What if some people dont want to seduce you, becuse they care so much that want to give you freedom of living, and be your own leader, choice maker. because the person respects your privacy, your choices, your lifestyle. So not wanting to seduce you can be as positive and loving as wanting to seduce you in loving way.
I’m more seductive when I’m my most genuine self, confident and not expecting anything out of a situation. That’s when I got my jobs, friends, literally everything that I want. Everytime I tried to hard and put too much thought on how to act it didn’t give me the results I wanted. I’m just going to keep working on my confidence and trust in myself and my abilities.
I agree but you can't always turn that on/off. Easier said than done. I usually go through customs as cool as a cucumber......joking with security .......but when I've got a bunch of cocaine shoved up my ass and the two Colombian brawds I'm rockin with do too.........uhhh....that whole cool thing turns to "Yes, we did it ....we've all got cocaine in our butts!" And I spend the next few years in the pokey.......... probably getting poked.
Okay, so be a good listener. Be curious, ask questions be interested in the other person. Don’t preach and don’t be afraid to show a bit of vulnerability. That will work in any relationship. Good advice.
"If you meet someone insecure then it brings out the insecurities out of you, and if you spend time with some one confident it brings out the confidence out of you." Wow what a quote doctor Thankyou!
Well wouldn't that depend on the more dominate person? If an insure person meets a confident person but by nature is quieter. Do the insecure person influence to confident one?
I always struggled with Robert Greene’s books because I found them kind of…cold? Sociopathic? But I’m glad I clicked on this interview, he breaks down so clearly why his advice isn’t about manipulating others but just showing interest and making them feel special. Love it, thanks for posting!
Robert is right about vulnerability in my opinion I like it when a guy shows his humility It creates a sense of warmth and hence safety I assume He isn’t egotistical or emotionally closed off I feel I can drop my guard and share myself more easily
Vulnerability - Vulnus - Wound - Pain This somewhat explains why the term "pain point" is appropriate in the field of Marketing and Public Relations. You "seduce"/gain/please clients by addressing their pain points - providing solutions that address their wounds, in other words, heal them. The goal of marketing then becomes healing wounds instead of just "scratching an itch" or "satisfying a hunger," which I think brings a different dimension to the practice of PR. Really interesting insight.
I think you mean making people believe that you are healing wounds..........cuz we both know damn well your gosh darn BIG JOHN's herbal supplement won't add two inches to my three inches giving me five incredible inches.....Like Woah! Lady Killa! ....as advertised ........I was so excited....but my hedgehog didn't see his shadow ....not one bit.
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That last point was interesting. I've definitely felt a little awkward and insecure around a couple of girls that I liked, but thinking about it, it was because they were closed off and insecure themselves.... Because I've spoken to girls just beautiful, who were single and easy to talk to. It's like a night and day difference. So don't blame yourself for how conversations go down - sometimes the other person has put up this wall and it's not worth the effort of getting through it. Let it come naturally.
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This is good information to know so that you don't get manipulated. I've fallen for two manipulators. Now I can see right through this kind of toxic behavior. Resist the devil and he will flee.
This is really inspiring and it's what I always missing, being insecure and not vulnerability. Being preaching and moral, not listening and pay attention. And now I get why I don't have friends and not in a relationship. As a woman but not act as one, always being strong and reject anyone's help even when need to. And not letting else's get closer to me and get to know me. And never talk and share about myself because of the insercuty I think. Really thank you Robert.
The part about being preachy is very true.. I dug myself from the bottom and made it to the top change my eating habits change my thoughts just became an overall better person... And me thinking I could show everybody else the way have led to me being extremely isolated and lonely.. I've learned to just let people be.. even though I have a vast amount of knowledge on many things.. I just dumb myself down in social situations... Which is unfair to myself because I can't be myself so I just don't deal with people much
Hmm what you’re saying hits so hard, it’s like you almost despise people who don’t want to better them self. However be yourself every moment of the day and watch your surroundings change people at work have starting to go to the gym now because I preach the benefits of working out or eating healthy you get the gist
People doesn’t change for you. They only change when they are ready and only for themselves. So please don’t waste your valuable time and effort. It’s very hard to change habits or for people to care enough, put in the effort to learn and improve themselves. It’s a hard lesson I wished learned sooner and not wasted so much time and effort to help the people around me.
@@cindytram471 the sad part is those who are not going to change when they finally crashed themselves into the ground they look around for the ones that is doing good and say okay throw your life away helping me Both my parents refused to stop eating and drinking unhealthy things and they demand that I give up my prosperous life and prosperous business and come be their around the clock care taker Just like they refused to 2 change their ways I refuse to change my life and my lifestyle because they refuse to change
Your missing opportunities to allow people to go to the next level which is incredibly selfish. Sometimes my conversations are not understood at that minute but if they're not delivered with a tone of superiority and delivered with authenticity you can find a new friend or people drop the dumb act and you might learn something. The random conversations I've had have given me glimpses of new worlds new thoughts. Be open. Imagine if everyone in the room was dumbing down for you and here you are thinking your the smartest in the room.
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This was a great interview, great interviewer, great questions, well prepared, I’m really impressed. The whole hour was really worth it and vert instructive, bravo 😊
He said that if you open yourself, be vulnerable... Other person naturally wants to help you. What about being judged and not getting help after being open? And he said we want to hug a puppy because he is vulnerable but I think in the dating /mating world, if you are vulnerable... You can't get anyone easily. Maybe you find someone but women always like the dominant, powerful and decisive males over vulnerable or with open wounds.. If I misunderstood him, can anyone explain?
I think this depends on the woman and how evolved she is herself . Someone who has some life experience and has matured will not see genuine vulnerability as weakness or a threat , but will see it as authentic and human and a way to connect . Indecisiveness when it comes to important issues is typically not attractive since you never get a sense who you are actually dealing with however power and dominance without intelligence or heart can be off putting for sure .
Ig he is saying u should have a vulnerable side, not a whole personality lol. Like he said if u are not vulnerable at all, they would be frightened. But sometimes being vulnerable is alright
Self-confidence greatly helps you achieve what you want in life. It is clear that from time to time everyone has doubts; self-confidence is not eternal and unshakable. What matters here is how you deal with doubts that arise.
Anti seductive: Preaching Not being generous and open Showings insecurity Seductive: Vulnerability is seductive; the sense someone needs protection or help Seduction is being open to the other person Seduction is entering their spirit
Seduction is not just about your soulmate its about discovering your power from within accprding to your personality and utilizing that power. As infp personality type a lot of my issues is to do with not feeling heard or having no power to influence change even though i want too. Look at what he is saying with a pinch of salt like any information. People take things too literally. This is a guide or tool and you can take from it what you can apply to your life whether romantic or business. Either way knowledge is power and power doesnt mean megalomaniac who only wants fame and fortune. Power is the authority over your own life and the confidence to make decisions instead of letting life dictate terms to you. 😊
From a philosophical point of view, seduction can be seen as a form of manipulation, and manipulating someone for one's own advantage may raise ethical concerns. Although seduction can be a powerful tool for influencing others, it is important to consider the ethical implications of using it. Furthermore, seduction can also be viewed as a form of communication, where the seducer is actively listening to the other person and entering their spirit to understand their needs and desires. In this sense, seduction can be seen as a way of building genuine connections with people, rather than just trying to manipulate them for one's own benefit. Regarding the content of the video, Robert Greene discusses how seduction can be a powerful technique to influence and persuade others. He emphasizes the importance of being outer-directed and attentive to others' needs and desires. However, it is also important to consider the ethical implications of using seduction as a means of manipulation. It is crucial to build genuine connections with people and to respect their autonomy and agency. Honestly, I'm a bit skeptical about this video. I mean, sure, seduction can be powerful, but isn't manipulating someone into doing what you want a little unethical? I don't know if I want to take advice from someone who's advocating for this kind of behavior. Plus, I feel like this video is oversimplifying what it means to be a great seducer. It's not just about being outer-directed and attentive, there's a lot more nuance to it than that. Overall, I'm not really convinced that this technique is all that effective or ethical.
I think seduction is probably ethical, would we not want to be “seduced” ourselves? I have no problem being more influenced by my friend’s opinions than strangers, they’ve spent a lot of time empathising with me and I appreciate that. I feel like my most valuable relationships are the ones where we’re both “seducing” and eachother. I put seduction in quotations because I think seduction has negative connotations that aren’t addressed in this video. I would say seduction is usually in reference to an interaction with deceitful intent, and perhaps Greene uses it too liberally in this video. It seems you have a problem with the negative seduction, which I would agree is unethical. But I’d be interested to see if you thought the “warm seduction” Greene refers to is unethical too.
Seduction is the cure to self absorption 😂 interesting take on it. But definitely - giving ppl the option to talk about themselves and leading an ear - people are magnetized to you.
I have been told by many men and women that they get easily influenced by me. It's the same thing. Some call it being sexy, hot, attractive, eloquent, genuine, nice, warm, so on and so forth. To sum up, honesty, positive honesty or being happy with ourselves, makes us sexy and irresistible. That's it.
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I've always wondered so many Women are attracted to feminine Men like Harry Styles and Pete Davison and being a highly masculine driven man feel alot of resentment but from 7:00 on from this video, this is understandable and makes sense
@@Dimitris_Half Compared to men like Chris Hemsworth. Dwayne Johnson and Jason Momoa who are the generally the Masculine idea for female desire I'd say they are both very feminine. I still struggle to see why alot of Woman prefer either of those 2 compared the men I've just mentioned
Because too much of anything is unattractive. I wouldn't regard Pete Davidson as feminim either. He ain't attractive but he doesnt act, talk or dress feminime.
@@Dimitris_Half but it does. For men, the weaker you are, if you have small arms, you are Automatically less respected. A muscular man will always be more masculine because it signals discipline and the ability to protect that weak men don’t have.
The kind of women who find Harry Styles and Pete Davidson attractive are not the kind of women you want to date long term let alone marry. The reasons are obvious I don’t feel I need to state them. The kind of women who find the Rock, Jason Statham, Brad Pitt, Jason Mamoa, etc attractive are the kind of women who are more stable and more in tune with their femininity. The younger college age girls find Harry Styles and Pete Davidson attractive. These types of women are immature and don’t even know they’re influenced to like these kinds of guys. Once real life starts around their mid to late 20s they’re now faced with stress, bills, life problems, security, etc This is when they grow out of that phase and they start finding these soft weak guys cringe. They then find masculine men much more preferable. In fact most mentally stable women prefer masculine men. You can see this by looking at the crowd of women who like these soft weak men and then look at the crowd of women who like the masculine men. What you’ll find is the crowd that likes Harry Styles for example is heavily leaned towards virtue signaling, popularity, fake personality, etc a lot of these women don’t have the right mentality for a serious relationship like marriage. The crowd that finds masculine men more attractive is more oriented towards life and goals such as living together, building a future whether that’s with kids or dogs or both, wanting to build a stable home and life, no obsession with virtue signaling and popularity and fitting in. Lastly the easiest way to see which men are more preferred is to look at the overall women attraction towards men. You’ll notice that mostly young girls like the soft weak Harry Styles type guys while women of all ages find older masculine men attractive.
@@quirogatnonerrat3214 that’s true of course but it still helps. And you can always try to improve your looks or how you carry/style yourself no matter how attractive you are
3:21. Interesting. Its neuro typical ppl who are completely self absorbed. ND ppl are fine at actually listening to others with genuine interest. So much so that i am always accused of flirting when i give any kind of attention/interest to another. Sad really those connections cant be made without others thinking there are ulterior motives.
Nope, it's not. You get friendzone when you don't use the information the woman gives you to properly, or you only listen but don't pay attention to her weaknesses, the ingredient of seduction.
How about boundaries? I have a colleague, who I find attractive, what he did recently is made a really mean joke about me Infront of many people. I didn't do anything about it, I was so speechless. I feel I should have pointed out to that behaviour.
You’re outer directed. You don’t care what’s happening or you’re thinking you explore them you’re listening to-them and learning about them what they are missing in their life and then you reflect it back on them. You give them gifts and take them to new adventures. Anti seducing is preaching and moralizing. Telling people more of the truth oh thats wrong, youre not good at it. Be GENEROUS be ready to give the other person the energy, money, etc. seduction is the opposite of the todays defence everyone has built around because of the fake faces of the world around. Make other people vulnerable not insecure to enter their spirit and be vuln at the right time to let them enter yours..
I've been quite vocal about my expectations for certain types of behaviour ie. Promiscuity is wrong. One could easily say I am sanctimonious or hold an unattractive moral superiority. But I NEVER had issues attracting girls. So while I do agree with what was said in this clip, I must say my experience proves otherwise.
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in a case where theres an established realtionship and a man improves their moral grounds by e.g. quitting alcohol and drugs and looking into their religion, what should be done then? as preaching may be seen as a problem it seems like if the woman is not on the same moral journey and the man preaches its a problem ...if he doesn't preach then the relationship overall may fail as the woman is no longer on the same moral grounds as the man
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Great info i liked a lot...but there's something that I'm not agree with and is the huge vulnerability that he's talking about, is ok...I mean...is necessary to be an open person if u wanna be a great seductor but don't look like a victim that is looking for love...no, instead of that remember that womens are looking for a man who protects them, you know 50 percent of vulnerability and 50 of "love independent guy"....the rest was perfect I liked a lot, great video.
The biggest thing ive learned especially with the new generation is girls like to do tests to see how you react emotionally if you can stayed centerd not necessary emotionless but remain a mystery make them want to figure you out but dont give it all away ive botice just this by itselfs ive had great sucess in my love life women love chill even if there crazy as shit thats the sexy thing you can do as a man is be centerd
I think this works better for men than women. I think if a man is already attracted to a woman then her leaning in and showing deep interest in him can work, but if he hasnt noticed her yet, being too into him I think can turn him off. Confident and attentive yes but overly attentive I think can come off as too aggressive. Same with vulnerability. If a man is already attracted then a woman’s vulnerability can work, but Im not sure its helpful if he hasnt noticed her yet? But I could be wrong.
Someone who is strong and hard to other people so untamed like a beast, but gentle and vulnerable to you how would that make you feel,you would feel so special, but if a person is always vulnerable and soft to others you wouldn't feel special, making someone feel special is the best thing you can do to seduce someone
The vulnerability stuff definitely works if you're a woman... but if you are a man this will be a major turn off for women. Men, do NOT show vulnerability to women, they will not like it, even if they say they would
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What if some people dont want to seduce you, becuse they care so much that want to give you freedom of living, and be your own leader, choice maker.
because the person respects your privacy, your choices, your lifestyle.
So not wanting to seduce you can be as positive and loving
as wanting to seduce you in loving way.
great discussion ❤
@@alaalfa8839 I DO UNDERSTAND YOU COMPLETELY. But where do I meet that one person...
I’m more seductive when I’m my most genuine self, confident and not expecting anything out of a situation. That’s when I got my jobs, friends, literally everything that I want. Everytime I tried to hard and put too much thought on how to act it didn’t give me the results I wanted. I’m just going to keep working on my confidence and trust in myself and my abilities.
I agree but you can't always turn that on/off. Easier said than done.
I usually go through customs as cool as a cucumber......joking with security .......but when I've got a bunch of cocaine shoved up my ass and the two Colombian brawds I'm rockin with do too.........uhhh....that whole cool thing turns to "Yes, we did it ....we've all got cocaine in our butts!" And I spend the next few years in the pokey.......... probably getting poked.
Same here
Yeah,
It's funny how it it works, it sounds as it was when you simply gave unconditionally....
Then received it all...at the right time
You detached from the outcome
Okay, so be a good listener. Be curious, ask questions be interested in the other person. Don’t preach and don’t be afraid to show a bit of vulnerability. That will work in any relationship. Good advice.
I hate people who ask questions I do not give you anything.. it means you can not you don't have the capability to carry a conversation......dehhhh.
@@keepcreationprocessare you sure about what you're saying?
You are right, there is people’s like so as Robert said walk away
What he’s describing is being a Simp. CHARISMA and self confidence are what count.
@@JohnM... charisma is overrated. Being interesting isn't as seductive as being interested
"If you meet someone insecure then it brings out the insecurities out of you, and if you spend time with some one confident it brings out the confidence out of you." Wow what a quote doctor Thankyou!
Energy is contagious.
Well wouldn't that depend on the more dominate person? If an insure person meets a confident person but by nature is quieter. Do the insecure person influence to confident one?
2:01 “What makes for a great seducer is you are outer directed.” Listening, entering their world and spirit. Show you’re attentive to them.
Thank you!
We tend to like people that like us.
This isolated step is something those type of humans like psychopath are very good in. And you set your focus straight on it...
@@aug9We tend to like people who are like us.
basically you are playing nice because you want something from someone.
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I always struggled with Robert Greene’s books because I found them kind of…cold? Sociopathic? But I’m glad I clicked on this interview, he breaks down so clearly why his advice isn’t about manipulating others but just showing interest and making them feel special. Love it, thanks for posting!
smart girl, i had the same feeling
His books are very wordy. I get lost in the stories and miss the point.
I think he wrote his books with the intention of It feeling kind of WRONG.
Because the abilities he describes can and ARE extensively used heartlessly and truly for evil in the real world.
The difference between a psycopath and a skilled moral individual are not the weapons they have, It is the way they use them.
Robert is right about vulnerability in my opinion
I like it when a guy shows his humility
It creates a sense of warmth and hence safety
I assume He isn’t egotistical or emotionally closed off
I feel I can drop my guard and share myself more easily
I find clever humor seductive, and humility, admitting when you’re wrong or when you don’t know.
Seducing isn't about romance, dating and sexuality. It's in social interaction, especially friendship.
It can be used in both situations.
Yes! This is how to make friends.
Woah what do you mean it's in friendship?
Vulnerability - Vulnus - Wound - Pain
This somewhat explains why the term "pain point" is appropriate in the field of Marketing and Public Relations. You "seduce"/gain/please clients by addressing their pain points - providing solutions that address their wounds, in other words, heal them. The goal of marketing then becomes healing wounds instead of just "scratching an itch" or "satisfying a hunger," which I think brings a different dimension to the practice of PR. Really interesting insight.
I think you mean making people believe that you are healing wounds..........cuz we both know damn well your gosh darn BIG JOHN's herbal supplement won't add two inches to my three inches giving me five incredible inches.....Like Woah! Lady Killa! ....as advertised ........I was so excited....but my hedgehog didn't see his shadow ....not one bit.
Alex Hormozi explains this in detail when teaching business.
Absolutely
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Their ability to distill a wealth of business and life wisdom to laymen is exceptional.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,739 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
That last point was interesting. I've definitely felt a little awkward and insecure around a couple of girls that I liked, but thinking about it, it was because they were closed off and insecure themselves.... Because I've spoken to girls just beautiful, who were single and easy to talk to. It's like a night and day difference. So don't blame yourself for how conversations go down - sometimes the other person has put up this wall and it's not worth the effort of getting through it. Let it come naturally.
Thanks for the intelligent and relatable words
The interviewer is genuinely a good listener. A trait I have to learn indeed❤
He's interested in the topic as we were 😄
absolutely! he's the best interviewer I've encountered so far.... he lets his guests talk and he always ask questions that are related to the guest last topic... asks very insightful questions... and his chill and grounded vibe also add to the charm of the whole interview... love this guy...
This is good information to know so that you don't get manipulated. I've fallen for two manipulators. Now I can see right through this kind of toxic behavior. Resist the devil and he will flee.
We’ll see about that.
How could you tell they were manipulative?
Amen! stay safe
Love the way you explain vulnerability, now i can relax, and not be afraid of expose this side of me. Thank you Robert Greene.
This is really inspiring and it's what I always missing, being insecure and not vulnerability. Being preaching and moral, not listening and pay attention. And now I get why I don't have friends and not in a relationship. As a woman but not act as one, always being strong and reject anyone's help even when need to. And not letting else's get closer to me and get to know me. And never talk and share about myself because of the insercuty I think. Really thank you Robert.
Maybe those things have something to do with your childhood. Did you have a satisfactory relationship with your parents?
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Ive felt the same way too. Had been many failed relationship
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The part about being preachy is very true.. I dug myself from the bottom and made it to the top change my eating habits change my thoughts just became an overall better person... And me thinking I could show everybody else the way have led to me being extremely isolated and lonely.. I've learned to just let people be.. even though I have a vast amount of knowledge on many things.. I just dumb myself down in social situations... Which is unfair to myself because I can't be myself so I just don't deal with people much
Hmm what you’re saying hits so hard, it’s like you almost despise people who don’t want to better them self. However be yourself every moment of the day and watch your surroundings change people at work have starting to go to the gym now because I preach the benefits of working out or eating healthy you get the gist
People doesn’t change for you. They only change when they are ready and only for themselves. So please don’t waste your valuable time and effort. It’s very hard to change habits or for people to care enough, put in the effort to learn and improve themselves. It’s a hard lesson I wished learned sooner and not wasted so much time and effort to help the people around me.
@@cindytram471 the sad part is those who are not going to change when they finally crashed themselves into the ground they look around for the ones that is doing good and say okay throw your life away helping me
Both my parents refused to stop eating and drinking unhealthy things and they demand that I give up my prosperous life and prosperous business and come be their around the clock care taker
Just like they refused to 2 change their ways I refuse to change my life and my lifestyle because they refuse to change
Literally MEEEEEE. Wow
Your missing opportunities to allow people to go to the next level which is incredibly selfish. Sometimes my conversations are not understood at that minute but if they're not delivered with a tone of superiority and delivered with authenticity you can find a new friend or people drop the dumb act and you might learn something. The random conversations I've had have given me glimpses of new worlds new thoughts. Be open. Imagine if everyone in the room was dumbing down for you and here you are thinking your the smartest in the room.
Ah I love my job, it recharges me with positive energy and personal satisfaction, in the form of my patients' gratitude. Must say your words hit me hard, as I am enjoying life&feeling blessed. I wish I could somehow improve your health, Mr.Greene - your words impacted so many lives, your life & work are so precious for humanity! Stay blessed🙏
You're really good and you're gonna go places, brother! Well deserved.
This was a great interview, great interviewer, great questions, well prepared, I’m really impressed. The whole hour was really worth it and vert instructive, bravo 😊
That’s the definition of charisma.
There is absolutely nobody as seductive as Robert Greene!
😂😂😂😂
He actually has a very smooth charming passionate way of speaking.
It's so weird that in these times of overthinking, it all boils down to being genuine and natural.
Sometimes it's those closed off , emotionally unavailable people that alot of people are so attracted to because they're that way
Only for the needy and insecure.
@@island661 not only ... secret is attractive
@@dd-rs5vc Yes, for a simple mind I guess it could be
He said that if you open yourself, be vulnerable... Other person naturally wants to help you. What about being judged and not getting help after being open?
And he said we want to hug a puppy because he is vulnerable but I think in the dating /mating world, if you are vulnerable... You can't get anyone easily. Maybe you find someone but women always like the dominant, powerful and decisive males over vulnerable or with open wounds..
If I misunderstood him, can anyone explain?
I think this depends on the woman and how evolved she is herself . Someone who has some life experience and has matured will not see genuine vulnerability as weakness or a threat , but will see it as authentic and human and a way to connect . Indecisiveness when it comes to important issues is typically not attractive since you never get a sense who you are actually dealing with however power and dominance without intelligence or heart can be off putting for sure .
Ig he is saying u should have a vulnerable side, not a whole personality lol. Like he said if u are not vulnerable at all, they would be frightened. But sometimes being vulnerable is alright
Robert articulates it so well
Really nice talk,made so clear the difference between insecurity and vulnerability, thanks!
Robert Greene seduced me to read all of his books. 🔥🔥🔥
Self-confidence greatly helps you achieve what you want in life. It is clear that from time to time everyone has doubts; self-confidence is not eternal and unshakable. What matters here is how you deal with doubts that arise.
Anti seductive:
Preaching
Not being generous and open
Showings insecurity
Seductive:
Vulnerability is seductive; the sense someone needs protection or help
Seduction is being open to the other person
Seduction is entering their spirit
These pointers are so great. I learn something. Thanks for having Robert Greene.
Love RG. Greatest minds of our time. Dude has aged a lot.
Seduction is not just about your soulmate its about discovering your power from within accprding to your personality and utilizing that power. As infp personality type a lot of my issues is to do with not feeling heard or having no power to influence change even though i want too. Look at what he is saying with a pinch of salt like any information. People take things too literally. This is a guide or tool and you can take from it what you can apply to your life whether romantic or business. Either way knowledge is power and power doesnt mean megalomaniac who only wants fame and fortune. Power is the authority over your own life and the confidence to make decisions instead of letting life dictate terms to you. 😊
From a philosophical point of view, seduction can be seen as a form of manipulation, and manipulating someone for one's own advantage may raise ethical concerns. Although seduction can be a powerful tool for influencing others, it is important to consider the ethical implications of using it.
Furthermore, seduction can also be viewed as a form of communication, where the seducer is actively listening to the other person and entering their spirit to understand their needs and desires. In this sense, seduction can be seen as a way of building genuine connections with people, rather than just trying to manipulate them for one's own benefit.
Regarding the content of the video, Robert Greene discusses how seduction can be a powerful technique to influence and persuade others. He emphasizes the importance of being outer-directed and attentive to others' needs and desires. However, it is also important to consider the ethical implications of using seduction as a means of manipulation. It is crucial to build genuine connections with people and to respect their autonomy and agency.
Honestly, I'm a bit skeptical about this video. I mean, sure, seduction can be powerful, but isn't manipulating someone into doing what you want a little unethical? I don't know if I want to take advice from someone who's advocating for this kind of behavior. Plus, I feel like this video is oversimplifying what it means to be a great seducer. It's not just about being outer-directed and attentive, there's a lot more nuance to it than that. Overall, I'm not really convinced that this technique is all that effective or ethical.
I think seduction is probably ethical, would we not want to be “seduced” ourselves? I have no problem being more influenced by my friend’s opinions than strangers, they’ve spent a lot of time empathising with me and I appreciate that. I feel like my most valuable relationships are the ones where we’re both “seducing” and eachother.
I put seduction in quotations because I think seduction has negative connotations that aren’t addressed in this video. I would say seduction is usually in reference to an interaction with deceitful intent, and perhaps Greene uses it too liberally in this video.
It seems you have a problem with the negative seduction, which I would agree is unethical. But I’d be interested to see if you thought the “warm seduction” Greene refers to is unethical too.
1. You do not force.
2. You do not lie.
Be with you or not is a choice of other person.
Your comment is the killer of seduction.
@@lpi3 when you pretend to be interested in the other just to seduce them you are lying.
@@redrumax why you tell me this? Which one from my statements you don't like?
Thank you so much for this information. This has been incredibly helpful. Thank you 😊
The art of humor would be a great book.
Seduction is the cure to self absorption 😂 interesting take on it. But definitely - giving ppl the option to talk about themselves and leading an ear - people are magnetized to you.
" The timeless art of seduction" - J. Seinfeld
These open ended questions need to be revised for next interview
I have been told by many men and women that they get easily influenced by me. It's the same thing. Some call it being sexy, hot, attractive, eloquent, genuine, nice, warm, so on and so forth. To sum up, honesty, positive honesty or being happy with ourselves, makes us sexy and irresistible. That's it.
He is better in speaking. I wish he will make longer interview ❤️
You mean he is nicer? 😊 I had a problem with 48 laws at first, but he as a person is very wise. And lovely in a sense
Financial books have been so helpful. I’m 54 and my wife 50 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. No longer putting blames on FED for our misfortunes. Saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn weekly.
Great job with your wife! I bet you’re living your best life right now.
Any advice you want to give for a 36 year old guy like me to get wealthy? I’m happy for you and your wife. My wife unfortunately had an affair even though our marriage was fine so I would love nothing more than to have her watch me become successful after this. The best revenge is success. So if you have any tips please let me know!
But think of where you'd be if you didn't have the albatross of the FED and FEDGOV around your neck leeching your financial lifeblood away.
It opens your mind about human’s behaviour
I've always wondered so many Women are attracted to feminine Men like Harry Styles and Pete Davison and being a highly masculine driven man feel alot of resentment but from 7:00 on from this video, this is understandable and makes sense
@@Dimitris_Half Compared to men like Chris Hemsworth. Dwayne Johnson and Jason Momoa who are the generally the Masculine idea for female desire I'd say they are both very feminine. I still struggle to see why alot of Woman prefer either of those 2 compared the men I've just mentioned
Because too much of anything is unattractive. I wouldn't regard Pete Davidson as feminim either. He ain't attractive but he doesnt act, talk or dress feminime.
@@Dimitris_Half but it does. For men, the weaker you are, if you have small arms, you are Automatically less respected. A muscular man will always be more masculine because it signals discipline and the ability to protect that weak men don’t have.
Yeah but I’ll bet they are also boring sit and read all day
The kind of women who find Harry Styles and Pete Davidson attractive are not the kind of women you want to date long term let alone marry. The reasons are obvious I don’t feel I need to state them. The kind of women who find the Rock, Jason Statham, Brad Pitt, Jason Mamoa, etc attractive are the kind of women who are more stable and more in tune with their femininity.
The younger college age girls find Harry Styles and Pete Davidson attractive. These types of women are immature and don’t even know they’re influenced to like these kinds of guys. Once real life starts around their mid to late 20s they’re now faced with stress, bills, life problems, security, etc
This is when they grow out of that phase and they start finding these soft weak guys cringe. They then find masculine men much more preferable. In fact most mentally stable women prefer masculine men. You can see this by looking at the crowd of women who like these soft weak men and then look at the crowd of women who like the masculine men.
What you’ll find is the crowd that likes Harry Styles for example is heavily leaned towards virtue signaling, popularity, fake personality, etc a lot of these women don’t have the right mentality for a serious relationship like marriage. The crowd that finds masculine men more attractive is more oriented towards life and goals such as living together, building a future whether that’s with kids or dogs or both, wanting to build a stable home and life, no obsession with virtue signaling and popularity and fitting in.
Lastly the easiest way to see which men are more preferred is to look at the overall women attraction towards men. You’ll notice that mostly young girls like the soft weak Harry Styles type guys while women of all ages find older masculine men attractive.
How to seduce people: be attractive, be confident, be nice, and genuinely care about the other person.
Be generous.
Being attractive is out of your control, you can't decide how you are born to look nor are a millionaire to afford plastic surgery.
@@quirogatnonerrat3214 that’s true of course but it still helps. And you can always try to improve your looks or how you carry/style yourself no matter how attractive you are
Kind NOT nice
Until you put this subject out on the open 8:10 out table l was proned to preaching. Thanks to you this opened by consciousness.
I get it now ''the reason why many people i met are so obsessed''
Ian Beale has never looked and sounded more seductive 🤤
Can't unsee this comment. Oh Lordy!
@@JoshIgoe yeah he’s a dead ringer for him isn’t he?! 🤣
Disagree, boring questions
Men, don't spend money on everyone. You'll regret what you wasted
really enjoy listening to the channel's sharing. very good, very meaningful and very profound. Great
3:21. Interesting. Its neuro typical ppl who are completely self absorbed. ND ppl are fine at actually listening to others with genuine interest. So much so that i am always accused of flirting when i give any kind of attention/interest to another. Sad really those connections cant be made without others thinking there are ulterior motives.
Seducing can backfire if the other person is insecure.
Not even insecure, just not interested.
Or not interested and seducer have weak ego and low self esteem…resulting in revange
Quite the contrary
Wow, this gives me friend zone vibes
😂
Nope, it's not. You get friendzone when you don't use the information the woman gives you to properly, or you only listen but don't pay attention to her weaknesses, the ingredient of seduction.
How about boundaries? I have a colleague, who I find attractive, what he did recently is made a really mean joke about me Infront of many people. I didn't do anything about it, I was so speechless. I feel I should have pointed out to that behaviour.
You’re outer directed. You don’t care what’s happening or you’re thinking you explore them you’re listening to-them and learning about them what they are missing in their life and then you reflect it back on them. You give them gifts and take them to new adventures. Anti seducing is preaching and moralizing. Telling people more of the truth oh thats wrong, youre not good at it. Be GENEROUS be ready to give the other person the energy, money, etc.
seduction is the opposite of the todays defence everyone has built around because of the fake faces of the world around. Make other people vulnerable not insecure to enter their spirit and be vuln at the right time to let them enter yours..
Be a good listener. Mindfulness around people..being attentive. Thàt is attractive. Be spiritually generous..apply EQ.
I've been quite vocal about my expectations for certain types of behaviour ie. Promiscuity is wrong. One could easily say I am sanctimonious or hold an unattractive moral superiority. But I NEVER had issues attracting girls. So while I do agree with what was said in this clip, I must say my experience proves otherwise.
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Once someone doesn't want to open up it turns me off and I want to move on
Wowz
The fact that I could stare at dudes face for 10 mins means he knows what he's talking about
Weird thing to say
I love it
And he looks like Elton John's ugly straight brother too! That means a lot
in a case where theres an established realtionship and a man improves their moral grounds by e.g. quitting alcohol and drugs and looking into their religion, what should be done then? as preaching may be seen as a problem it seems like if the woman is not on the same moral journey and the man preaches its a problem ...if he doesn't preach then the relationship overall may fail as the woman is no longer on the same moral grounds as the man
If vulnerability alone is the reason, why don't we tend to help/hug elderly in need?
The latin origin of the word means 'to lead'. That explains a lot.
Very interesting I would have put it slightly different. However your logic is perfectly fine execution could really use a tuning.
What do you think about Kierkegaard's view on seduction?
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My god I just realized I did a huge genius move not sleeping for a couple days before going out with my now fiancé on our first date😂, no anxiety whatsoever and all focus with goofy energy towards her🤣. She saw me in what was perpetually my worst self with no chance for me to show any anxiety that would lead to self destruction and it worked man😂😂😂
Would like to hear a discussion between Robert Greene & Myron Gaines..
Insightful video
Great info i liked a lot...but there's something that I'm not agree with and is the huge vulnerability that he's talking about, is ok...I mean...is necessary to be an open person if u wanna be a great seductor but don't look like a victim that is looking for love...no, instead of that remember that womens are looking for a man who protects them, you know 50 percent of vulnerability and 50 of "love independent guy"....the rest was perfect I liked a lot, great video.
The biggest thing ive learned especially with the new generation is girls like to do tests to see how you react emotionally if you can stayed centerd not necessary emotionless but remain a mystery make them want to figure you out but dont give it all away ive botice just this by itselfs ive had great sucess in my love life women love chill even if there crazy as shit thats the sexy thing you can do as a man is be centerd
I'm buying this book....now😂
Is a good sense of humour, a successful seduction technique. I've always wondered.
Yes, it works for most women. Women love to laugh, but don't go completely overboard with it.
With much respect to you both Gentlemen:
I think it is terrible to seduce people- Warm or cold.
But how do you get ur partner ?
This is just a flowery words for me, i dont understand anything.. i tried to listen and attentive to someone im dating, i end up being dump.
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I feel insecure when I see someone had strengths that are my weaknesses..
Work on yourself. Insecurity is the root of jealousy and a jealous person = a dangerous person
Thank you
This is really nice
Would this definition of seduction be closer to attractive personnality? I think so...
Anyone?
“and then the game begins all over”
@ 3:50> no it`s easier than ever, to get in deep contact, in a real relationship than ever, (if ya brave enough to be honest)
"Everywhere man is confronted with fate, with the chance of achieving something through his own suffering."
" man is born free, and yet everywhere he is found in chains"
@@mrnice7570 True!
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I love it
I think this works better for men than women. I think if a man is already attracted to a woman then her leaning in and showing deep interest in him can work, but if he hasnt noticed her yet, being too into him I think can turn him off. Confident and attentive yes but overly attentive I think can come off as too aggressive. Same with vulnerability. If a man is already attracted then a woman’s vulnerability can work, but Im not sure its helpful if he hasnt noticed her yet? But I could be wrong.
the correct term is rizz actualy. never let someone who uses yhe word 'seduce' tell you how to rizz.
just a simple praise changes people.. they suddenly are like kittens purring at ya
Someone who is strong and hard to other people so untamed like a beast, but gentle and vulnerable to you how would that make you feel,you would feel so special, but if a person is always vulnerable and soft to others you wouldn't feel special, making someone feel special is the best thing you can do to seduce someone
The vulnerability stuff definitely works if you're a woman... but if you are a man this will be a major turn off for women. Men, do NOT show vulnerability to women, they will not like it, even if they say they would
Listen intently. It's simple. Make them feel as if they are the only person on earth and they are the most interesting person on earth.
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This is what narcissistic people use to lure their prey….
Narcissists are barely different from normal charming people in the early stage.
So what?? You can apply that too, just don't be abusive later on like the narcissist.
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It's really crazy that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles