"Seeing you succeed reminds me of my failures." That's really why it's so hard for many people that have to deal with being jealous of their friend's success. It's a character issue that can be corrected. I created a video on this because of the vulnerability that it takes to have such a conversation. Loved everything that Sadhguru said.
Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness Happiness is just an emotion. Soundness of mind is a state of being achieved only through the awareness of weakness. The two aren’t even remotely related.
This has change a lot in me. I can finally understand what I have to do in my life. I was feeling jealous of my classmates but that is because of there photo where they show there success. I have to live my life on my terms and condition. I have to let my heart chose what way should I go
True...When you manage your own thoughts and emotions you become a great CEO of your own body. You do things that you love and are happy for others success. Most of the people in the crowd haven't understood this. They just sit and nod their heads and go out and are miserable again.
When your own life’s a mess, it’s not that easy to put on a happy face for your friends success and i know you feel terrible for having such feelings for your loved one’s but know that it’s okay! Its natural. You’re just a human.
Though I have blessed with good life..lot of time I felt jealous about others..I don't know this is creating unwanted pressure..in me..I ashamed of myself...this is indication that you are psychologically weak
I'm a manager and see exactly what he is saying everyday. Even me probably 6 months ago. I let go of the "things should be this way" and "people shouldn't be like that". People are as they are, they just are who they are in that moment of time. Hes right, one day one of the other managers could be outright spiteful and angry but if you allow them to be that and not take them personal, the next day they are totally different, some even apologise. We all have our moments, where we don't think and just react to the situations that play out in our lives. We project our fears onto people and in the end will see it in our own time and take the time to make changes within ourselfs. So who are we to judge on how people should be when we ourselfs can be cruel.
Jealousy never got u good, but its mainly something u also want to make it for yourself. I think its better to fix your own garden. U will watch less other people. Your moment is coming. I always remind myself everytime I feel jealousy comes up do I really want to be like this or do I want rather to enrich my life. And I always choose number 2
The answer is simple, if your friend fails or tops when he deserve it you should'nt be sad.Question is what do you think and does it matches to the reality!
okay, lot of anegdots and talking as always.. But what practically we can do about it, what to do inside when we feel fillings like jealousy which is unintetional, out of councious controll?? We should do mantra, meditate in that moment, what we should do? And on the other hand, isn't these kind of feelings showing us something - are they always "bad"? Isn't that jealousy means that we would like to go in some direction, showing that something is missing? Anger that something is wrong and maybe we should stand for ourselfs?
"If you have a choice"... does one really have a choice what to feel? Envy is an instinct, a feeling. How much can an instinct be controlled? Can you really not react to how people feel about you? The answer is - yes, but only if your combination of genetic background and parenting gave you this quality.
I know right! I don't know how can people even say that controlling our emotions is a choice. Jealousy is bad no doubt but it's human nature, we will obviously feel bad for our lives when everyone else is getting succeeded and everything good is happening in their lives, this will only remind us of how nothing good is happening with us. Only therapy can improve this feeling
From personal experience am telling this.. Try this out consistently on a daily basis. This is the Single Secret of all Meditation techniques. Close your eyes and focus on your Breathing process. Observe your thoughts, if they go astray, again try to focus on your breathing. If you find it difficult, chant OM with focus on urself. Whenever u get any Negative thoughts like Jealousy, Anger, Hate etc, try this continuously for few minutes. Do this daily, diligently. Over a period in life, the longevity of such thoughts will reduce. It will take time for completely overcoming this, but trust me, this really helps if you do diligently. And u can also keep saying to yourself (I love myself without comparing with others. I am happy always)
I don't know why i feel unwanted jealous not in friends success but in when my friends stop sharing what they think and i feel like they all are ignoring me
I said No good about marriage video earlier. I meant Haygood no good. Which was attached to video She with others called me names at the park while waiting to meet m.jackson. other negatives regarding her as well. (D) Has kept her close for many yrs but fatality is what she is about.
Here's what Mr APJ Abdul Kalam has said about jeoulosy in a simple way, "Jeoulosy - Distance it" Jealousy is a common behaviour of human being, One may not be able to get rid of it completely but u can have a control on it. Which is what even sadguru has explained (taking care of the small industry 🙂 )
jealousy happen mainly if you don't got anything from your hard work but others got everything..
Yes it happen with me😞😞😞😞😞
Faced yesterday i do hard work in my exam but my exam not went well
But my all friends done cheating and they are all happy after exam making me 😢
Yes if u dont get what u want becoz if we both r acheieving what we want then there will not be any jealously
With me too😣😣😭😭😭
Bro very true
We need to be independant of others opinions.
This is true power.
Fact
"Seeing you succeed reminds me of my failures." That's really why it's so hard for many people that have to deal with being jealous of their friend's success. It's a character issue that can be corrected. I created a video on this because of the vulnerability that it takes to have such a conversation. Loved everything that Sadhguru said.
Name of the video please, so i can watch
if i ever met sadhguru in person i would hug him and never let go
You wanna eat him or what
Not allowed, corona is here. 😁
that's kinda creepy
@@mmasteak 😂😂😂
Please maintain Social Distance
So true, when our happiness is determined by outside variables it will always go up and down 💕
I love how Sadhguru sits, he makes himself a home wherever he goes 🙂
Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness
Happiness is just an emotion. Soundness of mind is a state of being achieved only through the awareness of weakness. The two aren’t even remotely related.
Every time I see sadhguru ji I feel happy.... Every time I hear his thoughts I feel energetic....
Same to you. You spoke absolutely correct.
Compare yourself with who you were yesteryears.Not who someone is today.
This has change a lot in me. I can finally understand what I have to do in my life. I was feeling jealous of my classmates but that is because of there photo where they show there success. I have to live my life on my terms and condition. I have to let my heart chose what way should I go
yes, this video has the potential to change lives. I too is overcoming my jealousy towards my college mates
Same feeling frnd.... that's why I'm here to just remove all that insecurities
@@Thedailyspilll same feelings here.
Currently I'm feeling the same.....please guide me to overcome it.I don't want to envy my friends because they are my friends.
Sadhguru's sense of humor is amazing 🧡🙏😂 the coolest enlightened friend which today's youngster can ever have.
We're such a fortunate generation
Anonymous Namaskaram! Really true! We are so lucky 😍❤
@@ananyamohanty8689 🙏🙏🙏
Anonymos....yes, not only for "today`s youngsters".....smile
@@Pferdecoach 😂👍
Jealousy is that feeling which can only lead to a degradation of a human feeling.
Never thought of my peace of mind as a company i needed to manage. Very well put Mr. Sadguru, thank you for sharing your wisdom.
True...When you manage your own thoughts and emotions you become a great CEO of your own body. You do things that you love and are happy for others success.
Most of the people in the crowd haven't understood this. They just sit and nod their heads and go out and are miserable again.
When your own life’s a mess, it’s not that easy to put on a happy face for your friends success and i know you feel terrible for having such feelings for your loved one’s but know that it’s okay! Its natural. You’re just a human.
Though I have blessed with good life..lot of time I felt jealous about others..I don't know this is creating unwanted pressure..in me..I ashamed of myself...this is indication that you are psychologically weak
Same prblm.. Dnt knw y
I guess it's the way that our society is structured. Starting from school days we are thought to compare our grades. Our minds got entangled in this.
You can recognize this in you and can speak it freely. Even if you are WEAK it's only for until you strengthen your love for yourself.
sadhguru is a precious gift to this generation. isn't it so ? iam asking you,hallo? :)
hahah
❤️😂
He indeed is ....
Absolutely we should not use the word friend in this context, well said
Happiness is a choice - Sadhguru
When he speaks about a complex subject it becomes very clear & easily understandable.
Thank you!!!!
Saw Sadhguru in person for the first time today... In Bangluru
Learn and train yourself in such a manner, that you will always perform at your best in all conditions at any given point of time.
Pranam sadguru... Your way of explaining things is superb.. It goes straight into the heart...
I bow down at your feet..
Typically Financial success brings a certain amount of security. 👩🌾
Thank you! Greetings from Canada 👏
*Your body is the most complex chemical factory in the universe, if you are a great CEO you'll generate chemicals of bliss.*
Stolen car can be joy!
Amazing humour...
Harry Potter??
I love Sadhguru's teaching ❤
Soundness of mind is the only thing worthy of our envy.
Your life shouldn't controlled by others.but by yourself
Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷.. God bless you for your wisdom.. ✌
Love from india
Jai hind jai bharat 🇮🇳
If your. Happiness is decided by others then you have to be independent & not rely on others for your happiness
i will control my own industry
right now its start bcz of you sadhguru sir
Jealousy comes from situation where one isn’t in position to achieve things what he once desired for .
I'm a manager and see exactly what he is saying everyday. Even me probably 6 months ago. I let go of the "things should be this way" and "people shouldn't be like that".
People are as they are, they just are who they are in that moment of time.
Hes right, one day one of the other managers could be outright spiteful and angry but if you allow them to be that and not take them personal, the next day they are totally different, some even apologise.
We all have our moments, where we don't think and just react to the situations that play out in our lives. We project our fears onto people and in the end will see it in our own time and take the time to make changes within ourselfs. So who are we to judge on how people should be when we ourselfs can be cruel.
Touching ur feet sadguru
His words are really deep and true. One minute silence for his Haters.
Very healing. Thank-you!
Jealous of a friend? You mean admire. Jealousy N friendship doesnt go together.
Envy happen when we compare with others and social media big reason which i feel , this always create self doubt within us..😔
Jealousy never got u good, but its mainly something u also want to make it for yourself. I think its better to fix your own garden. U will watch less other people. Your moment is coming. I always remind myself everytime I feel jealousy comes up do I really want to be like this or do I want rather to enrich my life. And I always choose number 2
The answer is simple, if your friend fails or tops when he deserve it you should'nt be sad.Question is what do you think and does it matches to the reality!
Take control your emotions + thoughts
Internally: you control your thoughts and feelings.
Thank you Sadhguru, all your wisdom is a blessing for this planet ! Υou bring light into our lives!
After a long time , a sadhguru video !!! :))
Thank you so much for uploading.
Yee
thanks for helping me out in life....:-)
So much difference in students of IIM and nalsar
Through doing heart out hard work.. i hardly get any success.. and some people just get so easily.. that is where mind gets triggered ....
The girl who asked the question had voice same as deepika padukone!!
Sadhguru have solution to all problems!!
At 3:01 , when sadhguru does moves 😎😎
This cat is deep man
Eagerly waiting with rgv and sadguru
Loved New introduction of video.
I like you sense of humour
Idk why , but every question i have sadhguru had an answer
1:19
Thank you Sadguru.
He is really a 💎 ❤❤❤❤
okay, lot of anegdots and talking as always.. But what practically we can do about it, what to do inside when we feel fillings like jealousy which is unintetional, out of councious controll?? We should do mantra, meditate in that moment, what we should do? And on the other hand, isn't these kind of feelings showing us something - are they always "bad"? Isn't that jealousy means that we would like to go in some direction, showing that something is missing? Anger that something is wrong and maybe we should stand for ourselfs?
Deserve 100 crore
I needed this.
Love u Guruji... Although you don't need my love 😍😇😁🙏
Beautiful sadguru, really feeling blissful by your talk. Namaskaram.
much needed rn.thanku
"If you have a choice"... does one really have a choice what to feel? Envy is an instinct, a feeling. How much can an instinct be controlled? Can you really not react to how people feel about you? The answer is - yes, but only if your combination of genetic background and parenting gave you this quality.
I know right! I don't know how can people even say that controlling our emotions is a choice. Jealousy is bad no doubt but it's human nature, we will obviously feel bad for our lives when everyone else is getting succeeded and everything good is happening in their lives, this will only remind us of how nothing good is happening with us. Only therapy can improve this feeling
From personal experience am telling this.. Try this out consistently on a daily basis. This is the Single Secret of all Meditation techniques.
Close your eyes and focus on your Breathing process. Observe your thoughts, if they go astray, again try to focus on your breathing. If you find it difficult, chant OM with focus on urself.
Whenever u get any Negative thoughts like Jealousy, Anger, Hate etc, try this continuously for few minutes. Do this daily, diligently. Over a period in life, the longevity of such thoughts will reduce. It will take time for completely overcoming this, but trust me, this really helps if you do diligently. And u can also keep saying to yourself (I love myself without comparing with others. I am happy always)
Gurudev aapke charno mein pranaam.
I don't know why i feel unwanted jealous not in friends success but in when my friends stop sharing what they think and i feel like they all are ignoring me
Thank you sadguru 🙏😊
Thanks
I am still unable to understand how to deal with it! even after understanding the cause
I love listening his talks!💙
Thank you so much💜🙏💜🕉
Yes true. I hope I don't feel sad after this
Great inspirations start from you my Lord.
Correct sadhguru, if each and every one follow like this. The world will become very peaceful and joyful
Thankew for making me realise something which was so important to hear out 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
I'm in love with this man
very true
Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏
My only dream is to Meet you physically in my Life
I want to meet u guruji
Again physical
Well said sadhguru ji may it be easy for someone to follow.
Happy Diwali
Too good
Thanks a lot for what you said
Jealously is a sin
thank you Sadguru ❤️
Thank you sir!
Sadhguru ji...😶I love you..namaskaram.🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️
Namaskaram Sadhguru
Thank you 😊
1:45 sense of humour 🤣😂🤣
I said No good about marriage video earlier. I meant Haygood no good. Which was attached to video She with others called me names at the park while waiting to meet m.jackson. other negatives regarding her as well. (D) Has kept her close for many yrs but fatality is what she is about.
Great ❤️
Easier said than done...
Thanks sadhguru
Here's what Mr APJ Abdul Kalam has said about jeoulosy in a simple way,
"Jeoulosy - Distance it"
Jealousy is a common behaviour of human being, One may not be able to get rid of it completely but u can have a control on it. Which is what even sadguru has explained (taking care of the small industry 🙂 )
Her voice is similar to Deepika Padukone!!
Omg I just realised that too
You're right
Yes it sounds like her a bit
Yup.u got it right ...
Plz add hindi caption plz sir plz
Evolution is still going in, omg I think I just learned something very important now
Keep continue
Awesome
really needed to hear this!
Chemistry of bliss!
Sadhguru 😍