Thank you. I've been telling people this for a long time. I do not compete with other people. I just do me. I stopped competing with people because all it does is breed insecurities and makes me miserable and unhappy. I just do me and I let other people be who they are and I don't compare myself. I'm extremely happy with being me and it seems to work cuz I seem to draw people either way. If men want someone else other than me I don't worry about what I can't control. Wheather other women compete or not there's always going to be somebody else newer bigger and better at all times. So why make myself miserable, stressed out, and worried instead I just live my life and do the best that I can do and I'm happy and content with me and the share of men that do desire me. And I'm like you I celebrate beauty in other people... I love it. we speak the same language. Cuz I say stay in your lane all the time. I tell people I stay in my Lane.
That's one of my mantras in the relationship field. - I don't compete - I don't chase - I dont bow down as some docile maid (treat me as your equal, I cook for you and vice versa.....etc) -
You are Right "roses can't compete with lillies" Its you verses you, competing with others is just ridiculous! Be the best version of yourself....absolutely!
I find that many women may compete or even compare naturally but also from their insecurities or maybe naturally because of insecurities. But my goal is to no longer compare (I am not much of the competing type) and to just focus on being me, loving me and keeping up with me and my God-given purpose, my goals, etc. In the other video and I am a new watcher, about to be a subscriber, that we have to learn to accept ourselves. And that is what I am learning to do.
This video is fabulous Chengi. As women we should be in community and in our feminine essence. Yes, let's celebrate each other with compliments and in love. It truly raises our own vibration and attraction level. The man you spoke about reminded me of a similar experience I had when I met and attracted a man I was dating last year. Your video made me smile. 😘😘
Hi, Chengi- beautiful channel! I really liked this video and could resinate. You are 100% correct and keep up the awesome work! You radiate a lot of love and positive energy. By the way- I've watched some of your other videos and you look great in color. Think that you'd look fabulous in a pair of rhinestone earrings and the flowers in background are a hit! We must always maintain our God given femininity. Cheers!!
Hi Chengi. I just ran across your videos for the first time this morning and what a treat! I especially love! love! love! this video. It was confirmation for me as I am on the right track. I love giving compliments to my sisters and yes it does come back to you! Keep doing your thing girlfriend! I appreciate you and be blessed! Love Dee....
Thank you so much this riminds me of The bible says, there is difference in spiritual gift but holly spirit is the same... So appriciating everyone's gifts makes us whole.. cause we learn from each other and we be free and love flow in ol the space...
Everyone is unique it's just a given... we're not the same we may like some of the same things but that's interests it's not our soul. But Everyone being different and unique and a good thing because we all bring something interesting into this world and this world would be so damn boring if we were all the same some people are blessed with a beautiful singing voice or maybe really good at maths others are just natural athletes... the problem is when we don't appreciate what we are born with and would rather have what another person has... first of all that's not living in gratitude because clearly you're not grateful for what you already have so how can the universe bless you with more if you don't already appreciate what you were given to at birth? And another thing I believe is if we're all unique and different in our own ways how can we compete? It's like flowers every flower is different but they're all beautiful in their own way. When I was little I used to go to friends houses who had divorced parents and I was jealous because they got spoilt twice as much and I used to wish my parents were divorced so I could also be double spoilt by my adopted parents and also I came from an unhappy house... they eventually divorced but by that time I was older and no longer needed the entire barbie collection... but as I got older I realised the secret to getting more blessings from the universe is love and cherish what you are already blessed with and the universe will bless you with so much more.
NO SHES NOT...TRUST ME...SHE HAS PRACTICED HER VOICE TONE SO LONG THAT EVEN SHE THINKS ITS REAL...VIDEO IS POSITIVE BUT ITS ALMOST AS IF SHES TRYING SO HARD TO B SOMETHG SHES REALLY NOT...NO SHADE BUT IT FEELS TO ME AS IF SHES FORCING HERSLF TO TALK LIKE THAT...SO SUPERFICIAL...VERY ANNOYING....ITS LIKE WIN A FEM BUYS HAIR WEAVE & PUTS IT ON HER HEAD??? SHE BELIEVES ITS HERS BECAUSE SHE BOUGHT IT!? & SHE COMBS IT AS IF IT GREW FROM HER SCALP??? PRETENDING TO B SUMTHG UR NOT N TODAYS WORLD IS REALITY 4 MOST YET UNAUTHENTIC/SYTHETIC....DO U GET WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY???? NO HATE ON HER...I JUST WISH BLK WOMEN WERE MORE AUTHENTIC FROM HEAD TO TOE? INCLUDING MIND BODY & SPIRIT....THE WHOLE PACKAGE NOT PART PACKAGED???? IJS....😁😒😒
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Thank you. I've been telling people this for a long time. I do not compete with other people. I just do me. I stopped competing with people because all it does is breed insecurities and makes me miserable and unhappy. I just do me and I let other people be who they are and I don't compare myself. I'm extremely happy with being me and it seems to work cuz I seem to draw people either way. If men want someone else other than me I don't worry about what I can't control. Wheather other women compete or not there's always going to be somebody else newer bigger and better at all times. So why make myself miserable, stressed out, and worried instead I just live my life and do the best that I can do and I'm happy and content with me and the share of men that do desire me. And I'm like you I celebrate beauty in other people... I love it. we speak the same language. Cuz I say stay in your lane all the time. I tell people I stay in my Lane.
Champagne Gold you are a high value girl 😉
The only person you need to compete with is yourself, when you know who you are nothing can move you.
That's one of my mantras in the relationship field.
- I don't compete
- I don't chase
- I dont bow down as some docile maid (treat me as your equal, I cook for you and vice versa.....etc)
-
You are Right "roses can't compete with lillies" Its you verses you, competing with others is just ridiculous! Be the best version of yourself....absolutely!
I find that many women may compete or even compare naturally but also from their insecurities or maybe naturally because of insecurities. But my goal is to no longer compare (I am not much of the competing type) and to just focus on being me, loving me and keeping up with me and my God-given purpose, my goals, etc. In the other video and I am a new watcher, about to be a subscriber, that we have to learn to accept ourselves. And that is what I am learning to do.
I agree with you. I don't believe in competing either. It's draining and unnecessary
This video is fabulous Chengi. As women we should be in community and in our feminine essence. Yes, let's celebrate each other with compliments and in love. It truly raises our own vibration and attraction level. The man you spoke about reminded me of a similar experience I had when I met and attracted a man I was dating last year. Your video made me smile. 😘😘
I love how you deliver your message. You are such a beautiful person!!! Thank you so much!
Thank you ❤️
Hi, Chengi- beautiful channel! I really liked this video and could resinate. You are 100% correct and keep up the awesome work! You radiate a lot of love and positive energy. By the way- I've watched some of your other videos and you look great in color. Think that you'd look fabulous in a pair of rhinestone earrings and the flowers in background are a hit! We must always maintain our God given femininity. Cheers!!
I loved your honesty! This is so true though.
You’re the best Chengi! ♥️‼️🙂 great advice as always
DeepDiving Diva ❤️❤️❤️
I love seeing beauty in others too 😍😍. You think like me 😂😂😂😂😂
I love you for réal😍😍😍
Hi Chengi. I just ran across your videos for the first time this morning and what a treat! I especially love! love! love! this video. It was confirmation for me as I am on the right track. I love giving compliments to my sisters and yes it does come back to you! Keep doing your thing girlfriend! I appreciate you and be blessed! Love Dee....
Denise Johnson ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much this riminds me of The bible says, there is difference in spiritual gift but holly spirit is the same... So appriciating everyone's gifts makes us whole.. cause we learn from each other and we be free and love flow in ol the space...
Rose Andrea 🙏🏽
Omg I just discovered you!and I love your videos and whole vibes.. thank you so much I needed to discover you..continue the good work!
I love you, what you said was absolutely right. Well done
I absolutely 💘 the golden message in your video.Your amazing. The right frquenties are everything.
Thank you ❤️
HAHAHAAAA. Chengiiii. That was the CUTEST thing I ever heard. Can we have our crown back.🤣🤣🤣🤣
Chengi you’re so adorable I’m so happy I came across your show you always brighten my day with the advice u give 💞💕😘
Tina Charles ❤️❤️❤️
I love your message Chengi...you are intrinsically beautiful inside and out 🥰...love-you much❤❤
Thank you and love you back 💕❤️
Great video Chengi , full of wisdom .
gertrude suleiman thanks girl xx
I liked your message here, real and positive thank you
Amanda Barbolla you are welcome angel ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful mindset, I love your content. Incredible ❤️
Thank you xx
Everyone is unique it's just a given... we're not the same we may like some of the same things but that's interests it's not our soul. But Everyone being different and unique and a good thing because we all bring something interesting into this world and this world would be so damn boring if we were all the same some people are blessed with a beautiful singing voice or maybe really good at maths others are just natural athletes... the problem is when we don't appreciate what we are born with and would rather have what another person has... first of all that's not living in gratitude because clearly you're not grateful for what you already have so how can the universe bless you with more if you don't already appreciate what you were given to at birth? And another thing I believe is if we're all unique and different in our own ways how can we compete? It's like flowers every flower is different but they're all beautiful in their own way. When I was little I used to go to friends houses who had divorced parents and I was jealous because they got spoilt twice as much and I used to wish my parents were divorced so I could also be double spoilt by my adopted parents and also I came from an unhappy house... they eventually divorced but by that time I was older and no longer needed the entire barbie collection... but as I got older I realised the secret to getting more blessings from the universe is love and cherish what you are already blessed with and the universe will bless you with so much more.
that was so genuine
You're so underrated guuurrl
HowToDoThings ENG ahhh thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you darling 😘 It helped me a lot ❤️
WOW! Thank You!
I Love your expessions
You seem kind. All the best in everything you do!
I know you've stolen my heart Chengi!
Berry Punch 🤗🤗🤗
Hello Queen, how do you handle this at corporate?
Omg, what a great video!!! The combination of hard swallowing/ smacking is annoying though lol...new subbie 😁😀
Tamara Haskins haha welcome my lovely! 🤗🤗😍
😂😂😍
You are in ultimate feminine 😆😆❤
You are amazing💕
Best story ever
Erica Terry amen 😘
Right on sis
I know it's old, but I love that shirt! What's the brand?
H.S. Henry it’s a dress from Zara ❤️
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy thanks!
🙂🙂🌍🤲🏼
Are you from Britain?
Bob Rob yes!
NO SHES NOT...TRUST ME...SHE HAS PRACTICED HER VOICE TONE SO LONG THAT EVEN SHE THINKS ITS REAL...VIDEO IS POSITIVE BUT ITS ALMOST AS IF SHES TRYING SO HARD TO B SOMETHG SHES REALLY NOT...NO SHADE BUT IT FEELS TO ME AS IF SHES FORCING HERSLF TO TALK LIKE THAT...SO SUPERFICIAL...VERY ANNOYING....ITS LIKE WIN A FEM BUYS HAIR WEAVE & PUTS IT ON HER HEAD??? SHE BELIEVES ITS HERS BECAUSE SHE BOUGHT IT!? & SHE COMBS IT AS IF IT GREW FROM HER SCALP??? PRETENDING TO B SUMTHG UR NOT N TODAYS WORLD IS REALITY 4 MOST YET UNAUTHENTIC/SYTHETIC....DO U GET WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY???? NO HATE ON HER...I JUST WISH BLK WOMEN WERE MORE AUTHENTIC FROM HEAD TO TOE? INCLUDING MIND BODY & SPIRIT....THE WHOLE PACKAGE NOT PART PACKAGED???? IJS....😁😒😒
Reed you must be a sad person on this side of the internet. Jealousy is a thing.