Ending a long-term relationship (6.5 years) and moving on... | Storytime
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2022
- This video is not super heavily edited because I felt like the topic itself just didn't suit doing any type of zoom-ins and effects. I will try to film some vlogs and more fun stuff to share with you guys.
But I still hope that this video could be some sort of help for someone who might also be going through a breakup.
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I LOVE YOU ❤️ you are so so strong and such a beautiful soul, you deserve the entire world 🌎
I love you so much, bestest friend 💞✨️
Seeing this helped me . Coming out of a 10 year relationship. It gives me hope as well as makes me realize there's plenty of people who have or are going through something similar to my situation . I don't want pity just to share my pain & get feed back from those who have gone through it to listen & understand how they got through it. With the hope i can learn something to help me move forward rather than wallowing in emotions
I'm so glad you found yourself after being in a relationship that drained you! I'm going through a break up of 6 years together. Started dating him when I was 16. I'm 23 now and I feel like I have to be "just me" for the first time ever. Experienced unhealthy dynamics and very healthy dynamics in my relationship over the past 6 years and it's a brutal thing to cope with. But over all, I think my relationship was good and challenging. Coming out of it though, has been a rollercoaster. It really takes so much bravery to end something that's comforting to you. I hope everyone who goes through this is able to heal and thrive and become whole again!
Hi I have similar problem, I've dated this boy since I was 16, I'm 19 now, we're living together but he seems distant, mean to me and gets mad at me for smallest things. I'm scared of leaving tho, because I'm afraid of being alone ((especially now, because we both moved to different country so I don't really know other people here)). I also love him, but I don't think he loves me as well. I still remember our best memories and can't let go.
@@lacampanella2406either communicate with him about your problems or break up. If you have communicated about the issues in the relationship and you don't see a change break up. You are only 19,don't waste your lifetime on someone that doesn't respect you and doesn't love you the way you want. I'm in a similar situation, I'm 20 and i got broken up with (relationship of 3 years) because it wasn't working out anymore. Its been 2 months, I'm not completely moved on obviously but I feel so much better. It can feel lonely at times and I want someone but I don't feel the constant anxiety i felt while i was in the relationship. I feel like if the relationship doesn't work out for you anymore you should break up, not hold on to the what ifs and the potential of the person. Give yourself the opportunity to find someone that appreciates you and loves you the way you deserve. You say you moved to a different country together and you don't really know anyone apart from him, but you can find new people to hang out with and be friends. It will take some time but it will happen. Isn't it better to be alone, than to be with bad company? The only thing I would be worried about is the financial problem, in case you dont have the funds to live on your own
I am so thankful you could share this with us, Josie. As a fan of the TH-cam channel you and Jake had, I always wondered what had happened, and now I finally understand your side. I will support you and him individually! Best wishes in this new journey!
Thank you so much, mean alot ❤️
@@hejjosie thank you for opening up, I kno it can’t have been easy! Can’t wait to see more of your videos! It’s glad to have you back on TH-cam at last!
Agreed, Im happy you took the time you needed for yourself and decided to share your journey with us.
Some TH-camrs I supported in the past for a very long time vanished and I don' t even know if they are still alive. I'm very happy to have found your channel today yay
Btw who knows Jake's channel?
@@giangly4315 *Who the fuck is jake?*
bro not trynna break the flow here but the peaceminusone necklace shes wearing literally made me so happy!!!
Personally in my situation is not that I don't know my hobbies and my passions.... it's just that most of the discoveries and the crazy cool stuff that I learnt and saw this day came from him....we both are huge comic book nerds and love animated movies and horror movies and the characters. I felt like I grew up with a twin flame my whole entire life....now I feel....like I'm never gonna be the same I'm never going to be confident to know what's best for me or not. Because I lived through so many good moments. And I loved to see him share his stuff through links and videos on TH-cam of the new things that came out, and we'd fan and geek out over it.
This relationship isn't working anymore....and I feel like he just doesn't love me as much as I love him. We have different perspectives on how much we were willing to do what we do for each other. So....we broke up. Because I could not be with someone who wouldn't give his all on wanting to see me. I don't feel like being friends with my ex partner is a good idea.....for the sake of.....not being able to see him with another person. And I don't want him to see ME with another person too....as I fear I will hurt him. Idk what is better to do.
Josie, you are glowing! I'm so glad you started this channel. I absolutely loved you in your previous one and I was kinda bummed to find that one gone until I realized you had your own. You're and were such an inspiration.
Im really glad you’re in a better headspace now, you’ve come this far I feel proud
Thank you, means alot 💞🌸
u are so real for this. ty for making this video - not many ppl would and I love the honesty and self reflection here!!
Your advice and willingness to talk about a heavy topic is touching. I also had to deal with this in the past, and you are remarkable for being able to become authentic to yourself. I will always support you and wish you and your fiance the best.
Thank you so much, i was nervous filming this video but the reception has been amazing 🥺❤️
This video is so incredibly helpful. I’m in almost the exact same situation you were - together over 6 years, really the only ones we knew in a new city for all that time, my support system, my everything. But we fell out of love. We tried for almost 2 years, but we broke up. Today. I feel lost and small, and the world feels big, scary, and lonely. But this video encourages me that I can overcome this ❤
1 week out of 6 year relationship right now… feel so lost and empty. Everyday is a battle and I really feel like I’m losing. Hope all has been well for you in the last year… and hope I can’t get there too
i just randomly remembered i watched you so i searched and found this.. i was really shocked at first tbh but after watching this video im so glad that you found yourself and were able to leave the toxicity you were in. i wish you all the best and happiness
You open my eyes 🥺 ended my 7 years relationship
Thank you for this video. It makes me happy to hear your story. Everything gets better. 💖
I’m going through a breakup of 4 years together. I was 28 going in and now at 32 I feel I have to start all over again. After 3 weeks of living away from him… I’m seeing that I’m accepting the breakup a lot better than I thought and everything I dreamt with that person is over. Done.
It helped that we broke up in February and I was stranded in a different state away from family and moved out 4 months later. I was so lost and lonely processing the pain. Thankful that I’m alive and well… no more crippling anxiety. On to better things. 💕
Jag är glad att du har hittat dig själv och att du går vidare från det förflutna! Ska bli kul att få se dig lägga upp videos igen! 🥰
I have followed you since that time and used to watch your old channel and also your live streams on twitch sometimes, and I really felt connected to you somehow. Maybe because I'm also from Sweden and "Jämtland", and have been wanting to learn Korean and live in Korea for about 3 years. And it was just reassuring or hopeful to see that someone from my area had taken the step to move to Korea, and lived a life that I at that time wanted to live so badly myself. I think that's why you became a very comforting person to me and it motivated me to keep believing in myself and my dreams. However, I´ve felt really lonely in the journey of liking k dramas and K-pop and Korean culture, but it hasn´t really bothered me until now. It´s really hard to live in a country where you feel so disconnected to everyone and to feel like you don´t fit in. It sort of became my whole life, and I can therefore sort of relate to this video about losing yourself to something truly, and then when it "stops" you feel so lost. Now that I have taken some time off listening to K-pop and living in that "world", due to feeling lonely and depressed, I feel like I totally lost myself and my personality, but im slowly trying to discover new things i like. Even though I haven´t had a long-term relationship I can still relate to the feeling of not having any ambitions and now knowing who you are. This video reminded me that it´s okay to process your emotions and sort of rebuild yourself at your own pace. It must have felt so good to finally find yourself again. I don´t know I just think I needed to hear these words from you. ANYWAYS, I'm so sorry for this long comment, I just want to say that you are a very strong person and I´m so happy that you have found someone you´re happy with and can be yourself with. I really love your videos and seeing your life in Korea. I hope I can find that passion for Korea again and find people who will support me for me. Thank you for your videos Josie!
Thank you for your comment! I hope you find things that interest you outside of kpop aswell as it can really isolate you from other hobbies and friends.
Great to see you doing better and started vlogging again.
So glad to hear that your happy now and in a lovely relationship now! Your so lovely Josie and I know you will get through whatever you have to go through. Du är så stark, älskar dig Josie❤
Tack så mycket 💞😭
I dont normally comment on videos, but this one made me so emotional and helped me feel seen. As I am also going through a long term relationship break up, a lot of the things you were saying I was able to relate to. Thank you for uploading this video
That's why I uploaded it, if it can help at least someone then it was worth sharing! I wish you all the best ❤️
Tack för att du delade med dig, jag behövde verkligen den här videon idag. Avslutade nyligen en 6 år lång relation och känner verkligen igen mig i mycket av vad du säger. Speciellt det om att vara en hel person på egen hand.
Thank you, I really needed this right now
Hi I'm gonna say this here cause I don't know to who to say it.... I was in a relationship for 3and half years with my bf, we broke up but due to covid and economical reasons we stayed together... During that time we kept acting like a couple and hade moments we would basicly be friends with benefits the whole time I still loved him and I was hopping he would want me back. Recency he finally made it fully final, he told me that last 3 months he been trying to stop loving me because we are toxic for eachother, I don't disagree or hate him but I feel so alone and empty, I don't know how to function without him I don't know how my life will even be without him being in it, and the fact that I don't have manny friends doesn't help eather.... I'm just so lost... I almost feel so desperate to cling on him... I don't know what to do... I know the right thing to do is to move on but it hurts so so bad I feel like my whole life is shattering and I can do nothing to fix it... This is my first relationship btw my first everything and I feel so lost...
Glad to hear that you're doing ok. Take care and we'll always support you. 😃😄
Thank you for sticking with me 💞
This is a late response, but whether you see this or not does not matter too much. I just want to say I'm happy you are now in a safe place. Finding the path that you need to go in order to keep moving forward and grow. Wish you the best and us fans will support you in the end. Never give up! Keep smiling.
As a supporter from your previous relationship/channel, I have been waiting for you to make this video. And I am so happy you moved on & found your person🥰
Thank you for always supporting, means alot to me ❤️
@@hejjosie OFC😘🦋
Same!!!!
what happened to the previous channel though?
I’m really happy that you’re in a better place now ❤
Thank you Andrea ❤️❤️
I'm so proud of you Josie! This is such a difficult experience for anyone whose gone through this. It really hit home for me, and I appreciate your advice. Love your vids 💜
Im glad to hear that it was helpful ❤️❤️
So proud of you Josie honestly 💗🌸
Thank you so much 💞
Oh Josie i found u! my... i lost my favorite channel and now you there and u OK. It's fine. I'm sorry about break up...but happy for you to find someone special. i wish you be happy!!! ❤❤❤
I'm so proud of u. You're strong girl Wish u a healthy and happier relationship with your partner. Love u josie. Lots of love from North Borneo
Thank you for the support 💞❤️
Love u josie, thx u for sharing this, my best wishes for u, im also going to a breakup and trying to connect w myself, u really make me feel like everything will be okay💗 xoxo
One step at a time, you got this 💞
Vad stark du är som tagit dig där du är idag, tack för att du delar med dig ❤❤
Tack för ditt stöd ❤️
My darling
No wonder you looked familiar. Glad you are doing good.
It helped me a lot❤❤❤❤ love you
me and my ex ended a year ago we were together 3 years, she met someone new and ended things with me but they weren't fully over for a few months after that it was on and off while she was seeing them. She came back to check in on me a few months ago and since then I have been sucked back in and just trying to move on from the relationship as a whole just struggling a year later kicking myself because its taking me so long but im getting there. This video was great, thanks for sharing :)
❤ always here to support ❤
Thank you so much 💓
@@hejjosie ❤
Thank you for open to you whit us and coment this experience so important to you. Im happy for wacht yours videos again. Kisses from Venezuela
Thank you for the support ❤️💞
I was big Fan of you and jake as couple but I'm Soo happy because u r happy and you find yourself and be u not another person
Means alot to hear 💞
hi
can you give me some advice i just got divorced after 26 years and i have depression now and my life is just going down 😞
I will always support you Josie I am from Thailand I'm always ready to support your channel ✌️✌️✌️
Thank you so much!! ❤️
Good for you for finding your true self again, and finding someone who allows you to be that 👏
Did your previous partner pressure you to do all those things you said, or was it something you just felt you had to do?
Thank you!
Because we have a public history I try to keep it civil to not upset the people who supports us both so I won't go any further into details about this, hope you understand! 💞
@@hejjosie Of course, I think understand 👍
After how many months did U start dating?
When you describe the self you were when you met him and he "gave you a purpose", I see myself now...
I was wondering why the other channel stopped
우연히 생각나서 영상 댓글 네이버 구글 오만데 다 찾아보다가 이제야 알게되었네요.. 아쉽습니다. 이별에 대해 영상으로나마 두 분이서 남겼어야 하지 않나 라고 문득 생각이 났으나, 무엇보다 두 분의 생각이 가장 중요하고 또 사생활이니까 그냥 소리 소문없이 잊혀지게 만든 것 충분히 이해되네요. 궁금한 게 너무 많지만 예전 유튜브의 한 팬으로서 추억으로 묻고 갑니다. (혹시나 저처럼 궁금해 하실 한국인 분들을 위해 댓글 남깁니다.)
Today I was having some thoughts about anime and the firat thing was memory on old chanel and video from some shop with Korean Jesus (Jake bro Jun if I remembering corect) and his "furstrations" about Nazuko, so just for nostalgy I was looking for old chanel since I forgot the name and finaly when I find it in all of my 625 subscriptions on yt kinda feel sad that is hidden down. So next thing was to ask google what happend to you and Jake and the best thing was that in all of stuff I finaly found your new chanel, so after probabbly more than 3 years Im aggain there🙃 It has been the long jurney and Im happy for you that you finaly found the point of your life, wish you all the best!
May I ask how old you are, times in life can help with perspective
whats the old youtube channel?
Josie and Jake, all videos deleted.
What happened with that ex
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You are so beatiful and only you know all the procesos that you have to pasas but you look so much better and strong..Good look
no wayyyy what happened to jake😢
So basically you used him
I remember your old videos. I just remembered you and looked you up. No surprise you guys broke up. Because I noticed that guy was disrespectful to you. And it was obvious something was off. Glad that you moved on and healed. It is a process just keep going.
Stay strong, Josie. Living abroad is sometimes tired. But there must be a reason why you decide to live korea. Stay focus on that. Peace!
I hope its ok to ask but who made the decision?
Hahaha never fall in love 💕💕 just enjoy fucking life
So Sad No Pranks anymore😭😭😭😢😢
What's the channel of your Ex Boyfriend?
I was so worried I’m glad I finally found you 😭😭😭I used to watch you two on my old TH-cam account years ago but couldn’t find it anymore😭😭😭I’m so happy I found u via Instagram I’m so happy omg😭😭😭
Now let me watch the video because I know nothing about the whole break up thing 😭😭😭all those memories oh no😢
What's Jake insta id ?
Can you tell me
Thank you for sharing ☀️ We can learn from every experience
Really needed this today, thank you 🥲
You're so welcome!