2 Bad Habits DESTROYING Your Success With Women

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  • @ironicjason257
    @ironicjason257 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Danny I love the environment you talk in, very calm and I can easily understand and concentrate on your words, Thank you.

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯 Thanks for watching man

  • @birdymaniac
    @birdymaniac 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Be happy alone with who you are, you don't need anybody
    if you're not happy alone, then you will not be happy with anybody!, females or guys or any creature

  • @Sebb8065
    @Sebb8065 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg, being emotional has never built a bridge

  • @alth000
    @alth000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Just be an extrovert, dude, it's simple. (Well, if you're an introvert, just reborn being an extrovert.)

  • @thejovontorres
    @thejovontorres 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I always appreciate the value you provide, including your personal stories.😂
    I also like the points you make about social skills and how it is a trait that when stacked with physical appearance (fashion and physique) increases your attraction. People are drawn to people who have great social skills (emotional intelligence).

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯 Those social skills carry over to so many areas of life too. A lot of doors and opportunities open up when you're good socially

    • @IvanJeromela1
      @IvanJeromela1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅🎉😂😂😂😮😅0

  • @RPHflyer
    @RPHflyer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Wow. So much truth packed into such a short video.

  • @blakebrunson7278
    @blakebrunson7278 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I agree a lot of guys focus on the ‘ on paper qualities’. Height ,looks ,money. Yeah, those are important, but honestly, just being an engaging person, a person that people want to be around, will take you way farther when it comes to women, as well as your social life in general

  • @SLAMSulek
    @SLAMSulek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This channel is hitting algorithm. Too the moon bro🚀

  • @maxiglesias4916
    @maxiglesias4916 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for the incredible content you produce. I've listened to hundreds of TH-camrs discussing a wide range of topics, but by far, you stand out as the best. Your tone and delivery are impeccable, making it a joy to tune in to your videos.
    What sets you apart is your ability to find the perfect balance between various topics. Instead of being firmly planted on one side of an argument, you present information in a fair and unbiased manner, allowing viewers to form their own opinions.
    So, thank you, bro, for consistently delivering top-notch content. You've earned my respect and admiration, and I can't wait to see what you have in store for us next.

  • @blakebrunson7278
    @blakebrunson7278 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m waiting for this channel to blow up. Some of the best Contant in the space that I have listened to. Very well thought out and not coming from a place of resentment or insecurity.

  • @victormj6279
    @victormj6279 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hey Danny, I've been binge watching your content, it's very transformative. Keep up the good work man.

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏 Appreciate you watching brother

  • @mezjean5966
    @mezjean5966 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I completely agree. Most dudes and most women btw are dry and generic. fun without pressure. The skill of being playful is THE most important and most valuable. In my country there is an old saying: if you can make a woman laugh so hard she can't breath, you already got her laid.

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah, Plenty of short fat ugly bald men make women laugh histerically but the women aren't sleeping with them, of course there are some exceptions.

  • @tommywei4165
    @tommywei4165 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    another great video. excellent advice. that inner masculine core can only be developed through being polarizing and openly expressing yourself in a secure way.

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏 Much appreciated bro

  • @tensevo
    @tensevo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    the job and the car, will get you a conversation,
    thats about it,

  • @nwokedidaniel7553
    @nwokedidaniel7553 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shogun method had a beautiful effect on his mindset

  • @cc1drt
    @cc1drt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    people are more attracted to those similar to them. this is very clear in the psychological research, so remember the “opposites attract” only applies to the unsophisticated lens of “masculine vs feminine” trait bins

  • @exploityourinsight4014
    @exploityourinsight4014 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You almost always hook us with the link to your next video at the end.😂. I find myself watching like 5 to 7 videos of yours on the spot.
    Hmmm!👏🏼

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha appreciate you watching brother, thank you

    • @exploityourinsight4014
      @exploityourinsight4014 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@itsdannyvera As always!♥️✅🚀

  • @amandubey5287
    @amandubey5287 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I must say I have improved quiet a lot by seeing your videos, and all you say makes so much sense now when I look back at the mistakes that I made in the past.

  • @Niyasseen
    @Niyasseen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've already shared with some friends who are facing this problems.

  • @stevenbanks268
    @stevenbanks268 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This guy is the only man to help me understand and act accordingly. Other guys speak from emotions

  • @nwokedidaniel7553
    @nwokedidaniel7553 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    11:51 this..men don’t know this
    Sometimes you just have to go with the flow when you’re with a girl
    No pressure for a relationship of any sort (unless she’s asking you for money )

    • @Bat-Georgi
      @Bat-Georgi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Listen, that works when you've already become the thing women like. When you hold the right interests and have the right experiences.

  • @promo130
    @promo130 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She told me today i can be very toxic😂

  • @jappie1993
    @jappie1993 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Danny! Loving all your videos about break up’s / dating advice. No clue why it took me so long to find your page. Keep it up bro!🎉

  • @benyoung6655
    @benyoung6655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your videos. I really feel like I’m growing by listening and actually understanding what you’re saying.

  • @Alex-wt9nf
    @Alex-wt9nf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Damn, this is a good channel

  • @RipRecords
    @RipRecords หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:31 - Correction. The opposite of Love is Fear. Indifference is just fruit of Fear.

  • @bjornviir3333
    @bjornviir3333 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Danny, i use this one: if girl doesnt smile, i say ...if you are worried about premature wrinkles, i have a great dermatologist.

  • @benthompson7202
    @benthompson7202 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great Video again. Am new to the Channel & gotta say I wish I came across this information sooner. Just kind of information I need to level up in a few areas of my life 👌

  • @kelvinharris7338
    @kelvinharris7338 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he's right! your tongue game has to be on point..you have to master the gift of gab

  • @zkr2133
    @zkr2133 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Material things don’t mean anything if you can’t talk to anyone. I appreciate the video

  • @indigobaloon8091
    @indigobaloon8091 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Our fathers didnt need to do all that. And rarely is a woman worth the effort.
    I can see the attraction in all you are saying, but what is there for a man left if he has to totaly change of who he is?
    Every woman will say, take me as who I am or you are not worth it of me. So why does the man has to clown around her.

  • @sumersinghrathore6
    @sumersinghrathore6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have seen few pf your videos right now...really liked your content which is useful will help us to get matured ....one recommendation add some visual of what you saying like lyrics or like that ...... Respect from you from India

  • @ShadyShae
    @ShadyShae 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hmm.. Real!

  • @christianhcevallos
    @christianhcevallos หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We are all screwed

  • @user-fo8cs6ee3k
    @user-fo8cs6ee3k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yeah but how do i find a wife

  • @rik-keymusic160
    @rik-keymusic160 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    and still, even when your not into relationship coaching and self development. You’ll still be able to find a partner because i see it everywhere but I don’t believe many know about this material…

  • @educateyourself3872
    @educateyourself3872 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What’s funny is that guys who signal higher value are mostly doing it on purpose which actually means the opposite, which means they’re trying too hard but women don’t realize that

  • @mikeshafer
    @mikeshafer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Danny - what are some good ways to be around women more often? I live in Santa Monica but I work at home so other than the gym I don't really have much of a reason to go outside. I'd prefer to avoid bars since I don't drink much anymore and talking in loud environments isn't the best. I was thinking more beach activities like beach tennis or volleyball, but maybe there are other ways. I deleted all of my apps. I just want to meet women in person.

  • @connormcintosh4983
    @connormcintosh4983 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Danny, I’ve been binge watching your vids and saw your videos on no contact. I want to ask you a question, I’m 21 and relatively inexperienced with women. I’ve been seeing this girl for 5-6 months, and her and I are non-exclusive. My goal in dating right now is not a LTR but rather FWB like the one I have. The issue is I have feelings for her, but I suspect that is only because I don’t have other options right now. Would you recommend I drop her immediately or wait until I have other options? Early on I also caught her lying to me, and she has shown signs of disrespect, but she’s still giving me what I want if that makes sense. Thanks.

    • @nickn4672
      @nickn4672 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yo man. Im not danny, but i think i got some advice for you. If you and this girl are seeing each other but the vibe feels off, disconnect. If you're normally the one to always reach out, stop for a week or two. See how she reacts. If she doesn't reach out to you, dump her immitiately. She isn't attracted to you anymore, and you have become a side guy. If she does, keep the relationship going and see how it goes from there. Hope this helps.

  • @jamesdeak630
    @jamesdeak630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am Greek but I don’t have a Ferrari

  • @zakzwijn8410
    @zakzwijn8410 หลายเดือนก่อน

    11:20 So for a kinda introverted and diagnosed autistic like me, that's a death sentence.

  • @aelfredrex8354
    @aelfredrex8354 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Polarity is always woman negative, man positive to work. She's the negative because she has to go through menstruation, menopause, and possibly childbirth. We men don't got to deal with none of that. We're nowhere near as impacted by our biology as they are. We're just the support team. Stay positive.

    • @BEATmyguest31
      @BEATmyguest31 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Life makes up for that 10,000 times over: men aren’t aloud to show emotion, men aren’t aloud to be vulnerable, women and children first, modern feminisms existence, who’s doing all the life threatening work remind me again?, add modern “dating” to the equation or do we just call it “fucking” now. Modern dating HEAVILY favors women.

    • @aelfredrex8354
      @aelfredrex8354 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@BEATmyguest31 It's not a war. That adversarial attitude is why you struggle. Generating conflict when the ideal is a peaceful partnership.

    • @Bat-Georgi
      @Bat-Georgi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aelfredrex8354 I have yet to find a women who wanted a "peaceful " partnership. They all want excitement and drama. Peace isn't interesting.

  • @JoaoGabrielJF724
    @JoaoGabrielJF724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm shy and autistic and this is too much work and it's a waste of energy. As I see it, it's not worth it. It's better to stay single

    • @EstNineteen90
      @EstNineteen90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Head up mate, ul find a girl that has prefers someone quite and reserved like you

    • @JoaoGabrielJF724
      @JoaoGabrielJF724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EstNineteen90 Thank you, but I'm not interested. I decided to go my own way

    • @larrylarry6362
      @larrylarry6362 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kewl

    • @inker1972
      @inker1972 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Rainman😂

    • @BrianManning-wh6rl
      @BrianManning-wh6rl 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This dude with his well measured teasing , is simple 17 to 19 year old taunting and teasing . R u kidding us dude ? Your old enough to drink and you play 17 year old play full vibe ? tease games . Wow. Xtra soy huh?

  • @petepan1330
    @petepan1330 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Scribed!

  • @nathaneriksson88
    @nathaneriksson88 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im either a dickhead or to nice

  • @jamessullivan5619
    @jamessullivan5619 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There are lots of reasons men won't have "Success" with women.....lots of them ! Some People don't like to hear this said nor admit that it is true, but LUCK is probably the primary reason a man might have success with a woman.....stupid blind unexpected and unexplainable LUCK. LUCK means NO CONTROL which is an uncomfortable feeling.

  • @KennyRogers8972
    @KennyRogers8972 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    blud thinks he attractive?

  • @Manila123
    @Manila123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If the girl is extrovert, is she more drawn to intovert guys based on polarity?

    • @cc1drt
      @cc1drt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      not at all LOL

  • @deersakamoto2167
    @deersakamoto2167 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Relying on substance (alcohol) to talk to women is a weakness

    • @squarecracker
      @squarecracker 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you are a seriously good looking guy, women need to alcohol to be bold enough to talk to you. Took me forever to figure this out. I don't need to be drunk, but THEY DO.

  • @boostjunkie27
    @boostjunkie27 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    No wife, happy life.

    • @davifreire2793
      @davifreire2793 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thats sounds cowad to me. Dont ever give up to find a good woman to share your Life.

  • @jimh527
    @jimh527 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Better yet, buy a plane ticket to Moscow or Prague.
    You'll discover something has gone seriously wrong here.

    • @sanich0811
      @sanich0811 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Moscow lmao

  • @SOR174
    @SOR174 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @ewwwt
    @ewwwt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    7:18 honestly bro, I don't recommend teasing because then that will be her idea of where you want to steer the relationship.
    eventually it will get to the point of lack of respect so, you don't want that to be the focus because then she'll start trash talking around your peers or family. (even if you sprinkle it in here or there.)

    • @schroederluck7984
      @schroederluck7984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He’s not saying to put a red ball on your nose and act like a clown. Just some playful jabs here at there. Being a robot won’t get you very far.

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@schroederluck7984 Yup, good way of putting it. You don't want to be a clown or come off as a guy that can't be serious. It also depends on the girls personality type, because there's different archetypes. The idea is to lean more toward the James Bond end of the spectrum rather than a standup comedian, though.
      It's hard to cover all angles in a video, but in general it's going to always come back to her respect level for you. They look at the whole picture of who you are, so if she genuinely respects you, some teasing here and there isn't going to ruin that. In fact, it should go up. If she doesn't respect who you are, it's over, regardless of your approach.

  • @Stoicbeast33
    @Stoicbeast33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who cares?...... you know, that could be part of most mens problem.