U're one of the biggest plot twist of my 2019. All of the failures in school heartbreaks so many times but ure there to guide me thru dark times. I owe it you Craig and coach margarette. Godbless you both! U're fan from Philippines 😁
What u guys described though is what LOA is basically about. Its about releasing or letting go of that resistance and energy in order to get them back. Nice video, though :)
Love the video. I think it's spot on. When you manifest someone using Law of Attraction, you are supposed to let go and believe it's already yours. I definitely believe in energy and sensing other people. I also believe the psychology behind it that you teach. They're both right. 😉
When you heal from the breakup is that when you finally let go? I know that you can set the intention but then let it go. The law of attraction says that be open to receive. I like guided meditation. I thought of the umbilical cord. It takes several times kind of like saying positive affirmations to believe it. All of that is mindfulness. I would recommend people to read the path of yoga sutras. It talks about attachment which is what hurts us the most and some other things. Great video!
Sometimes all we need is to let go of all the "wanting" and "needing" and just relax... just knowing that things are coming at the right time and if it's meant to be, it will be :) This applies to every situation in life ! Let go of resistance
with all respect, this is why we never listen to dating advice from women :)) Wanting is sexy and confidence. Needing is getting rejected for sure. Knowing.. Actually you could use the books of coach Craig and work on yourself (generally speaking) and transform/evolve yourself. Only after that you will truly know everything is going to work out, because you are crushing it on every level. And I have to agree with you on something saying: don't forget to have fun, transform that resistance(that energy) into something positive. Cheers love !
Sometimes if we show too much love, wanting and needing, that's the time they feel their love for us has gone. Because they feel secured and feel enough for them. I realized letting go can make sometimes make them feel they lost the person who loves them truly and that's the time they would feel regret.
It’s been 3 months no contact it’s hard but well worth it . Sometimes It takes losing someone to find yourself . God bless everyone that is going through it we will prevail .
You truly need to let go and work on yourself. Went no contact focused and worked on myself and two months later my ex came back saying he made a huge mistake. Things are better than ever now with such a deeper love and respect for each other. As cliche as it sounds you don’t know what you got till it’s gone is so true. Trust the no contact and working on yourself process, it really can work!
Been over 2 months since the break.. well I think it's a break. She has never really said we are never getting back together just no pressure. But end of January I kinda brought up the relationship but I never said what's your decision more like where did we go wrong question. Been over 2 weeks of no communication. I love her to bits and I'm really struggling with the whole thing. I try to put on a brave face at work etc, but I can't keep it up
Craig you my hero man....we broke up for 2 weeks...after a 3 years relationship...she just told me she is not loving me anymore and can t see me more as her boyfriend....and than when i met you here...i did no contact for 2 weeks..absolutly not,,,not media no photos nothing ..like a ghost..after 2 weeks she texted me to tell me she really whant s to meet me and talk...but i need to want that too...so we met...and she started crying that she didn t know what was happening with her and she needed some time to settle her toughts..now after we back togheter after 6 mounths...we are happier togheter than we ever been..thanks a lot sir..cheers to you and Margret as well..you guys are my heroes ....God bless you
I release your energy from mine. I send you peace, love and compassion. I appreciate the love we shared but now it's time to let you go. I wish you well.
Watched all your videos Craig and followed your advice all the way. Let me tell you after 6 months apart from my girlfriend when I thought we would never get back together and really thought things were hopeless. We are now back together and better than ever! Craig thank you for all your advice and help anybody watching his videos listen to his advice and good things will happen. Im so thankful to you thank you for all your advice and most importantly you rekindle my relationship again for the better!
First comment. You're right coaches, that is what you must do. I have been communicating with my ex for 3 months now and its been going great. I had changed my number, and so my ex couldn't contact me but when I reached out after a year, he was so happy to hear from me. He has been so attentive and I also worked on my anxious attachment. Its so hard to believe how much he has changed, he says that I have too. I had to let him go in order to find out what's really more important and that is Me. I put him up on a pedestal. No one should come before You. Thanks Coaches.
Anntoinette Boyd wow I’m happy to see your comment because my ex changed his phone number because of me and it has been devastating. I thought maybe he would miss me and reach out but it has been 8 months NC now. What made you reach out over a year later?
@anntoinette whom broke up with who, did it end badly, how long were you together....what made you make the first contact after a year and why did you wait a year
@@JerseyGirl0911 I initiated the breakup. We were together off and on for 7 years, and I got tired of the rollercoaster emotions. I also will say that we both were tired, and it became mutual to let go. I didn't like the way that I was starting to see myself, such as jealous, and insecure. I thought that my life couldn't exist without him. Like I said in the previous comment that I was still legally married, but seperated and I wasn't happy being still attached to my ex husband, so I was constantly upset about that. Divorces are expensive. Anyway, finally 2 years ago got my divorce, so that was a relief and I also was working on other things that I didn't like about myself. I reached out when I felt that I had something different to bring to the table so to speak. I also reached out because for past experiences we always came back no matter how long it would be. He also had things that he had to work on too. He definitely has worked on them, because each time that we're together or talking I can see the change. Example...he's more open, and available now.
I am so glad with your comment, good thing you are now putting your self first which is really important because you are your own person. Love is so tricky, sometimes we think we love someone, and we must have them in our life. If you can love them, you can also learn to let them go. Love and possesion are two different feelings.
It’s kinda sad though, if you think about it, I mean if you were with the person for many years and to let them go, it’s just heart wrenching I think, because you don’t want to really lose them.
it is man, i’ve seen you comment a few times. No contact gives you time to really grieve and process. My ex left me about 3 months ago. It was 3 year relationship. I got that whole “lets just be friends.” I declined, then I started nc and about a week later I found out I was blocked on everything. Crazy, considering I did very minimal begging, in-fact I held my ground and said, If you want to work things out, let me know. I understand its sad. I don’t want to lose her either. But sometimes you have to let go of the idea of getting them back for now to really grow for yourself. You have to grow for yourself. I just want you to know you’re not alone, hell if I know if my ex has found someone else and moved on. But even if they do, continue to focus on yourself. Let go of what could have been, Let go of your “mistakes”. FOCUS on what you can do now to better yourself for yourself. We are not perfect in this world, but neither was our past partner. One day at a time my friend, Grow and become better. If our ex is a product of our growth, sure why not, try again. But remember, in time with growth, we can also let go of them completely.
and to add to that- If you haven’t considered the workbooks, I highly recommend them. We can watch as many videos as we want sure. But sometimes I find I need a little guidance to navigate my feelings and man HAVE THEY HELPED. I’m on the 4th edition and man, it really makes you reflect on everything about yourself and your past relationships.
@@jon7286 If I had enough money, I’d definitely get the workbooks and or the Healing Course, and maybe coaching. I myself have been in a relationship that lasted 5 and a half years and when you are with someone for over 2 years, you get attached, and souls are one and you get emotionally and spiritually in twined, especially since mine was my first and first everything. This holiday season will be the first holiday season apart, and I’m sure for you too. She reached out a few days after Halloween and asked if I was trying to call her. I know I shouldn’t have, but I somewhat had a Disturbance In The Force. An image of her popped into my head and she was kissing someone and then I started to hyperventilate. That’s when I “accidentally” FaceTimed her and hung up. A few seconds later, she did the same thing. That’s why she texted me about a week or so ago. I told her that I missed you that night, I miss us. She asked if I was seeing anyone, I told her that it didn’t work out. I asked if she was she said currently, a TikTok celebrity from Korea?, and he’s moving here (Hawaii). WTF? Why would she make up something like that? My friend said she’s playing games, someone else said she probably was scared that I did and didn’t know what to say. Maybe I should have said that I wasn’t seeing anyone, which I really am not. So I said that if she wants to meet up one day let me know. No reply back or text the next day. I knew she saw my text because it said Read and had the time.
Man coach ...let me just say, I’ve been watching Your videos since October when my ex left me high and dry. I was literally at my lowest. I’m doing 10x better than I was then, I’ve watched your videos 100x over as if I’ve never seen them lol , it’s like they help you heal. Accepting that it’s over and moving on is truly the best way to approach the situation. That way you don’t get your hopes up thinking Your ex will Come Back when they may not. !thank you coach !
Paulina Nava I did as well I begged etc all of the above minus the grand gesture but today only months later I feel confident and more willing to let it be 🤷🏾♂️that deep heart ache is gone
@@_Nawbro Good to hear that, Nawbro! I am getting better too. I realize i can go out and have fun also i can listen to conversations, a month ago i can't concentrate on other people.
When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; when I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great wisdom here for anyone who can grasp it.
I was going to say the same thing. When you let go of something, you start to feel like you don't need it any more because you already have everything you need, this is called abundance and this is where life starts to come to you effortlessly
If only it was that easy. Some relationships are soul ties. Some people never recover. I agree their is power in decisions. When you speak it and believe it. God will give you strength to walk through it.. 🙏👏🙌
I used to think about an ex every day and one morning after 3 months we had broken up, I said in my head: I gotta let you go, I got a new gf now and gotta live my own life. Well guess what, my ex texted me the very same night saying she needed to see me! What is said in this video (and all others on here) is very true. But I think you really have to feel it inside of you. You can't just fake being over them and expect it to work. Somehow, they will really know you've moved on when you feel you have and this is when they'll come right back.
That happened to me! We broke up last November and i begged her for one month but she kept ignroing. I found out she was seeing another guy so i stopped texting her and met another girl. Now that everything is going well with the other girl she is reaching out. I still have feelings for her but i think i just need to let her go. The no contact rule really works!
The law of attraction is exactly what happens. She has removed you from her mind, so when you get aligned with her thoughts and what she is doing it reattracts both of you. I think it makes perfect sense!
I would like to say a big thank you to Craig and Margaret! For anybody that is new to their channel or have watched many videos like myself. I will just say this, pure genius, take notes and listen to what these coaches are saying. Craig you are 100% the truth! I did no contact and I made some mistakes through withdrawals, of missing my girlfriend. But when I completely let go like Craig says, somewhere in the universe there is a disruption, and they know! And she came back and it's better than it was but they're still much work to do. But the 30 days that we had for a break, gave us the ability to restart and that's what is necessary sometimes. Craig, you're the truth and I'm so grateful for your videos. Your videos brought the love of my life back to me because I listened and I did work on myself. There is a lot more work for me to do with myself and for our relationship, but I believe we will make it. Thanks again... so very much!!!
I heard about this visualization exercise for a mental heal from a psychotherapist too. Gotta try it. Cutting the cord from someone you love is painful, but living in endless waiting and uncertainty and anxiety is ten times more painful. Need to care about own mental health first
A breakup could be likened to two people at either end of a large rubber band (ATTACHMENT) each pulling in opposite directions (NO CONTACT). The tension becomes too great for one (ANXIETY ), they release the tension on their end whilst still being attached to the rubber band (THE RELATIONSHIP) which draws them closer to the person at the other end (RECONCILIATION)...
Very true for myself, almost every relationship I have been in whenever I have truly been done and moved on or their time is “past due” they resurface in some awkward way.
Thank you so much...I have been listening to all your videos and have been no contact for 2 weeks and he finally texted me today and asked how am I doing... thank you again...we agree to be friends for awhile and take it slow so we can both work on ourselves...I am just so happy right now...
You two are the most authentic people on this subject. No hype, no gimmicks, and totally accessible and approachable. Such a pleasure to see REAL people doing well on this platform!
Loved this - respectfully, your understanding of LOA is incorrect. You’re exactly describing LOA...make your wish known to the Universe, turn your energy inward and live your best life as if you already have it and the Universe will deliver in perfect timing ❤️ LOA also says that the person will be able to feel this shift of your energy from desperate and needy to one of love and positivity
Things that have a lot of resistance dont manifest until you let them go. You are not letting go of the desire that is always burning in your subconscious but you are letting go of the the resistance and you getting out of your own way. Law of attraction perfectly works here as well.
when someone pulls you in and makes endearing promises and professes emotions to you, you get so so close-then they leave-that is fear nothing to do with us-its all mind reading too-the wondering why-the rumintaing is a trap-let go and you will have peace
I've been wondering how does acceptance looks like. This visualization will definitely help once I reach that stage. Thank you for guiding us through these difficult times! ❤️
I was with my partner for 9 months. We split before Christmas. I took your advice - and I totally cut off all contact. Sure enough messages were being sent to me. Accusing me of cheating?!!! Because I did not reply? Ignore ignore ignore guys. Be STRONG. Funnily enough she now wants another chance. But I cannot give her another go. She was toxic. It was cutting off contact and being me again which made me realise there is a new world out there. Thank you for all of your help. You are a legend
Man, I really wish I would've found these videos before making all the wrong mistakes... I did back-to-back texts, reached out to her best friend to ask what I should do, and did the "grand gesture" of writing a 6-page letter and leaving it at her house... She told me I scared her and to leave her alone... We had discussed having a family together and building a future then it all disappeared and I panicked and smothered her... Today exactly is 3 weeks no contact and I'm just hoping I didn't implement it too late... She didn't remove me from social media or block me, so I guess there is hope in that. I love her and genuinely want to build a family with this woman. We were compatible on every aspect: parenting, finances, growth mindset, love for lifting/fitness, etc... Praying in God's time that He would reunite us and give us another chance. 🙏
Thank you so much. This saved me. I am sharing this and watching every day. I truly love you three and consider you my friends. I give that love you three give back to you. And God love y’all so much and will continue to bless you. Please allow me to pray for your wisdom and success!
Hayley Lisa that is exactly what happened to me. We were suppose to be married last June but never worked out. We had engagement party just last year. So we postponed the wedding for this coming summer. I accidentally came across a photo of him a month ago that made me break it off. Im devastated.
I believe in the power of thoughts and that could be similar to the loa. If I believe I'm not good enough and the relationship is bound to fail and then it does vs. I believe I'm worthy and my relationships last and are happy, then I'm likely to see the good rather than negative. My thoughts on loa.
This is truly one of the best videos from you two. I've seen all public videos (some several times) and am working through now Vol. 7 of the Knowledge and this one is right on point. To me, the concept of energy is not new at all and I believe in it and all other natural laws 100%. I truly love you guys, please keep this stuff coming to our healing hearts! This video alone is laying the foundation for my incredible success story, which I will share when it's time.
No contact works in most cases, I was living in another country and had a girlfriend and I had to move back to the USA and some months after I had moved she decided that she wanted the relationship to be over because she had another boyfriend. I was hurt but I accepted never contacted her and after a little over three months she called me saying she made a mistake and wanted me back but I had to let her go that was in 2005, she contacted me again in 2020 saying I was the love of her life regreting what she dis but I had moved on. I guess no contact really works in most cases.
I typed it in my note. Just by typing it, I felt a little pain being released and relieved at the same time. I'm going to read this out loud every morning and before going to bed. Thank you.
The 'unplugging' meditation actually has helped me. I have been doing no contact for several months (she has reached out a couple times - nothing significant and I have only responded to her contacts in kind, our birthdays are 4 days apart). She cheated and switched from being into me to needing to 'date around' over night. Initially was hoping she would come to senses and regret losing what we had, but over time I am starting to becoming indifferent, which I think is needed. Needless to say the the unplugging meditation seems really helpful. Feeling different - easier to let go and move on. Will see if this sticks but grateful for it.
If you work on yourself and they loved you the law of attraction will bring them back . A person who is in alignment has more power and leverage then those who aren’t .
There is a big confusion about the law of attraction . Most people who don’t understand it, think you are supposed to think about what you want , focus on it and let it come.... Which doesn’t work ... REAL LOA is when you have the thought , acknowledge it for a few seconds and then let it go.. if the thought comes back , acknowledge it’s there then let it go again. X
Wow that mantra and visualization is definitely so useful! I can see it helping me when I am feeling down! Good job on finding that Margaret and thank you for sharing! Another great video that helps me to heal more and more! ☺️
My ex boyfriend and I dated for 1.5 years, the last 3 months were long distance. He broke up with me out of nowhere, and after months of him telling me how much he loves and cares about me and promising he would forever. He said those things up until the moment he broke up with me. But he did it, and he said it was because he “needs to grow up by himself.” Now he is very dry with me in the 3 times I texted him since the breakup, and so I’ve decided to try my best to just not text him and work on myself. It’s just so hard. And I want him back deeply, because we had planned so much together and I truly believe we were meant to be together. It’s just his bad life circumstances at the moment that is pushing him away... I don’t know what to do. I miss him so much and it’s only been a few weeks since the breakup...
Andreas Dybdahl So he ended up reaching out to me at the beginning of August. He moved back to my city because things didn’t work out in the new place he was living and he was super unhappy there (I suspect and he claims that this was a big part of the reason he broke up with me to begin with). So he moved back here and called me the night he got back. We met up and talked about things briefly. He said he wants me in his life at least as a friend, and that once he “gets his shit together” and gets settled in back here, he would be open to trying a relationship again. He was very heartfelt and apologized for everything. I think it means a lot that I was the first person he contacted and visited when he got back here, because he had plenty of friends/family to choose from. Anyways, we met up that first night and it was emotional. I agreed to take things slow. So now we’ve been communicating and seeing each other occasionally for almost a month. He is still being very distant and very indecisive, but then again he is still trying to figure out his life. I am trying to be weary, because I’m afraid he’ll leave again. But he promises that he made a mistake leaving the first time and that he will never do it again, because I am a valuable person in his life. As of right now, he communicated to me that he needs space because he struggles with depression and I think it’s hitting him now that he’s basically starting his life from scratch again. So I’m giving him space and just hoping for the best. I trust that he wouldn’t come back into my life with bad intentions or with any plan to leave again when things get rough. I think it’s just a learning experience: I need to learn to give him more space, and he needs to learn to accept my attempts to help him and not to run away from me. He seems very sincere and he’s very loving and kind when we’re together. I think I just need to give it time. I’m prone to overthinking things, and so sometimes I worry that he’ll stop talking to me out of the blue, but he has no reason to do that. He realized what a caring person I am and that him leaving me before was unfair and hurtful, and I think that woke his conscience enough for him not to do it again. He’s just young (as am I) and he’s confused and stressed with planning his life. So I need to give it time. And although I still have my doubts and worries, I truly feel that he & I have an amazing connection (otherwise he never would’ve come back) and I believe that things will work out for us. The times that we share are always insanely intimate and special, and he tells me he feels the same. I’m hoping for the best even though things are still tough. I am just happy to have him back in my life because I love him so much :) sorry for the long response! I figured you might be looking for someone else’s story to help you with your own situation. Hopefully this helped!
Andreas Dybdahl let me also add that I did not reach out to him once from the beginning of April (shortly after we broke up) until the beginning of August this year. He texted me once mid-June asking how I was, but ended up ghosting me. I asked him about that when we met up in August, and he said that he had regretted starting communication between us again because he didn’t want to re-open the wound of the breakup. He felt selfish reaching out to me when he was still living in a completely different state, because he knew he’d just be hurting me more since we couldn’t physically be together. But then once he moved back to my state/city, he reached out because now there was more of a hope for an actual relationship since we’re in the same place. So I basically went no contact for almost 4 months (besides the one text in June that I responded to), and right as I was losing hope of ever hearing from him again, he reached out. So if you’re going through anything similar, or any breakup where you had a happy & loving relationship and you want the person back, they likely will come back. If you treated them well and loved them unconditionally, they will most likely feel that and miss it after going without you. Of course my situation isn’t certain (nothing ever is), and he could end up leaving again, but I believe that if you believe something will happen, it will. I trusted the deep connection I felt with this man, and I trusted that it would eventually bring us back together. And it has, somewhat. Patience is just what it takes, and I hope that my patience pays off in the end. Sending my best wishes your way my friend, let me know how you are doing 💗
@@shannonmorehead9676 Hi Shannon, thanks for your heartfelt reply, I hope you two will have an amazing second chance, and make things right this time! I am in the same situation, my ex and I were together almost everyday for 6 months, and she were always the one talking about not wanting to lose me, and that she was afraid I might do that. It ended up being her who left me, she even told me she loved me, and wanted to kiss me on the day she broke up, she was even the one telling me how hard it would be for her the day I'll find another woman. We had had bad communication, and it led to both of us doing things that created increasing frustrations in each other, leading to the breakup. I did a pretty good no contact in the period afterwards, but it wasn't perfect, I did send her a letter of understanding, and told her the things I'd learned about the way we communicated badly, and that I was working on improving those skills for my future relationships, I'd hoped she would reply, but she didn't. It's been 1,5 months since our breakup, and 1,5 weeks since the letter I sent her. I know if she will be back, then in time she will contact me. Otherwise I am moving on, but I do still love her, and have some kind of hope deep down.
Andreas Dybdahl I totally understand that, and I think that’s the best approach to have. It’s so difficult when someone promises us the world and then breaks that promise, but I definitely believe in second chances. I would say continue your no contact (the letter was okay, but make sure not to expect a response), and it’s good to explore your options and maybe go on a couple dates. In the 4 months my ex & I were in no contact, I went on 3 dates with different guys just to try to make sure that my feelings for my ex were real, or if I’d be able to move on. I personally wasn’t able to forget about him nor move on in that period of no contact, and that makes me believe 100% that my love for him is true. So I’m willing to try again and give him the space he needs. I just hope he’s being honest with me about caring, and that he can work on healing himself so that we can maybe be together again. Our period apart was terrible for me because I missed him deeply, BUT I did work on myself. I worked out and stayed healthy, and went out with friends and family as much as possible - I think this is why the universe sent him back to me. And if it’s meant to be, it will be. I have faith that it will. And I wish you the best too. It’s so hard missing the person you love, but be patient and trust that your love for her (and hers for you) will bring her back. Just make sure to take care of yourself and don’t close yourself off to the world. Whether she comes back to you or not, it will all be okay. But I do believe she’ll come back eventually, just give it time.
I just love you both! I have been going through being dumped and un-dumped (haha) by a long-term friend/lover. This really sux. I am 50 with an empty nest plus going through perimenopause. Having you both here for me is truly the best therapy.
I think it also depends on the persons personality. If they're impulsive they're likely to come back, if they're a mature, patient person, they might never and eventually just get over you
With the law of attraction, one must first raise their overall vibration to make oneself magnetic. Then one must think about what it is they want and let it go. If you cling to it or are waiting for it to manifest in your life, it won’t.
When I tried the analogy of releasing my energy (the chord). I actually tear’d up because of the thought of losing the love I had for my ex. It’s crazy how fast the process actually can really be…
I've had some really rough days now, I was supposed to go to my exes graduation which is this week. Of course I haven't been in touch for 3 weeks now and probably won't hear anything from her on it either. The hardest part for me was to stop caring about whether or not she is happy without me. In the relationship my happiness didn't depend on her, but after she forced me out of her life it does feel like a big part of me went missing. We had talked about marriage, children's names and moving in, even the day before she broke up with me. She even told me she loved me hours before she broke up. I have never been so blindsided before.
I can give you my take on that incident. Anyone who says I love you one day and makes plans about marriage with.you.and then can turn around a leave the next day or week. What I believe they are doing is putting you in storage for security in case a relationship with another doesn't work out that person has you on the back burner to care about them. You find another and often times the ex will pop back in your life to win you back over the new relationship. So you go back to the ex and in time bingo.you end up on the back burner again. Listen to me I am 72 yrs old and have seen this.happen. Anyone who can say I love.you one day then bow out the next is not.what you need in life. Good luck.don't waste your life on the back burner.I don't care how hot she is.or if he is handsome as hell their heart is not.true. Good luck.
@@barbarariley3488 I haven't talked with her for 3 weeks now, we had been together for 4 years. Part of the reason she broke up was because she got a panic attack thinking of moving away from her family and together with me. That is what she said, I can't confirm whether or not it's true, but it might be. I honestly don't care about the reason, if she hides how she really feels from me in the relationship and doesn't communicate anything to me then I can never make her happy. I can't read her mind, and if she goes to friends and family instead of me that just goes to show how little she really valued me I guess. Maybe it's for the best, it hurts like hell because we had been close for almost 10 years now. We're only 24 and 22 so that's practically as long as I can remember. The fact that she just pushed me out of her life completely just tells me she must have found something in her life that replaced me.
@@pentagram4745 She told me I always make her feel better, she came to me with 99% of her problems, but didn't come to me with the problem that was related to me. I honestly feel dead inside at the moment. It wasn't that bad at first, but 3 weeks in I'm just getting worse even though I accepted the fact that it's over I just can't feel better
But the law of attraction is about stating your desire and letting go! That is one of the most important parts of the law! Exactly why it works for an ex.
12 days of no contact , got a indirect / direct message Answered the text , I’ll keep you informed , obviously wanting my attention, could have kept that to herself
I am really sorry to say that "Only letting go" will only partially help you if you do not learn from the experience. Because if we simply let it go without learning from it then the same experience will happen again with another (perhaps new) person and then guess what? We have to let it go again. This will lead to a circle of endless need of letting go letting go again and again. I guess we do not want to have a nine or ten same experience and then letting go for nine or ten times, right? Learning from the experience is the most important thing after you let it go. Improve ourselves, try something different.
I imagine that chord being knotted and wrapped around myself everywhere. Strangling and suffocating. I know I’ll be able to untangle the mess. The knots feel tight but day by day I’m able to loosen them more and more
Really good video. I like the reference to Freud, we have energy according to him an erotic and an aggressive drive. We bury both and this is called repression and repression leads to neuroses where that energy comes out in unhealthy ways. Healing according to Freud was to become conscious of those neuroses and taking control of your own energy. I feel that in a breakup there are so many neuroses at work, and we as the dumpees feel incredibly disempowered. The only way to heal is to take power back and become conscious of our own neuroses, I guess that is what no contact does
I think the more logical reason is it takes you a certain amount of time to actually get over it say 6 8 12 weeksThen they want to come back and see what happens it’s just enough time passed where their curiosity peaked and it’s so happens that you were getting over them at the same time
Law of attraktion = You attract what you are, not what you want. Your dominant thoughts cause the result. If you want love, you must become loving. If you want a million, you must become a millionaire in your mind first. The only feeling who feel like death threat is the feeling of losing someone including yourself.
After being devastated for 6 weeks and wanting my ex back, found out shes done a pretty quick rebound, so F*** her, who would want such a person. After watching these videos ,hoping , they are actually kind of pointless and just drag out the pain, prob not in all cases, but the majority, yep. Find a much better person. The wheel has turned.I still respect these two however and hope they work for some!
I agree. I think my ex left me for someone else. She tried to contact me but I couldn't see past what she did. I never thought she would leave let alone run to another guy. No way will i ever see her the same way.
I have been watching these videos since my breakup three months ago. I was desperate to get them back but it never occured me that I might not want them back. I am doing very well in NC I am excited for the future and looking forward to new endeavors. So NC was for me, to get me back! And she is more awesome than my Ex 😅
Almost 3 weeks now NC..I thought I couldnt get over the 2nd day..it still hurts like heck...but I deserve much more.. I dont need a lot..only respect..
6 String Therapy it’s an on and off situation that he didn’t want a label on .. a year and half of these games was enough.. I love him but been in NC for 2 months again I need to move on as He suggested as well .. he is toxic.
6 String Therapy He’s an avoidant type didn’t like being ignored after a simple how’s your day going ? I’m not needy so he said I was .. to each his own .. ✌️✌️
according to law of attraction, what you focus on, what you get. Also, what you want = what you lack. so they emphasize on the feeling of you have already got something. For example, even when you are single, you focus on loving yourself and then you manifest love from the others because the self-love that you have for yourself project out to the world. So when people see it, they also feel that self-love you have for yourself, so that they will also treat you in a way that they love you and respect you more! When it is applied on getting your ex back, that means you do not focus on the feeling on losing your ex because you love yourself enough, and you are confident enough that they are going to come back to you since you are such a good match for them, so you won't worry too much about it. Instead, you focus on yourself, which is also similar to the methods that you teach!(I'm a big fan of you) just a little correction for the law of attraction:) and I love your videos as always! Thanks Coach Craig Kenneth and Coach Margaret!
Imagine you are in a ruin of a city. Your ex is facing the other way attached to a rope. The rope is being held by you. Every waking moment you feel the rope gripping into your hands. Blood is pouring through the fiber into the earth. With each passing moment the city around you becomes more and more desolate. Until one moment you decide to drop the rope and let her vanish. The sun will shine, flowers, trees, lakes and rivers start forming in the desolation. Cry all you can, enjoy, smile, laugh be sad but let the landscape change and heal. Don't hold on to ruin. Move on
My FA ex just reached out at 2am VIA text as was our usual communication. I broke up with them February, they contacted me a month later saying how they missed me. I replied nicely and basically said the lack of communication broke us and no relationship can survive with out it. They replied "no worries take care" then at 2am last night (which would be 3 1/2 months after their last text) messaged again. Need to ignore it for me. It is not in my personality to ignore people but I have been healing so well. I was a secure and turned anxious in that relationship. 1st time in my life and stuck around for 1 year - it was really too much for me to understand. THEY DO REACH OUT and she is stubborn. hope she gets the help she needs. (i have copied my comment in other videos)
I still don't fully understsnad how not having any contact with them is helping me in some way. I always felt out of sight, out of mind was more the case with my relationships
I honestly feel it is helping u and heal and better yourself. You can’t do that if ur mind is constantly thinking about what they’re doing or who they’re with. That is no longer ur priority. Ur #1 and only priority right now is u. Hope I didn’t come off as rude or intrusive. Just trying to help. I’ve been where u are and it’s extremely hard. But u deserve to work on urself for u and no one else.
My ex fiancee said she's so much more relaxed without me and even said she feels " light and airy " and I firmly believe she moved on to someone else. I spent an entire month trying to get her back. She breadcrumbed me for a few weeks before telling me to " let it go " and then days later I got laid off from my job. That really put me in a tough emotional state. I left her a 13 minute peaceful voice note expressing that this was the last time she'd hear my voice and told her how much she educated me so painfully and also told her she's never gonna hear from me again. I mean it. I'm tired of being hurt over someone who's " light and airy " while Im unemployed and feeling like shit. I took control back with that voice note. One of the most painful things in life is knowing your gonna be hurting a while before you get better.
@@Byku010 I'm in a new relationship with a beautiful woman who's got her life in order. My ex is married and the relationship is failing already because we spoke and she told me her dude is a liar and a momma's boy 🤣 I'm so mature and removed that I just listened and laughed on the inside. We were friends over 14 years so it didn't bother me speaking to her. But I'm good and her not so much 🤣
I was in no contact for 3 weeks. Went straight cold turkey and left her alone. Then two days ago she sends me a bitter message about why I can't be friends with her etc. I'm confused, she wanted me to leave her alone, but then she didn't like it when I did. It was on her birthday too. Help.
I wonder if it has something to do with the time, it’s gonna take a while for you to get to the place of genuinely being done with them and not caring so it’s not the fact that you’re genuinely done with them it’s the fact that it’s taking so much time to get to that point but enough time has past and if you’ve been in no contact they reach out!
In martial like shinkyokushin karate you focus in mindfulness and deep breaths to let the energy flow and empty your mind for unnecessary thoughts and in force mental strength.
The hardest part about this is knowing that they’re going to be sexually intimate with someone else instead of you. That they are going to eventually develop feelings for someone else one day and it won’t be you. It’s so hard to watch the ones you love and let them go be with someone else but it end of the day I guess we can all agree everything happens for a reason
we worked on ourselves and have changed a lot. But ur partner didnt change much and is dealing with the same personal problem. Hence the reason for another breakup
These videos are great. They've help me recognize patterns and behaviors in myself that I didn't realize I was doing or rather was doing all wrong things. My situation is a bit crazy where I've been involved in and off relationship for over 4 years. I think we both have emotional attachment issues. First 2 years I ran she chased and vice versa she finally got feed up and ran to someone else, then 8 months later the universe brought us together and we had run into each other truly unexpectedly. She was still with someone else as you can guess shortly after we got into an affair, which is where we are now. Once again she runs and I chase and vice versa. Shes done no contact she comes back or I break it and shes back. Tells me she needs time, I try to understand but my anxiety and hers keeps that from happening she comes backs but still tells me she doesn't know what she wants and feels lost. My anxious does stupid things like texts and emails. Its so crazy. For me it's truly the LOA for us. We just need to get it right but were not there. But I still have hope that we will get it right only time will tell. But in the meantime I need to work on my anxiety and the things that keep pushing her away and keeping her from choosing. These videos are helping thanks coach craig.
there are two types of manifesting: law of attraction and awareness manifesting. please don’t waste your time and get into awareness manifesting. my fav coach for this is @Divine Imagination by Joseph Alai . no bullshit. many things that you say agree with his teachings, for example you let your ex go by working on yoursef, keeping busy etc
Im so done my life is in the shit hole i lost her my job and now two months later im losing my house. It just keeps getting worse but she seems happier than ever. Im happy for her. I dont want to get out of bed anymore tho.
Ik it’s hard but you got to keep going,listen my boyfriend said he wanted space it’s been 5 weeks since I heard from him and In my mind it’s over at first I didn’t feel like doing anything but you can’t stop your life for somebody who didn’t care about losing you.
Hi Coach Craig. What if your ex has a "defeated" mindset? He doesn't fight for things, he just accepts every outcome. Will no contact or any psychological trick work on him?
I can’t believe it’s been 2 years for me, a year since we last spoke. The hole has gotten smaller, but it’s still there. The scar is anyway. But it’s okay, I’m a better person for it. I just can’t find someone else I feel the same way about.
@@katcuzzi You will find that person when your subconscious relaxes and allows you to be vulnerable again. Often falling in love has more to do with ourselves than the other person. When you are ready that person will come.
I’ve been broken up with me ex for about 2.5 months. She has been in contact with me ever since. If I do go no contact, she’ll text me 2 or 3 days later. She is an avoidant and I’m anxious. I did an email coaching with Craig, he told me to continue to let her reach out and not to be too eager or clingy. I’ve done pretty good at that some days are better than than others. I just don’t know what she’s trying to do playing games,confused etc. She definitely didn’t open up about how she feels.
I made my own simplified mantra covering respecting myself and my ex because true love is freedom. it goes like this "when she turns away, let her go free, she is free to live her life and so am I. I share my time with those that appreciate it" ...I made that after a day or two of listening to Margaret on loop, I made a clip from this vid to help me. It helped more than I would have ever believed. I put in lots of work for almost a year now, this video marked a great turning point I believe for me even though I already learned so much of the dynamics and have become so self aware, this break up made deep trauma surface for me which was a great opportunity but it was hell. Ok I'm still a little sore.
Its been 4 or so months, in the first 3 months I've work on my goals (not ones trying to get em back) then I've begin dating again. I never loss confidence in myself, if anything I feel happy I moved out n away because the energy around me feels cleaner since they were unbareblely clingy n tried to get bad reactions out of me. He didn't even text our break up, he changed his relationship status on Facebook n said I needed to leave. While moving out he was still acting crazy invasive n trying to be macho in front of guy friends... So him dumping me was a blessing. I don't need a creep like that in my orbid
I let her go last night i said “goodbye and thank you for the memories” i deleted her iMessage email, phone number and blocked her Facebook. Let’s see what happens next..
saint pepsi don't block her dude it's not good.. You have to show her that you can be good without her..and by keeping her in social media will help her to stalk you which is good. So do no contact without blocking her😇 Best of luck
Gaurang Jungi she’s the avoidant type i don’t think she would care if i blocked her honestly :\ still no msg and it’s giving me depressed thoughts again...
saint pepsi same is happening with me i was very sick so when she came to know it she msg me and after some days we met at a wedding and she didn't even look at me so i did the same😇 it broke me again but i am still doing NC
I have argue with you about the attraction theory. So I wanted badly to understand my girl on a deeper level, and after many many many videos I couldn't find how to understand her. I was going on different paths that led me nowhere, I barely scratched the surface, and when I kinda gave up, Amir Levine's book made its way into my life and I didn't know how useful it will be for me, but I can tell you that I sensed an urge to read it without knowing why. After that, watching your videos about attachment, helped me out even more, filling the blanks. I can feel there is something more than wishful thinking. This is my opinion. Cheers !
Very interesting, I wonder if it actually works and if any of your viewers have done this and if it works for a long term breakup, or one that just happened for two months. However, it’s hard to let someone go, especially if the two of you have been together for a long time, like my ex and I, we’ve been together for over 5 years.
I'm figuring out that my ex is a narcissist after fifteen years together. A narcissist will either play the victim or the hero, but never the villain. Our friends are telling me he was with another "friend" recently, but is miserable now and wants her out. I don't know what to believe. He's denying it, of course. I did no contact for two weeks and he called today because we have a doctor's appt. tomorrow at the same doctor. He told me he loved me but I'm not so sure anymore, I'm devastated and heartbroken but trying not to show it. I just LOVE you and Margaret. Wow, what 40 years' experience between the two of y'all? That's amazing. Thank you both for doing these videos because you are helping SO many people.
I am desperate for guidance because I don't know what to do anymore. If I can repair my relationship, what's going on with my boyfriend what he wants or what he's thinking, or if things are just in my head out of fear. We've been together for 3 years and lived together nearly the whole time. Long story short but he started to really pull away from me 9 months ago, I finally asked him in April what was going on and he said he loves me and is in love with me but that he feels like the spark and passion is completely gone, and that we've become best friends. Yet he tells me he is still in love with me and doesn't want to hurt me or him to hurt but thinks it's at a dead end. He has claimed we've done things to fix it but we haven't. We just got back into the same routine every day and only took 1 camping trip together. Whenever there is anything upsetting or conflict with our relationship (has happened about 5 times since April) he goes back to saying that he still thinks nothing has changed, he still feels that the relationship isn't going anywhere, that he doesn't think we can bring it back and doesn't know how. I've asked him over and over again what he wants, and what he needs, if he wants to break up or take a separation and he always says "idk". He will go from doubting it all and saying its done, to reaching over and pulling me close to him wanting to cuddle, and writing notes on our fridge saying "thank you for all you do for us, I love you, you're amazing", and every so often has days where he just writes me all day telling me I"m gorgeous and he loves me etc. HELPPPP!! I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should walk away and take a break or keep fighting to rebuild. I know I killed the attraction long ago because I was always so insecure, negative and a downer to be around, and I never did anything to encourage him, lift him up or make him feel good. But now idk what to do to fix this. someone please help, I'm desperate to find a direction
hi.coach, im 53 years old, and my ex is 30, we've been together for more than 2years, almost a year, we see each other almost everyday, and we decided to live in one roof, and it last after a year and few months, as far as i heard from your video, she is an avoindant person, it really hurts. i cant eat, loses weigth, tried also to commit suicide. since i listen to your video, i was really feel good, and try to do things that you've said, thank you so much, you are relally a good such peraon and coach. thank you so much. anywaysz i am from the philippines, and love to buy your books but can't afford. my ex broke up with me 5 months ago, and i did the worst thing, begging, crying, anything, name it and i did it. i did no contact, but i broke it twice, when i feel alone and jealous. my ex did monkey branching and after few months, they broke up, and after 2 months, i saw again from her fb that she has again a new bf, and i told her sister that, and her sister said it to my ex, and my ex texted me, she really mad at me, and she told me to move on and she never comeback anymore, and also told me to stop stalking her. and the following morning, my ex texted me again, and she say sorry for me for what she said to me, and she also told me to leave her alone and move on. she also told me that she love her bf and she doesn't want to lose him, and she said goodbye. coach, can you help me by doing a video, it is possible that my ex will comeback or to move on? by the way, she was married with another guy and separated 8year ago with 1 kid and i also married and also separated for so many years, with another women and i have children. thank you so much for doing those videos, it helped me a lot to heal my heart and brain. you and margaret are both gifted from this field. please do help me by doing video or by replying this. thanks a lot. sorry if my english is not good as you.
I have messaged my ex saying that when you loose something you realise what mistake were made and what went wrong and I have now changed and I could show her that I said that I am going to leave her alone from now on but if she wants to talk or meet up then we can no games if not then i wish her the best
2 years ago i got dumped the 19 jan, 10 days before my birthday , I loved her so much and she left and i was so sad, i could not afford to get a skype because i was unemployed but i watched craig kenneth's videos daily I let her go and i did not get her back , but i got my self back, i even discover a part of my self i never knew. Now i am working very hard and its going well for me and i feel worthy for the first time of my life I still love her but i m happy for her and her new husband and i hope she will never talk to me again because for sure she will dump him when she will see how much i am a better person haha and i don't want that guy to feel what i felt, I 'am supportive of the family , she got married and now she must stay with him Next time i find osmeone i value i ll know who to reach out to deal with my couple problem Love for everyone who is facing a difficult breakup Some people wanna hear from you, don't do bad things
I was wondering Coach Craig: If we work out in our improvements but we don't have contact with that person, not in touch or social media and he do not reach out and i won't do it because i believe that has to be done. How they are going to see the changes we have made.
Do you guys have any thoughts about energy or the law of attraction?
U're one of the biggest plot twist of my 2019. All of the failures in school heartbreaks so many times but ure there to guide me thru dark times. I owe it you Craig and coach margarette. Godbless you both! U're fan from Philippines 😁
What u guys described though is what LOA is basically about. Its about releasing or letting go of that resistance and energy in order to get them back. Nice video, though :)
Energy flow is law of attraction.
Love the video. I think it's spot on. When you manifest someone using Law of Attraction, you are supposed to let go and believe it's already yours. I definitely believe in energy and sensing other people. I also believe the psychology behind it that you teach. They're both right. 😉
When you heal from the breakup is that when you finally let go? I know that you can set the intention but then let it go. The law of attraction says that be open to receive. I like guided meditation. I thought of the umbilical cord. It takes several times kind of like saying positive affirmations to believe it. All of that is mindfulness. I would recommend people to read the path of yoga sutras. It talks about attachment which is what hurts us the most and some other things. Great video!
Sometimes all we need is to let go of all the "wanting" and "needing" and just relax... just knowing that things are coming at the right time and if it's meant to be, it will be :)
This applies to every situation in life !
Let go of resistance
Erika K well said!!
@@HonestTraveller sending lots of love !
with all respect, this is why we never listen to dating advice from women :)) Wanting is sexy and confidence. Needing is getting rejected for sure. Knowing.. Actually you could use the books of coach Craig and work on yourself (generally speaking) and transform/evolve yourself. Only after that you will truly know everything is going to work out, because you are crushing it on every level. And I have to agree with you on something saying: don't forget to have fun, transform that resistance(that energy) into something positive. Cheers love !
Sometimes if we show too much love, wanting and needing, that's the time they feel their love for us has gone. Because they feel secured and feel enough for them. I realized letting go can make sometimes make them feel they lost the person who loves them truly and that's the time they would feel regret.
I like that!
It’s been 3 months no contact it’s hard but well worth it . Sometimes It takes losing someone to find yourself . God bless everyone that is going through it we will prevail .
Three months for me as well. Good job. It feels better now, huh?
Asteria Moon it has been getting better some days are harder than others but staying busy and proactive is key.
Absolutely. We take it day by day.
I'm almost on 3 months...
Slowly moving on.
Sometimes still miss her but... She's gone so what can I do.
Amen I fully agree!!! God bless you too!
You truly need to let go and work on yourself. Went no contact focused and worked on myself and two months later my ex came back saying he made a huge mistake. Things are better than ever now with such a deeper love and respect for each other. As cliche as it sounds you don’t know what you got till it’s gone is so true. Trust the no contact and working on yourself process, it really can work!
2 months for me so far, wonder if she'll ever reach out again.. really putting the work in !! hope all is well for you still :)
Been over 2 months since the break.. well I think it's a break. She has never really said we are never getting back together just no pressure. But end of January I kinda brought up the relationship but I never said what's your decision more like where did we go wrong question. Been over 2 weeks of no communication. I love her to bits and I'm really struggling with the whole thing. I try to put on a brave face at work etc, but I can't keep it up
@@cindyhenderson9777 my heart goes out to you. bless you and may you be strong
@@korial2168 who left who ? I hope you are happy together .
@@inserter400 nah, she left me and didnt come back. Gone for 3.5 months now, didnt hear anything from her
"The quickest way to get somebody's attention is to take yours away."
Craig you my hero man....we broke up for 2 weeks...after a 3 years relationship...she just told me she is not loving me anymore and can t see me more as her boyfriend....and than when i met you here...i did no contact for 2 weeks..absolutly not,,,not media no photos nothing ..like a ghost..after 2 weeks she texted me to tell me she really whant s to meet me and talk...but i need to want that too...so we met...and she started crying that she didn t know what was happening with her and she needed some time to settle her toughts..now after we back togheter after 6 mounths...we are happier togheter than we ever been..thanks a lot sir..cheers to you and Margret as well..you guys are my heroes ....God bless you
Congratulations man.
Was it 6 months of no contact?
@@gabrielsanchez4207 no bro...she only lasted 2 weeks before texting me
Handled it perfectly.
Im happy for you :)
I release your energy from mine. I send you peace, love and compassion. I appreciate the love we shared but now it's time to let you go. I wish you well.
Watched all your videos Craig and followed your advice all the way. Let me tell you after 6 months apart from my girlfriend when I thought we would never get back together and really thought things were hopeless. We are now back together and better than ever! Craig thank you for all your advice and help anybody watching his videos listen to his advice and good things will happen. Im so thankful to you thank you for all your advice and most importantly you rekindle my relationship again for the better!
Email me a success story!
Did you or her see or date others during that time?
She almost certainly slept with someone else in those 6 months...
First comment. You're right coaches, that is what you must do. I have been communicating with my ex for 3 months now and its been going great. I had changed my number, and so my ex couldn't contact me but when I reached out after a year, he was so happy to hear from me. He has been so attentive and I also worked on my anxious attachment. Its so hard to believe how much he has changed, he says that I have too. I had to let him go in order to find out what's really more important and that is Me. I put him up on a pedestal. No one should come before You. Thanks Coaches.
Anntoinette Boyd wow I’m happy to see your comment because my ex changed his phone number because of me and it has been devastating. I thought maybe he would miss me and reach out but it has been 8 months NC now. What made you reach out over a year later?
@anntoinette whom broke up with who, did it end badly, how long were you together....what made you make the first contact after a year and why did you wait a year
@@JerseyGirl0911 I initiated the breakup. We were together off and on for 7 years, and I got tired of the rollercoaster emotions. I also will say that we both were tired, and it became mutual to let go. I didn't like the way that I was starting to see myself, such as jealous, and insecure. I thought that my life couldn't exist without him. Like I said in the previous comment that I was still legally married, but seperated and I wasn't happy being still attached to my ex husband, so I was constantly upset about that. Divorces are expensive. Anyway, finally 2 years ago got my divorce, so that was a relief and I also was working on other things that I didn't like about myself. I reached out when I felt that I had something different to bring to the table so to speak. I also reached out because for past experiences we always came back no matter how long it would be. He also had things that he had to work on too. He definitely has worked on them, because each time that we're together or talking I can see the change. Example...he's more open, and available now.
I am so glad with your comment, good thing you are now putting your self first which is really important because you are your own person. Love is so tricky, sometimes we think we love someone, and we must have them in our life. If you can love them, you can also learn to let them go. Love and possesion are two different feelings.
Did you get back with him
It’s kinda sad though, if you think about it, I mean if you were with the person for many years and to let them go, it’s just heart wrenching I think, because you don’t want to really lose them.
it is man, i’ve seen you comment a few times. No contact gives you time to really grieve and process. My ex left me about 3 months ago. It was 3 year relationship. I got that whole “lets just be friends.” I declined, then I started nc and about a week later I found out I was blocked on everything. Crazy, considering I did very minimal begging, in-fact I held my ground and said, If you want to work things out, let me know. I understand its sad. I don’t want to lose her either. But sometimes you have to let go of the idea of getting them back for now to really grow for yourself. You have to grow for yourself. I just want you to know you’re not alone, hell if I know if my ex has found someone else and moved on. But even if they do, continue to focus on yourself. Let go of what could have been, Let go of your “mistakes”. FOCUS on what you can do now to better yourself for yourself. We are not perfect in this world, but neither was our past partner. One day at a time my friend, Grow and become better. If our ex is a product of our growth, sure why not, try again. But remember, in time with growth, we can also let go of them completely.
and to add to that-
If you haven’t considered the workbooks, I highly recommend them. We can watch as many videos as we want sure. But sometimes I find I need a little guidance to navigate my feelings and man HAVE THEY HELPED. I’m on the 4th edition and man, it really makes you reflect on everything about yourself and your past relationships.
@@jon7286 If I had enough money, I’d definitely get the workbooks and or the Healing Course, and maybe coaching.
I myself have been in a relationship that lasted 5 and a half years and when you are with someone for over 2 years, you get attached, and souls are one and you get emotionally and spiritually in twined, especially since mine was my first and first everything. This holiday season will be the first holiday season apart, and I’m sure for you too.
She reached out a few days after Halloween and asked if I was trying to call her. I know I shouldn’t have, but I somewhat had a Disturbance In The Force. An image of her popped into my head and she was kissing someone and then I started to hyperventilate. That’s when I “accidentally” FaceTimed her and hung up. A few seconds later, she did the same thing. That’s why she texted me about a week or so ago. I told her that I missed you that night, I miss us. She asked if I was seeing anyone, I told her that it didn’t work out. I asked if she was she said currently, a TikTok celebrity from Korea?, and he’s moving here (Hawaii). WTF? Why would she make up something like that? My friend said she’s playing games, someone else said she probably was scared that I did and didn’t know what to say. Maybe I should have said that I wasn’t seeing anyone, which I really am not. So I said that if she wants to meet up one day let me know. No reply back or text the next day. I knew she saw my text because it said Read and had the time.
Man coach ...let me just say, I’ve been watching
Your videos since October when my ex left me high and dry. I was literally at my lowest. I’m doing 10x better than I was then, I’ve watched your videos 100x over as if I’ve never seen them lol , it’s like they help you heal. Accepting that it’s over and moving on is truly the best way to approach the situation. That way you don’t get your hopes up thinking
Your ex will Come Back when they may not. !thank you coach !
Nawbro oExactly the time my ex left me, but i wish i could hear coach Craig early... I messed up in few things
@@paulyname Same.
Paulina Nava I did as well I begged etc all of the above minus the grand gesture but today only months later I feel confident and more willing to let it be 🤷🏾♂️that deep heart ache is gone
@@_Nawbro Good to hear that, Nawbro! I am getting better too. I realize i can go out and have fun also i can listen to conversations, a month ago i can't concentrate on other people.
Paulina Nava it’s amazing how time heals all wounds
When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; when I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great wisdom here for anyone who can grasp it.
The whole visualisation and letting go IS law of attraction. Everything is energy which is exactly what LOA is
I was going to say the same thing. When you let go of something, you start to feel like you don't need it any more because you already have everything you need, this is called abundance and this is where life starts to come to you effortlessly
If only it was that easy. Some relationships are soul ties. Some people never recover. I agree their is power in decisions. When you speak it and believe it. God will give you strength to walk through it.. 🙏👏🙌
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I used to think about an ex every day and one morning after 3 months we had broken up, I said in my head: I gotta let you go, I got a new gf now and gotta live my own life. Well guess what, my ex texted me the very same night saying she needed to see me! What is said in this video (and all others on here) is very true. But I think you really have to feel it inside of you. You can't just fake being over them and expect it to work. Somehow, they will really know you've moved on when you feel you have and this is when they'll come right back.
That happened to me! We broke up last November and i begged her for one month but she kept ignroing. I found out she was seeing another guy so i stopped texting her and met another girl. Now that everything is going well with the other girl she is reaching out. I still have feelings for her but i think i just need to let her go. The no contact rule really works!
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The law of attraction is exactly what happens. She has removed you from her mind, so when you get aligned with her thoughts and what she is doing it reattracts both of you. I think it makes perfect sense!
I would like to say a big thank you to Craig and Margaret! For anybody that is new to their channel or have watched many videos like myself. I will just say this, pure genius, take notes and listen to what these coaches are saying. Craig you are 100% the truth! I did no contact and I made some mistakes through withdrawals, of missing my girlfriend. But when I completely let go like Craig says, somewhere in the universe there is a disruption, and they know! And she came back and it's better than it was but they're still much work to do. But the 30 days that we had for a break, gave us the ability to restart and that's what is necessary sometimes. Craig, you're the truth and I'm so grateful for your videos. Your videos brought the love of my life back to me because I listened and I did work on myself. There is a lot more work for me to do with myself and for our relationship, but I believe we will make it. Thanks again... so very much!!!
I heard about this visualization exercise for a mental heal from a psychotherapist too. Gotta try it. Cutting the cord from someone you love is painful, but living in endless waiting and uncertainty and anxiety is ten times more painful. Need to care about own mental health first
I started tearing up when margaret said ‘it’s time to let you go’. I really miss her it’s been 5 months.
How are things 2 years later? Are you doing better?
A breakup could be likened to two people at either end of a large rubber band (ATTACHMENT) each pulling in opposite directions (NO CONTACT). The tension becomes too great for one (ANXIETY ), they release the tension on their end whilst still being attached to the rubber band (THE RELATIONSHIP) which draws them closer to the person at the other end (RECONCILIATION)...
S A lovely analysis
Or they just cut it off from their end and it snaps right in your face 😂
Very true for myself, almost every relationship I have been in whenever I have truly been done and moved on or their time is “past due” they resurface in some awkward way.
Thank you so much...I have been listening to all your videos and have been no contact for 2 weeks and he finally texted me today and asked how am I doing... thank you again...we agree to be friends for awhile and take it slow so we can both work on ourselves...I am just so happy right now...
You two are the most authentic people on this subject. No hype, no gimmicks, and totally accessible and approachable. Such a pleasure to see REAL people doing well on this platform!
Loved this - respectfully, your understanding of LOA is incorrect. You’re exactly describing LOA...make your wish known to the Universe, turn your energy inward and live your best life as if you already have it and the Universe will deliver in perfect timing ❤️ LOA also says that the person will be able to feel this shift of your energy from desperate and needy to one of love and positivity
Exactly!
Thank you!!!
You know it’s funny because when i told him i let you go now he came back to me the next day
Things that have a lot of resistance dont manifest until you let them go. You are not letting go of the desire that is always burning in your subconscious but you are letting go of the the resistance and you getting out of your own way. Law of attraction perfectly works here as well.
Margaret is such a cutie!! I love hearing you both.
You super cute, I'm tryna test the law of attraction between us🤭 follow me on insta @youngcamel416
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Love them. So real.
when someone pulls you in and makes endearing promises and professes emotions to you, you get so so close-then they leave-that is fear nothing to do with us-its all mind reading too-the wondering why-the rumintaing is a trap-let go and you will have peace
I've been wondering how does acceptance looks like. This visualization will definitely help once I reach that stage. Thank you for guiding us through these difficult times! ❤️
I was with my partner for 9 months. We split before Christmas. I took your advice - and I totally cut off all contact. Sure enough messages were being sent to me. Accusing me of cheating?!!! Because I did not reply? Ignore ignore ignore guys. Be STRONG. Funnily enough she now wants another chance. But I cannot give her another go. She was toxic. It was cutting off contact and being me again which made me realise there is a new world out there. Thank you for all of your help. You are a legend
That was beautiful. When l say "The Lord's Prayer"... Raise my hands and then say "Thanks be to God" it lowers my blood pressure.💙🕊️💙
Man, I really wish I would've found these videos before making all the wrong mistakes... I did back-to-back texts, reached out to her best friend to ask what I should do, and did the "grand gesture" of writing a 6-page letter and leaving it at her house... She told me I scared her and to leave her alone... We had discussed having a family together and building a future then it all disappeared and I panicked and smothered her... Today exactly is 3 weeks no contact and I'm just hoping I didn't implement it too late... She didn't remove me from social media or block me, so I guess there is hope in that. I love her and genuinely want to build a family with this woman. We were compatible on every aspect: parenting, finances, growth mindset, love for lifting/fitness, etc... Praying in God's time that He would reunite us and give us another chance. 🙏
Thank you so much. This saved me. I am sharing this and watching every day. I truly love you three and consider you my friends. I give that love you three give back to you. And God love y’all so much and will continue to bless you. Please allow me to pray for your wisdom and success!
I love Margaret! I think she gives the channel such amazing info and insights.
I cancelled the wedding and I’ll be moving out. I deserve better, don’t even want him back.
Hayley Lisa that is exactly what happened to me. We were suppose to be married last June but never worked out. We had engagement party just last year. So we postponed the wedding for this coming summer. I accidentally came across a photo of him a month ago that made me break it off. Im devastated.
Melissa Amaro absolutely horrendous. What photo have you found?
I’m single too
I believe in the power of thoughts and that could be similar to the loa. If I believe I'm not good enough and the relationship is bound to fail and then it does vs. I believe I'm worthy and my relationships last and are happy, then I'm likely to see the good rather than negative. My thoughts on loa.
@@theseattlegreen1871 my avoidant ex for one, but I've been rejected plenty of times.
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This is truly one of the best videos from you two. I've seen all public videos (some several times) and am working through now Vol. 7 of the Knowledge and this one is right on point. To me, the concept of energy is not new at all and I believe in it and all other natural laws 100%. I truly love you guys, please keep this stuff coming to our healing hearts! This video alone is laying the foundation for my incredible success story, which I will share when it's time.
No contact works in most cases, I was living in another country and had a girlfriend and I had to move back to the USA and some months after I had moved she decided that she wanted the relationship to be over because she had another boyfriend. I was hurt but I accepted never contacted her and after a little over three months she called me saying she made a mistake and wanted me back but I had to let her go that was in 2005, she contacted me again in 2020 saying I was the love of her life regreting what she dis but I had moved on. I guess no contact really works in most cases.
I typed it in my note. Just by typing it, I felt a little pain being released and relieved at the same time. I'm going to read this out loud every morning and before going to bed. Thank you.
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The 'unplugging' meditation actually has helped me. I have been doing no contact for several months (she has reached out a couple times - nothing significant and I have only responded to her contacts in kind, our birthdays are 4 days apart). She cheated and switched from being into me to needing to 'date around' over night. Initially was hoping she would come to senses and regret losing what we had, but over time I am starting to becoming indifferent, which I think is needed. Needless to say the the unplugging meditation seems really helpful. Feeling different - easier to let go and move on. Will see if this sticks but grateful for it.
If you work on yourself and they loved you the law of attraction will bring them back . A person who is in alignment has more power and leverage then those who aren’t .
You both were very soothing when I went through my breakup. Thank you
There is a big confusion about the law of attraction . Most people who don’t understand it, think you are supposed to think about what you want , focus on it and let it come....
Which doesn’t work ...
REAL LOA is when you have the thought , acknowledge it for a few seconds and then let it go.. if the thought comes back , acknowledge it’s there then let it go again. X
Wow that mantra and visualization is definitely so useful! I can see it helping me when I am feeling down! Good job on finding that Margaret and thank you for sharing! Another great video that helps me to heal more and more! ☺️
Update on how you're doing?
My ex boyfriend and I dated for 1.5 years, the last 3 months were long distance. He broke up with me out of nowhere, and after months of him telling me how much he loves and cares about me and promising he would forever. He said those things up until the moment he broke up with me. But he did it, and he said it was because he “needs to grow up by himself.”
Now he is very dry with me in the 3 times I texted him since the breakup, and so I’ve decided to try my best to just not text him and work on myself. It’s just so hard. And I want him back deeply, because we had planned so much together and I truly believe we were meant to be together. It’s just his bad life circumstances at the moment that is pushing him away...
I don’t know what to do. I miss him so much and it’s only been a few weeks since the breakup...
@Shannon Morehead, how did it go between you two?
Andreas Dybdahl So he ended up reaching out to me at the beginning of August. He moved back to my city because things didn’t work out in the new place he was living and he was super unhappy there (I suspect and he claims that this was a big part of the reason he broke up with me to begin with). So he moved back here and called me the night he got back. We met up and talked about things briefly. He said he wants me in his life at least as a friend, and that once he “gets his shit together” and gets settled in back here, he would be open to trying a relationship again. He was very heartfelt and apologized for everything. I think it means a lot that I was the first person he contacted and visited when he got back here, because he had plenty of friends/family to choose from.
Anyways, we met up that first night and it was emotional. I agreed to take things slow. So now we’ve been communicating and seeing each other occasionally for almost a month. He is still being very distant and very indecisive, but then again he is still trying to figure out his life. I am trying to be weary, because I’m afraid he’ll leave again. But he promises that he made a mistake leaving the first time and that he will never do it again, because I am a valuable person in his life. As of right now, he communicated to me that he needs space because he struggles with depression and I think it’s hitting him now that he’s basically starting his life from scratch again. So I’m giving him space and just hoping for the best.
I trust that he wouldn’t come back into my life with bad intentions or with any plan to leave again when things get rough. I think it’s just a learning experience: I need to learn to give him more space, and he needs to learn to accept my attempts to help him and not to run away from me. He seems very sincere and he’s very loving and kind when we’re together. I think I just need to give it time. I’m prone to overthinking things, and so sometimes I worry that he’ll stop talking to me out of the blue, but he has no reason to do that. He realized what a caring person I am and that him leaving me before was unfair and hurtful, and I think that woke his conscience enough for him not to do it again. He’s just young (as am I) and he’s confused and stressed with planning his life. So I need to give it time. And although I still have my doubts and worries, I truly feel that he & I have an amazing connection (otherwise he never would’ve come back) and I believe that things will work out for us. The times that we share are always insanely intimate and special, and he tells me he feels the same. I’m hoping for the best even though things are still tough. I am just happy to have him back in my life because I love him so much :) sorry for the long response! I figured you might be looking for someone else’s story to help you with your own situation. Hopefully this helped!
Andreas Dybdahl let me also add that I did not reach out to him once from the beginning of April (shortly after we broke up) until the beginning of August this year. He texted me once mid-June asking how I was, but ended up ghosting me. I asked him about that when we met up in August, and he said that he had regretted starting communication between us again because he didn’t want to re-open the wound of the breakup. He felt selfish reaching out to me when he was still living in a completely different state, because he knew he’d just be hurting me more since we couldn’t physically be together. But then once he moved back to my state/city, he reached out because now there was more of a hope for an actual relationship since we’re in the same place. So I basically went no contact for almost 4 months (besides the one text in June that I responded to), and right as I was losing hope of ever hearing from him again, he reached out. So if you’re going through anything similar, or any breakup where you had a happy & loving relationship and you want the person back, they likely will come back. If you treated them well and loved them unconditionally, they will most likely feel that and miss it after going without you. Of course my situation isn’t certain (nothing ever is), and he could end up leaving again, but I believe that if you believe something will happen, it will. I trusted the deep connection I felt with this man, and I trusted that it would eventually bring us back together. And it has, somewhat. Patience is just what it takes, and I hope that my patience pays off in the end. Sending my best wishes your way my friend, let me know how you are doing 💗
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Hi Shannon, thanks for your heartfelt reply, I hope you two will have an amazing second chance, and make things right this time!
I am in the same situation, my ex and I were together almost everyday for 6 months, and she were always the one talking about not wanting to lose me, and that she was afraid I might do that. It ended up being her who left me, she even told me she loved me, and wanted to kiss me on the day she broke up, she was even the one telling me how hard it would be for her the day I'll find another woman. We had had bad communication, and it led to both of us doing things that created increasing frustrations in each other, leading to the breakup.
I did a pretty good no contact in the period afterwards, but it wasn't perfect, I did send her a letter of understanding, and told her the things I'd learned about the way we communicated badly, and that I was working on improving those skills for my future relationships, I'd hoped she would reply, but she didn't.
It's been 1,5 months since our breakup, and 1,5 weeks since the letter I sent her.
I know if she will be back, then in time she will contact me. Otherwise I am moving on, but I do still love her, and have some kind of hope deep down.
Andreas Dybdahl I totally understand that, and I think that’s the best approach to have. It’s so difficult when someone promises us the world and then breaks that promise, but I definitely believe in second chances. I would say continue your no contact (the letter was okay, but make sure not to expect a response), and it’s good to explore your options and maybe go on a couple dates. In the 4 months my ex & I were in no contact, I went on 3 dates with different guys just to try to make sure that my feelings for my ex were real, or if I’d be able to move on. I personally wasn’t able to forget about him nor move on in that period of no contact, and that makes me believe 100% that my love for him is true. So I’m willing to try again and give him the space he needs. I just hope he’s being honest with me about caring, and that he can work on healing himself so that we can maybe be together again. Our period apart was terrible for me because I missed him deeply, BUT I did work on myself. I worked out and stayed healthy, and went out with friends and family as much as possible - I think this is why the universe sent him back to me. And if it’s meant to be, it will be. I have faith that it will. And I wish you the best too. It’s so hard missing the person you love, but be patient and trust that your love for her (and hers for you) will bring her back. Just make sure to take care of yourself and don’t close yourself off to the world. Whether she comes back to you or not, it will all be okay. But I do believe she’ll come back eventually, just give it time.
I love this advice about the mantras. I have literally been having chest pains since the break-up
I just love you both! I have been going through being dumped and un-dumped (haha) by a long-term friend/lover. This really sux.
I am 50 with an empty nest plus going through perimenopause.
Having you both here for me is truly the best therapy.
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I think it also depends on the persons personality. If they're impulsive they're likely to come back, if they're a mature, patient person, they might never and eventually just get over you
With the law of attraction, one must first raise their overall vibration to make oneself magnetic. Then one must think about what it is they want and let it go. If you cling to it or are waiting for it to manifest in your life, it won’t.
When I tried the analogy of releasing my energy (the chord). I actually tear’d up because of the thought of losing the love I had for my ex. It’s crazy how fast the process actually can really be…
I've had some really rough days now, I was supposed to go to my exes graduation which is this week. Of course I haven't been in touch for 3 weeks now and probably won't hear anything from her on it either. The hardest part for me was to stop caring about whether or not she is happy without me. In the relationship my happiness didn't depend on her, but after she forced me out of her life it does feel like a big part of me went missing.
We had talked about marriage, children's names and moving in, even the day before she broke up with me. She even told me she loved me hours before she broke up. I have never been so blindsided before.
glenn Same thing with me . A week prior to breaking up she said she wanted us to stay together forever .
A week later she broke up with me .
I can give you my take on that incident. Anyone who says I love you one day and makes plans about marriage with.you.and then can turn around a leave the next day or week. What I believe they are doing is putting you in storage for security in case a relationship with another doesn't work out that person has you on the back burner to care about them. You find another and often times the ex will pop back in your life to win you back over the new relationship. So you go back to the ex and in time bingo.you end up on the back burner again. Listen to me I am 72 yrs old and have seen this.happen. Anyone who can say I love.you one day then bow out the next is not.what you need in life. Good luck.don't waste your life on the back burner.I don't care how hot she is.or if he is handsome as hell their heart is not.true. Good luck.
@@barbarariley3488 I haven't talked with her for 3 weeks now, we had been together for 4 years. Part of the reason she broke up was because she got a panic attack thinking of moving away from her family and together with me. That is what she said, I can't confirm whether or not it's true, but it might be. I honestly don't care about the reason, if she hides how she really feels from me in the relationship and doesn't communicate anything to me then I can never make her happy. I can't read her mind, and if she goes to friends and family instead of me that just goes to show how little she really valued me I guess.
Maybe it's for the best, it hurts like hell because we had been close for almost 10 years now. We're only 24 and 22 so that's practically as long as I can remember. The fact that she just pushed me out of her life completely just tells me she must have found something in her life that replaced me.
Same thing with me. She was very insecure and anxious. I'm fairly attractive, but so is she. Maybe I just failed to make her feel secure.
@@pentagram4745 She told me I always make her feel better, she came to me with 99% of her problems, but didn't come to me with the problem that was related to me. I honestly feel dead inside at the moment.
It wasn't that bad at first, but 3 weeks in I'm just getting worse even though I accepted the fact that it's over I just can't feel better
But the law of attraction is about stating your desire and letting go! That is one of the most important parts of the law!
Exactly why it works for an ex.
Do you want to bring back your ex
12 days of no contact , got a indirect / direct message
Answered the text , I’ll keep you informed , obviously wanting my attention, could have kept that to herself
I am really sorry to say that "Only letting go" will only partially help you if you do not learn from the experience. Because if we simply let it go without learning from it then the same experience will happen again with another (perhaps new) person and then guess what? We have to let it go again. This will lead to a circle of endless need of letting go letting go again and again. I guess we do not want to have a nine or ten same experience and then letting go for nine or ten times, right? Learning from the experience is the most important thing after you let it go. Improve ourselves, try something different.
Exactly if you don’t learn from your previous breakup whoever you date next a breakup is definitely likely to happen.
I imagine that chord being knotted and wrapped around myself everywhere. Strangling and suffocating. I know I’ll be able to untangle the mess. The knots feel tight but day by day I’m able to loosen them more and more
Really good video. I like the reference to Freud, we have energy according to him an erotic and an aggressive drive. We bury both and this is called repression and repression leads to neuroses where that energy comes out in unhealthy ways. Healing according to Freud was to become conscious of those neuroses and taking control of your own energy. I feel that in a breakup there are so many neuroses at work, and we as the dumpees feel incredibly disempowered. The only way to heal is to take power back and become conscious of our own neuroses, I guess that is what no contact does
I think the more logical reason is it takes you a certain amount of time to actually get over it say 6 8 12 weeksThen they want to come back and see what happens it’s just enough time passed where their curiosity peaked and it’s so happens that you were getting over them at the same time
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Law of attraktion = You attract what you are, not what you want.
Your dominant thoughts cause the result.
If you want love, you must become loving. If you want a million, you must become a millionaire in your mind first.
The only feeling who feel like death threat is the feeling of losing someone including yourself.
After being devastated for 6 weeks and wanting my ex back, found out shes done a pretty quick rebound, so F*** her, who would want such a person. After watching these videos ,hoping , they are actually kind of pointless and just drag out the pain, prob not in all cases, but the majority, yep. Find a much better person. The wheel has turned.I still respect these two however and hope they work for some!
I agree. I think my ex left me for someone else. She tried to contact me but I couldn't see past what she did. I never thought she would leave let alone run to another guy. No way will i ever see her the same way.
I have been watching these videos since my breakup three months ago. I was desperate to get them back but it never occured me that I might not want them back. I am doing very well in NC I am excited for the future and looking forward to new endeavors. So NC was for me, to get me back! And she is more awesome than my Ex 😅
Almost 3 weeks now NC..I thought I couldnt get over the 2nd day..it still hurts like heck...but I deserve much more.. I dont need a lot..only respect..
6 String Therapy it’s an on and off situation that he didn’t want a label on .. a year and half of these games was enough.. I love him but been in NC for 2 months again I need to move on as He suggested as well .. he is toxic.
6 String Therapy He’s an avoidant type didn’t like being ignored after a simple how’s your day going ? I’m not needy so he said I was .. to each his own .. ✌️✌️
according to law of attraction, what you focus on, what you get.
Also, what you want = what you lack.
so they emphasize on the feeling of you have already got something.
For example, even when you are single, you focus on loving yourself and then you manifest love from the others because the self-love that you have for yourself project out to the world.
So when people see it, they also feel that self-love you have for yourself, so that they will also treat you in a way that they love you and respect you more!
When it is applied on getting your ex back, that means you do not focus on the feeling on losing your ex because you love yourself enough, and you are confident enough that they are going to come back to you since you are such a good match for them, so you won't worry too much about it.
Instead, you focus on yourself, which is also similar to the methods that you teach!(I'm a big fan of you)
just a little correction for the law of attraction:)
and I love your videos as always! Thanks
Coach Craig Kenneth and Coach Margaret!
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Imagine you are in a ruin of a city. Your ex is facing the other way attached to a rope. The rope is being held by you. Every waking moment you feel the rope gripping into your hands. Blood is pouring through the fiber into the earth. With each passing moment the city around you becomes more and more desolate. Until one moment you decide to drop the rope and let her vanish. The sun will shine, flowers, trees, lakes and rivers start forming in the desolation. Cry all you can, enjoy, smile, laugh be sad but let the landscape change and heal. Don't hold on to ruin. Move on
My FA ex just reached out at 2am VIA text as was our usual communication. I
broke up with them February, they contacted me a month later saying how
they missed me. I replied nicely and basically said the lack of
communication broke us and no relationship can survive with out it. They
replied "no worries take care" then at 2am last night (which would be 3
1/2 months after their last text) messaged again. Need to ignore it for
me. It is not in my personality to ignore people but I have been
healing so well. I was a secure and turned anxious in that relationship.
1st time in my life and stuck around for 1 year - it was really too
much for me to understand. THEY DO REACH OUT and she is stubborn. hope
she gets the help she needs. (i have copied my comment in other videos)
I still don't fully understsnad how not having any contact with them is helping me in some way. I always felt out of sight, out of mind was more the case with my relationships
I honestly feel it is helping u and heal and better yourself. You can’t do that if ur mind is constantly thinking about what they’re doing or who they’re with. That is no longer ur priority. Ur #1 and only priority right now is u. Hope I didn’t come off as rude or intrusive. Just trying to help. I’ve been where u are and it’s extremely hard. But u deserve to work on urself for u and no one else.
My ex fiancee said she's so much more relaxed without me and even said she feels " light and airy " and I firmly believe she moved on to someone else. I spent an entire month trying to get her back. She breadcrumbed me for a few weeks before telling me to " let it go " and then days later I got laid off from my job. That really put me in a tough emotional state. I left her a 13 minute peaceful voice note expressing that this was the last time she'd hear my voice and told her how much she educated me so painfully and also told her she's never gonna hear from me again. I mean it. I'm tired of being hurt over someone who's " light and airy " while Im unemployed and feeling like shit. I took control back with that voice note. One of the most painful things in life is knowing your gonna be hurting a while before you get better.
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@@Byku010 I'm in a new relationship with a beautiful woman who's got her life in order. My ex is married and the relationship is failing already because we spoke and she told me her dude is a liar and a momma's boy 🤣 I'm so mature and removed that I just listened and laughed on the inside. We were friends over 14 years so it didn't bother me speaking to her. But I'm good and her not so much 🤣
I was in no contact for 3 weeks. Went straight cold turkey and left her alone.
Then two days ago she sends me a bitter message about why I can't be friends with her etc. I'm confused, she wanted me to leave her alone, but then she didn't like it when I did.
It was on her birthday too.
Help.
Girl sounds manipulative as fuck.
@@Luminous.Dynamics No more than the men.
i miss him so much :( he was the first to see my story but i honestly am not trying to think it means anything (i have not been posting for a while)
I can't thank you enough for your videos and encouraging words. You both helped me going through my healing.
Your calming energy is so therapeutic to me and I’m sure many others. Love and light to you both.
I wonder if it has something to do with the time, it’s gonna take a while for you to get to the place of genuinely being done with them and not caring so it’s not the fact that you’re genuinely done with them it’s the fact that it’s taking so much time to get to that point but enough time has past and if you’ve been in no contact they reach out!
In martial like shinkyokushin karate you focus in mindfulness and deep breaths to let the energy flow and empty your mind for unnecessary thoughts and in force mental strength.
The hardest part about this is knowing that they’re going to be sexually intimate with someone else instead of you. That they are going to eventually develop feelings for someone else one day and it won’t be you. It’s so hard to watch the ones you love and let them go be with someone else but it end of the day I guess we can all agree everything happens for a reason
we worked on ourselves and have changed a lot. But ur partner didnt change much and is dealing with the same personal problem. Hence the reason for another breakup
These videos are great. They've help me recognize patterns and behaviors in myself that I didn't realize I was doing or rather was doing all wrong things. My situation is a bit crazy where I've been involved in and off relationship for over 4 years. I think we both have emotional attachment issues. First 2 years I ran she chased and vice versa she finally got feed up and ran to someone else, then 8 months later the universe brought us together and we had run into each other truly unexpectedly. She was still with someone else as you can guess shortly after we got into an affair, which is where we are now. Once again she runs and I chase and vice versa. Shes done no contact she comes back or I break it and shes back. Tells me she needs time, I try to understand but my anxiety and hers keeps that from happening she comes backs but still tells me she doesn't know what she wants and feels lost. My anxious does stupid things like texts and emails. Its so crazy. For me it's truly the LOA for us. We just need to get it right but were not there. But I still have hope that we will get it right only time will tell. But in the meantime I need to work on my anxiety and the things that keep pushing her away and keeping her from choosing. These videos are helping thanks coach craig.
What happened?
This is powerful stuff
there are two types of manifesting: law of attraction and awareness manifesting. please don’t waste your time and get into awareness manifesting. my fav coach for this is @Divine Imagination by Joseph Alai . no bullshit. many things that you say agree with his teachings, for example you let your ex go by working on yoursef, keeping busy etc
Im so done my life is in the shit hole i lost her my job and now two months later im losing my house. It just keeps getting worse but she seems happier than ever. Im happy for her. I dont want to get out of bed anymore tho.
I hope you are doing better.
Ik it’s hard but you got to keep going,listen my boyfriend said he wanted space it’s been 5 weeks since I heard from him and In my mind it’s over at first I didn’t feel like doing anything but you can’t stop your life for somebody who didn’t care about losing you.
Hi Coach Craig. What if your ex has a "defeated" mindset? He doesn't fight for things, he just accepts every outcome. Will no contact or any psychological trick work on him?
Same!!
Me too :(
Pray about it 🙏
Update? My ex is the same
I can’t believe it’s been 2 years for me, a year since we last spoke. The hole has gotten smaller, but it’s still there. The scar is anyway. But it’s okay, I’m a better person for it. I just can’t find someone else I feel the same way about.
JOE FS Yeah that’s a basic concept, obviously easier said than done.
Tony M Thank you!
@@katcuzzi You will find that person when your subconscious relaxes and allows you to be vulnerable again. Often falling in love has more to do with ourselves than the other person. When you are ready that person will come.
@@90blacknight Thanks, I think you're right. :)
Did u ever find the right one?
I’ve been broken up with me ex for about 2.5 months. She has been in contact with me ever since. If I do go no contact, she’ll text me 2 or 3 days later. She is an avoidant and I’m anxious. I did an email coaching with Craig, he told me to continue to let her reach out and not to be too eager or clingy. I’ve done pretty good at that some days are better than than others. I just don’t know what she’s trying to do playing games,confused etc. She definitely didn’t open up about how she feels.
I find this guided meditation very helpful, great imagery. Very interesting indeed.
I made my own simplified mantra covering respecting myself and my ex because true love is freedom. it goes like this "when she turns away, let her go free, she is free to live her life and so am I. I share my time with those that appreciate it" ...I made that after a day or two of listening to Margaret on loop, I made a clip from this vid to help me. It helped more than I would have ever believed. I put in lots of work for almost a year now, this video marked a great turning point I believe for me even though I already learned so much of the dynamics and have become so self aware, this break up made deep trauma surface for me which was a great opportunity but it was hell. Ok I'm still a little sore.
Law of attraction states to visualize and then let it go. The way Margaret describes unconscious mind exactly is law of attraction lol
Danielle Nicole Yes it is!
true
Its been 4 or so months, in the first 3 months I've work on my goals (not ones trying to get em back) then I've begin dating again. I never loss confidence in myself, if anything I feel happy I moved out n away because the energy around me feels cleaner since they were unbareblely clingy n tried to get bad reactions out of me. He didn't even text our break up, he changed his relationship status on Facebook n said I needed to leave. While moving out he was still acting crazy invasive n trying to be macho in front of guy friends... So him dumping me was a blessing. I don't need a creep like that in my orbid
I let her go last night i said “goodbye and thank you for the memories” i deleted her iMessage email, phone number and blocked her Facebook. Let’s see what happens next..
saint pepsi don't block her dude it's not good..
You have to show her that you can be good without her..and by keeping her in social media will help her to stalk you which is good. So do no contact without blocking her😇
Best of luck
saint pepsi good for you Saint
Gaurang Jungi she’s the avoidant type i don’t think she would care if i blocked her honestly :\ still no msg and it’s giving me depressed thoughts again...
saint pepsi same is happening with me i was very sick so when she came to know it she msg me and after some days we met at a wedding and she didn't even look at me so i did the same😇 it broke me again but i am still doing NC
I literally gave them a drawer in my dresser lol
I have argue with you about the attraction theory. So I wanted badly to understand my girl on a deeper level, and after many many many videos I couldn't find how to understand her. I was going on different paths that led me nowhere, I barely scratched the surface, and when I kinda gave up, Amir Levine's book made its way into my life and I didn't know how useful it will be for me, but I can tell you that I sensed an urge to read it without knowing why. After that, watching your videos about attachment, helped me out even more, filling the blanks. I can feel there is something more than wishful thinking. This is my opinion. Cheers !
Loads of Love to u both 💖..... 🙏🏼🙏🏼 you are healing me so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 thanks a ton
Very interesting, I wonder if it actually works and if any of your viewers have done this and if it works for a long term breakup, or one that just happened for two months. However, it’s hard to let someone go, especially if the two of you have been together for a long time, like my ex and I, we’ve been together for over 5 years.
You won’t want them back soon, just watch, only so much effort and energy you can give before it becomes a burden.
I'm figuring out that my ex is a narcissist after fifteen years together. A narcissist will either play the victim or the hero, but never the villain. Our friends are telling me he was with another "friend" recently, but is miserable now and wants her out. I don't know what to believe. He's denying it, of course. I did no contact for two weeks and he called today because we have a doctor's appt. tomorrow at the same doctor. He told me he loved me but I'm not so sure anymore, I'm devastated and heartbroken but trying not to show it. I just LOVE you and Margaret. Wow, what 40 years' experience between the two of y'all? That's amazing. Thank you both for doing these videos because you are helping SO many people.
Happy New Year to both of you!!!! 😀 I did it! Let's see....
I am desperate for guidance because I don't know what to do anymore. If I can repair my relationship, what's going on with my boyfriend what he wants or what he's thinking, or if things are just in my head out of fear.
We've been together for 3 years and lived together nearly the whole time. Long story short but he started to really pull away from me 9 months ago, I finally asked him in April what was going on and he said he loves me and is in love with me but that he feels like the spark and passion is completely gone, and that we've become best friends. Yet he tells me he is still in love with me and doesn't want to hurt me or him to hurt but thinks it's at a dead end. He has claimed we've done things to fix it but we haven't. We just got back into the same routine every day and only took 1 camping trip together. Whenever there is anything upsetting or conflict with our relationship (has happened about 5 times since April) he goes back to saying that he still thinks nothing has changed, he still feels that the relationship isn't going anywhere, that he doesn't think we can bring it back and doesn't know how.
I've asked him over and over again what he wants, and what he needs, if he wants to break up or take a separation and he always says "idk". He will go from doubting it all and saying its done, to reaching over and pulling me close to him wanting to cuddle, and writing notes on our fridge saying "thank you for all you do for us, I love you, you're amazing", and every so often has days where he just writes me all day telling me I"m gorgeous and he loves me etc.
HELPPPP!! I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should walk away and take a break or keep fighting to rebuild. I know I killed the attraction long ago because I was always so insecure, negative and a downer to be around, and I never did anything to encourage him, lift him up or make him feel good. But now idk what to do to fix this. someone please help, I'm desperate to find a direction
hi.coach, im 53 years old, and my ex is 30, we've been together for more than 2years, almost a year, we see each other almost everyday, and we decided to live in one roof, and it last after a year and few months, as far as i heard from your video, she is an avoindant person, it really hurts. i cant eat, loses weigth, tried also to commit suicide. since i listen to your video, i was really feel good, and try to do things that you've said, thank you so much, you are relally a good such peraon and coach. thank you so much. anywaysz i am from the philippines, and love to buy your books but can't afford. my ex broke up with me 5 months ago, and i did the worst thing, begging, crying, anything, name it and i did it. i did no contact, but i broke it twice, when i feel alone and jealous. my ex did monkey branching and after few months, they broke up, and after 2 months, i saw again from her fb that she has again a new bf, and i told her sister that, and her sister said it to my ex, and my ex texted me, she really mad at me, and she told me to move on and she never comeback anymore, and also told me to stop stalking her. and the following morning, my ex texted me again, and she say sorry for me for what she said to me, and she also told me to leave her alone and move on. she also told me that she love her bf and she doesn't want to lose him, and she said goodbye. coach, can you help me by doing a video, it is possible that my ex will comeback or to move on? by the way, she was married with another guy and separated 8year ago with 1 kid and i also married and also separated for so many years, with another women and i have children. thank you so much for doing those videos, it helped me a lot to heal my heart and brain. you and margaret are both gifted from this field. please do help me by doing video or by replying this. thanks a lot. sorry if my english is not good as you.
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I have messaged my ex saying that when you loose something you realise what mistake were made and what went wrong and I have now changed and I could show her that I said that I am going to leave her alone from now on but if she wants to talk or meet up then we can no games if not then i wish her the best
This is one of the better videos I have seen
2 years ago i got dumped the 19 jan, 10 days before my birthday ,
I loved her so much and she left and i was so sad,
i could not afford to get a skype because i was unemployed but i watched craig kenneth's videos daily
I let her go
and i did not get her back ,
but i got my self back, i even discover a part of my self i never knew.
Now i am working very hard and its going well for me and i feel worthy for the first time of my life
I still love her but i m happy for her and her new husband and i hope she will never talk to me again
because for sure she will dump him when she will see how much i am a better person haha
and i don't want that guy to feel what i felt,
I 'am supportive of the family , she got married and now she must stay with him
Next time i find osmeone i value i ll know who to reach out to deal with my couple problem
Love for everyone who is facing a difficult breakup
Some people wanna hear from you, don't do bad things
She left me and she ain't never coming back
I was wondering Coach Craig: If we work out in our improvements but we don't have contact with that person, not in touch or social media and he do not reach out and i won't do it because i believe that has to be done. How they are going to see the changes we have made.