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i know how getting bad advice from ppl with good intentions , ppl that love u have a habit in putting their limitations on u but i think to myself who in this world do u really have to live up to or what you suppose to be its like most ppl feel like they have to pray to some social god lol
That’s because the choices were yours. They weren’t forced on you. Everything was organic. The people who interacted with you weren’t pretending but being themselves. You cut off people you didn’t like and no one bat an eye. You talked to people who you liked back and both of you reciprocated. You met people you liked and had genuine long lasting friendships, who were there for you, never too busy to see you and supported you. People let you LIVE and flourish, while they lived and flourished themselves. You were surrounded by WHOLE and lovely people. Not broken, traumatised and flawed people, who never attain happiness, fail to find happiness, ruin every second of every day, know how to put you off in seconds and can’t see you happy or successful. You were safe from traumatised, cynical, pessimistic and broken people. Surrounded by WHOLE and lovely people. Of course, that will make you happy.
I started making art at 50, just last year. I did major in art in college, but never had the opportunity to pursue. I’m in uncertainty and sometimes feel this might be too late, but I decided not to quit.
With the way he speaks and words he chooses, you can tell he's been dragged through the sewers of life. Every time he opens his mouth is a wealth of knowledge
Lol the sewers of life? An LA Jewish kid who went to Berkeley and then traveled Europe working odd jobs and writing poetry (probably heavily subsidized by his parents) until he came home to get a job at esquire and then Hollywood? Until hitting it big on bombastic self help books black dudes like to read in prison. Those are some nice sewers
As a control freak, I 100% agree. I sometimes let complete go and just go with the natural flow though. But there has to be some balance. You need to control yourself and your own environment and let go of external environments that you can't control.
@@True38 great way to think about it learning to leave your metaphorical hand open at certain times and other times clench and steer yourself into situations that make sense long term
I am so glad I found this interview with Robert. I am a 77 years young serial entrepreneur with THREE reinventions of myself - radio/TV investigative reporter for Post Newsweek TV Group; public relations consultant to the Original Marlboro Man and other celebs; 23 years writing about in eight books and teaching preparedness and survival skills and now pursuing interior design for my Raptor Domes™.
he was the mentor for Ryan, Holiday of The Daily Stoic and many books and a podcast regarding Stoicism. I suspect you could classify Robert as a stoic for sure. They still collaborate as i understand.
@@deborahjackwl5631 Must be an American thing, where hosts constantly interrupt and talk too much. The interviewer kept comparing his experiences etc. and that's not why we're here. I like Diary of a CEO where the British guy asks brief questions to move it along then sits back and lets the guest talk.
I’ve followed every interview he’s done. He looks so handsome and healthy, and I can only imagine him being so stubborn to get stronger and stronger every day. What an inspiration. Absolutely my hero.
This interview didn’t feel like 52:15 minutes. Felt shorter because of how valuable and enlightening this interview was with Robert Green. Thank you for giving this man an outlet
What I loved about this interview is Robert seems so humble. Although a genuis in his own craft, it’s refreshing to hear that he can put his ego aside and lean/trust his woman for advice on his work. I love men like this.
I bought that book 48 Laws of Power 25 years ago and it made such a difference in my life. It taught me what it means to have power, how those with power can loose it, and who has had the power throughout history and how it shapes our lives today.Thank you 🙏
@@oculusprime536 Perhaps, Champloo, TrevorthetherapisT was, consciously or subconsciously, using the power to make people (aka you) come to him by making a spelling error. And here I am, too, in the thrall of both of you.
For a couple years now, whenever I’m in a crisis in my life, somehow my path crosses Robert Greene’s books and talks. And now I’m at a point in my life that I understand his points about power with every fibre of my existence and it gives me a strong assurance that what I’ve learnt are very aligned with his lessons and also, the confidence and the hope that I can change my life for the better. He’s talking and it feels as if I’m talking, with the difference that I’m still have a long way to go to get out of the woods to some extent. This was such an honest interview. Awesome work, both of you.
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
It's very interesting and somewhat comforting, that someone as successful as Robert had such a hard time in his early career, met a lot of horrible bosses, but made it in spite of that. As a young guy trying to find his future career, and that had similar encounters, that really puts you down.
Being an introvert is NOT equal to social anxiety/self esteem. They are two different things but can present the same. It time people stop grouping the traits from either as one.
But remember from a technical standpoint extraversion is associated with positive mood and assertiveness so the lack of it I.e introversion , is often associated with lack of assertiveness and at least a perceived lack of amiability
Yep, while there is correlation with shyness (for obvious reasons: less social experience and, thus, less social skills) a.k.a. neurosis, they are different things.
@@davyroger3773 I'm an introvert and assertive as hell. Too assertive actually as I tend to scare people away. This society has become so soft and fragile, in order to get a job these days, do the least amount of work and the worst job getting it... If you're highly ambitious like me, screw everyone else and just start your own business. At least that way you can maintain a high-quality standard and you don't need to be worried about living up to others' expectations. Because I can literally just stand completely still and still leave up to most of them.
Went to high school - NCSSM 1989-1991; was likely the dumbest kid in the whole school. It was very tough but I acceptable that I cannot compete in life in certain fields/areas. Since high school, failed many times, rejected many times. Allowed me to rethink what I can be good at and help me develop persistence and the habit of work hard. Now, I am part of a happy family and a "relatively" successful nephrologist.
This is, to me, the most special interview I've ever seen on TH-cam, and I discovered it on the exact day I was think about myself and my interpersonal struggles I feel. Perfect example of synchronistic experience. Thank you.
Agreed. My wife shared this video with me. I love writing but I was on the verge of giving up because I saw no results. Then I heard Robert say he knew he was a writer aind needed to find what kind of writing he was good at. That statement resonated with me. I reworked a humorous story from our marriage I had previously written and submitted it to a podcast looking for guests. The host contacted me and asked us to be her guests. I am finding my niche! BTW...You were an awesome interviwer who asked the right questions to get answers persons like me needed to hear.
Omg I swear today I was writing and questioning my reality and life and then I descovered this amazing human being and the weird and beautiful part is that he answers to the exact same things I was contemplating about … magical
What a fantastic and encouraging talk. I am a woman in my forties that has changed careers several times, I've lived in several countries and most definitely haven't walked the traditional path. I get so disheartened sometimes as in the eyes of our society I'm a 'failure' but what if bigger things are meant for me? What if I have an entrepreneurial brain rather than the inability to commit? I know a lot of this was geared towards young people making life choices but this really resonated with me. Thank you for a renewed sense of enthusiasm.
I can't believe anyone would view being able to survive in several different countries and being able to start several carriers a failure. From what I can gather from your short comment, I think you're doing amazing! 😅
@@francookie9353 30 can be a difficult age, I remember feeling like I hadn't achieved anything and I was running so behind in life. Actually I'd done so much by that age, I just didn't acknowledge it. Perhaps write a list of all your achievements and that doesn't need to be awards and accolades necessarily but even overcoming a fear you may have had or having a difficult conversation with someone that went well, sticking out a job or even leaving a job etc. Once you've written them all down, you start to see things differently. Really hope that's useful. I'm sure you've got lots going for you and if you don't have much to write down, maybe think of some things you would like to do in the next few years, wishing you all the best 💖
Your never a failure-sometimes the plans dont go ahead as a person wishes-the most important project you work on is yourself.Good on you for being positive and its your life and your responsible to make yourself happy and content-its your life and your story.
TH-cam recommended this video. I decided to watch it because the title captivated me. I guess we gravitate towards things that we resonate with. I've always felt like my life is a mess; it has no direction. So, yeah. Why not give the vid a shot? In the course of the video, there was a mention of "Nothing goes to waste" which has always been my motto in trying to justify all the seemingly useless stuff that I did in my life. I felt validated. But the truth is, it's only when I look back that then I could connect the dots. Truly nothing is wasted. I think as long as we are moving forward and just striving to do things that matter to us, there will be a reason for it in the future and only then will we realize that the thing we did was not a waste. But, of course, when we know for certain that what we're doing now is not useless, it does help ease the anxiety. But life is full of unknowns. I guess we just have to trust that what we're doing right now is what's meant to be.
Great interview as a 35 year old man, I can start to feel that mentality, Im not in the worst place, but I feel I need that step up, and also to hear the true self. Very inspiring, thank you.
I'm so amazed at how Robert is so humble and modest even with the amount of fame and popularity he received in the last 20 years, it's so rare these days. I'm sure a lot of people can relate to his life, I know I am relating to it (also had dozens of different jobs while knowing exactly the few things that I am passionate about...but didn't listen to that inner voice of becoming an entrepreneur with those skills and interests). Listening to how he explains things and how we must approach life destroys all the hundreds of "motivational gurus/salesmen" we see online.
Oh boy is that the truth about ENVY being the biggest danger…. You don’t see it until it’s too late …… ENVY…. made my life a total misery… but at the time I didn’t know and was not aware that was the reason why I was being persecuted… I was oblivious.. …I am soo grateful to Robert Greene ..and his books… also for these videos they are very much appreciated Thank you 🙏 💛🌻🏴🇦🇺
Yoh have no idea Robert how much difference you have created in my life. I will always be indebted to you for the wisdom you have shared through your books.
The mindset that you're on the right station, you're just dialing in the frequency is perfect! That's a really helpful way to look at finding your Life's task!
I. Was born in 59 also but didn‘t get anywherr near rhis. I read the 48 laws of power and value this book with accuracy. Being a lawyer who must use language and preciseness as a tool to work with, this interview is very inspirational.
I owe a lot of my success and thriving in life to Robert Greene. From “The 48 Laws of Power”, to “The Art of Seduction”, to “Mastery” and “The Laws of Human Nature” I feel that I understand relationships, inter-personal dynamics and can maneuver in every type of environment, thanks to this wise man. Thanks Rob!!!
Genuinely did you learn anything applicable from his book on seduction? I think it's one of the worst books that has been written on the topic in the last few decades.
What a tremendous success story. I’m surprised he lived over seas for so long! As a lost 22 year old, Robert’s story inspires me to expand on my experience and really ask my self what it is I am good at, and what it is that I can offer.
Deflect envy...my god if l wrote all these books with all that cash no one would get a look in...l would love it.. Don't appear to perfect l am still learning at 64 You can also learn from your haters..
I appreciate his well though out responses and at 67, I’ve also had a very challenging life full of adventures with the ups and downs. I always thought I might like to be a author, but I didn’t know what I could write about, so that others would be interested in reading my story’s. Now with this interview, it has given me the seeds to play with, and develop some aspects of my own life’s journey to commit the written page.
@@hobojungle1 actually I’ve started it a “Romance Action Thriller” Titled “Trading Shoes With my Lover” Why she let me go. . . . . . Starting on a second book “Finding Mary”, a day in the life of an Expat First book leads to the second book and half way around the world to South East Asia I’m creating a board game on the subject and life experiences in SOUTH EAST ASIA and eventual digital version also so others can play my life long thrilling adventures coming true
All of this is very nice. The problem is what to do when you get stuck at 40, with regret, alone, in a place you don't want to live, no money, a handful of additions, a career you don't like at all that cost you a great deal economically and mentally for 20 years and is the only thing you know how to do, out of shape and all your friends and family seems to be on track. And you know all is your fault, feel deep guilt cause you had all the resources at your disposal and multiple chances to get it right , but you wasted them all. And now, you can't find the energy/motivation/drive to start going the other way. It is a strange feeling with you have already given up, but you don't care any more.
The key is... Don't depend* on motivation. Build up a habit instead. Something that you work on daily without motivation or even thinking about it. By just doing and acting on your goals/dreams, you are far ahead than 95% of people on earth
Thanks to this, I decided to quit social media forever. I could feel people's bad energies through the screen. I wanted to share my happiness but they weren't happy with mine. I already have to deal a lot by myself and having other people throw shit at you constantly, people you thought were your friends, is just too much to handle. I'm a pretty lonely person but I rather stay like this than having to deal with the BS that's out there.
I kinda did the same so I totally understand ur perspective, its very lonely n depressing but it doesn’t help totally especially in today’s world . I dnt have the appropriate answers as i am trying to find for myself too maybe thats why iam on this video
48 laws of power is so important for everyone to read once and when you feel abit of a dip in life and you are looking for an answer again re read it or parts you need from it, you may find that something you were missing or failing to understand in how to play your next move and to make it one of your best
Starting at the fact that the self is transitory, discovering ourselves is an always calibrating and endless journey. Outstanding interview, your interviewing skills are simply amazing!
wow, your personality's really complemented each other, in the sense that you really listened and timed your questions rightfully so as he was speaking about the right topic and Robert greene answered every question with an amazing level of clarity and honesty whilst still managing to be contextual and using science and experimental studies as evidence. I`m embarrassed to have honestly written an entire paragraph but I`m literally so impressed.
I'm 31 and I tell myself exactly that. There may be someone who thinks the same and she is 29 or 26. It's funny we got to let go of the age thing. Focus on what interests you.
I’m turning 39 in February… I feel like I’m alittle out of control bc I’m trying to micro manage and not focus on my purpose, marriage and child. I know it’s never to late to start things going..
@@mikewallis2987 I'm confused why you believe so. There are so many people that do this actually. Travel the world, discover cultures/experiences, and increase networking probability for success. Not made for everyone, but I can see someone like Greene doing this.
9:24 I like the story of the clueless editor, just goes to show you. As the saying goes: "No" doesn"t mean you can't. It just means you can't with that person.
48:03 I'm just like Robert Greene, a classic introvert who just can't stand political and social games, especially now that I'm almost 37 years old and have worked so many different jobs. Being an Entrepreneur, Business Owner, and Investor right now, I just can't stand the thought of going back to the same old games where I have to live up to other people's (often low / pathetic) expectations, rather than just living up to my own expectations. Also, I could care less about what people think, and would rather not be bothered with that issue either because, at the end of the day, nobody gives a shit about you anyway unless you serve their self-interest. Now, I don't really mind working for and with other people but the position has to be at least as independent as possible.
Robert Greene'i çok seviyorum. Onun İktidar kitabı sayesinde derin bir depresyonun karanlıklarından kurtuldum. Teşekkürler Robert, bize kötü insanları tanıttığın ve onlarla nasıl mücadele edeceğimizi öğrettiğin için. Şimdi elimde başka kitabını okurken zekasına hayranlık duyuyor ve kucak dolu sevgilerimi iletiyorum. 🥰😍🙏💐💐💐
Robert Greene is great for inspiration and grounding, sensing where you're lacking in your discernment of how your view of the world could be improved.
I like that your way of interviewing has provided a chance to hear Robert's words in a sort of spontaneous chat. I could clearly hear what he had to say about different things- which is incredibly helpful.
Mr Robert Greene is the not only the best author, but the best psychologist . If you want a brutal , honest advisor, he is the ONE.He can teach us to improve the behaviour especially when you are new to the job.
hearing those of your setbacks makes me feel im long way up to my life to be depresed about in my own situation right now. this makes me feel so great and motivated.
Thank you a lot Mr Greene for all your work. I have just completed reading the law of nature book, i am re- reading the 48 laws of power , and mastery. I am becoming reacher and better with these materials. Thanks a lot for making your work easily accessible. May you be spared longevity for more materials to come out of your life
You can control much of your life when you learn self-dialogue which is big part of your thinking. Another way to be in control is to recognize & manage your emotions. Not feelings because feelings are not good or bad. They are just temporary. I can easily go from feeling unpleasant to feeling pleasant. Emotions are much different. Emotions are a whole lot more important because they reveal our attitude towards life. I can choose to have HOPE, LOVE, JOY & AWE. As opposed to HATE, FEAR, GUILT & DESPAIR. Which is what an older brain experiences. A younger brain starts with mad, sad & glad. A developed brain can feel hope and as a result develop, for example, consistent enthusiasm. Which is VERY important. Also, LOVE is a VERY powerful emotion. When I love myself naturally I have an inclination to love the people that I'm closest to. Vice versa. When I love the people that I'm closest to, it becomes easier to love myself even more. A similar emotion is AWE. When I am in awe of someone or something, it opens my eyes to other people and other things that are AWESOME that I just didn't recognize before. Joy is fairly easy to obtain. Instant gratification doesn't take much effort. But, joy through delayed gratification takes patience and brings MUCH greater REWARDS. That is why the adage is: PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE. A lot of positive attributes are important to have. Persistence is huge. Resilience is obviously important. Gratefulness is also huge in that it can help me from feeling too much "self-pity". Confidence is huge because it is the by-product of success. I succeed through great daily habits and achieving many small goals that lead up to a larger goal. One last thing to help. Have pictures of loved ones for inspiration and have pictures of your successful events to get to your most important goal. What do you think that most important goal might be? USUALLY, IT IS YOUR NEXT ONE. One very last thing to help. You can either make things happen, watch other people make things happen or have things happen to you. It is up to you.
Listened to this on my morning walk…. Love synchronicities… I’m currently 35 and have been wanting to write a book for a couple years thanks for this timely reminder I’m right on track👌🏽
This is true, but before you seek control, you should first seek to know who you truly are at a core level. Ignore that step and you'll just be spinning your wheels going nowhere.
It's so much more important than some of you may realize that you have to do work you're passionate about and give it your best shot *every time*. If it fails, you can know that you did your best and then you can learn off of that failure. On a 30 year journey you're going to have a lot of failure if you want to have a lot of success, especially early on. Also the 10,000 hour rule is real, even if the numbers arent exact. That's how long it takes to get sufficiently better than everyone else because they drop out.
Thought this was an old upload he’s so healthy I’m glad we collectively can raise RG up.. what are tremendous author of pouring it out for all is to read. 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Quite enjoyed this interview of one of my favorite authors. Kudos to the intelligent interviewer too. It was a very pleasant and enlightening conversation.
I love how Robert quotes Get Rich or Die Trying as he's talking about 50. Robert you are my favourite author hands down, you gave me hope in my interests and showed me that it's possible to have a mentor who's an ex con hip hop star and another one who's an established billionaire CEO.
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Thanks for a beautiful piece of podcast, love Robert specially when he is addressing big audience in a conference!
Dont measure your success just be proud of all that u accomplish
i know how getting bad advice from ppl with good intentions , ppl that love u have a habit in putting their limitations on u but i think to myself who in this world do u really have to live up to or what you suppose to be its like most ppl feel like they have to pray to some social god lol
I wrote my novel at 61, a screenplay at 71. Nothing I did before that was wasted. Now at 72, I am reinventing myself again. It’s never too late.
That’s because the choices were yours. They weren’t forced on you. Everything was organic. The people who interacted with you weren’t pretending but being themselves. You cut off people you didn’t like and no one bat an eye.
You talked to people who you liked back and both of you reciprocated. You met people you liked and had genuine long lasting friendships, who were there for you, never too busy to see you and supported you.
People let you LIVE and flourish, while they lived and flourished themselves. You were surrounded by WHOLE and lovely people. Not broken, traumatised and flawed people, who never attain happiness, fail to find happiness, ruin every second of every day, know how to put you off in seconds and can’t see you happy or successful.
You were safe from traumatised, cynical, pessimistic and broken people. Surrounded by WHOLE and lovely people. Of course, that will make you happy.
That's awesome.
Its what you make it,instead of excuses,what did you learn?
Thank you
I started making art at 50, just last year. I did major in art in college, but never had the opportunity to pursue. I’m in uncertainty and sometimes feel this might be too late, but I decided not to quit.
With the way he speaks and words he chooses, you can tell he's been dragged through the sewers of life. Every time he opens his mouth is a wealth of knowledge
Ikr? He really shows success coming from pain and suffering. I believe he almost loses his life at the brink of reaching his goal.
I agree
So well said 👍
more like a wealth of psychopathic manure
Lol the sewers of life? An LA Jewish kid who went to Berkeley and then traveled Europe working odd jobs and writing poetry (probably heavily subsidized by his parents) until he came home to get a job at esquire and then Hollywood? Until hitting it big on bombastic self help books black dudes like to read in prison. Those are some nice sewers
According to research, one of the factors that makes people happy is to be able to control most aspects of their lives.
agree
Narcissism
NO YOU are wrong 🤔 The TOP people in Business today are not HAPPY(THE DARK SIDE IN THE WEE SMALL HOURS 4am) 🏴🤪
As a control freak, I 100% agree. I sometimes let complete go and just go with the natural flow though. But there has to be some balance. You need to control yourself and your own environment and let go of external environments that you can't control.
@@True38 great way to think about it learning to leave your metaphorical hand open at certain times and other times clench and steer yourself into situations that make sense long term
Anyone else on a binge of Robert lol what a legend
As a quiet person he is incredibly inspiring to me
ME!!!
Mom: You need to get your shit together.
Me: I’m fine mom!
Robert Greene: You need to get your shit together.
Me: Yes Sensei.
This is accurate
Right!!!
Some people bring out move
there is something to be said for which person one hears something from
@@chesterullrich2525 i love if we
I am so glad I found this interview with Robert. I am a 77 years young serial entrepreneur with THREE reinventions of myself - radio/TV investigative reporter for Post Newsweek TV Group; public relations consultant to the Original Marlboro Man and other celebs; 23 years writing about in eight books and teaching preparedness and survival skills and now pursuing interior design for my Raptor Domes™.
Wow so inspiring
Robert Green is a realist. There are few realists in the world. I admire his courage and personal conviction.
Not quite ‘the realist’, if i may. Sounding a pragmatist with an inner drive or force to break away fm the general mode.
@@ellefirogeni4624realistic*
he was the mentor for Ryan, Holiday of The Daily Stoic and many books and a podcast regarding Stoicism. I suspect you could classify Robert as a stoic for sure. They still collaborate as i understand.
Robert Greene never disappoints! His lucid style of talking! Beautiful!
thanks
Perfectly said.
completely agree, I could listen to him all day. I only wish the interviewer would have spoken less here
@@deborahjackwl5631 omg i was thinking the sameee!
@@deborahjackwl5631
Must be an American thing, where hosts constantly interrupt and talk too much.
The interviewer kept comparing his experiences etc. and that's not why we're here. I like Diary of a CEO where the British guy asks brief questions to move it along then sits back and lets the guest talk.
He looks and sounds better than last year. He is healing himself. Amazing
Ya, I totally agree. It makes me happy to see him look so well
What was wrong with him?
Amazing! What a great man, he is like one of those historical figures he is writing about.
He had a strock
@@bambinoruth348 he had a stroke
I’ve followed every interview he’s done. He looks so handsome and healthy, and I can only imagine him being so stubborn to get stronger and stronger every day. What an inspiration. Absolutely my hero.
100% Agreed!!!
Was he sick with something?
@@wicomms stroke
@@domo_willson ohh nooo
Would you hook up with him?
When you self- validate you realize you are okay exactly the way you are. It's radical.
Agree. There is a lot of psychology in the interview
This interview didn’t feel like 52:15 minutes. Felt shorter because of how valuable and enlightening this interview was with Robert Green. Thank you for giving this man an outlet
What I loved about this interview is Robert seems so humble. Although a genuis in his own craft, it’s refreshing to hear that he can put his ego aside and lean/trust his woman for advice on his work. I love men like this.
I bought that book 48 Laws of Power 25 years ago and it made such a difference in my life. It taught me what it means to have power, how those with power can loose it, and who has had the power throughout history and how it shapes our lives today.Thank you 🙏
Totally agree!
Maybe one day the power to spell Lose. Jp. Agreed
@@oculusprime536 grammar police here 🚨
@@oculusprime536 Perhaps, Champloo, TrevorthetherapisT was, consciously or subconsciously, using the power to make people (aka you) come to him by making a spelling error. And here I am, too, in the thrall of both of you.
Which one? He has several books.
For a couple years now, whenever I’m in a crisis in my life, somehow my path crosses Robert Greene’s books and talks. And now I’m at a point in my life that I understand his points about power with every fibre of my existence and it gives me a strong assurance that what I’ve learnt are very aligned with his lessons and also, the confidence and the hope that I can change my life for the better. He’s talking and it feels as if I’m talking, with the difference that I’m still have a long way to go to get out of the woods to some extent. This was such an honest interview. Awesome work, both of you.
Been that way since 2016 , same !
That's amazing! Most people meet someone who makes a difference in their lives but they don't tell that truth. You're humble
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
I love you
Same to you lovely lady ❤
Wow, i need this today. Love you, Nat! I wish the same for you❣️
Thank you
What u write here is gibberish. It means u are not actually where u are and stop spreading nonsense
That glass table is working overtime.
Lol true
Astute observation. More interesting is the fact that you made at least 50 people scroll up and look at Robert Greens table.
@@GeorgeDrippyyeah okay
It's very interesting and somewhat comforting, that someone as successful as Robert had such a hard time in his early career, met a lot of horrible bosses, but made it in spite of that. As a young guy trying to find his future career, and that had similar encounters, that really puts you down.
Good luck with the career myth.
It's because he experienced these problems that he was able to identify then solve these obstacles.
Anthony Bourdain had a similar life
The fact that Robert Greene said get rich or die trying after collaborating with 50 just made this the greatest interview on earth
thanks Nate
Being an introvert is NOT equal to social anxiety/self esteem. They are two different things but can present the same. It time people stop grouping the traits from either as one.
But remember from a technical standpoint extraversion is associated with positive mood and assertiveness so the lack of it I.e introversion , is often associated with lack of assertiveness and at least a perceived lack of amiability
Interesting
Yep, while there is correlation with shyness (for obvious reasons: less social experience and, thus, less social skills) a.k.a. neurosis, they are different things.
@@davyroger3773 I'm an introvert and assertive as hell. Too assertive actually as I tend to scare people away. This society has become so soft and fragile, in order to get a job these days, do the least amount of work and the worst job getting it...
If you're highly ambitious like me, screw everyone else and just start your own business. At least that way you can maintain a high-quality standard and you don't need to be worried about living up to others' expectations. Because I can literally just stand completely still and still leave up to most of them.
@@True38 what does assertive exactly mean? Speak your mind no matter what?
I can just listen Robert Greene speaking and never get bored!
Amazed by the wisdom, charisma and power in a kind way he exudes.
Went to high school - NCSSM 1989-1991; was likely the dumbest kid in the whole school. It was very tough but I acceptable that I cannot compete in life in certain fields/areas. Since high school, failed many times, rejected many times. Allowed me to rethink what I can be good at and help me develop persistence and the habit of work hard. Now, I am part of a happy family and a "relatively" successful nephrologist.
This is, to me, the most special interview I've ever seen on TH-cam, and I discovered it on the exact day I was think about myself and my interpersonal struggles I feel. Perfect example of synchronistic experience. Thank you.
thank you Fredrick
Agreed.
My wife shared this video with me.
I love writing but I was on the verge of giving up because I saw no results.
Then I heard Robert say he knew he was a writer aind needed to find what kind of writing he was good at.
That statement resonated with me.
I reworked a humorous story from our marriage I had previously written and submitted it to a podcast looking for guests.
The host contacted me and asked us to be her guests.
I am finding my niche!
BTW...You were an awesome interviwer who asked the right questions to get answers persons like me needed to hear.
same bro
Omg I swear today I was writing and questioning my reality and life and then I descovered this amazing human being and the weird and beautiful part is that he answers to the exact same things I was contemplating about … magical
agreed
What a fantastic and encouraging talk. I am a woman in my forties that has changed careers several times, I've lived in several countries and most definitely haven't walked the traditional path. I get so disheartened sometimes as in the eyes of our society I'm a 'failure' but what if bigger things are meant for me? What if I have an entrepreneurial brain rather than the inability to commit? I know a lot of this was geared towards young people making life choices but this really resonated with me. Thank you for a renewed sense of enthusiasm.
I can't believe anyone would view being able to survive in several different countries and being able to start several carriers a failure.
From what I can gather from your short comment, I think you're doing amazing! 😅
@@francookie9353 oh that's so lovely of you to say. Thank you X
@@m.e.l9482 I'm almost thirty and my life is going ✨nowhere✨ - I have hope I'll figure something out.
@@francookie9353 30 can be a difficult age, I remember feeling like I hadn't achieved anything and I was running so behind in life. Actually I'd done so much by that age, I just didn't acknowledge it. Perhaps write a list of all your achievements and that doesn't need to be awards and accolades necessarily but even overcoming a fear you may have had or having a difficult conversation with someone that went well, sticking out a job or even leaving a job etc. Once you've written them all down, you start to see things differently. Really hope that's useful. I'm sure you've got lots going for you and if you don't have much to write down, maybe think of some things you would like to do in the next few years, wishing you all the best 💖
Your never a failure-sometimes the plans dont go ahead as a person wishes-the most important project you work on is yourself.Good on you for being positive and its your life and your responsible to make yourself happy and content-its your life and your story.
TH-cam recommended this video. I decided to watch it because the title captivated me. I guess we gravitate towards things that we resonate with. I've always felt like my life is a mess; it has no direction. So, yeah. Why not give the vid a shot? In the course of the video, there was a mention of "Nothing goes to waste" which has always been my motto in trying to justify all the seemingly useless stuff that I did in my life. I felt validated. But the truth is, it's only when I look back that then I could connect the dots. Truly nothing is wasted. I think as long as we are moving forward and just striving to do things that matter to us, there will be a reason for it in the future and only then will we realize that the thing we did was not a waste. But, of course, when we know for certain that what we're doing now is not useless, it does help ease the anxiety. But life is full of unknowns. I guess we just have to trust that what we're doing right now is what's meant to be.
Great interview as a 35 year old man, I can start to feel that mentality, Im not in the worst place, but I feel I need that step up, and also to hear the true self. Very inspiring, thank you.
I'm so amazed at how Robert is so humble and modest even with the amount of fame and popularity he received in the last 20 years, it's so rare these days. I'm sure a lot of people can relate to his life, I know I am relating to it (also had dozens of different jobs while knowing exactly the few things that I am passionate about...but didn't listen to that inner voice of becoming an entrepreneur with those skills and interests). Listening to how he explains things and how we must approach life destroys all the hundreds of "motivational gurus/salesmen" we see online.
Oh boy is that the truth about ENVY being the biggest danger…. You don’t see it until it’s too late …… ENVY…. made my life a total misery… but at the time I didn’t know and was not aware that was the reason why I was being persecuted… I was oblivious.. …I am soo grateful to Robert Greene ..and his books… also for these videos they are very much appreciated Thank you 🙏 💛🌻🏴🇦🇺
Thanks so much , very enlightening
Yoh have no idea Robert how much difference you have created in my life. I will always be indebted to you for the wisdom you have shared through your books.
I had the pleasure of interviewing Robert for my podcast. Such a pleasant guy. So polite and humble.
Robert Greene is still going strong! Still hungry. I love this man🌹
thanks!
I’m reading the Laws of Human Nature and his writing style is so effortless and easy to understand and interpret. I like listening to him talk too
thanks for watching Julia!
The mindset that you're on the right station, you're just dialing in the frequency is perfect!
That's a really helpful way to look at finding your Life's task!
I. Was born in 59 also but didn‘t get anywherr near rhis. I read the 48 laws of power and value this book with accuracy. Being a lawyer who must use language and preciseness as a tool to work with, this interview is very inspirational.
Appreciate constructive comment
Robert Greene the 50 cent story is pure gold. If one is going to "fail" along this path, what better story than that! ROFL!!!
I owe a lot of my success and thriving in life to Robert Greene. From “The 48 Laws of Power”, to “The Art of Seduction”, to “Mastery” and “The Laws of Human Nature”
I feel that I understand relationships, inter-personal dynamics and can maneuver in every type of environment, thanks to this wise man.
Thanks Rob!!!
Genuinely did you learn anything applicable from his book on seduction?
I think it's one of the worst books that has been written on the topic in the last few decades.
What a tremendous success story. I’m surprised he lived over seas for so long! As a lost 22 year old, Robert’s story inspires me to expand on my experience and really ask my self what it is I am good at, and what it is that I can offer.
thanks for watching!
Amazing interview. We need more minds like Robert Greene in this crazy insane fake world we are living in
I agree
the world is fake but Robert is the insane one,by trying to be authentic.
Obviously you haven't read his books 🤣
I agree he is amazing 😍
Deflect envy...my god if l wrote all these books with all that cash no one would get a look in...l would love it..
Don't appear to perfect l am still learning at 64
You can also learn from your haters..
I appreciate his well though out responses and at 67, I’ve also had a very challenging life full of adventures with the ups and downs. I always thought I might like to be a author, but I didn’t know what I could write about, so that others would be interested in reading my story’s. Now with this interview, it has given me the seeds to play with, and develop some aspects of my own life’s journey to commit the written page.
I’ll buy your book.
@@hobojungle1 actually I’ve started it a “Romance Action Thriller”
Titled “Trading Shoes With my Lover” Why she let me go. . . . . .
Starting on a second book “Finding Mary”, a day in the life of an Expat
First book leads to the second book and half way around the world to South East Asia
I’m creating a board game on the subject and life experiences in SOUTH EAST ASIA
and eventual digital version also so others can play my life long thrilling adventures coming true
@@TruthFinder7839well-done to you
All of this is very nice. The problem is what to do when you get stuck at 40, with regret, alone, in a place you don't want to live, no money, a handful of additions, a career you don't like at all that cost you a great deal economically and mentally for 20 years and is the only thing you know how to do, out of shape and all your friends and family seems to be on track. And you know all is your fault, feel deep guilt cause you had all the resources at your disposal and multiple chances to get it right , but you wasted them all. And now, you can't find the energy/motivation/drive to start going the other way.
It is a strange feeling with you have already given up, but you don't care any more.
The key is... Don't depend* on motivation. Build up a habit instead. Something that you work on daily without motivation or even thinking about it. By just doing and acting on your goals/dreams, you are far ahead than 95% of people on earth
Change your friends. Move to the country and get a small job.
@@TheTruthHurts6666
Thanks for this Amazing advice “ building a habit…” I am try reinvent myself can you give me some advice as well ? Thanks.
True success = BEing yourself 💯
a 50 Cent collab book to end this whole video is CRAZY
Thanks to this, I decided to quit social media forever. I could feel people's bad energies through the screen. I wanted to share my happiness but they weren't happy with mine. I already have to deal a lot by myself and having other people throw shit at you constantly, people you thought were your friends, is just too much to handle. I'm a pretty lonely person but I rather stay like this than having to deal with the BS that's out there.
Boo hoo
💖 good for you, look after yourself first and foremost.. @16Meily
I kinda did the same so I totally understand ur perspective, its very lonely n depressing but it doesn’t help totally especially in today’s world . I dnt have the appropriate answers as i am trying to find for myself too maybe thats why iam on this video
Greene is a mentor of mine, even if he is not personally aware of it 🙏💕✌️
48 laws of power is so important for everyone to read once and when you feel abit of a dip in life and you are looking for an answer again re read it or parts you need from it, you may find that something you were missing or failing to understand in how to play your next move and to make it one of your best
Thank you sir, anytime I see a long content video about Robert Greene I always gain tremendous insight. Not only about human nature but about myself.
Starting at the fact that the self is transitory, discovering ourselves is an always calibrating and endless journey. Outstanding interview, your interviewing skills are simply amazing!
thanks!
wow, your personality's really complemented each other, in the sense that you really listened and timed your questions rightfully so as he was speaking about the right topic and Robert greene answered every question with an amazing level of clarity and honesty whilst still managing to be contextual and using science and experimental studies as evidence. I`m embarrassed to have honestly written an entire paragraph but I`m literally so impressed.
Well said :)
Yeh- Wish we could all have conversations like this lol
Absolutely. I’m impressed
I know I’m not the typical reader of Roberts work, but I have so enjoyed his perspectives on life, power, and mastery. Great interview!
thanks
39 he began his journey! Reminds me of JK Rowling!! It’s never too late!!’
RG is a legend
I'm 31 and I tell myself exactly that. There may be someone who thinks the same and she is 29 or 26. It's funny we got to let go of the age thing. Focus on what interests you.
I’m turning 39 in February… I feel like I’m alittle out of control bc I’m trying to micro manage and not focus on my purpose, marriage and child. I know it’s never to late to start things going..
Really... Wow gives me hope
I'm 45 and just starting my new life and new career. Why is age an issue?
Love how Greene travelled around the world, taking low paying jobs in inspirational cities just to have that inspiration to write books. Crazy good.
Contrived.
I think that's just how it was back in the day before technology Mike
same
@@mikewallis2987 I'm confused why you believe so. There are so many people that do this actually. Travel the world, discover cultures/experiences, and increase networking probability for success. Not made for everyone, but I can see someone like Greene doing this.
@Michael Smith right. So Privileged
May Robert greene live long!
Robert Greene is a humble Genius who knows how people operate
9:24 I like the story of the clueless editor, just goes to show you. As the saying goes: "No" doesn"t mean you can't. It just means you can't with that person.
Amen to that
Robert Greene, please write your autobiography with photos and memories of your writing phases it would be amazing!
That would make a great movie 🎥
48:03
I'm just like Robert Greene, a classic introvert who just can't stand political and social games, especially now that I'm almost 37 years old and have worked so many different jobs. Being an Entrepreneur, Business Owner, and Investor right now, I just can't stand the thought of going back to the same old games where I have to live up to other people's (often low / pathetic) expectations, rather than just living up to my own expectations.
Also, I could care less about what people think, and would rather not be bothered with that issue either because, at the end of the day, nobody gives a shit about you anyway unless you serve their self-interest. Now, I don't really mind working for and with other people but the position has to be at least as independent as possible.
I love Robert Greene's books and his interviews are just as captivating and informative; thank you, great show!!!
Robert Greene'i çok seviyorum. Onun İktidar kitabı sayesinde derin bir depresyonun karanlıklarından kurtuldum. Teşekkürler Robert, bize kötü insanları tanıttığın ve onlarla nasıl mücadele edeceğimizi öğrettiğin için. Şimdi elimde başka kitabını okurken zekasına hayranlık duyuyor ve kucak dolu sevgilerimi iletiyorum. 🥰😍🙏💐💐💐
Which book is this?
When you are struggling 'Fake it till you make it'. After success you recall your sob stories to become relatable!! 52nd law of power!!
This man looks like he’s been through hell and back and has the scars to prove it.
A real example of pain becoming power.
I salute you.
This is speaking directly to my soul as a writer. Thank you Mr. Greene, thank you Behind the Brand.
It’s interesting how I like the video before watching it because I know I’m going to love listening to Robert Greene before hand
thanks Rob!
Confirmation bias
Robert Greene is great for inspiration and grounding, sensing where you're lacking in your discernment of how your view of the world could be improved.
I love Robert Greene’s books I am obsessed with this man, he’s so down to earth and so humble. ❤❤❤
Love this interview! Thank you Bryan!!!!! I subscribed!
thank you!
Opportunity is Key!
If your heart wants it, the universe will put the Opportunity in your Path!
sometimes yes, sometimes no
I like that your way of interviewing has provided a chance to hear Robert's words in a sort of spontaneous chat. I could clearly hear what he had to say about different things- which is incredibly helpful.
Robert Green's new book is fabulous.
agreed
Where can I get it? I don't have Kindle
@@christopherkane370 amazon
@@dy2cakc1 I meant the soft copy version
What is the name?
Mr Robert Greene is the not only the best author, but the best psychologist . If you want a brutal , honest advisor, he is the ONE.He can teach us to improve the behaviour especially when you are new to the job.
hearing those of your setbacks makes me feel im long way up to my life to be depresed about in my own situation right now. this makes me feel so great and motivated.
kind of relating too
"Insane attraction to words" love that
Thank you a lot Mr Greene for all your work. I have just completed reading the law of nature book, i am re- reading the 48 laws of power , and mastery. I am becoming reacher and better with these materials. Thanks a lot for making your work easily accessible. May you be spared longevity for more materials to come out of your life
You can control much of your life when you learn self-dialogue which is big part of your thinking. Another way to be in control is to recognize & manage your emotions. Not feelings because feelings are not good or bad. They are just temporary. I can easily go from feeling unpleasant to feeling pleasant. Emotions are much different. Emotions are a whole lot more important because they reveal our attitude towards life. I can choose to have HOPE, LOVE, JOY & AWE. As opposed to HATE, FEAR, GUILT & DESPAIR. Which is what an older brain experiences. A younger brain starts with mad, sad & glad.
A developed brain can feel hope and as a result develop, for example, consistent enthusiasm. Which is VERY important. Also, LOVE is a VERY powerful emotion. When I love myself naturally I have an inclination to love the people that I'm closest to. Vice versa. When I love the people that I'm closest to, it becomes easier to love myself even more. A similar emotion is AWE. When I am in awe of someone or something, it opens my eyes to other people and other things that are AWESOME that I just didn't recognize before. Joy is fairly easy to obtain. Instant gratification doesn't take much effort. But, joy through delayed gratification takes patience and brings MUCH greater REWARDS. That is why the adage is: PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE.
A lot of positive attributes are important to have. Persistence is huge. Resilience is obviously important. Gratefulness is also huge in that it can help me from feeling too much "self-pity". Confidence is huge because it is the by-product of success. I succeed through
great daily habits and achieving many small goals that lead up to a larger goal.
One last thing to help. Have pictures of loved ones for inspiration and have pictures of your successful events to get to your most important goal. What do you think that most important goal might be? USUALLY, IT IS YOUR NEXT ONE. One very last thing to help. You can either make things happen, watch other people make things happen or have things happen to you. It is up to you.
I am enamored by Greene and his ideas. Excellent interview! The interviewer didn’t waste a question or any time!
I completely agree with the interviewer about the time stamp context for events. Thank you.
Great to see Robert looking well. We need you 🚀🙌🏾
thanks
Listened to this on my morning walk…. Love synchronicities… I’m currently 35 and have been wanting to write a book for a couple years thanks for this timely reminder I’m right on track👌🏽
I would pay you to wite a book i have the story for.
He has written books that will help future generations of human beings understand the importance of psychological.
This is true, but before you seek control, you should first seek to know who you truly are at a core level. Ignore that step and you'll just be spinning your wheels going nowhere.
So happy Mr. Greene is doing better🙏🏻
thanks Chris!
It's so much more important than some of you may realize that you have to do work you're passionate about and give it your best shot *every time*. If it fails, you can know that you did your best and then you can learn off of that failure. On a 30 year journey you're going to have a lot of failure if you want to have a lot of success, especially early on.
Also the 10,000 hour rule is real, even if the numbers arent exact. That's how long it takes to get sufficiently better than everyone else because they drop out.
Correct, one must be in control of his mind, feelings, actions. Power is nothing without control.
working on it
Thought this was an old upload he’s so healthy I’m glad we collectively can raise RG up.. what are tremendous author of pouring it out for all is to read. 🙌🏼🙌🏼
RG is a legend
Robert Greene's perspective is gold ✨ I want to hear more from him! 💛
Quite enjoyed this interview of one of my favorite authors. Kudos to the intelligent interviewer too. It was a very pleasant and enlightening conversation.
thank you
Don't be the victim of your life be creator. You may loose beauty in the body still you never loose optimism creativity gratitude joy of being here😊
I'm so glad that this found me. thanks Bryan
thanks Sean!
Am same vintage as Mr Greene. I was introduced to Kafka as a result of studying a foreign language. So not voluntarily but glad I was!
Such an inspiration. I have been listening to all his interviews. Love love this man!
" One day"! I'm gonna write my own book as well. Thank you!
My favorite author..his 48 laws of power changed my persperctive
I love how Robert quotes Get Rich or Die Trying as he's talking about 50. Robert you are my favourite author hands down, you gave me hope in my interests and showed me that it's possible to have a mentor who's an ex con hip hop star and another one who's an established billionaire CEO.
thanks for watching Jawad
@@BehindtheBrand Thank you for the video!
@@jsabra89 Interesting that 50 cent is also an established millionaire CEO simultaneously.
I believe everything what Robert Greene says. I think his wonderful man and I am learning lot listening him. Thank you Mr Greene!
The quote from DaVinci that he forgot: "Just as a well filled day brings blessed sleep, so a well employed life brings blessed death."
Robert Green you have beautiful American progressive mind well rounded, never tired of listening to him .
I think Robert Greene should read audio children’s books! He is particularly sweet in reference to his childhood!💕
This is such a heartfelt, beautiful conversation. Thanks a lot for sharing.
He is great he has calmed me down during the Covid-19 .
I was a mess, l am 64 his voice his demour so clever. What a guy 😛
Cov19 is a myth created by the predator class..full stop.