All thai women that i know they all send money home. If your wife or girlfriend work and support their family without asking you money she is a very good girl.
He did the worst two things you can possibly do. #1: Visiting her village. JUST NEVER DO THAT. #2: Bringing her back to your homecountry. JUST NEVER DO THAT.
I once saw a list of priorities for Thai women and the farang partner is at number 10😅😅 1. Money 2. Parents 3. Bling,etc 4. Extended family, etc Know this and you won't get caught out.
The difference is that in the west, in most cases it is not the womans intention from the START to rip a guy off. It ends up that way when bitterness andvrevenge kicks in.
I don't think it was all planned out by her from the beginning. A relationship can just naturally develop in this direction if the man spoilts the woman too much. By being so generous with money one basically displays himself as an ATM and eventually gets treated that way. It's almost as if the guy presentet her the opportunity to take advantage of him and she just took it. The problem is the huge wealth gap between the two and that she was still very young. When you want to start a relationship with a poor young girl then it's pretty obvious that you will have to finance her life. That makes the relationsship very transactional but real love can't be bought. The guy had some nice years with a young beautiful girl and paid a bit too much. Maybe next time don't go for a young poor girl... maybe someone more on your level, someone who earns their own money....
The ethiopian ex wife of my brother did similar things, only much worse. She even willingly put his and her childeren in a mortally dangerous situation to force him to send all his money.
Men, protect yourself at all times and against everyone with tools like a done-right prenup. It may sound paranoid but that is what it takes if your goal is to win or preserve your wealth. Relationships everywhere are too transactional; real love is a unicorn.
Hopefully more foreigners would view this and understand that there is a different mindset in the impoverished far east. Watch and learn gents. Thanks to the channel and regrets to the poor fella with the story.
I've been there done that ! The first time I caught her cheating, I filed for divorce. I eventually found a nice Japanese girl married for 13 years, great kids, etc. Then, my dumb move, I divorced her. Now I'm 60 and still like to have company when I'm in Asaia. Although my reality is intact. I only pay to play no girlfriends, no live-ins, no wives ! Once you know the score and know, "You're not all that." You will have fun and be okay !
Not all but many women world wide follow this..... Men are in love, Women are in business. Understand this and your life will be much happier when you know the game.
Imagine such a culture, pushing their girls to go out, do whatever they can. Be a bar-girl, a free lancer or get involved with a ( rich) foreigner. The bottom line ( bring money to the family.)
Asian mindset vs Western mindset. Two different worlds, two different ways of seeing life. She was two steps ahead right from the beginning and she will be the same for her entire life.
@@droman608 True for the items listed in the pre-nup. But alimony will be pushed if she can prove her income is not supporting the lifestyle she is used too. That is what the lawyer told me when he made my pre-nup. Each State may have different rules. Take care all.
Wow, Exactly the same as my story marrying a non bargirl Thai lady. I thought I found the unicorn. Brought her to the U.S. spent a year doing all the paper work, got her U.S. citizen. When that passport came ,she went online ,met a guy in Boston, and ran away to him. Leaving me in bankrupcy and broke.
For once, I'm not quick to blame this gentleman, since his wife isn't the usual bar girl or freelancer. Only, he should have divorced her when he found out his wife was cuckolding him. Yes, I can accept also that he financed his wife's studies, but I wouldn't send money every month to my in-laws!
I'm guessing this guy lives in California or some other "no fault divorce" state? Otherwise, I would think her past infidelities and other issues would have at least some effect on the outcome. Then again, divorce courts don't tend to favor men. Either way, freakin' ouch, man.
Oh boy ... Seems she had a 9 year education in American culture and it sounds like she got westernized and did the same to you as any other American woman would ... Not so sure being Thai was the cause here .... but I am outside looking in so what do I know I guess ...
Number one
Never never marry
My dad always told me that
never marry a overseas foreigners
Number 2 always follow number 1!!
All thai women that i know they all send money home. If your wife or girlfriend work and support their family without asking you money she is a very good girl.
He did the worst two things you can possibly do.
#1: Visiting her village. JUST NEVER DO THAT.
#2: Bringing her back to your homecountry. JUST NEVER DO THAT.
I once saw a list of priorities for Thai women and the farang partner is at number 10😅😅
1. Money 2. Parents 3. Bling,etc 4. Extended family, etc
Know this and you won't get caught out.
Sounds like a regular western marriage…good at first then turns sour and the woman gets half or more. Ask me how I know 😢
What happened to you?🤔
ALWAYS, like ALWAYS make a prenup. Failing to make a prenup is really just asking for future trouble
The difference is that in the west, in most cases it is not the womans intention from the START to rip a guy off. It ends up that way when bitterness andvrevenge kicks in.
I know as well.....sucks
@skin
Hard to guess....
Thanks for sharing. I hope all works out!
Sad story 😢 hopefully one day you can find the Good one sir,
I don't think it was all planned out by her from the beginning. A relationship can just naturally develop in this direction if the man spoilts the woman too much. By being so generous with money one basically displays himself as an ATM and eventually gets treated that way. It's almost as if the guy presentet her the opportunity to take advantage of him and she just took it. The problem is the huge wealth gap between the two and that she was still very young. When you want to start a relationship with a poor young girl then it's pretty obvious that you will have to finance her life. That makes the relationsship very transactional but real love can't be bought. The guy had some nice years with a young beautiful girl and paid a bit too much. Maybe next time don't go for a young poor girl... maybe someone more on your level, someone who earns their own money....
The ethiopian ex wife of my brother did similar things, only much worse.
She even willingly put his and her childeren in a mortally dangerous situation to force him to send all his money.
I had the same experience with my now ex Philippine wife.
MY ex wife had a bad gambling addiction.
Too many red flags(even from the beginning)🤦♂️
Men, protect yourself at all times and against everyone with tools like a done-right prenup. It may sound paranoid but that is what it takes if your goal is to win or preserve your wealth. Relationships everywhere are too transactional; real love is a unicorn.
Won't be surprising if feelings were real at least in the beginning - but once it got stale the poor guy simply got disgarded.
Sad to listen to this story. Wish him all the best.
Hopefully more foreigners would view this and understand that there is a different mindset in the impoverished far east. Watch and learn gents. Thanks to the channel and regrets to the poor fella with the story.
I've been there done that ! The first time I caught her cheating, I filed for divorce. I eventually found a nice Japanese girl married for 13 years, great kids, etc. Then, my dumb move, I divorced her. Now I'm 60 and still like to have company when I'm in Asaia. Although my reality is intact. I only pay to play no girlfriends, no live-ins, no wives ! Once you know the score and know, "You're not all that." You will have fun and be okay !
Not all but many women world wide follow this..... Men are in love, Women are in business. Understand this and your life will be much happier when you know the game.
Such a weird sh*t using their daughter as an intermediary for extracting money from her husband!
Imagine such a culture, pushing their girls to go out, do whatever they can. Be a bar-girl, a free lancer or get involved with a ( rich) foreigner. The bottom line ( bring money to the family.)
@@muhamedhabeeb791 Grand master of it all...Chris Jenner n daughter Kim Kardashian
Asian mindset vs Western mindset. Two different worlds, two different ways of seeing life. She was two steps ahead right from the beginning and she will be the same for her entire life.
The old wedding costs scam, they see weddings, funerals and monk ordinations as money making opportunities.
I’m lucky that mine will stand up to her family. probably helps that we had kids together. Probably would be different different if not.
These stories are interesting, informative and depressing.
Call me old fashioned but what happened to hit it and quit it when abroad
😂 Amen brother.
Why should they get half of something they did nothing to help earn? 😠
divorce in america is brutal for men
Marriage laws. These can be mitigated by pre nuptial agreement.
It’s another way the CULT GOVERNMENT SCREWS PEOPLE
Exactly ,and if they won't sign you know its time to go look for something better😊@@droman608
@@droman608 True for the items listed in the pre-nup. But alimony will be pushed if she can prove her income is not supporting the lifestyle she is used too. That is what the lawyer told me when he made my pre-nup. Each State may have different rules. Take care all.
Wow, Exactly the same as my story marrying a non bargirl Thai lady. I thought I found the unicorn. Brought her to the U.S. spent a year doing all the paper work, got her U.S. citizen. When that passport came ,she went online ,met a guy in Boston, and ran away to him. Leaving me in bankrupcy and broke.
the pink makes you blind 😵💫
Thai women are the best housekeepers in the world, you buy the house they keep it 😂😂
For once, I'm not quick to blame this gentleman, since his wife isn't the usual bar girl or freelancer.
Only, he should have divorced her when he found out his wife was cuckolding him.
Yes, I can accept also that he financed his wife's studies, but I wouldn't send money every month to my in-laws!
I would say it also has a lot to do with age
I'm guessing this guy lives in California or some other "no fault divorce" state? Otherwise, I would think her past infidelities and other issues would have at least some effect on the outcome. Then again, divorce courts don't tend to favor men.
Either way, freakin' ouch, man.
Oh boy ... Seems she had a 9 year education in American culture and it sounds like she got westernized and did the same to you as any other American woman would ... Not so sure being Thai was the cause here .... but I am outside looking in so what do I know I guess ...
Soft heart and not seeing the red flags lead to empty pouches take care and God bless
She was not a good buddhist 😢
Very few of them are