Standard issue answer for a women when you ask her "what does she bring to a relationship "? I'm independent, love, loyalty, I can cook, I can clean and I got good p**sy" 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾. Women seem to not understand none of those things are important to men in the larger context. It's like me asking what does it take to make a car? And the answer you answer with is: Rims, tires, paint and the stereo... 🤦🏾
I would definitely rather be with an average man especially if a high value man is a workaholic that just spends 7% of his time with his wife and family.
And if a high value man chose her, she’d fumble the ball being insecure after she has children. I’m starting to think a lot of women are getting married for divorce.
Some can't controll their weight.I was 250 pnds.I am 173 now.I lost the weight only I still a middle section, I would like it start getting rid of it ,I do walk a lot.Can you advice me of any way I can work on that.? I would really appreciate if you have any suggestions.
@@DeirdreSeniorYou can control your weight. It’s all about calories. Eat in a calorie deficit you will lose weight, eat in a calorie surplus you will gain weight.
Kevin is a realist, I do not think this channel stresses him out at all... he knows what's up. It's the unfortunate simps and suckers that feel the pain because they can not see through the smoke then get trapped, abused and ripped off.
@@chrisdelfyett2644 Actually, they wouldn’t care. The reason is simple, they only care about what they want. This is why they will do things like alienate their kids from their father.
Let me make it make sense: BW don't respect BM. When people don't respect you, they never conduct transactions with you equitably. So if the BW is going to deal with you...it's important to her that it's a clear uneven exchange !
According to them, a high value man SHOULD settle for them. Every single woman believes at some point that they are ENTITLED to one of the top 1000 men on earth. And its unbelievable
I appreciate the topics Kevin touched on during his time. Maybe it was coming from an immigrant family with strong family values but I wasn’t raised to think this way at all. My mom is still with my dad after 35 years, he’s been a Gardner the entire time and she took on any job she could to stay home and raise us. My husband is a plumber and I make more than him but does that mean I don’t do my wifely duties? Absolutely not ! He gets home tired and I try to have dinner ready and a clean home. In exchange he gives me a loving husband and expresses his gratitude when he can.
If Kevin rates you a 5 or 6, he’s likely padding his actual rating of a 3 or 4. He’s just being nice because he knows thousands (and possibly millions) of people will see this and he doesn’t want them to become suicidal.
It’s really true....what is up with some of these women that believe they deserve the coldest men when they’re average. Don’t get me wrong, average men WANT women that are 10’s, but don’t walk around acting like that’s all they deserve. Shits crazy. Who is lying to these women, their mamas or their friends....?
@@bobbysealejunior6590 the power structure in this society is lying to them through various forms of propaganda....and its very intentional......and its working really well
I agree with the broad statement that beauty standards are subjective however... There is no world that exists where this woman is on the same level as Beyonce
@@VonGoldfinger You have to be. It's too dangerous not to. You could be with a woman who thinks like the last caller in this video if you're not careful. It ain't worth it. Analyze the hell out of them.
Beyonce looks are highly inflated. Sadly, a light skin black woman with BLONDE hair (Beyonce) has now become the STANDARD of beauty within our black community. This sister on here is beautiful & that's without makeup. Kevin you tripping.
He warned her, before he really got into it, that's this Convo was gonna be tough. He's tellin her beforehand of what he's gonna say. He kept it real with her and gave her a reality check. Was never once disrespectful. She got a lil combative once he said she was average. Once again... He warned her. Rest on Mr Samuels 💗🕊️
@BREASHONTELL what do you mean? I never said I wasn't average, nor did i make it about me. I hope you're not looking for an argument because u won't get it over here.
If you ask the average man if he thinks his looks are on Brad Pitt or Denzel level he’ll have no issue just honestly saying “nope.” The confidence comes in the “no”, that delusion actually makes you look even more insecure
Yeah, because we men use our rationale. I think I'm a 5 or something. We realize that if somebody is over a 8 then he or she could be a model and/or actor. Most people are 5, 6 and maybe 7. Most people are average. Most women just need to have realistic expectations in life and maybe need to lower their unrealistic standards and expectations. If they do, they will be fine and be married in knowtime.
I'm an average woman and I know I'm average. We're not all delusional with over inflated self-esteem I promise. Where I come from you'd get brought down to earth quick with that attitude.
@@azambinomar7398 I'm originally from Cork City in Ireland and a London girl for many years. I currently live in Sydney , Australia but the way things are going here might I might have to be on the move again ...
I've only recently found out about Kevin only to find out he is gone. I find these videos so informative and addictive. My favorite thing is how all the women have 1 thing in common they try to justify their opinion as fact for every one else. That is insanity!!!
Ever notice women will judge men very black and white and right down the middle and be blunt .....but whenever the roles are reversed they be like “ well to each there own” or “ I may be average to you but not to everyone” 🙄😂
Not just that but they'll shame you for voicing your preferences or for demanding any kind of standard. Like it's considered offensive now just to expect women to be under 300 pounds.
Modern Code Words: Starting with " I feel like" " I hear what you're saying, but" " I believe" "I understand, however" " I don't think" " Can I ask you a question" "Well...I think" " That's true, but" " I'm trying to be respectful" " I've never seen your show" "A friend referred me to your show" " I understand, but" " Well...I dont see it that way" " If you knew me, you'd understand" "People I know or knew" " I was with a high value man, but..." " I've dated high value men, but..." " I don't think that's fair..." " I want to introduce a different perspective..." " I have options too..." "I appreciate your show, but..." " Well...look at it this way..." " How do you know..." " Yes & no..." " Me personally...." " Femininity depends on..." " What do you mean by..." " I dont have to..." " I was engaged, but" " I filed for divorce" " I broke off the engagement" " But kevin...." " Okay mr samuels" " Do you have problems with black women" " Well...men do it too" " Why do women have to need men" " Who hurt you..." " You hate black women" " I'm speaking my truth..." " I know plenty of women that did etc, but" "I knew what I was doing, but" " That's a great point kevin, but" " I have a question for you" " Not all men are great men, but" " I'm not trying to make excuses for women but" " I dont think I'm overweight..." " Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe" " As a woman myself, I don't think" " Yeah, but alot of black men are broken" " Black women still love black men, even though..." " I had kids with him, but he was crazy" " Well...I was young & dumb.." " Do you think...etc...no judgement though.." " Well...when a woman does it..etc.." " I felt like it was a toxic situation I was in" "I decide when I want to get married" " My father taught me how to be a wife...but I'm still learning" "May I say one thing" "I was done with the relationship.." " He cheated.." "Marriage wasn't a big deal on my end.." " I don't personally believe that a man should...." " Well, I never had to or needed a reason to" "Some women don't see marriage that way" " You know what I'm trying to say" "That's just me..." " I haven't met the man that made me want to...." " Yes we do need families, but.." " So, what's the difference..." "I'm not going to let a man..." "Mmm-hm...ok..well.." "But kevin, you don't know the whole story.." " I'm trying to tell you, but.." " Ima let you talk..." " Can I speak now...can I say something..." " I have kids, but..." " Well...to you..." " Guess my age..." " I find it funny..." " But some men like big women" " I want what I want..." " I'm the exception..." Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
@@ciphbudd7102 The average man is perfectly happy settling down with an average woman provided she is feminine and cooperative. No man wants to deal with an argumentative, delusional buffalo.
I’m average and I’m fine with an average man! I just want to be loved, appreciated and have him be able to make up 80-90% of the household bills and I’m in that relationship right now. I couldn’t be happier in my traditional place!
“I can be submissive” “I was kind of submissive in my last relationship”... what $300K+/yr high value man is going to take a chance on a 5’ 160 lbs possibly submissive woman?? You can’t make this shit up.
I agree; I would rather have an average man who spends time with his family than to have a high value man that only spend 7% of his waking hours with his wife because 93% if this time is spent building an empire. Not interested I think I’ll pass. 😉
And they don't marry um. They slide through for the Wednesday afternoon hook up, do their business and go home to the life they show to the rest of the world.
Let's keep it real about Lizzo: There ARE men out there who would LOVE to date her, but THEY are probably men SHE would not want to date because they would be sub-par in her eyes -- the same way she's sub-par in the eyes of men she goes after. I learned a harsh reality some years ago: We're always wanting people who don't want us.
It’s funny how some women want a man who makes hundreds of thousands of dollars but never ever met men like this. Your circle of friends determine a lot in your life.
@@DwellInHouse4ever Stop the cap! The only thing she has going for her is that she’s actually talented musically. No man with standards finds Lizzo attractive. Even the so-called “chubby chasers” only want sleep with women like her, nothing more. If we want to improve from the current state of affairs, we have to stop lying, because right now, we’re not making any of this better!
I'm an average woman, my hubby is an average man. We were best friends who married and 14 years of love and friendship remains strong because we met each other's expectations. Plain and simple.
@@omgmazin The video was talking about how average women don't want average men. All she was saying was she's an average woman and she married an average man. I believe the moral of her comment is that women should NOT demand the moon and the stars in order to be happy.
I don't understand what everyone's deal is. She's definitely an 8. Now if you'll excuse me I'll be here waiting for the Lakers to show up at my door to hand me a contract. Any day now.
I'm not sure I've ever seen a cup that big. It was highly inappropriate. She's got a pleasant personality, girl next door type of vibe, but ultimately she's a short fat chick, 5.
@@complexone2542 if I may answer, there is nothing we can do , it’s for us BW to correct ourselves. Unfortunately this mindset is deeply rooted in our community. Therapy, Personal trainer, is the first two requirements to accomplish, after self accountability.
To the women: an 8+ doesn’t need makeup to get attention. She gets attention from both men and women for her beauty. She can wear the most bummy clothes and people are still drawn to her.
For an entire generation, a society of average looking teachers and parents have told all the kids that they are all beautiful and special, and this is the end result.
And this insane thing of telling kids "you can be WHATEVER you want to be!" AND at the same time handing them decks of victim cards & telling then they can SUE when they fail for any number of fake 'isms & 'obias. And of course the liberal lies about "equity & inclusion" which means communism is the endgame their dumbed down to believe in too.
@Beth Morales how is it possible to have nice features, but not be attractive? The mere fact that you called them nice shows attraction. If I walk up to a man and said you have nice hair, nice eyes, nice ears, a nice smile, a nice nose, and nice cheeks, but you are not attractive"... someone would ask if I needed to speak to a therapist.
"European beauty standards" lmao This is in the USA, they don't have the same beauty standards. I should know, I am European living in the USA. The USA likes fat women a lot more than Europe does lmao. If anything, she should be happy she lives with American beauty standards, because in Europe, she will be one of the biggest people around.
Facts! Its funny I hear a lot of women list the same stuff....like they really don't know or haven't even thought about it, the only young they have been focused on is there list/what they want and they all think they deserve/entitled to it, crazy.
My mom stayed home and my dad made under 35000. We had mostly camping vacations, my mom and I went overseas for two weeks, and they sent me to college. I give thanks everyday. We have a humble house in a decent area in New England. I think if you're content sacrificing luxury, other doors are opened
@@kandacewalker848 he doesn't talk about it because he is talking to women who typically doesn't want the average man and wants the luxurious lifestyle. If they want the 100k b4 kids and don't want to work. Then it will take more thank 100k as each child comes along..if they want a 50k man and plans to work also then she is factoring her income to maintain luxury that she wants
That's great and I'm glad. I work in higher ed. Do you know how much tuition and fees cost for the 2020-2021 academic year? And when did your father make that (less than) $35,000 annually? And when you say they sent you to college, you're saying you took no loans or scholarships? They paid out of pocket?
As a native NYC metro area resident I agree 100 percent. I know why they feel that way. They see average looking white Asian and Latina women with successful men in upper middle class areas and they assume that will,be their outcome.
As a man, I would be 100% fine with average. I'd think "Ok, I can workout etc to try and get above average" It seems like women just see it as an insult then then get angry and do nothing about it lmao.
Got my new fun term... average... Because they all go nuts when told they're average... Then when asked what makes them above-average, there's no answer🤣😆😂👍. Just anger in the gnashing of teeth
@@WhatIsItToBurn For men it's different, we still have testosterone and can still make babies even at 70. With time, asset accumulation, job titles will come
The fact that she can say "Beyonce's level" and agree that Beyonce is on a particular level, implies that she knows there are levels to beauty. Then she turns around within the same breath tries to make it seem like beauty isn't a measurable thing.
Exactly. I ain’t seen one woman say Whoopi Goldberg is beautiful ever and would cut you if you said they looked like her. They know damn well we are not all beautiful. See how subjective they get if you tell them they look like someone widely accepted as unattractive and see how mad they get.
@@crystaloats8177 People are trying to blur the lines now...I seen a viral ig post saying Whoopi is beautiful and we were tricked into thinking she’s not.
Listening to Kevin has made me more grateful for my husband!! I have been a stay at home mom for years because of my husband and I thank him everyday for taking care of me and our children!!
😲😲Second! That. 😌😌Be grateful for your blessings. 🤫🤫There are women, because of their bad decision making, are going through it, and going through it alone. 😔😔Thoughts and prayers.
We have had some men try to fill the void but it’s a big void to fill. Kevin was a unique man that had a lot of various skills he displayed night by night. I think he would’ve had an immense impact on our community if he came around 5-10 yrs earlier. It’s amazing that he had the level of impact he did in the short time he was around. I certainly learned a lot from him after he passed. I certainly could’ve used his advice earlier
That's something men do that women don't a man will lie to an ugly woman and tell her she's pretty to get into her pants. A pretty woman will tell a guy you have no chance, and will never let you sex her.
The idea that ALL sisters are "above average queens by default" has been deep-seeded for a long time, respects to KS for being brave enough to address this particular elephant whenever it's in the room.
I remember in the 90's. Men could never "go" there because of the amount of insults, shame and guilt was unbelievable. Grand ma would say...."She had your kids ! You need to thank her" or sis- "you can't handle a big girl because you "ain't a man" or my bw girlfriend would say..."how dare you talk about my weight! All Black women have big bones..whatever that means. It was the perfect timing for Kevin to have the courage to put this concern out there because 80% of our BW are overweight to obese. I mean really ....Lizzo is 308 pounds! Who wants to date that massive person
@@bryon5284 the thing lizzo is at least making effort to be healthy by going vegan and fasting, and doing all the other health related things and even I’ve seen her workout... But a lot of these females don’t even put in effort towards a better lifestyle and eating healthier along with working out... If she eats healthy and don’t workout as much I’ll take that at least it’s the effort... I still see women eating oatmeal cream pies and drinking alcohol throwing off their pH balance and they still want us to eat the cookie like no ma’am
I think far too often some people mistaken their confidence and positive self esteem as translating to actual physical appearance. Yes, be confident, but that does not mean since i feel good, i look like Beyonce etc. And, those people think that from the outside looking in that others cant tell the difference. We're not slow. We know what a 10 is. Don't play yourselves. Keep it real. Not your truth. 💯
@xx oo I think you’re absolutely right about them creating this “movement” to convince others that they’re attractive who otherwise wouldn’t give them a thought
I agree with you completely. Kings and queens are at the apex of the hierarchy. That means that they are very rare outliers in terms of quantity: one to a nation of millions.
@UShallKnow self-esteem is one thing and important however delusions of grandeur is another thing. The black community need to thicken that thin line between those two.
She has a very masculine face (Marcus Rashford lookalike!) and is fat. 5’ and 160lb is obese. I am 5’2”, 125lb and I should be a bit lighter. Where did she get ‘I beautiful’ from? She is 4-5, and so am I. The difference is that I am very happily married to HVM.
At this point, i want him to come back in 10/20 years with all these same women and give us a where are they now show. I would wait that long for that.
I just figured out that KS is trying to get more people married in the middle class by getting people to be realistic about their situations and expectations.
That is really what this show is all about. The HVM qualification is a tool to let certain deluded women understand their real place in the dating hierarchy so they dont make old single lady regrets later
But he should also be honest that a lot of these “HVM” get the women they want based of their monetary status. Its a contract at the end of the day. You paying for that beauty.
The "I can be submissive" statment gets me every time. I wonder if these women know that there are women who are submissive all the time, and don't have to wait for a guy to choke them to death to realise they should be submissive in a relationship.
The analogy of a man wearing a dress and heels with low testosterone saying he can be masculine to the right woman always makes me laugh but you have to break it down like that because women have no idea how crazy they sound when they say it
Kevin will never fall off, because men won't let him. He's dropping to many FACTS. Average men don't EXPECT our women to be run way model's. It doesn't add up.
These women are so full of themselves that even when an Image Consultant tries to give them advice they just argue with him and tell him he's wrong. Got to respect KS for his patience and professionalism.
Average is a reality in life. We have average height, average weight, average intelligence...average looks exist and are also called nondescript. A criminal with nondescript looks in their community by definition looks like everybody else and is hard to catch/pin down. The breakthrough into reality is to accept you have nondescript looks when that's what you have. You might however have high energy, femininity, great humor, etc but nondescript looks also. Accepting reality helps one to navigate life more successfully
It's similar to when someone makes a crazy invention...the patent and the person end up missing. Kevin was so impactful it's no surprise his death was suspect
Exactly I was like what that got to do with anything? 💀 I seen 18 yr olds that will blow her out the park. She think she still in her ugly duckling phase. Ma’am it’s all downhill from here
She’s thinking like she’s a man and her career. She thinks that as she earns more and becomes more successful in her career. She’ll become more more successful in her love life as well. Sadly it will be the opposite as her weight increases and her body ages her love life will decline.
Ok this is crazy I don't know what is going on in the US but 300k or more!? My father came as a laborer to Germany never earned more than 50k a year and we (3 children) all went to university and we were never hungry or homeless! Thank you sir for giving these delusional women a reality check!
Housing and healthcare. Groceries and consumer goods are the same cost in Germany as they are here. But renting a house in Long Island is probably 4000-5000$ a month, healthcare for a family of 4 is 2000$ a month in many cities, and quite frankly she is probably delusional about the luxury she “needs”. Also, all the Germans I’ve conversed with about career income, report their after-tax income. €50K a year after taxes in Germany is more like $90K pre-tax in the US, which is more than enough to live comfortably outside any major metropolitan area.
He asks questions and the woken answer those questions in a way that boxes them into: don't want to have to work after getting pregnant, want to live comfortably (which means above middle class) and want kids in private schools, want to travel the world, etc. Oh, all this while having 2 or 3 kids, and living in the NY metro area, or LA, DMV, etc. They fall right into it. He does inflate the needed salaries a bit though....like you can live in the NY metro area and and have a one income family with that income being 230K, with 2 kids... and live comfortably. Can you do that in Manhattan, no (not comfortably...nice place, etc), because cost of living (rent....). ...but across the rivers, it's more doable. If they'd just stop with the not wanting to work stuff, they'd fair better.
5 feet tall and obese saying she's on Beyoncé's level this is completely absurd
She’s so darn crazy it’s shocking
To say the least... Sometimes money brings the worst out of people
@@shitforbrains6376 As well as pursuit of money...
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I legit literally thought it was a dude when the video started
Modern women rather be single than be in a humble relationship.
Yep. They’d rather be boastful than be humble
No. They prefer ride the CC thinking that 6 figures guys will wait for them to end the 15 years ride.
Black women would rather share a man than settle down with one good man.
Standard issue answer for a women when you ask her "what does she bring to a relationship "? I'm independent, love, loyalty, I can cook, I can clean and I got good p**sy"
🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾. Women seem to not understand none of those things are important to men in the larger context.
It's like me asking what does it take to make a car? And the answer you answer with is: Rims, tires, paint and the stereo... 🤦🏾
I would definitely rather be with an average man especially if a high value man is a workaholic that just spends 7% of his time with his wife and family.
That fake self esteem and confidence won’t trick a high value man into thinking you’re a 10 🙄
I noticed that too. She’s sooo insecure but trying to put up a brave and fake confidence face!!!🤣😂
💯💯💯💯
If she stands next to Beyonce the security would be hauling her a$$ out head first
And if a high value man chose her, she’d fumble the ball being insecure after she has children. I’m starting to think a lot of women are getting married for divorce.
This is literally one of the most underrated comments of all time
We can't control our height, but we sure can control our weight, our attitude, and our mindset.
Naw, you can’t even control your attitude. Stop the cap. It’s too late for you…
Some can't controll their weight.I was 250 pnds.I am 173 now.I lost the weight only I still a middle section, I would like it start getting rid of it ,I do walk a lot.Can you advice me of any way I can work on that.? I would really appreciate if you have any suggestions.
@@DeirdreSeniorYou can control your weight. It’s all about calories. Eat in a calorie deficit you will lose weight, eat in a calorie surplus you will gain weight.
This sage advice is sadly ignored every single day
"If I stood you next to Beyoncé, no one would say you're in Destiny's Child, they would say you're a fan" cold blooded
fact that we consider it cold blooded to even say that is the problem here
She's a short chubby woman who will never be at the level of Beyonce in term of marketable beauty and earnings.
Super necessary
Density's Child. Maybe.
@@angelg2638 Well done.
Calling this girl a 5 is being overly generous.
She is a 4 at best, but her personality drops her to a 3.
On god she not pretty
You're a kinder man than I.. holy this woman is a deuce at best with that dull as a butter knife attitude!!
She’s not attractive at all but if she had a proper attitude it would take her further than her delusional attitude
She look like big Sean😭
1 she has a manly face
At 5' and 160lbs, there's NO WAY your dress size is a 6. Do these women even know what they sound like.
Exactly!
Honestly most sisters don’t rock well made , higher end dresses . They really don’t know their true dress size
Agreed! I am 5'2" at 130lbs and I am a dress size 10
Unfortunately, many have not worn a dress since elementary school. They don't know their dress size and lie about it when they know.
Thank you!!! There's no way that can be accurate.
This man will be MISSED DEARLY…❤️💪🏾
Yes, 😭 he will be missed. He was so knowledgeable and told the truth no sugar coating anything. Women need to wake up! RIP Kevin🙏
He Is. A great light ✨️ has been extinguished. 😔🧐🙏🏽
The minute she says, I can be submissive for the right man. Walk away. No 🧢🧢
That's like saying _I can do calculus with the right pencil._
Amen. Women like that historically aren't worth the time/effort. Best avoided at all cost.
@@darthkek1953 😆😆
@@darthkek1953 great analogy!
That is the equivalent of a man saying " I can be loyal to the right woman "
I love how women calls him for advice just to dismiss all his advice
They get a little attention out of the deal so they're good with it 😆
They think they are the special one and they'll be different than all the other women that have called in
Like the bad singers on American Idol
Yep. I think the reason is black women just want attention.
Choosing to remain completely unrealistic may not be the wisest choice.
"I'm willing to date a plumber as long as he doesn't stay a plumber" while she sat there looking like a beat up smurf.....
Omfg 😆😅
a beat-up Smurf you're killing me dude
Lol plumbers i know make $80k or more a year
@@mrpleasy And if the plumber owns the company he makes a hell of a lot more.
Winning! Trades is the way to go.
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😂😂😂
Confidence is fine, delusions is not. She needs a good friend to tell her the truth.
I honestly feel bad for Kevin at times. He wants to help women and in return, all he gets is a step closer to a stroke.
He should now switch up the Redbull for Matcha. We need him to stay healthy.
He’s good. Doing what he likes.
He gets money for views. Why would you feel sorry for him for earning money the way he chosen to earn? He's doing better than 99.99% of population.
It's tough to bring the "barber shop brotherhood" mainstream. Sistas ain't ready for this
Kevin is a realist, I do not think this channel stresses him out at all... he knows what's up.
It's the unfortunate simps and suckers that feel the pain because they can not see through the smoke then get trapped, abused and ripped off.
Little do they know. They are disrespecting their fathers, uncles, cousins, friends , sons, and so on.......
If you brought that to their attention they would be dumbfounded
@@chrisdelfyett2644 Actually, they wouldn’t care. The reason is simple, they only care about what they want. This is why they will do things like alienate their kids from their father.
This!
Same thing I have been saying for 2 decades...
If they knew, they wouldn't care
Average woman don't want to settle for "average" men but a high value man would be settling for her. Make it make sense.
Women. Lmao
Let me make it make sense: BW don't respect BM. When people don't respect you, they never conduct transactions with you equitably. So if the BW is going to deal with you...it's important to her that it's a clear uneven exchange !
They wouldn't be settling for average men, they average women. They batshit crazy.
According to them, a high value man SHOULD settle for them. Every single woman believes at some point that they are ENTITLED to one of the top 1000 men on earth. And its unbelievable
Women, Sense - man it aint going to work in the same sentence....😂😂😂
I appreciate the topics Kevin touched on during his time. Maybe it was coming from an immigrant family with strong family values but I wasn’t raised to think this way at all. My mom is still with my dad after 35 years, he’s been a Gardner the entire time and she took on any job she could to stay home and raise us. My husband is a plumber and I make more than him but does that mean I don’t do my wifely duties? Absolutely not ! He gets home tired and I try to have dinner ready and a clean home. In exchange he gives me a loving husband and expresses his gratitude when he can.
Amazing, I hope I find a women like you
She a 4.5 on her BEST day. People say Kevin is an ass but he spared this woman.
You're really generous
She is cute I give her a 6 who can easily be a 7.5. But these lives be late at night, who is trying to be in a daytime look at 11PM???
Facts.
@Shae'ron Nikole you woke up and chose to speak facts huh 🤔
I don’t want her even all usa for free for me.
If Kevin rates you a 5 or 6, he’s likely padding his actual rating of a 3 or 4. He’s just being nice because he knows thousands (and possibly millions) of people will see this and he doesn’t want them to become suicidal.
Facts lol his “5” rating is basically the “7” he doesn’t want them to use
So glad I’m not the only one who picked up on that
" you're average *AT BEST* "
So true, this woman had really masculine features
She's a straight up 4
“Why is women like Lizzo not going after men that looks like Lizzo?”
Big facts. Bars spittin. The irony
It’s really true....what is up with some of these women that believe they deserve the coldest men when they’re average. Don’t get me wrong, average men WANT women that are 10’s, but don’t walk around acting like that’s all they deserve. Shits crazy. Who is lying to these women, their mamas or their friends....?
@@bobbysealejunior6590 they cant want a 10. but they know they wont get it
@@bobbysealejunior6590 the power structure in this society is lying to them through various forms of propaganda....and its very intentional......and its working really well
Cuz she deserves “better.”
I guess that also means that the “better” men deserve worse
If her picture were sent out to the world tomorrow, everyone will be saying... "Is Gary Coleman still alive?"
I agree with the broad statement that beauty standards are subjective however... There is no world that exists where this woman is on the same level as Beyonce
When I realized how ruthless women are when picking men I started to not feel bad about any preferences that I have.
Yeah, I definitely don't feel bad anymore. Kevin is starting to level the playing field mentally.
@@brandonwarfield5611 exactly brother . They won’t change so we need to change .so we need to be just as picky
I don't anymore either.
Werd me too. Im rigorous now when it comes to women.
@@VonGoldfinger You have to be. It's too dangerous not to. You could be with a woman who thinks like the last caller in this video if you're not careful. It ain't worth it. Analyze the hell out of them.
She's 25 and believes with a snap of her fingers she will be able to attract successful men. The Lizzo energy is strong with this one.
300k a year is way beyond successful that’s like low end pro athlete money or ceos lmao these girls are full on delusional it’s painful to watch
This sister is going to put the "SING" in "SINGLE" 😂😂😂😂
@@stilman3780 🤣🤣 Dear Lordt!!!!
She must unlearn what she has learned...
Beyonce looks are highly inflated. Sadly, a light skin black woman with BLONDE hair (Beyonce) has now become the STANDARD of beauty within our black community. This sister on here is beautiful & that's without makeup. Kevin you tripping.
If she looks like a famous model, then I'm ready to start in the NBA.
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Lmao u need that space jam juice
He warned her, before he really got into it, that's this Convo was gonna be tough. He's tellin her beforehand of what he's gonna say. He kept it real with her and gave her a reality check. Was never once disrespectful. She got a lil combative once he said she was average. Once again... He warned her. Rest on Mr Samuels 💗🕊️
Your on the same level as her so what are u saying 😂
@BREASHONTELL what do you mean? I never said I wasn't average, nor did i make it about me. I hope you're not looking for an argument because u won't get it over here.
If you ask the average man if he thinks his looks are on Brad Pitt or Denzel level he’ll have no issue just honestly saying “nope.” The confidence comes in the “no”, that delusion actually makes you look even more insecure
correct
Exactly. It shows these women have ZERO self awareness.
Great comment
Yeah, because we men use our rationale. I think I'm a 5 or something. We realize that if somebody is over a 8 then he or she could be a model and/or actor. Most people are 5, 6 and maybe 7. Most people are average. Most women just need to have realistic expectations in life and maybe need to lower their unrealistic standards and expectations. If they do, they will be fine and be married in knowtime.
👍agree👍
I love when women throw out $300k incomes like it's no big deal.
I grew up on long Island in a family of 4 ... 300k is not needed to be comfortable
@@ghariiscool Of course there are towns where $300k won't cut it. So you pick a town you can afford and live just fine.
Your profile pic makes your comment that much more hard hitting
@@ghariiscool Lmaoo bruh even in the richest part of NY it don’t take 300K to live comfortably
It’s crazy how these women just say ridiculous numbers knowing damn well they don’t make nowhere near close to they numbers they damn selves
"Average women don't think they're average."
Couldn't be more correct!
@OILΔR yeah everyone is a princess nowadays.
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I'm an average woman and I know I'm average. We're not all delusional with over inflated self-esteem I promise. Where I come from you'd get brought down to earth quick with that attitude.
@@Lola_Mac where r u from?
@@azambinomar7398 I'm originally from Cork City in Ireland and a London girl for many years. I currently live in Sydney , Australia but the way things are going here might I might have to be on the move again ...
I've only recently found out about Kevin only to find out he is gone. I find these videos so informative and addictive. My favorite thing is how all the women have 1 thing in common they try to justify their opinion as fact for every one else. That is insanity!!!
Ever notice women will judge men very black and white and right down the middle and be blunt .....but whenever the roles are reversed they be like “ well to each there own” or “ I may be average to you but not to everyone” 🙄😂
😅 yea
They can dish it but cant take it, that's why any time they get crazy you have to destroy their confidence
That's because collectively, Women seem to think they're above reproach smh
😂😂😂
"Only God Can Judge Me" is my BW favorite. Lol
Smh he’s literally trying to explain chess to a pigeon.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
She needs a box of crayons
Cold.....
Not a Pigeon 😂😂
That's an insult to pigeons
Sisters are so far gone, in general, that they think THEY get to tell US what WE should find attractive. It's LITERAL NARCISSISM.
Facts! The ones that are overweight &/or have offspring are the funniest with it
Not just that but they'll shame you for voicing your preferences or for demanding any kind of standard. Like it's considered offensive now just to expect women to be under 300 pounds.
Its almost infuriating how delusional these chickenheads are.
@@Divine1Right Yes, and if she is 25 and 160 lbs today, she will be 200 pounds before she is 30.
Gaslighting
one thing i am learning from watching this guys videos is that its critical to have people telling you the truth in ones life
This guys patience is absolutely legendary.
Absolutely absolutely
His patience is missed by mostly all women.
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Modern Code Words: Starting with
" I feel like"
" I hear what you're saying, but"
" I believe"
"I understand, however"
" I don't think"
" Can I ask you a question"
"Well...I think"
" That's true, but"
" I'm trying to be respectful"
" I've never seen your show"
"A friend referred me to your show"
" I understand, but"
" Well...I dont see it that way"
" If you knew me, you'd understand"
"People I know or knew"
" I was with a high value man, but..."
" I've dated high value men, but..."
" I don't think that's fair..."
" I want to introduce a different perspective..."
" I have options too..."
"I appreciate your show, but..."
" Well...look at it this way..."
" How do you know..."
" Yes & no..."
" Me personally...."
" Femininity depends on..."
" What do you mean by..."
" I dont have to..."
" I was engaged, but"
" I filed for divorce"
" I broke off the engagement"
" But kevin...."
" Okay mr samuels"
" Do you have problems with black women"
" Well...men do it too"
" Why do women have to need men"
" Who hurt you..."
" You hate black women"
" I'm speaking my truth..."
" I know plenty of women that did etc, but"
"I knew what I was doing, but"
" That's a great point kevin, but"
" I have a question for you"
" Not all men are great men, but"
" I'm not trying to make excuses for women but"
" I dont think I'm overweight..."
" Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe"
" As a woman myself, I don't think"
" Yeah, but alot of black men are broken"
" Black women still love black men, even though..."
" I had kids with him, but he was crazy"
" Well...I was young & dumb.."
" Do you think...etc...no judgement though.."
" Well...when a woman does it..etc.."
" I felt like it was a toxic situation I was in"
"I decide when I want to get married"
" My father taught me how to be a wife...but I'm still learning"
"May I say one thing"
"I was done with the relationship.."
" He cheated.."
"Marriage wasn't a big deal on my end.."
" I don't personally believe that a man should...."
" Well, I never had to or needed a reason to"
"Some women don't see marriage that way"
" You know what I'm trying to say"
"That's just me..."
" I haven't met the man that made me want to...."
" Yes we do need families, but.."
" So, what's the difference..."
"I'm not going to let a man..."
"Mmm-hm...ok..well.."
"But kevin, you don't know the whole story.."
" I'm trying to tell you, but.."
" Ima let you talk..."
" Can I speak now...can I say something..."
" I have kids, but..."
" Well...to you..."
" Guess my age..."
" I find it funny..."
" But some men like big women"
" I want what I want..."
" I'm the exception..."
Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
It should be a bingo game.
Underrated comment of the year
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Damn bra you been through it
She is a shining example of why many BM are moving on. Dealing with someone who thinks like her will shorten a man's life.
I’m interested in knowing, what type of woman do they think the average man Deserve...
I think I may have lost a year, myself.
@@ciphbudd7102 - Interesting question. As best I can see, I conclude that most BW do not believe BM "deserve" anything.
@@ciphbudd7102 The average man is perfectly happy settling down with an average woman provided she is feminine and cooperative. No man wants to deal with an argumentative, delusional buffalo.
FACTS
I’m average and I’m fine with an average man! I just want to be loved, appreciated and have him be able to make up 80-90% of the household bills and I’m in that relationship right now. I couldn’t be happier in my traditional place!
That's some high standards, good luck finding that Smh
@@JGalliscan you not read?
“I can be submissive” “I was kind of submissive in my last relationship”... what $300K+/yr high value man is going to take a chance on a 5’ 160 lbs possibly submissive woman?? You can’t make this shit up.
She’s obese
Yep, she said that more than once, they're incels
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Right! That's like a dude saying: "I can be a leader...only if the right woman comes along."🥴
Crackhead logic at it's finest!😂
@@tonyspoon3959 Looool!!!
Average men make the world go ‘round 🌎
That's very true. They win wars to
I agree; I would rather have an average man who spends time with his family than to have a high value man that only spend 7% of his waking hours with his wife because 93% if this time is spent building an empire. Not interested I think I’ll pass. 😉
Facts brother!!!!!
Right. The top 10 percent of men set in which direction the world turns; the bottom 80%percent of men do the pushing.
PREACH
"There are men who think Lizzo's body is beautiful"
Yeah, they're called "chubby chasers" and it's a fetish.
I cringed when I read that. I'm overweight and I don't think people want my shape. Why do they think their shape is good?
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And they don't marry um. They slide through for the Wednesday afternoon hook up, do their business and go home to the life they show to the rest of the world.
Let's keep it real about Lizzo: There ARE men out there who would LOVE to date her, but THEY are probably men SHE would not want to date because they would be sub-par in her eyes -- the same way she's sub-par in the eyes of men she goes after.
I learned a harsh reality some years ago: We're always wanting people who don't want us.
@@blackcatlady2172 damn, that's the best way it was ever put. Great job. People always want what they can't have...lol
It’s funny how some women want a man who makes hundreds of thousands of dollars but never ever met men like this. Your circle of friends determine a lot in your life.
"Lizzo is not beautiful." Gotta hand it to KS: he is never bashful in telling the *harsh* truth.
Facts.
Exactly
Lizzo disgusts me man honestly the picture of unhealthiness
@@DwellInHouse4ever Stop the cap! The only thing she has going for her is that she’s actually talented musically. No man with standards finds Lizzo attractive. Even the so-called “chubby chasers” only want sleep with women like her, nothing more. If we want to improve from the current state of affairs, we have to stop lying, because right now, we’re not making any of this better!
"Brutal honesty is a dumb term. Brutal should be associated with lying. You're a brutal liar." - Patrice O'Neal
I'm an average woman, my hubby is an average man. We were best friends who married and 14 years of love and friendship remains strong because we met each other's expectations. Plain and simple.
That's all that matters. I wish you guys many more years of happiness.
🤣🤣🤣 I noticed how you called the man you married average, can't make this shit up🤦🏾♂️
@@omgmazin She also referred to herself as average.
@@omgmazin The video was talking about how average women don't want average men. All she was saying was she's an average woman and she married an average man. I believe the moral of her comment is that women should NOT demand the moon and the stars in order to be happy.
@Sabs girl ignore him, he doesn’t even know what he’s saying
I don't understand what everyone's deal is. She's definitely an 8. Now if you'll excuse me I'll be here waiting for the Lakers to show up at my door to hand me a contract. Any day now.
I'm a pink elephant who sprinkles magical pixie dust across the world 🤣🤣
He tried so hard to be polite, legit 10+ mins of kindness. She wouldn't accept it until it got real.
I peep that too
Exactly!
Additionally, the audacity of her! Looking like Gary Colemon demanding the best men the world has to offer. It's delusional.
She’s delusional and very average looking at best!
@@chichi16fb She looks like a dude in drag
She wouldn t give up and Shut Up 🤫
"Confidence is fine. Delusion is not."
😁 LMAO 😂
Amen 😂😂😂
Average still means you are above 49% of the population.
Being an average women expecting to get a high value male is like being an average student expecting to get into Harvard
No you didnt😂😂😂😂😂
lol
Analogy of the year!
You mean below avg lol
Exactly
Mr. Samuel's ability to articuIate the issue is on point. KS "that is a statement of observable fact." The conclusion of this episode is masterful.
*Woman: I want a man who makes 275,000 a year*
_proceeds to drink from a $1 cup_
Lol.... straight from Dollar Tree (and lol nothing wrong with that except for the irony of her chasing HVM)
I'm not sure I've ever seen a cup that big. It was highly inappropriate. She's got a pleasant personality, girl next door type of vibe, but ultimately she's a short fat chick, 5.
Filled with soda!
@@jazzjackson9875 exactly
@@Pit.Police.Productions and alcohol 🤦🏻♀️ 😂
This was one of the most difficult segments to get through. The facial expressions, the delusion, the denial 🤦🏾♀️ I have second hand embarrassment.
She making black people look crazy. Mainly women smh.
Lol second hand embarrassment
Taylor I love your honest answer. How do we fix this?
@@complexone2542 Leave them to buy a dog and die alone.
@@complexone2542 if I may answer, there is nothing we can do , it’s for us BW to correct ourselves. Unfortunately this mindset is deeply rooted in our community. Therapy, Personal trainer, is the first two requirements to accomplish, after self accountability.
As an average guy, I wouldn’t give her a double take while passing on the street.
Agreed KS is being liberal with 5/6 on a good day.
Maybe if i was watching her leave
She is a 5/7
She a 4
@@justinw2232 4 on a good day!
To the women: an 8+ doesn’t need makeup to get attention. She gets attention from both men and women for her beauty. She can wear the most bummy clothes and people are still drawn to her.
“if I stood you next to Beyoncé no one would say you’re in Destiny’s Child. They would say you’re a fan” That took me all the way out. Savage😂😂😂
That's the one that nearly ended my life 😂
they would say she's Aunt Jemimah 😂
@@johnames6430 😂😂weak denial
this is genocidal level of savagery 😂😂😂
I just read that , that’s in Rick James voice. COLD BLOODED!!
They chewing him up just for being honest. 🤦🏽♀️ I stand up for him and they get mad at me too. Facebook hates him!
That's because it's a woman's platform.
Welcome to when men tell the truth
Nah...they hate you cuz of your looks..lets be honest
Thats what Sista gotta do. Keep speaking up.
Nah they don't hate him......they hate the truth
For 12 minutes straight Kevin was trying to be gentle and patient. What was the result?
Now you know why Kevin is so straight forward.
Lmao yup!
Imagine the nerve if these women
Exactly 💯
For an entire generation, a society of average looking teachers and parents have told all the kids that they are all beautiful and special, and this is the end result.
And this insane thing of telling kids "you can be WHATEVER you want to be!" AND at the same time handing them decks of victim cards & telling then they can SUE when they fail for any number of fake 'isms & 'obias. And of course the liberal lies about "equity & inclusion" which means communism is the endgame their dumbed down to believe in too.
Nah. Social media is far more to blame for this. On IG women like her get gassed up to the max by simps
I think I can officially speak for the world on this one.
Lady you are definitely NOT in the same category as Beyoncé.
Exactly
@Beth Morales Legit thought this was a dude when I first jumped in until my eyes focused and my ears heard her speak
That is what she was taught. It is to her detriment, but again, that is what she was taught.
Her face strong like a man
@Beth Morales how is it possible to have nice features, but not be attractive? The mere fact that you called them nice shows attraction. If I walk up to a man and said you have nice hair, nice eyes, nice ears, a nice smile, a nice nose, and nice cheeks, but you are not attractive"... someone would ask if I needed to speak to a therapist.
Women: “youre comparing us to european beauty standards”
Also, women: expects high income men based on european socioeconomic standards
That's my issue with Dr. Umar's argument. Even Hotep women want a high value man and judge him based on "so called" European success.
Very true
"European beauty standards" lmao
This is in the USA, they don't have the same beauty standards. I should know, I am European living in the USA.
The USA likes fat women a lot more than Europe does lmao. If anything, she should be happy she lives with American beauty standards, because in Europe, she will be one of the biggest people around.
@@WhatIsItToBurn yes y'all mzungu's do. FOH w that
Ummm Where is ADELE from? Europe I thought. She lost weight and she’s still big!
The level of delusion is astounding. Everything she brings to the table a 300k man can hire a maid to do.
😂😂😂😂. Plus most men can cook these days
I was watching interviews of Melinda Gates complaining that she wanted Bill to do equal housework. Wtf do you have these billions for? Hire someone!
@@Del_116 that ain't no woman. That's Wayne Brady trying to cover his bald spot with that thing on his head 😂🤣😅
Facts! Its funny I hear a lot of women list the same stuff....like they really don't know or haven't even thought about it, the only young they have been focused on is there list/what they want and they all think they deserve/entitled to it, crazy.
And not even an expensive maid.
“You’re arguing with observable reality”…
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My mom stayed home and my dad made under 35000. We had mostly camping vacations, my mom and I went overseas for two weeks, and they sent me to college. I give thanks everyday. We have a humble house in a decent area in New England. I think if you're content sacrificing luxury, other doors are opened
Yes you can stay at home with MUCH less money. I wish Kevin would talk about this
And, when things get hard, you will keep thriving!
I agree. But the women that come on this show want Bove average and consider forgoing luxury as settling.
@@kandacewalker848 he doesn't talk about it because he is talking to women who typically doesn't want the average man and wants the luxurious lifestyle. If they want the 100k b4 kids and don't want to work. Then it will take more thank 100k as each child comes along..if they want a 50k man and plans to work also then she is factoring her income to maintain luxury that she wants
That's great and I'm glad. I work in higher ed. Do you know how much tuition and fees cost for the 2020-2021 academic year? And when did your father make that (less than) $35,000 annually? And when you say they sent you to college, you're saying you took no loans or scholarships? They paid out of pocket?
Imagine making 300k in Nassau or Suffolk county NY, and a woman like this comes up to you looking for a relationship?
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🏃🏿💨 🙋🏿♀️
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Facts.
As a native NYC metro area resident I agree 100 percent. I know why they feel that way. They see average looking white Asian and Latina women with successful men in upper middle class areas and they assume that will,be their outcome.
You standing next to Beyoncé, they won't think you Destiny's Child, they will think you a FAN!. 😆
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The line that hit me ma’am have you ever modeled???
Maybe Destiny's Illegitimate Stepchild.🤔🤦🏿♂️
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 Lot lizard 🦎
Fly high Kevin, your message will always resonate with men
Why do people think it's an insult to say that you're average. Majority of people are average. That's the whole meaning of the word average??!!
As a man, I would be 100% fine with average. I'd think "Ok, I can workout etc to try and get above average"
It seems like women just see it as an insult then then get angry and do nothing about it lmao.
She is below average.
Got my new fun term... average...
Because they all go nuts when told they're average...
Then when asked what makes them above-average, there's no answer🤣😆😂👍.
Just anger in the gnashing of teeth
@@WhatIsItToBurn For men it's different, we still have testosterone and can still make babies even at 70. With time, asset accumulation, job titles will come
Inflated ego
The fact that she can say "Beyonce's level" and agree that Beyonce is on a particular level, implies that she knows there are levels to beauty. Then she turns around within the same breath tries to make it seem like beauty isn't a measurable thing.
Exactly. I ain’t seen one woman say Whoopi Goldberg is beautiful ever and would cut you if you said they looked like her. They know damn well we are not all beautiful. See how subjective they get if you tell them they look like someone widely accepted as unattractive and see how mad they get.
Correct! "Beyoncés level" implies hierarchy...
It's inconsistent to believe beauty is merely subjective AND there's a hierarchy of beauty.
That’s good, bro
Logic and reason.
@@crystaloats8177 People are trying to blur the lines now...I seen a viral ig post saying Whoopi is beautiful and we were tricked into thinking she’s not.
Listening to Kevin has made me more grateful for my husband!! I have been a stay at home mom for years because of my husband and I thank him everyday for taking care of me and our children!!
Thank you Renata for being a good wife the community appreciates you
Thanks for waking up sister. Now wake other women up..
I’m happy Kevin is helping you but I don’t think I would want to be an at-home mother. But I’m glad that we have them out there.
😲😲Second! That. 😌😌Be grateful for your blessings. 🤫🤫There are women, because of their bad decision making, are going through it, and going through it alone. 😔😔Thoughts and prayers.
@Jackie Bereham He does ☺️
We have had some men try to fill the void but it’s a big void to fill. Kevin was a unique man that had a lot of various skills he displayed night by night. I think he would’ve had an immense impact on our community if he came around 5-10 yrs earlier. It’s amazing that he had the level of impact he did in the short time he was around. I certainly learned a lot from him after he passed. I certainly could’ve used his advice earlier
Why are women never honest about their looks especially when they are VERRRRRY honest about men’s looks 🤔😏😂
I thought you were a woman
That's something men do that women don't
a man will lie to an ugly woman and tell her she's pretty to get into her pants.
A pretty woman will tell a guy you have no chance, and will never let you sex her.
@@sisterCURLSTAROT 😂
@@sisterCURLSTAROT no 🎩 he looks like a woman 😂
BINGO👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You can tell Kevin is getting tired of this but he knows it needs to be done for the greater good of men!!! Bless him he’s a treasure
Lol indeed
For real. You can see it in his face lol.
I actually think he's doing it for the greater good of women...
I know he is because I know I am .
💯 Shid, I would be tired too. And most of these women who call in are getting less and less attractive with each video tbh.
She really said with a straight face she’s on Beyoncé level…
WITH A STRAIGHT FACE !!
With a straight face while looking like Carlton Banks lol
talk about delusions of grandeur. lol
Dead
My brain shattered when I witnessed that
I always loved he’s introduction music ❤️🙏🏽💪🏽
She said “there are men that look at Lizzo naked and think she’s beautiful”. Delusion level = 100x
Technically, she’s not wrong. But those men weight more than Lizzo! 😂😂
@Battle Bonnet if only Lizzo had the same reaction
@@turnpiketyrone3465 Not necessarily, there are a lot of guys who weight a lot less than Lizzie that will talk to a woman Lizzo’s size.
@@turnpiketyrone3465 😂🤣😂😂😂😂
She’s not delusional in that that’s true.. But that’s not the standard
The idea that ALL sisters are "above average queens by default" has been deep-seeded for a long time, respects to KS for being brave enough to address this particular elephant whenever it's in the room.
Every woman is a queen....come on get real, 99% of people are more like serfs.
I remember in the 90's. Men could never "go" there because of the amount of insults, shame and guilt was unbelievable.
Grand ma would say...."She had your kids ! You need to thank her" or sis- "you can't handle a big girl because you "ain't a man" or my bw girlfriend would say..."how dare you talk about my weight! All Black women have big bones..whatever that means.
It was the perfect timing for Kevin to have the courage to put this concern out there because 80% of our BW are overweight to obese. I mean really ....Lizzo is 308
pounds! Who wants to date that massive person
@@bryon5284 the thing lizzo is at least making effort to be healthy by going vegan and fasting, and doing all the other health related things and even I’ve seen her workout... But a lot of these females don’t even put in effort towards a better lifestyle and eating healthier along with working out... If she eats healthy and don’t workout as much I’ll take that at least it’s the effort... I still see women eating oatmeal cream pies and drinking alcohol throwing off their pH balance and they still want us to eat the cookie like no ma’am
This girl was high on something. She really thinks she is on thr same level of Beyoncé?? Man she is high on her own farts. Inflated egos
Preach brother!!
He was being nice when he said 5 honestly, and she still didn't snap into reality.
Excessively considerate cuz bruh
Too nice
He was too generous 😳
She looks like Alistair Overeem.
@@Tangaxuan yup ! a 3 on a good day
I think far too often some people mistaken their confidence and positive self esteem as translating to actual physical appearance. Yes, be confident, but that does not mean since i feel good, i look like Beyonce etc. And, those people think that from the outside looking in that others cant tell the difference. We're not slow. We know what a 10 is. Don't play yourselves. Keep it real. Not your truth. 💯
Lizzo doesn’t even want a man that’s 300lbs . She literally wants Capt. America ?
She would need a guy with Captain America strength.
@xx oo I think you’re absolutely right about them creating this “movement” to convince others that they’re attractive who otherwise wouldn’t give them a thought
@xx oo if you don't date them you're "fat shaming" them😬
@@shadeshadyshade254..and he would still get a hernia
@@doubleboe7NYC LOL....no kidding. 308 lbs...thats a good size for a nose tackle.
She’s going to argue her way into looking good... He wanted to say “short and fat” so bad it’s hilarious!!!
The thing on her head isn’t helping her ranking.
We need to stop telling every Black person they are a King or Queen because everyone is not!
I agree with you completely. Kings and queens are at the apex of the hierarchy. That means that they are very rare outliers in terms of quantity: one to a nation of millions.
I agree completely
@UShallKnow self-esteem is one thing and important however delusions of grandeur is another thing. The black community need to thicken that thin line between those two.
That's right Robert Lee
If you have to tell people you are a king or a queen then you are not royalty.
She has a very masculine face (Marcus Rashford lookalike!) and is fat. 5’ and 160lb is obese. I am 5’2”, 125lb and I should be a bit lighter. Where did she get ‘I beautiful’ from? She is 4-5, and so am I. The difference is that I am very happily married to HVM.
By the time a mans 45 and making that kind of money, he’s already going to know how to cook and clean for himself lol
He won't have to
@@ladyt257 silly rabbit 😂
They want. Beyoncé
Preach.
@Stimme Jones stfu and get in the kitchen
I was eating ice cream when she said she was an eight. Now I'm pissed because I laughed the ice cream out of my mouth.
It's high calorie food. Are you sure you should be eating it?
@@vg7985 When you are active you can eat whatever you want.
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Average women don’t want average men but expect high value men to settle for average women. You can’t make this shit up.
This bia is ņot even average! She's a 2 at best!
Oh my goodness!!! How much abuse can one woman take!!!🤦♀️
He said, "Confidence is fine, but delusion is not."😜😀lol
At this point, i want him to come back in 10/20 years with all these same women and give us a where are they now show. I would wait that long for that.
Alone with a below average dude that treat them wrong
😂😂😂😂like vh1
I would wait that long too bruh. I would play kevin 2 million myself to do that show straight up🤣🤣.
FACTS
They'd be too embarrassed to show their face
I just figured out that KS is trying to get more people married in the middle class by getting people to be realistic about their situations and expectations.
Fact
That is really what this show is all about. The HVM qualification is a tool to let certain deluded women understand their real place in the dating hierarchy so they dont make old single lady regrets later
I need this in every video because people aren't getting it
But he should also be honest that a lot of these “HVM” get the women they want based of their monetary status. Its a contract at the end of the day. You paying for that beauty.
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He is honest about that. That’s why these women don’t qualify. If you’re rich you’re not using your resources to attract a 5 or 6.
The "I can be submissive" statment gets me every time. I wonder if these women know that there are women who are submissive all the time, and don't have to wait for a guy to choke them to death to realise they should be submissive in a relationship.
The analogy of a man wearing a dress and heels with low testosterone saying he can be masculine to the right woman always makes me laugh but you have to break it down like that because women have no idea how crazy they sound when they say it
Lol 😂😆 😂
Like a fat chick eating cheesecake while saying "I can be thin"
Many women think submission and femininity can be turned on and off like a light switch. Smh
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Attention to weight is not demeaning. It spotlights self confidence, self awareness, self effort, and crucially, eventual health outcomes.
Kevin will never fall off, because men won't let him. He's dropping to many FACTS. Average men don't EXPECT our women to be run way model's. It doesn't add up.
Yeah. I’ve never specifically wanted a HVM lol. I know my limits; I’m not sure what this obsession is.
These women are so full of themselves that even when an Image Consultant tries to give them advice they just argue with him and tell him he's wrong. Got to respect KS for his patience and professionalism.
Yeah, they don't want to do the hard work. Like getting into shape and have some empathic and feminine personality.
Why aren't we this straight forward with transvestites?
This woman is a STRONG 3 in my book. MAYBE 4 on an incredibly generous day.
2 and a quarter.
Factz
She was a 4 before she started talking
she is 3 after i have chugged 5 bottles of vodka and have the alcohol glasses on otherwise she is a -5
@@ainzooalgown7589 Damn - 5 is a bit harsh 😂
Average is a reality in life. We have average height, average weight, average intelligence...average looks exist and are also called nondescript. A criminal with nondescript looks in their community by definition looks like everybody else and is hard to catch/pin down. The breakthrough into reality is to accept you have nondescript looks when that's what you have. You might however have high energy, femininity, great humor, etc but nondescript looks also. Accepting reality helps one to navigate life more successfully
RIP Kevin….rewatching these videos after his passing is surreal.
It's hard to watch them now without getting a lil emotional
Just found Kevin about 2 weeks ago. Super disappointed that he passed.
Love his content and bluntness.
they played this video at his funeral
We miss him dearly❤@@StvB31459
It's similar to when someone makes a crazy invention...the patent and the person end up missing. Kevin was so impactful it's no surprise his death was suspect
Why is she using only being 25 as an excuse to not getting 8-9 outcomes?😭 Attractive girls start getting these outcomes in about 6th grade LOL
Using her age as a deflection on why these outcomes hasn’t happened to her yet. 😂😂😂
If she was a 8,9, or 10 she could get into clubs in Miami New York or LA for free... I’m sure she standing in line with everybody else 😂😂😂😂
Exactly I was like what that got to do with anything? 💀 I seen 18 yr olds that will blow her out the park. She think she still in her ugly duckling phase. Ma’am it’s all downhill from here
It's Sad to see how these Black Women are lost in a Fantasy but Fail to realize Reality.
She’s thinking like she’s a man and her career. She thinks that as she earns more and becomes more successful in her career. She’ll become more more successful in her love life as well. Sadly it will be the opposite as her weight increases and her body ages her love life will decline.
Social media has made average VVomen believe their sh*t don’t stink
@Monty Woodgrain their delusional over 9000
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Damn! 😭😭😂
I was listening to this in the car,
finally saw the dude Kevin was talking to when I got home.
yeah she has a dude face if I shave I'm prettier
Ok this is crazy I don't know what is going on in the US but 300k or more!?
My father came as a laborer to Germany never earned more than 50k a year and we (3 children) all went to university and we were never hungry or homeless!
Thank you sir for giving these delusional women a reality check!
Congrats to your father
@@aisha-3857 you still don’t need 300k or more
Housing and healthcare. Groceries and consumer goods are the same cost in Germany as they are here. But renting a house in Long Island is probably 4000-5000$ a month, healthcare for a family of 4 is 2000$ a month in many cities, and quite frankly she is probably delusional about the luxury she “needs”. Also, all the Germans I’ve conversed with about career income, report their after-tax income. €50K a year after taxes in Germany is more like $90K pre-tax in the US, which is more than enough to live comfortably outside any major metropolitan area.
He asks questions and the woken answer those questions in a way that boxes them into: don't want to have to work after getting pregnant, want to live comfortably (which means above middle class) and want kids in private schools, want to travel the world, etc. Oh, all this while having 2 or 3 kids, and living in the NY metro area, or LA, DMV, etc. They fall right into it. He does inflate the needed salaries a bit though....like you can live in the NY metro area and and have a one income family with that income being 230K, with 2 kids... and live comfortably. Can you do that in Manhattan, no (not comfortably...nice place, etc), because cost of living (rent....). ...but across the rivers, it's more doable. If they'd just stop with the not wanting to work stuff, they'd fair better.
Did your father pay for y'all to go to college or did y'all get into debt?
I really hope in about 5 years Kevin can revisit some of these women to see how it turned out.
That would be interesting
Good idea. You won't have to wait long. These women will keep posting about their delusion every year minimum
That is a great idea to see where this women end up.i see them investing in pet food.🤣🤣
Just visit the Dog Pound instead. It's going to be empty.
Was thinking about that yesterday fr
Girl : I’m obese by statistics
Kelvin : No mam you are obese by the reality 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You can’t make this sh-t up
Correct! The state of obesity is true, even if one were the 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 one on earth. Not everything is relative.
He called her average.... she’s below average let’s be honest. 5’ 160 lbs.... face look like Floyd may weather. Cmon dawg
@@JM-qn3tf you spittin 😂
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Basically Biggie looks just as good as 2Pac according to female logic....CANT MAKE THIS SHYT UP
The opener for this was really nice