I developed a theory… I don’t consider a woman engaged unless a man has done one of three things which shows he actually intends on marrying her 3: Ask the fathers hand in marriage As Kevin says male figures being out of the dating process has caused the rise in divorces 2: Has he paid towards the wedding? Especially dress and flowers… How you spend your money is how you spend your future 1: Asks you to go to pre martial counselling No man wants to do this so if he does this, there is no “fake” engagement
Colin Reese. All Men have to do (especially the 20% these females genuinely desire for) is turn there backs on them including not giving them free attention & validation. Once the bs that they have gone away with can longer be tolerated then the question can be ask...""Ladies," what do you bring to the table when it comes to relationships?"
ALWAYS, either you bring the chaos to them or they bring it to you. This is why in the olden days men had 6 or 7 kids, because she's so damn busy with them kids that she's got no time for sh else.
I love how Kevin respects other men’s boundaries. His advice to women in relationships is always “listen to your man,” “what did your father tell you?” etc.
@@davinj4806 more than that. We're biblically living outside our roles. Woman are trying to be men and men are now wearing dresses. It's obscenely repulsive.
He did not ask her to submit, he is just asking her to not be disrespectful. Why when a man asks women to do something to improve the quality of their relationship they see it as men wanting them to submit? Most of these relationship issues have nothing to do with submission, it has to do with compromise.
Because they think doing anything he wants is old testament biblical submission. Used to be other women would set her straight. Nowadays other women sabotage a young woman with an actual chance at marriage and white picket fences. They resent they threw that away themselves. And instead of owning it and teaching the girl what not to do, they screw her over with bad advice.
@@icecold9511 yes...the female conversation about relationship probs is fucking wild...I be hearing them calls and just feel bad as hell for the person being spoke about.
Here's a scenario that I wish Kevin would have brought up: Kevin: "let's say you're hanging out with your man, and one of his buddies disrespects him. When they have a disagreement, this 'friend' says all kinds of disrespectful, hurtful things to your man, but he still continues to hang out with this person and keep him close. Would you respect your man if he did that?" Her: "no! I would think he is a punk and I wouldn't respect him!" Kevin: "then why do you expect him to take that from you, and YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE HIS WOMAN?!" Obviously Kevin pointed out the foolishness like he always does, I would just love to hear a woman's response to this
women and peace in the same sentence just don't go together sorry. There are Harvard studies about it now there's no excuse, get married at your own peril fellas.
@@kadeemjoseph8138 A good man doesn't require that lol. A good man only requires a good body, fun and for me to have my own goals. I require the same from a mqn. If a man is requiring all of this extra stuff, he ain't a good man.
@@billwayne6775 that is actually the best way for a man to proceed today. I'm just referring to the men that do want marriage....even though I don't recommend it in anyway shape or form.
@@brandonjohnson7729 I used to have the fantasy that I would finally find the perfect wife . When I realized it was a fantasy and what the modern options are it took a while but I got over it . Marriage is outdated and we have to move on brother .
“Either give him what he wants or leave him alone and let him go get a woman that’s going to give him what he wants.” That’s very good advice…let him go. This really helped me. 😌
Max Fit, she never took Accountability 101 in school, while the vast majority of men passed that class with high marks and internalized it into their lives every day! Women rarely are accountable for their negative behavior! Red flag city indeed!!!
She’s not going to have to ‘let him go”. If she doesn’t change her behavior, he’s going to LEAVE HER! Period! And she will never be able to do any better than the man she has now. Kevin is just trying to be diplomatic with her.
Kevin hit a nerve when he said he's treated you so good you lost respect for him. And I know exactly what he's talking about because I'm dealing with that BS with my wife!
Don’t listen to these people. Marriage is more of a commitment than girlfriend, exhaust all options first and try as neither of you are perfect. Tell her assertively what you won’t tolerate and why
I actually said this to my (not at the time) wife once: "Well, if I have so little to offer, why are you still here? There's the damn door...step through it and keep f*ckin' going forever. Trust me, I'll be fine alone. I was alone when I met you so I can be alone again. Better that, than a disrespectful woman trying to get loud and wild with her tongue. Take THAT BS out of here." Been married 20 years, learned to pick my battles...and shine a light on the lines she'd best not cross.
@@jasonBGI ' boom ' he's leaving out how much he had to pay her to walk out those doors. Should not have been married in the first place you still took an L and so did your wallet
I love that Kevin realizes that it would be disrespectful for him to overstep his boundaries by going against what her man already stated what he wanted! Good job Kevin!!
Women saying _yes_ or _no_ to a marriage proposal, depends upon a *man* proposing. Want to be proposed by a man of value? _Be_ what he values. It’s literally _that_ simple.
I'm not saying that we should bring back the tradition some cultures had of a "bride price". I'm simply saying that it would be interesting to see how the market would react if women could see their value fluctuate in monetary value. You have all these student loans for a job that doesn't justify it? Well, at least the difference gets deducted. You have a bunch of consumer debt? That's another deduction. You're not a virgin. Yep, another deduction. Oh, you got a smart mouth? That's money deducted. You had kids with another man? Yeah, that's a *big* deduction. So on and so forth.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey you are not saying we should bring back "bride price," but i'll say it. yes. bring it back. in fact, in many cultures it still exists. too many bw are spoiled.
@Steve L she feels like she wants to change her disrespectful behaviour. no where in her words do you hear a plan of changing the behaviour. you do not hear “i am going to.” “i am planning to” she says i definitely want to stop as it its smoking cigarettes, or worse she makes it sound like shes trying to get off crack.
@@twotymer4458 They actually call in because deep down inside they are looking for help. Mind you that the women who are like this woman who believes that they did nothing wrong. Those are the type that don’t call.
That is a fact. He also does it to show power that's why many people will follow. I've been studying this far & wide as long as before trump was in office. KS carry some of the narcissistic traits. People stuck on the"why" cause he's not helping the situation. As a avid reader, I've noticed a chemical imbalance in the black community that needs to be addressed. I will not judge people, I want to get to the root of the problems of what is wrong with people. I've been married since 1993, knew my husband since 1989. I know about men to a T, he gave me all the man codes. So, I'm not against KS, he need a better resolution. 5-30 minutes conversation with a person you don't know; will NOT solve an issue. It's just being addressed and nothing accomplished.
Golden question...in the heads of this young women they think they can move to another man in a giffy sure she will cause she thinks she has all the time and she is you in enough, thinking that they will get a better man until the wall hits ...
I am actually surprised to hear her admit she couldn't find better because that is the issue. Even when the have a much greater than avg man most women still feel they can do better
@@eationlewis9348 cause they want to compete with male energy that they will loose all the time. they hate it that men do better than thenm they hate that they have to rely on the patriarchy (men) system
Him: I want cake. Her: Here's pie. Him:. I wanted cake. Her:. I feel like I gave you cake. Him:. I'm leaving. Her calling Kevin:. Black men leave their families.. 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
@@nicolea.7501 What the man wants doesn't suddenly stop after they have a child. And if she pushes him out of the house, she must take equal responsibility for breaking up the family.
What's funny is these women are quick to accuse men of having an entitlement complex,But think they're entitled to have it all and think they don't have to give nothing in return, But of course that's not an entitlement complex when they do it,It's standards.
If you were to ask a woman to list 10 things that a man and woman wants in a relationship or marriage she will come back with 12 things a woman wants and less than 10 things that a man wants cooperation, appreciation, less attitude and submissiveness is not on the man's list they want you to have what they want you to have. Sex will be on a man's list but will not be on a woman list. Each list will have very few points that align with each other. This is the core of where the problem lies with women and men because they don't want you to confront them with this. Can I get a shout out Amen.
This woman isn’t a feminist, she’s more a modern woman. Feminist, to me, means that the woman has given actual thought to her part in things, the modern woman just lives off the thinking and work done by the feminist. The modern woman is simply entitled and gives no thought to the feelings of the men in her life.
And I hope he never marries her. Because she's never going to change. Remember she learnt this from her mother. Whoever knows this guy, let him watch this episode. So he advises himself.
I wouldn't risk marrying her even if she said "Yes, I'll change". People at her age and with such habits can't change easily and marriage could boost her privilege to the point of no return.
Don't talk down 2 your man like he's beneath you...cuz that's the SAME man u would expect to step up and protect you....I commend the caller for being honest ❤
She's honest because she's a narcissist with pretty privilege. She is smart enough to know she can't do better, but since he hasn't left her she doesn't care and the minute he leaves she'll be dragging him through the court system blowing his phone up trying to make him stay... Yes it's nice he's being honest and not bashing the man but I don't think it's genuine intent
This woman is Cleary not honest. "I agree" "you're right" "I know". She is aware. Watch her actions not her words. Bringing toxic females into a married home is a sure way to break a family. This friend came inn, turned the energy into negativity then left. She is just playing a long while continue whith the BS.
Those social media memes of : “if you can’t handle my attitudes and slick mouth you too weak for me” really got to y’all women’s heads lol now look at you. Losing your man and blaming everything but yourselves.
They're just jokes... It's to read and have a quick laugh and move it the f on. Not LITTERALLY take on that attitude and bring it into the home. It's litterally Coming out the phone, I to their eyes, into their mind, and now the husband dealing w it. Music, movies, TV shows, the radio, Everything has this bs in it.
A chick once said to me, "I see you can't handle me." I replied, a real woman doesn't need handling, because her shit is together!" And that was the last convo we had. Two mths later I was 5000 and yes she tried to flex on me once more time. smh
@@maxfitt227 that "can't handle me " $ht, is code word for "you won't let me act like a brat, and a bch queen with the sassy attitude so I can walk all over you" They want to walk on u, and if u let them, they roll their eyes and look at u as if ur weak. The second u DON'T let them, they see it as a challenge. They get mad at that moment, then here comes the "I'll just make u jelous then" little game play. "Oh that guys so hot, or this one's so handsome " flirting etc. You gotta just be happy and content alone. This let's u walk at any moment when that bs comes out. They want a weak guy to gain automated stability. Next they want to go out and PLAY. The higher the risk the more fun it feels if they get away with it. If caught they gas light u and make it YOUR FAULT they cheated. Hell naw. No one put a gun up to ur head and FORCED YOU to do anything. They cry bc they're about to lose that stability. This is why they try to marry u to get half and with a baby its money ontop. Here comes the attitude and if u don't obey they threaten it. So many chicks change who they are once they deliver the baby. Then blame it on alllllll kinds of stuff just to get the guy to go along with it. Never cave never give in.
The saying goes “Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself” but I guess she heard “Don’t treat yourself, cheat yourself” 🥴. That self sabotaging behavior is rampant amongst many modern women 🤦🏽♂️. Therapy therapy therapy!
And it all seems so simple for them to fix, but they damn attitude wont allow them to, The more submissive and feminine you are,the more us men will have you good..it seem so simple to us,why they cant see lol
I know women who’ve gone through therapies for years and that ain’t even work. They already know what they doin wrong they just don’t want to quit doin it
The first thing I told my wife was that marriage is not about love but it’s about compromise. She was furious but 5 years later she tells me that it was the best advice I gave her regardless of how hard it was to hear
98% of the problem is the things that they've already told their "friends" that they were not going to do. Most women who are experiencing this are more concerned with how they look to their "girlfriends" and are addictively obsessed with making sure they keep all of the promises they made to the peanut gallery. You'd be surprised to find out who's all in the peanut gallery.
Big facts!!! It’s ex’s, mother’s, nieces, friends, sister’s that they told how they was gone act and now they would rather keep that promise than Change for you. Chunk them the deuces and tell them to tell the peanut gallery that it worked Like a Charm 👍🏾👍🏾
I had a wife who’s mouth was just like hers… I found myself constantly apologizing to others for my wife’s verbal behavior….. I was sooo glad to get away from her and all her verbal BS 🤣🤣🤣
I love my wife so much; she listens to everything I tell her. And if I disagree with something, she accepts it. She doesn’t overrule my opinion or decision. I love it. We don’t argue or fight. We talk and use reasoning. It’s simple.
So you have a doormat not a wife. A wife will tell you when she disagrees with something and you work it out as a team. A doormat will hear you say stupid shit and agree with it even though she doesn't really agree. That's a doormat Nothing wrong with disagreeing as long as you can sit down and talk and understand one another or meet eachother half way so you're both happy. But to just sit there like a robot and say yes sir, is wrong. She has the right to share her opinion too she's not your dog
What you have is not a person but a puppet with no self-respect, as what the first reply says, having a partner is a PARTNERSHIP not indentured slavery, Jesus Christ.
They'll agree all day, but once the camera is off, they'll go back to the usual. If she does not cooperate, get rid of her. Never try to change her. Find a woman that knows how to be a woman.
Exactly, I bet less than 1% of these women change. I suggest above average men, or high value men travel abroad to find a wife, and leave the American ones for the below average
Same wife will agree when people around and soon as we get gone it’s arguing and fighting as usual. At this point I vowed never to marry a White woman but damn. My options are starting to expand
She needs help understanding her role as a woman, to keep her man and herself happy in this union. She is not understanding the word submissive. It’s not about being a mans slave, it’s about your role as a woman to operate a pleasant home life for your kid/family, so when he comes home he’s not walking into a battle field of push back.
“I want _____, but why should I give him what he wants”. I don’t care what she wants; it could be anything. Her reluctance to reciprocate and/or compromise is the problem.
OH shit man, you nailed it. My last gf was exactly that: expected ME to compromise to fit her agenda but hell no she won't compromise one freaking thing.
Cause she not trying to hear it. She know her controlling and rachet days as far as her mouth are coming to a end. It all sinks in after she got off that call. Reality check. Sucks she listened to another man and not her man to get the understanding.
@@lucifermorningstar4548 F&F are the only people allowed to say “How dare you?” Really? You have A LOT of online personalities to police, then, people who were saying it before them, likely because it’s just a normal ass phrase lots of people say sarcastically.
He is absolutely right, I was the same as that girl and took advantage of a guy who I thought wouldn’t leave. Well he did & found a girlfriend and I regret it every single day because I know we would be together if I wasn’t doing too much.
pimpmyride yeah I learned my lesson thought & I am changing my ways. One of the biggest lessons of my life , that’s the only way I feel like I’m gonna get another chance is by change.
You’re just one of many who learn this lesson after the damage is already done, but at least you’re mature enough to realize your faults and do differently next time around. Too many women do this to men that would happily be with them but once he’s gone it’s nothing left but regrets ⚡️⚡️⚡️
A lot of women seem disingenuous when they treat men badly. They think there are no consequences to behaving badly It doesn't matter whether female or male - bad behavior is bad behavior I did an experiment on post-wall feminist friend who was behaving badly * I don't call, I don't help fix stuff, don't give advice Leave them alone to stew by themselves She straightened up right away She won't admit to behaving badly though
This right here works. Leaving them by themselves is the best antidote. Not only does it help them reflect but you as the man gets some peace and quiet.
I think I have a family of female relatives with either mental or comprehension issues. Feminism may have exacerbated their conditions. Their conditions may also been passed down from their parents, who immigrated in this country but never learned to observe proper etiquette. But these women, who mostly went to college, should have learned and improved themselves. The worse one came up to me yelling about an agreement her father and my father came to 20 years before. She was blaming me for missing war medals. And I said I would replace them (I know how to work their the military bureaucracy and my US Congress Person), and she continued yelling that my solution could not be done. Of course, I replaced them but worked the paperwork through my aunt. But the yelling relative seemed so clueless and rude without even considering how ludicrous her behavior was. She connected to me on FB in a way to make up, but I unfriended her when I got way to many request to play candy crush (I don't play games just because they are a waste of time and don't give you any exercise). Better to stay away from crazy.
The fact that she really needs Kevin's approval before she does the rightful thing is just the height for me, where in the world is been respectful up for debate??
Why would you want to bring a child into the world with a woman who disrespects you?He should have thought about this before he got in the bed with her.
@@peteriabivens6217 Why? I didn't hear her say anything about being a bad father. He can be a father to his child without marrying the crazy mother. Marriage is a bad idea period, but when the woman admits to treating him the way she does, hell no he shouldn't marry her.
The way your partner treats you when you're dating (when everything is fresh and exciting, sexual attraction included) is the best he/she is gonna ever treat you. Pay attention and chose wisely!
He’s not going to marry her. She already had the baby. She’s a fool. I don’t understand why women who want to be wives think making a man life hard is going to motivate him to marry them.
I think they're stupid. That's going to make it even worse they won't get married. They can't be disrespectful to a man and think the man would greet them with kisses and hugs after all that.
As someone who came dangerously close to someone like this (a single mom no less🤦♂️) they absolutely do this. Their behaviour gets worse and they look for any opportunity to shame you into marrying them not knowing they're sabotaging their own plans. Which comes back around to women wrecking their own homes.
I’m glad KS posted this I thought I was the only one who found it disrespectful to seek other men’s opinion instead of just listening to there man... she obviously don’t trust your leadership
Eventually men realize she is who she is and I’m not waiting on her to grow up or change any more. When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time.
I don’t even think ghandi could be as patient as KS. Women are quick to listen to other women’s relationship advice about how to deal with their man, especially when they’ll be the first to admit that their friend sucks at relationships but the moment another guy gives a girl relationship advice, it’s like the guy slapped the woman. Ladies cannot possible think that they’re the wrong one. Blows my mind.
@@redscorpion9325 Let's not forget that they have a child together and therefore she has the entire legal system behind her ...the guy is walking on eggshells
It's odd how so many women call in, so that Kevin will agree with them, but they get mad when he calls them out on their bullshit, and holds them accountable.
Nothing to do with temper. She doesn't take any accountability. When she is called out, she agrees with it, subconsciously pretending to care. Free spirit.
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At least her responses were truthful! And when the truth was revealed to her she didn't flip out on Kevin! But this has become a classic example of the modern woman. They can't really see their behavior or what it brings! They know they don't want the result of their behavior but DON'T KNOW HOW TO AVOID IT....
Tory, I disagree. I do not think it is not knowing what to do, but more an unwillingness to do it. Most women today want it all their way. Sadly, men giving into them and their wants, only reinforces the attitudes and behaviors of women, thus making them even more unwilling to do what is needed.
@@titanjake8640 You are 100% correct, the fact that she knows everything, and this man specifically told her she just called him to say my man wants this and I don't care but Kevin what do you think about it. The man is still there so she doesn't care and this call proves it, she knows he won't leave likely because of the child in the court BS So she's going to run this ragged
I broke up with my gf of 5 years because she refused to submit, after she had already had 2 kids with 2 other men. Like KS says she thought she was the prize! That she could do better.
@James Baker the only reason she gave me her number is because she saw another baby momma flirting with me, on a daily basis. Lesson learned. My dad and brother both raised another man's kids with reasonable success I thought I could do the same, WRONG!
Always say NO to taking care of another man's Ohhh! If you don't get the fun of producing them, you shouldn't have the responsibility of taking care of them.
@@redlord-blacksigma3856 You, and they, will never have as full as a connection to each other without that DNA link. It can work but it won't be as strong and there isn't any "safety chain" that blood provides. Risky and less fulfilling (sounds like a beer ad, huh? "Blood Lite")
She just said that she had a father figure in her life. Her mother was in and out of her life. Clearly this man that raised her wasn't her biological father. Instead of being appreciative toward this man. Her mother showed him disrespect. Now this woman still has issues with men. Admits to being mouthy and disrespectful to her man. This is a cycle that is passed from one woman to another. This just proves, no matter what, the role of the man isn't appreciated. Therefore, men need to continue to go their own way.
Kevin, thank you for having these conversations. Seriously. This is very much needed and especially in our community. Your videos have been hitting home recently. Thank you. I’m a 20 year old male and can feel and relate to everything you say. My grandmother is the last of the “big mamas” in the entire side of my family tree that is relevant to me. Where did things change 🤦🏽♂️
For me, I learned that as a man, if I want kids in my 20s, and don't get them, I certainly don't want them anymore. Same thing with women and relationships.
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its good that he started it back. He was doing it through out Feb to April which were his best months, and then all of a sudden decided to stop which was weird. But hopefully he keeps it up. Many people can't watch the full shows so these clips are very important. The last clip he posted is already over 300.000 views. All within 24hrs. Thats proof right there how much appreciated the smaller clips are.
@@bandiddid8583 You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!! I love listening to him while working(when I can), driving and especially while cleaning up...that’s when I can listen to the longer episodes but these shorter clips are where it’s at when you have 💩going on and you only have 10-20min at a time to yourself! The longer ones will have me ignoring people because they are so good if I were to listen to them when busy...ESPECIALLY on a Sunday💯😂
@@duncanmugambi6213 my apologies if I was unclear 🙄 the answer to the title of the video is they shouldn’t give men what they want unless a man presents themselves as suitable. And sweethearts because more than one of you have replied; I’m not talking about myself or men I know. In this space your peers (other men) have used the exact word-cultivate in his response to what men need from women and the nerve of women basically to not want a build a boo. The response is to you all in regard to your own term and “requirement”. There’s also not a question on the comment I replied to. Maybe you thought you were someplace else reading something else, but I’ll slow down so you can stay on topic.
Kevin really out here cracking unsolved mysteries as to why these relationships don’t work. He would be an amazing lawyer the way he interrogate some of these women and the way they tell on themselves.
That would be good. Every time a woman talks bad or disrespects her man get her on the camera and talk but the man is going to sugar coat his words to not offend the woman. Real men aren’t scared to say what is on his mind about a woman 💯💯💯💯💯
I like that term... respectful cooperation aka submission. Also, disagreeing respectfully. There's never a need for a woman to say things to a man that would provoke violence had a man said it.
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Submission is WAY different from cooperation. Cooperation means you and your partner listen to each and think about what's best for the both of you at the moment. Submission means one person gets what they want while the other gets trampled over.
The sad part about this is that for a man its much more peaceful just living alone, with money and dating for "fun" or having women as friends only. It feels like they are all feminist in one way another.
@@reese85 I change my phone # cause she kept calling me motherfu🤬, I said don’t call me a motherfu🤬 I hate that word. She call me the next day and I asked her how she got the new # she said, sum motherfu🤬 gave it to me!
Been watching Kevin for a few weeks now. I can not respect this man enough. I have tried hard to pick apart his arguments but I cant. His logic is not flawed and every man and woman should hear him.
I never really planned to be married but maybe just maybe when I get to that good financial place in life and make that decision, I’ll have a good idea of how it should be. Thank you KS
Mr. Samuels. In the morning before I go to work I watch your videos. It reminds me to stay vigilant about Leykis 101 when it comes to add-dult females.
what i hear is.... "My man wants the bare minimum but i DONT CARE, and i do as i please cause he'll take it.". "Kevin should i give him what he wants even though i dont want to?"
“We’ve been engaged for two years.” “I’m really mean and disrespectful to men, and I don’t understand why he won’t marry me.”
Man, but she will cheat and be an Angel and not a headache to the affair
Exactly! Duh 🙄🙄🙄
I developed a theory… I don’t consider a woman engaged unless a man has done one of three things which shows he actually intends on marrying her
3: Ask the fathers hand in marriage
As Kevin says male figures being out of the dating process has caused the rise in divorces
2: Has he paid towards the wedding? Especially dress and flowers…
How you spend your money is how you spend your future
1: Asks you to go to pre martial counselling
No man wants to do this so if he does this, there is no “fake” engagement
@Anonymus X Weddings in all cultures involve family (Point 3) and require to be paid for (Point 2) correct?
Colin Reese. All Men have to do (especially the 20% these females genuinely desire for) is turn there backs on them including not giving them free attention & validation. Once the bs that they have gone away with can longer be tolerated then the question can be ask...""Ladies," what do you bring to the table when it comes to relationships?"
If this is how a woman acts before she’s married how bad will she behave when she gets that ring? Hell no red flag city.
She wants a gold ring because deep-down she's actually Sauron.
Correctomundo. She is NOT a wife.
Facts
She'll be cheating on him. She'll have to get with an Ike Turner to get straight. She just has to say the right thing to the wrong 1.
It really doesn't matter at this point. The fact they have a child together. He is screwed either way!
HER MAN TOLD HER WHAT HE WANTS SO SHE CALLS AND ASKS ANOTHER MAN WHAT HE THINKS 🤡 THE DISRESPECT
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for real like what is up with that, and the fact she have access to another man like that is BS
I'm dealing with that right now partner. And I'm counting the days. About to walk out this door.
These modern women are trying to avoid anything that gives men an edge with power dynamics even if is not in the best interest of the children
All the reason to single
Go white or asian. Works for me.
This is very true sad to say and don't see the effects it puts on a household
Get anything but a black girl, latina girls don’t be tripping like that . They crazy but they submit at least .
Good luck 👍
Bro you said something right there
KS is spot on. Once a woman gets too comfortable around you, inevitable the disrespect begins to happen.
Amen brotha!👍
Yes sir
ALWAYS, either you bring the chaos to them or they bring it to you. This is why in the olden days men had 6 or 7 kids, because she's so damn busy with them kids that she's got no time for sh else.
CGA been preaching this point.. marriage is inevitably doomed with time
@@ibizawavey8630 🤣🤣🤣
I love how Kevin respects other men’s boundaries. His advice to women in relationships is always “listen to your man,” “what did your father tell you?” etc.
Cuz the men r legit telling the women and the women ignore them and run to kevin
Not a damn thing. That’s 1 of the reasons why some women are single now.
Facts!!💯💯
read rollo tomassi's book
@@davinj4806 more than that. We're biblically living outside our roles. Woman are trying to be men and men are now wearing dresses. It's obscenely repulsive.
To many women see peace as being boring.
Well hopefully a cat is exciting enough for them
Western dysfunctional mindset
@@JDMHaze they might throw them over a fence with a dog just to c them run lol
Chaos + Confrontation= Relationship(In a woman’s eyes)
Better bachelor did a video about this. Women start fights because they think that this shows he is invested in the relationship
If the guy left her she would get angry and run him through the court system.
correct
Yeah, she would sick her White daddy on him in a heartbeat!
Yep , happened to me
Cheaper to play his role smh
Yup my oldest just turned 18yrs old and my youngest just turned 17yrs & I’m 44 boi I made it y’all brother stay strong
He did not ask her to submit, he is just asking her to not be disrespectful. Why when a man asks women to do something to improve the quality of their relationship they see it as men wanting them to submit? Most of these relationship issues have nothing to do with submission, it has to do with compromise.
Because they think doing anything he wants is old testament biblical submission.
Used to be other women would set her straight. Nowadays other women sabotage a young woman with an actual chance at marriage and white picket fences. They resent they threw that away themselves. And instead of owning it and teaching the girl what not to do, they screw her over with bad advice.
This right here.
@@icecold9511 yes...the female conversation about relationship probs is fucking wild...I be hearing them calls and just feel bad as hell for the person being spoke about.
Wrong! Submitting has everything to do with compromise.
Right. It’s really not hard
Here's a scenario that I wish Kevin would have brought up:
Kevin: "let's say you're hanging out with your man, and one of his buddies disrespects him. When they have a disagreement, this 'friend' says all kinds of disrespectful, hurtful things to your man, but he still continues to hang out with this person and keep him close. Would you respect your man if he did that?"
Her: "no! I would think he is a punk and I wouldn't respect him!"
Kevin: "then why do you expect him to take that from you, and YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE HIS WOMAN?!"
Obviously Kevin pointed out the foolishness like he always does, I would just love to hear a woman's response to this
They would dance around it, knowing the outcome. And never give a straight answer.
Both statements are true.
Great point .
@@chadthunderkawk1650 10,000%. They think the lack of an answer _isn't_ an answer, when it really tells us everything we need to know.
Maybe he'll read this and use it later
If she can’t be your peace, then she needs to leave. Simple as that.
He's staying for his child trust
@@everfresh29 then he stupid
He need to hit the courts asap instead of being a hostage
on God
women and peace in the same sentence just don't go together sorry. There are Harvard studies about it now there's no excuse, get married at your own peril fellas.
Brilliant..
"Act like you need to act or run the risk of losing him."
This is it ladies!
Word! It all comes down to that.
If those are the requirements, I'll gladly leave and find another man 😌
@@whitedogsblackcats Not just any man but a good man,
Also women outnumber men so yeah you should
@@kadeemjoseph8138 A good man doesn't require that lol. A good man only requires a good body, fun and for me to have my own goals. I require the same from a mqn. If a man is requiring all of this extra stuff, he ain't a good man.
@@whitedogsblackcats You're a woman, i'm a man you can't seriously think you can tell me what a man wants right?
😂😂😂 they don’t even want to change their last name anymore. Marriage is over boys
No last name change = no marriage.
@@TC-cd5sm how about just no marriage ?
@@billwayne6775 that is actually the best way for a man to proceed today.
I'm just referring to the men that do want marriage....even though I don't recommend it in anyway shape or form.
Dam this shit sad bruh
@@brandonjohnson7729 I used to have the fantasy that I would finally find the perfect wife . When I realized it was a fantasy and what the modern options are it took a while but I got over it . Marriage is outdated and we have to move on brother .
Damn, she really shows how hard it is for them to just be decent. And that’s after a child and 8 years!
I doubt she can change, this is who she is.
Women are out of touch with being humble & respectful to a man.
@@kevingoode4703 but he has a kid with her. They’re tied for lifetime
Scary shit! I've argued if these beings are even full blown human. Perhaps they are some sort of hybrid that lacks empathy or feeling
@@pamelathompson2222 and it'll continue hence why alot of us won't bother mingling anymore.
“Either give him what he wants or leave him alone and let him go get a woman that’s going to give him what he wants.” That’s very good advice…let him go. This really helped me. 😌
She's not capable of even admitting her faults, so how can she be respectful?
Max Fit, she never took Accountability 101 in school, while the vast majority of men passed that class with high marks and internalized it into their lives every day! Women rarely are accountable for their negative behavior! Red flag city indeed!!!
She’s not going to have to ‘let him go”. If she doesn’t change her behavior, he’s going to LEAVE HER! Period! And she will never be able to do any better than the man she has now. Kevin is just trying to be diplomatic with her.
Kevin hit a nerve when he said he's treated you so good you lost respect for him. And I know exactly what he's talking about because I'm dealing with that BS with my wife!
Then time to leave your wife bro. No man should put up with a woman like this!
You ain't the only one brother. I know the pain. It's straight bullshit
Facts don’t deal with that shit bro. Leave her if it’s too much!
Don’t listen to these people. Marriage is more of a commitment than girlfriend, exhaust all options first and try as neither of you are perfect. Tell her assertively what you won’t tolerate and why
Just disregard her emotions. They can’t function if you don’t engage.
All it takes is one unchecked incident of disrespect for her to get comfortable.
I actually said this to my (not at the time) wife once: "Well, if I have so little to offer, why are you still here? There's the damn door...step through it and keep f*ckin' going forever. Trust me, I'll be fine alone. I was alone when I met you so I can be alone again. Better that, than a disrespectful woman trying to get loud and wild with her tongue. Take THAT BS out of here." Been married 20 years, learned to pick my battles...and shine a light on the lines she'd best not cross.
@@tonyjones1560 respect brotha brotha ✊🏽
@@tonyjones1560 BOOM.
The weirdest thing would be she probably got so wet for you right there.
These women NEED to know that we are in charge as men.
True bro
@@jasonBGI ' boom ' he's leaving out how much he had to pay her to walk out those doors. Should not have been married in the first place you still took an L and so did your wallet
I love that Kevin realizes that it would be disrespectful for him to overstep his boundaries by going against what her man already stated what he wanted! Good job Kevin!!
Once again, men you have the whole world open to you. Don’t deal with these things.
He probably care about his kid that’s why he probably didn’t leave
Factz! 💯💯💯✔✔✔👍👍👍
kid or not you may as well just get it over with, just delaying the inevitable and wasting time
@@AJ_roadway if a man stays for a kid when the situation is getting bad then idk
@@AJ_roadway Trust, that *is* the main reason he is there. I know from personal experience.
Women saying _yes_ or _no_ to a marriage proposal, depends upon a *man* proposing.
Want to be proposed by a man of value? _Be_ what he values. It’s literally _that_ simple.
True.
Facts right there💯
I'm not saying that we should bring back the tradition some cultures had of a "bride price". I'm simply saying that it would be interesting to see how the market would react if women could see their value fluctuate in monetary value.
You have all these student loans for a job that doesn't justify it? Well, at least the difference gets deducted.
You have a bunch of consumer debt? That's another deduction.
You're not a virgin. Yep, another deduction.
Oh, you got a smart mouth? That's money deducted.
You had kids with another man? Yeah, that's a *big* deduction.
So on and so forth.
Modern women have a hard enough time accepting the reality of SMV. Monetized value would be unrecoverable culture shock,@@RandomPerson-nd2ey.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey you are not saying we should bring back "bride price," but i'll say it. yes. bring it back. in fact, in many cultures it still exists. too many bw are spoiled.
Key quote “ never let women get comfortable. They believe/ know men are disposable and act accordingly.
She just started taking him for granted because she doesnt feel that he's going to leave, there is no sense of urgency
Right
Right
@Steve L she feels like she wants to change her disrespectful behaviour. no where in her words do you hear a plan of changing the behaviour. you do not hear “i am going to.” “i am planning to” she says i definitely want to stop as it its smoking cigarettes, or worse she makes it sound like shes trying to get off crack.
That’s what they do. Get another woman
My wife was the same way for 5 yrs i just filed for divorce. Now she's mad
People really dislike Kevin but he really doesn’t say much. All he does is ask questions and the guest tell on themselves
Really weird women call in.
@@twotymer4458
They actually call in because deep down inside they are looking for help. Mind you that the women who are like this woman who believes that they did nothing wrong. Those are the type that don’t call.
That is a fact. He also does it to show power that's why many people will follow. I've been studying this far & wide as long as before trump was in office. KS carry some of the narcissistic traits. People stuck on the"why" cause he's not helping the situation. As a avid reader, I've noticed a chemical imbalance in the black community that needs to be addressed. I will not judge people, I want to get to the root of the problems of what is wrong with people. I've been married since 1993, knew my husband since 1989. I know about men to a T, he gave me all the man codes. So, I'm not against KS, he need a better resolution. 5-30 minutes conversation with a person you don't know; will NOT solve an issue. It's just being addressed and nothing accomplished.
Exactly!!!! Shahrazad Ali was no different. They treated her like shit cause she was spitting facts!!!
Truth hurts
“If you lose him do you think you could do better?” DAMN!
When she looses him .......
Minor props to her by being self aware enough to be honest
Golden question...in the heads of this young women they think they can move to another man in a giffy sure she will cause she thinks she has all the time and she is you in enough, thinking that they will get a better man until the wall hits ...
I am actually surprised to hear her admit she couldn't find better because that is the issue. Even when the have a much greater than avg man most women still feel they can do better
@@eationlewis9348 cause they want to compete with male energy that they will loose all the time. they hate it that men do better than thenm they hate that they have to rely on the patriarchy (men) system
Him: I want cake. Her: Here's pie. Him:. I wanted cake. Her:. I feel like I gave you cake. Him:. I'm leaving. Her calling Kevin:. Black men leave their families.. 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Haha well played sir
Nailed it.
I laughed out loud. Thank you.
The man's job was to have his kid with a woman who gave what he wanted. If he leaves now, he breaks up the family.
@@nicolea.7501 What the man wants doesn't suddenly stop after they have a child. And if she pushes him out of the house, she must take equal responsibility for breaking up the family.
KS is spot on again, this woman is more of a feminist than anything. Her pride and ego wont allow her to give him what he wants.
What's funny is these women are quick to accuse men of having an entitlement complex,But think they're entitled to have it all and think they don't have to give nothing in return, But of course that's not an entitlement complex when they do it,It's standards.
Modern women don't give us any real incentive to date them. Look at how they act and talk.
If you were to ask a woman to list 10 things that a man and woman wants in a relationship or marriage she will come back with 12 things a woman wants and less than 10 things that a man wants cooperation, appreciation, less attitude and submissiveness is not on the man's list they want you to have what they want you to have. Sex will be on a man's list but will not be on a woman list. Each list will have very few points that align with each other. This is the core of where the problem lies with women and men because they don't want you to confront them with this. Can I get a shout out Amen.
@@davidjemison9480 Amen
This woman isn’t a feminist, she’s more a modern woman. Feminist, to me, means that the woman has given actual thought to her part in things, the modern woman just lives off the thinking and work done by the feminist. The modern woman is simply entitled and gives no thought to the feelings of the men in her life.
The efficiency of this conversation and the value of the information given is stunning.
At least she was honest about how women in this society are willing to be “side chicks” rather than “wives”.
She'd BETTER recognize!!!
She’s obviously one of them!
For them, being a side chick collecting welfare is far more exciting choice.
He is not marrying her. He already got a child from her. Plus she admitted she has an attitude.
And I hope he never marries her. Because she's never going to change. Remember she learnt this from her mother. Whoever knows this guy, let him watch this episode. So he advises himself.
I know I'd never legally marry her either.
He left a long time ago. His body is just still there.
Why would you want to bring a child into the world with a woman who disrespects you?
@@johnab.6578 child was probably conceived out of lust
I wouldn't risk marrying her even if she said "Yes, I'll change".
People at her age and with such habits can't change easily and marriage could boost her privilege to the point of no return.
Yup!!!! She wont change
Agreed
You wise
Well said!
Don't talk down 2 your man like he's beneath you...cuz that's the SAME man u would expect to step up and protect you....I commend the caller for being honest ❤
She's honest because she's a narcissist with pretty privilege. She is smart enough to know she can't do better, but since he hasn't left her she doesn't care and the minute he leaves she'll be dragging him through the court system blowing his phone up trying to make him stay... Yes it's nice he's being honest and not bashing the man but I don't think it's genuine intent
This woman is Cleary not honest. "I agree" "you're right" "I know". She is aware. Watch her actions not her words. Bringing toxic females into a married home is a sure way to break a family. This friend came inn, turned the energy into negativity then left. She is just playing a long while continue whith the BS.
Many BW mistreat their men which is the reason why they are left alone to fend for themselves.
@@JDMHaze plus the mere fact she’s turning to another man to know how to act is already overstepping bondaries
Got the "Set it Off" Queen Latifah cornrows in.
She is still cute
@@LOVEPISCES Not with that attitude she has.
If her hair were different would she still have the attitude of course. Nun the less she has an appeal
@@LOVEPISCES So you agree with a masculine attitude and look...? You're an enabler of their behavior.
Your looking to deep I just said she is a cutie. That's it
Those social media memes of : “if you can’t handle my attitudes and slick mouth you too weak for me” really got to y’all women’s heads lol now look at you. Losing your man and blaming everything but yourselves.
Hey B im down with u
They're just jokes... It's to read and have a quick laugh and move it the f on. Not LITTERALLY take on that attitude and bring it into the home.
It's litterally Coming out the phone, I to their eyes, into their mind, and now the husband dealing w it.
Music, movies, TV shows, the radio, Everything has this bs in it.
A chick once said to me, "I see you can't handle me." I replied, a real woman doesn't need handling, because her shit is together!" And that was the last convo we had. Two mths later I was 5000 and yes she tried to flex on me once more time. smh
"Date em all Sis. May the best man win"...only leads to the life of a cat lady
@@maxfitt227 that "can't handle me " $ht, is code word for "you won't let me act like a brat, and a bch queen with the sassy attitude so I can walk all over you"
They want to walk on u, and if u let them, they roll their eyes and look at u as if ur weak. The second u DON'T let them, they see it as a challenge. They get mad at that moment, then here comes the "I'll just make u jelous then" little game play. "Oh that guys so hot, or this one's so handsome " flirting etc.
You gotta just be happy and content alone. This let's u walk at any moment when that bs comes out. They want a weak guy to gain automated stability.
Next they want to go out and PLAY. The higher the risk the more fun it feels if they get away with it. If caught they gas light u and make it YOUR FAULT they cheated. Hell naw. No one put a gun up to ur head and FORCED YOU to do anything. They cry bc they're about to lose that stability.
This is why they try to marry u to get half and with a baby its money ontop. Here comes the attitude and if u don't obey they threaten it.
So many chicks change who they are once they deliver the baby. Then blame it on alllllll kinds of stuff just to get the guy to go along with it. Never cave never give in.
I had a vvomen call me a narcissist because, I said that, I don't date single mother's 😂😂.
The seller doesn't tell the buyer what to buy.
Your yearly salary is part of the contribution to her kids when you date single mothers.
Ask her to define narcissist
😂😂😂 Common tactics single mothers use to try and shame men. Keep doing you and ✌️ to her
Wow. Twisted logic. I'm glad you walked away
The saying goes “Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself” but I guess she heard “Don’t treat yourself, cheat yourself” 🥴. That self sabotaging behavior is rampant amongst many modern women 🤦🏽♂️. Therapy therapy therapy!
My O.G. Mr. Shot use to say "I ain't gonna treat you right, I'ma cheat you right" lol.
And it all seems so simple for them to fix, but they damn attitude wont allow them to,
The more submissive and feminine you are,the more us men will have you good..it seem so simple to us,why they cant see lol
she will ONLY be good for "target practice" when he leaves 😂
I know women who’ve gone through therapies for years and that ain’t even work. They already know what they doin wrong they just don’t want to quit doin it
The first thing I told my wife was that marriage is not about love but it’s about compromise. She was furious but 5 years later she tells me that it was the best advice I gave her regardless of how hard it was to hear
Why would her baby daddy marry her anyhow given the fact that she disrespects him. An argumentative baby momma is a complete turnoff.
Very true.
Facts. That anger they carry is a repellant for real. 💯
True but why get her pregnant? Regardless she’s stuck in your life now
Absolutely RK I agree. Why even get her pregnant because now he's stuck for life. Ain't that the honest truth.
Well what you expect when you plant a seed in something without commitment. Normalizing a baby mother is the issue!!
Bible says rebellion is as witchcraft
It’s promoted at the bookstore now
Can you drop the verse?
@Graustreif Elvanien
Witchcraft proves the Bible correct about it
@Graustreif Elvanien
About those practicing witchcraft-and avoiding them
@William Bower
Slavery changed forms. You’re still living the Bible only using euphemisms to feel optimistic.
Man, I so wish I could have showed this to my wife ten years ago. It could have saved us!
You dodged a bullet
98% of the problem is the things that they've already told their "friends" that they were not going to do.
Most women who are experiencing this are more concerned with how they look to their "girlfriends" and are addictively obsessed with making sure they keep all of the promises they made to the peanut gallery.
You'd be surprised to find out who's all in the peanut gallery.
Big facts!!! It’s ex’s, mother’s, nieces, friends, sister’s that they told how they was gone act and now they would rather keep that promise than Change for you. Chunk them the deuces and tell them to tell the peanut gallery that it worked Like a Charm 👍🏾👍🏾
They are 🥜🥜🥜
They live for worthless approval from worthless people at the expense of their mate. Bad investment. And many of these females are 'businesswomen'??!
This was my baby mum Bruh 💯💯
Twilight zone
Outer. Limits
Night. Gallery
Stephen. King movies and books
I had a wife who’s mouth was just like hers… I found myself constantly apologizing to others for my
wife’s verbal behavior….. I was sooo glad to get away from her and all her verbal BS 🤣🤣🤣
She try to get u back?..... "Hey Bighead"
@@antoniotula262 Yep… you guessed it 🤣
Saint. Timothy. Boulevard
Verbal abuse. Smh glad you got away.
AMEN!!!!! HAPPY FOR YOU!, WELCOME TO THE CLUB!.
I love my wife so much; she listens to everything I tell her. And if I disagree with something, she accepts it. She doesn’t overrule my opinion or decision. I love it. We don’t argue or fight. We talk and use reasoning. It’s simple.
So you have a doormat not a wife. A wife will tell you when she disagrees with something and you work it out as a team. A doormat will hear you say stupid shit and agree with it even though she doesn't really agree. That's a doormat
Nothing wrong with disagreeing as long as you can sit down and talk and understand one another or meet eachother half way so you're both happy. But to just sit there like a robot and say yes sir, is wrong. She has the right to share her opinion too she's not your dog
What you have is not a person but a puppet with no self-respect, as what the first reply says, having a partner is a PARTNERSHIP not indentured slavery, Jesus Christ.
@@arabian_empress he said she doesn’t overrule his opinion or decision and it’s probably vice versa they talk with reason
That’s how my gf is
God bless bro
They'll agree all day, but once the camera is off, they'll go back to the usual. If she does not cooperate, get rid of her. Never try to change her. Find a woman that knows how to be a woman.
Exactly, I bet less than 1% of these women change. I suggest above average men, or high value men travel abroad to find a wife, and leave the American ones for the below average
They have kids so men are more prone to stay in these types of relationships for the child sake
She’s probably an acrobat in bed that can do magic tricks with that disrespectful mouth, and that’s probably why the relationship has lasted this long
@@KV9599 exactly
Same wife will agree when people around and soon as we get gone it’s arguing and fighting as usual. At this point I vowed never to marry a White woman but damn. My options are starting to expand
"Yes" "Exactly" "I agree" "Definitely". They're always saying this but they ain't doing it..
“You need to give your man what he wants”
“Yes I agree, but I also think that-“
She’s not listening to one word😂😂
@@solookbro409 Too many men put up with too much bs from women.
FACT!
They clear the board by saying "I feel like..." Idiots!!!
The difference between "that's right" and "you're right"
She needs help understanding her role as a woman, to keep her man and herself happy in this union. She is not understanding the word submissive. It’s not about being a mans slave, it’s about your role as a woman to operate a pleasant home life for your kid/family, so when he comes home he’s not walking into a battle field of push back.
“I want _____, but why should I give him what he wants”. I don’t care what she wants; it could be anything. Her reluctance to reciprocate and/or compromise is the problem.
OH shit man, you nailed it. My last gf was exactly that: expected ME to compromise to fit her agenda but hell no she won't compromise one freaking thing.
Cause she not trying to hear it. She know her controlling and rachet days as far as her mouth are coming to a end. It all sinks in after she got off that call. Reality check. Sucks she listened to another man and not her man to get the understanding.
Exactly!!! 👊👊👏👏👏👌👌
@@muskokamike127 Indeed.
@@chocolatediamond9453 Indeed.
Her. "I want marriage so he will spoil me/son from another dude & I do whatever I want!"
Him: "Don't be fat "
Her: "How dare you?! REEEEEE"
Ayeee lol
If you gone use F&F “How dare you” lines, why not just do it over there?
I dont see you in the FNF chat anymore, you switched sides huh?
🤣
@@lucifermorningstar4548 F&F are the only people allowed to say “How dare you?” Really? You have A LOT of online personalities to police, then, people who were saying it before them, likely because it’s just a normal ass phrase lots of people say sarcastically.
He is absolutely right, I was the same as that girl and took advantage of a guy who I thought wouldn’t leave. Well he did & found a girlfriend and I regret it every single day because I know we would be together if I wasn’t doing too much.
If hindsight was 20/20…
pimpmyride yeah I learned my lesson thought & I am changing my ways. One of the biggest lessons of my life , that’s the only way I feel like I’m gonna get another chance is by change.
You’re just one of many who learn this lesson after the damage is already done, but at least you’re mature enough to realize your faults and do differently next time around. Too many women do this to men that would happily be with them but once he’s gone it’s nothing left but regrets ⚡️⚡️⚡️
A lot of women seem disingenuous when they treat men badly.
They think there are no consequences to behaving badly
It doesn't matter whether female or male - bad behavior is bad behavior
I did an experiment on post-wall feminist friend who was behaving badly
* I don't call, I don't help fix stuff, don't give advice
Leave them alone to stew by themselves
She straightened up right away
She won't admit to behaving badly though
This right here works. Leaving them by themselves is the best antidote. Not only does it help them reflect but you as the man gets some peace and quiet.
Why are you wasting time on a feminist friend?
She is using you...bin it, feminists are deluded humans.
@@odyseebetterthanyoutubeglo1767 She is on her way to being a non-friend. Have known a long time.
I think I have a family of female relatives with either mental or comprehension issues. Feminism may have exacerbated their conditions. Their conditions may also been passed down from their parents, who immigrated in this country but never learned to observe proper etiquette. But these women, who mostly went to college, should have learned and improved themselves. The worse one came up to me yelling about an agreement her father and my father came to 20 years before. She was blaming me for missing war medals. And I said I would replace them (I know how to work their the military bureaucracy and my US Congress Person), and she continued yelling that my solution could not be done. Of course, I replaced them but worked the paperwork through my aunt. But the yelling relative seemed so clueless and rude without even considering how ludicrous her behavior was. She connected to me on FB in a way to make up, but I unfriended her when I got way to many request to play candy crush (I don't play games just because they are a waste of time and don't give you any exercise). Better to stay away from crazy.
So glad I found him….he changed my life! He helped change how i think of and how I treat men now ! Thank you god father
God bless you queen!! Appreciate your honesty and will to change for the better!! We all gotta improve even us men as well!!
May God protect you and your descendants, we do desperately need
Ain't nothing changed you still the same smh
I think the wisest woman is a woman who actually listens to learn and learn to listen...
The fact that she really needs Kevin's approval before she does the rightful thing is just the height for me, where in the world is been respectful up for debate??
I can’t watch these videos anymore. It’s so depressing. I’m so afraid for my three sons
Same. These chicks are 🗑. I just avoid them on a daily basis. Apparently I hate myself lol 😂
I feel the same way. Our sons are doomed. They expect us to raise gentlemen when they are raising their daughters for the streets
This is why men with boys should red pill their sons at a young age. This is war. Don't leave your sons unprotected.
@@redlord-blacksigma3856 oh I did.They are older now and they get it.
Before you know it you’ll have a grandson
The guy should not marry her. She isn't wife material, period.
Why would you want to bring a child into the world with a woman who disrespects you?He should have thought about this before he got in the bed with her.
hes not marriage material...a man with morals and values would have married his child's mother...
@@peteriabivens6217 "Single women keep women single"
@@peteriabivens6217 Why? I didn't hear her say anything about being a bad father. He can be a father to his child without marrying the crazy mother. Marriage is a bad idea period, but when the woman admits to treating him the way she does, hell no he shouldn't marry her.
guys like you responding wouldn't understand. think its ok to create broken homes. its not ok for my kids, shouldn't be ok for yours.
Kevin is out here giving SAGE advice! Those who have ears, let them hear.
The way your partner treats you when you're dating (when everything is fresh and exciting, sexual attraction included) is the best he/she is gonna ever treat you. Pay attention and chose wisely!
Woman have not been brought up to be wives
Exactly they've been raised to be rebellious self entitled narcissistic Jezebels
Facts!
Whose raised them is the next question
"When a vessel is struck, its contents spill out." Thats why how people argue matters
He’s not going to marry her. She already had the baby. She’s a fool. I don’t understand why women who want to be wives think making a man life hard is going to motivate him to marry them.
I think they're stupid. That's going to make it even worse they won't get married. They can't be disrespectful to a man and think the man would greet them with kisses and hugs after all that.
It is problematic that you don't know that.
LoL fax xd
I commend her for calling in but she should make the changes for herself ....even if he goes she's ready the next time around....if it comes 😬
As someone who came dangerously close to someone like this (a single mom no less🤦♂️) they absolutely do this. Their behaviour gets worse and they look for any opportunity to shame you into marrying them not knowing they're sabotaging their own plans. Which comes back around to women wrecking their own homes.
I’m glad KS posted this I thought I was the only one who found it disrespectful to seek other men’s opinion instead of just listening to there man... she obviously don’t trust your leadership
Watching in South Africa! Your advice has world wide reach. Love you Kevin!
Proverbs 14:1 A wise woman builds her house, while a foolish woman tears her's down by her own efforts.
Facts.
Now that’s something that you can’t make up lol 💯
Preach it!!👌👍👏
We’ve got a generation of fools on our hands.
@@ZShenlong1 naw just heathens. LoL hahahahaha 🤣
Eventually men realize she is who she is and I’m not waiting on her to grow up or change any more. When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time.
They always tell on themselves, you just gotta listen to them the right way.
It's like watching a 2 year old come to grips with cause and effect...Kevin has Ghandi level patience.
I don’t even think ghandi could be as patient as KS. Women are quick to listen to other women’s relationship advice about how to deal with their man, especially when they’ll be the first to admit that their friend sucks at relationships but the moment another guy gives a girl relationship advice, it’s like the guy slapped the woman. Ladies cannot possible think that they’re the wrong one. Blows my mind.
they are chi ldren
Ain’t no fucking way Kevin. Tell em again. Sometimes I be talking to the video bro 😭💀
We all do brotha!!! Hahaha I feel u!!
Hilarious😂🤣😂😂
Lol me as a woman agree completely because this is extremely sad
She's not quaified to be a wife.
Str8 facts
Her Man is weak because he let her take over the Leadership role
Nor a mother
@@redscorpion9325 Let's not forget that they have a child together and therefore she has the entire legal system behind her ...the guy is walking on eggshells
@@redscorpion9325 No, not necessarily weak. He was thinking with his wrong head and that lead to an unwanted child.
One of the secrets to a successful relationship is not having to win an argument. If you are partners, it's not about winning or being right.
I met my wife in 2008 and even back then I understood what type of woman I wanted (fit, feminine, cooperative). Guess I was ahead of the curve
Please tell these men there are good women out here
@@keishapuryear8180 there ain’t at least not if they’re American.
@@keishapuryear8180 there are but they are few and far between
@@destroyerofsimps6574lies. But you don't deserve a good woman speaking that way perhaps that's why you don't find any
@@longjump08 depends on what people are looking for. I honestly don't believe women are the only superficial and selfish ones.
Thought she was gonna tell Kevin, "I need to borrow your car right quick."
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 or his VCR
Lmmfao!! Riiiight! Bye Felicia
BYE FELICIA😂😂🤣🤣
or his microwave
I can't with these women. They just don't care anymore. She actually knows what is going on and still won't fix it.
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The care comes with lofty conditions/requirements. The whole thing is more of a bargaining/negotiating transaction
Facts!!!
It's odd how so many women call in, so that Kevin will agree with them, but they get mad when he calls them out on their bullshit, and holds them accountable.
I an old white dude, Kevin is one of the best I ever listened to on men and women issues.
I really appreciate how Kevin gives advice on how to deescalate a situation
It sounds like she has a hot temper. Having a combative spirit always overrides good qualities that a woman may have. It is a major red flag.🚩
@@malikwilson7387 If a man was going to spend most of his time in the bedroom, then that might help. Unfortunately...
@@malikwilson7387 not worth it.
Nothing to do with temper. She doesn't take any accountability. When she is called out, she agrees with it, subconsciously pretending to care. Free spirit.
@@malikwilson7387 you are lost by brother
Yes mam .
Lmao someone really disliked this under 10 seconds of release, can’t believe people subscribe just to hate
The Matriarch works in mysterious ways.😎👍🏿
H8ters everywhere. Don’t be surprise folks.
What is there not to hate?
The truth is bitter & it sucks!
🤣🤩😂🤪🤣😆
That was big Shirley or some single mother that doesn't want to submit
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When you are wrong in a Situation, do the adult Thing.... Admit It....and keep the Love flowing.....
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At least her responses were truthful! And when the truth was revealed to her she didn't flip out on Kevin! But this has become a classic example of the modern woman. They can't really see their behavior or what it brings! They know they don't want the result of their behavior but DON'T KNOW HOW TO AVOID IT....
Tory, I disagree. I do not think it is not knowing what to do, but more an unwillingness to do it. Most women today want it all their way. Sadly, men giving into them and their wants, only reinforces the attitudes and behaviors of women, thus making them even more unwilling to do what is needed.
True but I guaranteed she flips out on her boyfriend/husband
Ah but they DO know how to avoid it. They all know. They just don't want to.
She is not even listening to what Kevin is telling her. She's a lost cause unfortunately.
They call in for attention.
@@titanjake8640 You are 100% correct, the fact that she knows everything, and this man specifically told her she just called him to say my man wants this and I don't care but Kevin what do you think about it. The man is still there so she doesn't care and this call proves it, she knows he won't leave likely because of the child in the court BS So she's going to run this ragged
@@JDMHaze right!! It is not right at all to me
Most bw live for drama.
@@jjmars9160 it's a curse fr
"When men talk there is a low level of violence" 💪🏾 You expect me to be a man in the streets but a punk at home?...
I broke up with my gf of 5 years because she refused to submit, after she had already had 2 kids with 2 other men. Like KS says she thought she was the prize! That she could do better.
Listen to what James Baker just said.
@James Baker the only reason she gave me her number is because she saw another baby momma flirting with me, on a daily basis. Lesson learned. My dad and brother both raised another man's kids with reasonable success I thought I could do the same, WRONG!
@@triggermike41 dad and brother, check that lineage ,rebuke repent and detach
Always say NO to taking care of another man's Ohhh! If you don't get the fun of producing them, you shouldn't have the responsibility of taking care of them.
@@redlord-blacksigma3856 You, and they, will never have as full as a connection to each other without that DNA link. It can work but it won't be as strong and there isn't any "safety chain" that blood provides. Risky and less fulfilling (sounds like a beer ad, huh? "Blood Lite")
Watching this was like hearing the things I never knew how to talk about... thanks for representing Mr.Samuels 🙌
She just said that she had a father figure in her life. Her mother was in and out of her life. Clearly this man that raised her wasn't her biological father. Instead of being appreciative toward this man. Her mother showed him disrespect. Now this woman still has issues with men. Admits to being mouthy and disrespectful to her man. This is a cycle that is passed from one woman to another. This just proves, no matter what, the role of the man isn't appreciated. Therefore, men need to continue to go their own way.
Kevin, thank you for having these conversations. Seriously. This is very much needed and especially in our community. Your videos have been hitting home recently. Thank you. I’m a 20 year old male and can feel and relate to everything you say. My grandmother is the last of the “big mamas” in the entire side of my family tree that is relevant to me. Where did things change 🤦🏽♂️
For me, I learned that as a man, if I want kids in my 20s, and don't get them, I certainly don't want them anymore. Same thing with women and relationships.
This is the one right here....
This is very real! And in today’s relationships there’s always one running her mouth and can’t understand why her man is stressed
Thanks~~~~
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I just LOVE these short clips Kevin puts out!💯🔥
its good that he started it back. He was doing it through out Feb to April which were his best months, and then all of a sudden decided to stop which was weird. But hopefully he keeps it up. Many people can't watch the full shows so these clips are very important. The last clip he posted is already over 300.000 views. All within 24hrs. Thats proof right there how much appreciated the smaller clips are.
@@bandiddid8583 You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!! I love listening to him while working(when I can), driving and especially while cleaning up...that’s when I can listen to the longer episodes but these shorter clips are where it’s at when you have 💩going on and you only have 10-20min at a time to yourself! The longer ones will have me ignoring people because they are so good if I were to listen to them when busy...ESPECIALLY on a Sunday💯😂
@@SaltStorm007 💯💯
Love it.....more digestible
The *HIGHLIGHTS* chapters
Being a wife is to much work for them
Too***
These men are still being cultivated that’s why. Many act like an additional child based on how needy they are.
@@duncanmugambi6213 my apologies if I was unclear 🙄 the answer to the title of the video is they shouldn’t give men what they want unless a man presents themselves as suitable. And sweethearts because more than one of you have replied; I’m not talking about myself or men I know. In this space your peers (other men) have used the exact word-cultivate in his response to what men need from women and the nerve of women basically to not want a build a boo. The response is to you all in regard to your own term and “requirement”. There’s also not a question on the comment I replied to. Maybe you thought you were someplace else reading something else, but I’ll slow down so you can stay on topic.
@@duncanmugambi6213 I seriously don’t understand what you’re misunderstanding. I’ve posted twice now.
Kevin really out here cracking unsolved mysteries as to why these relationships don’t work. He would be an amazing lawyer the way he interrogate some of these women and the way they tell on themselves.
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This is about to be GOOD. Imagine proposing then seeing your girl talking to Kevin 😂😂😂😂
I wish Kevin would invite her partner on after this and hear what hes got to say. Would make for some good content.
That would be good. Every time a woman talks bad or disrespects her man get her on the camera and talk but the man is going to sugar coat his words to not offend the woman. Real men aren’t scared to say what is on his mind about a woman 💯💯💯💯💯
@@Krazik Yes, it would.
@@KingComp67_-io3iz 100000 I agree with this as a woman
"Men want to be treated like women today!" Translation men are no longer altruistic with women.
that is gold
Lil boys want to be treated like women, don't get it twisted.
I like that term... respectful cooperation aka submission. Also, disagreeing respectfully. There's never a need for a woman to say things to a man that would provoke violence had a man said it.
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Submission is WAY different from cooperation. Cooperation means you and your partner listen to each and think about what's best for the both of you at the moment. Submission means one person gets what they want while the other gets trampled over.
The sad part about this is that for a man its much more peaceful just living alone, with money and dating for "fun" or having women as friends only. It feels like they are all feminist in one way another.
The relationship game is dead.
no woman's friend... woman's don't have male friends, that is BS
I'm reaching that point for sure
I just bout an EXL sport hybrid. Dropped 23K outright on it. I make over 110K and am not thinking of dating period.
This video made me think I’m at my breaking point. This women is my wife, she thinks I am not going anywhere.
If ur women talks to ur crazy, u can only blame urself for allowing it to happen! Women would only talk crazy to men they feel are weak
@@reese85 I change my phone # cause she kept calling me motherfu🤬, I said don’t call me a motherfu🤬 I hate that word. She call me the next day and I asked her how she got the new # she said, sum motherfu🤬 gave it to me!
@reggie 😂😂
Thank You So Much For Telling That Woman To Listen To Her Man!
Been watching Kevin for a few weeks now. I can not respect this man enough. I have tried hard to pick apart his arguments but I cant. His logic is not flawed and every man and woman should hear him.
"She get it from her momma"
Bonus points for naming the song and the rapper 💡
Juvenile 👍
Will i am 😂
I never really planned to be married but maybe just maybe when I get to that good financial place in life and make that decision, I’ll have a good idea of how it should be. Thank you KS
She's still trying to win a fight she started 8 years ago.
😂😂hush😂😂
Mr. Samuels. In the morning before I go to work I watch your videos. It reminds me to stay vigilant about Leykis 101 when it comes to add-dult females.
Women are so amazing. They always seem to have the right feeling about everybody else..it's like a super power.🤨
what i hear is....
"My man wants the bare minimum but i DONT CARE, and i do as i please cause he'll take it.".
"Kevin should i give him what he wants even though i dont want to?"