The Butterfly Hug

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  • The Butterfly Hug is a form of bilateral stimulation that can be used as a grounding technique.The process is simple and can be done in any situation. It can help bring you back to the present moment and calm your emotional state.

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  • @maki9396
    @maki9396 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Side note: I love that you didn't use a bright white background.

  • @maureenobrien845
    @maureenobrien845 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The lovely lady’s voice made me feel so relaxed. Great technique to help manage anxiety. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nickaida2568
    @nickaida2568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    who's here from its okay not to be okay..💗💗💗

    • @arjetakrasniqi5981
      @arjetakrasniqi5981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me

    • @notaburneraccount
      @notaburneraccount 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yessss!!! I love that drama! 💖

    • @mar12tk
      @mar12tk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @Knightshark
      @Knightshark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. I love that series aha

    • @G3nUWU
      @G3nUWU 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just finished watching it and it has no reason being this good

  • @rosieyaaa_05
    @rosieyaaa_05 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    i'm a sophomore student struggling right now after seeing my midterm grades. hearing her voice makes me feel like crying while doing this butterfly hug technique.
    it's really hard and i'm overwhelmed by a lot of emotions right now. thank you for comforting me through this video. really, thank you so much.

    • @patriciamarin7968
      @patriciamarin7968 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's been about 12 years since I finished college but learning how to regulate our emotions is a must I believe. I actually got teary when she said the affirmation of 'I'm in a safe place'. I wish I had focus on managing my emotions when I was younger, please keep going, you will do great! Our well-being is always more important than our grades or our jobs.

    • @jwcinc12
      @jwcinc12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God Bless you with your studies. Millions get through it and you will too.

    • @mendedandwhole
      @mendedandwhole 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your grades do not determine your value that is external. Your perspective will change once you understand that. Big hug to you! ❤️🦋☀️

  • @jenniferross3550
    @jenniferross3550 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You have the most soothing voice! I needed you growing up 😢

  • @Ed-xv4sy
    @Ed-xv4sy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    please DO ASMR videos, your voice melted my brain.

  • @cantdobasicmath7357
    @cantdobasicmath7357 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just had my first panic attack and the crisis councilor I talked to sent me this, thank you

    • @denizatkovicova5622
      @denizatkovicova5622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did it help? i want to try it with my daughter...i need to hear about experience of somebody who trains it

    • @A.M.Independent.Consultant
      @A.M.Independent.Consultant 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here

  • @Andiniswiid
    @Andiniswiid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Thankyou, i did this and suddenly im crying alot, but after that all my depressions slowly gone

    • @yakshidave3920
      @yakshidave3920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that’s great 😃 how r u feeling now ?

  • @oldesarge
    @oldesarge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I've just been shown this technique in my last session with my Health Care provider. Retired Canadian Army diagnosed with PTSD. Still learning it but the immediate sense is of peace and tranquility for a short period of time. Hopefully with practice the positive effects will be longer lasting. I followed along with the video and a sensation I felt was on the left side of my head, a tingling sensation. Bottom line is that for myself the technique helps.

    • @lilabukvic4216
      @lilabukvic4216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was in the war in Bosnia.Had ptsd.Now im totaly free of all symptoms.I was in oneness th-cam.com/video/FMWtWBkAdkA/w-d-xo.html.

  • @sammathews6634
    @sammathews6634 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you....will try it during exams, to calm myself down. It is socially acceptable to do this then walking around in the exam room.

  • @nemrak4385
    @nemrak4385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Wow, Her voice is like magic at calming me down! I did this in therapy with EMDR for healing of repressed childhood sexual abuse memories! Works brilliantly as Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk said it would in his book!

    • @NailedbyDe
      @NailedbyDe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Anything Bessel Van Der Kolk says is gold.

    • @mrrkr3
      @mrrkr3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would watch her if she was reading a phonebook. I am really impressed with the way she talks.

    • @KrisGomathi
      @KrisGomathi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Soothing voice

  • @didptsdunder1roof501
    @didptsdunder1roof501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This bilateral stimulation has worked for me in some of the toughest times. I learned this technique in my Voices for Women group session. I have also shared this technique with my kids and hope they utilize this and share where required in times of loneliness. It is very effective. I suffer from Dissociative Identity Disorder and my husband PTSD. I have not shared this with him yet but I will certainly do so when he needs. Thanks for sharing!!

    • @Chanmantroop10
      @Chanmantroop10 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's the basis of EMDR which is extremely useful for PTSD

  • @bluecurlygirl
    @bluecurlygirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My counsellor put me onto this video today. So grateful.

  • @lavenderamethyst6050
    @lavenderamethyst6050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Does anyone know who this woman is? Her voice is SO soothing. I would love to find more videos with her!

    • @pappasee
      @pappasee ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please!!!

  • @actsrv9
    @actsrv9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The delivery of this talk is amazing. Super soothing and refreshing. Thanks!

  • @brucetidwell7715
    @brucetidwell7715 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found this through a link from the Psyche magazine news letter. I have a bipolar disorder with chronic anxiety. These kinds of things rarely work for me, but this actually seems like it does! Thank you!

  • @mariecaroni1929
    @mariecaroni1929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thanks i accept myself with my depression and anxiety and i can feel bad so i don't need to hide myself and who i am

  • @albertemt74
    @albertemt74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can fall asleep to your voice lol. It's so soothing

  • @EthaliPyrou
    @EthaliPyrou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is so helpful for me; within a few minutes, I already felt grounded and safe. Thank you so much.

  • @charlotte-mg9wj
    @charlotte-mg9wj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for this. My therapist tried to teach me this yesterday but I was to agitated to take it in at the time.

  • @kerrymint
    @kerrymint 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love your voice, so calming and soothing. Thank you!

  • @humanrightsareforEVERYONE
    @humanrightsareforEVERYONE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was talking with this person from the Trevor Project (on Trevor Text) and they recommended this video to help calm myself down. I really like Bilateral music for the way it makes my brain feel. This made it feel the same way the music does and I'm super happy about it. Thanks to Jayden for the help!

  • @TheSneha8
    @TheSneha8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Beautiful soothing voice n presence.... thanks a lot...may God bless U!!

  • @nikita.ahuja.
    @nikita.ahuja. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My therapist sent me this video, and I am so thankful to her for this 💓

  • @kellyhemphill1420
    @kellyhemphill1420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Was shown this in my trauma therapy group and it helps me so much x

  • @dianahaus1456
    @dianahaus1456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Amazing, the voice is soothing. Thank you

  • @kindawarenessmeditations
    @kindawarenessmeditations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow your way of being is so sweet and soothing, thank you for sharing yourself

  • @cjflash99
    @cjflash99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Whenever I feel slightly stressed, I can use this to comfort myself and to just relax, it’s a soothing feeling

  • @KimberlyJSteiner
    @KimberlyJSteiner 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautifully done. You have a very calming energy and voice as you demonstrate this.

  • @danielrudolphi
    @danielrudolphi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This made me cry just now. Very relieving. Thank you for sharing this technique! 🙏

  • @chloef8225
    @chloef8225 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much. This was beautiful, soothing, grounding and trauma informed. Excellent resourcing technique to pair with emdr

  • @vickyd7541
    @vickyd7541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Why did it make me cry??? :(

    • @ep2891
      @ep2891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Hi Vicky, I am a therapist being trained for EMDR and it is not unusual for your emotions to be retrieved while doing the tapping or hugs. Remember you are being stimulated with the tapping. My recommendation would be for you to consider doing EMDR therapy so you can get the full benefit. Maybe there are some memories that are stuck and you need help getting them unstuck. The butterfly hug helps to calm down but you may need to process what it is that it's pending in your memory. Hope this helps.

    • @shannongeary9267
      @shannongeary9267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too....

    • @minzz_6569
      @minzz_6569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

    • @aishathnasha9386
      @aishathnasha9386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cried too

    • @oldesarge
      @oldesarge 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ep2891 My Health Care provider took me through this technique for the first time in our last session. Prior to actually doing it I recalled a specific incident from my life. Yes there were tears but after going through the whole process there was indeed a sense of peace and tranquility. I'm looking forward to becoming more proficient at using the technique.

  • @jannetteanderson5068
    @jannetteanderson5068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you.................plus your voice is so calming. Brought tears to my eyes & my memories are flowing

  • @whitewavemacconaonaigh2564
    @whitewavemacconaonaigh2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for the support. I needed this today! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @DeeBayro
    @DeeBayro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this technique it has helped me calm down. I learned it in EMDR therapy sessions.

  • @ademjefit
    @ademjefit 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, I was so touched by this exercise.... I do something similar with my clients but this was so Nice, so gentle & beautifull. Thank you for wonderfull guidance ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @samuidesune
    @samuidesune 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lovely video, good sound and great delivery of information. I can easily imagine the speaker doing a really good job on guided mindfulness audio recordings.

  • @fairygodmother4938
    @fairygodmother4938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thanks to It's ok to be not ok, im now here.🥰

  • @alwhillans8291
    @alwhillans8291 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Any chance you can make a 5 or 10 minute version? Your voice is very soothing.

  • @JoséFabian-b1e
    @JoséFabian-b1e ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this sharing and the tears that it provoqued!

  • @peewoops86
    @peewoops86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Who's here from Rachel Southerd?

    • @tomat8247
      @tomat8247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meee hahah

  • @sagebutterfly2
    @sagebutterfly2 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful. Thank you!

  • @freisein6554
    @freisein6554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I cried at the end.

  • @heikestamm8913
    @heikestamm8913 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH! loving hugs from Germany

  • @ananigma7
    @ananigma7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you...this has changed my life.🦋🤗

  • @notaburneraccount
    @notaburneraccount 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Gang-tae brought me here 😍

  • @claudiatopp1073
    @claudiatopp1073 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So calming, thank you!

  • @serenpalmu7230
    @serenpalmu7230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So butterfly hugs exist Thanks to IT'S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video. I’ve been asked to do this 1-2 times between weekly therapy session. Just wanna make sure I’m doing it all correctly.

  • @brendal7410
    @brendal7410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will watch it over and over just to hear your voice

  • @cafetschuesch
    @cafetschuesch 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Feeeeels so good. Big Love from Berlin ✊️💜✨️✨️✨️

  • @fipzzzz6968
    @fipzzzz6968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    thank you
    never knew i needed this

  • @pastoracidinhagarcia20
    @pastoracidinhagarcia20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very useful. I am using with my clients. Thanks.

  • @quvliyy
    @quvliyy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much you sweet angel 💗💕✨

  • @nikitas777
    @nikitas777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How beautiful. Thank you.

  • @jaclynmorris5087
    @jaclynmorris5087 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I added this to brainspotting therapy doing the bilateral music it helps ALOT

  • @tgh364
    @tgh364 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Her voice is so soothing

  • @STEVOLOVESTHAILAND
    @STEVOLOVESTHAILAND 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, I use to help my depression

  • @kw8827
    @kw8827 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her voice is wonderful!

  • @nancylivingston2778
    @nancylivingston2778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You for this Video you also have a Calming voice which is nice too if your a newbie😊😊😊

  • @louislore9777
    @louislore9777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I needed that.

  • @margaridasilva7764
    @margaridasilva7764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you ♥

  • @windawinwin2737
    @windawinwin2737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Just search this video after watching korean drama "Psycho Its Okay" :D

  • @Jejeoeoe
    @Jejeoeoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My therapist taught me this I love it all much

  • @honourlulu5562
    @honourlulu5562 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really helped me , thank u ❤

  • @lpn4375
    @lpn4375 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I still use this technique.

  • @PupRiku
    @PupRiku 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I do this but tap each finger at a time, it helps even more for me.

  • @winternightmarecrochet
    @winternightmarecrochet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this works great!

  • @jenniferross3550
    @jenniferross3550 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @christopherscotellaro
    @christopherscotellaro 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @Sinu-o1i
    @Sinu-o1i ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 💗

  • @juderyanhocog5606
    @juderyanhocog5606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU ❤️

  • @zarifeoruc7410
    @zarifeoruc7410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Teşekkürler Melis 🤍 iyi ki varsın 💗

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't fucking believe it!
    I'm just discovering/realizing
    for the first time in my 44 years of life...
    The rage and grief I feel...
    THESE ARE MY SUPERPOWERS!
    The fact that I can feel these at all,
    this alone, is my superpower!
    It is sacred it is divine it is feminine it is miraculous.
    Most are too numb to know or to feel.
    But I know. And I feel.
    This has all been in preparation for my mission
    as an alchemist.
    I am a Lioness.
    I am a Goddess.
    I am a Radically Honest Biker Bitch!
    Holy heaven I am mind-blown!
    HALLEUJAH! AND PRAISE THE LORD!

  • @jenwilsonnnn
    @jenwilsonnnn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it normal to cry while doing this 😫

  • @asm3177
    @asm3177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 💚

  • @dontaskwhy9340
    @dontaskwhy9340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May i use this Video for my content name The butterfly hug for reference?

  • @maindrianlucanomarcellovan9949
    @maindrianlucanomarcellovan9949 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful woman. Lovely and thank you for the technique en your blessed being!

  • @henriettaabeyta5989
    @henriettaabeyta5989 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the butterfly kisses..thanx

  • @Peggorty
    @Peggorty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like it, thanks!

  • @imrose09
    @imrose09 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here cause of "It's ok to not be ok" drama

  • @jeyherah3125
    @jeyherah3125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this :'(

  • @titab
    @titab 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why you don't acknowledge this hug is the work of Lucy Artigas?

  • @jillpaulson5291
    @jillpaulson5291 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice

  • @STEVOLOVESTHAILAND
    @STEVOLOVESTHAILAND 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This helps so much

  • @renanashaace8723
    @renanashaace8723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's makes my tear out.

  • @Blueone71
    @Blueone71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    طول عمري ادور عن الحنان طلع الحنان بين يديني

  • @supankarshil3883
    @supankarshil3883 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much love you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @citraputriana7461
    @citraputriana7461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks

  • @riyajoshi3717
    @riyajoshi3717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1:06 starts here.

  • @galabond2588
    @galabond2588 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ))))

  • @jacquietavernier5335
    @jacquietavernier5335 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤thanks

  • @evoo6
    @evoo6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful

  • @freddiestranger9783
    @freddiestranger9783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THIS WHITE WOMAN HAS A VERY NICE VOICE

  • @comradesandwich9437
    @comradesandwich9437 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your mien is dreamy - dreamien!
    thank you sweet, gèntle, lovely person

  • @shilpas9417
    @shilpas9417 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tyf means

  • @jacquietavernier5335
    @jacquietavernier5335 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This email add doesnot belong to me

  • @cocosete1660
    @cocosete1660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks.

  • @Jueli3004
    @Jueli3004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @Blueone71
    @Blueone71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    بكيت من كلامك مهو من الهق