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SEVEN TRAPS WOMEN FALL FOR IN RELATIONSHIPS w/ RC BLAKES

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ส.ค. 2023
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  • @LadyDoe111
    @LadyDoe111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +313

    The Traps
    1. When a man makes you chase him, only to consistently reject you
    2. Letting a man move in into your house
    3. Unclear ex relationship status
    4. In a private/secret love affair {he hides you)
    5. A high value lifestyle image (the brokest ppl in the world wear the biggest labels)
    6. The words "I Love You"
    7. I will change for you "When a person show you who they are the first time, believe them"

    • @angeliastith7778
      @angeliastith7778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Thank you very much for the notes!!🙏🙏

    • @mafoua
      @mafoua 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you

    • @taniabishola3265
      @taniabishola3265 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      thank you

    • @ferronabeason64
      @ferronabeason64 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks so much for the notes.

    • @carolinelaronda4523
      @carolinelaronda4523 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you so much for this Lord knows I need to get up and start getting stuff done😂

  • @amritasikka
    @amritasikka ปีที่แล้ว +157

    From Mumbai, India… I’ve been listening to you since 4 years … I have started my own business all because of your teachings… renewing my mind… ❤… I love you and thank you…

  • @erinnreed7697
    @erinnreed7697 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    “I was born AT night, not LAST night.” That was my granny’s line!!!

  • @meli7315
    @meli7315 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    „Women get emotionally committed” so true: we commit before gathering data from a men to see through if it’s even worth it for committing emotional!

    • @brendacrawford343
      @brendacrawford343 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen!! Just Google ladies!!! & pray!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅thanks Dr Blake’s advice is sooooooo on point& I’m the happiest ever( in 30 yrs) no “puppy
      Love “💕 here!!!! That’s your wisdom and truth that’s got me “ hooked”❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @brendacrawford343
      @brendacrawford343 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @brendacrawford343
      @brendacrawford343 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN!!! PREACH THAT THANG BISHOP!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ TELL THE TRUTH SHAME THE 😈 DEVIL!!!!!

    • @meli7315
      @meli7315 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brendacrawford343 Amen 🙏

  • @perrydolly
    @perrydolly ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Bishop you brought a powerful message this evening. I was once this foolish woman. I had the exact man you were speaking on. He broke me all the way down, but oh what a powerful lesson he taught me. I’ll never be bound again. Keep helping us Bishop, much love❤️🙏🏽❤️

    • @nicolelouiselucas3996
      @nicolelouiselucas3996 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same here I was once this woman too, we are definitely stronger for this now 😊❤

    • @rainarelaford1504
      @rainarelaford1504 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen sister!!!!!!lesson learnedddt😂😂😂

    • @maryrussell7635
      @maryrussell7635 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😊😊

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Me too 🙋🏾‍♀️…, but who the Lord set free is free indeed. Now let’s stay free ❤

    • @christelwalls603
      @christelwalls603 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me too🎉

  • @peggyboss4960
    @peggyboss4960 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Hi Pastor. I am a 76 year old caucasian female that attends a conservative Christian church. The women in my age range don't seem to be interested in men. It may be because single men in our church stay under the radar or are almost nonexistent, or the women feel passed over, or they don't want to go through what women go through when they date. As a result, the women don't seek out instruction about men. However, I believe whether a woman seeks dating and marriage or not, the instruction you offer is critical to our well being and self esteem. It also raises our awareness, making us more observant. Would you consider doing a video geared to this age group to encourage them that the instruction you offer is not just about them, but the generation following them? As older women, we need to be able to advise younger women intelligently, and not just use our own experience, which may limit our influence.

    • @selenawilliams2219
      @selenawilliams2219 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Very interesting

    • @ashleyhonch4444
      @ashleyhonch4444 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At 76 focus on the Lord not men. Focus on your family not dating. Most men your age have prostate issues by that age and are focused on bigger things then relationships. Be a bride of Christ.

    • @lakeisharhyant2045
      @lakeisharhyant2045 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@ashleyhonch4444 people can get married at any age if the right person comes. It can happen just because she is in her 70's doesn’t mean she can't find love. She's not dead.

    • @michellevibonese5673
      @michellevibonese5673 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @ashleyhonch444 - WOW. Your response reeks of ignorance regarding seniors. Our pitiful society treats seniors as if they should have no needs, wants or a life of their own. Focus on family? What if she doesn't have one or wants something more than babysitting grandchildren all the time? My mother in law remarried at 71 and was happily married for 14 years until he passed. They had a full life of traveling, volunteering & exploring shared interests. SMH

    • @ashleyhonch4444
      @ashleyhonch4444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michellevibonese5673I really don’t care about your mother or what she was doing. This isn’t a family tree conversion lady. No one asked your family line. Sounds like you’ve never taken care of 70 year olds as most stink like pee and can’t take care of themselves there’s nothing appealing about that. In the last 15 years spend it helping the homeless or doing productive things rather then still chasing men.

  • @redjewel83
    @redjewel83 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Lord have mercy. This was me. 15 year Marriage, almost 20 years together with 3 children. I did it all. I was wore down. But with GOD I recently filed for Divorce. We deserve so much better Women of God. ❤️❤️

    • @kinggaming-dp6jh
      @kinggaming-dp6jh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi,did you accommodate him in your house,this is where I am right now,he is desperate wants to move in my place,I'm already emotionally tired and financially tired already

  • @KC-ml5qm
    @KC-ml5qm ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I really love the music before the word. It puts me in a particular space that makes me feel proud and like a Queen. Thank you Sir for what you do.

    • @tanishag49
      @tanishag49 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too

    • @islandgirlxx3465
      @islandgirlxx3465 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I thought I was the only one. It's like affirmations to my soul. Reminds me of who I am and my worth❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The music is too cheesy and R& B. Too drawn out. Regardless, RC is the man.

    • @diamondgold5277
      @diamondgold5277 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I'm wondering where this CD is At 🤔👀👀

    • @e.adriannapatterson3900
      @e.adriannapatterson3900 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@diamondgold5277Hi Sis, it is entitled "She" by Dave Hollister and he made specifically for Bishop RC Blakes' Queenology series.

  • @CharlotteRoussell-es3jo
    @CharlotteRoussell-es3jo ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Common intimate traps women fall into.
    When a woman is Emotionally influence by the man she loves See below what happens.
    1) Peter 3:7) (Genesis 3:16)
    (1) A man makes you chase him only to reject you. (Proverbs 13:12) (2) Letting a man move into your house. (2 Timothy 3:6) (Proverbs 25:28) (3) An unclear ez relationship status (James 1:8) (4) When it’s a totally private love affair (John 3:19) (5) A high value life style image (Luke 12:15) (6) The words I love you (Proverbs 27:6) (Psalms 55:20-21) (7) I will change for you.

    • @kheleecebrown1799
      @kheleecebrown1799 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks for the notes.

    • @Elltn
      @Elltn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😮😮

    • @Elltn
      @Elltn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😮😮😮

    • @Elltn
      @Elltn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

    • @Elltn
      @Elltn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @tati0201
    @tati0201 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    OMG THIS WAS MY 18 YR toxic marriage just got out. He allowed me to do it ALL. I was so tired and so happy and peace now. Thank God. I was with a true narcissist seriously. He always told me pimps taught him how to deal with women I should of ran then but I was 20 years old. Now I'm 39 just left and not looking back. Took me a mintue to leave due to our son but realized he was being hurt too. So blesses I was able to leave!

  • @msm3668
    @msm3668 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "Creeps creep into a woman's house." My my!

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    “ the brokest people where the most expensive labels” that was a whole word in itself! We needed this reality check. I made so many mistakes in the past

  • @marilynirby2446
    @marilynirby2446 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just experienced this last week. After 2 1/2 years he proposed on Sunday then the very next day said he did not want to get married. I am devastated right now😢

    • @abbasjoy4785
      @abbasjoy4785 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      You dodged a Bullet. It may not feel like it but be thankful, that's protection

    • @bigj3339
      @bigj3339 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @marilynirby2446 ..,,,, his rejection maybe God’s protection! Count it all joy!

    • @PyrPupMom
      @PyrPupMom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank God you saw his true colors before you actually got married! It's much cheaper that way.

    • @CarmenZepeda-yu5no
      @CarmenZepeda-yu5no 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If somebody tells you he wants to go, open the door for him and kindly say good bye. You are the one winning here even when painful at beginning. 🤷‍♂️

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never waste 2 1/2 years dating. This man sounds demonized. Dismantle soul ties. Repent to the Lord & take responsibility.

  • @janellamurphy4212
    @janellamurphy4212 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I find it really insulting when a man wants to move into a woman's house/apartment and not make any commitments to her first, truth be told a man should have his own place taking care of himself first!! Bishop Blakes you raised a really important point that really got my attention! When we let a man move into our space it does not allow us the freedom to think🙌🏾🔥💯! No one has never brought up that point to us women before!! Thank you so much for your teachings and helping us queens to adjust our crowns and our behaviour with men❤ God bless you, Lisa and family🦁
    A real man will respect us when we set boundaries and not settle!!! Speaking from experience!!!

  • @sheylarn5956
    @sheylarn5956 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Definitely went through this in my marriage. He made me feel safe and wanted....but a few months in, his mask fell off. It was a trap to break and destroy me! Now, I'm free!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did God give you warnings?

  • @smithkaren1387
    @smithkaren1387 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Its easier to let a devil in than to kick him out! Amen to that! Your knowledge is priceless! You are invaluable to many people!❤ Thanks to you and Lisa for spreading the word to those college kids! Lisa went right in and straight to the point with those kids because that's what nurses do! 🥰

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He will have you chase him only to reject you. Ooowe! I have experienced that ….He will have you dazed 🥴 and confused for sure😂😂🤣🤣Bishop….Facts

  • @normamay8020
    @normamay8020 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Love this message .We woman are pure Gold.We should value ourselves as that.

  • @apostlelshelly9900
    @apostlelshelly9900 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cribs are for babies. You're a grown man lol! Gotta love it

  • @virginiediaw6668
    @virginiediaw6668 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Canada 🇨🇦 I am 52 and since I know you my life is changing for the best
    I am choosing me over anything and anybody else
    And you know what @RCBLAKES JR ? GOD is in front , behind me ,on my left on my right… everywhere
    Never late to learn don’t give up you all there 🙏🏾🙏🏾you can do this
    May Allah Bless you, Lisa and your family
    Amin, Amen

    • @VicenteRodriguesdaSilva-ti9qx
      @VicenteRodriguesdaSilva-ti9qx ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu Aleikum Sister. Nice to see more Sister here. I study neuropsychology and love RC blacks classes. May Allah swt bless him with more understanding and wisdom and His family. Amin

  • @InnaDeep
    @InnaDeep 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bishop dont speak NOTHING but the Truth!!! He is a father figure to SO many!! Even though i had my father & uncles until they passed. You never get too old to need your Daddy! Ive been married for a long time, but Bishop has taught me SO much about my past & present self. Yall please pray for Bishop ALWAYS & never forget to support his channel & ministry 💚

  • @aimieee
    @aimieee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    😅😅 The sermon has humor with spices of wisdom and hard truth. Thank you for breaking it down Pastor. Really insightful nuggets👌🙏

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This is a solid list. Thank you for always unravelling these games especially for empaths like me. Now i peep game super early.

  • @shanteljones520
    @shanteljones520 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pastor Blake's when I tell you... You preaching tonight... YOU PREACHING..!! I was just in some mess like that..I asked why is it that you don't want your ex-wife whom you are still friends with.. talk to on the phone (away from me) and repair things at her home.. Why don't you want her to know I exist.. he said it would be disrespectful to her because we have only been divorced for 2-months & have been separated for 10-12 years.. I just walked out his house and im never coming back.!! Thank you for this message it's confirmation.

  • @sepia7
    @sepia7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Proverbs 13:12 - (amplified version) Hope deferred makes the heart sick. But when the desire is fulfilled it is a tree of life. ❤

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Powerful message i have made poor choices in relationships and previous marriage . Im 52 single and in my healing journey til god provides the husband meant for me . I learned to spot the traps and best to walk away when not valued . Love this message thanks for sharing Pastor Blakes . Know my worth and love myself first ❤❤❤and i seek my guidance through God

  • @stefblanco3887
    @stefblanco3887 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is Stephanie from Detroit Michigan one of your top fans and followers on Instagram! This is narcissism described at its finest. I’m a recovering narc survivor thanks to the Lord introducing me to your teachings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️

    • @anitranovak2459
      @anitranovak2459 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey sis I’m from the ‘D’ too💜

    • @perrydolly
      @perrydolly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I too am a recovering narc survivor. It takes the the Good Lord, and teachings like Bishop Blake’s is teaching to pull you through. Many blessings sister 💖🙏🏽💖

    • @queenofplantbasedvegan
      @queenofplantbasedvegan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1000%

  • @bernadettevillalon6647
    @bernadettevillalon6647 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If only I would have listened to this five years ago. Thanks. Never foolish again.

  • @lensim9100
    @lensim9100 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Most of the time women give sex for love and some men play at love to get sex. So I have heard and I believe it's a true saying.

  • @maeshaw1
    @maeshaw1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    OMG! Bishop, Is there any oil left in heaven for anointing!?! I'm in Los Angeles and missed your live but I can't tell you how many times I paused and rewind this video to really listen to each point!! Whew!! If this was not a message from God to me, then I can't hear from him. Thank you Bishop for the fire. Thank you Lord for the anointing! 🖤🖤❤❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lived in L.A. Hot mess central. I would think it would be difficult to be found by a good brother willing to commit.

    • @maeshaw1
      @maeshaw1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@danilaroche1156 You're absolutely right. With a county of over 9.5M people, you'd think there wouldn't be a shortage of descent men. A lot of them are lovers of themselves; of other men; or in concubine relationships. I tried online dating for the first time and it's even worst. Glad I subscribed to eHarmony for only a few months and cancelled it after the first. Living in Los Angeles, it's even more imperative to focus on God and wait on him. He's the greatest matchmaker.

  • @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953
    @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Father O God, continue pouring out the Holy Spirit on Pastor Blakes.
    Spread Your protection over him, his wife and his family. In Jesus name we pray. Amen!💙

  • @eugeniajones1895
    @eugeniajones1895 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is so powerful, I have never pursued a man. I have never chased a man. I have open myself up when I knew I should have listened to my gut feeling.
    I have never let a man in place to live in. My family has done it but I haven't. I doing good all by myself and God.
    I love 💖 my peace and space. It took me a long time to get where I am and I 'm not giving that up for anything or anyone. I had that problem.
    I wasn't anyone secret 😊 I was around I took pictures and I was around the family. I never sex with the individual that I recently walked away from. He had red flags 🚩. I heard that. That's what I tell people.
    Exactly 💯 that's what I did. I walked away and I 'm doing so much better.
    I experienced more than one of these traps. Thanks for the information.❤❤

  • @ashleymeeker
    @ashleymeeker 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “Cribs are for babies, you a grown man” 😂 👌🏻

  • @brendaslowe6365
    @brendaslowe6365 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for this powerful message! Where were you when I was making so many stupid mistakes, back in the day😅

  • @themaccabee8469
    @themaccabee8469 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Get out that loop of hope!!! There’s no closure just let go you’ll heal! Let’s do it!

  • @marla3778
    @marla3778 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yes definitely,child birth pain is definitely unfathomable

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amen!! No lies told. Ladies respect and love ypurself.

  • @Braveh3artGirl
    @Braveh3artGirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The condition of his heart is so incredibly vital

  • @joycedavis436
    @joycedavis436 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hi Pastor Blakes and First Lady Blakes. Wow! You got everything thing out this evening! I wished my father had talked with his five daughters about men so that we didn’t have to fall into this trap. I have learned so much about men since I been watching your videos. Pastor Blakes what you had mentioned are 💯% correct. I thank God for your ministry and we need pastors like you to tell us the truth. The red flags are there but we over looked them. I am confident and I want God’s best for me. I will patiently wait on God. Again, thanks so much. May God richly blessed you and First Lady Blakes.🙏🏾

    • @davidsisson2026
      @davidsisson2026 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dad had 6 daughters 2 sons ,never had a heart talk wuh any of us. He was a womanizer, had no intention to treat our mother with respect.

    • @joycedavis436
      @joycedavis436 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes, my father was a womanizer too! My parents has five daughters and three sons. He didn’t love my mom or us. He truly suffered and died at the age of 68. My mom was a good woman, wife, and mom, she died at the age of 83. I believe marriage should be forever/Black love. I was married for 13 years and I wanted it to be forever. I am divorced. I tried everything to saved my marriage. I was married once and my ex has been married 4 times. I want to get married again but I want a man that truly loves God. Ladies need to truly trust and wait on God for her mate/spouse. Importantly, let the man pursue you. Women should be celibate until her wedding night! Pastor Blakes message was truth and on point. Ladies don’t want to be alone. All seven points was good, when Pastor talked about “if a man says he loves you”. I said wow! Love is an action word, we don’t need soul ties. I felt that I was in a soul ties. I let it go . I am going to truly wait on my man of God because God knows what is best for me. Ladies let us wait for Gods’s best! Let the godly men pursue us! We don’t want boys we want men that truly loves God. I thank God for Pastor Blakes for telling women the truth about how a man thinks! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @marialeshea7430
    @marialeshea7430 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unfortunately I was this woman and fell for all the 7 traps. However with finding God and he sent mentors my way and my growth transformed me.

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Woooooooooo thank you Pastor,Thank you Lisa. We needed this. Out plain and straight. Lord help us ladies to let it soak in and not keep making the same mistakes over and over. Y'all we don't have an excuse now,cause we who got daddies who never thought us this. I'm for one is greatful to our spiritual fathers here👏🏿 Thank you.👏🏿♥

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YES🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🧡❤️ THANK YOU BISHOP & LISA BLAKES FOR TEACHING US QUEENS TO BEHAVE PROPERLY WITH OURSELVES AROUND OUR MEN👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @julissarivas6992
    @julissarivas6992 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I was going around in a cycle caught in a loop until God guided me to you Bishop! Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @cassondrad2280
    @cassondrad2280 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wonderful, learning new equipment. Digital Engineer is something else you can add to your lovely resume. Thanks, greatly appreciate your teachings. They have helped enormously and books as well.

  • @shegotstandards
    @shegotstandards ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such great wisdom from the Lord. "It's easy to bring a devil in t h a n it is to kick one out..." thank you Bishop Blake's for this wisdom from the Lord.

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  ปีที่แล้ว +36

    HELLO FAMILY! Where are you coming in from tonight?

  • @cillahababio1784
    @cillahababio1784 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is very profound! The Lord continues to bless you, Pastor Blakes for always bringing us words of wisdom

  • @DrFredJones
    @DrFredJones ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “If a man say’s his wife is not _____it’s a reflection on him. B/C the greatest influence on a woman’s life when she loves is her man/ husband. 12:40

  • @sheilapendley1716
    @sheilapendley1716 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    !!!!! This Man and His Wife are a Gift!!!!

  • @lensim9100
    @lensim9100 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Amen Pastor. Never mind who don't like it you are telling the truth for real. Keep it 100.

  • @Blessed75463
    @Blessed75463 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Bishop, this teaching was well needed, once again you hit the ball out the park. We Appreciate You and Lisa 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️!!! God Bless!!!

  • @icecreamgirlrockyroad3547
    @icecreamgirlrockyroad3547 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I let mine move in lost everything Please God forgive my sillness and gullible living in sin He is speaking fact 😢

  • @trinawilliams3459
    @trinawilliams3459 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I agree 💯💯 with you Pastor RC BLAKES Congratulations to your grandson and his friends attending college 🎉 THANK YOU for your teaching and preaching 🙏🏾😁💯💯

  • @constancenunn
    @constancenunn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have a downstairs neighbor who let a dude move in. He calls her all kinds of Bs words. He will not leave and he don't work. He verbally abused her.

  • @maeshaw1
    @maeshaw1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You go Bishop with your new equip
    😂😂😂🖤❤

  • @carmaletaharris-patton2396
    @carmaletaharris-patton2396 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They will even claim to want to marry you but hold out especially when you have had 3 9 to 5 jobs and he could not keep 1 part-time work.

  • @tiheshakp
    @tiheshakp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bishop Blakes, I can't thank you enough. The truth hurts, but it's needed. Thank you for having a genuine heart for the people of God.

  • @Trinitytruth7
    @Trinitytruth7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All women need this message. Anyone who thinks they are above wisdom is foolish.

  • @juiceitup7915
    @juiceitup7915 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ❤❤A lot of men in our community aren't wired for rejection either. They can't take NO for an answer. Some of them will even go as far as calling you a B if you aren't responsive. That statement goes for men too❤❤❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's wrong. Calling a woman a B. In my experience because I carry myself like a lady. Never called that. Plus if a man approaches, I'm gracious and don't hurt their feelings.

  • @apriljones3465
    @apriljones3465 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A message , thank you Pastor, not many authentic pastors around like you anymore.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So So True!!! In total agreement with you sis✋🏿✋🏿✋🏿💯💯💯💯💣💣💣

  • @user-zv1ym1io6e
    @user-zv1ym1io6e 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mannnn, this message right here!!!! All I can do is thank God for it! Yesterday, I realized how a guy was wasting my time and I was angry and disappointed b/c he had pursued me over and over again after I told him that I wasn't interested in having "relations" with him. He lives in my neighborhood and I ran into him when I was facing a situation with my daughter. We spent time on the phone and/or in person daily and I noticed that he never followed through on anything but he tried to use possibly all of the 7 tactics mentioned. I'm so happy that I didn't have a desire to sleep with him but nonetheless, I felt heartbroken when my eyes became opened. I often analyze my feelings and was wondering why I was so disappointed and when you said that "hope deferred makes the heart sick" it all made sense. I'm pretty selective and when this lil demon told me that I'm always on point with my observations I wanted to knock his head off. lol...Thanks for the teachings - It's so necessary in this world of dating!

  • @staciag1474
    @staciag1474 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Inglewood Ca, this song gets me every time. Thank you

  • @oneclassyfawn4368
    @oneclassyfawn4368 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So nice, must listen twice🔥

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's all about getting one's life right before God first, life with God alone in itself is such a pleasure and gift, praise God! I therefore bind to hell accepting any man rejecting me for god-ordained values and principles, I bind to hell to fall for false expectations raised by any man, binding to hell desiring any man that is not clear about his intentions with me and does not have decided in his heart to want to marry me by godly principles, while I am willing to wait for my god-ordained spouse, even if this takes longer than I would think. No such horrors of being stuck with the wrong man! In accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:7, genesis 3:16, proverbs 13:12, proverbs 25:28, james 1:8, john 3:19, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!

  • @tarshagreene4661
    @tarshagreene4661 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just ended a one-year relationship. I am 48 years old and he was 53 years old. I had the beginning he was very attentive. We went out places together. He also dinner for me and my 14-year-old son several times. Then all the sudden as a relationship progress he’s starting to slack off, not wanting to go anywhere as much and also move into my house without me even discussing it. I would ask him for half of the bills and he would do it sometime, will take a long time to pay. I end I ended the relationship two months ago because I want someone in my life that’s going to bring something to the table along with me not taking away from me and my son.

  • @jumbomaryvinah3887
    @jumbomaryvinah3887 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everyday I thank God for coming around this Channel. Indeed the scripture said” seek and you shall find” when you seek growth genuinely for the reason God wants it, you’d definitely find.

  • @lorettarambo2245
    @lorettarambo2245 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The beginning song is just beautiful ❤️❤️❤️! Thank God for the gifts and talents in your family!

  • @jlove8081
    @jlove8081 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Let my baby daddy move in with me was the worst thing I did lost myself he was a freeloader just mess my whole world up

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dismantle the soul tie. Don't spend anytime alone with him. Keep your distance. You want to have another child with him? Guard your chastity and completely consecrate your heart to Christ.

    • @PyrPupMom
      @PyrPupMom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope things are better for you now!

  • @desireejohnson3924
    @desireejohnson3924 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Greetings from Tennessee by way of NOLA. Pastor this message sho' nuff blessed me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and the WORD with us. I pray I will be able to come home and attend your conference next time! Blessings to you and Lady Lisa 💜

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Watching from Indianapolis at work listening 3am. Thank you Pastor Bishop Uncle Blakes 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @anon_ya
    @anon_ya 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you. I’ve been listening to Pastor Blakes closely after leaving a relationship with separated man (not legally divorced). RC hits every point very clearly, confirming red flags in my last relationship. This helps me stay grounded. Thank you for reminding us.

  • @slamb5332
    @slamb5332 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Pastor Blake's and Lisa. That rejection 💔 is very painful especially when the speaking of marriage is in a conversation, just to hear a weak later that we "should take it slow."

  • @user-yb9cx5bl7m
    @user-yb9cx5bl7m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks to you Pastor R C Blakes you have been a father I never have. This teaching comes at the right time because I almost make the same mistake love you and Lisa ❤ God bless you both

  • @zinhlembatha2662
    @zinhlembatha2662 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ooooh Pastor, I love how you knock some sense in us. We are so gullible at times that we don't even take the time to read between lies and manipulation. Sad reality!

  • @TrinaTrin-gl8xb
    @TrinaTrin-gl8xb ปีที่แล้ว +4

    @RC Blakes Jr. Thanks dad for this message this is one of your spiritual daughters love you as always this is good for us as young women looking for love.

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 ปีที่แล้ว

      And older women as well! This video is worth watching again so it can definitely soak into my spirit, and yes I will definitely share this with my sisters!!

  • @warriorQueen369
    @warriorQueen369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had hope in my children's father who is a pastors son I now know just because you raised up in a pastoral family it don't mean you know and believed in God our father ways..but after 12 years together 3 kids later I don't know anymore if good old ways through Jesus teaching exists I pray to keep me in love with love thank you Bishop God bless ❤❤❤

  • @clarissapatrick9469
    @clarissapatrick9469 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen. I am not young, but I still needed to hear this! God Bless.

  • @datgirlsaintsational831
    @datgirlsaintsational831 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was a whole word. Always knew I was right. He must be able to provide for himself first.

  • @susannjau159
    @susannjau159 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bishop you're saving thousands of soul
    Breaking from this soul ties is hectic due to this traps .

  • @CharlotteRoussell-es3jo
    @CharlotteRoussell-es3jo ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Good Evening Pastor, Lady Lisa and followers. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosalindhouser4007
    @rosalindhouser4007 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    RC this the best I totally agree with you I hollered when you talked about a man moving in 😂😂

  • @lovelydaisy9876
    @lovelydaisy9876 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ohh My God! I just walked into the exactly same situation

  • @ckl5801
    @ckl5801 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this song!❤❤❤ I’m listening to the intro just to hear this anointed music with lyrics that feed my soul! 😘 😊

  • @madelinechristoff3666
    @madelinechristoff3666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you R.C. Blakes, I needed to hear this

  • @estherwilliams9554
    @estherwilliams9554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good afternoon from Chicago thank you Bishop RC blakes you wouldn't believe you're speaking what has happened to me here and I realized that the man that I was chasing was not a man he was up child in a man's body and I am so happy that I cut that cord from him because he has gotten into another woman's head and she is going to fall for that and I hope that she'll be strong enough to pull away thank you so much I'm going to share this on my post😊😊

  • @sylviahunter-sr4is
    @sylviahunter-sr4is ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Bishop🙏
    Sylvia from NJ🙌
    Thank you for this AWESOME message.

  • @Only1Nancy
    @Only1Nancy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe this was the most profound lesson that l have ever heard in my 50 plus years on earth! Thank you tremendously for your God given insight into my personal life!

  • @sophiamason639
    @sophiamason639 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Never seem to amaze me with the message and the word backing up the true facts ❤

  • @normafraser6668
    @normafraser6668 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bishop today's message is so pronounce, I can testify of making one of the 7mistakes and it really cost me, thank God for his mercy.Continue to educate us women I am truly blessed.

  • @joanie2311able
    @joanie2311able 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What would we do without you Pastor RC Blake!!

  • @reneemosley8363
    @reneemosley8363 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #1, 4, and 6...He manipulated me into chasing him. God, therapy, and discernment caused me to be uncomfortable and I pulled back and then you said "that man don't love you". We are 55+, why am I a secret? "I love you"...Lord have mercy!!! He was trapping me. He knew I was abstinent and was trying to sex me smh. Thank God I prayed Lord, anything I need to know, show me...he did just that!!🙏 🙌 Thank God, therapy, and your videos for saving me. I have learned so much this week watching your videos. You definitely shifted my life...thank you again Sir!!!

  • @Talkherofftheledge
    @Talkherofftheledge 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor. Thank you for these conversations. I've been listening to you for quite some time, and i must say God has truly been using you. Your ministry is amazing. I thank you, because i know my worth. I am now waiting, not chasing, i am now abstaining and bring kept by my father. Keep doing what you are doing. One of my spiritual fathers. I'm looking forward to you coming to Atl.....

  • @purejoyke
    @purejoyke ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your wisdom❤
    Met an old foolish man through a hook up. He'd already convinced the lady who hooked us up that he needed a wife🙄
    I was easily traped with the conviction, 🤦😅 not knowing he was also hitting on the other lady🙉 although she was hesitant.
    But I'm very intentional with my current relations, so when he realized he can't fool me, he begins to hurt me, accusing me of coming in between "them"
    I gave him a piece of my heart and believe next time he tries to trap another woman, he'll think thrice!!!
    @RC Blakes You're speaking holy truth👌🤍

  • @lashundadavis2757
    @lashundadavis2757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Savannah Ga here been following for about 4 years now… Thank You Amen🙏🏽 thank you sir for the message they always see me through.

  • @trinnette112
    @trinnette112 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You preaching good Bishop

  • @thelmadouglas8942
    @thelmadouglas8942 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Preach on I’m shouting
    Facts

  • @nomsamthimunye9634
    @nomsamthimunye9634 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. I hear you from South Africa

  • @brendaaroussell1934
    @brendaaroussell1934 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1. When a man makes you chase him only to reject you.😮
    Proverbs 13:12

  • @isoyizausman1469
    @isoyizausman1469 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The world has a way of breaking you and making you think you're wrong even when you know these things and take your stand.
    You smell the traps and run, every one around you say you're unforgiving (like when you don't give a second chance to someone who has messed up or when you don't tolerate those with the ability to set these teaps). They say you're too harsh, judgemental, impatient etc.

  • @juiceitup7915
    @juiceitup7915 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤Men from other countries who dont know our customs yet often flatter women a lot and profess their love for them when they dont know them yet , usually is a red flag letting you know that you are going to be asked for money, sex, or a proposal to get citizenship❤❤❤Usually its money though❤

  • @susansue6531
    @susansue6531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the start of the video with the song, smile and wave to the audience. Very nicely done.