My mother is 73 years old. She treated men like shit and like they are disposable. She is single living with my oldest sister and always says she didn't see her life being this way and that she gets so lonely in her room. She's disabled and absolutely no one would hire her. She shot down so many men that loved her and could financially take care of her. I live in Seattle. She's in Texas. Ladies, don't be like my mom.
Your mother’s options and decisions mirror my own mother. It’s sad but at the same time. Because we were there watching with a front seat. We got to see everything play out in real time.
My morher is 68 and also disabled but doesn't understand that she is. She would love to have a man but the ones her age are looking at me! Smh...she will be moving in with other family bc I too failed at getting a man and family so I have to work until I can't. I won't be able to take care of her and it scares her to no end.
@@clayslaton9068 Yep, that’s why I don’t support them. I’m not going to support your weave, BBl, bird wing eyelash, lip injection business. That poison is destroying our community, especially our youth!!!
Even if they did start a business all the businesses would be in hair, nails, make up etc.. they'd have no customers because they'd all start the same business 🤣🤣
@@devenchy3k947 Exaclty, I see in old movies how the black neighborhood cleaners was owned by a black family…I say in movies because I’m 22 & all the cleaners around me are immigrant owned.
My mother was raised by her parents. When she had me she mearly payed of that debt. This is true for every generation. I also have a debt but it's towards my children not my parents. Parents are adults they had a hole life to plan and exectute for their lifes. Instead of beeing a burden on children. I will help but i will not be a paycheck.
I was dating a 40 year old like that. Her mom is in her 60s her daughter is early 20s. 3 of them lube together. The baby daddy is white and ended up being of drugs and I can see why. This girl have to give her mother update every hour even when we are having dinner. Was my last date on Saturday because there's nothing there for me lol
Best part is when someone is like that they are usually a horrible selfish person and raise their children to be the same and thus being selfish children wouldn't take care of their parent anyway. Bad seeds grow bad plants which grow bad fruit.
I took your point, I wish the same. His scope is so much outside of the people he was specifically trying to help in his videos. The world truly lost a great man. Each video he makes more and more profound points. In this one I feel it was a great point that a society can't rise above the moral level of its women. That is very profound. There are surely aspects for men the same way... so it just opens a very macro look at our society in a much better light than the BS coming out of "higher" education.
Videos like this make me go and hug my husband, rub his back, and clip his toenails. We just made our 11 year anniversary at 32 years old. We have 2 daughters and a son, and we all watch this channel like it's church ⛪ I came from 3 generations of single mothers, and I broke the curse for my lineage. This man is saving so many families.
@@shellyhunt4910 yes ma'am. I'm blessed. I lost friends from not subscribing to the modern woman mindset. Was talked bad about because he pays all the bills, and I only cover groceries with me making over $50k a year. What did he say on that last short he did? Proud Pick Me? 😂 All day 💪🏾 Traditional Wives are truly winning at life.
And understand brothers like me cheer for you and your family. I tell others this issue many times including men and women. Unfortunately I get the same response.
@@yasmeenah.b L Traditional wives need to unite. Yah need traditional wife support groups . I mean that shit . A pride of lions hang together . They dont chill with hyenas.
The fact that she said, "that's why i had 3 kids" it's EXACTLY what part of the problem is. EVERYONE that has kids, has them to turn over to the world in reality.
hence the saying, "I brought you to this world, i can take you out" BS, ma'am you don't even know or have control of life or know the process that's involved in making an embryo develop into a child, that's God not you. I have my own future and family to think of
I told my wife that her mom is selfish because she thinks that my wife and her sons will take care of her if her "husband" won't. I also said my kids will never take care of us in our old age because that's selfish asf. My dad knows his kids isn't taking care of him in his old age, my "mom" doesn't understand that, however she isn't in my life anymore.
My best friend and her husband are dealing with this right now. They are stuck with his 83 year old grandma living with them. Her own kids didn't even take her in. The worst thing about it is she has an opinion about everything! That's why my mom would NEVER live with me. You would not drive me crazy in my own home.
Immigrant parents depend on their kids which becomes a burden to us, it's sad. This is a perfect example of this. But lil ol Conner gets a full ride to Yale and 1m play money and a list of people to network with. We need to change
My mother lived the “free spirited” life and now I’m paying the bill. She had me with a man who was married to another woman. She’s close to 70 and it’s a heavy burden on me, I feel under a lot of pressure to succeed. She put me in the situation where I’ve had to sacrifice my 20s: I had to hold a job working 50+ hours a week while going to school to get a career. When I’d come home late at night, she’d start to nag and demand that I bring her food and that I had to help her live a comfortable life for the rest of her years. She has no money, couldn’t help me with college after HS. I even have life insurance just in case something happens to me, so she can have some money for the remaining years of her life. It’s all bad, as Kevin and Jordan Peterson have said, women like these try to make their kids the husband they never had. Young women, listen to Kevin. Look for a husband while you’re young, you’re risking too much by delaying it and later on you and your kids will pay the price. Your younger years are your bargaining chip, don’t spend them on the “cock carousel” or you will pay the price later on as you age.
And asked if she thinks thats fair her answer is idk if its fair but i hope I raised them right enough, like ypu basically are admitting youre hoping your kids are going to bail you out in place of a man now
“A nation can rise no higher than the moral position of its women. A man that is looking to build cannot plant his seed in contaminated soil.” ~Kevin Samuels His contributions are surely noted and valued. Rest in peace Mr. Samuels.
My mother does a similar smug laugh when she’s intentionally derailing. It’s so odd & disappointing seeing adult women behave in ways that (rightfully) got me in trouble as a child.
Wow man. Sorry to hear that. My mother has passed, but my father hasn't. I stopped talking to him because he had a similar mentality as this lady, and never even invested in us(his kids) and lived 6 hours away, so he never even saw us. I know most children of these women will be guilted or feel guilty and take care of these women, but damn that's gotta be a terrible situation. I am glad I don't have to support aging parents who did things all wrong. It's a sad reality. When I have kids one day, I think I will sufficiently prepare them for life and the world in general. Good luck with you and your situation, I hope it works out. Maybe explore different countries, I personally am looking at Mexico/Colombia because I am a Spanish speaker.
I couldn't think about savings as a single mother. I had one investment for my future. And I lost it to the bank due to squatters and their rights to do so and my rights to pay a ton of money I didn't have and the slow courts to have them evicted. So now I know at some point if my partner dies before me that my kids will have to take care of me. It sucks. Hopefully by then I'll have dementia and I won't remember them so they can just stick me in home. I've been working since I was 15 (56 now). I was never taught to plan for retirement cuz I was going to be married and my husband would take care of that. RIP love ya Pop but you had that one wrong.
My mom and my dad had me and my brother in their late teens. My mom left my dad in her mind thirties because she thought she could do better as her career was starting to take off and my dad was just an average man. Good hardworking man, great father but obviously not on her "level". Through the next 15 or so years she went through numerous men trying to find that high value man she thought she deserved. During that time her business went broke and I had to lend her money. The HVM never eventuated so in her fifties she ended up "settling" for an average man who was pretty much a clone of the average man she left when she left my dad. By the time this man came into her life she was penniless so he pretty much had to pay out all her debts and take care of her and on top of that she was diagnosed with brain cancer which has left her incapacitated and unable to walk let alone work and have this incredible career she always dreamed of. If it wasn't for this incredible man taking care of her who knows where she would be. I feel so sorry for him because he's given everything to her and it's such a massive burden on his shoulders. He cares for her full time, cleans her, feeds her etc..as her son I feel a deep sense of guilt at not being able to help out more but at the same time I have my own young family to take care of..I feel a sense of resentment towards her because an adult in her fifties shouldn't be broke and burdening other people to take care of them. I get she didn't ask to get sick but I can't help but be resentful at the decisions she made during her life. It's mind boggling some of these women that KS speaks to talking about they deserve something that they really don't. They really do die alone or burdening their kids to take care of them. ..my dad btw remarried a great woman and he is getting ready to retire at the age of 56 with a few houses and more than enough money to live comfortable in retirement. Not bad for someone that isn't "high value"
how your mom talk about your dad now ? did she regret leaving him ? and why the other man feel obligated to take care of her ? is he beta who doesn't understand she just settled for him ... A.K.A plane B ?
The more I think about this, the women in Don Vito’s life can afford to be “careless” because they have men like the Don and Sonny in their lives. However, this woman and other modern women can’t afford to be careless in this world. As Kevin pointed out, the pandemic made this clear.
_"I have never met a suitable husband in my entire life."_ Then where did your children come from? Either from a suitable man, or from an unsuitable woman who was "having her fun". Stop spreading that nonsense, for the sake of everyone alive now and our future generations. Thank you Kevin, you're absolutely right. This ought to be studied in schools.
That part pissed me off too. She's so flippantly said "no". As if there had never been any suitable men around her in her entire life. Complete bullshit. They were around her but she didn't choose them because they didn't make her tingle like Pookie and Ray-Ray did.
Women are not exaggerating when they say that. She probably still has that teenager check list in her mind for what makes a good man and rejected dozens of potential spouses because they weren't perfect.
They're narrow-minded people. They fail to see that the problem is bigger than this video. It's not about this woman because she's just one person representing the toxic ideology and bad culture that is tearing families and relationships apart. Everyone, including us but especially future children are going to pay a huge price with the type of thinking this woman has.
She said she will work at Disney World 😂. As someone who may currently work at WDW let me tell you that yes we are hurting for workers, but not workers in their 70s. That age group (60s-70s) have been retiring faster than we can train new workers because the hours are long, the weather in central florida is brutal, and the jobs are quite demanding on the person. Plus even if you do get a job at WDW, the cost of living around the Theme Park areas have exploded. You won't be able to afford a 1 bedroom apartment BY YOURSELF at the entry level wage Disney pays...
@@jubei187 absolutely. Most of the jobs will be outdoors and require long periods of standing in the 90F+ degree heat. Apartments are averaging $1,500+ for small one bedrooms in less than decent areas. The rent is so disproportionate to the wages the local motels and hotels are extended stay for the local workers. They can't afford a car or an apartment so they live close enough to the poor transportation system to get to work. These people, especially women like her need to truly think before they jump.
agreed , here's what just happened few hours ago while shopping at walmart. i saw a black worker female in her I say 50 having a herd time picking up a sack of rise and put it on lower shelve . I dont make this up she said " I can't pick it up too heavy" I went and helped her picking it up . so this black female here thinking she can work as getting older is same as young then think twice .
It's a wrap.. It's been over with for a very long time..at this point we passport brothers are Not going to deal with the madness that's coming from the modern day American Women.. Why should we?
My mother was exactly like this. Never planned for the future. Refuse to plan for a rainy day. My mother had a massive heart attack at 63 and had to retire. For the next 10 years she had to live off social security and the tiny 401k she had. Her 401k barely had $50K. .The only saving grace she had was that her mortgage was paid off but my mother continued to spend money like she was still working. 10 years later she had a massive stroke and died. She left a ton of credit card debt and unpaid property taxes for me to pay off. Not to mention she had cancelled the home owners insurance without telling me , so for at least 5 years there was no insurance on her home. But if you asked her while she was alive, everything was fine and she had plenty of money.
This woman illustrates one of the main reasons so many financially unstable people have kids: so they can have a meal ticket in old age beacuse they made poor financial and life choices in their prime. Shameful behavior.
I would say that that has been humanities “retirement plan” since time immemorial. It’s only in like 2-3 generations (in the west), that a different way has been possible. Let’s see if it lasts.
"Taking care of grandma" is supposed to mean bringing her the occasional meal, mowing her yard and getting her prescriptions filled NOT mortgaging your and her grandchildren's future to cover up for her lack of planning.
As they say - what happens in the east, usually trickles down to the west in some shape or form. In order for Kevin to help, it's wise to stay up to date with the comings and goings around the world.
@@TC-cd5sm lol...when did they ever say that. As i see it its the other way...wester culture is getting adopted by china, india etc and its wrecking havoc on the way things are done.
This woman cannot comprehend at her age that there will come a day when she physically can not work. So many people say oh I'll work into my 70s. Reality is by the time you are in your early 60s, you're about done. Especially if it's any kind of physical job where you're not sitting. All it takes is a bad knee, hip, foot pain. Happened to my mom at 62.
@@SivvySiv its hard to find women who dont do this. media, environment, friends and family, too many factors, but many people in our society cant take accountability.
It is important to be a whole individual before entering a romantic relationship. Knowing who you are. Individual people didn’t equal alone and not having a community
@@SuckerPunch92 That is true on a separate topic. That’s in regards to building relationships. My comment is in the context of tribe/village/community. We were never meant to live isolated separate lives. We were meant for doing life together. Winning and losing together. Building together. Helping eachother. Loving one another. A whole village raising the village kids together. Hope that makes sense.
That woman came across like a child in an adult's body, so all attempts by Kevin to convey logic fell on deaf ears but instead like a child, once pressed on the reality looking bleak without a plan, she quipped about heading down to Orlando (Safe haven like a Disney fairy tale). Mental health has plagued these women and the unfortunate thing is that for them LIFE IMMITATES ART. This exchange IMO was PAINFUL
Kevin knew from outset what this woman was gonna do. He kept it going for the express reason he mentions at the end. This conversation should be a study hall lecture and an open debate in those things we used to call Universities. She was hopelessly delusional from the start. He uses these conversations as teaching tools. For those other woman in their 20's and 30's who still have a chance for a better outcome.
As a young black man from South Africa who is 25 years old, I have learned a lot from Mr. Samuels and I'm grateful he is sharing his wisdom for free...
Well that is misleading. The most common reason for personal bankruptcy is loss of a job. The most common bill is a medical one, but people would rather pay the rent than pay the doctor. Not often does a medical issue bankrupt a person.
My dad started to spend more time with my aunt, she’s in her 60s and calling to say she’s lonely and having suicidal thoughts because she didn’t prioritize relationships. Breaks our hearts. This is very real.. thank you for teaching this
Thank you for the content. As a black woman, you’ve challenged me to unlearn a lot of behaviors that I was taught that are holding me back from finding a Christian man. I’m in my early 20’s and am thankful I’m learning this now.
Oh, that’s what the laugh is about? Because I kept saying what is so funny?! He hasn’t cracked a smile once! It’s not funny! I’m cooperating with my husband. I left my first husband, but I now got a great second chance and I’m not losing this one. Wish her the best!
That's almost with every woman. It's like they'll die to say you are right, I'm wrong. Like I tell my wife, from here, I'm not going to jail. So I'll admit when I'm wrong. Try it too!
@@haddingtoniangcp2464 This is why when talking you cant admit you are wrong to a woman. Because she will never admit wrong and you just end up looking like the bad guy
Most of us in single households behave off of impulse which is chaotic especially with certain life situations the ability to be able to make right decisions
And she probably wonders why she's broke at 40. When her peers were working hard in school she figured a good job would just do a drive by on her life.
@@thedredgod: Many of these broads are also careless with their money because they automatically expect to find a husband who will pay off their debts. Especially those who have graduated college.
This is true. My parents need to be cared for now, they didn't prepare and it has fallen on me. I have put my life on hold to care for my dad. Which is scary.
My great grandad is 92 & still clears his own drive way with a shovel. I hope you’re taking care of your parent due to an unfortunate illness & not them being unhealthy & lazy.
My parents who have had their own business for over 30 years making good money are trying to get their retirement square....there's a lot to think about...ppl gotta b wise
I remember years ago this 19yo girl, while talking about marriage and how she's going to be independent. So I said to her, "Then you're marriage will fail." And when she asked me why, I said to her; "Because the definition of the word 'independent' is the exact opposite of the definition of the word 'marriage'."
It happened to my mother. She was laid off right before retirement age and can't find work. The companies did a costs vs benefits and found that it's cheaper/better to hire new younger workers. My single mother was a hardworking and capable woman. She is still in shock regarding the laid-off because she believes that she is still young, healthy, and capable. The problem is that companies don't want to hire/keep elders because young ones are quick on their feet, have lower pay rates, in better health (i.e lower health cost, recover quicker, can work longer hours, and can work in harsher environment), easy to train, more flexible, and can work overtime for longer duration.
Same. My mom is 63 and always talked crap about her boss calling him Donald Trump Jr. Blah blah blah, but he is a multimillionaire optometrist who own multiple building, residential real estate, etc. He sold his company to a national chain for millionssss and she was scared what would happen to her but "Donald Trump " looked out for her, oh yea she has lived in one of his properties for the entire 8 years she worked for him and he just deducted rent from her check. I had to remind her this is the most stable she has been in her entire life, and she should be thankful that man is as generous as he is.
It's what they did with my dad, before the organization kicked the bucket and went bankrupt. He maintained business running and took care of other colleagues, paying the bills and managed the books. They sent a younger trainee to work under his wing, and suddenly gave my dad the boot before retirement. He's now doing odd jobs here and there for small businesses and offices, but it's not enough.
They all think life is a game. That's why they sleep with whoever, whenever, and however. Nothing is serious to them until they're life is on the line, then they're confused victims.
this just shows the mentality that is killing relationships. She'd rather work til she dies or depend on her kids than to work cooperatively with a Man. that is just crazyyyy SMH
She's going to cry in the car, she knows everything Kevin was saying is true. Even when I try to talk to my sisters about some of these things or anything that revolves around reality they always dismiss it and get very defensive. Alot of women just don't want to hear it, they're just worried about now and not their future. I pray they get it together 🙏🏿
All of my relationships have failed because of discussions like this. I’m an average man looking for a reasonable average woman who understands the reality of money and how to pay for the life a woman wants. A partnership is hard to find.
I used to think like her, between ages 19-21. After I lost my job at 20, and went without for 5 months, i knew that life wasn’t a game once the money stopped coming in. I’m 24 now, and now when it comes money, i prioritize money management to the point where i dont even like spending more than I save. I’m not going back to what i was when i was 20-21, looking for work
I used to think like her until I got pregnant and I lost my job. I realised that I need my man and I really appreciate living this reality that KS speaks about.
The scenario your describing is only one way. There’s no shelter or government checks coming I think we as men understand you’ll be left to die in the cold and no one will care
Well she said it true, shes counting on her kids to help take care of her. Since she didnt get a man shes trying to pass the responsibility on to the kids not realizing how SELFISH that shit is. Ypur kids looking out for you in your autumn years should be a blessing not an expectation born of guilt
Notice the women said, “ Define serious. A couple of years?” It’s a problem that our women just think that the length of a relationship makes it “SERIOUS”. And don’t think it’s actually the intention between the two people involved.
"No prophet is welcome in his own country." Kevin speaks the truth and the people he cares for reject him for blissful ignorance, excuses, entitlement, and pride.
That is not “Worst case scenario.” I know a 78 year old woman who got laid off because her company got bought out. Nice lady and always up and out the door to work, but the company decided to downsize. She was also the provider for the household consisting of a 60+ year old woman and a 30+ year old woman and her 10 year old son. Both the “younger women” were jobless at the time. The youngest woman still is. Three generations of women in a household on the verge of being homeless. Her so called “worst case scenario” is THE future scenario for a lot of women out here.
How in the hell can you be 30 and allow the people you live with to be homeless.. you better bus ride the fack out soomewhere and pick beans and pay them damn bills. Idgaf thats byeyond lazy and i see it daily !
@@jamasco8790 since I wrote this post the two “younger Women” have moved out and in with each other. I know at least older one has a job. Not sure about the younger one. The elderly lady that they were living with is on a fixed income. I can tell it’s hard for her some days.
This is so real….me and my wife make a little above $200k combined, and I have a sister and her husband who are making probably $30-40k more than that. We all stay around the Houston area. My mother in law, who is estranged from her husband for 8+ years, lives in an elderly apartment complex my wife manages. She’s a 57 year old waitress at IHOP. I saw the writing on the wall years ago. The crazy part is my sisters mother in law has had multiple husbands/men who made over 6 figures and all she did was cheat on them. Now she’s living at the same complex (thanks to my wife) getting about $800 dollars a month in Social Security. And that’s it. It’s a shame. These women aren’t prepared for the later years at all. And from what I’ve seen in this video, they don’t seem to have a clue. Just an entire generation of lost women with no security but their children.
And their children are BROKE. Millienials are BROOOOOKKKKKEEEEEE. There's not going to be any bailouts. Gen X has a couple bucks, Millenials are TAPPED OUT. All these people will be HOMELESS
A single mother of 3 stated the same "No" answer after being asked 3 times if she's ever had a suitable man in her life. Then just giggles it off.......To even consider half of our women may think like her is sickening. 🤢
Listening to that was exhausting. It was like trying to explain to a 5 year old , she is going to die one day. She can't believe it, won't believe it and can't conceive it. Listening to the denial of inevitable consequences, due to poor planning is exhausting.
It's draining honestly. And the fact that she just sits there smiling sheepishly, it's so ....I don't know. KS is truly trying. I won't be surprised if he books a therapy session after every show. I am tired on his behalf.
“But even on the Titanic there were some survivors so…” Boy if that doesn’t crystallize the thinking of most women I don’t know what does. So many think that they’re the exception to the rule.
Glory to God I met my husband at 24. Married 7 years, 3 kids, I'm a stay at home mother and BLESSED! My mother is that single rebel that's broke and looking to us to take care of her in old age - she prioritized education and thankfully God stepped in to save my future. Kevin is showing the raw truth!
I have consulted single mothers for free in the financial coaching space. Many have had the same mindset as her. They spend uncontrollably and barely save. 401ks are limited investments these days, you can only invest in what the employer’s plan is offering which is usually low risk and low return. My significant other also does not understand the importance of this. I have us saving a little over 30% of our income. I spend hours researching investments and make moves with little appreciation for the work I put in on this stuff. Ive grown some of our investments over 50%. I really wish more of our black women were wired to understand the importance of financial literacy and having help mate to assist along the way. My granny was great at it, she poured it into me.
Sounds like it's time to trade in your significant other for a better model, before she drags you down with her. That mindset of hers is only going to cause stagnation for the both of you. If she doesn't understand or appreciate what your grandmother could, then she's just impeding your upward mobility. SYSBM
Most women know exactly what they need to do to fix the issues. If they could only say, "Forget what the other women think of me, I'm doing this!", most of those issues would be fixed.
It's all about seeing the worth in a partner and in men honestly. Me and my 2 best friends have all been married for years and we we all work hard to maintain healthy marriages that revolve around compromise, loyalty and selflessness. It's not about having everything 50/50 it's about having a true partner and when you develop that partnership then you have no issues giving 70 when he only has 30 to give. When you have a husband whose a good man and works hard and loves his family... Shit is on another level lmao. But a man doesn't get there without a loyal woman who has his back and helps him develop that passion for his family.
Kevin’s content is honestly is giving me some of the best teaching I never got. I never had a dad to tell me this stuff. To know my worth as a man. It holds me to live to a higher standard
“I’m a business owner” I’m an entrepreneur” “I’m my own boss” “Multiple revenue streams” “Generational wealth”…Insert the latest social media slogan/catchphrase/buzzword here. Same old story and you can only laugh to keep from crying.
The truth is often told in jest. She jokingly said “that’s what my children are there for” in reference to who will take care of her when she’s old. If Men relied on their children in old age they would be considered sorry. Stop taking care of your rebellious moms who didn’t prioritize marrying your father. She didn’t care enough to have a father for you but wants you to take care of her when she’s old? You’d be a fool.
people that say this kind of thing are the worst but they get their 'karma' Many old people get left in homes and their children hardly ever see them. In korea and Japan it's bad, expecially in Korea. The children, many times, leave the parents, move to another city and never come back so you get a lot of old lonely people
Yeah, but then what kind of example are you setting for your kids by not taking care of your mother? We can't let the poor character of others degrade us into being less than we are capable of being.
I’m raising a 14 yo son. I’m terrified for what his options are going to be. These women are childish, egotistical, and delusional. And I’m a black woman.
Mamas like her will definitely expect to move in with one of her daughters and disrupt her daughter's marriage and household. That husband did not sign up to take care of his wife, kids and her mother. Stop counting on your kids to save you. Get your own life before it's too late. 💯
This country is facing a retirement crisis for all. Social Security isn’t enough to cut it. Now we have a housing crisis and inflation. This lady is living in La La land mentally
SS was never supposed to be enough for retirement. It was to supplement a pension and retirement savings. 401k's were developed for a 3 tier retirement (pension, SS, 401K) - that was the way it was 'supposed to be'. In reality, when 401K's become extremely popular (the norm), major corps stopped providing pensions for the average worker.
@@raycebannon6374 …that’s correct, however 401k’s were originally developed to give employees a tax-free way to defer compensation from bonuses or stock options. It was a vehicle for wealthier investors.
As a 28 year old south Asian male - this was a wake up call even for me. I’m not married but actively dating. Very important for men to choose wisely when it comes to women. If this woman is representative of even a slightly large subset of women aged 18-25 now, the next generation is in major trouble.
This is wild. She looks and sounds so much like my three younger sisters. Like they're not processing what's told to them. In one ear and out. Most unconcerned and it worries me every day and every time I talk to them.
She just have to have a smart aleck response to everything. She ain't gonna get it until she's homeless, then this video is going to be the *"I told you so"* reminder.
I've met about 40 homeless women in the past 4 months and no amount of homelessness snaps their brain out of delusion. And they all go for the pity woe-is-me play everytime. Never accepting that they put themselves in that spot
It is May 12, 2024. KS died over 2 years ago. He must have had a crystal ball because in this video he forecasted so many things that have come to pass.
I work at a Trader Joe's with several women who were prob lookers in their day. Now they have to hoist heavy boxes every morning. They are early and late middle aged, childless, single, and they have decades of life leftt- even as their health fails them. Bachelor tax incoming, gentlemen.
I tried to exsplain this type of stuff to my last GF , Went right over her head , The last thing I told her was good luck working at 70 , She started that I don't need a man BS , Even told me her girls can take care of her , Then proceeded to kick her girls out of a home she will never pay off , She has very little 401k , She won't have 100k by 62 in it , 51 and acts like she is 30 , Was nothing but an anchor
@@Lestergreen77 Long story, Ive known her for 45 years. Best advice I can give to anyone, Never date because your lonely, Lonely people make bad judgement calls to avoid being lonely ,,,,So make sure your past the lonely phase before you date anyone,
She finds everything he saying funny. He hasn’t cracked a smile once! I’m a woman I am so glad I started listening to him long time! I took everything he said to heart! I got on it! I won’t be a burden to my kids. I hope and wish my momma the best!
Man kevin is like the father I never had, since listing to him as a man I have had a big fucking wake up call....I used to think this shit was a game, thinking oh I can use my looks to get whatever I want and later down the line the shit will work itself out....reality check.....that is how you die alone...man now I know I don't need the best looking woman, I just want a loyal, honest woman with her head on straight so we can go through life together forever and have eachothers back....I don't want to die alone....I know even making 60k a year that shit is not enough.....I'm on my a game now and I'm not playing anymore....Mr samuales you are a absolute God send to youtube brother I appreciate from the bottom of my heart everything you do sir...
Clearly these women are not talking to a financial advisor. The advise Kevin is giving is the same thing financial advisors share. Inflation going up, cost of living going up and she is oblivious to the reality that her current position in life is leaving her at a major disadvantage.
Man you gotta give it to kevin. Constantly trying to educate people who have no clue what's waiting for them in this great reset. Fellas save yourselves too now, invest invest invest.
I had a colleague at work who's mother suffered from dementia. According to him she was extremely forgetful and a danger to herself. Was divorced and living alone at the age of 68. It got to a point where he had to quit his job and attend fo her fulltime. His other siblings refused to help for whatever reason. Moral of the story is we will all get old and require care. Having a spose will help in more ways than you know. Stop making selfish choices that your children will pay for.
My mother is 73 years old. She treated men like shit and like they are disposable. She is single living with my oldest sister and always says she didn't see her life being this way and that she gets so lonely in her room. She's disabled and absolutely no one would hire her. She shot down so many men that loved her and could financially take care of her. I live in Seattle. She's in Texas. Ladies, don't be like my mom.
Sad
Your mother’s options and decisions mirror my own mother. It’s sad but at the same time. Because we were there watching with a front seat. We got to see everything play out in real time.
My morher is 68 and also disabled but doesn't understand that she is. She would love to have a man but the ones her age are looking at me! Smh...she will be moving in with other family bc I too failed at getting a man and family so I have to work until I can't. I won't be able to take care of her and it scares her to no end.
Thank you for your honesty 🙏
Lmfaooooo 😂
"A man who wants to succeed can't plant their seed in contaminated soil."
So POWERFUL!
So profound!
That's ice cold!👍
@@P.90.603 men who want to succeed and have some sense don't
Extremely powerful
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍
how can anyone call this man a misogynist. He cares deeply for women.
He’s frustrated only because they’re not listening
Too bad some of these women don't care about the rest of there life.
Because we live in a culturally backwards society. Lol
Because he doesn’t pander to their feelings.
Anyone that disagrees with women is a misogynist.
The ultimate irony. Middle-class woman fought for the "right to work". Now middle class woman HAVE to work.
And they’re all fighting for a man to pay their way!!
All black women: “ I have a business!”
Our community would be the wealthiest if this was true.
I have a business...but yet they share nothing to build anything..mainly families and communities. It's all for themselves.
@@clayslaton9068 Yep, that’s why I don’t support them. I’m not going to support your weave, BBl, bird wing eyelash, lip injection business. That poison is destroying our community, especially our youth!!!
Even if they did start a business all the businesses would be in hair, nails, make up etc.. they'd have no customers because they'd all start the same business 🤣🤣
@@blackfreespeech2404 FAX!
@@devenchy3k947 Exaclty, I see in old movies how the black neighborhood cleaners was owned by a black family…I say in movies because I’m 22 & all the cleaners around me are immigrant owned.
He just had an impassioned, reality-based 33 minute conversation with a brick.
I hv easier teaching my pet box of rocks new tricks
Streets is finished 🤣
The black community is so low that she is actually better than many in that she's not a loudmouth 😳😳
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 facts!!
Yes
“That’s what I have kids for” I HATE these type of parents
My mother was raised by her parents. When she had me she mearly payed of that debt. This is true for every generation.
I also have a debt but it's towards my children not my parents.
Parents are adults they had a hole life to plan and exectute for their lifes. Instead of beeing a burden on children.
I will help but i will not be a paycheck.
I was dating a 40 year old like that. Her mom is in her 60s her daughter is early 20s. 3 of them lube together. The baby daddy is white and ended up being of drugs and I can see why. This girl have to give her mother update every hour even when we are having dinner. Was my last date on Saturday because there's nothing there for me lol
Best part is when someone is like that they are usually a horrible selfish person and raise their children to be the same and thus being selfish children wouldn't take care of their parent anyway. Bad seeds grow bad plants which grow bad fruit.
"And this is where I'd keep my decent parent...IF I HAD ONE!!"
I would tell my mom to kick rocks. 😂😂
I'm white and I wish I had someone speak this into my life years ago. This knowledge is needed across all races/cultures!
lmao.^ corny
@@willybingusthealien how is this corny?
I took your point, I wish the same. His scope is so much outside of the people he was specifically trying to help in his videos. The world truly lost a great man. Each video he makes more and more profound points. In this one I feel it was a great point that a society can't rise above the moral level of its women. That is very profound. There are surely aspects for men the same way... so it just opens a very macro look at our society in a much better light than the BS coming out of "higher" education.
Who cares what color your skin is?
My grandmother is like that. No real family around her. Aging out by herself. Sickly and disabled. Government assistance barely gets by.
"That's why I have 3 kids for" That statement alone says enough.
That was frightening when I heard that.
She's literally planning to be a burden to her kids.
it's fucking sad but it my country is common, and has been for decades.
@DeBesteTop10 in third world countries is common, average salary is $300 per month.
Selfish at best
Videos like this make me go and hug my husband, rub his back, and clip his toenails.
We just made our 11 year anniversary at 32 years old. We have 2 daughters and a son, and we all watch this channel like it's church ⛪
I came from 3 generations of single mothers, and I broke the curse for my lineage.
This man is saving so many families.
Good for u
@@shellyhunt4910 yes ma'am. I'm blessed. I lost friends from not subscribing to the modern woman mindset. Was talked bad about because he pays all the bills, and I only cover groceries with me making over $50k a year.
What did he say on that last short he did? Proud Pick Me? 😂 All day 💪🏾
Traditional Wives are truly winning at life.
And understand brothers like me cheer for you and your family. I tell others this issue many times including men and women. Unfortunately I get the same response.
God bless .
@@yasmeenah.b
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Traditional wives need to unite.
Yah need traditional wife support groups .
I mean that shit .
A pride of lions hang together .
They dont chill with hyenas.
The fact that she said, "that's why i had 3 kids" it's EXACTLY what part of the problem is. EVERYONE that has kids, has them to turn over to the world in reality.
This is why most black people have kids so they have a retirement plan… then they make their children pay their bills as they “raised” them
hence the saying, "I brought you to this world, i can take you out" BS, ma'am you don't even know or have control of life or know the process that's involved in making an embryo develop into a child, that's God not you. I have my own future and family to think of
I told my wife that her mom is selfish because she thinks that my wife and her sons will take care of her if her "husband" won't. I also said my kids will never take care of us in our old age because that's selfish asf. My dad knows his kids isn't taking care of him in his old age, my "mom" doesn't understand that, however she isn't in my life anymore.
My best friend and her husband are dealing with this right now. They are stuck with his 83 year old grandma living with them. Her own kids didn't even take her in. The worst thing about it is she has an opinion about everything! That's why my mom would NEVER live with me. You would not drive me crazy in my own home.
Immigrant parents depend on their kids which becomes a burden to us, it's sad. This is a perfect example of this. But lil ol Conner gets a full ride to Yale and 1m play money and a list of people to network with. We need to change
My mother lived the “free spirited” life and now I’m paying the bill. She had me with a man who was married to another woman. She’s close to 70 and it’s a heavy burden on me, I feel under a lot of pressure to succeed. She put me in the situation where I’ve had to sacrifice my 20s: I had to hold a job working 50+ hours a week while going to school to get a career. When I’d come home late at night, she’d start to nag and demand that I bring her food and that I had to help her live a comfortable life for the rest of her years. She has no money, couldn’t help me with college after HS. I even have life insurance just in case something happens to me, so she can have some money for the remaining years of her life. It’s all bad, as Kevin and Jordan Peterson have said, women like these try to make their kids the husband they never had.
Young women, listen to Kevin. Look for a husband while you’re young, you’re risking too much by delaying it and later on you and your kids will pay the price. Your younger years are your bargaining chip, don’t spend them on the “cock carousel” or you will pay the price later on as you age.
Top-tier comment! Hope everything works out for you my brother.
Cheers🍻
Why they have to find a husband if they can live a consequence free life 😂😂😂
This is painful...I wish you well.
Thank you for sharing your story brother
I agree with you 💯 %
Kevin is so passionate. These ladies don't understand Kevin wants the best for them.
Facts👍👍
That’s all she needs too pay for a one on one session ASAP ‼️‼️‼️
Q+
I don't need a cookbook
Not just them but for the black community on a whole 👊
“That’s what I have three kids for”
A stark reminder a lot of people shouldn’t have kids.
EXACTLY 👏
And asked if she thinks thats fair her answer is idk if its fair but i hope I raised them right enough, like ypu basically are admitting youre hoping your kids are going to bail you out in place of a man now
@@jlogan2228 manipulation too. "i raised them to do the right thing"
Yea that was gross. And she had a hearty laugh as she said it smh.
That's the truth of why she has kids
“You can’t plant your seed in contaminated soil” -KS
thats not KS saying
Not his Quote
Well you can....you just get mutated, unhealthy plants that likely has poisonous fruit if it bears at all. The analogy for humans fits as well.
@@berrymckockiner5883 @Brownocean I think he says it here: 0:30:01
@@biform13 he didn't invent that saying
“A nation can rise no higher than the moral position of its women. A man that is looking to build cannot plant his seed in contaminated soil.” ~Kevin Samuels
His contributions are surely noted and valued. Rest in peace Mr. Samuels.
My mother does a similar smug laugh when she’s intentionally derailing.
It’s so odd & disappointing seeing adult women behave in ways that (rightfully) got me in trouble as a child.
That's horrifying to think about. A mother should always "know what's best" but now I see that it's furthest from the truth.
Wow man. Sorry to hear that. My mother has passed, but my father hasn't. I stopped talking to him because he had a similar mentality as this lady, and never even invested in us(his kids) and lived 6 hours away, so he never even saw us. I know most children of these women will be guilted or feel guilty and take care of these women, but damn that's gotta be a terrible situation. I am glad I don't have to support aging parents who did things all wrong. It's a sad reality. When I have kids one day, I think I will sufficiently prepare them for life and the world in general. Good luck with you and your situation, I hope it works out. Maybe explore different countries, I personally am looking at Mexico/Colombia because I am a Spanish speaker.
so true
It's like dealing with a fully grown child , this is why father's are important they bring in a reality check .
I couldn't think about savings as a single mother. I had one investment for my future. And I lost it to the bank due to squatters and their rights to do so and my rights to pay a ton of money I didn't have and the slow courts to have them evicted. So now I know at some point if my partner dies before me that my kids will have to take care of me. It sucks. Hopefully by then I'll have dementia and I won't remember them so they can just stick me in home. I've been working since I was 15 (56 now). I was never taught to plan for retirement cuz I was going to be married and my husband would take care of that. RIP love ya Pop but you had that one wrong.
“A wise woman builds her house. But a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.” (Proverbs 14:1)
Its all in the WORD🙏💯
Amen.
Kevin wasn’t even talking to her he was talking to her daughter. That’s why he kept it going.
Both..
Yeah, cause she's a lost cause at this point with all this generational failure.
He was talking to the daughter. That mammy is lost. Sorry. Don't sugar coat it....
Lack of self-awareness is deadly!
He does seem to try harder when they mention kids. Though they usually forget about them until the end of the conversation.
My mom and my dad had me and my brother in their late teens. My mom left my dad in her mind thirties because she thought she could do better as her career was starting to take off and my dad was just an average man. Good hardworking man, great father but obviously not on her "level". Through the next 15 or so years she went through numerous men trying to find that high value man she thought she deserved. During that time her business went broke and I had to lend her money. The HVM never eventuated so in her fifties she ended up "settling" for an average man who was pretty much a clone of the average man she left when she left my dad. By the time this man came into her life she was penniless so he pretty much had to pay out all her debts and take care of her and on top of that she was diagnosed with brain cancer which has left her incapacitated and unable to walk let alone work and have this incredible career she always dreamed of. If it wasn't for this incredible man taking care of her who knows where she would be. I feel so sorry for him because he's given everything to her and it's such a massive burden on his shoulders. He cares for her full time, cleans her, feeds her etc..as her son I feel a deep sense of guilt at not being able to help out more but at the same time I have my own young family to take care of..I feel a sense of resentment towards her because an adult in her fifties shouldn't be broke and burdening other people to take care of them. I get she didn't ask to get sick but I can't help but be resentful at the decisions she made during her life. It's mind boggling some of these women that KS speaks to talking about they deserve something that they really don't. They really do die alone or burdening their kids to take care of them. ..my dad btw remarried a great woman and he is getting ready to retire at the age of 56 with a few houses and more than enough money to live comfortable in retirement. Not bad for someone that isn't "high value"
how your mom talk about your dad now ? did she regret leaving him ? and why the other man feel obligated to take care of her ? is he beta who doesn't understand she just settled for him ... A.K.A plane B ?
Damn, bro! Sorry to hear this story.
Wish you and your family well, yes, your mother also. We feel what we feel.
@@aquilifergroup stop it
Powerful (but very heartbreaking) story. A lot can be learned from what your mom went through. Thanks for sharing!
She's been living a fairytale her whole life, Disneyworld is fitting
Straight Facts!
Well said!
I agree 💯 , the delusion is real.
It’s sad and she had children on top of that this is a sad case is what we called woman these days rather be a baby momma then a wife ✅✅
@@JoeBlack540 facts it’s sad she too old too be this slow
My favorite quote from The Godfather movie is “Women and children can be careless, but not men”.
That quote is real listening to this woman.
So true
Most women i know in their 20s are living recklessly.
This is more real than cam be adequately expressed.
Facts lol
The more I think about this, the women in Don Vito’s life can afford to be “careless” because they have men like the Don and Sonny in their lives.
However, this woman and other modern women can’t afford to be careless in this world. As Kevin pointed out, the pandemic made this clear.
_"I have never met a suitable husband in my entire life."_
Then where did your children come from? Either from a suitable man, or from an unsuitable woman who was "having her fun". Stop spreading that nonsense, for the sake of everyone alive now and our future generations. Thank you Kevin, you're absolutely right. This ought to be studied in schools.
The first thing came to mind when she said that is what does that say about you?
That part pissed me off too. She's so flippantly said "no". As if there had never been any suitable men around her in her entire life. Complete bullshit.
They were around her but she didn't choose them because they didn't make her tingle like Pookie and Ray-Ray did.
Women are not exaggerating when they say that. She probably still has that teenager check list in her mind for what makes a good man and rejected dozens of potential spouses because they weren't perfect.
I was asking myself that same question 😕 Thank you
So who was the person sho**ing her club up? This is why men are developing hateful, rueful, feelings towards women.
Whenever you hear that “grunt” from a woman after he makes a point or a statement, GUARANTEED she’s not hearing a damn word. And refuses to.
That's what I was always think!! I'm thinking she doesn't gaf about what he's saying. She might as well yawn
People saying Kevin shouldn't bother with her.
But really, it's not for her. It's for her daughters.
They're narrow-minded people. They fail to see that the problem is bigger than this video. It's not about this woman because she's just one person representing the toxic ideology and bad culture that is tearing families and relationships apart. Everyone, including us but especially future children are going to pay a huge price with the type of thinking this woman has.
Facts
It's for OUR SURVIVAL
@@gezenews Men? Most of those "men" have multiple baby mommas and do not stick around.
@@pumelelabanca4806 51% of black men are single and have 0 kids ...
So actually most men dont have multiple baby mommas.
She said she will work at Disney World 😂. As someone who may currently work at WDW let me tell you that yes we are hurting for workers, but not workers in their 70s. That age group (60s-70s) have been retiring faster than we can train new workers because the hours are long, the weather in central florida is brutal, and the jobs are quite demanding on the person.
Plus even if you do get a job at WDW, the cost of living around the Theme Park areas have exploded. You won't be able to afford a 1 bedroom apartment BY YOURSELF at the entry level wage Disney pays...
It's almost like people forget California and Florida are hot when they talk about working outdoors.
Thank you for sharing your experiences
@@jubei187 absolutely. Most of the jobs will be outdoors and require long periods of standing in the 90F+ degree heat. Apartments are averaging $1,500+ for small one bedrooms in less than decent areas.
The rent is so disproportionate to the wages the local motels and hotels are extended stay for the local workers. They can't afford a car or an apartment so they live close enough to the poor transportation system to get to work. These people, especially women like her need to truly think before they jump.
agreed , here's what just happened few hours ago while shopping at walmart. i saw a black worker female in her I say 50 having a herd time picking up a sack of rise and put it on lower shelve . I dont make this up she said " I can't pick it up too heavy" I went and helped her picking it up . so this black female here thinking she can work as getting older is same as young then think twice .
In College I did an internship at Disney and omg they worked us like slaves. The people who worked there warned us to never come back lol
You can really see the hurt in Kevin’s Face. He really trying to help our community y’all. We got to take this seriously!!!
It's a wrap.. It's been over with for a very long time..at this point we passport brothers are Not going to deal with the madness that's coming from the modern day American Women.. Why should we?
People are watching Dr. Tony Martin videos on the Secret Relationship of Blacks and Jews
@@gardnerwinnie798 thank you! I was thinking this but you wrote it!
He is hurt because he can see her face in a crowd of homeless woman standing around a burning dumpster trying to survive in there old age.
In the immortal words of James Kirk: "Let them die."
My mother was exactly like this. Never planned for the future. Refuse to plan for a rainy day. My mother had a massive heart attack at 63 and had to retire. For the next 10 years she had to live off social security and the tiny 401k she had. Her 401k barely had $50K. .The only saving grace she had was that her mortgage was paid off but my mother continued to spend money like she was still working. 10 years later she had a massive stroke and died. She left a ton of credit card debt and unpaid property taxes for me to pay off. Not to mention she had cancelled the home owners insurance without telling me , so for at least 5 years there was no insurance on her home. But if you asked her while she was alive, everything was fine and she had plenty of money.
This woman illustrates one of the main reasons so many financially unstable people have kids: so they can have a meal ticket in old age beacuse they made poor financial and life choices in their prime. Shameful behavior.
A lot of cases
I would say that that has been humanities “retirement plan” since time immemorial. It’s only in like 2-3 generations (in the west), that a different way has been possible. Let’s see if it lasts.
Yup and if they aren't sure their kid will succeed, they just have more than one to increase cash flow
@@GomChingu it's a very reptilian mating strategy. Just make a bunch of em, some will make it.
It is pathetic. A responsible parent is thinking of what they will leave for the kids. Keeps me a wake the whole night.
"Taking care of grandma" is supposed to mean bringing her the occasional meal, mowing her yard and getting her prescriptions filled NOT mortgaging your and her grandchildren's future to cover up for her lack of planning.
The type of person who leaves NOTHING to their kids when they die = "Now remember to take care of me kids"
KISS MY ASS WITH THAT SHIT!
I grew up in China. I am impressed by Kevin’s up-to-date knowledge about what’s happening in China.
China have some of the longest history relating to traditional roles and family
As they say - what happens in the east, usually trickles down to the west in some shape or form. In order for Kevin to help, it's wise to stay up to date with the comings and goings around the world.
@@TC-cd5sm lol...when did they ever say that. As i see it its the other way...wester culture is getting adopted by china, india etc and its wrecking havoc on the way things are done.
It's common knowledge.
What's cooking good looking?
This woman cannot comprehend at her age that there will come a day when she physically can not work. So many people say oh I'll work into my 70s. Reality is by the time you are in your early 60s, you're about done. Especially if it's any kind of physical job where you're not sitting. All it takes is a bad knee, hip, foot pain. Happened to my mom at 62.
How do you have three kids but never really had a serious relationship? That is crazy.
Exactly. I don’t get it at all.
I know a girl with seven and no prospects
@@aqua_finessa6030 who does all that f**king with no kind of commitment? Something went wrong.
@@SivvySiv its hard to find women who dont do this. media, environment, friends and family, too many factors, but many people in our society cant take accountability.
@@SivvySiv people sleep around like that all the time. It’s not okay but it’s acceptable
“This world is not set up for INDIVIDUAL PEOPLE!” We need to get back to community people!
It is important to be a whole individual before entering a romantic relationship. Knowing who you are. Individual people didn’t equal alone and not having a community
@@SuckerPunch92 That is true on a separate topic. That’s in regards to building relationships. My comment is in the context of tribe/village/community. We were never meant to live isolated separate lives. We were meant for doing life together. Winning and losing together. Building together. Helping eachother. Loving one another. A whole village raising the village kids together. Hope that makes sense.
@@shandinalani32 I agree.
amen, we need Faith, family and vigilance
Word!
That woman came across like a child in an adult's body, so all attempts by Kevin to convey logic fell on deaf ears but instead like a child, once pressed on the reality looking bleak without a plan, she quipped about heading down to Orlando (Safe haven like a Disney fairy tale). Mental health has plagued these women and the unfortunate thing is that for them LIFE IMMITATES ART. This exchange IMO was PAINFUL
Why bash her?
She was at least attentive and respectful. I give her a 7 on attitude
Kevin knew from outset what this woman was gonna do.
He kept it going for the express reason he mentions at the end. This conversation should be a study hall lecture and an open debate in those things we used to call Universities.
She was hopelessly delusional from the start.
He uses these conversations as teaching tools. For those other woman in their 20's and 30's who still have a chance for a better outcome.
@@Markbell73 FACTSSSSS
@@jon_s can't use 7
As a young black man from South Africa who is 25 years old, I have learned a lot from Mr. Samuels and I'm grateful he is sharing his wisdom for free...
"All it takes is a Bad Medical Diagnosis and you'd be bankrupt.." DEEP POINT!!
For. Real.
Well that is misleading. The most common reason for personal bankruptcy is loss of a job. The most common bill is a medical one, but people would rather pay the rent than pay the doctor. Not often does a medical issue bankrupt a person.
@@odysseus2656 say it louder
It shook me
My dad started to spend more time with my aunt, she’s in her 60s and calling to say she’s lonely and having suicidal thoughts because she didn’t prioritize relationships. Breaks our hearts. This is very real.. thank you for teaching this
That's her problem.
@@alexdenton9176 Exactly! So why are you worried about it?
@@Cloudborneaudio Who said I was worried?
@@alexdenton9176 you’re still replying 😂 you care enough to give me your energy
@@Cloudborneaudio But you’re the one who replied 🤔🤔
She put on a brave face, but we all know she went to sleep crying while reflecting on her poor life choices. Regret hit hard when the delusion falls.
Nope. It didn't even faze her. She won't reflect on this until she's in her late 50s asking why she isn't getting any help
Bro, women don't reflect... she was distracting herself on tiktok or messaging multiple male orbiters until she went to sleep..
No, she slept like a baby after concocting a whole bunch of new lies to make herself feel innocent. At 60 she'll crap her pants crying "VICTIM!!!"
You’re giving this woman way more credit than she deserves lmao you have to have the ability to comprehend before you can reflect on something.
@@finallyfriday. and life will give how many fs that's the sad reality is they're only hurting themselves..
Thank you for the content. As a black woman, you’ve challenged me to unlearn a lot of behaviors that I was taught that are holding me back from finding a Christian man. I’m in my early 20’s and am thankful I’m learning this now.
I wish you the best.
You're highly privileged to be learning this at an early stage.
Success to you in finding a godly husband
Update! Are you married?
That laughing tells me she is scared out of her mind. She is "beyond repair" is absolutely correct.
She probably reflects on the quality guys that she passed up because they were not attractive enough, or too boring.
@@j.baldwin3012 I know some of my exes are doing so
@@wkatc007 HA, I hope you are the guy they wish they didn't lose. If so, good job.
I’ve observed this too. Almost all women I know are terrified of their own minds.
Oh, that’s what the laugh is about? Because I kept saying what is so funny?! He hasn’t cracked a smile once! It’s not funny! I’m cooperating with my husband. I left my first husband, but I now got a great second chance and I’m not losing this one. Wish her the best!
The "need to be right" was on steroids with this One.
Like full on
Basically Child inside an adults body 🤦🏼♂️
That's almost with every woman. It's like they'll die to say you are right, I'm wrong. Like I tell my wife, from here, I'm not going to jail. So I'll admit when I'm wrong. Try it too!
@@haddingtoniangcp2464 This is why when talking you cant admit you are wrong to a woman. Because she will never admit wrong and you just end up looking like the bad guy
Hahaha good one
"She was trained by a failure" is all that needs to be said. This is insane that they don't see what they're doing to each other.
What percentage of us were raised by a failure
Most of us in single households behave off of impulse which is chaotic especially with certain life situations the ability to be able to make right decisions
Look outside see for yourself you have grown men and women doing the most for social media
@@tarharqataseti9261
Good question.
I would say at least 50% of us.
And that is a conservative estimate.
A very good question.
@@factsoverfeelings815 bw is what you described lol 😂
How in the world can Kevin do that to himself day in and day out?! That guy cares more about his community than his community cares about itself.
You caught that to huh?? I thought I was the only one. Can't be mad at that but he should've told her the brutal truth
@petertrzos6645,,,to answer ur question....the paycheck
This broad has a magical “I’ll cross that bridge when I get where” mindset. Talk about a self-destructive approach life.
And she probably wonders why she's broke at 40. When her peers were working hard in school she figured a good job would just do a drive by on her life.
@@thedredgod: Many of these broads are also careless with their money because they automatically expect to find a husband who will pay off their debts. Especially those who have graduated college.
the rest of us don't want to be in the "blast radius" when she self-destructs.
Being collateral damage to children like this ain't fun.
i thought that was the chick from "the facts of life"😳☝️
@@gezenews: Don’t let her smiling or laughs fool you. Those were uncomfortable ones I promise you.
This is true. My parents need to be cared for now, they didn't prepare and it has fallen on me. I have put my life on hold to care for my dad. Which is scary.
You’re a good person. A lot to folks don’t care about their parents.
Thanks for your honesty😎✌✌
May God bless you for it.
My great grandad is 92 & still clears his own drive way with a shovel. I hope you’re taking care of your parent due to an unfortunate illness & not them being unhealthy & lazy.
My parents who have had their own business for over 30 years making good money are trying to get their retirement square....there's a lot to think about...ppl gotta b wise
We, as black women are so delusional, and we get mad when reality hits. Kudos Kevin for speaking the truth!
Not your fault. But at least you see the light now
Great you see the light. Educate your daughters different because this present is nothing. Really bad times are comming very fast. Best luck to you.
I'm just happy at least some on you women do listen earlier than later. 😔
Accountability, its a beautiful thing. Go get your man luv
You are aware so you should not associate yourself with the bad apples
I remember years ago this 19yo girl, while talking about marriage and how she's going to be independent. So I said to her, "Then you're marriage will fail."
And when she asked me why, I said to her; "Because the definition of the word 'independent' is the exact opposite of the definition of the word 'marriage'."
Truth bomb! That must have hurt her to hear that.
It happened to my mother. She was laid off right before retirement age and can't find work. The companies did a costs vs benefits and found that it's cheaper/better to hire new younger workers. My single mother was a hardworking and capable woman. She is still in shock regarding the laid-off because she believes that she is still young, healthy, and capable. The problem is that companies don't want to hire/keep elders because young ones are quick on their feet, have lower pay rates, in better health (i.e lower health cost, recover quicker, can work longer hours, and can work in harsher environment), easy to train, more flexible, and can work overtime for longer duration.
Same. My mom is 63 and always talked crap about her boss calling him Donald Trump Jr. Blah blah blah, but he is a multimillionaire optometrist who own multiple building, residential real estate, etc. He sold his company to a national chain for millionssss and she was scared what would happen to her but "Donald Trump " looked out for her, oh yea she has lived in one of his properties for the entire 8 years she worked for him and he just deducted rent from her check. I had to remind her this is the most stable she has been in her entire life, and she should be thankful that man is as generous as he is.
@@DaContentGod wowwww. She should be VERY grateful
It's what they did with my dad, before the organization kicked the bucket and went bankrupt. He maintained business running and took care of other colleagues, paying the bills and managed the books.
They sent a younger trainee to work under his wing, and suddenly gave my dad the boot before retirement. He's now doing odd jobs here and there for small businesses and offices, but it's not enough.
@@megaboy28 dang sorry to hear that 😑
@@megaboy28 it’s treacherous out here.
"A fractured mind is useless to a man who wants to build."
That powerful quote just stopped me in my tracks.
Thank you, Kevin!!! Thank you!!!
It took me 6 years with a woman before I figured out what KS pointed out in 30 sec.
It’s sad to say most bw have childlike minds and don’t deal with reality
@@benaiahyasharala3929 Its not just bw bro :]
Facts.
The way she laughed at the end when she knew she was getting kicked off the call... everything is a damn joke.
Women are living their lives on easy mode!
She too old too be this childish trust me a lot of these modern woman are like this
But the joke will be on them in the end.
They all think life is a game. That's why they sleep with whoever, whenever, and however. Nothing is serious to them until they're life is on the line, then they're confused victims.
Deflection from her trash dialogue.
We needed him more than we’ll ever know - and some still don’t get it
this just shows the mentality that is killing relationships. She'd rather work til she dies or depend on her kids than to work cooperatively with a Man. that is just crazyyyy SMH
Because they can tell their kids what to do and they can be bosses. With another person they have to compromise.
Damn... 😥
Sound like passive aggressive action to be.
Yup! That about sums it up
She was enjoying the entire conversation like it was a date at Red Lobster laughing & giggling while Kevin was being serious the entire time.
Good example!!
Speaking of lobsters, she also needs a dose of Jordan Peterson 🦂🦂
That's because she's there for the attention. Not for the wisdom. She doesn't care.
@@encryptedwolf7623 yep, this is the closest to an adult conversation she gets to have with a man, this is a fantasy date
@@twoonthewall I didn't even think of that. Good insight!
She's going to cry in the car, she knows everything Kevin was saying is true. Even when I try to talk to my sisters about some of these things or anything that revolves around reality they always dismiss it and get very defensive. Alot of women just don't want to hear it, they're just worried about now and not their future. I pray they get it together 🙏🏿
It's called narcissism and they won't get it together
She's to stupid to get it later on.
@@footballcoach3862 **Too
Save your prayers for women that desire to actually work with men.
@@gezenews Her smile probably got her a long way when she was young and pretty.
All of my relationships have failed because of discussions like this. I’m an average man looking for a reasonable average woman who understands the reality of money and how to pay for the life a woman wants. A partnership is hard to find.
There's a reason the middle class is dissapearing: the little money they have left? THEY BLOW IT. Half the reason the middle class is going bye-bye
Damn I feel this. 99% of these chicks are hopeless just like most guys
I used to think like her, between ages 19-21. After I lost my job at 20, and went without for 5 months, i knew that life wasn’t a game once the money stopped coming in. I’m 24 now, and now when it comes money, i prioritize money management to the point where i dont even like spending more than I save. I’m not going back to what i was when i was 20-21, looking for work
His point tho was to prioritize having a man
I used to think like her until I got pregnant and I lost my job. I realised that I need my man and I really appreciate living this reality that KS speaks about.
@@laurencekangne2894 I know that’s right!
The scenario your describing is only one way. There’s no shelter or government checks coming I think we as men understand you’ll be left to die in the cold and no one will care
This woman prioritized having multiple children, but not developing a relationship with a man.
🙄
Well she said it true, shes counting on her kids to help take care of her. Since she didnt get a man shes trying to pass the responsibility on to the kids not realizing how SELFISH that shit is. Ypur kids looking out for you in your autumn years should be a blessing not an expectation born of guilt
@@jlogan2228 True. Another delusional woman that is more a concubine than a wife.
Notice the women said, “ Define serious. A couple of years?” It’s a problem that our women just think that the length of a relationship makes it “SERIOUS”. And don’t think it’s actually the intention between the two people involved.
Spot on!
Facts!! 👍🏾👍🏾
Very true, excellent point!
This whole conversation went over her head! 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
She’s back on her magic carpet. 😵💫
"A nation can rise no higher than the moral perspective of its women". Best thing I've heard in a long time. Great video & reality check!
Words of Elijah poole Muhammad.
@@skyjuiceification actually prophet muhammad said this 1000s of years ago.
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
― Mary McLeod Bethune
@@450dzay5 actually these are not the words of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). But if you believe I’m wrong, can you show us your cited source?
Shes 41 and hasn't seriously listen to anything this man has said to her...swear you can't tell black women anything but lies...smh
Fax
If he told her she is a beautiful queen who is better than men in every way, she would have listened and agreed promptly 😆
@@airgunballistics1779 I’m outta here 😂😂😂😂
Truuuuuu💯👌🏾
@@airgunballistics1779 🤣🤣🤣 I laughed so much to your comment but it's the truth. The delusion is beyond insanity now.
"No prophet is welcome in his own country."
Kevin speaks the truth and the people he cares for reject him for blissful ignorance, excuses, entitlement, and pride.
There is a reason you equate some TH-cam podcast with religion. Because you're nutty.
@@MoonwalkerWorshiper or it's an analogy and you need to calm tf down. Only thing nutty bout me iz deez
@@bagamias-hula Doze nutts are blue 😟
Videos like this make me reflect on myself and hug my husband. It makes me humble myself real quick.
That is not “Worst case scenario.” I know a 78 year old woman who got laid off because her company got bought out. Nice lady and always up and out the door to work, but the company decided to downsize. She was also the provider for the household consisting of a 60+ year old woman and a 30+ year old woman and her 10 year old son. Both the “younger women” were jobless at the time. The youngest woman still is. Three generations of women in a household on the verge of being homeless.
Her so called “worst case scenario” is THE future scenario for a lot of women out here.
How in the hell can you be 30 and allow the people you live with to be homeless.. you better bus ride the fack out soomewhere and pick beans and pay them damn bills. Idgaf thats byeyond lazy and i see it daily !
@@jamasco8790 since I wrote this post the two “younger Women” have moved out and in with each other. I know at least older one has a job. Not sure about the younger one. The elderly lady that they were living with is on a fixed income. I can tell it’s hard for her some days.
Kevin thank you for telling these woman about future planning.
I hate math, and listening to him do those numbers humble me everytime 😂
*women
@@yasmeenah.b you're such a superwoman. The Lord bless you sis.
You simps don't realize he's not for men.... He's helping predators who are betting on taking your resources for their security
@@redpillscience1288 but he also teaches how to vet a women so that the predators are weeded out.
This is so real….me and my wife make a little above $200k combined, and I have a sister and her husband who are making probably $30-40k more than that. We all stay around the Houston area. My mother in law, who is estranged from her husband for 8+ years, lives in an elderly apartment complex my wife manages. She’s a 57 year old waitress at IHOP. I saw the writing on the wall years ago. The crazy part is my sisters mother in law has had multiple husbands/men who made over 6 figures and all she did was cheat on them. Now she’s living at the same complex (thanks to my wife) getting about $800 dollars a month in Social Security. And that’s it. It’s a shame. These women aren’t prepared for the later years at all. And from what I’ve seen in this video, they don’t seem to have a clue. Just an entire generation of lost women with no security but their children.
That's an Absolute wake-up call!
They ruin countless man in the process
And their children are BROKE. Millienials are BROOOOOKKKKKEEEEEE. There's not going to be any bailouts. Gen X has a couple bucks, Millenials are TAPPED OUT.
All these people will be HOMELESS
This is the result of High Time-Preference culture.
A single mother of 3 stated the same "No" answer after being asked 3 times if she's ever had a suitable man in her life. Then just giggles it off.......To even consider half of our women may think like her is sickening. 🤢
Listening to that was exhausting. It was like trying to explain to a 5 year old , she is going to die one day. She can't believe it, won't believe it and can't conceive it. Listening to the denial of inevitable consequences, due to poor planning is exhausting.
Great analogy. It's painful and sad to hear.
It's draining honestly. And the fact that she just sits there smiling sheepishly, it's so ....I don't know. KS is truly trying. I won't be surprised if he books a therapy session after every show. I am tired on his behalf.
“But even on the Titanic there were some survivors so…” Boy if that doesn’t crystallize the thinking of most women I don’t know what does. So many think that they’re the exception to the rule.
The not me mentality
BUT everybody always thinks THEY’RE the exception.
Glory to God I met my husband at 24. Married 7 years, 3 kids, I'm a stay at home mother and BLESSED! My mother is that single rebel that's broke and looking to us to take care of her in old age - she prioritized education and thankfully God stepped in to save my future. Kevin is showing the raw truth!
I have consulted single mothers for free in the financial coaching space. Many have had the same mindset as her. They spend uncontrollably and barely save. 401ks are limited investments these days, you can only invest in what the employer’s plan is offering which is usually low risk and low return. My significant other also does not understand the importance of this. I have us saving a little over 30% of our income. I spend hours researching investments and make moves with little appreciation for the work I put in on this stuff. Ive grown some of our investments over 50%. I really wish more of our black women were wired to understand the importance of financial literacy and having help mate to assist along the way. My granny was great at it, she poured it into me.
Thank God for your Granny 🤲🏿
Our elders are a national treasure!💎
@@quentinparker7404 Amen
@@bentnotbroken4192 Yesir May she continue to rest in heaven.
Sounds like it's time to trade in your significant other for a better model, before she drags you down with her. That mindset of hers is only going to cause stagnation for the both of you. If she doesn't understand or appreciate what your grandmother could, then she's just impeding your upward mobility. SYSBM
This almost made me cry. My aunt just passed away and her mentality was just like this. I hope the best for my people.
Most women know exactly what they need to do to fix the issues. If they could only say, "Forget what the other women think of me, I'm doing this!", most of those issues would be fixed.
💯🎯
Sisterhood is god too these women.
Speak
It's all about seeing the worth in a partner and in men honestly. Me and my 2 best friends have all been married for years and we we all work hard to maintain healthy marriages that revolve around compromise, loyalty and selflessness. It's not about having everything 50/50 it's about having a true partner and when you develop that partnership then you have no issues giving 70 when he only has 30 to give. When you have a husband whose a good man and works hard and loves his family... Shit is on another level lmao. But a man doesn't get there without a loyal woman who has his back and helps him develop that passion for his family.
Like crabs in a bucket.
Kevin’s content is honestly is giving me some of the best teaching I never got. I never had a dad to tell me this stuff. To know my worth as a man. It holds me to live to a higher standard
Her attitude is horrible. Can’t wait till she gets a reality check
I know I'm wrong for this, but her smirk and cocky know-it-all attitude makes me want to see her homeless.
“I’m a business owner” I’m an entrepreneur” “I’m my own boss” “Multiple revenue streams” “Generational wealth”…Insert the latest social media slogan/catchphrase/buzzword here. Same old story and you can only laugh to keep from crying.
Yep! There’s been an industry for the last half century dreaming up the latest buzz words.
Most women do not believe this could happen to them.
Also they don't believe that there is a high probability that they will be alone forever, because they have men piling up in their DMs
The *gamblers fallacy,* is strong with modern women.
This modern woman saying she going be working at Disney world in her 70’s that is so sad 😞
I am a man and you get me thinking. Thank you, Kevin.
"mmhmm."
"mmhmm."
"mmhmm."
Kevin don't bother, her ears are off.
🤣🤣🤣
Made me angry😏😩
The truth is often told in jest. She jokingly said “that’s what my children are there for” in reference to who will take care of her when she’s old. If Men relied on their children in old age they would be considered sorry. Stop taking care of your rebellious moms who didn’t prioritize marrying your father. She didn’t care enough to have a father for you but wants you to take care of her when she’s old? You’d be a fool.
people that say this kind of thing are the worst but they get their 'karma'
Many old people get left in homes and their children hardly ever see them. In korea and Japan it's bad, expecially in Korea. The children, many times, leave the parents, move to another city and never come back
so you get a lot of old lonely people
It's called narcissism..... That's how they view their children
Nah bro. Take care of your mother.
@@Sweet-Rat-Milk even if she didn't take care of you?
Yeah, but then what kind of example are you setting for your kids by not taking care of your mother? We can't let the poor character of others degrade us into being less than we are capable of being.
“You don’t think you’re failing.” Powerful statement.
Yea that line was crazy. She didn't even catch it
I’m 25 and I’m so glad I’m hearing all this. The reality is scary. Thanks Mr Samuels
I’m raising a 14 yo son. I’m terrified for what his options are going to be. These women are childish, egotistical, and delusional. And I’m a black woman.
Your son is doomed
@@kasseen Nope, will probably marry someone outside his color
@@aldendiaz1165 most definitely
Go to the east or sumn find a Caribbean woman
@@aldendiaz1165 Whoever treats you right, treats you right. So be it
Mamas like her will definitely expect to move in with one of her daughters and disrupt her daughter's marriage and household. That husband did not sign up to take care of his wife, kids and her mother. Stop counting on your kids to save you. Get your own life before it's too late. 💯
This country is facing a retirement crisis for all. Social Security isn’t enough to cut it. Now we have a housing crisis and inflation. This lady is living in La La land mentally
Not to mention supply chain crisis.
Not all, some of us are saving and investing properly and will be just fine :)
SS was never supposed to be enough for retirement. It was to supplement a pension and retirement savings. 401k's were developed for a 3 tier retirement (pension, SS, 401K) - that was the way it was 'supposed to be'. In reality, when 401K's become extremely popular (the norm), major corps stopped providing pensions for the average worker.
@@raycebannon6374 …that’s correct, however 401k’s were originally developed to give employees a tax-free way to defer compensation from bonuses or stock options. It was a vehicle for wealthier investors.
As a 28 year old south Asian male - this was a wake up call even for me. I’m not married but actively dating. Very important for men to choose wisely when it comes to women. If this woman is representative of even a slightly large subset of women aged 18-25 now, the next generation is in major trouble.
This is wild. She looks and sounds so much like my three younger sisters. Like they're not processing what's told to them. In one ear and out. Most unconcerned and it worries me every day and every time I talk to them.
You can not put an old head on young shoulders. (Dont give up).
@@agentagent1424 can't put old wine into new bottles.
She just have to have a smart aleck response to everything. She ain't gonna get it until she's homeless, then this video is going to be the *"I told you so"* reminder.
I've met about 40 homeless women in the past 4 months and no amount of homelessness snaps their brain out of delusion.
And they all go for the pity woe-is-me play everytime.
Never accepting that they put themselves in that spot
we have massive amounts of homeless elderly 40+ women living in their cars in the ingles parking lot here south of atlanta
It is May 12, 2024. KS died over 2 years ago. He must have had a crystal ball because in this video he forecasted so many things that have come to pass.
I work at a Trader Joe's with several women who were prob lookers in their day. Now they have to hoist heavy boxes every morning. They are early and late middle aged, childless, single, and they have decades of life leftt- even as their health fails them. Bachelor tax incoming, gentlemen.
I shop at many places and peeped that
I have a friend who works for Trader Joe's.....dead on accurate brother.
Already here in Michigan (I think, or Illinois; either way, one of those democratic hellholes).
@TONY DPHAX KING you have a book? Is it on Amazon?
They're also at cafes too. I was trying to get with this middle aged single mom but she wanted to be on guard and I had enough
They hate the bitter truth, but they love 💕 them sweet sweet lies
KS straight up called her and the child she trained failures. Dang, he's bold. (She def does not agree on either count)
Cause the truth hurts 😭😭😭
I tried to exsplain this type of stuff to my last GF , Went right over her head , The last thing I told her was good luck working at 70 ,
She started that I don't need a man BS , Even told me her girls can take care of her , Then proceeded to kick her girls out of a home she will never pay off , She has very little 401k , She won't have 100k by 62 in it , 51 and acts like she is 30 , Was nothing but an anchor
Glad you told her to go kick rocks barefooted.
Congrats
Dating a broke 51 year old with bum kids? What we’re you thinking
@@Lestergreen77 Long story, Ive known her for 45 years. Best advice I can give to anyone, Never date because your lonely, Lonely people make bad judgement calls to avoid being lonely ,,,,So make sure your past the lonely phase before you date anyone,
@@stevew6910 makes sense
She finds everything he saying funny. He hasn’t cracked a smile once! I’m a woman I am so glad I started listening to him long time! I took everything he said to heart! I got on it! I won’t be a burden to my kids. I hope and wish my momma the best!
Man kevin is like the father I never had, since listing to him as a man I have had a big fucking wake up call....I used to think this shit was a game, thinking oh I can use my looks to get whatever I want and later down the line the shit will work itself out....reality check.....that is how you die alone...man now I know I don't need the best looking woman, I just want a loyal, honest woman with her head on straight so we can go through life together forever and have eachothers back....I don't want to die alone....I know even making 60k a year that shit is not enough.....I'm on my a game now and I'm not playing anymore....Mr samuales you are a absolute God send to youtube brother I appreciate from the bottom of my heart everything you do sir...
Listening *
Clearly these women are not talking to a financial advisor. The advise Kevin is giving is the same thing financial advisors share. Inflation going up, cost of living going up and she is oblivious to the reality that her current position in life is leaving her at a major disadvantage.
You need some amount of humility to go to a financial advisor.
Well I'll just repeat what the woman said in the interview.
That's what I have my kids for.
In other words her kids are her retirement
Plan.
Black men aren’t either so it’s a viscous cycle of irresponsibility leading to a grim future for the black community
@@AsAugustSleeps you mean common sense
Why so much Black women soooo clueless.?
Man you gotta give it to kevin. Constantly trying to educate people who have no clue what's waiting for them in this great reset. Fellas save yourselves too now, invest invest invest.
Indeed. Specially finding a home and paying it off before retirement. Then have enough to be able to live of dividend/Interest.
What is this "great reset" that you speaking about?
@@ronmckoy7085 everything will be destroyed,
And rebuilt under a new law
@@ronmckoy7085 Look up the “World Economic Forum” and Klaus Schwab. Follow the White Rabbit all the way down the hole.
@@ronmckoy7085 you should look into it! I remmoned you do and be prepared for everything in the future👋
I had a colleague at work who's mother suffered from dementia. According to him she was extremely forgetful and a danger to herself. Was divorced and living alone at the age of 68. It got to a point where he had to quit his job and attend fo her fulltime. His other siblings refused to help for whatever reason.
Moral of the story is we will all get old and require care. Having a spose will help in more ways than you know. Stop making selfish choices that your children will pay for.
You can hear the PAIN in his voice. He’s in anguish over this woman’s inability to see the bridge is out
Facts bro. It’s sad smh
Great observation and analogy. Respect.