6 UPDATES: Entitled Husband Kept Inviting His Family Over Throughout My Pregnancy And Expected Me To
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- 6 UPDATES: Entitled Husband Kept Inviting His Family Over Throughout My Pregnancy And Expected Me To Cook For Them Until I Finally Snapped And Told Him To "Make It Yourself" When He Asked Me To Serve The Food One Evening And Now I'm The Bad Guy Because My Husband Thinks I Disrespected His Family And Is Accusing Me Of Trying To Isolate Him
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So all of this started a couple of weeks ago when I found out that I was four weeks pregnant. My husband and I were thrilled so we hosted a dinner party a couple of days after we found out, so that we could make an announcement for our families. But the problem started when people from his family started showing up every other day to visit us and he would invite them to stay for dinner, no matter what.
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OP doesn’t need the ex-in laws in her home visiting the baby any time they want.OP needs to set the time when they should visit.
Guests should always be aware of not wearing out their welcome, big family or not.
These lowlives were not even guests who didn't know about OP's condition, they were in-laws who knew she was pregnant, and yet they were making her work like a maid and a servant after she came back from her 9 to 5 job. What kind of monster would forget that their DIL or SIL is pregnant. As for the scumbag, OP repeated told him about her suffering from cooking for so many people, and she even requested him to stop with his shenanigans, but he didn't.
I just wish that OP doesn't get back with him, he and his family showed their true colors, and she should know that, it is not a wise decision to get back with him after all this chaos.
she made a mistake in marrying this overly enmeshed boy
Family guests should always be aware of burdening a newly pregnant exhausted woman who works as hard as her husband, yet is expected to take on all the hosting and hospitality duties! What kind of garbage is that?!
@@melindaflick631 These scumbags were not even guests, they were family members, who were living down just a couple of blocks from OP. They knew she was pregnant and kept coming everyday for the free dinner.
Notice OP says "sister actually started saying what she wanted for dinner", says it all. They didn't come with an intent to visit them, but certainly with the intention to eat.
Don't be a fool, OP! A guy who puts his parents, siblings, & extended relatives first before you, the spouse, just to "look good" in their eyes is NOT going to change anytime soon, if ever! If you decide to get back together, he WILL go back to his old habit as soon as your guard is down! Don't put your child through that...he can have a happy life with two parents who, although living separately, get along and are cordial with one another vs having parents who live together but fight constantly because of differences in their lifestyle choices!
I'm sorry but what kind of husband invites his family over and yet expects his pregnant wife to do all the cooking and serving when he's fully capable of doing it himself
An Asshole husband that’s who 😡😡😡
One who's a mama's boy and mommy has been trying to put the wife behind mommy in the pecking order.
the red flags were there for several years.. she chose to overlook it. doesn't excuse it.. but this was an overly enmeshed baby boy she married.
He's basking in the limelight of having achieved his desired lifestyle. He has a traditional wife that cooks and entertains for him and with a baby on the way. He's showing off.
@@carolsimpson4422 But, having his pregnant wife on her feet cooking so much is bad for her. She will end up with varicose veins in her legs. I guess once her legs start looking bad, he will blame her for not being as attractive as before and divorce her so as to marry someone young without varicose veins.
Ops, husband, thinks that because she's pregnant , he's got her trapped. He thinks he can treat her however he pleases. She needs a divorce. NOT counceling. That ship has been left the port and sailed.
That is why babies are called balls and chains. that really brings out misogynists and incels.
"He said I should have saved it for later". Translation: "Later... when I can ignore you safely without risking being embarrassed".
Any normal family would never accept last minute dinner invitations constantly. Especially when the person doing the inviting isn't the one cooking. What an AH.
Wow, like wow, that guy....like what a dolt. If your not going to stand up for your pregnant wife you have no business bein married. Just a really sad story.
I was utterly fatigued during the first term and had bad morning sickness. Working all day and cooking at night, no way. Their roles in the marriage were too rigid. The cooking for family should have been renegotiated or family should have help. I I'm glad that OP had the support of her family and I would be very very cautious about marrying that man again.
Easy solution is he can cook for his guests, i'm 40 and love cooking and normally cook enough to feed me for a 2-3 days
yeah, she's working the same hours as him, pregnant and he still expects her to cook. that's a sign that she'll be doing all the "womenly" duties when the baby is born too. OP should GTFO and make him take care of the kid 50% of the time.
Well, in truth, she is very lucky she got away from him and his family of narcissistic sociopaths! It is sad that she is now tied to him via her child but I hope he loses interest.
If the husband is being insensitive and disregarding his wife when she is pregnant and will probably invite and bombard her when the child is born. He will push all the work on OP and tell not to complain. The family doesn't care about OP's feelings and perspective.
The husband is acting like a child. He was in the wrong and should apologized and talked with his family about how to do future visits. I would only say the in- laws are wrong if they are all like the sister. First thing she says when invited by husband (her brother) is what she wants to eat. Not confirm if the wife is okay with it or offering to help.
Edited: only heard up to update 1, so might have harsher judgement on in-laws in the end
How many times did she have to tell him to stop inviting his family over so much. His family should have known how tired she was. Especially since she was experiencing morning sickness
OP was totally in the right and had she not stood up for herself it would've just kept on until after she had the baby, then she'd STILL be dealing with it while being a new mother with no privacy or rest. I've listened to this story already but I really have to say what a STUPID reason to get divorced. If they do end up together again hopefully he and his family have learned to respect her and her boundaries. They REALLY should've known better.
i just hope she went back to her parents.
OP needs to sit husband down and say if you invite people over you cook and clean for them or I'll go stay with my parents.
Op would be a idiot if she went back with him cause nothing will change he only saying those things just so she would go back and she gonna fall right back into the patterns
If you can arrange it go stay with your parents for the rest of your pregnancy. And maybe a little after
When we are invited to anyone home for a meal, we always ask what can we do to help. Then dishes washed up at the end of the meal. Just common sense.
I wonder if he was trying to show his family how he was the man of the house with his woman at beck and call because he really did a doozy
Probably you are right. I was thinking about the same crap. Notice, how OP phrased it in the end when she snapped at, "when I went out my husband made the mistake of telling me to serve them dinner at the earliest and his sister actually started saying what she wanted for dinner", which is a clear sign from husband of his authority and very clear sign, that his sister didn't just come for a visit, but they came with the very intention of having dinner in OP's place.
I'd get sick in the food. That should end the husband's free restaurant.
Shame on him ittle mommas boy Put a pregnancy belly & morning sickness on him see how he feels that will show you if he’s a real man he won’t like it one bit!!! 😡 Men little babies Good luck to you & your son what a great family you have they are still taking advantage of you ❤️❤️❤️
I’m starting to think that he didn’t want to be married, let alone have a baby.
OP’s husband has two arms. If he’s inviting all these people over he can cook for them or get takeout. Your wife is pregnant. She can’t do everything like she used to at the moment and it’s rude what you’re doing
It's very rude of OP's husband to invite people home for dinner without discussing it with OP first. Especially when he wanted HER to do all the cooking for the guests. He treated her like a housemaid and not a wife. He didn't care if she was really tired after work or not.
Granted, OP could have told everybody in a less confronting way like saying that sorry she is really tired today and needs to get to bed early. Still, OP's husband is the AH since he had started taken her for granted. It wasn't a one time thing, but something happening regularly. At least he realized how wrong he was after he got divorced.
Unfortunately pride ruined his marriage. He had so many time he could have swallowed his pride and spoken to his wife while she lived with her parents. This should be a lesson to other couples to not cut-off communications after you had a fight. Every day you remain silent is one day closer to a divorce none of you really want.
I wouldn’t have done it the first time, his family, his problem. My husband wouldn’t dare do that, he knows exactly where I would tell him to go, his family also knew not to try that crap with me. Been married 36 years
Marriage Rule 1: Love is all you need.
Marriage Rule 2: But a take-away doesn't hurt either.
Op,, create boundaries with in laws, after say the 2 months mark,,,, its your PARENTS home,, your ex needs to spend some alone time,, with himself without his family,, to miss what he had now baby, here,,, and again it's your PARENTS HOME,,, boundaries need setting,,, depending on how you both, work at parent hood,, and what he does, there is a possibility for getting together,, but up to update 5 what I was going to say was,,, if hubby and his family were going to be ass, holes, then putting baby up for adoption, could be a possibility unless he changed his attitude,,, but op good luck with the future
I think they should get back together but sit and have a discussion about why they divorced and set boundaries.
there is no talking to a blockhead like that
"But its not an apology but its not an apology"? What is that supposed to mean when said two times in a row with a "but" in between?
So you gave them the same access after all of that? So as long as its your parents servants doing the work its good? Lame
Op should tell her husband that he can be with his family while I set back and collect child support from you
Well you know what to do it's to prepare for your divorce form this selfish man ,and remember if he doesn't have access to your baby from after birth you can get child support and he gets visitation and has to wait till the baby old enough to ask for limited custody of you child
Please remember to breast feed as that forces him further from you and your baby see a divorce lawyer as soon as possible
He obviously prefers his family not you and your unborn baby I think his family as re taking advantage of a pregnant woman he doesn't care about you or your wealth tell him to move out and live with his family get a lawyer he needs a serious wake up call now I would not advise marriage counselling because he to dense to realise he putting you at risk
I don't think he truly wants your baby and I think he already has another woman sadly I believe he has someone lined up or his mother does if you discover this to be true it changes everything
Please don't trust him to much he could revert to being selfish he may regret it but he needs therapy
If, as soon as your divorce is final, you regret it, you are an idiot. 10x if you have kids.
If she was happy with the divorce now, I would have no issue with her choices. But pulling the plug prematurely is a huge idiot move.
Btw, divorce doesn't happen in just a few months. It takes at least a year before the judge okey's it. Yeah, even if both parties are in agreement.
How often did they visit the in-law and eat over there
DIVORZXO The Mama's boy lol.
Did anyone else try to come up with idea to do a pot luck