This tolerance of abuse from narc men goes back many generations with the women in my family. I think I broke a curse. Pray for me as the Lord said after YEARS of my preparing, abstinence & alignment, it was marriage season. I met a handsome brother who priorities Christ. He's interested in me. I am not interested in dating, per say, but to seek Christ together. Go to church. Being friends and no sexual contact. He feels same.
@@danilaroche1156my ex-wife was a midrange covert narcissist with some borderline personality disorder. Unfortunately narcissism and emotional abuse know no gender and anyone from any walk of life can turn out to be one. She discarded me over 2 years ago and I'm still hurting inside. Even though I want nothing to do with her and know in my head that I'm better off without her, it still hurts, plus all the manipulation, gaslighting, projection, and lies she did on top of that. Edit: I'm sorry you went through that. Generational curses are a real thing.
@@danilaroche1156 I too am breaking this generational curse. We were chosen and we must keep going and stay strong. God bless you. Keep your eyes on Christ and you’ll always know what to do. Thank you for sharing. It means a lot to me. I needed to read this. ❤️🙏
God has someone prepare for you, but the devil also has a ton of their people prepare to destroy your relationships. Never give up on searching for God's purpose and pray for the spirit of discernment.
A narcissist will only see you as supply, unfortunately. They will only miss you for what you can provide for them. Don't focus on what they may or may not see in you, focus on being the person God wants you to be.
What you're describing unfortunately sounds like the modern (Worldly) women. Men who want to do right, after God's heart, have been struggling with this a lot more over the past few years. Take heart that there are a ton of good men out there who would love to find a woman of quality after God's heart. Never settle for a partner who is toxic, cheats, or abuses you, regardless of gender. Who cares if they know your worth after you leave? If they were using you/mistreating you that almost never changes. You are worth much more than that and there is a man who will treat you right.
The struggle of trying to support and love a WOMAN with these same issues is just as heartbreaking and hurtful
Very true. You are not alone!
I used to have self loathing. I tolerated terrible abuse. The Lord changed me. Hallelujah!
@@danilaroche1156 hallelujah! God is so so good! Keep going! 💪🏻💯
This tolerance of abuse from narc men goes back many generations with the women in my family. I think I broke a curse. Pray for me as the Lord said after YEARS of my preparing, abstinence & alignment, it was marriage season. I met a handsome brother who priorities Christ. He's interested in me. I am not interested in dating, per say, but to seek Christ together. Go to church. Being friends and no sexual contact. He feels same.
@@danilaroche1156my ex-wife was a midrange covert narcissist with some borderline personality disorder.
Unfortunately narcissism and emotional abuse know no gender and anyone from any walk of life can turn out to be one.
She discarded me over 2 years ago and I'm still hurting inside.
Even though I want nothing to do with her and know in my head that I'm better off without her, it still hurts, plus all the manipulation, gaslighting, projection, and lies she did on top of that.
Edit: I'm sorry you went through that. Generational curses are a real thing.
@@danilaroche1156 I too am breaking this generational curse. We were chosen and we must keep going and stay strong. God bless you. Keep your eyes on Christ and you’ll always know what to do. Thank you for sharing. It means a lot to me. I needed to read this. ❤️🙏
So beautiful sister, preach. All glory to Abba in Jesus mighty name. Amen
What keeps a marriage together is having the same goals and values which has to be putting God first everyday and everything you do
@@richjacobs9736 absolutely! I wish I learned this earlier but better late than never!
All the men in my family are like this .
Thank you so much. This describes my situation which there is way way too much to get into as it's 4 am.... but YES!!!!! New follower!
Right the holy spirit is your new partner😊
Keep looking up and moving forward🙏
Great video, well-spoken!
Only date a man that God tells you to and make sure he's a born again Christian with the same goals and values that you have
Right. I don't really believe in dating anymore. I think friendship, fellowship with the intent to seek God about a marriage is the way to go.
God has someone prepare for you, but the devil also has a ton of their people prepare to destroy your relationships. Never give up on searching for God's purpose and pray for the spirit of discernment.
Hi Jennifer nice to see you
Now that you're born again Christian they will see your worth!
@@richjacobs9736 this will be refreshing!
Lord, send this lady her spouse.
A narcissist will only see you as supply, unfortunately.
They will only miss you for what you can provide for them.
Don't focus on what they may or may not see in you, focus on being the person God wants you to be.
@@davidm4566 I believe you are correct.
Amen ❤
It's a journey
Not a man who loves Jesus with all his heart.
Only a Christian man can love you or see your worth❤ take my word on that better yet take God's word on that
@@richjacobs9736 yes you are right.
What I respectfully disagree as a man You should respect yourself and love your family first always.
What you're describing unfortunately sounds like the modern (Worldly) women.
Men who want to do right, after God's heart, have been struggling with this a lot more over the past few years.
Take heart that there are a ton of good men out there who would love to find a woman of quality after God's heart.
Never settle for a partner who is toxic, cheats, or abuses you, regardless of gender.
Who cares if they know your worth after you leave? If they were using you/mistreating you that almost never changes.
You are worth much more than that and there is a man who will treat you right.
What is your age ?