No Contact & Walking Away: The Ultimate Attitude Adjuster
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- Why the no contact rule and walking away and never looking back is the ultimate attitude adjuster.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is a success story of how a guy divorced for five years after a twenty-year marriage used my work after his divorce to take his life and power back. The second email is a success story of how a guy walked away from his girlfriend with a bad attitude and she came back with a new, flexible and submissive attitude a month later.
“When people treat you like they don’t appreciate, value or want you or what you have to offer, you should give them the gift of missing you permanently. They will either contact you down the road with a different attitude or they will be gone from your life forever. Either way, you will get a better version of them in the future when they realize what they lost or you will attract someone way better. You don’t get what you deserve in life. Only what you negotiate.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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When you walk away and never, ever reach out. They WILL come back at some point, either for attention or whatever. Keep a good attitude, keep your emotions in check.
Hey man, sometimes they don't come back.
@@amdstrollo3074 no my bro, you don’t want them back. Silence drives people crazy sometimes. It’s for your own success to go no contact and move on.
Would dropping off her things unexpectedly be considered reaching out?
@@emptysoul2757 if you are trying to move on, you can meet her somewhere to hand her stuff to her, nothing else and then go on your way.
@@emptysoul2757 It depends on how you'd react. Do you think you are in a position where you could meet with her, give her things back and then walk away for good knowing that you may never see each other again, or are you likely to meet and then start trying to convince her how good you are together and all the good times and how you should give it another go. If you can't control your actions, I'd say remain no contact and wait for her to reach out, if needs be, ask for her address and send the belongings in the mail. Whatever you do though friend, do not message her or try to engage conversation. Let her notice your absence and a lot of the time, they will reach out because they are used to guys chasing them. However, don't just sit around and wait for her to come back, spend the time to work on yourself, you've got this bro
I’ve had the same method for years, and I can honestly say it works every time. I put ALL of myself into making the relationship work, doing all the right things that are also outlined in the book. When the girl is no longer giving what she should, I explain it to her. Then, I walk away. No contact, no looking on social media, and a lot of dating. Go to the gym, save your money. Every single girl has come back, but ONLY because the next guy can’t compare. I make sure that I am what most guys won’t be, so that the next guy can’t live up to it. They all come back.
Just so you know, when they come back, they’ll be better than they were when they left. However, they ALL slowly morph into their old selves. Nowadays, I won’t take them back seriously. FWB or nothing at all.
Great input. Much appreciated!
Thanks for sharing your story brother.
If you’re at a point where you have to walk away and never look back then they are and never will be for you
If the fool would persist in his folley, he would become wise- William Blake
Maybe or not but u can practice on them and go back for fun, I think that’s the point
Pimp not Simp. NOT marriage material then so it doesn't matter.
@@georgewashingtoniv8745 tactics. We all raised by women. Takes a minute.
@@KenFlo1000 Nope. I’d say 100 percent of the time you’re better off worrying about yourself. Better yourself and move on.
Walking away kept me away from the toxic one, and gave me room to find the right one. Couldn't be happier! Thanks, Coach! 💪
Yesssssss! 🎉
A man who’s focused and determined on his purpose will always naturally apply this, don’t stay distracted and send her back to the streets
"You don't get what you deserve in life, only what you negotiate." Absolutely.
Broke up with my ex last year. We both put our "offers" on the table and there was no negotiation, so I told her "I'm choosing to walk away so we can both be happy. If you change your mind, you know how to find me." I never looked back, she's never contacted me. I'm happier.
Good for you dude!
Walked Away from and Dumped my Narcissist Ex Girlfriend of 15.5 years. Very tired of being taken for granted and used. She said your going to miss me. How can I miss someone I never had you selfish Bitch. Go back to your EX husband or some Coworker friend. Good Luck to them they will need it. I'll keep my PENSION and my Bank Accounts.
She'll most likely be back at some point...stay strong bro!!
I´m in a similar situation. Except that wrongly I tolerated some bullsht, pretending to be in a "friendzone". After finding Corey´s material, it took me a set of balls but I stood up for myself, said my real intention, and walked away. Best decision so far despite the outcome.
@@ARGunsmoke And if not he can be with a better relashiponship with other woman
Like Matt Cross says, men have 2 super powers: The power to withdraw your attention and the power to walk away.
very true the sad reality is that most men won't use them
Gotta make them miss you. By that time, you don't want them anymore. Walk away, don't look back. Women want they think they can't have. Always.
Same applies for men.
@@naimam3976not unless the man got fed up.
I recently walked away. Posture is hard to develop. But once you know the reasons why, it's easy. Still, the emotional side, the pain-body, makes it difficult to let go.
100% agree, men must be emotionally strong. All the best man 👍🏼
Holding on is the primary weakness they feed on. We must be real men and our responsibility as real men is to walk away from toxic disrespectful unappreciative abusive women using us for only convenience while punishing us on every level. It’s insane to hold onto that type of woman.
They love themselves and what they can get from you so focus on your self too and try to ignore thé more possible you can lived thé same shit its hard but it must be done stay strong Best wishes from morocco
No contact from me, means don’t come back ever. No bullshit or drama or disrespect. I have given second chances in the past and always regretted it.
Walking away makes a fresh value assessment. It even works early on in online dating chats to establish value. I’ve let a few ladies know I probably don’t see a future and all of a sudden their tone changes.
“You don’t get what you deserve in life, only what you negotiate” so true, gold mine of advice
Seriously, I was feeling a bit down, but after watching your video I always immediately feel better. You're the man, Coach!
It's hard to do IF you are emotionally invested but it's the best thing you can do. Every ex has tried to get me back. Some it took weeks, some months and one 18 years lol but they all did because I went NC. Didn't do it as a tactic or for them, did it because I had to for me.
Great job.
Walk away and don't wait for them. Even if they change it will only be temporary be a man and look for someone who respects you.
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The power of walking away & the power of giving attention
Coach Cory is the man , I’ve used him teachings and they work like clockwork. In difference and giving the gift of silence works 100% of the time if given enough time
Corey Wayne. The man, the myth, the legend.
He has a Butler called Alfred
Stopped talking to my parents at 19, now I'm 45. They haven't even reached out to meet their grandchild, and he's now 7. Some people shouldn't have children.
@@bernieoconnell5515 thanks for taking the time to respond. Yes, there was abuse, also, I was a latchkey kid to the max. It was basically abandonment and abuse.
@@bernieoconnell5515 Your comment is ridiculous and useless because it fails to argue any clear definition of what subset of "transgressions" additionally count as "abuse".
@@bernieoconnell5515 nah fuck that,
Ask yourself this... what if you got yourself injured in a natural causes and your parents know you had a week to live, would they ever reach u out? If the answer is no then Fuck them
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Yeah, sadly a man can’t get one in Australia unless she may have stabbed you with a knife you may have a chance
Walking away when she’s been only using you anyway won’t matter to her. She’s waiting for another man anyway and so walking away in my case will be for me to regain my life and do much better than her! I tolerated and endured misery at the hands of a self centered self absorbed insufferable drug addict who never accepts responsibility for anything while blaming me and everyone else! Walking away is necessary for mental and emotional preservation. I loved her for the wrong reasons. She never loved or cared about me anyway so nothing I do including no contact and walking away from her will matter to her on an emotional level. She saw me only as an Atm machine and transportation. She refused sex and I know the reason is because she will have the other guy shortly. Walking away is paramount to my own self preservation and rebuilding period!
Most women hook up with random men in the "I need space" slogan. It's all crap. Don't chase them replace them. Keep the good ones let the bad ones go
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the best way to describe corey is basically “ hes what you don’t want to hear but what you have to hear “ is the only way i can put it you’re awesome man
Message this spiritual man,he has all solution you want to any problem, and his work is done in two to three days , no matter what the problem is ,l assure you friend , trust me ,he will definitely he you out
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Best damn dating coach to ever walk the face of the planet.
My ex just tried to put me in the “friend zone triangle” with her new boyfriend. I gave her two options, we get back together or you go with him. No response from her end since I sent that text, which was two weeks ago. Speaks volumes about her character by ghosting me.
I wouldn't even have said anything. Wouldn't be convincing anybody
@@untilipeak No doubt. She’s a scumbag either way though for trying to pull that shit on me. I haven’t blocked and deleted her number yet, but am pretty close. Just want to see if she’ll come crawling back. That’s when I’ll shut her out for good.
Women take no accountability in the sense that they say „sorry, I’ve decided so and so“ …they rather just ghost you and avoid any non-aggressive confrontation. Happened to me with my ex, it hurt and I tried to confront her to get closure but she wouldn’t even call or text me back. Men must keep their emotions in check and be able to just walk away and don’t waste useless energy. It is what it is. Stay strong 👍🏼
@@FreeAgent99 Thanks for the feedback dude. I agree 100%. It’s as if they can do whatever they want, especially toying with us, at little to no cost. The rate at which they move on is absolutely bonkers. Makes no sense.
@@FreeAgent99 exactly what happened to me, ghosted no closure, then she said we can be friends I said no friends no platonic romantic only, I left the door open, usually when they ghost you there's an X in the picture always always oh, I told her if you change your mind give me a call, and never contacted her in any way shape or form again if they don't want you in their life, I don't want them in my life, the easy way out ghosting the coward way😳
I walked away, no warning no explanation. She blew up my phone but I knew she wasn't gonna leave her boyfriend to be with me, so I told her I was busy. Now I'm on my 3rd read of 3% man. Much appreciated coach.
You should have told her that you dont want a platonic relationship and that if she wants anything romantic she has to get rid of her boyfriend
Bro how to get a copy of that book. Hard copy. I'm from the Philippines
@Rick Vis and you don't want to lick her pussy after someone licked it
A lot of you simps in this comment sections are going on about women with men. Why do you want a woman with a man?
@Rick Vis exactly! 💯💯
Great advice, worked for me. I felt better walking away and mastering myself. Thanks coach.
Thanks for this one Corey you're a great coach and this is what I needed to hear God bless you
Went no contact about 12 months ago and haven’t heard from her since. And you know what good ridden so don’t do this as a form of manipulation because sometimes it doesn’t work
i think the pont is to give yourself time to realize that she isnt hard to replace. At all. Not to get her back
@@Ascension_3030 understood but the no contact rule was created to get her to come back and cooperate I’m saying to move on don’t play those manipulation games
Been through the same thing. She never really cared in the first place man that’s why they don’t return.
But why did you go no contact? Maybe she thought you weren't interested anymore.
@@TopVillain I disagree, No Contact was invented for you to flush your brain out and reset.
This works with all the women I walked away.
I learnt this from the coach of Bob.
when i walk away from anyone, it's for good. I don't use it as leverage to change their behavior.
My wife cheated on me and got pregnant by the other guy. I started no contact and walked away as fast as I could. I’m just hoping that in the future she won’t wiggle her way back into my life ever again
I've had cheaters room back only to cheat on me again. Don't be that guy! (Too bad people like myself and many other forget that there are 8 billion people in this world... Whether it's romantic or business, what someone shows that disrespectful face and anyway or form-- it's time to move on)
Had done it twice thanks to you! Even If they don't come back? They respect you hard. Hardest fucking thing to do. But one of the best self fortifiers.
Corey I just love watching you. You're the best💕
Men, know your worth. This was an excellent video.
Awesome success stories, thanks Coach. 👍👍
Well I applied the contact for 30 days, literally the very next day she texted me first with a photo memory of us when we were a happy couple... we talked, and set up a date... unfortunately, I realized she still had not changed as she was still immature, the whole "date" she was on her cell phone distracted, I fiished my meal and said goodbye, take care.
In my opinion, it's incredibly rude when people are distracted on their phone whilst spending time with you - whether it's a partner, friend or family member. This is one video I would love to see Corey make and get his opinion on.
It happened to me the same
One of the worst date I have ever had....(i ask myself now if it was really a date..)
You didn't follow what coach said...just invite her over with a bottle of wine or to make dinner. The ball was in your court...it went back in her court setting that date up.
Coach Corey Wayne
I'm going through this same thing currently thank you for your advice Coach
Love this know your worth guys.
Perfect timing!! Thank you and the universe..
The Universe rules all.....
Indeed🙂
Awesomely powerful
I need to hear this coach!
The horses always return to the barn! Love it #BoOm
It’s like this start working on yourself and your purpose along with slow intervals of distancing yourself before you walk away so by the time he/she starts to notice you’re gone! It’s Kinda like having a kitchen table in your home no one notices I until it has been removed! Don’t be the kitchen table for anyone!
Thank you for everything
I’ve read the book 8 times now, 7 more to go and many many videos to rewatch. Thanks for the continued content, anyone who hasn’t read the book and is having issues with women needs to READ THE FKING BOOK.
You have helped me a lot man; God bless you cheers
dump the dumper period, and never take them back . no coach needed for that.
you allow and choose who you want to be in your life. You should not have to negotiate good or bad attitude from others.
Thanks!
I love this guy
Love the coach.! 👍🏽🙌🙏😎❤️💪
Success stories inspire me to take action!
Been on my own for over 10 years few relationships short on & off so in my 40s sorting myself out, but happy being on my own, own home, bills paid, lonely but happy 😊
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Dude, I love you so much. You speak so much truth and this is coming from a woman
I liked this video very much
I went NO CONTACT on one of my favorite broads... Looked up it was 5 months later 😂😂😂😂😂
We organically got back in contact and long story short, she still on the team. And she's a long distance chick
Got the CW shirts! Love it
Corey is wise! My boyfriend is the SWEETEST because your work!! Thanks for changing lives!
I’m so happy for you!!!!
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 good thing I’m not a woman 😂
Loving the beard mate .
This is gold!!!!!!
Dude.. getting pretty fuzzy of late.. luv the beard!
I am on the second read 13 more to go after this
Dont do whati did i over pursued and only fustrated myself and confused myself resulting in a big argument. Got into my feelings and told her not to contact me unless she wants to work things out. She said not to contact her. Should have done this in the beginning. Learn from my mistake. GO NO CONTACT RIGHT AWAY!!!
Corey you should be the next Bill Wilson. Your book is literally the alpha male Bible. Like the aa big book is the Bible for AA and pretty much addiction in general
Perfect timing
Every video he puts out is perfect timing. Every time always matches what I'm going through.
@@blur4 same
perfect timing indeed
Years ago, I read a book that said, among other things, "If you ever find yourself forced to end a relationship, you can be sure that it is beyond repair." I've had to walk away from two long-term relationships in my life. I find that maintaining a strict no-contact policy works wonders. By doing that, your ex-partner is forced to realize that they screwed the pooch, no do-overs are allowed and the relationship is absolutely, irrevocably over.
It's very tough.....🤦🏾♂️
give the gift of missing you
You know, what i experience, i loved a girl so much, and she dumped me like nothing, i begged, pleaded, i could not believe, after i went in no contact, been like two months and half, i was still down, i went depression, i was still thinking all day about this girl, after, i meet other girl, that make me forget day by day about my ex, didnt last much this as well, like two weeks, i could not say i put to many feelings but she really helped me to go through, so the key is, have patience, try meeting somebody else, and you will see its not the end, you will find somebody better for you, just have patience, and never put somebody else before you and you will be just fine. Good luck guys
I’m gonna pick up a copy of “ East of Eden !”
Walk away devorce her ,don't give a shit about her stay strong!
I am simply walking away from a toxic online relationship tomorrow. No farewell message. No explaining reasons. Nothing. I will not respond to texts. I will not answer the phone. I will simply disappear. She will know I have walked after messaging me for a week and getting ZERO response. I am strong enough.
Im tired of having to treat my woman like a giant toddler 😒
Preach.
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 Couldnt have said it better
Good info., great advice
this is my favourite, always works 😂
Had to walk away because she would cheat on me with her ex. At least emotionally. WILL NOT STAND FOR IT.
The ignore her/him to punish her/him type of behaviour doesn't work on every person. It only works if the person ever gave a fuck about it (talking about the early dating phase).
Ignoring to punish is passive aggressive and manipulative. Coach preaches boundaries and respect.
Sometimes they come back, sometimes they comeback....again
Walk away no effort shes seeing other guys not gf or wife material
Agreed. Plate material at best
@@emptysoul2757 LOL
Please write a book for women and how to deal with men.
Hi coach
Great video coach am already purchased your book and listen to it over 15 times, I wish if i can walk away but I can't because we work together and we have to talk every day, so instead i became indifferent, any ideas ?
Watch the movie Forrest Gump and count the number of behaviors you have in common with him. Forrest Gump is the operations manual for simping.
I’ve made mistakes with my ex. Initially she reached out three months later, acted wishy-washy so did the takeaway. A month later she’s back in touch, but I ignored her… for seven weeks, at which point she then ignored me. Five and a half months later I contacted her, she was now on the other side of the world. We chatted on the phone for two hours. I was playful and teased her and she responded favourably. She said ‘logically we can’t be together’ which was a funny thing to say when we consider women are all about emotions. Did the takeaway at the end of the call. Following day I sent a short video message reiterating I’d like to see her at some point. This was at New Year.
My intuition says we will cross paths again.
She’s a good prospect, and I’ve not been able to meet someone since who has her softness, demeanour, coquettishness and overall femininity and feminine energy.
a friend of mine.....remain friends with his ex....she is sleeping around etc but he stays around...still in love
Broke up 5 months ago, been no contact for 3 months, it's hard. I really like her and in my mind I really want her back and want to find an excuse to text her, it's a daily battle, there's hasn't been a single day after the breakup that she hasn't crossed my mind.
Just Saying Go for a long Walk Go workout. Ask your self this is she calling you back. Think about that. As soon as you call her she knows she has you all wrapped like her next CHRISTMAS Gift. Just Saying.
Was she mean? Did she cheat? Maybe she is feeling the same :( . Life is about forgiving, don’t expect to never make mistakes and that people will also never make mistakes, if it was because of distance, no time, things that are no related to character, talk with her. I believe that are great people out there as só you might be one. Relationship is about communication and helping each other to be better.
Ask yourself this question. What is she bringing to the table? If the answer is little or nothing, then it's motivation to go no contact forever.
It’s hard to develop a strong mindset but just know that she DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. Just accept it, you’ll feel different and it’ll be easier if you are with another woman.
If you really feel bad see a doctor a therapist, your mom your friend the dog but what ever you do do not contact her you will regret it.
I was toxic 15yrs ago. How do i get in touch with my ex-wife for the purpose of talking to my now 15yo son. I was a beta ex-husband and judge said "10mins phone call every sunday" and Nov112011 she ghosted me. Now in 2023, what can i do to talk to my boy? Id also like my new wife and exwife to be friends. I want everyone to be happy and get along. Is this possible coach? Anyone?
Walked away 2 years she texted once but nothing.
(unless they have Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
is it working also to the one who rejected you?
How do you do the no contact rule if you have a child with the girl?
I'm gonna get a mug
After 20 years of marriage your wife shouldn’t withhold sex for any reason and after many years of disrespect from all of our children I’ve had it. I’ve been sticking in thinking it was the right thing to do. Scarred to be alone but I guess we shall see. I’m 45 and know many ladies out there would love me and my sexy drive. Thanks coach as your teachings are helping me
Goodluck
Good for you my bro. I just dumped my girl too. We don’t live life to suffer, we live life to be happy in whatever way we can.
@@bernieoconnell5515 I think he meant it more like his wife is withholding sex from him as a weapon. By the sounds of it, she’s got more problems than that. What kind of wife disrespects her kids? It sounds like she has some mental and emotional problems she’s dealing with as well. Would you want to be married to that? I hope not.
@@bernieoconnell5515 That's a cruel thing to say. You must be a beta male.
@@thewaxandgreaseremover6182 Bingo! I agree a lot of women will withhold sex from men, and use it as a weapon, and milk all they can.
Can I download your books on audible?
So I not to long ago I got out of a 4year relationship and now I'm I've been dating a woman for a year now and just recently me and my ex she didn't want talk and trying to return her stuff which is still at my house anyway little over a month gaver her taste with out me and she saw that I was already moving and holy crap did stuff hit the fan talk about angry and jealous
He who desires but acts not breeds pestilence- William Blake
hey coach, 3 months after I walked away she gave me a missed call late at night, I texted her next day if she was okay she didn't respond, I shouldn't text her right?
Cashing in ..gretchen..
Walking away is the best as most just do what women want and trip over them self lol 😂. Even if it is painful it’s better to just find more women to keep your mind off the one that you really want and live your life. If she comes back then she does but if not then it’s her loss and you’ll find her replacement shortly.