3 UPDATES: My Golden Sister Couldn't Accept The Fact That I Made Our Parents Happy By Giving...
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- 3 UPDATES: My Golden Sister Couldn't Accept The Fact That I Made Our Parents Happy By Giving Them My Pregnancy News, So She Paid My Abusive Ex To Pull This Stunt At My Baby Shower...I Was One Step Ahead & Oh Boy, Karma Did Hit Her Hard Bcuz Parents Don't Want To See Her Face Anymore!
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Hi, so I (28f) recently had a baby shower and it didn’t turn out the way that I had expected it to, which is why I am here right now. So for context, I have an older sister, Rebecca (32f), and she’s kind of been the golden child all her life. She was kind of great at everything growing up, academically, or even otherwise. She was that one kid who excelled in everything that she did, and everybody else got compared to her, including me. My parents always used her to set the standard for me and it was a lot of pressure, I’m not gonna lie because I don’t think I was cut out for the same kind of things that she had already done.
Should have took the evidence, hired a lawyer & sued for slander & mental distress
While I believe the parents made the right choice in cutting off Rebecca, they should not have told her it was because of OP's ultimatum. They should have told her that what she did was vile, and that's why they were cutting her off.
really good point
Agreed, but they just couldn't be the bad guys to the golden one, old habits die hard, so they sold out the scapegoat one last time.
@@noydb-1 Indeed, just smh @ those poor excuses lol
No parent should ever cut off their kids. It’s terrible. That’s why this story is fiction.
That's a restraining order for the sister and the ex. And I would sue them both.
Strange story. I think OP's parents are playing games too. Why tell the sister about the ultimatum? Sounds suspicious.
Sounds like weak parenting, they are scared of her temper tantrums and wanted to get rid of her the easy way, by throwing the other child under the bus, seems to me that they are in a way responsible for this situation as well, they have taught the elder sister our love is represented by the attention and approbation we give out and now its going to the younger sister the elder can't compute (not in anyway excusing what she did only suggesting her reason for doing so)
I agree with you, they are still picking a sibling over another and repeating the same mistake they made in the past.
@@bambam6368exactly
So the crazy sister's boyfriend moved away 'for work' and did not want to have a LDR so he broke up with her.
Given everything, I suspect he didn't really move away for work. I think he ran away, as far and fast as he could, from a sociopath.
I was thinking the same. Sister needs professional help.
@@sandrapersaud3105 She probably won't ever get it. Plus I don't think psychiatry can cure sociopaths and psychopaths. Narcissists are sociopaths, I think.
Problem with restraining orders is the really DETERMINED ones will keep at it just enough that they only get warned away until their victims get tired of calling the police.
But in this case just the fact that she, a physician, has a restraining order against her would look VERY bad on her and possibly result in loss of work and ability to admit patients to the hospital.
It's like in The Chicks song Goodbye Earl, "Earl walked right through that restraining order an put her in intensive care."
Sister was lucky she wasn't sued for slander. Plus the parents didn't want to lose their grandchild!
Another example of a person in the medical field that shouldn't be.
Retired nurse here there are many MDs that are total shits and liars.
My guess is sis's next step will involve kidnapping the child. Either to get rid of the competition for her parents' attention, or to claim its hers to win the competition for their attention. Will the restraining order be enough to stop her?
If she kidnaps the child, she will lose her license to practice medicine and end up in prison. Is sister crazy enough to destroy her very own life due to jealousy???
Op sister let her ego get the best of her and now she has to deal with the consequences of her actions
Story one
Your sister could have caused you serious health issues you are pregnant and sending your ex was truly beyond the normal behaviour she paid him to cause you serious stress if you had got bad blood pressure you could end up in hospital or a fight could have been caused she can not bear to see you happy
There's no excuse for being a vindictive person.
Wow she is the doctor from hell I would have taken her to court jealousy is a crime I would have never forgive her
And has she not considered what repercusions would be for her actions on her medical licence?
Yeah, that went beyond crazy. And they should have been threatening her after the first and second events that she sabotaged of yours.
these parents are crazy and toxic, they are the AH... they complete destroyed the sisters relatioship from the start... never had a chance
Well golden child ended up being outcast 😅she got what was rightly deserve 😊😊
NTA, what sister did is outrageous. actually paying an ex to show up at the baby shower and claim the baby was his???? what if OP's husband had believed him? sister could have ruined OP's marriage. there's no excuse for that behavior. sister needs therapy. OP not to blame for never wanting to see sister again. Parents shouldn't have put it on OP though, that's just making the situation worse with sister.
Tell the receptionist to call the police! And get a restraining order for their work places, houses and other places.
Can’t imagine my sister ever doing these things that sisters do in these stories, I love my sister we’re different it was never a competition and we’re adopted both of us. We get along better than most bio sisters.
I have the worst brothers in the world. One has passed the other is one that has passed in my mind.
My sister and I are tight together.
It’s better to leave a toxic situation than continue to be abused.
Thank you Now you are showing me what is this afternoon Dan is settling can really be. Thank you Kathy for showing me what a sibling should be.
Don’t take 💩 their situation and their response is not your responsibility.
I would press charges!!!
Thanks! Really love how you narrate stories. God bless you!
Wow! Thank you so much!!!!!!!
No! She has always sabotage your moments because of her attention seeking behavior. She didn't care how hurt you were WHILE pregnant.
Psycho sis wanted to endanger OP. Sis and ex should have been arrested.
Sis would have an unfortunate Wood Chipper Accident and Ex would get sued
OP has a business degree meaning she has at the least, some brains and some smarts. Why not go NC with people who have been negative with her all her life? What does adult OP gain by involving parents + sister in her life after marrying, getting pregnant and living a dream life?
I read in another comment that parents ARE PLAYING GAMES. People don't change and OP believing that parents have changed and love both D equally is a fairy tale concocted by OP's delusions. Parents SAID SO but it is important to observe them behaving accordingly. It may be that parents only want access to their first grand child and are willing to become actors!
Why is birth family SO important that you are willing to get sucked into their negativity and toxicity ??????????
OP is responsible for 50+ % of what happened to her after she became an adult. She makes butter knives appear sharp in comparison
Any time someone starts crying and you feel bad, remember this: you are being manipulated. My brother would tell me how bad HIS life was as a child. The childhood that I had been part of, and the brother I had done the best to protect. So, realise what's happening, and garden up. Go no contact if you need to. Your sister (or any reader's relative...) is just trying to get their own way. Don't give in. Be strong!
Stories like this make me so glad I'm an only child 😮
So the ex crashes the baby shower, insults and falsely accuses op and her husband just stood there and did nothing? Why does op keep hooking up with losers?
I would tell my parents and family to never tell Rebecca ANYTHING about my life or my name. I am tried of her sabotage my life. My parents should understand and stop trying to get us together. I want nothing to do with her again!
Why are all these stories about doormats. Oh woe is me! I would have gone scorched earth.
Because these are just about relationships. You have to go to the revenge stories for that.
@oonachestnut509 There can be relationship storyline without a doormat.
Maybe because "not doormats" doesnt need advise? What point in seeking validation when you youself fully sure about your disision?
@@oonachestnut509 Yeah, btw this. In stories from strong people it's usually AITA for how i DID things, did i go overboard/etc.
Sister needs mental help now.
Parents should pay for it
It’s ridiculous to ask a parent to choose. Your about to be a mother. You can block her and never talk to her. But you can’t tell your parents to never talk to there child or they would lose you too.
Ps, fancy being stalked by a doctor... That could lose her her whole career!
I don't think it is good manners to throw a baby shower for yourself.
The only thing I disagree with is giving the parents an ultimatum. That's manipulation. Let them do what they want to do. I dont do ultimatums. As soon as someone gives me an ultimatum, Im done with you period. Even if my brother was entitled (he is not, he is a good guy) I would never do that.
What kind of doctor is Rebecca? Cause she sure has a lot of time on her hands to harass at such a high level! She sure could use a really good therapist!
*#KARMA** Bites Rebecca in the Rear 😂😂😂 !!!*
Not a viable excuse! People break up all the time. You can be happy for other people even in a bad time in your life. So that is no excuse. WHY???
Sounds like he's gonna be number two after your sister
Yes the sister was terrible but I don't think that you should have made the parents pick between the two of you. You could have remained separate from your sister and still to allow your parents to have relationships with both of you
And now you make it even worse.By having the relatives decide between the two of you. I'm sorry you've gone too far
As bad as the sister was, op was still ta for giving her parents an ultimatum and forcing the parents to just cut off the other daughter the minute she f’ed up. The parents didn’t need to support the sisters actions but needed to work with her to help her behavior. But by cutting her off the sister will only get worse and the parents will have to suffer the most just to appease op.
These are not full updates their are no final closures on the situation.
most real stories doesnt have one, life kinda going, going and going
I wouldn't have chosen either one of you. You're not gonna put me in a position where I have to choose between my two kids. I don't care what she did. I'd deal with her for what she did but not because you threatened me to do so. Don't like it. ✌️
She is psychotic and dangerous.
I agree. It is fine for OP. But not for her parents. Rebecca is their daughter too. OP's ultimatum reeks of emotional blackmail. If her sister had an affair with OP's husband that would be different but she did not. She just paid Kurt to ruin OP's baby shower. It did not ruin OP's marriage. It was a stupid stunk by Rebecca who suffers from Golden Child Syndrome and narcissism.
God only knows of she tries to take your child.
Sister needs a mental health check up plus getting a RO on her more likely will cost her job. And she will not be hired no where else with that on her record medical boards don't play when it comes to things like that.
Sad they cut off the crazy sister. Instead of getting her some counseling
Counseling would not help with the sister's problems. She does not have a treatable psychiatric problem.
Let this be a lesson that some doctors can be some of the shittiest people and chose that profession for prestige and clout
R needs to be arrested. I don't know why 'famblee' are such chickens*** in doing what is necessary
I get completely that she did something stupid and unforgivable but isolating your sister from everyone is an ah move. The fault lies with the parents. They raised them with one having preferential treatment over the other, whether it was intentional or not and Rebecca's entire mindset is a result of that.
they cut her out not because she's AHole, but because she literally invited problems in sister's and sister's baby life. What if she would kidnap kid? What if she do some other creep and dangerous stuff?
@@helar2574 I understand that completely but I didn't mean the parents. I meant the rest of the family. She seemed pleased that their entire family, not just their parents, cut her off. You can't base it on what might or might not happen. She could still do what you mentioned, even cut off. The ultimatum was wrong too. It should be a case of I don't want anything to do with her but you're welcome to whatever relationship you want.
@@helar2574 Plus the sister knew that it was an abusive situation there
@@charliannemichaels7232 in perfect world we would have unicorns and fart with rainbows.
In real life people can be gleefull, that someone who bring only pain and drama get some bad things in their life.
Plus, ultimatum was only for parents, other relatives cut her off on their own, and that tells a lot
Ending: OP says: "I am so sick of it"
OP, I am so sick of your inability to take firm actions, and say NO! and mean it. I won't be surprised if husband decides he doesn't want the negativity YOU ARE LETTING INTO your life. What a doormat/ jellyfish/ invertebrate!
She sounds like a Karen in the making
And at your home. Your address.
I think OP is in the wrong! Fine be mad at the sister but to take out ALL her support because she's mad. Telling family not to invite her to family function until she's okay with it. Giving parents ultimatums, probably using grandkid as an bargaining chip to get her way. Yeah to me she's the A-hole. She knew what will happen cause they discussed how badly she'll react when the parents admitted how they raised her. Again it's one thing to hit up the parents but to tell other family not to invite her until she's okay with it. Entitled much! Sure tell everyone what she did but let them choose to invite her or not, like she would get the choice to attend or. Op's a brat
This won’t be a popular opinion. But objectively I think it would be acceptable to cut the sister off. However to tell your parents and the rest of your family to isolate one person it’s actually dangerous.
Think about it. That sister spent all of her life as the “golden child”. She was indeed horrible to pay an ex to ruin her sisters life ( failed miserably thank God!) but what should have taken place was the parents informing sister that they love both daughters. How it was unacceptable to do something So despicable and that they would need to go low contact for a while so that she can reflect on her horrible actions. It should have been stated that she was no longer allowed around the pregnant sister and that they were deeply disturbed and disappointed with her. Also why tell sister that they were given an ultimatum? Mad shifty to be honest. They should also tell insecure sister to seek some counseling. Seriously
Just having everyone cut contact with her seems like your pushing her to extremes. Especially knowing that she’s suffering from some insecurity due to seeing how her life is playing out comparing to the pregnant sister. If the sister commits suicide who is to blame? I think OP is valid in her feelings but drastic in trying to make everyone cut the sister out of her life.
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I wouldn't help a doormat like OP who keeps feeling bad for a vile, evil, nasty, and manipulative person, and keeps allowing her to do it over and over again. OP should remain a doormat, because her character suits that.
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