Legit spoke this opinion in class and my professor looked at me like I'd admitted to sacrificing puppies. Seriously haven't made my bed in years. And even then, someone else probably did it.
ENFP here and I am getting crazy if I don't clean my house. :) My P is the mess in my head, a lot of ideas, procratination and no planning and I find cleaning as the way to escape from other duties that is why my house is always clean. :D
Connecting everything is really an ENFP thing, my friends hates me whenever we watch movies together because I could already guest the twist and possible ending by connecting everything. Unintentional spoiler lol The defining moment for me to say that the movie is good is when I didn't predict what will happen next.
I am also ENFP and 51 and it feels horribly relatable - basically I want to do it all. Start my own educational company, become a manatee guide, become a teacher, start a restaurant or a bakery etc. etc. - cause I just love it all :-)
@@LottePotte1234 this feels like me haha I remember when I was 18 chatting with friends about what we wanted to do when we were older and I was like.... if I could host a tv show where I was surrounded by dogs but had chefs come on and teach me how to cook new dishes each week while discussing the philosophy of religion, with a live audience present, I’d be happy.... but that didn’t quite come to fruition so here I am 10 years later and still none the wiser on what on earth im gonna do with my life.
@@ithuulaganadippudasaamy9275 The profile picture is of Goddess Kali from Hindu mythology. Kali is the destroyer of evil forces. She is the most powerful form of Shakti(Energy).
I laughed my butt off at “How dare this little detail stand in the way of my grand vision!” That sums up every one of my projects that haven’t been completed yet.
this video confirmed to me once again that I am indeed an ENFP. I have countless ideas about many different subjects, can make detailed plans around them but just as you said, that's the part where it all ends. After expressing the ideas out loud or fantasizing about them for a while, I suddenly lose interest and jump onto a new grand idea. I dive deep into the topic, learn a lot, form a plan, enthuse about possible outcomes and... the moment is gone, the magic is gone and I rarely follow through
Yes! The struggle is real! The thinking is the easy part hahaha 😅 My ISFJ mom (I think) always complains that I'm all talk, and no execution. A dreamer, always fantasizing about faraway ideas. oh, how difficult it is for an N-type dom to exist in a family full of Sensers. 🥲🥲😓😓
ngl that happend to me too after the first half and mind you i was playing animal crossing at the same time and zoned out on both while thinking of a new plot for a wattpad story i´m writing xD
ENFPs are so intriguing to INTJs because of their ability to think big. It can be frustrating to see them not follow through, but when an INTJ works together with an ENFP these grand ideas can be refined and accomplished
I am an enfp, working with an intj and let me tell you we're a perfect duo. I make business plans, drive sales, and close deals with clients nonstop while he creates the systems to follow through. The intj understands how crazy my mind can be, and he does his best to keep up with rational thinking. Enfps, find your intj and start making businesses!!!
INTJs and ENFPs do make great duos because they both value grand ideas and visions. Their Ni-Ne dom are perfect complement for each other, and can entertain each other immensely in intellectual discussions and pursuits. Their second and third functions (Te-Fi in INTJs and Fi-Te in ENFPs) serve as satisfying loop of validation and support that the two types need. The tragic part is, Nathan was right when he speculates that INTJs can be pretty cynical, annihilistic in one of his videos. With ENFPs being natural optimists (all positive, seeing only the best in everyone), the two types can come to a head and be involved in pretty unhealthy situations (where detachment is not a choice). Because both are stubborn and pretty much an idealist at heart. Just something to be mindful about. -Speaking from an ENFP account in that duo -
"it's really a double edge thing" I'm also an ENFP always use this line 😂 Always looking at the two sides of a coin and understanding different perspectives like everything can be right and wrong depending on the situation and given reasons.
@@toni4157 maybe that's why we are stereotyped as vulnerable. Hence, we are just that very understanding and seeing their point over what the majority think is right. Sometime it's really hard to be us lol Critical thinking pipz
people don´t get my devil´s advocate at all.. they seem so judgemental with a thing they don´t understand and want differentlx thinking people to just go away. I sometimes despise these peasants and people find me arrogant for that reason.. while my initial reaction was to bring understanding and create fairness for the last underdog.
I’m married to an ENFP musician (I’m an ISTP). The amount of recording ideas and lists of things filling up filing cabinets, space on hard drives, and voice memos on his phone is staggering. I get so stressed when I don’t finish my to-do list, he says he just refers to it as ideas, suggestions, or possibilities
Being an ENFP is immediately comming up with a single word or expression to summarize an entire thought process your friend has just presented you with and we are so sorry for that but also so proud
TERRIFYINGLY accurate, especially the part about the small details interrupting grand plans and it not being a case where they're unfixable, but more so being offended that they exist in the first place. I was hysterical because it was SO ACCURATE.
Exactly haha I've never heard our disdain for details described so accurately. When I need to for a job, I'm very capable of all the detailed planning, but when I'm brainstorming "grand solutions" to things lol... I just want to be left to the creation aspect. Details are such a waste of time, how dare anyone expect me to actually sift through them. That's not the point! 😛
That really is a problem though, I'm halway through my bachelor and I'm like yeahh it's all kind of the same... I need by entusiasm back .. makes it hard to choose an occupation as well.
I cant stop laughing at how accurately you roasted all of our functions in the most helpful way possible hahaha - "HOW DARE THESE TINY SI DETAILS SUFFOCATE and prevent me from reaching MY GRAND PLANS" 😂👌✨
When you said that when we tell our ideas to people and feel like they're good. We don't work on the idea because "the idea is the drug". I stopped the video and I was like..UGHHHHHHH!!! This happens to me and in order to prevent it I tell no one about my ideas but I try to do my best to tell them BY ACTUALLY MAKING THIS IDEA COME TO LIFE. And this is actually very difficult hahaha
YES! SO ME! I finally was able to go through with writing a book, though, and I'm working with a INFP friend to edit it because I certainly couldn't do it by myself :) It was hard, but I was able to break the disinterest I had in it after I told people my ideas. It still happens in other creative projects, though, but I think that's what makes us ENFP's special.
duuuude i connect EVERYTHING!!! in conversation with my friends i’m always like “so this thing happened the other day, which ironically is what i was thinking about last week when i was watching this one movie, and that’s how i realized the thing that happened when i was 5 is the reason i’m the way i am now!! anyway just thought of that because of that thing you said”
I relate so much! I kept going through INFP and ENFP and after peoples comments, videos, and research, I’d like to confirm I am indeed an ENFP. I love relating to other people! It makes me feel not so misunderstood!
As an ENFP, this was pretty difficult to pay atention to, I'm trying my best to see the full video, but at the same time I hear birds outside and I'm wondering how diffucult would it be to have a bird pet.
As an auxiliary Ne user, I sometimes think any more Ne would make me crazy. Ne doms have functionally harnessed pure chaos as an energy source and it's scary.
I really appreciate the way you tie your piano skills into these videos! Also, please don’t cut those eyebrows. You have the best eyebrows on YT. Interesting video! I need more ENFPs in my life, I think.
ENFP here. Honestly... I’ve never once been bored. Even if I’m waiting at the DMV, waiting in line at the grocery store, or in bumper to bumper traffic... I’m having a good ol time. I will think of ideas.. daydream... reminisce.. My inner world is my favorite place to be.
Actually @Juanita F. , that's pretty good. I'm old enough to remember when the Japanese recognized that they had an issue with creativity in their culture. They were masters of taking a great idea and fully developing it, but they were fully aware that it wasn't their idea to begin with. For example, Sony bought the transistor from RCA and built from that. Another was the SLR camera. Exacta, a German company, had developed the flip up mirror so that you could focus through the same lens that delivered the image to the film. The problem was that you had to cock the film for the mirror to drop back in place. I guess they figured ' what's the point of focusing the camera if you're not ready to shoot?' I dunno. A small company at the time in Japan, Pentax, recognized that people might want to do that and developed the Single (focus) Lens with a mirror that Reflexively flipped back into place after the photo was taken. This issue with creativity and innovation concerned them enough that they started trying to find ways to teach it. I think it was Noam Chomsky who tied the structure of a culture's language to the way it collectively thought and dreamed. Japanese (at the time) was a very rigid language that required a new symbol for each new concept putting them in a horse pushing the cart situation. By comparison, English is said to be a brutal language to try to learn if you're new to it because the very many ground rules seem (are actually) so chaotic and full of exceptions and contradictions. But once you've got a grip on them, their are no constraints. As my father, an English teacher, used to tell me "Yes you have to learn them, but the reality is that if you're using English and can be understood, it's good English." We make conceptual connections based on observation and worry about naming it later. "Haiku of sorts" is a good description. I think it bends the strict definition of one a little but I also feel that adding a bit of flexibility to anything so rigid is a good thing. Otherwise it risks being left behind and forgotten by evolution. Well, that and the three lines that you wrote accurately described how I sometimes feel about being ENFP and made me laugh about it. Nice!!!
I'm not sure if I've commented on this video before or not, but I just came back to say (again?) that I really appreciate your explanation!! I rewatch this video a lot. It's refreshing to be taken seriously (maybe this sounds dramatic lol, sorry if that's the case). So many ENFP explanations are along the lines of: "fairy" "rainbows everywhere" "helping everyone stay positive" "sunshine only" "can't really do anything or contribute much, they just smile and never finish things" "manic pixie" etc. All of that is fine, and sometimes fun, and does accurately capture some parts of many (but not all) ENFPS (I DO feel full of rainbows and sunshine when I'm very happy! I can take on too much and drop the ball sometimes...), but I think those descriptions miss some of the important things that I value about our type. This feels like a much more comprehensive and fair (maybe fair is a weird word to use, but that's what comes to mind!) explanation. Also, you give off teacher vibes (and from other vids it seems like you are, in fact, a music teacher?), and I love an engaging lecturer =D! I can feel my loyalty energy getting activated hahaha!! I'm going to go on a video sharing spree!!
As an INFJ, ENFP Shadow can be quite Nefarious. Also that champagne bottle and music chord analogy can be indicative of someone who is of high class, or of extravagant wealth. Classy, brilliant mysterious obscure but intellectual. An immediate image of someone of this character came to mind.
Do one about the unfulfillment of being everybody’s friend and always seen smiling yet feeling empty as a nightsky without stars when ending the day alone, please? :)
(ENFP) There's just not enough lifetimes to follow our every Ne business plan or idea. We have so many people inside our minds, yet only one body. Unless we have a team of people at our disposal, our Fi is going to be constantly concerned over whether we're following the "most" important things. Si 'boring details' annoy us because they are eat away at our limited time & resources. We need to hire worker-bee's for all that...
"Inside the mind of the ENFP" Oh my I hope you've bring a map because it's a little chaotic in here. I mean, it's a good and organized mess, but still (cordially -ENFP)
KFizzleDizzle i am ESFP/ENFP(IDK. What i’d say ESFP cause i am kind of materialistic put a lot of emphasis on how i look i am very much into fashion,love sensations and i am a performer:-i sing) but i’d also go for ENFP cause i am idealistic,daydreamer chaotic,flighty:-i easily jump from one topic to topic unrelated,i am clumsy messy and disorganized and got that “crackhead energy”. I am also a Gemini
I like that you mention things that have not been said before about types. Watching/reading type descriptions can very much be like hearing the same thing over and over, you make it feel not so repetitive.
Nathan you are great at making this content! You have brilliant logic to deduce what people are interested in hearing, extraverted intuition to make new connections to produce fresh content, you can keep it up because you are so good at maintenance and you clearly feel the importance of people enjoying your channel and approving your content. Perfect combination! I am fascinated ✨
I always talk to myself.. like this whole video is js me in my room, js walking around. Or maybe talking to my cat. Or even doing the dishes. My mom literally thinks I’m crazy. And also I get off topic way too much. My mom js rolls her eyes when I tell her that I have to tell her a story, it usually last like 20000 years lmao. Anyways, idk bye
The connections fact made me SO happy, because I used to feel like I was crazy cause no-one would notice the relations between those things, I even thought I was kinda crazy or something. The fact that I'm not alone is so relieving
Both Champaign and series of chords involves the interaction between the producer and consumer. In other words, a Champaign maker carefully selects a variety of grapes used in the fermenting process to create a distinct taste and aroma that are tailored to individual preferences. Similarly, a music composer carefully select each chord/note to fine-tune a unique sound that stimulates a person’s mood/emotion. Both Champaign and series of chords are very delicate. Even adding a small percentage of a varietal grape blended in Champaign alters the aroma and flavor. Similarly, by changing a single chord alters the overall sound and interpretation of the final end piece. The aroma/taste produced by specific types of Champaign, and the unique sound generated by series of chords have the ability to stimulate our memory - recalling familiar senses associated with a specific time, people, place, or thing. “The champaign’s acidity level reminds me of my grandmother’s organic lemons grown in her backyard. She used to add them in my tea whenever I visited her in the summer.” Or... “the sound of these chords reminds me of a similar tune used in Sesame Street’s audio books that I listened to as a child every night before I sleep.” LOLOL Totally BS this.
I like that you used a chord progression as part of the example of forming connections between unrelated things. 🤔 I'm an Ne-dom, and I've been playing around with a video idea involving using chords as a way of demonstrating certain metaphysical theories. I'm called out. 😅
I don’t think INTJs would like that, it would be far to inefficient for them. Anyway their Ni genius is far too intangible and subconscious to be put into meer words
My sister is an ENFP, I would describe her as kind of a kentaur that is part rainbow-Unicorn and part bulldozer. But that is from an ISFJ perspective and we are certainly neither unicorns nor bulldozers.
Amen! Generating ideas is the goal in itself. Not implementing them, for sure. I loved this video, thanks from an ENFP. Every single word you say is true.
ENFP here. As soon as I saw the champagne and heard those minor chords, I thought of Ingrid Bergman and Humphrey Bogart in Casablanca, for some reason.
Wow, very very insightful. Yeah, everything is a metaphor for everything else in my eyes. I notice I loose people in conversations a lot because I'm already 5 steps down the rabbit hole and they are still on the edge trying to figure out where it's going. I don't plan, I just aim an go for it and adapt along the way and yes small hurdles instill extreme frustration in me. I rarely get mad at people directly but will blow up at the "situation," like it's the situations fault I can't keep my momentum. Thanks for the video.
as an INTP I can relate to the ENFPs connecting seemingly random things through my second function Ne, though I think there still must be some kind of difference between the two ways in which we do it as I've heard that the secondary function is simply our way of applying our first function to the real world
Brilliant, Love Who and leave your eyebrows alone. They have a personality of their own. and if Frank James who is Cool and Attractive has his Hair, your signature may well be your eyebrows. wink and a nod. My observation of the ENFP relationship to my type as an INTJ is similar to most people's and creatures reaction. I like them. They are fun and open and easy-going, in my experience and smart and they present themselves a bit like a happy go lucky puppy and or golden retriever. If you read Dean Koontz, you understand the preternatural intelligence they keep hidden. They are Bouncing, and have abright eyes, are eager and enthusiastic and loyal. Popular. The kid most likely to be Voted, "Most Popular". Everyone village needs their ENFP's and Winnie the Pooh who has a Tao of his own. However, it is the ENTP's type and their odd, quirky creativity that resonates the most with me and who I would want on a desert island with me. Love Who has terrific content. I like your videos because of their pace, information and, presentation. And the content creator is charming, aye a fine bonny lad or do I mishear a hint of an Outlander accent?
and a side note reference to the word, furry. A group of Ferrets is called a Business. Never refer to your Ferrets as your Fursuits or a polite and inquisitive Furry will want to know more...
This vid was me all over, I love creating new things in my head, the excitement of it, the initial planning, the fantasising of its possibilities is such a high for me, but I equally lose interest of it so quickly. But I have seen the blessing of this part of me also, it's given me a "I don't give a crap, I'm going to try it" attitude to life, I'm not not going to try something because I'm scared I will fail, I get frustrated when I am not an expert straight away but it never stops me from trying in the first place. Through it I have picked up multiple random but amazing hobbies throughout my life. It's even allowed me to transition into a different career that I never thought I'd be able to get into. Channelling this trait with discipline I think will make loads of ENFPs unstoppable in life, and that's what I hope to do.
ENTP here. Watching this video at 5:36 AM having not yet gone to sleep. My current thought is "I like this video...but I really wish I could have a setting that allows me to watch multiple youtube vids at once..bummer" Hahaha Ne is one hell of a trip
Yes, always coming up with an idea or plan and then get bored with it. For example, I spent 4 months converting a cargo trailer into an RV. I got done with it and then sold it because after I finished, I lost interest. 😢
Thank you very much! There is a link to our Discord server in the description of the video, feel free to check it out. There are lots of people on there that you might enjoy interacting with - including myself! ~ Nathan
Is anybody here an ENFP mom I’m an ISTP and my mom and I don’t always get along great. And it’s not just common mother-daughter tensions, I’m fairly certain that it’s as a result of our minds working so differently. I’m pretty sure she’s an ENFP and I’m trying to understand the inner workings of her mind bc observing from the outside has done nothing😂
Kaila Y I can relate to you although I’m the ENFP daughter of an ISTJ mom (lol) we contradict in almost any kind of way I can think of and our way of seeing things are very different. But this is what makes us so compatible at the same time. We are complementary.
i´m not a mom but as an enfp i often hearr people say i´m like a different person every day, hour, minute and second. So i think observing doesn´t do much and trying to understand us doesn´t do the thing. I´ve known my best friend since i was 4 years old and after so many years she also tells me thaat i´m always different it´s just a thing of accepting whatever when it comes to "understanding" enfp´s if that makes any sense to you. Don´t try to understand eachother but rather accept eachother and worrk from there. ^^
You are so insightful it’s getting scary. Great job! Given your deep understanding, you would be doing the ENFPs a life changing favor if you did a piece on practical tips (e.g. staying disciplined, being more assertive rather than prioritizing harmony etc.). There is abundant advice that tells you what to work on, but most if not all fail to use MBTI types’ strengths to ensure the change can stick. Thanks for all that you do!
Thank you for giving me a head start on going back to College. I get really bored easily too. Quarentine has been so difficult for me, so thank you. Plus, I am learning to think before I talk. Lol
alright 4:20 - 4:54 just ABSOLUTLY had my number. i cannot believe how accurate that entire bit is, as I quite literally aspire to be an IDEA GENERATOR and then have other people execute the project. (direct quote i often share when speaking about my career goals). just - wow.
ENFP and fellow welshie here! I love your videos if you couldn’t tell as I’ve been searching all the way back for anything ENFP related which I think is a super enfp thing to do hahah
The idea thing is the hardest to deal with concerning my ENTP spouse. If I have an idea (as an ISFJ) that is creative, I generally desire to implement it. He agrees with this strategy, but doesn't seem to recognize that specific steps must be taken in order to make such things a reality (or even that they need to be reality in the first place). He says he wants the freedom to pursue anything, but that is truly all he wants: the possibility of pursual is enough. When we both fill out paperwork, I tend to be quite fast. I've been known to make a few mistakes, but I generally do not panic. He, however, takes an excruciating amount of time to pore over the details, as I imagine inferior Si is torturing him about it.
Enfps act like jokers or silly goofs, but actually they can manipulate and persuade their way into any situation they want to see through. We r not that innocent , once we are passionately sure abt something we see it through. Although its very difficult to catch an enfps eye and get them interested. Edit: also, we can play both side of a case very aggressively and win it. 😊
I am ENFP and I put most of my ideas into practice whereas my two ESFP and my ENTP friends have plenty (way more than I have) of ideas they will never put into action.
My attempts at humour tend to be in the form of observations, but I speak without thinking things through and most of the time people don’t see how my comment relates to the subject at hand because they don’t see the connection(s( I’ve made.
While I'm watching this video I'm reading The Metamorphosis (Kafka) and i can I swear I got scared when your eyes just pump up when you was explaining the eyebrows stuff.
Being several steps ahead is a gift and a curse. We can see the end from the beginning -be it a relationship, a book, a movie, a new venture. Very rarely are we surprised so when we are -it’s…surprising. I love being genuinely surprised. 😂
Yeah, a lot of times I'll follow the connections I make to a conclusion, ,but then even I am unable to fully grasp how it is I arrived at the conclusion. Extremely frustrating when explaining things to people who can't intuit the steps in between. With other strong Ne's I'm able to just give them an answer and they get it, but I dont want to be limited to only properly communicating with a fraction of the population. Any advice?
Thanks Nathan. Sometimes my ideas are so abstract they only have very subtle or niche applications, or they may even be incomplete, and discussing an incomplete idea is important to me, but others can become very confused or uninterested in following the path i'm taking, claiming it to be pointless or not worth their time. this causes me to feel very isolated from others, as this world in my head is where I am, but I can't bring anyone in there with me. I only get recognition for the result of my process and not for the process itself. But still, thank you for the advice, I'll keep that in mind. Love the videos! keep up the great work :)
1:43 I am intp and my friend is enfp, ive never laughed like that. My friend make a mess my doing anything and his sense of cleaning his house is something he dont feel, even when he already cleaned there is a mess, going out for work can be difucult proces and when something went wrong i see a big emocional impact but there is fast comeback, i realy like his relaxed cognitive feeling state of mind but that fixing on idea is a lot of pain
You are right, enfps have written many books but in their heads
Glad I was accurate!
Never heard something more accurate
So Accurate So Sad
Oh god I swear I will finish my book
I’ve got the characters all planned out for 20years 🤣🤣🤣
"I'm not making up my bed, I'm gonna sleep on it again anyway." -me enfp. My esfj mom is exasperated
I have an esfj mom too!!! We drive each other crazy if we spend too much time together.
@@insanatty Haha right? two enfp and one entp in the house so my esfj mom is a step ahead in getting crazy
Legit spoke this opinion in class and my professor looked at me like I'd admitted to sacrificing puppies. Seriously haven't made my bed in years. And even then, someone else probably did it.
ENFP here and I am getting crazy if I don't clean my house. :) My P is the mess in my head, a lot of ideas, procratination and no planning and I find cleaning as the way to escape from other duties that is why my house is always clean. :D
i always have these sudden rushes to make my bed as enfp though! especially if i have homework or something eat MORE important to do 🤦♀️
Connecting everything is really an ENFP thing, my friends hates me whenever we watch movies together because I could already guest the twist and possible ending by connecting everything. Unintentional spoiler lol The defining moment for me to say that the movie is good is when I didn't predict what will happen next.
same!!
Glad I'm not alone in that, lol! My little sister hates it!
Lol I have said these words to people. It's soooo hard to surprise me and I love it when I don't know what's going to happen.
I FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME! I get so bored in movies I can predict, but I like ones that are odd and unpredictable
Me too!!
ENFP here. Your eyebrows kick ass.
That is all.
Why thank you... ~ Nathan
ENFP are so easily distracted 😂
@@limo9402 LMAO or like Bushy Brow Sensei XD
@@SakuraTsukino27972 Bushy Brow Sensei LOL
Just replied that I ruined the likes number.
ENFP here and at 51 I STILL don’t know what I want to be when I grow up lol
I am also ENFP and 51 and it feels horribly relatable - basically I want to do it all. Start my own educational company, become a manatee guide, become a teacher, start a restaurant or a bakery etc. etc. - cause I just love it all :-)
@@LottePotte1234 this feels like me haha I remember when I was 18 chatting with friends about what we wanted to do when we were older and I was like.... if I could host a tv show where I was surrounded by dogs but had chefs come on and teach me how to cook new dishes each week while discussing the philosophy of religion, with a live audience present, I’d be happy.... but that didn’t quite come to fruition so here I am 10 years later and still none the wiser on what on earth im gonna do with my life.
@@fwk927 Your Cooking with Dogs talk show sounds amazing!! 😍
hahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahaha I'm dying after reading this
@@fwk927 I would totally be in that live audience lol
The connection thing is why I’m so good at making metaphors for EVERYTHING.
Tuanis Traveller SO YOU’RE TELLING ME I’M NOT THE ONLY ONE DOING IT!!
So fuckin true @tuanis traveller
Life is a crouton. You can see it as stale bread or a salad enhancer, but each crouton leaves crumbs.
Omg. I talk in metaphors allllll the time.
I make metaphors for just about everything. It's the best to articulate my point of view.
“How dare this little detail come in between my grand idea” I feel officially attacked🤦🏼♂️
My bad! ~ Nathan
I chuckled on that.
Oh this made me laugh out loud because it is sooo true!! 😂😂
I know right!
Truth. lolol
"The idea is the drug". I feel called out. xD
I'm really interested to hear the story behind your profile picture
@@ithuulaganadippudasaamy9275 The profile picture is of Goddess Kali from Hindu mythology.
Kali is the destroyer of evil forces. She is the most powerful form of Shakti(Energy).
I just had to pause the video for a moment when I heard that, never have I felt so seen/attacked
Idk why but that fits to me and I'm an entp
I love ur pfp ♥️♥️
I laughed my butt off at “How dare this little detail stand in the way of my grand vision!” That sums up every one of my projects that haven’t been completed yet.
True
Saaaaaammmmeeee
Giants tripping over a mouse
omg same i had to watch it thrice to relish in that sentence 😂😂😂
So relatable it's scary
“precisely at the moment they finish saying the idea, the life drains out of them”
oh. you got me there.
this video confirmed to me once again that I am indeed an ENFP. I have countless ideas about many different subjects, can make detailed plans around them but just as you said, that's the part where it all ends. After expressing the ideas out loud or fantasizing about them for a while, I suddenly lose interest and jump onto a new grand idea. I dive deep into the topic, learn a lot, form a plan, enthuse about possible outcomes and... the moment is gone, the magic is gone and I rarely follow through
Yep, I need staff to help me 😝
SAME SAME SAME SAME
Yes! The struggle is real! The thinking is the easy part hahaha 😅 My ISFJ mom (I think) always complains that I'm all talk, and no execution. A dreamer, always fantasizing about faraway ideas. oh, how difficult it is for an N-type dom to exist in a family full of Sensers. 🥲🥲😓😓
@@michelledoan4447 sameee
Holy shit, you just described me perfectly
*he talked to slowly so I sped it up and zoned out and now I don’t wanna rewatch it.*
ngl that happend to me too after the first half and mind you i was playing animal crossing at the same time and zoned out on both while thinking of a new plot for a wattpad story i´m writing xD
That is such a mood xD
Actually spacing out is another ENFP problem lol
You can speed up videos on TH-cam ☝️👍
The fun thing is, I caught myself being spaced out when I read your comment, hahaa.
Don't call me. WHATS UR WATTPAD USER I WANT TO READ
ENFPs are so intriguing to INTJs because of their ability to think big. It can be frustrating to see them not follow through, but when an INTJ works together with an ENFP these grand ideas can be refined and accomplished
infj here! I was thinking the same thing 🙆🏽♀️
Just imagine... when the right ENFP and INTJ come together they can make Star Trek a reality...
And I damn hope I'm that ENFP! >:3
@@SakuraTsukino27972 *blinks repeatedly* this is beautiful 😀
I am an enfp, working with an intj and let me tell you we're a perfect duo. I make business plans, drive sales, and close deals with clients nonstop while he creates the systems to follow through.
The intj understands how crazy my mind can be, and he does his best to keep up with rational thinking. Enfps, find your intj and start making businesses!!!
INTJs and ENFPs do make great duos because they both value grand ideas and visions. Their Ni-Ne dom are perfect complement for each other, and can entertain each other immensely in intellectual discussions and pursuits.
Their second and third functions (Te-Fi in INTJs and Fi-Te in ENFPs) serve as satisfying loop of validation and support that the two types need.
The tragic part is, Nathan was right when he speculates that INTJs can be pretty cynical, annihilistic in one of his videos. With ENFPs being natural optimists (all positive, seeing only the best in everyone), the two types can come to a head and be involved in pretty unhealthy situations (where detachment is not a choice). Because both are stubborn and pretty much an idealist at heart. Just something to be mindful about.
-Speaking from an ENFP account in that duo -
"it's really a double edge thing" I'm also an ENFP always use this line 😂 Always looking at the two sides of a coin and understanding different perspectives like everything can be right and wrong depending on the situation and given reasons.
Acimej Gana yes! I’m always playing devil’s advocate weather I realize it or not
@@toni4157 maybe that's why we are stereotyped as vulnerable. Hence, we are just that very understanding and seeing their point over what the majority think is right. Sometime it's really hard to be us lol Critical thinking pipz
Acimej Gana exactly! I think some people play it off as the “oh they just don’t want to be mean” but like no, there is just two sides to everything!
Its a blessing and a curse. I struggle everday wit it
people don´t get my devil´s advocate at all.. they seem so judgemental with a thing they don´t understand and want differentlx thinking people to just go away. I sometimes despise these peasants and people find me arrogant for that reason.. while my initial reaction was to bring understanding and create fairness for the last underdog.
i really like this explanation. Everyone thinks ENFPs are just stupid crazy people but they are actually some of the most brilliant
YES!!! 😭😭😭 Thank you so much, i'm SO tired of that sterotype!
I’m married to an ENFP musician (I’m an ISTP). The amount of recording ideas and lists of things filling up filing cabinets, space on hard drives, and voice memos on his phone is staggering. I get so stressed when I don’t finish my to-do list, he says he just refers to it as ideas, suggestions, or possibilities
I would love to hear more about this match. ENFP & ISTP
I'm a enfp entertainer female married to a isfp farmer male lol
Yes, even if we dont use it, we would like to keep our ideas safe just incase if we would like to revisit them. Mostly we dont, but still
Oh god the thing with ideas being the drug and the life draining out once you expressed them and then no follow through I felt that
Same though. I find that coming up with new ideas surrounding the original pitched project can help bring some life back in.
Me
Being an ENFP is immediately comming up with a single word or expression to summarize an entire thought process your friend has just presented you with and we are so sorry for that but also so proud
TERRIFYINGLY accurate, especially the part about the small details interrupting grand plans and it not being a case where they're unfixable, but more so being offended that they exist in the first place. I was hysterical because it was SO ACCURATE.
Exactly haha I've never heard our disdain for details described so accurately. When I need to for a job, I'm very capable of all the detailed planning, but when I'm brainstorming "grand solutions" to things lol... I just want to be left to the creation aspect. Details are such a waste of time, how dare anyone expect me to actually sift through them. That's not the point! 😛
SPOT ON!!! I don't WANNA deal with details! 😂😂😂
ENFP music producer here, sitting on over 100gb of unfinished songs... “How dare this little reverb come in between my grand idea !”
"Wich one would be better?" Lol
😂
Honey, your eyebrows are unique and gives you a signature look which is quite cute to be honest.
Thank you... ~ Nathan
The idea is the drug. This is so me. #ENFP
Same!! Haha
My god, I felt see through! That made me happy just hearing the idea about having an idea!!!
You resumed my whole life in a sentence maaaaan.
4:35 so trueeeeee. We are proving the idea can work so other people can do it and we can move on 😂
Nathan Glass oh boyyyyy 😂
Im a Gryffindor ENFP 🙌 heeyy
Hoooly shit so true 😶
Dream job...
I've literally considered making that my job.
As an enfp I agreed i have to have stimulation it’s what makes for me having so many hobbies and just up and doing something randomly
We really are.
And once I've made up my mind to actually do something as a hobby my passion just dies lol
That really is a problem though, I'm halway through my bachelor and I'm like yeahh it's all kind of the same... I need by entusiasm back .. makes it hard to choose an occupation as well.
I pick up so many random hobbies
Reading the comments of other fellow ENFP's is so funny hahahaha Im dead 😂
I agree this is one of the more hilarious comment sections! ~ Nathan
I cant stop laughing at how accurately you roasted all of our functions in the most helpful way possible hahaha - "HOW DARE THESE TINY SI DETAILS SUFFOCATE and prevent me from reaching MY GRAND PLANS"
😂👌✨
This is literally me when I'm playing chess I get so irritated when I have a plan but there's that one piece keeping me from executing it
@@drvii4681 🙄 details...
When you said that when we tell our ideas to people and feel like they're good. We don't work on the idea because "the idea is the drug". I stopped the video and I was like..UGHHHHHHH!!! This happens to me and in order to prevent it I tell no one about my ideas but I try to do my best to tell them BY ACTUALLY MAKING THIS IDEA COME TO LIFE. And this is actually very difficult hahaha
Yes! For ENFPs, showing rather than telling is always going to be really tough! ~ Nathan
YES! SO ME! I finally was able to go through with writing a book, though, and I'm working with a INFP friend to edit it because I certainly couldn't do it by myself :) It was hard, but I was able to break the disinterest I had in it after I told people my ideas. It still happens in other creative projects, though, but I think that's what makes us ENFP's special.
duuuude i connect EVERYTHING!!!
in conversation with my friends i’m always like “so this thing happened the other day, which ironically is what i was thinking about last week when i was watching this one movie, and that’s how i realized the thing that happened when i was 5 is the reason i’m the way i am now!! anyway just thought of that because of that thing you said”
That’s how all my conversations go (monologues)
I relate so much! I kept going through INFP and ENFP and after peoples comments, videos, and research, I’d like to confirm I am indeed an ENFP. I love relating to other people! It makes me feel not so misunderstood!
As an ENFP, this was pretty difficult to pay atention to, I'm trying my best to see the full video, but at the same time I hear birds outside and I'm wondering how diffucult would it be to have a bird pet.
Literally that sounds like so much fun
😂😂❤❤❤❤
Oh man I don't even want to know the inside of an enfps mind..
As an auxiliary Ne user, I sometimes think any more Ne would make me crazy. Ne doms have functionally harnessed pure chaos as an energy source and it's scary.
It is.. not good in here. But sometimes good.. but sometimes bad, I’m not really sure but I think my brain is a bit fucked
James Downs same, but sometimes I feel if I harnessed it properly I would be much more creative.
It's beautiful until it turns into a mess... and only turns beautiful again when no one is FCKING questioning himself all the time😖
It's bad. I just constantly feel overwhelmed yet I need to know more, lots of stress, sad a lot. That's just a few.
I really appreciate the way you tie your piano skills into these videos! Also, please don’t cut those eyebrows. You have the best eyebrows on YT. Interesting video! I need more ENFPs in my life, I think.
Nathan Glass 🥇🙌🏽 you’ve got my vote!
When ENFP imagination and creative mind spark
ENFP here. Honestly... I’ve never once been bored. Even if I’m waiting at the DMV, waiting in line at the grocery store, or in bumper to bumper traffic... I’m having a good ol time. I will think of ideas.. daydream... reminisce.. My inner world is my favorite place to be.
A Haiku of Sorts (Lol)
Yes! ENFP-- that's me!!!
Follow-through can be...
Sigh. The death of me-- just BOOOOO 😫
Actually @Juanita F. , that's pretty good. I'm old enough to remember when the Japanese recognized that they had an issue with creativity in their culture. They were masters of taking a great idea and fully developing it, but they were fully aware that it wasn't their idea to begin with.
For example, Sony bought the transistor from RCA and built from that.
Another was the SLR camera. Exacta, a German company, had developed the flip up mirror so that you could focus through the same lens that delivered the image to the film. The problem was that you had to cock the film for the mirror to drop back in place. I guess they figured ' what's the point of focusing the camera if you're not ready to shoot?' I dunno.
A small company at the time in Japan, Pentax, recognized that people might want to do that and developed the Single (focus) Lens with a mirror that Reflexively flipped back into place after the photo was taken.
This issue with creativity and innovation concerned them enough that they started trying to find ways to teach it.
I think it was Noam Chomsky who tied the structure of a culture's language to the way it collectively thought and dreamed. Japanese (at the time) was a very rigid language that required a new symbol for each new concept putting them in a horse pushing the cart situation. By comparison, English is said to be a brutal language to try to learn if you're new to it because the very many ground rules seem (are actually) so chaotic and full of exceptions and contradictions. But once you've got a grip on them, their are no constraints.
As my father, an English teacher, used to tell me "Yes you have to learn them, but the reality is that if you're using English and can be understood, it's good English."
We make conceptual connections based on observation and worry about naming it later.
"Haiku of sorts" is a good description. I think it bends the strict definition of one a little but I also feel that adding a bit of flexibility to anything so rigid is a good thing. Otherwise it risks being left behind and forgotten by evolution.
Well, that and the three lines that you wrote accurately described how I sometimes feel about being ENFP and made me laugh about it. Nice!!!
I'm not sure if I've commented on this video before or not, but I just came back to say (again?) that I really appreciate your explanation!! I rewatch this video a lot. It's refreshing to be taken seriously (maybe this sounds dramatic lol, sorry if that's the case). So many ENFP explanations are along the lines of: "fairy" "rainbows everywhere" "helping everyone stay positive" "sunshine only" "can't really do anything or contribute much, they just smile and never finish things" "manic pixie" etc. All of that is fine, and sometimes fun, and does accurately capture some parts of many (but not all) ENFPS (I DO feel full of rainbows and sunshine when I'm very happy! I can take on too much and drop the ball sometimes...), but I think those descriptions miss some of the important things that I value about our type. This feels like a much more comprehensive and fair (maybe fair is a weird word to use, but that's what comes to mind!) explanation. Also, you give off teacher vibes (and from other vids it seems like you are, in fact, a music teacher?), and I love an engaging lecturer =D! I can feel my loyalty energy getting activated hahaha!! I'm going to go on a video sharing spree!!
I love this video. As an ENFP I appreciate you’re take on this complex type that’s often so misunderstood. 💖🙏🏼🌈
As an INFJ, ENFP Shadow can be quite Nefarious. Also that champagne bottle and music chord analogy can be indicative of someone who is of high class, or of extravagant wealth. Classy, brilliant mysterious obscure but intellectual. An immediate image of someone of this character came to mind.
Do one about the unfulfillment of being everybody’s friend and always seen smiling yet feeling empty as a nightsky without stars when ending the day alone, please? :)
The sudden haircut cut 😂😂
Haha! Yea. #priorities ~ Nathan
“I don’t believe in stereotypes!” Me as an enfp: “Wait lemme rewind the whole video I wasn’t paying attention”
omg if this isn’t me
(ENFP) There's just not enough lifetimes to follow our every Ne business plan or idea. We have so many people inside our minds, yet only one body. Unless we have a team of people at our disposal, our Fi is going to be constantly concerned over whether we're following the "most" important things. Si 'boring details' annoy us because they are eat away at our limited time & resources. We need to hire worker-bee's for all that...
Nathan : differentiating between ENFP and INFP
Me : extremely torn between ENFP & ENTP because i'm pretty much both of them
"Inside the mind of the ENFP"
Oh my
I hope you've bring a map because it's a little chaotic in here. I mean, it's a good and organized mess, but still (cordially -ENFP)
The inferior Si is literally the "executive function" that's lacking with ADHD.
and yes this is me
Also me
KFizzleDizzle i am ESFP/ENFP(IDK. What i’d say ESFP cause i am kind of materialistic put a lot of emphasis on how i look i am very much into fashion,love sensations and i am a performer:-i sing) but i’d also go for ENFP cause i am idealistic,daydreamer chaotic,flighty:-i easily jump from one topic to topic unrelated,i am clumsy messy and disorganized and got that “crackhead energy”. I am also a Gemini
@@kfizzledizzle8467 me too!
I feel so at home in this little nook of the internet, your comment and this thread. Yes to all the things.
I like that you mention things that have not been said before about types. Watching/reading type descriptions can very much be like hearing the same thing over and over, you make it feel not so repetitive.
Nathan you are great at making this content! You have brilliant logic to deduce what people are interested in hearing, extraverted intuition to make new connections to produce fresh content, you can keep it up because you are so good at maintenance and you clearly feel the importance of people enjoying your channel and approving your content. Perfect combination! I am fascinated ✨
This is actually really helpful for putting my mental roadblocks to pushing my business forward into perspective
Love to hear this! ~ Nathan
I always talk to myself.. like this whole video is js me in my room, js walking around. Or maybe talking to my cat. Or even doing the dishes. My mom literally thinks I’m crazy. And also I get off topic way too much. My mom js rolls her eyes when I tell her that I have to tell her a story, it usually last like 20000 years lmao. Anyways, idk bye
Lol, i used to that as well since i was a kid, i used to talk with socks & Manicures.
Thanks God now it's just me recording ma self.
The connections fact made me SO happy, because I used to feel like I was crazy cause no-one would notice the relations between those things, I even thought I was kinda crazy or something. The fact that I'm not alone is so relieving
Cool a video about my mbti type
*reads desc*
I already feel called out.
Haha yes
I've not seen anyone else describe ENFP's with such clarity like you do. Bravo!
Both Champaign and series of chords involves the interaction between the producer and consumer. In other words, a Champaign maker carefully selects a variety of grapes used in the fermenting process to create a distinct taste and aroma that are tailored to individual preferences. Similarly, a music composer carefully select each chord/note to fine-tune a unique sound that stimulates a person’s mood/emotion.
Both Champaign and series of chords are very delicate. Even adding a small percentage of a varietal grape blended in Champaign alters the aroma and flavor. Similarly, by changing a single chord alters the overall sound and interpretation of the final end piece.
The aroma/taste produced by specific types of Champaign, and the unique sound generated by series of chords have the ability to stimulate our memory - recalling familiar senses associated with a specific time, people, place, or thing.
“The champaign’s acidity level reminds me of my grandmother’s organic lemons grown in her backyard. She used to add them in my tea whenever I visited her in the summer.”
Or... “the sound of these chords reminds me of a similar tune used in Sesame Street’s audio books that I listened to as a child every night before I sleep.”
LOLOL Totally BS this.
Yup. Love the Ne and Te insight. So true. We plan like INTJs but don't follow thru like they do. Its a struggle.
I like that you used a chord progression as part of the example of forming connections between unrelated things. 🤔 I'm an Ne-dom, and I've been playing around with a video idea involving using chords as a way of demonstrating certain metaphysical theories. I'm called out. 😅
Hey Spock i can't wait for the video of - Inside the mind of an INTJ. It will last for hours. lol
saying that on a 6 min enfp vid -> mildly offended.
I don’t think INTJs would like that, it would be far to inefficient for them. Anyway their Ni genius is far too intangible and subconscious to be put into meer words
My sister is an ENFP, I would describe her as kind of a kentaur that is part rainbow-Unicorn and part bulldozer. But that is from an ISFJ perspective and we are certainly neither unicorns nor bulldozers.
Amen! Generating ideas is the goal in itself. Not implementing them, for sure.
I loved this video, thanks from an ENFP. Every single word you say is true.
ENFP here. As soon as I saw the champagne and heard those minor chords, I thought of Ingrid Bergman and Humphrey Bogart in Casablanca, for some reason.
Wow, very very insightful. Yeah, everything is a metaphor for everything else in my eyes. I notice I loose people in conversations a lot because I'm already 5 steps down the rabbit hole and they are still on the edge trying to figure out where it's going. I don't plan, I just aim an go for it and adapt along the way and yes small hurdles instill extreme frustration in me. I rarely get mad at people directly but will blow up at the "situation," like it's the situations fault I can't keep my momentum. Thanks for the video.
Jaw droppingly chaotic. Ha ha ha
Quite true.
No other way to describe it ~ Nathan
as an INTP I can relate to the ENFPs connecting seemingly random things through my second function Ne, though I think there still must be some kind of difference between the two ways in which we do it as I've heard that the secondary function is simply our way of applying our first function to the real world
Brilliant, Love Who and leave your eyebrows alone. They have a personality of their own.
and if Frank James who is Cool and Attractive has his Hair, your signature may well be your eyebrows.
wink and a nod.
My observation of the ENFP relationship to my type as an INTJ is similar to most people's and creatures reaction.
I like them.
They are fun and open and easy-going, in my experience and smart and they present themselves a bit like a happy go lucky puppy and or golden retriever. If you read Dean Koontz, you understand the preternatural intelligence they keep hidden.
They are Bouncing, and have abright eyes, are eager and enthusiastic and loyal. Popular.
The kid most likely to be Voted, "Most Popular".
Everyone village needs their ENFP's and Winnie the Pooh who has a Tao of his own.
However, it is the ENTP's type and their odd, quirky creativity that resonates the most with me and who I would want on a desert island with me.
Love Who has terrific content. I like your videos because of their pace, information and, presentation.
And the content creator is charming, aye a fine bonny lad or do I mishear a hint of an Outlander accent?
@@NathanJGlass rofl...I like it!
and a side note reference to the word, furry. A group of Ferrets is called a Business. Never refer
to your Ferrets as your Fursuits or a polite and inquisitive Furry will want to know more...
YESSS someone else mentioning Dean Koontz! I'm an enfp myself and I really love his books.
This vid was me all over, I love creating new things in my head, the excitement of it, the initial planning, the fantasising of its possibilities is such a high for me, but I equally lose interest of it so quickly. But I have seen the blessing of this part of me also, it's given me a "I don't give a crap, I'm going to try it" attitude to life, I'm not not going to try something because I'm scared I will fail, I get frustrated when I am not an expert straight away but it never stops me from trying in the first place. Through it I have picked up multiple random but amazing hobbies throughout my life. It's even allowed me to transition into a different career that I never thought I'd be able to get into. Channelling this trait with discipline I think will make loads of ENFPs unstoppable in life, and that's what I hope to do.
I used to be an ENTP. I've done my test again few days ago, now I'm a ENFP. I'm kinda liking it.
ENTP here. Watching this video at 5:36 AM having not yet gone to sleep. My current thought is "I like this video...but I really wish I could have a setting that allows me to watch multiple youtube vids at once..bummer" Hahaha Ne is one hell of a trip
"How dare this little detail stand in the way of my grand idea!"
Couldn't have said it better myself.
Yes, always coming up with an idea or plan and then get bored with it. For example, I spent 4 months converting a cargo trailer into an RV. I got done with it and then sold it because after I finished, I lost interest. 😢
I’m an ENFP and I have auditory tactile synesthesia. This video is accurate af.
The best summary EVER. You sir are amazing. You gave me insights into my behaviour and put into words a glimpse of how our minds work! #enfp
I need someone to help me execute all the plans and ideas I have. There's so many of them.
Haha same
Perhaps the answer we seek is in an INTJ partner? :3
yea
I've watched so many vids on enfp but yours are the only ones I really love x you're really insightful
Thank you very much! There is a link to our Discord server in the description of the video, feel free to check it out. There are lots of people on there that you might enjoy interacting with - including myself! ~ Nathan
“Rentless brains” I feel attacked again 😂
ENFP here… I have a Paracosm in my brain more vivid and complex than frigging goddamn Marvel Multiverse.
Extraverted intuition and introverted feeling represents me as a person exactly
Is anybody here an ENFP mom
I’m an ISTP and my mom and I don’t always get along great. And it’s not just common mother-daughter tensions, I’m fairly certain that it’s as a result of our minds working so differently. I’m pretty sure she’s an ENFP and I’m trying to understand the inner workings of her mind bc observing from the outside has done nothing😂
Kaila Y I can relate to you although I’m the ENFP daughter of an ISTJ mom (lol) we contradict in almost any kind of way I can think of and our way of seeing things are very different. But this is what makes us so compatible at the same time. We are complementary.
i´m not a mom but as an enfp i often hearr people say i´m like a different person every day, hour, minute and second. So i think observing doesn´t do much and trying to understand us doesn´t do the thing. I´ve known my best friend since i was 4 years old and after so many years she also tells me thaat i´m always different it´s just a thing of accepting whatever when it comes to "understanding" enfp´s if that makes any sense to you. Don´t try to understand eachother but rather accept eachother and worrk from there. ^^
You are so insightful it’s getting scary. Great job!
Given your deep understanding, you would be doing the ENFPs a life changing favor if you did a piece on practical tips (e.g. staying disciplined, being more assertive rather than prioritizing harmony etc.). There is abundant advice that tells you what to work on, but most if not all fail to use MBTI types’ strengths to ensure the change can stick.
Thanks for all that you do!
It's scary how much of this resonates!
Thank you for giving me a head start on going back to College. I get really bored easily too. Quarentine has been so difficult for me, so thank you. Plus, I am learning to think before I talk. Lol
no warning before the haircut was AWESOME!!! love surprises :)
Speaking of which, I actually need another haircut soon... ~ Nathan
alright 4:20 - 4:54 just ABSOLUTLY had my number. i cannot believe how accurate that entire bit is, as I quite literally aspire to be an IDEA GENERATOR and then have other people execute the project. (direct quote i often share when speaking about my career goals). just - wow.
ENFP musician here.
I approve your video as both as an ENFP and a musician.
I notice familiar patterns as an INTP. I can relate to their Ne Si a lot.
edit:
Yes the idea is also the drug for the INTP.
ENFP and fellow welshie here! I love your videos if you couldn’t tell as I’ve been searching all the way back for anything ENFP related which I think is a super enfp thing to do hahah
you're the best mbti explainer on youtube, easily
Wow this is soooo accurate. The part about your friend with the business ideas is ME!
I'm in this video. And I gotta say I like the fact that I can finally understand myself
The idea thing is the hardest to deal with concerning my ENTP spouse. If I have an idea (as an ISFJ) that is creative, I generally desire to implement it. He agrees with this strategy, but doesn't seem to recognize that specific steps must be taken in order to make such things a reality (or even that they need to be reality in the first place). He says he wants the freedom to pursue anything, but that is truly all he wants: the possibility of pursual is enough.
When we both fill out paperwork, I tend to be quite fast. I've been known to make a few mistakes, but I generally do not panic. He, however, takes an excruciating amount of time to pore over the details, as I imagine inferior Si is torturing him about it.
when i saw the champagne and the chords i immediatley thought of a party - ENFP
They say that ENTP/ENFP are great partners for an INFJ like me so yeah...is there anyone who wants to be friend with an INFJ loner like me? 😂
I prefer making friends with INTJs but sure.
We can be friends!!
SURE! 👋👋👋
Enfps act like jokers or silly goofs, but actually they can manipulate and persuade their way into any situation they want to see through. We r not that innocent , once we are passionately sure abt something we see it through. Although its very difficult to catch an enfps eye and get them interested.
Edit: also, we can play both side of a case very aggressively and win it. 😊
Me ENFP
Bubbles then added a couple other connections like trampolines and chocolate milk
This was so so good! Thank you!
I am ENFP and I put most of my ideas into practice whereas my two ESFP and my ENTP friends have plenty (way more than I have) of ideas they will never put into action.
My attempts at humour tend to be in the form of observations, but I speak without thinking things through and most of the time people don’t see how my comment relates to the subject at hand because they don’t see the connection(s( I’ve made.
While I'm watching this video I'm reading The Metamorphosis (Kafka) and i can I swear I got scared when your eyes just pump up when you was explaining the eyebrows stuff.
Omg yes the idea is the drug this is totally me..
Ahahaha i like how you had to tell the enfp listener that was not a euphemism. You know us too well! And we seriously have to be told that.
Being several steps ahead is a gift and a curse. We can see the end from the beginning -be it a relationship, a book, a movie, a new venture. Very rarely are we surprised so when we are -it’s…surprising. I love being genuinely surprised. 😂
Yeah, a lot of times I'll follow the connections I make to a conclusion, ,but then even I am unable to fully grasp how it is I arrived at the conclusion. Extremely frustrating when explaining things to people who can't intuit the steps in between. With other strong Ne's I'm able to just give them an answer and they get it, but I dont want to be limited to only properly communicating with a fraction of the population. Any advice?
Thanks Nathan. Sometimes my ideas are so abstract they only have very subtle or niche applications, or they may even be incomplete, and discussing an incomplete idea is important to me, but others can become very confused or uninterested in following the path i'm taking, claiming it to be pointless or not worth their time. this causes me to feel very isolated from others, as this world in my head is where I am, but I can't bring anyone in there with me. I only get recognition for the result of my process and not for the process itself.
But still, thank you for the advice, I'll keep that in mind. Love the videos! keep up the great work :)
1:43 I am intp and my friend is enfp, ive never laughed like that. My friend make a mess my doing anything and his sense of cleaning his house is something he dont feel, even when he already cleaned there is a mess, going out for work can be difucult proces and when something went wrong i see a big emocional impact but there is fast comeback, i realy like his relaxed cognitive feeling state of mind but that fixing on idea is a lot of pain
the idea is the drug... this is exactly how I feel. Addicted to creating perfect manifestations like some sort of god