours or days? And don't take advantage of her. The jackass smiled & tongue tied.
Amen! Amen! No need to marry a widow or single mother with children just provide food and the necessities of life. But in Islam, Muhammed married widows not to help them but to satisfy is own sexual desires. That was his motivation in the first place. So when Muslims make the excuse that the reason why Muhammed had more than the four wives( most regular Muslims are allowed to have ) is because he married widows it is infered that they needed fianacial help & a protector that's why he married them. Was Muhammed being altruistic ? Of course not. With all the caravan thieving he did, the getting of one-fifth of all the bouty collected from all the conquered lands and the selling of thousands of slaves his right hand possess, he sure had enough money to help these poor widows, he did'nt have to marry them to take care of them. Muhammed looked after number one as always and as per blaspher says it was god that told him too do it or say it. And of course he is the best of human kind according to Muslims. So if he is the best of human kind what is the worst?
@@sharonhewitt1382 obviously someone who hasn't read the Qur'an and islamic history properly ,the islamic prophet married poor widows, as well as his best friends daughter ,as prophets were allowed to take extras wives as a divine allowed injunction...the widow's wanted to marry the prophet becos of his piety and knowing they'd be cared for ,and not abused .. ,he cared for them generously although he was poor , as he shunned riches and gave away his wealth generously to the poor n needy just like the other prophets did ...prophet Solomon had over a hundred slaves/wives ... This islamic prophet did not go instigating wars ,these were wars of self defense or his followers would have been obliterated..the war booty was fairly , generously given out to all the fighters as was the custom in many lands ,this was around 600AD, and customs were not like the 20 century ,so we see what happened in 600 as barbaric ,(you could say people nowadays are worse!) Growing up in Makkah , before prophethood ,he was known by the nickname 'the trustworthy one ' , when propherhood was bestowed on him at the age of 40 , people already knew how he was like.. history has writing about him ,how he chose a life of extreme austerity and gave away his wealth .DO you think he would have chosen to live a poor life (giving away all his excess wealth )if he was not a true prophet ??
@@rosebibis631 I stand by my first statement. Muhammed should show his benevelance by fiancially secureing their welfare he need'nt have married them. The responsibiltity of marriage is having conjugal rights and that is what Muhammed was fullfilling - his sexual desires because he seems unable to control himself. Your Hadith actually says if his eye's falls on a woman who is married her husband must divorce her so that he can have her. ( go find it in your Koran or Hadith ) Of course he is the best of human kind and that includes what his right hand possesse.
@@rosebibis631 I actually have a Koran and i have read it for your information, but know it is not the word of God in fact it does'nt even make sense and it plagerizes the Bible and other holy scriptures. The stories, names of people, prophets are not even consistant with the Bible. Some stories are made up and some just good old fabrication. So yes, i've read the Koran and it is most definately is not the word of God. It could be the the words of one or more of the many gods that pagan Arabs worshiped in the Kabaa. Sorry one of the 365 gods in the Kabaa, including the 3 goddesses Muhammed bowed down too. But definately not God the creater of heaven & earth. I urge you to check the Bible to see if there are any prophets who bowed themselves in an act of worship to a god or godesses.
I agree. But to be fair if it was Created by women it would probably end up just as corrupt. Look at any position of power and when you replace men by women we somehow end up with the same thing. Queens of the past, Korean president etc..corrupt women.
@Truth Seeker Funny how every religious person always thinks their way is the one right "true" way. ONe wonders what you would think if you had been, let's say, adopted by parents of a different faith or born in a different place. Probably you would think that would be the "truth."
You said it….all of it is designed to serve men! And to keep women as their property….women are waking up finally….god love us all! Equally….mens perversions run the rules….give me a break!…
temporary marriage is going around the bush but they know exactly what they're doing. They don't want to call it its right name "prostitution" and resorts to excuses. It's like a politician saying he's not corrupting funds. He's only relocating funds for personal matters. It's the same thing.
@@aromaseawater1492 It doesn't matter. I'm a Sunni and I will criticize the Mutah marriage ( btw it's not very common in Iran atleast, it's taboo there, although it does happen but it's very taboo and very less) but when the white man starts to criticise us as he's some God who thinks we're uncivilized People, that just seems absurd. They cheat our their partners all the times and want to criticize Muslims when they do something similar to that
@@maxpayne3628 Temporary marriage is basically prostitution which the evil cult of islam propagates aside from child marriage (pedophilia), sex slavery, polygamy (max 4 for muslims but as many as the false prophet mo-Ham-Mad wants - 13 wives +1000's sex slaves), necrophilia, zoophilia (yes, approved by the teachings of islam), etc.
To call that arrangement a “temporary marriage” makes no sense at all. They need to call it something else because marriage is meant to be permanent, for life, till death.
@Truth Seeker Why are you copy pasting that everywhere? Perhaps you'd like to answer twice then: Every religion claims to be ''truth'', and they all claim that their deity, out of thousands of deities, is the real deity. What evidence do you have that your religion in particular is the truth, Truth Seeker? Explain to me why money is being exchanged during mutah. Let me guess, out of the goodness of the man's heart. Priceless! Windowed, haha! ''By your logic marriages are just like live together and doing adultery'' How so? What of my words indicates this? How are you committing adultery if you are having sexual intercourse with your spouse? Well yes, marriage is a legal concept. What difference does it make if a lifelong couple devoted to each other are married or unmarried? ''bible says Abraham married his own sister sarah. Judaism christianity are production of siblings marriage.'' Did someone ask? Why are you bringing this up? What relevance does it hold concerning Islam and blatant prostitution? It's also very intriguing that you would claim a prophet in Islam, Ibrahim, committed incest. In some countries you would get the death penalty for such blasphemy. Don't forget that Islam is the newest of the three main Abrahamic Religions. Good luck.
@@incumbentvinyl9291 it’s actually an abolished practise . It was only permitted in times of war and those texts were abrogated when more were revealed thereafter . Wars which went on for a long time . Wars where people were without spouse or widowed. There is no relationship permitted or friendship without marriage, it’s not considered halal. So this one’s a means of offering protection to these women. The world was not as we know it in the west . It was a place where women had very few rights afforded to them. Shia have taken abrogated texts and taken them of of context . There is nothing in Quran and sunnah that supports Mutha today. But then nothing supports self flagellation in Quran or Sunnah either and most of them practises .
Allah has ordered for a man and a woman to be married permanently. In sunni Islam there is no such thing as a temporary marriage. If your marriage is irrevocably broken and you cannot fix it you may divorce and re marry someone else permanently. No games here. Do not try to change the rules of the almighty to suit your needs and desires because Allah (god) knows best
If divorce is permissable, and there are no constraints on the reasons for divorcing (for a man, strict constraints for a woman), and you can be married to four people at the same time (men only, not women), and divorce them at will and remarry at any point, that doesnt strike me as being permanent commitment to another person. Christianity varies in that you can divorce, but any remarriage whilst the original spouse still lives is not recognised by the church, but men and women have equal rights for the grounds for divorce, which are limited. In some circumstances the Catholic church will permit an annulment provided there are grounds within narrow canonical law e.g. you find you are related. Orthodox Judaism gives divorce rights to men and women, but only men can initiate divorce proceedings, except in very rare circumstances, and men can remarry (although its frowned upon if he has not issued a get) but women are not if they do not obtain a Gett, which essentially states 'You are now permitted to all men'. If she does remarry it is not recognised and is considered adultery, and if she has children, the children are considered illegitimate, although if a man remarried and has children, his subsequent children are not considered illegitimate and he is not regarded as having committed adultery. So, it seems that there are quite a lot of issues in many different ways in all the religious ideas when it comes to marriage, divorce and remarriage rights.
You already know. Its sinful how they treat women and they claim it is written and they go top mosque and pray. Its no wonder the world is so messed up.
@@asanabright538 we treat women really nicely, you don't know anything about our religion and yet you judge, How about you worry about your religion and problems in your country.
@@hollysmith1347 where do you get your facts from? from your bs media that makes the whole world look bad? look at your own society, you have kids that don't know who their mom or dad is. At least we believe in Gods words. Everything's seems wrong to you guys if its different from your society. I'm glad i don't live in your society. Stop having this view towards other peoples religion, culture and traditions.
@@kjnazari4734 first I am half middle eastern (Egyptian/Cypriot), so I know what it can happen in remote areas. Second would she be allowed to cheat?, would he just allow it like she has to? I am not stating all men from middle east or Muslims mistreat women, but you know in the some remote areas they still do such punishments.
No if you are a Muslim..and you are unaware then, pl gather some knowledge. I'm a non muslim and I know this a widely practiced, form of halala, practiced, by one of your Nabi. I have just seen this y'day only. Nikah e mutah..that's what it is called.
@@madhukohli4472 Amen! Nika mean" Fuck" and Mutah means pleasure temporary marriage. Prostitution by any other name is still prostitution and that is exactly what Mutah is dressed up as marriage. Making a mockery of the institution of marriage and proving in the process that Islam cannot be from God. God wouldn't destroy something he instituted like marriage. The Quran is partly authored by Muhammed himself and by other plagerized religions. So it is that the Quran is false as is their so called prophet who never prophesied anything that came true or made sense.
halala is not permissible at all,nowadays it is being carried out soo much but ,a man can only marry his divorced wife again if she marries another man and decides to spend her life forever with him in true meanings with this intention but fails again then the first man can remarry her again.halala was put forward because some men were abusing women by divorcing them whenever they want and bringing them back whenever they want ,so that's why this condition came to stop them .Halala is being misused nowadays
@@alwayshopeful7587 It is silly for a woman not to be able to return to a former husband if that is what they both want without the woman marrying another man to get access to her first husband. It is prostituting the woman out, being used by another sexually for what purpose. Islam treats woman as baby making machines after which she has no further use or served any purpose. In fact doesn't your prophet say that wo me en ate mentally deficient and two men equals one woman's testimony or evidence or witness in court. Islam has no respect for women
I'm a Muslim and I've never heard of this temporary marriage thing, wow... just for sometime with multiple men and getting paid, I think we all know what that is and please don't say Islam allow this bcuz it doesn't and that imam need to go back and study the Quran and Sunna again, just saying.
@@africanqueen1595 Ibn Juraih reported: Ata’ reported that Jabir Ibn Abdullah came to perform Umra, and we came to his abode, and the people asked him about different things, and then they made a mention of temporary marriage, whereupon he said: Yes, we had been benefiting ourselves by this temporary marriage during the life time of the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) and during the time of Abu Bakr, and Umar. استمتعنا على عهد رسول الله و أبي بكر و عمر al-Raghib al-Isbahani reported: Ibn Zubair denounced Ibn Abbas for his opinion on Mut’a. Thus Ibn Abbas told him: "Go and ask your mother what she did with your father.”When Ibn Zubair asked her, she said: "By God, I did not conceive you except through Mut’a." Sunni reference: al-Muhadhiraat, by al-Raghib al-Isbahani, v2, p96 "So for those of whom you have pleasure with them (by the contract), you are required to give (them) their wages. And there is no sin for you in what you both agree after the requirement...”(Qur’an 4:24) "And among His great Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves so that you get tranquillity by them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.”(Qur’an 30:21) "Successful indeed are the believers... those who abstain from sex, except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or with the slave girls whom they rightfully possess for (in their case) they are free from blame. But those who go beyond that are transgressors.”(Qur’an 23:1-7) "And those who guard their private parts, except with their wives or the slave girls who rightfully possess for (in their case) they are free from blame. But those who go beyond that are transgressors.”(Qur’an 70:29-31) It's hard to imagine that the entire Quran and sunna were translated wrong . Otherwise, al-nikah mutah dahman dahman wouldn't exist.
@@skellingtonmeteoryballoon please don't quote any random hadit out of context. our ( pbuh ) had never advocated this practice in his life time. world over except for shias no other muslim sect follows this practice.
“I’ll marry you for one hour for $30” is solicitation and prostitution not temporary marriage. Marriage is more than sex, there’s so many layers to it that to reduce it to “halal” is a different kind of hell reserved for people who engage in this practice (on both sides).
@@danielyonas9928 The Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him abrogated Mut'ah and consumption of the meat of the donkey in the same hadith. But then again the Shi'ah dispute the validity of the hadith as being questionable at best. Thus why, the Shi'ah still practice Mut'ah.
@@danielyonas9928 Let me start with a more fundamental question: what proof do you consider to be acceptable? I can post what I believe to be very convincing and acceptable evidence per Islamic jurisprudence, however if you don't believe that the sources I cite are credible, then it doesn't really matter what proof I provide.
Sunnis have come up with their own version, is called Mesyar and obviously is not from Islam but sadly endorsed by corrupt scholars and embraced by ignorant men and women. These false marriages are meant to destroy families and to normalize promiscuity.
@@ghafranhaque7161 Misyar is not a temporary marriage, get it right. It simply means marriage but you don't have to fully belong to the man. He will be your husband but you can choose not to live with him. Normal nikah still has to be done and if they decide to divorce proper talaq still needs to be done. It is ideal for people who are in situations where they aren't ready to be a full time wife i.e long distance relationship, they want to marry so that they can be intimate without it being haram but this way she can take her time before moving in with him or the classic one if they are both students and want to marry - again so that they can be intimate - but if the girl doesn't want to leave her family yet or feels not ready to move in with him or if the boy isn't financially ready to provide for her then misyar is so that they can be protected with marriage but they give up some of the rights (her moving out, him providing for her). Temporary marriage is strictly time-based, no different to prostitution. Misyar is not time-based.
@@omanicc9854 u just twisted and turned words. Essentially it means u can hve sex with a woman whom you don't want to marry, or bcos u r already married and you r sexually deprived...which can be done in a temporary arrangements . Tell me after all this shit, what is happening to that girl . In this time and era, this is called prostitution. Your religion is trying to give prostitution a higher standard just bcos men just want to have sex and they find some woman to serve them.. isn't this a shame in your society ? If it's not, I don't know what kind of society u live in.
@Ali al-Dulaimi علي الدليمي Correct; however, some Sunni clergies in Saudi Arabia also authorizes such an un-Islamic marriage under the name of Misyaar, which is also wrong!
Not just Shia Muslims do this. I've come across alot of Sunni men trying to do this with women as means to "date in a halal (permissable) way" "free from sin" supposedly, but that puts the woman at a huge disadvantage when it comes to getting out of such an arrangement. Men want the sex without the full commitment and responsibility whilst at the same time stripping a woman of her rights. They typically prey on women who don't know any better.
That is just a pure lie, it is not allowed in Sunni Islam to have a temporary marriage. Yes, you may find some so-called "Muslim" pays for sex, but he is considered a sinner because it is NOT allowed in Sunni Islam.
Shia only make up 15% of the muslim world population. They are not classified as real muslim by the real sunni Muslims who make up the other 85% of Muslims around the world. This type of sexual marriage is totally forbidden in Islam and there will be a grave eternal punishment in the hereafter according to the 85% sunni muslim who follow the Quran and Sunnah of the final Messenger Prophet Muhammed (pbuh).
@@khashayar8989shia religion is Not ISLAM , Mutah(Temporary Marriage) is allowed in shia religion and shia religion is Not ISLAM so research before you write comment
@zahirkhan-yq3gr Sunni : marrying 4 wives if not more no difference Slavery : allowed in Islam allowed on conditions Mohammad himself having slaves even worse Taking ones wife as war slave allowed again in Islam the ultimate Even allowed a child Sunni and shia major difference: Caliphate they believe in Read and study : Ali Hussain hassan Then Usman. Yazid .Moaviyeh and rest of ummayds whom lived in palaces .Gold .Money. luxury Which Islam isn't about At least shias emams lived poor and lived Islam as should While you sunni Caliphate lived in palaces and had luxury lives
@zahirkhan-yq3gr Sunnis today 90 % : Palestine issue ? You all Quiet Do nothing Saudi all Gulf Arabs / US and Israel Allies and slaves Who is standing against occupation? Shias are Lead by Iran I say you sunnis are a Disgrace I know Islam and its evil history back to front I think you have no clue what crimes your religion did Read its history Research it Biggest Slavery in man's history is through Islam All legal allowed by Islam It's centre was Mecca Till 1962 Gulf was the very last place on earth for stopping Slavery Which not stopped totally Still exist Travel to Dubai. Saudi.kuwait You see it I am a X Muslim Last thing you want to teach me be Islam
May god guide them the right path. This is prostitution and not allowed in Islam. A marriage needs to be official with 2 witnesses and there walis (fathers) about this new bound.
@Prophet Xi jinping Yes for three nights and not just for hours and against money as handled in prostitution. As well the marriage needs to be official, with drums and witnesses for this new bound. This is just adultery and needs normally to get punished through death. Astaghfirullah. Just disgusting
@Prophet Xi jinping Look, you are comparing here apples with melons. Sex with slaves is permitted through god and even mentioned in the Qur‘an. But today there are no slaves existing anymore and this has absolutley nothing to do with this temporary marriages thing or do you want now to equalize the slaves from ancient days with women from today? Do me a favor and stay within the topic or gain your knowledge before raising your voice as it is a big sin in Islam to talk without and spreading the untruth. May god bless and love you and guide you to the straight path.
@@juliabenredjem772 so God say you can have sex with slave no problem because slaves aren't human being right. Quran say earth is flat and so many things which are proved wrong now. I am sure you have never studies Islamic history and don't know nothing about your religion.
@@juliabenredjem772 there are slaves available now in today's time. Go and visit the Kings and Shieks palaces in Arab Gulfs countries and you will know. Arabs Gulf rich used to buy young Pakistani children for camel racing and lot of them used to die by falling. What you are talking. Muslims say Islamic teaching are forever and you are saying since no slaves now the teachings don't apply. Go learn first.
Fools! Allah approved it in the Quran, but Mohammed (SAW) abolished it in thé Hadith. I say that Muslims worship Mohammed and Allah otherwise, how do you make it haram on the basis of the prophets word whiles Allah approved of it. The Shia are right to be following this Sunna.
2 days ago an İraqi shia man talked to me in istanbul about this fake marriage called pleasure marriage who has no foundation in islam. I listened to him than asked him do you accept this to your daughter and his face turned blue .A prostitution mere and simple since money is involved and a time limited marriage is completely opposite of what Islam requires As a person who comes from Tunisia which is completely Sunni Islam such concepts are funny for me
I'm a Sunni Muslim. I was shocked when a Shiite offered me a "mutta marriage"...I told him, " no thanks, I value myself too much to let a man use me that way and just by his request, he is not worthy"...I was REALLY insulted. This is NOT Islam!
@@arashamiri9622 EXCUSE ME!...do you know me?. I'm very proud of being the Muslimah that I am and I will wait until someone can make a real commitment to me!!!.. maybe others find it acceptable, I don't!!!
@@zahrajames5941 sister respect your self they are doing prostitution, Islam alcohol was allowed at one point , doesn’t mean it’s allowed rn . They manipulate the religion. We follow the sunnah of the prophet Mohammed he clearly forbid these acts once Islam was complete just like he did for alcohol may Allah bless you for rejecting their zina
@Sss Sss Actually these two were wearing those dark glasses to hide their facial identities, or how they thought lol. If this is true (trying conceal their identities) tells you that they know that they were doing something are unacceptable in the society and that they felt shame about it.
@@eunjungbong5856 she said that nobody knows that's she lost her virginity, and I said that after watching this video, it will be known by many. That's what my message says, so there was a point to it.
In medieval Ireland there was different degrees of marriage. From marriage that would last a lifetime to a marriage that would last a night. Its thought it protected children from the scar of illegitimacy.
Permanent marriage and temporary marriage???, great for the man as always not for his permanent wife. Nothing to do with faith or religion how about fidelity and morals????
Here in my country Saudi Arabia this kind of marriages are forbidden they are completely Haram. Marriage meant to be permanent forever the woman should always have the right to inherit and to have kids
@@Noonooooo there are lots of thing in Quran which Sunnis don't follow. The problem with most of Sunnis are they don't know their religion and the ones they know they don't tell the truth.
Actually, most Europeans do NOT behave this way. Most Europeans are actually respectable, with healthy morals and principles. But those that DO indulge in this behavior are not trying to make excuses or justify it with BS doctrine. And they are not in denial about it.
Why do women endure any religion that dictates that she is a drag on humanity, when in fact she is the means by which humanity must exist? Are men envious of that and act out by punishing women? But, it is fair to mention that there have been societies that respect womanhood. We must again explore that.
1) Both Muslim protagonists wore dark glasses... very telling! 2) While the Jewish wife reiterated, again & again, that intimacy with any man other than her husband was forbidden to her, he never once made that specific reciprocal affirmation... wonder why? 3) Why only the sexuality of a Buddhist monk was explored, but not that of the clergy of the monotheistic faith?
Yeah I think you can tell which relationship was blessed, they were in love, they got married and still love eachother. You don't need 19 kids to prove your marriage works. I've heard in some of the countries that have honor killing religious leaders say that a "love marriage" has a 90% or more chance to fail so they should absolutely avoid that and instead get an arranged marriage. Then where do all the happy couples in my family and in the west come from? I don't think marriage from obligation leads to real love like these catholic people have. Especially not with all the female oppression and rape, how can you want to have sex with a guy you don't know? So the wedding night starts with rape by a guy who has no idea how to please a woman.
Was literally just about the say the same thing. So wholesome :-) I love how they made their decisions together and made them because of love for each other
The life long bond must have been created with a friendship first, before they embarked on a relationship. I think that is why, they can and do hold hands, after the passion has waned. 🤔
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
I have never seen such a thing, that is innovation ! in Islam, marriage complets half of your religion, it's not a way to just fulfill your desires, how come muslims ended up thinking this ? Allah yhfad wAllah
because its human nature, we are controlled by our hormones even though we shouldn't be. I say this as a woman. Isn't this the main reason why men wish they could take a second wife? Its never been about anything other than sex.
@@omanicc9854 Human are torn between desires and reason, we make the choice between them, we are to blame for choosing our desires over wisdom and reason (it doesnt mean it is to late to change our mind). Men take a second wife for other reasons, the sole purpose of this arrangement is to finnancially support women.
Brilliant documentary! I find other cultures extremely interesting. Okay, from baking cakes and cookies to journeys on trains and now all the way i fell into a whole new rabbit hole on TH-cam. Pardon me, I'm off to learn everything I possibly can on life as a 'Monk'.
The only thing that I disagree with about this video is the perspective of Christianity only coming from a Catholic point of view. It's so vague and does not represent all Christians denominations.
It would be the same if any other Christian denomination was chosen. I think the documentary is focusing on more orthodox faiths, many of which aren’t understood by all.
And it's the same with Islam. They've represented Islam with Shias who are very different from your average Sunni orthodox Muslim. These Shia tend to be far from Islam and their beliefs don't even fit in with the basic tenants of Islam.
It looked more like a deliberate attempt to discredit Islam. They show orthodox jews which have similar values to main stream Sunni Islam but go to show a very different picture of Islam.
Bloody pathological born liar like your.. islam is a curse upon women and humanity at large.. Islam is all about sex & Senseless Killing of non believers of Islam... Demons
@@fibby-enymore6601 Islam is not even close to being like that. Think: if Islam is about terrorism and there are billions of Muslims in the world, don't you think you would be dead by now? Where did you get these ideas? Christian Prince? This man himself has been caught lying so many times. His videos are based upon slandering Islam. If you actually care about the truth, why don't you talk to Muslims about Islam rather than someone with a hateful agenda. If I want to learn about Christianity, should I talk to a militant atheist or a Christian?
@@qmr0n Plss don't bring that your Taqiyya here okay.. I know better okay as a Christian now.. Explain the below Quran verses for me: Quran 9v28-30 Quran 5v51 Quran 3v28 etc..
I forget what it's called but basically it is a marriage where the wife lives seperately pays her own way. The husband is not responsible for any of her expenses but they can legally sleep together
It’s amazing, but this is true of all religions, that the rules can be interpreted and reinterpreted for convenience, so almost any transgression can be justified in some way. And, who are theses women that would even agree to a “temporary marriage” ? I wonder if they are forced into it. ‘
i am a practicing sunni muslim and what this video is showing about shia muslim and temporary marriages is not acceptable nor allowed in islam. Sunni make up 80% of all muslims. marriage is sacred and for the long term and must be publicly known not temporary and not in secret. The woman's status is honored and respected in public. The married couple needs to have patience with each other, mercy, compassion and understanding. The man can't just go find another woman like a new toy. How can you honor and respect a woman if you marry her temporarily and in secret? that is not islam. Its a business and they are abusing and using religion wrongly to justify their desires (whether money or lust). May God guide us all to the right path. amen.p.s. these women might be poor and in need of money so they subject themselves to these temporary marriages. its unfortunate and in this case, be a man, marry her properly and give her a good life.
men were not obligated to have 4 wives ,they were allowed to have 4 wives in certain situations if if was necessary for them ,like if they wanted kids and the first wife couldn't have them and they dont want to leave her so she can marry for kids again without leaving his first wife ,and having kids especially sons was a big deal back then even now.secondly at that time there used to be alot of widowers and women's converting to islam being rejected by their families ,soo the muslims were advised to have them as wives to provide financial support as well as sexual satisfaction so that they are not in need of sinning. but only if you can treat all wives equally .if cannot then they cannot marry .now this not a common practice for men now I think ,it is seen more as a bad thing nowadays even in some Muslim countries.and it is a right for the first wife to divorce her husband if she does want him to have second wife also she can state in the marriage certificate that she does not allow him to have a second wife ,then he cannot.
Sorry but this just shows you know nothing about your religion, first of all marriage in islam is called nikkah, but nikkah also means sexual intercourse, can you imagine the English word sex also meaning marriage ? how ridiculous would that be 😂😂 literally reducing women to just sexual objects, why would you use the word sex also as marriage that’s disgusting, but that’s exactly the case in islam, that’s why you can have up to 4 because they are literally your sex partners nothing to do with marriage, and you said it was a temporary thing ? Please show me one source we’re it says marrying 4 wife’s was a temporary thing, you can’t because it wasn’t just meant for that time it was meant for all the time other wise it would have said it clearly that it’s only meant for this time but as I said you cannot show me any proof, also the fact that you msulsims Are making up so many excuses saying it was only meant for that time even tho it doesn’t say that anywhere shows how embarrassed and ashamed you guys are of this practice, at least shia Muslims are proud and aren’t shamed 😂😂 your prophet Mohamed had 13 wife’s and he’s sippouse to be the best example lol how you guys can call Mohamed the best example for mankind is mind boggling, war is not an excuse to have so many female partners, if he really wanted to help them then he could have just help, did he have to marry them in order to help them ? also if this was only meant for that time then please tell me why millions of Muslims still practice this till today, do you know why ? Because it does NOT say anywhere that it was meant just for that time, Mohamed hijab was being interview the other day by Jordan Paterson daughter and he proudly said to her that YES it is Islamic to have up to 4 wife’s so please stop telling people it was only meant for that time unless you can show proof!!!
@@learningis7857 I didn't say it was for that time only .I said it is allowed but not obligated .if you are happy with one then there is nothing wrong in it.also it doesn't only happen in islam it happens in alof of other religions like all 4 5 men marrying a same lady or men marrying 9 or 10 women in Thailand etc .so there is always some sort of polygamy happening everywhere let it be a couple with a mistress on the side or a couple with an extramarital affair on side soo please stop this nonsense of yours.and dont pretend to be such a pure soul not wanting or having sexual needs.being intimate is the most important part of a relation ship.
From all religions shown, only Buddhist monks openly talk about their desire for physical love and seem to find solutions to avoid it. Others just bend the rules so that man can do what they want with no regards to women's rights, dignity, opportunities and so on. I find it hard to believe that man and woman are created equal, if man create all sorts of rules to exploit women.
Temporary marriage is a joke and most Muslim including myself know it's wrong. I have three different men propose me to have sex with them by doing temporary marriage. Young men use it as a "loophole" for premarital sex. You say a sentence and then its "halal" to have sex. Ridiculous
Allah revealed that alcohol was haram in three different stages, like for instance, it was haram to be drunk and pray, but I don’t understand why allah didn’t reveal that sex slavery was wrong, Child marriage is wrong and physically damaging ,that mutah was wrong, fgm was permissible still but should have been abolished too and if your wife doesn’t behave .. Allah will “give you new and better wives” making it a huge excuse and free pass for domestic violence against women. research his relationship to the sex slave Maria; that ordeal with him getting caught in his wives bed with her 🤦🏾♀️ ..and his obtaining of his wife sofia Or in qran sr 33 when you visit the prophet don’t stay too long, eat and leave soon (says prophet is too shy to Say anything) This is clearly a man made religion to satisfy his needs and desires Now I ask you kindly step back and see what yeshua the messiah says, do unto others what you want done to you .. love your neighbor , treat women like a fragile glass, love your enemy ... may Adonai make his light shine over you and his Messiah reveal himself to you.. shalom 👋
@@gracewillis6535 you talk about perfect Christ's message as if Christians never practice sex slavery or polygamy or child bride in their history Catholic Spanish colonisation brought slavery to the indigenous Americans and yes, ofcourse it includes sex slavery. Oh i come from Indonesia, which was colonised by Christian Dutch and Catholic Portuguese. (And also see Tordesillas agreement in which Portuguese and Spanish agreed to just divide all non Christian lands .... then colonised them, including servitude aka slavery. all in pretext of Christian teachings). until now there are Christian sects that allow polygamy practices. In 1729 Infanta Mariana Victoria of Spain married at 10 years old, after first engaged when she was only 3.
@@nailaf6832 Few will disagree that the Christianity practiced by Spanish imperialists was manipulative and false, dear. You will also find that the vast majority of Christians believe polygamist Mormonism is a cult following of Joseph Smith and not really the spirit of God. Christ, however, did not marry a 10 year old. Christ did not solicit new wives, nor did he encourage his followers to do the same. His mission was against the corrupt and false church and to show the true way. He sought no personal power, unlike false prophets. He was not angry toward women. There is no scripture of Christ that could be construed to condone the behaviors common to followers of other faiths.
@@nailaf6832 just as it is unfair of others to compare all of Islam to Wahhabist literalism, it's unfair to assert the behavior of Catholic Spaniards in the 18th century is true Christian dogma when there's really no evidence of this in the new testament of Christ.
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
I'm glad to have seen this and had so many commentators place their knowledge, thoughts and concerns. I was looking to convert to Islam from Christianity and I have to research everything on my own. So the chances of coming across something heinous and sinful is quite high. These deviations can cause someone to be taken advantage of if they are not equipped with the correct knowledge. Thank you to everyone that posted their opposition.
Two groups of islam- sunni and Shia. Sunni is about 90% Muslim. This video was talking about Shia practice. Sunni Muslims do not practice or believe in that practice.
Do a lot more research if you want to convert. Watch apostate prophet he does a good job criticizing. I promise you the more research you’ll do the more you’ll want to distance yourself from Islam
Islam is perfect, Muslims is not. We living in very difficult, hypersexual time. We must also understand that people like to change things. And this temporary marriage is not allowed in islam. This is innovation and every innovation leads to misguidance and misguidance leads to hell. In islam there is only a muslim and follow the Quran and the sunnah hadith of prophert Mohammed peace be upon him but check the authenticity of the hadith and the chain of narration. Bcz people make up and have their own beliefs.
"You can't shake the woman's hands because she may be menstruating..." , when I think I heard all crazy stuff in my life I realize there is much more.WTF, lol
@@abdillahijalalkhan2128 why should I read Bible. I am not talking here about the Bible but Islam. If you think Bible is right for the reference then you are rejecting Islam based on the Bible.
Marriage may last 3 hours or even less, and the man must pay for that time married with a woman? Do they have a marriage party as well and invite all their relatives and friends to know that they are going to marry for 3 hours? Just wondering... In the respect of the religion, of course.
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
there was clearly written it's a shia practice. if you're educated please bear in mind that this is not an islamic teaching at all!! talks about civilization while not even can understand how to read!
And in the books of the Sunnis, some of the companions of the Prophet who were born with the temporary marriage I want to add mental proof The legality of temporary marriage is a marriage so that a Muslim person does not adultery
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This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
The german who is commenting on Jewish sexuality and customs give explanations colored through the lens of his religious background and traditions. Jewish women don't shake hands with random men, but it is not because of menstruation but a realistic perspective of how men and women function and how 'grey areas can lead to unacceptable behaviors that run rampant in today's world, often ruining marriages.
So shaking hands in the modern context can lead to impure thoughts? Good gracious, but this is hardly permissive. Can't righteous people keep their pants on? Doesn't this type of religious stricture actually nurture naughty thoughts instead of quelling them? (Also, I know that amongst the Orthodox, a woman's menstrual cycle does make her "unclean" and untouchable, even to her own husband. I still ask, without bias if anyone can explain why these archaic laws still exist in contemporary society.
@@maggiefollett636 The most concise and detailed explaination I have ever found is in a book by Rabbi Manis Friedman called, 'The Joy of Intimacy'. It is an easy and facinating read.
Sounds like the same reasons it’s forbidden in Islam . I don’t see why Muslims and Jews should feel ashamed to say so if asked about it. I wouldn’t want to shake a strange man’s hands either . It just feels awkward and why should I make something that feels awkward as normal by repeated practise ? Because society says so? Society tells us to do many things that are Immoral also . Do we do all those things ? No because l get to decide how i choose to live . And last time I checked it wasn’t illegal to refuse to shake a man’s hand. In fact not very long ago even in the west women were seen as somewhat loose or immodest if they didn’t wear gloves and shook a man’s hands skin on skin ,’more so if she had “just come out”. Even the queen wore gloves . Perhaps they should ask why she was so apparently backward ?😂
@@passionatepapercraft I don’t think she cares those people just like to argue and put their beliefs on a pedestal . Believe in their beliefs otherwise they will never accept you . I say tell them respectfully to take a hike
I thank God everyday for not being born into a middle eastern culture as a woman, it's unconscionable, the rules that apply to the gratification of only men.
The German guy speaking about Judaism is talking about I.d say the Haraidim(Ultra Othodox)Very strict rules,the live in Israel but like in a ghetto.The young couple I.d class them Modern Orthodox,there's so many different levels of the Jewish faith.Shabbat Shalom💙
Shia are not Muslims..they brand of yahoodi (jews) so they get married temporarily..Sunni Muslims do not get married like that..because Islam does not allow us to get married temporarily
I wouldn’t say they’re Jewish that’s not accurate . They are a sect and not part of Islam true . They have too many beliefs which seem to be steeped in other religions and even pagan practises .
Even though I am Sunni and I don't believe in these marriages. I think Christians should be the last people to call out others on adultery and prostitution . How would you say and classify the couples who live together without marriage ? Majority of Christian couples living together before marriage and will get married only after they get pregnant or after having children
@@sweetman5249 Temporary marriage can't be prostitution since the woman has a waiting period of 3 months after leaving such contract. It is called Idda' period in Islam. It is more like a boyfriend/girlfriend contract. You can't make money jumping from one man to one man with 3 months waiting period.
@@reezis1619 Don’t defend Islam. It has so many ugly things as any other religion. Islam is worse than others . Don’t appreciate islam . The whole world knows it .
Narrated ‘Ali: I said to Ibn ‘Abbas, “During the battle of Khaibar Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) forbade (Nikah) Al-mut’a and the eating of donkey’s meat.” Sahi Bukhari (Book #62, Hadith #50)
This is totally wrong.. shiah is not Islam. Even they hate our Prophet Muhammad saw and recite in Saidina Ali name. Their prayer also different than us .
No they don't hate the prophet, they put him before Hazrat Ali, don't call them wrong entirely just because you disagree with one aspect or two. That's quite immature, do your research please.
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From what I understand The advent of this marriage was originally for to enforce contractual obligations through the theocratic state in the case where children were born. The alternative being casual affairs would not afford any recourse were children were born. I don’t think morality is part of the equation here !
It was narrated from al-Rabee’ ibn Sabrah al-Juhani that his father told him that he was with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said, “O people, I used to allow you to engage in mut’ah marriages, but now Allaah has forbidden that until the Day of Resurrection, so whoever has any wives in a mut’ah marriage, he should let her go and do not take anything of the (money) you have given them. Muslim Allah has made marriage one of His signs which calls us to think and ponder. He has created love and compassion between the spouses, and has made the wife a source of tranquility for the husband. He encouraged us to have children and decreed that a woman should wait out the ‘iddah period and may inherit. None of that exists in this haraam form of marriage. Shiism has nothing to Do with islam!
@@mutashim123 No majority of the people of sahaba used to practice Mut'ah during the prophets lifetime, however it was banned later on. It did not happen in jahilya
What that guy said is true; issues/standards of sexual morality are dictated by men; it is very patriarchal. Also it's unfortunate that some religions view sex only as a means to produce offspring and not for pleasure. Just sad. BTW I love how blunt all interviewees in this documentary are. Absolutely Brilliant! 😊😍
Not sure its sad or as though viewing sex merely as an outlet for temporary immediate sexual gratification is any "happier". Our society is replete with the consequences of the pleasure viewpoint and there's a lot of sadness there too.
You can tell from this video how life become so pretensious or even hard to get by when it's not supposed to be. Just because of these cultures, beliefs, costumes, traditions and etc. Time and life is wasted..
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
God gave a man and a women a body that is naturally made with the physical abilities of natural feelings. It’s not natural to ignore what God intended us to have and feel.
We majority (Sunni) Muslims don’t agree with temporary marriages just for the record. As the woman in the video perfectly described it as “prostitution” and that’s exactly what it is..
In temporary marriages, theres no money involved except for the dowry given as a gift to the woman AND it must be made public. If the woman falls pregnant and if the 2 partners decide to turn this temporary marriage into a permanent one, they can
@@hassannur7443 if someone has 2 temporary marriages then the same rule applies as for a divorce. There's a waiting period of 3 months after the first union before re-marrying to make sure that the woman isnt pregnant. In 2021, we also have access to DNA tests 😉
The part, „where you do things to or with another woman but not your wife...“ Are we talking „not being able to control urges“ which on every spiritual level within any religion is the ultimate goal in order to not fall apart/astray? Who initiated prostitution and still „declares it a service“…and makes sure it‘ll always be available...under whatever name or condition? The common men. Having worked on two occasions with monks in Asia, I can attest everything that was said. Nevertheless, some of them were very funny and some of them left the monastery to live regular lives. Schöne Doku und ich danke für die verschiedenen Ansichten ☺️👍🏻
Can someone please educate me further regarding the Jewish faith and their beliefs about women menstruating. I love to learn about all the traditions and practices, and I have watched many documentaries but I'm still confused about the this. Does refraining from touching the woman whilst bleeding start from puberty or just when married? They did mention it wasn't spoken about, so how do they know when it starts and stops? Is there something they do to signal the beginning and end or are they allowed to say only when it starts and finishes?
Islam differentiates between sexual relations and marriage (He is not recognized unless there is a childbearing, and marriage is not a condition that it be permanent)
Shia only make up 15% of the muslim world population. They are not classified as real muslim by the real sunni Muslims who make up the other 85% of Muslims around the world. This type of sexual marriage is totally forbidden in Islam and there will be a grave eternal punishment in the hereafter according to the 85% sunni muslim who follow the Quran and Sunnah of the final Messenger Prophet Muhammed (pbuh).
There’s an important Hadith that deals with this situation as well as every situation possible. “Every action, depends on the intention” Even if no person is watching them or asking about their intention. Allah (God) knows what they hide and what’s in their hearts. Edit: to add to the lady talking at 34:00. The prophet (pbuh) clearly said in numerous Hadith. If a marriage is kept a secret and not announced to the public then it’s not halal (paraphrasing).
Woman is a threat to a man striving to be a divine creature? Wow, that sounds harsh. I thought women were supposed to be helping the man be more... divine at some point. Sheesh.
Sexuality is personal, for some monogamy permanent relationships, for others poligyny, for others temporary relationships so everyone should go for what they believe is good for them. We should stop dictating what people do in their private personal bedroom with their personal body
@4:01 The Jewish brother is talking about Jewish men can only “shake hand with mother, wife, and daughters. “beyond that it’s strictly”. So it’s ok if they do it, but if Muslims practice the same law we are picked on. Do you ladies and gentlemen see the double standards???
@@Mikrokozma33 I don’t mean to show any disrespect towards your faith. I am just say that Islam is not the only religion that suggest that men and women should not shake hands. Weather you do it or not it’s for bidden in your religion. And you heard the gentleman himself saying it.
With all the people calling it prostitution because of a payment / mahr/ dowery, yall forget that in a permanent Islamic marriage there is also a dowery or mahr, and the dowery system exists all over the world, doesn’t matter if it’s permanent or temporary marriage. So if muta is prostitution, then permanent marriage also prostitution plus slavery.
It is indeed prostitution.. I think the meaning of mahr in old times was different than this.. I don't know so much so I am not commenting on that.. But even if you take the dowry out of this setup, it still counts as prostitution.. Because your only expectation out of that 'temporary marriage' is sex and sometimes more vulgar sex.. Because these men have fantasy that they cannot ask their wives or they disagreed.. So they are asking these temporary wives.. This whole idea sounds bullshit and destroys the purpose of marriage
@@AbzerKelminalPM there are so many people who do it to get to know another person, and they decide not have sex. Think of it like dating. Long term this does away with so many issues such as finding the right fit before locking it down permanently. Second point: Abraham was married to Sarah, but had his first child through Hagar from where Ismael and his descendant, Prophet Muhammad pbuh came from. Abraham and Hagar did not have ever a permanent marriage. Pray tell, how did Abraham legitimately have son from Hagar? Those who want to use muta for sex and pleasure will use it the same way some can use a car to run over people. The problem here is ignorance. Research it deeper. I really don’t know how you are talking about vulgar sex and seems your biases and ignorance is showing. Please check your sources and common sense, you can have vulgar sex with your permanent wife as well. Depends if you are a pervert or not. I have never heard of temporary marriage as a pleasure marriage, maybe it is being nicknamed as a pleasure marriage by people who only use it for sex. There are strict rules to muta, such as that after the contract ends the couple cannot get married to anyone else for 2 menstruation cycles after, same a permanent marriage. Yes some may misuse muta the same way polygamy is misused. Finally, this was allowed by the Prophet and since the Prophet Muhammad pbuh was under direct orders from God, not one has the right to make halal into haram. Please use some common sense and look into it. Islam is such a modern religion, shame that most of the “Muslims” here commenting are backwards af.
@@faiza.2427 mutha has been abrogated. What do you mean Islam Is a modern religion ? If you mean it’s applicable to modern times and all times I agree . But Islam isn’t a modern religion as such. If you are Shia obviously you will see Mutha as a legitimate practise .
The society must try to keep the necessary distance with respect from these religious people (monks). Their prayer is working for all of us in all these years since time counting system. I sincerely bow to them.
It's funny how they claim to love God so much, that God is perfect, all seeing, all knowing, but they think that they can deceive God with their "temporary marriage", like they really think they are smarter than God. Well we all know who won't be making it to Jannah with their "temporary marriages".
I simply want to know why we can not think out of the religion and ideologies we were born into. This is where humanity fails as we can not discern between right and wrong ourselves and need religion and culture to play that role on our behalf.
What’s the difference between temporary marriage and prostitution??? She is saying I marry you for one ☝️ hour for 30 dollars 💵. ??? Is there any other religion on earth which has such traditions
There is no difference between temporary marriage and prostitution. Prostitution by any other name is still prostitution. The contract is still the same, money for sex. The marriage part is to legitimise the contract under the guise of religion, but prostitution by any other name is still prostitution. No other religion sanctions prostitution except Islam and ancient idol woshipping cults.
Buddha was a prince by birth, not an ordinary monk that's been depicted in this video...I think money wealth and pelf is not a problem for him because he was a prince who lived in ivory tower but his search and quest was for peace, which ultimately culminated into enlightenment and subsequently he began to spread peace whenever he went and his legacy lives even after 3000 years..
Im a christian i belive sex in for a married couple but not just for child bearing. God gave this as a way to connect whit our other half. Its the most intimate sacred and deepest connection a woman and man can have
In Christianity it has to be public. You have to publish your intent to marry (called Bans) three weeks before the marriage, or acquire a special licence which means you can marry faster, but it's still publicly registered and you must have two witnesses to the marriage for it to be valid in a church (or civil) service.
@@abdillahijalalkhan2128 I didn't suggest there was anything wrong with it I simply explained the rules around Christian and civil marriage rites and law in the UK.
Marriage and the committment to the union formed by marriage is the bone and sinew of every socity. It exists first and foremost to provide a framework for the raising of children that result from the sexual union of male and female. Children not only have a better chance of survival when the parents and the extended family protect and care for the children. Children thrive from being in an extended family that respect the members of said family. "Temporary Marriage" is akin to religion-sponsored prostitution. It does not provide for the children resulting from the sex in the temporary marriage. Things like bride-price and dowry are sometimes part of written marriage agreements to provide for the children resulting from the marriage. These are not the same as money given in a temporary marriage.
This is a doctored presentation. To my understanding, by Shia laws, the woman cannot have another marriage until at least one menstrual period has passed. 2. Any children born are the responsibility of the real father.
@@purple4377 Quran is not true book and written by someone. And only Muslims think Quran is divine which is not actually. If you read Islamic history and research how Ummayad governer destroyed Kabba and killed so many people. And there is another guy who took black stone for 23 years and made his toilet but when Abbasi empire came they did some deal with him and brought the black stone back. Why Allah hasn't protacted his house. I have done my research and that is why don't follow Islam anymore.
@@Hazara26 Oh dear now I understand why you are so resistent against Islam. It is proven that the whole Qur’an is a wonder and no Poet or Writer in the ancient of days and until today was ever capable of to build some equal verses like you find in this book. And there are many other related wonders not only to the stylistic itself. Search and you will find some information which will leave you breathless. I promise. I am sorry that you lost your way and pray that god my guide you pack to the right path. Take care
@@juliabenredjem772 first of all research about history of the Quran. The Quran at Mohd's time no where to be found now. And you said, Quran is confirmed and wonder. So for your information there are things written in Quran proven to be wrong like earth is flat etc. 2nd the things written in Quran stolen from Bible and people already knew 500 years before Islam. Quran is wonder only for Muslims which they claim but not for the rest of the world.
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I once had a Muslim man tell me that because he was a good man and provided for his family that gods reward to him was to have a good time with me. I’m Aussie. I said FO mate.
Well said! 😂
As a Muslim, I can tell you his sentiment has nothing to do with our beautiful, pure, faith
@@FR-zz2bj agreed! Islam is a beautiful religion but some of the followers make it look bad unfortunately. 🤦🏻♀️
You did the right thing. He was lying to you.
@@لولو-ع9غ5ج it is not. It is bigoted, violent and the prophet is a slave owner
This applies to men too. When I married at 25 I was a virgin man - by choice. My parents taught me that I had to be chaste before GOD. And I made sure I found a woman who was chaste as well. The first time we had to consummate our marriage I have to admit I felt nervous and uneasy. It's normal. But that initial embarrassment went out the window after 10-20 minutes as we both realized that it was o.k. How happy we were that we made this conscious choice to be clean before GOD. We have lived a very fulfilling life and now we are grandparents. We have instilled these ideas in our children and grandchildren. It has worked for us. My wife and I worked very hard to give our children a wonderful home-schooled education. They have missed out on nothing.
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I am so proud of you. It is so beautiful to share your body and thoughts with someone they really belong to. Sadly, that culture is vanishing away. I hope I will promote that too
The whole purpose of a marriage is to acknowledge a union and a long term commitment. How does a temporary marriage honor this principle. ? It offers no moral or ethical benefit to either partner.
@Justinthe Comments and what would your perspective be? Just curious
@Justinthe Comments I wouldn't call that a marriage in the first place, it's just a sick and twisted loophole for the religious people to justify fornication or adultery.
Am Sunni Muslim this type of marriage is wrong in Islam is like legalised adultery there is no such a thing as temporary marriage
The real meaning of " Nikah word" is sex. So in Islam these marriages are not legal but in war captured women whose husbands are still alive and can be use for sex is legal😄
@@Hazara26 This is not correct. The word Nikah can have multiple meanings like many other words in the Qur‘an. That‘s why it is important always to use the Tafsir beside reading the Qur‘an to really understand the meanings of the verses and the message behind.
A Shia guy told me, the woman agreed to marry her temporarily to help her with her finances. The woman was broke. She's a widow. Her kids are hungry. And I replied, why don't you just donate her some foods or money instead of marrying her for a few hours or days? And don't take advantage of her. The jackass smiled & tongue tied.
He knows his faith doesn't agree with that. What a disgusting man calling himself Muslim . Shia sect is crazy
Amen! Amen! No need to marry a widow or single mother with children just provide food and the necessities of life. But in Islam, Muhammed married widows not to help them but to satisfy is own sexual desires. That was his motivation in the first place. So when Muslims make the excuse that the reason why Muhammed had more than the four wives( most regular Muslims are allowed to have ) is because he married widows it is infered that they needed fianacial help & a protector that's why he married them. Was Muhammed being altruistic ? Of course not. With all the caravan thieving he did, the getting of one-fifth of all the bouty collected from all the conquered lands and the selling of thousands of slaves his right hand possess, he sure had enough money to help these poor widows, he did'nt have to marry them to take care of them. Muhammed looked after number one as always and as per blaspher says it was god that told him too do it or say it. And of course he is the best of human kind according to Muslims. So if he is the best of human kind what is the worst?
@@sharonhewitt1382 obviously someone who hasn't read the Qur'an and islamic history properly ,the islamic prophet married poor widows, as well as his best friends daughter ,as prophets were allowed to take extras wives as a divine allowed injunction...the widow's wanted to marry the prophet becos of his piety and knowing they'd be cared for ,and not abused .. ,he cared for them generously although he was poor , as he shunned riches and gave away his wealth generously to the poor n needy just like the other prophets did ...prophet Solomon had over a hundred slaves/wives ... This islamic prophet did not go instigating wars ,these were wars of self defense or his followers would have been obliterated..the war booty was fairly , generously given out to all the fighters as was the custom in many lands ,this was around 600AD, and customs were not like the 20 century ,so we see what happened in 600 as barbaric ,(you could say people nowadays are worse!) Growing up in Makkah , before prophethood ,he was known by the nickname 'the trustworthy one ' , when propherhood was bestowed on him at the age of 40 , people already knew how he was like.. history has writing about him ,how he chose a life of extreme austerity and gave away his wealth .DO you think he would have chosen to live a poor life (giving away all his excess wealth )if he was not a true prophet ??
@@rosebibis631 I stand by my first statement. Muhammed should show his benevelance by fiancially secureing their welfare he need'nt have married them. The responsibiltity of marriage is having conjugal rights and that is what Muhammed was fullfilling - his sexual desires because he seems unable to control himself. Your Hadith actually says if his eye's falls on a woman who is married her husband must divorce her so that he can have her. ( go find it in your Koran or Hadith ) Of course he is the best of human kind and that includes what his right hand possesse.
@@rosebibis631 I actually have a Koran and i have read it for your information, but know it is not the word of God in fact it does'nt even make sense and it plagerizes the Bible and other holy scriptures. The stories, names of people, prophets are not even consistant with the Bible. Some stories are made up and some just good old fabrication. So yes, i've read the Koran and it is most definately is not the word of God. It could be the the words of one or more of the many gods that pagan Arabs worshiped in the Kabaa. Sorry one of the 365 gods in the Kabaa, including the 3 goddesses Muhammed bowed down too. But definately not God the creater of heaven & earth. I urge you to check the Bible to see if there are any prophets who bowed themselves in an act of worship to a god or godesses.
"Sexual morality, in all major religions, has always been determined by men"----huh, I can somehow suddenly understand why it is so flawed.
I agree. But to be fair if it was Created by women it would probably end up just as corrupt. Look at any position of power and when you replace men by women we somehow end up with the same thing. Queens of the past, Korean president etc..corrupt women.
BRIFFAULT'S LAW says otherwise
@Truth Seeker Funny how every religious person always thinks their way is the one right "true" way. ONe wonders what you would think if you had been, let's say, adopted by parents of a different faith or born in a different place. Probably you would think that would be the "truth."
men are envious that women can have a longer sexual period during lifetime than they physically are able to.
You said it….all of it is designed to serve men! And to keep women as their property….women are waking up finally….god love us all! Equally….mens perversions run the rules….give me a break!…
temporary marriage is going around the bush but they know exactly what they're doing. They don't want to call it its right name "prostitution" and resorts to excuses. It's like a politician saying he's not corrupting funds. He's only relocating funds for personal matters. It's the same thing.
The meaning of Mut’ah or Nikah is have sexual pleasure.
Check out Christian Prince debate on TH-cam VS Islam ☪️ Muslims.
@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน The women are not paid. So it’s not even a business arrangement.
Watch David Wood series Islamisize me! Where one episode deals wirh temporary marriage! David Wood is merciless !
It's called ''adultery''.
It says a lot if a man only wants a woman for short term pleasure before he moves onto his next taste test.
Exactly
It happens every day in the West.
@@maxpayne3628 But it in that case its not sanctified by religion
@@aromaseawater1492 It doesn't matter. I'm a Sunni and I will criticize the Mutah marriage ( btw it's not very common in Iran atleast, it's taboo there, although it does happen but it's very taboo and very less) but when the white man starts to criticise us as he's some God who thinks we're uncivilized People, that just seems absurd. They cheat our their partners all the times and want to criticize Muslims when they do something similar to that
@@maxpayne3628 Temporary marriage is basically prostitution which the evil cult of islam propagates aside from child marriage (pedophilia), sex slavery, polygamy (max 4 for muslims but as many as the false prophet mo-Ham-Mad wants - 13 wives +1000's sex slaves), necrophilia, zoophilia (yes, approved by the teachings of islam), etc.
To call that arrangement a “temporary marriage” makes no sense at all. They need to call it something else because marriage is meant to be permanent, for life, till death.
Muttah is haram.
That's what it is, de jure.
It's Sharia Law. No one claims it needs to make sense, as long as men benefit from it and women remain objects.
@Ali al-Dulaimi علي الدليمي It is a valid marriage according to Sharia Law.
Religion is cancer.
@Truth Seeker Why are you copy pasting that everywhere?
Perhaps you'd like to answer twice then:
Every religion claims to be ''truth'', and they all claim that their deity, out of thousands of deities, is the real deity.
What evidence do you have that your religion in particular is the truth, Truth Seeker?
Explain to me why money is being exchanged during mutah. Let me guess, out of the goodness of the man's heart. Priceless!
Windowed, haha!
''By your logic marriages are just like live together and doing adultery''
How so? What of my words indicates this? How are you committing adultery if you are having sexual intercourse with your spouse?
Well yes, marriage is a legal concept. What difference does it make if a lifelong couple devoted to each other are married or unmarried?
''bible says Abraham married his own sister sarah. Judaism christianity are production of siblings marriage.''
Did someone ask? Why are you bringing this up? What relevance does it hold concerning Islam and blatant prostitution?
It's also very intriguing that you would claim a prophet in Islam, Ibrahim, committed incest. In some countries you would get the death penalty for such blasphemy.
Don't forget that Islam is the newest of the three main Abrahamic Religions.
Good luck.
@@incumbentvinyl9291 it’s actually an abolished practise . It was only permitted in times of war and those texts were abrogated when more were revealed thereafter . Wars which went on for a long time . Wars where people were without spouse or widowed. There is no relationship permitted or friendship without marriage, it’s not considered halal. So this one’s a means of offering protection to these women. The world was not as we know it in the west . It was a place where women had very few rights afforded to them.
Shia have taken abrogated texts and taken them of of context . There is nothing in Quran and sunnah that supports Mutha today. But then nothing supports self flagellation in Quran or Sunnah either and most of them practises .
Allah has ordered for a man and a woman to be married permanently. In sunni Islam there is no such thing as a temporary marriage. If your marriage is irrevocably broken and you cannot fix it you may divorce and re marry someone else permanently. No games here. Do not try to change the rules of the almighty to suit your needs and desires because Allah (god) knows best
Nikah Misyar is there.
Mutah is sahih authentic.
If divorce is permissable, and there are no constraints on the reasons for divorcing (for a man, strict constraints for a woman), and you can be married to four people at the same time (men only, not women), and divorce them at will and remarry at any point, that doesnt strike me as being permanent commitment to another person. Christianity varies in that you can divorce, but any remarriage whilst the original spouse still lives is not recognised by the church, but men and women have equal rights for the grounds for divorce, which are limited. In some circumstances the Catholic church will permit an annulment provided there are grounds within narrow canonical law e.g. you find you are related. Orthodox Judaism gives divorce rights to men and women, but only men can initiate divorce proceedings, except in very rare circumstances, and men can remarry (although its frowned upon if he has not issued a get) but women are not if they do not obtain a Gett, which essentially states 'You are now permitted to all men'. If she does remarry it is not recognised and is considered adultery, and if she has children, the children are considered illegitimate, although if a man remarried and has children, his subsequent children are not considered illegitimate and he is not regarded as having committed adultery. So, it seems that there are quite a lot of issues in many different ways in all the religious ideas when it comes to marriage, divorce and remarriage rights.
@@skellingtonmeteoryballoon . It was permissable only before Shariah was implemented. It is haraam plain and simple.
Good jokes Masyar and jihad marriage are famous in Sunnis 😆😆😆😆😃😃
So can the wife get a temporary marriage? Would he be ok with it?
You already know. Its sinful how they treat women and they claim it is written and they go top mosque and pray. Its no wonder the world is so messed up.
@@asanabright538 yes. I know the answer, she'd be condemned, outcast, and bad case scenario killed. So glad I don't live in such a society.
@@asanabright538 we treat women really nicely, you don't know anything about our religion and yet you judge, How about you worry about your religion and problems in your country.
@@hollysmith1347 where do you get your facts from? from your bs media that makes the whole world look bad? look at your own society, you have kids that don't know who their mom or dad is. At least we believe in Gods words. Everything's seems wrong to you guys if its different from your society. I'm glad i don't live in your society. Stop having this view towards other peoples religion, culture and traditions.
@@kjnazari4734 first I am half middle eastern (Egyptian/Cypriot), so I know what it can happen in remote areas. Second would she be allowed to cheat?, would he just allow it like she has to?
I am not stating all men from middle east or Muslims mistreat women, but you know in the some remote areas they still do such punishments.
The woman talking about the temporary marriage being Haram is so right. There's nothing like that in islam
Is Mut’ah Abrogated & Who Abrogated it?
No if you are a Muslim..and you are unaware then, pl gather some knowledge.
I'm a non muslim and I know this a widely practiced, form of halala, practiced, by one of your Nabi.
I have just seen this y'day only.
Nikah e mutah..that's what it is called.
@@madhukohli4472 Amen! Nika mean" Fuck" and Mutah means pleasure temporary marriage. Prostitution by any other name is still prostitution and that is exactly what Mutah is dressed up as marriage. Making a mockery of the institution of marriage and proving in the process that Islam cannot be from God. God wouldn't destroy something he instituted like marriage. The Quran is partly authored by Muhammed himself and by other plagerized religions. So it is that the Quran is false as is their so called prophet who never prophesied anything that came true or made sense.
halala is not permissible at all,nowadays it is being carried out soo much but ,a man can only marry his divorced wife again if she marries another man and decides to spend her life forever with him in true meanings with this intention but fails again then the first man can remarry her again.halala was put forward because some men were abusing women by divorcing them whenever they want and bringing them back whenever they want ,so that's why this condition came to stop them .Halala is being misused nowadays
@@alwayshopeful7587 It is silly for a woman not to be able to return to a former husband if that is what they both want without the woman marrying another man to get access to her first husband. It is prostituting the woman out, being used by another sexually for what purpose. Islam treats woman as baby making machines after which she has no further use or served any purpose. In fact doesn't your prophet say that wo me en ate mentally deficient and two men equals one woman's testimony or evidence or witness in court. Islam has no respect for women
I'm a Muslim and I've never heard of this temporary marriage thing, wow... just for sometime with multiple men and getting paid, I think we all know what that is and please don't say Islam allow this bcuz it doesn't and that imam need to go back and study the Quran and Sunna again, just saying.
Facts I ain't never herd of this till now and no matter what u call it it's disrespectful of the religion
This are all true its practices of the Shia Muslims,
@@skellingtonmeteoryballoon yeah.. I think someone did a wrong translation because Islam is very clear with it teachings and practices
@@africanqueen1595
Ibn Juraih reported: Ata’ reported that Jabir Ibn Abdullah came to perform Umra, and we came to his abode, and the people asked him about different things, and then they made a mention of temporary marriage, whereupon he said: Yes, we had been benefiting ourselves by this temporary marriage during the life time of the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) and during the time of Abu Bakr, and Umar.
استمتعنا على عهد رسول الله و أبي بكر و عمر
al-Raghib al-Isbahani reported:
Ibn Zubair denounced Ibn Abbas for his opinion on Mut’a. Thus Ibn Abbas told him: "Go and ask your mother what she did with your father.”When Ibn Zubair asked her, she said: "By God, I did not conceive you except through Mut’a."
Sunni reference: al-Muhadhiraat, by al-Raghib al-Isbahani, v2, p96
"So for those of whom you have pleasure with them (by the contract), you are required to give (them) their wages. And there is no sin for you in what you both agree after the requirement...”(Qur’an 4:24)
"And among His great Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves so that you get tranquillity by them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.”(Qur’an 30:21)
"Successful indeed are the believers... those who abstain from sex, except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or with the slave girls whom they rightfully possess for (in their case) they are free from blame. But those who go beyond that are transgressors.”(Qur’an 23:1-7)
"And those who guard their private parts, except with their wives or the slave girls who rightfully possess for (in their case) they are free from blame. But those who go beyond that are transgressors.”(Qur’an 70:29-31)
It's hard to imagine that the entire Quran and sunna were translated wrong . Otherwise, al-nikah mutah dahman dahman wouldn't exist.
@@skellingtonmeteoryballoon please don't quote any random hadit out of context. our ( pbuh ) had never advocated this practice in his life time. world over except for shias no other muslim sect follows this practice.
“I’ll marry you for one hour for $30” is solicitation and prostitution not temporary marriage. Marriage is more than sex, there’s so many layers to it that to reduce it to “halal” is a different kind of hell reserved for people who engage in this practice (on both sides).
Is Mut’ah Abrogated & Who Abrogated it?
@@danielyonas9928 The Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him abrogated Mut'ah and consumption of the meat of the donkey in the same hadith. But then again the Shi'ah dispute the validity of the hadith as being questionable at best. Thus why, the Shi'ah still practice Mut'ah.
@@mohamedkandil1789:: Where is your proof?
@@danielyonas9928 Let me start with a more fundamental question: what proof do you consider to be acceptable? I can post what I believe to be very convincing and acceptable evidence per Islamic jurisprudence, however if you don't believe that the sources I cite are credible, then it doesn't really matter what proof I provide.
@@mohamedkandil1789 Wow!! What a great answer, sir. JazakAllah khair.
Alhamdullilah for being a Sunni Muslim woman, we marry to stay with each other we don't say we marry for "short term"
Sunnis have come up with their own version, is called Mesyar and obviously is not from Islam but sadly endorsed by corrupt scholars and embraced by ignorant men and women. These false marriages are meant to destroy families and to normalize promiscuity.
But isn't short term marriage arrangements allowed in your religion ? It's in your holy book . So why should it be wrong if it's in your book ?
@@ghafranhaque7161 Misyar is not a temporary marriage, get it right. It simply means marriage but you don't have to fully belong to the man. He will be your husband but you can choose not to live with him. Normal nikah still has to be done and if they decide to divorce proper talaq still needs to be done. It is ideal for people who are in situations where they aren't ready to be a full time wife i.e long distance relationship, they want to marry so that they can be intimate without it being haram but this way she can take her time before moving in with him or the classic one if they are both students and want to marry - again so that they can be intimate - but if the girl doesn't want to leave her family yet or feels not ready to move in with him or if the boy isn't financially ready to provide for her then misyar is so that they can be protected with marriage but they give up some of the rights (her moving out, him providing for her). Temporary marriage is strictly time-based, no different to prostitution. Misyar is not time-based.
@ديار عبد الرضا هادي عبود what is muttah ?
@@omanicc9854 u just twisted and turned words. Essentially it means u can hve sex with a woman whom you don't want to marry, or bcos u r already married and you r sexually deprived...which can be done in a temporary arrangements .
Tell me after all this shit, what is happening to that girl . In this time and era, this is called prostitution. Your religion is trying to give prostitution a higher standard just bcos men just want to have sex and they find some woman to serve them.. isn't this a shame in your society ? If it's not, I don't know what kind of society u live in.
Marriage is sacred, not taken seriously. Shame on humanity! 🙄
Shame on the misinterpretation of sacred rules by clerics!
Who told you that?
Very true
@Ali al-Dulaimi علي الدليمي Correct; however, some Sunni clergies in Saudi Arabia also authorizes such an un-Islamic marriage under the name of Misyaar, which is also wrong!
Marriage is BS.
Not just Shia Muslims do this. I've come across alot of Sunni men trying to do this with women as means to "date in a halal (permissable) way" "free from sin" supposedly, but that puts the woman at a huge disadvantage when it comes to getting out of such an arrangement. Men want the sex without the full commitment and responsibility whilst at the same time stripping a woman of her rights. They typically prey on women who don't know any better.
the is no such thing as temporary marriage in islam
That is just a pure lie, it is not allowed in Sunni Islam to have a temporary marriage. Yes, you may find some so-called "Muslim" pays for sex, but he is considered a sinner because it is NOT allowed in Sunni Islam.
This isn't true...muttah is haram
Mutah in real Sunni Islam is not allowed but as we are trying to adjust into each other sects and are accepting them many of sunni man do that too...!
No: temporary marriage is not halal. It is cheap fornication. Don't try to justify it through inaccurate religious ref.
It is shia thing
Not halal but better than the cheating they do in the west
@@internettrihard2955 Are you shia?
@@freedylo8124 this is not a Muslim thing. Doesn’t matter if you’re Shia or Sunni. And no, I’m Sunni....
@@internettrihard2955
It’s not cheating, it’s prostitution plain and simple.
This is called the evilness of men's heart.
Shia only make up 15% of the muslim world population. They are not classified as real muslim by the real sunni Muslims who make up the other 85% of Muslims around the world. This type of sexual marriage is totally forbidden in Islam and there will be a grave eternal punishment in the hereafter according to the 85% sunni muslim who follow the Quran and Sunnah of the final Messenger Prophet Muhammed (pbuh).
Welcome to Islam
@@khashayar8989shia religion is Not ISLAM , Mutah(Temporary Marriage) is allowed in shia religion and shia religion is Not ISLAM so research before you write comment
@zahirkhan-yq3gr
Sunni : marrying 4 wives if not more no difference
Slavery : allowed in Islam allowed on conditions
Mohammad himself having slaves even worse
Taking ones wife as war slave allowed again in Islam the ultimate
Even allowed a child
Sunni and shia major difference:
Caliphate they believe in
Read and study :
Ali Hussain hassan
Then Usman. Yazid .Moaviyeh and rest of ummayds whom lived in palaces .Gold .Money. luxury
Which Islam isn't about
At least shias emams lived poor and lived Islam as should
While you sunni Caliphate lived in palaces and had luxury lives
@zahirkhan-yq3gr
Sunnis today 90 % :
Palestine issue ?
You all Quiet
Do nothing
Saudi all Gulf Arabs / US and Israel Allies and slaves
Who is standing against occupation?
Shias are
Lead by Iran
I say you sunnis are a Disgrace
I know Islam and its evil history back to front I think you have no clue what crimes your religion did
Read its history
Research it
Biggest Slavery in man's history is through Islam
All legal allowed by Islam
It's centre was Mecca
Till 1962
Gulf was the very last place on earth for stopping Slavery
Which not stopped totally
Still exist
Travel to Dubai. Saudi.kuwait
You see it
I am a X Muslim
Last thing you want to teach me be Islam
I am a reverted sunni muslim, and where I live we have a lot of Lebanese, they are Shia. And yes they do the temporary marriage.
And it's so wrong
May god guide them the right path.
This is prostitution and not allowed in Islam.
A marriage needs to be official with 2 witnesses and there walis (fathers) about this new bound.
@Prophet Xi jinping Yes for three nights and not just for hours and against money as handled in prostitution. As well the marriage needs to be official, with drums and witnesses for this new bound. This is just adultery and needs normally to get punished through death. Astaghfirullah. Just disgusting
@Prophet Xi jinping Look, you are comparing here apples with melons. Sex with slaves is permitted through god and even mentioned in the Qur‘an. But today there are no slaves existing anymore and this has absolutley nothing to do with this temporary marriages thing or do you want now to equalize the slaves from ancient days with women from today? Do me a favor and stay within the topic or gain your knowledge before raising your voice as it is a big sin in Islam to talk without and spreading the untruth. May god bless and love you and guide you to the straight path.
@@juliabenredjem772 so God say you can have sex with slave no problem because slaves aren't human being right. Quran say earth is flat and so many things which are proved wrong now. I am sure you have never studies Islamic history and don't know nothing about your religion.
@@juliabenredjem772 there are slaves available now in today's time. Go and visit the Kings and Shieks palaces in Arab Gulfs countries and you will know. Arabs Gulf rich used to buy young Pakistani children for camel racing and lot of them used to die by falling. What you are talking. Muslims say Islamic teaching are forever and you are saying since no slaves now the teachings don't apply. Go learn first.
2.17 I like Jewish family, they look happy and faithful to each other. I Polish christian, in happy marriage for 20 years, 2 kids.
This cannot be halal no way ...absolutely impossible
You are right. The prophet declared it haram and it still stands till this day
Fools! Allah approved it in the Quran, but Mohammed (SAW) abolished it in thé Hadith. I say that Muslims worship Mohammed and Allah otherwise, how do you make it haram on the basis of the prophets word whiles Allah approved of it. The Shia are right to be following this Sunna.
@@Colls-m8i , can you give a single verse of the Holy Qur'an supporting the idea of temporary marriage?
When you do evil shit, but you want God's blessing while doing it
Haha. True
That's exactly what it is, facts.
2 days ago an İraqi shia man talked to me in istanbul about this fake marriage called pleasure marriage who has no foundation in islam. I listened to him than asked him do you accept this to your daughter and his face turned blue .A prostitution mere and simple since money is involved and a time limited marriage is completely opposite of what Islam requires As a person who comes from Tunisia which is completely Sunni Islam such concepts are funny for me
@@chawquee where did this concept of pleasure marriage come from?
Sounds like America
I'm a Sunni Muslim. I was shocked when a Shiite offered me a "mutta marriage"...I told him, " no thanks, I value myself too much to let a man use me that way and just by his request, he is not worthy"...I was REALLY insulted. This is NOT Islam!
Yeah, asking legally is haram. But when you have sex without any nikah that's fine.
@@arashamiri9622 EXCUSE ME!...do you know me?. I'm very proud of being the Muslimah that I am and I will wait until someone can make a real commitment to me!!!.. maybe others find it acceptable, I don't!!!
@@zahrajames5941 sister respect your self they are doing prostitution, Islam alcohol was allowed at one point , doesn’t mean it’s allowed rn . They manipulate the religion. We follow the sunnah of the prophet Mohammed he clearly forbid these acts once Islam was complete just like he did for alcohol may Allah bless you for rejecting their zina
@@arashamiri9622 do you offer your sisters in the same way to as I'm interested and before you say it it ain't Halal for our women but it is yours ;
@@zahrajames5941subhanallah. I hope that you get good husband
Anyone wearing those sunglasses inside is hiding the truth from his very own soul.
@Sss Sss How come to only those two Shia (the woman and the guy) were having eye problems from the others in this video?!
@Sss Sss Actually these two were wearing those dark glasses to hide their facial identities, or how they thought lol. If this is true (trying conceal their identities) tells you that they know that they were doing something are unacceptable in the society and that they felt shame about it.
Omg I was wondering if anyone will talk about that
@@touringthecitywalking9209 Exactly my thoughts.
Depands some have problems to see in slightest lights
" No one knows I've lost my virginity"
Well girl, they do now!!!!
No hay was the point of this message?
@@eunjungbong5856 she said that nobody knows that's she lost her virginity, and I said that after watching this video, it will be known by many.
That's what my message says, so there was a point to it.
@Jaci Abu well, we will never know!
@@974pk Maybe they won't because she was "cleverly" wearing that black glasses, which will conceal her "identity" lol!
@@touringthecitywalking9209 exactly. That was clever, wish I'd have thought of that 🤣🤣🤣
In medieval Ireland there was different degrees of marriage. From marriage that would last a lifetime to a marriage that would last a night. Its thought it protected children from the scar of illegitimacy.
Then the medieval Irish must have been practising something similar to Shia's way of life
@@hassannur7443 Of course. Catholism and Shiite Islam are very similar. After all, they are both Abrahamic Religions.
It was before Christianity became wide spread. It was a Druidic belief that every child was legitimate and was coveted by some definition of marriage.
@@m_d1905 no the druids went extinct in the 6th century, This was law til the 17th century
Permanent marriage and temporary marriage???, great for the man as always not for his permanent wife. Nothing to do with faith or religion how about fidelity and morals????
Yes, indeed... ''The hypocrisy'' It's Disgusting
Here in my country Saudi Arabia this kind of marriages are forbidden they are completely Haram. Marriage meant to be permanent forever the woman should always have the right to inherit and to have kids
@Justinthe Comments No you are Lying if mutta marriage is in any way in Quran then why sunny muslim never do it
On the dot.
@@Noonooooo there are lots of thing in Quran which Sunnis don't follow. The problem with most of Sunnis are they don't know their religion and the ones they know they don't tell the truth.
Who is he kidding? If a friend or his wife happens to be watching this (long shot of course), she can see it is him with the sunglasses.
This temporary or muta marriage is similar to one night stand practiced by Europeans.
@E A most europeans have such onenight stand ,at the end of it both parties disappear
Buy why to be hopocrites and call this marrage not prostitution.It is not one night stand,there is no money involved in one night
OST Europeans do not do this though you might be given that impression from the media.
And coated with halal sugar 🙄
Actually, most Europeans do NOT behave this way. Most Europeans are actually respectable, with healthy morals and principles. But those that DO indulge in this behavior are not trying to make excuses or justify it with BS doctrine. And they are not in denial about it.
Why do women endure any religion that dictates that she is a drag on humanity, when in fact she is the means by which humanity must exist? Are men envious of that and act out by punishing women? But, it is fair to mention that there have been societies that respect womanhood. We must again explore that.
please put the original title of the documentary to give a clearer perspective and context to the viewer
1) Both Muslim protagonists wore dark glasses... very telling!
2) While the Jewish wife reiterated, again & again, that intimacy with any man other than her husband was forbidden to her, he never once made that specific reciprocal affirmation... wonder why?
3) Why only the sexuality of a Buddhist monk was explored, but not that of the clergy of the monotheistic faith?
Regarding Judaism in your second assertion, the same laws of gender separation and purity of marriage applies equally to men.
The mature German couple are absolutely beautiful! I hope I can be that sanguine as I age.
Thank Catholicism!
Yeah I think you can tell which relationship was blessed, they were in love, they got married and still love eachother. You don't need 19 kids to prove your marriage works. I've heard in some of the countries that have honor killing religious leaders say that a "love marriage" has a 90% or more chance to fail so they should absolutely avoid that and instead get an arranged marriage. Then where do all the happy couples in my family and in the west come from? I don't think marriage from obligation leads to real love like these catholic people have. Especially not with all the female oppression and rape, how can you want to have sex with a guy you don't know? So the wedding night starts with rape by a guy who has no idea how to please a woman.
Was literally just about the say the same thing. So wholesome :-) I love how they made their decisions together and made them because of love for each other
The life long bond must have been created with a friendship first, before they embarked on a relationship. I think that is why, they can and do hold hands, after the passion has waned. 🤔
@@Iflie Yep, that's about it.
It's called prostitution. Amen ✝️💟
Yes and Al nikah mu'tah.
Jesus is Prince of Peace and King of Kings. Jesus is Lord amen 🙏
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
Yes there is prostitution in shia religion and shia-ism is Not ISLAM
I have never seen such a thing, that is innovation ! in Islam, marriage complets half of your religion, it's not a way to just fulfill your desires, how come muslims ended up thinking this ? Allah yhfad wAllah
It's the Shia, people of innovation not mainstream muslims
@@abbysheyba8421 yes, that is sad, but they're attached to Islam
because its human nature, we are controlled by our hormones even though we shouldn't be. I say this as a woman.
Isn't this the main reason why men wish they could take a second wife? Its never been about anything other than sex.
@@omanicc9854 Human are torn between desires and reason, we make the choice between them, we are to blame for choosing our desires over wisdom and reason (it doesnt mean it is to late to change our mind). Men take a second wife for other reasons, the sole purpose of this arrangement is to finnancially support women.
Brilliant documentary! I find other cultures extremely interesting.
Okay, from baking cakes and cookies to journeys on trains and now all the way i fell into a whole new rabbit hole on TH-cam.
Pardon me, I'm off to learn everything I possibly can on life as a 'Monk'.
For real. Lol!
The only thing that I disagree with about this video is the perspective of Christianity only coming from a Catholic point of view. It's so vague and does not represent all Christians denominations.
It would be the same if any other Christian denomination was chosen. I think the documentary is focusing on more orthodox faiths, many of which aren’t understood by all.
Same with what theyve done with representing islam
And it's the same with Islam. They've represented Islam with Shias who are very different from your average Sunni orthodox Muslim. These Shia tend to be far from Islam and their beliefs don't even fit in with the basic tenants of Islam.
True! Catholics do NOT represent all Christians!
Most audiences would understand that, no problem
It looked more like a deliberate attempt to discredit Islam.
They show orthodox jews which have similar values to main stream Sunni Islam but go to show a very different picture of Islam.
Exactly
they should discredit both religions lol. it doesn't make their point any less valid
Bloody pathological born liar like your.. islam is a curse upon women and humanity at large.. Islam is all about sex & Senseless Killing of non believers of Islam... Demons
@@fibby-enymore6601 Islam is not even close to being like that. Think: if Islam is about terrorism and there are billions of Muslims in the world, don't you think you would be dead by now?
Where did you get these ideas? Christian Prince? This man himself has been caught lying so many times. His videos are based upon slandering Islam. If you actually care about the truth, why don't you talk to Muslims about Islam rather than someone with a hateful agenda. If I want to learn about Christianity, should I talk to a militant atheist or a Christian?
@@qmr0n Plss don't bring that your Taqiyya here okay.. I know better okay as a Christian now.. Explain the below Quran verses for me:
Quran 9v28-30
Quran 5v51
Quran 3v28 etc..
I forget what it's called but basically it is a marriage where the wife lives seperately pays her own way. The husband is not responsible for any of her expenses but they can legally sleep together
Misyar
@@TheOrganics01 thank you, I have forgotten
It’s amazing, but this is true of all religions, that the rules can be interpreted and reinterpreted for convenience, so almost any transgression can be justified in some way. And, who are theses women that would even agree to a “temporary marriage” ? I wonder if they are forced into it.
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i am a practicing sunni muslim and what this video is showing about shia muslim and temporary marriages is not acceptable nor allowed in islam. Sunni make up 80% of all muslims. marriage is sacred and for the long term and must be publicly known not temporary and not in secret. The woman's status is honored and respected in public. The married couple needs to have patience with each other, mercy, compassion and understanding. The man can't just go find another woman like a new toy. How can you honor and respect a woman if you marry her temporarily and in secret? that is not islam. Its a business and they are abusing and using religion wrongly to justify their desires (whether money or lust). May God guide us all to the right path. amen.p.s. these women might be poor and in need of money so they subject themselves to these temporary marriages. its unfortunate and in this case, be a man, marry her properly and give her a good life.
Is why men can have 4 wife’s ? Is that for pleasure or love, how can you be inlove with 4 people at the same time, what kind of a cult is this 😂
men were not obligated to have 4 wives ,they were allowed to have 4 wives in certain situations if if was necessary for them ,like if they wanted kids and the first wife couldn't have them and they dont want to leave her so she can marry for kids again without leaving his first wife ,and having kids especially sons was a big deal back then even now.secondly at that time there used to be alot of widowers and women's converting to islam being rejected by their families ,soo the muslims were advised to have them as wives to provide financial support as well as sexual satisfaction so that they are not in need of sinning. but only if you can treat all wives equally .if cannot then they cannot marry .now this not a common practice for men now I think ,it is seen more as a bad thing nowadays even in some Muslim countries.and it is a right for the first wife to divorce her husband if she does want him to have second wife also she can state in the marriage certificate that she does not allow him to have a second wife ,then he cannot.
Sorry but this just shows you know nothing about your religion, first of all marriage in islam is called nikkah, but nikkah also means sexual intercourse, can you imagine the English word sex also meaning marriage ? how ridiculous would that be 😂😂 literally reducing women to just sexual objects, why would you use the word sex also as marriage that’s disgusting, but that’s exactly the case in islam, that’s why you can have up to 4 because they are literally your sex partners nothing to do with marriage, and you said it was a temporary thing ? Please show me one source we’re it says marrying 4 wife’s was a temporary thing, you can’t because it wasn’t just meant for that time it was meant for all the time other wise it would have said it clearly that it’s only meant for this time but as I said you cannot show me any proof, also the fact that you msulsims Are making up so many excuses saying it was only meant for that time even tho it doesn’t say that anywhere shows how embarrassed and ashamed you guys are of this practice, at least shia Muslims are proud and aren’t shamed 😂😂 your prophet Mohamed had 13 wife’s and he’s sippouse to be the best example lol how you guys can call Mohamed the best example for mankind is mind boggling, war is not an excuse to have so many female partners, if he really wanted to help them then he could have just help, did he have to marry them in order to help them ? also if this was only meant for that time then please tell me why millions of Muslims still practice this till today, do you know why ? Because it does NOT say anywhere that it was meant just for that time, Mohamed hijab was being interview the other day by Jordan Paterson daughter and he proudly said to her that YES it is Islamic to have up to 4 wife’s so please stop telling people it was only meant for that time unless you can show proof!!!
It's prostitution
@@learningis7857 I didn't say it was for that time only .I said it is allowed but not obligated .if you are happy with one then there is nothing wrong in it.also it doesn't only happen in islam it happens in alof of other religions like all 4 5 men marrying a same lady or men marrying 9 or 10 women in Thailand etc .so there is always some sort of polygamy happening everywhere let it be a couple with a mistress on the side or a couple with an extramarital affair on side soo please stop this nonsense of yours.and dont pretend to be such a pure soul not wanting or having sexual needs.being intimate is the most important part of a relation ship.
I guess it's not surprising that people use any argument to convince themselves that they're not sinning against God... But still makes me sad.
38:40 you just guided people to do the same sinful act you're warning them about, but gave it a different name to legalize it. What nonsense is this?
From all religions shown, only Buddhist monks openly talk about their desire for physical love and seem to find solutions to avoid it. Others just bend the rules so that man can do what they want with no regards to women's rights, dignity, opportunities and so on.
I find it hard to believe that man and woman are created equal, if man create all sorts of rules to exploit women.
How about Hinduism?
Men make up the religious rules to suit themselves and then change them to suit themselves...
Temporary marriage is a joke and most Muslim including myself know it's wrong. I have three different men propose me to have sex with them by doing temporary marriage. Young men use it as a "loophole" for premarital sex. You say a sentence and then its "halal" to have sex. Ridiculous
Allah revealed that alcohol was haram in three different stages, like for instance, it was haram to be drunk and pray, but I don’t understand why allah didn’t reveal that sex slavery was wrong, Child marriage is wrong and physically damaging ,that mutah was wrong, fgm was permissible still but should have been abolished too and if your wife doesn’t behave .. Allah will “give you new and better wives” making it a huge excuse and free pass for domestic violence against women. research his relationship to the sex slave Maria; that ordeal with him getting caught in his wives bed with her 🤦🏾♀️ ..and his obtaining of his wife sofia
Or in qran sr 33 when you visit the prophet don’t stay too long, eat and leave soon (says prophet is too shy to Say anything)
This is clearly a man made religion to satisfy his needs and desires
Now I ask you kindly step back and see what yeshua the messiah says, do unto others what you want done to you .. love your neighbor , treat women like a fragile glass, love your enemy ... may Adonai make his light shine over you and his Messiah reveal himself to you.. shalom 👋
@@gracewillis6535 im good thanks lol
@@gracewillis6535 you talk about perfect Christ's message as if Christians never practice sex slavery or polygamy or child bride in their history
Catholic Spanish colonisation brought slavery to the indigenous Americans and yes, ofcourse it includes sex slavery.
Oh i come from Indonesia, which was colonised by Christian Dutch and Catholic Portuguese. (And also see Tordesillas agreement in which Portuguese and Spanish agreed to just divide all non Christian lands .... then colonised them, including servitude aka slavery. all in pretext of Christian teachings). until now there are Christian sects that allow polygamy practices. In 1729 Infanta Mariana Victoria of Spain married at 10 years old, after first engaged when she was only 3.
@@nailaf6832 Few will disagree that the Christianity practiced by Spanish imperialists was manipulative and false, dear. You will also find that the vast majority of Christians believe polygamist Mormonism is a cult following of Joseph Smith and not really the spirit of God. Christ, however, did not marry a 10 year old. Christ did not solicit new wives, nor did he encourage his followers to do the same. His mission was against the corrupt and false church and to show the true way. He sought no personal power, unlike false prophets. He was not angry toward women. There is no scripture of Christ that could be construed to condone the behaviors common to followers of other faiths.
@@nailaf6832 just as it is unfair of others to compare all of Islam to Wahhabist literalism, it's unfair to assert the behavior of Catholic Spaniards in the 18th century is true Christian dogma when there's really no evidence of this in the new testament of Christ.
We call it prostitution or adultery. Abuse but not temporary marriage.
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
I'm glad to have seen this and had so many commentators place their knowledge, thoughts and concerns. I was looking to convert to Islam from Christianity and I have to research everything on my own. So the chances of coming across something heinous and sinful is quite high. These deviations can cause someone to be taken advantage of if they are not equipped with the correct knowledge. Thank you to everyone that posted their opposition.
Two groups of islam- sunni and Shia. Sunni is about 90% Muslim. This video was talking about Shia practice. Sunni Muslims do not practice or believe in that practice.
Do a lot more research if you want to convert. Watch apostate prophet he does a good job criticizing. I promise you the more research you’ll do the more you’ll want to distance yourself from Islam
if you convert know that this isn't islam. Islam is with the sunni's. Shia's are doing things that are not ok in Islam ahstagfoerAllah
Islam is perfect, Muslims is not. We living in very difficult, hypersexual time. We must also understand that people like to change things. And this temporary marriage is not allowed in islam. This is innovation and every innovation leads to misguidance and misguidance leads to hell. In islam there is only a muslim and follow the Quran and the sunnah hadith of prophert Mohammed peace be upon him but check the authenticity of the hadith and the chain of narration. Bcz people make up and have their own beliefs.
@@da5214apostate prophet has vdieo of 4 hours of his 107 lies exposed
"You can't shake the woman's hands because she may be menstruating..." , when I think I heard all crazy stuff in my life I realize there is much more.WTF, lol
What about if she has a kid from that temporary marriage? Would the "husband" accept the kid and help raise it?
Yes, from what i’ve read. but some don’t have intercourse in the way that is conducive to procreation if you catch my drift.
Temporary marriage is not Islamic their is no degnity in it, Allah doesn't sleep
But what about capturing women in wars? They can be use for sex without marriage. So what you say about this?
@@Hazara26 where there's war there's slave
@@robrob6719 😄
@@robrob6719 Ha ha ha. Go back to your cave or join the evil cult of islam!
@@abdillahijalalkhan2128 why should I read Bible. I am not talking here about the Bible but Islam. If you think Bible is right for the reference then you are rejecting Islam based on the Bible.
Marriage may last 3 hours or even less, and the man must pay for that time married with a woman? Do they have a marriage party as well and invite all their relatives and friends to know that they are going to marry for 3 hours? Just wondering... In the respect of the religion, of course.
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
there was clearly written it's a shia practice. if you're educated please bear in mind that this is not an islamic teaching at all!! talks about civilization while not even can understand how to read!
Exactly
Great documentary about the different beliefs and perceptions of the relationships between a man and a woman.
As ridiculous as they are
It is indeed a Nobel Public Awarenesses Education Services from your part.👍🏻 keep it up Sohail Karachi.
And in the books of the Sunnis, some of the companions of the Prophet who were born with the temporary marriage
I want to add mental proof
The legality of temporary marriage is a marriage so that a Muslim person does not adultery
That is not true my friend. Nowhere in Sunni books, you will find such a thing. It is a cheap try by the Shia to make it legitimate.
What a great video😃👍🏼🎉 please make more video's like this one. From all over the world regarding marriages, cheating the consequences etc..
Thank you for showing your video ☺️👍🏼💞
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
But what happens to the women when they have these temporary marriages they wouldn’t be able because they won’t be virgins
Exactly. This is not freedom for the women. It is simply religiously permitted prostitution.
In fact it is not religious permitted but the Shia do what they want and believe what they want. It‘s a big issue in the Muslim community.
Temporary marriage in Shia is that if a woman gets pregnant the man has to support his child
@@juliabenredjem772 It is permitted in the evil cult of islam!
Poor widows might find temporary Marriage a way to be supported by men.if she gets pregnant the father will have to support the child
The german who is commenting on Jewish sexuality and customs give explanations colored through the lens of his religious background and traditions. Jewish women don't shake hands with random men, but it is not because of menstruation but a realistic perspective of how men and women function and how 'grey areas can lead to unacceptable behaviors that run rampant in today's world, often ruining marriages.
So shaking hands in the modern context can lead to impure thoughts? Good gracious, but this is hardly permissive. Can't righteous people keep their pants on? Doesn't this type of religious stricture actually nurture naughty thoughts instead of quelling them? (Also, I know that amongst the Orthodox, a woman's menstrual cycle does make her "unclean" and untouchable, even to her own husband. I still ask, without bias if anyone can explain why these archaic laws still exist in contemporary society.
@@maggiefollett636 The most concise and detailed explaination I have ever found is in a book by Rabbi Manis Friedman called, 'The Joy of Intimacy'. It is an easy and facinating read.
Sounds like the same reasons it’s forbidden in Islam . I don’t see why Muslims and Jews should feel ashamed to say so if asked about it. I wouldn’t want to shake a strange man’s hands either . It just feels awkward and why should I make something that feels awkward as normal by repeated practise ? Because society says so? Society tells us to do many things that are
Immoral also . Do we do all those things ? No because l get to decide how i choose to live . And last time I checked it wasn’t illegal to refuse to shake a man’s hand. In fact not very long ago even in the west women were seen as somewhat loose or immodest if they didn’t wear gloves and shook a man’s hands skin on skin ,’more so if she had “just come out”. Even the queen wore gloves . Perhaps they should ask why she was so apparently backward ?😂
@@passionatepapercraft I don’t think she cares those people just like to argue and put their beliefs on a pedestal . Believe in their beliefs otherwise they will never accept you . I say tell them respectfully to take a hike
A perfectly made documentary, congrats!
I thank God everyday for not being born into a middle eastern culture as a woman, it's unconscionable, the rules that apply to the gratification of only men.
Yep it’s a shithole
This is shia Islam, a sect of Islam that make their own rules
Doesn’t matter what race you are born into. A specific sect of Islam is distorting what’s allowed and not allowed.
The German guy speaking about Judaism is talking about I.d say the Haraidim(Ultra Othodox)Very strict rules,the live in Israel but like in a ghetto.The young couple I.d class them Modern Orthodox,there's so many different levels of the Jewish faith.Shabbat Shalom💙
Shia are not Muslims..they brand of yahoodi (jews) so they get married temporarily..Sunni Muslims do not get married like that..because Islam does not allow us to get married temporarily
@@desiboy1669 Sorry mate Shia’s are Muslim.
I wouldn’t say they’re Jewish that’s not accurate . They are a sect and not part of Islam true . They have too many beliefs which seem to be steeped in other religions and even pagan practises .
Even though I am Sunni and I don't believe in these marriages. I think Christians should be the last people to call out others on adultery and prostitution . How would you say and classify the couples who live together without marriage ? Majority of Christian couples living together before marriage and will get married only after they get pregnant or after having children
That is way better than temporary marriage ( prostitution in the name of marriage 😝) . Don’t defend the indefensible…..
@@sweetman5249 Temporary marriage can't be prostitution since the woman has a waiting period of 3 months after leaving such contract. It is called Idda' period in Islam. It is more like a boyfriend/girlfriend contract. You can't make money jumping from one man to one man with 3 months waiting period.
@@reezis1619 Don’t defend Islam. It has so many ugly things as any other religion. Islam is worse than others . Don’t appreciate islam . The whole world knows it .
@34:10, on marriage definition and matters of the hearts, the Lady says it very clearly and correctly.
Narrated ‘Ali: I said to Ibn ‘Abbas, “During the battle of Khaibar Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho
Alaihi Wasallam) forbade (Nikah) Al-mut’a and the eating of donkey’s meat.”
Sahi Bukhari (Book #62, Hadith #50)
This is totally wrong.. shiah is not Islam. Even they hate our Prophet Muhammad saw and recite in Saidina Ali name. Their prayer also different than us .
It's sahih authentic.
@@skellingtonmeteoryballoon no it's not lol
No they don't hate the prophet, they put him before Hazrat Ali, don't call them wrong entirely just because you disagree with one aspect or two. That's quite immature, do your research please.
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From what I understand The advent of this marriage was originally for to enforce contractual obligations through the theocratic state in the case where children were born. The alternative being casual affairs would not afford any recourse were children were born. I don’t think morality is part of the equation here !
It was narrated from al-Rabee’ ibn Sabrah al-Juhani that his father told him that he was with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said, “O people, I used to allow you to engage in mut’ah marriages, but now Allaah has forbidden that until the Day of Resurrection, so whoever has any wives in a mut’ah marriage, he should let her go and do not take anything of the (money) you have given them. Muslim
Allah has made marriage one of His signs which calls us to think and ponder. He has created love and compassion between the spouses, and has made the wife a source of tranquility for the husband. He encouraged us to have children and decreed that a woman should wait out the ‘iddah period and may inherit. None of that exists in this haraam form of marriage.
Shiism has nothing to Do with islam!
Ok so this basically used to happen in the time of jahiliya
@@mutashim123 No majority of the people of sahaba used to practice Mut'ah during the prophets lifetime, however it was banned later on. It did not happen in jahilya
What that guy said is true; issues/standards of sexual morality are dictated by men; it is very patriarchal. Also it's unfortunate that some religions view sex only as a means to produce offspring and not for pleasure. Just sad.
BTW I love how blunt all interviewees in this documentary are. Absolutely Brilliant! 😊😍
Not sure its sad or as though viewing sex merely as an outlet for temporary immediate sexual gratification is any "happier". Our society is replete with the consequences of the pleasure viewpoint and there's a lot of sadness there too.
You can tell from this video how life become so pretensious or even hard to get by when it's not supposed to be. Just because of these cultures, beliefs, costumes, traditions and etc. Time and life is wasted..
Too much music filler. Otherwise good, interesting video.
This is soooo wrong how Islam is portrayed in marriage (temporary marriage)????? There is no such thing as a temporary marriage. The only reason a man was given a right to marry upto 4 women was there were too many widowed women at the time due to many wars, and instead of these women falling into prostituion or being used, if a man was able to provide for and treat all his wives EQUALLY he was given this right BUT with ONLY the permission of the wife/wives. He literally says if the wife finds out about the temporary marriage there will be trouble. Well you are not living Islam, but just trying to make up things to suit your needs. This is not Islam, this is NOT the way it is in the KORAN/QURAN
God gave a man and a women a body that is naturally made with the physical abilities of natural feelings. It’s not natural to ignore what God intended us to have and feel.
We majority (Sunni) Muslims don’t agree with temporary marriages just for the record. As the woman in the video perfectly described it as “prostitution” and that’s exactly what it is..
In temporary marriages, theres no money involved except for the dowry given as a gift to the woman AND it must be made public. If the woman falls pregnant and if the 2 partners decide to turn this temporary marriage into a permanent one, they can
What about if she has two temporary marriages. Who is the father? Can you why Allah has prohobited this practice?
@@hassannur7443 if someone has 2 temporary marriages then the same rule applies as for a divorce. There's a waiting period of 3 months after the first union before re-marrying to make sure that the woman isnt pregnant. In 2021, we also have access to DNA tests 😉
@@holdup1036 shaytaani practice not islaam at all.
@@nuurajirday409 no idea what your comment is referring to but, in any event, who are we to judge? Let God be the Judge
It is paid prostitution. Plain and simple. You will always find some Shia trying to play down the ugliness of temporary marriage.
The part, „where you do things to or with another woman but not your wife...“
Are we talking „not being able to control urges“ which on every spiritual level within any religion is the ultimate goal in order to not fall apart/astray? Who initiated prostitution and still „declares it a service“…and makes sure it‘ll always be available...under whatever name or condition? The common men.
Having worked on two occasions with monks in Asia, I can attest everything that was said. Nevertheless, some of them were very funny and some of them left the monastery to live regular lives.
Schöne Doku und ich danke für die verschiedenen Ansichten ☺️👍🏻
How do men feal about a legit marriage for life. With a woman who was a temporary marriage arrangements
I think... they are not allowed to stay together for life as it’s a temporary contract. You’re beautiful by the way (no I’m not married🤣).
Can someone please educate me further regarding the Jewish faith and their beliefs about women menstruating. I love to learn about all the traditions and practices, and I have watched many documentaries but I'm still confused about the this. Does refraining from touching the woman whilst bleeding start from puberty or just when married? They did mention it wasn't spoken about, so how do they know when it starts and stops? Is there something they do to signal the beginning and end or are they allowed to say only when it starts and finishes?
Islam differentiates between sexual relations and marriage (He is not recognized unless there is a childbearing, and marriage is not a condition that it be permanent)
Well, this series did a good job affirming the basic evil of organized religion for me.
Shia only make up 15% of the muslim world population. They are not classified as real muslim by the real sunni Muslims who make up the other 85% of Muslims around the world. This type of sexual marriage is totally forbidden in Islam and there will be a grave eternal punishment in the hereafter according to the 85% sunni muslim who follow the Quran and Sunnah of the final Messenger Prophet Muhammed (pbuh).
There’s an important Hadith that deals with this situation as well as every situation possible.
“Every action, depends on the intention”
Even if no person is watching them or asking about their intention. Allah (God) knows what they hide and what’s in their hearts.
Edit: to add to the lady talking at 34:00. The prophet (pbuh) clearly said in numerous Hadith. If a marriage is kept a secret and not announced to the public then it’s not halal (paraphrasing).
That’s deep what you said because I’m sure there is a Hadith or saying that when you get married make sure the drums bang loud or something like that
Not Muslim...but I couldn’t agree more! 👍
@@xrayz1094 Yup! The two times when drums were heard (usually) was either for a wedding celebration or for an incoming battle (war).
Woman is a threat to a man striving to be a divine creature? Wow, that sounds harsh. I thought women were supposed to be helping the man be more... divine at some point. Sheesh.
Sexuality is personal, for some monogamy permanent relationships, for others poligyny, for others temporary relationships so everyone should go for what they believe is good for them. We should stop dictating what people do in their private personal bedroom with their personal body
Exactly
@4:01
The Jewish brother is talking about Jewish men can only “shake hand with mother, wife, and daughters. “beyond that it’s strictly”. So it’s ok if they do it, but if Muslims practice the same law we are picked on. Do you ladies and gentlemen see the double standards???
I see it!
@@لولو-ع9غ5ج
Thank you
But in real life every Jew ever greeted me with hand shake, so... Do reality check, please.
@@Mikrokozma33 I don’t mean to show any disrespect towards your faith. I am just say that Islam is not the only religion that suggest that men and women should not shake hands.
Weather you do it or not it’s for bidden in your religion. And you heard the gentleman himself saying it.
@Zs
What the hell is that???
With all the people calling it prostitution because of a payment / mahr/ dowery, yall forget that in a permanent Islamic marriage there is also a dowery or mahr, and the dowery system exists all over the world, doesn’t matter if it’s permanent or temporary marriage. So if muta is prostitution, then permanent marriage also prostitution plus slavery.
It is indeed prostitution.. I think the meaning of mahr in old times was different than this.. I don't know so much so I am not commenting on that.. But even if you take the dowry out of this setup, it still counts as prostitution.. Because your only expectation out of that 'temporary marriage' is sex and sometimes more vulgar sex.. Because these men have fantasy that they cannot ask their wives or they disagreed.. So they are asking these temporary wives.. This whole idea sounds bullshit and destroys the purpose of marriage
@@AbzerKelminalPM there are so many people who do it to get to know another person, and they decide not have sex. Think of it like dating. Long term this does away with so many issues such as finding the right fit before locking it down permanently.
Second point: Abraham was married to Sarah, but had his first child through Hagar from where Ismael and his descendant, Prophet Muhammad pbuh came from. Abraham and Hagar did not have ever a permanent marriage. Pray tell, how did Abraham legitimately have son from Hagar? Those who want to use muta for sex and pleasure will use it the same way some can use a car to run over people. The problem here is ignorance. Research it deeper.
I really don’t know how you are talking about vulgar sex and seems your biases and ignorance is showing. Please check your sources and common sense, you can have vulgar sex with your permanent wife as well. Depends if you are a pervert or not.
I have never heard of temporary marriage as a pleasure marriage, maybe it is being nicknamed as a pleasure marriage by people who only use it for sex. There are strict rules to muta, such as that after the contract ends the couple cannot get married to anyone else for 2 menstruation cycles after, same a permanent marriage. Yes some may misuse muta the same way polygamy is misused.
Finally, this was allowed by the Prophet and since the Prophet Muhammad pbuh was under direct orders from God, not one has the right to make halal into haram. Please use some common sense and look into it.
Islam is such a modern religion, shame that most of the “Muslims” here commenting are backwards af.
@@faiza.2427 mutha has been abrogated. What do you mean Islam
Is a modern religion ? If you mean it’s applicable to modern times and all times I agree . But Islam isn’t a modern religion as such.
If you are Shia obviously you will see Mutha as a legitimate practise .
The society must try to keep the necessary distance with respect from these religious people (monks). Their prayer is working for all of us in all these years since time counting system. I sincerely bow to them.
It's funny how they claim to love God so much, that God is perfect, all seeing, all knowing, but they think that they can deceive God with their "temporary marriage", like they really think they are smarter than God. Well we all know who won't be making it to Jannah with their "temporary marriages".
Commom practice in shia countries. That's what happens when they move away from the Sunnah and make their own Islam
There is nothing forbypu in jannat! Only for the gross men!
I simply want to know why we can not think out of the religion and ideologies we were born into. This is where humanity fails as we can not discern between right and wrong ourselves and need religion and culture to play that role on our behalf.
What’s the difference between temporary marriage and prostitution???
She is saying I marry you for one ☝️ hour for 30 dollars 💵.
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Is there any other religion on earth which has such traditions
There is no difference between temporary marriage and prostitution. Prostitution by any other name is still prostitution. The contract is still the same, money for sex. The marriage part is to legitimise the contract under the guise of religion, but prostitution by any other name is still prostitution. No other religion sanctions prostitution except Islam and ancient idol woshipping cults.
I wonder why the content doesn't match the title. INteresting neverthless
The Buddhist part was intresting and enlightening..
If Buddha was alive today, he'd make more money 💵 than jenny Craig.
Buddha was a prince by birth, not an ordinary monk that's been depicted in this video...I think money wealth and pelf is not a problem for him because he was a prince who lived in ivory tower but his search and quest was for peace, which ultimately culminated into enlightenment and subsequently he began to spread peace whenever he went and his legacy lives even after 3000 years..
Once again those are men making the rules that it’s okay to have sex when your married. Such total BS
The lady on timespecrum 38:59 spoke the truth , call it whatever you call it, in the end it's about men who want pleasure without burdens.
Im a christian i belive sex in for a married couple but not just for child bearing. God gave this as a way to connect whit our other half. Its the most intimate sacred and deepest connection a woman and man can have
Marriage is not necessary public. People can marry in private ceremonies and it is fully according to the law.
Private doesn’t equate to secret. A private ceremony is usually public knowledge.
In Christianity it has to be public. You have to publish your intent to marry (called Bans) three weeks before the marriage, or acquire a special licence which means you can marry faster, but it's still publicly registered and you must have two witnesses to the marriage for it to be valid in a church (or civil) service.
@@abdillahijalalkhan2128 I didn't suggest there was anything wrong with it I simply explained the rules around Christian and civil marriage rites and law in the UK.
Dear Muslim heroes, the author of the video had a very clear purpose of disgracing Islam and you have helped him to achieve his purpose.
This ain't allowed in Islam that's all have a nice day.
Exactly
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I read that it is acceptable in the Quran!
@@schoolwork232 Nope. Read it again. Read a real english translated Quran and not something from google written by a random person.
@@schoolwork232 no it isn't.
Marriage and the committment to the union formed by marriage
is the bone and sinew of every socity. It exists first and foremost
to provide a framework for the raising of children that result from
the sexual union of male and female.
Children not only have a better chance of survival when the
parents and the extended family protect and care for the
children. Children thrive from being in an extended family
that respect the members of said family.
"Temporary Marriage" is akin to religion-sponsored prostitution.
It does not provide for the children resulting from the sex in
the temporary marriage.
Things like bride-price and dowry are sometimes part of
written marriage agreements to provide for the children
resulting from the marriage. These are not the same as
money given in a temporary marriage.
This is a doctored presentation. To my understanding, by Shia laws, the woman cannot have another marriage until at least one menstrual period has passed. 2. Any children born are the responsibility of the real father.
There is no such thing as temporary marriage in Islam. Full stop!
Are you Islamic scholor and have studies Islamic history and studies? If not then don't just say things like this.
@@Hazara26 Read the Quran and the Seerah of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم. You will find your answer clear as day. Masalama.
@@purple4377 Quran is not true book and written by someone. And only Muslims think Quran is divine which is not actually. If you read Islamic history and research how Ummayad governer destroyed Kabba and killed so many people. And there is another guy who took black stone for 23 years and made his toilet but when Abbasi empire came they did some deal with him and brought the black stone back. Why Allah hasn't protacted his house. I have done my research and that is why don't follow Islam anymore.
@@Hazara26 Oh dear now I understand why you are so resistent against Islam. It is proven that the whole Qur’an is a wonder and no Poet or Writer in the ancient of days and until today was ever capable of to build some equal verses like you find in this book. And there are many other related wonders not only to the stylistic itself. Search and you will find some information which will leave you breathless. I promise. I am sorry that you lost your way and pray that god my guide you pack to the right path. Take care
@@juliabenredjem772 first of all research about history of the Quran. The Quran at Mohd's time no where to be found now. And you said, Quran is confirmed and wonder. So for your information there are things written in Quran proven to be wrong like earth is flat etc. 2nd the things written in Quran stolen from Bible and people already knew 500 years before Islam. Quran is wonder only for Muslims which they claim but not for the rest of the world.