3 feminine energy traits that men love 💕
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- Three feminine energy traits men love.
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1.) Receive graciously
2.) Connect with your heart
3.) Run barefoot in the park - be grounded
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As a man watching this, I agree with everything she said
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Mangina
If a man takes you to dinner & wants to split the bill .... He's making it loud and clear ' he wants to be friends. Therefore I'd pay my dues & receive the friendship.
If that works for you …
Thank you❤😊❤
Not me. I have friends. Friends who don't drain me of my feminine energy so they can feel validated as a man. Are you aware that men DON'T actually want (what they call) the "friend zone"? They DON'T value friendships with women. Just food for thought.
Oh so.. he's freindzoned yes no
Everything this woman says is gold. Ever since I started taking her advice men have been drawn to me. They say things like you’re so classy, you are so feminine, you’re amazing and I just wanna be around you. I feel more in touch with who I really am, I am comfortable and it makes them feel good. It attracts masculine men, so if you don’t want a masculine man then don’t take her advice. I turn heads everywhere I go just by the energy that I am Emitting because of Adrienne Everhart
You're praising yourself a lot.
Self flattery.
Also,.. how many men do you talk to..?!?
@@aadtie5633 I stated what they say about me, not what I am saying about me. And it’s not only the men I date. It’s men I interact with in life. Even standing in the check out line at the grocery store. And even if I date multiple men doesn’t mean I am sleeping with them, not that it’s any of your business. It’s called dating for a reason, you go on dates and see who you get along with. Sounds like you are in a very negative, judgmental state of mind. I’m sorry, I’ve been there. It’s no fun.
@@Kayprofessor omg I love how you got back at them 😅
Hi Stephanie. I'd like to ask: how do men receive that you (women) do not pay on a date? I feel that it is a red flag for many men. Unfortunately.
@@adrianavargova depends on what you are looking for in a woman. Most men want a woman in her feminine energy, which is a soft, nurturing, leaning back and inviting energy. Masculine energy is doing, providing, and leaning forward. Men feel most masculine and powerful when they know how to fulfill this role and women feel most comfortable and sensual when they know how to receive as they do in bed. A woman receives a man. When you require a woman to step up and provide, you push her into masculine energy and you end up butting heads because that is what 2 masculines do. The men I choose to date would never have me pay because they feel good about providing for a feminine, sensual, nurturing woman. Adrienne Everheart explains this in great detail in her TH-cam videos. It is the most natural way for men and woman to interact with success. We won’t compete with you for the masculine role if we are feminine. A man requiring me to pay is a red flag for me, it tells me he is a tit for tat man, not a giving man. And it tells me that he is in his feminine energy which repels me. I want to be the woman in the relationship and I provide what only a woman can. That is why we fit together like puzzle pieces. If we were the same shape we could not connect properly. Before Adrienne I did not have the tools to be with a masculine man. Now I have no problem at all. I am much happier and at peace and the men I date are mesmerized because I carry a presence and grace that is sadly rare these days. Woman have been robbed of their femininity because they have had to survive lost, misguided men. I am in the fight for my right to be a woman not a man. Most people don’t even know what that means these days. It’s very sad and ruins many lives, marriages and families. When you are feminine you attract masculine men and they are happy to pay.
For people who don't like this advice... My current man is a 50/50 man. 5 years of my youth wasted.
You will be working. A lot. I repeat ALOT like you will also work for their affection and their time. (I used to but not anymore) They will use tactics like pulling away until they physically can't take it anymore (sex)
They will expect you to work your job and won't care if its 12+ hours and still expect you to clean the house....you've been warned. This is great advice!
YESS dont do it! Dont ever go 50/50 with a man! 50/50 is actually 90/10. You will live like a slave, it will prematurely age you. You can't force men to do anything you will never be able to force him to match the emotional labor women put into their children and into their home, you will be doing EVERYTHIG And we'll have to beg to just get a "thank you" out of him. Taking care of kids plus taking care of the house plus helping with investments plus doing yard works plus taking care of your man who acts like a full grown child! The sperm chases the egg, men are born/ created to hunt women. LET them actually be good MEN. I wasted 7 years with a loser, Literally the longer we were together the less marriage was in sight... but now im engaged to my fiance who is a provider! Buys me flowers, takes me on dates, pays all the bill's, and wants me to be a feminine beautiful women, tells me he loves me, never yells at me, and I never have to fight for his attention. Dont ever do 50/50.
That's true and I experienced this and even though I was sad for awhile after the breakup, now I'm relieved it's over.
You are so trueee
Dropping truth bombs on us! Thank you 😊 💓
This sounds like a nightmare. I hope you are free of this man or on your way out if there. You deserve much better! ❤
Girl, if he asks 50/50 pay your half and be done.
Terrible advice.
Ask him if we’re on a date
Right that’s obviously a platonic relationship
I was with a 50/50 man and he was spoiling his side chick at the same time. Do not do 50/50 for your own sake. If they propose it they do not see your value and think you are easy with no standards. I learned my lesson and now i am with a provider man❤
Why should men be expected to pay for everything and provide everything? What are you providing?
@@mushroomkaiyoti111did you read her comment? Once you read it again, come back, you literally missed the whole point she was making… so combative and straight missed her point. Men don’t have to provide everything, this video is about women moving into their feminine energy.. men now complain about how masculine women are.. it’s because men want us to pay for everything,, cook, clean, take care of the kids and go work and deal with shit outside the house.. pick one.. geez..
"Men, the previous comment by, 1980tiffani , is Incorrect. 'Her' comment is a paragon of why men should not date, marry, et cetera 'Western women'. - - Generally women are illogical & emotional but 'Western women' compound that with having bad attitudes, 'leftism' & 'feminism'. Don't explain your choice to them, it may lead to altercations. 'They' got what 'they' fought for, simply smile, be polite & quickly get away from them.".
@@1980tiffaniIt’s fully acceptable for a man to pay for a woman’s expenses if she’s a hardworking stay at home mom. The problem is when you have lazy feminists who don’t do anything at home demand the man pay for everything.
Thank you, interesting points! 😊
I find that DANCE is the best way to restore the mind-body connection and harness our internal feminine energy for me and for most of my students!
PAYING FOR DINNER is the absolute BARE MINIMUM. Men know (even when they play dumb) that women (1) earn less, bc employers expect them to be taken care of by men; (2) spend and invest a LOT of their income for that exact date they are on (hair, shoes, clothes, time spent shopping, makeup, aesthetics, lingerie, shapewear, etc. - all things that the media tells us men want to see; and (3) because women have less time (we have homemaking and child responsibilities in addition to our 9-5) that our time is MORE VALUABLE than theirs. Men have a ton of time on their hands if they only have one job. I love your response "Is this a DATE, or not?" because it shows that women are very clear on what a DATE is, and what it isn't. Love this message ❤️
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This woman is GENIUS I've been listening for years...yes!
Thank you for sharing. 🥰
Mama Gena says that even if a man is just a friend, he should still pay for you if you're out having a meal together.
Awh that’s so sweet. Many men do like to provide but I wouldn’t expect a friend to pay for me based on gender.
@@AdrienneEverheart I appreciate your response so much! But isn't that exactly what we're talking about? It confuses me why a man would not want to be in his masculine energy and provide for me and serve me if I'm in my feminine. Even if we are just friends.
This is exactly Mama Gena's point. And I must agree!
Hitting man over the head with your feminine energy is an oxymoron. Sit back, be passively feminine calm and Serene.
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All men are different, we don't all want copies of what you assume we're interested in.
Be yourself 🙂
Just what I was thinking. Thank you!
That's feminine energy tips ,men love feminine women that's a no brainer
We watching this want a masculine man though, not just any guy.
Feminine women desire Masculine men, and true masculine men desire authentic feminine women. Feminine and Masculine have traits that cannot be ignored for bland dysfunctional 50/50 mediocrity.
Dear Adrienne, is 50/50 so bad? My man pays often but I feel obligated and he asks me to split sometimes, especially that we are both students and my family has much more money than his does.
Nah, that’s just energy. Feminine would be me laying my head in her lap while she talks softly to me and I tell her about my rough day.
Energy attracts.. fem energy wants masculine. Both energies can be affectionate like what you described
Yeeees, love the connecting with our heart piece. Since I started going after my purpose fully, my love & dating life also improved so much 😍💃
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This is actually a lightbulb moment for me. This is so very true. I am horrible at receiving. I realize, I just don’t know how to. Thank you!
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Wonderful claiming thank u
Ur skin is glowing. How are you getting younger everyday!!!
The smooth filter on my camera helps! Also the southern humidity. 🥰
You're so feminine and pretty!! 💕
I’ve never heard a man say he wanted women to walk barefoot on grass unless he had a weird thing for feet… ladies run if he asks you 😂😂😂😂
Yes rude when lonely men (mostly) ask women on a date and want to spilt bill … then want another date or try to kiss her. F off. If a woman asks a man (which she shouldn’t) she should pay.
Love these shorts! And side note, love that painting!
A beautiful wise woman.. God bless
I don't really agree on the men having to pay everything when we go out. Not that i would refuse it or be against it, but, for example, my current boyfriend doesn't have a ton of money and he is still studying, at some point soon going to have a job again.
Based on this logic he doesn't deserve love until he gets financially stable, which i don't agree with
Maybe- i would be against being with a man that is financially stable but would never at least make the gesture to gift me something
When my boyfriend was doing fine with money he still wanted to pay for my things, even if it was a plain bottle of water or whatever and of course i didn't refuse
Not all of us are rich and I'm not going to leave a relationship and the man that makes me happy for a man that affords to pay my date
A lot of times women like you were tossed out when their men got their money up. They replaced the woman that supported them. Be careful.
If your man is struggling financially and you're able to carry him until he gets back on his feet that's a temporary situation. A masculine man will be back on his feet as fast as he can 😉😘
Hi Adrienne you look beautiful in this video!! Thank you for all your effort and time because goodness knows relationships aren’t easy and we all appreciate any suggestions, demands, help we can get!!
I just discovered that I've been so disconnected from my feminine energy, and that has made dating difficult for me. Now im on youtube trying to learn a way to connect back.😊
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U r so awesome!!! Very smart reminders 🌸🤍🌸
Ok. If he says, yes we are on a date, but we are in Europe 🇪🇺 and here we go halves... what could I respond in a femenine way!? 😊❤
I’d openly address it for the next date: I understand in Europe “someone” decided it custom and equal to go half in dating yet for me, part of getting to know a man is being treated and him investing in the relationship. Im old fashioned this way. …I want a husband one day who is a good provider not a man who wants a 50/50 relationship which doesn’t really represent reality.
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Thanks!
I'm really bad at accepting gifts, mainly cause I feel like I have to give something in return.
Just remember to say thank you that’s all they need
As a man I can agree loosely with all of this, apart from the "are we on a date or not" thing. If a girl said that to me I would run a mile (it's quite rude to do so, perhaps even offer to halve, and see how he reacts). however in the same respect, if a guy said to go halves, girls, you should ALSO run a mile ♥
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But why? For me, a gentleman pays, if he is a gentleman. Otherwise I see that man as immature.
@@adrianavargova i agree he pays, but i think she shouldnt expect that from him and should still offer instead of being rude
@@peggygilespie7412 fair enough
that was very helpful, thank you
I feel blocked.... I don't feel anything and when I try to peel the layers and get to the core of my numbness, I just cry
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Sounds like you may have experienced some kind of trauma in your past. Try and push through, allow yourself to feel the uncomfortable feelings and keep telling yourself that being vulnerable is okay until you fully and truly accept it. That doesn’t mean to be naive and vulnerable to everyone, but it does mean that when you find someone you can trust, you are able to tap into your feminine side with ease and allow yourself to be open to them fully.
You gotta ask yourself what it is and why you feel the way you do. And just sit with that question and emotion until you get the answer your looking for and deep down already know.
My 1st time on your channel.. like it already x ☺️
Yay! Thank you!
love how american women just learned that men can provide too!
For real 😂 ahahahah
John 14:18
I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.
Oh Yes!! I love being advised to take as much as I can get while giving nothing in return!! Gimme gimme gimme!! More! More! More!
so paying for stuff is masculine now?? HOLY SHIT IM GROWING A BEARD 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Don't run barefoot ever!! You can pick up a "plantars wart" or something similar from the ground
Really women are still caring what men like and want, the world has moved on..
I love u
Thank you 🙏
EXCELLENT
Running barefoot in park is good
Y’all read the book Earthing
Absolutely do all of these lol
Love you
I like this video, specially because it supports gender roles 💜
Men don’t care about any of that! Just appreciate the things we do for our women! That’s all!
That is her message. Listen up dude.
That’s exactly what she just said 😂
She literally said that 😭
How is a man not embarrassed when asking a woman on a date and asking to go 50/50? This kind of man has no class. When this happened to me, I agreed to pay for my half and block and deleted his number as soon as the date ended.
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I would love to run on grass at my home but not barefoot in the park. Imagine how many people spit there and pets too 😅
Exactly. It is advice that is not rooted in realism.
No
We want the same from you as you want from us! Just be yourself and be honest! Don't try to be something you're not, we don't expect perfection!
Any advice for us gay men? I am more on the feminine side of the relationship (on the sexual and personality side). Should I split bills with my boyfriend / date or let him treat me as a woman even though biologically and physically I am a man? I would love to be trated as a woman though because on the inside that is how I really feel.
This is a great question. I would lean back and if he doesn’t pay ask: oh, are we not on a date?
In terms of living together as a couple that is a terms and agreements chat.
Wishing you the best. 💕
How im connected strongly to my femininity ?
Um everything she says in MY perception = let a narcissist take advantage of an emotional/ empathic person.
So if you run barefoot you will get plantar warts, callouses, corns, AND Mr. Right? 😂🤔
Right
Mm my ex said she won’t walk bear foot. Than I discovered it was because she is short 😏
Taking advice from a woman for what men want. By only explaining what women want.
Men want 2 things; your time, and your ability to commit.
They don't want a list of reasons about how his benefits are you turning up and having the privilege to put up with you bad choices in men... men are drawn to women who are not entitled...
And your heart should be in the relationship... if you cant invest emotionally, and instead play these dumb games youre going to be like this chick... thinking that to get a man you have to play some kind of game with them... its real easy ladies... time and ability to commit. Your family is your man, his family is you. Its not rocket science.... Lord us all
Walking barefoot is not a bad idea either because #4 is men are drawn to gorgeous feet and sexy strappy sandals! 😉
So good’
But then they call us broke cuz they paid for are meal yea no 😂
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You said 3 ????
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Normie dating advice lol she thinks we are on a planet and expects men to pay for everything.
You look beautiful, Adrienne. Shine on.
What?
“Are we on a date or not?” after he may possibly not pay for you? Do you realize how messed up that sounds?
Shit is expensive these days. Why should a man have to pay for everything? Tbh, I don’t think that societal expectation is fair for men
If he ask, he should pay. And a man truely like you, he has no problem paying for you.
With this thinking men will only use u for their own benefits.
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Hello Adrienne. My name is Adriana, too. I would love to have a man who pays for me (and I am not a gold-digger). But I think in modern times it looks quite repulsive to men. Women work, too and have salaries, too. Most of the men expect that the woman goes 50/50. Unfortunately. If I were a man, I would never let a woman pay. But current men are so strange...
Agree! I also think if roles were switched, I'd just pay. It's only dinner 😂😂
I think the broke and stingy one do, the rich one feel masculine when he pay
Change country. There are providers anywhere. I am in Italy, come here. Or maybe find an arab, a chinese, whatever. Just change country.
@@btslove4756 why do you know Italy, middle East n China have provider?
@@btslove4756 I can't from family reasons.
stop obsessing over male validation. be your own boss girl ❤
not everyone wants to be a girl boss.. people are coming from different cultures and societies.. being a girl boss can't long last where i'm coming from. :)
ur just jealous
@@humorbroke says the one with the emo profile pic 💀
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@@humorbroke patting yourself on the back for that one? at least i don’t think i have magical powers and i can connect with dead people 💀
If man ask for halves, nothing wrong with that. No need to ask and be sassy in my opinion
If you’re ok with that…
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I heard a feminine behavior, a good person trait, and randomly wanting to be a nature type person. I’ll give you actual feminine traits men love. Follower type mindset, soft spoken, modest, wanting to care for him type mindset (cooking him a meal), affectionate
I had a man not put me on his list because I’m soft-spoken and he said he couldn’t hear me but I know that he could it’s just I’m soft-spoken. Compared to other women who are very loud and he could easily hear them. He would pick them over me just FYI men don’t necessarily like soft-spoken women.
Men want women who don’t listen to people online for advice on what they might want.
Nah
Is this woman for real? Wake-up!
What about just loyalty?
Loyalty means nothing if you're being abused. That's not the only thing that matters and you know it
@@spacebar9733 rewriting my reply. A real man is not going to abuse a woman. So I reiterate, what about just loyalty?
No, we want provider men. Kids do not eat loyalty. Get your money up.
@@btslove4756 I don't think you're understanding the conversation. This is about what men love.......in women.
I agree with two of the three. If a man asks me out I assume that he will be paying whatever monetary resources will be needed for that date.
However, there have been times when I will suggest that that initial date be to go dutch. In my past it's usually has been when a former or current work colleague has made the suggestion for us to socialize.
I am a man and I can not agree with her points at least for me. From my perspective man who have his life together wants the care, love, support and submissiveness of a woman. Feminine is also to beautify what he brings her into. If she is at his home she makes the home better looking. If he takes her out she gives positive energy and gratitude and smiles. If he brings her into his life she is there for him. Things like this. But I have not met a man yet that wants his woman to be barefoot in nature or to just receive like with the phrase "are we on a date?".
If a man wants that from a woman, then he needs to provide for her first. He will only be able to receive from her once she has received from him and feels safe emotionally to give back.
Who cares what men want? Just be yourself
Why women can have girlfriends but a guy can't have boyfriends 😅
But I thought we were equal
Equal but different energies.
It is so hard to let a man pay these days...only because most guys say women are "gold diggers" so if he askes for me to pay half....i always say i will pay for my own meal 😅 even a happy meal
You can get CLARITY about the nature of the date:
"I have to admit, i feel odd /unromantic to split the bill during a date that I've been invited on. I hope you understand where I'm coming from. I’m curious, are we on a date? I value honesty and open communication, and it would help me to know what your intentions are?”
Is stepping in dog poop considered a date? Hahahabahahahahaha
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the delusion on this female is beyond hypergamy
You are sad and probably alone.
Then teach us what to do
You will die alone
lol! spliting bils with ur husband or boyfriend doesn't make sense, the person who offers a coffee treat is the person who pays .insisting to pay or split bills in a situation when u r invited by someone is disrespectful towards that person ,and if a person asks u to split it ,it's more disrespectful ,lack of basic mannerism, but how u guys feel to be fed on someone else's money when that person isn't even remotely connected to u ,u guys are on ur first date! it's a matter of basic self respect.. nothing can be more pure ornament on a woman than a crown of self respect.
Entitlement and feelings 🙄
What if they wanted to pay 50/50 but then wanted a kiss at the end of the 'date' 😆
He needs to pay more money than you.
there's a name for a woman who expects payment in exchange for physical interaction.
seriously, why would who pays matter for a kiss? would you really kiss a man you're not physically interested in just because he paid for the date vs splitting the bill?
@@NeverForget1776 well what if she was physically interested in him and he didn’t pay for her day she should not have to kiss him. It’s a turn off a woman to have to pay 50-50 if she has a pay 50-50 she would rather take a woman out than a man.
He would have some nerve trying to take from me before he gave to me.
Well this is an immediate red flag.
I actually meant you are the red flag.
I don't believe you are aware (or maybe you are) of how dangerous for both men and women your advice is - you are advocating narcissism.
just say you're broke love.
@Max Total so men are dumb and can't tell a real date from someone looking to get a meal.
And I never said I wanted to be strong or independent. Feminism is about every woman getting whatever she wants. Don't be angry because you can't afford a feminine woman.
@Max Total I can. But that is not a date.
@Max Total when we are independent, many men say she is too masculine she doesnt need me, I feel useless
Never as the Fish!!! Ask the Fisherman!!!! Please mature ladies stop sabotaging these young ladies!!!
But, do you get your purse out prepared to pay your half, or just sit there when the bill comes? I find that look isn't good though.
Don’t bring your purse!
stop using all that feminine energy to go walking in the park barefoot, use it to get a job and pay for a date!
That’s why women have to turn to other women, because women would rather pay for the women then pay for a man who is stronger than her physically, and can make more money. It’s not fair to women.
Mine is a narcissist
I am sorry but I really don't understand the vid and the comment section like wth? Yeah you are in a date and he is also in a date and your date doesn't have to pay for the drink or smth just bc he is dating you. And I also assume lots of you guys are feminist so be a strong indepent woman and pay for your drink.
Don’t assume all the women are feminists.
I don't take any of this to be feminine in particular.
Thanks for letting me know! Keep on learning more :-)
This is really bad advice. Men like women who are intelligent, logical and reciprocal / engaged in the bedroom.
If he says do you want to go halves on this say yes sure. The answer to are we on a date could well be "not any more"... If you want a guy who pays for you, keep dating different guys.
Lol. I as a man also like to be treated to a coffee, drink or dinner. I also like to treat an intelligent of a woman who appreciate a gentleman. But I guess you are trapped in Lake Woke.
I like to treat my man too, but I've been taken advantage of also. I've been stuck in a 50/50 relationship for years, and it's true what kind of guy they say that is. Never had a man treat me, (only been in 2 relationships) and I'm still young, so I can't wait to finally see what it feels like to be with a masculine man. Some day I wish!
Bare foot?.
Hell no.
Thts just nonsense
Disagree
These energy things are not real. Just be yourself pay for the date if you want to and if it's not for you just walk away. Men dont like women who are acting anyway
I hope it’s not acting. I encourage women to be in their bodies and find authentic feelings.
"Are we on a date or not?"
"Yes this is a date, thats why were going halves, because i support gender equality as should you"
What if she doesn’t support gender equality because a man is going to be physically stronger than a woman so they are not equal at all.
I know you mean well and this is generally okay advice, but it is clear that you view men from a womans perspective and misinterpret how we work, especially how men think and act differently depending on their goals and status.
For example, it is perfectly reasonable for a man, who is genuinely interested in you, to split the bill on the first date, especially when you met online. Too many women are going on dates to get a free meal and there is no other way. It is less about their wealth and generousity. Like a good woman protects her body for the right man and will even make it a chase for the right man, a good man will protect his ability to provide for the right woman and refuse to get played like a sucker. Expecting us to pay on the first date is like us expecting you to drop your pants by date 3. Ideally it all happens naturally, but it is perfectly reasonable to be more cautious.