I was in a very toxic relationship. I ve done the work of healing. I have learned to establish boundaries and to pay more attention to the red flags. My ex want to reconcile. I told him thank you for being the person u were so I can be the woman I am today. I wished him the best and told him I'm not for him. He say he wants to make things right, I told him if he wants to make it right then treat the next woman better.
It's hard being rejected, but God is good and it's a blessing in disguise. He wasn't God's best all the while. Wait on the Lord. He has someone better suited for you.
1. The woman who has the power to walk away gives her soul, the space to heal. 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value. 3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways. 4. She learns her own strength. 5. She re-calibrates her soul and moves back to the Creator's default. 6. She gives God space to bless her.
The power of being able to walk away from ANYTHING and ANYONE that is causing us harm in anyway is PRICELESS!!! Country, job, Man, “Friends” kinfolk etc!!!
Just left my husband of 7 years tonight. Packed up my belongings and left my beautiful home. I took me and my daughters to another state back with my family. I haven't shed one tear. I've been done with him for a long time. The Lord has given me peace and has helped numb my heart. We were unequally yoked and he was emotionally, verbally, and spiritually abusive. God will make a way.
My Husband Was Living A Double Life...I asked God To Reveal To Me Whether or not my husband was cheating..I planted a Tape 📼 Recorder in my home thinking that I was going to listen to the meeting place of his Mistress and confront him... That's Not What I Found Out... The Tape Recording Reflected Him Having Sex In The Marital Home Many Days... And She Was In The Home The Same Time ...He Hid Her In Our House for Many Days... The Tape Reflected.. This She's A 24 Year Old Puerto Rican... And Then There's My Classmate 60..And A Project Chick 29...BTW He's 73
I am on my own and happier for it. I walked away from a toxic relationship/situationship or whatever it was. I am not afraid to be on my won because that is a million times better than being in a toxic relationship which eats you up from the inside out. I told him before I dumped him - I am not that weak. He didn't know what to do. He was a messed up person.
@@AJ-kb9hf Amen! I'After I did deep shadow and innerwork and took accountability for my part a played in my former relationships I felt so Free and not scared to be alone! I want to be healthy as an individual first once I found out that part of me, I attracted a man of God and purpose
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Doing the inner work is critical for our development, peace and happiness. Taking accountability is a sign of strength and liberating. Proud of you and happy for you. Being a better person in yourself and attracting an emotionally healthy person is the basis of a stable relationship which can add so much value to your life.
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 taking accountability, holding up a mirror to our flaws, weaknesses is not an easy thing to do but is necessary to get to a better place. The "relationship" I had was so toxic and painful - now that I'm on the other side, I feel much better, so much wiser - as if I've lived a thousand lives, learnt so much and just grown up which I needed to do.
I was raised not to allow someone to treat me bad. I am to love myself more. And I do. I am in my 50's, and it gets easier. I left my ex husband and a house. A lot of people talked about me but I said "I can get me another house. My peace of mind is more important." The Lord allowed me to have another house built. Our strength comes from the Lord. Put Him first and obey.
I walked away many times but would go back when I was weak. Two months ago I left for good. In the beginning I cried in my car every day praying, “God I still love him.. I still love him.” It hurt so much. Now I am starting to heal and I’m signing up for classes and excited to learn some new skills so I’m more useful to my community and loved ones. It still hurts when I remember him a few times a day… but it’s getting easier.
Ladies always put a check on your emotion. Do not allow your heart to get involved with a man until he shows you that his heart is 100 percent towards you. You will know by the way he treats , respect and value you.
Yes, that is so true, we all want to win a battle, but sometime it's not realist at that moment, so just walk away and never look back and be compassion with yourself. Forget the bastard's actions but always remember his real character, the bad bone are always in disguise in a beginning of a relationship. NEVER chase any men, let them do the work cause you're worth it, you're the prize at the end.
Absolutely! I walked away from my husband. I was doing everything for him, was an awesome wife, and he took me for granted. So I walked away, and was serious. After some years this man came back, changed. We have had the most beautiful relationship since. He treats me like a princess. ❤
Walking away is EMPOWERING, Self loving, and faithfulness to God. Believing God has better for you and will bless you beyond your expectations. Thanking you in advance for teaching us a real way to love.
This could not have come at a better time. I have been struggling with this and made the decision to walk away on Valentine's day! It hurts but I know God has better for me and I trust HIM. I will be tuned in.
@@samanthiahamilton6599 Oh wow. This is one reason I stopped celebrating holidays years ago. It eliminates the power some people think they have over you. Hugs to you. 🌺
I walked away four months ago with my daughter, first two months was soo hard but now I'm healing and feeling very better. I've given my life to Jesus I'm just at peace.
Stay focused. Talk to the Lord throughout the day. He is always with you. Creflo Dollar does a great teaching about being in His presence and the power of Holy Spirit. God bless you and your family.
I can’t wait to get to the point. I was told around the holidays I was prioritizing my child who would have been home alone for the holidays had I went to go be with my ex. I picked us this time and after I did I’ve seen so much.
1. The woman who has the power to walk away gives her soul, the space to heal. 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value. 3. She is able to ponder the error of her ways. 4. She learns her own strength. 5. She re-calibrates her soul and moves back to the manufacturer’s (God/The Creator) default. 6. She gives God the space to bless her in all areas of her life. Thank you so much for this message.
Walked away and instantly found peace in my life. Worked through my healing with the Lord. It really has opened my eyes on my mistakes and lessons learned. I will question everything! Ladies, stand in your power. From a woman who has been told all her life to minimize herself and never achieve more than my four brothers and never achieve more than a man. Poor advice from parents really damaged me. 58 years old and bold.
Some parents are the worst. I speak from what I've seen my parents do. My parents didn't just give bad advice, they joined with insults and berating comments.
It was years ago that I walked away and into the arms of my now husband who I met a few months later. If you are obedient to God and have self love, He will open that door, but you got to be ready. Now I’m laughing all the way to the bank with a man who’s heart is the size of it too😍
1. She gives her soul space for healing. 2. She allows the man clarity regarding her value. 3. She is able to ponder the errors of her ways. a. She realizes the error of pursuing relationships before establishing her self-worth. b. She learns the error of living without boundaries. c. She realizes the error of trusting before verifying. 4. She learns her own strength. a. She learns she has always been more than she was made to believe she could be. She could always do more than she was made to believe she could do. b. She learns she can make decisions for herself. c. She learns she can provide for herself. d. She learns she can find happiness by herself. 5. She recalibrates her soul. a. She moves back to the Creator's default/returns to God's original order. b. She restores her self-respect. c. She sanctifies her sex life. d. She reclaims her independence. 6. She gives God space to bless her.
How can I like this over and over again...?? Am glady I had to watch this.... this is me right now... walking away bs I doesn't deserve me..... thank you sir
This is so true! The hardest thing I had to do was walk away from a toxic relationship four years ago. In that moment, I could see that if I stayed it was going to get worse. Then the gaslighting came. He told me to stop being silly and to come back upstairs. I stuck to my guns and waiting on my Lyft ride to the airport and never looked back. In the moment, it hurts, but I got my dignity back and I got myself back. It gets better ladies through healing. 💕✨
After 6 years single recovering from narc abuse a man started to pursue me, 3 weeks it took me to realise he was another narc, I told him I knew what he was and blocked him. No man will ever take away the peace I was able to attain for such a long time. I’d never give this man another chance because he showed me his true colours and I know it’s not my role to change him; he’ll have to deal with his demons himself.
I walked away after 22yrs and it's still hurtful. I took my kids and bought a house without him. He was devastated and went into a mild depression. Hated me for leaving and taking his kids and throwing away the life we built. I still ponder going back, because I truly understand how we need to preserve black families. At times, I feel guilty at times...during holidays, out grocery shopping alone, events big and small we spent together. However I have a newfound peace..no arguing, anxiety, insecurities. I pray God continues to give my kids and me strength as I try to navigate through the new chapter of our life🙏🏽
I’m here as well my husband cheated on me with the unthinkable. I’m a great woman been together for 16 years he’s begging as well but I’m done. I can’t
I'm going through this right now. I've been in a relationship with the father of my kids for 10 years now, no marriage and this is the biggest red flag for me. My love for him is what's kept me here fighting to make it work, but spiritually we are not on the same page. I've tried praying with him, reading Gods word with him but its not what he wants and thats what's leading me to walk away, but its hard. I'm thinking about a family being broken, being a single mum not to mention I'm also expecting. But he isn't a partner. He works and thats about it, I have no support emotionally,mentally, spiritually and God is telling me to look at his actions. I pray that God will give me the strength to walk away and lean on him entirely Because deep down my spirit is telling me this is not Gods plan for me or our children. Some advice would be much my appreciated.
I am currently married to a very abusive toxic narcissistic man. I feel much like a slave among a whole lot of other things but I am ready to walk away. He doesn't love me, he uses me. I know deep in my heart that he is not for me. I AM walking away, stepping into my royalty, and adjusting my crown. The things he has put me through is not love. I am ready for peace and to begin my healing process.
Sorry you are experiencing this, but this too shall pass. I will keep you in my prayers for God to give you the strength to open that door. You got this!😘
I am a testimony to everything you said here. Ever since walking away two years ago, I have grown tremendously: 1. My sense of purpose + instinct have been sharpened 2. I have advanced both in my career and moved towards investing in my future ( I even started my own business) 3. My self-respect has grown tremendously! I mean... soooo many blessings!!! I feel like I am finally in God's will- even though it took a long time to get here
Thank you for having us Pastor Blakes and sharing your wisdom. You and Lisa are such an inspiration and success in opening women’s eyes all over the world, giving us the breakdown on how true love is created. This level of wisdom heals souls and brings peace and comfort to the mind.🙏🏾
Walking away from a man who will never be capable of loving a woman the way she desires, the way she deserves, and the way she needs to be loved as he's ever unwilling couldn't be bothered to try to learn -even at the cost of the unbearable pain in her heart, mind, body, and soul as it is very hard to move on that easily because of how much she is truly, madly, deeply in love with him, definitely hits her the hardest, especially that the feelings aren't mutual. But regardless. Her final detachment from her feelings about him is the best decision she could ever do in her own favor and her right to do so as she has no other choice but to kill all the feelings and emotions she has for him who isn't even worthy, to begin with. It hurts to the core. Huhuhu...
I walked away after 17 years. It was the hardest thing - it’s still hard but I’m 235 pounds lighter. My daily prayer is I don’t want to be bitter I want to be better - I forgive him and I forgive myself - help me make better choices and be open to love. Although it hurts - it was good for me that I was afflicted - I trust God. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Beautifully said! I too walked away after 17 years with a man who hurt me deeply. I have forgiven him and I’m working on forgiving myself. God has blessed me double since I left. 🙏
I walked away 2 weeks ago from my husband with a 9 year old, 2 year old and currently 5 months pregnant . He abused my son and is now in jail facing some serious charges . This is definitely my time to HEAL I’ve been in this toxic environment for years. I choose me and my children ! I will not be seeing him for a very long time! Im learning who I am , I’ve been lost for so long and didn’t know my worth. These 2 weeks god has been testing my faith I’ve lost my job and my car but one thing I haven’t lost is hope that something amazing is coming. Been praying and crying so hard for a breakthrough. I’ve exhausted all my resources because I kept in this cycle for too long . I lost family and friends. Please keep me and my children in prayers . I’ve been struggling trying to be strong for all of us. Today I had a bit of energy so I cooked.
Such a brave lady and mom. You are my roll model now. I totally understand you with each one of my body cells. I left my husband after 30 years. He was a narcissist and abused me for more than two decades. I finally left him 10 months ago. I have been challenging every single of day to get back to me. I was drained mentally, emotionally, and financially. I couldn’t eat or sleep for the first 3 months, lost 25 lbs. heartbroken of the way he treated me for years. I’m so proud of you to rescue you and your lovely children. You 4 are in my prayers.
Once you learn to walk away FOR YOU and your self respect and your own self love , it gets way easier to do it . Pick YOU sis every time , pick YOU! ❤ their error is not yours to fix! The right one won’t make error with you they wouldn’t dare risk losing you! 🎉
It took me 20 years of abuse to walk away because I didn’t think I could provide for myself. I thought if I walked away I would go back to poverty. But God! I put myself through school earning 3 degrees! While I walked away, sometimes like the Bishop said if we are not careful we will find ourselves connected with the same in another pair of shoes. Thankful for your teachings! 🙏🏽
I learned a long time ago when things are not healthy. "Leave it, grieve it, grow from it and start over." Thank you Pastor, thank God from your ministry. So, needed in our community...You are providing the tools for us to do the work. Praise God...
I just walked away 3 months Aho and never Looked back, never talked to him after that day. I showed him my worth there and then NO contact now 3 months and doing really well mentally, financially, physically and spiritually ❤ Thanks God 🙏🏾
I think these toxic individuals are on an assignment from the enemy and we need God’s gift of discernment to prevail and avoid these toxic individuals.
6 months and a babygirl later,I had the courage to walk away. I am so happy 😊 I finally learned how to be a single mother. I am glowing with creativity and positive energy. My bank account is on point. I am being the best parent I can be I have cut all the negativity out of my life.
I love this! Recently left and with a new baby, I pray every day to be the best mother I can be 🥰. I’m so happy to hear that you’re persisting and prospering!
Let it go ,…….let it go…….I’ve done it I always have to deal with Separation Anxiety,…….but I find the Strength,…..many times over,,,…Soooo now I’m older,…Wiser,…..pay all my bills,……and Soul Ties Are Gone after,…3-yrs,….all they try,….but now when the person see you ,….Trust me ,…..They no longer see the same person,…….💕nothing they say bothers you,……💕Trust me Ladies,……..and I silently am Over The Moon,.. 🎶💕 to bad ,……I. Come and go as I please,….by myself now after 7yrs ,,….I prioritize my life,….do the same for your self,……Good Luck,….
Pray for me I’m walking away from a really bad toxic relationship of 8 years of no love no respect no trust also tired sleeping with the enemy it’s real bad pray for me and my daughter 😢 I need this for my soul
It can be so hard but don't let him suck you back in. Be aware that he will try to get back in your life. My advice is to keep a journal of the messed up things he said and did, with exact quotes of his when he was verbally abusive. When you miss him, or are having a moment of weakness for him, read through that journal so you'll remember exactly why you left and why you need to keep away from him. Once you get away from an abusive man, maintain zero contact!
It has taken 5 years to get over this man. Do you hear me? Do not make a mistake with the men who devalue you exactly at the time when you say I love you. At first, it was so painful. Scripture says go forward. I have been born again, Hallelujah, Praise the Lord! Thank you, Pastor Blakes.
Number 6 will always be my reminder of my happiness, strength and myself wealth. “The power of a woman who can walk away gives God space to bless her “ Pray for me I’m finally signing my divorce papers today 🙏🏼
Walking away shows your confidence in God and knowing who you really are. God wants his best for you. In order to receive this, you have to find the courage to get up and move forward knowing God is with you every step of the way.
Finally walked away today, the spirit of fear is trying to sow a seed in me but I finally understand that God wants more for me than I want for myself. Happy to see so many other strong women in the comments that had the courage to step out on faith and move on His command. Sending prayers to everyone, please pray for me.
I just want to say thank you...I learned so much listening to you. I recently left my marriage, broken hearted and still asking God to help me heal. My husband was a great provider but also an emotional abuser. My soul couldn't take it anymore. I was becoming a whole different person depending on depression pills, sleepless nights wondering why he didn't love me. He called me weak for leaving but God called me strong. God is still working on me and im open for his direction in my life.
Thank you for sharing Isabel. That takes courage and strength to do. Everything that has been hurt and broken will be restored by God in Jesus name. I’m sorry that you went through that and just wanted to let you know God loves you and he’s making a way for you!❤️Jeremiah 29:11 & Isaiah 40:31
It will be a year he left on my birthday and I haven’t seen him since then. The Divorce was final May13,2022. Out of nowhere he called me the first week of January 2023. Checked on me ask about the grandchildren just to tell me he was in welding school at the age of 57, probably still living at home with his mom! 23 years I knew from the first week and I had false hope! Yeah he married me but what I saw of him 23 years after We divorce he was still the same! I wish him well pray that he mature for the next woman in his life.
Excellent Subject- I made that decision this weekend, and I know it was the right decision. My CROWN on my head straight, walking 🚶♀️ in confidence, knowing I'm The Prize and Buddy wasn't worthy of me.
Thank you Pastor blakes. I had the power to walk away from a very long marriage, and while I am still healing, I have more peace than I’ve ever known. Thank you for this word, and please pray for me and my children.
It is well sis. I left an emotionally abusive marriage recently as well after 4 children& 15 years. It's scary for me because am gonna be a single parent once more with our 4 small children. But I rather step into my fear with faith in YAH then to spend another day in fear of not making it on my own with a man that does not value all that I offered him & my family. We'll make it through my sister. Put your faith, trust & dependency in GOD ONLY 🥰❤️.
Merianne prayers are sent for you and your children. I'm about to leave a 18yr marriage next week Wednesday and I'm so full of so many emotions but when I doubt myself I go back to my journals which I have recorded all good and bad and the bad outweigh the good. I'm out can't do it anymore so please pray for me and my son thank you.
Power , Strength, courage , however you call it its truly liberating , left my marriage of over 20 yrs , 5 children ... All I can say is God has been faithful 3yrs 6months on and counting 🙏
I WAS this woman! Thank you Jesus I am closing in on 11 months of being on the other side. You, Pastor Blakes, were so instrumental in making it happen. Your guidance, counsrling, prayers, videos...as well as all the women here in the comments who also provided encouragement. All I can say is this: Jesus my Savior rescued me, Hallelujah I' m free. I did borrow this lyric from a great song by Phil Wickham.
Walking away takes boldness and believe me you won't regret the day you walked out of a toxic relationship.Ladies let's live to love ourselves more than we love others.
Thank you Bishop for this message. Fear keeps a lot of us trapped. It takes courage and total trust in God to walk away from the familiar. I walked away only by the grace of God. Almost three years later, I have no regrets. I did all I could, and it still did not work. I chose me.
Walking away is the hardest thing for a woman of God to do. We hold on to hope and believe that God is going to "fix it". I'm listening to the replay and can't wait to hear your message.
I know God will fix my marriage His heart is hurt I know he's hurting for trying to replace me for cheating on me with a "random" I've never cheated on him I could never, no matter what anyone does to me or trys to say about me will never change me to do something that is so beneath my character, I think he wishes I was as nasty as my haters wanted him to think truth is they wanted me for themselves or they are jealous of what we have. God is blessing our family our children know this is making their father and I stronger so no one or anything will ever come between us again.
This is exactly it. What if im just a bit more tolerant, a bit more patient, a bit more understanding, a bit more submissive, a bit more hopeful, a bit more quiet.. dont want to be the one to have given up...
A woman of God find it easier to walk away because she put God first and God is all she need and have trust in him to guide her step for the better good and find her peace in him
This couldn't have popped up on my feed at a better time for l had to recently do just that Walk away and never to return from a Toxic draining situationship....It gets greater later and l will be just fine. Looking forward to tuning in
Amen! When you walk away from a man (no good man) for God he does reward and bless you. I can feel it down in my spirit. Praise God. No man is sweet like Jesus.
I walked away after 13 years. Divorce is not yet final but I feel relieved. My children are still too young to understand what’s going on but I pray for guidance everyday. He is not making it easy either, playing psychological games, guilt tripping and threats. But I am standing strong. God will see me through.
I just ended a 4 month relationship with a good man, and we ended it on good terms. It was hard to walk away, but we acknowledge that we just aren't the match that God has ordained for each other. I am praying and trusting that God will bring me a man with all the qualities in the other man but who is a divine match for me.
The guilt I have felt daily, from leaving an 18 relationship / marriage to finally accepting myself and loving myself for the first time. I feel blessed to be bought to your channel. Amen xx
I walked away! Jesus gave me the strength, the know-how, the provision to do it and God is STILL perfecting me to this very day…Glory to the mighty name of Jesus!🎉it’s been two years🙏🏾
Am greatful for this message...so true ..define...and refreshing....just walk away from arrogant...disrespectful...and primitive abusive relationship...thank you
Everything and everybody was more important than me. I walked away after 43 yrs and had never thought about leaving. Being devalued for many years, I finally left. He didn’t protest me leaving or fight for me to stay, he just let me go. That was more assurance that I was doing the right thing. At that time it didn’t matter, my mind was made up! I am 73 now, and it’s been 9 years since I left. I finally realized that you are NEVER too old to choose “YOU”. I was lonely with him, and now I’m still alone, but at peace without him! 🤗. Every blessing that Rev Blake mentioned here, from where I stay to new friendships, has happened for me since I left. I Often stand in amazement thanking God for all the blessings he has afforded me since I left. My things to do now consist of praising and thanking God for my journey, enjoying my new friends and living each day as cute and fabulously as I can! 🥰 ✨Point of reference for listening: Smokie Norful - Dear God CeCe Winan - Goodness of God. ✨🙌🏽(TH-cam)
This is definitely hitting home, I just walked away from a toxic man and relationship after almost two years. He was cheating and I was clueless, for he hid it very well. After being told and shown that I’m not wanted I walked away to never look back! Told him he made the biggest mistake he ever would have for he will never have another woman like me ever. I asked god to reveal to me what’s going on and he did so there wasn’t any other choice but to walk away, I am creating space for everything god is going to bless me with!!
Please, pray for me. Iam going through this at this moment. A was a stay at home mom. I have no income. I have to collect my many things by next week. Staying strong through the pain is so very challenging right now. Finding this video is proof that I’m protected and doing the right thing. Thank you and I’ll pay for all that are here. 🙏🏽
Amen, God is with you, stay strong. He’s got you. I’ve been there. Find as much family support or a church family. Whatever communities are out there that can support you. God bless 🙏🏾
God is with you I was a stay at home mom, I left 9 months ago, moved our kids 10 hours away back home. Still married trying to divorce but I have my own place and career now. Stay the course.
Hello I been 2 years with no job no resources at all however Jehovah God been blessing me with a roof and food on the table ,if you pray God to get out for your own life ,safety and your spirtitual peace do it ,he ll have your back trust and believe, he ll help you all the way, please read Psalms 91 ,Psalms 55:22, you ll be on my prayers,call local number for domestic violence ,they should help you ,you gonna be ok!🙏❣
Hi Adriana! I’m in the same dilemma. In fact it’s the main reason I have not left. Praying to God for direction on how to leave because I am engulfed with fear. I have 4 kids and have no place to go. I’ll put you in my prayers. May God help each and everyone of us IJMN. Amen 🙏🏾
This was so powerful! Not only for the man I walked away from but also for friends who feel like they can come and go as they please and talk to you any type of way.
I also have been battling this situation. Been in a toxic marriage for 18 years and I'm tired. Marriage counseling 2 therapists didn't work, date night, etc. Just constant bickering over nothing and I'm leaving March 1st. Constantly fighting everyday is hard, depressing, stressful. We definitely weren't equally yoked but he tried forcing it for years. We have had major fights in public never physical but it has been bad. I just turned 39 and gave this man 19 years of my life no more.
@Tati B, take the step sister. You’re still young and can find someone who deserves you. Wait till you get completely healed and have processed the mistakes made in your choosing your partner . Dignity and self respect , values, self esteem must come first in a relationship for it to last. Also boundaries are VERY IMPORTANT ! You can do it, sis. The Lord, and listening Pastor Blake’s messages will help so much . Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance , dwell in the Word of God and His promises. Rest under the shadow of His wings and rejoice for the great things He will do for you. Rest assured! Blessings.
@Carmen Kamberos OMG Thank you Carmen yes I'm going to do just that. My therapist told me the same thing yesterday. I will take as much time as I need to heal. Thank you again for your uplifting words and yes it's final I'm leaving March 1st and cannot wait!
I knew I needed to walk away from my husband. The immaturity, the narcissistic behavior of gaslighting. Blaming, lack of respect, serial cheating, manipulation and lying was beyond harmful. The fights got physical and I got hurt. I left him, the State, the BS marriage and have reclaimed my life! I’m DONE!!! Never looking back! Never want to speak or hear from him again! He was NEVER a good man! Never a good person- he was an AMAZING actor!
This reminds me of that Whitney Houston song "i didn't know my own strength." And no lies are told in this video. I left in 2020 and i never went back. Now im dating wiser and stronger
I walked away after 29 years from an alcoholic now engaged to an evangelist who loves me and respects me ❤ never settle just make God first in both your life
As well I feel to share that our children so need our prayers ~ Many of us who experienced a narcissistic spouse..raised our children within that misfortune..We are witnessing our children going back for more emotional - mental manipulation from that dark source... Please God ..help them OUT of that fog 🙏💌
I was married 30 years to a Narc and my children refuse to have any contact with their father. My daughter is 31 and I have a son 33 and the oldest is 43. We will Not tolerate his psychological , mental or emotional abuse any longer. I will have been divorced from him 5 years in May. We have the peace that surpasses all understanding these days and we are not looking back but we are looking forward and continuing in Christ.🙌🏽 May God bless you and your children.🙏🏽 63 and fabulous 😊
@@janicemaze3598 If I may ask, when did you realize he was manipulative and narcissistic? Were there any signs early on in the relationship? Is he someone you grew up with and the families were connected? Did you ignore many crucial signs early on?
@@keepthechange1 I didn’t know what was happening because he was in the love bombing stage for a long time. My daughter is the one that looked up some of her dad’s traits and NPD came up. I never thought that a person could be so deceptive. He was also a pastor , we ran a ministry, To tell you the truth he held that mask up for a long time. We were just a pretend family making him look normal.🤦🏽♀️ Thank God it’s over!🙌🏽
I finally walked away from him. Hallelujah and Praise God. It has only been a week or so but God has Blessed me abundantly. I fill of PEACE AND JOY. Thank You for you guidance. May God continue to Bless you and you family.
I walked away 10 months ago, scared and alone with my son because I had moved to another state to continue that relationship. I have no family or friends here but I built up the strength to walk away from a toxic situation. Thank GOD I'm able to financially care for my son and I now because I was 100% depending on him. It was/is a painful process but I loved myself more than I loved him. Pastor Blakes, I'm from N.O. East and I used to attend your church and I haven't seen you or been to your church since I was 7 months pregnant with my son and he'll be 19 in July but your teachings from then and now continue to carry me through. Thank you!
Thank you for this video - it confirms something I did to save myself. I was love bombed and abused and everything else. I did not vet this person, I did not have boundaries I didn’t know what they really were. I played a role - I was chasing passion and lust. What I really wanted was true love. I recognized that there was no love there and I was a wounded girl in a woman’s body. I was forced through my despair to face myself and heal childhood trauma that led me down the path. I told him all I knew - and I knew everything. I had pieced the puzzle together and I was done. I was not to be punished, I was not to be abused, I was not to be sexually degraded any longer. I am done with men like that. Never again.
It hurts of course but loving yourself more than the idea of the relationship has many rewards on the other side of that hurt. The life of being a single isn’t easy but my peace and happiness made leaving worth it on so many different levels.
I've walked away several times...And went back.But I learned things and took things away from every time I did. I feel stronger every time....PRAISE GOD🙏🏾
I just went through this and it felt like the very thing I wanted most I had to let go of which was a spouse and a family. It felt like my cross I had to bear because it was like emotional death to let go of that dream. But God has to get us alone to give us what we should inherit to make us whole before another person can come into our lives. 🙏❤️ It was a stronghold but I’m grateful God is delivering me from this need and showing me I’m still doing fine.
When a man tells you you are his, your are with him, but ghost you, bread crumb you, then tell you he doesn't want titles. No matter how good he is in helping you, walk away. Know thou worth. I cried uncontrollably today. Yet today was the last day I'll cry over a man who does not want me! The Father will send my Boaz in due time!
I can testify to ALL of this! Walking away from a 12 year toxic romantic relationship, a lifetime toxic parental relationship, a job I was dedicated to for 5 years … walking away from ALL toxicity God comes in and swoops you. You are so valuable to Him. You always come out better than you were. Trust God!
16:09 I’ve never read this story with this perspective! I am currently going through a tough time. I left my ex last January right after literally giving birth to our second son. Never did I believe this self proclaimed man of God would be such a toxic force in my life! I left with my newborn, my toddler, no job, no money and no clue what I would do. Depressed and empty I knew that fulfillment and peace was on the other side and once I believed that God stepped in and has continuously made a path for me and my boys! I am so thankful God has changed my heart and life. This narcissist is still haunting me but this time I know I’m protected and I have the right tools to overcome any of his fiery darts! Ladies! Learn to love the sound of your feet walking away from the things not meant for you! God does not want you living a miserable life!!
I Finally Made The Choice/Decision To Walk Away!!! It's the best thing I could have ever done for myself, my peace of mind and my spiritual growth!!!! God, I Thank You for giving me the strength to do it 🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏾
I was once married for twenty-eight years in a very toxic and dysfunctional environment. It took the grace of God, to realize I couldn't go on living in such a degrading lifestyle, I am a testimony to the power of a woman who walked away, and as you were stating those six steps, I can attest to each and every one. I am still learning, re-learnjng, on my journey to a victorious life in Christ. Thank you.
Everytime I hear a similar story my heart breaks. I know several women just off the top of my head, who stayed in relationships from their 20-40's and the guy never married them. We stay wayyy too long.
This is me right here and I'm 40 he never married me your so right he was a narcissistic he is actually married it's a long story how I got trick and played by my 1st and only
@@conickasparks3746 I'm sorry you experienced this. This is why our healing and self love is so important for us as women. It's easy to get trapped, especially if we haven't created our standards, acknowledged our personal values and boundaries. After ending my marriage of 14 years I definitely had to take time to learn, love myself, and understand relationships differently before I got back in the dating scene. ✳️Beautiful part, you're on an amazing channel with RC Blakes. So much Fatherly wisdom and a healthy male perspective.
@3DSuccess Thank you I'm fighting to get out this year now strong holds R serious nothing 2 play with,he got me young at 18 now I'm 40 going on 41 plus his 6years older than me He got me good and used me up with added verbally abuse I'm lost right I have so my anxiety depression and drain very,thank u my beautiful sis thank you for your words of Encouragements
@@conickasparks3746 You're welcome. Awareness is the first step. Continue to seek Godly wisdom and counsel. I pray God gives you the insight and hindsight you need as you move forward. Bishop gives great wisdom and also shares about a resource. I believe it's called Better Help. You should be able to find it somewhere in his shares. ✳️It's Never Too Late for a Fresh start. Remember that💜
Listen ladies he helped me soooo much leaving my last relationship, it’s been 2 years since I left & been sooo much happier… thank you for these videos !!!
For the one sided unequally yoked relationships; I saw this in one of my favorite movies 🎥 a man told a teenage boy who was being rejected by a girl he really liked and was feeling bad ," why would you wanna dance with somebody who doesn't want to dance with you?" Let em go find peace for your soul 💙 life is way too short to be spending it with the WRONG PERSON being miserable...
I love this. Everything I walked away from, God gave me better. Walking away used to be something I never wanted to do because I didn't want anyone to ever feel abandoned like I felt but as I got older, I had no choice. So much of this is accurate! The power you feel being able to walk away knowing you did your best is the best in the world and you most certainly get closer to God and find how to heal your heart ❤️ Much love to us all you definitely can't heal where you hurt. ❤️
Amazing word. Separated a few weeks ago from a narcissist and housing has been found and help with rent & deposit from one of my organizationsI beling to.... God has provided and blessed me because I stepped out in obedience! He said it was time to get out, and while it's been heartbreaking, it is so worth it. Thank you so much, Pastor, for your videos....they encourage and help so much! And thank you, Jesus, for ALL OF YOUR GOODNESS!!
I made my move a year and two months ago. When I moved, everything was open, housing, car and peace. Isn't it funny how God will trouble the waters until you step out on faith, make the move and see his provisions? I so love God and am more in love with myself than I've ever been.
Thank you wow. I am so blessed . I walked away 2 years ago being a child of God . God made a way for me. After 30 years of an abusive and toxic marriage. I feel so liberated and free. Amen
Im walking away from a 38 year toxic marriage emotional abuse my God I never want to go through this again in my life I been to hell and back with a narc husband a demon
I was in a very toxic relationship. I ve done the work of healing. I have learned to establish boundaries and to pay more attention to the red flags. My ex want to reconcile. I told him thank you for being the person u were so I can be the woman I am today. I wished him the best and told him I'm not for him. He say he wants to make things right, I told him if he wants to make it right then treat the next woman better.
Same here....
@user-zg5mw5op1r scammer
Love the response 👌
The best thing you've done for yourself!
Keep your head High sis, keep moving 😊
💯🙏🏻💪🏼 Warrior Queen 👑
Ladies, never 👎🏾 let a man tell you more than once that he doesn’t want you. God is good. He will bless you with someone who does.
It's hard being rejected, but God is good and it's a blessing in disguise. He wasn't God's best all the while. Wait on the Lord. He has someone better suited for you.
VERY TRUE
Beautiful women don't allow ANY1 to SHOW you they don't want u....
Dolores Barnes, yes! Indeed, the Lord has a very special partner for you, He is good all the time!!! Blessings
AMEN
At times you need to leave, not because you were treated bad. Simply because you were not revered and treated the way you know you deserve.
Needed this
1. The woman who has the power to walk away gives her soul, the space to heal. 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value. 3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways. 4. She learns her own strength. 5. She re-calibrates her soul and moves back to the Creator's default. 6. She gives God space to bless her.
She gives God space to bless her. That part! 😊
#6 is definitely it's own focal point.. Love this 🙌🏾
A whole word 💯❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
Amen and Amen 🙏🙏
Amen
The power of being able to walk away from ANYTHING and ANYONE that is causing us harm in anyway is PRICELESS!!! Country, job, Man, “Friends” kinfolk etc!!!
Absolutely 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Yes, and I am very happy that I did. Thank you God ❤️
Powerful message.
I feel so much relieved after walking away from kinfolks, so called friends! It was draining....
Just left my husband of 7 years tonight. Packed up my belongings and left my beautiful home. I took me and my daughters to another state back with my family. I haven't shed one tear. I've been done with him for a long time. The Lord has given me peace and has helped numb my heart. We were unequally yoked and he was emotionally, verbally, and spiritually abusive. God will make a way.
I pray that all works out well for you and your children 🙏 ❤️ God's blessings 🙌
@@onevenus6040 Thank you so much! ❤️
❤ 🙏 That took so much strength! God will make a way!
May God continue to give you the strength for you and your girls. Good on you!!
@@Lucy-ql7tt Thank you tremendously!!
“Never let a man have to tell you twice that he doesn’t want you ~Judge Lynn Tollier
Listen.
My Husband Was Living A Double Life...I asked God To Reveal To Me Whether or not my husband was cheating..I planted a Tape 📼 Recorder in my home thinking that I was going to listen to the meeting place of his Mistress and confront him... That's Not What I Found Out... The Tape Recording Reflected Him Having Sex In The Marital Home Many Days... And She Was In The Home The Same Time ...He Hid Her In Our House for Many Days... The Tape Reflected.. This She's A 24 Year Old Puerto Rican... And Then There's My Classmate 60..And A Project Chick 29...BTW He's 73
She's got a lotta wisdom
A woman who walks away in toxic relationships is POWERFUL because her actions says “I AM NOT AFRAID TO BE ALONE” ~~ My Worth
I am on my own and happier for it. I walked away from a toxic relationship/situationship or whatever it was. I am not afraid to be on my won because that is a million times better than being in a toxic relationship which eats you up from the inside out. I told him before I dumped him - I am not that weak. He didn't know what to do. He was a messed up person.
@@AJ-kb9hf Amen! I'After I did deep shadow and innerwork and took accountability for my part a played in my former relationships I felt so Free and not scared to be alone! I want to be healthy as an individual first once I found out that part of me, I attracted a man of God and purpose
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Doing the inner work is critical for our development, peace and happiness. Taking accountability is a sign of strength and liberating. Proud of you and happy for you. Being a better person in yourself and attracting an emotionally healthy person is the basis of a stable relationship which can add so much value to your life.
@@AJ-kb9hf yes once I took accountability my entire dating life went from tragic to highly blessed and favored... Proof dust bucket be gone!
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 taking accountability, holding up a mirror to our flaws, weaknesses is not an easy thing to do but is necessary to get to a better place. The "relationship" I had was so toxic and painful - now that I'm on the other side, I feel much better, so much wiser - as if I've lived a thousand lives, learnt so much and just grown up which I needed to do.
I was raised not to allow someone to treat me bad. I am to love myself more. And I do. I am in my 50's, and it gets easier. I left my ex husband and a house. A lot of people talked about me but I said "I can get me another house. My peace of mind is more important." The Lord allowed me to have another house built. Our strength comes from the Lord. Put Him first and obey.
This word is timely
I just left my husband a week ago very toxic marriage, left house and business working on my healing
@@barbarahedrick1551 I feel your pain going through the same. I know God is able.
Thank you
Absolutely 🙏🏾
I walked away many times but would go back when I was weak. Two months ago I left for good. In the beginning I cried in my car every day praying, “God I still love him.. I still love him.” It hurt so much. Now I am starting to heal and I’m signing up for classes and excited to learn some new skills so I’m more useful to my community and loved ones. It still hurts when I remember him a few times a day… but it’s getting easier.
It is going to get easier and easier and more peace.
You will be okay
What kind of classes did you sign up for??❤
I know how you feel. I am where you have been, but I am getting it together
Prayers🌹
Ladies always put a check on your emotion. Do not allow your heart to get involved with a man until he shows you that his heart is 100 percent towards you. You will know by the way he treats , respect and value you.
Yes, that is so true, we all want to win a battle, but sometime it's not realist at that moment, so just walk away and never look back and be compassion with yourself. Forget the bastard's actions but always remember his real character, the bad bone are always in disguise in a beginning of a relationship. NEVER chase any men, let them do the work cause you're worth it, you're the prize at the end.
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💯 true!
Absolutely! I walked away from my husband. I was doing everything for him, was an awesome wife, and he took me for granted. So I walked away, and was serious. After some years this man came back, changed. We have had the most beautiful relationship since. He treats me like a princess. ❤
Glory to God
That gives me so much hope 🥹
Did you wait on him? Did you date other people? Did he date other people? I’m asking can two people move on with other people only to come back again?
@@THELIFEOFTYMEREYIA moved on dated other people. Both of us did
@@sunshinexoxo4984 Wow! What’s meant to be will be, no matter what.
Walking away is EMPOWERING, Self loving, and faithfulness to God. Believing God has better for you and will bless you beyond your expectations. Thanking you in advance for teaching us a real way to love.
So true!!!
Exactly🧘🏽♀️💜🙏🏽
Great video like always ❤️
Amen 🙏🏼
Amen
This could not have come at a better time. I have been struggling with this and made the decision to walk away on Valentine's day! It hurts but I know God has better for me and I trust HIM. I will be tuned in.
Mine waited til valentine day to tell me he needed some space
I left on Valentines too! I have so much peace!
@@samanthiahamilton6599 Oh wow. This is one reason I stopped celebrating holidays years ago. It eliminates the power some people think they have over you. Hugs to you. 🌺
I know it’s soo hard But I’m soo proud of you!!! God does has better for us!!!
I am in same time frame. Valentine's day is my marker....almost a week now....we can keep walking further and further and further away!!!
You can’t heal in the same environment that makes you sick. Now that’s good right there pastor‼️‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🔥
Absolutely 💯
I walked away four months ago with my daughter, first two months was soo hard but now I'm healing and feeling very better. I've given my life to Jesus I'm just at peace.
Keep walking
Stay focused. Talk to the Lord throughout the day. He is always with you. Creflo Dollar does a great teaching about being in His presence and the power of Holy Spirit. God bless you and your family.
I can’t wait to get to the point. I was told around the holidays I was prioritizing my child who would have been home alone for the holidays had I went to go be with my ex. I picked us this time and after I did I’ve seen so much.
Amen
Thank goodness ❣️❣️❣️
I had to walk away from a relationship, I had to choose me,I thank God everyday for the strength to do it!!!!
❤me too
1. The woman who has the power to walk away gives her soul, the space to heal. 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value. 3. She is able to ponder the error of her ways. 4. She learns her own strength. 5. She re-calibrates her soul and moves back to the manufacturer’s (God/The Creator) default. 6. She gives God the space to bless her in all areas of her life.
Thank you so much for this message.
Never I was depending on man to support me😡But if I give him all my love and he does not care I can be very heart😊
This is all so true
Walked away and instantly found peace in my life. Worked through my healing with the Lord. It really has opened my eyes on my mistakes and lessons learned. I will question everything! Ladies, stand in your power. From a woman who has been told all her life to minimize herself and never achieve more than my four brothers and never achieve more than a man. Poor advice from parents really damaged me. 58 years old and bold.
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Some parents are the worst. I speak from what I've seen my parents do. My parents didn't just give bad advice, they joined with insults and berating comments.
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Thats so sad. I am happy you found your worth!
It was years ago that I walked away and into the arms of my now husband who I met a few months later. If you are obedient to God and have self love, He will open that door, but you got to be ready. Now I’m laughing all the way to the bank with a man who’s heart is the size of it too😍
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Every relationship is good at first..lets see when you will realise he isnt good for you..
Thank you for sharing your testimony. I pray GOD remembers me and gives me my own Husband he has made for me in JESUS Name Amen.
You don’t know how your story is mine. and truth you got to be healed and open for love
You are so right after seventeen years of marriage I walked away 😅bi feel so happy! God has blessed me with peace and happiness; 🙏
You stay winning when you walk away from people and situations that makes you feel worthless❤.
1. She gives her soul space for healing.
2. She allows the man clarity regarding her value.
3. She is able to ponder the errors of her ways.
a. She realizes the error of pursuing relationships before establishing her self-worth.
b. She learns the error of living without boundaries.
c. She realizes the error of trusting before verifying.
4. She learns her own strength.
a. She learns she has always been more than she was made to believe she could be. She could always do more than she was made to believe she could do.
b. She learns she can make decisions for herself.
c. She learns she can provide for herself.
d. She learns she can find happiness by herself.
5. She recalibrates her soul.
a. She moves back to the Creator's default/returns to God's original order.
b. She restores her self-respect.
c. She sanctifies her sex life.
d. She reclaims her independence.
6. She gives God space to bless her.
All of this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️
Thank you
Thanku Angela, I can already tell u are a special woman bless u 🌹
How can I like this over and over again...?? Am glady I had to watch this.... this is me right now... walking away bs I doesn't deserve me..... thank you sir
Thank you AG for taking the time to summarize...and sharing your summary. 💕
If it’s not pouring into you…let it go and walk away💯
“Moving on is a self-love move.”
This is so true! The hardest thing I had to do was walk away from a toxic relationship four years ago. In that moment, I could see that if I stayed it was going to get worse. Then the gaslighting came. He told me to stop being silly and to come back upstairs. I stuck to my guns and waiting on my Lyft ride to the airport and never looked back. In the moment, it hurts, but I got my dignity back and I got myself back. It gets better ladies through healing. 💕✨
Sweetheart I've been there. Stay unbothered while you heal. You will. 💞 God bless you. 🙏🏼
@@Happyfeelinpeace thank you! I will 😊💕
Congrats, good luck hope I can heal soon 😊
NO CONTACT 3 YEARS THIS MONTH. It does get easier. Trust in your higher faith. Thank you Pastor Blake's.
No contact is for dumpees, no contact from à dumper is called "assuming your choices"
I’m so proud of you ❤ keep loving yourself
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After 6 years single recovering from narc abuse a man started to pursue me, 3 weeks it took me to realise he was another narc, I told him I knew what he was and blocked him. No man will ever take away the peace I was able to attain for such a long time. I’d never give this man another chance because he showed me his true colours and I know it’s not my role to change him; he’ll have to deal with his demons himself.
I walked away after 22yrs and it's still hurtful. I took my kids and bought a house without him. He was devastated and went into a mild depression. Hated me for leaving and taking his kids and throwing away the life we built. I still ponder going back, because I truly understand how we need to preserve black families. At times, I feel guilty at times...during holidays, out grocery shopping alone, events big and small we spent together. However I have a newfound peace..no arguing, anxiety, insecurities. I pray God continues to give my kids and me strength as I try to navigate through the new chapter of our life🙏🏽
Just left 3 months ago after going through emotional abuse for about 22years
You got this 🙏🏽
I’m here as well my husband cheated on me with the unthinkable. I’m a great woman been together for 16 years he’s begging as well but I’m done. I can’t
God has you and the babies, sis
I'm going through this right now. I've been in a relationship with the father of my kids for 10 years now, no marriage and this is the biggest red flag for me. My love for him is what's kept me here fighting to make it work, but spiritually we are not on the same page. I've tried praying with him, reading Gods word with him but its not what he wants and thats what's leading me to walk away, but its hard. I'm thinking about a family being broken, being a single mum not to mention I'm also expecting. But he isn't a partner. He works and thats about it, I have no support emotionally,mentally, spiritually and God is telling me to look at his actions. I pray that God will give me the strength to walk away and lean on him entirely Because deep down my spirit is telling me this is not Gods plan for me or our children. Some advice would be much my appreciated.
When you step out in faith God will catch you ❤
Amen 🥰
Im a witness
Amen
Dang, this hit
Thanks for reminding me ❤
I am currently married to a very abusive toxic narcissistic man. I feel much like a slave among a whole lot of other things but I am ready to walk away. He doesn't love me, he uses me. I know deep in my heart that he is not for me. I AM walking away, stepping into my royalty, and adjusting my crown. The things he has put me through is not love. I am ready for peace and to begin my healing process.
Praying that you can find peace living in your royalty of the queen you are. Your king will come sooner than you think.
@@visionariesunlimited Thank you so much. ❤
Sorry you are experiencing this, but this too shall pass. I will keep you in my prayers for God to give you the strength to open that door. You got this!😘
@@dezydream6472 From the bottom of my heart, I thank you! ❤🙏
@@adel2457 😇👍
I am a testimony to everything you said here. Ever since walking away two years ago, I have grown tremendously:
1. My sense of purpose + instinct have been sharpened
2. I have advanced both in my career and moved towards investing in my future ( I even started my own business)
3. My self-respect has grown tremendously!
I mean... soooo many blessings!!! I feel like I am finally in God's will- even though it took a long time to get here
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So happy for you, God bless 🙌🏿 🙏🏿 💖
Blessed indeed
Lovely. On a self healing journey❤❤❤❤
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Thank you for having us Pastor Blakes and sharing your wisdom. You and Lisa are such an inspiration and success in opening women’s eyes all over the world, giving us the breakdown on how true love is created. This level of wisdom heals souls and brings peace and comfort to the mind.🙏🏾
Please give me the title of the song you are playing as your intro love it
You are such an inspiration. You are and always helping people to live better and wiser lives.
@@bezwenizondi94 The song is titled "She" by Dave Hollister 🙏👍
❤🎉🎉🎉💯🙏🏽💯
Remember you miss the FEELING he gives you. Not him! 97% of the time. A man who knows your value will never show you otherwise
Walking away from a man who will never be capable of loving a woman the way she desires, the way she deserves, and the way she needs to be loved as he's ever unwilling couldn't be bothered to try to learn -even at the cost of the unbearable pain in her heart, mind, body, and soul as it is very hard to move on that easily because of how much she is truly, madly, deeply in love with him, definitely hits her the hardest, especially that the feelings aren't mutual. But regardless. Her final detachment from her feelings about him is the best decision she could ever do in her own favor and her right to do so as she has no other choice but to kill all the feelings and emotions she has for him who isn't even worthy, to begin with. It hurts to the core. Huhuhu...
I walked away after 17 years. It was the hardest thing - it’s still hard but I’m 235 pounds lighter. My daily prayer is I don’t want to be bitter I want to be better - I forgive him and I forgive myself - help me make better choices and be open to love. Although it hurts - it was good for me that I was afflicted - I trust God. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Beautifully said! I too walked away after 17 years with a man who hurt me deeply. I have forgiven him and I’m working on forgiving myself. God has blessed me double since I left. 🙏
Bravo 🎉
I'm going through the same thing here 16 years and ready to go.
@@lovemore4487 Wishing you the strength to leave and the peace you will find after. God is good! 🙏
@Queen Bee Thank you for the words of encouragement. Also, what do you mean by God has blessed you double? Thanks for sharing, Queen 👸 ❤️🙏!
I walked away 2 weeks ago from my husband with a 9 year old, 2 year old and currently 5 months pregnant . He abused my son and is now in jail facing some serious charges . This is definitely my time to HEAL I’ve been in this toxic environment for years. I choose me and my children ! I will not be seeing him for a very long time! Im learning who I am , I’ve been lost for so long and didn’t know my worth. These 2 weeks god has been testing my faith I’ve lost my job and my car but one thing I haven’t lost is hope that something amazing is coming. Been praying and crying so hard for a breakthrough. I’ve exhausted all my resources because I kept in this cycle for too long . I lost family and friends. Please keep me and my children in prayers . I’ve been struggling trying to be strong for all of us. Today I had a bit of energy so I cooked.
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I hope things have turned around for you….you did what was best for you and your children ❤️
Such a brave lady and mom. You are my roll model now. I totally understand you with each one of my body cells. I left my husband after 30 years. He was a narcissist and abused me for more than two decades. I finally left him 10 months ago. I have been challenging every single of day to get back to me. I was drained mentally, emotionally, and financially. I couldn’t eat or sleep for the first 3 months, lost 25 lbs. heartbroken of the way he treated me for years. I’m so proud of you to rescue you and your lovely children. You 4 are in my prayers.
I hope you’re doing better now. This was inspiring
GOD WILL MAKE A WAY OUT OF NO WAY 🙏
Once you learn to walk away FOR YOU and your self respect and your own self love , it gets way easier to do it . Pick YOU sis every time , pick YOU! ❤ their error is not yours to fix! The right one won’t make error with you they wouldn’t dare risk losing you! 🎉
It took me 20 years of abuse to walk away because I didn’t think I could provide for myself. I thought if I walked away I would go back to poverty. But God! I put myself through school earning 3 degrees! While I walked away, sometimes like the Bishop said if we are not careful we will find ourselves connected with the same in another pair of shoes. Thankful for your teachings! 🙏🏽
AMEN 🙏
🙏🏿 CONGRATULATIONS!!!🙏🏿🎉🎉🎉🤗🤗🤗🫂❤️
23 😩 I’m healing now….
Powerful. Iam blessed
Congratulations
"Self Love" "Self healing"
"Self respect"
"Self wealth"
"Self protection"
"Amen"
The power to walk away from pessimistic realm of life.
Amen
I learned a long time ago when things are not healthy.
"Leave it, grieve it, grow from it and start over." Thank you Pastor, thank God from your ministry. So, needed in our community...You are providing the tools for us to do the work. Praise God...
I just walked away 3 months Aho and never Looked back, never talked to him after that day. I showed him my worth there and then
NO contact now 3 months and doing really well mentally, financially, physically and spiritually ❤
Thanks God 🙏🏾
I think these toxic individuals are on an assignment from the enemy and we need God’s gift of discernment to prevail and avoid these toxic individuals.
6 months and a babygirl later,I had the courage to walk away. I am so happy 😊 I finally learned how to be a single mother. I am glowing with creativity and positive energy. My bank account is on point. I am being the best parent I can be I have cut all the negativity out of my life.
Proud of you
I love this! Recently left and with a new baby, I pray every day to be the best mother I can be 🥰. I’m so happy to hear that you’re persisting and prospering!
This is what I’m working on, Lord help me. I believe. 🙏🏾☝🏾
Here I am at 41 hanging on to an 18 year toxic relationship. God help me have the faith that I will be ok on my own.
Let it go ,…….let it go…….I’ve done it I always have to deal with Separation Anxiety,…….but I find the Strength,…..many times over,,,…Soooo now I’m older,…Wiser,…..pay all my bills,……and Soul Ties Are Gone after,…3-yrs,….all they try,….but now when the person see you ,….Trust me ,…..They no longer see the same person,…….💕nothing they say bothers you,……💕Trust me Ladies,……..and I silently am Over The Moon,.. 🎶💕 to bad ,……I. Come and go as I please,….by myself now after 7yrs ,,….I prioritize my life,….do the same for your self,……Good Luck,….
How are you? Going through the same thing in a almost 17yr relationship
Even me I am about to have 40 hanging on to an 17yrs.
But I've already had self love now I'm free to walk away.
Pray for me I’m walking away from a really bad toxic relationship of 8 years of no love no respect no trust also tired sleeping with the enemy it’s real bad pray for me and my daughter 😢 I need this for my soul
With God all things are Possible!
🙏💙🙏 You got this! I did it with my son in 2000. Never looked back. God is Great!
Need your prayer too, in the process of taking this step
It can be so hard but don't let him suck you back in. Be aware that he will try to get back in your life. My advice is to keep a journal of the messed up things he said and did, with exact quotes of his when he was verbally abusive. When you miss him, or are having a moment of weakness for him, read through that journal so you'll remember exactly why you left and why you need to keep away from him. Once you get away from an abusive man, maintain zero contact!
God bless you and your precious daughter.....🌹
Did it from a 8 years relationship changed countries with 2 small kids. You can do it❤
It has taken 5 years to get over this man. Do you hear me? Do not make a mistake with the men who devalue you exactly at the time when you say I love you. At first, it was so painful. Scripture says go forward. I have been born again, Hallelujah, Praise the Lord! Thank you, Pastor Blakes.
His wife is a high value woman. Let’s all strive for the level of self love this woman has.
Number 6 will always be my reminder of my happiness, strength and myself wealth.
“The power of a woman who can walk away gives God space to bless her “
Pray for me I’m finally signing my divorce papers today 🙏🏼
I am praying for you 🙏
I hope you’re doing well ❤
Walking away shows your confidence in God and knowing who you really are. God wants his best for you. In order to receive this, you have to find the courage to get up and move forward knowing God is with you every step of the way.
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The way you worded this was very comforting to me
Perfectly said!!!!
Finally walked away today, the spirit of fear is trying to sow a seed in me but I finally understand that God wants more for me than I want for myself. Happy to see so many other strong women in the comments that had the courage to step out on faith and move on His command. Sending prayers to everyone, please pray for me.
Keep Trusting God. 🙏💙🙏
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I'm praying for you we will make it heal and we will be aligned with God's will and a beautiful life
These boots are made for walking!
Feels good to stand up for ME, and walk!
I just want to say thank you...I learned so much listening to you. I recently left my marriage, broken hearted and still asking God to help me heal. My husband was a great provider but also an emotional abuser. My soul couldn't take it anymore. I was becoming a whole different person depending on depression pills, sleepless nights wondering why he didn't love me. He called me weak for leaving but God called me strong. God is still working on me and im open for his direction in my life.
He's a manipulator, saying that you're weak for leaving his abuse!? OMG! Stay strong, raise your head and self esteem ❤
Thank you for sharing Isabel. That takes courage and strength to do. Everything that has been hurt and broken will be restored by God in Jesus name. I’m sorry that you went through that and just wanted to let you know God loves you and he’s making a way for you!❤️Jeremiah 29:11 & Isaiah 40:31
Common and sad story 😢
Keep on trusting God. Any abuse have no place in Anyone's life
It has been 6 months totally no contact, filing for divorce, yes God is healing me. Thank you Bishop
@@deliwekacheche7711 why the stupid laugh
@@blessedblessed5018 am sorry. I typed this unknowingly.
Me too
It will be a year he left on my birthday and I haven’t seen him since then. The Divorce was final May13,2022. Out of nowhere he called me the first week of January 2023. Checked on me ask about the grandchildren just to tell me he was in welding school at the age of 57, probably still living at home with his mom!
23 years I knew from the first week and I had false hope!
Yeah he married me but what I saw of him 23 years after We divorce he was still the same!
I wish him well pray that he mature for the next woman in his life.
Same here 7 months not one word, now I don’t care , over it
Excellent Subject- I made that decision this weekend, and I know it was the right decision. My CROWN on my head straight, walking 🚶♀️ in confidence, knowing I'm The Prize and Buddy wasn't worthy of me.
Pam Graham, that’s my girl! Well done. We may lose our friend but
Not our dignity!!! Blessings
@Carmen Kamberos Yes Amen. I'm at Peace in the decision I made. I believe our purposes should match,. No Vision, NO Purpose... No me.....
Exactly, Facts..... you Speaking Queen
That season of ALONE is absolutely necessary and a GAME CHANGER
Thank you Pastor blakes. I had the power to walk away from a very long marriage, and while I am still healing, I have more peace than I’ve ever known. Thank you for this word, and please pray for me and my children.
Amén! I’m proud of you sis. ❤
Isaiah 54:4-6
You got this, sis.
It is well sis. I left an emotionally abusive marriage recently as well after 4 children& 15 years. It's scary for me because am gonna be a single parent once more with our 4 small children. But I rather step into my fear with faith in YAH then to spend another day in fear of not making it on my own with a man that does not value all that I offered him & my family. We'll make it through my sister. Put your faith, trust & dependency in GOD ONLY 🥰❤️.
Merianne prayers are sent for you and your children. I'm about to leave a 18yr marriage next week Wednesday and I'm so full of so many emotions but when I doubt myself I go back to my journals which I have recorded all good and bad and the bad outweigh the good. I'm out can't do it anymore so please pray for me and my son thank you.
Power , Strength, courage , however you call it its truly liberating , left my marriage of over 20 yrs , 5 children ... All I can say is God has been faithful 3yrs 6months on and counting 🙏
I WAS this woman! Thank you Jesus I am closing in on 11 months of being on the other side. You, Pastor Blakes, were so instrumental in making it happen. Your guidance, counsrling, prayers, videos...as well as all the women here in the comments who also provided encouragement. All I can say is this: Jesus my Savior rescued me, Hallelujah I' m free. I did borrow this lyric from a great song by Phil Wickham.
Walking away takes boldness and believe me you won't regret the day you walked out of a toxic relationship.Ladies let's live to love ourselves more than we love others.
Thank you Bishop for this message. Fear keeps a lot of us trapped. It takes courage and total trust in God to walk away from the familiar. I walked away only by the grace of God. Almost three years later, I have no regrets. I did all I could, and it still did not work. I chose me.
Amen!!
"Moving on is a self-love move" YES!
It's very liberating when you can walk away, knowing that relationship is dead and can no longer be resessitated.
Walking away is the hardest thing for a woman of God to do. We hold on to hope and believe that God is going to "fix it". I'm listening to the replay and can't wait to hear your message.
I know God will fix my marriage His heart is hurt I know he's hurting for trying to replace me for cheating on me with a "random" I've never cheated on him I could never, no matter what anyone does to me or trys to say about me will never change me to do something that is so beneath my character, I think he wishes I was as nasty as my haters wanted him to think truth is they wanted me for themselves or they are jealous of what we have. God is blessing our family our children know this is making their father and I stronger so no one or anything will ever come between us again.
This is exactly it. What if im just a bit more tolerant, a bit more patient, a bit more understanding, a bit more submissive, a bit more hopeful, a bit more quiet.. dont want to be the one to have given up...
This is so true. I've finally got to the point where, even as a woman of God, I gotta let my husband go.
A woman of God find it easier to walk away because she put God first and God is all she need and have trust in him to guide her step for the better good and find her peace in him
This couldn't have popped up on my feed at a better time for l had to recently do just that Walk away and never to return from a Toxic draining situationship....It gets greater later and l will be just fine. Looking forward to tuning in
Amen! When you walk away from a man (no good man) for God he does reward and bless you. I can feel it down in my spirit. Praise God. No man is sweet like Jesus.
I walked away after 13 years. Divorce is not yet final but I feel relieved. My children are still too young to understand what’s going on but I pray for guidance everyday. He is not making it easy either, playing psychological games, guilt tripping and threats. But I am standing strong. God will see me through.
I just ended a 4 month relationship with a good man, and we ended it on good terms. It was hard to walk away, but we acknowledge that we just aren't the match that God has ordained for each other.
I am praying and trusting that God will bring me a man with all the qualities in the other man but who is a divine match for me.
The guilt I have felt daily, from leaving an 18 relationship / marriage to finally accepting myself and loving myself for the first time. I feel blessed to be bought to your channel. Amen xx
Great topic Bishop because I am a witness. My only regret is why I took so long to walk away. I’ve adjusted my crown 🙏
No regrets.....You did it that's all that matters
I walked away! Jesus gave me the strength, the know-how, the provision to do it and God is STILL perfecting me to this very day…Glory to the mighty name of Jesus!🎉it’s been two years🙏🏾
Am greatful for this message...so true ..define...and refreshing....just walk away from arrogant...disrespectful...and primitive abusive relationship...thank you
Everything and everybody was more important than me. I walked away after 43 yrs and had never thought about leaving. Being devalued for many years, I finally left. He didn’t protest me leaving or fight for me to stay, he just let me go. That was more assurance that I was doing the right thing. At that time it didn’t matter, my mind was made up! I am 73 now, and it’s been 9 years since I left. I finally realized that you are NEVER too old to choose “YOU”. I was lonely with him, and now I’m still alone, but at peace without him! 🤗. Every blessing that Rev Blake mentioned here, from where I stay to new friendships, has happened for me since I left. I Often stand in amazement thanking God for all the blessings he has afforded me since I left. My things to do now consist of praising and thanking God for my journey, enjoying my new friends and living each day as cute and fabulously as I can! 🥰
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CeCe Winan - Goodness of God. ✨🙌🏽(TH-cam)
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This is definitely hitting home, I just walked away from a toxic man and relationship after almost two years. He was cheating and I was clueless, for he hid it very well. After being told and shown that I’m not wanted I walked away to never look back! Told him he made the biggest mistake he ever would have for he will never have another woman like me ever. I asked god to reveal to me what’s going on and he did so there wasn’t any other choice but to walk away, I am creating space for everything god is going to bless me with!!
Please, pray for me. Iam going through this at this moment. A was a stay at home mom. I have no income. I have to collect my many things by next week. Staying strong through the pain is so very challenging right now. Finding this video is proof that I’m protected and doing the right thing. Thank you and I’ll pay for all that are here. 🙏🏽
Amen, God is with you, stay strong. He’s got you. I’ve been there. Find as much family support or a church family. Whatever communities are out there that can support you. God bless 🙏🏾
God is with you I was a stay at home mom, I left 9 months ago, moved our kids 10 hours away back home. Still married trying to divorce but I have my own place and career now. Stay the course.
Hello I been 2 years with no job no resources at all however Jehovah God been blessing me with a roof and food on the table ,if you pray God to get out for your own life ,safety and your spirtitual peace do it ,he ll have your back trust and believe, he ll help you all the way, please read Psalms 91 ,Psalms 55:22, you ll be on my prayers,call local number for domestic violence ,they should help you ,you gonna be ok!🙏❣
Idk what state you at iam in florida I can provide you some resources if you need it !
Hi Adriana! I’m in the same dilemma. In fact it’s the main reason I have not left. Praying to God for direction on how to leave because I am engulfed with fear. I have 4 kids and have no place to go. I’ll put you in my prayers. May God help each and everyone of us IJMN. Amen 🙏🏾
This was so powerful! Not only for the man I walked away from but also for friends who feel like they can come and go as they please and talk to you any type of way.
I also have been battling this situation. Been in a toxic marriage for 18 years and I'm tired. Marriage counseling 2 therapists didn't work, date night, etc. Just constant bickering over nothing and I'm leaving March 1st. Constantly fighting everyday is hard, depressing, stressful. We definitely weren't equally yoked but he tried forcing it for years. We have had major fights in public never physical but it has been bad. I just turned 39 and gave this man 19 years of my life no more.
@Tati B, take the step sister. You’re still young and can find someone who deserves you. Wait till you get completely healed and have processed the mistakes made in your choosing your partner . Dignity and self respect , values, self esteem must come first in a relationship for it to last. Also boundaries are VERY IMPORTANT ! You can do it, sis. The Lord, and listening Pastor Blake’s messages will help
so much . Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance , dwell in the Word of God and His promises. Rest under the shadow of His wings and rejoice for the great things He will do for you. Rest assured! Blessings.
@Carmen Kamberos OMG Thank you Carmen yes I'm going to do just that. My therapist told me the same thing yesterday. I will take as much time as I need to heal. Thank you again for your uplifting words and yes it's final I'm leaving March 1st and cannot wait!
I knew I needed to walk away from my husband. The immaturity, the narcissistic behavior of gaslighting. Blaming, lack of respect, serial cheating, manipulation and lying was beyond harmful. The fights got physical and I got hurt. I left him, the State, the BS marriage and have reclaimed my life! I’m DONE!!! Never looking back! Never want to speak or hear from him again! He was NEVER a good man! Never a good person- he was an AMAZING actor!
Am sorry honey .. sometimes you just need to let it go even if it going to hurt
I hope you kept your promise to yourself & moved forward. God has got you.
This reminds me of that Whitney Houston song "i didn't know my own strength." And no lies are told in this video. I left in 2020 and i never went back. Now im dating wiser and stronger
I just walked away tired of sick of being tired it hurts , but I love my self more than anybody I’m a beautiful black Queen .
I walked away after 29 years from an alcoholic
now engaged to an evangelist who loves me and respects me ❤ never settle just make God first in both your life
As well I feel to share that our children so need our prayers ~ Many of us who experienced a narcissistic spouse..raised our children within that misfortune..We are witnessing our children going back for more emotional - mental manipulation from that dark source... Please God ..help them OUT of that fog 🙏💌
I was married 30 years to a Narc and my children refuse to have any contact with their father. My daughter is 31 and I have a son 33 and the oldest is 43. We will Not tolerate his psychological , mental or emotional abuse any longer. I will have been divorced from him 5 years in May. We have the peace that surpasses all understanding these days and we are not looking back but we are looking forward and continuing in Christ.🙌🏽
May God bless you and your children.🙏🏽
63 and fabulous 😊
@@janicemaze3598 If I may ask, when did you realize he was manipulative and narcissistic? Were there any signs early on in the relationship? Is he someone you grew up with and the families were connected? Did you ignore many crucial signs early on?
@@keepthechange1 I didn’t know what was happening because he was in the love bombing stage for a long time. My daughter is the one that looked up some of her dad’s traits and NPD came up. I never thought that a person could be so deceptive. He was also a pastor , we ran a ministry, To tell you the truth he held that mask up for a long time. We were just a pretend family making him look normal.🤦🏽♀️
Thank God it’s over!🙌🏽
@@janicemaze3598 Amen! I am glad you all got away.
@@keepthechange1 Thank you ☺️ ❤️
I finally walked away from him. Hallelujah and Praise God. It has only been a week or so but God has Blessed me abundantly. I fill of PEACE AND JOY. Thank You for you guidance. May God continue to Bless you and you family.
I walked away 10 months ago, scared and alone with my son because I had moved to another state to continue that relationship. I have no family or friends here but I built up the strength to walk away from a toxic situation. Thank GOD I'm able to financially care for my son and I now because I was 100% depending on him. It was/is a painful process but I loved myself more than I loved him. Pastor Blakes, I'm from N.O. East and I used to attend your church and I haven't seen you or been to your church since I was 7 months pregnant with my son and he'll be 19 in July but your teachings from then and now continue to carry me through. Thank you!
Thank you for this video - it confirms something I did to save myself. I was love bombed and abused and everything else. I did not vet this person, I did not have boundaries I didn’t know what they really were. I played a role - I was chasing passion and lust. What I really wanted was true love. I recognized that there was no love there and I was a wounded girl in a woman’s body. I was forced through my despair to face myself and heal childhood trauma that led me down the path. I told him all I knew - and I knew everything. I had pieced the puzzle together and I was done. I was not to be punished, I was not to be abused, I was not to be sexually degraded any longer. I am done with men like that. Never again.
It hurts of course but loving yourself more than the idea of the relationship has many rewards on the other side of that hurt. The life of being a single isn’t easy but my peace and happiness made leaving worth it on so many different levels.
I've walked away several times...And went back.But I learned things and took things away from every time I did. I feel stronger every time....PRAISE GOD🙏🏾
Me too took about 7 times .
I just went through this and it felt like the very thing I wanted most I had to let go of which was a spouse and a family. It felt like my cross I had to bear because it was like emotional death to let go of that dream. But God has to get us alone to give us what we should inherit to make us whole before another person can come into our lives. 🙏❤️ It was a stronghold but I’m grateful God is delivering me from this need and showing me I’m still doing fine.
Your not alone
When a man tells you you are his, your are with him, but ghost you, bread crumb you, then tell you he doesn't want titles. No matter how good he is in helping you, walk away. Know thou worth. I cried uncontrollably today. Yet today was the last day I'll cry over a man who does not want me! The Father will send my Boaz in due time!
Amen, I feel the exact same way
I can testify to ALL of this! Walking away from a 12 year toxic romantic relationship, a lifetime toxic parental relationship, a job I was dedicated to for 5 years … walking away from ALL toxicity God comes in and swoops you. You are so valuable to Him. You always come out better than you were. Trust God!
16:09 I’ve never read this story with this perspective! I am currently going through a tough time. I left my ex last January right after literally giving birth to our second son. Never did I believe this self proclaimed man of God would be such a toxic force in my life! I left with my newborn, my toddler, no job, no money and no clue what I would do. Depressed and empty I knew that fulfillment and peace was on the other side and once I believed that God stepped in and has continuously made a path for me and my boys! I am so thankful God has changed my heart and life. This narcissist is still haunting me but this time I know I’m protected and I have the right tools to overcome any of his fiery darts! Ladies! Learn to love the sound of your feet walking away from the things not meant for you! God does not want you living a miserable life!!
Amen. You are one strong and courageous woman. Praying God continues to bless you and your children.
@@donnamartin9198 thank you!
Bravo! GOD GOT YOU! you deserve better.....may the LORD give you strength everyday....
I’m in the exact situation, thank you for the positivity.
@@justiceastobe1097 amen!
I Finally Made The Choice/Decision To Walk Away!!! It's the best thing I could have ever done for myself, my peace of mind and my spiritual growth!!!! God, I Thank You for giving me the strength to do it 🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏾
I've experienced the blessing of walking away many times in my life. I've become very skilled at it.
Me to I learned very early that if something is not adding value then I should let go
I walked away from a toxic relationship after 23y and it was the best decision. Walk away means self love
I was once married for twenty-eight years in a very toxic and dysfunctional environment. It took the grace of God, to realize I couldn't go on living in such a degrading lifestyle, I am a testimony to the power of a woman who walked away, and as you were stating those six steps, I can attest to each and every one.
I am still learning, re-learnjng, on my journey to a victorious life in Christ.
Thank you.
Everytime I hear a similar story my heart breaks.
I know several women just off the top of my head, who stayed in relationships from their 20-40's and the guy never married them.
We stay wayyy too long.
This is me right here and I'm 40 he never married me your so right he was a narcissistic he is actually married it's a long story how I got trick and played by my 1st and only
@@conickasparks3746 I'm sorry you experienced this.
This is why our healing and self love is so important for us as women.
It's easy to get trapped, especially if we haven't created our standards, acknowledged our personal values and boundaries.
After ending my marriage of 14 years I definitely had to take time to learn, love myself, and understand relationships differently before I got back in the dating scene.
✳️Beautiful part, you're on an amazing channel with RC Blakes.
So much Fatherly wisdom and a healthy male perspective.
@@sarahjaynescott136Did you all discuss getting married?
@3DSuccess Thank you I'm fighting to get out this year now strong holds R serious nothing 2 play with,he got me young at 18 now I'm 40 going on 41 plus his 6years older than me He got me good and used me up with added verbally abuse I'm lost right I have so my anxiety depression and drain very,thank u my beautiful sis thank you for your words of Encouragements
@@conickasparks3746 You're welcome. Awareness is the first step. Continue to seek Godly wisdom and counsel. I
pray God gives you the insight and hindsight you need as you move forward.
Bishop gives great wisdom and also shares about a resource. I believe it's called Better Help. You should be able to find it somewhere in his shares.
✳️It's Never Too Late for a Fresh start. Remember that💜
Walking away Today! God give strength to stay strong and firm about my decision 🙏
Listen ladies he helped me soooo much leaving my last relationship, it’s been 2 years since I left & been sooo much happier… thank you for these videos !!!
For the one sided unequally yoked relationships; I saw this in one of my favorite movies 🎥 a man told a teenage boy who was being rejected by a girl he really liked and was feeling bad ," why would you wanna dance with somebody who doesn't want to dance with you?" Let em go find peace for your soul 💙 life is way too short to be spending it with the WRONG PERSON being miserable...
I walked away 3years ago and it was the best thing ever.
I'm doing great as a single mother. No more stress ,now I can plan my future well.
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I love this. Everything I walked away from, God gave me better. Walking away used to be something I never wanted to do because I didn't want anyone to ever feel abandoned like I felt but as I got older, I had no choice. So much of this is accurate! The power you feel being able to walk away knowing you did your best is the best in the world and you most certainly get closer to God and find how to heal your heart ❤️ Much love to us all you definitely can't heal where you hurt. ❤️
Amazing word. Separated a few weeks ago from a narcissist and housing has been found and help with rent & deposit from one of my organizationsI beling to.... God has provided and blessed me because I stepped out in obedience! He said it was time to get out, and while it's been heartbreaking, it is so worth it. Thank you so much, Pastor, for your videos....they encourage and help so much! And thank you, Jesus, for ALL OF YOUR GOODNESS!!
I made my move a year and two months ago. When I moved, everything was open, housing, car and peace. Isn't it funny how God will trouble the waters until you step out on faith, make the move and see his provisions? I so love God and am more in love with myself than I've ever been.
Boundaries and not giving blind trust, amen!
Thank you wow. I am so blessed . I walked away 2 years ago being a child of God . God made a way for me. After 30 years of an abusive and toxic marriage. I feel so liberated and free. Amen
Im walking away from a 38 year toxic marriage emotional abuse my God I never want to go through this again in my life I been to hell and back with a narc husband a demon