THE SECRET TO KEEP A MAN INTERESTED YOU (
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- Getting a man is one thing but keeping him and the relationship interesting is another. Some of us can get a man no problem but keeping him is yet another. In this video I will show you the secret to keeping your man chasing you without playing any games or manipulating him.
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Don’t just play hard to get, Be hard to get! Get a life! Have your own goals hobbies interests,you’re right give him you in small sips
Lonje Maries Wisdom amen 🙌🏽😘
@Fabio Fernandes You sure are angry and hate women, you've been repeatedly blown off or rejected so you have to tear them down to build yourself up. The speaker is not a 2, if she was you wouldn't have bothered to click on her video, you liked her pic! The reality is you know you wouldnt have a chance with her. And btw 99% of men are exactly as you described women, they're unattractive but wanting and expecting a beauty queen they have no chance with so they offer us money fancy dinners dates and even beg to take us out I have had men say they know thet aren't attractive and not my type but I'm hot and if I'd only give them a chance and let them take me out I would fall for their personality and they beg and stalk me. Its pathetic.
@Fabio Fernandes The only thing I agree with in all that you just said is most men are all about beauty and sex and don't want marriage. I do agree with that, that is why I said I have guys that are well below average looking begging to go out with me and I'm sure for sex. I disagree that everyone wants a woman in her early 20's. I have been hit on more now at 48 than ever in my 20's or 30's and by all kinds of men ugly to hot ages 18-80. The truth is men want beauty and the more attractive the woman the more of a fool of themselves they will make to get us. And it's TRUE that guys I would consider my same league as far as age, attractiveness, intelligence, career, personality THINK they deserve and go after 9's and 10's and don't want to commit to someone in their own league. I would rate myself between 7 and 8. If I was a 6 or below I wouldn't get hit on all day and night on Facebook and Instagram by men messaging me, some of which are aesthetically 8's and 9's. No I dont get 10's (only middle aged man I would consider a 10 is John Stamos or other celebrities like him), but I do have much younger, and very attractive men coming after me on Facebook. But I'm sure the furthest thing on MOST men's mind is marriage, and it wouldn't matter how hot the woman is, most men, unless they're unattractive, do not want to get married. That is sad but true, especially men my age who've either already been through horrible divorces (usually only married in the first place because they got someone pregnant) or guys who are super religious and believe they should be married because fornication is a sin. Other than that, finding a man who wants marriage is like finding a needle in a haystack or winning the lottery. They're usually only willing to marry a woman multiple points above them, way out of their league. And yes I'm well aware men will tell us exactly what we want to hear to get laid. But I will say that hideously ugly men and super old geriatric senior citizens are delusional and always hitting on beautiful women they have no chance with like me and friends of mine, and it never ceases to amaze me. It's as if they're blind when they look in their own mirrors, like they see themselves completely differently than what they really look like. I dont think I'm more attractive than I am. And to say the woman in this video is a 2 is ridiculous. A 2 is fat, ugly, doesnt do her hair or makeup.
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Men lose interests when we drop everything for them
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Very good point
Women lose interest when we guys drop everything for them. You do realize that it's the same shit the other way around, right? Nobody wins.
You are 100 percent right
The secret is, a man is only kept when he wants to🌝
Please please please say it louder for the people at the back..
Yes yes very true!!
Very true
Why are there so many BS videos on how to keep a man? Why aren't there twice as many videos on "what a man must do to get and keep a good woman"?
Jessica Calderon hmmm you sound like a woman scorned. I’m sorry you were hurt but anger won’t heal the wound. I know a lot of love coaches and there are countless videos that do precisely that on TH-cam. I’m certain you deserve a good man and that when he finds you you may wish to keep him. In which case comeback to this video x
I have been hurt but that wasn't my reason for my comment. I am a survivor of extreme DV. I do apologize if my comment was rude. However, my only wish is that there were equal videos on how to keep a good man/woman.
There are a bunch of them. We lose interest because you don't do jack shit to keep your man. Period.
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@Fabio Fernandes You just answered your own question!
Because women dont need advice on getting laid every guy wants sex and theyll bang women who arebt relationship material to get it. So why would we need advice on how to bang more dudes when we can bang as many as we want whenever we want. Most of us don't want to bang a bunch of guys we want just one person. Maybe if you guys didn't treat women like disposable blow up dolls you'd have better luck yourselves.
If he isn’t serious he will lose interest.
Oh if you exhibit certain behaviour and attitude.
But if you do stupid things because you think he will stay after all mistakes you did..no matterbhow serious he is... You will lose him.
Nah. He will lose interest if you don't do jack shit to maintain the relationship. I was serious with my now ex-gf, broke up because she didn't do any effort. We guys won't give a flying fuck about you if you don't put anything on the table in exchange.
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy Have you done a video on bouncing back and/or getting him back after exhibiting these behaviours? As women we are emotional, we have attachment styles and past trauma so even though we should be working on personal development, as humans we can slip up. Just wondering if you have made a video on this :) thx
Still found a way to blame it on men.🤣
Someone else becomes interested in us when we become interesting
Good words
That’s true
Ambitious women have very interesting lives, yet have a difficult time with attracting quality mates. Aside from feeling intimidated, I'm stumped on what turns men off of them if they claim that they want women who's worlds won't revolve around them (allegedly).
Some men are just selfish, period!
Now she’s preaching! Truth! This is the biggest core of the matter...turning a man into God and an idol. I needed this because it cuts to the quick! God is Jealous! And discipline in near to those who He loves. Thank you!!
Amen
Where have you been all my life? Spot on! You knw these things and I am not making those mistakes again. It took him 3yrs to get my attention fully and when he got it, he stopped everything and it seemed I began d chasing and he cld go 3days without saying hello or even read and reply my messages. Finally got to my senses a mnth ago and refused to see him. Now he wants to meet me.smh. boy bye
Always put God first, the rest will follow
So true
Get interested in sports, any sports will do. Be diverse in what you do that can involve him, not just you. We as men bond with women over interactive activities. There's more to us than this but start here.
Its such an oxymoron men want beautiful feminine women but at the same time want them to be interested in masculine activities we could care less about. Are you interested in shoe shopping with us? lol
Cozette M You can be interested in masculine activities and still be feminine.
@@cozettem8226 RIGHT LMAO that shie shopping got me! But that's an important distinction: a person should give space to their partner's hobbies/ interests (if they're healthy). It is not required for one to be interested or to partake necessarily.
We must be whole within ourselves. Without this, we will depend on a man to satisfy that area of our life that is not Developed. We will always be disappointed, because he is human and will not always be able to fulfill that void. Also, once we are “whole” we will attract a man that is “whole”, resulting in a very satisfying relationship. ❤️
Your words are like jewels on a crown for us Queens who wear them. ... excuse me as I “adjust” my crown! Thanks for this video it was timely!
Girl, Chengi, you just preached a whole sermon.
Thank you for reminding us that in our pursuit of Mr right now we must first seek the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto us....Selah
Chengi, I love you especially when you are talking about putting God on the throne of your heart. God bless you with continued love and success!
Oh I love your videos!! I really needed to hear that and know why men pull away sometimes. Thank you and keep all the good advice coming our way x
I just discovered your channel. My heart is broken I didn’t find you sooner! Like, share, subscribed, and notified. Keep up the great work. Your subscribers will grow. You have such a feminine, confident, vibrant soul. God bless you !!! Thank you for your content
Thank you x
When I finally realize my standards were for them to meet and not for me to adjust. Omg the light bulb went off. I love how you broke this down. Thanks 🙏🏽
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beautiful facial features. Sound advice from a very attractive woman.
Thank you Angel xx
This is a great look on you, the makeup, color palette, shirt style, jewelry, etc.! Go queen!
Thank you xx
Chengi, I love this video. You spoke so much truth. God has to be the central part of our life as godly women. "Keeping yourself interesting" that's key! 😍🤗
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Hi Chengi. First time viewing one of your videos and I liked it so much that I SUBSCRIBED and rang the bell! I jus got into a brand new relationship and I'm definitely in the EUPHORIC stage (which was a LONG TIME coming and feels so Good.) I truly needed to hear how to keep myself interesting, as I'd like for this to last and become all that Love can be. Thanks for sharing! I'll watch your other videos and follow you on the Gram. 🙂💕
I just stumbled upon u and found u ..
U GO GIRL .. loving the videos
All women must see that, you're perfect ❤️
OH My Goodness Chengi, I love your advice and most of all When you remind the women in the world to put God First not a Man!
I love this video. It was so informative. The differences in the way we process things is incredible.
Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️
Omg!! I needed this as a 27 year old woman ❤️❤️❤️
Am a new subbie☺️.. I thought I had heard it all ... buh i dnt know how come I subscribed... Tnx a lot for the message 🙏🏽 I luv it
This is so true that we begin to abandon ourselves 🌺
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Very true. I learned this thru experience. Watching this reassured I am on track. Thankyou for sharing
Wooow needed to hear all this many many thx hei u came at the right time
When I say you broke it doooown you broke it down Sis!! Thank you 🙏🙏🙌💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
Best advice ever on youtube THANK YOU ♥️♥️♥️ love you!!!!
This woman is PREACHING TO THE CHOIR!!!!
You're amazing Chengi, thank you
Thank you for sharing these powerful Truths.
You're so beautiful, inside and out. You have great energy. Thanks for the videos.
Thank you Angel xx
Wow, I LOVE how you convey your message! I'm so glad I came across your channel. The way you speak really went straight to my heart... and then to my mind. So good, so so good.
Thank you Angel xx
I’m so ecstatic that I have found your channel. You by far have the best relationship advice that touches not only on the physical but also the spiritual (God). I absolutely think you are amazing and I’m so grateful, this is right on time for me. Thank You so much. ❤️
Jill Brooke oh I’m so happy we’ve found each other 🙏🏾
Sorry my bad...this is for ppl who don't deal with severe depression...😔 Men aren't attracted to sad women. I'll probably never find a good one cause I am pretty and sad.
I hope you will get treatment for your depression Angel xx
I used to be for so long, truth is the right person will love you no matter what I promise. I’ve BEEN there ❤️ so much love to you xxx
Thank you so much for this my sister 🤗👏👏👏
Don't nobody got time for games they either into u or not . But I understand what u r saying
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I feel this comment. Lol
Games with men are a must
Powerful video! Thank you for sharing
Everything you said was so perfect
Woow!!!!!! so wonderful.. I love what you said thanks so much girl
peris wanja welcome lovely xx
Words of wisdom!!!
I'm in a very new life for me. I dated someone all last summer. He kept me at arms length, but even with that, we always enjoyed ourselves together, no matter what we were doing. He ended up breaking up with me the end of August in a quite mean way actually. So I've spent the last 4 months trying to get over him. THEN he contacts me! apologizes..I guess he's been in therapy the last few months trying to figure out the why on him. NOW, he says he knows what he wants and that is ME! Now for the first time, he is making plans for the future with me. I will be flying out to visit with him for a week. I'm VERY nervous about this meet. I haven't seen him for 4 months. I do have my own life, business and goals.
Not to burst your bubble but I would tell you to take it slow a man always knows who you to him after the 1st day, and he should be flying to see you, not you re-arranging your schedule to see him
On point and at the right time
Nice video. He need figure out how to keep his woman interested. Guys these days get to comfortable and stop making efforts to keep us happy.
Owani Iroso agreed! Don’t see why we are supposed to do all the work 🙄 these men
@@solochica81 seriously I had a guy tell me he was on a diet so I bought him a basket of fruit and he didnt appreciate it.
Owani Iroso girl that was your mistake! 🤦🏾♀️ Men don’t want us to be “nice” to them! They can’t handle it. Next time, smile, turn around and say that’s nice and do NOTHING!
Don’t go out of your way to be thoughtful and considerate. Save that for your family and girlfriends 🙂. I’ve learned, the “nicer” I’ve been to dudes, the worst they became...
@@solochica81 your right..
SO true, my ex totally did not care to keep himself interesting at all. i walked. Smdh.
Amen!! love the last point!
Great video! Really learned alot
Very powerful podcast 👏 🙌 👌
LOVED this
As a man I would say take up a sport, any sport as long as you genuinely enjoy it and you’ll find men that are into that sport too and you guys can bond innocently like that, that’s how 7 of my friends found there wives so it’s a big thing if you ask me not many women even know of
Brilliant! Xx
Yes they got married, but I don't see how that projects femininity? I participated in sports -- some with men -- and the women who dated these men were naturally pretty. In terms of adult relationships, maybe there's a benefit in the sense that there's a shared interest so there probably wouldn't be as much nagging (perhaps), but I'm still stumped on how that made them more feminine.
the secret is to "be interesting"
I like you. Glad i found your channel.
mist __ me too Angel❤️
Amen!!!!!! Great video. Thank you
God bless you you have wonderful advice for us women thank you so much for your help and your time
Absolute truth 😍 Thank you 💋
I love you so much. You helped me alottttt
Your channel is amazing ❤️
GoldFaced thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you so much Ms Chengi.. this could not have come at a better time.. It's exactly what I needed to hear
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I love how you bring God Into it
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How does a married woman with children keep the mystique and chase going?? Especially when pregnant? How does she create an air of independence and not always being available when she’s in the ultimate state of abandon...Pregnancy and/or with young children when she’s generally bound to the home and not feeling her hottest. Very vulnerable place to be
Christina Cataldi oh Angel. Your focus needs to be off him and onto you and your joy. A happy woman with healthy boundaries is always attractive.
Ask for what you want and need from everyone. High value doesn’t equal being super woman.
Being ok to be vulnerable and asking for cherishing from your man without being needy is sexy. Make it clear what you want don’t assume he knows.
Sending you hugs xxx
Chengi's World this is sooooo true! It’s very easy to think he should know what it is I’m needing since he gave me these things naturally and very consistently in the beginning of the relationship. But perhaps he really does need a direct request from me. It takes some of the joy out of it though when you have to ask. Like asking for someone to bring you a Bday present as opposed to them bringing one from their own heart. Just as in the beginning of the relationship you didn’t have to ask for anything! They just couldn’t help themselves! I do agree though wholeheartedly that a Man was never meant to take the place of God. Idolatry of our men is a natural inclination as it states our DESIRE will be for HIM! But not vice versa!
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and what happens when you have your life, your interests ,meeting your friends etc. but nothing is realy changing?
Girl you are ALWAYS so flawless!!!!
Nelia thank you Angel 🙏🏾💕❤️
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This video is awesome
God first is always the key
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Thank you💜
We should be hgher ground goal oriented. Amen!
This video is right on spot. Hehehehe im laughing on myself coz its true😁
Love your makeup @chengi’s world grey eye shadow and pink lips are the best 😍💃🏽
Milka totally! Thank you 🙏🏾
you lighten up!
Thank you for the message!! You are a beautiful lady
Nina Rodriguez you’re welcome Angel xx
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Yes so good!!
Why do men play games at 46 years old ?? Lol
I’ve been in a FWB relationship and to a real relationship then back to FWB but we had a big augment yesterday and he told me to never message him again because I accused him of cheating but I’m not 100% sure if he has but then he messaged me later that night saying look I don’t want to fall out with u because I’m not like that, Yh we both made mistakes in the past 4 years but I love him so much and I don’t want to lose him because we have been thought to much and I really don’t know what to do anymore
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What if he is cheating you and blaming you while giving you negative energy. Hiding himself making phone calls and texting the other woman?
Don't say anything. Didn't confront him about it. Just become distant and start looking really good. Always looking your best. Then mirror him. Do exactly what he is doing. Coming home late. Don't always tell him what your doing or where your going. Sheraseven1 has a video calles how to keep ur husband chasing u. Watch it
Assuming he is someone you are dating my advice is to dump him. He does not cherish or respect you and that won't change.
Girl Girl
So he’s cheating, giving you negative energy, and calling and texting the other women. You’re his donkey. He’s watching you spin. Mentally driving you nuts and having fun doing it. Pull yourself together, get prayed up and come out of the Outhouse. Do not get into an argument with him because that’s his way of saying that you’re the problem. Regain your strength and find peace. Do it for your health.
He is sorely mistaken if he thinks I’m waiting for him to pick this back up and not keep this going….. 🙄
Hello,
Thanks for sharing the video. Me and my guy he ways were not together but he strongly expresses that he not talking to anyone along with that. He gets super jealous over me and asks where I been and, where I'm coming back from, and if I'm talking to any guys. Which I'm not but I'm just confused because he acts like we're in a relationship but we're not and he's super territorial. What am I missing?
Cbear 25 he is wasting your time and you are letting him because the ambiguity is easier than the full on truth. A man who wants you will leave you in no doubt. Watch my video on being strung along ❤️
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy Thanks for following up. Will do, your videos always help with guidance.
Thank you so much
So on point
You're very smart🌺
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OMG, this is the truth!
Very Wise 🙏🏽
DAMN you're pretty for a mature woman!
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Right on!
I am single 🌷😍😍❤❤
Good morning thank you princess have a blessed day you're absolutely right everything you saying it's working out he came over and notice a different me and it seems that he's interested again but I'm doing it the right way this time thanks to God and thanks to you
Thats exactly what I wanted to know that what to do when he started again messaging me like i love u... you are my life, my everything ... you don't love me.... blah blah blah after being ghosted several times. I think he only wanted me to do sexting with him, only he's interested in me for that. We are in a long distance relationship, met online, in the start, he approached me saying so magical things to me, liking my each n every post on fb. But when he know that finally I fall for him he only started sexting & ghosted when ever he want. I have no idea what to do, i really love him n miss him so much. I stop messaging him whenever he disappears, then suddenly he comes back as if nothing happened. And want me to sext. I want a true relationship with him. I keep my self busy in other chores. But miss him all the day, Im helpless.