WHAT TO DO WHEN A MAN WON’T COMMIT AND HOW A WOMAN SHOULD RESPOND- Conversation between RC and Lisa
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
- In this session on relationships RC and Lisa discuss men who won’t commit and how a woman should respond. In this candid conversation they discuss specific strategies to break free from a relationship that may be going no where fast.
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WOW when a man wont commit he believes you wont leave!!! Soooo true...
So true!!
THIS IS SO POWERFUL:
" Challenge the areas of your self-esteem that keeps you WAITING for someone that isn’t showing up!" ~ RC Blakes.
Ooooo that’s good!
What if he shows up and does stuff that you need
Exclusive to friendship so good
I love you both and I need your help
Thank you both!
I can see why you marry Lisa, such a beautiful, smart, and nice lady.
It's really an embarrassment to try to hold on to something that is running away from you. You shouldn't love someone more than you love yourself.
Amen
😢
This has been happening to me he calls himself a Christian man we met 3 and half yrs ago and we we all in love everything seemed to be great like this was it this man was the one.. fast forward 3 and half yrs I been through so much with his guilt trips and walking out over EVERYTHING not even exaggerating....and demand me to take accountability and to take the blame.. I wanted to reconcile right away and tried so hard to stop him from leaving no matter what I did he left anyway and the rollercoaster continued. I allowed it and now I'm wondering what is going on? He has left me confused and devalued because he say wouldn't take his time out to reconcile on the spot. It just continues
Same thing with me. They are narcissistic. Look it up and you will see it’s the same character traits
Redefine the relationship....I decided since he deceived me, he didn’t even deserve a friendship so I left!
Amen. He doesn't
Love this!
Amen he isn't trustworthy, so he doesn't deserve to be a friend, confidant or an associate
Honestly men don't want women as friends
Yes you are so strong!!! I am making the same conclusion.
a lot of reasons why some women don't leave is because they don't think they can do better, or they don't want to start all over. It's not worth it.
They don't want to accept the fact that they were played
Sooner or later they realize that they lose more by staying than leaving
@@yeahthatsme921 YASSS! Radical Acceptance versus Ego
@Casper Insight. Agreed from experience you lose more by staying!!!
Agreed 👍
This has been the most profound, punch-in-the-gut, wake-up video I’ve seen thus far. When I found out the (short lived) relationship I was in was actually a “situationship” and was only a mere convenience for him, I immediately went into self preservation mode by pulling sex off the table. I then put boundaries and standards in place and he slowly started fading from my life cause he wasn’t willing to meet them. This painful experience was truly eye-opening for me. But I still have my dignity and self-respect and that’s all that matters to me. Good riddance.
Though this was painful I'm sure, you did the right thing! Now wait upon the Lord,watch and see what he is going to bring you because you trusted. Glory!!!!
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I feel the same right now going through it and he calls himself a Christian man and we been together 3 1/2 yrs and it was just a rollercoaster of in and out for him at his convenience
Exactly!!
If he's yours, he'll come back. But if he's not - be glad he kept stepping and disappeared!
Sandra Scott .... sometimes when they come back don't matter....He still may not be the one..
Well my ex narcissist come back...hoover. So it depends if anything changes and maybe one time to come back and stay...after that unhealthy.
They definitely don't need to come back.
I hope he could come back...but nothing happened..he knows I wont go out with any man unless it leads to marriage..he wasnt honest..and moved in with someone he found..but yeah that doesnt mean they get on well...I keep meeting men I have no connection or they arent interested in me..they dont want to listen..at least that man we met once and he did listen..and I have the feeling he hoovers my site for year while being /chasing after other women..I believe he needs a place to stay..too..but yeah wouldnt ask him again and wouldnt go out with him unless he is honest and want marriage.. but I know he likes my art..its tough out there..many men fake interest..whilst he was not genuine to me..I did feel he had a genuine interest in me
@D Frazier I think also most people arent with the right person..and are insecure to remain alone/single for a long time..and maybe bored..I have been single almost forever and the men I meet ..I can see through any of them..I can see through the fake interest too..when they dont focus on you or dont give you attention..its a major turn off for me..
He gained another dimension of respect for her when she left. Wow. I am glad that he is admitting that. Now I know as a woman love and respect go hand in hand.
This was me, I was so consumed by the benefits!!! Monthly allowance, new car, big gifts etc... But no commitment, I was blinded by the help and gifts it was so hard to walk away❤ But I did, and guess what??? God Did!!! My business started to boom and so did my self estimate and self worth❤Glory to God!
I love the way you look at each other and how Pastor Blake encourages Lady Lisa. I think Lisa should make regular appearances. We need a woman's perspective. Many Blessings
Ashley Jackson indeed I loved it
Isn't it Beautiful!!! You Can see the Love they have for Each other, There is almost a Blush, So Sweet They Are!!! They Are Blessed, and such an Added Blessing To Us All!!!
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“Men respond to consequences “ thank you
Absolutely, Choclatcotton!!!!
I liked that Lisa expressed that she too had the urge to blow up your phone and stalk, but did not want to embarrass herself.
Also when you said that nothing can turn the boy into a man, not his mom, or me. Thank you this is very very eye opening.
I’m 61, single and no dating or anything for almost 20 years, now back on the saddle again, thank god I found both of you to guide me.
Love yourself... Go for a walk.. drink water. Meditate. Find a hobby. Read a book. Do something that excites you.... Grow and level up financially, emotionally, mentally, physically. Don't let your age define you. Make friends. Be around kids and people who are genuine and make you smile and happy... Get in touch with people who understand you. Travel and make small trips... Have a Instagram page.. share your life and views... Build an audience.... Be around and involve yourself in positive activities and let life surprise you with miraculous recovery and happiness ❤️❤️❤️
@@foziaafzalbhat4911 Please help me. My best buddy is beautiful and asks me stacks about myself x Wev been like this for about 2 months. We r close.
But he says he doesn't want a relationship atm and hasnt ruled it out a future relationship tho?
Maybe he is making sure our friendship becomes strong first?
@@foziaafzalbhat4911she's been single 20 years. She needs a man, not another walk
Thank you both. I only give a man up to 3 to 6 months. If he isn’t ready to commit to a relationship then I walk away. I had to walk away from this last one and I had just fallen in love with him. It is hard. I miss him but I want a man who is ready for what I’m looking for. Your videos are really helping me stay strong and grow. Thank you
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I have been waiting for this comment. Thank you.
That’s good cuz also after 3-6 months even if you’re “in love” or very infatuated with the person it’s not enough time to create soul ties and get very attached.
Same . I had to walk away because he wouldn’t commit after on and off for a year. I refused to be strung along
Why couldn’t I have found these videos sooner 😂🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ thank God I’m only 20, I’m sharing this with all my friends!
Taye_ BeautyTV knowing this in your twenties is such a blessing🙌🏾
Learn your purpose first before pursuing something like a relationship.
I’m so happy a young woman has found rc Blake’s..I’m 30 wish I’d found them at 20!
@@New-mg4zp same
You're a true friend and sister - I have shared with mine also!😉😊
No Premature privilege
Consequences
Parameters/time limit
don’t give all your heart away.
Be able to leave/ Love yourself
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Please preach! Ain’t no 7 9 10 11 years of dating! It only takes a man about 6 months-1 year, sometimes less, for him to figure out if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you! My years are too priceless and fragile, I love myself too much to allow a relationship to drain me and not give me my ending goal which is marriage. Dating is the car that takes you to your destination which is marriage and you can’t stay in that car for too long, it’s in and out. Please allow Mrs. Blakes to come on more! She’s so cute! 😭❤️
Amanda W I think you missed what she was saying.
Amanda W good for her honestly but I’m not going to date somebody for 4+ years and yet he never speaks on marriage, never shows signs, etc. Dating is in and out, you must show you are going that way. You definitely missed what I said but it’s fine 🤷🏾♀️
Amanda W
They were in a sexual relationship for 7 yrs. Dating isgeting to know someone without intimacy. They prob dated for 2 weeks.
HimeJessica absolutely right....why be in a relationship for more than 2 years without being engaged....
HimeJessica my husband and I met, dated, got engaged and married in under a year. When a MAN knows, he knows!
When a man won't commit, a Queen must leave, sit on her throne and wait for another king to recognize and reign with her
There are no queens
@@Zeus-dw1cx there are.. Plenty of queens
Treat her like a queen, she'll treat you like a serf.
You and your wife just breathed so much life into my self love bank. I’m done with compromising my virtue
God bless you my Sister; just hold it down. You’re on the right path and by God’s Grace you will definitely do better than some of us who wasted our time on losers
Lisa did a great job! I love your videos on soul ties, I've broken an almost 20 year soul tie now with my youngest child's father. He's married 2 women over me, the last he tried to hide and of course he's not with her anymore either. I had to come to terms with my life and my self worth. I'm doing great, I turned 47 yesterday, I've lost 150 lbs in the past 3 years & looking forward to what God had on store for me.
Yolanda McMickel WOW!!! So proud of the way you’ve taken the reigns of your life.🙏🏾
150 pounds. I can't even lose the 20 I need to lose😞. Congrats this is inspiring!
Proface God 😂
Yolanda McMickel That's wonderful, you're still young and have a lot to live for. God bless and keep you!🙏😊
Amen!
wow men respond to consequences, ladies we need to learn we are the prize & we need to put our foot down
Michelle McDonald 100 Truth
Absolutely Michelle! I'm in a situation like this as we speak but I have to realize that I AM THE PRIZE I DESERVE BETTER! He's a great guy, divorced, has his own business, love his momma and love his community. I've told him how I feel about him and so forth. Known him since February 2016, never been on a date or nothing, he's too busy and I'm like oookayyyyy RED FLAG RED FLAGGGGG, I should have been cut this joker loose. My husband is out there waiting on me....
@@mzkayeleigh5582
Precisely if he can't take you out on a date or make time for you then cut your ties. Men make time for whomever they want, I had a guy that I met via the internet (about a month ago), we exchanged #'s, talked 4-5 times (2 hours +). Anyhow he stopped calling/ texting me & NEVER planned a date. Needless to say I deleted his phone number.
Michelle McDonald yes I needed to be reminded!
MzKaye Leigh Praying for you !
Aawhh! He's still chasing his wife Lisa! LOL!I'd like to hear more from Lisa Blakes! She has standards!
I've been in a relationship for 10 years with someone that has been making broken promises. He's done things that had me looking dumb. We haven't established anything during these 10 years. I'm at my breaking point now. As much as I love him, he doesn't matter to me now. This message is right on time. I hate that it has come to this point but it's time to let go.
please let go......
I hope you left that relationship
✂️ it
Are you still with him?
10 years? Clearly u have a soul tie. Watch RC's videos on this topic. A change is gone come sis!
“You wanna be friends? No problem, but I need a wife. Let me go find me a wife!”
I love it ♥️♥️♥️
No words needed! Quietly move far away; emotionally and physically! Give nothing and watch what happens! I refused to continue dating a gentleman I once dated. We dated for three years. When I told him it was over and that the relationship was going no where, he said I was giving him an ultimatum. I told him “ call it what ever you wish!” I moved on. He came back and I told him if we are not building a permanent life together, I cannot continue to allow him to take anymore of my time. We done!!
AMEN SIS!
Go girl !
That's what's up you did that cause i don't know who they think they are you put your foot down baby girl 👭 👌 💪 👑 💍🙏 😇 he just played his self right out of a good # thing 🤗
Perfect. Know your worth.
Did he ever try and reach out to you again, after realizing he lost his good thing?
I have listened to this at least 4 times and I keep hearing it differently each time I hear it. I REALLY needed this video in my life.
Yes. Yes. Yes. And Mrs. Blakes adds invaluable perspective. I’ve already re-watched this several times too! This is powerful.
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Same here
They are both awesome !!! love her point of view and his as well. Very straight forward, bold and no sugar coating
I was thinking that I need to continue to listen as well. This might be my # 3 .
Being engaged is not good enough either to give husband privileges
Doreen Augsburger Preach, sista!
Doreen Augsburger-Lane Big facts sis!
Amen
I agree!
Nope I made that mistake.
Being barren is massive blow for a woman to take i felt worthless..Not any more..I told him to go because i wasn't wasting no more of my time I've more to me than a womb .Ive a beautiful soul with lots of wisdom gained through pain .Amen .
Amen, sister! 🙌💜🙌
@@juneelle370 😇💯🤗
Your wife is gorgeous !!! I’m so happy about this marriage and the help that you are given to all of ours. May God bless you both.
Ty both for this video
Beautiful husband and wife.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.
In the early stages of a friendship/relationship there are always red flags. When a man dose not commit within the first 3 months, there is no relationsip, take a long walk before/within the first two month. Six months/year, after an establishished relationship, there is no discussion of marriage, Love yourself, let go, move on, trust/allow God to take you to another place in life!!!!!! Whom God has for you, will be exclusively yours!!!!!!!! Thanking you for sharing... My brother always taught me these life lessons about men/relationships. Please do more videos together!!!
Sometimes there is discussion, even a proposal but the man won't fully commit. This is called future faking.
Yes
Please help me. My best buddy is beautiful and asks me stacks about myself x Wev been like this for about 2 months. We r close.
But he says he doesn't want a relationship atm and hasnt ruled it out a future relationship tho?
Maybe he is making sure our friendship becomes strong first?
Good advice! So happy Ms Felicia spoke with you on this topic! Thank you both & May God continue to bless all you do!🙏🏽💕
It's so much easier to just leave when you do not get emotional invested in a man.
Which is exactly why soooo many Players game us, to get us attached. Leading us on with false promises until we wake up. It takes more strength to walk away than to endure the nonsense
@Tiffani Henson you are absolutely, I believe a woman should leave before she has become too emotionally attached with a man!
I want to know how to not get emotionally attached to a man. Can some one tell me how to do that? I really want to learn how to not get attached
@@Claribel42 By loving yourself dear..
@@Claribel42 when you love yourself you may have feelings for them or love them but are not completely attached.
Omggggg this is confirmation that I’ve moved in the right direction Lord take the wheel 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Facts, me too!! Glory to God ❤❤❤
My internet mum and dad 🙏🏻 Thank you thank you thank you. Loving my self and letting go of toxic relationships. At 38 years old I’ve taken a battering emotionally and spiritually because I haven’t set healthy boundaries and because of low self esteem. Better late than never. Thank you so much for your wisdom. Much love 💕
Here's the beautiful queen we've been hearing about. She's beautiful
Chibueze Johns thanks so much
The people that really need to hear this is at the club
Yup.
I felt that objectively ✨💆🏾♀️✨
Lol
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LOL this is a read!
My ex thought the same thing that I would never leave him because I dealt with his infidelity so many years but that joker was surprised and he got divorce papers and I never look back because I believe we all have a Breaking Point and he broke beyond that point and I NEVER looked back
Jacqueline Bond
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Awesome Awesome You deserve nothing less than the best
Jacqueline Bond good for you!!!!
I really admire you and have now found hope and faith in myself to find the strength to do the same 💜
Yes! Good Move!
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Wow! This was good, 19 mins. Never be available all of the time to a boyfriend. Only a husband! I got it😉
Not even to a husband you have to be always available ...bc they will suck the LIFE out of you...especially if you have a NARC as a husband...then they will think they OWN YOU...
@CHC4669 we don't want to hear about you. Get out of here with your efiminate energy. You are all up our business like anyone cares about what crap you have to say. Get lost!
Yes, Ladies we are the prize!!!! Period... point blank!!! Love your self, your life and work on your own abundance. If he is not stepping up then raise your standards. There’s no other way!!!
Pastor, your standards raises my standards and I can never thank you enough!!!
Your wife is beautiful. This was very encouraging. I am a single mother of FOUR boys, all different fathers. I wear my heart on my sleeve and have given and given until I can't give anymore. I am not ashamed of my boys or their fathers... I have just been so quick to love and give my all. Thank you for the encouragement... I'm excited to see what God has for me.
4loveOnlyLOVE I’m glad to see that I’m not the same. Exact same situation! Continue to be encouraged ❤️
4loveOnlyLOVE I am sending you love ... light and prayers
you are not alone! i didn't have a attentive Father to show me what to look for in a men. With low self esteem i chose the wrong men. At 40 my life changed - i said NO MORE. I've spent 12 years working on my self worth and i'm so grateful to God and videos like these. I am now happy to be single than with the wrong man. Now i only date good men. If they can't commit i walk away with my head held high.
Wow! 👏 you are a super hero. God will definitely use this for His glory! 🎉💙🧡
Not saying marriage isn't for you, but speaking from a woman I feel is very similar to what you decribe in some ways (me),. Some of God's closest servants are women like us, with good hearts and checkered pasts, who God keeps single at least for a season. Have you ever considered going back to school, maybe to channel some of that passion.
I am a Queen and will be treated accordingly. No excuses
Betty Fouche queen of what???
She is the Queen/CEO of her own life. If women do not honor themselves like that, neither will men.
I'm a Queen too and will be treated accordingly.
No more shitty behaviors
If you treat her like a queen, she needs to treat him like a king.
“Challenge the areas of your self-esteem that keep you waiting for someone who never shows up”. I really like this thank you! 🙏
Lisa thank you for being on, sometimes the advice that is given on this show comes across in a more real way when it’s coming from a woman’s voice. I think you also have great camera presence so I encourage you to post more video discussions. Thank you!
She's so sweet
I really liked hearing Lisa's comments and seeing your mutual love and respect.
I can very well relate to this. Men do not buy what they can borrow
We have to love with our brain intact; you won’t die if he leaves,
in fact someone bettter will come along
I enjoyed Lisa and her transparency. It was an added bonus from a female prospective. Lisa please come again.
I was in a 6 year relationship and there were other issues and I walked away because he didn't want to commit. I refuse to waste any more of my life.
Good for you. Some ppl engage a girl in 2 months.
Lisa, the nation of ladies would love to have you return. The balance I witness tonight was/is everlasting to my soul. Everyday is a special day. As women in there own time and healing will know that. They will reflect back to a true King and Queen with many thank yous and Praise. It's not a time to stay where you are. To the ladies of Virtue"Seek deep and pull her pretty self out and love her. Live for her. She's the other part of you that's been there through it all. Pull her back before she walk away too." Thank you Pastor and Mrs. Blake, extended family for this gracious time spent with each and every one of us. Truly grateful.
I am so grateful I found this channel at 32, I wish I found it at 15 but better late then never 🙌🏽 Thank you so much for sharing your heart and teachings with us all. Truly a blessing.
Same here!! 🙏🙏🙌🙌
I swear wherever Pastor Blake does a video at always looks so peaceful..that is such a blessing. The anointing on his life is evident every time that he delivers a message...God is so Awesome !
Can u please do a video on the boundaries of boyfriends, engagement marriage?
Pastor Blakes, yes please do a video on this
Kelli Carter I agree it would be a great topic
Sis on point
Yes, that'll be awesome. Thanks for suggesting!
No sex!
I needed to hear this, After 4 1/2 yrs of dating and no commitment.. THANK YOU
He'll get the cookies and couldn't care if they crumble. He'll sit and watch you waste away then go get another one.
Whew that's deep
This is the most encouraging video. Wow. I used to be that woman.. loving the man and completely losing myself. I just didn't "get it". Now I do. Praise the Lord. Lisa, you are fantastic. You two should have your own show.
I think this goes with the saying “Sometimes you have to let go to hang on.”
Please help me. My best buddy is beautiful and asks me stacks about myself x Wev been like this for about 2 months. We r close.
But he says he doesn't want a relationship atm and hasnt ruled it out a future relationship tho?
Maybe he is making sure our friendship becomes strong first?
Thank you, Lisa, for being a part of this teaching. I really needed a woman's perceptive on where I am and what I need to do. God Bless You Both!!!
Thank you for your testimonys. I been. There.for a guy. We been friends for 3 yrs. Finally recently when he said I never said we were gonna be together. It cut me like a knife. But I wasn't crushed. Im becoming an Entrepreneur and doing me. Now hes chasing me. I gave it to God!
This came at the best time. It especially is hard when a man is telling you your going to be married soon but isn't acting out on it...we have to look at actions
I love it. She called your bluff and you woke up.
I take a stand today
Im a classy lady
Wasted 18years with one man 2 years with another nomore
Yes! I have never let a man waste my time. Bye bye period. Because of that I met the husband that God sent to me.
I so needed this. I gave away my heart too soon to a soul tie. I've been praying for guidance and strength because I have attachment trauma. I just downgraded our relationship to a friend and he said I misunderstood but never mind now. Very passive aggressive. I'm hopeful for what God has for me. Thank you both. I had the belief at 54 years it was too late for me. God Bless.
He doesn't even deserve the friendship 😔
This video was like a balm. I appreciate your wife speaking on the fact that she wanted to reach out when you weren't quite acting right but didn't. This whole chat has reassured me that dealing with a man in his 30s who still has commitment issues is not uncommon. So many gems in this video. I'm going to continue to watch and pray. Thank you.
Wow!!! Exactly the words l would have said!!! This video is an eye opener for me.
Lisa!!!! Please come back, this was so good. We need to hear from you! This was such a blessing
Leave him alone. It’s useless to be with anyone who doesn’t want to live under God’s covenants. That includes women too.
Very too .
Indeed
Right on🙏🏿
A lot of women wasn’t taught how to date and how not to have premature benefits. I wish I was taught but glad I learned
I only came across this 4 year old video today. What an inspirational couple you are. Everything you covered, is exactly what I went through and through the intervention of the Almighty, I walked away. I am a much happier and wiser woman. It may have been late but, I want to thank you both anyway. Bless
First Lady please come back, I really enjoyed your presence you both were amazing!
This was nice pastor. Your wife is so sweet!
Please come again Ms. Lisa...PLEASE!!! You did a WONDERFUL job!!! The camera LOVES you!!!
Lisa you were ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!!!!! Your input was Truly VALUABLE....you spoke directly to women that were in your shoes. Thank you tremendously for your Transparency!!😇🙏🏽❤️
Please help me. My best buddy is beautiful and asks me stacks about myself x Wev been like this for about 2 months. We r close.
But he says he doesn't want a relationship atm and hasnt ruled it out a future relationship tho?
Maybe he is making sure our friendship becomes strong first?
You balance each other so well when relaying these important messages. Lisa’s sweet smile is so warm and you make excellent points between Gods words and today’s strange times…2021…for ALL ages.
I like a woman's view. This was a great discussions. More! More!
Lisa, You did a great job!! Need to see you more
Marcelline Zacca 👏👏👏
Amen!!!
Please do more of these talks. This was such an encouragement!🙏🏽❤️🔥
Jacquline Garrick 5
Lisa's aura is so tranquil and authentic. I love her perspective and the gentle way she demonstrates how she "puts her foot down"..no more drama! Just cut it!
Your presence, Lisa, is hard to overestimate! You both are such a blessing! Thank you!
I needed to hear this, After 2 yrs of dating and no commitment...yes it's time for me to let go!
Whoa , I thought 2 months was too long. 2 years is forever girl .
Keshia Cowan how did it go?
YES
@BraidedNikki
Say it I've been interacting with a guy 4 months & he doesn't want to define the relationship. It's really starting to bother me.
Mrs. Blakes,
I love your honesty. I'm going to stop acting crazy. Lol... I've done the drive by.. search the computer.. u name it.. it's very unattractive. I needed to be rebuked. Thank u. It stops today!
Meeeksss good for you Queen, praying your strength ❤️
Meeeksss 🙇♀️🙆♂️🙇♀️.....
AND also check out
DERRICK JAXN...on you tube for ADDED POSITIVE STRENGTH🙇♀️🙏🙇♀️
You can search the computer. Many men are secretive so you have to do the background checks to protect yoursleves. I've found many marriages and divorces by searching public records.
Computer searches r good 2 find out if they're registered sex offenders.
She has a beautiful Spirit, loved this!!!
PCOS MAKEUP +1 she gives me Lisa Raye vibes
I love Lisa she is so beautiful inside and out🧚🏻♀️💞
Lisa is a great source for helping us heal. She brings that feminine perspective and it just feels good to know that she understands, she gets it.
Praise God for you both giving this advice to us! God bless you both.
Why don't men raise their sons better to not engage in sex unless she's, he's his wife
Starts with men being better leaders & not advise their sons to see women as just sex objects & as a human being, just like he'll want another man viewing his mom or sister or daughter. Starts from the head , we must self improve
Supernova Star , gotta start with men educating them young that its not ok to sleep around & we need to get on men instead of blaming women
Self love and having a life is important. Cut off all benefits and women need to stand in their power. A year is enough time to define a relationship to know if your on the same page or not, if not move on.
@shufly He can keep his pants zipped up too. Why do I get the sense your a man who disrespects women?
@shufly what.. playing the victim card? He keeps his britches up and everything contained, she keeps her britches on and contained, it prevents problems. But your comment about it only being her fault struck me, because it takes both the make the child.
The comment was about men treating women like they are a piece of meat. Only for a man's sexual use. The attitude of treating women as sexual tools for men, needs to stop. Stop with the derogatory names, stop with the eyeballing look that undresses a woman as she walks by, call her a whore after she was raped. Those are the items men do, and consistantly, it has been over looked by women for far too long, misogynistic behavior like the described is rediculous and Disrespectful!
So, play your game and victim card, it is all what happens and then when called out guys get all defensive, and the defensive stance just shows guilt of poor behavior.
I'm listening to God. No wife duties for a boyfriend.. that's not God intended.... be Intentional
I never do wife duties. He pursues me bc I am independent.
Thank you, for talking on this subject. I did not have a father present and I feel I grew up unprotected and unprepared for dating and any relationship with men. I'm now in my early 50's and have just come out of a 23 year relationship with a man who did not commit to me. We have a 22 year old daughter who we raised together. When our daughter graduated from high school , he decided our relationship was over. He has now moved out and moved on ~ being involved in two other relationships in a row. Living with the most recent one .
This has turned our lives upside down. The pain has truly been excrutiating. We are need of prayer.
Lisa it's a pleasure to have you and your energy as a part of the discussion. You did a great job!!!!!!!!!!!
Good advice. A woman definitely sets the tone for a relationship
Thanks, Lisa, you are awesome. We do need more of you...the bible says the older women are to teach the younger women, you did a great job ....so this is biblical you will be bless!
I think your wife is VALUABLE. Thank you !!!
Y’all have given me more information about dating and men in 36 minutes than my parents ever have! Thank you so much and god bless! 💕
LISAAA this role is vital! Yes it matters when a father builds esteem, but its equally beneficial to hear it from a mother. I needed this in my upbringing. I grew up without either of my biological parents, and my foster family had issues building me up (talking to me in general really). You two are the pieces i never got out of my parents. Hence why im here educating myself -so i can be a good woman. And teach my son and daughter these biblical qualities.
Thank you both so much
-Sharna
If a man won't commit to you then he is not the man for you. I don't have to hear this one to know that he isn't the kind of man you need if there's no commitment!! And a woman shouldn't look down on herself if this is the case! There are too many potential suitors out there for a person to be focused on 1 individual! But staying focused on who she is as a positive force what it is she can do for herself is the key. Then she can link herself to the man that is really needed in her life!
You right Sis!!! But you know that ole sayin Man's rejection gods protection. I feel like this when man rejects me god is protecting me from this man. Much love Sis.❤❤❤❤
That was really cute when you admitted that you WANTED to call him, stalk him, etc when he told you to leave, Mr. R.C. looked surprised and kinda blushed. Ya'll are too cute. Love it. Thank you for doing a show together. I enjoyed watching you two.
Yesss!!! To all of this!! I had to do exactly this!! Walked away and I'm not sure I'll even entertain him again. Prior to me dated someone for 6 years!!! NO ENGAGEMENT and then he walks away!! There is something else deeper going on with him.
I gave him enough time (6months) to determine whether I'm who he wanted....His actions said otherwise so I was out!!
Enjoyed your perspective Lisa. Hope to see you and Pastor Blakes together again soon. God Bless
no there isn't LOL he doesn't have to want you because he's Fucking you get a clue lol also take that Stupid ass Weave out your hair
Same, except he was with the previous woman for 14 years! I don't have 14 years to play around!
how ignorant!
Omg; I'm going thru the same thing after 7 yrs u should kw and stop making excuses!
Woo! This teaching is just for me. I am a victim of giving my hole self to a boy who had never valued me at all. To God be the glory for directing me to this life changing lesson. It time for me to redo! Thanks to you wonderful people and my prayer for you is that God will continue to keep you strong.
THANK YOU LISA for sharing how it felt difficult to go on with a broken heart but you did it anyway! So often we get advice to just do it without any background of how it feels to do it. God bless y'all for this 🥰
Blessings to you King n Queen! Lovely to see power couples working together💞
Mrs Blakes you are amazing! We need a Mother's point of view as well! Please keep showing up!
Will you and your wife please do more videos together? I love how you both are so connected and it's helpful to see how a healthy loving couple is supposed to be for those of us who never had this example with our parents or partners/spouses. Thank you so much for all of your videos! They are full of so much wisdom
Do we know how long they were separated before getting back together??
This was so very valuable. Loved hearing from both of you at the same time describing different perspectives. Thank you so much!!!!
This is sooooo good! Everyone has boundaries, expectations & time frames. Play me once, that's your bad. Play me twice, that's my bad, 3 strikes you're out! 💯💯💯