Narcissists really don't have a type. It may be a bonus for them if you're attractive but they really don't care cause at the end of the day it's all about supply. They will get with anyone who validates and worships them. It's all about and always will be about them.
Narcissists will use the new supply to get to you in every way possible but once the Narcissist sees that it's not working, that causes a major blow to their ego and Narcissistic injury but guess who they have to take that pain and failure out on? Feel sorry for the new supply and be happy they took your place.
The new supply, who is now trapped in a marriage with the ex husband, once told me I was jealous I couldn't make my ex husband miserable anymore. I laughed and told her I was happy and free and wished her luck. She thought I was being a b**** but I meant it. Her life with him now is far from ideal.
@@browneyenrs76noel34 why is this? Do you think it's because their evil gets worse and totally consumes them?? Mine has aged too and he blames me for his condition and implies its my 'abuse' and abandonment toward him (because I cut him off and went to contact) he still tries to contact me, hoovering and baiting to this day. One day he loves me the next he hates me
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My ex is hiding her new supply. All my photos are still on her instagram and facebook pages. It is embarassing and laughable. Like you said Hario the new supply took that trash out of my life.
I was the down grade and a panic pick. I was in a terrible time in my life which made me a target. As I evolved, he began the discard. After cheating on me with his receptionist, I left him. He told me "she could have been anybody" and that's when I figured out his pattern. He looks for naive, under-educated, pretty, down and outs (new supply is a freshly separated single mother much younger than him). He hides her now because he knows it looks bad, she on the other hand is posting a new photo of them everyday. They look ridiculous.
Believe it or not, Big loss for him. Your profile picture looks great! Don't know you, but most people on these kinds of channels are probably alike. We Have Empathy and it is truly hard to find in this day and age. Having a heart and being real is considered weak now a days. Fake and Hard is in, a lie straight out of Hell. Take care, God bless you, hope you find someone you truly deserve and Love. Take care..
When my ex was dating the woman that he had been talking to for years behind my back they posted all kinds of pictures of all the things they were doing. But once they got together they kept posting the same pictures she must have posted her wedding picture 10 times. Whatever.
They downgrade when they fail to bring you down to their level. Mine kept on insisting that I leave my job and work for his business instead. If you have boundaries and are a person of your own, they just can’t take that for long and you’ll be replaced with someone who’s ten times below your level.
OMG so true. He made believe he was so happy with the new supply. You should have seen how happy she looked like I have him now. Yea good luck. He left her too.
So true!! It’s only fun if they know they’re hurting you!! IGNORE IS THE BEST OPTION!!! Then watch how they relationship folds!! I’M A LIVING WITNESS😂😂😂💪🏾
I've tried to explain this to others,that no self-respecting woman would date a man in a committed relationship or a MARRIED man even if they're separated. Folks tell me it's ok if they're separated. I always disagree with them.
Mine was separated but not divorced. He told me they were going through a divorce (they weren't) She did eventually divorce him, but that was 4 years later. Wish I'd been more dignified. I could have saved myself alot of trouble and heartbreak.
Adrienne Douke I hate that you went through that but I always say that he has to be divorced because I'm scared of that happening to me,that he'll drag things out with the divorce because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. It's so tough out here💔. I'm going through a divorce and finding out that my soon to be ex husband has been pretty much cheating on me for years.
It ain’t over til it’s over! 😂 if someone is separated but not divorced, I think you can still date them but you have to tread very carefully and see that forward momentum is taking place (i.e. the divorce is moving forward)
The ex-narc ended up with a downgrade after I discarded him. Three years later, a thumbnail picture with the new supply kept popping up in my comments section. After the third time of it popping up, I finally decided to look at it. I laughed. I honestly don't feel any regret, sadness or inadequacy about it. Months after seeing the picture, I still feel only amusement and relief that it is her and not me in that disastrous and soul-shredding situation. Narcs pathologically take while pretending to give. Life is too short to spend it with someone who only cares about themselves. There's too much richness, joy and real love to be experienced - none of which you can share with a narc.
You’re so so right my husband left me and our 2 kid’s for a woman with 5 kids now we’re divorce and he’s still trying to get with me 😂😂 I have someone else Hallelujah
My hubs left me at 61 and has been with 2 ns since. First one took him for a ride. Second one is 13 years younger with 6 kids been married a couple times she’s 48 and he’s 61 it is a joke. Idk if he’s playing daddy or grampa lol
Not married but narc is with a woman who's in her early 20s has three little kids and she's sending him money don't even have a place of her own to stay and she's taking care of him
One of God greatest gift is a family. He rejected the gift of a family he destroyed his own family I know why now he is a narcissist .a family he didn't want. He threw it back in Gods face. He rejected the gift of a family But want people to think he is a good man. When in fact he's not a man at all
They got married 10 days after the divorce was finalized. I laughed so hard when the person told me. Then thanked God for the joy that I felt in being away from that nonsense.
This is straight up tough love but you are absolutely right! I was the new supply, and even had a baby with the narc, and i was suffering so badly that it brought upon my awakening after my son was born. Now we co-parent and there is a new supply...part of me is thrilled that he has a new target but the other part of me has compassion for her because I know what she is in for. My new purpose in life is to love my son so fiercely that it makes up for the person i chose to be his father. I was raised by a narc father and that’s what caused my susceptibility to this narc, and my mom is a codependent. However I’ve awakened as a super empath and i am fully tapped in! Hallelujah!
I'm going through and now and learning how to coparent with our 2year old he has a new supply this the 3rd new supply since my pregnancy 🤦♀️we still have sex and I know im trying to stop I been watching videos and reading comments for years but I always stayed stuck for so long
@B Stay strong sis⭐️r! I was in that same boat of still sleeping with him after we had broken up, i actually thought it would make him behave “better” towards me and keep some level of “peace” But I soon realized that only made it worse because his unrealistic expectations of me would increase instead of calm down. So i had a conversation with him and said that i wouldn’t be sleeping with him anymore because it just complicates things too much for ME. And i stuck to my guns. Sure he tried EVERYTHING to get me to sleep with him but i stayed true to my promise to myself. Best choice i ever made. Now he FULLY relies on the new supply for sex and i don’t even cross his mind in that dept. A big victory for me.
Oh, the narcissistic smirk! I remember it well. These monsters get a thrill out of hurting you. My Hope Is that you're away from your abuser and you are thriving and surviving. To all the other survivors keep your head up. Remember, you're in control the final discard do not let these animals back in your life
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Bro you are so damn right! Those people (new supplies) are flunkies and cowards. I am still in the process of divorce but time will show everything. I will not stalk but try to doorslam her and try to go no contact as far as possible!!
I would not want to be Satan seed. They might be rich and famous but they are doomed. Don't try to take revenge! That's what they expect and want. Just get away. That's what hurts them the most.
Nah....sometimes best to give them the taste of their own medicine but you got to heal first and restore whatever damage then hit them hard. They hate that cos they are used to getting away with it.
They might find somebody better looking than us, better sexually, younger & maybe more finacially stable then us but they are not & never will be, us. If anything, they will be, exactly the same as them & will eventually, play them out, like they did us. The major defferences between us & them, all the knowledge we adquired, not by choice but by necessity. Great video Harry. Thank u brother..👊
The Narc ex posted FB photos of he & his new supply at the same places he’d taken me to😂. They post that stuff solely for the ex. Meanwhile, the new supply is falling for it.
Wouldn’t ever take him back...he dumped me for more $$$ and she doesn’t even realize it...breaks my heart for her but I know she would never listen....the hardest lessons the learn are the ones that cost you
These days, I relish walking into my house and being greeted by my 2 cats after a long day working in memory care and I can let my mind relax and I rest peacefully. I thank God.
I discarded my ex and days after I found out that he had been cheating on me with the downgrade NS. I found out that she had been with a married man for 10 years. She knew about me when she was with my ex. After 7 months she broke up with my ex because she went through his phone and saw that he was still trying to contact me. 2 weeks after she broke up with him she was engaged to some other guy. She stayed with that guy for about 10 months and my ex narc was constantly trying to contact her and love bomb her. She broke off the engagement and went back to my ex and they have been together for almost two years now. She is as toxic as my ex. She is his karma
I just wanna know how u know All they business like that•U supposed to have moved on with ya life by now•Forget Him & Her and their Stupid Relationship & get Ya stuff together......
@@quranali3093 because when I first found out I did a crazy amount of online snooping. I have been narc free for 3 years and I am very happy with my life. I don't care about them anymore but I had to find out what I could when I first found out about her.
Yes, a snake! The new supply is getting cussed out but he never cussed at me. He was very covert and I never knew he was a narc until I caught him cheating and he discarded me.
when I confronted him ..""he said who tf is that........."""....he never admit her ..but got mad and said I don't care....then he said that bitch ain't even on my page .....he wanted to triangulate me on the low ....and I cussed him out and blocked him bcz ..IM NOT GOIN...HE NOT GOING TO ABUSE ME ANYMORE ....ON GOD ,JESUS& THE KIDS
I kept repeating the same mistakes until I found channels like yours. Now I am happily married with a my first child on the way. Learning how to establish boundaries in relationships has been amazing. We both respect each other, but not without work.
When we believed the Narcissist.....we fell into the hole of giving Evil to ourselves. Our problem is being fooled. How not to be fooled is our big lesson.
Thank you so much. I feel so much better. I was discarded with no closure. You answered so many questions I had. Now Im going to sit back and watch these two fools
You can take a pig out the pen, wash it, clean it up. You can put a bow in it's hair and lipstick on it. It is always gonna go back to the mud! I lived it! TOTAL DOWNGRADE! 10 years down the drain. BUT, l am about to get the very last laugh!
Whether at work or in a relationship, they tend to go for the low-hanging fruit (AKA, someone they see as needy), and see the rest of us as an obstacle to their own needs. For that reason only, a new relationship "appears" to blossom as a show for the old un-fun one!! And any affair will likely blow up in their face at some point, but they have no conscience so they keep cheating.
Spot on! Bad intentions covered by false justification = NO HOPE. Don’t be deceived into thinking that no hope with the narc = no hope after the narc. Don’t continue to lose to evil when God is simply waiting for the ok . Bless our journey family and those who are rightfully assigned to us. ❤️
I use to be upset about the new supply, when I reached out to her to know he was still with me and living with me all she could say was "I only know what he tells me" I told her he's lying to you. She didn't care so I knew then she was a gutter butt and I was no longer upset. So when he tries to put pictures in my face of them I just start laughing. She can have all of that drama.
He's 100% correct, my ex took so many pictures with the new supplies and it looks so fake. Some of these people have multiple personality disorders. Please keep making more videos I love this channel. And you right you can dress the trash can up, but it's still a trash can.If something is too good to be true it probably is. The new supply did help get that trash out my life, that was blocking my goals. Used to show up to my job, house, and call 20 times a day.
You're so right about the multipersonality stuff the old trash can upstairs from me has so many different voices mimicking even my mother's voice and laugh which is totally creepy as my mother and relatives visit there also and my mother wasn't a very nice woman still isn't and I have nothing to do with any of them but I have moved 7times and they've done the same thing engratiating themselves with the next door neighbours and surrounding community headed by a psychopath and dimanetrix from Essex who I thought I had left behind when I moved back to my hometown of Liverpool it's all weird and disgusting and very demonic and they're all ill clusterb types who are in an organised abusive pack like obsessional dogs (bullies)with a bone making all kinds of bs and lies up for their ridiculous orchestrated dramas and choas they're causing to gain fuel and occupy themselves with some are just sadistic geriatrics who had nothing of any consequence to do until I moved here all this and a lot more bazaar behaviour for 1person yep I'm afraid so I speak to a woman from an agency giving support to people who suffer abuse from family members who are substance abusers and she recommended me go to another country to get away from them as they all want to appear to be heroes to others who don't know what they're doing as some people who do know what they're doing know it's wrong and that there isn't any real reason for it other than they like to have someone to bully to regulate their collective personality disorders so they make up lies ie I need to be taught a lesson when it's just violation of another person's basic human rights straight up and down its hard to believe that anybody could be that deprived or perverse isn't it
The Ex NARC tried to make me out the worst of the worst mother/ person. No Contact is my deliverance it has brought light to all his dealings behind my back, without me lifting a finger. Roles are turning and I'm just over here like minding my business with my children. God bless to all 🙏❤️
They're a downgrade because you are awesome. The narcissist is a liar and spent years telling you that you're not awesome. That was the lie. You are awesome, and you knew it, and you figured, "I am so great, I can survive this disrespect."
I wished to God,, I had been a side chick or whatever they call it, to my ex husband, living in the house with a Narcissist I lost my health, credit, abuse etc.. I wish a mistress would have taken him away‼️
Your narcissistic husband will treat every woman the same way he treated you. Use, abuse, disrespect, insult slander etc. Why would you want another woman to endure what you don't want for yourself? I don't understand.
Lol this poor child (woman) gave this man a baby to hurt me now they both stuck hating each other and I’m free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now he on child support with syphilis 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is all so true, I told her that my husband was lying to her and she told me that she needed proof. 😂 All I say every day is “thank you Jesus” for my life, sanity, peace of mind and my health and happiness…
The wieght that was lifted off me when I turfed the narc out was enormous. It's been along struggle but I keep listening to these videos and I draw strength from them Thank you Hario for giving me and wisdom strength to soilder on
I thank you soooooooo much for this message of clarity. When we've encountered these monsters in our pain it's hard for us to think clearly. It is a SICK DIABOLICAL story. You're so accurate that good people don't get in involved in messy relationships. They are sleeping in their bed of straight CHAFF!!! Equally yoked & will eventually get served what they deserve.
Hario thanks for the clarity on the narc I am a lot stronger he is trying to hover but he crying now because I don't want toxicity in my life. Everyday I cried, argued, overthink because of this lying pastor.
What kind of woman dates a married man? Exactly! Found out today she's a single mom of 3, and 3 previous marriages, no education and on public assistance who was living in her parents basement. Can't make this up, and not even that cute. She thinks she hit paydirt..wait until my atty is done with him. Sucks to be her.
I am in tears over this video. Everything u said is my exact situation. I even had to press charges against the new supply bc she threatened me via voicemail on HIS phone! He allowed it. Not to mention we have a child together . I am hurt but more so relieved that I’m free!!
Hi how were you able to get past it?? I was married for 22 years!! and was blindsided with a brutal discard, then a hoover. Now i'm trying to recover from the dang hoover
I caught him w the new supply! Of course he told lies, it just happened it’s a friend that came to hang out. This man had his children and grandchildren, mutual friends out at the lake at our campsite for Memorial Day! It was 6:15 am she clearly stayed the night! This is laughable, when I asked him what she said because won’t lie I made sure it was known I was there. So funny the pics have already come out but now he will forbid her to post and or use social media. This was the video I needed to see … narcissist is a downgrade and new supply down grade as well!! Love this so much!!!! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!
I tell my ex since I found out he was dealing with the new supply that I think is wise for us to have an open relationship and his reply was hell no he say why would I want an open relationship with another really I couldn't believe this clown was telling me wow
Lord have mercy!! Anytime a person dates someone, when they know he/she is in a relationship, they are low down and no morals. The narcissist and the person they are with are just a like!! Let them have one another!! When I tell you he downgraded, he did!! It would he different if they upgrade, but they NEVER do!!
I'm terrified too! I don't think I will ever have peace in a new relationship after what I've been thru. There are too many ways to cheat and lie these days...
My ex new supply, is abusive af lol everytime he would come visit our son he would have healing wounds, busted lips, black eyes. And I heard them arguing one day he was calling her bad names he never called me. Couldn’t help but laugh. Then she ran him through a fence with her car. They broke up but still mess around on the low and always tryna put me in the middle of the shit. I don’t want any part of that crazy shit. Keep it over there
THANK YOU I AM SO SO FREE OF THE NARC.. EVERYTHING YOU SPOKE ON ALLOWED ME TO SEE HOW I GOT ENTANGLED WITH THE NARC .. EVERYTHING YOU SPOKE ON I EXPERIENCED..BUT I AM FREE NOW.. THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU
After I dumped the ex narcissist wife, all her new supplies were out to get me. The whole city of gullible men wanted me dead. I still don’t understand how one woman would manipulate men and women against a single person.
There excellent liars. They play the victim well that was my ex-husband he's family didn't like me and then they soon was able to see. The worst is when you are with one and the family knows for years how this person has been cheating on you and tell you nothing. That's what I'm dealing with now 🙄
I really felt this video. I found out late that I was the new supply. I ignored all the red flags, I believed all the lies. I never stayed with him with any bad intentions. I was to weak to stand up for myself and set boundaries and he ended up leaving to go back to his old supply. I don’t want to think of myself as a bad person. I made a bad decision.
God bless all who have survived these completely destructive people...they destroy themselves, you, the children and anyone else as collateral damage...I have never felt such resonance to the truth as I have to your eye opening information...You speak to truth to the tenth power!...I only wish that I had someone give me access to this information earlier...Now I am 65, broke, lonely, BUT, I am free!...thank God for that!...And I truly appreciate you too!...You are one of my favorites...I am requesting coaching...Don't want to be an "old fool"...May God bless and keep you so that you may continue to help us clueless people....
I started building my new house , garage & indoor training facility for baseball when i got together with the narc. At first, it was great that i was doing what i loved but within weeks she was bitching & complaining about it, wanting me to buy a place for us at the lake etc...never stopped punishing me for 3yrs, til i said i was done with her. of course i still wanted her, just not the way she was acting and treating me. So she tracked down and targetted a younger guy from her past that was a nice guy, that she figured she could completely control. Then she started calling me the narcissist...which really wasn't unexpected as she projects and flips things around like no one i have ever seen in my entire life! I didn't truly even know what npd was until i was searching for what the hell i just went through! reading & watching these videos might as well have her photo on them! I honestly can't believe how 100% accurate this information is! Absolutely the most evil and completely insane woman i ever met! Then i learn from older family and friends, that her mother and grandmother are/were the same way & crazy as all hell! Man, somehow, after a month im still feeling a little bit beat up...but slowly internalizing exactly how incredibly fortunate i am that god took mercy upon me, and loved me enough to protect me from something very evil and demonic. BTW, this succubus proclaims to be so highly spiritual and godly...which now that i can see, makes me wanna puke! Methinks that she has disgusted god to the point that he has given her over to the reprobate mind!
I have a great job, savings account, 401k, my own home, a nice car, friends, family and a wonderful life. My ex's new wife has a box of clothes and three children she abandoned. He definitely downgraded. His new wife knew about us and dated him anyway. Karma is coming for both of them. 😂
This is a great video, I come back to it every few months. I reached a level in my healing were I thought I was good. Until I went to a joint event for my kids. Saw the ex and her mother and the new supply later on. Didn't speak to them but realized I have more work to do 💪🏾.
He didn't leave me FOR her, The My Spiritual Team, moved him out the way , FOR ME, to grow up and Level up,!!! U R teaching and coaching now, Thank U so much 💞💯
Thank you so much for reminding me that I'm so blessed to be out of this toxic environment. Although I'm still in pain, I'm focusing more on my blessings and what's coming ahead. God continues to use you. I'm requesting free coaching if it applies.
You just described my 10 years with that demon. Same story to a T. He left me for an ex supply who he was cheating with for a year and she knew we were together for 10 years. He married her 3 months after my discard. His sister made a comment on her page, she said you finally did it. Wow, they all knew . I hope she's getting what she deserves. Me I found out 6 months before he left me what I was dealing with all them years. I did my homework in silence. So I seen the discard coming this time. No it wasn't my first with him, but it would be my last. He was off with her in another town, I went total blackout. He never seen it coming. 30 days after , I was gone. That was 2 years ago next month. I'm still alone but I have my peace. Your the best hario, god bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤
What you said is Exactly happening to me piece by piece and I have documented every suspicious incident from the beginning and now it all makes complete sense. Knowledge is power
You right on it 🎯 You just spoke my exact life. He discarded me and downgraded. She knew he was married, they’re trying to make me jealous, she’s now his servant trying to keep him. She has no morals and neither does he. She can’t believe he left me for her, The discard was a blessing. I had to learn to love myself and have boundaries. He only cares about himself. I couldn’t see it. I’m thankful he is out of my life. He doesn’t deserve me. He is not capable of real love. Nothing you do is good enough. You are a good person with the wrong person. They have no compassion or empathy. Know that you deserve better. Be thankful you are free of the liar and cheater. Move on and create your happiness. Keep watching these videos to be better. Don’t let the narc see you sweat.
True man had his own place. Could call him at anytime. Showered me with gifts went out in public found out 8 months later he was married and dropped that zero
The new supply speaks to me every time she sees me ( we all live in the same complex) I ignore her totally. I never knew why I did it that way, but obviously it was the best thing I could ever do. I look her in the eyes and ignore her at the same time !
I just got out of a 4 year spiritually damaging relationship with a narcissist he was abusive in every kind of way and I lost my sense of identity but I was in God's hands the whole time he hurt me soo bad I was just wondering will he ever get his in the end
Yes he will... Learning about "trauma bond" helped me alot. I've literally waited 20+yrs to see the karma but just realising in these last few months my "trauma bond" needed healing, I didn't realise that's what it was. Now I am seeing things change quickly. I just want to heal, I don't want revenge, I do believe now I'm directly healing my own trauma it will continue to release the karma he deserves.
Yes ,the Narc has not changed or evolved. But you have and you have peace in your life! That was great enough for me to have my peace, true love for myself, respect and integrity back in my life. He or she will continue to hurt innocent people . I feel sorry for the future victims and I feel grateful to be free. They pay by living pathetic lies of life and eventually the truth always comes out. God bless you and so happy you are free too 💜
Wow, You described my narcissist situation to a tee. His new supply knew we were in a 20-year relationship and she was treating me like I was the side chick. It was crazy. She was definitely a downgrade in every single way. She was just as low as the slimy narcissist. Also they had a emotional relationship secretly online for three years. The narc’s friends and family didn’t even know he was with her, because he never took her out in public and never took pics with her. It was so pitiful and pathetic. They really did a number on me because I didn’t know about narcissism and these toxic predators at the time. His new supply would talk to me with such jealousy, envy and contempt. But, I’m glad I am over this situation and these two low lifes. Now I can see that they were just emotionally sick inside with no morals, values or standards.
Narcissists really don't have a type. It may be a bonus for them if you're attractive but they really don't care cause at the end of the day it's all about supply. They will get with anyone who validates and worships them. It's all about and always will be about them.
Narcissists will use the new supply to get to you in every way possible but once the Narcissist sees that it's not working, that causes a major blow to their ego and Narcissistic injury but guess who they have to take that pain and failure out on? Feel sorry for the new supply and be happy they took your place.
Yes you got that right
The new supply, who is now trapped in a marriage with the ex husband, once told me I was jealous I couldn't make my ex husband miserable anymore. I laughed and told her I was happy and free and wished her luck. She thought I was being a b**** but I meant it. Her life with him now is far from ideal.
New supply is our bestest friend lol
Amen!
@@1010QUEEN7 we should buy them flowers and give them a hug lol
This is so true! When they don’t see you engaging in their foolery, they get bored and their relationship is no longer fun.
They downgrade cause they can control and manipulate that new person where they could not you.
If the narc treats the next supply worse than me, then boy, do I feel sorry for them!
The narc will always play the victim role of poor, poor me and make you out to be the abuser, when in fact, they are the abuser and you are victim.
Yelp i agree, I use to tell him why do you always play victim. He said naw im the suspect 😅😅well damn!!! He is nuts..
That is sickeningly true 😔
Jesus story of my life
Amen!!!
So true
Saw pics of my narc and he looks a damn mess , thanking God for the discard. That devil was trying to take me down 🌟
They come to wreck havoc in your life! Five yrs in. One yr out! Thanking God for my release.
ctfu @ ''he look a damn mess"
My ex narc aged so much within 6 months of our breakup
@@browneyenrs76noel34 why is this? Do you think it's because their evil gets worse and totally consumes them?? Mine has aged too and he blames me for his condition and implies its my 'abuse' and abandonment toward him (because I cut him off and went to contact) he still tries to contact me, hoovering and baiting to this day. One day he loves me the next he hates me
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My ex is hiding her new supply. All my photos are still on her instagram and facebook pages. It is embarassing and laughable. Like you said Hario the new supply took that trash out of my life.
Agree , I thank the new supply , without them in the picture I would have gone back to the narc , until I eventually broke free of the trauma bond
That part! 🙏🏾
The narcissist will destroy any relationship
I was the down grade and a panic pick. I was in a terrible time in my life which made me a target. As I evolved, he began the discard. After cheating on me with his receptionist, I left him. He told me "she could have been anybody" and that's when I figured out his pattern. He looks for naive, under-educated, pretty, down and outs (new supply is a freshly separated single mother much younger than him).
He hides her now because he knows it looks bad, she on the other hand is posting a new photo of them everyday. They look ridiculous.
Believe it or not, Big loss for him. Your profile picture looks great! Don't know you, but most people on these kinds of channels are probably alike. We Have Empathy and it is truly hard to find in this day and age. Having a heart and being real is considered weak now a days. Fake and Hard is in, a lie straight out of Hell. Take care, God bless you, hope you find someone you truly deserve and Love. Take care..
Omg 😲 lol
When my ex was dating the woman that he had been talking to for years behind my back they posted all kinds of pictures of all the things they were doing. But once they got together they kept posting the same pictures she must have posted her wedding picture 10 times. Whatever.
Sounds like my ex narcissist 😜
@@j.p.200 sounds like mine too. Its a matter of time. This won't last
“You can dress a trashcan up” ......brilliant!!!
I'm weak SMH 😂.
Tamara thanks for watching
PRICELESS 💖 truly PRICELESS 💙!
Masterpiece!
They downgrade when they fail to bring you down to their level.
Mine kept on insisting that I leave my job and work for his business instead. If you have boundaries and are a person of your own, they just can’t take that for long and you’ll be replaced with someone who’s ten times below your level.
No.Not the #Louie!## 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
OMG so true. He made believe he was so happy with the new supply. You should have seen how happy she looked like I have him now. Yea good luck. He left her too.
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@@Blondie2.0 LOL
That's good for her 🤣🤣🤣
@@1010QUEEN7 LOL
Of course he did smh lol
So true!! It’s only fun if they know they’re hurting you!! IGNORE IS THE BEST OPTION!!! Then watch how they relationship folds!! I’M A LIVING WITNESS😂😂😂💪🏾
I feel so betrayed on so many levels. I had 3 months away from my ex, started talking to him again and my migraines, backaches and the hell came back.
I've tried to explain this to others,that no self-respecting woman would date a man in a committed relationship or a MARRIED man even if they're separated. Folks tell me it's ok if they're separated. I always disagree with them.
Mine was separated but not divorced. He told me they were going through a divorce (they weren't) She did eventually divorce him, but that was 4 years later. Wish I'd been more dignified. I could have saved myself alot of trouble and heartbreak.
Adrienne Douke I hate that you went through that but I always say that he has to be divorced because I'm scared of that happening to me,that he'll drag things out with the divorce because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. It's so tough out here💔. I'm going through a divorce and finding out that my soon to be ex husband has been pretty much cheating on me for years.
Adrienne Douke I really wish I'd been more aware of narcissists earlier. My life would be totally different.
It ain’t over til it’s over! 😂 if someone is separated but not divorced, I think you can still date them but you have to tread very carefully and see that forward momentum is taking place (i.e. the divorce is moving forward)
married is married period!
These are people with serious soul wounds that need cleansing !!!
A bullet to each one
Hario you are a boss at decoding the Narcissists!!!!!
Hey
Yes He is!
Absolutely correct the TRUTH is apart of healing. Lowering our standards but just pick yourself up and leave.
Words can't express how much I love this man, and how much he's helped me through my battle with the narc! Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️
God I thank you for protecting me
Amen!
The ex-narc ended up with a downgrade after I discarded him. Three years later, a thumbnail picture with the new supply kept popping up in my comments section. After the third time of it popping up, I finally decided to look at it. I laughed. I honestly don't feel any regret, sadness or inadequacy about it. Months after seeing the picture, I still feel only amusement and relief that it is her and not me in that disastrous and soul-shredding situation. Narcs pathologically take while pretending to give. Life is too short to spend it with someone who only cares about themselves. There's too much richness, joy and real love to be experienced - none of which you can share with a narc.
You’re so so right my husband left me and our 2 kid’s for a woman with 5 kids now we’re divorce and he’s still trying to get with me 😂😂 I have someone else Hallelujah
My hubs left me at 61 and has been with 2 ns since. First one took him for a ride. Second one is 13 years younger with 6 kids been married a couple times she’s 48 and he’s 61 it is a joke. Idk if he’s playing daddy or grampa lol
Not married but narc is with a woman who's in her early 20s has three little kids and she's sending him money don't even have a place of her own to stay and she's taking care of him
Awesome!! Power to you V 😁
@@RS-ww8jo LOL!
At RS: S love your sense of humor... made me laugh... These Narcs are truly funny in the things they do for NS...
One of God greatest gift is a family. He rejected the gift of a family he destroyed his own family I know why now he is a narcissist .a family he didn't want. He threw it back in Gods face. He rejected the gift of a family
But want people to think he is a good man. When in fact he's not a man at all
Exactly
Amen
Yes same here
Agreed. My ex husband did the same to me and our kids and is older, his health is failing and our now grown kids wont even answer his calls.
THIS IS THE ONEEEE
They got married 10 days after the divorce was finalized. I laughed so hard when the person told me. Then thanked God for the joy that I felt in being away from that nonsense.
This is straight up tough love but you are absolutely right! I was the new supply, and even had a baby with the narc, and i was suffering so badly that it brought upon my awakening after my son was born. Now we co-parent and there is a new supply...part of me is thrilled that he has a new target but the other part of me has compassion for her because I know what she is in for. My new purpose in life is to love my son so fiercely that it makes up for the person i chose to be his father. I was raised by a narc father and that’s what caused my susceptibility to this narc, and my mom is a codependent. However I’ve awakened as a super empath and i am fully tapped in! Hallelujah!
You are so beautiful why he dumped you ......these people are sick 😃
Hallelujah 👌
I'm going through and now and learning how to coparent with our 2year old he has a new supply this the 3rd new supply since my pregnancy 🤦♀️we still have sex and I know im trying to stop I been watching videos and reading comments for years but I always stayed stuck for so long
@the hebrew Thank you for the sweet sentiment, i was actually the one that dumped him, but he’s always had new supply in the “waiting lobby” lol
@B Stay strong sis⭐️r! I was in that same boat of still sleeping with him after we had broken up, i actually thought it would make him behave “better” towards me and keep some level of “peace” But I soon realized that only made it worse because his unrealistic expectations of me would increase instead of calm down. So i had a conversation with him and said that i wouldn’t be sleeping with him anymore because it just complicates things too much for ME. And i stuck to my guns. Sure he tried EVERYTHING to get me to sleep with him but i stayed true to my promise to myself. Best choice i ever made. Now he FULLY relies on the new supply for sex and i don’t even cross his mind in that dept. A big victory for me.
Disrespect does Not beget respect 💯❤
I remember the NS smirking at me like she won the grand prize! He was the "boobie" prize!
Oh, the narcissistic smirk! I remember it well. These monsters get a thrill out of hurting you. My Hope Is that you're away from your abuser and you are thriving and surviving. To all the other survivors keep your head up. Remember, you're in control the final discard do not let these animals back in your life
Chiile...you should've looked @ the NS and doubled over and started laughing like you were @ Mike Epps concert. 😆 🤣
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@@tinac6114 😅😅😅 my laugh of the day
Bro you are so damn right! Those people (new supplies) are flunkies and cowards. I am still in the process of divorce but time will show everything. I will not stalk but try to doorslam her and try to go no contact as far as possible!!
When the new supply reaches out to you, BE VERY KIND. She told me it was miserable, she married him after a few months.
I would not want to be Satan seed. They might be rich and famous but they are doomed. Don't try to take revenge! That's what they expect and want. Just get away. That's what hurts them the most.
Just run and dont look back.
You are so right!!!
Nah....sometimes best to give them the taste of their own medicine but you got to heal first and restore whatever damage then hit them hard. They hate that cos they are used to getting away with it.
I'm plotting now lol
@@hawamakongoro2908 just be careful. These ppl are killers
They might find somebody better looking than us, better sexually, younger & maybe more finacially stable then us but they are not & never will be, us. If anything, they will be, exactly the same as them & will eventually, play them out, like they did us. The major defferences between us & them, all the knowledge we adquired, not by choice but by necessity. Great video Harry. Thank u brother..👊
The Narc ex posted FB photos of he & his new supply at the same places he’d taken me to😂. They post that stuff solely for the ex. Meanwhile, the new supply is falling for it.
Enlightened One they fall for it every time, thanks for watching
Oh my I wAs wondering why he posted pics of the places he took me!!!!! Then meant something to me...did he do it to hurt me????
Beth Marks to try to make you jealous, reconsider being with them, or maybe to get you back.
Same flowers
Wouldn’t ever take him back...he dumped me for more $$$ and she doesn’t even realize it...breaks my heart for her but I know she would never listen....the hardest lessons the learn are the ones that cost you
These days, I relish walking into my house and being greeted by my 2 cats after a long day working in memory care and I can let my mind relax and I rest peacefully. I thank God.
I needed to hear this... feeling pretty bad about myself after 24 years and being replaced by my best friend. She's 10 years older and 50 lbs more.
I discarded my ex and days after I found out that he had been cheating on me with the downgrade NS. I found out that she had been with a married man for 10 years. She knew about me when she was with my ex. After 7 months she broke up with my ex because she went through his phone and saw that he was still trying to contact me. 2 weeks after she broke up with him she was engaged to some other guy. She stayed with that guy for about 10 months and my ex narc was constantly trying to contact her and love bomb her. She broke off the engagement and went back to my ex and they have been together for almost two years now. She is as toxic as my ex. She is his karma
Diane Tracey karma never gets it wrong, thanks for watching
Diane Tracey Sounds like she was a narcissist too and he got exactly what he deserved 🤣🤣
They deserve each other. Garbage belongs with garbage.👍
I just wanna know how u know All they business like that•U supposed to have moved on with ya life by now•Forget Him & Her and their Stupid Relationship & get Ya stuff together......
@@quranali3093 because when I first found out I did a crazy amount of online snooping. I have been narc free for 3 years and I am very happy with my life. I don't care about them anymore but I had to find out what I could when I first found out about her.
Yes, a snake! The new supply is getting cussed out but he never cussed at me. He was very covert and I never knew he was a narc until I caught him cheating and he discarded me.
Lol yes he calls her a bitch and fights with her and never did that to me
@@Alcoholpad sounds like my situation, did I get your ex? Lol #smdh
@@srogers727 you didn't get him I did 🙄🙄
@@1010QUEEN7 No, E Cunningham, I think I have him! 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣
when I confronted him ..""he said who tf is that........."""....he never admit her ..but got mad and said I don't care....then he said that bitch ain't even on my page .....he wanted to triangulate me on the low ....and I cussed him out and blocked him bcz ..IM NOT GOIN...HE NOT GOING TO ABUSE ME ANYMORE ....ON GOD ,JESUS& THE KIDS
I kept repeating the same mistakes until I found channels like yours. Now I am happily married with a my first child on the way. Learning how to establish boundaries in relationships has been amazing. We both respect each other, but not without work.
When we believed the Narcissist.....we fell into the hole of giving Evil to ourselves. Our problem is being fooled. How not to be fooled is our big lesson.
Thank you so much. I feel so much better. I was discarded with no closure. You answered so many questions I had. Now Im going to sit back and watch these two fools
You can take a pig out the pen, wash it, clean it up. You can put a bow in it's hair and lipstick on it. It is always gonna go back to the mud! I lived it! TOTAL DOWNGRADE! 10 years down the drain. BUT, l am about to get the very last laugh!
12 years here. Im having 2 go 2 a womans shelter for 90 days. Tell me not 2 back down. Im done being unloved. Pain has turned 2 anger now.
@@laurenmorgan3939 girl, l feel ya!
I gave mine 12 years but o to God be the glory I am no longer the supply
12 years for me
Yeah the worst part is the years down the drain
Whether at work or in a relationship, they tend to go for the low-hanging fruit (AKA, someone they see as needy), and see the rest of us as an obstacle to their own needs. For that reason only, a new relationship "appears" to blossom as a show for the old un-fun one!! And any affair will likely blow up in their face at some point, but they have no conscience so they keep cheating.
Spot on! Bad intentions covered by false justification = NO HOPE. Don’t be deceived into thinking that no hope with the narc = no hope after the narc. Don’t continue to lose to evil when God is simply waiting for the ok . Bless our journey family and those who are rightfully assigned to us. ❤️
I use to be upset about the new supply, when I reached out to her to know he was still with me and living with me all she could say was "I only know what he tells me" I told her he's lying to you. She didn't care so I knew then she was a gutter butt and I was no longer upset. So when he tries to put pictures in my face of them I just start laughing. She can have all of that drama.
Lmao they be knowing they lying but they don’t care. That’s why you can’t give it that energy
When I think of what my life could’ve been with the Narcissist, I Thank God for his grace and mercy.
Nobody broke this down like you.
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He's 100% correct, my ex took so many pictures with the new supplies and it looks so fake. Some of these people have multiple personality disorders. Please keep making more videos I love this channel. And you right you can dress the trash can up, but it's still a trash can.If something is too good to be true it probably is. The new supply did help get that trash out my life, that was blocking my goals. Used to show up to my job, house, and call 20 times a day.
k t exactly 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿
My ex ran away with the garbage man. The actual garbageman. So my garbage got picked up lol.
My ex left me for his own cousin! She was also his best friends wife! Trash at it's finest 👌🏻
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You're so right about the multipersonality stuff the old trash can upstairs from me has so many different voices mimicking even my mother's voice and laugh which is totally creepy as my mother and relatives visit there also and my mother wasn't a very nice woman still isn't and I have nothing to do with any of them but I have moved 7times and they've done the same thing engratiating themselves with the next door neighbours and surrounding community headed by a psychopath and dimanetrix from Essex who I thought I had left behind when I moved back to my hometown of Liverpool it's all weird and disgusting and very demonic and they're all ill clusterb types who are in an organised abusive pack like obsessional dogs (bullies)with a bone making all kinds of bs and lies up for their ridiculous orchestrated dramas and choas they're causing to gain fuel and occupy themselves with some are just sadistic geriatrics who had nothing of any consequence to do until I moved here all this and a lot more bazaar behaviour for 1person yep I'm afraid so I speak to a woman from an agency giving support to people who suffer abuse from family members who are substance abusers and she recommended me go to another country to get away from them as they all want to appear to be heroes to others who don't know what they're doing as some people who do know what they're doing know it's wrong and that there isn't any real reason for it other than they like to have someone to bully to regulate their collective personality disorders so they make up lies ie I need to be taught a lesson when it's just violation of another person's basic human rights straight up and down its hard to believe that anybody could be that deprived or perverse isn't it
His first girl looked like a trailer park girl and the second one looked like he picked her up from Skid Row or Venice Beach lol.
And you were there too ..
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The Ex NARC tried to make me out the worst of the worst mother/ person. No Contact is my deliverance it has brought light to all his dealings behind my back, without me lifting a finger. Roles are turning and I'm just over here like minding my business with my children. God bless to all 🙏❤️
They're a downgrade because you are awesome. The narcissist is a liar and spent years telling you that you're not awesome. That was the lie. You are awesome, and you knew it, and you figured, "I am so great, I can survive this disrespect."
I wished to God,, I had been a side chick or whatever they call it, to my ex husband, living in the house with a Narcissist I lost my health, credit, abuse etc.. I wish a mistress would have taken him away‼️
You are not alone.
Your narcissistic husband will treat every woman the same way he treated you. Use, abuse, disrespect, insult slander etc. Why would you want another woman to endure what you don't want for yourself? I don't understand.
Same😔…currently rebuilding from scratch & it’s so hard.
I had high boundaries and he respected and stuck it out and eventually the mask fell off
Wow. So Sad
Exactly correct !! 17 years married 10.
I like listening to you i actually smile its so good to smile thank you
Lol this poor child (woman) gave this man a baby to hurt me now they both stuck hating each other and I’m free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now he on child support with syphilis 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes the levels of disrespect is unbelievable
Another great video I have been married for 25 years and was discarded a year ago trying to get my life back on track. These videos really helpful
Tracey Williams thanks for watching, and he will be back! They always come back
Tracey Williams he “left” you long before he actually left😉. That’s just what narcissists do.
That's why I will wait a year or two before I get into another relationship.
saaaame!
You are a gift from god I swear. These always come at the right time.
This is all so true, I told her that my husband was lying to her and she told me that she needed proof. 😂
All I say every day is “thank you Jesus” for my life, sanity, peace of mind and my health and happiness…
The wieght that was lifted off me when I turfed the narc out was enormous. It's been along struggle but I keep listening to these videos and I draw strength from them Thank you Hario for giving me and wisdom strength to soilder on
🤣🤣She Thought she Won a Prize!!
" They're looking for a Jethro."
You're killing me! 🤣
Nancy,You look stunning,hope you are not with a narcissist...
Wow
I thank you soooooooo much for this message of clarity. When we've encountered these monsters in our pain it's hard for us to think clearly. It is a SICK DIABOLICAL story. You're so accurate that good people don't get in involved in messy relationships. They are sleeping in their bed of straight CHAFF!!! Equally yoked & will eventually get served what they deserve.
B Flores they always get exactly what they deserve, thanks for watching
Hario Ovadtop Great videos. How do I contact you for coaching?
Amy Tully look my name up on Facebook and send me a message, I’ll set up a time for you
Hario Ovadtop I don’t have a FB cause of my ex. Is there any other way to contact you? Sorry about this. Thanks
Amy Tully email me your contact info to Harioovadtop@gmail.com and I’ll set it up for you
Hario thanks for the clarity on the narc I am a lot stronger he is trying to hover but he crying now because I don't want toxicity in my life. Everyday I cried, argued, overthink because of this lying pastor.
I sense that the ex blames the new supply for EVERYTHING. I’m so glad I’m not in her place.
Dam I love this Man
What kind of woman dates a married man? Exactly! Found out today she's a single mom of 3, and 3 previous marriages, no education and on public assistance who was living in her parents basement. Can't make this up, and not even that cute. She thinks she hit paydirt..wait until my atty is done with him. Sucks to be her.
I am in tears over this video. Everything u said is my exact situation. I even had to press charges against the new supply bc she threatened me via voicemail on HIS phone! He allowed it. Not to mention we have a child together . I am hurt but more so relieved that I’m free!!
Hi how were you able to get past it??
I was married for 22 years!!
and was blindsided with a brutal discard, then a hoover. Now i'm trying to recover from the dang hoover
I caught him w the new supply! Of course he told lies, it just happened it’s a friend that came to hang out. This man had his children and grandchildren, mutual friends out at the lake at our campsite for Memorial Day! It was 6:15 am she clearly stayed the night! This is laughable, when I asked him what she said because won’t lie I made sure it was known I was there. So funny the pics have already come out but now he will forbid her to post and or use social media. This was the video I needed to see … narcissist is a downgrade and new supply down grade as well!! Love this so much!!!! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!
I tell my ex since I found out he was dealing with the new supply that I think is wise for us to have an open relationship and his reply was hell no he say why would I want an open relationship with another really I couldn't believe this clown was telling me wow
Lord have mercy!! Anytime a person dates someone, when they know he/she is in a relationship, they are low down and no morals. The narcissist and the person they are with are just a like!! Let them have one another!! When I tell you he downgraded, he did!! It would he different if they upgrade, but they NEVER do!!
I’m so damaged I can’t even get close to a man I’m scared. But he has been with like 4 different women since me.
give yourself some time, chill, the worst is over, you will heal and will find someone on your own wave length when it is appropriate.
Saturn Rising thank you 🙏
Same here when I say I'm afraid I'm afraid
I'm terrified too! I don't think I will ever have peace in a new relationship after what I've been thru. There are too many ways to cheat and lie these days...
We just need to spend time with people who love us, feed us love, and learn to love ourselves entirely.
My ex new supply, is abusive af lol everytime he would come visit our son he would have healing wounds, busted lips, black eyes. And I heard them arguing one day he was calling her bad names he never called me. Couldn’t help but laugh. Then she ran him through a fence with her car. They broke up but still mess around on the low and always tryna put me in the middle of the shit. I don’t want any part of that crazy shit. Keep it over there
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Been there
Omg 👀😅
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Girl I'm laughing so hard tears are coming out my eyes.. for real still laughing 🤣🤣🤣😭 she ran him over with the car🤣🤣
4 years later, and this is my exact story. Thank you for this video ❤
THANK YOU I AM SO SO FREE OF THE NARC.. EVERYTHING YOU SPOKE ON ALLOWED ME TO SEE HOW I GOT ENTANGLED WITH THE NARC .. EVERYTHING YOU SPOKE ON I EXPERIENCED..BUT I AM FREE NOW.. THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU
After I dumped the ex narcissist wife, all her new supplies were out to get me. The whole city of gullible men wanted me dead. I still don’t understand how one woman would manipulate men and women against a single person.
Eternity With Christ true
You'll be surprised the powers these devils have
Read the story of Jezebel in the Bible
There excellent liars. They play the victim well that was my ex-husband he's family didn't like me and then they soon was able to see. The worst is when you are with one and the family knows for years how this person has been cheating on you and tell you nothing. That's what I'm dealing with now 🙄
Chosen one
He told me when I was leaving him that he was going to upgrade from me. I thought to myself, yeah right, sure!" What a bunch of 💩🐂 lol!
I really felt this video. I found out late that I was the new supply. I ignored all the red flags, I believed all the lies. I never stayed with him with any bad intentions. I was to weak to stand up for myself and set boundaries and he ended up leaving to go back to his old supply. I don’t want to think of myself as a bad person. I made a bad decision.
Arlene S,You look stunning,hope you are not with a narcissist....
God bless all who have survived these completely destructive people...they destroy themselves, you, the children and anyone else as collateral damage...I have never felt such resonance to the truth as I have to your eye opening information...You speak to truth to the tenth power!...I only wish that I had someone give me access to this information earlier...Now I am 65, broke, lonely, BUT, I am free!...thank God for that!...And I truly appreciate you too!...You are one of my favorites...I am requesting coaching...Don't want to be an "old fool"...May God bless and keep you so that you may continue to help us clueless people....
You are so on POINT. Unbelievable. These people are SICK.
I started building my new house , garage & indoor training facility for baseball when i got together with the narc. At first, it was great that i was doing what i loved but within weeks she was bitching & complaining about it, wanting me to buy a place for us at the lake etc...never stopped punishing me for 3yrs, til i said i was done with her. of course i still wanted her, just not the way she was acting and treating me. So she tracked down and targetted a younger guy from her past that was a nice guy, that she figured she could completely control. Then she started calling me the narcissist...which really wasn't unexpected as she projects and flips things around like no one i have ever seen in my entire life! I didn't truly even know what npd was until i was searching for what the hell i just went through! reading & watching these videos might as well have her photo on them! I honestly can't believe how 100% accurate this information is! Absolutely the most evil and completely insane woman i ever met! Then i learn from older family and friends, that her mother and grandmother are/were the same way & crazy as all hell! Man, somehow, after a month im still feeling a little bit beat up...but slowly internalizing exactly how incredibly fortunate i am that god took mercy upon me, and loved me enough to protect me from something very evil and demonic. BTW, this succubus proclaims to be so highly spiritual and godly...which now that i can see, makes me wanna puke! Methinks that she has disgusted god to the point that he has given her over to the reprobate mind!
I have a great job, savings account, 401k, my own home, a nice car, friends, family and a wonderful life.
My ex's new wife has a box of clothes and three children she abandoned.
He definitely downgraded.
His new wife knew about us and dated him anyway.
Karma is coming for both of them. 😂
This is a great video, I come back to it every few months. I reached a level in my healing were I thought I was good. Until I went to a joint event for my kids. Saw the ex and her mother and the new supply later on. Didn't speak to them but realized I have more work to do 💪🏾.
He didn't leave me FOR her, The My Spiritual Team, moved him out the way , FOR ME, to grow up and Level up,!!! U R teaching and coaching now, Thank U so much 💞💯
Thank you so much for reminding me that I'm so blessed to be out of this toxic environment. Although I'm still in pain, I'm focusing more on my blessings and what's coming ahead. God continues to use you. I'm requesting free coaching if it applies.
You just described my 10 years with that demon. Same story to a T. He left me for an ex supply who he was cheating with for a year and she knew we were together for 10 years. He married her 3 months after my discard. His sister made a comment on her page, she said you finally did it. Wow, they all knew . I hope she's getting what she deserves. Me I found out 6 months before he left me what I was dealing with all them years. I did my homework in silence. So I seen the discard coming this time. No it wasn't my first with him, but it would be my last. He was off with her in another town, I went total blackout. He never seen it coming. 30 days after , I was gone. That was 2 years ago next month. I'm still alone but I have my peace. Your the best hario, god bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤
Update are they still together
What you said is Exactly happening to me piece by piece and I have documented every suspicious incident from the beginning and now it all makes complete sense. Knowledge is power
"So, let the side show begin...hurry hurry step right on in..."😂😂 I love it! 👍
This noble coach,gives real sharp,psychological insight.
You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT 👍.
You right on it 🎯 You just spoke my exact life. He discarded me and downgraded. She knew he was married, they’re trying to make me jealous, she’s now his servant trying to keep him. She has no morals and neither does he. She can’t believe he left me for her, The discard was a blessing. I had to learn to love myself and have boundaries. He only cares about himself. I couldn’t see it. I’m thankful he is out of my life. He doesn’t deserve me. He is not capable of real love. Nothing you do is good enough. You are a good person with the wrong person. They have no compassion or empathy. Know that you deserve better. Be thankful you are free of the liar and cheater. Move on and create your happiness. Keep watching these videos to be better. Don’t let the narc see you sweat.
Update
Not all women or men who have gotten caught up in this game of the narcissist knew that she/ he was married or in another relationship.
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True man had his own place. Could call him at anytime. Showered me with gifts went out in public found out 8 months later he was married and dropped that zero
Exactly! They are clueless too!
Preach...sire!💖
The one that dislike this video is either a downgraded supply got his/her hope crashed or his narcissist ex🙈.
christina Beita absolutely, thanks for watching
They absolutely deserve one another. Completely, totally and fully without end. 😂😂🎉
Great info. When I heard “cruddy” I knew my man was from around the way and dropped a lot of great game
The new supply speaks to me every time she sees me ( we all live in the same complex) I ignore her totally. I never knew why I did it that way, but obviously it was the best thing I could ever do. I look her in the eyes and ignore her at the same time !
I just got out of a 4 year spiritually damaging relationship with a narcissist he was abusive in every kind of way and I lost my sense of identity but I was in God's hands the whole time he hurt me soo bad I was just wondering will he ever get his in the end
He will
Yes he will... Learning about "trauma bond" helped me alot. I've literally waited 20+yrs to see the karma but just realising in these last few months my "trauma bond" needed healing, I didn't realise that's what it was. Now I am seeing things change quickly. I just want to heal, I don't want revenge, I do believe now I'm directly healing my own trauma it will continue to release the karma he deserves.
Oh yeah. Just watch & WAIT!! B still & KNOW GOD is GOOD, HOD IS GOD!! I've seen it x & x again!! 💜
Yes ,the Narc has not changed or evolved. But you have and you have peace in your life! That was great enough for me to have my peace, true love for myself, respect and integrity back in my life. He or she will continue to hurt innocent people . I feel sorry for the future victims and I feel grateful to be free. They pay by living pathetic lies of life and eventually the truth always comes out. God bless you and so happy you are free too 💜
Wow, You described my narcissist situation to a tee. His new supply knew we were in a 20-year relationship and she was treating me like I was the side chick. It was crazy. She was definitely a downgrade in every single way. She was just as low as the slimy narcissist. Also they had a emotional relationship secretly online for three years. The narc’s friends and family didn’t even know he was with her, because he never took her out in public and never took pics with her. It was so pitiful and pathetic. They really did a number on me because I didn’t know about narcissism and these toxic predators at the time. His new supply would talk to me with such jealousy, envy and contempt. But, I’m glad I am over this situation and these two low lifes. Now I can see that they were just emotionally sick inside with no morals, values or standards.
Yes preach, preach. I have said the same thing!!!!’ the woman knows about and has seen me-----dead in my face!!!!!
Brother, you really put the pieces together. Bless you.