4 UPDATES: I Had Been Financially Supporting My Mom For 5 Yrs But She Kicked Me Out The Moment Her..
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- 4 UPDATES: I Had Been Financially Supporting My Mom For 5 Yrs But She Kicked Me Out The Moment Her "Favorite Daughter", Who Ran Away With Her Deadbeat BF Yrs Ago, Returned Home With Her "Son"...A Week Later, Mom Calls Me In Tears Bcos Cops Came Looking For My Sister& Now Both Of Them Might End Up In Jail Bcos of THIS!
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Five years back, my older sister Jackie ran away with her deadbeat college dropout boyfriend, Scott. She was 20 at the time and he was 21 and they’d been together for five years by then. The two of them had been inseparable since school, and my family had never approved of him because he had always been up to no good. He was not particularly good at academics and was constantly getting in trouble at school, and in high school, he started smoking and drinking and doing everything that one should not do.
Her favorite daughter is not being persecuted. She is being rightfully prosecuted.
Omg I rolled my eyes so much through this so freakin' much I'm surprised my eyeballs are still in my head. I have no words
I have plenty, but if I use them, I won't be able to write on here for twenty four hours.😅
@@ravenfox926
She put herself on fire to warm her mother..... Should have gone to college and built herself up
The OP's mother is showing a lot of gratitude to the OP's criminal and delinquent sister.
Once she kicked you out? You had zero duty owed to your mother.
You love & stand by a mom who hates you. Stop playing the good guy.
Did you not listen to part 4? The mom fessed up to being wrong and she's even working now so this isn't a money thing. Real narcissists and Karens are only able to give non-apologies. It's genuine when they own up to everything and don't ask for anything in return.
@@markbenand yeah cause she knows OP is her only back-up when her brothers stops supporting her.
@@Chickenfriedpenguin Like I said, she's supporting herself with a new job. But let's go further cupcake. I don't know if you need the constant "mommy please love" self-assurance but for me, I'd be fine with supporting so long as she keeps her mouth shut about the other sister and remembers not to bite the hand that feeds her. See if there is one thing I can't stand aside from solipsistic selfishness it stupidity and a lack of pragmatism or practicality.
I am absolutely the guy who would marry and obvious gold digger and trophy wife who is only with me for my money so long as she remembers the job requirements: Stay pretty, keep me serviced, and don't cross me or step out of line. Because I would get a prenup and make it clear if she wants the lavish life and goodies, she has to earn them.
I have no problems with a business arrangement or quid pro quo so long as people stick to the agreement.
@@Chickenfriedpenguin Exactly and very obviously.
@@markbenand dude wtf are you even talking about.
also don't call guys(or anyone) cupcake weirdo...no wonder you don't mind a gold digger by your creepy ass comment i assume a transactional relationship is all you can get.
don't act like it's a win, lol
🤦🏻♀️ Op's mom kicked her out, blocked her and yet Op wants to keep in touch with her ! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
You can't help doormats, because they don't listen to anything worthy enough to make their own life good.
Brother that woman hasn’t been a real mother to ever in your life. You need to go no contact with her and her favorite child that isn’t you.
Not even 2 min in, and this OP completely lost me. They dropped out of college because they didn't want mommy to get a job? So mommy is OP's wife??? What an idiot!
Wow, this woman should be locked up for life!
OP has a case of Sunk Cost Fallacy. I am just pessimistic about OP's relationship with her mother.
Sorry from the UK what is skunk coast fallecy
@@juliairwin-gh2bl : Lol! I dunno! What IS "skunk coast fallecy "? Did your device auto-correct?
I wrote "Sunk Cost Fallacy." Please do a search online for the meaning.
@@juliairwin-gh2bl : "Skunk coast fallecy?" 🤣 Did your device auto-correct the spelling? I believe I wrote "Sunk Cost Fallacy." Please try searching online for the meaning.
@@juliairwin-gh2bl Sunk cost fallacy is where you have put money into something bad and instead of quitting, you pour more money in thinking you can turn it around. A little like in for a penny, in for a pound except you should have stopped investing.
Skunk coast fallacy is people from the west coast who have stunk up their state, so they move to other states and continue voting for the same people who drove them out in the first place. They do not learn, much like OP.
@@saran.4001 thanks for explaining this it does seem to fit in the markles story
What the hell are you talking about ? The mother could go up on an Obstruction charge .
The wicked daughter is not being “persecuted”. She is being “prosecuted”.
OP kind of screwed over her mother by discouraging her from getting a job.
Yeah there is a saying for this.
The judicial system works much faster in Reddit-land than it does in the real world. Mom: "I really miss you." Translation: "I really miss your money."
It is when it's a "serious" crime like kidnapping. That's also why it takes up to 5 years for little shit to get dealt with.
How about letting your sister feel the full force of the law for kidnapping a child who isn't hers and risking his future life with PTSD. Tell the lawyer to start sending your mother the legal bills.
Like always, the OP is a complete pushover. "Not about the money"? Just because her brother been paying instead? Then let him continue doing so. But let's be honest, they want OP to resume doing so. She was thrown out like trash so easily. I really get so pissed off listening to all these spineless people just letting them getting stepped on in the name of "family".
You should be more pissed at the abuser. Those "spineless" OPs you mad at, are damage from things like this. And it harder than you think to stand up for yourself from children to adults going through it.
Tell us you are a doormat without telling us you are there oop!
The sister was not persecuted, since she was guilty she was prosecuted.
So the house was big enough for OP, her sister and her parents, but apparently far too small for OP, her sister, the child and her mother?
Also OP needs therapy badly. Her mother is trash, and in the end comes up with excuses for her terrible behaviour. She had no excuse at all to kick OP out, but at least from last update, it sounds like OP has become more independent.
Your mother showed you, her favorite. Stop being a doormat.! She now knows , she was wrong? Live separate and separate lives. Time for you to have a life.
I would never have contacted the mother. If she called me, I would have told her the visiting days at the prison.
There is a possible flaw in this story. You live in your childhood home but it can only accommodate 2 people so unless you shared with your sister growing up it means you living comfortably was wrong.
Many siblings share rooms, especially if they are same gender.
I stayed in a room with my siblings when we were yonger
Comfortable is subjective
@@Danarchy3it can also change with the perception of age and time from memory
2 bedrooms, mum in bed 1, sisters in bed 2, a house with a garden. I don’t know what is meant by “comfort” but that seems pretty comfortable to me.
“She was the only person there for me” yes because her golden child left and she had nobody else
Same thing happened at the end. Her golden child went to jail so she told OP everything she wanted to hear. The “mother” knew OP would come crawling back to her and that’s why she unblocked OP but never actually tried to call her.
And in a few more months, uncle will get tired of supporting the mom and the daughter will be right back to being the atm. There is no helping those who refuse to see the true situation. The mom is a user and the daughter an enabler.
I had to cut my father off for showing favorites between my younger sister and I. I no longer talk to him but I am still close with my sister.
As you should!
She should have blocked her mom
wow I am not sure I would allow someone who I was supporting to kick me out when I was paying the bills and then go back for more abuse.. mom is mom not a husband.
It is irresponsible to let a grown woman not work after her husband died. Also, don't pay a mortgage unless you get an ownership stake. Lqstly, don't take a rrug addict into your house.
As soon as the mom cries and and begs her to come home, O.P. is going to drop her life again to raise her mother. OP is never going to have her own life. Why let someone keep treating like shit over and over and keep going back for more.
Oh, come on. Your mother kicked you out of the house after two days of Jackie being home and you feel like the bad guy. Not your clowns, not your circus. Move on and stay out of that house. Support neither and go live.
For goidness sake OP, your Mother dropped you like a hit potato the minute your sister returned. If you want to stay in contact, fine, but remember, as soon as Sis gets out of jail you will be unnecessary again. 😻😁😻
NTA OP. Your mother doesn't want you, she just wants your money, as money is power. She could have got a job herself five years ago and had her own money, but she chose not to. So you are the expected ATM. That child did not appear by magic with your errant sister so it would be difficult to make a case that she was innocent of a serious crime, which is what your mother wants you to pay to have established. Save your money. Your mother will remortgage the house to pay for a lawyer to fight a losing battle. You get your own house and mortgage and tend to your own future and living arrangements rather than be at the mercy of your mother and her follies and preferences.
Ill never get the way folks r about family . I dont cling to anyone when u screw me over im done .i dont give into toxic family . If they bad they just bad and dont change
Love the title. Sounds like good karma, lol.
Here’s the thing no good mother, would ever turn away their child or their grandchildren. Seriously what is the
point of this story except to try to prove who is a better person? Because OP isn’t actually coming out as great.
Even if your sister is in to “shady things “ that’s what a child. WTAF?
Op is spineless, i hate doormat stories
My only problem with a stay-at-home mom is she's limited to what she can do if there's something happens to the spouse then she certainly has to go out and try and earn or something and with no experience or no one to do it it gets really difficult for 😅 anyone having some way to earn money even if it's just a little savings in case of a rainy day also get you out of the house and get you to know other people in case you need help someone else can help you or not just hopefully you have a family member that might be nice enough to come in and help you out one day
Oops mom bet on the wrong horse. So sorry and sad. Stay out of this clown show. Let mom and her favorite daughter deal with her issues. Not your problem. Stop sucking up to your mom. She was just using you. Cut ties mom only wants your money. She has Jacky
A really excellent way to get people to not do what you want, is to call them they need to get over their jealousy lol. OP is dumb as hell tho for even helping her mom out.
Do not assist your sister she tortured a innocent toddler,but I would not assist your sister imagine how scared that poor child was of your sister I would watch your sister go to jail ,and cheer your mother did not support you so if you help your mother but I never move back into her house she sees you as a ATM she has absolutely no thanks for what you did
Let her wallow in her self pity for her golden child the daughter who steals a man's child out of spite she going to ask for money and the answer should be sorry I going to live my own life,and you cut me off fast and you show absolutely no thanks
¿Was OP a man or a woman?
It's your mothers house. If you don't want your sister in your living area, move out. It's obvious that you hold a lot of resentment for your older sister
This is the stupidest fkkn comment on this whole video