HOW TO BE THE KIND OF WOMAN A MAN CAN'T GET OFF HIS MIND

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  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    We women have to have class in how we speak, behave and especially know who she is in Christ🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥!!!!

  • @fazeelafazal8615
    @fazeelafazal8615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Love your accent. I smiled when you said how to be the kind of woman a man can't get off his mind. He can't get his work done:) I 've been thinking of you

  • @vickysnache2776
    @vickysnache2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    How to be the kind of woman that a man can not get of his mind. Simple! Know God and have a good character.

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    BE A CHALLENGE.
    Thank you for saying it out LOUD and CLEAR at the very beginning of the video. This is true. Only the men that you shouldn't be with in the first want a woman who is easy and requires no effort into attaining her. Often times, in the long run, these men can turn out to be dangerous. Not what we want.

    • @MathyLisikaMinsende
      @MathyLisikaMinsende 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, so true. Gotta read those profiles carefully when they say. I don't want any Drama, or stress- free relationship.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly! There's also being a Challenge and playing too many Games and too long. A Woman can easily be a Challenge while still being inviting and approachable.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MathyLisikaMinsende Absolutely!

    • @CandaceLeAnne
      @CandaceLeAnne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes … and the men who whine about a “black” woman who argues and is stressful, are usually the cause of the argument and the stress in these women’s lives. Any woman who will not address actual problems in a relationship is battling with her own self esteem or is simply toying with a man until she is tired of using him for his sexual benefits. Neither should a real man want.

  • @beeaboutabbabusiness8738
    @beeaboutabbabusiness8738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What I have concluded from this video let the man persue you, show appreciation for gestures he does towards you. This can be shown in , sentimental non expensive gifts. Have a life outside, of persuing ,or being in a relationship men value a bit if mystery , to a woman and what they have to work for.

  • @NisiJ28
    @NisiJ28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Darling, you are the sister I’ve been praying for!! I mean accent and all! (I actually fake one from time to time…shhh! Lol!) Thank you SO much for sharing!!!

  • @Charlotte-br1cs
    @Charlotte-br1cs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I am subscribed to about 20 channels like this now and you are definitely the most eloquent speaker and bring up the best points. So glad I found this 🙏🏻💗

  • @inside_the_waiting_room
    @inside_the_waiting_room 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    THIS video is SO good! And I just realized I’ve been trying to date wrong. I’m embarrassed that I admitted to being single for 4 years and sucking at dating, I wrote this on my dating profile!!!🤦🏼‍♀️😳 I have NOT been sophisticated.

  • @vale.m15
    @vale.m15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I found you from Pastor R.C Blake's channel. I learn a lot from Pastor and I knew you're a real deal too. Looking forward in tuning to your channel. 😊

  • @submissionoverload
    @submissionoverload 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Chenji... I've been watching you for nearly 4 years. Thank you for opening my eyes once again to where I'm going wrong in my dating life. I'm that girl who talks like a man, swearing and behaving unlady like. You're so right.

  • @m.s9146
    @m.s9146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hello! You’ve got it down! What you’re saying is exactly what my fiancé has described to me as his experiences before we met. I actually was in another relationship and he broke us up. He was relentless and would not take no fur an answer. That was 11 years ago and I’ve learned a lot from him about being loved by a masculine man.

  • @fashiondina
    @fashiondina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Really needed to hear this ugh I wish I wasn't so desperate!! I must be driving these guys insane

  • @bellakim9404
    @bellakim9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It was more than Nothing. It was a Sentiment of Appreciation from Your Heart & it was Priceless.

  • @MathyLisikaMinsende
    @MathyLisikaMinsende 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    *Yes, be memorable. Really enjoyed this Chengi.😉😘*

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Not to forget to mention, how we dress!!! Men are visual anyways

  • @nurtured-channel2953
    @nurtured-channel2953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is interesting to hear this particular message... because today I found myself meditating on Queen
    Esther 's meekness ...

  • @ngendoangaine8114
    @ngendoangaine8114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So on point. I listened to the advise given to all women that will listen to this. I must say, this is really good. There is so much to learn. Thank you Chengi

  • @donnaanderson5041
    @donnaanderson5041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a beautiful woman inside and out

  • @ddodograce4516
    @ddodograce4516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow I love the content. Your so intelligent. Your subscribing , commenting, and liking.

  • @unbelaneablebeautyy
    @unbelaneablebeautyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just realized something about myself. When I get comfortable I seriously do talk like one of the guys 😂😂😂 I have to calm down with that.

  • @missjonz
    @missjonz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Girl, I needed to hear this message.

  • @ghazalsoleimani906
    @ghazalsoleimani906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You’re amazing and so dead on !:)

  • @ojlove4210
    @ojlove4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm blessed to hear you and learn.
    You are amazing.! Thank you so much for your time and sharing. God Bless you. 🙏❤️😘

  • @Lesah_
    @Lesah_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Extremely helpful thank you so much. I think this was the missing key for me.

  • @gloriamondragon105
    @gloriamondragon105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I literally love watching & getting tips from you’re videos... Thank you for being a inspiration to us women !! ♥️🙏🏻

  • @beckytull8505
    @beckytull8505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m nothing rare because I love with my whole heart. I’m now tired, bitter and jaded so I suppose I’ve become rare because I refuse to date guys since it always turns out bad. The person who loves the least has all the power in the relationship

  • @missgoodenergy
    @missgoodenergy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    small gesture gifts.... duly noted! 🙌🏾💕✨

  • @counsellor3474
    @counsellor3474 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some very great positive points.

  • @Denisebemmett
    @Denisebemmett 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. Good advice. You are absolutely correct about the word Thank you. This one word from a woman to a man will get her so much respect. 🙏🤗

  • @virtuouswomanthelordfirst538
    @virtuouswomanthelordfirst538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so powerful! 🙌🏾💯🙏🏾

  • @amberrosefitt
    @amberrosefitt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    BEST advice everrrr!

  • @aq7317
    @aq7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have great points and with that the sweetest suggestions and advice! Thank you 💙

  • @constanceandoh2869
    @constanceandoh2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful message. Thanks 😊🙏

  • @auntyshafo
    @auntyshafo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    New subbie here.. learning so much. Been doing it all wrong

  • @elenabilchinski6865
    @elenabilchinski6865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your stuff 💖

  • @claudiashalaby2305
    @claudiashalaby2305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so wish I would have found your channel earlier,you are amazing👍👏👏

  • @frankieroberson3398
    @frankieroberson3398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amor Siempre, Chengi!!!

  • @Davienne2010
    @Davienne2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Just wow! Nailed it!!

  • @pn91
    @pn91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Chengi
    I hope all is well. I enjoy your videos and teaching points. I am in the United States. How do I set up coaching sessions with you. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Thanks

  • @ryerye5697
    @ryerye5697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect video for my dating life rn!!!

  • @halah.2073
    @halah.2073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this! Thank you for the tips.

  • @katrynamcintyre5687
    @katrynamcintyre5687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    June 20, 2021: Thanks for the good advice! Blessings, Katryna

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good thing for me i currently have no interest in any guy and currently no guy has interest in me... so no need to be impressing anyone lol ❤❤❤

  • @nhl4264
    @nhl4264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your content is great💗 I have learnt a lot from it and you look too beautiful too. I wish your delivery could be a bit toned down, it comes musculine at times, throwing hands when talking and generally shouting in between and tensed energy.

    • @blackswanrelationshipacademy
      @blackswanrelationshipacademy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When I am teaching I am in masculine energy yes. Well observed and this shall remain the case as teaching requires masculine energy. I hope you continue to learn and grow to understand when a woman needs to be in masculine energy and when she should power down. Well done for a good observation

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so good. Thank you Chengi

  • @RoyallyMade
    @RoyallyMade ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you GODDESS

  • @Victoria-hd4ke
    @Victoria-hd4ke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏼

  • @mathehanyane6246
    @mathehanyane6246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very very helpful 👍

  • @silentdreams2415
    @silentdreams2415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful!❤

  • @vivienchamington5420
    @vivienchamington5420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful! you nailed it :D

  • @anniewatts1879
    @anniewatts1879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏽❤️😊

  • @immamusicug9191
    @immamusicug9191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just amazing

  • @alicesantos4410
    @alicesantos4410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really loved yr words

  • @counsellor3474
    @counsellor3474 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even GREATER is the JESUS analogy.

    • @counsellor3474
      @counsellor3474 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, friends, for liking etc.

  • @phoenixfire4640
    @phoenixfire4640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is a man high-value if he says when time has been put into the relationship that he wants it to be 50-50 and he wants the women to pay for things? I’m assuming he is not high value then because that’s not up to my standards anyways

  • @neekag7244
    @neekag7244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do you consider 2 months or 5 months space, or a week?

  • @sejalnansi2757
    @sejalnansi2757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing 😍

  • @queencharles3527
    @queencharles3527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yes! Yes! And Yes!!

  • @annastasiamusenge2132
    @annastasiamusenge2132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    awesome

  • @lovetotheworld2522
    @lovetotheworld2522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We woman must remember the charm of being a girl.💖 Education and money is masculine and don't discuss it. Nor is it to a Alpha male.

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Learning 🙌

    • @blackswanrelationshipacademy
      @blackswanrelationshipacademy  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad to hear hun. Feel free to check our resources to help you further on blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/

  • @ndyndy2785
    @ndyndy2785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow create space,true

  • @GirleystarGauises-n9b
    @GirleystarGauises-n9b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super❤❤❤🎉

  • @000loii4
    @000loii4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love u chengi!

  • @marianas3268
    @marianas3268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can’t watch your video 😭😭

  • @demetriaphillips4110
    @demetriaphillips4110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello!

  • @debbiefoucha2679
    @debbiefoucha2679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truth

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @KINGTHEYORKIE
    @KINGTHEYORKIE 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now i understand why women are so dramatic when a men proposed.

  • @NimeetaA
    @NimeetaA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Imma be honest, the thumbnail pic kinda scared me. The smile gives me the Joker vibes. 😭 Then I clicked on the video gosh you're the embodiment of divine embodiment. Please keep shining ma'am ❤️❤️ I subscribed too

  • @NajlaaHeerah
    @NajlaaHeerah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @06:43 - the bueurghhh 🤣

  • @rw2382
    @rw2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Steal my wallet. Trust me, I'll remember.

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 lol… I see you have quite a “rare” sense of humor 😂

  • @xmama1891
    @xmama1891 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This woman is amazing and make a lot of sense, I came to her channel because of RC Blake Jr. I am sorry to say this I love her accent but her voice, some of her explanations, trying to be funny is annoying. I am sorry, great words..

  • @deborahr.7696
    @deborahr.7696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Do you have a man with all this advice?

  • @MarifatHarris93
    @MarifatHarris93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖💖💖

  • @briannelineback1636
    @briannelineback1636 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why am I having problems trying to view this episode?? SOOOO disappointing....

  • @shanteltracey5408
    @shanteltracey5408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video. Thank you for these great tips. May I have your instagram

  • @katherinequintero8782
    @katherinequintero8782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are AMAZING GOD BLESS YOU. 💃🏾💪💃😇