weekend in my life: unlucky morning, addressing some things + BALANCE

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  • @kathleencoppage670
    @kathleencoppage670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Clancy, your wedding is YOUR wedding. YOU are paying for it and it’s YOUR day, forget what anyone else thinks. Even if you didn’t want bridesmaids because you want to be the center of attention you are so justified in that because that day is all about you and Zac 💓 can’t wait for your happy ever after

  • @em71988
    @em71988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    It makes me so sad knowing that people are leaving you hate when you are just the sweetest person ever. If you don’t want bridesmaids don’t have bridesmaids. Everyone is entitled to do what they want. Thanks for including us in your life again this week! I can’t wait until the next one!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aww thank you for this sweet comment! I’m so lucky to have amazing viewers like you!!! 🥰

  • @user-vg9gp7dy7l
    @user-vg9gp7dy7l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    There is nothing wrong with no bridesmaids 😵‍💫 your wedding is your wedding and you guys do what makes you happy!!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My motto! Haha

    • @neip2023
      @neip2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn’t have bridesmaids either, just my maid of honor and it was bliss 😌

    • @xingfuthecorgi1004
      @xingfuthecorgi1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually I was under a lot of pressure w the bridesmaid thing too, and because of your video Clancy, I’ve decided to follow you and not have bridesmaid! So thank you, Clancy!

  • @carmenmaciel1958
    @carmenmaciel1958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I love how close you are to Neil, even in his stubborn weirdo ways. Also Neil and zacks friendship is adorable. Now I’m going to watch the drama 😄

  • @kchristine7064
    @kchristine7064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I think the bridesmaids decision is so smart. I wish more people would do this!

    • @katherinekrueger1908
      @katherinekrueger1908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I had no bridesmaids in my wedding and I don’t regret it one bit!

  • @meghanmagee7764
    @meghanmagee7764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i'm impressed by how you apologize without getting defensive, clancy! taking responsibility for the impact even if it wasn't your intention. rare these days!

  • @kmoy
    @kmoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Matt is a savior!! He’s so nice for helping you with your spare tire. Glad you were safe.

  • @terrilamb5312
    @terrilamb5312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I run an overdose response team and re-entry program as someone who is in long term recovery... With that said... "Triggers" and/or "being offended" comes up more often than any other niche in this world, naturally. In the community, many of us have come to the conclusion that if someone is triggered or is offended over a completely unexpected issue, that is not on us.. they are most likely looking for something to be triggered and/or offended by. It is not appropriate, nor do we have the time to explain every little thing we say & do. For example: Clancy's intentions were, and are very clear during that statement. It is our personal responsibility, while taking all of her other video's into context, that she simply did not mean any harm or disrespect on the topic she was speaking on. It is literally impossible to speak on MANY topics without offending someone, and, it is an impossible expectation to think someone will give every bit of context, lived experience, and further explanation any time they speak on a certain topic... ALL this does is cause influential people to avoid ANY topic that could potentially offend someone, if a full 20 min. opinion isn't given... And that doesn't give any topic the awareness it deserves... Just my opinion on something I deal with wayyy too often.

  • @Titus2Chic
    @Titus2Chic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oh my goodness, people are so insecure that they have to project those insecurities onto others. Your wedding, your way ... and you were very clear on your reasoning, which made a heck of a lot of sense! Good for you, for choosing to have the wedding YOU want and not the wedding random people expect you to have.

  • @joycarroll7545
    @joycarroll7545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sometimes we just need to have someone be there for us...on the phone or in person. Glad you have guys in your life that you can count on. Happpy you are ok!

  • @SuperLovelyLou
    @SuperLovelyLou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I respect you for clearing up comments. Everyone makes mistakes and we all say the wrong thing at times. I think your viewers know you are a genuinely nice person and I enjoy your videos each week

  • @alaynastoltzfus2823
    @alaynastoltzfus2823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’ve been watching your videos for a couple of years now and you’ve helped me get through quarantine, changes at home, and the craziness of highschool! So I just wanted to say thank you so much for your amazing personality and creating this wonderful channel!! I always look forward to your new videos!! 🥰🥰

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww!! This just made my day!! Thank you!💞💞

  • @morgan7005
    @morgan7005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m obsessed with ur videos like I cannot!!! they’re just so fun & interesting to watch!!

  • @torihansford3774
    @torihansford3774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is the only reason I'm getting up to clean my kitchen because I can watch it while I clean. So thank you lol

  • @AydenYoung
    @AydenYoung 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could watch you for hours! Always so sad when the closing song plays! See you next Saturday.

  • @raelynn84
    @raelynn84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sorry I’m so late but I’m a opening manager at Starbucks and work at 5am. I’m sorry but I don’t understand how anyone could think so poorly about things you say. You’re the kindest and sweetest person on TH-cam. I love these 30 min vlogs.

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️

  • @Fbaker04330
    @Fbaker04330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    From the bottom of my heart, I am so sorry people got upset about your decision to not have bridesmaids. To be blunt, it's none of their business. To many people think the traditional wedding should be the only wedding you should have. It's Zac and your wedding. If you want to go in summer shorts and flip-flops, go for it!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!! (Don’t tell zac about the summer shorts and flip-flops thing - he might really do it 😂)

  • @PeaPie74
    @PeaPie74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That day IS all about you. Do what you want to do. While I was watching today, I thought to myself, “Dang, they are going to have the most adorable little blue eyed babies!” Can’t wait!🤗

  • @marytownsend6239
    @marytownsend6239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwww Clancy I'm old enough to be your mom and I love your videos. I don't understand the hate comments because you always are so sweet. People shouldn't watch just to pick apart your videos! You're a kind, hardworking woman. And please do your and Zac's wedding the way you two want to ❤️

  • @erikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @erikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I made the same decision about not having bridesmaids for my wedding last year and I was pretty upfront that it WAS about me having the day be all about me and my husband, and I wasn't ashamed of it! Not that I need to be the center of attention, but it was SO nice to only need to worry about myself, my husband and our immediate families all day. Not to mention how much money/stress/time it saved. Your wedding is going to be amazing!

  • @meaganmccullah8882
    @meaganmccullah8882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I eloped and it was fantastic. No one was invited. I paid for it. It was the best day. You do you unapologetically ♥️

  • @mars2100
    @mars2100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do what you want,its your and Zac's day, its what makes you happy.

  • @nancyhope-landon9185
    @nancyhope-landon9185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If I had to do the wedding thing over again I would have probably gone to the courthouse. Weddings are so stressful and expensive. Who do you invite? Who will be mad they weren't invited? Etc etc. I think not having bridesmaids is a great idea as it is one thing you don't need to worry about. You do you and who cares what others say/think. You do you!!

  • @dsybarrios
    @dsybarrios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got married over the height of the pandemic and my husband and I had one of my sisters and his brother as our witnesses as we were limited in the amount of people in the room with us. If we had the chance to do the full wedding, I always said no bridesmaids or just my 2 sisters because its almost impossible to choose people without someone else being offended and there are so many extra costs. You can still have a kick ass Bachelorette party and invite as many of your friends as you'd like IF thats what YOU want. Your wedding is your wedding and will be special just the way you want it!

  • @lisabeatty7778
    @lisabeatty7778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sweet Clancy you have no need to apologize for your comments on cooking cleaning! I was a stay at home mom for 26 years and was not offended by it at all! I was completely agreeing with you! I now work full time and never cook or barely clean 😄

  • @johnsaxongitno4life588
    @johnsaxongitno4life588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Clancy I am really really sorry about missing your last few videos due to my mental health issues but I am glad that I am back being able to watch your videos please stay safe and strong and prayers and thoughts to you both love your Australia fan John xxx

  • @chloejones4168
    @chloejones4168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Clancy, my cousin had a wedding 2 ish years ago. she had no brides maids and no groomsman. it was a simple wedding and it was just perfect for them. and to be honest i dont think many people realized just because the whole ceremony was beautiful. she went to a big college and was in a ton of her friends weddings. having to pay for all her own dresses/makeup/hair each time, it added up. she wanted less stress for her wedding and it was perfect. i doubt i will have any bridesmaids at my wedding because i had her as an example and saw how perfect it turned out!

  • @tinajauncey338
    @tinajauncey338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your day is about only two things you and Zac nothing else. Much love keep up the great work

  • @laurenverde3077
    @laurenverde3077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your videos Clancy! You are so bright, positive, and humble!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!! 🥺❤️

  • @independentx0x0
    @independentx0x0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had no bridesmaids when I got married, I mean it was a pandemic wedding but still, I'm glad I didn't have to deal with the dresses and also the stress! Remeber it's your wedding you have to enjoy it, so many brides spend that day try to please guests and you miss out on so much, do what you want.

  • @sheripride428
    @sheripride428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like the people who commented about the working women, haven’t watched your vids before. I don’t even remember that and when I saw it, I didn’t think anything b/c you are the nicest, kind hearted person♥️

  • @emmaab6143
    @emmaab6143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Clancy, concerning the nail polish chipping easily, I recommend Holo Taco's top coat. Cristine (another youtuber) launched her nail polish company years ago and everyone swears by the quality of her products, especially her top coat (there's even a matte version which turns any nail polish you put on into a matte shade).

  • @ph2209
    @ph2209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Girl when Zach (sp?) comes back you need him to teach you how to change a tire. ALL driving women need to know how to do this. You never know when you will be all alone, no cell service/phone and you’ll wish you were prepared. It’s not hard promise

    • @jaimec3159
      @jaimec3159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dad made me learn before I could drive anywhere!! 100%

  • @electricpenguin32
    @electricpenguin32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with you about cheating. I think someone could grow and change with time/age, in a new relationship. But once someone cheats, that current relationship is done forever in my opinion.

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That trust is forever compromised.

  • @thexxit
    @thexxit 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually got what you meant in the last video, but I'm very glad you came out and said you're sorry for misspeaking and clarifying. It does happen on here and in real life when we misspeak but I think it's good when we admit it and correct ourselves. Another thing is that I have great admiration for single mothers/parents who work and take care of the house.

  • @sherij7330
    @sherij7330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's your wedding! You do what makes you happy:) You have perfect hair, I wouldn't mess with adding color. Once you start, it never feels the same. Have a great weekend:)

  • @Lalaaloves
    @Lalaaloves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I work full time and still do clean and cook take care of my kiddos but I love my family so I love it! My husband helps a lot too

  • @elizabethcheung6207
    @elizabethcheung6207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My favorite youtuber Clancy 💓 is on, Yayyyyy! As always thank you for sharing your Vlogs Clancy.

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you for always tuning in! 🥰

  • @jessicameyer3875
    @jessicameyer3875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy Saturday 😊 Glad Matt wad able to come to the rescue 😀 Sorry you got some critical comments anyone who had watched for any period of time knows you heart and you true intentions with all your vlogs 😊 glad you had a great weekend 😊 hope your week is great 👍 thanks as always for Saturday smiles look forward to your vlogs each weekend❤️

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! 💞💞

  • @sunfairy_19
    @sunfairy_19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm happy to see you happy!! I want to be more active and you have inspired me to get outdoors to exercise. Also, I think we all have said things with good intentions/no ill will that were taken the wrong way. The way you handle criticism shows the strength of your character. I hope you had a good week! ☺️

  • @kahinaben3782
    @kahinaben3782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Clancy, for the nail polish chipping I guess it’s because you get it on the cuticules, and when showering it gets off and the water gets between the nail and the polish. Maybe as a solution don’t go till cuticules or push them with a wood tool ? I don’t know thought it would help, saw this tip years ago on a TH-cam channel so not sure if someone tried it before or not. Have an amazing Saturday

  • @chooseyourthoughts7692
    @chooseyourthoughts7692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Clancy! Your Saturday vlogs make my day!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww yay that makes me happy! Thanks for watching!🥰

  • @mariaasmrr
    @mariaasmrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i’ve always had the idea for myself when i get married it’s going to be very chill, no bridesmaids, no venue probably just a backyard or park, good drinks and food though of course, and a kickass vacation afterwards cause the real celebration is about you & your partner, not everyone else

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sounds PERFECT!!!!!

    • @k.c.8872
      @k.c.8872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want very laid back wedding and a huge cook out afterwards. People spend entirely to much $$ on weddings I rather save the $$ for the honeymoon.

  • @daniellechambers6858
    @daniellechambers6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clancy, thanks for apologizing for the comment about women not working. It shows a lot about your character for you to apologize and set the record straight!
    As for the bridesmaids situation, I think it says a lot about the selfishness of the person who messages you thinking they are entitled to a say in YOUR wedding - they’re the ones who are wrong. It’s YOUR wedding! Cheering you on to have freedom to plan your perfect day the way you and Zac want! 🙂

  • @KizandSis
    @KizandSis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Clancy your hair is so shiny!!!! Thank you for giving us your products. Also, your lipstick is just gorgeous!! Have the wedding that is good for you!! Everyone always wants to give their opinion even if it isn't wanted!! You do you!! xo Gina S

  • @jamieelizabeth2185
    @jamieelizabeth2185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I didn’t realize how important facial sunscreen is until I was in my 30’s but now I use it under my makeup everyday. I already have wrinkles but I tell myself it will prevent MORE lol

  • @meaghanbell5393
    @meaghanbell5393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have no idea why anyone would be upset about you not having bridesmaids! It’s your day! Being asked to be a bridesmaid is a huge compliment, but I’ve spent over $10,000 dollars being bridesmaids in weddings! It can get so crazy. You do you! I think it’s a great idea. I wish I had done it for my wedding.

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg $10K?! It seriously is so expensive and crazy!!!
      Thank you!💞

    • @Marieq
      @Marieq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, honestly when one of my friends gets engaged I secretly hope they don't ask me to be in the wedding bc it's so expensive!!! I got married 11 years ago age 20, since then everyone has out of state/country Bachelorette parties. I always think, I thought part of being a bridesmaid was to throw the Bachelorette party, not being told what we are doing by the bride. Sorry rant over😄

  • @utubeact
    @utubeact 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love your videos :’)
    a lot
    also, have you had any bloopers recently?? haha that’s how i found your channel initially. been a subscriber ever since. your energy is always positive too even when things are stressful. you’re so reasonable with things & watching your life come together is so nice to watch

  • @ewelina3479
    @ewelina3479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh so cool to hear Zac's roots are Polish! Great video as usual, greeting from Poland :)

  • @Askforartem
    @Askforartem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a Mazda Cx 5 also, the 2022 cx 5 carbon edition, and a flat on mine was the same as yours lol! Your rim looked scuffed too ugh!

  • @BlessedJess
    @BlessedJess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As a stay at home mom of three (and one of them special needs), I can testify to the fact that it is the hardest job in the world. There are literally no days off. I appreciate your apology and I think it was very kind of you to explain your comment. We all say things we don’t mean, we just don’t always have a camera on us with thousands of people watching. You’re just such a beautiful person, Clancy. Love your channel and love watching your life, even though it’s totally different from my own. 🥰

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww thank you so much for this sweet comment. I cannot even begin to imagine how difficult it is to raise THREE CHILDREN, especially with one being special needs. You are a rockstar ❤️

  • @MarieJeanne999
    @MarieJeanne999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep saying it Clancy!! It will be beautiful - or not, and you will handle it like a pro!! 💪 You know how to do that, you just proved it! Things worked out, your friends were there to help 🛞 … Being afraid to say how good your life is would be a bad habit to start and a harder one to get rid of. You deserve the best! You and Zach rock!!

  • @appylover1973
    @appylover1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clancy, I didn't have bridesmades or groomsmen. My soon to be stepson stood there with his dad and announced that we (all three of us) were getting married! It was priceless! We didn't even have music. We took our money and had a bangin' reception! You have the wedding YOU want! Great video! So look forward to them! Thank you!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s awesome!!!! Good for you guys - smart move! ❤️

  • @SimplyCia
    @SimplyCia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You don’t have to apologize clancy we all know your heart! I didn’t have bridesmaids girl! Your wedding is gonna be beautiful 🤍🤍🤍

  • @ericajay8552
    @ericajay8552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with you, my Mom was a housewife and I am not. So I don't cook everyday!

  • @lindsayklatt272
    @lindsayklatt272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We didn’t have a bridal party and I have NO REGRETS. Stick with your convictions!

  • @magdalenad527
    @magdalenad527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always love your videos, feels like chatting to a friend😊 love from Austria!

  • @leahsullivan4236
    @leahsullivan4236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Depending on what car insurance you have getting a tire changed is usually covered if you call them

  • @melissalyons6936
    @melissalyons6936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey, Clance! I love that you post in Saturday mornings, it’s nice to see your bright smile as the weekend starts. ❤️ I hear ya on the paleness! Our family is from Waterford, Ireland (5 generations ago) and we have tons of German. Gotta have a skin check at the the dermatologist every year, ugh 😑

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww! Thank you!! ❤️❤️ And as much as I love being Irish, I def wish I had Italian skin 😂

  • @reynoldrosa
    @reynoldrosa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If I were Zack, I’d have taught you how to change a tire the minute I got back from my trip. It’s something you need to learn how to do. You never know when you may be in a situation where help isn’t available. What would you do if it happened in a remote area where cell phone service wasn’t available and you couldn’t call for help?
    You might also want to look into your auto insurance plan. Some companies have plans that include roadside assistance. If you’ve got full coverage on your car, you might already have roadside assistance as part of your plan. If you don’t you might want to see if your insurance company offers it as an option. I added roadside assistance to my insurance plan because it offered the same services as AAA and was cheaper. Otherwise, you should look into getting your own AAA or seeing if Zack can add you on to his. I think you’re allowed to add household/family members to your plan.
    Another thing you might want to do is upgrade the tools in your car. The ones that came with it are garbage. The jack is a joke. You’re going to spend all day jacking the car up and down. Invest in a better jack. Yes, it won’t be as compact, but a better jack can lift the car up in less than a minute, and can bring it back down just as quick. You’ll also want a better wrench to remove the lug nuts. You want something that will allow you to use leverage because those nuts will be on there tight.
    Something else you can look into are tire sealants. They wouldn’t have helped you since your tire blew, but if you just had a puncture, it can be used to temporarily seal up the tire so you can drive to a service station and get it fixed. I’m not a fan of these. I’d rather put on a spare. However, some newer cars don’t bring a spare tire and all you get is an aerosol can of sealant. You’re lucky your car came with a spare. Otherwise, you would’ve had to call a tow truck and that would make things even more expensive.

  • @Rachel-no3cq
    @Rachel-no3cq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Clancy! My fiancé and I are getting married this December and we also decided to not have a big wedding party- just the two of us- and for similar reasons. You’re giving people an awesome party- there are certainly parts of the wedding where you can be “selfish” in your decisions and proud of it! It’s going to be awesome 🤍💍

  • @sallyhudson7196
    @sallyhudson7196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are such a fun couple ! I can’t imagine people not having an absolute blast at your wedding. We will all be with you in spirit, even if the date is top secret.

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww! Thank you!!❤️❤️

  • @missalanaclaire
    @missalanaclaire 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so sorry Clancy for those Negative comments, You are the sweetest and kindest person. It's your wedding, you get to decide what you want and don't want. No one else has a say because it's not their life or special day. I am sorry but that makes me mad people are commenting about your wedding like that. You and Zac are going to have a beautiful wedding!

  • @katiemcmillan941
    @katiemcmillan941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can one person possibly be so smart, nice, funny, pretty, driven, and motivated? It's not fair!

  • @rachelloola
    @rachelloola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg i am also a girl and old man, I have to do 135 sit-ups (three different kinds), my morning yoga routine, and drink tea with a half of grapefruit before I leave the house 😂 depending on where we’re going i also need just mascara or mascara + eyeshadow lol
    if I have time I’ll do a full-on workout…I usually wake up early to make time for that 🤪

  • @angiemay8245
    @angiemay8245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoying the vlog! It's been a minute since you've done a full face routine and I'd love to see one again. ❤

  • @cynthiabrickley
    @cynthiabrickley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get balayage highlights in my hair and I used to go every 6-7 weeks to the salon. I would rotate on brightening it and then just toning it. Now I go every 8-9 weeks and sometimes for every 2-3 visits I still just tone. My stylist says it helps that I only wash my hair 2, max 3, times a week and I use a purple shampoo. Balayage is so low maintenance and in my opinion worth it!
    Also, I never ever thought your bridesmaids comments made you come off that way. I let my girls pick whatever dress they wanted as long as it was the same color, they all wore whatever hair styles, nail color, shoes. It was perfect! I have also had friends only have 1 maid of honor and thats the whole party. Everyone is different! You can still invite all your friends to the bachelorette party to celebrate you. It is helpful to have someone to help fluff the dress, hold your bouquet, be there when you need something, but do what you guys want as it is your day!

  • @Gazzaxxo
    @Gazzaxxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly its the days where everything goes wrong that you'll look back in your career and remember the time you went from live shots to fixing your car for two hours in the rain with Matt by your side

  • @Digitalhunny
    @Digitalhunny 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Clancy, you're never _ever_ gonna be able to please everyone. We, your regular viewers, _know_ you & whatcha mean & how you say things. You don't have to explain yourself to us. Love ya woman! 😘💕

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!! 🥰🥰 Ily guys so much!!

  • @hannahbeckington
    @hannahbeckington 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Clancy! I’ve been watching you for years and growing up with you. Finally decided to comment ☺️ just wanted to let you know how much I love your videos and you motivate me to push myself in my career!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️

  • @brookewatson9531
    @brookewatson9531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am getting married in December and I have realized that so many people try and influence you into making decisions that are about them and how they feel or think you should do things. I am still trying to get into the mindset that it’s my and my future husbands day and that we can make decisions that suit use and make us happy.

  • @nakitabrooks2273
    @nakitabrooks2273 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    girl.. my husband and i got married on a wednesday, with just out immediate family and a couple close friends, then went to a local bbq place where everyone paid for their own dinner BECAUSE we wanted to take that money and spend it on a longer honeymoon. SELFISH and we loved it! the day is for YOU and your new husband/wife. BE SELFISH!! there is no rule book on what you have to do. that’s the beauty of it.
    do you girl and rock it! you’re doing great!!
    also, i was a stay at home mom for the first 2yrs of my sons life, didn’t take offense to what you said. lol people are just to narrow minded and try to find flaws.

  • @shayj4953
    @shayj4953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clancy, your outro is so catchy I just couldn’t help myself but sing along.

  • @chloebrabant9026
    @chloebrabant9026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Clancy, a balayage would be perfect if you want to go lighter. I did balayages for 4 years and only got it done every 6 months! They grow out really beautiful and 6 week up keep isn’t necessary at all :)

  • @jennfarace8530
    @jennfarace8530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You do you girl…let the haters hate! Luv your channel and I’m never offended by anything you say, stay true and keep making these amazing videos❤️

  • @Archmaya
    @Archmaya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From people I’ve talked too, my experience, and stories I’ve read I think it’s best for everyone ( you and would be bridesmaids) if you don’t have bridesmaids.

  • @jessicavisek2219
    @jessicavisek2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On the bridesmaid thing, it is your wedding and your decision. Do what makes you and Zach happy.

  • @elizabethjaen4748
    @elizabethjaen4748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a stay at home mom that watches you regularly and I didn’t take offense to your comment. However, how awesome of you to apologize 😊

  • @Zoe-fu7bt
    @Zoe-fu7bt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love cool weather!! 80s is too hot for me but 40s, 50s, and 60s are perfect! That period is unfortunately short lived in Nebraska, where I live. It’s often either too cold or too hot. :(

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I enjoyed the 40’s and 50’s haha but I do like 60’s as long as I have a jacket!!

  • @KayteeRuth
    @KayteeRuth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i didn’t have bridesmaids and it was so peaceful and nice to not have to coordinate all that for months and months and the day of was just so smooth and family focused!

  • @christinasantamaria565
    @christinasantamaria565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    About the car, depending on your insurance you might have roadside assistance for free too. I have geico and they have towed my car and jump started it for no cost before. They make us pay so much for insurance they better do something in return.

    • @christinasantamaria565
      @christinasantamaria565 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also I love the sleeves on that romper! Rompers never look good on me so I’d layer it with a maxi skirt lol

  • @dsalzy411
    @dsalzy411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Turn off the noise. Do what you both want. That’s all that matters. In 1961, my grandma wore a knee length dress to my parents’ wedding which was not a popular choice in the midwest, because she wanted to and so she did. At 102, when I asked her why she did it, she said who decides what I do other than me? Priceless. It’s all about what the two of you want.

  • @hannahvivi7042
    @hannahvivi7042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have to admit that stay at home wife comment threw me off a little at first. BUT I've been watching your channel for a while and I just knew that you didnt mean it like that. Thanks for addressing it though!

  • @hannahv88
    @hannahv88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love that first romper! I’m not a big fan of wearing rompers necessarily, but the print is so cute. Wasn’t that warm weekend just amazing? I can’t wait for more of that coming up this week! Maybe the rude commenting peeps will get some sunshine wherever they are and chill out! ☺️

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha I hope so 😂
      But omg yes I’m sooo excited for sunny days!!!

  • @kateysandon
    @kateysandon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg!!! The wedding is a special day between you and Zach and what other people think is none of their business

  • @janetedwards405
    @janetedwards405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Regarding bridemaids … my mother was a professional florist for over 25 years in the Midwest. It was her opinion that the Bride should pay for any bridal party dressing expense. That measured WHO could afford a large wedding party. So everyone complaining you choose not to have bridesmaids or groomsmen, tell us whether you bought your bridal party’s dress/tux, shoes, etc. otherwise, sit this one out because you burdened your friends to spend money they likely didn’t have to be in your wedding.

  • @genellbrooke
    @genellbrooke 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should be the center of attention on YOUR wedding day. It's your day sweetie, do whatever you 2 want! 💗

  • @sarahporterfield7151
    @sarahporterfield7151 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I freaking love your videos!! I find them so relaxing, comforting, entertaining, and positive! 💖💖

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you so much!!! That makes me so happy 🥰

  • @carmenniehoff2440
    @carmenniehoff2440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t wait to watch this vlog! Have a wonderful weekend!! 😊

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! You too!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @lenorebeers5756
    @lenorebeers5756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish I didn't ask my sisters and friends to be in my wedding. I absolutely love your idea! I'm passing this idea onto my daughter. You do you girl.

  • @Tinkerbell91280
    @Tinkerbell91280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well I'm a single mom of one. I have a fulltime job and I cook and clean. I guess I'm superwoman 🤣🤣.
    Anyways I didn't post negative comment on that video because I know how to tell when someone is saying something to be mean or not. Having watched your channel for years, I knew you weren't saying it in a negative way. Calm down people and leave Clancy alone lol.

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg you seriously are superwoman haha you are amazing!!!

  • @janetedwards405
    @janetedwards405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Clancy, Check your auto insurance policy as many of them have roadside assistance in it. You may have flat tire changes covered on your auto insurance.

  • @michaelamccracken1285
    @michaelamccracken1285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a Mazda CX-5 like you and I was told that Mazda has road side assistance . I even have a sticker I’n my car for it

  • @aguirrn
    @aguirrn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got balayage it is pricey and I get it touched up every 4-5 months. I was ready to go back to brunette but my hubby really like it, and I get so many compliments so I guess I’m keeping it. (I also love it)

  • @HaleyMary
    @HaleyMary 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is so horrible about the flat tire and to have to work on that while in between live shots and all that fog. That's just a rotten start to the day. That's awesome that Matt was able to fix the tire, though. You have an awesome camera man!

  • @elvirahorbata9839
    @elvirahorbata9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Clancy try the Essie gel top coat to make your nail polish stay on! It works on any nail polish and works amazing!

  • @ambaragbir2138
    @ambaragbir2138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Will keep thinking of and praying for you. Hoping that people will be more accepting and understanding/respectful of your decision. Hope work is will going well. Loving your videos. You deserve to be happy and make decisions however many you like. It’s not their wedding after all and you are the one who will have these pictures forever. The videos are so addictive. 😘💞💚❣️💟💞

  • @AsheaO
    @AsheaO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahah omg the guy who does your theme song - I think he does my annual corporate conference.

  • @kayykayyxx
    @kayykayyxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    uhmmm obsessed with your life and your vlog style!!

  • @zachg9065
    @zachg9065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Zac should teach you how to change a tire, it will really come in handy if you are in the middle of no where with no help

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I actually ended up watching some TH-cam videos for the future but still don’t know if I trust myself to be able to do that haha