I’m not sure I understand what “High value” means. So, I’m not very secure about myself because of perfectionism, I was raised with lots of wrong ideas, so now I have some problems with respect and love to myself. Is that making me low value women? I’m loving, I care about other people feelings, I’m truthful and devoted, I have principles. I’m not considering myself “low value” woman)) we all have some problems, we just need to understand ourselves, understand the reasons of our behaviour and try to work on that and not because we want to be able to call ourselves “high value women”, but because it’s gonna make live easier and happier.
That "high value woman" is idealism akin to labelling. Comply to the 12 signs or requirement? So you can be that high valued? Not quite. Why? it is putting a woman into a required perfection when most humans have the nature of imperfections and limitations. Having some or few of those traits as aforementioned is good enough. WOMEN HAS TO EMBRACE THEIR HUMAN LIMITATIONS, ACCEPT THEMSELVES WITH THEIR ASSIGNED FLAWS AND OVERCOME THESE FLAWS IN ANY WHICH WAY THEY CAN.
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12 traits of a high valued women : 1. You love and respect yourself deeply 2. You embrace your femininity 3. You have uplifting personality 4. You speak the truth 5. You don't need validation from others 6. You are selective with your time and energy 7. You live a purpose driven life 8. You are compassionate and kind hearted 9. You are a good listener 10. You know how to have fun 11. You respect everyone 12. You prioritize health and wellness
Number 2 just makes no sense. You are either feminine or you are not. I hear this so often from women as if it is a switch you can turn on or off. If you choose a career, you will be developing "masculine" traits over time. You cannot turn that off easily. You become a man over time. Being feminine is to be family-oriented with aspiration for motherhood to help built the best family represented. A feminine woman supports and push her man to success and thus lifting her own family status. That's what being feminine means- a partnership not only for her partner but for their offsprings.
@@danieldao1829 cchoosing a carrer doed not mean you become masculine... when you learn to love yourself you naturally look after yourselfmore, you feel more connected with yourself and femininity no matter what job you do
If she tells the truth, then what label should she use? A spade is a spade. I can understand if you mean she doesn't act cocky about it, and maybe that's what you mean. But I don't think pretending you're less valuable than you know yourself to be is attractive because it's dishonest.
@@adelineredesign Labelling yourself as "high value woman" for whatever context is already cocky. And why would you pretend you're less valuable? Not going out of your way telling people you're valuable doesn't mean you're less valuable.
What's crazy is I'm 38 and until I was about 34, I thought all these traits made me kinda of weak bc of how society is. I was never into that "bad B" stuff. I like being sweet, doing nice things for others, being kind and just being positive. Yes I've been hurt or taken advantage of but I just try to learn from those times. I still embrace and take pride in these traits. I don't hide them anymore. I just use discernment more.
Discernment is key when interacting with others... you have a good head on your shoulders lol... with that kind of thinking, keep living and do what you're doing. God is with you every step of the way and if you feel like he isn't, invite Him in on everything in your life and if you're already doing that and (life hasn't changed the way you wanted) then that's just the devil trying to deterb you from life... keep on.. you're still young!! ❤️
Being nice is a double edged sword, unfortunately. A lot of narcissists will see being nice as a weakness & exploit that accordingly. Watch H G Tudor's, 'Knowing the Narcissist , channel on You Tube.
A high value woman is authentic. She know what she wants, and where she will stands... very humble and calm as well. She know how to handle things in every circumstances, not needed any validations from nobody or whatever. A high confident and very self-sufficient!
@Carm I wish I could give this 100 likes!!! Absolute ancient truth, pearl of wisdom in this little comment of yours.../ and also not being needy on any level is a key /
So…I’ve been a high value person for a long time, and didn’t even know it. Didn’t fit into most of society for a long time, so thought I was just an oddball or eccentric. Turns out I was just being high value in a world that doesn’t value anything other than self gratification. It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society - Krishnamurti. I wish I had believed in this long before when I most needed it; that would’ve saved me a lot of unnecessary heartache.
Same here. I spent far too much of my life lowering and dumbing myself down to try and "fit in" with people I shouldn't have been around in the first place.
Agreed! Women should be taught at a young age things like the fact that 90% of our eggs are gone by age 30. Anyone who wants a family needs to prioritize it early in life. I probably would have had more children in the last decade had I known this but I only learned this at age 32 🫥
@@zarahsgarden2097 women can have children till menopsuse technically even though the possibility decreases but its never 0 . And 32 is so young . People can still have 2 or 3 or more children in their 30s
I actually started out like this even though throughput the years every single male in my life desperately tried to keep me down. I never attracted a high value man until my 40’s. They all wanted to crush me until then.
True! Many men feel very threatened, even the ones who appear well off. They see a high value woman as competition in everything. If she doesn’t respond favorably to their need to put you In a controlled box? Then you are a prude and cold. If you are positive and have it all together? Then you don’t need them, they feel. I was lucky to marry a great man, but there are times I see the insecurities.
Im in the same boat as you, but seem to be single now since im divorced because i dont want someone always making me feel unworthy and under valued. Hence im now divorced and haven't dated anyone seriously in a while im scared now and will i still find someone that compliments my personality
My whole family tried to crush me and keep me down. Also my brother could "shine". After trying to keep me down for 6 decades my brother is a 60-year-old multi felon never had a job in his life never filed income taxes and never achieved anything. Me while I'm still crawling out of the hole they tried to put me in. I no longer have any association with my own family and that's sad that I can't
Well, a high value man would only want a woman of status because it will help to enhance his. Otherwise, he will have options to pick a hot looking McDonald's cashier rather because she appreciates having a good life with a high value man to lead. I believe there is a fallacy that a woman making a lot of money will make her high value, which is false. There are countless.tales of women making a lot of money in the corporate environment because she chases money over children. A truly high value woman at the end of the day is one who values family and children and can command respects from the community. Her pride in her family is what will help her exhume confidence. Career and money only makes the woman into a "man" and nothing more. The greatest thing people often forget that humans can do is to pass our genes onto the next generation and so on. What good is it to have wealth and no heir to carry that legacy?
I think a lot of women have trouble loving themselves for one reason or another, typically childhood traumas or upsets. I think pretty women in particular have trouble dating because they are so used to guys trying to just hook up with them so they have to be extra discerning. I think you could also say that self-reflection is the key to becoming a high value person because many of us are living with flaws that hurt our ability to discern healthy boundaries and sometimes we have to really examine ourselves to notice and treat our issues.
Am so lucky to have this opportunity to have seen this at a young age of 20 I want to be a strong high valued woman ever since I stepped into adulthood. I have a few traits but I want to strengthen them and also get more from here
How good it is that you recognize this at such an early age! Too many of us realize the importance of self value only after repeatedly falling. Good luck and blessings to you.
It's challenging to respect people who are cowards, destructive, and/or liars. Other than that, what's not to respect about every other amazing human being!
I hate labels that state your value as a human being because it is dehumanizing but if you are reading this comment and trying to change yourself for others, don't, no matter what you do, your self worth and value will never change. Only YOU know your worth and once you figure that out, you are automatically high value, even if others don't see it. Never try to base your value on how others see you like the video insinuates
So true! You can be a quiet and contemplative person - someone who is a compassionate observer and be of very high value. The world needs all kinds of people. And great value can sometimes be unseen.
I became all of these things because I've been spending years with Jeshua, The King, and He transformed me. He gets all the credit, I just cooperated 🙂
I agree, nobody in history has displayed all of these exact traits and you need to know your own self worth that isn't based on the standards of other people. These kind of videos are misleading and kind of toxic in my opinion because it's just setting even more unrealistic expectations that isn't needed and will only cause more insecurities in yourself
The 3rd and 4th trait is what I possess the most. For the 4th trait, I’ve learned how to getting the out while choosing my words carefully; I am not sugarcoating because I won’t ever cover anything up; I just know how to be straightforward without seeming too harsh and blunt, because I think about the person’s feelings as I’m searching for the right words to say.🥰💛🕊️
Very on point👍! This is so true. Thank you for laying it all out! A helpful reminder and guidance to stay centered and focus👍! I'm putting this on my daily affirmations Playlist 😁. Ty👩🌾🌻
For me the definition of High valued woman is have this qualities, a strong personality independent, kindhearted, intelligent of course especially those career woman on how they handle all the problems that they face it in every different situations in life. ❤
I love the last take on this helpful video you made. You really put your thoughtfulness for others and not "yourself" or "how many views can I get"... cudos to you for your sharing! You are a highly valuable person ❤️ thank you for thinking of making this "video". Really hope it helps alot of people because we are all important and have value... believe that 💯 🙌 love to all & cheers
Yes all true . But ... People's personalities and flaws also depend very much on how we were raised and if we've been abused ... Etc . When we go through our spiritual awakening we can learn to love ourselves and begin to see the truth ! I always tell the truth .
@@babylonisfallen5142 It's not my video, and thats not true. You can love others whilst also loving yourself, it's important to have both in balance because everyone including yourself deserves love.
@@seaivyy1123 You can’t put yourself first and put others first. Mutually exclusive. There is no greater love than giving up your life for a friend. Time, energy, money not someone you know because you also will receive something don’t you? Do you consider them your friend and yourself of lesser importance than the homeless, the drug addicted, the criminals, the disabled, the poverty-stricken? You love them in equal proportion to yourself?
@@babylonisfallen5142 You can, but not for the same thing, if that makes sense. It depends on the situation.You could give up your life for a friend, but if you knew they would not appreciate it, why would you. Sometimes you should prioritise others, sometimes you must prioritise yourself. At the end of the day we are stuck with ourselves, if we have no self-love we are stuck with that as well, and its harder to love others if you don't love yourself. Everyone is born deserving the same amount of love. As people make their own decisions and choices they can change that.
If you set out to find a perfect person you'll be disappointed ..none of us are perfect..you need to accept others for who they are not who.you want them to be.... you should not have to change your self..your morals or values to make people like you....a high value person is happy with who they are ..they don't pretend to be someone there not.
Anybody who has all these traits are perfect and very lucky. It's easy to say 'love yourself deeply'. But if you were brought up by parents who stipulated negativities and self-hatred into you instead of embracing you - in that case you will end up messed up and feeling unloved and unwanted.
@@julieutley2073 Yes, but the child's mind is very impressionable. It's very easy to make a child to believe they are unworthy. It will be hard work for them in adulthood to undo the damage.
@@marthas.4456 Yup. I know that first hand. Worked long and hard and have overcome. This video isn't for kids. Teaching them to value themselves with something to check themselves with can be really helpful if presented right.
Each one of us has something to offer there is nobody who has more value than anybody else.. follow your inner Voice that's your guide we're all on different paths out here .
Is there one for men? I really feel like there should be one for men. Women are always being told what makes a woman a “real woman” or “worthy” but men aren’t. They need to have standards too about what makes a high value man
The fact that there even is standards infuriates me to no end. I'll never live up to societies standards no matter how hard i try, even if I'm considered "high value". I don't even know why i clicked on this video because I'll never change myself for anyone unless it's for the best lol
This makes so much sense, I feel like I have a lot of similar qualities here that my friend is lacking (even tho we r both very beautiful, she’s the prettier one gets little more attention for her appearance) But I feel like something has recently been off, and it’s because she’s lacking a lot of these qualities. She’s starting to act distant & always makes negative comments or is always comparing, makes me wonder if she’s low key envious (not of appearance) how I’m always prioritizing my life.. and I’m wondering if all this time I was being used as an accessory to make her look good in some way 🤔
Interesting ….. I thing I have been a high value woman most of my life .Of course there has been drawbacks and all,Focus on a positive mindset .In life there will be problems just know you can get through them . We as woman need to know that our time is precious and we should strive hard in our lives to not allow negativity or negative people to bring us down . I think that the main thing is to know your true worth and Try hard to not let others define who you are .
These kinds of women get taken young and early, then smart men will treat them right to keep them around. There's a reason some women are still single into their 30s, and it's not good.
This video describes me well! It seems men often back away from me. I take it that my independence frightens them. I imagine the right one will be attracted and stay! Thanks for video.
Or a narcissist that figured out how to lie and pretend to want to make you happy. Pretend to have life goals, pretending he is strong when he’s actually spiritually hitchhiking on your back.
Pro tip. Get your favorite love song and just re-write it for yourself. For example don’t sing we, sing me. The song that worked great for me is Guilty by Barbra Streisand. I know I’ve helped people just from telling them to listen the song. Pro tip 2. Find your inner P!nk. If you haven’t seen her concerts, the songs of them are on TH-cam now. She’s a strong woman so I highly recommend not just listening to her but watch her because she does a real show with gymnastics and she’s always live, no auto-tune
sometimes i feel like not being in marriage... relationships are hard and if someone wants to get married they have to understand relationships and heal when it's needed . i often heal it w natural drops spanish fly which are for both men and women
We can say, by observing but thing is if at all our values are in our seeds any situations cannot make you down ,it always strengthen your soul like a ball .
These kinds of women don't stay single for long. If I had it all to do over again, I'd have picked out a great woman like this in college or my early 20s. That's when all the good ones get taken.
@Yenny Polanco i think he's probably kidding or trolling. The idea that all good women are taken before 25 years old and the he could "pick out" one is too far fetched. It assumes all women want to be married before 25. He's talking like it's 1950. Even if he's not kidding, it's pretty funny.
Number 1 is hard "self love and respect" is another way if saying (im more important than you) wich leads to being selfish/narcissist. But hopefully people will find good people to be with
I think “high value person” starts with simply knowing you have intrinsic value by virtue of being a human being. Of course all the things mentioned take work to improve (and anyone who applies themselves can achieve it) but what seems to be the biggest thing is the “knowing” part. We have to KNOW we aren’t just yesterday’s chopped liver or trash that gets chucked in the bin or the doormat to be walked all over or objects to be used and discarded or someone’s toys or property and ergo we should not be treated as such.
I love how this video about high value women features women who are thin, don't have wrinkles, and look like models.....a not too subtle message there.
Go with the traits. You don't have to be a skinny model to be attractive. I am almost 66 and I attract all kinds of people. I listen without judgement. You have no idea how much some people just need to be heard. Some, especially kids, love how I am loving. I actually have little ones just come up and hug my leg smiling or like the older ones, just engage with me. It's like they can just see it somehow. And that's happened in stores and parks a lot. Just go with the traits.
Now I know that I am a high value woman, all these traits are true to my personality except for two though haha, sometimes I need validation for my looks and sometimes I aint energetic and fun cz I am a shy but confident person.
As INFJ person who are known as benign and honest ; I can say those standards for a high valued women Do NOT apply to the real world out there’ what really matter is either MONEY or POWER behind that woman back’ physical appearance & beauty even is now easily achieved
I am all of these things and I never changed after 32 years of a happy marriage but I guess I am guilty of still want to be treated like a date after all these years.
👆 THIS RIGHT HERE! omg i was waiting for someone to be on my side! FR!! And I've only been seeing this "high value sigma" bullshit in the last year. Is society devolving?
Maybe the word isn’t used the same in different parts of the US? I bet that's the miscommunication. How is it used where you are? Or maybe the word "value" isn’t used the same in different generations. I'm from the Southern US, and grew up in the 90s. There and then the word "value" was probably most often used in the context of what a family or a company stood for, or concepts linked to societal stability and personal integrity. Contribution to your relationships. Possessions hold monetary value, but intrinsic value isn’t about money. I'd like to know what the word brings to mind for you and what area and age you were raised in. I think this is just a misunderstanding, considering the surrounding context of the video.
Be courteous to others but respect is earned. Be courteous, kind, and friendly. People don't just get respect they have to earn it. When did it become all about respect. I only respect people I know. But I am courteous, kind and friendly. I don't think most people understand what respect actually means.
People shouldn’t focus on “perceiving” as high valued, they should focus on “BEING” high valued. Perceiving doesn’t necessarily mean it’s who they are.
Agree. despite that I am usually highly sceptical about this kind of tutorials and find at least some superficial manipulative cheap element in them. and do not wach till the end this was a high value one.
@@SocialPsychologyMasters I found it Right and clean. We approve eachothers values. I just subscribed although I am not searching for this kind of videos. ❤Swe.. 🙂
But what the heck does it mean to embrace your femininity? I consider myself to be a very feminine woman but I have a hard time with this notion. It seems like there are certain signifiers that one is supposed to engage in such as how you dress, the colors you wear, your make up, your hair. What exactly do you mean? It can’t just be these things.
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I think they mean wear dresses, skirts, some colors, put a bit of make-up, jewellery, nails done (natural nails not the long fake nails). And be kind, speak gently, slowly. Don't swear or sounds aggressive etc I think that what they mean.
I always wonder what being feminine means. I don't do anything as regards how I present myself that doesn't feel natural to me. So if others perceive femininity, great, if they don't, great. Anything else would be fake
I think it means when men are in your presence let them feel like men and have value. Don’t be the one letting them know I can do that myself even though you can. Let them feel needed. Men need to feel they are heroes sometimes and they saved the day. Pretend to be that damsel in distress. I’m 70 years old and I can tell you it works. Be blessed young lady. 🙏🙂
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I’m not sure I understand what “High value” means. So, I’m not very secure about myself because of perfectionism, I was raised with lots of wrong ideas, so now I have some problems with respect and love to myself. Is that making me low value women? I’m loving, I care about other people feelings, I’m truthful and devoted, I have principles. I’m not considering myself “low value” woman)) we all have some problems, we just need to understand ourselves, understand the reasons of our behaviour and try to work on that and not because we want to be able to call ourselves “high value women”, but because it’s gonna make live easier and happier.
Truth!!
That "high value woman" is idealism akin to labelling. Comply to the 12 signs or requirement? So you can be that high valued? Not quite. Why? it is putting a woman into a required perfection when most humans have the nature of imperfections and limitations. Having some or few of those traits as aforementioned is good enough. WOMEN HAS TO EMBRACE THEIR HUMAN LIMITATIONS, ACCEPT THEMSELVES WITH THEIR ASSIGNED FLAWS AND OVERCOME THESE FLAWS IN ANY WHICH WAY THEY CAN.
WTF DUDE ?
Fuch MEN
...ALL MEN .!🔊🔊🔊🔊..AND THERE BS.
MEN THINK WOMEN NEED THEM , THAT'S BECAUSE THEY ARE EGOTISTICAL ....SELF CEBTERED , SELF SEEKING...
A STRONG WOMAN NEVER NEEDS A MAN FOR ANYTHING..
END OF STORY 🔊🔊🔊🎹🎸🎷🎤🎼🎶🎙😎😍😘🤗🤗🤗🎙🎼🎶🎧
Good JOB BUT YOUR A MAN THAT THINKS HE KNOWS WHAT A HIGH VALUE WOMAN IS..THUS .. CAUGHT U BRO
12 traits of a high valued women :
1. You love and respect yourself deeply
2. You embrace your femininity
3. You have uplifting personality
4. You speak the truth
5. You don't need validation from others
6. You are selective with your time and energy
7. You live a purpose driven life
8. You are compassionate and kind hearted
9. You are a good listener
10. You know how to have fun
11. You respect everyone
12. You prioritize health and wellness
Thank you for listing these!!
Thanks 🎉
That is the reason why my husband love me so much and I treat him like a king in return. He's not a complainer what so ever.
Number 2 just makes no sense. You are either feminine or you are not. I hear this so often from women as if it is a switch you can turn on or off. If you choose a career, you will be developing "masculine" traits over time. You cannot turn that off easily. You become a man over time. Being feminine is to be family-oriented with aspiration for motherhood to help built the best family represented. A feminine woman supports and push her man to success and thus lifting her own family status. That's what being feminine means- a partnership not only for her partner but for their offsprings.
@@danieldao1829 cchoosing a carrer doed not mean you become masculine... when you learn to love yourself you naturally look after yourselfmore, you feel more connected with yourself and femininity no matter what job you do
A true high value woman doesn't label herself a high value woman
what a truth
I agree he who is humble is heavenly .
If she tells the truth, then what label should she use? A spade is a spade.
I can understand if you mean she doesn't act cocky about it, and maybe that's what you mean. But I don't think pretending you're less valuable than you know yourself to be is attractive because it's dishonest.
@@adelineredesign Labelling yourself as "high value woman" for whatever context is already cocky. And why would you pretend you're less valuable? Not going out of your way telling people you're valuable doesn't mean you're less valuable.
I agree w/ dell- nothing wrong with calling it as it is.
What's crazy is I'm 38 and until I was about 34, I thought all these traits made me kinda of weak bc of how society is. I was never into that "bad B" stuff. I like being sweet, doing nice things for others, being kind and just being positive. Yes I've been hurt or taken advantage of but I just try to learn from those times. I still embrace and take pride in these traits. I don't hide them anymore. I just use discernment more.
A real man will do the work to please you.
I'm so with you on this!
Discernment is key when interacting with others... you have a good head on your shoulders lol... with that kind of thinking, keep living and do what you're doing. God is with you every step of the way and if you feel like he isn't, invite Him in on everything in your life and if you're already doing that and (life hasn't changed the way you wanted) then that's just the devil trying to deterb you from life... keep on.. you're still young!! ❤️
Being nice is a double edged sword, unfortunately. A lot of narcissists will see being nice as a weakness & exploit that accordingly. Watch H G Tudor's, 'Knowing the Narcissist ,
channel on You Tube.
This is me ❤️
A high value woman is authentic. She know what she wants, and where she will stands... very humble and calm as well. She know how to handle things in every circumstances, not needed any validations from nobody or whatever. A high confident and very self-sufficient!
Being emotionally stable is a major key.
@Carm I wish I could give this 100 likes!!! Absolute ancient truth, pearl of wisdom in this little comment of yours.../ and also not being needy on any level is a key /
Yes, but being a woman we always have emotions, due to our hormones and cycle. Life throws us curve balls and my most soothing way is to cry
A self respecting woman doesn’t allow bad people around them
So…I’ve been a high value person for a long time, and didn’t even know it. Didn’t fit into most of society for a long time, so thought I was just an oddball or eccentric. Turns out I was just being high value in a world that doesn’t value anything other than self gratification. It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society - Krishnamurti. I wish I had believed in this long before when I most needed it; that would’ve saved me a lot of unnecessary heartache.
Same here. I spent far too much of my life lowering and dumbing myself down to try and "fit in" with people I shouldn't have been around in the first place.
I wished I would’ve learned this as a girl. The younger you teach this to people the better
Yes this should be shown to teenage girls as a life lesson
It's never too late to learn. Be proud of who you are 🌟
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Agreed! Women should be taught at a young age things like the fact that 90% of our eggs are gone by age 30. Anyone who wants a family needs to prioritize it early in life. I probably would have had more children in the last decade had I known this but I only learned this at age 32 🫥
@@zarahsgarden2097 women can have children till menopsuse technically even though the possibility decreases but its never 0 . And 32 is so young . People can still have 2 or 3 or more children in their 30s
I actually started out like this even though throughput the years every single male in my life desperately tried to keep me down. I never attracted a high value man until my 40’s. They all wanted to crush me until then.
True! Many men feel very threatened, even the ones who appear well off. They see a high value woman as competition in everything. If she doesn’t respond favorably to their need to put you In a controlled box? Then you are a prude and cold. If you are positive and have it all together? Then you don’t need them, they feel. I was lucky to marry a great man, but there are times I see the insecurities.
Religious men I have found this to be very true with.
Im in the same boat as you, but seem to be single now since im divorced because i dont want someone always making me feel unworthy and under valued. Hence im now divorced and haven't dated anyone seriously in a while im scared now and will i still find someone that compliments my personality
My whole family tried to crush me and keep me down. Also my brother could "shine". After trying to keep me down for 6 decades my brother is a 60-year-old multi felon never had a job in his life never filed income taxes and never achieved anything. Me while I'm still crawling out of the hole they tried to put me in. I no longer have any association with my own family and that's sad that I can't
That's what insecure dudes do hun
High value woman wants to date and marry a man who is as high value as her
Well, a high value man would only want a woman of status because it will help to enhance his. Otherwise, he will have options to pick a hot looking McDonald's cashier rather because she appreciates having a good life with a high value man to lead. I believe there is a fallacy that a woman making a lot of money will make her high value, which is false. There are countless.tales of women making a lot of money in the corporate environment because she chases money over children. A truly high value woman at the end of the day is one who values family and children and can command respects from the community. Her pride in her family is what will help her exhume confidence. Career and money only makes the woman into a "man" and nothing more. The greatest thing people often forget that humans can do is to pass our genes onto the next generation and so on. What good is it to have wealth and no heir to carry that legacy?
How many women sell themselves short, or fall for a narcissist?
@@gabrielleaumont3971 can u explain ?
And a high value male makes her run behind him most of the times, like for real
@@neon4339 really ?
These apply to everyone, not just women.
I think a lot of women have trouble loving themselves for one reason or another, typically childhood traumas or upsets. I think pretty women in particular have trouble dating because they are so used to guys trying to just hook up with them so they have to be extra discerning. I think you could also say that self-reflection is the key to becoming a high value person because many of us are living with flaws that hurt our ability to discern healthy boundaries and sometimes we have to really examine ourselves to notice and treat our issues.
Am so lucky to have this opportunity to have seen this at a young age of 20 I want to be a strong high valued woman ever since I stepped into adulthood. I have a few traits but I want to strengthen them and also get more from here
How good it is that you recognize this at such an early age! Too many of us realize the importance of self value only after repeatedly falling. Good luck and blessings to you.
@@voyaristika5673 thank you Ristika it's because of my childhood and I have dated a narcissistic boyfriend last year.
Besides set backs I attracted everything I wanted. I’m truly a high value woman ❤️🙏🏽.
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LOVE this 🤍
It's challenging to respect people who are cowards, destructive, and/or liars. Other than that, what's not to respect about every other amazing human being!
I hate labels that state your value as a human being because it is dehumanizing but if you are reading this comment and trying to change yourself for others, don't, no matter what you do, your self worth and value will never change. Only YOU know your worth and once you figure that out, you are automatically high value, even if others don't see it. Never try to base your value on how others see you like the video insinuates
So true! You can be a quiet and contemplative person - someone who is a compassionate observer and be of very high value. The world needs all kinds of people. And great value can sometimes be unseen.
Truth 🥰 thank you
It's all about stability & real confidence!!
Got 7 so far, thank you for giving me other things to work on.
Happy to help
I became all of these things because I've been spending years with Jeshua, The King, and He transformed me. He gets all the credit, I just cooperated 🙂
Who is jeshua??
Jesus, Son of God, Savior of all who will turn to Him. In Hebrew, it's Jeshua.
Right ! It's so true
Sweetheart, Dear Yeshua just showed you how God created you and what you're supposed to be. Isn't that just stellar?
AMEN
"everyone has value and everyone has their own unique set of traits that make them special and valuable." So, no one is right, and no one is wrong:)
Coz tomboys and girls who like sports arent women of course lmao
I agree, nobody in history has displayed all of these exact traits and you need to know your own self worth that isn't based on the standards of other people. These kind of videos are misleading and kind of toxic in my opinion because it's just setting even more unrealistic expectations that isn't needed and will only cause more insecurities in yourself
Ohhhhhh, I'm a high value woman 🤍✨ Thanks for this.
You are welcome 😊
Thank you for this video. I resonated with these traits. ❤️❤️
Glad it was helpful 😊
The 3rd and 4th trait is what I possess the most. For the 4th trait, I’ve learned how to getting the out while choosing my words carefully; I am not sugarcoating because I won’t ever cover anything up; I just know how to be straightforward without seeming too harsh and blunt, because I think about the person’s feelings as I’m searching for the right words to say.🥰💛🕊️
Very on point👍! This is so true. Thank you for laying it all out! A helpful reminder and guidance to stay centered and focus👍! I'm putting this on my daily affirmations Playlist 😁. Ty👩🌾🌻
Thank you for your kind words! We are happy to hear that you enjoy what we create 😊
High value woman won't starve herself. Eat up ladies
Based off of this video I have 9 out of 12 traits. Currently working on the other 3 after a huge revolution in my life.
For me the definition of High valued woman is have this qualities, a strong personality independent, kindhearted, intelligent of course especially those career woman on how they handle all the problems that they face it in every different situations in life. ❤
Thanks for giving a heart in my comment lolz. ❤
I love the last take on this helpful video you made. You really put your thoughtfulness for others and not "yourself" or "how many views can I get"... cudos to you for your sharing! You are a highly valuable person ❤️ thank you for thinking of making this "video". Really hope it helps alot of people because we are all important and have value... believe that 💯 🙌 love to all & cheers
Thank you so much! Blessings to you 🌟🙏
Wow! This was amazing and spot on! I’m glad to know I posses more of these qualities than I thought 😅
Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
I subscribed....gosh, I have a lot of work to do on myself!
Welcome to the channel! You are in the right place 🌟
So... I am a High Value Woman ...
Thanks for the video...
It Encouraged me more... 😊👍
Happy to hear that 😊
Me too
Yes all true . But ... People's personalities and flaws also depend very much on how we were raised and if we've been abused ... Etc . When we go through our spiritual awakening we can learn to love ourselves and begin to see the truth ! I always tell the truth .
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Not self-love, but love for others, is the sign of a high value person.
Both are very important
You didn’t say that in your video and they don’t co-exist. The lovers of self love themselves, not others.
@@babylonisfallen5142 It's not my video, and thats not true. You can love others whilst also loving yourself, it's important to have both in balance because everyone including yourself deserves love.
@@seaivyy1123 You can’t put yourself first and put others first. Mutually exclusive. There is no greater love than giving up your life for a friend. Time, energy, money not someone you know because you also will receive something don’t you? Do you consider them your friend and yourself of lesser importance than the homeless, the drug addicted, the criminals, the disabled, the poverty-stricken? You love them in equal proportion to yourself?
@@babylonisfallen5142 You can, but not for the same thing, if that makes sense. It depends on the situation.You could give up your life for a friend, but if you knew they would not appreciate it, why would you.
Sometimes you should prioritise others, sometimes you must prioritise yourself. At the end of the day we are stuck with ourselves, if we have no self-love we are stuck with that as well, and its harder to love others if you don't love yourself.
Everyone is born deserving the same amount of love. As people make their own decisions and choices they can change that.
If you set out to find a perfect person you'll be disappointed ..none of us are perfect..you need to accept others for who
they are not who.you want them to be.... you should not have to change your self..your morals or values to make people like you....a high value person is happy with who they are ..they don't pretend to be someone there not.
Thanku Marian.🌱
Anybody who has all these traits are perfect and very lucky. It's easy to say 'love yourself deeply'. But if you were brought up by parents who stipulated negativities and self-hatred into you instead of embracing you - in that case you will end up messed up and feeling unloved and unwanted.
But you are what you make of yourself. Went through it myself. If you made yourself a good person, then no matter what they said, that's who you ARE.
@@julieutley2073 Yes, but the child's mind is very impressionable. It's very easy to make a child to believe they are unworthy. It will be hard work for them in adulthood to undo the damage.
@@marthas.4456 Yup. I know that first hand. Worked long and hard and have overcome. This video isn't for kids. Teaching them to value themselves with something to check themselves with can be really helpful if presented right.
I subscribed!! 🎉I am a high value woman, checked more than 6 on this list and that made this a special channel to follow.
Welcome to the channel!🌟 Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
Each one of us has something to offer there is nobody who has more value than anybody else.. follow your inner Voice that's your guide we're all on different paths out here .
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What a wonderful, informative, well done video. I sound like a proud aunt but, seriously, great job and thank you so much!!!
Thank you for your kind words. Happy to hear that 😊
I resonated with all these traits. Good video.
Perfect!
Is there one for men? I really feel like there should be one for men. Women are always being told what makes a woman a “real woman” or “worthy” but men aren’t. They need to have standards too about what makes a high value man
I was thinking the exact same thing. I would like to bring up my young son to be a man of substance.
yes high value men are a thing too don't except anything from these trashy men anymore
The fact that there even is standards infuriates me to no end. I'll never live up to societies standards no matter how hard i try, even if I'm considered "high value". I don't even know why i clicked on this video because I'll never change myself for anyone unless it's for the best lol
@@midnightlondon3439 high valvue is not a standard it just how some certain men are
My question is the same why women always love the wrong types of men?
Great video….. thanks for sharing👏🏽
Thank you 😊
I really, really liked this video. Thank you for sharing it!
***Goes to rewatch and take copious notes
Happy to help! Thank you 😊
This makes so much sense, I feel like I have a lot of similar qualities here that my friend is lacking (even tho we r both very beautiful, she’s the prettier one gets little more attention for her appearance) But I feel like something has recently been off, and it’s because she’s lacking a lot of these qualities. She’s starting to act distant & always makes negative comments or is always comparing, makes me wonder if she’s low key envious (not of appearance) how I’m always prioritizing my life.. and I’m wondering if all this time I was being used as an accessory to make her look good in some way 🤔
Amazing Video... I learnt a lot! God bless you.... 😊
Glad it was helpful! Thank you 😊
I love being a woman..
Interesting ….. I thing I have been a high value woman most of my life .Of course there has been drawbacks and all,Focus on a positive mindset .In life there will be problems just know you can get through them . We as woman need to know that our time is precious and we should strive hard in our lives to not allow negativity or negative people to bring us down . I think that the main thing is to know your true worth and Try hard to not let others define who you are .
Such women are really rare in today's world. ✍🏻️
Rare but still exist ☺️
@@ninaaninaa3917 are you that kind of woman?
Too many women are fake and superficial....
@@tanujpanwar7549 why do you care? focus on being a good human yourself.
These kinds of women get taken young and early, then smart men will treat them right to keep them around. There's a reason some women are still single into their 30s, and it's not good.
This video describes me well! It seems men often back away from me. I take it that my independence frightens them. I imagine the right one will be attracted and stay! Thanks for video.
Glad it was helpful 😊
Lion looks for a lioness...
Has sense isn't it?
Or a narcissist that figured out how to lie and pretend to want to make you happy. Pretend to have life goals, pretending he is strong when he’s actually spiritually hitchhiking on your back.
It frightens them that they can’t manipulate you.
Pro tip. Get your favorite love song and just re-write it for yourself. For example don’t sing we, sing me. The song that worked great for me is Guilty by Barbra Streisand. I know I’ve helped people just from telling them to listen the song. Pro tip 2. Find your inner P!nk. If you haven’t seen her concerts, the songs of them are on TH-cam now. She’s a strong woman so I highly recommend not just listening to her but watch her because she does a real show with gymnastics and she’s always live, no auto-tune
I guess I fit the bill (all 12) LOL:) I learned something new and this explains everything in a positive way:)
sometimes i feel like not being in marriage... relationships are hard and if someone wants to get married they have to understand relationships and heal when it's needed . i often heal it w natural drops spanish fly which are for both men and women
Thank you for sharing this
You are welcome 😊
A high value woman doesn't let others define her.
Enjoyed. 💕
I subscribed.
Welcome to the channel! 🌟
We can say, by observing but thing is if at all our values are in our seeds any situations cannot make you down ,it always strengthen your soul like a ball .
These kinds of women don't stay single for long. If I had it all to do over again, I'd have picked out a great woman like this in college or my early 20s. That's when all the good ones get taken.
@Yenny Polanco i think he's probably kidding or trolling. The idea that all good women are taken before 25 years old and the he could "pick out" one is too far fetched. It assumes all women want to be married before 25. He's talking like it's 1950.
Even if he's not kidding, it's pretty funny.
Not necessarily, guy. There are plenty of older women who are divorced or widowed who would love to find a good, real man, one who's not a pretender.
Ok then I’m definitely a high value woman. Thanks for the confirmation!
Thank you for this!!
You are welcome 😊
Loved your videos and it’s content. 99% OF them is my personalities. So😊 , I Thk you again . Now I know WHO am I😁😁😁😁!
Love that!
I love this video..thanks for sharing 💜
Thank you! Glad it was helpful 😊
Number 4. Speak the truth... but protect yourself, so it's on a need to know basis..
Be perfect and everything will be okay.. Wow, what epiphany moment
Number 1 is hard "self love and respect" is another way if saying (im more important than you) wich leads to being selfish/narcissist. But hopefully people will find good people to be with
Wow, This Is A Terrific Video.
I think “high value person” starts with simply knowing you have intrinsic value by virtue of being a human being. Of course all the things mentioned take work to improve (and anyone who applies themselves can achieve it) but what seems to be the biggest thing is the “knowing” part. We have to KNOW we aren’t just yesterday’s chopped liver or trash that gets chucked in the bin or the doormat to be walked all over or objects to be used and discarded or someone’s toys or property and ergo we should not be treated as such.
thanks, useful information.👍👍🎉
Glad it was helpful!
This is a mirror and I don’t like the reflection. But I guess it’s better to know the truth about myself. It makes accepting reality a bit easier.
I love how this video about high value women features women who are thin, don't have wrinkles, and look like models.....a not too subtle message there.
Don't focus on the visuals. We want you to get the message of the video.
Go with the traits. You don't have to be a skinny model to be attractive. I am almost 66 and I attract all kinds of people. I listen without judgement. You have no idea how much some people just need to be heard. Some, especially kids, love how I am loving. I actually have little ones just come up and hug my leg smiling or like the older ones, just engage with me. It's like they can just see it somehow. And that's happened in stores and parks a lot. Just go with the traits.
Now I know that I am a high value woman, all these traits are true to my personality except for two though haha, sometimes I need validation for my looks and sometimes I aint energetic and fun cz I am a shy but confident person.
As INFJ person who are known as benign and honest ; I can say those standards for a high valued women Do NOT apply to the real world out there’ what really matter is either MONEY or POWER behind that woman back’ physical appearance & beauty even is now easily achieved
I am all of these things and I never changed after 32 years of a happy marriage but I guess I am guilty of still want to be treated like a date after all these years.
Whenever a woman gets “valued” we know something is wrong with a society. Women are not mares.
👆 THIS RIGHT HERE! omg i was waiting for someone to be on my side! FR!!
And I've only been seeing this "high value sigma" bullshit in the last year. Is society devolving?
Maybe the word isn’t used the same in different parts of the US? I bet that's the miscommunication. How is it used where you are? Or maybe the word "value" isn’t used the same in different generations.
I'm from the Southern US, and grew up in the 90s. There and then the word "value" was probably most often used in the context of what a family or a company stood for, or concepts linked to societal stability and personal integrity. Contribution to your relationships.
Possessions hold monetary value, but intrinsic value isn’t about money.
I'd like to know what the word brings to mind for you and what area and age you were raised in. I think this is just a misunderstanding, considering the surrounding context of the video.
And these are the traits all us ladies are striving for in our own imperfect ways.
Thank you for this info.
You are welcome 😊
Thanks lots of learning...really excallwncy
Most welcome!
Be courteous to others but respect is earned. Be courteous, kind, and friendly. People don't just get respect they have to earn it. When did it become all about respect. I only respect people I know. But I am courteous, kind and friendly. I don't think most people understand what respect actually means.
Love this! TY
You are welcome! 😊
Loved this ❤
Thank you
People shouldn’t focus on “perceiving” as high valued, they should focus on “BEING” high valued. Perceiving doesn’t necessarily mean it’s who they are.
I am a so calleed high value woman because I embrace both my femininity and my masculinity. I'm a woman and I feel fine.
truly said everything about a high value women.
Great sharing!
Thank you 😊
I subscribed!
Welcome to the channel!
I live a very blessed life...and wake up grateful..and live each and every day with God and intention....❤
Agree.
despite that I am usually highly sceptical about this kind of tutorials and find at least some superficial manipulative cheap element in them. and do not wach till the end
this was a high value one.
Glad you found it helpful!
@@SocialPsychologyMasters I found it Right and clean. We approve eachothers values.
I just subscribed although I am not searching for this kind of videos. ❤Swe.. 🙂
Good job👍🏻
Thank you 😊
But what the heck does it mean to embrace your femininity? I consider myself to be a very feminine woman but I have a hard time with this notion. It seems like there are certain signifiers that one is supposed to engage in such as how you dress, the colors you wear, your make up, your hair. What exactly do you mean? It can’t just be these things.
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I think they mean wear dresses, skirts, some colors, put a bit of make-up, jewellery, nails done (natural nails not the long fake nails).
And be kind, speak gently, slowly. Don't swear or sounds aggressive etc
I think that what they mean.
I always wonder what being feminine means. I don't do anything as regards how I present myself that doesn't feel natural to me. So if others perceive femininity, great, if they don't, great. Anything else would be fake
I think it means when men are in your presence let them feel like men and have value. Don’t be the one letting them know I can do that myself even though you can. Let them feel needed. Men need to feel they are heroes sometimes and they saved the day. Pretend to be that damsel in distress. I’m 70 years old and I can tell you it works. Be blessed young lady. 🙏🙂
It's not what SOCIETY says as feminine, what do You think is feminine? If you think it's short hair, no makeup and jeans, then darlin' that's your femininity. If it's dresses and frills (like me) then dresses and frills it is. It has to be Your Style. Yours. Not what everyone else thinks.
Every woman is high value!
Indeed the traits listed are very true
Thank you 😊
Just be yourself ladies
You are sososososososo true grate words
I subscribed nd I liked ur video I hope I Improve more
Welcome to the channel! 🌟
I married a high value women. It's awsome!
Awesome.
It took me getting to 56 to finally become a high value woman😅I think it takes a lot of living to get this way. It’s hard at a younger age
It's good to know that I'm almost there. Lol
What is lol?
I am heavenly Angelic Perfect but very simple and very minimalist***
I am all the above and I subscribed
Welcome to the channel! 🌟
HIGH VALUE WOMAN 👩 IS A WOMAN WITH HIGH VALUE !🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
agree 👍🏼
Cheers kabayan 😃😇👏👋