How I learned to love my insecurities (and still learning) | Tarek Ali

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  • Welcome back to another episode of the Health & Body Series. Today we talk about the steps to loving your insecurities! This video is sponsored by Adobe Acrobat. download the PDF kit here ➭ adobe.ly/tareky...
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    F A Q
    what’s your name? Tarek Ali (Tuh-reek Ali)
    are you muslim? no but yes? I'm omnist/perennialist
    what’s your instagram? @itstarekali on everything
    how old are you? 23 ( birthday 11/11)
    What's your sign? Scorpio (virgo rising, aries moon)
    how tall are you? 6'1"
    what’s your ethnicity? African-American
    where are you from? childhood in 757, middle school years in Richmond/Chesterfield, high school in PG Maryland (DC area)
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  • @brittneyrose2879
    @brittneyrose2879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Tarek. I’m so proud of you. I feel like I’m watching a close friend find their purpose in life-creating positive impact for others while doing it for yourself. All love.

  • @Porcelain.maniac
    @Porcelain.maniac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I have a literally no self-confidence like we in the negatives like it math class or something but my company is gone I’m just watching us and I ain’t even a minute in

    • @sarahmalone4353
      @sarahmalone4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're not alone in that, I am very much with you on the low self-confidence. Sending you love ❤️

    • @Porcelain.maniac
      @Porcelain.maniac 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahmalone4353 thanks rigjt back too u

  • @VellB
    @VellB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This is a great idea! Thank you for taking the time to create this for us. 🙌🏾💪🏾

  • @ficholasnields
    @ficholasnields 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this pdf kit is EVERYTHING

  • @ItsBrysonJ
    @ItsBrysonJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm so glad I found your channel. It feels good to see a young black man in his 20s using his platform for positivity 🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾

  • @immanuelwamundila9836
    @immanuelwamundila9836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Before I started watching(following) your TH-cam channel I struggled with self love,confidence and a sense of self worth😔.....But every since I started watching your TH-cam channel I love myself even more and when I walk into a building /place I feel confident ,I feel powerful and beautiful in my own skin/body🤗....Tarek Ali just keep doing you and been a source of love ,light and inspiration❤

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      my heart!!! im so so so happy!! thankyou for sharing!

    • @jeremyroskes5391
      @jeremyroskes5391 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TarekAli have you heard of youtubers like nostalgia critic, angry video game nerd, cinema snob, film brain, obscurus lupa, linkara, phelous, nostalgia chick, todd in the shadows, and rap critic

  • @trying2getmyshittogether329
    @trying2getmyshittogether329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WHY HAVEN’T I FOUND THIS CHANNEL EARLIER?!!

  • @AdaSimbo
    @AdaSimbo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you’ve done more for me in these 10 minutes than my therapist did in 10 months.. thank you for this

  • @rizzybone964
    @rizzybone964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dear, Tarek for the past 2 months you've been on my mind! I dont have any other Social Media besides TH-cam, so i dont know if posted elsewhere if that you're taking a break. it's been some time since you've uploaded any content and i hope you're doing well. I miss you and you wisdom💜

  • @francislove5761
    @francislove5761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    THE KING IS SERVING! AND WE ARE HERE FOR IT! 💕🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @MuusiicRafael
    @MuusiicRafael 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He’s literally been through everything I’ve been through. We have the same body type. This is so comforting somehow. Thank you for sharing 🥺❤️

  • @imnotxden2794
    @imnotxden2794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:40 your smile on the picture is so cute😭🥺

  • @Porcelain.maniac
    @Porcelain.maniac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    NORMALIZE TALKING TO OURSELVES ALONE

  • @caido4044
    @caido4044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Write a book 📚 Tarek like for real!

  • @samgist4493
    @samgist4493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We love Tarek💖 I really needed this🙌🏾

  • @jorgegpenin
    @jorgegpenin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It amaze me how i can see his body and dont see nothing wrong like actually finding it atractive but for him is an insecurity, i wish no one could go trough this

  • @asapvonn
    @asapvonn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww look at baby tarekk 🥺 but complimenting myself out loud has honestly boosted my self confidence!!

  • @ojitosrodriguez114
    @ojitosrodriguez114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm someone that has always found all body types beautiful, I don't see how any one type is "perfect" and one is "imperfect".
    A HEALTHY body is a beautiful body 🗣📢

  • @chloemarie9646
    @chloemarie9646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    tarek your videos make my life better, thanks for existing and being yourself

  • @ellendec2121
    @ellendec2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    me seeing this video the day after having a self-hate emotional breakdown, knowing that it's exactly what i needed: 👁👄👁
    lol no but seriously thank you for showing up right on time ❤ i cant wait to print this and fill it out!

  • @cleodiamond7569
    @cleodiamond7569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a gay black man myself, this PDF really is helpful. Grazias, Tarek ❤.

  • @papi_manny
    @papi_manny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tarek, this honestly could not come at a better time. I've been recommitting to my health and I am honestly so excited to go on this journey.

  • @autumnjms
    @autumnjms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wayment- not you made us a self help journal 🥺 thanks, Tarek! 💓

  • @nelsonclark6980
    @nelsonclark6980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just wanted to say thank you for helping me start my self healing process ☮️❤️🙏🏼

  • @Charisma01
    @Charisma01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is a word!!! It goes back to the text “write the vision and make it plain.” Habakkuk 2:2. I’m always inspired by your videos!! Much love!

  • @patpet1997
    @patpet1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re so beautiful inside and out 🥺 heavy on the OUT 😍😍😍😍

  • @handsomemahlambi
    @handsomemahlambi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thumbnail got me drooling 🤤
    You are sexy.
    You’re such an emotionally and mentally inclined intellectual and I’m so happy that you are showing and no longer shaming yourself over this beauty that society is too stupid to appreciate.
    High-end art🙌🏽❤️😁✨

  • @azzie_1210
    @azzie_1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tarek, I love you. Thank you for this. I just relapsed from my ED after a year in recovery, I needed this.

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sending you so much LOVE and healing. im so proud of you for being present during this series! i know its hard and can be triggering

  • @Aries16603
    @Aries16603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yaaassss for the Janet Jackson 1993 Rolling Stone Magazine pose in the thumbnail.

  • @MATAESHAXO
    @MATAESHAXO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First of all I love you and everything you stand for. Secondly, thank you for creating this. I think this could help a lot of people.💕

  • @SilverLocs6474
    @SilverLocs6474 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know this video was filmed at least 6 mos ago but when I saw it, I was absolutely elated to see you back. I too have dealt with some of the same things you have survived. I appreciate your candidness. I also am wanting to be a TH-camr/Influencer but have so many fears about the opinions of people. The computer courage is real in these TH-cam streets. Thank you for returning to your work and you sound so much better now that you have taken that time. Continue to grow, evolve and change for the better.

  • @nicoleavila-rivera6441
    @nicoleavila-rivera6441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I appreciate you so much. :'^b Thank you for making this free and accessible for everybody.

  • @exmanglona4842
    @exmanglona4842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you know Tarek, i think your channel has helped me alot and this video is going to help me too and im super grateful for you and all the positivity you spread!!

  • @mariaboehl1168
    @mariaboehl1168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love how much you’ve been uploading lately 🥺 every video is a hit !!

  • @ronnib.7339
    @ronnib.7339 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek you were born handsome in my eyes, from your smile to your personality, even when you were a little heavy. This video will surely help a lot of people going through the struggle you have been through with your body issue. Hon, I don't know you personally, but I have been watching your videos for a long time and I can say not only are you a handsome young man, you have a beautiful spirit. Stay blessed and knowing that you are beautifully made ❤

  • @thetereaz
    @thetereaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's amazing that you created a way for us to mentally, emotionally, and physically acknowledge those things-work on them and appreciate/find beauty in so called flaws.
    I've always had weight issues. From a child till 16 i was 5'10 230 lbs
    I then worked on my body. I got down to 175. It was amazing but that's when the real issues came always fighting to be smaller. I eventually got down to 149 and my weight bounced back horribly with the help of a failed relationship i find myself 270 and my insecurities grew worst i felt ugly alone and crappy.
    I remember as time went on i looked in the mirror and realized i had not looked in it in a long time. I had not seen myself i got in the scale i was 307. I broke down and thought all those times i thought i was ugl, fat, and disgusting.....i realized i wasn't as bad as i am at this second, which means it can always get worst. So take those nasty descriptions away and appreciate me for where i am now..
    Eventually my weight has fallen off.
    I am currently at 236 I'm so proud of being able to get here. 5 years ago i would be ashamed to go outside at this weight.... I look in the mirror proud of just living me and when i stopped beefing with the man in the mirror he help me understand him more and worked with me vs against me
    Plus it helps These days Lol 😂all the boys tryna get this thick.

  • @exmanglona4842
    @exmanglona4842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ofc we're going to check out you PDF kit! it loooks soo nice and asthetically pleasing

  • @sadsolarbeam
    @sadsolarbeam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    i clicked so fast bc i know this video is going to be for me hehe

  • @donovan847
    @donovan847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I def need this! I have a plethora of insecurities that I need to work on!

  • @reanneinjapan6418
    @reanneinjapan6418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just letting you know, you’re my favorite youtuber!! your videos make my day 🥺

  • @lawyerportal5226
    @lawyerportal5226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tarek can you make a video on how to deal with haters/ how to get good grades and stay motivated? Love you and your content x

  • @healingleo9374
    @healingleo9374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im literally gonna print this out tomorrow i cant wait to use it ❤️ thank you for making this tarek!

  • @cbcb8898
    @cbcb8898 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greetings Tarek it was recommended I see your video because a childhood friend said you reminded her of me with your inspirational videos, I haven't watched yet but I will, just wanted to say hi. Many Blessings to you and all that you love, I'd like to say this We as Americanized African people have a tendency to want to involve ourselves with titles something other that's created, Whatever one chooses to be or do define yourself,I see you already know this, I think black men struggle ( not all ) because some feel the need to belong we'll place ourselves anywhere. Many Blessings to you on your journey to Joy

  • @jaytyre9683
    @jaytyre9683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is so important. You’re confidence is admiring :)

  • @moehanadaden5127
    @moehanadaden5127 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this I'm sure it wasn't easy to reveal hidden internal pains. Especially body image issues, xox.

  • @energygoddess888
    @energygoddess888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tarek, I love you! This is perfect. ❤️

  • @rainsparkles16
    @rainsparkles16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Downloaded. THANK YOU FOR THIS

  • @mutesimasereka7816
    @mutesimasereka7816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ive been a subscriber and supporter of yours from way back. But to be honest, i havent been watching your videos for the past year or two and fortunately, this video popped up on my home page and im so glad it has because ive been going through it chile with depression and anxiety due to my weight gain from covid. so this video (and your most recent ones about you dating yourself and loving yourself) and your pretty PDF are gems right now and i appreciate you for that x

  • @manalez4061
    @manalez4061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    after watching this i was like "i wonder if he has virgo in his big 3" then i clicked on the link to get the toolkit and saw you're a virgo rising! im a virgo moon and this is a really dope way to add structure to the work and a beautiful way to track progress. thank you

  • @elani9624
    @elani9624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you make me so happy about myself thx u so much

  • @DrinkGirlyKarla
    @DrinkGirlyKarla 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    excited for the return!!❤️

  • @saquancarr3533
    @saquancarr3533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video inspired me to tell my journey! Thank you for giving me some confidence 🤎

  • @mimiandrew2064
    @mimiandrew2064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my first time watching your video I came across your post on Twitter and I'm impressed really love your channel😍

  • @journey161
    @journey161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love that you did this guide ! Also I’m a Scorpio sun Virgo moon too 😇❤️

  • @kendallhamilton2599
    @kendallhamilton2599 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for creating and sharing this workbook with us. I’m going to try using it daily 💕

  • @kenyaamani
    @kenyaamani 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek Ali these videos get better and better. I hope to eventually see you making a journal for those learning to love themselves. Your videos make me so motivated on this journey, thank you 😊

  • @alexanderivory-brown118
    @alexanderivory-brown118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl! Thank you for this!!!! You are an icon!!!

  • @Sonya_J
    @Sonya_J 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this for us, you’re always spreading love and looking for ways to improve our overall health. Literally a gem Tarek 💗💗💗

  • @bobby24love
    @bobby24love 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for doing what you’re doing for yourself and sharing your work and progress to help others improve themselves and their lives.

  • @Iamnotawordstill
    @Iamnotawordstill 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    With everything you’ve been through and are still going through and with the work you’ve been doing on social media, making this PDF makes so much sense from you. Great idea and I’ll be using it today ❤️.

  • @benjamincunningham5070
    @benjamincunningham5070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered YOU and Im truly love 😍 YOU and YOUR ideals

  • @Sandrine419
    @Sandrine419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this pdf.

  • @Besh-ls5ee
    @Besh-ls5ee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek! My man! 💕

  • @blackalchemy222
    @blackalchemy222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! Thank you for compiling this for our mental health. You’re a beauty and a gem. 🥺💚

  • @ficholasnields
    @ficholasnields 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for not only sharing your journey but teaching us how to start our own

  • @havethedayyouneed
    @havethedayyouneed 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i literally couldnt adore you more. ugh 😭💛

  • @NohrSorensen
    @NohrSorensen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a beautiful contribution to the world, well done Tarek ♥️

  • @shevanoorda7252
    @shevanoorda7252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baby tarek is sooo cute thooo

  • @debran9263
    @debran9263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The book is fire. Thank you. 😘

  • @EARLYBYRDLIVEX2
    @EARLYBYRDLIVEX2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this new found confidence Tarek , 😝 love how real you are and how you are so open with us all … I watch you alot keep up the great work ! 🦾🦾🦾

  • @kgales457
    @kgales457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! I can't wait to work on it

  • @anapatient3706
    @anapatient3706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for this Tarek, we love you ❤️

  • @Awesomepossum233
    @Awesomepossum233 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a dope tool, Tarek. Thank you for making it. I will definitely be utilizing it because I'm on this journey too.

  • @GeorgiaPeachAYEEE
    @GeorgiaPeachAYEEE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    & baby you look good!

  • @dtjisdivine
    @dtjisdivine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate this and you so much. Thank for for this and yes, I will be using it. 🙂💕

  • @mmasechaba27
    @mmasechaba27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's the consistency of uploading for me!! 🥺🥺🔥🔥🔥❤️😍

  • @odalis1893
    @odalis1893 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the worst this you can hate is your mind. I’m at constant war with it. I’m okay with my body but it’s my mindset that takes it out of me. My obsessive tendency and reliving the past. It does not help that I have bipolar. It makes me feel helpless

  • @serinat2181
    @serinat2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Tarek I hope you're doing good!
    This is amazing!
    Imma download the PDF kit , you always make the right videos at the right time as I have been struggling with self lacdeptance and love etc so thank you!
    Thank you for just doing you and being authentically yourself.
    Love from the UK

  • @jermainegreen7680
    @jermainegreen7680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so powerful

  • @lilik2564
    @lilik2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this 😭 💯

  • @chrisdjoseph
    @chrisdjoseph 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this with us, love you Tarek! 🙌🏾💛

  • @valerieeey
    @valerieeey 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loving the content, we need more content like this on TH-cam 🙌🏾💕💕

  • @melissagertse4350
    @melissagertse4350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Body goals💗💗💗💗

  • @cainotconnie1673
    @cainotconnie1673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    going through the PDF along with the video. thank you for this!

  • @Vibesbypeach
    @Vibesbypeach 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! I’m def sharing that pdf with my loved ones!

  • @wtfbilly143
    @wtfbilly143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol im honestly kinda scared to put myself on paper like this...imma do it but terrified

  • @isaac1i995
    @isaac1i995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek Exceptional! ...Thank You 🙌🏿🖤

  • @D2u475
    @D2u475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a gem. Thank you for this

  • @reabetswelekoma3682
    @reabetswelekoma3682 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's the consistency for me

  • @robertfabyan19
    @robertfabyan19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing. Can’t wait to use it😋

  • @yasssgawwwd5643
    @yasssgawwwd5643 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m not ready. I’m happy ignoring all the insecurities 😂🥳

  • @valenciaocean235
    @valenciaocean235 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou this is amazing Tarek!💙💙

  • @sarahmalone4353
    @sarahmalone4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this, I need this right now ❤️

  • @anniev7410
    @anniev7410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ❤️ Tarek

  • @emeliab3145
    @emeliab3145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you & your videos so much Tarek!!

  • @ms.carter3843
    @ms.carter3843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video as always Lovely Tarek

  • @vong2401
    @vong2401 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro i freakin love u dude 🤙🏽❤

  • @mameece8878
    @mameece8878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ILY!!!

  • @genesisthepoet815
    @genesisthepoet815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tarek, you’re beautiful

  • @benjamincunningham5070
    @benjamincunningham5070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    TAREK you are really Beautiful ❤️