Is it Ok to be Jealous of a Friend’s Success? - Sadhguru

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  • Ever been sad when a friend fails and sadder when he tops? Is it ok to be jealous of a friend’s success? Sadhguru answers
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  • @balbirkaur10
    @balbirkaur10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    jealousy happen mainly if you don't got anything from your hard work but others got everything..

    • @ramesh-dz7kj
      @ramesh-dz7kj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yes it happen with me😞😞😞😞😞

    • @harshchaudhary1374
      @harshchaudhary1374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Faced yesterday i do hard work in my exam but my exam not went well
      But my all friends done cheating and they are all happy after exam making me 😢

    • @anusharanjana
      @anusharanjana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes if u dont get what u want becoz if we both r acheieving what we want then there will not be any jealously

    • @isaacnotnewton3600
      @isaacnotnewton3600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With me too😣😣😭😭😭

    • @sapnabinu9024
      @sapnabinu9024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro very true

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    if i ever met sadhguru in person i would hug him and never let go

  • @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness
    @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    So true, when our happiness is determined by outside variables it will always go up and down 💕

    • @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness
      @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I love how Sadhguru sits, he makes himself a home wherever he goes 🙂

    • @mr.c2485
      @mr.c2485 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness
      Happiness is just an emotion. Soundness of mind is a state of being achieved only through the awareness of weakness. The two aren’t even remotely related.

  • @FlexNFly
    @FlexNFly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    "Seeing you succeed reminds me of my failures." That's really why it's so hard for many people that have to deal with being jealous of their friend's success. It's a character issue that can be corrected. I created a video on this because of the vulnerability that it takes to have such a conversation. Loved everything that Sadhguru said.

    • @ibrahimoziti9920
      @ibrahimoziti9920 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Name of the video please, so i can watch

  • @rrsk88_farming
    @rrsk88_farming 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Sadhguru's sense of humor is amazing 🧡🙏😂 the coolest enlightened friend which today's youngster can ever have.
    We're such a fortunate generation

    • @ananyamohanty8689
      @ananyamohanty8689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Anonymous Namaskaram! Really true! We are so lucky 😍❤

    • @rrsk88_farming
      @rrsk88_farming 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ananyamohanty8689 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Pferdecoach
      @Pferdecoach 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anonymos....yes, not only for "today`s youngsters".....smile

    • @rrsk88_farming
      @rrsk88_farming 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pferdecoach 😂👍

  • @ksingh5283
    @ksingh5283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    This has change a lot in me. I can finally understand what I have to do in my life. I was feeling jealous of my classmates but that is because of there photo where they show there success. I have to live my life on my terms and condition. I have to let my heart chose what way should I go

    • @chesstime_0720
      @chesstime_0720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yes, this video has the potential to change lives. I too is overcoming my jealousy towards my college mates

    • @Kavyasingh018
      @Kavyasingh018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same feeling frnd.... that's why I'm here to just remove all that insecurities

    • @sukanyachatterjee1632
      @sukanyachatterjee1632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kavyasingh018 same feelings here.

    • @youranime3283
      @youranime3283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Currently I'm feeling the same.....please guide me to overcome it.I don't want to envy my friends because they are my friends.

  • @josephalexanderovidi
    @josephalexanderovidi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    We need to be independant of others opinions.
    This is true power.

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Compare yourself with who you were yesteryears.Not who someone is today.

  • @karthickgandhi3345
    @karthickgandhi3345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Every time I see sadhguru ji I feel happy.... Every time I hear his thoughts I feel energetic....

    • @susantarakshit7061
      @susantarakshit7061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same to you. You spoke absolutely correct.

  • @saamykrishvj5168
    @saamykrishvj5168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Though I have blessed with good life..lot of time I felt jealous about others..I don't know this is creating unwanted pressure..in me..I ashamed of myself...this is indication that you are psychologically weak

    • @keerthukumar2107
      @keerthukumar2107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same prblm.. Dnt knw y

    • @stardust628
      @stardust628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I guess it's the way that our society is structured. Starting from school days we are thought to compare our grades. Our minds got entangled in this.

    • @wolfcola6329
      @wolfcola6329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can recognize this in you and can speak it freely. Even if you are WEAK it's only for until you strengthen your love for yourself.

  • @srikanthuppiretla407
    @srikanthuppiretla407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    sadhguru is a precious gift to this generation. isn't it so ? iam asking you,hallo? :)

  • @TruthTriumphs786
    @TruthTriumphs786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    True...When you manage your own thoughts and emotions you become a great CEO of your own body. You do things that you love and are happy for others success.
    Most of the people in the crowd haven't understood this. They just sit and nod their heads and go out and are miserable again.

  • @leggyReid4c
    @leggyReid4c 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Never thought of my peace of mind as a company i needed to manage. Very well put Mr. Sadguru, thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @KailashSGubbi
    @KailashSGubbi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Jealousy is that feeling which can only lead to a degradation of a human feeling.

  • @maliksy7127
    @maliksy7127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Absolutely we should not use the word friend in this context, well said

  • @awarenessandjoy3993
    @awarenessandjoy3993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pranam sadguru... Your way of explaining things is superb.. It goes straight into the heart...
    I bow down at your feet..

  • @signaturespecialist
    @signaturespecialist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Happiness is a choice - Sadhguru

  • @shatabdichanda636
    @shatabdichanda636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    *Your body is the most complex chemical factory in the universe, if you are a great CEO you'll generate chemicals of bliss.*

  • @SoleCardona
    @SoleCardona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Thank you! Greetings from Canada 👏

  • @harsha2874
    @harsha2874 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Learn and train yourself in such a manner, that you will always perform at your best in all conditions at any given point of time.

  • @celebratingilluzion4926
    @celebratingilluzion4926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Saw Sadhguru in person for the first time today... In Bangluru

  • @dlgm161
    @dlgm161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very healing. Thank-you!

  • @kumarr9267
    @kumarr9267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Sadhguru's teaching ❤

  • @katerinafatsea3609
    @katerinafatsea3609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Sadhguru, all your wisdom is a blessing for this planet ! Υou bring light into our lives!

  • @himantasaikia8724
    @himantasaikia8724 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Stolen car can be joy!
    Amazing humour...

  • @beasweirdaspossible
    @beasweirdaspossible 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When your own life’s a mess, it’s not that easy to put on a happy face for your friends success and i know you feel terrible for having such feelings for your loved one’s but know that it’s okay! Its natural. You’re just a human.

  • @bharathgk5884
    @bharathgk5884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Touching ur feet sadguru

  • @anoopg5024
    @anoopg5024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    When he speaks about a complex subject it becomes very clear & easily understandable.
    Thank you!!!!

  • @mohitpandey3616
    @mohitpandey3616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i will control my own industry
    right now its start bcz of you sadhguru sir

  • @bru1015
    @bru1015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Typically Financial success brings a certain amount of security. 👩‍🌾

  • @DanteHellDrive
    @DanteHellDrive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this.

  • @realshubham1998
    @realshubham1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Sadguru.

  • @gunjantiwari1227
    @gunjantiwari1227 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankew for making me realise something which was so important to hear out 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @artfun5975
    @artfun5975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If your. Happiness is decided by others then you have to be independent & not rely on others for your happiness

  • @Thenarayanaclips
    @Thenarayanaclips 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gurudev aapke charno mein pranaam.

  • @devprakash5320
    @devprakash5320 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a lot for what you said

  • @dr.shoaibparvez3788
    @dr.shoaibparvez3788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said sadhguru ji may it be easy for someone to follow.

  • @mannyortizchicago
    @mannyortizchicago 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir!

  • @janvi3722
    @janvi3722 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you sadguru 🙏😊

  • @murthyv.s4548
    @murthyv.s4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    thanks for helping me out in life....:-)

  • @rohitlalwani1983
    @rohitlalwani1983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks

  • @haizzzz7486
    @haizzzz7486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a manager and see exactly what he is saying everyday. Even me probably 6 months ago. I let go of the "things should be this way" and "people shouldn't be like that".
    People are as they are, they just are who they are in that moment of time.
    Hes right, one day one of the other managers could be outright spiteful and angry but if you allow them to be that and not take them personal, the next day they are totally different, some even apologise.
    We all have our moments, where we don't think and just react to the situations that play out in our lives. We project our fears onto people and in the end will see it in our own time and take the time to make changes within ourselfs. So who are we to judge on how people should be when we ourselfs can be cruel.

  • @pranjalchoudhury477
    @pranjalchoudhury477 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    His words are really deep and true. One minute silence for his Haters.

  • @shatabdichanda636
    @shatabdichanda636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your life shouldn't controlled by others.but by yourself

  • @mr.c2485
    @mr.c2485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Soundness of mind is the only thing worthy of our envy.

  • @user-xc2gd2if1z
    @user-xc2gd2if1z 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    much needed rn.thanku

  • @HealingNatureMeditation
    @HealingNatureMeditation 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love listening his talks!💙
    Thank you so much💜🙏💜🕉

  • @juli6108
    @juli6108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷.. God bless you for your wisdom.. ✌

    • @goodguyyt
      @goodguyyt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love from india
      Jai hind jai bharat 🇮🇳

  • @servusmovies
    @servusmovies 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eagerly waiting with rgv and sadguru

  • @CyberStoriesbyPrasidh
    @CyberStoriesbyPrasidh ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you Sadguru ❤️

  • @Sara-cy4su
    @Sara-cy4su 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru have solution to all problems!!

  • @nayanjyotidas6988
    @nayanjyotidas6988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great inspirations start from you my Lord.

  • @shefalijain2629
    @shefalijain2629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too good

  • @ShoonyaShivaTribe
    @ShoonyaShivaTribe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love u Guruji... Although you don't need my love 😍😇😁🙏

  • @shivangisingh6785
    @shivangisingh6785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    After a long time , a sadhguru video !!! :))
    Thank you so much for uploading.

  • @ministerofjoy
    @ministerofjoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sadhguru

  • @aryawarty3643
    @aryawarty3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in love with this man

  • @pratisaad
    @pratisaad ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Envy happen when we compare with others and social media big reason which i feel , this always create self doubt within us..😔

  • @nikhilratnalikar6068
    @nikhilratnalikar6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great ❤️

  • @prajaktss1229
    @prajaktss1229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jealousy comes from situation where one isn’t in position to achieve things what he once desired for .

  • @dannysze8183
    @dannysze8183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very true

  • @bhavyanayak4342
    @bhavyanayak4342 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 😊

  • @proudindian7037
    @proudindian7037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Through doing heart out hard work.. i hardly get any success.. and some people just get so easily.. that is where mind gets triggered ....

  • @prabhakarj1
    @prabhakarj1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful sadguru, really feeling blissful by your talk. Namaskaram.

  • @pranjalpagar6972
    @pranjalpagar6972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes true. I hope I don't feel sad after this

  • @snehalnanda2k
    @snehalnanda2k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much difference in students of IIM and nalsar

  • @akshadasalkar5464
    @akshadasalkar5464 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk why , but every question i have sadhguru had an answer

  • @codewizard5327
    @codewizard5327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    really needed to hear this!

  • @sexymary
    @sexymary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love their outfits 😍

  • @Anandpatel-wg8xs
    @Anandpatel-wg8xs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Namaskaram Sadhguru

  • @musicplayer3541
    @musicplayer3541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved New introduction of video.

  • @YiDaXaRiAs007
    @YiDaXaRiAs007 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @shatabdichanda636
    @shatabdichanda636 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru ji...😶I love you..namaskaram.🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @AkshayKumar-jj1qv
    @AkshayKumar-jj1qv ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks sadhguru

  • @mdsartazalam5323
    @mdsartazalam5323 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep continue

  • @Seeker.6
    @Seeker.6 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏🙏 Namaskaram Sadhguru

  • @karifishc3376
    @karifishc3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chemistry of bliss!

  • @smssms7167
    @smssms7167 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jealousy never got u good, but its mainly something u also want to make it for yourself. I think its better to fix your own garden. U will watch less other people. Your moment is coming. I always remind myself everytime I feel jealousy comes up do I really want to be like this or do I want rather to enrich my life. And I always choose number 2

  • @MUNCHINGSTARGAMINGyt
    @MUNCHINGSTARGAMINGyt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Deserve 100 crore

  • @melc8388
    @melc8388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jealous of a friend? You mean admire. Jealousy N friendship doesnt go together.

  • @allnone4277
    @allnone4277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @lucassabath3304
    @lucassabath3304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This cat is deep man

  • @jayantj9837
    @jayantj9837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am still unable to understand how to deal with it! even after understanding the cause

  • @whateverbabe
    @whateverbabe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly, I was in very bad circumstances for years while my friends were having normal lives, they continued their studies and started working while I'm still stuck in this miserable country even though I was the one who had more chances to succeed before them all cause I had advantages but life has its ways!

  • @beast-yw6he
    @beast-yw6he 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Diwali

  • @Lr8_youtube
    @Lr8_youtube ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take control your emotions + thoughts
    Internally: you control your thoughts and feelings.

  • @roumikroy9914
    @roumikroy9914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the name of track which is playing in the first 40 seconds ?

  • @karanpatel297
    @karanpatel297 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @pritamdudhare7684
    @pritamdudhare7684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadhguru 😍

  • @rudrakshsingh1717
    @rudrakshsingh1717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadguru ❤️

  • @armsf4297
    @armsf4297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be master of your life

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Evolution is still going in, omg I think I just learned something very important now

  • @abcdefghijkl9234
    @abcdefghijkl9234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The girl who asked the question had voice same as deepika padukone!!

  • @livewithmynk9689
    @livewithmynk9689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Plz add hindi caption plz sir plz

  • @viciousraccoon7094
    @viciousraccoon7094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The answer is simple, if your friend fails or tops when he deserve it you should'nt be sad.Question is what do you think and does it matches to the reality!

  • @abdullahawisimulaha
    @abdullahawisimulaha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    okay, lot of anegdots and talking as always.. But what practically we can do about it, what to do inside when we feel fillings like jealousy which is unintetional, out of councious controll?? We should do mantra, meditate in that moment, what we should do? And on the other hand, isn't these kind of feelings showing us something - are they always "bad"? Isn't that jealousy means that we would like to go in some direction, showing that something is missing? Anger that something is wrong and maybe we should stand for ourselfs?

  • @SAILESHBABUYADAV
    @SAILESHBABUYADAV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wanted 30 sec videos

  • @Randomly.assembled.molecules
    @Randomly.assembled.molecules ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why i feel unwanted jealous not in friends success but in when my friends stop sharing what they think and i feel like they all are ignoring me

  • @Half_agnostic
    @Half_agnostic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏
    My only dream is to Meet you physically in my Life

  • @snap-touch-me-not652
    @snap-touch-me-not652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "If you have a choice"... does one really have a choice what to feel? Envy is an instinct, a feeling. How much can an instinct be controlled? Can you really not react to how people feel about you? The answer is - yes, but only if your combination of genetic background and parenting gave you this quality.

    • @aditidwivedi6719
      @aditidwivedi6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right! I don't know how can people even say that controlling our emotions is a choice. Jealousy is bad no doubt but it's human nature, we will obviously feel bad for our lives when everyone else is getting succeeded and everything good is happening in their lives, this will only remind us of how nothing good is happening with us. Only therapy can improve this feeling

    • @SatishKumarNathanMusic
      @SatishKumarNathanMusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From personal experience am telling this.. Try this out consistently on a daily basis. This is the Single Secret of all Meditation techniques.
      Close your eyes and focus on your Breathing process. Observe your thoughts, if they go astray, again try to focus on your breathing. If you find it difficult, chant OM with focus on urself.
      Whenever u get any Negative thoughts like Jealousy, Anger, Hate etc, try this continuously for few minutes. Do this daily, diligently. Over a period in life, the longevity of such thoughts will reduce. It will take time for completely overcoming this, but trust me, this really helps if you do diligently. And u can also keep saying to yourself (I love myself without comparing with others. I am happy always)