my personal gripe with this is how people use the term "independence." Truth be told, no one is really independent as we have to be reliant on different people to fulfill different roles we can't. You need a mechanic to fix problems in the car, a plumber to fix the toilet, psychologist to fix yourself, a farmer to provide food, etc. etc. I'd rather call it "pulling yourself by your bootstrapes" it's self discipline.
I know n relate to all the points. The issue is when some of us women have it, we don't really need someone to validate us ... thanks but no thanks, I'm good on my own.... Let me explain that one reason, none such high value woman desires to deal with a man who would project his negatives going forward n why not, afterall he is a human but the HV woman has little to no wish to invite or polish negatives in her beautiful, engaging n successful life, where everyone sees her in a positive life, adores her n gives her all the respect she deserves .... The man eventually will someday n somehow make her feel disrespected ..... Mind u, for a HV woman respect is way more important than anything else, leave alone Validation....
Even no.1 is wrong. I used to turn men down for dates cos of work n reschedule. That didnt work. I realised very quickly men want women who is free when they are free. Who doesnt say no to them when they ask u out. It makes them feel good. Or they stop asking. They do.. say no to a man enough times cos of work. They just stop asking.. so the notion if ur a hardworking independent women u become more desirable is not true. Its not uncommon for men to leave successful women for a young village girl from 3rd world country cos men want women who are submissive n dependant on them. N available for them when they summon you as his wife. Men get very angry and frustrated n scary when u say no. Or cancel when they have planned smtg for u. N even if u had a very urgent thing at work. It wouldnt matter to them. They will not understand. Men wants an available women. A successful women or a successful person is never available and always cancels. N this is why i saw with my own eyes. Most men leave successful women n opt for simpler women. I saw allot of non degree holder village girls get married. But allot of independent women stays single unmarried n childless. So no thank you.
I now think I'm worth wayyy wayyy more than what I'm worth and somewhat deluded because of your video! Now what do I do? 😅 You caused it Now u fix it! 😂😂
U wana enter the dating scene? Make yourself available to go on dates n to court someone not the opposite. U aint meeting anyone in that cubicle or meeting room
Yes, Be your true authentic self, Independence & ambitious. Communicate your feelings, embrace your curves with confidence, use humor. Thanks. 🤗
Well said!
As a man, Ignore me I am just watching here with my popcorn 🍿
my personal gripe with this is how people use the term "independence." Truth be told, no one is really independent as we have to be reliant on different people to fulfill different roles we can't. You need a mechanic to fix problems in the car, a plumber to fix the toilet, psychologist to fix yourself, a farmer to provide food, etc. etc. I'd rather call it "pulling yourself by your bootstrapes" it's self discipline.
I know n relate to all the points. The issue is when some of us women have it, we don't really need someone to validate us ... thanks but no thanks, I'm good on my own....
Let me explain that one reason, none such high value woman desires to deal with a man who would project his negatives going forward n why not, afterall he is a human but the HV woman has little to no wish to invite or polish negatives in her beautiful, engaging n successful life, where everyone sees her in a positive life, adores her n gives her all the respect she deserves .... The man eventually will someday n somehow make her feel disrespected ..... Mind u, for a HV woman respect is way more important than anything else, leave alone Validation....
Even no.1 is wrong. I used to turn men down for dates cos of work n reschedule. That didnt work. I realised very quickly men want women who is free when they are free. Who doesnt say no to them when they ask u out. It makes them feel good. Or they stop asking. They do.. say no to a man enough times cos of work. They just stop asking.. so the notion if ur a hardworking independent women u become more desirable is not true. Its not uncommon for men to leave successful women for a young village girl from 3rd world country cos men want women who are submissive n dependant on them. N available for them when they summon you as his wife. Men get very angry and frustrated n scary when u say no. Or cancel when they have planned smtg for u. N even if u had a very urgent thing at work. It wouldnt matter to them. They will not understand. Men wants an available women. A successful women or a successful person is never available and always cancels. N this is why i saw with my own eyes. Most men leave successful women n opt for simpler women. I saw allot of non degree holder village girls get married. But allot of independent women stays single unmarried n childless.
So no thank you.
I agree with you… men want Submissive, Available to love and cater to him type women.
I now think I'm worth wayyy wayyy more than what I'm worth and somewhat deluded because of your video!
Now what do I do? 😅
You caused it
Now u fix it! 😂😂
Thank you so much for this video
You are so welcome!
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It would be better if you use background musics that are more gentle and calming...this music has stressful vibes
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The idea of submission is actually biblical but it applies to married women. We don't submit to a man we are dating.
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U wana enter the dating scene? Make yourself available to go on dates n to court someone not the opposite. U aint meeting anyone in that cubicle or meeting room
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What if I'm not independent though? >.> Not everyone is.
Why subtitles?
We will get rid of them in the coming videos
And be able to cut trees down fix cars do plumbing and clean fish ..ty
Men do love submission, and as a woman, I do as well..
Without even trying?! 😅
Meh, the genders are fluids nowadays anyways. We all be sitting around this watering hole 😂😂
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