A friend just suggested your page to me so I missed this premiere (live chat) but I’m looking forward to checking out the content. I’m 3 mins in and loving it so far.
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Got an ENTIRE channel dedicated to your content Pastor R.C. ✨
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When I was a single woman and knew I wanted to be someone’s wife, the Lord told me to be abstinent from sex, work on myself, get delivered from some things, and practice how to cook well. I’ve been married for almost 5 years now. My husband calls me his peace and his queen.
Ladies, I listened to Bishop Blakes' teachings before my first date with my now HUSBAND. Trust me when I tell you that there's nothing that I need. My husband sees to all of my needs. Our femininity is our super power!
Blessed message this evening! Outline: 1. Your tone 2. Making everything else a priority over your man. (Disrespectful) 3. A man needs consequences and rewards. Every man wants a woman with boundaries. Women must love themselves. 4. A man still needs help (even in his success). A woman helps a man maximize his accomplishments.
When he said “maximize your femininity daily” if that’s not a word, I don’t know what is. Femininity isn’t about wearing pink, a pound of makeup, and having weave down your back. It’s that kind , peaceful, nurturing spirit.
1. Men are emotional. Hence, the most attractive woman brings peace (a. She is kind; b. b. She is gentle; c. She is temperate); 2. A masculine man needs the respect of his woman (disrespect - when others are made a priority over your man); 3. A masculine man needs consequences and rewards. Every masculine man needs a woman who has boundaries; 4. A masculine man is visionary, ambitious, goa-oriented, and full of potential that he's presently working on, but he still needs help.
If he's not your husband yet and you are being wifey to him you will get the role of placeholder. Men don't judge like that. They look at a woman feel like she's valuable (usually do to her looks and status) and wanna lock her with marriage. Marriage for men is an acquisition contract. Think that Johnny Depp didn't marry the beautiful, kind, cultured and mother of his children (Vanessa Paradis) but he married the hot eye candy, who was an abusive mess at the blink of an eye.
Yes I like what you said and I'm willing to do and be all that naturally to a Man who puts God over everyone else, before even speaking to and loving on me....
Excellent message first time my hearing that a man is emotional.. I always hear women are emotional which is true, but it is the first time I am hearing about this about a man..
These are the 4 points - Peace: a man needs peace from his woman - Respect; a real man deserves your respect -Consequences and rewards: you must have boundaries and display self love that is what he will see and give - Help meet: he needs your help to maximize his vision. Thank you Pastor RC we are listening, writing and practicing.
Good evening, Pastor R.C Blake's. How are you doing right now? I pray all is well with you and your family. I Appreciate you, Pastor Blake's, and I thank ( ABBA FATHER) for you. I'm a Black Man, a Mighty Warrior, and I just want to Honor you for being, willing and obedient to the Call that ( ABBA FATHER)! has placed on your life. Thank you! So much, Pastor. I live in California, and I'm sharing your videos, with my Daughters and Sisters, on the West Coast. And Trusting, ( ABBA FATHER)! That they will receive and Do what the MIGHTY HOLY SPIRIT! Leads them to do. So Pastor R.C Blake's, I Encourage you to ( PRESS ON) ! FOR THE KINGDOM! Because you are Truly Blessing me and Alot Queens! HALLELUJAH! TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY! 😁
I have a lot of work to do on myself. This message definitely confirmed that I’m not a wife yet, and I’m okay with that. I’m going to continue to do the work to overcome my trauma, and trust GOD’S timing.
I’m peaceful and very feminine - waiting for the right man to come along - my girlfriends say I’m old fashioned (I’m 61 years old) they say I will die alone - I say I rather die alone than chase a feminine man - thank you for your counsel
Don't listen to others. God knows the plans he has for your life. I didn't reconnect with my soul mate until my 50s. Keep living your best life. Be happy.
This was very moving because as a great man I had someone, a wife that did not give me peace and had become extremely Toxic and disrespectful listening to her GFs. I prayed and eventually had to walk away.
That’s a given but men are protectors they are supposed to be able to leap! It’s unnatural for women to be anything but calm, relaxed, gentle and soft spoken…anything else she’s a big ole man 😢
I'm in tears.... Thank you Pastor. This was hard to listen to because I'm guilty of just about all the negative behaviors you're mentioning. I listened though, got a lot of praying & asking God to renew a right spirit in me.
Sir, what a phenomenal message! Thank you so much!! Being a women who was wife to a wonderful man of God for almost 41 yrs. before the Lord took him Home. I can certainly say Amen to the things you are saying, in order to get and keep a high quality, good man! With God's help! Even when challenges come! Keep teaching Bishop, we need to hear what you're saying sir! And I'm still listening at 67 yrs young! God's not through with me yet! 🤗 God bless you and your Queen, Lisa!!🙏🏽
God also prepares us women to be the one by guiding us to lift our future husband up in prayer -- even and especially when he is being less than his best self. I firmly believe the prayers of a wife for her husband can move mountains through His mighty power. I've seen it happen! A woman who intentionally prays for her man is special, and beloved 💝
Dang... there’s a new man in my life who I knew was “the one” shortly after meeting him... and I NEVER think that way. Just over the last couple days, I’ve found myself praying for him as he’s suddenly juggling several projects. And I don’t know what to say other than it feels right 😋
On this MLK day I want to express my gratitude for your ministry. In my opinion you share so much with the great man. Thank you for carrying his healing torch in the name of god. Bless You Sir. 🌺
These are the type of characteristics I seek and need in my life. Not for me or a husband per say, I need it to please my Lord and for people in general. Humbleness is truly a gift that i seek. At times when I practice humbleness I notice that whatever situation I am in it usually works in my favor. Thank you for helping me on my path to righteousness Pastor. You are a true blessing.
Excellent message I agree 100%, I never realize how many women are not kind. I thought it was such a natural trait. But, my man always tells me how kind and sweet I am, now it makes sense that he says that. I've learned a lot from this teaching. Thank you and God Bless!
22:04 - Hits both ways...there are men who do the same thing to good women. When you recognize the trauma in them, you start to identify with the unaddressed trauma within yourself. This is a trauma bond. A strong God-led woman will identify this and detach from the bond and heal herself and pray for him. She will allow God to heal and attract her healed counterpart. I'm still waiting patiently on God to deliver my blessing. I feel content and assured, God is faithful. Thank you Bishop.
WOW, I'm 65 and when I look back at the way my mother, grandmother, and aunts talked; it was always with a harsh tone. I'm sad to say that I have acquired that same tone over the years, probably from learned behavior, bad relationships, disappointment, unfulfilled expectations etc.. That message helped me see the other side of my rants.
"there's a certain feminine wisdom that these women live with that attracts these masculine men that are built for leadership and commitment and covenant"
Listening to many of your talks and sermons along with reading your books have gotten me through, after the breakup I didn't cry or lose any sleep, I felt relief. Thank You for your wisdom and teachings.
Self love is number one in the list... Work on becoming the best version of yourself and then you will begin to attract who you are. Introspection is important in your self/souls development.
Pastor BLAKES IM JUST SOOO GREATFUL FOR YOUR TEACHING ITS HELPED ME DEAL WITH EVERYTHING IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH YOU AND YOUR BROTHER ARE JUST AWSOME I LISTEN TO THE BOTH OF YOU EVERYDAY I STUDY I FOLLOW ALONG WITH YOU IT HAS HELPED ME MORE THAN THE BOTH OF YOU WILL EVER KNOW ALL PRAISE ALABAMA IS IN THIS ROOM!!!
Thank you for sharing you knowledge and wisdom. You helped me leave a toxic marriage over a year ago. Now I’m loving myself and helping other women. Thank you. You’re the father I never had.💕
I teared up with a smile on my face everytime when Pastor Blakes spoke of Lisa, you can never fake that type of warmth, joy and love he feels from his wife. Thank you Pastor Blakes for being vulnerable with us.
Good stuff. Sometimes we’ve allowed ourselves to be so disrespected in a relationship that once we’ve had enough we become disrespectful instead of loving ourselves enough to get rid of a disrespectful man so we aren’t pushed towards becoming someone we typically are not. Men have a short memory when it comes to their wrong doings and mistreatment of us but a long memory when we are out of line with them.
this was so beautiful. I’m working on myself, to be a virtuous godly woman, I made some mistakes and was very emotionally immature. have faith ladies, don’t give up hope. be optimistic about your future Godly marriage life!
We All Are Humans. Men need to be peaceful, be respectful and love themselves. Never stay with someone that is disturbing, discourteous and do not care about themselves.
As soon as I saw the title, I knew this was good stuff ❤️ I’m all the way locked into this message because the spiritual warfare out here is heavy. Have a nice one!
This is a very motivational message for me! I have been blessed with an amazing God fearing man and this message really opened my eyes to humble myself. Thank you Pastor Blake 🙏🏼
I started watching your videos about 7 days ago. I watch a few of them everyday. You are the parent i never had. Thank you for teaching me and many others our worth. My confidence grew because you taught me how to be a queen. Now i can empower other woman in my life too
I needed this to be about 3 hours longer!!🤭 Bishop this message confirmed SO MUCH for me! It was exactly what I needed to help me stay on track with what I'm doing and where I am headed. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Wished I could join his 12 week teaching.....after checking the price, I am gonna have to remain watching from you tube. That is a blessing in itself. Great teacher !!
Women have so much power in a relationship! i had to pray for God to mold me into THE ONE bc Id been with users and abusers. I became well prepared for my husband. He adoed me and I loved him beyond death parted us! Thx for this teaching.
This message was so powerful Pastor Blakes ! All of the jacked up relationships i had where i was not treated right and i accepted too little was not neccesarily because they did not love me enough, but because I DID NOT LOVE ME ENOUGH ! Wow. Thank you. Bless you. Amen
I thank God for you! I've been listening to and following you for years!! You're more of a father than my biological father has ever been! My father told me I was damaged goods after being in an abusive relationship!!! What words to say to your daughter!!!! This replays in my thoughts and in my head quite often!!!! But God........🙌🙌🙌 ! The God of restoration and second chances!! Regardless of what man says.. God tells me and shows me who I am !!!! Love you Pastor and thank you for being who you are!!❤❤
I rebuke and bind every evil word curse spoken over you or to you Sis by family or friends. In Jesus name every demonic spirit attached to those evil words must die. Forgive and pray for your Father and be blessed Sis 😇
@StandupGirl1981 I'm sorry your father spoke those words to you. Just remember that Hurt people, hurt other people. God has so many blessings in store for you. Be encouraged & God will see fit to heal all emotional wounds. ❤🙏🏾
Hearing you Bishop speak about your wife, her kindness and seeing you smile and laugh, made me smile. It brought joy to my heart. May God continue to bless you both!💚🙏🏽
I’ve been listening to RC Blake JR. for quite sometime. I was single when I first started listening and now I’m engaged and I’ve taken his counseling with the Holy Spirit leading to heart. Talk to your man with love and a soft answer turn away wrath!
Thanks alot for this pastor, actually no one has ever told me that a woman should be a man's peace, I feel I have learnt more and added alot upon my life today
in memory of Dr MLK thank God for raising up more godly men to speak into our lives although your platform messages are geared toward healthy relationships your gift is still needed and a blessing ... blessings to you and first lady you guys Rock
Alot of women needs to listen to you when you speaks you speak word of wisdom, experience word of God and I could go on I love listening to you just started recently and I'm hooked.
Thank you Pastor Blakes! I’m learning so much from you. I’ve been married nearly 11 years and I’m really learning how to correct some of my toxic behaviors.
Beautiful message pastor!! You are so wise and so correct about woman respecting man. If a woman respect her daddy can respect any man !I dated a man in which I was hoping we will be together for ever cause he was not a bad man but he broke up with me cause of his personal issues . However I will never forget one thing he told me sincerely ! He said I love the way you respect me ! I love how you treat me like a king and this is why you are a queen in my eyes 👀! He said “we, as men don’t like to deal with disrespectful woman and sometimes we respond disrespectful. he said “when you are with a woman who treat you with care,, with respect, with love , I feel at peace !
Be the one for yourself first before being the one for someone but do not do to obtain or attract someone in your life but to better yourself internally and outwardly for a better you
Pastor Blakes this lesson really taught me something. I was able to reaffirm the things I am doing right and put myself in check for the things I am not doing right. Blessings to you and your wife Lisa Blakes.🙏🙏🙏
Pastor Blake you are a Power House of Truth!! Everything time I listen to you it strengthens what I believe to be truth.I pray that God give you and your lovely wife long life to continue the Purpose God upon your lives.
I am so appreciative of you, I have learned so much from you and I am working on myself. I took a break from dating because I was continuing to go around the same mountain, but listening to you, I have learned so much. Thank you 🙏🏽
POWERFUL‼️🙌🏿 I PRAY, MY SISTER (MARRIED), MY AUNTS, MY COUSINS, MY FRIENDS AND ALL WOMEN AROUND THE WORLD IS BLESSED TO HEAR, STUMBLE UPON AND RECEIVE THIS MESSAGE‼️ Bishop Blakes, you are the rarest GEM amongst many pastors and men‼️👑🙏🏿❤
Omgoodness this teaching hit home. I used to have an attitude and did not appreciate the husband he once gave me. I know better now I have done a lot of self work and most of all I have prayed for God to change my attitude and behavior. I know better now and am praying God brings me my next and last husband. I know how to appreciate a good man because I lost and have experienced there is barely nothing out there. Most men are abusive, cheaters, don’t bring nothing to the table ( I am not dealing with that) I rather stay alone!!! but I trust God has my husband and he is going to be tailored by God and designed for me.. I declare it!
Continued blessings to you. I'm late husband and I were married four months after meeting. He proposed to me 2 weeks after meeting. We were blessed to have had 43 blessed year's together. He was Gods child. Please enrich women with your wisdom🎚️
My exiting husband WAS exactly like how you describe the Fussy woman!!!! He was a moody “little beeotch” of a man! He made me so nervous when i heard the car pull up, I couldn’t eat dinner w/out getting heart burn. I gave him ZERO excuse for any bad behavior. Our home was IMMACULATE , table set beautifully, Healthy, delish dinners prepped & ready to cook/ bake. Always had his favorite drink 🍹 ready. Yet he’s pick pick pick to MAKE A FIGHT
Be that the case, the way you classed him with name-calling makes me wonder about the level of respect you have for yourself. A virtuous woman rises above the situation. Praying for healing 🙏🏾.
🎉 🎉Congratulations Bishop for reaching a half a million subscribers..you truly deserve it with all the love and compassion you put in your videos♥️We are so Blessed to have you as our Pastor. We love and appreciate you SOOOO Much! You truly blessed me in so many ways and situations I can’t even explain😔 just want to say Thank youuu✨🙏🏽✨ May God continue to Bless and cover you and your family Always!!
Came across a video of yours last week and I must say I'm glued ever since .. thank you for sharing your knowledge, experience, insights!!! Many of us women never had teachings like these bc of growing up without a father. May God continue to bless you and your household!!!
I'm watching it 2 years after it was posted and I definitely understand that I'm on the right track! Bishop Blakes thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us. Blessings from Brazil sir!
I Have learnt so much from you as a single woman. I listen to you that i can be prepared for the husband that God has for me. I have been ridicule for being single for so long but i am trusting the Lord . GOD'S TIMING IS ALWAYS THE RIGHT TIMING. i have no children either just hit the big 0. I know me having a family will be a beautiful thing one day. 🤗🤗❤❤
Thank you so much, RC Blakes, for doing what you do. Listening to you has got me through a 25-year break up and you have given me the insight I need moving forward in my life. Thank you. Thank you, thank you.
this video is so beautiful 🙏🏼💕 i called my husband telling him how blessed i am to have him and that respect him so much for the foundation he has given us💕🥲thank you 🙏🏼💕
I am so impressed the way that you speak is from the heart regardless of how the women react to you. It is such a good a truthfulness about it. I found my king the was sent for me.
My goodness, thank you. The part of giving a good man his respect, absolutely. If he is a good man, your man, then it is a pleasure and joy to give him respect. It is wonderful to build up a good man and make him know he is very special to you. You know he is going to give his woman the same thing. Its just a win for you both.
My issue with my ex was that i couldnt be the peace to his chaos. He was a user and didn't contribute and i should not have been with him. He was no protector, no providing. I had to leave so i could find the man that i could be his peace to
Thx for this message, I needed to hear it and this was what I was praying for a message from God and he brought it thru u. Glory!!….Glory!!!!!…. I have been struggling with being masculine from growing up with 5 brothers and a strict father so I didn’t know how to be gentle, and peaceful. I was always the rough and tough girl who no one can tell what, where & when and because of that I’ve lost a few relationship who I think could’ve blossom into a something but I chase them away with my attitude & aggressive behavior and now I’m 44 and it took this one message from u that’s gonna change my life right now because I’ve been praying for a breakthrough from God to help me to be humble, calm, kind and peaceful so I can be ready for the right man and I think this is it. This is the message I needed. Thank u. God be the Glory.
May God continue to bless yall... Bishop Blakes & Lisa Today I learned... 1.A woman must bring peace to a man... ...Be Kind ...Be gentle ...Be tempered, not cursing 2...Show Respect... if you are disrespectful a man will run... if a man is disrespectful to you then get him out... WATCH YOUR TONE... make sure your tone is soft and happy... not agreessive or he will move on 3... there are consequences and rewards for actions 4...Love yourself Yes is Yes No is No Don't let him cheat... have self love 4. Help him... 5. Be the best version of you
Thank you I receive. I have older brothers real Men good Men, so I've been already schooled. Yet, your teaching is on point to the highest degree. WOW. Thanks Pastor.
Mr. RC Blakes you and Mrs. Lisa are an amazing kingdom couple that has inspired me, and I appreciate you both for your mentorship via TH-cam. God Bless.
Thanks for all you do Bishop RC Blakes Jr. I have been listening to you for over a year now and thanks for sharing the games and tricks men play on women. I learned a lot and purchased your book Father- Daughter Talk. Again thanks...
This was super insightful. Thank you so much for the prayer at the end and the words of wisdom here. I’m so excited to continue my journey of becoming a wife before I become a wife.
Thank you for your message. I am using this time during the pandemic to get my house in order. This includes: GOD, appreciating family, mental health, becoming a better person, getting organized, fitness, and finances.
INVITE ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS TONIGHT!
We did !!
A friend just suggested your page to me so I missed this premiere (live chat) but I’m looking forward to checking out the content. I’m 3 mins in and loving it so far.
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Got an ENTIRE channel dedicated to your content Pastor R.C. ✨
When I was a single woman and knew I wanted to be someone’s wife, the Lord told me to be abstinent from sex, work on myself, get delivered from some things, and practice how to cook well. I’ve been married for almost 5 years now. My husband calls me his peace and his queen.
YES AND YES AMEN!!!!! Abstinence is definitely the key!!!! NO FREE COWS, MILK KIBBLES ETC. WITHOUT PAYING FOR IT PERIOD!!!! AMEN!
Yes to abstinence
Yes ..🥰
Awesome. You are a fine example sister, thanks for commented
That's wonderful. Respect, Peace, Real Love to the King and Queen. God bless both you and your husband.
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
Ladies, I listened to Bishop Blakes' teachings before my first date with my now HUSBAND. Trust me when I tell you that there's nothing that I need. My husband sees to all of my needs. Our femininity is our super power!
What are all your needs you are talking about he meets?
So happy for you!
AMEN!!!
How can I bring a man peace when I don't have peace?
Congratulations!!!! ❤️🤎
Blessed message this evening! Outline:
1. Your tone
2. Making everything else a priority over your man. (Disrespectful)
3. A man needs consequences and rewards. Every man wants a woman with boundaries. Women must love themselves.
4. A man still needs help (even in his success). A woman helps a man maximize his accomplishments.
Yes !!! Thank you for this !
Thank you so much
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you!
When he said “maximize your femininity daily” if that’s not a word, I don’t know what is. Femininity isn’t about wearing pink, a pound of makeup, and having weave down your back. It’s that kind , peaceful, nurturing spirit.
YES!
That is the absolute truth Queen!!!
It’s an overall aura
Yesssss!!!!
AMEN TO THAT!!!!! MAN LOOKS AT THE OUTWARD APEARANCE, GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART!!!!
1. Men are emotional. Hence, the most attractive woman brings peace (a. She is kind; b. b. She is gentle; c. She is temperate); 2. A masculine man needs the respect of his woman (disrespect - when others are made a priority over your man); 3. A masculine man needs consequences and rewards. Every masculine man needs a woman who has boundaries; 4. A masculine man is visionary, ambitious, goa-oriented, and full of potential that he's presently working on, but he still needs help.
If he's not your husband yet and you are being wifey to him you will get the role of placeholder.
Men don't judge like that. They look at a woman feel like she's valuable (usually do to her looks and status) and wanna lock her with marriage.
Marriage for men is an acquisition contract.
Think that Johnny Depp didn't marry the beautiful, kind, cultured and mother of his children (Vanessa Paradis) but he married the hot eye candy, who was an abusive mess at the blink of an eye.
Yes I like what you said and I'm willing to do and be all that naturally to a Man who puts God over everyone else, before even speaking to and loving on me....
Excellent message first time my hearing that a man is emotional.. I always hear women are emotional which is true, but it is the first time I am hearing about this about a man..
Amen
@@janellamurphy4212 men are so emotional
God is raising up my husband...I’m learning to trust His timing. I’m already a wife. ❤️❤️❤️
Way to go Toni💯🙌🏾
Amen 🙌
Amen, speak as if things are!
Teach Toni💡
Way to go Queen!!!!
These are the 4 points
- Peace: a man needs peace from his woman
- Respect; a real man deserves your respect
-Consequences and rewards: you must have boundaries and display self love that is what he will see and give
- Help meet: he needs your help to maximize his vision.
Thank you Pastor RC we are listening, writing and practicing.
Thanks for that summary! God bless
@@mustafadoaa1788 Ofcourse God bless you as well, may this year bring all your heart desires. Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@menaj2954 And for you too, thanks
@@mustafadoaa1788 ☺️
Good evening, Pastor R.C Blake's. How are you doing right now? I pray all is well with you and your family. I Appreciate you, Pastor Blake's, and I thank ( ABBA FATHER) for you. I'm a Black Man, a Mighty Warrior, and I just want to Honor you for being, willing and obedient to the Call that ( ABBA FATHER)! has placed on your life. Thank you! So much, Pastor. I live in California, and I'm sharing your videos, with my Daughters and Sisters, on the West Coast. And Trusting, ( ABBA FATHER)! That they will receive and Do what the MIGHTY HOLY SPIRIT! Leads them to do. So Pastor R.C Blake's, I Encourage you to ( PRESS ON) ! FOR THE KINGDOM! Because you are Truly Blessing me and Alot Queens!
HALLELUJAH! TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY! 😁
I just loved the Pastors smile when he speaks about how his wife is so kind to him.. Warmed my heart
Yessss, his eyes light up when he speaks of her….Beautiful!
dittto, i was cheesing
The Sweetest!💕
Yes such a blessing
I know I felt the same way!!!REAL
I have a lot of work to do on myself. This message definitely confirmed that I’m not a wife yet, and I’m okay with that. I’m going to continue to do the work to overcome my trauma, and trust GOD’S timing.
Amen, I been there and had a husband and he passed away, but God is still WORKING!!!
Thank you for your transparency sis. I’m glad you’re able to identify that, that is super mature. I will be praying for your healing and growth 🌻💗
I feel all of this ❤
God bless you💖. I've got work to do also.
At least you are honest with yourself. God can use you when you are willing to submit yourself to Him. A lot of women are not wise enough to admit it.
Yes, a woman should be a man's peace. He should be her peace as well. Both persons should make the home a place of love and comfort.
Man, the way many have got this fucked up ….all that wedding money down the drain
AMEN 🙏 BOTH SHOULD BRING PEACE!!
It takes 2 peace works both ways!
In total agreement!!!
Amen!!
Make this man more famous than Kevin Samuels
Please, yes!!! 🙌
Exactly!
The good stuff never gets the same numbers as the hogwash…
Amen
"Be the best version of yourselves everyday and you will attract what you are" 🙌🏽
I’m peaceful and very feminine - waiting for the right man to come along - my girlfriends say I’m old fashioned (I’m 61 years old) they say I will die alone - I say I rather die alone than chase a feminine man - thank you for your counsel
Wow. I hear that a lot lately. Peace is priceless. Im 44 and not married. I stay with God with all my my decisions good and bad. He never disappoints.
Don't listen to others. God knows the plans he has for your life. I didn't reconnect with my soul mate until my 50s. Keep living your best life. Be happy.
@@annettescroggins3905 thank you darling ❤️
And I say we cancel those word curses they spoke YOU will not die alone. 🙏
This was very moving because as a great man I had someone, a wife that did not give me peace and had become extremely Toxic and disrespectful listening to her GFs. I prayed and eventually had to walk away.
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This message spoke to me, a man, a King. It reinforced what I desire in a woman, a Queen. 🙏💞👑
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@@godsloveiseternity4102 💗💕
Hope you find your Queen sir.
Wish u the best bro
Women want peace too, some men unfortunately bring drama as well. That’s when it is time to 🏃🏽♀️
Yes Natasha 💯 Yes!
Absolutely ✅
You’re right sis
That’s a given but men are protectors they are supposed to be able to leap! It’s unnatural for women to be anything but calm, relaxed, gentle and soft spoken…anything else she’s a big ole man 😢
"Gentle words are a tree of life , a decietful tongue CRUSHES the spirit" Proverbs 15:4
Ladies.. THIS IS THE BLUEPRINT !! THE EXACT WAY I was found by my KING. TRUST ME!! THE Bible knows how to lead you STRAIGHT DOWN THE ISLE ❤❤💪🙏👏👏
What was it that you communicated and did and did not do during the courting stage ?
Yes this is true! This is how my King found me. 🙌🏿
Oop! I prophesy that the Holy Spirit will lead me right down the wedding aisle! I praise God in advance !!!
@@cynthiareynolds1941 Bingo! A king is supposed to find his queen...not the other way around!
I'm in tears.... Thank you Pastor. This was hard to listen to because I'm guilty of just about all the negative behaviors you're mentioning. I listened though, got a lot of praying & asking God to renew a right spirit in me.
Bless God you are on the road to real healing and self love! ♥️🙏👏
Amen sister. The road to healing starts with admission. Now go on and be what your heavenly father created you to be.
Girl we all do and did things that weren't right but let it go and let's move forward! When we know better, we do better! Let's goooooo! ❤🥳😇🙏
Awareness is the first step to learning. You are there sis☺️
You’re not alone! Thank God for healing us !!
Sir, what a phenomenal message! Thank you so much!!
Being a women who was wife to a wonderful man of God for almost 41 yrs. before the Lord took him Home. I can certainly say Amen to the things you are saying, in order to get and keep a high quality, good man! With God's help! Even when challenges come!
Keep teaching Bishop, we need to hear what you're saying sir! And I'm still listening at 67 yrs young! God's not through with me yet! 🤗
God bless you and your Queen, Lisa!!🙏🏽
Sending my Condolences to you and your Family
Myself the same age & widow. This bishop makes me want to be more Christ like. Tender & Peaceful….
God also prepares us women to be the one by guiding us to lift our future husband up in prayer -- even and especially when he is being less than his best self. I firmly believe the prayers of a wife for her husband can move mountains through His mighty power. I've seen it happen! A woman who intentionally prays for her man is special, and beloved 💝
Very True
Amen ❣️
Dang... there’s a new man in my life who I knew was “the one” shortly after meeting him... and I NEVER think that way. Just over the last couple days, I’ve found myself praying for him as he’s suddenly juggling several projects. And I don’t know what to say other than it feels right 😋
Wow!
Amen
This is beautiful and informative message. I am a single woman preparing myself for my Kingdom Spouse. This is a WORD 💯
AMEN!!!!
If men want a woman who will bring him peace they must behave in way that allows for that to happen
I agree with you!
✅
EXACTLY
Thank you!!!
I totally agree with you
TO WIN A MAN'S HEART WILL LET ME KNOW THAT HIS HEART IS SOULY CONNECTED TO GOD FIRST AND HIM LETTING ME KNOW!!! ♥
Yes 🙌
On this MLK day I want to express my gratitude for your ministry. In my opinion you share so much with the great man. Thank you for carrying his healing torch in the name of god. Bless You Sir. 🌺
Thank you Tigress ♥️😊🙏🏽
These are the type of characteristics I seek and need in my life. Not for me or a husband per say, I need it to please my Lord and for people in general. Humbleness is truly a gift that i seek. At times when I practice humbleness I notice that whatever situation I am in it usually works in my favor. Thank you for helping me on my path to righteousness Pastor. You are a true blessing.
@Kiki 64. I so love your comment!!💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❣️
Amen! Humility is so pleasing to our Lord who exalts the humble and lifts up the lowly. Be blessed beautiful sister 🥰
It’ takes a true man who knows who he is to admit that his wife was /or is the wind beneath his wings 🙏🏽
Right!
Excellent message I agree 100%, I never realize how many women are not kind. I thought it was such a natural trait. But, my man always tells me how kind and sweet I am, now it makes sense that he says that. I've learned a lot from this teaching. Thank you and God Bless!
Congratulations on half-a-million!!!🎉🎉🎉 you're going up and you're going higher. You're appreciated.
22:04 - Hits both ways...there are men who do the same thing to good women. When you recognize the trauma in them, you start to identify with the unaddressed trauma within yourself. This is a trauma bond. A strong God-led woman will identify this and detach from the bond and heal herself and pray for him. She will allow God to heal and attract her healed counterpart. I'm still waiting patiently on God to deliver my blessing. I feel content and assured, God is faithful. Thank you Bishop.
I pray to meet a Man that speaks about me like this....I love this message--Praise God
You better preach sir! " Her self-love dictates boundaries!" Hallelujah!
WOW, I'm 65 and when I look back at the way my mother, grandmother, and aunts talked; it was always with a harsh tone. I'm sad to say that I have acquired that same tone over the years, probably from learned behavior, bad relationships, disappointment, unfulfilled expectations etc.. That message helped me see the other side of my rants.
I can relate. I had to retrain my brain and overcome negative talk and words myself. I feel so much better😊
"there's a certain feminine wisdom that these women live with that attracts these masculine men that are built for leadership and commitment and covenant"
Listening to many of your talks and sermons along with reading your books have gotten me through, after the breakup I didn't cry or lose any sleep, I felt relief. Thank You for your wisdom and teachings.
Self love is number one in the list...
Work on becoming the best version of yourself and then you will begin to attract who you are.
Introspection is important in your self/souls development.
Pastor BLAKES IM JUST SOOO GREATFUL FOR YOUR TEACHING ITS HELPED ME DEAL WITH EVERYTHING IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH YOU AND YOUR BROTHER ARE JUST AWSOME I LISTEN TO THE BOTH OF YOU EVERYDAY I STUDY I FOLLOW ALONG WITH YOU IT HAS HELPED ME MORE THAN THE BOTH OF YOU WILL EVER KNOW ALL PRAISE ALABAMA IS IN THIS ROOM!!!
Thank you for sharing this with me. 🙏🏽♥️😊
What is his brother’s name?
His name is BISHOP SAMUEL BLAKES AND HES ON FIRE AS WELL HIS SONG MAJESTY IS SO BEAUTIFUL
I FEEL THE SAME PASTOR BLAKES!!! THANK YOU FOR BLESSING ME WITH YOUR TEACHINGS...Sincerely, Queen in the making!!!
I listen to the both of them as well! I agree the both are on fire.
Thank you for sharing you knowledge and wisdom. You helped me leave a toxic marriage over a year ago. Now I’m loving myself and helping other women. Thank you. You’re the father I never had.💕
❤
I teared up with a smile on my face everytime when Pastor Blakes spoke of Lisa, you can never fake that type of warmth, joy and love he feels from his wife. Thank you Pastor Blakes for being vulnerable with us.
Good stuff. Sometimes we’ve allowed ourselves to be so disrespected in a relationship that once we’ve had enough we become disrespectful instead of loving ourselves enough to get rid of a disrespectful man so we aren’t pushed towards becoming someone we typically are not. Men have a short memory when it comes to their wrong doings and mistreatment of us but a long memory when we are out of line with them.
this was so beautiful. I’m working on myself, to be a virtuous godly woman, I made some mistakes and was very emotionally immature. have faith ladies, don’t give up hope. be optimistic about your future Godly marriage life!
We All Are Humans.
Men need to be peaceful, be respectful
and love themselves.
Never stay with someone that is disturbing,
discourteous and do not care about themselves.
As soon as I saw the title, I knew this was good stuff ❤️
I’m all the way locked into this message because the spiritual warfare out here is heavy.
Have a nice one!
Thank You ❤️ Believing God 4 My Husband..Single Mother of 3 but there is still hope in God. God bless.
This is a very motivational message for me! I have been blessed with an amazing God fearing man and this message really opened my eyes to humble myself. Thank you Pastor Blake 🙏🏼
I started watching your videos about 7 days ago. I watch a few of them everyday. You are the parent i never had. Thank you for teaching me and many others our worth. My confidence grew because you taught me how to be a queen. Now i can empower other woman in my life too
I needed this to be about 3 hours longer!!🤭 Bishop this message confirmed SO MUCH for me! It was exactly what I needed to help me stay on track with what I'm doing and where I am headed. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Wished I could join his 12 week teaching.....after checking the price, I am gonna have to remain watching from you tube. That is a blessing in itself. Great teacher !!
I'VE LIVED A 17 YEAR CELEBIT LIFESTYLE AND THE HOLYSPIRIT SPOKE TO ME AND SAID STAY FAITFUL!!!!
Women have so much power in a relationship! i had to pray for God to mold me into THE ONE bc Id been with users and abusers. I became well prepared for my husband. He adoed me and I loved him beyond death parted us! Thx for this teaching.
This message was so powerful Pastor Blakes ! All of the jacked up relationships i had where i was not treated right and i accepted too little was not neccesarily because they did not love me enough, but because I DID NOT LOVE ME ENOUGH ! Wow. Thank you. Bless you. Amen
I love how you teach, it really helps me.
"A man will never love you, if you don't love yourself"....Amen!
I thank God for you! I've been listening to and following you for years!! You're more of a father than my biological father has ever been! My father told me I was damaged goods after being in an abusive relationship!!! What words to say to your daughter!!!! This replays in my thoughts and in my head quite often!!!! But God........🙌🙌🙌 ! The God of restoration and second chances!! Regardless of what man says.. God tells me and shows me who I am !!!! Love you Pastor and thank you for being who you are!!❤❤
I rebuke and bind every evil word curse spoken over you or to you Sis by family or friends. In Jesus name every demonic spirit attached to those evil words must die. Forgive and pray for your Father and be blessed Sis 😇
You are not damaged goods. That’s BS
Amen. God got you.
Oh my goodness. Why would a father say that foolishness to his daughter. Dont pay him no mind.
@StandupGirl1981
I'm sorry your father spoke those words to you. Just remember that Hurt people, hurt other people. God has so many blessings in store for you. Be encouraged & God will see fit to heal all emotional wounds. ❤🙏🏾
Hearing you Bishop speak about your wife, her kindness and seeing you smile and laugh, made me smile. It brought joy to my heart. May God continue to bless you both!💚🙏🏽
I’ve been listening to RC Blake JR. for quite sometime. I was single when I first started listening and now I’m engaged and I’ve taken his counseling with the Holy Spirit leading to heart. Talk to your man with love and a soft answer turn away wrath!
Thanks alot for this pastor, actually no one has ever told me that a woman should be a man's peace, I feel I have learnt more and added alot upon my life today
in memory of Dr MLK thank God for raising up more godly men to speak into our lives although your platform messages are geared toward healthy relationships your gift is still needed and a blessing ... blessings to you and first lady you guys Rock
Alot of women needs to listen to you when you speaks you speak word of wisdom, experience word of God and I could go on I love listening to you just started recently and I'm hooked.
Thank you Pastor Blakes! I’m learning so much from you. I’ve been married nearly 11 years and I’m really learning how to correct some of my toxic behaviors.
Thats awesome your willing to grow.
That is so beautiful! I hope your marriage lasts a lifetime! 🥰🥰🥰
This is good that you recognized what you need to work on.
Beautiful message pastor!! You are so wise and so correct about woman respecting man. If a woman respect her daddy can respect any man !I dated a man in which I was hoping we will be together for ever cause he was not a bad man but he broke up with me cause of his personal issues . However I will never forget one thing he told me sincerely ! He said I love the way you respect me ! I love how you treat me like a king and this is why you are a queen in my eyes 👀! He said “we, as men don’t like to deal with disrespectful woman and sometimes we respond disrespectful. he said “when you are with a woman who treat you with care,, with respect, with love , I feel at peace !
I love how your messages are intertwined with humour☺️
Be the one for yourself first before being the one for someone but do not do to obtain or attract someone in your life but to better yourself internally and outwardly for a better you
Pastor Blakes this lesson really taught me something. I was able to reaffirm the things I am doing right and put myself in check for the things I am not doing right. Blessings to you and your wife Lisa Blakes.🙏🙏🙏
Pastor Blake you are a Power House of Truth!! Everything time I listen to you it strengthens what I believe to be truth.I pray that God give you and your lovely wife long life to continue the Purpose God upon your lives.
I am so appreciative of you, I have learned so much from you and I am working on myself. I took a break from dating because I was continuing to go around the same mountain, but listening to you, I have learned so much. Thank you 🙏🏽
I'm growing because of you, Pastor Thank you so much.
Same
POWERFUL‼️🙌🏿
I PRAY, MY SISTER (MARRIED), MY AUNTS, MY COUSINS, MY FRIENDS AND ALL WOMEN AROUND THE WORLD IS BLESSED TO HEAR, STUMBLE UPON AND RECEIVE THIS MESSAGE‼️ Bishop Blakes, you are the rarest GEM amongst many pastors and men‼️👑🙏🏿❤
Omgoodness this teaching hit home. I used to have an attitude and did not appreciate the husband he once gave me. I know better now I have done a lot of self work and most of all I have prayed for God to change my attitude and behavior. I know better now and am praying God brings me my next and last husband. I know how to appreciate a good man because I lost and have experienced there is barely nothing out there. Most men are abusive, cheaters, don’t bring nothing to the table ( I am not dealing with that) I rather stay alone!!! but I trust God has my husband and he is going to be tailored by God and designed for me.. I declare it!
Continued blessings to you. I'm late husband and I were married four months after meeting. He proposed to me 2 weeks after meeting. We were blessed to have had 43 blessed year's together. He was Gods child. Please enrich women with your wisdom🎚️
My exiting husband WAS exactly like how you describe the Fussy woman!!!! He was a moody “little beeotch” of a man! He made me so nervous when i heard the car pull up, I couldn’t eat dinner w/out getting heart burn.
I gave him ZERO excuse for any bad behavior. Our home was IMMACULATE , table set beautifully, Healthy, delish dinners prepped & ready to cook/ bake. Always had his favorite drink 🍹 ready. Yet he’s pick pick pick to MAKE A FIGHT
He is a narcissist
He could be a narcissist
Be that the case, the way you classed him with name-calling makes me wonder about the level of respect you have for yourself. A virtuous woman rises above the situation. Praying for healing 🙏🏾.
I definitely need and want to know this cause I feel that I no longer have what it takes to win a man's heart anymore.
YOU ABSOLUTELY DO HAVE WHAT IT TAKES😊🙏🏽♥️
You are fearfully & wonderfully made! You are a Queen 👑
So true same.
God is our Father and you are his beautiful precious daughter
Yes you do have what it takes 💁🏾♀️😊
As a older women, this is very helpful to me. Thank you so much, Sir
I needed this, Pastor! I must repeat several times and practice what I'm learning! Plz share everyone!
🎉 🎉Congratulations Bishop for reaching a half a million subscribers..you truly deserve it with all the love and compassion you put in your videos♥️We are so Blessed to have you as our Pastor. We love and appreciate you SOOOO Much! You truly blessed me in so many ways and situations I can’t even explain😔 just want to say Thank youuu✨🙏🏽✨ May God continue to Bless and cover you and your family Always!!
Am blessed to have this wonderful message from you Rc Blakes and Lisa Blakes . Long live pastors
Wow!!! You lit up like the sun when you spoke of Lisa. Just sparkling and shining!!
Came across a video of yours last week and I must say I'm glued ever since .. thank you for sharing your knowledge, experience, insights!!! Many of us women never had teachings like these bc of growing up without a father. May God continue to bless you and your household!!!
Amen
I'm watching it 2 years after it was posted and I definitely understand that I'm on the right track!
Bishop Blakes thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us.
Blessings from Brazil sir!
I Have learnt so much from you as a single woman. I listen to you that i can be prepared for the husband that God has for me. I have been ridicule for being single for so long but i am trusting the Lord . GOD'S TIMING IS ALWAYS THE RIGHT TIMING. i have no children either just hit the big 0. I know me having a family will be a beautiful thing one day. 🤗🤗❤❤
Thank you so much, RC Blakes, for doing what you do. Listening to you has got me through a 25-year break up and you have given me the insight I need moving forward in my life. Thank you. Thank you, thank you.
this video is so beautiful 🙏🏼💕
i called my husband telling him how blessed i am to have him and that respect him so much for the foundation he has given us💕🥲thank you 🙏🏼💕
I am so impressed the way that you speak is from the heart regardless of how the women react to you. It is such a good a truthfulness about it.
I found my king the was sent for me.
My goodness, thank you. The part of giving a good man his respect, absolutely. If he is a good man, your man, then it is a pleasure and joy to give him respect. It is wonderful to build up a good man and make him know he is very special to you. You know he is going to give his woman the same thing. Its just a win for you both.
My issue with my ex was that i couldnt be the peace to his chaos. He was a user and didn't contribute and i should not have been with him. He was no protector, no providing. I had to leave so i could find the man that i could be his peace to
Thx for this message, I needed to hear it and this was what I was praying for a message from God and he brought it thru u. Glory!!….Glory!!!!!…. I have been struggling with being masculine from growing up with 5 brothers and a strict father so I didn’t know how to be gentle, and peaceful. I was always the rough and tough girl who no one can tell what, where & when and because of that I’ve lost a few relationship who I think could’ve blossom into a something but I chase them away with my attitude & aggressive behavior and now I’m 44 and it took this one message from u that’s gonna change my life right now because I’ve been praying for a breakthrough from God to help me to be humble, calm, kind and peaceful so I can be ready for the right man and I think this is it. This is the message I needed. Thank u. God be the Glory.
I see a smile on your face whenever you
mention your wife's name.. That's so sweet.
Beautiful topic.🤗 I appreciate you, Bishop RC Blakes.
Thank you for being in my life RC and Lisa Blake's I love you and I love your children God bless all of the Blake's family
I would like this video ten times if I could. God bless you Pastor Blakes and Sis. Blakes!!
May God continue to bless yall...
Bishop Blakes & Lisa
Today I learned...
1.A woman must bring peace to a man...
...Be Kind
...Be gentle
...Be tempered, not cursing
2...Show Respect... if you are disrespectful a man will run... if a man is disrespectful to you then get him out... WATCH YOUR TONE... make sure your tone is soft and happy... not agreessive or he will move on
3... there are consequences and rewards for actions
4...Love yourself
Yes is Yes
No is No
Don't let him cheat... have self love
4. Help him...
5. Be the best version of you
Thank you I receive. I have older brothers real Men good Men, so I've been already schooled. Yet, your teaching is on point to the highest degree. WOW.
Thanks Pastor.
Good message. Much wisdom. We should heed.
Kudos to you pastor. I can never get enough of you videos. Keep them coming🖤
Glad you are healed. Sorry!!! about marriage. You are a strong talented woman. Blessings 2023
I love seeing how you light up when speaking about your wife, Lisa!
Mr. RC Blakes you and Mrs. Lisa are an amazing kingdom couple that has inspired me, and I appreciate you both for your mentorship via TH-cam. God Bless.
Thanks for all you do Bishop RC Blakes Jr. I have been listening to you for over a year now and thanks for sharing the games and tricks men play on women. I learned a lot and purchased your book Father- Daughter Talk. Again thanks...
This was super insightful. Thank you so much for the prayer at the end and the words of wisdom here. I’m so excited to continue my journey of becoming a wife before I become a wife.
Thank you for your message. I am using this time during the pandemic to get my house in order. This includes: GOD, appreciating family, mental health, becoming a better person, getting organized, fitness, and finances.