1. Women that are demanding, you better suggest. Men like to feel like they are choosing. 2. Keeping around other men. Don’t let him know about other men. 3. Money hungry. Don’t focus on his money, focus on emotional connection and talk about the passion about his work. What part of his job does he like etc. 4. Keeping tabs on him. You come across as desperate and as you don’t have a life because you’re appears checking on him. 5. Being the first man that treats you right. If he’s the only one that is treating you well, you’re signaling that you’re not as valuable or desired by other men. He has to think that other men are chasing you.
he must not know about other men yet he has to think other men are chasing us? pls lmk how to do that. cuz i always stay away from dudes and they dont approach me either so i fear my bf will think im not desirable
I know. You apparently have to somehow draw a crowd of 15 guys around you that you're NOT interested in, so that ONE stupid guy you do like will finally feel like it's "safe" to believe you're attractive. Which proves.... men can't think for themselves! And they're not really interested in women! They're only interested in what other men think!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️. It IS exhausting....🙄🙄🤕🤕😶🌫️
Same, idk why I get sucked into vids like this; but it does confirm to me that choosing not to date makes so much more sense, than whatever logic men operate on.
Thanks! Your videos give a great insight into men's minds and the more I watch the more I'm convinced I shouldn't care about men at all. They're basically emotionally unstable as a default and they demand something unreal. And any time they're being given a proper treatment (honest, open-minded, opened to fun and communication, full of care) they're not able to be grateful towards it and end up being hateful or disrespectful. This is crazy, this is something I cannot agree to adjust to. But I think it's their loss.
I was once dating a man. One morning at breakfast I put my pizza leftovers from the night before in the microwave oven and when finished I sat down at the table ready to eat. He looks at me, snob as he was, and said with a arrogant voice " Huh? You cant eat pizza for breakfast. Thats just something you cant do" MEANWHILE he said this, he was making himself a sandwich; white flour bread, butter, cheese, ham and tomato 😂
I'm so sorry... that's a narcissist! always instigating an argument!! RUN from these borderline UNTESTED psychopaths ⬅️... tbh it was the negative energies inside of him TRYING to call you out
Number 3 took me out "How many Chanel Bags am I getting?" -- AND because it's funny that these men KNOW exactly what these / most women (that are attracted to them for their financial status) want -- BUT they still want those women to PRETEND to be focused on something else -- creating the "gamification" of the relationship.
this is great advice to not hurt his whittle baby feelings. men are sensitive, fragile and dumb. i appreciate you validating this with how to "handle" these whittle babies with widdle kiddie gloves.
Sometimes I can't believe I had a guy who told me where we were going to eat even though I told him I couldn't and didn't like that kind of food. I had to 'demand' he take me back home...😂
Résume: be too demanding, still be on contact with my ex, too demanding about money, be a detective by doing interviews control, tell him that the others men treated me badly
Tomisin, the first part was especially helpful because it helped me figure out how to bring up waiting until marriage. I'll let the man steer and only bring it up when it's natural for both of us. I was hesitant about being too assertive by bringing it up on like the third date. Didn't want to do that. There's no set time Another gem video
This will help me to get rid of a guy that I used “feminine energy” on, he’s a nice guy but turned out to be married 🙄 and now wont give up on me, says he is in love with me.
Oh, no. Married. Leave, run. Even if he leaves his wife for you, it will be a messy divorce. Don't know if there are children involved. But, that makes you the bad guy in this situation even though he's being sneaky. He'll say well, I told you I was married. Just because he told you, doesn't mean that makes your situation any better. Think of yourself first.
You will be labelized as a ... for a man that doesn’t deserve and play the lover with you, for you to accept this situation. Because he needs a girl that will not have enough selfrespect to accept this kind of situation 😂
As someone who’s gone through this , let me save you the embarrassment, self dignity, loosing respect, and etc. don’t do it. Someone who is marry, and a man with character wouldn’t do that. Not worth it. Trust me, you will suffer. Run girl , run far!
@heenanaaz3723 just pretend you’ve always been in demand! Better for your self-esteem and does he really need to know? Not necessarily! You don’t even have to explicitly lie about it, just vibe with queen energy and he’ll assume 😌
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surely a reasonable exception. co-parenting is a great reason to be in contact with an ex. it’s any non-essential, ill-defined lingering attachment that creates unease in serious suitors.
@Florida_gyrl it depends how uncomfortable they make you feel about it. Men are territorial, so it’s somewhat natural that they feel they want to keep other suitors away from you. If it gets cringy, it gets cringy though. You have to use discernment 😌
I know what you mean- I’m a bullet point person too. But his explaining so much is very helpful to a lot of people. And some people really do need things literally spelled out lol
@@GoGogo-h3j nope. Many of us will keep watching because of the depths of his explanations, his humour and just genuine take on things. This might not be the channel for *you* and that's okay. Don't assume that others share your sentiments because I for one don't.
@@oonaghmcgrath2935 weird...perhaps he used feminine charm or whatnot on you, because clearly you haven't stopped watching his channel. This guy must really know his stuff, gets ppl hooked, even if they're "annoyed". Hmm
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1. Women that are demanding, you better suggest. Men like to feel like they are choosing.
2. Keeping around other men. Don’t let him know about other men.
3. Money hungry. Don’t focus on his money, focus on emotional connection and talk about the passion about his work. What part of his job does he like etc.
4. Keeping tabs on him. You come across as desperate and as you don’t have a life because you’re appears checking on him.
5. Being the first man that treats you right. If he’s the only one that is treating you well, you’re signaling that you’re not as valuable or desired by other men. He has to think that other men are chasing you.
he must not know about other men yet he has to think other men are chasing us? pls lmk how to do that. cuz i always stay away from dudes and they dont approach me either so i fear my bf will think im not desirable
Literally just went through this good video dating feels exhausting at this point
I know. You apparently have to somehow draw a crowd of 15 guys around you that you're NOT interested in, so that ONE stupid guy you do like will finally feel like it's "safe" to believe you're attractive. Which proves.... men can't think for themselves! And they're not really interested in women! They're only interested in what other men think!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️. It IS exhausting....🙄🙄🤕🤕😶🌫️
Same, idk why I get sucked into vids like this; but it does confirm to me that choosing not to date makes so much more sense, than whatever logic men operate on.
Thanks! Your videos give a great insight into men's minds and the more I watch the more I'm convinced I shouldn't care about men at all. They're basically emotionally unstable as a default and they demand something unreal. And any time they're being given a proper treatment (honest, open-minded, opened to fun and communication, full of care) they're not able to be grateful towards it and end up being hateful or disrespectful. This is crazy, this is something I cannot agree to adjust to. But I think it's their loss.
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love your comment
I was once dating a man. One morning at breakfast I put my pizza leftovers from the night before in the microwave oven and when finished I sat down at the table ready to eat. He looks at me, snob as he was, and said with a arrogant voice " Huh? You cant eat pizza for breakfast. Thats just something you cant do"
MEANWHILE he said this, he was making himself a sandwich; white flour bread, butter, cheese, ham and tomato 😂
I'm so sorry... that's a narcissist! always instigating an argument!!
RUN from these borderline UNTESTED psychopaths ⬅️... tbh it was the negative energies inside of him TRYING to call you out
and anything you would have said he would use that against you.. safest answer is "whatever".
Run away from the guy!
@Vovolove Yes, I did leave him after 2 months. He then started messaging my sister! 😏 what a fool
@@pilarq7886 I think you are right! Always these small comments. And he was also very cruel and unfair to one of his kids (he had 2).
I'm just here for the comedic scenarios, illustrations and hypothetical what-ifs LOL .. Laughter for the soul!
Number 3 took me out "How many Chanel Bags am I getting?" -- AND because it's funny that these men KNOW exactly what these / most women (that are attracted to them for their financial status) want -- BUT they still want those women to PRETEND to be focused on something else -- creating the "gamification" of the relationship.
this is great advice to not hurt his whittle baby feelings. men are sensitive, fragile and dumb. i appreciate you validating this with how to "handle" these whittle babies with widdle kiddie gloves.
Do you hate men?
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girl literally! a bunch of babies! ha
Exactly!! So fragile! I feel like a mom at this point my goodness
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Sometimes I can't believe I had a guy who told me where we were going to eat even though I told him I couldn't and didn't like that kind of food. I had to 'demand' he take me back home...😂
Résume: be too demanding, still be on contact with my ex, too demanding about money, be a detective by doing interviews control, tell him that the others men treated me badly
Preface everything here with “Don’t be “
1. Don’t be too demanding
2. Don’t still be in contact with your ex
3. Don’t be too demanding about money
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@ no it’s the biggest turn OFF : !! So: « Being too demanding » is a turn off !! And « Not being too demanding » is a turn ON !!
thx tips.@@kris.tal8216
I love your hypotheticals...
Your videos are ALWAYS on point and ALWAYS so professional Tomi. So many things you speak about I've made these mistakes. 0_0
The way you break it down 🫢😂
Aint nothin Fresh at Mickey Dees. Let Jesus take the wheel. Lolol
Consuming information on how to manipulate men is evil. You are a hypocrite.
@ABC-jq7ve We're learning about how men manipulate us, but thanks for playing.
Tomisin, the first part was especially helpful because it helped me figure out how to bring up waiting until marriage. I'll let the man steer and only bring it up when it's natural for both of us. I was hesitant about being too assertive by bringing it up on like the third date. Didn't want to do that. There's no set time
Another gem video
This will help me to get rid of a guy that I used “feminine energy” on, he’s a nice guy but turned out to be married 🙄 and now wont give up on me, says he is in love with me.
Oh, no. Married. Leave, run. Even if he leaves his wife for you, it will be a messy divorce. Don't know if there are children involved. But, that makes you the bad guy in this situation even though he's being sneaky. He'll say well, I told you I was married. Just because he told you, doesn't mean that makes your situation any better. Think of yourself first.
@@kimt8162I think she knows that… it looks like the married man is obsessed with her. Married men are stalkers too
You will be labelized as a ... for a man that doesn’t deserve and play the lover with you, for you to accept this situation. Because he needs a girl that will not have enough selfrespect to accept this kind of situation 😂
Ofc he`ll say everything you want to hear. He wont be able to get away with his married man bs with most women out there
As someone who’s gone through this , let me save you the embarrassment, self dignity, loosing respect, and etc. don’t do it. Someone who is marry, and a man with character wouldn’t do that. Not worth it. Trust me, you will suffer. Run girl , run far!
Yayyyy another upload from my yt papa! Thank you for all your wisdom, Tomiiii 💗💗💗💗💗
i love your videos! so glad i found this channel 🥳 and the discord time is insane lmao
Last one is actually scary coz what is i wasn't attractive before so no one was indeed interested in me and recently i had a glow up
Right, you can't let them know that it's a recent glow up, I guess?
@digthewarmth Noted! Thanks!
@heenanaaz3723 just pretend you’ve always been in demand! Better for your self-esteem and does he really need to know? Not necessarily! You don’t even have to explicitly lie about it, just vibe with queen energy and he’ll assume 😌
Now I want a strawberry cheesecake🍓pie with fries from McDonald’s 😭
The stick people 😂
This video is sooooo good thank you
Your videos are really great and funny at the same time..thankyou
Fantastic discussion
Excellent analysis
Thank you Sir
14:00 😂😂😂 omg. I’ve never been #4 thank God
Me either, I could never…
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Yall talm bout he talking too much come on yall he do 45 min videos he gave us gems in half that im not complaining plus he funny
Love your shorter videos, much easier to follow!
Feeling so happy and calm every time there’s a new upload😍 trying hard not to be sending out desperate Tomiii vibes 🥵😉😝
Girl what😂
You crack me up!
Barren wasteland…🤭😁🤣
I have definitely came on too strong back in the day for no reason and the guy questioned me as a result!
I have to talk to my ex because he's my baby daddy
surely a reasonable exception. co-parenting is a great reason to be in contact with an ex. it’s any non-essential, ill-defined lingering attachment that creates unease in serious suitors.
Great video
You are very much in your element just my type of man 😅❤
What about men that do this to me - keeping tabs or come on too strong? Is that ok for a man to do it to a woman?
@Florida_gyrl it depends how uncomfortable they make you feel about it. Men are territorial, so it’s somewhat natural that they feel they want to keep other suitors away from you. If it gets cringy, it gets cringy though. You have to use discernment 😌
What if a man starts a conversation with me talking about his job?
@Florida_gyr It’s probably his way of showing off and trying to convince you he’s good enough for you.
@ yeah well I do not like that guy. He is very unattractive and not just in physical looks. In other ways too.
Last guy i daywd was not emo intelligent and got defensice offen and didnt take emotional accountability. Had 2 let it go
Why is dating so hard 😕
Another topic: why men don't approach you
Is your channel for the younger people?
Sounds like it!
He says typically not if under 21
No he just uses simple anecdotes to explain the strategies - basically shows application in action
nah
No it’s for 21 and up. It’s just that his main audience is uneducated and struggles with comprehension and he needs to spell everything out literally
McDonald's is a bad example
It was actually good - just switch out the restaurant name!!! We’ve all been in this situation: wanting a man to lead & he makes a poor choice!
Idk i only see arms
Everything is good except you talking too much i wish you summarize
Idk, I like the in depth descriptions. I would say though it's very helpful when people add time stamps of each scenario/situation
Followers will keep watching if the videos are short.
I like him explaining and using different analogies😊
I know what you mean- I’m a bullet point person too. But his explaining so much is very helpful to a lot of people. And some people really do need things literally spelled out lol
@@GoGogo-h3j nope. Many of us will keep watching because of the depths of his explanations, his humour and just genuine take on things.
This might not be the channel for *you* and that's okay. Don't assume that others share your sentiments because I for one don't.
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He talks far too much. Takes so long I often give up
@@oonaghmcgrath2935 weird...perhaps he used feminine charm or whatnot on you, because clearly you haven't stopped watching his channel. This guy must really know his stuff, gets ppl hooked, even if they're "annoyed". Hmm
top right hand corner flower icon, then click playback and choose faster speed
@@pilarq7886thank youuu 😂❤
or if you're a super speed reader like me, you can read the transcript as fast as you want. it is a wonderful channel with lots of truths
@kaemkam1 thanks I will do that. I like his content but he overdoes the explanations of everything
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