“Your repeated behaviors become obligations” is true 💯 I’ve learned that it’s a bad idea to do things for someone consistently unless they’re mature enough to make an effort to stay grateful for it. If they’re not able to do that, it can still work though- you just gotta do it inconsistently so they aren’t tempted to take it for granted. Fucked up but it’s the best I’ve managed to come up with 😂
So true brother, I just spent 10 months doing everything I could for someone. I did learn alot from it though, so I can't say I got nothing back but I found this channel after I had already adopted a positive outlook from it.
This whole video was spot on, a long one like this and the other ones of you reacting to other videos are nice little treats from the usual style of content, but the usual style are pure quality as well. I couldn’t agree more when it comes to being cold to be a player, it becomes difficult and painful when having to let go of girls that you really like, or watching them leave and having to see them with another guy not to long after because the other guy decided to take them serious from the start. I have a girl right now who understands my “player” lifestyle and if it were up to her she would prefer it otherwise but she’s still with me regardless of the situation, and according to her she’s understanding of it “just as long as I don’t catch deep emotional feelings for the other girls.”
26:00 I was able to get over a bad break up because I had a great community/social circle of friends (men with helpful advice and support). So many insights in this vid. 🔥💎
As a 45 year old GenX female. With 45 years of experience on the earth, one thing that wasn’t discussed that is really important to teach the younger generation is insulting, making fun of, or mocking the girl or teasing her or insulting her interests or clothing or makeup or looks or life decisions etc,, …..which young men love to do towards women in their face…..will NOT get you laid, the girls just might pull out their concealed carry weapon on you . I don’t recommend it? She most likely will try to crash her car into yours as you get in the car to get back at you. Beware if her favorite film genre is Westerns
One thing that I’ve learned over the years that nobody ever taught me was one simple phrase. How do you put out a fire? you smother it. If you apply this to your women, life will become very easy. You gotta think of a relationship as a fire and you have to feed it like a fire. If you wanna put it out throw something over top of it.
I've only had 2 girlfriends and they both have been for 8 years! My next girl will probably be longer ! Only bc I know how to make a lasting relationship, but now I know how to identify red flags alot faster and what to do! I never really learned the whole cold approach I remember being obsessed with learning the PUA stuff. I got a training and stuff but I never really got the chance to use it! And it's been like 15 years since I've learned it! Now I'm sticking to "coach corey Wayne's" advice! But I'm willing to learn
The best way to maximize the results through cold approach is night game. Clubs, bars, festivals, concerts ... those places usually are full of hot women, giving you the oportunity to meet several hotties in a matter of a few hours. And as a bonus you can make new friends, increasing your social circle.
This was excellent - one advice I can give you is be more expressive with your voice and WAYYYY less monotonous.. You sound like an AI generated voice and for people who aren’t super interested in the subject like me can be very very hard to listen to over time
I’ve had successes and rejections. Best thing I can say is use every rejection as motivation to keeps improving your looks, presentation, and personality. Basically, have the drive that if that same girl sees you or runs into you a year from now, the only person doing any rejecting will be you. It fuels me to keep wanting to get better. Keeping my purpose and destiny in mind helps a ton too
Honestly my biggest issue is I just don't know how to generate more leads. I'm a very fit, well paid guys with a good social circle and I even cold approach in the moment but every girl in my community seems to be not single unless they're fat. I'm also Indian living in a very white and east Asian town in California so that also doesn't really help.....
They lie about having a boyfriend because you're Indian because lots of girls find Indians unattractive. I saw a video of a guy asking girls on the street what race would they never date and like 99% of them said Indian. It's really tough for you guys out there.
I totally disagree with momentum. The most difficult part is consistency. It's not that difficult to start, it's hard to stick to it, way more difficult. Of course it's easier to not move at all, but make the first step can be done just by motivation, while consistency is a matter of discipline.
Typical dating pleb: works on game, style, dress, career, confidence, puts himself out there, watches 80 min video on 17 years of compiled wisdom. Gets occasional success or even no success. CHAD: “sup”. Girl = *omg hoooot yess yesss”
So, who has better advice the guy with 1 marriage and a small history of girlfriends? Or is this guy with 17 years dating experience? Also, are you looking for dating advice? Or marriage advice? Obtaining a girl is a different objective from keeping her. 2 different ball parks
@@alonsoalcantar7847 That would depend on your personal goals. I'd go to this guy for dating advice rather than marriage advice. But on the other hand a guy with a long marriage doesn't necessarily know everything about marriage either. I thought I did until my divorce after 26 years. Then I started learning a fuck ton about relationships, attraction and dating dynamics. Paradoxically I'd say the person to ask about marriage might be people that have had long marriages but also had those marriages fail. It's a case of, you don't know what you don't know.
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Can't find anything here I disagree with, aligns with everything I've learned about women. It's always helpful to give your conscious mind a refresher
“Your repeated behaviors become obligations” is true 💯
I’ve learned that it’s a bad idea to do things for someone consistently unless they’re mature enough to make an effort to stay grateful for it. If they’re not able to do that, it can still work though- you just gotta do it inconsistently so they aren’t tempted to take it for granted. Fucked up but it’s the best I’ve managed to come up with 😂
So true brother, I just spent 10 months doing everything I could for someone. I did learn alot from it though, so I can't say I got nothing back but I found this channel after I had already adopted a positive outlook from it.
Danny, you're extremely skilled in summarizing concepts concisely. "Brevity is the soul of wit." Great job and thanks for your work.
One of the best videos out there on dating. Great way to summarize.
Nothing but pure gold in this video. Great stuff
"The true test" is deep. Love that.
Real wealth of knowledge here. Excellent vid. Love your content bro 💯
This video earned my sub. You are level headed and there is much common sense coming through.
Great video, agreed on every point
This whole video was spot on, a long one like this and the other ones of you reacting to other videos are nice little treats from the usual style of content, but the usual style are pure quality as well.
I couldn’t agree more when it comes to being cold to be a player, it becomes difficult and painful when having to let go of girls that you really like, or watching them leave and having to see them with another guy not to long after because the other guy decided to take them serious from the start. I have a girl right now who understands my “player” lifestyle and if it were up to her she would prefer it otherwise but she’s still with me regardless of the situation, and according to her she’s understanding of it “just as long as I don’t catch deep emotional feelings for the other girls.”
fantastic and easy to follow
First comment 😁 Mr. Vera I appriciate the content you put out, hope you're well. God bless bro
Oh boi am I excited for this !!!!
I have watched about a quarter of this video and he is spot on with just about everything. His quality and communication in his videos are great.
Then we went back to PORNHUB.
Great video great content
I can’t imagine the woman it would take to lock me down. she would have to truly be incredible.
this video is pure gold
26:00 I was able to get over a bad break up because I had a great community/social circle of friends (men with helpful advice and support). So many insights in this vid. 🔥💎
great video
Legendary video, cheers Danny
This is gold. Wish I would’ve had this breakdown when I was 16.
This dude made a true gem of a video
Straight up gold
Glad you brought these things up. I'm on the shorter side and I get dates. Plus every woman always insists they split the bill.
80s minutes damn!
15 minutes in and it's all on point.
goated 🔥
As a 45 year old GenX female. With 45 years of experience on the earth, one thing that wasn’t discussed that is really important to teach the younger generation is insulting, making fun of, or mocking the girl or teasing her or insulting her interests or clothing or makeup or looks or life decisions etc,, …..which young men love to do towards women in their face…..will NOT get you laid, the girls just might pull out their concealed carry weapon on you . I don’t recommend it? She most likely will try to crash her car into yours as you get in the car to get back at you. Beware if her favorite film genre is Westerns
You're obviously bitter towards men coming in with a comment like that...
Danny have you ever thought about getting into Podcasts ? Think this format would work well as one !
start a community
One thing that I’ve learned over the years that nobody ever taught me was one simple phrase. How do you put out a fire? you smother it. If you apply this to your women, life will become very easy. You gotta think of a relationship as a fire and you have to feed it like a fire. If you wanna put it out throw something over top of it.
nothing but facts fellas. bring the ruckus
Sound advice.
gold.
I've only had 2 girlfriends and they both have been for 8 years! My next girl will probably be longer ! Only bc I know how to make a lasting relationship, but now I know how to identify red flags alot faster and what to do!
I never really learned the whole cold approach I remember being obsessed with learning the PUA stuff. I got a training and stuff but I never really got the chance to use it! And it's been like 15 years since I've learned it! Now I'm sticking to "coach corey Wayne's" advice! But I'm willing to learn
Nice hat brother
My man, I agree with what you’re saying, but how am I supposed to remember all this
How/ where to learn strategy/game/ conversation?
The best way to maximize the results through cold approach is night game. Clubs, bars, festivals, concerts ... those places usually are full of hot women, giving you the oportunity to meet several hotties in a matter of a few hours. And as a bonus you can make new friends, increasing your social circle.
Yeah..no doubt you'll meet quality women there lmao
@@deconstructingnarcissism3062 just try man.
55 is a blessing because I seem to be entering the seriously not even wanting to date era….
Peaceful
I'm 34 and have already reached that point lol
I hear ya bro, I'm in it for keeps.
Being a player is detrimental on a lot of layers.
Even if I had the skills I just don't think I have it in me. I'm more of a relationship kinda guy. With an extra woman included occasionally LOL
This was excellent - one advice I can give you is be more expressive with your voice and WAYYYY less monotonous.. You sound like an AI generated voice and for people who aren’t super interested in the subject like me can be very very hard to listen to over time
Do you have a video on perspective/people pleasing around 23:50
Can you please thoroughly explain what it means for someone to "live through you vicariously".
Ngl it’s kinda hard to stay motivated, when it’s just constant rejection
I’ve had successes and rejections. Best thing I can say is use every rejection as motivation to keeps improving your looks, presentation, and personality. Basically, have the drive that if that same girl sees you or runs into you a year from now, the only person doing any rejecting will be you. It fuels me to keep wanting to get better. Keeping my purpose and destiny in mind helps a ton too
Honestly my biggest issue is I just don't know how to generate more leads. I'm a very fit, well paid guys with a good social circle and I even cold approach in the moment but every girl in my community seems to be not single unless they're fat. I'm also Indian living in a very white and east Asian town in California so that also doesn't really help.....
They lie about having a boyfriend because you're Indian because lots of girls find Indians unattractive. I saw a video of a guy asking girls on the street what race would they never date and like 99% of them said Indian. It's really tough for you guys out there.
Some of these guys don't know what it's like. You ARE judged for your height and I have 20 years experience.
I unintentionally short term date. My 1 month free trial ends and I can’t buy the subscription
I totally disagree with momentum. The most difficult part is consistency. It's not that difficult to start, it's hard to stick to it, way more difficult. Of course it's easier to not move at all, but make the first step can be done just by motivation, while consistency is a matter of discipline.
Thank you Ryan Gosling. 😂
Nice hat 🧢 bro 😎🤙🔫
I dont really care now tbh its too much work and for what? Im just going to focus on me and if it happens it happens
100% Working ten times as hard as our ancestors for a high mileage car
Typical dating pleb: works on game, style, dress, career, confidence, puts himself out there, watches 80 min video on 17 years of compiled wisdom. Gets occasional success or even no success.
CHAD: “sup”. Girl = *omg hoooot yess yesss”
The height thing isn’t true at all. I’m 5’8” and a 6’3” girl was choosing
Speaking as a girl, that’s only true if she’s looking for the superficial things
58:52 any tips on how to transition the girl from the aggressive teasing style to submissive?
Dude, dating for 17 years is fucked up. You should be in a committed relationship by now. Not listening to you.
Bro giving dating advice and not relationship advice... Two different things
It feels like he is giving me life advice.
Not that different. if you get into a relationship and stop doing all of the things that got you there, you will be soon be single again.
Easy answer. Don't date
Dating is suffering. Become buddhistic and give up all worldly desires instead
If you have 17 years of experience and you're single, double the advice and pass it to the next person because it can't be any good lmao
Have considered that he chooses to be single?
Nah
So, who has better advice the guy with 1 marriage and a small history of girlfriends? Or is this guy with 17 years dating experience? Also, are you looking for dating advice? Or marriage advice? Obtaining a girl is a different objective from keeping her. 2 different ball parks
@@alonsoalcantar7847 That would depend on your personal goals. I'd go to this guy for dating advice rather than marriage advice.
But on the other hand a guy with a long marriage doesn't necessarily know everything about marriage either. I thought I did until my divorce after 26 years. Then I started learning a fuck ton about relationships, attraction and dating dynamics. Paradoxically I'd say the person to ask about marriage might be people that have had long marriages but also had those marriages fail.
It's a case of, you don't know what you don't know.
Yes anybody single has 0 experience to share..
Ordinary ppl never breakup, they stay together forever, and only they have wisdom to share. Dumbass...
Isn't the point of "game" to negotiate desire
I've heard you contradict yourself like 5 times in this video
Any advice for women who are about to turn 50?