I am 70 years young and have reinvented my career so many times it is laughable. Being able to adapt and change with circumstances is a law of survival in Nature.
I love to hear this. I’m 21 years old and I feel like I’m hurtling towards a career I’m going to hate. It’s reassuring to know that is not the end and there is a chance to change it.
I learned a lot of this when I was 26 and a narcissist living in my moms basement; 10 years later and after changing the way I think. Ive started a company that I’m so proud of. Money is less of a battle. If you can skip all the instant feel good dopamine loops then your production in all your large endeavors will increase exponentially. If I can do it so can anyone.
Im in the same position just as you. But i dont want to broke my moma heart she took care of me by herself without a husband u know im really confused and dont know what to do 😕
I turned 60 last November and in the process of my own transformation crafting my life according to my terms… there are nothing to hold us back at this stage. 🦋
Amen, I picked up on the same thing, I am 70 and I think he is out of sync on is idea that when you are older you can not learn. I learned to play the piano at 50, I am working on 4 degrees at the same time. If I believed what he says is true, I would be watching TV, and waiting to die. LOL NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
Robyn Henry Ford didnt start making cars til 45. There is no age limit on loving and living your dream. Just do it. It will add YEARS TO YOUR LIFE AND VALUE
He's just using 60 as an example. When your in your 20's or 30's 60 seems so far away and no one at that age wants to wait until their even 40 to realize they never followed their dreams!
"Never outshine the master". That is what I accidentally did. The TRUE master at the time loved and encouraged my enthusiasm and growth, but unknownst to me, a co-worker felt threatened, and when the true master moved on, my co-worker was promoted to manager. He became controlling, triangulated me out of my relationships and projects, silo'd me away from others, and then devalued my skill set to the most basic, micromanaged, chaotic, goose-chases of his design. It was very confusing and more subtle than I am describing, as the total process took a couple years. This year I learned what narcissism was, and it rang every bell. Never outshine the master, but DO gather your resources and leave them behind, as no TRUE MASTER would ever feel threatened by being a student.
@@fexquisite1 It is nearly impossible for others to understand unless they know they have gone through it. I'm always relieved when I meet another who resonates with the experience.
But what if you are not out shinning the master, and the others receive you this way. They feel you suprior because they are so tiered from their work. If you are tiered, you feel weak. My exspirience of cause.
@@sabinetsamtsukakis4031 That is a good observation. There is probably another narcissist in the midst of the office that has worn your coworkers down. They see you as someone who hasn't yet been worn down by the narcissist. Narcissists will use a person up, and then discard them and move onto a new "play thing"... it might be that you are the new shiny play thing for a narcissist in the office, and you are going through "Love Bombing" where the narcissist is treating you well in order to reel you into their web. Watch out for people who don't respect basic boundaries... that will likely be the narcissist.
@@jmfs3497 The narcissist has a "self image" that is a mix of superiority complex and inferiority complex. The first is the mask they where in public, the second is their insecure self. That is they are a mix of grandiose and hyper vulnerable. If they don`t get 100% attension and praise 24/7 they get insecure. A great way to spot a narcissistic leader is that they are always surounded by " yes men/women" and psycofants who praise and boot lick. All people who have orginal ideas, or have points to improve the status QO will either get their ideas and credit stolen from them or they are looked opon as antagonists by the narcissist and the court. For people who want to get ahead in life and grow the best move is to get out of there. The only people who can get ahead there is psycofants and machiavellians, but they are also playing a dangerous game. Years wasted in a environment so toxic has detrimental effect on the mind and confidence. And a optimistis mindset may be broken down and become cynical and toxic. There is nothing to gain long term from a narcissist
Summarize: 1. Never outshine the master. 2. Once you stop your circulation, day-to-day loop. The world will open up to you. 3. 95% communication is non-verbal. 3. Be a child. Because the childs don’t think they are superior. They’re defenseless, small. 4. Work for your passion is the ideal life for anybody. But reality is not. 5. Pain is great. Pain is pleasurable. 6. You’re unique, your DNA will never be repeated, the way your brain is wired will never be the same. 7. The more you get older, the more you’re like other people you spend time with. 8. Control the people’s perception, then you control their reality. 9. Having a goal helps avoiding you from depressed.
“You’ve got to wake up & realize there is an urgency! You gotta have a path- if you don’t have a plan or a purpose, your ROTTING on a vine & when you wake up- it won’t be good. You’ll be 60 years old and think, I could have been this or I could have done that“ that is one hell of a motivator in & of itself….
Please don’t put a number on having any goals… Even people that have had goals could have achieved them and lost everything at the age of 60 and have to start all over again making a goals ect ect ect the only limit there is is the one we put for ourselves.. please don’t do that.
@@Jessica-is-WisePsalm1 I didn’t do that! In the video, he states that. I just recited what he said in the video. Just an observation, it seems that people that are older or nearing/ over 60 take this comment super personal… I too am close to 60, so I am not pointing fingers…Life is anything you make it- at any age. As long as your still 6 feet above ground, healthy & able- live your life without any limitations or reluctance…the video is simply stressing the urgency - don’t wait- live NOW
What is this urgency, where are you going ? Run run run chasing your shadow . No matter how fast you go there you are . The urgency is to be here now , you accomplish all you want the pain in your stomach will still be there
@@smokefeet lol- that’s not the point- the point is stop taking time & life for granted. Don’t put off for tomorrow what you can do today, live your dreams and passions with no fear or regrets- life moves quickly & death is next- have passion & urgency with fulfilling your dreams while you still have good health & life…. Now if your happy with where you are in your life - nothing wrong with taking it easy either….
“95 per cent of communication is non verbal ... Words are used to deceive you ...the secret to success in life is retaining your child-like personality. Think about something ...without rushing to judgement “
I can say I have experienced this a few times, reimaging myself, it’s not easy, but it is amazing. In some ways I am a completely different person now than 25 years ago. Often people run into a “wall” like being fired, attacked, rejected, etc., and they’re done. Not good. Find the way through, over, around or under that “wall” and move on. It may be a new career, new way to use your time, learning something foreign to you…don’t settle for remaining a “failure” in your own mind.
Robert Greene is top-tier on this game of life. The KNOWLEDGE & MASTERY of how to play the life is actually fantastic. And props to Tom for the interview he is such a good listener and great as well
the only way to heal that is to be that person that you needed and that is the test of unselfishness because people present themselves as not worthy of encouragement ..and does that mean we have presented ourself that way ? I probably have and at the same time and in the same day could have used some encouragement ..cheers, Zaga
Zaga I was in love with someone that was negative 100% of the time. She always put me down even if she didn’t mean too. She drug me backwards and halted my progress in life. Luckily she cheated and left me. Without realizing it, that was the greatest blessing of my life. You have to try your best to become the positive in your life. And it will be so much better!
I’m 18 right now, and I feel so unfulfilled with my life. In every job my mangers treat me beneath them or they talk to me inappropriately. I have always loved music, theatre, English literature. I hAve no idea what to do with my life right now, this video made me break down just thinking about everything he says hits my soul, I’m lost and trying to find my way but that’s okay because I don’t know what I was put on this earth to do. But I will try my hardest to accept my place when it comes.
In my experience, those that have a pattern of blaming others for how you are being treated, lack the ability to see their behavior, which is ultimately the cause of everyone else's actions. Basically, you are behaving in a certain pattern that all of your supervisors react the same way towards you. I owned a cafe and employed many just like you. Their lack of self awareness ultimately cost them their jobs.
There is one thing he is forgetting to say "if you are the best in the room, you are in the wrong room" so anyone who is able to put shine their boss, shouldn't be at that job, " you become a great master by always being in the room with people who are better at your skill than you.
A true leader knows how to use the best talents around them or hire talent that's better than them. So don't outshine the master? Every master has their time, what makes the master a true master is how they handle this reality.
Rule nr 1: you only get smarter by playing against a smarter oponent. Rule nr 2: the more sofisticated the game, the more sofisticated are the players!. Most peoples self image ( ego), can’t handle the stress and grinding against smarter players because they are outcome dependent and have a fixed mindset ( a limited mindset, that don’t belive in growt and learning). Rule nr 3: the more uncomfortable you can handle to be over time, the stronger you get. Those who only do what they are good at seldom grow. They choose short term gratification, and what feels emotionaly plessant in the here and now compared to " delaid gratification". There is huge power in knowing this. That is you can harvest power and money by investing in selling products and services that exploit others lazyness and lack of abillity to controll their emotions Rule 4: choose the pain of learning and maintaining self discipline or choose the pain of regret og self denail.
"95 % of what really matters in communication between people is not through words. Words are used to deceive you, to disguise what people are really thinking." Robert Greene
This is a new Era compared to 20 years ago It won t work now. You can not move as fast as the younger once. There is no respect for elderly today. You just have to hide in your room and not even go out for food. Because the drive thru at dunking or McDonald's would get you so mad that you will have a stroke or heart attack. I even give up getting coffee because. This generation is too I don't give a fuck attitude. And instead of saying how can I help you They say WHAT? OR WHAT DO YOU WANT??
If words are used to deceive then all sentences are deceptive. Including the sentence "words are used to deceive" Also it would also logically follow that all Greens' books are deceptive as they use words. This quote exposes Greens' lack of precision and poor ability to explain. Maybe he meant words can be used to deceive. Which is just obvious
To escape survival, you have to take time out for yourself, be intentional about it, commit to a daily practice, no matter what the practice is. If you can do that for a year, you will see change and start to see what I takes to make change - intention and time. You will see how many distractions you've allowed, how many distractions you choose for a short fix to the feeling of 'I'm only surviving." And as you get older, you'll see that those daily practices are required just to sustain survival and that if you haven't committed to them, you're actually falling behind.
These ideas are so true. I'm 67 , and had opportunities pass me by listening to others instead of my own heart. I ended twice married to wrong people for me. I missed passionate careers because not enough money, or family said no. I'm still searching for the best possible way for me to work in my life's passion now at my age. I will have to be creative!
I can totally relate to that. Since 2nd grade, I wanted to be a writer, but my family was very discouraging. They even confiscated my books and my library card. I ended up in the computer industry which, though successful, I hated. Health issues pushed me to retire at 59 and so here I am. Thing is? I am also a wanderer! I learned how to paint, remodel (hate drywall!), make furniture (the sliding barndoor fireplace tv stands are very popular), etc. I also play piano and violin, write songs, design landscapes, etc. I learned natural medicine, so my health is improving. Learning is really fun. And I finally wrote a book I like. So when he says it is over at 60? Wrong! Best of luck to you, and have fun!
I just started school for a second masters degree and was going to quit. I’m 60, in between jobs, and I’ve added a few extra pounds of weight. I felt like not trying any longer, but have a glimmer of hope since reading your comment.I am definitely in a rut!
Great video! That one person was definitely a narcissist. Thankfully they didn’t ruin my life... however they took me on a psychological detour of self discovery & self love. 💯☺️💝
Love it ✨️ As a digital nomad + part-time vanlifer, this is exactly what i listen to in order to manifest good things & happily live a fulfilling + minimal life in my RV !! Thanks 😊
Probably among the best 10 minutes I have listened to in a long time. Thank you Robert for sharing this with us. You said so much in such a concise, yet powerful way. Thank you Tom for having invited Robert. Please keep going with the impactful work you’re having on us.
Reading Robert Greenes books changed my life. I just hope it is for the better. when I read "The 48 laws of power", I started seeing his laws in action all around me. This made me go into a weird state of depression for about 3 weeks. As a naive and honest young man, thought to think the best in peoples actions, I instead started seeing their deliberate intentions. In any case, of all the authors books I've read, non is more honest and spot on about our nature as Robert Greenes. Thank you!
The two most important attitudes for a beautiful life: gratitude and love These two qualities will ensure whatever you do, wherever you are; you will speak and act beautifully, and the world will be brighter. You see, when you are grateful, for even the lowliest of things, you are content. And when you love, completely and purely, all you do and say will be sweet.
Ever since I was 4 I had only one dream, one day to be a teacher / an educator. I carried this childhood dream with me for 45 years and finally at 49 I have made my dream come true. I am absolutely satisfied and happy now. I was a clean lady, a worker, a baby sitter, kitchen helper, an engineer and now I'm the happiest educator. This profession is a calling for me and I love working with kids and young adults. I also love technique but the most I love to encourage, support and strengthen children and young people, to show them their wonderful abilities and strengths, so that they know who they are, what they are capable of and have a lot of fun with their development and with their lives 😊❤
Rich kids are not the most messed up people in the world. They just have enough resources to mess up more than anyone else. We all need to grow and learn and do it through Making mistakes.
10:10, I am 60 years old and have a different thought. Learning and doing is a life long process. Never have regrets; only lessons. Your wants and needs are always evolving, but one thing never changes and that is the time that you should get started, and that time is always NOW.
Awesome advice for us millennials, such a fresh and young perspective. Thank you, great hope for any of us who feel like lazily giving in to the martyristic thought: " it's too late for me..."
If you do not have regrets you are not genuine. A realist does not pretend they have not failed , they embrace the pain. Stoicism is not evasion of reality.
Having no regrets doesn't literally mean you don't care about reality. It means you have accepted your failure and learned your lesson out of that situation so you can do better next time around if the same or similar situation recurs.
At 61 years old I have always known who I am ...my path has taken me in many directions...Army / Police/ lawyer and long distance truck driver in the UK and Europe...I have eaten and drunk with many cultures...I have learned so much about them and myself...my wife calls it stubbornness but once some crosses my path wrongly they never get a second chance..I do not go looking for people they tend to come back to me no matter how long it takes
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 226 subs and almost > 90 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
It’s really great : as waiting for the legend Robert Greene : already read most of his books/ all master pieces/ best sellers: but on TH-cam it’s easier handy to listen to: waiting , siting . awake at night , enables us to make best use of ur time(whenever and wherever such opportunity occurs)::🙏🙏👌
I highly recommend reading all Greene's books-in particular his latest, The Laws of Human Nature and The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. All brilliant and are hard to put down once you dive in.
Robert Greene has given this world wisdom and all the keys to master your life at a level unmatched by anyone at any time in human history. Eventually his books will outsell all other books and become the most sold books in history.
Wow! That first part happened to me so many times early in my career. My parents taught me to work hard and good things would happen. Lol the exact opposite happened. I had to learn politics and human insecurity on my own.
@@louie1086, how do you fix that if you are a medical provider and you try to do what is best for a patient and your boss gets jealous. I cannot do worse just to please my boss since the patient either suffers or feels worse than he/she could feel otherwise. It would be immoral.
I disagree with that part of the video. We are not here to be seen as "good and friendly" all the time by other people just to take care of their ego. If other people are insecure, jealous or egocentric, that's THEIR problem, not yours. If you want a better tip, remember that every decision, big or small, has good AND bad consequences. Every decision. So its up to you to decide what consequences work better for your goals in life.
Everyone of us has a talent or skills so we should use it in exact way to having successful in life, our destiny is depend upon the way we're leaving and action...
Ironic. Of the millions of moments that make up a life, the single most unavoidable experience that's necessary for us to have life itself is birth. Being born. We might not remember the brutality of coming down the birth canal and into the cold harsh world, or being suddenly and forcefully grabbed by strange cold hands and yanked from the warmth of our mother's womb, and yet it's the most shocking, unexpected, brutal, and yet necessary moment of our lives. There is no life without the pain of birth. And yet as adults we immediately run at the first hint of discomfort. We shrink back the moment we're faced with pain. There's a revelation in that somewhere.
Birth is not painful, my daughter was sleeping peaceful when she came out. The uterus contracts to make room for the baby to come out comfortably without being hurt. If the mother pushes the baby out right when the uterus is contracted the baby is not in any pain at all, nor do it suffer. This is a fact. I attended lamaz class through my pregnancy and pushed only during the contraction and my baby came out very peaceful and sleeping.
@@ladybird491 The unpleasantness of birth is not limited to being squished inside the birth canal.. It is the pain of breathing amniotic fluid one moment, then forcefully coughint out that fluid as you gasp a lung full of polluted earth air. Breathing fluid, then breathing air, requires forecful choke-like coughing. My youngest son was born asleep too. Until he had to breathe air. All of my children cried while trying to breathe their first breath
@@bonicraig9745 Birth pains is a actually a metaphor (dating back to two thousand years ago) for what is literally unfolding on the earth right now. Locusts swarms all across the planet - ravaging entire nations, consuming all the vegetation, leading to massive famine; massive species die-offs globally; plagues and pestilence; wars and rumors of wars ; insane weather patterns never seen before with intense volatility in sudden, unpredictable storms; earthquakes in diverse places increasing in intensity and in frequency; Russia, Iran and Turkey all joining forces against the nation of Israel (they're now allies and are occupying the borders of Israel as we speak - something unheard of until just a few years ago)... every single indicator that Jesus provided in His Word regarding exactly what would happen right before the 7 year tribulation begins IS HAPPENING. The only prophetic event still pending is the complete and total devastation of Damascus. This could happen at any minute (clearly, as Beirut illustrates). Jesus said that just as a woman in labor experiences increasingly painful and frequent "pangs" which indicate the delivery of her child is near, so it will also be with these signs upon the earth as the final seven year tribulation is about to begin. To anyone reading this: Jesus Christ is the one and only Son of God. He gave His life as payment for the wages of your sin in order to reconcile you back into His Kingdom for all eternity. He died a brutal death because He LOVES YOU. He gave His life to save yours - because He VALUES YOU, THAT MUCH. Enough to shed His own blood for you, knowing you might still reject Him. You do not get to cease existing when this life is over. You are an eternal CREATED being with an eternity that's being determined by the choices you make right now. Receive the mercy of Christ Jesus. Admit you have have sinned (if you aren't sure you have, check out the 10 commandments), and turn away from those sins (this is called repenting). Confess that He is the only Son of God, that He alone can save us. Believe that He has redeemed you from eternal punishment. And start reading the Word of God every day. He will show Himself to be who He says He is, if you seek him sincerely and ask Him to reveal the Truth to you. He's an incredibly loving Savior.. intimacy with Jesus is the only way to be spared from the next 7 years to come.
This validates my decisions in life of not following the norm, of combining my passion with my expertise, of having goals and understanding my uniqueness, of not following the norms, of getting myself out a depression.....very insightful
As my ex husband says, "it's never too late until you're dead" He is so right about that!! Idk... I'm ready at 50 to be who Father created me to be. And that is independent of my past failures, or what people say....
A small group of women in our 60s and 70s are meeting in Charlotte, NC this May to focus on just what you have mentioned. Would you be interested in obtaining information and attending?
Embraced your pain that sooooo profound! I remember read a book long time ago and the author says at the first page i thank God for the gift of pain,i was soooo surprised,after i finished reading the book i understand why he said that,it has been a massive blessing to me that phrase until now!indeed i thank God for the gift of pain!God is awesome!God bless everyone!
Love listening and watching these kinds of videos, it allows me to hear what life looks like from other people and a great person's POV (Robert Greene) in their own words, their opinion + advices and life lessons. Wish videos like this are played in schools at least from time to time, but I never experienced one.
Great forum, guests and topic. One thing popped in my mind while warching I have to share... we don't regret things we do, we regret the things we DONT do. 👍🏼✌🏼
I am 65, and as a retired teacher I am on my way to my dream! Funny how it is my youngest daughter who moved away and found the place for me! I am moving to another state and opening my dream cafe/art studio. But, I always kept that idea and feeling that it would be. The building even looks like my imagined location…now that is big stuff! Lol Blessings to all Heaven will move earth and you towards your dream, don’t give up!
What if you are not a failure? Dear friend, I understand what you might feel. I sometimes feel the same way. I want you to know that you are not a failure. You are a beautiful Being. The thoughts that tell you that you are a failure are the ones that lead to situations that confirm that you're a failure. It is the ego's way of deceiving you. Don't be fooled. You are not your thoughts. Encourage yourself. Pick yourself up. You can do it. You can think new thoughts and it will lead to new experiences. If you really loved yourself, what might you think then? Sending you loads of Love Shay, You and I are One.
I am really trying to move forward with my "quest". I did some language study this morning. Have book on electronics coming. I have most of the tools I need to build projects. Over 50 and I am bringing everything together. It's been fun to hunt for everything I think I'll need.
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I am 70 years young and have reinvented my career so many times it is laughable. Being able to adapt and change with circumstances is a law of survival in Nature.
Love this comment.
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I love to hear this. I’m 21 years old and I feel like I’m hurtling towards a career I’m going to hate. It’s reassuring to know that is not the end and there is a chance to change it.
That's awesome for you. As you aged you adapted.regardless of any possible frustration ,congratulations
I learned a lot of this when I was 26 and a narcissist living in my moms basement; 10 years later and after changing the way I think. Ive started a company that I’m so proud of. Money is less of a battle. If you can skip all the instant feel good dopamine loops then your production in all your large endeavors will increase exponentially. If I can do it so can anyone.
Im in the same position just as you. But i dont want to broke my moma heart she took care of me by herself without a husband u know im really confused and dont know what to do 😕
can you care to expand on the last part, what method did you begin with?
Well done...good to hear
Glad you made a positive change.
Işıl Çetinkaya follow your heart
TH-cam is very educative. In fact, it is a school on its own.
Bruh TH-cam is a planet on its own
If you use it the right way
If you’re capable of critical thinking, it’s a gold mine.
@Kono Dutch Both are correct.
So true👍🏾💚
I turned 60 I thought my life was over but I was only reborn and learned how to love myself.💙🦋💙
I turned 60 last November and in the process of my own transformation crafting my life according to my terms… there are nothing to hold us back at this stage. 🦋
I love this 💕💕💕
@@celiapowellcpa9142 Beautiful 💕
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Beautiful, you go girl! God bless you
Being 60 is not the end, you can still enact on becoming who you want to be. Plenty have reinvented themselves at this age.
Robyn
Oh, thank god.
I’m 59 and thought I was done for.
Amen, I picked up on the same thing, I am 70 and I think he is out of sync on is idea that when you are older you can not learn. I learned to play the piano at 50, I am working on 4 degrees at the same time. If I believed what he says is true, I would be watching TV, and waiting to die. LOL NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
@@Tinksmeadow Way to go!
Robyn Henry Ford didnt start making cars til 45. There is no age limit on loving and living your dream. Just do it. It will add YEARS TO YOUR LIFE AND VALUE
He's just using 60 as an example. When your in your 20's or 30's 60 seems so far away and no one at that age wants to wait until their even 40 to realize they never followed their dreams!
''having a goal will change you completely from being depressed or not taking care of yourself to being energized and moving in the right direction''
Thank you
Yes, The truest words ever
@adults don't like kids I can not demonstrate because we are very much apart
@adults don't like kids It's never too late and you can be your own mentor if you can not pay one
Having a goal is the easy part, working towards the goal is the hard part
"Never outshine the master". That is what I accidentally did. The TRUE master at the time loved and encouraged my enthusiasm and growth, but unknownst to me, a co-worker felt threatened, and when the true master moved on, my co-worker was promoted to manager. He became controlling, triangulated me out of my relationships and projects, silo'd me away from others, and then devalued my skill set to the most basic, micromanaged, chaotic, goose-chases of his design. It was very confusing and more subtle than I am describing, as the total process took a couple years. This year I learned what narcissism was, and it rang every bell. Never outshine the master, but DO gather your resources and leave them behind, as no TRUE MASTER would ever feel threatened by being a student.
As someone who has also lived this experience, you’ve articulated this perfectly. It was almost therapeutic to read this. Thanks for sharing.
@@fexquisite1 It is nearly impossible for others to understand unless they know they have gone through it. I'm always relieved when I meet another who resonates with the experience.
But what if you are not out shinning the master, and the others receive you this way. They feel you suprior because they are so tiered from their work.
If you are tiered, you feel weak.
My exspirience of cause.
@@sabinetsamtsukakis4031 That is a good observation. There is probably another narcissist in the midst of the office that has worn your coworkers down. They see you as someone who hasn't yet been worn down by the narcissist. Narcissists will use a person up, and then discard them and move onto a new "play thing"... it might be that you are the new shiny play thing for a narcissist in the office, and you are going through "Love Bombing" where the narcissist is treating you well in order to reel you into their web. Watch out for people who don't respect basic boundaries... that will likely be the narcissist.
@@jmfs3497 The narcissist has a "self image" that is a mix of superiority complex and inferiority complex. The first is the mask they where in public, the second is their insecure self. That is they are a mix of grandiose and hyper vulnerable. If they don`t get 100% attension and praise 24/7 they get insecure. A great way to spot a narcissistic leader is that they are always surounded by " yes men/women" and psycofants who praise and boot lick. All people who have orginal ideas, or have points to improve the status QO will either get their ideas and credit stolen from them or they are looked opon as antagonists by the narcissist and the court. For people who want to get ahead in life and grow the best move is to get out of there. The only people who can get ahead there is psycofants and machiavellians, but they are also playing a dangerous game. Years wasted in a environment so toxic has detrimental effect on the mind and confidence. And a optimistis mindset may be broken down and become cynical and toxic. There is nothing to gain long term from a narcissist
Summarize:
1. Never outshine the master.
2. Once you stop your circulation, day-to-day loop. The world will open up to you.
3. 95% communication is non-verbal.
3. Be a child. Because the childs don’t think they are superior. They’re defenseless, small.
4. Work for your passion is the ideal life for anybody. But reality is not.
5. Pain is great. Pain is pleasurable.
6. You’re unique, your DNA will never be repeated, the way your brain is wired will never be the same.
7. The more you get older, the more you’re like other people you spend time with.
8. Control the people’s perception, then you control their reality.
9. Having a goal helps avoiding you from depressed.
Having not watched the video yet, after reading this, I’ll pass. Sounds horrible lol
@@emmanate28 it's self indulgent waffle
Thank you for summarising the video, helps a lot
Thank you !
@@emmanate28 lol sounds like the synopsis of a artistic horror film after the bodys are chopped up
"Pain pushes you . . . until your vision pulls you." - Michale B. Beckwith
Thanks Ms.Debora I needed that qoute
Thank you 🙏
Love this💯💋🍎🙌🏽🙏🏾
Beautiful
Explain
“You’ve got to wake up & realize there is an urgency! You gotta have a path- if you don’t have a plan or a purpose, your ROTTING on a vine & when you wake up- it won’t be good. You’ll be 60 years old and think, I could have been this or I could have done that“ that is one hell of a motivator in & of itself….
Please don’t put a number on having any goals… Even people that have had goals could have achieved them and lost everything at the age of 60 and have to start all over again making a goals ect ect ect the only limit there is is the one we put for ourselves.. please don’t do that.
@@Jessica-is-WisePsalm1 I didn’t do that! In the video, he states that. I just recited what he said in the video. Just an observation, it seems that people that are older or nearing/ over 60 take this comment super personal… I too am close to 60, so I am not pointing fingers…Life is anything you make it- at any age. As long as your still 6 feet above ground, healthy & able- live your life without any limitations or reluctance…the video is simply stressing the urgency - don’t wait- live NOW
You got to have a plan
What is this urgency, where are you going ? Run run run chasing your shadow . No matter how fast you go there you are . The urgency is to be here now , you accomplish all you want the pain in your stomach will still be there
@@smokefeet lol- that’s not the point- the point is stop taking time & life for granted. Don’t put off for tomorrow what you can do today, live your dreams and passions with no fear or regrets- life moves quickly & death is next- have passion & urgency with fulfilling your dreams while you still have good health & life…. Now if your happy with where you are in your life - nothing wrong with taking it easy either….
Keep your inner child happy❤
“95 per cent of communication is non verbal ... Words are used to deceive you ...the secret to success in life is retaining your child-like personality. Think about something ...without rushing to judgement “
Thinking is hard, that's why people judge - Jung
Most underateded comment
Return to the child like innocence that was lost.
Self-awareness is the key to achieving your goals and leads to success
Define it please .
@joseph you havw to know your strength and weaknesses so you know what kind of people you need to pull to achieve something
What's the key to genuine self-awareness though?
@@mikewallis2987 “know thyself” it starts with being absolutely honest with yourself. Watch Jordan Peterson’s TH-cam know thyself.
Absolutely. Self awareness, coupled with dedication, grit , and share perseverance in one s passion field. Gayathri
I can say I have experienced this a few times, reimaging myself, it’s not easy, but it is amazing. In some ways I am a completely different person now than 25 years ago. Often people run into a “wall” like being fired, attacked, rejected, etc., and they’re done. Not good. Find the way through, over, around or under that “wall” and move on. It may be a new career, new way to use your time, learning something foreign to you…don’t settle for remaining a “failure” in your own mind.
🎯 👍 🔑 💎 👏 💯 *eXacTLy.!!!!!!!*
Thank you Ed
chase your dreams guys! be confident and be open to learn always!
Robert Greene is top-tier on this game of life. The KNOWLEDGE & MASTERY of how to play the life is actually fantastic. And props to Tom for the interview he is such a good listener and great as well
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I wish I had someone around me whispering this kind of stuff everyday instead of doubt and negativity.
the only way to heal that is to be that person that you needed and that is the test of unselfishness because people present themselves as not worthy of encouragement ..and does that mean we have presented ourself that way ? I probably have and at the same time and in the same day could have used some encouragement ..cheers, Zaga
"A leader is a dealer in hope"
Zaga I was in love with someone that was negative 100% of the time. She always put me down even if she didn’t mean too. She drug me backwards and halted my progress in life. Luckily she cheated and left me. Without realizing it, that was the greatest blessing of my life. You have to try your best to become the positive in your life. And it will be so much better!
Same
Listen to Joe Dispenza. He's wonderful to help you reprogram your consciousness.
you know what scares me is awareness of self realization you are extremely powerful and it is very scary , give yourself a chance that is all.
nathan smith very true is so scary
I’m 18 right now, and I feel so unfulfilled with my life. In every job my mangers treat me beneath them or they talk to me inappropriately. I have always loved music, theatre, English literature. I hAve no idea what to do with my life right now, this video made me break down just thinking about everything he says hits my soul, I’m lost and trying to find my way but that’s okay because I don’t know what I was put on this earth to do. But I will try my hardest to accept my place when it comes.
Focus more on yourself and move forward.
His book The Laws of Human nature will be ideal for you right now.
In my experience, those that have a pattern of blaming others for how you are being treated, lack the ability to see their behavior, which is ultimately the cause of everyone else's actions. Basically, you are behaving in a certain pattern that all of your supervisors react the same way towards you. I owned a cafe and employed many just like you. Their lack of self awareness ultimately cost them their jobs.
Follow your heart.
Follow peace. Don't take things personally. Keep balance. You create your own life. X
Very few people know what they want to do with their life at age 18. You'll be fine. You'll figure it out. Give it time.
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There is one thing he is forgetting to say "if you are the best in the room, you are in the wrong room" so anyone who is able to put shine their boss, shouldn't be at that job, " you become a great master by always being in the room with people who are better at your skill than you.
thank you! this right here!
A true leader knows how to use the best talents around them or hire talent that's better than them. So don't outshine the master? Every master has their time, what makes the master a true master is how they handle this reality.
Rule nr 1: you only get smarter by playing against a smarter oponent.
Rule nr 2: the more sofisticated the game, the more sofisticated are the players!.
Most peoples self image ( ego), can’t handle the stress and grinding against smarter players because they are outcome dependent and have a fixed mindset ( a limited mindset, that don’t belive in growt and learning).
Rule nr 3: the more uncomfortable you can handle to be over time, the stronger you get. Those who only do what they are good at seldom grow. They choose short term gratification, and what feels emotionaly plessant in the here and now compared to " delaid gratification". There is huge power in knowing this. That is you can harvest power and money by investing in selling products and services that exploit others lazyness and lack of abillity to controll their emotions
Rule 4: choose the pain of learning and maintaining self discipline or choose the pain of regret og self denail.
Great comment! Letsssgoooo
I agree and yet sometimes you are stuck (location wise) in mediocrity
"95 % of what really matters in communication between people is not through words. Words are used to deceive you, to disguise what people are really thinking." Robert Greene
This is a new Era compared to 20 years ago
It won t work now. You can not move as fast as the younger once. There is no respect for elderly today. You just have to hide in your room and not even go out for food. Because the drive thru at dunking or McDonald's would get you so mad that you will have a stroke or heart attack. I even give up getting coffee because. This generation is too I don't give a fuck attitude. And instead of saying how can I help you
They say WHAT? OR WHAT DO YOU WANT??
If words are used to deceive then all sentences are deceptive. Including the sentence "words are used to deceive"
Also it would also logically follow that all Greens' books are deceptive as they use words.
This quote exposes Greens' lack of precision and poor ability to explain.
Maybe he meant words can be used to deceive. Which is just obvious
I am very thankful for this message from Robert green! Peace and love to everybody in tune with this frequency
lucky are the people who know what they want in life ... majority are just surviving life ..
Totally agree with u
Surviving is the overall objective , knowing what you want is an illusion
To escape survival, you have to take time out for yourself, be intentional about it, commit to a daily practice, no matter what the practice is. If you can do that for a year, you will see change and start to see what I takes to make change - intention and time. You will see how many distractions you've allowed, how many distractions you choose for a short fix to the feeling of 'I'm only surviving." And as you get older, you'll see that those daily practices are required just to sustain survival and that if you haven't committed to them, you're actually falling behind.
These ideas are so true. I'm 67 , and had opportunities pass me by listening to others instead of my own heart. I ended twice married to wrong people for me. I missed passionate careers because not enough money, or family said no. I'm still searching for the best possible way for me to work in my life's passion now at my age. I will have to be creative!
I don’t know you, but I’m rooting for you.
I can totally relate to that. Since 2nd grade, I wanted to be a writer, but my family was very discouraging. They even confiscated my books and my library card. I ended up in the computer industry which, though successful, I hated. Health issues pushed me to retire at 59 and so here I am. Thing is? I am also a wanderer! I learned how to paint, remodel (hate drywall!), make furniture (the sliding barndoor fireplace tv stands are very popular), etc. I also play piano and violin, write songs, design landscapes, etc. I learned natural medicine, so my health is improving. Learning is really fun. And I finally wrote a book I like. So when he says it is over at 60? Wrong! Best of luck to you, and have fun!
Age is just a number
Go for it whether dropping a guitar a brush or a pencil
All the best
I just started school for a second masters degree and was going to quit. I’m 60, in between jobs, and I’ve added a few extra pounds of weight. I felt like not trying any longer, but have a glimmer of hope since reading your comment.I am definitely in a rut!
Go for it 🎉
The hardest part is accepting how great you are !
Great video! That one person was definitely a narcissist. Thankfully they didn’t ruin my life... however they took me on a psychological detour of self discovery & self love. 💯☺️💝
Me too
Self improvement is a daily thing.
Don’t give up .
It’s hard to change but it’s possible.
It's possible you've got to have massive courage.
The laws of human nature and 48 laws of power were both amazing !!!!
Love it ✨️ As a digital nomad + part-time vanlifer, this is exactly what i listen to in order to manifest good things & happily live a fulfilling + minimal life in my RV !! Thanks 😊
I love this! I am headed to your channel (I just know you have one, right?)! 😊
I would love to have your lifestyle. I'm so heartbroken atm, my life changed completely forever
Yes!!
Probably among the best 10 minutes I have listened to in a long time. Thank you Robert for sharing this with us. You said so much in such a concise, yet powerful way. Thank you Tom for having invited Robert. Please keep going with the impactful work you’re having on us.
Robert greene is my favorite author,he's teaching me alot. He's like my old personal friend who teaches me
I've read all his books and I re-read them often. I have massive respect for Robert Greene.
Hope you are safe in this pandemic Angie?
Same
Which book of his had great impact on you ?
Reading Robert Greenes books changed my life. I just hope it is for the better.
when I read "The 48 laws of power", I started seeing his laws in action all around me. This made me go into a weird state of depression for about 3 weeks. As a naive and honest young man, thought to think the best in peoples actions, I instead started seeing their deliberate intentions.
In any case, of all the authors books I've read, non is more honest and spot on about our nature as Robert Greenes.
Thank you!
That's last part having a goal will get you where you want to be. That's very solid and straight to the point Mr Greene.
OODA Loop: Observe, Orient, Decide and Act. Make ourselves better every day. Thanks for the video.
Where can I learn more about This please?
The two most important attitudes for a beautiful life: gratitude and love
These two qualities will ensure whatever you do, wherever you are; you will speak and act beautifully, and the world will be brighter.
You see, when you are grateful, for even the lowliest of things, you are content.
And when you love, completely and purely, all you do and say will be sweet.
Beautifully said, 🌺
Amen!!
Ever since I was 4 I had only one dream, one day to be a teacher / an educator. I carried this childhood dream with me for 45 years and finally at 49 I have made my dream come true. I am absolutely satisfied and happy now. I was a clean lady, a worker, a baby sitter, kitchen helper, an engineer and now I'm the happiest educator. This profession is a calling for me and I love working with kids and young adults. I also love technique but the most I love to encourage, support and strengthen children and young people, to show them their wonderful abilities and strengths, so that they know who they are, what they are capable of and have a lot of fun with their development and with their lives 😊❤
Rich kids are not the most messed up people in the world.
They just have enough resources to mess up more than anyone else.
We all need to grow and learn and do it through Making mistakes.
10:10, I am 60 years old and have a different thought. Learning and doing is a life long process. Never have regrets; only lessons. Your wants and needs are always evolving, but one thing never changes and that is the time that you should get started, and that time is always NOW.
Awesome advice for us millennials, such a fresh and young perspective. Thank you, great hope for any of us who feel like lazily giving in to the martyristic thought: " it's too late for me..."
If you do not have regrets you are not genuine. A realist does not pretend they have not failed , they embrace the pain. Stoicism is not evasion of reality.
Agree
Having no regrets doesn't literally mean you don't care about reality. It means you have accepted your failure and learned your lesson out of that situation so you can do better next time around if the same or similar situation recurs.
At 61 years old I have always known who I am ...my path has taken me in many directions...Army / Police/ lawyer and long distance truck driver in the UK and Europe...I have eaten and drunk with many cultures...I have learned so much about them and myself...my wife calls it stubbornness but once some crosses my path wrongly they never get a second chance..I do not go looking for people they tend to come back to me no matter how long it takes
You are very wise.
What a blessing to always have known who you were meant to be. So many of us are late bloomers.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 226 subs and almost > 90 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
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This man contains so much wisdom. Great American thinker.
It’s really great : as waiting for the legend Robert Greene : already read most of his books/ all master pieces/ best sellers: but on TH-cam it’s easier handy to listen to: waiting , siting . awake at night , enables us to make best use of ur time(whenever and wherever such opportunity occurs)::🙏🙏👌
I highly recommend reading all Greene's books-in particular his latest, The Laws of Human Nature and The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. All brilliant and are hard to put down once you dive in.
I am madly in love with this man. Thank You Robert Greene #robertgreene you are awesome and I hope you are healing well.
It’s was just a regular Robert Greene interview, then.... there was a gentle piano in the background and suddenly, everything became more...emotional
Robert Greene has given this world wisdom and all the keys to master your life at a level unmatched by anyone at any time in human history. Eventually his books will outsell all other books and become the most sold books in history.
Wow! That first part happened to me so many times early in my career. My parents taught me to work hard and good things would happen. Lol the exact opposite happened. I had to learn politics and human insecurity on my own.
dejesus32 i know, been there. Glad we both fixed tjat
@@louie1086, how do you fix that if you are a medical provider and you try to do what is best for a patient and your boss gets jealous. I cannot do worse just to please my boss since the patient either suffers or feels worse than he/she could feel otherwise. It would be immoral.
@@Ot-ej5gi In this profession the patient comes first, stick to being the best provider you can be and let your bosses jealousy sit with him or her.
I disagree with that part of the video. We are not here to be seen as "good and friendly" all the time by other people just to take care of their ego. If other people are insecure, jealous or egocentric, that's THEIR problem, not yours.
If you want a better tip, remember that every decision, big or small, has good AND bad consequences. Every decision. So its up to you to decide what consequences work better for your goals in life.
U in law school good luck
The background music is so relevant and relaxing. Thank you for sharing
This was so good. It is amazing to think your exact dna and will never be repeated. We hold such immense and genuine potential.
Robert Greene has the most peaceful and kind voice
Pain is great!
Sorrow is preparation for joy.
Joy
I got so much motivational and positive quotes from this useful interview 😀😀😀👌👌👌
Thank you for sharing 😌🙏
Everyone of us has a talent or skills so we should use it in exact way to having successful in life, our destiny is depend upon the way we're leaving and action...
Amazing video. Even 4 years later. Watching this on my birthday 2/11 6:53am ❤️🔥
I admire Robert Greene. He is a genius.
I'm happy this video showed up on my feed as fast as my life turned I gotta get it back on track asap
Ironic. Of the millions of moments that make up a life, the single most unavoidable experience that's necessary for us to have life itself is birth. Being born. We might not remember the brutality of coming down the birth canal and into the cold harsh world, or being suddenly and forcefully grabbed by strange cold hands and yanked from the warmth of our mother's womb, and yet it's the most shocking, unexpected, brutal, and yet necessary moment of our lives. There is no life without the pain of birth. And yet as adults we immediately run at the first hint of discomfort. We shrink back the moment we're faced with pain. There's a revelation in that somewhere.
Yes it's called trauma. We are initiated into and subjected to trauma from the moment we enter the birth canal. There's your revelation.
Birth is not painful, my daughter was sleeping peaceful when she came out. The uterus contracts to make room for the baby to come out comfortably without being hurt. If the mother pushes the baby out right when the uterus is contracted the baby is not in any pain at all, nor do it suffer. This is a fact. I attended lamaz class through my pregnancy and pushed only during the contraction and my baby came out very peaceful and sleeping.
@@ladybird491 The unpleasantness of birth is not limited to being squished inside the birth canal.. It is the pain of breathing amniotic fluid one moment, then forcefully coughint out that fluid as you gasp a lung full of polluted earth air. Breathing fluid, then breathing air, requires forecful choke-like coughing. My youngest son was born asleep too. Until he had to breathe air. All of my children cried while trying to breathe their first breath
"birth pains" is a metaphor for the pains and hardships of beginnings until you master it.
@@bonicraig9745 Birth pains is a actually a metaphor (dating back to two thousand years ago) for what is literally unfolding on the earth right now. Locusts swarms all across the planet - ravaging entire nations, consuming all the vegetation, leading to massive famine; massive species die-offs globally; plagues and pestilence; wars and rumors of wars ; insane weather patterns never seen before with intense volatility in sudden, unpredictable storms; earthquakes in diverse places increasing in intensity and in frequency; Russia, Iran and Turkey all joining forces against the nation of Israel (they're now allies and are occupying the borders of Israel as we speak - something unheard of until just a few years ago)... every single indicator that Jesus provided in His Word regarding exactly what would happen right before the 7 year tribulation begins IS HAPPENING. The only prophetic event still pending is the complete and total devastation of Damascus. This could happen at any minute (clearly, as Beirut illustrates). Jesus said that just as a woman in labor experiences increasingly painful and frequent "pangs" which indicate the delivery of her child is near, so it will also be with these signs upon the earth as the final seven year tribulation is about to begin.
To anyone reading this:
Jesus Christ is the one and only Son of God. He gave His life as payment for the wages of your sin in order to reconcile you back into His Kingdom for all eternity. He died a brutal death because He LOVES YOU. He gave His life to save yours - because He VALUES YOU, THAT MUCH. Enough to shed His own blood for you, knowing you might still reject Him.
You do not get to cease existing when this life is over. You are an eternal CREATED being with an eternity that's being determined by the choices you make right now. Receive the mercy of Christ Jesus. Admit you have have sinned (if you aren't sure you have, check out the 10 commandments), and turn away from those sins (this is called repenting). Confess that He is the only Son of God, that He alone can save us. Believe that He has redeemed you from eternal punishment. And start reading the Word of God every day. He will show Himself to be who He says He is, if you seek him sincerely and ask Him to reveal the Truth to you. He's an incredibly loving Savior.. intimacy with Jesus is the only way to be spared from the next 7 years to come.
This validates my decisions in life of not following the norm, of combining my passion with my expertise, of having goals and understanding my uniqueness, of not following the norms, of getting myself out a depression.....very insightful
I love the tranquility doc.Greene's wisdom gives to my thoughts!
As my ex husband says, "it's never too late until you're dead" He is so right about that!! Idk... I'm ready at 50 to be who Father created me to be. And that is independent of my past failures, or what people say....
A small group of women in our 60s and 70s are meeting in Charlotte, NC this May to focus on just what you have mentioned. Would you be interested in obtaining information and attending?
Outstanding video, Robert is changing my life, what a gem
Very well put together, something that actually and finally holds my attention from the beginning!
I enjoy listening to you. I will return again when in mood. So relatable. Thank you, take care, God bless 🙂💙
Embraced your pain that sooooo profound! I remember read a book long time ago and the author says at the first page i thank God for the gift of pain,i was soooo surprised,after i finished reading the book i understand why he said that,it has been a massive blessing to me that phrase until now!indeed i thank God for the gift of pain!God is awesome!God bless everyone!
Robert Thank you ! Again & Again
Thank you, Robert Greene.
Hope you are safe in this pandemic C K?
Thank u so much for this , Robert Greene is one of the best teachers and authors of our generation ❤💙
I love this video... astrology & astronomy help me to understand my true purpose in life. Great video thanks so much for sharing this.💕🌺
astrology is a pseudoscience
You so fine. What's your IG
Just passed this video and saw your comments and I clicked on it and saw your channel I’m very much interested in knowing about your channel
TH-cam is one of the best things in humanity right now. Period.
Let what you want be what you need.
Let what you need be what you should.
Let what you should be what you must.
Let what you must be what you want.
This is the best quote so far🙂
Amazing 🙏
The most realistic motivator in the world..
Be in the moment with conflicting thoughts and be okay with it. Awesome 😎
This topic was covered beautifully!
Most of us don’t wake up until 60 but nothing impossible
Good video keep that child within able to be free to learn & do & follows the heart within
Love listening and watching these kinds of videos, it allows me to hear what life looks like from other people and a great person's POV (Robert Greene) in their own words, their opinion + advices and life lessons. Wish videos like this are played in schools at least from time to time, but I never experienced one.
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We are all unique just like everyone else. What a fascinating paradox.
Society destroys our innocence that gives us our most creativity
Self consciousness and self awareness are the two things that can be shut down IF we let it?....... thank you for posting
Great forum, guests and topic. One thing popped in my mind while warching I have to share... we don't regret things we do, we regret the things we DONT do. 👍🏼✌🏼
Excellent !!!!!!!!!!!! Tom Bilyeu ( Impact Theory/ Quest ) interview with Robert Greene ❤️Thank You
You have really aspire me to moving forward in my life!!! I thank you for those encouraging words...
I am 65, and as a retired teacher I am on my way to my dream! Funny how it is my youngest daughter who moved away and found the place for me! I am moving to another state and opening my dream cafe/art studio. But, I always kept that idea and feeling that it would be. The building even looks like my imagined location…now that is big stuff! Lol Blessings to all
Heaven will move earth and you towards your dream, don’t give up!
Becoming more and more like other people, how sad. Ultimately the purpose of life for is happiness and that's my wish for everyone reading this.
One of the best videos I have ever watched in my life, and they were a lot!
His books improved my life a lot, thank you Robert :)
I get so peaceful listening to this
I have so much to thank for this man. Blessing Robert 🙏🙏🙏
Yay, my entire life has been changed by watching an 11 minute video on You Tube. I glory be!
“Never outshine the boss”
Break that golden rule and it can follow your for decades.
Thank you for this video. Music is lovely and soothing.
Very inspirational and informative video!! Thank you for the upload! 🙌🏾
Thanks for watching Mia !
Nice shirt maa
The music in the background though... good interview inspiring talk
When he said being 23 is easy it broke my heart I’m 26 and I feel like a failure
What if you are not a failure?
Dear friend, I understand what you might feel. I sometimes feel the same way.
I want you to know that you are not a failure. You are a beautiful Being.
The thoughts that tell you that you are a failure are the ones that lead to situations that confirm that you're a failure.
It is the ego's way of deceiving you. Don't be fooled. You are not your thoughts.
Encourage yourself. Pick yourself up. You can do it.
You can think new thoughts and it will lead to new experiences.
If you really loved yourself, what might you think then?
Sending you loads of Love Shay, You and I are One.
To be aware ...take a path, have a goal...very nice, very clear🌎
The 48 laws of Power is my new Bible. It's saving me.
How?
That’s sad
I am really trying to move forward with my "quest". I did some language study this morning. Have book on electronics coming. I have most of the tools I need to build projects. Over 50 and I am bringing everything together. It's been fun to hunt for everything I think I'll need.
The older I get the more insecure people I notice and come across, such an anchor.