My Inaction & Walking Away Brought Her Back. What’s Next?

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  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    No matter how much you want to don’t burn that bridge! Be charming and wish them well.

    • @M1KE100
      @M1KE100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@countdowntorevolution9986your not the only one 😂

  • @frankisin
    @frankisin ปีที่แล้ว +139

    This happened to me recently. By the time she came back I had already moved on & wasn’t interested, which skyrocketed her attraction even more. Life is strange.

    • @rgy5820
      @rgy5820 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Same. Girl came back after 2.5 years after I left the door open but I have moved on to a younger, hotter girl. Their loss.

    • @illahee24
      @illahee24 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      People usually don't appreciate what they have until it's gone. Goes with everything in life.

    • @droidgunner3840
      @droidgunner3840 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No life sucks

    • @rgy5820
      @rgy5820 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      A little update: same girl hit me with a good morning text after no contact for 6+ months. Be indifferent and leave the door open, they'll always come back.

    • @frankisin
      @frankisin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rgy5820 that put a smile on my face, good on you partner ;)

  • @jroll5858
    @jroll5858 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    He was just a fling for her during those 9 days. Once she went back to her town it's over.
    He needs forget about her & go back to no contact & look for other women

  • @evanhiggins7298
    @evanhiggins7298 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    If she remembered you from 2 plus years ago, she remembers you. Battling illusion of action can be challenging

    • @PussInBoot414
      @PussInBoot414 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      but you can sill over pursue and end up chasing them away again, you have to play it cool and let them get things going. It is so obvious when they want to.

    • @evanhiggins7298
      @evanhiggins7298 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@PussInBoot414 it's obvious if you aren't emotionally invested in the situation.

    • @MFS6793
      @MFS6793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Less is more with women, if the woman is highly attracted to you she'll invest more in the relationship while you give her the bare-minimum, thats why it's highly important to give each other space so that the relationship could flourish and there is no neediness and clingyness on both sides and push each other away

    • @illahee24
      @illahee24 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If anything, you want the woman to be the clingy one. In my experience, even when the hot women were clingy it turned me off. But it means they really REALLY like you

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes you're right, thanks for pointing that out, bruh

  • @nongpaul3795
    @nongpaul3795 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Scarcity creates values indeed

  • @BabeeBlue0x
    @BabeeBlue0x ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My fav part of the day - your videos come out on my drive home from work 🇬🇧😀

  • @jonmatrix3153
    @jonmatrix3153 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    10-15 times may not be enough to fight those dopey Heat of the moment urges.

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      10-15 times, so you know how to show up while fighting those urges. Then, apply it over and over again to get rid of the bad habits and embody the principles in the book so you do it without thinking.

    • @palkisakumi8595
      @palkisakumi8595 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@craig8304 omg, what about 16 ? will it work automatically 100% always all the time ? what about 15.5 times ? what if it's 14.9, then it won't work right ??

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@palkisakumi8595 - Stupid comment

  • @mangoelvis1032
    @mangoelvis1032 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Sounds like she has a boyfriend and he was the side dude. Appreciate the fun times and date women from your city

    • @mahdman3
      @mahdman3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yup. On and off again with the boyfriend most likely.

    • @justynfogarty6209
      @justynfogarty6209 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thats why u dont let ur girlfriend go on "vacation" by herself 😂

    • @mahdman3
      @mahdman3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jaguaist True true

  • @Lewis-me7jr
    @Lewis-me7jr ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This was a situation where she wanted no strings attached sex to get over a breakup of some sort. The fact he lives in another town made it extremely convenient because she doesn’t have to worry about him getting in the way when/if she decides to get back together with her ex (which has likely already happened). Congratulations on getting a week of non- stop sex and store it away in your mind as a fond memory . That’s all it was. Don’t burn that bridge, though, because long distance F buddies make great F buddies.

  • @tjjordan4207
    @tjjordan4207 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Main rule for men is that once you and a woman have broken up, no matter who initiated the breakup, do not go back to the same woman, especially if she is the one to come back.

    • @tjjordan4207
      @tjjordan4207 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@countdowntorevolution9986 Golden rule is that there is a main reason for the breakup, and it is far better to move on. It would take huge paragraph to explain why, so I'll shorten it to just being that it's safer that way.
      Granted, there are exceptions to the rule, but those are rare and it depends on if the two people have changed in the right ways to make it work.

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A lot of the time, a breakup is the result of the man not dating his woman or making her feel heard and understood. If those are the reasons she she left him, and he's recently found Corey, why wouldn't he want another shot at doing things right? I would.
      However, if the breakup is due to her cheating because she has no integrity or she is a bad communicator or just a horrible person to be around, then yeah, never take her back.

    • @johnnycalderon9951
      @johnnycalderon9951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmfooo smh these red pill ppl

    • @FrenzyofFury
      @FrenzyofFury 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yup fuck'em not interested anymore. plus, i go forward in life not backwards

    • @palkisakumi8595
      @palkisakumi8595 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh so you're the smart one eh ? what else should we do ? tell us, amuse us

  • @popoffcity1989
    @popoffcity1989 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I put myself in a bad position again. 2 years ago I met a girl at work, an nurse, also an LPN in the army reserves. We exchanged numbers but I did no pursuing because I had a gf. I was in a sexless relationship for four years. Finally my ex and I break up and the nurse and I start chatting and hanging out in June. In July we kissed and then hooked up 3 weeks ago. After we hooked up she went to her 3 week annual training in FT Knox. During that time we spoke every day (I feel like I ruined the excitement by talking to her so much). I’m head over absolute effing heels for this woman - she’s Army, I’m former Marine and former Army. We’re both in the medical field. We’re both ambitious. She told me how much she liked me and couldn’t wait to see me again, how she never met a man like me before, how she loves talking to me, etc etc. she flew back into Tampa on Friday and I picked her up and we just spent the whole weekend together hanging out hooking up and having fun. This morning I drove her back home. We made plans to hang out next Friday as her nursing graduation ceremony is finally happening. She told me she’s going to miss me and we kissed and said goodbye. We spoke earlier briefly but there was no real spark like there has been the last 3 weeks. I feel like I need to back off and make myself busy with other things. I’m from New York and have lived in Florida the last 4 years and I don’t really have much to do other than work, take care of my animals, and take care of my house. This is driving me crazy. I hate feeling this way. Sorry for bothering you guys just needed to get this off my chest.

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Stuff like this makes no sense to me, like yall already has sex, why is it such a big deal to do it again?

  • @matteopace5880
    @matteopace5880 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She must start some kind of interaction with me, even if she shows some attraction signals (one day she touched my hand various times, bump in to me, laugh of every joke, look to me enchanted)?
    She dumped me twice (she go out with me, dumped me, go out with me, and dumped me... because of unattractive behaviour), and in the last time gave "lets just be friends speech"... i said that i does not wanted, and if she changes of the ideia for she reaches out.

  • @DwyaneWadeCounty
    @DwyaneWadeCounty ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is a clear case of a booty call for the female but the male is in his feelings.

  • @barksnbo3625
    @barksnbo3625 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If she doesn’t call within the next couple of weeks, date another girl and hint at it on social media….
    If she sees value in you, she’ll get in touch, if not… move on.

  • @CreatingExcellence
    @CreatingExcellence ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Big deal, four days of not hearing from her. I bet she’s on a couple dating apps. Jump on a couple dating apps and use her town as your location. I bet she’s on Bumble and Hinge. You can’t use another location from where you are located on Bumble though. Use CW’s setting up the ultimate dating profile language and let her see you on there. This changes their tune pretty quickly. Plus you get the benefit of conversing and meeting with some other horses to add to the stable…you might even come across a thoroughbred. No contact, no reaching out for birthday, do nothing except work on yourself.

  • @charlesthomas3367
    @charlesthomas3367 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Put out my cigarette, turned and walked away. She said, I found someone new to take your place, I said, dont feel so all alone...I found somone of my own. From a song that I cant recall the title.

    • @billlohan5079
      @billlohan5079 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ve found someone of my own. By The Free Movement ,great song !!

    • @charlesthomas3367
      @charlesthomas3367 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@billlohan5079 Thanks! Now I know.

  • @bodyemcal
    @bodyemcal ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3 years! I wouldn't have even bothered

  • @Jayboogie31
    @Jayboogie31 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Saw one of my high school crushes works at the same hospital as i do. Spoke to her got her number. Contacted her a few days later through text to and asked her to meet up. She bluntly told me that she doesn't want to meet up. I see her at my job sometimes, I'm i wrong for not saying hi to her because from her body language it looks like she would just pass me straight if i don't say hi to her which i dont

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If she doesn't want a meet up then just occasionally acknowlege her presence and keep it moving, she's not worth your time, energy and resources, bruh

    • @Jayboogie31
      @Jayboogie31 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @oscargonza2748 thanks just thought that her bluntly saying i don't want to meet up came across as her saying f u to me because we used hang out alot in high school but i didn't know better at the time

    • @Jayboogie31
      @Jayboogie31 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or mabye im just being butt hurt about and i shouldn't take it personal

    • @Justin11897
      @Justin11897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What would James Bond do? 😂

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol. Never date women from work. The risk of losing your job isn't worth it. However, you got her number and asked her out over text, which is the weak way to go about it. Should have just asked her out in person and arranged a definite date, then got her number in case something came up. You would have come across as more confident that way.
      I wouldn't ask her out again, but I wouldn't ignore her. I would be charming and just go about my work. When she sees that you're not bothered by the rejection and there is some interest there, you will gain interest points, and she may even ask you out. But if she has no interest, nothing will happen.

  • @ronj6038
    @ronj6038 ปีที่แล้ว

    OP, follow the book if you want this to happen on her next vacation
    A buddy lives in a convention town He has a regular rotation, based on the convention schedule

  • @fredflinstone9774
    @fredflinstone9774 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have to add something to the video. Some women have sex with you to see if they feel something for you. I dated A Mexican woman. We had sex 4 times a day 7 days a week for two weeks. At the end of the second week she told someone she wanted to feel something for me but she couldn't so she left me and was with another guy the next day. Her friends were telling her you cant have feelings for a man so soon. It takes time. Not two weeks.

  • @Pawwaaa
    @Pawwaaa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Walk away for good!

  • @bruhbruhh5103
    @bruhbruhh5103 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😭 she left her cup in my room. I threw it away thinking she’ll never be back

  • @herhe1864
    @herhe1864 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You want a woman that is totally into you which is not the case here

  • @jabbawockeez4103
    @jabbawockeez4103 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hii I’m from
    Dubai …I have trying to find your book kindle version or I book version using the link u gave but it’s not working …can u pls help me out

  • @DavidCunningham-dj5ck
    @DavidCunningham-dj5ck ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hope that during the time between him walking away and her coming back that he's applied your principles, Coach, and has a rotation of women. Now that she's back, she would be another one in the squad. Personally, I wouldn't have anything to do with her.

    • @palkisakumi8595
      @palkisakumi8595 หลายเดือนก่อน

      squad huh ? how old are you, eight ?

    • @DavidCunningham-dj5ck
      @DavidCunningham-dj5ck หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ triggered much? Yes, rotation squad. A term often used by Coach.

    • @palkisakumi8595
      @palkisakumi8595 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DavidCunningham-dj5ck another good boy parrot lol. what else does the coach say ? is this what you do all day, go around and parrot things you read in books thinking how smart and educated you sound ? so weak and pathetic really. how about you use your own brain for once ?

  • @Wheelsandjourneys
    @Wheelsandjourneys ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t he send atleast a birthday message? 😂

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude gets a sniff and is goo-goo-ga-ga.🤣

  • @joeb5578
    @joeb5578 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, I know. Covid was crap.

  • @jhin614
    @jhin614 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You didn't even make it to social media>))))))))

  • @striveprime5993
    @striveprime5993 ปีที่แล้ว

    💪🏾💪🏾👑👑🔥🔥

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Of cooties and bootys

  • @benhood4248
    @benhood4248 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We could use someone like Corey Wayne as Trump’s Vice President next year to help put some masculinity back into our American Culture 🫡 🇺🇸

  • @rajeshpatel6593
    @rajeshpatel6593 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1St comment

  • @TheInnerCosmos
    @TheInnerCosmos ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But coach, how do I keep her away? I don't want her back, she's crazy and jumps on the hood of my car when I break up

    • @calishiiine0006
      @calishiiine0006 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

    • @josephalimon4540
      @josephalimon4540 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just act really needy and smothering, that will keep her away

    • @palkisakumi8595
      @palkisakumi8595 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no she doesn't. it's actually you who jumps on that hood, isn't it ? lol

    • @TheInnerCosmos
      @TheInnerCosmos หลายเดือนก่อน

      @palkisakumi8595 😂😂 After we broke up, she started seeing a guy that my buddy was friends with. She showed up to his house one morning before work, unannounced, walked right in and he was like "um, what are you doing? I have to leave for work." When he tried to leave, she jumped on the hood of his truck. She's a psycho and loves pulling that move apparently lmao. I know I made a joke out of it, but it's actually true😂😂