THIS! I was thinking the SAME thing lol😂🤦🏾♀️... Clearly these girls are jealous bc they didn't land a NFL superstar, and apparently aren't willing to be like Olivia to get one.🤔🥱😂
People need to mind their own bussines. Let people wear what they want. I'm sick of it. She had a wedding and people act like she killed someone . It annoys me so much!
Not to mention that if someone merely says "No thanks" to wearing said miniskirt, its taken as a personal attack and that person is accused of being judgmental to other girls who do wear miniskirts. The distance some people will leap knows no bounds.
They preach about how they want freedom to be who they want to be, while at the same time, degrading someone else for being who THEY want to be. 🤦♀️ It’s ridiculous
Exactly! I’m dress 80s inspired and have a lot of tattoos and I personally think that Olivia looked absolutely stunning! I hate how people say "it’s about choice", but as soon as someone disagrees with them they go crazy.
Feminists don't preach freedom at all. Simone de Beauvoir put it like this: "no woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice. Precisely becaue if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one." Thus, according to feminists, women should be made to be who feminists want them to be. It's the same as communism. The communist revolution "liberates" workers from working for capitalists and makes them work for the state. If any of the workers dare to say they'd rather work for capitalists, they authomatically become "enemies of the people" and are dealt with accordingly.
Simone de Beauvoir put it like this: "no woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice. Precisely becaue if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one."
As a *pagen*, I'm here for it. It's HER wedding. SHE wanted to be modest because it makes HER happy. She wants to focus on HER faith. The people crying over it are pathetic and need to touch grass.
They make a girl famous for being crass, drunk and saying to spit on that thang. But then attack a girl for a 'conservative' wedding dress. I think it's safe to say at this point bad behavior is celebrated and pushed whilst good behavior is punished and attacked.
We have to remember that the world hates goodness and beauty because it reminds the world of God, who the world wants nothing to do with. And those who live in the world will get their due because God is just
People get triggered by values because they feel shamed by them. There's a difference between having your own beliefs about right and wrong and shaming others who disagree.
She made a wedding look like royalty, just like Princess Katherine, this modesty is class and dignity, unlike the halfnaked garbage I've seen the Kardashians wear. As much as all brides want to look like a princess, she nailed it.
@@EphesianRosethis is why I have no sympathy for Christians who complain about people not taking Christianity seriously anymore - it's because of things like this. The undeniable double standard
People need to mind their own bussines. Let people wear what they want. I'm sick of it. She had a wedding and people act like she killed someone . It annoys me so much!
@@daffke1185 What's weird is that when a woman wears a revealing dress, other women will say exactly this; "People need to mind their own business...."
@@OneNiftyBoi true. It's a wedding people can wear what they like and what suits with their values. I don't judge people. A wedding day is important and the only thing that matters is what the couple likes.
Honestly it shouldnt! Im on her side, but when you are a celebrity and post the pics yourself, its expected. The internet is full of trolls and fake accounts pushing agendas. Maybe she souldve left Vogue out of her wedding.
I find the same mindset with people who pressure you to do drugs with them. Somewhere deep down they know what they're doing is wrong, so they try to lure more people to join in so that they can say, "See? It's normal, everyone else does it too, it's not only me, you're just a prude" which alleviates the guilt.
@@BlueDauntless Good point. Although, the focus was on her words regarding her wedding dress. So, I'm not sure those offended were thinking of her other outfits at all.
Let's not forget...Oliva was Ms. Universe!!! The Universe picked her. She has been repeatedly picked, picked by Vogue to cover her wedding, picked by a NFL player to be his Wife....She is The Pick Me Queen...and wore a beautiful gown on her ultimate Pick Me Day. The internet trolls went ballistic on that post.
what makes her a pick me then just bc she put her wedding on a magazine, and she had a simple wedding dress does not mean she is a pick me honestly, it's her dress she decided
Exactly. The internet has made people so desensitized to porn and promiscuity that anything else is seen as abnormal when 20 years ago, the opposite was true.
Well the internet is for porn as the song goes but that aside it's more complicated. They want porn or they want all women to flaunt themselves but they don't want men to enjoy it, they want them to consume it yes but they don't want them to enjoy the female form but then if guys veer away from finding pleasure in the female form they'd call the guys gay and women hating.
@@warwolf88 nope they expected a model to go down the aisle with chest exposed, a$$ out and looking as slutty as possible. Anything less results in this vitriol.
@@warwolf88She doesn’t dress modestly though. So it is surprising she’d go full on modest for her wedding. If she wanted to honor her husband, she should do it all the time, not just in front of the pastor.
That "bridal expert" that dumped on Olivia's dress is the most insufferable person to walk the Earth. Imagine expecting a couple that doesn't know you to cater to your ideological nonsense on the happiest day of their lives.
She's talking about Olivia making it all about her ideology, when SHE'S the one making it about ideology. Olivia barely said anything that has to do with "ideology". She was really just stating the definition of marriage honestly.
She showed her true colors when stating that Olivia was trying to push a conservative agenda and “it wasn’t even well done” because she didn’t make it appealing. Ma’am, deciding to dress conservatively doesn’t push your agenda to anyone. She wore a timeless and conservative dress for herself and her husband. I love how the bride described wanting the dress to feel as serious as the covenant of marriage. It was her dress! I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve shaken my head or rolled my eyes watching Say Yes to the Dress because brides want their breasts hanging out, see through corset tops, or slits that go up to their crotch. I don’t think those women look classy or like a bride. But I’m not the one wearing the dress so my opinion ultimately doesn’t matter. Just like this silly “bridal creator”. Side note: what the heck is a bridal creator? I’ve heard of coordinators, designers, and all sorts of sales titles but never that one. What does she do? Tell women exactly what to wear the whole wedding day? Does she have a “how to be a bride” checklist that she takes people through? At what point is a bride created? Is it when her hair/makeup & outfit are all complete? Like dressing up a Barbie? I have so many questions because that sounds like a b.s. job title.
You sound like the "me me me" culture. To say it is "her" wedding and "her" choice is crass feminist solipsism. The bride can easily choose wrongly. The Church is not the bride's personal stage for her exhibitionism. The wedding march should not be her personal slut walk. Her choice can easily dishonor God, the Church, and her husband. To qualify as an appropriate choice, she must respect the boundaries of decorum. Marriage is a sacramental covenant before God, groom, bride, family, and community. The bride must choose a dress that honors God, the groom, the family, the community, and the occasion's solemnity.
@@DDD11239the first recorded marriage was in 2350 B.C. That’s almost 4000 years ago. What point are you trying to make? If you don’t believe in marriage then don’t get married. Is that so hard?
People are so used to having the most ridiculous showy dresses in existence, that when someone wants to wear a modest more simplistic dress, people think it's crazy.
I’m ordained to minister weddings. I am not religiously affiliated and just do this as a side gig for people who want to get married “the non traditional way”. My personal stance is that the wedding should be about the couple getting married wants and no one else’s opinions matter. It’s your wedding day, dress however you want, do the ceremony however you want, who the heck cares if no one is getting hurt. I have married couples in just about anything you can imagine: regular wedding attire, tuxedo shirts, jeans and cowboy/girl boots and hats, swim suits, even a couple dresses like Jedi (I’m not kidding). So go figure the internet would freak out over someone getting married in a real wedding dress 🤦🏻♂️ I really wish everyone would go back to just minding their own business and just letting everyone do whatever they want as long as no one gets hurt.
@SwordsMaster7: I saw a program where a 250+ pound woman picked a low cut extremely form fitting dress because she wanted to show off "her amazing assets". 😂😂😂
Yeah but we have A.I that can make (so called) "music" and "art" and greedy corporations like Spotify who want to exploit that and replace real, human artists and talent with it.
1969: Marches to stop the war... 1985: Concerts to feed the hungry.. 2024: Violence to combat having your feelings hurt because someone can't identify what sex you think you are. WTH happened in just half a Century???
As a Muslim girl who cover her body its make me really sad that people think that getting naked is freedom and covering up is oppression..i choose to be modest for my God and i would never trade it for anything in this world
Exactly! Hugs from another Muslim sister. There are so many oppressions happening in the world and they decide to highlight our modesty as oppression is beyond me. They just need a subject to hate 👻
It’s definitely not my favorite, since it’s kind of solid white and there’s not a lot of texture or pattern, but I still think it’s beautiful! Simple can be beautiful! It’s very classic. It’s almost like if a suit was a wedding dress, if that makes sense…
No it’s pretty for a virgin church marm in 1945. For a 2024 used up ‘influencer’ who’s usually mostly naked and passed herself around from athlete to athlete until one would finally marry her it’s a joke
"If she would have just shut hermouth" there they are, silencing a woman for having her own thoughts and emotions ABOUT HER OWN WEDDING...Isnt it what they stand against?
They go against what they supposedly stand for all the time.. that’s why I hate so-called feminists. They aren’t standing for what actual feminism is, or what it’s supposed to be. It’s exhausting.
No, I'm afraid it's not what they stand against. Simone de Beauvoir put it like this: "no woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice. Precisely becaue if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one."
As an orthodox Jewish girl who has to cover my collarbone, elbows and everything in between (for religious purposes), I absolutely love seeing a celebrity wearing a gown that I can wear
Right? Shouldn’t there be more wedding dress options in shops that are inclusive of modesty choices? Because most wedding dresses available aren’t modest (most are sleeveless, are low cut, etc).
@@rachelhoyle5728 In the States. Not here or in most of Europe. A Wedding Dress (espc for Church) is NOT supposed to be skin tight low cut or see through. Elegant beautiful tailoring that skims your body perfectly showing delicate lines but with a modest & espc simple aesthetic is everything. (& we won't care what anybody Across the Pond thinks) We don't do the horrendous Orange Fake tan & ridiculously over the top long fake nails/ eyelashes or any of it. We look for Elegant/Classy/ Beautiful & to be Dressed Appropriately for the Setting. (We wouldn't wear that for the Reception though - goes without saying)🙏🏼🇬🇧
If anything, wearing a conservative dress AND a sexy dress proves shes NOT pushing an agenda. A true feminist has no issue with the choices of other women.
A great example of people’s terrible relationship with social media. They let it shape their mindset so much that anything that doesn’t align with it is seen as a personal attack
Because people today are just living trend to trend and no longer think for themselves, so seeing someone doing anything feels like some kind of trend to follow
I agree. I'm not a huge fan of this dress, but I absolutely adore Kate Middleton's wedding dress. It has texture, it's fitted but not too tight, not revealing, but has a beautiful neckline. That might be my favorite modest wedding dress.
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692 lol I actually quite like this dress. I’m a super simple guy and this dress is honestly perfect. Well, maybe take away the massive draggy thing
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692I don’t like the dress either. Not because it’s modest, but because I don’t like the design. But I’m not mad about it and I think it’s weird that people care so much about a strangers wedding dress.
Thank you for covering this Brett! You can always be counted on to be a voice of reason, something that is starting to become rarer and rarer nowadays.
"A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, ‘You are mad; you are not like us." - St. Anthony the Great
One 👏 hundred 👏 percent!👏 I grew up a tomboy with lots of guy friends, and was raised by my single father. Not one of those men made me feel bad about myself or how I looked or chose to dress. It was ALWAYS the girls that tore me down or harshly critiqued my appearance. Women making life hard and stressful for other women with unrealistic unforgiving rules, and then blaming men for it, will always baffle and anger me.
People always get upset about other people's choices, and claim that they are forcing their values on everyone (when in fact they never said anything to indicate that), when they know that what the person said or did is true and they feel a sense of guilt about it.
@@anneg5720Truly. Just say you’re jealous and envious of Olivia and move on with your day and try to better yourself so maybe you’ll be in her position and finally be happy with yourself.
I've never been a conservative, but the insane way many liberals these days are acting is pushing me more and more away. Like turning a simple article about ONE woman's wedding dress/day into some massive PSA. SO sick of all the watchdogging and gatekeeping. For a group that's supposed to have a "live and let live" mentality, they're becoming the complete opposite.
I’m a liberal who loves watching Brett and hearing her perspective. This dress is gorgeous and isn’t part of bodily autonomy wearing what YOU want to wear? The “tolerant” can be so intolerant.
@ReineDeLaSeine14 same! I love to hear opinions and thoughts from everyone. Politics used to be about actual issues and how best to solve them, now everything has become so petty. It's like people keep their eyes peeled just to find the next molehill they can turn into a mountain. Meanwhile, the world is burning down around us 🤦♀️
I agree with you all so much! I was pretty much in the center of dems and reps, so i had always voted on policy. I hold the constitution dear to my heart, and I also believe in taking care of this planet and every precious specie (including humans) who lives in it. I have a live and let live policy, but damn these people have become crazed. 😮
The way that these women go on and on and on just screams guilt!!! If they didn't feel so squirmy because their immorality/trashiness is being exposed, they would never even comment. Me thinks they protest too much!!
Apparently people need to be able to tell what kind of wax the pride had before the wedding or what style of Woman-Scapping was picked. GOD forbid the woman to behave with Class, Modesty, or a measure of decorum. So the default is whore for wedding day, tainting such meaningful day with cheap flesh show is excepted Now-a-Days....I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
I agree. This world is backwards and ridiculously sinful. Here's a word: We as humans have gotten further from our original ideals and as a result, the younger generation is obsessed with vanity, self pleasure, and trying to find fulfillment in things that don't matter and are fleeting. If you want to find true fulfillment in this life, follow Jesus. Pray to God through Jesus, read the Bible, join a loving church, and give your whole life to him. Repent of the sin in your life. He can provide more fulfillment than anything else in this world ever could. Much love 💕
You say that but I’m sure you traditional Christians would throw a hissy fit if someone chose to wear something other than a white gown for their wedding day. Like if she was wearing a black dress or a suit, you guys would be reacting very very differently.
Thank you! I once stood up for the men because some feminists were attacking their baby daddies, commenting that they don't have any rights and are only good for the sp*rm. And then I got called a "pick me girl" and I was "desperate" 😂😂😂😂
You sound like the "me me me" culture. To say it is "her" wedding and "her" choice is crass feminist solipsism. Your statement implies there are no wrong choices. This is wrong, and the bride can easily choose wrongly. The Church is not the bride's personal stage for her exhibitionism. The wedding march should not be her personal slut walk. Her choice can easily dishonor God, the Church, and her husband. To qualify as the right choice, she must respect the boundaries of decorum. Marriage is a sacramental covenant before God, groom, bride, family, and community. The bride must not choose the dress she wants without regard to anything else. She must choose a dress that will honor God, the groom, the family, the community, and the occasion's solemnity.
but... of course as always.. people feel the need to make it a big deal because.. oh no.. how dare they have a personal preference.. the AudaCiTY😒 how DARE one chooses modesty and simplicity above everything..
What's wrong with a beautiful bride wanting to wear a classy, elegant and unrevealing wedding dress at her own wedding?? Those who blasted her need to get a life. 🤷♀️
I haven't seen anyone yet talking about the dress! The dress is very beautiful!! The problem with Olivia is the bullshit story she said of why she chose that one. And yet she was practically naked on the other two dresses after this one! I have yet to see a comment on here talking about that
She literally had a traditional church wedding. Most venues of that nature request modest attire to show respect for the venue. I’m LDS so I had a temple wedding, which also requests very modest attire. Nowhere did she say anyone who chose differently was bad or shamed anyone at all. People are mad because they are not secure in their lifestyles and prefer to make people sink to their level instead of improving themselves
I'm an Orthodox Christian and will be getting married next year in the church. I would NOT dare to stand in front of a priest in a church in anything less than fully covered. It would be super inappropriate to show a lot of skin, as a lot of these wedding dresses do these days lol
Same! LDS as well. Even my modest wedding dress by modern standards was not modest enough for the temple because it had short sleeves. I’m totally happy to have worn a temple dress instead and my wedding dress for the rest of the day!
I am also a latter-day Saint and I wish I could have worn that kind of modest dress like hers on my wedding day. And how she wanted her dress to represent her serious commitment to her marriage was so beautiful. Hope every person has the same strong commitment. The world would truly be a better place. @@snoeleppard
My daughter is getting married in January and we are Roman Catholic. We ordered her dress from Utah because every dress in town was backless, strapless, slit up the leg or slit down to the waist. Her dress is modest and gorgeous and exactly what she wanted. I don't understand why brides think sexy is beautiful, but to each their own.
We judge everything directly and indirectly. What bothers these women is that they know they are wrong with their choices, and the greatest sin of all for them is to have a woman who respects her man and their union and gives the proper example.
@@andreavega4309Which is absolutely fine because it was a party. She was talking about the marriage ceremony itself being sacred and non-sexual, her ceremony dress was elegant, modest, gorgeous, and perfect for it.
I appreciate social media for giving insecure, toxic women a place to publicly and permanently showcase their insecurities. It's a great cautionary tale to show my kids.
I love how these women say olivia is sending a message about all brides should be while literally saying how brides should be.... Just plain nasty and moronic
Really? Do you _actually_ think it's stunning? It looks like she's wearing a regular long sleeved shirt, on top of a stunning long wedding skirt. Or something. It's not problematic or anything, obviously. Her wedding dress can be as hideous as it can be as long as she likes it. And people calling her a pick-me over this are crazy. But a dress can be modest while still being beautiful. And hers wasn't imo.
Years ago, if you wanted to get married in church, you couldn't wear very low-cut dresses, the priests didn't allow it... the bride dresses in white because it symbolizes purity, the bride is supposed to be a virgin... that's what you called tradition... but now brides still wear white, but those dresses are half transparent.
Hahah love this I guess "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" doesn't apply to the internet. Would the "bridal expert" have the guts to say those things to their faces? I bet not.
this sounds like a group of girls in middle school not liking a super cute girl because she doesn't put out and act like everyone else and actually has respect for herself. They see themselves as so much less than a beautiful girl who's modest, it infuriates them that they can't identify major flaws, so they nitpick and make things up. I remember seeing it so often in middle school and high school
1:29 "I wanted those for _our_ wedding…" The way "our wedding" came out naturally, without hesitation, speaks volumes about the kind of woman you are, Brett. How many women would have said "my wedding" instead? Nearly all of them. Well done.
TikTok is so toxic it’s absolutely unbelievable. I rarely go there and my child is ,under no circumstances, permitted there. Hateful individuals. That black & white photo of her is stunning. That is the sole reason she’s getting dumped on. I wish the newlyweds a long happy marriage.
Her whole claim to fame was based on vanity and immodesty what is going on lol us conservatives need to stop being so shallow. Wearing a modest dress for 4 hours of your life does not turn you into a beacon of morality.
My dress was pretty conservative too. Because I very specifically wanted my pictures to look timeless. Where I can look back and not think oh yeah that’s what everyone did in that decade. That’s what timeless means to me. And I’m shockingly happy with it.
While my dress wasn’t super conservative, off the shoulder with some chest exposure(unavoidable with my chest), it was a simple design, Aline skirt and wasn’t constricting in any way. Biggest thing is that I am happy in my pictures.
Well said, I wanted the same thing. I was married thirty years ago and I designed my dress, inspired by a vintage wedding gown from 1960. It was simple, with a bateau neckline and long sleeves, and although it was a sheath dress, it had a full train and screamed conservative. When I look back at the wedding photos, the dress reads current, yet transcends any particular time period and could be worn today by my daughters without alterations or updates. I received many compliments on the design and I love it as much today as I did when I wore it. I just wish I could still fit into it, lol.
Normally I find the topics on this show funny and ridiculous enough to laugh at but this attack on marriage makes me want to ball my eyes out. What is wrong with the world.
@@BlueDauntless she usually doesn't dress modest in her day to day life. She wanted to be modest for the ceremony in the church. What's so difficult to understand here? It's a good thing to respect the holiness of the church and the Bible also says you should be modest in church.
I love how the people who are complaining about the wedding being a political agenda are the exact same people who would push their own agenda into everything they do
as a millennial that's not active on anything but YT, take it from me, you aren't missing anything... Social media is without doubt the root cause of mental health issues in your generation, so I'd advice you to get off insta too
I just laugh. There are a lot of miserable people in the world. The women attacking Olivia for her choices and values are just demonstrating this reality
You did an amazing job covering the insanity of the attacks against beautiful Olivia! She looked a cross between angelic and a princess. And interesting too, we saw her beauty not be overshadowed by a wedding dress or modern wedding lewdness.
There's no way you get married in your underwear and take marriage and yourself as seriously as a person who dresses modestly. How you do one thing is how you do most things in life. You either have a standard or not. Our character is reflected in everything we do.
It's a woman thing even in the workplace. After 10+ in the health sector and never ending female drama, I called it quits became an engineer with the sole purpose of working with men. My male colleagues are professional, work-oriented, teamplayers, chill, helpful, funny, and just amazing amazing men. No more hormone-fueled drama, bitchiness or negative criticism 24-7 just because the most demanding and difficult clients would request for me and be cooperative under my care making the others "look bad and incompetent" smh.
@@Hypocricy_rules_supreme Well said. My guy bosses were a million times better than my female bosses. Women are jealous and mean. That will never change. Look at Caitlin Clark in the wnba. Women are jealous of her.
Or to let someone else have their own opinion about the things they do for themselves and not feel the need to “how dare you” because they weren’t considering the collective public’s feelings.
Keep in mind these are the same people with a mindset of " Everyone has a right to live their life however they choose, as long as I approve it first".
The irony of calling someone a "pickme" on their wedding day, girl she was already picked
This!
So true!
THIS! I was thinking the SAME thing lol😂🤦🏾♀️... Clearly these girls are jealous bc they didn't land a NFL superstar, and apparently aren't willing to be like Olivia to get one.🤔🥱😂
Exactly!! These stupid millennials just learnt the word pick me and throws it around lol. She already picked and yall attention seekers TikTokers aint
I think calling people evil when they have been evil it is just fine.
“Women can be and do whatever they want!!”
”NO NOT LIKE THAT”
😂😂😂 absolutely, lefties have double standards and hypocrisy EVERYWHERE. If i made a list i could easily come up with 5-10 examples in a few minutes.
Most feminists in a nutshell
"im pro choice"
"so empowering"
" i chose to keep the baby"
"hold on! not like that"
People need to mind their own bussines. Let people wear what they want. I'm sick of it. She had a wedding and people act like she killed someone . It annoys me so much!
😂
She wore a modest dress because she was in a CHURCH, it would be extremely disrespectful to wear anything else...
Literally
Excellent point!
YES!!
Thank you!!
She wore a modest dress because she was trying to sell an image, nothing more. People called her out and rightfully so, hypocrisy is a thing.
Its all "your body, your choice" until someone doesnt wanna wear a miniskirt
Not to mention that if someone merely says "No thanks" to wearing said miniskirt, its taken as a personal attack and that person is accused of being judgmental to other girls who do wear miniskirts.
The distance some people will leap knows no bounds.
And then there's microminiskirts...
Or refuses the jab
@@CardinalCadette those shouldn't even be classified as skirts tbh
@@minniemin1324 More like belts 😆
They preach about how they want freedom to be who they want to be, while at the same time, degrading someone else for being who THEY want to be. 🤦♀️ It’s ridiculous
Exactly! I’m dress 80s inspired and have a lot of tattoos and I personally think that Olivia looked absolutely stunning! I hate how people say "it’s about choice", but as soon as someone disagrees with them they go crazy.
Feminists don't preach freedom at all. Simone de Beauvoir put it like this: "no woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice. Precisely becaue if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one." Thus, according to feminists, women should be made to be who feminists want them to be. It's the same as communism. The communist revolution "liberates" workers from working for capitalists and makes them work for the state. If any of the workers dare to say they'd rather work for capitalists, they authomatically become "enemies of the people" and are dealt with accordingly.
Simone de Beauvoir put it like this: "no woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice. Precisely becaue if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one."
so true!!!!!!!!!!!!! my mom will make fun of me for being Christian or dressing modest
They are so fcking blind how the hell do they not see the utterly absurd hypocrisy, the double standards. This is why no one wants to respect them
Feminism backfires. Again. We fight for women's right... but only for the type of women we approved. Oh.. The irony.. Again..
Some people really misinterpreted meaning of feminism. we should not judge women choice their life their choice
As a feminist I for one, don't care what she wears because it's HER wedding 🙄 this backlash is dumb
She hit a nerve... as a Christian, I'm here for it.
Yesss! I was like yes ma’ammm! She looks glorious. Beautiful! 🥰
Absolutely!
As a *pagen*, I'm here for it. It's HER wedding. SHE wanted to be modest because it makes HER happy. She wants to focus on HER faith. The people crying over it are pathetic and need to touch grass.
Well said 😌
Orthodox Jewish woman here, and I'm with you 100%!
They make a girl famous for being crass, drunk and saying to spit on that thang. But then attack a girl for a 'conservative' wedding dress. I think it's safe to say at this point bad behavior is celebrated and pushed whilst good behavior is punished and attacked.
We have to remember that the world hates goodness and beauty because it reminds the world of God, who the world wants nothing to do with. And those who live in the world will get their due because God is just
**cough, cough 'one republic's counting stars song' cough, cough**
100% agree.
That’s interesting because the internet thinks the spit on that thang is a purely republican meme
You know you're on the right track when they get mad at you.
People get triggered by values because they feel shamed by them. There's a difference between having your own beliefs about right and wrong and shaming others who disagree.
Truth
She made a wedding look like royalty, just like Princess Katherine, this modesty is class and dignity, unlike the halfnaked garbage I've seen the Kardashians wear. As much as all brides want to look like a princess, she nailed it.
This!! Her dress was elegant and beautiful - the immodest, embarrassing things that many celebrities wear are just plain ugly in my opinion.
@@EphesianRosethis is why I have no sympathy for Christians who complain about people not taking Christianity seriously anymore - it's because of things like this. The undeniable double standard
@@EphesianRoseShe got married in a CHURCH, she doesnt live in one. 🙄
That is exactly what she was going for and failed. Being fake will get you nowhere.
@lwood7901 She looked terrible in it. I feel sorry for the designer.
“America gives women the freedom to…wait are you not exposing your body? WHATS WRONG WITH YOU!”
People need to mind their own bussines. Let people wear what they want. I'm sick of it. She had a wedding and people act like she killed someone . It annoys me so much!
Bingo
@@daffke1185 What's weird is that when a woman wears a revealing dress, other women will say exactly this; "People need to mind their own business...."
@@OneNiftyBoi true. It's a wedding people can wear what they like and what suits with their values. I don't judge people. A wedding day is important and the only thing that matters is what the couple likes.
Literally its women choice to wear whatever they want
What I don’t understand is it’s HER wedding, HER life, and HER dress. Why does it matter to the whole internet??
Honestly it shouldnt! Im on her side, but when you are a celebrity and post the pics yourself, its expected. The internet is full of trolls and fake accounts pushing agendas. Maybe she souldve left Vogue out of her wedding.
I don't get it either to be honest
I think her choice to be modest triggers a level of guilt in women
I find the same mindset with people who pressure you to do drugs with them. Somewhere deep down they know what they're doing is wrong, so they try to lure more people to join in so that they can say, "See? It's normal, everyone else does it too, it's not only me, you're just a prude" which alleviates the guilt.
She’s only modest with her wedding dress.
Women are not independent thinkers... She never mentioned anyone other than her and her life, and somehow these bitches made it about all women
@@BlueDauntless Good point. Although, the focus was on her words regarding her wedding dress. So, I'm not sure those offended were thinking of her other outfits at all.
This 💯
People are always threatened by high standards.
Dudes watching guys lift weights on TikTok from their couch and getting annoyed is the vibe I get from this
Exactly.
She's the one getting married. Everything else is not.
To say "You value your marriage and your image is now counter culture".
That’s it. Anyone who is angry is just scared of being expected to raise their own standards
Indeed.
@@evaphillips2102 Not gonna happen. Didn't you see her bull-ring? She's not qualified for Human things, decency, intelligence nor values.
Let's not forget...Oliva was Ms. Universe!!! The Universe picked her. She has been repeatedly picked, picked by Vogue to cover her wedding, picked by a NFL player to be his Wife....She is The Pick Me Queen...and wore a beautiful gown on her ultimate Pick Me Day.
The internet trolls went ballistic on that post.
what makes her a pick me then just bc she put her wedding on a magazine, and she had a simple wedding dress does not mean she is a pick me honestly, it's her dress she decided
She is the *picked girl, not pick me girl
No idea who this lady is. But I will say I am sooooooo sick of _everything_ being oversexualized. It’s refreshing to see something modest and classy.
GAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!
Indeed! Never heard the name, but that's my sentiments entirely.
I also don’t know who she is and agree. It was elegant and classy.
Lol, you should look up the dress she wore to her wedding after party... It was essentially underwear. So it all does scream hypocritical.
She was 2012 Miss Universe .
The nerve of that bride, wearing what ever she wants in her own special day 😂
That is exactly what I was thinking. It's her day. If she wanted to wear a hefty bag, it's her choice.
😅😅
😂Exactly.. Underrated comment
You guys don't get it. She's free to wear whatever she wants as long as it's not conservative and/or she doesn't lecture us on conservative values 😂.
Imagine 😂😂😂
As an orthodox Christian young woman, that’s the type of dress that is normal to see in a wedding at an Orthodox Church. That’s normal.
The internet wants porn. Everything has to be porn - adjacent. The internet abhors anything resembling grace.
Exactly. The internet has made people so desensitized to porn and promiscuity that anything else is seen as abnormal when 20 years ago, the opposite was true.
Well the internet is for porn as the song goes but that aside it's more complicated. They want porn or they want all women to flaunt themselves but they don't want men to enjoy it, they want them to consume it yes but they don't want them to enjoy the female form but then if guys veer away from finding pleasure in the female form they'd call the guys gay and women hating.
god forbid Olivia wear a more conservative wedding dress there is no pleasing these people 😂
@@warwolf88 nope they expected a model to go down the aisle with chest exposed, a$$ out and looking as slutty as possible. Anything less results in this vitriol.
@@warwolf88She doesn’t dress modestly though. So it is surprising she’d go full on modest for her wedding. If she wanted to honor her husband, she should do it all the time, not just in front of the pastor.
"It is a conservative campaign...." - IT'S A WEDDING!!!! the mental gymnastics are out of this world!
honestly most of us didnt even know who she was until those lonely bitter women made it political LOL
I disagree. Conservative dresses have been all the rage this season. She's the first one to be ham fisted about it.
😂technically getting married is a conservative thing to do😂 liberals think Thruples are a thing😂
What everyone should find offensive is the unwillingness of these spoiled, whiny brats to *mind their own business.*
@@ProchoicePeopleAreSociopathscame here to say exactly this
"this just reeks of jealousy and insecurity..." Exactly!!!
Bingo. Gowneyed girl makes a living pushing crass, ugly wedding dresses. Thats why she's so triggered.
That "bridal expert" that dumped on Olivia's dress is the most insufferable person to walk the Earth. Imagine expecting a couple that doesn't know you to cater to your ideological nonsense on the happiest day of their lives.
Seriously! The more she spoke, the angrier I got. If I were a bride-to-be and saw this, I would NEVER hire her.
She should have seen here reception dress. It would have allayed her fears.
She's talking about Olivia making it all about her ideology, when SHE'S the one making it about ideology. Olivia barely said anything that has to do with "ideology". She was really just stating the definition of marriage honestly.
The bridal consultant is so triggered, it’s pretty comical.
She showed her true colors when stating that Olivia was trying to push a conservative agenda and “it wasn’t even well done” because she didn’t make it appealing.
Ma’am, deciding to dress conservatively doesn’t push your agenda to anyone. She wore a timeless and conservative dress for herself and her husband. I love how the bride described wanting the dress to feel as serious as the covenant of marriage. It was her dress! I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve shaken my head or rolled my eyes watching Say Yes to the Dress because brides want their breasts hanging out, see through corset tops, or slits that go up to their crotch. I don’t think those women look classy or like a bride. But I’m not the one wearing the dress so my opinion ultimately doesn’t matter. Just like this silly “bridal creator”.
Side note: what the heck is a bridal creator? I’ve heard of coordinators, designers, and all sorts of sales titles but never that one. What does she do? Tell women exactly what to wear the whole wedding day? Does she have a “how to be a bride” checklist that she takes people through? At what point is a bride created? Is it when her hair/makeup & outfit are all complete? Like dressing up a Barbie? I have so many questions because that sounds like a b.s. job title.
It is HER WEDDING. If you want to dress sexy at your wedding, go for it. But you have absolutely no right to get offended about someone else’s dress😭😭
Amen!
“I want my dress to be as serious as my vows” … that’s beautiful. She looked great
@@Yosoydom If vows were apparently serious, divorce wouldn't exist. Human relationships lasted 345,000 years before marriage.
You sound like the "me me me" culture. To say it is "her" wedding and "her" choice is crass feminist solipsism.
The bride can easily choose wrongly. The Church is not the bride's personal stage for her exhibitionism. The wedding march should not be her personal slut walk. Her choice can easily dishonor God, the Church, and her husband.
To qualify as an appropriate choice, she must respect the boundaries of decorum. Marriage is a sacramental covenant before God, groom, bride, family, and community. The bride must choose a dress that honors God, the groom, the family, the community, and the occasion's solemnity.
@@DDD11239the first recorded marriage was in 2350 B.C. That’s almost 4000 years ago. What point are you trying to make? If you don’t believe in marriage then don’t get married. Is that so hard?
It’s so obvious these women are just extremely jealous. Olivia is naturally STUNNING
People are so used to having the most ridiculous showy dresses in existence, that when someone wants to wear a modest more simplistic dress, people think it's crazy.
Not to mention they're projecting their own insecurities when they get defensive about her not wearing makeup.
You think that's wild? Try telling someone you don't drink alcohol.
I’m ordained to minister weddings. I am not religiously affiliated and just do this as a side gig for people who want to get married “the non traditional way”. My personal stance is that the wedding should be about the couple getting married wants and no one else’s opinions matter. It’s your wedding day, dress however you want, do the ceremony however you want, who the heck cares if no one is getting hurt.
I have married couples in just about anything you can imagine: regular wedding attire, tuxedo shirts, jeans and cowboy/girl boots and hats, swim suits, even a couple dresses like Jedi (I’m not kidding). So go figure the internet would freak out over someone getting married in a real wedding dress 🤦🏻♂️ I really wish everyone would go back to just minding their own business and just letting everyone do whatever they want as long as no one gets hurt.
Or the most lacking in fabric in some cases it seems...
@SwordsMaster7: I saw a program where a 250+ pound woman picked a low cut extremely form fitting dress because she wanted to show off "her amazing assets". 😂😂😂
1924:in 2024, cars will fly!
2024: people are mad about a wedding dress
Fr
Yeah but we have A.I that can make (so called) "music" and "art" and greedy corporations like Spotify who want to exploit that and replace real, human artists and talent with it.
Cars have been flying way before 2024.
1969: Marches to stop the war...
1985: Concerts to feed the hungry..
2024: Violence to combat having your feelings hurt because someone can't identify what sex you think you are.
WTH happened in just half a Century???
Cars can fly.
As a Muslim girl who cover her body its make me really sad that people think that getting naked is freedom and covering up is oppression..i choose to be modest for my God and i would never trade it for anything in this world
Exactly! Hugs from another Muslim sister. There are so many oppressions happening in the world and they decide to highlight our modesty as oppression is beyond me. They just need a subject to hate 👻
@@IraDongBangTan yes because when it's come to Islam hypocrisy is on top!
I am a religious jewish woman. All of our weddings in the community have wedding dresses like this
I'm a Christian but I totally agree! Modesty is for God and for you! It's self respect and respect for the one who made you.
@@alloraheaton6705 yes absolutely!
How can you call that dress ugly?!?! She is stunning and the dress is perfect for her
Well, because mean girl like that chick shows she's envies of woman like Oliva, deep down insecure female.
It’s definitely not my favorite, since it’s kind of solid white and there’s not a lot of texture or pattern, but I still think it’s beautiful! Simple can be beautiful! It’s very classic. It’s almost like if a suit was a wedding dress, if that makes sense…
No it’s pretty for a virgin church marm in 1945. For a 2024 used up ‘influencer’ who’s usually mostly naked and passed herself around from athlete to athlete until one would finally marry her it’s a joke
I don’t personally like the dress but it’s not mine- it’s hers and she loves it. This whole attack on her is insane.
I didn’t like when I first saw it but SHE OWNDE HER DRESS 👗 I love it for her
This reminds me of when people who drink alcohol frequently, get pissed when others don't drink.
These people are so easily threatened. If they were confident in their own beliefs abandoned values they wouldn't care.
"If she would have just shut hermouth" there they are, silencing a woman for having her own thoughts and emotions ABOUT HER OWN WEDDING...Isnt it what they stand against?
They go against what they supposedly stand for all the time.. that’s why I hate so-called feminists. They aren’t standing for what actual feminism is, or what it’s supposed to be. It’s exhausting.
👏👏👏 right?! So hypocritical.
Right? Nothing makes sense to me anymore
No, I'm afraid it's not what they stand against. Simone de Beauvoir put it like this: "no woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice. Precisely becaue if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one."
As an orthodox Jewish girl who has to cover my collarbone, elbows and everything in between (for religious purposes), I absolutely love seeing a celebrity wearing a gown that I can wear
Same!!!
Right? Shouldn’t there be more wedding dress options in shops that are inclusive of modesty choices? Because most wedding dresses available aren’t modest (most are sleeveless, are low cut, etc).
@@rachelhoyle5728 yes absolutely!!
@@rachelhoyle5728
In the States.
Not here or in most
of Europe.
A Wedding Dress (espc for Church) is NOT supposed
to be skin tight low cut
or see through.
Elegant beautiful tailoring
that skims your body
perfectly showing delicate
lines but with a modest
& espc simple aesthetic
is everything.
(& we won't care what
anybody Across the
Pond thinks)
We don't do the horrendous
Orange Fake tan & ridiculously
over the top long fake nails/
eyelashes or any of it.
We look for Elegant/Classy/
Beautiful & to be Dressed
Appropriately for the
Setting. (We wouldn't wear
that for the Reception
though - goes without
saying)🙏🏼🇬🇧
Same as a muslim Woman
If anything, wearing a conservative dress AND a sexy dress proves shes NOT pushing an agenda. A true feminist has no issue with the choices of other women.
True
Women tearing down other women. A tale as old as time 😔
i always hear beauty and the beast when i hear those 6 words
Yes! And the women guilty of tearing Olivia down are the ones who love to say "women support women" come on now!
@@TH-camEnthusiast Women don't support other women. They are jealous and mean.
Truth! The sisterhood is a myth.
@@magichandsdownesSame here. 😂
I never heard her say anything about how anyone else should get married, it was all about what she wanted. How did people get that SO WRONG?
They're being intentionally obtuse.
Because their own existence is so shallow they judge the actual happy one's.
They are miserable.
A great example of people’s terrible relationship with social media. They let it shape their mindset so much that anything that doesn’t align with it is seen as a personal attack
@@TheRealRitzZz THIS
Because people today are just living trend to trend and no longer think for themselves, so seeing someone doing anything feels like some kind of trend to follow
How She expressed her beliefs, took them seriously, and followed through with them was very appreciated.
I personally think modest/traditional wedding dresses are quite charming and elegant if they’re done right
I agree. I'm not a huge fan of this dress, but I absolutely adore Kate Middleton's wedding dress. It has texture, it's fitted but not too tight, not revealing, but has a beautiful neckline. That might be my favorite modest wedding dress.
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692 lol I actually quite like this dress. I’m a super simple guy and this dress is honestly perfect. Well, maybe take away the massive draggy thing
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692I don’t like the dress either. Not because it’s modest, but because I don’t like the design. But I’m not mad about it and I think it’s weird that people care so much about a strangers wedding dress.
@@lopenharold978 Do you mean the wedding veil?
That's the thing. I don't like the dress at all, is boring.
The Chick that reviewed the dress exudes jealousy. 🤦♀️
Truly. I think she’s jealous she hasn’t had her wedding yet.
1000% I suspect the green eyed monster will be waiting a while
Big time fr
Thank you for covering this Brett! You can always be counted on to be a voice of reason, something that is starting to become rarer and rarer nowadays.
"A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, ‘You are mad; you are not like us." - St. Anthony the Great
Notice how it’s always women critiquing other women, yet they are the ones to also preach about the “patriarchy” setting unrealistic standards 🙄
It’s the Al Bundy thing ; “never try to understand women - women understand women and they hate each other”.
So many today are nothing if not hypocrites.
💯
One 👏 hundred 👏 percent!👏
I grew up a tomboy with lots of guy friends, and was raised by my single father. Not one of those men made me feel bad about myself or how I looked or chose to dress. It was ALWAYS the girls that tore me down or harshly critiqued my appearance. Women making life hard and stressful for other women with unrealistic unforgiving rules, and then blaming men for it, will always baffle and anger me.
Women are women's harshest critics
This is reverse “shaming” & Shame & or Accountability are the 2 feelings women can’t handle
Imagine so miserable with your life that you are mad about the reasons someone picked their wedding dress. Sounds like jealousy to me
It's because she's getting married. And those complaining aren't.
She's not a pick me.
She's already picked.
Tell me you’re single and jealous without telling me you’re single and jealous.
Facts
I love your galaxy profile btw
People always get upset about other people's choices, and claim that they are forcing their values on everyone (when in fact they never said anything to indicate that), when they know that what the person said or did is true and they feel a sense of guilt about it.
It makes complete sense that someone from the pageant world would want a dress that is different from pageant gowns. She looked stunning!
These are the same people who say they’re against bullying. Smh
Angry they never got there themselves
@@anneg5720Truly. Just say you’re jealous and envious of Olivia and move on with your day and try to better yourself so maybe you’ll be in her position and finally be happy with yourself.
The people complaining would jump all over the chance to have a wedding and dress to match. They are just jealous hypocrites.
Once again the ones who claim to be inclusive show they are the one's who are not.
I've never been a conservative, but the insane way many liberals these days are acting is pushing me more and more away. Like turning a simple article about ONE woman's wedding dress/day into some massive PSA. SO sick of all the watchdogging and gatekeeping. For a group that's supposed to have a "live and let live" mentality, they're becoming the complete opposite.
I’m a liberal who loves watching Brett and hearing her perspective. This dress is gorgeous and isn’t part of bodily autonomy wearing what YOU want to wear? The “tolerant” can be so intolerant.
@ReineDeLaSeine14 same! I love to hear opinions and thoughts from everyone. Politics used to be about actual issues and how best to solve them, now everything has become so petty. It's like people keep their eyes peeled just to find the next molehill they can turn into a mountain. Meanwhile, the world is burning down around us 🤦♀️
Yup. The “liberals” these days are just eating each other alive at this point.
I agree with you all so much! I was pretty much in the center of dems and reps, so i had always voted on policy. I hold the constitution dear to my heart, and I also believe in taking care of this planet and every precious specie (including humans) who lives in it. I have a live and let live policy, but damn these people have become crazed. 😮
It feels good to Finally WAKE UP! Huh welcome
The way that these women go on and on and on just screams guilt!!! If they didn't feel so squirmy because their immorality/trashiness is being exposed, they would never even comment. Me thinks they protest too much!!
There is definitely something wrong with society. If choosing what to wear on YOUR wedding is a problem.
Apparently people need to be able to tell what kind of wax the pride had before the wedding or what style of Woman-Scapping was picked. GOD forbid the woman to behave with Class, Modesty, or a measure of decorum. So the default is whore for wedding day, tainting such meaningful day with cheap flesh show is excepted Now-a-Days....I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
I agree. This world is backwards and ridiculously sinful. Here's a word:
We as humans have gotten further from our original ideals and as a result, the younger generation is obsessed with vanity, self pleasure, and trying to find fulfillment in things that don't matter and are fleeting. If you want to find true fulfillment in this life, follow Jesus. Pray to God through Jesus, read the Bible, join a loving church, and give your whole life to him. Repent of the sin in your life. He can provide more fulfillment than anything else in this world ever could. Much love 💕
It's almost like most humans overshare their lives on social media. We could all stop posting so much bs.
You say that but I’m sure you traditional Christians would throw a hissy fit if someone chose to wear something other than a white gown for their wedding day. Like if she was wearing a black dress or a suit, you guys would be reacting very very differently.
@@yellaboi2671 Amen! So true.
The venom, jealousy, and and bullsh1t are nonstop and simply exhausting.
She looks beautiful. She and her husband stood out more than the dress. Cudos to her. ❤️💕
I've learned in the last few years, whenever some woman calls another woman a "pick me" its because they are simply jealous, and have to project.
Yes I’ve been saying this since I heard the term!
Thank you! I once stood up for the men because some feminists were attacking their baby daddies, commenting that they don't have any rights and are only good for the sp*rm. And then I got called a "pick me girl" and I was "desperate" 😂😂😂😂
Truly. The word isn’t used correctly or properly anymore.
Absolutely!
It's her dress. It's her wedding. IT'S HER CHOICE!!
Exactly!!! 💯💯💯
You sound like the "me me me" culture. To say it is "her" wedding and "her" choice is crass feminist solipsism.
Your statement implies there are no wrong choices. This is wrong, and the bride can easily choose wrongly. The Church is not the bride's personal stage for her exhibitionism. The wedding march should not be her personal slut walk. Her choice can easily dishonor God, the Church, and her husband.
To qualify as the right choice, she must respect the boundaries of decorum. Marriage is a sacramental covenant before God, groom, bride, family, and community. The bride must not choose the dress she wants without regard to anything else. She must choose a dress that will honor God, the groom, the family, the community, and the occasion's solemnity.
A billion percent🤍
but... of course as always.. people feel the need to make it a big deal because.. oh no.. how dare they have a personal preference.. the AudaCiTY😒 how DARE one chooses modesty and simplicity above everything..
Literally what feminism fought for but still women are judging women 😭
The people who scream the loudest are always feeling the most guilty.
Imagine if the haters applied some of that wasted energy into making their own lives better instead of hating...
💯
exactly
Seems like they are jealous that she actually got picked.
I think her dress was lovely and absolutely gorgeous; incredibly graceful, timeless and elegant! Congratulations!!
What's wrong with a beautiful bride wanting to wear a classy, elegant and unrevealing wedding dress at her own wedding?? Those who blasted her need to get a life. 🤷♀️
I haven't seen anyone yet talking about the dress! The dress is very beautiful!! The problem with Olivia is the bullshit story she said of why she chose that one. And yet she was practically naked on the other two dresses after this one! I have yet to see a comment on here talking about that
The dress is boring. I mean you can be modest and have a beautiful wedding dress. Sophia richie's dress was modest enough but really pretty.
So what? Not your wedding is it?@@so62539
She literally had a traditional church wedding. Most venues of that nature request modest attire to show respect for the venue. I’m LDS so I had a temple wedding, which also requests very modest attire. Nowhere did she say anyone who chose differently was bad or shamed anyone at all. People are mad because they are not secure in their lifestyles and prefer to make people sink to their level instead of improving themselves
I'm an Orthodox Christian and will be getting married next year in the church. I would NOT dare to stand in front of a priest in a church in anything less than fully covered. It would be super inappropriate to show a lot of skin, as a lot of these wedding dresses do these days lol
Same! LDS as well. Even my modest wedding dress by modern standards was not modest enough for the temple because it had short sleeves. I’m totally happy to have worn a temple dress instead and my wedding dress for the rest of the day!
I am also a latter-day Saint and I wish I could have worn that kind of modest dress like hers on my wedding day. And how she wanted her dress to represent her serious commitment to her marriage was so beautiful. Hope every person has the same strong commitment. The world would truly be a better place. @@snoeleppard
LDS here too. Nice to hear from others who enjoy modesty but don't push it on others. 🥰
My daughter is getting married in January and we are Roman Catholic. We ordered her dress from Utah because every dress in town was backless, strapless, slit up the leg or slit down to the waist. Her dress is modest and gorgeous and exactly what she wanted. I don't understand why brides think sexy is beautiful, but to each their own.
I think that was an absolutely beautiful sentiment and her dress, in all of it's simplicity placed all of the limelight on her inner glow. Beautiful!
She's planning for a marriage, a life with her husband... not just a wedding. And she looks amazing in all her dresses.
These women commenting on the dress are ridiculous. They keep on inserting their narrative that Olivia never talked about or tried to push.
but they'll regurgitate women have the choice to do whatever per feminism LOL
We judge everything directly and indirectly. What bothers these women is that they know they are wrong with their choices, and the greatest sin of all for them is to have a woman who respects her man and their union and gives the proper example.
Did you see her party dress? That had SEX all over.
@@andreavega4309Which is absolutely fine because it was a party. She was talking about the marriage ceremony itself being sacred and non-sexual, her ceremony dress was elegant, modest, gorgeous, and perfect for it.
It’s a mix of them being ashamed of themselves, and then feeling resentful that someone else is modest and doesn’t have that shame.
It wasn't about her dress, it was all about the fact that she was happy...
I appreciate social media for giving insecure, toxic women a place to publicly and permanently showcase their insecurities. It's a great cautionary tale to show my kids.
Social media is the worst in almost every way. That’s why some of us are addicted. It’s like a car wreck, sometimes you just can’t NOT look.
There aren't enough woman like that. Hope she Stands her ground, and does not offer an apology for her beliefs.
What is there the apologies for 😭😭😭 sad that the world has come to this
Apologize? What for?
@@jodyjackson5475 Thats what happens when the machine leans on you and want you to apologize for what ever does not fit their narrative.
@@Gold469 or what ? I’m grateful for your reply but so confused at this. It’s a beautiful gown for Pete’s sake!
There are plenty of women like this… they just aren’t loud and obnoxious or flashy like the other girls are…
Who do people think they are to talk about someone's wedding choices.. it's literally one of the most intimate and personal thing a person can have!
I love how these women say olivia is sending a message about all brides should be while literally saying how brides should be.... Just plain nasty and moronic
Calling someone a pick me while they’re about to be married is insane.
True!
So apparently, feminists would rather that Olivia was just seen and not heard
Methinks the women accusing Olivia of being a "pick me" are just jealous, because no one is picking them.
💯 agree, that’s their jealousy and bitterness, they won’t have a wedding like her or any and they know it 😂🫠
That’s a majority of girls who call other girls pick me lol
The world has gone mad - she looked so beautiful! What a stunning dress it was so appropriate for a church wedding!
Really? Do you _actually_ think it's stunning?
It looks like she's wearing a regular long sleeved shirt, on top of a stunning long wedding skirt. Or something.
It's not problematic or anything, obviously. Her wedding dress can be as hideous as it can be as long as she likes it. And people calling her a pick-me over this are crazy.
But a dress can be modest while still being beautiful. And hers wasn't imo.
Years ago, if you wanted to get married in church, you couldn't wear very low-cut dresses, the priests didn't allow it... the bride dresses in white because it symbolizes purity, the bride is supposed to be a virgin... that's what you called tradition... but now brides still wear white, but those dresses are half transparent.
Remember when it was considered polite to not say anything if you couldn't say something nice? Pepperidge Farm remembers.
Hahah love this
I guess "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" doesn't apply to the internet.
Would the "bridal expert" have the guts to say those things to their faces? I bet not.
this sounds like a group of girls in middle school not liking a super cute girl because she doesn't put out and act like everyone else and actually has respect for herself. They see themselves as so much less than a beautiful girl who's modest, it infuriates them that they can't identify major flaws, so they nitpick and make things up. I remember seeing it so often in middle school and high school
It continues into adulthood. Women are women.
Yep
I love how the endorsement was inserted, very smooth. Love this content as well!
1:29 "I wanted those for _our_ wedding…"
The way "our wedding" came out naturally, without hesitation, speaks volumes about the kind of woman you are, Brett. How many women would have said "my wedding" instead? Nearly all of them.
Well done.
TikTok is so toxic it’s absolutely unbelievable. I rarely go there and my child is ,under no circumstances, permitted there. Hateful individuals.
That black & white photo of her is stunning. That is the sole reason she’s getting dumped on. I wish the newlyweds a long happy marriage.
They might as well call it ' Tik Toxic' !😏
Her change of dress showed exactly what she meant. She wanted a serious modest dress for her ceremony and a personality dress for her party.
They feel attacked because they know they have no morals, but she does. It's threatening them lmao.. ugh women.
Her whole claim to fame was based on vanity and immodesty what is going on lol us conservatives need to stop being so shallow. Wearing a modest dress for 4 hours of your life does not turn you into a beacon of morality.
Have you seen her after-party dress?
And they say men never grow up 🤣. This is like Middle school girl bullying.
Hell, I’d go as far as elementary nitpicking. 😂
Amen!
I swear we are in the Twilight Zone?! Social Media is like im getting Punk'd every day. Smh
My dress was pretty conservative too. Because I very specifically wanted my pictures to look timeless. Where I can look back and not think oh yeah that’s what everyone did in that decade. That’s what timeless means to me. And I’m shockingly happy with it.
I would say it was classic and will never look cringy
While my dress wasn’t super conservative, off the shoulder with some chest exposure(unavoidable with my chest), it was a simple design, Aline skirt and wasn’t constricting in any way. Biggest thing is that I am happy in my pictures.
Well said, I wanted the same thing. I was married thirty years ago and I designed my dress, inspired by a vintage wedding gown from 1960. It was simple, with a bateau neckline and long sleeves, and although it was a sheath dress, it had a full train and screamed conservative. When I look back at the wedding photos, the dress reads current, yet transcends any particular time period and could be worn today by my daughters without alterations or updates. I received many compliments on the design and I love it as much today as I did when I wore it. I just wish I could still fit into it, lol.
A lot of people were never told to mind their own beeswax and it shows
Normally I find the topics on this show funny and ridiculous enough to laugh at but this attack on marriage makes me want to ball my eyes out. What is wrong with the world.
She had the gall not to look like a Vegas call girl or Hollywood actress.
The nerve.
Which is ironic because she has a decade long career of posing half naked.
I went to a summer wedding in Rhode Island. All the men had to give up their jackets because it was so cold. She was smart.
You should have seen her reception outfit then. Far from modest and conservative.
@@BlueDauntlesswe watched the video.
@@BlueDauntless she usually doesn't dress modest in her day to day life. She wanted to be modest for the ceremony in the church. What's so difficult to understand here? It's a good thing to respect the holiness of the church and the Bible also says you should be modest in church.
@@BlueDauntlesswas the reception in a Catholic Church conducting a solemn convenant, the sacrament of marriage?
I love how the people who are complaining about the wedding being a political agenda are the exact same people who would push their own agenda into everything they do
I'm Gen Z (16) and I have never had an account on TikTok. I use insta but even then its still toxic
Same
Insta comments are insane, and while some of it is funny, I spend more time here. Gen Z and never getting Tiktok.
I'm gen Z (23) and I used tiktok for maybe an hour, twice, then uninstalled it.
as a millennial that's not active on anything but YT, take it from me, you aren't missing anything... Social media is without doubt the root cause of mental health issues in your generation, so I'd advice you to get off insta too
I’m gen z (26) never bothered with twitter reddit or ticktok
I just laugh. There are a lot of miserable people in the world. The women attacking Olivia for her choices and values are just demonstrating this reality
True. Just standard behavior from people who have absolutely no joy or happiness in their lives.
They mad they ain't married or gonna be married in the future.. misery loves company
They are mad that no man wants them even when they show it all
😢
You did an amazing job covering the insanity of the attacks against beautiful Olivia! She looked a cross between angelic and a princess. And interesting too, we saw her beauty not be overshadowed by a wedding dress or modern wedding lewdness.
There's no way you get married in your underwear and take marriage and yourself as seriously as a person who dresses modestly. How you do one thing is how you do most things in life. You either have a standard or not. Our character is reflected in everything we do.
She practically wore underwear on her wedding reception
Agreed!!
As a man, it's pretty sad to see women tear each other apart like this over such simple things
Women are jealous and mean to other women.
It's a woman thing even in the workplace. After 10+ in the health sector and never ending female drama, I called it quits became an engineer with the sole purpose of working with men. My male colleagues are professional, work-oriented, teamplayers, chill, helpful, funny, and just amazing amazing men. No more hormone-fueled drama, bitchiness or negative criticism 24-7 just because the most demanding and difficult clients would request for me and be cooperative under my care making the others "look bad and incompetent" smh.
@@Hypocricy_rules_supreme Well said. My guy bosses were a million times better than my female bosses. Women are jealous and mean. That will never change. Look at Caitlin Clark in the wnba. Women are jealous of her.
this is pretty normal.. unfortunately...and women tearing other women down will continue...can't do anything about it🥲
@@R6Siege_Addict Women are jealous of each other. That will never change.
You covered this so well Brett! Unbiased, purely facts and just overall common sense...which isnt so common for most, clearly!
So this is what single unmarried jealous women sound like. 🤔
I bet even their cats hate them.
She’s married actually, the TikTok lady
Bingo
People have forgotten that sometimes it's okay not to have an opinion about something.
Or to let someone else have their own opinion about the things they do for themselves and not feel the need to “how dare you” because they weren’t considering the collective public’s feelings.
Keep in mind these are the same people with a mindset of " Everyone has a right to live their life however they choose, as long as I approve it first".
Exactly. WHO CARES? It's her wedding.