Thank you for taking all the necessary steps to protect that young lady. As someone who experienced this at a very young age whose life was threatened if I say anything, I know how it feels. Thankfully, God gave me the strength to speak my truth despite the threats he laid on me. Now I teach my own kids about the signs and ensuring they are always welcomed to speak with me about ANYTHING. Keep it up 👍🏾
@@NezePeperempe Likewise sis 🤗😘🙏🏾🙌🏾. Keep up the great work. I love your channel so much because you speak facts and your content is so relatable and impactful to many people like myself. You will continue to prosper in all that you do by the special grace of God 😘🙏🏾🙌🏾🤗👏🏾👍🏾
My sister in-law used to send my daughter to a man whom she sells sobo to when l was away my daughter told me after many years that the man slept with her several times God will never forgive her because she doesn't send hers 35:11 35:11 35:11
Neze, I am a silent subscriber but this story deserves a comment from me. My generation truly suffered this abuse from relations and friends that were trusted by our parents. The unfortunate thing is that the girls of our time got the beating of their lives when they tried to report it, the ones that succumbed and got pregnant were disowned and banished from the family. We had natural antennas that detected abuse from these familier men, and it was the only reason why we survived. Our parents were oblivious of these 'household enemies, they focused on the young boys in our classes who wrote love letters and poems to us. I pray that parents will learn to show more care and pay attention to their girl child. Great content ❤
@@Mo_momlifeWhile I agree & liked your comment. I must say not all. Many are still making these same mistakes. There’s a show on TH-cam here, called Breketè Family. I came across the channel because TH-cam suggested it. And ever since I’ve started watching the channel, I am so shocked of the things going on in Nigeria even in this present times. These are people from all generations to GenZ Y X etc. It’s so crazy that even some tribes & languages I’ve never heard it in my life. This is me that thought I grew up in Naija. Omo!!!!😮things are happening😳. And the extreme sad part of it is that there’ll be no true justice.😢
Thank you Neze for this topic. I am 54 years old now and I remember as a little girl praying passionately asking God not to give me a daughter when I grow up. I was so scared of raising and watching a girl surviving men as I did. I escaped being raped 9 times by people very close and trusted by my parents. Sadly I told nobody, until two years ago when I told my mum!.. She was shocked because in one of those occasions she did give me a beating of my life... I have three grown up sons (no daughter as I asked God) whom I have taught to respect girls and women.. and I am so proud of them.
Sorry to hear your story. I believe you will be responsible enough to raise a good girl. If you are still at the point of child bearing, may God give you a beautiful girl that will bring joy to your family.
My dear thanks for this opportunity at least it give me avenue to speak up, mine was even a respected church member, who drugged me, raped me , he took my virginity,the painful part is what the mother said, the mother of the boy said when I told her that her son raped,😢 imagine a mother telling you, is it because she had accepted you to stay in our house you, and are now calling her child rapist a mother who has a daughter telling another person's daughter because I accepted you in my house you're calling my son a rapist, she said even if her son had sex with me i should be happy it's not street boys my dear but karma they say is a bastard the second son did the same thing to another and he is now in prison
@@nnajichidera6265karma catch up with her, I hope she has repented from her evil deeds n I hope she became better at treating people in such a evil way.
What a story! Just to add pedo*** are not gender limited Also protect your boys from older females/males...and vice versa for Girls You handled it properly
Our driver was teaching me how to drive. I live with my aunty (my father's sister). During the driving lesson, I made a mistake and stepped on the accelerator too hard and he grabbed my inner thigh and said "not like that". This man has always been trying to make advances at me. During parties in the house, he always tried to get me drunk saying that I am old enough to drink. Mind you he watched me grow up. He knew me since I was 9 years old and I call him uncle. I was 21 when he grabbed me (it happened in 2021). I told my aunty about it and she said that I shouldn't tell her husband because he was going to fire that driver and the driver helps us a lot by taking the kids to school. I was so disappointed in my aunt's response. Few days later, this same fo*lish driver called my phone in the middle of the night and said that I was his "love". That night I put him in his place and he never tried it again. It's 2024 now and he still stays in our house. I just thank God that all of my aunty's children are boys. Or maybe if I was her biological daughter she would have responded differently.
Thank you for this Been sexually abuse by a pastor as a child and was told not to tell anyone, I mentioned it for the first time in my life after over 30yrs of age during Baba Ijesha case I will never take chances with anyone even with girls around me,i don't care who you be Thank you for protecting the girl❤😘😘😘
A lot of Nigeria women treats their helpers badly. & the strictness they apply on them is unbearable, thank you for taking care of her despite she not being your birthed child. Children are being molested in Africa as a whole & no one is being held accountable.
THIS!!!! I hate when people force you to jump right into forgiveness when you know fully well that the perpetrator is still actively engaging in sexual and criminal activity against minors. The perpetrator will never stop until they are held accountable for their actions. Human behavior is definitely driven by consequences. You said it well.
Once someone disrespects your privacy and boundary the first time, not the second time, the very first time, cut them off! Leaving them in your life gives them more access to your space as well as more nerve to explore! I was very small maybe 6-9yrs old but I remember older men standing behind the houses next to my dad’s and opening their private area and shaking their P @ me. My dads house was a story building and the next house was a bungalow so I would usually stand upstairs playing with my siblings and just running around but these older men with would sneak behind the bungalow and call my attention and as soon as I look down would whip out their P and shake it at me until I turn my face away or they hear an older person approaching. As at then, I didn’t even understand what they meant by that, I knew something was not right about it because of how they quickly put the P back in their pants soon as they heard an adult approaching, but I didn’t know what the P was for and the message they were trying to convey to me! I only understood what everything was about after I grew up and remembered what happened! Protect our kids with everything because those devils I encountered 30 something years ago are are still here today!
That is a great girl. She will grow up to be just as decent as you. Please take care of this God-sent child. You are this girl's guiding angel. God bless you.
“A man who does not have boundaries can do anything to you and think it’s his right “ Now you know why I love you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. I just smile from ear to ear immediately I see your uploads ❤ ❤❤
Thank you for protecting the innocent girl. I hope people learn from this. A female passenger is not safe with this bolt guy. I live in PH. Imagine this animal with a female passenger on some lonely road like airport road. Above all we should be close to our children. Thanks for sharing.
Neze, this episode has made me your subscriber. Now I know that I'm not being paranoid about how I protect my children especially when I have a negative intuition about somebody. Thumbs up girl 👍
I now understand I am not over reacting like my husband think. All my teenage girls at home know that no boy is safe with them even inlaws or Daddys Friends
@okonmbese2328 it's not just the girls, even the boys too. The world is now so evil that I started very early to teach my children to trust no one, and I feel sad about it but it's the hard truth.
In America with The No Child Left Behind Act all kids must be believed. Children are innocent and don’t need to prove themselves. Well done Neze for taking drastic action with this loser forward miscreant with so much demonic hubris and nerve!! He needs to rot in jail!!
This is one of the reasons why I love Neze. If only our parents and guardians paid attention and fought for us the way you did your girl,many of us wouldn't be living with trauma from sexual abuse. God bless you for this Neze🙏
Neze, thank you for this. I remember I was also assaulted by such a man when I was in primary 5. He was one of my favorite uncles at the time. He always bought me gifts and loved me as I thought. But one day he came and told me that he wanted to sleep with me and that I should not tell my parents. I don't even remember the exact words cos I was a child but I understood and since then I started avoiding him. I kind of hated him. I was very rude to him to the point that my parents started asking me what was happening cos I couldn't tell them but I eventually did. My sister was also assaulted by another uncle but she was brave enough to tell my mom the same day it happened. My mom called his wife and told her and she called him but he denied it. My sister was very young, she didn't even know fully what he meant so my mother told him that there's no way my sister would create such a story. And can you believe Neze that even this January that man sexually assaulted her again? She went to see a judge at his office for something and she met the uncle there and he tried to force himself on her in another person's office. Imagine she agreed and the judge caught them in his office. Some old men are just ...hmmm and that man is way older than my father. They never change, thank you for slapping him Neze. He deserved it.
The satisfaction I had when you said you slapped him is something I can't even describe 😁 thank you for teaching that idoit a lesson he won't be forgetting in a while. The sad part of this is that there are many more animals like him and they're getting away with it. Thanks for sharing ♥️ your hair is giving everything it is supposed to 😍
This is so true Neze. I love how you handled this issue. A lot of girls have been abused by so called uncles. I always say thank God I'm not a lawyer because such cases will have extreme punishment from me in the court of law. I can't even imagine it. I detest child sexual abuse.
My dear, I was 10 years old, we had a lesson teacher who will teach my siblings and I, he would teach my siblings first, then I would be last. He tried such nonsense, I slapped him in that the lesson ended immediately because that was the least he expected, someone passing by saw him and took it up from there.
Thank you for protecting and defending your daughter. You are a wonderful human being. You would be an excellent Minister of Women’s Affairs. Predators, molesters and perverts prey on vulnerable girls/vulnerable children. Predators, molesters and perverts can be female cousins and family “friends”. Learn from this story, the assault happened in 30, life changing seconds. My parents were extremely strict and wouldn’t allow us (4kids) to go anywhere other than school & church. We were not even allowed to visit relatives without them. No sleepovers or anyone staying in our home, even blood relations! This was unusual for African parents. We felt deprived and “mistreated” but they were protecting us the whole time. Parents need to wake up and safeguard their children, especially their daughters. Well done for slapping that beast. I’m sure that validating your daughter and publically supporting her against that degenerate has empowered her & minimised the damage that Pdo tried to cause. All children need a wonderful parent like you.
@ShakiWunmi No he wouldn't, Neze would have believed her daughter regardless of CCTV footage. Didn't you hear her say she slapped him? That was immediate.
We sent our girl (maid) for an errand one day, she came back crying that one uncle is always teasing her and touching her bum on the road. The way my husband ran out to warn the boy enh!! I was proud. He told him anytime u see that girl avoid her, dont even greet her, stay on ur own. The say na play, u can imagine!
Hmmmm, God help us. Did I hear you say you cannot leave your daughter with any man?! Not only should you not leave your girl for any male figure also watch out for the female figure too, because sometimes it can be an adult female who was victimized that would do such not only to a male, but also her fellow female. Make God help us in our time, now we are well informed. Thank you for sharing barrister.
I remember as a child, there's this guy who was my elder sister's friend who like to bath me and my immediate elder sister everyday. I notice he will just be putting his hand into our private part. It was when I grew that I understood exactly what he was doing. Also in my SS1 in secondary, there's this relative that came to stay in our house and he's always trying to touch me when there's nobody at home. God gave me the wisdom to always leave the house when nobody is around. That was how I escaped been rape in my secondary school. In my class too boys want to touch my breast. The girl child is vulnerable. I will protect my girl children with everything in my life
Hmmmn. Thank you so much Neze 💓 This happened to my help in the year 2021...The tap in the house suddenly stopped running so she went outside our flat to get water in the compound. Suddenly she rushed to me screaming Aunty aunty come and warn Bro Habib ooo, I said what happened? She said i was busy fetching water so he touched me and said please come and suck me I will buy you sharwama... I immediately followed her as soon as he saw me coming, he entered his flat and locked the door. I banged his door like a thief, dragged him out and warned him severely. My dear, since that day till we moved out, he avoided my girl like a plague...
Honestly, a lot of trauma from my childhood and SA, this is why I would never trust anyone with my child or children. Nobody can be trusted. People are really evil.
Not gays exclusively. A lot of our men lost their virginity to housemaids, aunties, older sister’s friends, female neighbors etc. women abuse as much as men; only the tactics are different because men are stronger and physically more violent. But women rape. Even in relationships, women behave super inappropriately, no consent but it’s normalized.
Thank God for vigilance. I have a teenage daughter too,and I am a mother hen,male lesson teachers,plumber etc I don't joke with..My driver never went anyway with my child without ME in the vehicle,mechanics don't work on cars in my absence..and we have CCTV camera's too.i also educate my girls on these isdues...God keep our Little ones safe .
I started to tear up at the end because of the way you defended her and empowered her 😭💓 Thank you for sharing this story and for being the type of person you are 💓
Thanks for standing up for the girl under your care like your own child! Every mother reading this story keep an eye on your girl child even from even their fathers at home! It sound weird but it's real.
Thank you Neze for handling the situation the way you did. When you said you gave him a hot slap, I said 'Correct! That is one of the things I would have done". Do you know what my policy is as far as men are concerned? It is "you're guilty until proven innocent" (that is, if you can ever prove yourself innocent; because you will always be a suspect just by being a man). For me, I'll rather be paranoid than be sorry. If you're a man, I'm automatically suspicious of you as far as my girl children are concerned. Keep up the good work, Neze!
Neze please you will champion a campaign on this your channel to educate mothers about girl child molestation. It’s not been emphasised enough. I listened from beginning till end and it dawned on me that we don’t even talk about these stuffs enough. Please sister take microphone 🎤. Our mothers need to be educated on these threats living amongst us. The narration may sound funny but please guys don’t watch for entertainment purposes only. Get the message and champion the campaign xx
This is the reality of the world we are living in now, as a father of two girls I always tell them to be extra vigilant especially when using public conveniences because these pd men are all transgendering to women and invading women's and young girls' spaces, parents /guardians need to put in more efforts, especially here in the UK where they have subtle backing of the government. welcome back Neze.
Neze I like that your tongue is so clean. This may look crazy as you read it but that's the truth. I see a lot of people on social media that don't clean their tongue. Sorry but it looks really bad when people talking and their tongue is so dirty. If you're a social media personality, i feel it necessary for you to be very neat and presentable at all times, because you should have in mind that so many people will view you. You are always neat and I love you for that. Smart, funny and clean.
This made me teary when you spoke about evening prayers and interaction with your family.God bless you so much.Mothers and guardians could learn so much from this.
GOD ABUNDANTLY BLESS YOU MY DEAR YOUNG LADY, FOR TREATING EVERY INDIVIDUAL LIKE YOU WOULD LOVE TO BE TREATED. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. MAY GOD'S DIVINE PROTECTION SURROUND YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, IJMN AMEN!✌👍👌🙏👏🤲💗💕
Looking forward to see you contest for presidency my lovely beautiful woman...I believe you will win. We need a female president in Nigeria, a good one at that. I trust you will be one.
May God bless and protect the female child from some of these monsters in the form of men, and please watch out for our little boys too, because some of these men have no boundaries. Thank you barrister Neze, God bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
They know me in my compound I'm like a hawk with my kids. I hardly even let them play at the neighbour's place. I can't fight abeg, my dark side can be really dark when it comes to my loved ones
Your girl is so lucky to have you in her life as it is in so many cases men like that monster do think that they can get away with murder. Thank you for being a good human being ❤
Thank you for your deep analysis of this incident. You are indeed an excellent Mother, keep doing good to all under your roof. You are an inspiration.I pray other parents will learn. I always tell my hubby that artisans cannot come into our house for repairs when he is not in the house.
@@NezePeperempe yes o, it is one other way of protecting our women and children. The presence of Oga in the house will serve to deter them in case of any sinister actions planned by such craftsmen. I have heard several stories about sad incidents in respect of this based on the guise of repair works.
Neze you just unfolded the case of baba ijesha and princess life and direct. Absolutely, the relationship you had with that girl exposed the evil man. Welcome Neze. Ladies are you learning
Thanks so much for sharing this very important message with us. I learnt so much from your advice specifically the importance of conducting delight background checks on prospective clients and business partners. Secondly, on never to trust any none family members with our female children. Lastly Madam, I am an engineer by profession working for top global energy companies. I see you make great career and become a global figure if you go in University lecturing career. I see alot of talents in you, excellent effective communication skills and more.
Very educative my bestie.....am a mother of girls and I do understand the feeling I could have done worse than a slap...... Girl child power and by God's grace we shall overcome.
Well done my auntie u have done very well. I never left my dtr with any man even family members because I would delete anyone that touch my children. I no dey play with my pickin at all because jail and me no gree
Well, this behavior happened all the time in Africa and the little girl would have been wrongly accused of telling lies. Nezze, thank you for sharing this story. This was so pathetic. Thank God for your boldness and assertiveness. The mama bear inside you was in a rage to save the little girl. You are so gifted, caring , kind and a sister that every girl needed in their life. Kudos to you .
Thanks for always giving us the truth about everything under the sun ☀️ in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and I think it’s time police starts releasing pictures of “pedodo” to the public so our children and women don’t fall prey to this evil men ooo
This story ehh, thank God for your actions. I have warned my husband never to allow our daughter out of sight since am not around. I no want hear story that touches the heart when she comes to join me in the UK. Some Men are senseless, heartless and emotionless too. God help us mothers
Nezenwa, Nezepeperempe - are you inviting me to your house to come and say hello to your daughter, please? This message is from a concerned Adult - though still a teenager at heart😊 Now on a serious note, this is to thank and APPRECIATE you - Barrister Neze for the WONDERFUL JOB you are doing in the BEST INTEREST OF THE PUBLIC. THANK YOU. Mathew Oladimeji.
Your channel is a most watch channel... I just don't know which word to use due to the content you always give us... Ma Sha Allah... May Allah protect you and your family
Alot of sick men !!!!! When there are brothels they could go too & release themselves, until there are heavy punishments for any man or woman doing such to a child, it won't stop !!!!! They are cowards that's why they prey on children
Watching this i just had to comment because of all the nasty p's I've encountered growing up, one i cannot even mention because of how close to home it was. The first time i was about 6 years old. My brother and I used to take the school bus together, but he had finished primary school and went to boarding school, so it was only me taking the school bus. This very day, I'm sure the bus driver had been noticing my brother wasn't with me anymore, because he made sure i was the last on the bus, i also knew even that young that usually when they drop me and my bro, there were still many students left on the bus to be dropped off.. thats how evil this person was. He made sure i was the last person, took me to an abandoned building and molested me. He didn't penetrate because i was young, but he basically used my legs to get off! Like i even remember then thinking why is pus coming from him, not knowing what it was. I can honestly say i don't remember what i did with that situation because my mum changed my school so maybe i went home and told her. But my point is, if I didn't remember anything before or after that situation i cannot forget that day. Even being so young, i knew it was very wrong. As for him, i hope he's rotting in hell. I have a son now, and I've read somewhere in the comment about people wanting sons because of this situation, but unfortunately, boys are not exempt. My husband told me of stories that happened to him, a female relation in her late teens touching him while he was sleeping and he woke up then she stopped, he was about 11/12/13 . And in schools, 3 weeks ago, my sister inlaw told us about a senior student approaching her son, she said it was because she was open to her kids about gay people etc thats why her son (in js1) fought the boy (in js 2/3). Can you imagine!! Where did that student learn this from?? So even with boys, teach them that their private parts should not be touched by anybody and if anyone touches them in an unfamiliar way, they should let their parents know immediately! My son his 3 and his speech isn't fluent yet, but i honestly cannot wait for him to talk properly and be able to communicate fluently when i ask him about his day, because there are evil people in disguise even in this UK that I'm in. My number one prayer is that such people will not see my children and if their evil eyes cannot stay in one place, the fire of God will start to burn their body uncontrollable if they should even think of trying such nonsense towards my children. Like you, i can k**l any P's they are scums of the earth!
Neze, you won me over. I've been watching your videos but this one got me to subscribe. What a thought-provoking story!!! I'm a mother. I've survived rape(s) and my heart really goes for young girls. May God help us! Hope your 'sister girl' becomes a women's empowerment official in future.
Thank you for taking all the necessary steps to protect that young lady. As someone who experienced this at a very young age whose life was threatened if I say anything, I know how it feels. Thankfully, God gave me the strength to speak my truth despite the threats he laid on me. Now I teach my own kids about the signs and ensuring they are always welcomed to speak with me about ANYTHING. Keep it up 👍🏾
God bless & strengthen u 💕
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Amen
@@NezePeperempe Likewise sis 🤗😘🙏🏾🙌🏾. Keep up the great work. I love your channel so much because you speak facts and your content is so relatable and impactful to many people like myself. You will continue to prosper in all that you do by the special grace of God 😘🙏🏾🙌🏾🤗👏🏾👍🏾
My sister in-law used to send my daughter to a man whom she sells sobo to when l was away my daughter told me after many years that the man slept with her several times God will never forgive her because she doesn't send hers 35:11 35:11 35:11
My father was very protective of us, he didnt let us visit relatives unattended. He did not house males in our house. I now know what he knew.
Neze, I am a silent subscriber but this story deserves a comment from me.
My generation truly suffered this abuse from relations and friends that were trusted by our parents. The unfortunate thing is that the girls of our time got the beating of their lives when they tried to report it, the ones that succumbed and got pregnant were disowned and banished from the family.
We had natural antennas that detected abuse from these familier men, and it was the only reason why we survived. Our parents were oblivious of these 'household enemies, they focused on the young boys in our classes who wrote love letters and poems to us.
I pray that parents will learn to show more care and pay attention to their girl child.
Great content ❤
Veryyyy wellllll said.
Hugs 🫂
And I am glad that we re not making the mistakes out mothers made
@@Mo_momlifeWhile I agree & liked your comment. I must say not all. Many are still making these same mistakes.
There’s a show on TH-cam here, called Breketè Family. I came across the channel because TH-cam suggested it. And ever since I’ve started watching the channel, I am so shocked of the things going on in Nigeria even in this present times.
These are people from all generations to GenZ Y X etc. It’s so crazy that even some tribes & languages I’ve never heard it in my life. This is me that thought I grew up in Naija.
Omo!!!!😮things are happening😳. And the extreme sad part of it is that there’ll be no true justice.😢
@@The_Cruise_Fam it’s so sad,I know that show never really watched it,God help us
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Thank you Neze for this topic. I am 54 years old now and I remember as a little girl praying passionately asking God not to give me a daughter when I grow up. I was so scared of raising and watching a girl surviving men as I did. I escaped being raped 9 times by people
very close and trusted by my parents. Sadly I told nobody, until two years ago when I told my mum!.. She was shocked because in one of those occasions she did give me a beating of my life... I have three grown up sons (no daughter as I asked God) whom I have taught to respect girls and women.. and I am so proud of them.
Sorry to hear your story. I believe you will be responsible enough to raise a good girl. If you are still at the point of child bearing, may God give you a beautiful girl that will bring joy to your family.
Wow! Wow! Wow!!!!!!!
My dear thanks for this opportunity at least it give me avenue to speak up, mine was even a respected church member, who drugged me, raped me , he took my virginity,the painful part is what the mother said, the mother of the boy said when I told her that her son raped,😢 imagine a mother telling you, is it because she had accepted you to stay in our house you, and are now calling her child rapist a mother who has a daughter telling another person's daughter because I accepted you in my house you're calling my son a rapist, she said even if her son had sex with me i should be happy it's not street boys my dear but karma they say is a bastard the second son did the same thing to another and he is now in prison
I am sorry for what you went through ma😢glad God answered by giving your heart desires n glad you finally spoke to mum n you made peace.
@@nnajichidera6265karma catch up with her, I hope she has repented from her evil deeds n I hope she became better at treating people in such a evil way.
It's.not just girls, it happens to boys too. We have to be on guard.
Very true
Please run for President because we shall vote for you massively.
Absolutely
What a story!
Just to add pedo*** are not gender limited
Also protect your boys from older females/males...and vice versa for Girls
You handled it properly
O yes..
Thank u
That's so some women are truly evil family or not.
Our driver was teaching me how to drive. I live with my aunty (my father's sister). During the driving lesson, I made a mistake and stepped on the accelerator too hard and he grabbed my inner thigh and said "not like that". This man has always been trying to make advances at me. During parties in the house, he always tried to get me drunk saying that I am old enough to drink. Mind you he watched me grow up. He knew me since I was 9 years old and I call him uncle. I was 21 when he grabbed me (it happened in 2021). I told my aunty about it and she said that I shouldn't tell her husband because he was going to fire that driver and the driver helps us a lot by taking the kids to school. I was so disappointed in my aunt's response. Few days later, this same fo*lish driver called my phone in the middle of the night and said that I was his "love". That night I put him in his place and he never tried it again. It's 2024 now and he still stays in our house. I just thank God that all of my aunty's children are boys. Or maybe if I was her biological daughter she would have responded differently.
Wow that is so terrible, I’m sorry you’re going through this 💓💓
Thank you for this
Been sexually abuse by a pastor as a child and was told not to tell anyone, I mentioned it for the first time in my life after over 30yrs of age during Baba Ijesha case
I will never take chances with anyone even with girls around me,i don't care who you be
Thank you for protecting the girl❤😘😘😘
Nawaooo
I’m just started watching this video and I’m already triggered, thank God our parents have started believing their children.
A lot of Nigeria women treats their helpers badly. & the strictness they apply on them is unbearable, thank you for taking care of her despite she not being your birthed child. Children are being molested in Africa as a whole & no one is being held accountable.
How you repeatedly call her my daughter/my child melts my heart ♥ ❤❤❤❤
A true mother indeed ❤❤❤
I love how you handled this. Human behavior is driven by consequences. If ppl don’t face the consequences of their behavior they’ll keep misbehaving.
THIS!!!! I hate when people force you to jump right into forgiveness when you know fully well that the perpetrator is still actively engaging in sexual and criminal activity against minors. The perpetrator will never stop until they are held accountable for their actions. Human behavior is definitely driven by consequences. You said it well.
So true!!
Fathers abusing their own daughters. Brothers abusing their own sisters. Step fathers n ko? Lots of abominations going on in the world and in Africa.
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Once someone disrespects your privacy and boundary the first time, not the second time, the very first time, cut them off! Leaving them in your life gives them more access to your space as well as more nerve to explore! I was very small maybe 6-9yrs old but I remember older men standing behind the houses next to my dad’s and opening their private area and shaking their P @ me. My dads house was a story building and the next house was a bungalow so I would usually stand upstairs playing with my siblings and just running around but these older men with would sneak behind the bungalow and call my attention and as soon as I look down would whip out their P and shake it at me until I turn my face away or they hear an older person approaching. As at then, I didn’t even understand what they meant by that, I knew something was not right about it because of how they quickly put the P back in their pants soon as they heard an adult approaching, but I didn’t know what the P was for and the message they were trying to convey to me! I only understood what everything was about after I grew up and remembered what happened! Protect our kids with everything because those devils I encountered 30 something years ago are are still here today!
That is a great girl. She will grow up to be just as decent as you. Please take care of this God-sent child. You are this girl's guiding angel. God bless you.
An Igbo adage also said, " An adventurous child, who travels everywhere, has more wisdom than an adult, who sat down at home."
“A man who does not have boundaries can do anything to you and think it’s his right “
Now you know why I love you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼.
I just smile from ear to ear immediately I see your uploads ❤ ❤❤
Thank you for protecting the innocent girl. I hope people learn from this. A female passenger is not safe with this bolt guy. I live in PH. Imagine this animal with a female passenger on some lonely road like airport road. Above all we should be close to our children. Thanks for sharing.
Bolt drivers m@sturb@tes while driving and tell girls to mo@n or suck them
Every annoying attitude
Neze, this episode has made me your subscriber. Now I know that I'm not being paranoid about how I protect my children especially when I have a negative intuition about somebody.
Thumbs up girl 👍
Me too
I now understand I am not over reacting like my husband think. All my teenage girls at home know that no boy is safe with them even inlaws or Daddys Friends
@okonmbese2328 it's not just the girls, even the boys too. The world is now so evil that I started very early to teach my children to trust no one, and I feel sad about it but it's the hard truth.
Me too. Just subscribed ❤
In America with The No Child Left Behind Act all kids must be believed. Children are innocent and don’t need to prove themselves. Well done Neze for taking drastic action with this loser forward miscreant with so much demonic hubris and nerve!! He needs to rot in jail!!
I have cctv everywhere in my house, I live in the diaspora and had bad experience with naija visitors .
This is one of the reasons why I love Neze. If only our parents and guardians paid attention and fought for us the way you did your girl,many of us wouldn't be living with trauma from sexual abuse. God bless you for this Neze🙏
Neze, thank you for this. I remember I was also assaulted by such a man when I was in primary 5. He was one of my favorite uncles at the time. He always bought me gifts and loved me as I thought. But one day he came and told me that he wanted to sleep with me and that I should not tell my parents. I don't even remember the exact words cos I was a child but I understood and since then I started avoiding him. I kind of hated him. I was very rude to him to the point that my parents started asking me what was happening cos I couldn't tell them but I eventually did. My sister was also assaulted by another uncle but she was brave enough to tell my mom the same day it happened. My mom called his wife and told her and she called him but he denied it. My sister was very young, she didn't even know fully what he meant so my mother told him that there's no way my sister would create such a story. And can you believe Neze that even this January that man sexually assaulted her again? She went to see a judge at his office for something and she met the uncle there and he tried to force himself on her in another person's office. Imagine she agreed and the judge caught them in his office. Some old men are just ...hmmm and that man is way older than my father. They never change, thank you for slapping him Neze. He deserved it.
Oh my goodness. No waow.
I way just shrudding Jesus, reading through this, Again.....talk about madness
The satisfaction I had when you said you slapped him is something I can't even describe 😁 thank you for teaching that idoit a lesson he won't be forgetting in a while. The sad part of this is that there are many more animals like him and they're getting away with it. Thanks for sharing ♥️ your hair is giving everything it is supposed to 😍
This is so true Neze. I love how you handled this issue. A lot of girls have been abused by so called uncles. I always say thank God I'm not a lawyer because such cases will have extreme punishment from me in the court of law. I can't even imagine it. I detest child sexual abuse.
My dear, I was 10 years old, we had a lesson teacher who will teach my siblings and I, he would teach my siblings first, then I would be last. He tried such nonsense, I slapped him in that the lesson ended immediately because that was the least he expected, someone passing by saw him and took it up from there.
Thank you for protecting and defending your daughter. You are a wonderful human being. You would be an excellent Minister of Women’s Affairs.
Predators, molesters and perverts prey on vulnerable girls/vulnerable children. Predators, molesters and perverts can be female cousins and family “friends”. Learn from this story, the assault happened in 30, life changing seconds.
My parents were extremely strict and wouldn’t allow us (4kids) to go anywhere other than school & church. We were not even allowed to visit relatives without them. No sleepovers or anyone
staying in our home, even blood relations! This was unusual for African parents. We felt deprived and “mistreated” but they were protecting us the whole time. Parents need to wake up and safeguard their children, especially their daughters. Well done for slapping that beast. I’m sure that validating
your daughter and publically supporting her against that degenerate has empowered her & minimised the damage that Pdo tried to cause. All children need a wonderful parent like you.
He succum because of CCTV camera,if not he would have left Neze confused
Yes,female predators exists too.Parents watch out.Paenting is a hard job
@ShakiWunmi No he wouldn't, Neze would have believed her daughter regardless of CCTV footage. Didn't you hear her say she slapped him? That was immediate.
We sent our girl (maid) for an errand one day, she came back crying that one uncle is always teasing her and touching her bum on the road. The way my husband ran out to warn the boy enh!! I was proud. He told him anytime u see that girl avoid her, dont even greet her, stay on ur own. The say na play, u can imagine!
Hmmmm, God help us. Did I hear you say you cannot leave your daughter with any man?! Not only should you not leave your girl for any male figure also watch out for the female figure too, because sometimes it can be an adult female who was victimized that would do such not only to a male, but also her fellow female. Make God help us in our time, now we are well informed. Thank you for sharing barrister.
I remember as a child, there's this guy who was my elder sister's friend who like to bath me and my immediate elder sister everyday. I notice he will just be putting his hand into our private part. It was when I grew that I understood exactly what he was doing. Also in my SS1 in secondary, there's this relative that came to stay in our house and he's always trying to touch me when there's nobody at home. God gave me the wisdom to always leave the house when nobody is around. That was how I escaped been rape in my secondary school. In my class too boys want to touch my breast. The girl child is vulnerable. I will protect my girl children with everything in my life
Awww sorry about that. Hope you are well now❤
I am so pleased the guy was dealt with, so many lessons have been learnt truly
It’s better to be careful, because once your child is assaulted, you CANNOT CHANGE it!!
❤ thank you for standing up for baby girl. So many turn a blind eye and sweep the matter under the rug. Our children deserve better.
This Ps are amongst us as uncles,brother inlaws,teachers, the scar 😢 omg
Story of my life. They thought me the scary lesson since my childhood. And for that reason I now live in isolation, for the in-dept fear of them. .
Hmmmn. Thank you so much Neze 💓
This happened to my help in the year 2021...The tap in the house suddenly stopped running so she went outside our flat to get water in the compound. Suddenly she rushed to me screaming Aunty aunty come and warn Bro Habib ooo, I said what happened? She said i was busy fetching water so he touched me and said please come and suck me I will buy you sharwama... I immediately followed her as soon as he saw me coming, he entered his flat and locked the door. I banged his door like a thief, dragged him out and warned him severely. My dear, since that day till we moved out, he avoided my girl like a plague...
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Neze, your storytelling skills are excellent. Before I knew it, almost 40mins passed like 5mins 😂
Honestly, a lot of trauma from my childhood and SA, this is why I would never trust anyone with my child or children. Nobody can be trusted. People are really evil.
Amen. Never make the same mistakes our ancestors made
Neze, now it is not only the girls, the boys are also at risk because of the gays! so all children must be protected!
Not gays exclusively. A lot of our men lost their virginity to housemaids, aunties, older sister’s friends, female neighbors etc. women abuse as much as men; only the tactics are different because men are stronger and physically more violent. But women rape. Even in relationships, women behave super inappropriately, no consent but it’s normalized.
Thank God for vigilance. I have a teenage daughter too,and I am a mother hen,male lesson teachers,plumber etc I don't joke with..My driver never went anyway with my child without ME in the vehicle,mechanics don't work on cars in my absence..and we have CCTV camera's too.i also educate my girls on these isdues...God keep our Little ones safe .
Neze is definitely the elder sister l never had because......one love ❤ may God save our little one's,
I will vote for you when you run for president. 😊
I started to tear up at the end because of the way you defended her and empowered her 😭💓 Thank you for sharing this story and for being the type of person you are 💓
Thanks for standing up for the girl under your care like your own child!
Every mother reading this story keep an eye on your girl child even from even their fathers at home! It sound weird but it's real.
Thank you for protecting and defending this young lady, dogs will be dogs.
I love you gal. We need more strong women like you❤
Queen Neze 👑 not all women see things like that. It is only intelligent ones that do.
Patients please listen to your kids and bring them closer to you. You're a true mother of all nations. Thank you for all you do. ❤️
Thank you Neze for handling the situation the way you did. When you said you gave him a hot slap, I said 'Correct! That is one of the things I would have done".
Do you know what my policy is as far as men are concerned? It is "you're guilty until proven innocent" (that is, if you can ever prove yourself innocent; because you will always be a suspect just by being a man). For me, I'll rather be paranoid than be sorry. If you're a man, I'm automatically suspicious of you as far as my girl children are concerned.
Keep up the good work, Neze!
Neze please you will champion a campaign on this your channel to educate mothers about girl child molestation. It’s not been emphasised enough. I listened from beginning till end and it dawned on me that we don’t even talk about these stuffs enough. Please sister take microphone 🎤. Our mothers need to be educated on these threats living amongst us. The narration may sound funny but please guys don’t watch for entertainment purposes only. Get the message and champion the campaign xx
This is the reality of the world we are living in now, as a father of two girls I always tell them to be extra vigilant especially when using public conveniences because these pd men are all transgendering to women and invading women's and young girls' spaces, parents /guardians need to put in more efforts, especially here in the UK where they have subtle backing of the government. welcome back Neze.
He was very bold!
He crossed the line! He needed to be arrested!
Neze I like that your tongue is so clean. This may look crazy as you read it but that's the truth. I see a lot of people on social media that don't clean their tongue. Sorry but it looks really bad when people talking and their tongue is so dirty. If you're a social media personality, i feel it necessary for you to be very neat and presentable at all times, because you should have in mind that so many people will view you. You are always neat and I love you for that. Smart, funny and clean.
This made me teary when you spoke about evening prayers and interaction with your family.God bless you so much.Mothers and guardians could learn so much from this.
GOD ABUNDANTLY BLESS YOU MY DEAR YOUNG LADY, FOR TREATING EVERY INDIVIDUAL LIKE YOU WOULD LOVE TO BE TREATED. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. MAY GOD'S DIVINE PROTECTION SURROUND YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, IJMN AMEN!✌👍👌🙏👏🤲💗💕
Thanks for the great words of Wisdom
These men's lusting is at a higher Level
From the first conversation of talking about how beautiful your family compound is, I would have sanctioned him. What n0nsense!
Love the way you disciplined that chap to disuade him from forming the habit.👍
Say it louder. Hands off our girls.
Looking forward to see you contest for presidency my lovely beautiful woman...I believe you will win. We need a female president in Nigeria, a good one at that. I trust you will be one.
You did a great thing by that hot slap on him.Some guys are bad
The driver has evil motive.
He needs to be bamned from your parents house.
Thank you Neze! He used to do it. God uses you to stop him !!!! I don’t wanna think of all the girls he touches before. Oo Lord!
Barrister Neze i love you more for these acts. God bless your kind heart and continue to protect your entire household.
Not just careful with men but women as well in today's world. Believe me.
Hope you are among FIDA Lawyers, you are so courageous. So keep it up.
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Not only girls ohhh
It also happens to young boys sadly.
Thanks for opening our eyes by sharing your experience ❤
May God bless and protect the female child from some of these monsters in the form of men, and please watch out for our little boys too, because some of these men have no boundaries. Thank you barrister Neze, God bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Sure…❤️
Weldone for this experience. Most men are Wolves. We need to get our girl child close to us dearly.
Was waiting for the hot slap part🎉 you did well, my sister! Thank you so much!
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Yes proud of her for that.
They know me in my compound I'm like a hawk with my kids. I hardly even let them play at the neighbour's place. I can't fight abeg, my dark side can be really dark when it comes to my loved ones
I’m living in Tokyo but if you ever run for President, I’ll definitely move to Naija to vote and make sure you win 👍🏾👍🏾
Our Future First Woman President Of Nigeria. Will definitely vote for you. Thanks for sharing ❤
Your girl is so lucky to have you in her life as it is in so many cases men like that monster do think that they can get away with murder. Thank you for being a good human being ❤
Her excellency president Neze. beauty and brain in harmony, you are a rare breed my African Queen.
Pls. When you become a minister, help us enforce it so that they will cut that thing off and put plastic as a replacement
Thank you for your deep analysis of this incident. You are indeed an excellent Mother, keep doing good to all under your roof. You are an inspiration.I pray other parents will learn. I always tell my hubby that artisans cannot come into our house for repairs when he is not in the house.
Very Nice idea
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@@NezePeperempe yes o, it is one other way of protecting our women and children. The presence of Oga in the house will serve to deter them in case of any sinister actions planned by such craftsmen. I have heard several stories about sad incidents in respect of this based on the guise of repair works.
Neze you just unfolded the case of baba ijesha and princess life and direct. Absolutely, the relationship you had with that girl exposed the evil man. Welcome Neze. Ladies are you learning
Neze your the best nigerian youtuber and social media person ..we love you from Europe and East Africa❤❤❤❤
Next all I can say is you are an amazing woman. May God continue to strengthen you and bless you .
Sis. Please just keep being the minister of women affairs. Thank you for looking out for the young lady.
Thanks so much for sharing this very important message with us.
I learnt so much from your advice specifically the importance of conducting delight background checks on prospective clients and business partners.
Secondly, on never to trust any none family members with our female children.
Lastly Madam, I am an engineer by profession working for top global energy companies. I see you make great career and become a global figure if you go in University lecturing career.
I see alot of talents in you, excellent effective communication skills and more.
Honestly CCTV is very helpful Well done Barr Neze.
Very educative my bestie.....am a mother of girls and I do understand the feeling I could have done worse than a slap......
Girl child power and by God's grace we shall overcome.
Well done my auntie u have done very well. I never left my dtr with any man even family members because I would delete anyone that touch my children. I no dey play with my pickin at all because jail and me no gree
Well, this behavior happened all the time in Africa and the little girl would have been wrongly accused of telling lies. Nezze, thank you for sharing this story. This was so pathetic. Thank God for your boldness and assertiveness. The mama bear inside you was in a rage to save the little girl. You are so gifted, caring , kind and a sister that every girl needed in their life. Kudos to you .
Madness and nowadays, these people are all over. We should be very careful of our kids
And that man is somebody's brother and uncle..hmmm...God help us ooo
Thanks for always giving us the truth about everything under the sun ☀️ in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and I think it’s time police starts releasing pictures of “pedodo” to the public so our children and women don’t fall prey to this evil men ooo
You are a very good Barrister. The guy no know who he de deal with. He should have been handed over to the Police so he can be delt with. Mumu man.
This story ehh, thank God for your actions. I have warned my husband never to allow our daughter out of sight since am not around. I no want hear story that touches the heart when she comes to join me in the UK. Some Men are senseless, heartless and emotionless too. God help us mothers
Nezenwa, Nezepeperempe - are you inviting me to your house to come and say hello to your daughter, please?
This message is from a concerned Adult - though still a teenager at heart😊
Now on a serious note, this is to thank and APPRECIATE you - Barrister Neze for the WONDERFUL JOB you are doing in the BEST INTEREST OF THE PUBLIC.
THANK YOU.
Mathew Oladimeji.
Your channel is a most watch channel... I just don't know which word to use due to the content you always give us... Ma Sha Allah... May Allah protect you and your family
Alot of sick men !!!!! When there are brothels they could go too & release themselves, until there are heavy punishments for any man or woman doing such to a child, it won't stop !!!!! They are cowards that's why they prey on children
Thank God that someone is saying my thoughts. So many of our parents were guilty and I believe they were not aware of these predators. Neze Thank you.
Watching this i just had to comment because of all the nasty p's I've encountered growing up, one i cannot even mention because of how close to home it was.
The first time i was about 6 years old. My brother and I used to take the school bus together, but he had finished primary school and went to boarding school, so it was only me taking the school bus. This very day, I'm sure the bus driver had been noticing my brother wasn't with me anymore, because he made sure i was the last on the bus, i also knew even that young that usually when they drop me and my bro, there were still many students left on the bus to be dropped off.. thats how evil this person was. He made sure i was the last person, took me to an abandoned building and molested me. He didn't penetrate because i was young, but he basically used my legs to get off! Like i even remember then thinking why is pus coming from him, not knowing what it was. I can honestly say i don't remember what i did with that situation because my mum changed my school so maybe i went home and told her. But my point is, if I didn't remember anything before or after that situation i cannot forget that day. Even being so young, i knew it was very wrong. As for him, i hope he's rotting in hell.
I have a son now, and I've read somewhere in the comment about people wanting sons because of this situation, but unfortunately, boys are not exempt. My husband told me of stories that happened to him, a female relation in her late teens touching him while he was sleeping and he woke up then she stopped, he was about 11/12/13 .
And in schools, 3 weeks ago, my sister inlaw told us about a senior student approaching her son, she said it was because she was open to her kids about gay people etc thats why her son (in js1) fought the boy (in js 2/3). Can you imagine!! Where did that student learn this from??
So even with boys, teach them that their private parts should not be touched by anybody and if anyone touches them in an unfamiliar way, they should let their parents know immediately! My son his 3 and his speech isn't fluent yet, but i honestly cannot wait for him to talk properly and be able to communicate fluently when i ask him about his day, because there are evil people in disguise even in this UK that I'm in.
My number one prayer is that such people will not see my children and if their evil eyes cannot stay in one place, the fire of God will start to burn their body uncontrollable if they should even think of trying such nonsense towards my children.
Like you, i can k**l any P's they are scums of the earth!
My kids, family, and I will be the 1st to vote for u, dear❤ LG
Neze, you won me over. I've been watching your videos but this one got me to subscribe. What a thought-provoking story!!! I'm a mother. I've survived rape(s) and my heart really goes for young girls. May God help us! Hope your 'sister girl' becomes a women's empowerment official in future.