My BF's Mother Puts An Ingredient I'm Allergic to In Her Dishes & For Bringing a Condom on a Date
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3:13 AITA For Giving My Late Husband's Estate To a Stranger Instead of Our Kids
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13:20 Knives Out Discussion
16:49 My BF's Mother Keeps Putting An Ingredient I'm Allergic to In Her Dishes
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25:31 Top Comment
26:11 Update 1
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34:29 Top Comment
36:15 Final Update
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39:28 AITA For Bringing a Condom on a Date
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49:00 Is it Unfair to Ask My BF to Move Out
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1:04:42 AITA For Telling MIL She Was Dead to Me After She Showed Up at Hospital W/O My Mother
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It’s not his kids inheritance if he left everything to her, he absolutely could have put his own kids in the will but chose not to. NTA
Exactly!
Bingo!
True but it sounds like there’s more to the story and at the end of day they’re his kids and we don’t know if he cheated eg but the dad is the asshole because he obligation to his kids
@@Chris-pz8euparents absolutely don’t have an obligation to give money to their kids after they die
His kids were definitely the AHs...she had no obligation to give it to them. Them were being absolutely disrespectful to her and their dad.
If he wanted the kids to have the money he would have put it in his will.
I am severely allergic to stargazer lilies, and my ex-husband’s grandmother made a point for every event, baby shower birthday anniversary just a middle of the week to send me two dozen stargazer lilies, knowing well that I was allergic because I would tell her every time. The devil rest her soul, may she be looking up at us in envy from whatever depths of hell she landed in.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
lollllllll
You should have sent her cat sh*t every time she sent flowers.
May she never rest in peace 🙏🏽
If someone's feeding you something you're allergic too because they don't like you call the police.
I like this idea but I don't know how far it would go, since she has the option to not eat there. Guilt trip is not a good reason to eat something that you know will make you sick.
You guys seem to be confused about something 🤔 It's OP's inheritance from her dead husband, not money she's supposed to be handing out to anyone and everyone on his behalf, it is hers
And she already has her own childs inheritance setup so why would her daughter get something that wasn't even given to her? She's not even a consideration
Her daughter doesn't deserve it because OP was married to the guy not her, she's not cashing in on her stepfathers death when even his own children who would have gotten a portion were cut off
Calling OP a gold digger for receiving an INHERITANCE is dumb, she owns it and is literally the ONLY person with rights to it
Also blaming the dad for not talking to them while he has cancer- why is it suddenly on him to explain why he cut them off when they couldn't be bothered for 3 years to not avoid him completely, assuming he didn't try was your mistake and it's likely they didn't care cause they avoided him for three years
100%. Her money, her choice.
...how the fuck did I not realize that she actually inherited it and wasn't just like, some odd money overseer or something
⬆️⬆️ THIS⬆️⬆️ ALL OF THIS!! Thank you so much! I felt like I was on crazy pills when I was listening to them discuss this post! Geez!
@@ruthie8726This happens sometimes since the story isn't really re-read I think they just forgot some details since it was explicitly clear. I understood but I could see how the wording can trip them up. Because usually the inheritance goes to the kids but still given the situation I would still say it's the kids own fault they didn't get the money. They were horribly entitled and asked about the money at his funeral... That is where they lost me.
As someone who is deadly afraid of giving birth (like, I’ve had nightmares about it, it scares me more than death itself), I know the only way I would be able to do it is if I had my mom holding my hand through it. If someone intentionally robbed me of that opportunity they’d also de dead to me. If this woman allows her mother in law to meet the child she should consider herself lucky
Having given birth, and literally traveled across the world so my mom could be with me, MIL was beyond wrong. The pain, the trauma,the anxiety of being in a hospital and knowing that you could die or your child could die during birth, it reverted me back to the point where when the time came, no matter how many books I read, videos I watched, I turned to my mom and was basically like "mom, what do I do?" Like a child again. My heart had been set on natural, but my endurance wasnt up to the long labor transition I went through. I'd travel to space to have my mom with me for the next birth. Cant imagine finding any comfort from my MIL despite her being a nice person.
If it was an inheritance he would have put it in the will. He knew he was dying and had plenty of time to add them to it if he wanted. If my kid was horrible to my new husband and also didn’t care about me having cancer they wouldn’t be getting my money, either 😂
I'm confused. When did it become a bad thing to have a condom just in case? I would be impressed if a guy came prepared without being asked in advance. Is it a bad thing to come prepared for anything else? Like having a towel in your car if you decide to go swimming. You're in an area where you could swim but that doesn't mean you will. If you do go swimming at least you have a towel to dry off with! How terrible!
I agree, her response was odd. Wouldn't she have been more upset if they went to do it and he DIDN'T pull out a condom?
This girl needs help. She was so insulted that he wanted to be safe?!? Yikes.
Truly!
To everyone out there who is of the age of consent where they live (usually 17 - 19 +) in most places, (even if you aren't sexually active yet/right now, ever) I have many people in my life who are in the medical industry in multiple niches, and PLEASE, carry condoms with you. Don't put them in your wallet tho, that'll increase their risk of breaking. maybe just pop an unopened, unexpired box into your bag, backpack, car console, etc. Any way you can increase the likelihood of using contraception properly and safely, GO AHEAD!!! If you won't use them yourself, having them for others safety is extremely useful. I've been celibate for quite a while now, but I tend to carry condoms with me just in case friends, acquaintances or strangers happen to ask or need them on the fly, I am ready, and their health risks are severely reduced.
*****Obviously when you pull the contraception device/barrier out, make sure you already have consent for s*xual activity. ****
but nothing about being prepared in wrong. that's actually really ideal.
I super appreciated when I was dating around a lot a few years back, and my Male dates, and dates with people with p*nises in general, if they had a condom on them. Especially with how many cis men in particular have tried to convince me to have relations against my condom only boundary.... I actually feel much SAFER if someone has a condom, AND offers it up if we are getting "hot n heavy" lol
However, as an SA victim, I can see if this person he was seeing felt like this was a presumption. He didn't do anything wrong from what I can see, assuming he's being honest about his side of stuff and isn't severely distorted. But also I dont think his date is an asshole either, I feel like they're struggling and feeling triggered possibly. (I dont know this person so obviously this is just one of many conceptualizations) Hopefully she's okay, and they can just go their separate ways and heal away from each other.
well as someone who date purposefully and not for fun, i wont have sex even, and that would indicate to me this guy has been around and hes done it a lot, so i wont take him seriously or want anything with him. but she obviously went that far with him so she seems to be also one of those people who dont take sex seriously, unless its her first time really going to that direction with a guy, and then seeing hes used to do doing that has turned her off.
@@rainbows5232 Hey! Thanks for responding. Would you be comfortable expanding on why you think having sex regularly or bringing protection along with you on dates means someone shows signs of not taking sex seriously?
I don't agree to be very upfront, but I would also like to understand why you feel that way and where you are coming from.
No pressure to respond if you're not up for a discussion with a stranger around this, that would make a lot of sense.
Also hi, my name is Penny, I am hoping to engage with good intentions.
the last story is obviously NTA. it’s also very malicious on the MIL’s part. giving birth is an extremely painful and dangerous situation be in. the fact that OP almost died on the birthing bed in the past shows that OP wanting her mother there is a very reasonable ask. and the MIL deciding last minute that she doesn’t like the long established and unanimously agreed upon plan is super strange. the fact that she doesn’t have an actual excuse makes it even worse.
MIL literally took the liberty to change the plan last minute and without informing anyone is not it. the fact that MIL didn’t apologize and immediately go to fix her mistake shows me that she probably had her own plan in mind all along (being the only parent there) and she was just annoyed that she’s being forced to change it. very hypocritical and self-centered, literally no self-awareness. I feel like the fact that OP’s mom did show up just in the nick of time doesn’t make it any better for MIL. for all any of them knew OP could have already given birth or be hemorrhaging. the fact of the matter is, if something bad happened, OP’s mom wouldn’t have been there to sooth her.
I think it’s completely reasonable for OP to not trust the MIL anytime soon. if MIL is willing to lie about being down with a plan so no one can stop her until it’s too late, that’s super untrustworthy. I feel like anyone in OP’s life who says she’s being unreasonable needs a reality check and some boundaries from OP. they are being un-empathetic to someone who had their trust in their family ripped apart in the most vulnerable moment, and she’s supposed to just get over it so the MIL doesn’t feel bad? I feel like it’s extremely immature for a whole ass grandmother to feel like she should be able to move through life without any consequences at all. imo if MIL doesn’t care about the needs of OP, then OP doesn’t owe her forgiveness.
edit: plenty of toxic MIL like to take advantage of the fact that their DIL can’t just walk away bc of marriage or kids. this strikes me as that. I can’t imagine this didn’t go through MIL’s mind while she made her decision. which explains why she might not hesitate to ran straight past OP’s comfort line.
idc what anyone thinks, if my s.o.’s parents or family don’t like me, i’m getting out of that relationship asap. i’m not putting up with that forever.
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YES. I’d never stay with a person if their family didn’t like me.
To me it depends a lot on how your partner behaves in a situation like this.
My parents didn't approve of my bf since the very start, but I protected him from them, I didn't let them get in our way and I fought all the way here. We've been together almost there years and he is the most supporting person to me. He know the effort I put for us and he will be by my side.
@@letizia2652 well i personally cannot tolerate being apart of a family that doesn’t like nor respect me. if it doesn’t bother you, good for you.
We also have to acknowledge she’s best friends with the sister too. Basically she has 2 reasons to stick around, son and sister. They can just avoid hanging out with the mother.
As someone who is allergic to garlic like the fact that it is everywhere can be so emotionally exhausting as it is, and to deal with a partner's parent not only ignoring the issue but guilting you into being around when they serve it. I would probably end up just crying at dinner eventually in frustration. My heart is with her.
Exactly i am allergic to garlic and it is the hardest thing for some people to understand that even some meats use garlic to preserve them and not to mention going to restaurants where lots of the time garlic is automatically added.
About the mother in law birth one, you aren't taking into consideration how traumatic birth can be, especially after two scary experiences. A lot of birth is mental, and the mother in law was a special kind of evil to do that.
Pure evil!
For the last one: just because mom made it to the birth at the end, doesn’t make it okay. Mom wasn’t there during one of the most difficult things a woman has to go through. She needed support and MIL deprived her of that.
For the birth story, the OP gets to be as mad as she wants for as long as she wants. Any woman who has given birth or knows a woman who has given birth knows that emotions run high and it can be scary as hell. The MIL was selfish and malicious by intentionally changing the plans without discussing it with the OP or her mother. I strongly suspect this was not the first time she has disrespected a boundary.
I couldn’t let this go! MIL is evil
My two cents, labor is super private. lol you have everything hanging out and it’s scary even when things aren’t going bad. I think someone demanding to be there and not following your conditions is _always_ inappropriate.
41:00 this story makes me so mad because WHAT??? The MIL is so selfish dude. Giving birth is terrifying and not having ur mental support is building on trauma you could avoid.
Might wanna fix that time stamp
counting down the episodes to when Madi is missing her arm
Lmao
I'm less than 2 weeks away from my second child's due date(Christmas). The rage and disrespect I would feel towards MIL if she did something like, or any of my family not listening to my birth plan. No one but my husband will be in the room with me for the delivery, the labour - if they want to visit - will be at most 30 min.
There is SOOOOOO much going on during labour. You're in huge amounts of pain, exhausted, tons of hormones and feelings. Then depending on the situation, like ops last birth, you could be scared for yours AND your unborn child's life and safety!
facts. I feel like all the non-moms are ignoring the fact that OP had to literally argue for MIL to do what was expected of her WHILE she is giving birth. that is insane and very disrespectful. those are the actions of a woman that doesn’t give a fuck that she’s breaking your trust. I know I would literally struggle to even hand my children over to her after she tried to pull some fuckshit like that.
Wishing you and your baby a safe delivery and a peaceful postpartum :))
6:48 I definitely disagree with Brandon. If the dad wanted the kids to have the inheritance, he would have put it in his will. He purposely put the wife to have it so he must not have wanted to give it to them too
The MIL at the end. OP's hate is warranted. She obviously did that so she could be the only one in the delivery room with them. She was jealous and vindictive and intentional. She had no thought for her DIL and clearly only sees her as a vessel that gives grandchildren.
3:13 NTA. I know I wouldn't be giving my inherentence to some ungrateful kids.
To the girl wanting to kick out her boyfriend: as a fellow CPTSD survivor who's wasted a lot of time in toxic/unhappy relationships - him moving out sounds like a GREAT idea.
You're so young, you need time to be alone, heal, and learn more about yourself and what you really need. If it causes you guys to become closer, awesome! I think that'll be a big green flag if he's open to doing that but continuing the relationship, and if he's not, it'll show you he's not the right person for you. But it'll also give you the time to evaluate if he's really right for you or if you feel better without him around. Right now, you're focusing on the love you had, but you need to focus on whether or not he's actually what you need in a partner.
Trauma makes it hard to realize when you're not being treated right and hard to let people go. But you deserve to feel loved, like you're a priority for a partner, to be included in their plans, and to be able to express your feelings to them. I promise, if he can't do those things for you, there's someone out there who can ❤️
In that first story, he left the estate to HER. It was hers to do what she pleases. If he wanted to leave it to his children he would have left it to the kids.
Exactly! If someone dies without a will the automatic beneficiary of the estate is the leagal spouse. If he had a will and bequeathed everything to the wife...its her's! He has his reasons why he didn't find it important to share it out between his children. This is why people should work for their own money and stop worrying about inheritance because at the end of the day it's that person's money and it's completely up to them what they do with their money!
Imo on the garlic story, I feel like there's a difference between your mom hating your partner and have a vakid reason compared to not liking someone because of how they look or choose to dress is different. Boyfriend should standup for her and not let his mom treat her poorly bc of it
If my mom was doing that to my partner I would not go to dinner until she stoped. That bf is useless
Yeah, if I found out someone was feeding something I'm allergic too because they don't like me that's a call to the police.
That's why she broke up with him. He didn't stick up for her, and kept mom's dislike a secret. Good on OP for dropping dead weight.
Last story: yeah it is a big deal. When you're giving birth you are at your most vulnerable place and you need the person you need. It's not on the mil to decide if thats ok with her or not. F her !
I don't care if you don't like your son's girlfriend, you don't play with somebody's life like that!! r/justnomil
Shit like that is infuriating!
The boyfriend also sucks in this scenario, because why didn't you stick up for your girl?
And then there's the final update.
“Mom it was NASTY in there” not even 5mins in and i almost died drinking tea bc of Sam
Parents absolutely do not owe inheritance to their children. And who in their right mind would expect money after not going to see parent while fighting cancer for 3 years? That's crazy to me.
When I found this channel I binge watched every single episode😂. Loving the show from Kenya 🇰🇪
I have had 3 children, with one of whom I almost died having, all by myself. This woman is well within her rights to throw MIL out. And is still within her rights to hate her. What MIL did, not only was it disrespectful, it also added to trauma, pre existing and current. To almost die while giving birth is traumatic enough, but to deny the person traumatized the one thing they need while experiencing something that fuels the ptsd, that is cruel, hatred inducing, and some would even say abreast. That woman would never come near me again
Broh that last story is wild. The mil is a monster. What a liberty to take.
39:28 judging from the title alone, hell no! NTA! Always be prepared, because you never know what's going to happen! If the chemistry is like that, it's like that!
ETA: okay, here's what I don't understand. If y'all were in the bedroom getting hot and heavy, and y'all were about to do the damn thing, why the hell was she get mad that you brought protection? That doesn't necessarily mean that he assumed that he was going to get some on the first night! My brother, I think you dodged a bullet on this one. Like I said before, *_always be prepared!_*
Yeah, her reaction was very confusing
Ive heard that the reason so many guys feel attacked when going to couples therapy is because theyre not used to expressing their feelings in a constructive manner. Him going to a therapist on his own and working on his communication skills first would mitigate that IF he took it seriously
OP: I don’t want this to become an erotica
Sam: *Instantly dives into basically a funny erotica*
The audacity of anyone assuming you can be in the room for anyone giving birth. I made it very clear the only people that would be in the room was the medical staff and my husband. All the others can sit in hall!
There was no reason to tell them what money was left over. She should have said your father did not leave you any money and that was the truth
No the kids knew their father was loaded and they were expecting the money to be given to them
I NEVER KNEW YALL WERE DATING, I've been so confused for like the past 8 episodes 😭😭
On the giving birth story: absolutely not an over reaction. That was total sabotage. Giving birth is not a spectator sport. It's not an amusement ride. It's not about "being fair". It's about giving support to the woman who is in labor and risking her life. Frankly, this 61 year old woman would like to find MIL and do things which will get this comment deleted.
I appreciate the condemnation from the CLP cast on the allergy story.
He left the money to her. If he wanted it to them he would have. He had to write them to not receive it. If she wanted to give it to someone who was a caretaker that seems like a generous gift
As someone who has had a baby and had a scary birth, i would never forgive my MIL for doing that. It was 100% intentional.
In my culture men are encouraged to always have a condom, date or not. He did nothing wrong but being prepared
I always appreciated the “I have money, you don’t have money” approach. Like I love you, I won’t let you go hungry while you’re finding your way in life, you can come to me, but you’re going to have to find your own way in life and make your own living and support yourself. I’m not always gonna be here.
the problem with all of this is that there was a plan for months it was stated that would happen mil agreed. Plus if she really wanted dil's attention why then would she immediately go on her phone after arriving at the hospital but this was def meant to hurt dil
Garlic story: she should have called the police and reported her for purposely making her sick. That’s illegal
If you know your parent is dying of cancer and you choose to stay away and ignore them, you’re no longer their child. You don’t deserve diddly squat.
Really good episode, guys, LOVE the energy on this one!
Immediately following Brendan’s proposal, Sam gets on one knee… “Maddy, will you be my… 😎 Cousin? 😎” throwing her THE HAT
I do think with the first story that they as parents failed with some decision making. They were teen boys who believed she was using their father for money. Someone failed in parenting before that point to have kids with such a misogynistic outlook but there decision not to address that issue and hide the fact she was financially stable was a domino affect.
That led to continued misbehaviour from kids that was rewarded with not paying for their college even when they could afford to, which in turn leaves a sour taste for the kids that I’m sure they still link to step mum.
They’re adults now and their choices are their own and I’m not even saying this to mean they deserve inheritance, because they don’t. But both the dad and the step mum failed those kids in making choices that didn’t address the issue and then continuously punishing them for it in ways that increased the separation of their relationship.
The dad lost his sons over it and they lost their dad. Better choices should have been made at many different points but at the very beginning there were adults and there were teens 🤷🏿♀️
Yall have Perfect timing for my midnight shifts 😍
Side note, I appreciate your chapter so so much. Thanks ❤
Yay once again right on time for dinner! This is gonna be my new routine I feel like 😂
Am i the only one who thinks $25,000 isn't a big inheritance (its not even enough for a down payment where i live)? I would not call someone a gold digger over that either... To be fair the cost of living and homes where I live is quite high.
I think it depends on how privileged you are. $25 k can be life changing
😅 that last story my sister just gave birth less than two weeks ago. She had a lot of complications, and everyone was asked to leave the room multiple times, but her mother-in-law just kept standing by the door in the hallway. At one point the nurse actually asked me and my mother to tell the people in the hallway to go sit, sit down we did and she got mad at us. She ended up not going to sit down though she walked back with us and then when her son, (my brother-in-law) started walking towards the delivery room, she turned around and followed him and ended up standing in the hallway, even though we all told her that she had to go and sit in the lobby because she wanted to be the first one to see the baby and the first one up close in personal I get that this was her son’s first baby but she has four other sons three of which have children and this is my mom‘s first grandchild to my opinion. She was being a little unfair, especially by standing outside the hallway, deliberately after nurses repetitively asked her to go sit down since everything went OK to me the funniest thing was my sister ended up having to have a C-section and the only one allowed in the room was my brother-in-law, so therefore neither one got to be there for the birth 😂
omgggg you guys have to watch and react to everything everywhere all at once plzzzzz ik Sam wats no more multiverse media but this is really good and id love to see yall react to it
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25:58 also you can died from an asthma attack as a fellow asthmatic
You know a relationship is gonna be toxic when the 5 love languages show up.
the Tokyo drift singing at the end 🤣🤣🤣
i know it’s not a reddit post, but i really want them to talk about the video where none of the posters boyfriends friends will come to his 30th birthday party she planned for him 😅😭
So she wanted him to rawdog her? Like what was the thought process. You can just say hes a douche for going so fast, having a condom is not in it of itself implying anything esp if u took him home on the first date from HINGE
For the last story, saying the mother in law wants to be relied on sounds wrong to me. even if that's what she said it's what she wanted, the first thing she did was sit and get on her phone, she didn't check on OP or see if there was anything that needed being done. not even a "your mom isn't here, but I can sit with you"
we don't even know if she told the other family she wasn't picking them up. somehow I doubt she would have.
Maddie does have the most melancholy transitions 🤣🤣🤣
Love that quote Brandon, focus on making better days.
And yes not feeling safe in your home sucks.
the podcast name is so perfect because i legit only listen to true crime and you guys so you’re really my comfort podcast.
If the husband wanted his children to have the inheritance, he would've stated that in his will and not his wife. She's NTA. Children aren't entitled to anything. They treated their Dad horribly and didn't come to visit him when he was going through cancer or before he died. They deserve NOTHING.
I'm a Mom, and if my MIL, at the time, had down this to me, I would've been LIVID. OP has every right to feel this way without ANY judgment. I absolutely would've kicked her out of the delivery room and wouldn't speak to her for some time.
Babies come when they’re ready to so time really is pretty fickle in that scenario. If we’re all planning to be at the hospital for a birth i feel it goes without saying that the call could come at ANY time and whomever is included in said plans knows to just haul ass to the hospital 🤷🏾♀️
For the first story, i think she's NTA for giving it to the stranger or for disinheriting his kids, but I do think that if her own daughter had still always had a good relationship with her husband, she should have at least split it between her daughter and the other woman she wanted to thank since it seems like her husband was still her daughters dad even if they weren't bio related
So many people mistake infatuation for love
Last story, OP is absolutely NTA because they had established this birth plan months in advance. Everyone was on the same page. And then last minute, the MIL decided not to go along with it because she was jealous that the other grandma got to be present for the other births. IT'S NOT YOUR BABY! It's just a fact that in the very early days of a newborn's life, the maternal grandma tends to be more involved than the paternal. A new mom needs support around her that makes her feel loved. It's completely understandable that she wants her own mom there, not her husband's mom because there is a level of always trying to impress your in-laws and be at your best behavior and you do not want to have to worry about that while you are in the very vulnerable state of giving birth and postpartum. It doesn't mean that a paternal grandma isn't as involved in her grandchildren's lives. She is. It's only during the pregnancy and early new born days when the baby is more attached to the mother than the father. That's just biology. My mom was present for the births of my sisters' children, but she was wise enough to know that she wouldn't be for my brother's children unless expressly invited. And she was invited for the second and third because she earned my sister-in-law's trust.
I get the feeling Sam's a momma's boy lol
I always had one in my wallet. Granted; it is something I learned from my dad having one in his. That being said my mom kept protection in hers. She would always preach you never know where, when, who emotions happen. In general I’m going to raise my sons to have one in their wallets at all times and makes sure it’s always make sure it’s not expired. I think I’m general it’s also just a safety measure. For both people. Am I the only one that was ever brought up with that? Like didn’t it used to be a joke when there was a big faded circle imprint on a man’s old leather wallet…
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Just one thing on the inheritance, giving money to your child just because you passed away and they're bad does not mean that money and legacy lives on. My aunt gave all her money to her kids when she passed away and being raised so wealthy they spent it in less than 5 years and that legacy now isn't what should be left of them. I get the point, but I think if you gives the money to a good person who can be a productive part of society then your legacy can still continue in a good way.
Also all the comments stating you read it partly wrong is true, because the husband left the wife the money period and not money to allocate around, she said there was left over money and she gave it to the person who took care of her husband and that seems like a fair decision.
1:04:42 r/justnomil NTA. Your MIL prolly did that on purpose.
Mil was not wanting to be needed or thinking that she was going to be able to fulfill a role. Her mindset was a scoresheet between the other mom and her, who got to be at more births.
I’m guessing that for the first and maybe second birth, she just wanted her mom and possibly gram there, and MIL was trying to get some weird revenge.
Birth can be really scary the first time, and you have strong instincts to not have people around that aren’t 100% team you. You have to feel safe and relaxed. But by birth three, it doesn’t feel like such a big deal to have others around. I’m betting that’s what MIL’s comment meant, about mom being present for the other two births.
She was NOT planning on being supportive of OP. She wanted to be the first one to touch the baby.
Omg I've never been this early!! Let's goo!!
Ugh that mil was soooo triggering!! When i had my first baby, i was hoping to have my husband, my mom and even his mom with me. Well she decided she was going to be an abusive bitch to me most of my pregnancy, well i decided to only have my husband and mom. She was jealous that my mom was there but idc. Then her own daughters had kids (2 each, one is pregnant again) neither have had her in there with them, she could have been in with me but she decided to be an asshole so now she hasn't been in with anyone but 2 of her 15 grandchildren
Condom girl didn't want to have sex. She wanted him to stop last minute, ask _her_ for one then respectfully show restrain when she didn't have one either. Its the sex age type of gentlemanliness and chivalry play. He failed the test.
But you should know this routine easily if you're out there hooking up regularly. It shows you can control yourself, you dont have preconceptions on the person, extends the concent issue to enthusiastic concent and you get to play "sweet little respectful virgin to."
Men should talk to lesbians about behaviours around sex to more, some of these things are no brainers.
Then she could have just said she was having second thoughts about intimacy on the first date and saw how he reacted. Considering that not all guys WILL stop, even though it’s illegal (not always enforceable), that’s a stupid game with stupid prizes.
@@Summer-cu7do no, you don't understand, I'm explaining how stupid her thinking is. No one is expected to read minds to this extent but it's part of her fantasy of a "good guy test" that has little to no chance of being fulfilled. I guess there really is a reason for the /s thing
On the first story, if he wanted to leave it to his kids he would’ve. Wife had every right
With the mother-in-law story like nah with how petty and malicious the MIL is, OP is fine with never wanting to see her again. Birth is dangerous and OP already had one harrowing birth and mother in law made it clear she didnt care about OP only the baby. And very clearly lied about going along with the plan so now she isnt someone you can trust.
Sally is trippin. So if he didn't have the condom, was she gonna just go raw? That's like getting mad at someone for bringing a bathing suit to the heach. Yeah, I might get in the ocean, so I'm gonna bring the thing you wear in the fuckin ocean.
Where did he say in his will the money was for his kids. And to say the money isn’t hers to give… then why did he leave her the money…?
Garlic allergy! I have that too! Omg I’m so sorry for that girl , but I feel so much solidarity with her! My own parents refuse to cook without garlic so I also totally understand 😅
Regarding the story about OP's husband's assets, his kids NEVER came to see him whole he had cancer, not once. He died w/o ever seeing his children. They didn't deserve one penny of his money. If the dad had wanted them to have any money, he would've left it to them in his Will.
Opening: Brandon’s the best!
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Im lactose and I always risk it until recently, I almost pooped myself in the Vatican square. That fountain was looking real toiletie. I was legit sweating and shaking. I will never do that again.
I am a female 32 and I always carry my own condoms. even when I had a a bf I had mine in my purse. and now being single I bring them just in case because if I wanna fork I'm gonna fork lol
i love to cook and like yeah garlic is in a lot of dishes but i can LITRLY NAME 30 RN THAT DONT HAVE ITTTT mil tryna catch a case fr
3:02 my mom said I looked pissed as fffff when I I came out, so apparently my rating was 11/10
Even if his reasoning for not providing an inheritance was in the will the kids would probably think she altered it. The kids just don’t like her at this point. They probably would’ve said dad wasn’t in his right mind pushing the gold digger outlook 😑
The guy in the first story had a will. If he wanted to make sure his children got something, why would he put in the will that the wife inherited it?
He left the estate to his wife. It was her money. She did what she wanted with HER money 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ NTA
I gave birth lost 1.5L of blood and almost died. Contractions are painful and tge added stress can increase the pain op nta the mil sucks and it would definitely leave a strained relationship afterwards
🤔Wtf happened to the days where we were taught to stay prepared?? There’s tons of teen movies out there with the classic " old condom in the wallet" scene. It’s weird to me that thé girl found something wrong with him having one. So were they just gonna keep going had he NOT had the condom?? Does she live in Opposite World ?🤦🏾♀️
If I were the guy, I’d come to the conclusion and assume that she’s in the habit of sleeping with men unprotected. 😬
Y’all are tripping for this first story again
I feel like the top comment should be there for every story cuz I feel like some of the more controversial stories tend to not have it in there, and it would be cool to get info on how everyone feels
I like to get a route 44 with carbonated water and some of the flavor add-ons and that lasts me most of the day and it’s good.
My husband managed not to be an AH when he had brain cancer, but Sam is right. Having cancer doesn't stop you from being an AH.