OP did the right thing in finally standing up for herself against Jacqueline, and telling her dad qhat had been goibg in. I am also so very happy that OPs dad put his daughter first. Too many single parents put their children on the back burner for their partners.
If someone moved into my house and tried to control my kid and make their lives miserable they would be out on the sidewalk so fast, so fast. Good for the father for putting his daughter first which is his first obligation and not some recent stranger who wants to control everything. I think girlfriend wanted to drive the daughter away and then work on the father for complete domination. Control freaks and gold diggers really suck!
NTA. You handled this situation with a maturity that no sixteen year old ever would have been able to. From dealing with your dads girlfriend to understanding and accepting that your dad is only human. No one your age could have handled it better and im happy your dad did what was right.
How can a good father ignore everything that has been happening under his own roof and nose. Someone just hops into your life, and controls the food you eat, the clothes you wear, and orders you around to live life like they want to. This father should have had better knowledge of his own daughter, than to believe someone you are related to for less than five months, and barges into your house and controls everything around you. You don't have to be Einstein to see the changes in your own house. OP's father should have put his foot down, the minute she decided to live with them under their roof, with have a word or say by the family members. People like the girlfriend, are a real piece of work, and they don't cherish peace, happiness, care, or compassion, they are always about themselves.
I honestly agree with OP in that Jacqueline is definitely one of those people that had assumed that in an ultimatum, her SO would choose her over any children/child from a previous relationship which makes me all the more happy that she was proven wrong in the end
I love how people come onto Reddit because they want outside advice. Then in the first update it’s always the same “I read all your comments about XYZ and you’re wrong” So much for looking for advice
Because reddit is never wrong? /s And if 90% says "you're right" and 10% says "you're wrong" then there is NOTHING wrong with telling those 10% that they are wrong or that you not agree
@@robertx8020 I’m not getting into it with you, you always have something to say on my comments with this channel and you’re always wrong. Hey that was easy.
Good on the dad for sticking up for his daughter. It was definitely obvious what gf was trying to do, and op had every right to look out for her dad and stick to her own boundaries without being rude or disrespectful. GF took things too far and was definitely guilty of everything OP accused her of. Nip it in the bud before things escalate even more. Dad will find someone who loves and respects them BOTH. IN relationships, especially in a family, you find a place for yourself while respecting those you're SUPPOSED TO LOVE. You don't bulldoze over them, break them down, and try to control EVERYTHING. GF was a terror, and she's a teacher?! Ugh, that school needs to evaluate its employees better! She's on a power trip. Again, good on OP's dad for putting his daughter first, and I wish them all the best❤
If OP had just been honest about Jacqueline from the beginning all this drama wouldn't have happened. Also, recording J being a nasty step mom would be proof dad would have to dump the garbage. Here's hoping it will occur to OP to be open in the future.
Way to victim-blame there, Jason Jaqueline’s bullying is not OP’s fault AT ALL. OP is SIXTEEN! She was trying to juggle having her own life with keeping the adults in her life happy. If her grown-ass father had grown a spine sooner, then she wouldn’t have had to endure Jaqueline’s BS. It’s not a teenager’s job to correct an adult’s behavior. Sit down.
@@mc-rn8ro I think you mistook my point. I was saying OP could learn to be open because she didn't feel comfortable telling dad she was having issues but she didn't want dad to just dump J. If that openness had happened then when/if things really got bad, as they did, then there'd be a basis for dad to believe OP immediately. OP wasn't able to speak to dad with the clarity of the talk at the end of the story, not at the beginning with the new gf staying at the house. Maybe I wasn't clear enough. I agree with you that it wasn't OP'S place to make J behave like a decent person.
I haven't watched the video yet, but just want to say that when the quiet guy is disrespected and his feelings are dismissed and devalued, there may come a time when he snaps, and there could be a bloodbath when he finally sets the record straight. Just FYI, beware the guy who has nothing left to lose.
I know some people who are single parents throw their parent/son or daughter bond away for their significant other and then regret it later. I know 1 person who didn’t and stand up for his kid. More people need to use the body called: A spine
Humans and birds are not so different. We both have nesting instincts as females. Your dad has built a nest for and with you. Your dad has let you decorate the nest he built with you from all your memories when he was teaching you to spread your wings and learn to fly. Your dad has taught you to be independent and given you freedom to maintain the nest decorate it with all the memories of all the flights your dad has taken you on while he was teaching you to fly. You have also gotten used to leaving your pretty feathers around and cooking with all the things your dad brings home to the nest for the both of you. You have turned into a pretty bird, who can build, decorate a comfortable nest and make your own meal worm and seed casserole for both papa bird and yourself. You got used to being the only female bird in the nest. Then your dad got his head turned by another pretty bird. She forced her way into your nest. She tears up your nest and alll the memories of your flights with your papa bird and your pretty feathers. Then she attacks the way you make meals, your pretty feathers are not good enough, the way you have maintained the nest isn't good enough, then she attacks your papa birds abilities to bring home the right provisions. Then once all the reminders of yours and your papa birds former nest are gone she drives a wedge between you to start the process of forcing you out of your nest. Your friends are not welcome and neither are you and papa bird happy with the nest she has built that is sterile and no longer holds the memories of your flights together. All the whole all your dad sees are her pretty feathers as she tries to clip your wings and render you flightless. While she is gone, you need to box up all her feathers and the things she brought into your nest. Then take all the memories out of storage and rebuild the nest the way you and your papa bird built it before. Then make your papa bird a good meal because he needs protein from all the meal worms he has been denied. Then ask your papa not to let another pretty bird invade your nest who intends to tear up your nest and clip your wings. Ask him to protect your nest and only allow another bird in that wants to be part of it and add good flight memories to the nest with you. Some birds do devour the young when trying to find a mate. Also, the guilt is because you saw her manipulating and had to resort to fighting fire with fire. It doesn't feel good to stoop to that, but that is the only language she understood. Fly high little bird.
Story one It is not your job to be the adult your father is asking you to be the adult not his girlfriend he thinks should be given a warm welcome she is bullying you You have every right to stand up when she behaves badly to you and tries to humiliate you in front of your friends I think you should speak to your father about exactly what is happening she is bullying you his daughter you are not responsible for your mother dying and you are not responsible for her happiness you are allowing her to have a relationship with your father with out any problems This woman intends to stay ,and this girlfriend she sees you as a threat, I so sorry you have had to tolerate her she has shoe horned herself into your fathers house She doesn't love your father she is a gold digger who wants you out why is your father permitting her behaviour without argument I wonder what happened to your fathers spine does he not see what happening and his allowing her to become the boss in his house
OP did the right thing in finally standing up for herself against Jacqueline, and telling her dad qhat had been goibg in. I am also so very happy that OPs dad put his daughter first. Too many single parents put their children on the back burner for their partners.
If someone moved into my house and tried to control my kid and make their lives miserable they would be out on the sidewalk so fast, so fast. Good for the father for putting his daughter first which is his first obligation and not some recent stranger who wants to control everything. I think girlfriend wanted to drive the daughter away and then work on the father for complete domination. Control freaks and gold diggers really suck!
The thing is that all this grew gradually. She was nice at first.
NTA. You handled this situation with a maturity that no sixteen year old ever would have been able to. From dealing with your dads girlfriend to understanding and accepting that your dad is only human. No one your age could have handled it better and im happy your dad did what was right.
It is about time op dad finally saw the light and put his daughter first
Hidden security camera?
She wants a wealthy husband, but not a step daughter.
I like listening to a real person read these stories, thank you.
Thanks for listening!
There was never any mold. There were only her schemes.
Jacqueline switched them to a vegan diet, and after that OP's dad was real tired coming home from work? Think there was a connection?
If he was doing what I think he was doing, I don’t blame him.
Good job dad
She started something over nothing and got kicked out. She needs to chew on that a bit before hooking up with someone else.
How can a good father ignore everything that has been happening under his own roof and nose. Someone just hops into your life, and controls the food you eat, the clothes you wear, and orders you around to live life like they want to. This father should have had better knowledge of his own daughter, than to believe someone you are related to for less than five months, and barges into your house and controls everything around you.
You don't have to be Einstein to see the changes in your own house. OP's father should have put his foot down, the minute she decided to live with them under their roof, with have a word or say by the family members. People like the girlfriend, are a real piece of work, and they don't cherish peace, happiness, care, or compassion, they are always about themselves.
I honestly agree with OP in that Jacqueline is definitely one of those people that had assumed that in an ultimatum, her SO would choose her over any children/child from a previous relationship which makes me all the more happy that she was proven wrong in the end
I love how people come onto Reddit because they want outside advice. Then in the first update it’s always the same “I read all your comments about XYZ and you’re wrong”
So much for looking for advice
Because reddit is never wrong? /s
And if 90% says "you're right" and 10% says "you're wrong" then there is NOTHING wrong with telling those 10% that they are wrong or that you not agree
@@robertx8020 I’m not getting into it with you, you always have something to say on my comments with this channel and you’re always wrong.
Hey that was easy.
Good on the dad for sticking up for his daughter. It was definitely obvious what gf was trying to do, and op had every right to look out for her dad and stick to her own boundaries without being rude or disrespectful. GF took things too far and was definitely guilty of everything OP accused her of. Nip it in the bud before things escalate even more. Dad will find someone who loves and respects them BOTH. IN relationships, especially in a family, you find a place for yourself while respecting those you're SUPPOSED TO LOVE. You don't bulldoze over them, break them down, and try to control EVERYTHING. GF was a terror, and she's a teacher?! Ugh, that school needs to evaluate its employees better! She's on a power trip. Again, good on OP's dad for putting his daughter first, and I wish them all the best❤
Yeah, I get the feeling that Jacqueline is definitely that one teacher that everyone hates, including the staff
If OP had just been honest about Jacqueline from the beginning all this drama wouldn't have happened.
Also, recording J being a nasty step mom would be proof dad would have to dump the garbage.
Here's hoping it will occur to OP to be open in the future.
Way to victim-blame there, Jason
Jaqueline’s bullying is not OP’s fault AT ALL. OP is SIXTEEN! She was trying to juggle having her own life with keeping the adults in her life happy. If her grown-ass father had grown a spine sooner, then she wouldn’t have had to endure Jaqueline’s BS.
It’s not a teenager’s job to correct an adult’s behavior. Sit down.
@@mc-rn8ro I think you mistook my point. I was saying OP could learn to be open because she didn't feel comfortable telling dad she was having issues but she didn't want dad to just dump J. If that openness had happened then when/if things really got bad, as they did, then there'd be a basis for dad to believe OP immediately. OP wasn't able to speak to dad with the clarity of the talk at the end of the story, not at the beginning with the new gf staying at the house.
Maybe I wasn't clear enough.
I agree with you that it wasn't OP'S place to make J behave like a decent person.
I haven't watched the video yet, but just want to say that when the quiet guy is disrespected and his feelings are dismissed and devalued, there may come a time when he snaps, and there could be a bloodbath when he finally sets the record straight.
Just FYI, beware the guy who has nothing left to lose.
She was a Major 🚩🚩🚩from the very beginning ‼️🚩‼️
Spoiled kids never think they're spoiled.
I know some people who are single parents throw their parent/son or daughter bond away for their significant other and then regret it later. I know 1 person who didn’t and stand up for his kid. More people need to use the body called:
A spine
CAN ALWAYS JUDGE A PERSON. BY THEM. NEVER ! EVER ! HAVE HAD ANY FRIENDS ! WHATSOEVER
SHE MAD. BECAUSE SHE HAS NEVER ! EVER ! HAD. ANY. FRIENDS ! WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE ! NOBODY. HAS EVER WANTED A PERSON LIKE HER ! AS. A FRIEND
Humans and birds are not so different. We both have nesting instincts as females. Your dad has built a nest for and with you. Your dad has let you decorate the nest he built with you from all your memories when he was teaching you to spread your wings and learn to fly. Your dad has taught you to be independent and given you freedom to maintain the nest decorate it with all the memories of all the flights your dad has taken you on while he was teaching you to fly. You have also gotten used to leaving your pretty feathers around and cooking with all the things your dad brings home to the nest for the both of you. You have turned into a pretty bird, who can build, decorate a comfortable nest and make your own meal worm and seed casserole for both papa bird and yourself. You got used to being the only female bird in the nest.
Then your dad got his head turned by another pretty bird. She forced her way into your nest. She tears up your nest and alll the memories of your flights with your papa bird and your pretty feathers. Then she attacks the way you make meals, your pretty feathers are not good enough, the way you have maintained the nest isn't good enough, then she attacks your papa birds abilities to bring home the right provisions. Then once all the reminders of yours and your papa birds former nest are gone she drives a wedge between you to start the process of forcing you out of your nest. Your friends are not welcome and neither are you and papa bird happy with the nest she has built that is sterile and no longer holds the memories of your flights together. All the whole all your dad sees are her pretty feathers as she tries to clip your wings and render you flightless.
While she is gone, you need to box up all her feathers and the things she brought into your nest. Then take all the memories out of storage and rebuild the nest the way you and your papa bird built it before. Then make your papa bird a good meal because he needs protein from all the meal worms he has been denied.
Then ask your papa not to let another pretty bird invade your nest who intends to tear up your nest and clip your wings. Ask him to protect your nest and only allow another bird in that wants to be part of it and add good flight memories to the nest with you.
Some birds do devour the young when trying to find a mate.
Also, the guilt is because you saw her manipulating and had to resort to fighting fire with fire. It doesn't feel good to stoop to that, but that is the only language she understood.
Fly high little bird.
10:38 what pun?
8:35 don’t worry, plant based diets are not food so it doesn’t go to waste
The gf is crazy but she’s not lying about the ponytail, keep doing it by your mid 20s early 30s your hairline will be receding (if it’s still there)
I’ll tell you what he see’s in her! 😺😺😹
Story one
It is not your job to be the adult your father is asking you to be the adult not his girlfriend he thinks should be given a warm welcome she is bullying you
You have every right to stand up when she behaves badly to you and tries to humiliate you in front of your friends I think you should speak to your father about exactly what is happening she is bullying you his daughter you are not responsible for your mother dying and you are not responsible for her happiness you are allowing her to have a relationship with your father with out any problems
This woman intends to stay ,and this girlfriend she sees you as a threat, I so sorry you have had to tolerate her she has shoe horned herself into your fathers house
She doesn't love your father she is a gold digger who wants you out why is your father permitting her behaviour without argument
I wonder what happened to your fathers spine does he not see what happening and his allowing her to become the boss in his house
🤗👍
Lol sounds like a teen wrote the first one as writing assignment 😅
If so, at least she admitted she was a teen.
She admits she’s Sixteen.
So, yeah. Congrats. You picked up on a teen who says she’s a teen being a teen.