Are Mothers Are Making Daughter Angry? ©
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KS: "Are you raising your daughter to be a wife?"
Her: "yes she's on the honor roll"
Thats like me saying I'm raising my child to be a chef because he got his driver's license
😂😂.. I heard him ask her then she replied then paused the vid & went to the comments & seen/read ya comment 1st ..
Lmfao
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I’m raising my child to be a software engineer…he has an email
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the mom is single so the daughter doesn’t see how a wife behaves. Children learn the most from their parents when they observe their actions and behaviors.
Exactly, she is showing to her daughter how horrible is been a Single mother. If the mother hates been a wife, what can we wait for her daughter?
Thank u Nikki someone said it
Absolutely
In the video she stated she was with her daughters father for 13 years and married for 5. He died 2 years ago unfortunately. I saw this live on IG. So the daughters do have some experience of witnessing the married couple dynamic and some family structure.
TRUTH!
I think one thing KS has opened my eyes to realizing, is how important each parent is in a childs life. Too much of any one parent causes an imbalance in the childs rearing. Too much mothering isnt good, too much fathering isnt good either. You need both to play their roles. Father provides practicality, mother provides nurturing and humanity. Both are of great importance for a healthy stable adult.
Agree. I’m raising my daughter after retirement from the Army. I’ve had her since she was three and she’s 11 now. The “soft” skills don’t come to me naturally now after serving in an Army at war for my last 16 years, Ranger, airborne, etc. As much as I don’t care for her mother I broke down and told her mother she needs to get more involved in her life cause there are things I can’t teach her.
True. But statistically speaking, single dads produce productive citizens at a higher rate. Single moms produce criminals with mental illnesses. But both mother and father is best
After age 7 mom should sit in the back seat
Yes!!!!! Here is the kick in the head, just because the child is female doesn't mean she will inherent DNA that causes her to act like her mother. She could look every bit like the mother but have her father's personality.
Secretly the mother wants her daughters to dislike men! It worked to the point that one is playing for the same team 🤷🏽♂️ Single mothers groom their daughters to not like men since momma cant keep a man or husband. The daughters will die alone or become lesbian.
Kudos to the caller for being respectful, humble and a good listener.
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That's pretty bare minimum but okay
@@juliusstewart5454 I concur.
Maybe what should be par, but don't discredit it. Bae steps.
@@juliusstewart5454 yes, and currently most people don't share these qualities.
Well, I once talked to a girl that hated her Dad because he was just a worker! The mom told her not to settle for a man like her Dad, the dad is the same man that paid for her medical degree and brought her to all levels of education. The mom hate the father because he's not a graduate but the fact that he doesn't even know that the women in his life doesn't even appreciate him that's damn bad.
Yho this hurts a lot, whether my Dad is a garbage man or a guy who sells in the streets it wouldn't matter as long as he is present in my life. The daughter is so ungrateful yho my heart even hurts. The mom is a bad influence. The girl should really really be greaful for her Dad he did an amazing job🤴🏾🌠
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🤔 maybe we should tell him... It's not fair the man has no idea the women he does so much for don't appreciate him...A woman can damn near be a drug addicted, kleptomaniac stripper who abandoned you at birth and the world will say you should love her just because she's your mother... That man deserves to know and have a choice who his Love, time, energy and money goes to.... He should KNOW.....
I have had a similar experience. There was a girl I knew who hated her dad because he was a straight, virtuous man with integrity who refused to take any bribes or be a part of any corruption. Her mother hated him too. They were normal middle class people and she had almost all the comforts that a person required. I excused myself and actively avoided her after that.
Westernism has really given far too many women false impressions what they should expect out of life versus what they put into life.
Trust me he knows, or he just a beta male, I guarantee they talk to him all kind of crazy ways it sound like the wife cheats 🤔😁
“You let a women talk long enough and they tell on themselves.”
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That anybody most ppl will tell on themselves if let them rumble alone...
...or illustrate the flaws in the logic of their argument.
yup ..men too,, Especially these days some
Men are being programmed to be more feminine unfortunately 😕
I always tell people to just let people talk cause they wind up telling on themselves lol
I learned this long ago from watching hella court shows. The females be having perfect cases and be well mannered. The guy be kinda loose, looking tired, and looking a bit upset/angry. I would walk away thinking the women have this in the bag. Come back and the female has lost and lost her damn mind. I would rewind it and literally watch the women slowly reveal their true selves.
They see their daughters as competition and sabotage them. no way in hell is she allowed
To do better than mom.
Emphatically YES they are failing our daughters!
@Tracy Mclean so mad so sad. It’s going to be interesting to read the articles of all the lonely old ladies over the next several decades. It’s well earned.
@Tracy Mclean Woman removes man from the household via divorce >>> Woman fights for full custody of the child in family court that 90% of the time she wins >>>>> Financially cripples said father of their child because they can and are “strong and independent single mothers”
Tracy dumb ass response: Why aren’t the fathers raising the children?! 🥴🥴🥴 Idiot.
@Tracy Mclean you would have to be an empty bobble head to follow KS. No one wants an uneducated wife raising their legacy or managing their personal or business finances, smh. Curious I didn't hear KS say his daughter was married?
@@elliejayjayusa a wife doesn’t need a degree for any of that.
@@elliejayjayusa she needs education on how to be a wife and raise a family with the man as the leader in the home. Human nature.
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I've seen mothers fail their daughters on purpose out of jealousy. I've had so many girlfriends mothers who didn't stop until they broke us up. Now their baby mama's and side chicks. And I told them what their mothers were doing and they just refused to believe me.
Same here
NIGWARD nah ujust got no dad lol
Your so right about this.
Factz! Older women really be in competition with their daughters…
@@SugedaBoss1 facts
And she isn't even teaching her daughter about fitness. Setting her up for failure
I mean they learning from her it’s all about getting the bag 💰 from a baller ⛹🏾♂️
The Bible is the perfect guide to life! My hubby & I instills into our daughter to marry & follow a man who follows God! Any other way, usually doesn’t wk…
Amen. Following that puts life on easy mode. People don't understand that. You don't have as much crap to sort through in life and are free to be productive and peaceful.
Yes!!! My husband and I are expecting our first child and the Bible will be our guide too. Not what the world says.
@@hometowngirlncurls5669 Beautiful! Congratulations as well! ; ]
@@depletable thank you!! 😊
Facts!
What I've learned from Kevin after these months of watching his content is that I have to be really accountable for my behavior as a parent on so many levels. Poor choices are almost like a family curse.
All that stuff my mom taught me about being an independent woman, I had to unlearn that and learn how to be a wife..
I resigned from my job and I work from home taking care of my husband, myself and our home.
oh,. my,.
Same .
can you collect SNAP from home?
Kevin you have truly opened my eyes and taken me from Disney Fairy Princess delusion to some real hardcore reality.. I’ll take real over fake any day… You’re helping women.. Black women in particular… Don’t ever let them tell you you’re not! 💯
I already have my daughters, both under 2, watching me do everything. Cook and clean and learning to enjoy it because I make it fun. We listen to music and enjoy the time. I have a masters in tech, I guess I’m part of the 6% lol, but always was ready to get married and prepared to stay home with the kids. So far, my husband and I have a great system going on and I pray he and I are and continue to provide the proper example for them so they can have healthy, successful marriages when they are adults.
Ameen to you sister! My wife and I do the same thing for our son, who iss now 18, and hopefully inculcate the values that will enable him to have a good living standard life that we currently enjoy. At the same time, I talk to my parents about issues encountered with life in general and always appreciate their advice, even if I don't always implement it. Remember, once the children grow up and become their own individuals, it's still parents responsibility to be there and continue to shape them as adults, but give them the freedom to live their own lives, make their own mistakes and allow tthem the opportunity to learn for themselves.
Good but keep in mind whether your marriage lasts is largely up to you. Why? Because women are the ones that typically leave rather than stay for many reasons but that means it’s on you.
Please save your daughters from the bs of the modern world
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Love that you made the decision and sacrifice to stay at home and run the business that is the home.
Kevin: "Does your daughter cook" She: "Yeah she is cooking right now" Daughter proceeds to stand in the kitchen and do absolutely nothing😂😂
At least she was trying to “Sell” it 😂😂
Maybe Waiting on the microwave 🤔
While on social media and checking grown folks business. 😅😅🤣🤣🤣😂😂😆😆😆
It doesn't take much to cook from a box.
Just Us lmao yes there was Stfu w your excuses
I'm a single father of sorts as I am raising my daughters in my home without their mother. I am not raising my girls to be independent or masculine. I'm raising girls that a man would be happy to call their wife. Now what they do when they are adults is beyond my control and I know that. My girls are 12 and 9 years old. The 12 year old cooks so well that she was invited to the TV show Chopped Jr last year. The 9 year old has just come on board with her desire to cook well. They both clean at a higher level and are fit since I am prior military. I try my best to make those tasks normal and not something that they dread. I don't know 100% if I'm getting that right yet. The best thing that I teach them is through my actions as a man that wants nothing from them. I love them for who they are as I mold them. My presence in their lives teaches them the value of a man. I could go on and on but my girls want to be wives and mommies above anything else.
Proud of you, man 👍💪🏻
Well said sir couldn't say it better myself
Excellent
I used very old school words with them to scold them like “no man wants a wife that can’t do X”. I also let them know that as their father I would be ashamed if they did X.
Now I’m not a tyrant and understand that they are going to want to explore themselves and their desires. I DON’T hamper that in any way. I let them know what I would be dishonored by as their father. I think that’s working.
So im a little confused. Are you just raising your girls for another man or for them? What hobbies do they have on their own besides cooking and cleaning? When shit get tough and you're not around are they only gonna rely on some random dude's thinking to get by?
She wants her daughter to make the same mistakes she made. almost like watching her daughter run face first into a door and knowing it’s there. Prob got scarred by her father.
No good mother wants that for their child, she just doesn't know how to guide her daughter because she probably wasn't guided by her mother either
It's nice to see that she's open to learning and was being receptive instead of getting defensive or disrespectful
Did you really have to blame the mom's poor skills on the father? How bout the mom's father.
These women are failing their daughters epically. She almost blurted out “I want her to be strong and independent” but realized that wasn’t going to fly with KS. 🤣🤣🤣
Right. Women need men, whether they like it or not. My mom is older and in no mans land. She asked me to do something around the house that was physically taxing on a females body. I told her call on of her guy’s friends to do that. She noticing she has none. I then told her “ you know I’m female right, my mom just looked at me. Growing up, I was bob the builder around the house and to other single “strong independent”women in the apartment buildings. However, I’ve paid deep consequences for my actions that have resulted multiple injures that was never cared for as a young child. That effected my development and quantity of life and has required corrective surgeries as an adult that I’ve had to pay for. Not only has this effected me financially, buts it’s effected my credit, over all health, ability to work, sexual market place value, my time (most of my 20s being sick and recovering from surgeries, when I should have been out trying to meet a hubby). I’m now 29 trying to make up for lost time . Raising a daughters to be “strong and independent” , is sabotage.
Truth… i heard lol her
I caught that too. Lmao
@@avig8334 Now imagine not being able to get those surgeries to correct the damage due to not being able to miss out on working (which just compounds tbe damage) and you'll truly understand what it's like to be a man.
@@raybrown5587 indeed. I’m so very grateful 😇.To have seen the opportunity to correct my situation. And still have a chance.
She said "she's cooking now "while the microwave goes off in the background 🤣
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well thats cooking nowadays, actual cooking would be awesome though
Hot Pockets
You know you have to microwave something to warm it up while you’re cooking. For example, when I make homemade bread, I heat up my water in the microwave so it’s the perfect temperature. What can you cook?
@@SynterraSteen Ma'am stop it
Kevin is unique, I love his content for me a learning experience!!!
Every time.💯💯💯💯💯
I’m learning so much from him.
Kevin is a voice. There are so many things that is already in men but society and women pushed them to the the background, and don't want to hear it
It tells me all the time single mother’s raising kids modern woman rather be baby momma then a wife smh
@@tramekn he is The Godfather
She has no idea what it takes to be a wife
None whatsoever
Clueless 🕵️♀️
Just loved how her daughter was listening! She was learning!
She's lived her own life and enjoyed her own men and seen all the downsides (AKA gotten tired) then she protects her daughters from that experience. The cycle of foolishness continues
But she’s not really protecting her because she encouraged the daughter to date until 30 years old (meaning: experience different men/ride the corndog carousel) before getting married.
@@R_W_Goodson That's right. She thinks she's protecting her daughters from what she experienced as the downside of committing to a man, which was more or less her own poor decisions or inability to manage a relationship. But of course she doesn't see it that way. She sees that the men were the problem and therefore don't deserve committed women.
This is just another autopilot of binary gender relationship disaster in the community. If it runs for another 2 generations, there'll be no het options left.
Spare us the lecture noob
@@bobbycaldbell3915 At least you learned something
The marathon continues 🏁
Bruh i have a lil sister; my mom was married to our dad and divorced cus of excess cheating. Now my mom is a Modern Woman, weight issues, and recently referred to her simps as “slaves” while speaking to my sis.
I make sure to be the successful brother to try and teach my sis to remain skinny, and occasionally talk to her about who she dates.
She divorced her daughters' father after only 5 years of marriage. The discussion really begins and end there with respect to whether she can effectively train her younger daughter to be a good wife for a man.
Ironically, she probably has (unintentionally) done a better job training her older daughter to be a good wife for another woman than she has done with training her younger daughter to be a good wife for a man.
Her oldest daughter likes women 😏
@@codeworldentertainment4890 - Which is why I previously said her older daughter would probably be a better wife to another WOMAN than her younger daughter would be for a man.
@@codeworldentertainment4890 Im sure the daughters dislike for men came from her mom so she picked women. The mom groomed the daughter to be with women.
Yeah she's training her daughter for another woman, until either of them become another statistic for domestic abuse.
Spot On OG, setting her daughter up for a life of relationship failure and self sabotage.
I’m 31 and the women in my family told me to do the same thing even though they’re all married. I’m literally trying to pick a man off a tree at this point. It’s exhausting I wish I would’ve started younger
My mother hated my father. And always told me bad things about him even tho he never divorced her and paid the rent. My mother had a masters... but she always felt like she got married too soon, at 22.
Women stay married because it makes them look good in public. But a lot of them secretly wish they could leave their man.
Do they teach this current generation of women to be single longer.
Proof that you women do not need to be leading anything. You all need men and guidance
*THE WALL* is coming.
Dating after 30 is terrible
I know what you mean and it's terrible
@@ahmllc27 unless you're a man with his shit together. Then it's playing on easy.
Before I met my husband, I thought similarly, because I let the wound of growing up without my father control my whole life, and I hated men. I met him when I was 19 and my heart opened. The wound has healed with having a man in my life.
I think single mothers should definitly focus on building a better bond between their daughters & their fathers.
As did I.
Kevin is the goat . 🐐 alot of respect 🙏.
The Godfather going too work on these modern woman 👩🏽
I feel like this woman she was attempting to give Kevin the answers he wanted without understanding what he has been saying this whole time.
😅nice one.....tru!😆
@@crackcassidy9833 that blank stare on her face says it all! She's probably a fool deep down
I've said it before and I'll say it again, this man is divine! Divine.
Thanks to Kevin I randomly say “Imma PhD” in my head about 50 times a day lol
I be telling random strangers " Buy a dog , DIE ALONE 🤣🤣🤣
That soundbite is funny as hell 😂😂😂
😁👩🎓😁
I catch myself saying "U can't make this shit up" out loud in public several times a day
@@someishtrippin mannnnn 😂😂😂😂
The divorce rate says mothers teach daughters to get while the getting is good, run when the easy picking is done.
The title alone is a definite hell yeah!
At least they don’t have a habit of abandoning their daughters
"You submit to the god in your husband". As a follower of Jungian psychology, I approve.
Most women don't seem to understand that by age 30, 90% of their eggs are gone.
Damn thats deep
They DON 'T WANT to understand that fact.
Yes but you can have kids until your late 40s as long as you’re healthy. Most women in my county have kids later in life without any problems..
Shit even sperm quality goes done by 30s
You literally only need one egg to fertilize lol
My mom had me at 33...
This show about to be lit 🔥some women about to get in their feelings about this topic
“Nothing that you said tells her how to cooperate with a man”...
I sure hope so. Its been boring round here lately 😴
Oh, you already know🤣
She said, "to be submissive to him as you she would to god!" Yet, she is teaching her daughter to soil her oats until she has virtually to offer a man who wants to build a raise a family.
Why would a woman be submissive to you? I'm really curious 🤔?
@@elliejayjayusa why would a man want to marry YOU? I'm curious.
@@elliejayjayusa - To submit means to agree.
Over a period of 1.5 years she had the opportunity to judge me based on my words and deeds.
My wife is extremely smart and courageous. She wanted a different life compared to her mother and siblings.
30-years of marriage, 4 successful adult children, 2 beautiful grand-babies...we did something right.
@@andreaa.1393 For caring, competent leadership whatever he needs.
@@tsmithdir she is smart, she said yes to you. Who made the first move? Did she just watch you for 1.5 yrs or you dated that long. If you, what made you approach her? I got a couple of young gfs wanting to be married.
I love listening to this brother. How he verbally stands up for men, how he has not given up on marriage, and how he tries to get women on a middle ground with men. I may now have a vasectomy and dont believe in marriage but this brother brings hope that things will get better for men and women of the future✊😎
Wooow this is probably my favorite clip out of them all! I was on the phone with my cousin speaking on this exact topic and then hung up and saw this upload like it was a God send! Sent it to her and I truly think she is about to make a 180 after these last 4 hours she experienced between me and then the best reiteration possible! The Godfather is undefeated! Thank you for giving me the structure to my long term belief system, in a way that I can help my female family members efficiently! Wow!
"She's cooking right now", meanwhile she's in the back eating popcorn. 🍿
Must have been doing a 3 course meal and popcorn was the starter
Maybe she was just making a snack. You never eat snacks?
@@SynterraSteen
For the most part, No
But if your making snacks I'll have some or a sandwich 😁
Funny observation but I eat while I cook especially snacks
KS: are you raising your daughter to be a wife?
Her: uhhh..no but she has a brilliant personality
Oh did I mention she’s an honor student which means nothing
well having a good personality is a start. thats rare these days
@@suntzu94 Honor student means something.
@@nursemcfarlane6655 unless your “honor student” is curing cancer, achieving world peace or flying someone to the moon it’s just a title on a piece of paper.
@@suntzu94Honor student traits are focus and discipline. Probably all of the people who cured illnesses, achieved world peace and flew to moon were honor students at one time or another. Many of the people behind the scenes of the famous, inspirational people were previously honor students. Every parent I have met with a honor student child is so proud. It provides many with opportunities including scholarships and leaving poverty. Honor role child is out the house by age 21. In most cases only good comes from it. Most ethnic group come from a whole different country encourage and instill honor roll values in their child. Within one generation their child is a boss, director etc...That title on a piece of paper provides opportunities and option even to people who just arrived in this country.
This is the main reasons why relationships are in shambles today, this new ongoing trend of single Baby Boomer women leaning on their children for somewhere to stay.
Even when they don't live with you, they are giving bad advice to younger women.
It fascinates me when Boo mers have it so bad, since they voted themselves all the money since the early seventies without hardly any of the costs....
A good parent teaches their children, male & female to be able to support themselves. For my daughter, she’s been taught that marriage is not necessarily the end-all, be-all. She alone is responsible for her happiness & that any man that comes into her life is to ENHANCE her happiness…. Not subtract from it! (Speaking primarily of her emotional health/ peace of mind). She has been taught that any relationship that is not mutually beneficial should end. The Bible speaks highly of a ‘Capable Wife’ in Proverbs chapter 31 and describes how a good wife behaves. She is hard-working, motivated & is trusted to handle certain business affairs independently of her husband…. But to his benefit (as it is to the entire family)! At the end of the day, my children, my daughter especially have been taught to care for themselves which is basic life skills. No parent should apologize for that.
Your rant lacks focus. Let's just zero in on woman for now - the main goal for a woman supporting herself is to tend to her basic needs and instincts. One of a woman's most prominent instincts is to be a mother - maternal. How shall a woman engage in this instinct by herself?
@@curaze : I disagree. Not all women wish to be a mother. Not all women wish to be married. Neither of those things is necessary for happiness. At the end of the day, a woman’s first responsibility is to her own happiness. She needs to understand what she needs to be truly happy and IF she wishes to marry…… find a man that is compatible & supportive. The exact same is true for men. And if both the man & woman in the relationship have REAL love for each other (real love as described in the Bible), both of them will be so focused on caring for each other this whole argument is pointless! Additionally, my daughter has been raised to seek out emotionally mature, respectful , God-fearing men. Men who have proven by their actions & decision-making to be worthy of her trust. Once she finds such a man (And sadly, it’s a lot harder than y’all want to believe) they will make a great team! They will work hard to make sure the other is always ‘good’ and that the family is straight. Doesn’t get any better than that!
@@curaze : And I disagree with what has been stated in this video: teaching your daughters to value education & seek a fulfilling career = she’ll never marry! #1 - Parents are supposed to encourage their children to be their best selves! That’s basic. #2 - raising a daughter to be a wife is ridiculous because she may not want to be a wife/mother!! Children should be raised to whole & self-reliant…… and to seek out others who are whole & self-reliant. That’s the problem for a lot of men!
They are NOT whole (emotionally, mentally, spiritually or financially). They are NOT self-reliant! They realize that more black women have valued education & have better careers…. Make more money and are trying to latch on to them. Or, realize that they can’t keep up with her so they make this argument! (‘Don’t grow past me because I can’t keep up…… so I have no choice but to try to put you down for doing what you should…… because I haven’t!).
As individuals, work at being your best and find someone that matches your effort! When you find that person, do right by them and they should do the same for you. It’s not rocket science!
@@deirdrebarley-cooper5698 You do not disagree with me because I didn't make that claim. In general, women want to be mothers. How shall this desire be achieved alone?
@@curaze : Interesting! If you have been either unwilling or unable to understand that I’ve more than answered your question, I see no need to continue. Wish you the best.
From my experience mother’s do destroy their daughters. It’s very unfortunate I had to experience it. Not only mothers but friends and family members too. Especially if they are women. Good luck ladies!
My mother hates men and I felt that and it ruined my sister
He stumped her with the very 1st question. Sad🤦🏾♂️
Him: Can your daughter cook?
Her: Yes… She’s pushing buttons on the microwave right now.
That ain’t cooking Bish!!!!!!!
I mean cooking like that even a 5 year old can cook just putting a plate of food and pushing a button 😂
Look at her face she learned from the best 🤣🤣🤣
I didn't come with the full 'wife' package, but I busted my butt to fill in the spots where I was lacking. I took college courses in nutrition to better feed my family. I took classes in home economics and cooking. Now, not only do know how to feed a human adult, but I also understand the needs of children at different stages of development and can feed individuals for their specific medical situations. I've read TONS of books on childhood diseases and I'm pretty fair at diagnosing them. (I also know when to say, "Get that kid to the doctor! NOW!!"
Further, I took a course in butchery. I know how to break down a steer or a pig and how to process and preserve meat for the long-term. One Christmas my husband bought me an incredible set of butcher knives and they're proudly displayed on my dining room wall.
It took many years for my husband to understand that I'd actually developed real skills. Now it amazes him that I can get a stain out of anything and patch a jacket so that the rip is invisible. Last year my daughter brought over my granddaughter and a dead rabbit. She marched through the door and said it was time for grandma to teach the child how to skin, dress, break down, and cook the animal.
I was thrilled. We made an entire afternoon out of it. My granddaughter loved it and now knows how to make baked bunny/rice casserole. This winter I'm going to teach her how to make my special chicken soup that I call "An IV in a bowl." Guaranteed to soothe and nourish the sickest human being. (Lots of potassium. Low in allergens.)
I homeschooled our kids and cared for our special needs son. My greatest reward came one night when he and I were cooking. He blurted out, "I just wanted to thank you for being my mother. Had I been given to any other woman, I wouldn't have been okay. God knew what He was doing when he entrusted you with my soul."
I damn near bawled right there.
Motherhood is usually a thankless job (especially in this day and age) and it takes strength to maintain focus even when society is belittling you for your choice of career. I don't regret my decision.
@@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 This is what call commitment. You made a PhD out of being a wife. What's your approach to homeschooling? Basics to have or subjects to teach first? My spouse and I have thought of it but we both have full time jobs.
Also do you know a book that sums up the course you took on feeding a child at diffeent development stages?
As for the recipe that can basically bring back the sickly, we have soups made with lots of garlic, what do you have in yours?
To the women and orbiters who still use SIGN language and try to slander KS , question : are the 1.16 Millions people All lying and bitter when they say the modern Women is lost and out of order ? Most of us don't view this for shock value
Yes
@@chrismizuno239 🅱️ETA
@@alexisorarian1587 Ikr. Buddy has some big beta male energy going on there
@@alexisorarian1587 take the bass out of your voice, boy.
How would you know if ALL of his followers say that? I know for a fact that all of them don't lol. What percentage is 1.16M to the entire world population? Does his content really represent the majority?
The simple fact that this woman was receptive to the knowledge means she's already halfway there 👍
"But what do you tell her to do for a man?"
"To be submissive"
I ducked because I swear lightning was about to shoot out of my computer.
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@Freedmans Journal 🤣🤣. I feel your vibe!🤣🤣
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Shout out to the sister for being so receptive. ❤️
She's so cute
I am a married father of 2 daughters.
My oldest daughter is 12 and the other is 4.
She cooks, cleans, hugs me after I come home from work (once I take my shoes off), hands me the TV remote, and brings me drinks and snacks when I text her from the spare bedroom where I work on the computer (that was *her* idea by the way. She pops her head in, hands me what I asked for, and waves before leaving and more.
Now that I think about it, I wonder what the other people in the virtual meetings think about that. My drink is empty on camera, it disappears, and then it reappears full again. Hahaha.
I'm thinking she is at the age when she should start writing a book of "Letters to My Future Husband" like the one her Mother wrote and gave me on our wedding day.
I make no apologies for making it clear that I am raising her to be "Super Wife". That is the goal and it's clearly expressed. She is determined to meet that goal. Not just because her Mother and I encourage her to but because she sees how miserable and worse off her rebellious aunt is, especially compared to the married ones.
By the way, she has hyper sensitive taste buds so she can't eat most things as the flavors overwhelm her. She makes delicious dinners with her mother and then eats whatever she is hungry for. My point is, that doesn't stop her from cooking so I can't help but laugh when women come on here who only know how to use the microwave.
Yes sir! and make sure her future husband meets the bar be involved! Till the marriage
You don’t know what that girl was cooking. She could have been heating up water for fresh bread for all you know.
She in the back like "yall just gonna talk about me like im not here"
Mothers always talk about the kids right within earshot! Idk why they do like it doesn't effect them. A lot even be screamers in bed with the kids in the bedroom next door.
At the very beginning I was like why's that person being such a creep in the background. Makes sense now lol
Had I come into my relationship with my (now) husband with $140,000 in student loan debt, he never would've been able to marry me. It's a hell of a burden to put on someone. This is why women are all saying that the man has to make $250,000 a year. That's what it would take for one man to provide a house, two cars, food, medical, utilities, cell phones, AND two massive student loan payments. It's an insurmountable hurdle for the average person.
About fifteen years ago my niece called me, bawling her eyes out. The boyfriend she'd been living with had finally broke down and told her that he was never going to marry her... because she had $100,000 in student loan debt... and didn't even have a bachelors yet. She couldn't even afford to make her own payments. There just wasn't enough money for the load they both had PLUS children.
The funny thing is that I'd been uneasy about the student loans she'd been taking out when she was taking them. I kept asking her if she was SURE and forcing her to actually think about her earning potential. "Are those loans going to pay for themselves AND give you the life you would've had without them?"
She's now almost 40. Beautiful woman. Single. Childless. Never married. But hey! She finally got her BS! Now she can spend the rest of her life living alone, working for a company instead of working for her family... So much better... (that's sarcasm, in case anyone can't tell.)
And yes. She has a cat.
This caller got her daughter her in the back soaking it all up like: "pls help.. Kevin SAVE ME."
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She wasn’t listening at all 😂😂
The big big issue with modern women is that most of them were raised by mothers who themselves weren’t wives. Single mothers, masculine, career/job-driven. So they pass that nonsense mentality on.
Before all of the factors that drove wages down (including globalism, oligarchic lawmaking, automation, and massive increases of women in the labor market), the years of education that a woman had, and her income, was a negative predictor of being married. The idea was that men would take care of the money making and women would be their support, and that women who didn’t land the man who could provide for a family went on to provide for themselves.
Now, women will decide that they can do it all on their own, leave their Child’s father, and try to do everything. Then they fill them up with this provide for yourself at all cost, feminist mentality that programs them to hate men, and the cycle continues.
Yes I just got back to having a relationship with my mom because of my childhood. I see how my grandma and grandpa do their marriage and I want to be like them further down the road. I’m married now and my husband has opened my eyes to a lot of things.
She abandoned you, sad, your momma and daddy left you. Who raised you, maternal or paternal grandparents? Who helped place you, mom or dad? I'm so happy you're healing your relationship, bitterness taste so nasty.
@@elliejayjayusa my mom came back after I was raised by my grandparents. I couldn’t trust her for a long time I’m just now getting back cool with her and my dad. I couldn’t trust her because I was molested and raped by my female cousin my cousin convinced my mom and other family members otherwise.
@@leelee5593 wow, I'm so terribly sorry that happened to you. My dad was like , NOPE, I will raise my own kids, so he got custody of me and brother, he couldn't boil water, so he hired a nanny. My mom started having a relationship with us after she and her father started to heal their relationship. Her mother's 2nd husband abused them, her, her brother and sister, great grandmother caught him in the act but it had gone on for a considerable time. Kick in the head, my grandfather left his 6 kids to go and take care of another man's 6 kids. So my Dad was like nope, I got this. We were in the courtroom the judge Asked who was taking physical custody, my mom, Dad, and one of her sisters discussed it and he got us. My young friend has 5 daughters by 3 different men, the oldest one wanted her daddy, she was about 10. Did your Dad pass? Congratulations on healing.
@@elliejayjayusa no my dad isn’t dead we are repairing our relationship and that’s great glad y’all dad raised y’all
@@leelee5593 Dads are very important, so glad you are repairing the relationship.
This is exactly what I went through in my last relationship. The mother was the worst.
The most attractive thing this woman said this call was “well teach me.” Like wow.
I literally just went through this for 8 years with a women wow Kevin thank you sir for opening my eyes in a whole new way it’s greatly appreciated
I truly miss this man..
These single moms are failing and the truth hurts
This topic almost made me cry, great job Kevin love your content.
What was so tough about this conversation?
@@AskAW maybe because I can relate to the topic of mothers failing their daughters?
@@bonnielove4679 I could have guessed that from your comment. Some people cant read between the lines lol smh.
This is a master class. Ladies, please listen to this and allow it to permeate into you. Do not fear the message. It will only grow you and destroy many myths that you have been given since birth. Be blessed!
Kevin (Godfather ) need his TV show . Dr Phil is a waste.
The gynocentric media will never allow that.
Kevin, you and Vansant need to team up together on TV.
Totally agree!
Cable tv is a must.
My mom is like this. "Focus on your education first," she says. "Finding a husband is important, but I hope your not focusing on that anytime time soon," she says. Mom, I'm 19, the wall will be fast approaching by the time I'm 25. An education and a good job will not bring me long term happiness or satisfaction. If I don't focus on being a helpmate to my future husband now, then when? I'm so so thankful I found Kevin's videos, or my priorities would still be misplaced. Lord help me when my mom finds out I mostly stayed in college to find a husband 😂
oh,. my,. really,.
W human
She raising a good employee not a wife
*Kevin said this would be one of his most important shows and he was right!* He got to the issue for why my last girlfriend and I broke up @2:20:00 when he said that mother's can take up your emotional availability; especially that mother's make their daughters into mirrors of themselves. My ex still lives with her mother. I wanted us to move-in together but her mother filled her head with all of her doubts and regrets for marrying her father, besides taking up all her emotional availability. Her mom wants to keep her at home to be handmaid, but of course saying this is offensive.
True indeed. Many mothers are raising their daughters to be their emotional caregivers and not a fully functioning adult which leaves no room for a man. The daughters end up being single, alone and lonely.
God forbid something happen to the mother because then the hot mess of a daughter is now unleashed on the world ill-prepared for life and relationships. She in essence is a child in a grown woman’s body and the generational curse continues.
Don't ask ur gf to move in, marry her first, or that makes no difference with you and her mother wanting to be around to be a housemaid.
@@hove785 If you must know, she wouldn't marry first because of all the nonsense her mom put in her head. Moving in was a half-step, but even that was "too much." Looking back, I'm glad I'm rid of them both!
@@kirbyaugustine761 Kevin said as much in the show, that "generational cycle" is hard to break and is the root of many of the problems today. Indeed, my ex lives like a child; sadly, there are far too many girls like her in their 20s out here.
I'm going through the same thing
This was a great call.
Mothers, Aunties, Big Momma's...All the Bitter Betty's & Negative Nancy's Fail Us ALL!
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One of my first questions I ask a woman when I see that we have an interest in each other is" were your born/raised to struggle or through love !"...I get many different answers
I like that question.
I don't understand, struggle or through. What does that mean?
Your parents can provide you unconditional love, but life still may have had a lot of struggles.
Do you ask the question the same way to a younger woman versus an older woman you're interested in
I think nothing wrong in being able to stand on your own two feet if needed.there can be times when your husband needs support ,as a grown woman you can do it for both of you till you reach the other side.
Kevin is preaching to the choir. I wish someone would have told me this when I was younger. I promise I wouldn't have gone to college at all. Now I have BS and MBA making max at 40.000 at this point.
woooooooooow. why
What degree did you get?
@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 bachelor of Science psychology. And MBA business administration
@@semdavidanger my Theory is undergraduate degree in psychology only puts u in social work. Social workers don't make much money even management is around 50 to 60 thousand a year. My masters degree is in business, I'm a very Disciplined woman, but I'm not very Assertive. U need to be more assertive in business. I haven't been successful with actually getting work in that field. My guess I didn't pick the right degree . I should have focused my attention elsewhere. I'm a very sensitive woman, business is no place for me. I didn't Make the right choices For my future. The way I see it some ppl have no business being in college, college has become big business . We women were deceived into thinking a college education would somehow make us superior and give us power. It didn't it just gave us Debt.!!!
@@gracelove1842 There are 50 states in the USA. Take your degree anywhere you need to build confidence to make it work.
I appreciate her honesty.
Too bad this wasn't taught to my mom in church. Everyone smiled at her and told her to pray for her children's spouses.
It pains me to see how lost these women are.
Every mother need to watch this video. Thank you Kevin. Donate!!!!
Kevin u r sooo good at what u do. I told a friend I wanted her to tune in to your show. She had nothing good to say about the premise of your show! But she watched a few episodes and she is hooked! All praises due to Kevin. Amen.
Young women are being raised to be self sufficient so that puts her first. Young men are being raised to make women share 50/50 of the relationship in the household. The key is to grow together!
I know my mother failed me!
These mothers are a disease to a future generation, hope you tell her that
Now it’s left to you to not make the same mistake if it’s not too late. If you have children, make sure they don’t make the same mistakes.
@@fejukas1 I would have to disagreed mothers was taught what was handed down to them...
What are you doing to be better?
Kudos to this woman for calling in and having this conversation so that she could learn and her daughter could as well.
She was beautiful and a woman not a man. She was humble and lovely, and never masculine or combative. We need more women like this in our lives, the world, and household's would be better.
Fellas this is another reason why we must I mean we must take back our homes and communities!! If not we’re done. Family is the cornerstone of the community!!
Oh wow the daughter looks exactly like her. I hope she guides her daughter in the right direction 🙏
@@malikwilson7387 no.
One of the two daughters is already into women. The mother has an agenda
That ain't a good thing. Mom is not hot at all.
@@elliejayjayusa yes
She was a great listener, and I can tell she was digesting instead of being on the defense.
Thank God I dont have student loan debt. Hopefully my future hubby appreciates how frugal i am that Im debt free! it hasnt been easy.
I see this senerio play out sooo many times on the Dave Ramsey show.... GUYS if she has student debt just know that that is now YOUR debt!!! Check that credit report lol
And we should do the same to the men!
@@layo5750 yeah but women hold the majority of the student loan debt. And this specific scenario plays out A LOT! Independent strong woman goes to college acquires a shi*t load of debt all of a sudden maybe she doesn’t want to be in corporate America she wants to be a stay at home mom so she finds a sucka to take on all her debt for her
Kevin was and still is the Goat!! 🙏🏽❤
My daughter is just now pregnant at 32 after 4 years of infertility. Genetic tests are normal. I'm grateful to God even though she's "old".
"Today's mamas raising their sons to be "son husband's" - lol - truth
Yup my bm is doing that and I can't say nothing shit is so frustrating
Mother’s make their daughter son husbands to 💯
Not making a son husband and/or a daughter wife. Without a spouse, a adult child needs to know a parent's business like a spouse, ie., retirement accounts, etc..
Very touchy subject here but it’s right at the root.
This man gives the answers every live and they still don't know them.
I'm raising my son to be a painter because he participated in arts and crafts 🤣🤣🤣😩
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Another Golden Video Here 🙌🏽
Mr Godfather was right again.
Kevin is single handedly changing the dating game. And speaking facts to these delusional woman that put themselves higher than they are with outrageous demands
Say that again.
meh
Hyper gamy is undefeated...
Great teachable moment!
The idea to value your husband over God is so against the Bible. No man or woman is supposed to be above God.
You are wrong. U didn't get the concept Kevin was putting out. The Bible points out that When GOD saw Adam was lonely he decided to make for him a companion which is Eve, who was instructed to obey, honor and respect Adam. Now in order for Eve to be obidient to go she was instructed to submit to Adam and show loyalty. In doing so she will be following God's instructions and fulfilling God's order whis is equals putting God's first.
Now tell me where do u find Kevin wrong?!
I find Kevin wrong when he doesn’t address the failures of the black men are within our community. I’m perpetuating the idea that it’s idea only black men or black men women that is keeping us (as a community) from advancing is further causing separation between us. It’s not just black women or black men that are preventing black marriages from occurring, both are a factor. I’m all for black woman finding love and loyalty outside of black men. Until there is MUTUAL respect, we will continue to look outwards.
Black women, you don’t need a black man to feel full filled. There are many men that will take the place of those less qualified.
My grammar is terrible is this post but you get the gist of what I’m saying
Remember, the top black man in his field is will most likely be considered below average to same white man in that same field.
How many men are following Gods orders according to the Bible… are you? If not than you have to right to quote what the Bible wants
Families are extremely valuable to keep societies strong, and we are being raised to be independent and fear commitment. I have a daughter, and I tune in to take notes
Can we get a show on how fathers should teach their boys to become men mr Samuels we need more videos for young men we need guidance
His teaching on that subject is on Patreon that is a paid subscription.
coach greg adams does that
That would be great
Mr.Samuels out here saving lives!
A message to all my black mothers, The Godfather messages helping y’all to the fullest don’t take it for granted. Trust ME everything The Godfather is preaching for free for some of us that’s not paying him for a session. I can’t wait to sign for 1 myself lol don’t care how much it cost. He deserves every penny of it.
Godfather we need you Sir.
Lol
Abt 1000 bucks an hour.
A message from your black mothers take care of your freaking daughters and get your nose wiped off!
Yes they are, misery loves company!