I love what you said about putting your wounded inner child in front of you and speaking to her. That’s awesome. I feel like this would help empathize with that inner child. 😊
Thank you. Needed this. Guy I’ve been seeing for ten months has a new girl hitting on him all the time on his social media. Asked about her and he said his female friend introduced him to her (it’s her friend). He says the girl is crazy but yet he engages with her online and it feels shady to me. Most recently this girl uploaded a photo of herself only wearing a negligee with her chest very visible. I blocked her so I don’t have to see that, I’m embarrassed for her desperation and have withdrawn my energy from him for five days now and he has not reached out. I would like to communicate with him but really unsure how to handle this. When this girl posts on his page all his guy buddies do too, definitely an ego boost for him. I’m always classy never trashy… so right now I’m going within to keep myself calm. Any advice on how to proceed?
This is a terms and agreements chat, where you re- address how the relationship works, you reaffirm by asking if the two of you are in a committed exclusive relationship (yes or no?) and if committed that you do not feel comfortable with him engaging with a girl online or in real life anywhere else. He may call you jealous or protest a little bit because no doubt he enjoys the attention but very calmly, very kindly, firmly Let him know this is how you feel and you are just not comfortable having this other woman in his life. Don’t tell him what to do. Don’t tell him what to say. Just let him know you are uncomfortable with it, and if you are to be an exclusive relationship with someone, you do not want your partner communicating with another woman publicly or privately. Then give it a week to 10 days to unfold. Don’t bring it up. Then if she reappears address it again and let him know that this is not part of being an exclusive relationship for you. Let him know that you need some time to think this relationship through to see if this is what you truly want. With love and honesty. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
It doesn’t meet my needs. He ignores me for days and days when he’s mad. Ignoring feels abusive I was an ignored child and this is a wound I realize but it’s the worse way someone could deal with me in a relationship. Anyways I have ignored him too giving him a taste. He won. 🥇 I asked him prior how he feels about me. He says he likes me. Well whatever with that. I’m not sure how to date anymore @ 55 and feel tired and maybe too old. I don’t want to be negative and I also am scared of meeting men online because they seem to be very flakey and confused with plenty of options.
You’re moving up here. 1. Recognize what does not align with your values or how you wanna live your life and 2. Get very clear on what you want.3. Start moving up the tiers vibrationally - instead of focusing on fear, that you’re too old or men on dating sites are a certain way…. See if you can begin to make statements that feel better about dating such as, “I am open to the possibility of meeting a wonderful life partner.” If you want one on one support consider joining my private membership group. 💞diamondgirl.me/group
Hey Adrienne, thank you so much for this. How do we get closure if we get ghosted by someone following an argument when we thought he was our person? I don't want to pursue a relationship with him as he is now, but being ghosted without a conversation and a good bye feels devastating. I do the work you suggest to heal but I still feel unsettled
Love to you. Anyone who ghosts you is not “your person.” The ghost (aka your person) would return, work on things and be an adult not someone you feel compelled to fix. Hugs to you. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@@AdrienneEverheart Thanks, Adrienne :) To clarify, if he isn't 'my person', why recommend me a course to 'get the man you love back?' Just confused by that part. Thank you
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I love what you said about putting your wounded inner child in front of you and speaking to her. That’s awesome. I feel like this would help empathize with that inner child. 😊
Absolutely!! Sending you love.
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Adrienne, please wear more often red! You look like a goddess with this colour!
Oh thank you!
always giving wisdom :)🥰
Thank you, Adrienne!!! Ordered that book. 💜
Hope you like it!:)
Thank you for another great video ❤ your words always soothes.
Happy to help!
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Thank you. Needed this. Guy I’ve been seeing for ten months has a new girl hitting on him all the time on his social media. Asked about her and he said his female friend introduced him to her (it’s her friend). He says the girl is crazy but yet he engages with her online and it feels shady to me. Most recently this girl uploaded a photo of herself only wearing a negligee with her chest very visible. I blocked her so I don’t have to see that, I’m embarrassed for her desperation and have withdrawn my energy from him for five days now and he has not reached out. I would like to communicate with him but really unsure how to handle this. When this girl posts on his page all his guy buddies do too, definitely an ego boost for him. I’m always classy never trashy… so right now I’m going within to keep myself calm. Any advice on how to proceed?
If what he's doing doesn't feel good to you, I'd walk away and put my energy elsewhere.
Quantum date. Your boundaries and feelings are important.
Similar situation that happened to my sister on tik tok. He denied it but left my
sister for her. So, something was going on. My sister felt it.
This is a terms and agreements chat, where you re- address how the relationship works, you reaffirm by asking if the two of you are in a committed exclusive relationship (yes or no?) and if committed that you do not feel comfortable with him engaging with a girl online or in real life anywhere else. He may call you jealous or protest a little bit because no doubt he enjoys the attention but very calmly, very kindly, firmly Let him know this is how you feel and you are just not comfortable having this other woman in his life. Don’t tell him what to do. Don’t tell him what to say. Just let him know you are uncomfortable with it, and if you are to be an exclusive relationship with someone, you do not want your partner communicating with another woman publicly or privately. Then give it a week to 10 days to unfold. Don’t bring it up. Then if she reappears address it again and let him know that this is not part of being an exclusive relationship for you. Let him know that you need some time to think this relationship through to see if this is what you truly want. With love and honesty.
Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
It doesn’t meet my needs. He ignores me for days and days when he’s mad. Ignoring feels abusive I was an ignored child and this is a wound I realize but it’s the worse way someone could deal with me in a relationship. Anyways I have ignored him too giving him a taste. He won. 🥇 I asked him prior how he feels about me. He says he likes me. Well whatever with that. I’m not sure how to date anymore @ 55 and feel tired and maybe too old. I don’t want to be negative and I also am scared of meeting men online because they seem to be very flakey and confused with plenty of options.
You’re moving up here. 1. Recognize what does not align with your values or how you wanna live your life and 2. Get very clear on what you want.3. Start moving up the tiers vibrationally - instead of focusing on fear, that you’re too old or men on dating sites are a certain way…. See if you can begin to make statements that feel better about dating such as, “I am open to the possibility of meeting a wonderful life partner.” If you want one on one support consider joining my private membership group. 💞diamondgirl.me/group
You are crazy and sweet, that is why I love you. Continue to be true to you.
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Hey Adrienne, thank you so much for this. How do we get closure if we get ghosted by someone following an argument when we thought he was our person? I don't want to pursue a relationship with him as he is now, but being ghosted without a conversation and a good bye feels devastating. I do the work you suggest to heal but I still feel unsettled
Love to you. Anyone who ghosts you is not “your person.” The ghost (aka your person) would return, work on things and be an adult not someone you feel compelled to fix. Hugs to you. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@@AdrienneEverheart Thanks, Adrienne :) To clarify, if he isn't 'my person', why recommend me a course to 'get the man you love back?' Just confused by that part. Thank you