When you have to pay a girl to be with you, that is already an immediate red flag. Her job is basically sleeping around with men. His other head took over and told him, this one's different.
True. Although that is less likely to happen as she gets older year by year. Equally he might disappear when someone younger catches his eye. Its all built on shifting sand.
I appreciate that he shared his side of the story. He narrowly avoided a difficult situation because she had financial problems and only saw him as a source of money. Regardless of whether she's a freelancer or not, there are warning signs to watch out for when dealing with Thai women: Pressuring for marriage soon after starting to date, sharing a sad story about their life, being irresponsible with money, and having a mindset focused on marrying someone of a higher social status. I believe that many people who share their stories lack self-love. When they encounter someone they find attractive, they may overlook red flags and make decisions based on emotions rather than logic due to their lack of self-love.
Human love is conditional, all human relationships are temporary. People need to focus on their relationship with Jesus Christ.. God their creator..who loves them unconditionally.
"If she had told me..." Mate, do you really need a freelancer to tell you what it is she's after? How does a 42m quits his job, risking his financial future, to go after someone who he knows doesn't love him for who he is and who has slept with hundreds of men...after hearing about countless freelancer stories? Unbelievable.
Guarantee she prob had farang sponsors giving her money as well as another fb account with relationship status with a Thai guy. I knew a guy that dated a girl and her parents were also pushing for marriage but she had a bf in the same village. Everyone but my buddy wasn’t comfortable with this. He ran far, far away from her.
@@TalesBeyondHorizons yep. And he's still young enough to have learned his lesson and do something with his life. In time I'm sure he will view it correctly.
This is life, especially in Thailand. You get together with a working girl and you are surprised that she left you for another man with more money? You can't blame her. This is who she is from the very beginning and you knew it.
It may not feel like it, but you ended up the winner here. The rich dude is going to find his dream girl is no more loyal to him than she was to you. She probably already has or will have a Thai husband/boyfriend/ _gik_ (F-buddy) on the side. Most certainly she will bail on her new falang hubby if a better offer comes along. You learned a painful lesson, but you're wiser now and the other guy's troubles are just starting.
Society.... Tells the man "do the right thing", tells the woman " take care of yourself". Its time we get into the mindset of taking care of ourselves! Dont worry bro, your human like the rest of us, but i believe you wont repeat that situation again.
Clearly didn't do his reading/homework on the subject of Bar Girls and Freelancers. Nice to hear is honesty as a reminder/warning. The guy needs to move on, get a job, build up funds and go back to Thailand with the knowledge from his experience.
I feel you brother. I just went through something like your story. I knew better to have feelings but sometimes we can’t control our feelings. It still hurts and it will take some time for me to recover. I can promise you one thing. Her relationship with the other will not last. These girl lack the intelligence to appreciate the opportunity they have. Also the guy will either run of money or get tired of getting bleed to dry. Do yourself and the other guy a favor and tell him everything that has happen so that he knows what he’s getting into.
I like the last sentence "Leave that heart at the airport and pick it up on your way back home"...this is the cardinal principle for those going to Thai-Girl-Land.
Trust me, It could have been worse. She won't stay with the other person, she will bleed him dry and move on. Chances are, he is going to wind up poorer than you. You're the lucky one.
Thank you for sharing your story, another lesson for everybody who think they can make an honest, honorable woman out of a freelancer, or a bar girl, no one can make them to be a different person than what they really are. This type of girls should be.FOR FUN ONLY. Would you fall in love with a prostitute in the UK, I think all of us know the answer of this question, and the same goes to any other country in the world. And to be honest, every now and then we hear about a success story with a working girl and a European man however, this is an extreme exception and the chances are that such a relationship will end in a heartache, and sometimes empty bank account, and the odds are stacked against a success story, who in earth will take such a gamble and expose themselves to traumatic experience. Time will heal your wounds, the vast majority of men have been through similar situation, like yours, the few who haven’t experienced such a situation, are those ones who are not dating enough women. One of these days you will find the right woman. God Bless.
From the first time I came to Thailand about 45 years ago, I never kept a woman that "demanded" money from me and also I chose women that were not looking like super models. More those who were in my league. Never lost any money on a woman. The contrary, they often helped me save money and if one was asking too soon too much, I ended the "relation".
A prudent man forseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished. We've all done stupid things, especially as men with beautiful women. Asian girls are the finest in the world, so don't give up, and next time, go about your searching in a different method. Good luck. I found my Vietnamese wife, and we are very happy.
I have learnt alot from these kind of stories. I lived in Thailnad for three years however was never into the bar girl scene due to the work I was doing but plan on going back soon and more free this time so plan to visit bars more often. All this knowlege from these stories will be useful in decision making.
Well you can, you just have to be careful. I am 26 and I live in Bangkok now for 5 years and I am with a Thai Girl for 3 years now. I have 5 Rules that I follow and I think it’s the best way. 1. No Girls from Isaan, they are all just looking for guys Who have money to support her and her family, the behavior of that woman was from an typical Isaan girl, I am willing to bet she is also from Isaan. 2. No Girl wo works in the Entertainment industry and obviously no Sex workers or Bar girls (Entertainment Industrie and Sex Industrie goes hand in hand in Thailand in most cases) 3. Don’t date women who are unemployed, in most cases she is either a freelancer on the side or she got some sponsors Or sugar daddy’s who are paying for her lifestyle. 4. Only date woman with normal jobs, they have the least likelihood to be involved in some shady things. 5. Look for Red flags in the beginning, for example if she follows some random Foreigners an Instagram or Facebook, does she have a second phone, is she lying about her age, does she out of nowhere stop answering your messages or phone calls for no reason for a longer period of time. All those examples are massive red flags.
You can go into Thailand armed with all the knowledge of what not to do, but these women really have a way of making you feel special or desired. We should be better to look out for these situations but when you're swept up with the feelings, that logic goes out the window. Its a career for some of these women and they are very good at stringing you along. If you had stayed with her, her and her family would have bled you dry and then you would have been moved over for another man. We all need to learn lessons, I learned mine.
I treat Pattaya like a video game. My mission when I get there is to pick up as many girls as I can without having to pay them. I only try to buy drinks for them.
I met a Thai woman and fell for her & carried on talking to her for the next 6 months but the minute she said she wanted 30K a month she got dumped quicker than a bad smell I int no simp
I think this guy needs to get off his high horse and think from her POV. He doesn't have money and no way to support her, why should she be with him? He says she was just scraping by, so why won't she be choosing a rich guy? He's assuming she's as naive as he is, but she's a rational thinking working girl, choosing best for her future as anyone would.
How was she scraping bye with all the customers she had. Probably has more money than u and me together. .on big money these freelancers I no one making 3 million bhatt a year. Profit .Still she pleads poor and poverty.
not easy to find a Diamond - not one women well mostly western worked - 10 years was my longest - Thai women are Beautiful and fun - a lot of us guys live Miserable lives in the west especially when much older
Haha I speak with many to try and line a few up for when I go to Thailand (I have no intention of any relationship) I’ve had the old can’t pay my rent by a couple, I’ve had got no money for food off a couple aswell. Soon as they ask for money I stop all communication. You imagine if they are messaging 30 guys and 10 give them money , that is a fair bit of money. I look out for the ones who regularly visit temples and work full time.
@@mathewbarker9887 I agree with what you say, but visiting temples is not actually a guarantee that the girl is not a working girl. I spent a few days with a gogo dancer. I cut it off because of course I felt feelings developing. She was 42 years old, but super attractive said she worked as a hotel supervisor for 14 years and only recently became a gogo dancer. I have no way of knowing that if this is true. Well right after I left her, she went to the temple for four days and sent me a bunch of pictures with her dressed and white at the temple. So go go dancers, go to the temple as well.
Good story. I really feel bad for this guy. He seems like a very nice guy. Even with the way she treated him, he is not bitter or angry at her. I wish this guy the best.
Once again…..it’s ALL about the money! The money! The money! 💵💵💵💰💰💰💰💰💰 So many naive guys out there that allow these pretty girls to get a tight hold on them for the reason of getting money. Playing their games. Mind games. It’s always about going after the “bigger fish!” Too many guys fall victim to this kind of scam. Game. Think with your brain! Think. Think. Don’t think with your heart. Too dangerous to do so. Use your brain first!
Real easy litmus test... Would the girl give you the time of day back "home" let alone what to "be with you"??? If NO is the answer... Remember that is the reality.
I met my ex in Phuket she didn’t have a job but she had lots of money… 🚩 after being together for 1 month she said that she want to go back to her home she was originally from Pattaya 🚩 at this time I had no idea what does it mean. She asked me for monthly salary. We’ve been together 2 years. Guys I never met someone so toxic, Lier and cheater in my life. Everyday drama was just crazy. Be careful guys.
@@Milkyway109 no after one year with her a loooooot of shit came out. I loved her but I just lost all respect and the amount of drama was just ridiculous. I came out of this relationship with a lot of mental problems.
@@Milkyway109 it was very very difficult because you see this beautiful caring woman on the beginning but in time day by day her true colours coming out. I’ve been in Thailand 5 years and what happened to me and how many stories I heard I still can’t believe that it’s really happening here in this country.
What I don’t get is, there are countless horror stories about dating/wifing up bar girls and freelancers. Thinking they love the guy/will go pure and give up what they’re doing. It’s rare for a relationship with these girls to work out. Guys still date or wife them up, do they not read or hear the horror stories?
But why go with freelancers? Thailand is known for friendly people so if you find a good women and spend some time you don't have to pay and get scammed!
As they say in Thailand - No money no honey. Not trying to be rude, but you have no money and you were out of your depth. To live with her for 3 months and allow her to go and freelance is wild.
To the bro who was scammed. Clearly she had narcissistic tendencies...... her taste in clothes and incessant spending and wanting to be the centre of attraction with all those guys . To top it all off those horrendous lies, all cleverly constructed and delivered with so much conviction. There are heaps of videos on narcissism here on YT. I strongly suggest you watch them, as many as you can. It will then make sense, what you experienced.
Ahh.. shit. Sorry you had to learn the hard way my friend. Money # 1 in Thailand or didn't you get the memo. Tell you what, your not alone and others will follow. Rack it up to experience and crack on. 9s and 10s go to the highest bidders so go find a good 7 or 8 and be happy but that being said, even those girls will step out on you if given the opportunity. Always, always realize your plan B or C to these girls. I love and care about you and God Bless you dodged a bullet.
This is true! I read that being broke there is seen as worse than anything else. This is why there are so many freelancers in plain sight and people don't mind.
You need to learn to evaluate a girls character, moral and vices before you let yourself fall in love. Not after. This is especially true in Asia where an innocent look says nothing about her personality. You also need to learn to know when to let go, wich is a lot sooner than what you did in this story. Hopefully you have learned from this story and set some absolute boundaries for yourself or you will repeat this mistake over and over again.
Certainly nothing to laugh at mate,sad,familiar story ,money is the main issue for everything here, the only solace for you is you found out what she is about & now you're out of it
Let's see how long it will be before the next guy submits his story. I think this man was lucky he found out sooner rather than later. Can you imagine how much worse it would have been if he had fallen into a longer term relationship with children. He wouldn't be talking about a broken heart but a broken life. I think he dodged a bullet.
Before I start - Nice ass at 7:12. Anyone with a good amount of experience in Thailand has probably slipped up with a sweet girl or 2 to some point so I can't blame you for that & it is never funny to be hurt like that. Maybe her extravagant spending & the families money demands should have frightened you off. It was certainly a good lesson for you & hopefully you will be a bit more careful in future. On the other side of the coin, you should have seen the light when the rich dude showed up & spent your last week in the bars, sampling other delights. Cheers
Prostitutes, well maybe not but they like flowers but you don't know what flowers they like so you give them money so they can pick out what flowers they want.
BARGRIL OR FREELANCER YOU HAVE GOOD AND BAD SADLY ENOUGH MORE WHO PREFER TO LOVE THE MONEY INSTEAD OF THE PERSON I AM ALREADY 25 AND HAPPILY MARRIED WITH A BAR GIRLFRIEND BUT I KNOW OTHER CASES
"It seems that they are currently happy together and taking the next step in their relationship," until...of course...the next guy comes along...which should be in 3-2-1...
A freelancer is a girl who will have sex with you for money. They are not called bar girls because they do not work for a bar. You may meet them at certain bars that allow freelancers. Essentially a freelancer is just another word for a prostitute in Thailand freelancers could be full-time meaning this is all that they do or they could be part-time meaning they work in a coffee shop And just do occasional freelancing on the side to supplement their income.
Come on -- Every woman different ..some bad some good -. and if you know about culture there are infact many good girls that both have been freelancers and so on ... About support. This what you may have to pay to have a -stunner - --- but most important . be realitistic.. Are you compatible.. ? If you are much older, or look not so good, but if you have a lot of money -yes there could be a possible rip-off -- but most situations its all about communication and common sense with your "woman" . If you are in relation . support money every month is expected.. 15-30 000 is common. And one more thing -- if you know the principles about GATHAN YA -- there could be an upside there... My best friend helped a thai woman 6 years ago , bailing about gold from pawn shop. They still are happily together..
These types of women have a great lack of empathy. In my opinion, these are women who have a narcissistic personality disorder. With this woman, her love was never real. If love is real, then all problems can be solved. She wanted to get married very quickly. It could bring her a better future. She can work in the UK. And bring her earned money to her family. They will be out of financial trouble in no time. These are women who are looking for easy money. And if you no longer meet the requirements. because you have to go back to the UK. Then they take the next victim. Everything they do is based on quicksand. But no security and no future. Be glad that you are freed from this fraud. I think you have seen enough red flags. Next time it will be better because you have learned a lot. Do not believe in beautiful words. Do not fall in love too quickly. Let them first prove that their heart is just as beautiful as yours. It can only become serious if they really do not want to lose you. A good woman who lives without social media is my preference. With many contacts, you never have them for yourself. You were simply next in line to be the victim.
Relationship and Freelancer shouldn't be in the same sentence.
One hour relationships
I really don't think these girls are worth much at all. They really are not anything special. Kinda nasty really.
Men are in love, women are in business.
- Coach Greg Adams
Boys love girls; girls love money.
@@mateor7302 they work we play
Free agent for life
Women are also in love, but their love can be bought
exactly:-) and in tourists area everything is business. Every contact with locals are 99% business.
Ever girl of woman: she is never yours its just your turn
When you have to pay a girl to be with you, that is already an immediate red flag. Her job is basically sleeping around with men. His other head took over and told him, this one's different.
This man's future was saved the other guy's future got destroyed
And when a richer guy comes along, guess what, she'll be away.
True. Although that is less likely to happen as she gets older year by year. Equally he might disappear when someone younger catches his eye. Its all built on shifting sand.
I appreciate that he shared his side of the story. He narrowly avoided a difficult situation because she had financial problems and only saw him as a source of money.
Regardless of whether she's a freelancer or not, there are warning signs to watch out for when dealing with Thai women: Pressuring for marriage soon after starting to date, sharing a sad story about their life, being irresponsible with money, and having a mindset focused on marrying someone of a higher social status.
I believe that many people who share their stories lack self-love. When they encounter someone they find attractive, they may overlook red flags and make decisions based on emotions rather than logic due to their lack of self-love.
Human love is conditional, all human relationships are temporary. People need to focus on their relationship with Jesus Christ.. God their creator..who loves them unconditionally.
"If she had told me..." Mate, do you really need a freelancer to tell you what it is she's after? How does a 42m quits his job, risking his financial future, to go after someone who he knows doesn't love him for who he is and who has slept with hundreds of men...after hearing about countless freelancer stories? Unbelievable.
And it's crazy to say... He got off lightly.
@@TalesBeyondHorizons Yes, it definitely could've been worse.
Guarantee she prob had farang sponsors giving her money as well as another fb account with relationship status with a Thai guy. I knew a guy that dated a girl and her parents were also pushing for marriage but she had a bf in the same village. Everyone but my buddy wasn’t comfortable with this. He ran far, far away from her.
@@TalesBeyondHorizons yep. And he's still young enough to have learned his lesson and do something with his life. In time I'm sure he will view it correctly.
This is life, especially in Thailand. You get together with a working girl and you are surprised that she left you for another man with more money?
You can't blame her. This is who she is from the very beginning and you knew it.
Exactly what he said in his story.
Young women will always trade up!
Why are you rubbing it in you clown?
I love the readers voice as he tells these stories. Very soothing. Even tho many sad events.
yeah. if the stories were narrated by someone who sounds like an as*hole then I wouldn't be listening.
Them old freelancers are good for the short time long time but forget the extra extra long time you're paying for depreciating asset....
It may not feel like it, but you ended up the winner here.
The rich dude is going to find his dream girl is no more loyal to him than she was to you. She probably already has or will have a Thai husband/boyfriend/ _gik_ (F-buddy) on the side. Most certainly she will bail on her new falang hubby if a better offer comes along.
You learned a painful lesson, but you're wiser now and the other guy's troubles are just starting.
Society.... Tells the man "do the right thing", tells the woman " take care of yourself". Its time we get into the mindset of taking care of ourselves! Dont worry bro, your human like the rest of us, but i believe you wont repeat that situation again.
Good you share that,is helping to keep people safe….👍👏
That wasn't her brother, it was her husband!
Clearly didn't do his reading/homework on the subject of Bar Girls and Freelancers.
Nice to hear is honesty as a reminder/warning.
The guy needs to move on, get a job, build up funds and go back to Thailand with the knowledge from his experience.
U had me until you said "he needs to go back to Thailand"
Exactly. @@abcdjkx
5k a day is absolutely mental
That was his first mistake 😅😅
thats in baht. Its equivalent to 130 USD per day. That's still alot for a thai considering they make less than 10 per day
@@kadekeqw23 l know a girl in pattaya who got 6000 blat a day from customer no boom boom
Ouch .. Thank you for sharing.
I feel you brother. I just went through something like your story. I knew better to have feelings but sometimes we can’t control our feelings. It still hurts and it will take some time for me to recover.
I can promise you one thing. Her relationship with the other will not last. These girl lack the intelligence to appreciate the opportunity they have. Also the guy will either run of money or get tired of getting bleed to dry. Do yourself and the other guy a favor and tell him everything that has happen so that he knows what he’s getting into.
I like the last sentence "Leave that heart at the airport and pick it up on your way back home"...this is the cardinal principle for those going to Thai-Girl-Land.
I guess also in the west leave your heart at home before going out 555
Trust me, It could have been worse. She won't stay with the other person, she will bleed him dry and move on. Chances are, he is going to wind up poorer than you. You're the lucky one.
Great content, bro. Keep up
If you meet a girl and you are a customer from the beginning, that's exactly what she will always see you for.
Thank you for sharing your story, another lesson for everybody who think they can make an honest, honorable woman out of a freelancer, or a bar girl, no one can make them to be a different person than what they really are. This type of girls should be.FOR FUN ONLY. Would you fall in love with a prostitute in the UK, I think all of us know the answer of this question, and the same goes to any other country in the world. And to be honest, every now and then we hear about a success story with a working girl and a European man however, this is an extreme exception and the chances are that such a relationship will end in a heartache, and sometimes empty bank account, and the odds are stacked against a success story, who in earth will take such a gamble and expose themselves to traumatic experience. Time will heal your wounds, the vast majority of men have been through similar situation, like yours, the few who haven’t experienced such a situation, are those ones who are not dating enough women. One of these days you will find the right woman. God Bless.
This guy should be thrilled that things ended the way they did. She's some other guy's problem now.
WOW YOU WAS GIVING HER $ 137 USD A DAY YOUR OUT OF YOUR MIND
That was the first mistake 😅😅
@@jakesully3019yep. She got used to it very fast. He had set the expectations with her way too high. And they would only go up, not down.
Everyone has their price😂
So what's the going rate these days?
This is why the prices in Thailand have shot up. Some say inflation lol.
prime example of why guys join the pattaya flying club...
From the first time I came to Thailand about 45 years ago, I never kept a woman that "demanded" money from me and also I chose women that were not looking like super models. More those who were in my league. Never lost any money on a woman. The contrary, they often helped me save money and if one was asking too soon too much, I ended the "relation".
yeah supermodel is not really my thing. Just model is ok.
A prudent man forseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished.
We've all done stupid things, especially as men with beautiful women. Asian girls are the finest in the world, so don't give up, and next time, go about your searching in a different method. Good luck. I found my Vietnamese wife, and we are very happy.
The guy walked right into it got burned by the fire in front of him.
I have learnt alot from these kind of stories. I lived in Thailnad for three years however was never into the bar girl scene due to the work I was doing but plan on going back soon and more free this time so plan to visit bars more often. All this knowlege from these stories will be useful in decision making.
Thank you for this video. Very true and honest. Congratulation
Rule #1: Do NOT fall in love in Thailand.
Well you can, you just have to be careful. I am 26 and I live in Bangkok now for 5 years and I am with a Thai Girl for 3 years now. I have 5 Rules that I follow and I think it’s the best way.
1. No Girls from Isaan, they are all just looking for guys Who have money to support her and her family, the behavior of that woman was from an typical Isaan girl, I am willing to bet she is also from Isaan.
2. No Girl wo works in the Entertainment industry and obviously no Sex workers or Bar girls (Entertainment Industrie and Sex Industrie goes hand in hand in Thailand in most cases)
3. Don’t date women who are unemployed, in most cases she is either a freelancer on the side or she got some sponsors Or sugar daddy’s who are paying for her lifestyle.
4. Only date woman with normal jobs, they have the least likelihood to be involved in some shady things.
5. Look for Red flags in the beginning, for example if she follows some random Foreigners an Instagram or Facebook, does she have a second phone, is she lying about her age, does she out of nowhere stop answering your messages or phone calls for no reason for a longer period of time. All those examples are massive red flags.
You can go into Thailand armed with all the knowledge of what not to do, but these women really have a way of making you feel special or desired. We should be better to look out for these situations but when you're swept up with the feelings, that logic goes out the window. Its a career for some of these women and they are very good at stringing you along. If you had stayed with her, her and her family would have bled you dry and then you would have been moved over for another man. We all need to learn lessons, I learned mine.
Rule of thumb in Thailand; never fall in love with a bar girl or freelancer, you are just an ATM to them.
Thanks for sharing a tough story. I hope you find someone good one day
I treat Pattaya like a video game. My mission when I get there is to pick up as many girls as I can without having to pay them. I only try to buy drinks for them.
That’s impossible until you prove otherwise. Every girl has a price in Pattaya, more than just drinks. I don’t believe you.
I met a Thai woman and fell for her & carried on talking to her for the next 6 months but the minute she said she wanted 30K a month she got dumped quicker than a bad smell I int no simp
you are their meal ticket. Of course, they were pushy for you to get married.
😮Stick with the 2 day rule. Avoid most issues.
Once they get those handbags.... its a drug they never give up
thanks for sharing that,you went all in.apart from quitting your job ,and having a great time, dosen't sound like you lost alot of money to her.
Sometimes men cannot get enough of these stories to pound them through their big head because they're thinking with their small one.
I think this guy needs to get off his high horse and think from her POV.
He doesn't have money and no way to support her, why should she be with him? He says she was just scraping by, so why won't she be choosing a rich guy?
He's assuming she's as naive as he is, but she's a rational thinking working girl, choosing best for her future as anyone would.
Sounds like you have a story to tell.
How was she scraping bye with all the customers she had. Probably has more money than u and me together. .on big money these freelancers I no one making 3 million bhatt a year. Profit .Still she pleads poor and poverty.
Big money or big love ❤️ Big money always wins. Money
Is always no 1.
Her priorities are looking after her son. Women have to be more rational and practical bc they have more at stake.
Remember fellas pick your women wisely
not easy to find a Diamond - not one women well mostly western worked - 10 years was my longest - Thai women are Beautiful and fun - a lot of us guys live Miserable lives in the west especially when much older
Real girl, real love is no need pay out anything, the real love is man and girl two above grow up together made a well love quality in life😄👍
Soulmate of the Thai woman is money.
So, never forget it, if you intend to fall in love in Thailand.
They play perfect loving role, if man take it serious, that would end up with lot of financial loss. Be aware not to get exploited by a gold digger.
But what more necessary is, British people must save their homeland from Pakistanis.
Well that comment took a turn.
no ones laughing at you we have all been there 👍
Another one bites the dust!
In Thailand.. no money no honey.. people believe what they want to believe.
I had one spamming me daily, when she dropped the it’s my birthday she got blocked. Don’t fall for the snakes. Find a girl who’s working a normal job
Haha I speak with many to try and line a few up for when I go to Thailand (I have no intention of any relationship) I’ve had the old can’t pay my rent by a couple, I’ve had got no money for food off a couple aswell. Soon as they ask for money I stop all communication. You imagine if they are messaging 30 guys and 10 give them money , that is a fair bit of money. I look out for the ones who regularly visit temples and work full time.
Ha ha. Mine told me she’d lost her phone. Wanted 30k for a new iphone to replace it! Goodbye! 😂
@@mathewbarker9887 I agree with what you say, but visiting temples is not actually a guarantee that the girl is not a working girl. I spent a few days with a gogo dancer. I cut it off because of course I felt feelings developing. She was 42 years old, but super attractive said she worked as a hotel supervisor for 14 years and only recently became a gogo dancer. I have no way of knowing that if this is true. Well right after I left her, she went to the temple for four days and sent me a bunch of pictures with her dressed and white at the temple. So go go dancers, go to the temple as well.
Good story. I really feel bad for this guy. He seems like a very nice guy. Even with the way she treated him, he is not bitter or angry at her. I wish this guy the best.
Once again…..it’s ALL about the money! The money! The money! 💵💵💵💰💰💰💰💰💰
So many naive guys out there that allow these pretty girls to get a tight hold on them for the reason of getting money. Playing their games. Mind games. It’s always about going after the “bigger fish!”
Too many guys fall victim to this kind of scam. Game. Think with your brain! Think. Think. Don’t think with your heart. Too dangerous to do so. Use your brain first!
Poor guy literally spent 6 flights on her and gave up his job for 3 months with her 🤦🏻♂️ devastating!
I hope everyone can learn the lesson
Real easy litmus test...
Would the girl give you the time of day back "home" let alone what to "be with you"???
If NO is the answer...
Remember that is the reality.
I met my ex in Phuket she didn’t have a job but she had lots of money… 🚩 after being together for 1 month she said that she want to go back to her home she was originally from Pattaya 🚩 at this time I had no idea what does it mean. She asked me for monthly salary. We’ve been together 2 years. Guys I never met someone so toxic, Lier and cheater in my life. Everyday drama was just crazy. Be careful guys.
You're still with her ?
@@Milkyway109 no after one year with her a loooooot of shit came out. I loved her but I just lost all respect and the amount of drama was just ridiculous. I came out of this relationship with a lot of mental problems.
@@Milkyway109 it was very very difficult because you see this beautiful caring woman on the beginning but in time day by day her true colours coming out. I’ve been in Thailand 5 years and what happened to me and how many stories I heard I still can’t believe that it’s really happening here in this country.
you were one of her Sponsors - lucky you realised?
@@marksallai2289 yes probably. I literally became private investigator at the end of this relationship it was mental.
Its no money no honey in thailand
No money no honey….. money almost always wins….
What I don’t get is, there are countless horror stories about dating/wifing up bar girls and freelancers. Thinking they love the guy/will go pure and give up what they’re doing. It’s rare for a relationship with these girls to work out. Guys still date or wife them up, do they not read or hear the horror stories?
their girl is different hehehehe
A guy that pays 200,000 bht for a freelancer isn't competition bro that's a simp.
At the end of the day you and her new man are just customers
But why go with freelancers? Thailand is known for friendly people so if you find a good women and spend some time you don't have to pay and get scammed!
Could have been worse. Now she's someone else's problem. You learned a tough lesson while saving a lot of your future income.
No gain without pain .. you got off lightly mate there's thousands more !!
Who care your feeling when you don’t have money in these kinds of girls..
Yo, how embarrassing. He should have cut things off after discovering text messages w/ a seemingly richer man. Second, a "freelancer"......
Yes, it is brutal out there. Good wishes 2U
Lord have mercy what a money pit trap that was. Thats a hard pass freelancer or not.
As they say in Thailand - No money no honey. Not trying to be rude, but you have no money and you were out of your depth. To live with her for 3 months and allow her to go and freelance is wild.
they say the same crap all over the world just in different languages , no money no nothing
Freelancers are the same
Too many soft guys out there. Naive. Taken for a ride.
To the bro who was scammed. Clearly she had narcissistic tendencies...... her taste in clothes and incessant spending and wanting to be the centre of attraction with all those guys . To top it all off those horrendous lies, all cleverly constructed and delivered with so much conviction.
There are heaps of videos on narcissism here on YT. I strongly suggest you watch them, as many as you can. It will then make sense, what you experienced.
Ahh.. shit. Sorry you had to learn the hard way my friend. Money # 1 in Thailand or didn't you get the memo. Tell you what, your not alone and others will follow. Rack it up to experience and crack on. 9s and 10s go to the highest bidders so go find a good 7 or 8 and be happy but that being said, even those girls will step out on you if given the opportunity. Always, always realize your plan B or C to these girls. I love and care about you and God Bless you dodged a bullet.
This is true! I read that being broke there is seen as worse than anything else. This is why there are so many freelancers in plain sight and people don't mind.
You need to learn to evaluate a girls character, moral and vices before you let yourself fall in love. Not after. This is especially true in Asia where an innocent look says nothing about her personality. You also need to learn to know when to let go, wich is a lot sooner than what you did in this story. Hopefully you have learned from this story and set some absolute boundaries for yourself or you will repeat this mistake over and over again.
There’s no way I’d stay with any girl that goes out on me. She’s no good!
Damn....this is a tough one
I can't complain. There wouldn't be any entertaining Thailand stories if guys are too clever to fall for the bargirls and freelancers.
I can’t believe what I’m hearing here she’s out to rinse you and any other man she can get over her and move on
Certainly nothing to laugh at mate,sad,familiar story ,money is the main issue for everything here, the only solace for you is you found out what she is about & now you're out of it
Let's see how long it will be before the next guy submits his story.
I think this man was lucky he found out sooner rather than later. Can you imagine how much worse it would have been if he had fallen into a longer term relationship with children. He wouldn't be talking about a broken heart but a broken life. I think he dodged a bullet.
I been with my PHILIPINA for 2 years and only give her $ 36 usd
paid her 5000 baht a day that's 141.66 USD a day...wtf
Before I start - Nice ass at 7:12.
Anyone with a good amount of experience in Thailand has probably slipped up with a sweet girl or 2 to some point so I can't blame you for that & it is never funny to be hurt like that.
Maybe her extravagant spending & the families money demands should have frightened you off.
It was certainly a good lesson for you & hopefully you will be a bit more careful in future.
On the other side of the coin, you should have seen the light when the rich dude showed up & spent your last week in the bars, sampling other delights.
Cheers
Its always the money that has the final say.. its painful and hard to accept, but thats just it.. to majority.
It’s a business. Enjoy your vacation . Read “my name is Lon , do you like me ?” Story of an isarn bar girl that gives insight.
Truly wishful thinking , buddy..
They will ALWAYS follow the money.
Good job experience can happen n life but we know what is going on always..God bless life n happened.
Please,can you explain what means freelance girl?I don’t know this meaning…thank you…
It's a girl that works on the street or finds clients in the internet. She is not employed in a bar.
Independent working girl, no pimps in between.
Prostitutes, well maybe not but they like flowers but you don't know what flowers they like so you give them money so they can pick out what flowers they want.
She is free , her own boss doing her own business .
@@hanotify I like your definition....🤣🤣🤣
It’s all good homie. We all get played by a woman at some point in our lives. Live and learn player.
You are so lucky guy 😅
BARGRIL OR FREELANCER YOU HAVE GOOD AND BAD SADLY ENOUGH MORE WHO PREFER TO LOVE THE MONEY INSTEAD OF THE PERSON I AM ALREADY 25 AND HAPPILY MARRIED WITH A BAR GIRLFRIEND BUT I KNOW OTHER CASES
"It seems that they are currently happy together and taking the next step in their relationship,"
until...of course...the next guy comes along...which should be in 3-2-1...
what's a freelancer
A freelancer is a girl who will have sex with you for money. They are not called bar girls because they do not work for a bar. You may meet them at certain bars that allow freelancers. Essentially a freelancer is just another word for a prostitute in Thailand freelancers could be full-time meaning this is all that they do or they could be part-time meaning they work in a coffee shop And just do occasional freelancing on the side to supplement their income.
This story is common in Thailand.
Narrow escape, there is always someone with a bigger carrot to dangle
Come on -- Every woman different ..some bad some good -. and if you know about culture there are infact many good girls that both have been freelancers and so on ... About support. This what you may have to pay to have a -stunner - --- but most important . be realitistic.. Are you compatible.. ? If you are much older, or look not so good, but if you have a lot of money -yes there could be a possible rip-off -- but most situations its all about communication and common sense with your "woman" . If you are in relation . support money every month is expected.. 15-30 000 is common. And one more thing -- if you know the principles about GATHAN YA -- there could be an upside there... My best friend helped a thai woman 6 years ago , bailing about gold from pawn shop. They still are happily together..
They guy engaged to her is a sucker. He will regret it one day.
These types of women have a great lack of empathy. In my opinion, these are women who have a narcissistic personality disorder. With this woman, her love was never real. If love is real, then all problems can be solved. She wanted to get married very quickly. It could bring her a better future. She can work in the UK. And bring her earned money to her family. They will be out of financial trouble in no time. These are women who are looking for easy money. And if you no longer meet the requirements. because you have to go back to the UK. Then they take the next victim. Everything they do is based on quicksand. But no security and no future. Be glad that you are freed from this fraud. I think you have seen enough red flags. Next time it will be better because you have learned a lot. Do not believe in beautiful words. Do not fall in love too quickly. Let them first prove that their heart is just as beautiful as yours. It can only become serious if they really do not want to lose you. A good woman who lives without social media is my preference. With many contacts, you never have them for yourself. You were simply next in line to be the victim.
Brutal