What an unfair statement. People don't just stay together because they're meshed or codependent. Married people can be very happy and love each other til death. She obviously doesn't know the answer.
@user-gb5ff7gj1she is unhappy in her own skin because she is an attention seeker who actually struggles between wise thoughts and being a star to other people. You can't be a star to other people Mimi. If Kim Kardashian has little talent, you have even less, just a normal common entrepreneur who likes to take cute pics and post... there are MILLIONS like that. The only real star in life should be God. Quit your narcissistic obsession with being high on attention.
This makes me angry. What she is saying is untrue and depressing. It takes away hope to young people to dream of love....this woman can only love herself.....I love my husband so much. I love being with him, we have 2 beautiful children and I nearly lost my life in labour. Now a days people are searching to fullfill their egos, but real happiness comes through giving. My husband and I give to one another to our family and we are happy. Through bad and good times he can count on me and me on him. We are family.
So why even bother getting married? If you have a plan B, it is more likely that plan A will fail. You should never get married if you’re also getting ready for divorce at the time of the wedding.
She’s just saying this because she got divorced. She’s such a hypocrite. I hen they were together she used to brag how they never fight, they are so in love and they respect each other so much. I used to admire her but the older I got the more I realized she is fake.
Married to my soulmate 50 years, and I fall in love more and more everyday. People today, are too quick to throw in the towel, before they’ve even given it a chance. Marriage is the hardest thing you’ll ever truly love in this world.
All relationships go through phases. The successful relationships understand this. Everyone gets to a point where there is no passion or desire for your partner. This is usually where divorce, cheating and any measure of conflict occurs. The successful relationships understand that it’s time to put in work when heading to the non passion stage, work that will get you back to passion. It doesn’t matter if you leave and find someone else, you will one day find yourself at the non passion stage. Question is are you going to leave every time? True happiness is from within and you share the overflow. When you stop being fulfilled you need to work on yourself to bring that happy person back to the relationship. Most people are in cycles without even realizing that.
Speak for yourself … there are couples who actually promised each other forever and are happy together . You failed , that is your problem, don’t talk as it nobody can do it just because you couldn’t
That’s the mentality that people entering marriage have that leads to a divorce. Marriage is not easy, it’s a long life journey of trials, growth, triumph, failures, constantly learning but if you look at it in a negative way of course the experience will be negative. Now everything also has exceptions and this is no different.
Its ironic since her own parents are still married. she's basically saying all marriages will end up being something negative in the end 😅 totally unfair and complete narcissist remark
This comes from the same person who said “LOVE always wins” but now I’m doubting if it was even authentic. Love is not just a “feel good” feeling Mimi. Love is the constant action of sacrifice, selflessness, humility, compassion etc…. And that’s probably why your marriage had an expiration date. When someone says “I was no longer happy in that marriage“, it’s always a 100% false sense of love. Because love is not a fleeting feeling. In my eyes, I think her words now discredit her book and her brand. Let’s just admit that
Started dating at 20, got engaged at 27 and married at 28, first child at 30, a house together and now a second child on the way, and our life’s journey together makes us love each other a little more each day. And not because we’re “tied” down. I really hope people find their person and make it their forever.
So in other words, you can use me up and get everything from me that is promised in a marriage , and leave me when ever your done and move on to the next "for free" 😃
Just because you got a divorce, let's not cast negativity on other people's marriages. That seems so narcissistic. Many people are happy together in a very realistic non influencer like way.
Mimi is an unauthentic person. That’s why I stopped following her. She always make her way around what she decide is good. Who gets married, holding an intention they may get divorce that idea on its own is so sick. I hope Alex find real love cause he deserves the best. Alex had a humble beginning, He’s self made. Mimi is shining under his creation.
I've been with my fiance since highschool, getting married this September, after 14 years together and I cannot wait to start our marriage with this man
She is right about one thing. When people with no money hit midlife crisis, most of them are trapped and forced to stay in a marriage. When you do have enough resources, you can easily leave. But I am for the family and kids who grow up with both parents.
Yeah but there are many people who stay in the marriage for love . And these people she is talking about are broken , like she is . No partner or anything else can fix them. They need to help themselves
Nobody said that there aren’t people who stay in a bad marriage for financial reason, but how low can you go to use that as a justification for choosing for a divorce…. Apparently, this self righteous woman is competing for a race to the bottom
This woman makes me sick … as if other people who are married stay in the marriage for money , mental weakness or any other reason that hasn’t much to do but love . This sick woman needs to be surrounded by truly happy couples
How disgusting this generation is especially in the west, people are getting divorced left right and centre as if they are in a one night stand. Love is no longer pure as it used to be, there's no commitment no sacrifice for one another no respect.
Real bull sh..t , marriage is no game , its being with the one you love , chosen the one you love ❤, in good and bad, health , sickness, that way you tide the not , if you think differently please do not marry, nu the way did you travel the world to tell what your saying, Guess not, you dont know shit only numbers😂😂😂
Girl speak for yourself. It’s funny how she went from “we’re so healthy, we never fight, we communicate so good” to “we never promised forever, what you see online is not reality” girl you were lying all these years about the perfection of your relationship and now it ended. That’s sad but that’s not everyone’s reality
Keeping God at the center of your marriage is the only way any marriage can survive. There’s a real issue in society where that belief and application is radical or wrong. Trust it isn’t. Find truth and direction from the Bible and Bible only. I rebuke the concept of divorce in Jesus name.
WOOOOOOOOOW ! So let’s start our marriage with LOW EXPECTATIONS from the get go! Been married - HAPPILY for 40 years. You’re speaking of marriage as if you KNOW ALL -including statistics . This is very disturbing and disrespectful . 👎👎👎👎
If you don't fight for your Love then what of Love do you have? ~Keanu If things get though in Relationship you support eachother instead of saying ~ ehh it's not fin anymore let's divorce! Also strange that there were no divorces when women dint had a job or were mostly Housewives.
I really do not want a wife ore man who not promise me untill dead.. it feels unsafe to be with that person. Of course life can seperate ore paths in the future, that’s possible but i make the first step in marriage with good vibes, thinking we are together untill dead. As a woman that feels secure and gives peace.
What? Mimi, this is so not true. How can you paint ALL other people based on your own personal experience? There are so very many marriages that are forever and very happy together!
This statement is incredibly ignorant, as if everything in life is a math equation. There are people outhere that understand love is a decision and not just a statistic. You speak for your marriage, not everyone else's.
You mentioned you never fought with your ex husband once. Bragging. I thought that was the saddest thing ever. There are some things worth fighting for when you love genuinely. Giving a shit matters in marriage.
Wow the enemy has really brainwashed her, please come to Jesus Mimi, you have always been about self and that’s what the enemy wants. It’s not about Self and pride , it’s about Jesus Christ, only with him you will understand everything only with him you will not perish but have eternal life.
I think she is right about many things in this statement, but then she should have been this real all the time, not creating the fake “always happy, always positive” SM content, because that’s fake - showing people unrealistic relationship image.
From the moment this couple got married you could see it splattered over Mimi’s face she was not happy. She did not love Alex, it always felt and looked so forced to me. The dancing, the conversations, their videos, hell even their travels together. how they looked at each other never seemed genuine…. So im not surprised she is here over 10 or more years later talking and saying all of this nonsense. Mimi, stop trying to take away a good loving working marriage that is 100% possible just because you wasted your time and yours did not work out.
Her stats her wrong : 40-45% of marriage end up in divorce in Europe, so a bit less than half… those who divorce tend to do so because of infidelity, loss of trust for whatever reason or some type of dysfunctional behavior. Those who stay married, manage to do so because they actually have moral compatibility and a life vision that aligns. Just say your life plans didn’t make sense anymore and no one was willing to compromise without having fear of resentment
This view is so negative and depressing…it’s so sad to get married knowing it’s not going to last or wondering when will it end. What about unconditional true love? Why even get married? Maybe it would be best to make your decision and respect others for the decisions they make without making assumptions if they are happy…only speak for yourself Mimi.
You cannoy judge everyones marriage based on your marriage. The think is everyone knows the answer but you don't. You were not happy in your marriage you didn't promise forever because you were not sure what to do forever. You are just giving statement to justify your divorce. You were not happy in your marriage thats why you decided to get divorced. Talk about yourself girl not everyone else.
You failed in your marriage and to make yourself feel better you tell us marriages are not meant to last and "we didn't promise each other forever". Load of B.S. Is that what your going to teach Alexa about marriage.
You can manifest anything except a lasting marriage apparently
😂😂😂😂
What an unfair statement. People don't just stay together because they're meshed or codependent. Married people can be very happy and love each other til death. She obviously doesn't know the answer.
Well said , funny how she only talks about these unhappy marriages just because she was unhappy in her marriage
@@user-gb5ff7gj1m Right!
So true and agree
You are right. Just because hers was happy it doesn’t mean all marriages are
@user-gb5ff7gj1she is unhappy in her own skin because she is an attention seeker who actually struggles between wise thoughts and being a star to other people.
You can't be a star to other people Mimi. If Kim Kardashian has little talent, you have even less, just a normal common entrepreneur who likes to take cute pics and post... there are MILLIONS like that.
The only real star in life should be God. Quit your narcissistic obsession with being high on attention.
This makes me angry. What she is saying is untrue and depressing. It takes away hope to young people to dream of love....this woman can only love herself.....I love my husband so much. I love being with him, we have 2 beautiful children and I nearly lost my life in labour. Now a days people are searching to fullfill their egos, but real happiness comes through giving. My husband and I give to one another to our family and we are happy. Through bad and good times he can count on me and me on him. We are family.
Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love is selflessness. This lady is manifesting selfishness.
Beautifully said!
Agreed! She's loads of bullshit
So why even bother getting married? If you have a plan B, it is more likely that plan A will fail. You should never get married if you’re also getting ready for divorce at the time of the wedding.
She’s just saying this because she got divorced. She’s such a hypocrite. I hen they were together she used to brag how they never fight, they are so in love and they respect each other so much. I used to admire her but the older I got the more I realized she is fake.
That’s exactly what she was doing. Like few weeks before they split she was recording videos on being soulmates with her ex husband LOL
Speak for yourself .. not all couples are same.
Well said , she talks as if other married men or women are as miserable as she was in her marriage
Married to my soulmate 50 years, and I fall in love more and more everyday. People today, are too quick to throw in the towel, before they’ve even given it a chance. Marriage is the hardest thing you’ll ever truly love in this world.
All relationships go through phases. The successful relationships understand this. Everyone gets to a point where there is no passion or desire for your partner. This is usually where divorce, cheating and any measure of conflict occurs. The successful relationships understand that it’s time to put in work when heading to the non passion stage, work that will get you back to passion. It doesn’t matter if you leave and find someone else, you will one day find yourself at the non passion stage. Question is are you going to leave every time? True happiness is from within and you share the overflow. When you stop being fulfilled you need to work on yourself to bring that happy person back to the relationship. Most people are in cycles without even realizing that.
Thank you for opening my eyes to this profound truth. So grateful for your wisdom 🙏
So just suck it up and be cool that your life is kinda done?
Speak for yourself … there are couples who actually promised each other forever and are happy together . You failed , that is your problem, don’t talk as it nobody can do it just because you couldn’t
She sounds miserable
As a very happily married person, all i can say is how incredibly depressing. Not God’s design for marriage
That’s just SAD!!! Marriage is not a joke. It takes real commitment and hard work and some sacrifices.
😂😂😂😂that's why y'all end up getting hurt. Manage your expectations correctly and even appreciate that there are no guarantees in this world
That’s the mentality that people entering marriage have that leads to a divorce. Marriage is not easy, it’s a long life journey of trials, growth, triumph, failures, constantly learning but if you look at it in a negative way of course the experience will be negative. Now everything also has exceptions and this is no different.
Mimi is always preaching about positivity and optimism but this mentality regarding marriage is so very negative and cynical
Its ironic since her own parents are still married. she's basically saying all marriages will end up being something negative in the end 😅 totally unfair and complete narcissist remark
This comes from the same person who said “LOVE always wins” but now I’m doubting if it was even authentic. Love is not just a “feel good” feeling Mimi. Love is the constant action of sacrifice, selflessness, humility, compassion etc…. And that’s probably why your marriage had an expiration date. When someone says “I was no longer happy in that marriage“, it’s always a 100% false sense of love. Because love is not a fleeting feeling. In my eyes, I think her words now discredit her book and her brand. Let’s just admit that
Started dating at 20, got engaged at 27 and married at 28, first child at 30, a house together and now a second child on the way, and our life’s journey together makes us love each other a little more each day. And not because we’re “tied” down. I really hope people find their person and make it their forever.
Well you do not seem to be happy alone either. Keep telling yourself lies…
Just including and blaming others to justify her side! I had not seen her for years n came looking specially to find her n shocked to see this!
Yeah , quite sick to see her stomping down others to elevate herself
So in other words, you can use me up and get everything from me that is promised in a marriage , and leave me when ever your done and move on to the next "for free" 😃
Just because you got a divorce, let's not cast negativity on other people's marriages. That seems so narcissistic. Many people are happy together in a very realistic non influencer like way.
What is she talking? This is absolute nonsense.
Mimi has no clue what she’s talking about relationships!
And she and her ex husband posted videos and on IG how to have a loving relationship like theirs … irony to its max
It’s so sad!!! They can work it out but choose not to!
SHE didn't promise herself forever. She didn't want to be with him at first, this thing was build to fail from the get go
Tbh , I still don’t see what Alex saw in her till now. She’s not the brightest and not as pretty / hot as he had mentioned earlier a few times
Mimi is an unauthentic person. That’s why I stopped following her. She always make her way around what she decide is good. Who gets married, holding an intention they may get divorce that idea on its own is so sick. I hope Alex find real love cause he deserves the best. Alex had a humble beginning, He’s self made. Mimi is shining under his creation.
This is so silly, you dont have to be happy 100% of the time.
It is impossible to be 100% happy all the time, even if you are single . If you’re with someone new, you might have the same problem as time passes
She spins the narrative to work for her.
I've been with my fiance since highschool, getting married this September, after 14 years together and I cannot wait to start our marriage with this man
Alex is a lucky man, dodged a bullet
agreed! I felt really bad for him, but I can see it's all for his own good. Too sad for their child tho.
wait..? they're seperated?
@@bendj4lyfe yes, Mimi divorced him. He commented he was just as surprised as all of us. Apparently she stopped loving him.
She is right about one thing. When people with no money hit midlife crisis, most of them are trapped and forced to stay in a marriage. When you do have enough resources, you can easily leave. But I am for the family and kids who grow up with both parents.
Yeah but there are many people who stay in the marriage for love . And these people she is talking about are broken , like she is . No partner or anything else can fix them. They need to help themselves
Nobody said that there aren’t people who stay in a bad marriage for financial reason, but how low can you go to use that as a justification for choosing for a divorce…. Apparently, this self righteous woman is competing for a race to the bottom
This woman makes me sick … as if other people who are married stay in the marriage for money , mental weakness or any other reason that hasn’t much to do but love . This sick woman needs to be surrounded by truly happy couples
How disgusting this generation is especially in the west, people are getting divorced left right and centre as if they are in a one night stand. Love is no longer pure as it used to be, there's no commitment no sacrifice for one another no respect.
Real bull sh..t , marriage is no game , its being with the one you love , chosen the one you love ❤, in good and bad, health , sickness, that way you tide the not , if you think differently please do not marry, nu the way did you travel the world to tell what your saying, Guess not, you dont know shit only numbers😂😂😂
Girl speak for yourself. It’s funny how she went from “we’re so healthy, we never fight, we communicate so good” to “we never promised forever, what you see online is not reality” girl you were lying all these years about the perfection of your relationship and now it ended. That’s sad but that’s not everyone’s reality
Oh please dogging marriage now cause you could not hack it
She just has to find some reason to justify her actions…
Keeping God at the center of your marriage is the only way any marriage can survive. There’s a real issue in society where that belief and application is radical or wrong. Trust it isn’t. Find truth and direction from the Bible and Bible only. I rebuke the concept of divorce in Jesus name.
WOOOOOOOOOW ! So let’s start our marriage with LOW EXPECTATIONS from the get go! Been married - HAPPILY for 40 years. You’re speaking of marriage as if you KNOW ALL -including statistics . This is very disturbing and disrespectful . 👎👎👎👎
If you don't fight for your Love then what of Love do you have? ~Keanu
If things get though in Relationship you support eachother instead of saying ~ ehh it's not fin anymore let's divorce!
Also strange that there were no divorces when women dint had a job or were mostly Housewives.
Well dang this is sad .
I really do not want a wife ore man who not promise me untill dead.. it feels unsafe to be with that person. Of course life can seperate ore paths in the future, that’s possible but i make the first step in marriage with good vibes, thinking we are together untill dead. As a woman that feels secure and gives peace.
Lame
What? Mimi, this is so not true. How can you paint ALL other people based on your own personal experience? There are so very many marriages that are forever and very happy together!
This statement is incredibly ignorant, as if everything in life is a math equation. There are people outhere that understand love is a decision and not just a statistic. You speak for your marriage, not everyone else's.
What a cynical take on marriage 🥴. That’s a wild mindset to have and still decide to get married. Bleak.
You mentioned you never fought with your ex husband once. Bragging. I thought that was the saddest thing ever. There are some things worth fighting for when you love genuinely. Giving a shit matters in marriage.
Wow the enemy has really brainwashed her, please come to Jesus Mimi, you have always been about self and that’s what the enemy wants. It’s not about Self and pride , it’s about Jesus Christ, only with him you will understand everything only with him you will not perish but have eternal life.
Best comment ever! So sad that Mimi's beliefs are so flawed. May Holy Spirt transform her in Jesus name. Amen.
Mimi is the most talented scammer on TH-cam
It seems she doesn’t believe in marriage as a subject… so better not be married then
I think she is right about many things in this statement, but then she should have been this real all the time, not creating the fake “always happy, always positive” SM content, because that’s fake - showing people unrealistic relationship image.
Maybe the issue was that you didn't promise each other forever...
Omg stop talking bs! That was your situation and YOURS ONLY! Do not put all of us happy married people in same boat boo!!!!!
From the moment this couple got married you could see it splattered over Mimi’s face she was not happy. She did not love Alex, it always felt and looked so forced to me. The dancing, the conversations, their videos, hell even their travels together. how they looked at each other never seemed genuine…. So im not surprised she is here over 10 or more years later talking and saying all of this nonsense. Mimi, stop trying to take away a good loving working marriage that is 100% possible just because you wasted your time and yours did not work out.
I guess the outcome of her relationship was ' We never promised our relationship was forever' ......
Her stats her wrong : 40-45% of marriage end up in divorce in Europe, so a bit less than half… those who divorce tend to do so because of infidelity, loss of trust for whatever reason or some type of dysfunctional behavior. Those who stay married, manage to do so because they actually have moral compatibility and a life vision that aligns. Just say your life plans didn’t make sense anymore and no one was willing to compromise without having fear of resentment
This view is so negative and depressing…it’s so sad to get married knowing it’s not going to last or wondering when will it end. What about unconditional true love? Why even get married?
Maybe it would be best to make your decision and respect others for the decisions they make without making assumptions if they are happy…only speak for yourself Mimi.
You cannoy judge everyones marriage based on your marriage. The think is everyone knows the answer but you don't. You were not happy in your marriage you didn't promise forever because you were not sure what to do forever. You are just giving statement to justify your divorce. You were not happy in your marriage thats why you decided to get divorced. Talk about yourself girl not everyone else.
You failed in your marriage and to make yourself feel better you tell us marriages are not meant to last and "we didn't promise each other forever". Load of B.S.
Is that what your going to teach Alexa about marriage.
When being too woke kills everything lol
She. Is selfish dominating who ruined her marriage now justifying excuses
IT is so not true. People can be happy together.
Very disappointed in her..🙈
Wow. Bitter much?
She's always talked out of her backside.
Poor guy 😭
Who cares
🤦 disgusting.