SEPARATION ANXIETY: WHAT ACTUALLY HELPED MY DOG

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  • @j.creature3960
    @j.creature3960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1778

    “take a deep breath i’m here for you” just made me so emotional. raising a puppy alone is so difficult when he’s such an anxious guy who doesn’t wanna be alone

    • @abductedbyaliens9425
      @abductedbyaliens9425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      t. creature I’m in the same boat right now with my little guy and I’m raising him alone too.

    • @tatianacarroll7353
      @tatianacarroll7353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I’m literally in the same boat as we speak ! 8 week old toy poodle ! I’m dying !

    • @sabc1467
      @sabc1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Tatiana Carroll same here 8 week German shepherd. Got him 3 days ago and it’s just been sleepless nights. Sleep depravation makes me so emotional and I’ve just been crying like a baby everyday. But we can’t give up. Patience is key.

    • @abductedbyaliens9425
      @abductedbyaliens9425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Sab C YES! I cry a lot to because I’m so tired all the time and don’t get out as much because I’m worried my neighbors will complain with his barking and whining when I leave him alone

    • @abductedbyaliens9425
      @abductedbyaliens9425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Tatiana Carroll oh my god I know! It’s tough. There should be a single pet parent group on Facebook lmao

  • @LM-li7pd
    @LM-li7pd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    All of us who got puppies during Covid, who are working from home, will have to really work hard at this. 😭🥺

    • @leako4199
      @leako4199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Man im glad to know im not alone 😅😂

    • @takiahwashington7882
      @takiahwashington7882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😩😩😩😩 yesss

    • @carolortiz3356
      @carolortiz3356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Literally me... idk why I thought getting a puppy during quarantine was a good idea

    • @puppyhardy1231
      @puppyhardy1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes😩😩🥺

    • @alwaysharrypotter4181
      @alwaysharrypotter4181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes I’m getting a dog today so I’m trying to know everything I need to know

  • @Saiyuna
    @Saiyuna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    The absolute best tip trying to crate train: just like Rachel said, make the crate Disneyland! Our current puppy's trainer recommended sneaking the best snack "jackpots" into the crate consistently and repetitively. The trainer also recommended to try and feed her meals in the crate too.
    What we did for several weeks: everytime the dog was in another room, we'd sneak off to the other room that had the crate and leave special treats in it. The "sketchy crate" suddenly became the awesome "magical crate" with snacks coming from Narnia. And we did this every single time the dog was in another room. I also used some of the tricks Rachel recommended in one of her other crate training videos.
    Our puppy still sleeps in bed with us (our choice), but she will go to her crate voluntarily to "chill out" now. I think this has helped her become a more "independent" dog.

    • @jenniferbeatty7545
      @jenniferbeatty7545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She's not independent. She sleeps with you every night.

    • @myajohnson5974
      @myajohnson5974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jedidah Fire that can be independence, depending on the breed.

    • @jenniferbeatty7545
      @jenniferbeatty7545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Nova_ wolf Nah, you just don't know the definition of 'independent' .

    • @madcal
      @madcal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jedidah Fire I am sure you do 😏 🙄

    • @gd8733
      @gd8733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Jedidah Fire my dog had horrible separation/ isolation anxiety when in her crate, and we first tried having her sleep in her crate. That didn’t work/ made it worse, so we had her sleep with us, and we worked on her crate anxiety. Once she finally figured out her crate was her safe haven, she’s now hangs outs, sleeps, chills and can be left alone for a long duration of time without worrying - and yet we still have her sleep with us. She is the definition of independent - it’s just different for every dog.

  • @sabc1467
    @sabc1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    I haven’t slept for three days with my new 8 week puppy and when I heard you say “it’ll be ok” I just started crying like a baby. It’s been so tough and it’s not my first one but I’ve never experienced such an extreme transition. Your videos really help. Thank you ❤️

    • @xradelox
      @xradelox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You all are killing me 🤦🏼‍♀️ Part of the problem is that you’ve acquired (I’m assuming “bought” for most of you since it’s highly unlikely you all found pure bred 8 week old puppies at shelters) the puppies when they’re ONLY 6-8 weeks old! This is why I hate breeders. They sell the puppies way too young. In order to become well rounded puppies, they really need to be left with their mother and siblings until they are twelve weeks old. The mother and siblings teach puppies (and kittens) SO many lessons in the 6-12 weeks age. It is not natural for puppies that young to ever be alone. They always have their siblings, even if the mother is away getting food or using the bathroom. The very first mistake most puppy owners make is getting the puppy too young. Hopefully that info will help someone.

    • @TheDonPud
      @TheDonPud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Your on drugs.. ain’t no way a dog is keeping me up 3 days straight .

    • @vanesa6623
      @vanesa6623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’ve got an 8 week old puppy and it’s so hard to try getting her in a crate, she starts digging and biting the material on her bed and she is scared when I close the gate, she starts nipping and I can’t get her to stop and I think we’re not going to be able to keep her.

    • @vanesa6623
      @vanesa6623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So I’ve been crying all morning because of this

    • @RJ-fi9zo
      @RJ-fi9zo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shoulda got more prepared

  • @eugenedufloo2738
    @eugenedufloo2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    Hey guys! Thank you for this video. It has helped, but Taft is uncontrollable when left alone. He's a 6 year old rescue who was given a bunch of meds to calm him down at the shelter. I have tried absolutely everything. From every kind of collar to indoor bark control devices, thundershirt, pheromones spray, music... Everything. What has worked wonders though! Is that I've recorded myself saying things I say to him all the time like "You're the best. I love you. Your doing great! Can you be quiet? Can you sit?" And loop it at intervals that get longer and longer. So it's a 15 hour long audio of me "talking to him". I don't know how it works, but it has stopped everything!!! Sometimes I will come home and he will be asleep!! He even started going to the crate on his own time. It has taken off a lot of stress in my life since animal control already stopped by twice to ask that I get his barking under control. It's hard, but not impossible.

    • @papillonxchocolat
      @papillonxchocolat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is such an interesting idea. How do you play this audio?

    • @tarap2383
      @tarap2383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This tip is literally my last hope.. my dog is 6 as well and hes just so attached to me as i am to him. Ive tried EVERYTHING except for this ..

    • @eugenedufloo2738
      @eugenedufloo2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I play the loop on my computer and I turn the screen off so it comes out of the speakers. I'm still doing this everytime I leave and the barking is under control. You got this!

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What a great idea. I'm very glad I'm a cat person. I love dogs too, but cats are much less maintenance. I have 3 and one of them gets a bit of separation anxiety when my spouse leaves. As soon as I call her and she knows she's not alone, she's fine though and often comes for some couch time. I'm home all the time, so my cats are pretty spoiled.

    • @alisonmorton9465
      @alisonmorton9465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow! I've never heard of this before! I'll have to try this

  • @kelliesimpson5188
    @kelliesimpson5188 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant video - so well explained with so many ideas too. Thank you x

  • @youngfeath1354
    @youngfeath1354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been watching all of your videos. I found you once I got a puppy foster. It’s funny, I’ve always had dog fosters but this is my first puppy and I’m learning so much from you! Thank you so much. You clearly have such a way with animals and I thank you so much for including how you helped your cats along the way. I have a cat too and she was so upset when I brought our puppy (vinny) home and I was feeling so guilty! But now I am learning how to satisfy them both. You are so truly rad!

  • @shortydacutie
    @shortydacutie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m currently in the process of getting a puppy and I’m so excited. But I love watching your videos as they are helping me prepare for her arrival.

  • @Eob306
    @Eob306 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video! You have introduced me to some new tips I can try

  • @marissapersaud-lachhman9311
    @marissapersaud-lachhman9311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this video. Thank you for the tips. One thing that I really appreciate is that its straight to the point.

  • @0x_nietoh
    @0x_nietoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video Rachel! Thanks for all your videos on how to train my little Goldendoodle Puppy :) You've made my life so much easier

  • @Stranded360
    @Stranded360 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like that you emphasize challenging their brains- especially with big smart dogs, completely necessary. Thanks for always reminding of this.

  • @dencooke3131
    @dencooke3131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great information explained in a clear and engaging way.

  • @glorybeauty2372
    @glorybeauty2372 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for you videos I’ve learned so much and made being a new dog mom less stressful !❤

  • @marimark8145
    @marimark8145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks, Rachel. Great video. ❤

  • @brennahess7697
    @brennahess7697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    My hound Dottie and I watched this together and I explained to her that Rachel was training me not her. Haha. 😆 Such good tips!!!!

    • @MarlaBoo
      @MarlaBoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What kind of hound

    • @Jana-zp4to
      @Jana-zp4to 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂
      Ouffff! I had rescued dog all my life and now, it's been 2 years with my pitty. He was so anxious. I was so anxious. Now we are getting better at it finally. ♥️♥️

    • @vanwin5415
      @vanwin5415 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is ALWAYS a matter of training the human.

  • @tterexx426
    @tterexx426 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As other have mentioned already, I really appreciate you being so nice to us - giving us confidence, telling us it's okay if we aren't yet there were we want to be, telling us you believe in us. I just got a new puppy - and I wanted a dog all my life and had so many plans and thought I would for sure do everything right because I had informed myself so much. I basically thought I would be a really good dog owner and trainer right from the beginning... Arrogant, I know. Thing is, I researched so much about dog training... But now I have a puppy. Who can't focus so much yet, just got separated from mom and siblings, etc etc. And actually isn't really food motivated and not motivated by most toys either (with the exception of plushies and... shoes. Which she loves.) And sometimes I just don''t know what to do. Now I am watching all your videos, and actually start to realize that I have to go step by step. I can't expect to really train a lot of commands in the first month I think. Instead I have to focus on potty training, crate training, probably walking on the leash a bit.... And yeah, leaving her alone, even if it's just for a few seconds. She will cry and try to bite through the crate even when I am just leaving the room and she can still hear me, even if I give her something to chew, even if she is exercised, fed, and tired. Only when she has fallen asleep could I leave, but I think she would panic when she would wake up without me being there, so we have to train that while she is awake.

  • @call-me-violet
    @call-me-violet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yes to incorporating mental stimuluation into daily routine!!

  • @analarson2920
    @analarson2920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great tips, one of the best basic tip I learned from many was to be random and surprising and positive so your pup does not over expect things. It also keeps things less boring for the puppy parent, this actually works well for kids too, some need routine but find ways to make it vary a bit. Variety is the spice to life, so to speak. A really fun game I learned form my trainer is called " Do something" basically you take something your dog loves and you say after you trained or played for a few minutes to warm up- Do something- then wait for your dog to do anything and praise them like crazy and make sure your the cue you use is well said, so like - good sit. You wait for them to do other things or combos too. They will love it and it makes them use their brain and be more intuitive. Prayers to the journey and please keep these videos coming.

  • @19Kathi92
    @19Kathi92 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recently discovered your videos and LOVE them!! Would love a video on more tips to integrate training in daily life like sit while brushing your teeth.

  • @oliverhope5430
    @oliverhope5430 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can’t even leave for 5 seconds… never mind 30 minutes.

  • @zaydawilson3867
    @zaydawilson3867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just tried all the tips and omg! It helped soooo much. Thank you 🙏🏽 life saver

  • @nlubbrennlubbren621
    @nlubbrennlubbren621 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this! So reassuring.

  • @ariaoro3098
    @ariaoro3098 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just got a rescue and this was so detailed and transparent with wiggle room to help create a routine with him you’re an angel thank you !!

  • @ArubaCoconutify
    @ArubaCoconutify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome tips! You are obviously very knowledgeable, great video! Thank you!

  • @maryluetkehans8926
    @maryluetkehans8926 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love a video on mental stimulation activities for dogs! Thanks for all your help!!

  • @vorahkim
    @vorahkim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey! I haven't commented in a while! I needed this so much. ever since I commented last I got 2 puppies! I have 4 dogs and 3 out of them 4 have separation anxiety and I've tried everything even giving them so many tricks and letting them out in the huge open grass more than their potty needs (even more than what I used to and I used to let them out about every 4 hours even during the night than my mom would do it while I was at school but than I started doing it every 3 hours and I was so tired) and I gave them new toys every week and I left them in a crate for seconds or minutes at a time but they would hate it so much. you posted this video (to me) yesterday and I tried the people method and it worked wonders. My mom stays home and the dogs aren't as comfortable with her since I feed the dogs and walk them and all that because I like the responsibility but my mom gave them their meals yesterday and today and now when I leave for school they aren't crying and screaming. I'll update to see if it gets better or worse.

  • @MrDstapleton77
    @MrDstapleton77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, thank you for getting straight to the point. Other videos try to explain to much about what separation anxiety is instead of how to fix the separation anxiety. So thanks again.

  • @jodiwhalen
    @jodiwhalen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is fantastic. Thank you!

  • @Rebecca-qf7is
    @Rebecca-qf7is 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are such great tips that I'm going to start with right away! Thank you! Now on to the 15 Minute energy video!!

  • @reneehaynes3121
    @reneehaynes3121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Yes, more tips please! Easy tips for stimulation! We love our puppers and we love you! Thanks for helping all your fans! God Bless!

  • @JulieMansoJEMcreative
    @JulieMansoJEMcreative 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you! My rescue has been with me just under 2 months and her separation anxiety is very severe. I'm going to work way more with her on it. Thanks for your tips!

  • @rebeccagoldman2996
    @rebeccagoldman2996 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos! Please make one about different tricks to teach your dog! Would love more ideas

  • @ThundersPack
    @ThundersPack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I work with extreme behaviors and aggression. You're tips are proven and priceless. Kudos on an excellent video. Best practice section rocks, so does description of the difference between separation and isolation anxiety.

  • @Meg508
    @Meg508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This was beyond helpful. Got a COVID pup and we ended up moving and both me and my boyfriend have to work and the dog has been having horrible separation anxiety and we have received noise complaints because of it and it is STRESSFUL. Thank you for these helpful tips!

  • @TheWazzawatson
    @TheWazzawatson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this video as we are rescuing a 4 year old dog from abroad and what to get into these habits sooner rather than later, thank you for the video, I have made lots of notes to show my husband 🥰

  • @yoyohao5100
    @yoyohao5100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video really helped me! Thank you!

  • @paulofariasrodrigues6390
    @paulofariasrodrigues6390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your tips. Best regards from Lisbon, Portugal!

  • @angelawashington1893
    @angelawashington1893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for this video! These are solid tips which have worked for me when applied consistently.
    One point of departure, however, is there needs to be more of an emphasis among content creators in dog training that crate training isn’t a end all be all for dog owners.
    Crate training may be effective for potty training, giving a dog a safe space, and ensuring comfort for both the owner and pet when leaving.
    For context, I had and trained dogs growing up, and we never used a crate. But when I started with a new dog (larger, very active Maltese) as an independent owner, I thought I’d give it a go.
    Turns out, it was actually when I got rid of the crate and instead created an unconfined comfort space (just a really comfy bed dog area with toys) that I saw all the difference. My dog was anxious even for seconds when in the crate (chewing at gate, panting, barking, and whining), and I tried slowly increasing time in it with no luck. I chalked this up to normal puppy resistance but it was the confinement that seemed to worsen the anxiety. I also did all of the open door crate things as well with the pricey Diggs crate I bought. My dog would just find ways to escape from inside even when I was just around the corner for a few minutes. This was even after long walks, exercise, and mental activities.
    That said, I followed to a T all of the crate training tips, including the ones Rachel and others offer like normalizing the crate, playing games in and around it, feeding all meals in the crate, changing its location and slowly increasing time away, from day one. I have come to accept my dog is just not a crate dog.
    I’ve since had pet trainers I’m working with confirm what I suspected: The crate isn’t for every dog. I say that not to discredit the idea of crate training when away to curb separation anxiety because my experience is anecdotal. But now I leave him in his comfort area casually (no goodbye or tell-tells that I’m leaving), and come back to a dog that is happy to see me but is politely sitting or relaxing in his area. The difference - not making him feel confined to the area to leave him in and giving him room to walk around a little when he knows mom is coming back. Moreover, trying to leave your dog in a crate and not giving them an opportunity to spread their legs and walk around an open space has always felt a bit cruel to me. Again, I know for larger dogs people might want to use the crate to avoid destructive behavior but I had large dogs prone to those behaviors previously too. The crate isn’t a panacea for those behaviors - it’s figuring out the root cause for those behaviors, not trying to eliminate the opportunities. I’m a big believer in giving dogs the chance to make mistakes and learn from their owners. Same goes for potty training as well.
    The key takeaway concerns the necessity of experimenting and really paying attention to what works and what doesn’t. As opposed to spending money, time, and energy on a perceived solution that isn’t a good fit because it’s the popular “responsible dog owner” thing to do. There’s an industry around the crate and endorsements galore to consider as well. Trying different things to curb separation anxiety like behavior is better than trying to stick it out and keep at it simply to make something work which is not a good fit.

  • @pennythostenson6983
    @pennythostenson6983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video! I learned a lot from this. Made total sense.

  • @JRosy-kg8xv
    @JRosy-kg8xv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We adopted an adult dog who has started escaping the crate by breaking the wire and the door when ever we aren’t around so hopefully these tips will help her calm down

  • @sims398
    @sims398 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome advice, thank you.

  • @juliajohnson320
    @juliajohnson320 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is such a helpful video! Thank you so much!

  • @katiekrieger2229
    @katiekrieger2229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please do a video on mental stimulation!! I definitely need it.

  • @flowerpixel
    @flowerpixel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!! I'm overwhelmed

  • @nicoladreadon9326
    @nicoladreadon9326 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video. It's one of the best on TH-cam!

  • @angang25
    @angang25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! I needed to hear this ! I felt defeated before this video

  • @AnnainAwe
    @AnnainAwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🤞🏼🙏🏼🤞🏼
    Please make a second version of this video. Please make a version that is simply intended to help people with their new Christmas puppy or to prepare before they even bring their puppy home.
    Your video is full of such awesome ideas. It would be a SHAME for it not to reach a broad enough audience as to help prevent puppies from ever experiencing separation anxiety.
    Not to mention humans experiencing a plethora of problems/frustrations that are avoidable.
    I’ll keep my fingers crossed and look for your second/similar publication.
    I’ll share your video, as is, even with people who are not experiencing separation anxiety, just because I think more humans and puppies/dogs need to experience what you and your four-legged loved ones are now experiencing.
    Hopefully they will watch it🤞🏼
    Thanks for your awesome publications, hugs and blessings

  • @jenniferrothschild4329
    @jenniferrothschild4329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rachel you are the best and I am in love with the Diggs crate I will recommend it for all future clients it’s not only beautiful but brilliant. Thank you for everything you do🌹

  • @polinaalexeeva6356
    @polinaalexeeva6356 ปีที่แล้ว

    the most usefull video of all that I'd watched before! thank you!

  • @lemongoy9190
    @lemongoy9190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The beginning almost made me cry because I'm a student and even if I have my parents here, they only help with the dog medically or getting the food, but not training, which is the problem for me. I have a siberian husky so its really hard to do it sometimes. She's 7 months and just got separated from my aunt's dog. ooh, good rant, gotta get help now

  • @MrGproton
    @MrGproton 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very useful ideas. Thanks Rachel

  • @mayastewart1452
    @mayastewart1452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yes I can’t wait :) I’ve set a reminder!!!

    • @RachelFusaro
      @RachelFusaro  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lilly Poole you were first. Thank you ❤️

    • @mayastewart1452
      @mayastewart1452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RachelFusaro omg i'm so so so sorry 😭 i forgot... my phone had died so i didnt get the reminder... i was doing homework... i was looking forward to it 😞well, at least i can watch it now!!

  • @zaraepena
    @zaraepena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think I'm the one who has separation anxiety the most, thank you for this video :)

  • @TheGordwells
    @TheGordwells 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love a video on stimulation exercises. Yes, please!

  • @griffincampbell141
    @griffincampbell141 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a fantastic video. Thanks for the tips!

  • @laurab7302
    @laurab7302 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love more tips on how to stimulate my dog mentally. Thank you so much!

  • @jenniferyoo2683
    @jenniferyoo2683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yes please a video on mental stimulation! We are two weeks in with our chihuahua puppy and would find this really helpful. Currently binging all your videos this week too. Thank you, your videos are helpful and really well-done/spoken :).

    • @edagrlr
      @edagrlr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi! Chihuahua's are extremely clever. You can get interactive toys and puzzle games. Nina Ottossan has different level puzzles fit for every age and breed of dog. I highly recommend you check those out. Kongs, snuffle mats, lick mats are other types of mental enrichment toys/ tools you can get.

  • @RottieMomCreations
    @RottieMomCreations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We just rescued another Rottie yesterday who is 2 days shy of a year old and the “isolation anxiety” term I think nailed it on the head. It’s also not a term I’ve heard yet. I’ve done the Disneyland crate thing but she wants me to watch her or go on every ride with her at this Disneyland. Lol
    Her frozen Kong, if I leave the room just for a moment she stops and goes bananas. As soon as I get back she wants to show me her awesomeness.
    It’s hard when she’s still learning a name…being tethered when outside of the crate due to her reaction to the other Rottie (who outweighs her by 30 lbs but is so relaxed she’s a Godsend), so the tips are helpful and I think will be more helpful when she’s allowed

  • @weo1weo1weo1
    @weo1weo1weo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the first two weeks I had my puppy he wasn't allowed in the house, I had her fenced off in the porch, she learned to relax alone in that space, now has no problem whenever I need to keep her alone

  • @paulinaely9401
    @paulinaely9401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes plz make a part 2!! I have a yorkie who has extreme separation anxiety I just got married and moved to California and I think that made it worst for him 😭😭😭😭

  • @tombaker5114
    @tombaker5114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for these great tips.

  • @ImperfectSpark
    @ImperfectSpark ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this! I have a lot to think about and implement. We've had a new pup at 8 weeks, he's attached to me and I find it so difficult to leave him as he cries. I try not to leave him to the point he's screaming and just come back when he's quiet as if nothing's happened. I watched another one of your videos about limiting their environment so we decided to put a playpen around his crate with plenty of toys. I feel so mean as he had free roam of the kitchen for 5 days but we need to build his confidence of being alone as I will be returning to work soon and I've been finding it really tough having him glued to me or trying to chew things he shouldn't, as a pup would 😂 it's day one of the pen, he cries, jumps up and barks occasionally when I'm with him but will play with his toys/sleep. Just breaks my heart when he whines, I've cried a lot 💔 I'm going to slowly move myself around the pen and leave for short bursts. If you have anymore tips I will happily take all I can get or if I'm doing something wrong please tell me, I want the best for him and feel like a terrible mum 😥 ❤️

  • @gabbybuckner1557
    @gabbybuckner1557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Rachel! I can't thank you enough for your videos on convincing your parents to get you a puppy!!!!!!!!!! My dad was on board, but my mom was completely against it. I dint care. I knew we needed to adopt a dog and help out in a world where some dogs never get a home. When I stumbled across your video, I instantly clicked on it. Tomorrow we are getting a rescue puppy and its all because of you. Thank you thank you

  • @elizabethwarner7795
    @elizabethwarner7795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thanks! I have had many dogs in my life and feel I have learned some great tips! Plan on picking up my new pup in a couple weeks and trying to learn more to prevent mistakes I have made in the past!

  • @AcPh-nc3vz
    @AcPh-nc3vz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for saying it’s going to be ok. I got a puppy in May & I took her everywhere with me at first. Now, I can’t leave her alone for two minutes without her screaming. My neighbors complained. I started taking her out on a long leash in the back yard to get more exercise & the neighbors complained about that. I can’t afford dog daycare at $200 a week. I need to leave her at home sometimes when I go out. I’m working on training, but she still cries when I go. This has gotten to be a nightmare.

    • @TheJizzlerr
      @TheJizzlerr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂 welcome to the club
      With daily training for the next few months it'll get easier there's no fast way with dogs for the most part

  • @nishitkrsingh
    @nishitkrsingh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    SOUNDS HELPFUL AGAIN! 😊

    • @RachelFusaro
      @RachelFusaro  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nishit Tarantula hope you liked it friend!

  • @ladysedonya
    @ladysedonya ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for these tips. I have a 7 month old puppy and it’s been a stressful few days trying to get him used to his surroundings

  • @erikaflannery5533
    @erikaflannery5533 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a 10 week Italian greyhound and this video makes me excited

  • @lindabuklad6611
    @lindabuklad6611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good info. I'm planning on getting a shelter dog since I'm alone but working outside the home still, so need all the tips I can get! Thanks

  • @glassdiamond2185
    @glassdiamond2185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I just adopted an abused older dog that barks nonstop when I leave. Your tips are going to help get him crate trained. I'm the only one and work from home now so don't have a choice. And in the cold weather, its hard on the exercise thing. I throw his toys in the apartment.

    • @ageautistic6957
      @ageautistic6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did the training go? I am in a similar position.

    • @TheFayeFairy
      @TheFayeFairy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ageautistic6957 me too

  • @ashleyasetzer
    @ashleyasetzer ปีที่แล้ว +39

    It is honestly the most stressful thing feeling like I can’t leave my house because my dog hates his crate so much :(
    Thank you so much for this video!

    • @debbietriggs6813
      @debbietriggs6813 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @simonealexandra5490
      @simonealexandra5490 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here! My dog is fine in the crate when I’m home but the second I close the door and walk away she loses it. I’m going back to work in a week and so nervous to leave her again

    • @marthasanchez4711
      @marthasanchez4711 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@simonealexandra5490 same!! 😢 it’s causing me stress wondering how she is or what I’m coming home to, she seems to scoot her crate to the rug and chew it 😢

  • @relaxmydog
    @relaxmydog ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is such a great vlog, thanks so much for sharing. It's so important for owners to understand separation anxiety. We're glad for people like you and that things like our music can help too ^_^

    • @Brian_Leca
      @Brian_Leca 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Music help? Negative

    • @kenyabutts3592
      @kenyabutts3592 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      omg i need this, my 2 maltese are really struggling with separation anxiety🥹🥹🙏🙏

  • @nigel3270
    @nigel3270 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video mate. Very helpful!

  • @rocstacey
    @rocstacey ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Rachel thanks for the videos. It has been years since I had to start at the beginning with a new puppy. Your tips on potty training and crate training have been fantastic. After a week with a 3 month old puppy he is very nearly potty trained. I love the method you use. Again, thank you. #puppytips

  • @thekingdomofbaddecisions7982
    @thekingdomofbaddecisions7982 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to train my dog to not bark and whine and howel when he's in his crate and I'm gone. I watched 2 other videos from a very well known trainer, whom I learned SOOOOOO much from, but both of his had nothing to do with the human being away, so I had to search elsewhere. And that brought me to you. I'm SO glad my go-to dog training consultant failed me this time! You're awesome! Seeing your dog and their super chill countenance tells me you absolutely know what you're talking about! My boy makes me look like a genius because he picks up things so well and he's very consistent. I simply don't know what to do for him when he's alone in the crate or bedroom, so I've never dealt with it. I'm going to watch your videos and I'm confident my boy will soon be just as chill and happy without me as he is with me. Great stuff! Thank you!

  • @fannitrainedstars
    @fannitrainedstars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This sooo damn helpful!!! Thank you very much, Rachel.😍♥️

    • @RachelFusaro
      @RachelFusaro  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dogs of Fanni eek! Couldn’t do it without people like you

    • @fannitrainedstars
      @fannitrainedstars 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RachelFusaro It isn't a big deal. I love your videos. They are always very informative.😉😍

  • @carolinetieszen2385
    @carolinetieszen2385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m so glad that I found this video! I just adopted an 8 year old boy who was abandoned tied up. This video gives me hope in settling his sweet heart!

  • @tiahnahgobel2738
    @tiahnahgobel2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    please make list to incorporate training in our daily lives

  • @sofiavidali5872
    @sofiavidali5872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks, Rachel! Luckily my puppy does not suffer from any separation anxiety, she spends a lot of time with different family members, however, this was still a great video, and it is good to be aware of the dangers of encouraging it in future dogs.

    • @RachelFusaro
      @RachelFusaro  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sofia Vidali you being here makes my day, but also helps others!! We’re a community

  • @evilherbivore13
    @evilherbivore13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    With crates I tend to put a couple of their meals a day in a kong and freeze it. If feeding kibble soak it then fill. It's part of my pups Disney distraction. The freezing also helps with teething. While they are occupied vary it. Stay in the room, pop out the room for longer and longer. Go for a shower etc. Slowly build it up while they are happily munching.
    Set them up for success though. Get them slowly used to the crate and do some training, play or exercise before practicing crate or alone time.
    Stay positive, you'll get there. Go slow and take a deep breath if it gets hard. Y'all can do this!

  • @trailmix_grapedog1913
    @trailmix_grapedog1913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yesss 🙌 Thank you so much for this video!!! I think it’s extremely helpful because I have a dog with separation anxiety! Also, can I just point out that Bentley looked adorable sleeping in the background 🥺❤️

    • @RachelFusaro
      @RachelFusaro  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TRAILMIX _ GRAPEDOG love that you noticed him 😍

  • @breewheel2614
    @breewheel2614 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way he was acting seemed exactly like my Harry but he's only 11 lbs. The tricks and socializing really helps

  • @bethanysatterfield8240
    @bethanysatterfield8240 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your page so much. you help a lot thank you!

  • @FireOpal.
    @FireOpal. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve just discovered you and feel how I imagine Cinderella must have felt meeting her fairy godmother for the first time. My sweet anxious dog thanks you in advance of my training 😘

  • @Suemack24
    @Suemack24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice and tips from your experience. Anxious temperaments also need to be considered by breeders in litter parents. Harder with accidental and backyard pregnancies.

  • @CeCeNaturally
    @CeCeNaturally 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have a video for all of my needs! Lol thank you!

  • @dorisw2507
    @dorisw2507 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol when you said I am here for you, I cried.

  • @Glock_Lesn4r
    @Glock_Lesn4r 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We just moved a long distance into a house with new sounds, a huge yard with tons of activity, and a different climate. Our small dog is extremely smart, knows lots of tricks, has a dog park sized yard, and isolation anxiety now. The other 2 dogs are older, and chill out when we leave, but this one (a mini-schnoodle) has developed anxiety. This video helps, a lot. We don't want him to go on meds so hopefully what we are doing helps.

  • @christinesenz9905
    @christinesenz9905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍 Excellent tips. Exercise worked 100% with all of my rescues with separation anxiety. Frequent runs in different locations, obstacle courses for mental stimulation, short and fun training sessions 'on the run' as well as 'hide and seek' with me and child relatives or neighbours. Fun weekly 'get togethers' with other dogs helped so much too.💗🐶💗

  • @brittanyosmond6419
    @brittanyosmond6419 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m getting a puppy in a few weeks. Gonna be a big boy, so I’m doing the research now. I love videos like these, because crate training is a goal for us. 😊

    • @juanitaf.m
      @juanitaf.m ปีที่แล้ว

      I just got a growing girl myself last month. This channel REALLY helped me so much, especially with the crate!

  • @whitechicacooks5780
    @whitechicacooks5780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started teaching my rescue pup, new tricks & exercise for his separation anxiety... so far, they are working!!! I felt so horrible for having adopted a dog that I didn't know wasn't crate trained due to his separation anxiety. I began those tips, and there have been no more accidents! I know it's only been a few weeks, but I think we may have finally turned that corner! So even if we haven't, thank you for your help!!!

    • @jamisonfarris6332
      @jamisonfarris6332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any update ?

    • @whitechicacooks5780
      @whitechicacooks5780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jamisonfarris6332 It's still a little uncertain, but the only 2 accidents he's had since, were during a thunderstorm & once that it looked like something hit wrong (diarrhea). So I think we really have generally turned the curve for him! ❤️

  • @LeandriJackson
    @LeandriJackson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing*
    As a student Puppy instructor all your tips are really great. 👌

  • @jenniferrothschild4329
    @jenniferrothschild4329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re incredible thank you 🙏

  • @latinaries
    @latinaries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, what an amazing video! Not only were you able to answer so many of the questions I had about what I can do with my dog’s separation anxiety, but the ideas you have for training were very well explained.
    Tbh, I was very upset when I when I was searching training tips for dogs with anxiety because my dog has been getting worse every day and I was losing patience. I love her so much and just want to see her to calm down. But I’m excited to try out your tips and the new trick idea!!! Thank you 😊

  • @SA-714-OC
    @SA-714-OC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Picking up Brutus the Barbarian tomorrow. He is an American bulldog that is 9 weeks old. I’ll have Friday-Sunday to be with him . I know it will be a challenge but hey, I dig challenges. Thanks for all the advice and keep up the good work 😀

  • @stefanieramirez2428
    @stefanieramirez2428 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    there are so many tips if you have roommates or are married but its tough when youre solo, working from home and have other pets that need time as well. I will try some of these tips

  • @JenDplus3
    @JenDplus3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would love a video of easy, quick ways to stimulate my pup!

  • @kelligonsalves943
    @kelligonsalves943 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh thank you so much

  • @SparklyPrincessLynnette
    @SparklyPrincessLynnette ปีที่แล้ว

    Would love a video on the tips you use for the daily mental stimulation