im 58, and my bs tolerance has been reset to 0. i could walk on a 304 if she so much as looks at me the wrong way. view them as human garbage, w no class, because thats what they are.
this might not mean much coming from me, but you’re the only youtuber I will actually listen to for a hour long video, my life has dramatically changed from your advice
I've started dating again now in my late 30s, how the tables have turned.... Good luck to those girls and I'd love to see them when they are hitting the wall.
It gets worse with age for men because the younger woman in general are so horrific and ran through that now young men in their 20s want woman in their 40s and 50s because oldest millennial and Gen X woman are more old fashioned!!! I’m 43 and I know young girls half my age slept with way more men than me and people my age and I hear it everywhere older woman get tons of young men. So older men trying to get with younger women be careful cause stds are through the roof among people under 30! I’m not kidding I’m not even single and the past few years on Facebook and instagram I get young men hitting on me because I dress conservatively! These young men just want a loyal girlfriend but rarely find that in their age group. These young women need to get some self respect, it’s like it’s cool to be slut in this younger generation! These young woman have so many options they treat men like they are disposable. I experienced the same last time I was single in my late 20s in less than 2 years I had nearly 1,000 men hit me up online, I only date one man at time so I found online dating to be weird and unnatural, the internet and online dating have destroyed society and it’s only going to get worse.
She's right I've been saying this for 20yrs....The guys that won't commit are usually chads/tyrones when they have a baby and start getting old they go get a good guy and start a long term relationship, and still keep chad/tyrone on deck for life as a friend/brother/cousin etc..
This really is the harsh truth about modern dating. Thanks for the video, Danny!🙏🏼 I’d like to see more content like this!😂 Honestly, women don’t know what they want…
Thanks for putting me onto this dudes videos. You pause so much at every single thing that i could not stand your reaction and just went right to the source. Thanks again g
Great video! Arguably you could say there is a big difference of what woman say in different locations. In Miami there only might be Golddiggers. In like Germany you don‘t have this attitude most of the time.
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001I’ not sure what gave you that idea, but that is absolutely not true. At all. They’re just as bad in small towns as they in the big cities.
Its not that women love money and guys fighting. The real thing they love is security. Or better said, it is one of the things their nature requires. Money and a man who can protect himself are attractive to them because those things offer security.
Shout out to the mexican latina at the 32:30 minute mark. After dealing with toxic women lately I've been feeling down, and she reminded that there are good women out there. Like the video, you have to shift through a lot of BS, but when you find her it's worth it.
Are her parents still married? Yes(Check) Does she have a positive and healthy relationship with her father? Yes(Check) Does she enjoy spending time with you even at a low key bar and or dessert place? Yes(Check) Do you and her mesh well with each others friends? Yes(Check) Did she pick you when you were on the way to the finish line rather than after? Yes(Check) GAME OVER
Danny V, is the “prize” worth it? Don’t get me wrong, I still intend to be an incredibly high SMV man, but it seems as though both the competition and “reward” are diminishing in quality.
That’s the million dollar question. It’s essentially up to each man to decide what is worth it and fulfilling to him. For some the juice may be worth the squeeze, for others it doesn’t make sense. Either way, be strict with your vetting and you should only consider a woman that will actually make your life better in a way that you can’t. Just being a warm body in the room doesn’t count either. Just wanting someone there versus actually providing value to your life is how you end up in a bad situation I’ll talk about this a bit more in the next email i send out
Let's do the math. "That girl" in the video charges 350k+ annually. Annual bill (350.000) divided by hours per year (8765) = 40. She is selling herself for 40 bucks an hour. Now you tell me if that is a good deal. Mind you, you don't have access for all 8765 hours, even tho you pay anyway.
When i go out now i go out for fun with my friends drink veer and have a laugh i never bother chatting to women. I have never met one that holds my attention amazes me with interests or hobbies . Im happier single i no longer feel the need for a woman in my life. Social media has destroyed them.
16:44 dude said a he spent a “couple thousand” in one night. The look on his girl’s face saying he never spent that much on her. 😬 I’m digging the reaction format. 🔥
Could you make a reaction video and give us an insight regarding channels of men reacting to women not being traditional that's normally associated with the 50s? Several has shown up on my feed and watched a few videos out of curiosity, and while they pointed out personal growth (in a good way) they also show or described some toxic suggestions such as having male friends is a bad thing, working, driving a car - it's like if they want a woman being a dependent on them like a parasite, instead of completing them. Not to mention the practicality of two incomes and 2 cars for work, enjoyment, daycare, or appointments.
I still haven't heard a good counter argument against just hiring a pro for your needs and then go about your life. Dating these type of girls seem like too much effort for what you get. Return of investment is negative.
Girl in red dress said the quiet part out loud, most women and especially the attractive ones have a rotation. Feminism has allowed women to act like men and most men to act like women. The top 10% of men will clean up because they have held onto their masculine frame.
I have spent a few months in NYC the last few years and the dating scene is good for men. There's more women than men living there and I met a lot of women that were quality and fun to be around. It's an expensive ass city to live in though, so there's always trade offs.
Chick says she wants to be treated how you’d want her to treat you, I wonder how’d she feel if she was 1 of 4 or 5 girls a dude was seeing. What’d she say just a tool? Wonder how’d she react if she was called just a tool.
So depressing. Man, we need a place where normal decent people can meet each other. 😒 I know a lot of us still exist we’re just invisible in this sea of disgusting trash.
Some guys act like dating is so hard just go out there be ur self talk to a few women get to know them, is so logical to see when they disrespect u, if they do just walk away or also one thing I always trusted was my gut feeling u can never go wrong with ur gut but then again make sure before u make any move we can't always be right, the guys I seen that struggle the most are the ones always throwing a game and then go talk to more females and then goes back and talk down on the other one they were talking to kuz she started talking to someone else like many guys are so big mouth and go crying on social media when they didn't get there way🤦♂️ my advice get ur self straight first with a ride, living area, job have some goals, seek God. putting money on the first date is not hard unless u broke and nothing expensive just traditional movies and dinner or walk at the park and there u go if she don't like where u taken her then she wasn't interested on u. Oh and stop playing ur dumb games women are smart they call smell ur bull crap from a mile away unless she's not experienced. Yall guys get yalls head straight and stop complaining about everything there's still good girls out there same as man. Social media washing yalls brains 🧠 lol
The chick at 10:35 is very mature. You can tell that she was raised right. I am also in love with the last chick’s accent. She seems pleasant to be around.
Hell no don’t take a girl to Chipotle on a first date! Have you seen the prices of those burritos? Might as well go to a regular restaurant and have a waiter 😂
I love how all these chicks act like they’re on guard saying guys just want action. Then when your nice to them they get turned off. These chicks have way to many options thanks to all these dating sites. I’m getting to a point to where I just want to sit back and watch the girls of my generation (late millennial) get old so they can be put in their place. Some of them are 31-35 and already freaking out 😂
In this world as it comes to dating relationships and such never trust if you even think they're messing with you walk!!! Because 9 times out of 10 you're just another pawn in the bullpen if you will. Casual sex with multiple men/ is the new "relationship" if you will. As money is the new standard at which you are attracted by. Looks like just a commodity along with personality. My opinion. Always go with the gut it'll never steer you wrong.
Women, influenced by male-targeted marketing, are adopting behaviors traditionally associated with men. This shift, coupled with men adopting behaviors traditionally associated with women, suggests a role reversal. Women aspire to have multiple partners, financial success, and thriving careers, often seeking a higher-value partner. However, their elevated status from financial success can raise their expectations, making it difficult to find a suitable partner.
This lifestyle of going out and trolling around for sex from strangers is hopelessly pathetic. Meaningless. Buncha heart broken people and narcissists making the world worse.
Very interesting about your street fight topic l. I was dating who I thought was going to be my wife and told her a time where I lost a bar right cause I thought the story was funny. The dude was 3times my size and had a swastika tattoo. I stood no chance. This bleed into resentment next thing we are fighting all the time and then she leaves me for someone else. I wish I never told her that story, I don’t get it, are we supposed to win every fight? How about Connor McGregor is he a “beta” cause he lost a few fights. I could tell she viewed me as weak from that point forward. I hated myself for it
There has to be other reasons from this story. Maybe she saw other signs that you can’t protect her or make her feel “safe”. I’ve never been in a fight and know there’s plenty of people who can whoop my ass or worse. It’s never affected my dating life. Honestly it sounds like you dodged a bullet though.
Don’t beat yourself up about it. Most people are so sheltered and divorced from reality that they’ve never had to actually catch a square, so their idea of how a fight should go matches their favorite movies and TV series.
I took a chick to in n out for the first date I saw her again a few days later 😅 ATM I still see here from time to time I know she got other dudes so I also have my roster
Ive never been in actual relationships...but i WAS seduced,teased,flirted,& pushed for sex by my FORMER therapists,social workers....i was broke...somewhat socially awkward during this phase
I have to say, I got an issue with these night time street interview videos. You have to take all of this with a grain of salt and not assume everyone is like this. Hell, all these girls might just be making this up. I know plenty that talk a big game but don’t actually have 4 dudes chasing them like they claim they do. Also, they might just be having fun. I know the shit my friends and I say on a night out could probably get us detained and questioned. So turn it down a few notches and you end up with videos like this.
"if he loves you uhm unconditionally uh..." Do you love him unconditionally? If he decided to save some money and not spend so much on you, would you understand? lol
scroll back up & hit the like button or forever have bad luck and end up the 6th guy in her rotation
Clicked before this video was produced.
Never believe to what coming out from her mouth **watch her actions** ;)
He’s standing outside a nightclub talking to a bunch of young self-absorbed coke heads. Keep that in mind.
True bias
That’s fair
Yeah but if they had the looks and the money and the access that's where most of them would be.
Its important for single men to watch this video.
Watching it right now as young man this society is doom smh 🤦♂️
Danny WTF. I’m 54 and about to re-enter the dating scene after 5 years. No way would I put up with any of this crap. These kids need help.
Better off going overseas
Overseas u can get robbed or killed
@@goptions4678yeah, if you don’t do your homework first and end up in some part of town that even the locals avoid.
im 58, and my bs tolerance has been reset to 0. i could walk on a 304 if she so much as looks at me the wrong way. view them as human garbage, w no class, because thats what they are.
Man your 54 and haven't realised westren women's nature .
Please don't do it get your passport and fo to the phillipines
“Make sure to keep her husband in your prayers, because that man is living a nightmare” had me rolling 😂😂😂
Aaaaand this is the video that's cemented my choice for continuing my solo life. My money, My house, My cars, My career and my Happiness!!!
me me me me mine. just like them, good for you!
@@lilfairycupcake Except I have all of those and I work hard for them. Didn't wait for someone to bring them to me. Indeed life is good.
@@lilfairycupcakecopium
That first girl put out a looooot of game for free. Respect to her, and men, pay attention.
I’d rather stay single than spend that kind of money on someone in one night. If I have to empty my account to keep her happy fuck it.
Don't even need a job dude
That guy is lying
this might not mean much coming from me, but you’re the only youtuber I will actually listen to for a hour long video, my life has dramatically changed from your advice
Means more than you know brother, makes it all worthwhile. Thanks for watching 🫡
I hate to say this but these videos make dating depressing, I'll say this you gotta keep trying and grinding.
The dude that’s the loser gets the 🐈⬛ while the simps get to be her ATM.
Blows my mind.
Yes that's how it works.
The last girl when you said she bringing it home I got hyped with you 😂😂
If she has more bodies than the Predator then she is the Predator!!!
Wow 49 min?! Lets go then. Great channel danny, keep going!
Thanks for making me feel better about being single at 40. I’ll just continue to enjoy my bikes my sports car and my money.
I've started dating again now in my late 30s, how the tables have turned.... Good luck to those girls and I'd love to see them when they are hitting the wall.
It gets worse with age for men because the younger woman in general are so horrific and ran through that now young men in their 20s want woman in their 40s and 50s because oldest millennial and Gen X woman are more old fashioned!!! I’m 43 and I know young girls half my age slept with way more men than me and people my age and I hear it everywhere older woman get tons of young men. So older men trying to get with younger women be careful cause stds are through the roof among people under 30! I’m not kidding I’m not even single and the past few years on Facebook and instagram I get young men hitting on me because I dress conservatively! These young men just want a loyal girlfriend but rarely find that in their age group. These young women need to get some self respect, it’s like it’s cool to be slut in this younger generation! These young woman have so many options they treat men like they are disposable. I experienced the same last time I was single in my late 20s in less than 2 years I had nearly 1,000 men hit me up online, I only date one man at time so I found online dating to be weird and unnatural, the internet and online dating have destroyed society and it’s only going to get worse.
This was good analysis of these scenarios. People are crazy. The difference today is it’s all online for everyone to see.
She's right I've been saying this for 20yrs....The guys that won't commit are usually chads/tyrones when they have a baby and start getting old they go get a good guy and start a long term relationship, and still keep chad/tyrone on deck for life as a friend/brother/cousin etc..
That’s crazy because the first girl has a 6 body, and a 3 face. Imagine a woman who looks better.
Gotta disagree with u on that one, shes a solid 7, but yeah imagine the rosters better looking women have, its cold out here...
@@Chester-mz2epthats not how average works.
48:14 😂 I laughed when he compared her red clothes to red flags
This really is the harsh truth about modern dating. Thanks for the video, Danny!🙏🏼
I’d like to see more content like this!😂
Honestly, women don’t know what they want…
Thanks for putting me onto this dudes videos. You pause so much at every single thing that i could not stand your reaction and just went right to the source. Thanks again g
Rolls Royce dude was drunk asf lol
@handsomebarber424 if he really does have money, I'm guessing his "girlfriends" are sugar babies...or escorts👀
I really fw yo vids man, I be clicking fast 😂
Appreciate you bro 🫡
Your channel is dope bro keep up the work 🙏🏾
Great video! Arguably you could say there is a big difference of what woman say in different locations. In Miami there only might be Golddiggers. In like Germany you don‘t have this attitude most of the time.
Smaller towns in America aren’t like this either. The larger cities are where the hustlers are.
Genau.
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001I’ not sure what gave you that idea, but that is absolutely not true. At all. They’re just as bad in small towns as they in the big cities.
Danny I enjoy your content. Please post more and send more of those emails out!
Its not that women love money and guys fighting. The real thing they love is security. Or better said, it is one of the things their nature requires. Money and a man who can protect himself are attractive to them because those things offer security.
29:12 "That guy watching me." then the dude drives past watching her, lol.
It's so over.
Shout out to the mexican latina at the 32:30 minute mark. After dealing with toxic women lately I've been feeling down, and she reminded that there are good women out there. Like the video, you have to shift through a lot of BS, but when you find her it's worth it.
I really like tall girls, but I agree with Danny. That tall girl is not it.
she's so toxic. her fantasy is chaos like a demon.
Most guys know that women prefer a man taller than them so its a waste of time trying to talk to her.
@@timmybeckman2758 I’m not “most guys”, so idgaf what they prefer.
Are her parents still married? Yes(Check) Does she have a positive and healthy relationship with her father? Yes(Check) Does she enjoy spending time with you even at a low key bar and or dessert place? Yes(Check) Do you and her mesh well with each others friends? Yes(Check) Did she pick you when you were on the way to the finish line rather than after? Yes(Check) GAME OVER
Danny V, is the “prize” worth it? Don’t get me wrong, I still intend to be an incredibly high SMV man, but it seems as though both the competition and “reward” are diminishing in quality.
That’s the million dollar question. It’s essentially up to each man to decide what is worth it and fulfilling to him. For some the juice may be worth the squeeze, for others it doesn’t make sense.
Either way, be strict with your vetting and you should only consider a woman that will actually make your life better in a way that you can’t. Just being a warm body in the room doesn’t count either. Just wanting someone there versus actually providing value to your life is how you end up in a bad situation
I’ll talk about this a bit more in the next email i send out
This is my simple fix. Remove sex and ask how she improves your life.
@@itsdannyvera - Great insight!
Let's do the math. "That girl" in the video charges 350k+ annually. Annual bill (350.000) divided by hours per year (8765) = 40. She is selling herself for 40 bucks an hour. Now you tell me if that is a good deal. Mind you, you don't have access for all 8765 hours, even tho you pay anyway.
When i go out now i go out for fun with my friends drink veer and have a laugh i never bother chatting to women.
I have never met one that holds my attention amazes me with interests or hobbies .
Im happier single i no longer feel the need for a woman in my life.
Social media has destroyed them.
16:44 dude said a he spent a “couple thousand” in one night. The look on his girl’s face saying he never spent that much on her. 😬
I’m digging the reaction format. 🔥
Laughed good and your comments were good! Thank you! 🎉
Could you make a reaction video and give us an insight regarding channels of men reacting to women not being traditional that's normally associated with the 50s? Several has shown up on my feed and watched a few videos out of curiosity, and while they pointed out personal growth (in a good way) they also show or described some toxic suggestions such as having male friends is a bad thing, working, driving a car - it's like if they want a woman being a dependent on them like a parasite, instead of completing them. Not to mention the practicality of two incomes and 2 cars for work, enjoyment, daycare, or appointments.
I still haven't heard a good counter argument against just hiring a pro for your needs and then go about your life. Dating these type of girls seem like too much effort for what you get. Return of investment is negative.
it's illegal and you can get in trouble
Bro these are SUPER entertaining I was laughing the whole video
Girl in red dress said the quiet part out loud, most women and especially the attractive ones have a rotation. Feminism has allowed women to act like men and most men to act like women. The top 10% of men will clean up because they have held onto their masculine frame.
Even if I could CLEAN, majority of women are now damaged beyond any sort of repair.
Nothing more comedy than wordly men trying to fix wordly woman.
Exactly, social circles birth the most stable relationships, best is ask your parents how they met. 😊
Be advised, the women he’s interviewing are in Miami. This doesn’t reflect all women. I’m sure it’s the same in NYC, LA, or ATL.
You right.. not ALL but 99.3% though! 😂
I have spent a few months in NYC the last few years and the dating scene is good for men. There's more women than men living there and I met a lot of women that were quality and fun to be around. It's an expensive ass city to live in though, so there's always trade offs.
Same shít in SF, Ca
Naw bro most women are like this
@himathyjenkinsdepends on the culture
This is like going to a rats nest and being surprised you found a rat
Thats really great Danny please do more of those.
15:55 bro, if I had a dollar for every time I've had that exact thought in my head, I'd be one rich sonofagun
30:30 that instant uno reverse card got me dying bruh😂
This is the most Miami video ever made lol
Best part of the video was the RR backing into that woman!😂
Chick says she wants to be treated how you’d want her to treat you, I wonder how’d she feel if she was 1 of 4 or 5 girls a dude was seeing. What’d she say just a tool? Wonder how’d she react if she was called just a tool.
So depressing. Man, we need a place where normal decent people can meet each other. 😒 I know a lot of us still exist we’re just invisible in this sea of disgusting trash.
Some guys act like dating is so hard just go out there be ur self talk to a few women get to know them, is so logical to see when they disrespect u, if they do just walk away or also one thing I always trusted was my gut feeling u can never go wrong with ur gut but then again make sure before u make any move we can't always be right, the guys I seen that struggle the most are the ones always throwing a game and then go talk to more females and then goes back and talk down on the other one they were talking to kuz she started talking to someone else like many guys are so big mouth and go crying on social media when they didn't get there way🤦♂️ my advice get ur self straight first with a ride, living area, job have some goals, seek God. putting money on the first date is not hard unless u broke and nothing expensive just traditional movies and dinner or walk at the park and there u go if she don't like where u taken her then she wasn't interested on u. Oh and stop playing ur dumb games women are smart they call smell ur bull crap from a mile away unless she's not experienced. Yall guys get yalls head straight and stop complaining about everything there's still good girls out there same as man. Social media washing yalls brains 🧠 lol
The chick at 10:35 is very mature. You can tell that she was raised right. I am also in love with the last chick’s accent. She seems pleasant to be around.
Haven’t watched this but I can’t wait to watch it
Living in England without access to latinas and good weather is suffering.
Damn my boy back
Hell no don’t take a girl to Chipotle on a first date! Have you seen the prices of those burritos? Might as well go to a regular restaurant and have a waiter 😂
I love how all these chicks act like they’re on guard saying guys just want action. Then when your nice to them they get turned off.
These chicks have way to many options thanks to all these dating sites. I’m getting to a point to where I just want to sit back and watch the girls of my generation (late millennial) get old so they can be put in their place. Some of them are 31-35 and already freaking out 😂
That dude totally lying with, "that's why that's the car I'm in"... then thinking it's a Rolls Royce.
It's a Bentley Continental.
Unfortunately this echo chamber is depressing and damaging 😢
what a content !
In this world as it comes to dating relationships and such never trust if you even think they're messing with you walk!!! Because 9 times out of 10 you're just another pawn in the bullpen if you will. Casual sex with multiple men/ is the new "relationship" if you will. As money is the new standard at which you are attracted by. Looks like just a commodity along with personality. My opinion. Always go with the gut it'll never steer you wrong.
41:29 even her friend is flabberghasted
Geolocation please. Exactly where was this filmed? Attitudes and opportunities really differ according to location.
Personally I stopped dating and moving to Asia in the future in hopes women are higher quality there
Why is it always the mid girls who got the stable
Hilarious 😂 great content.
And he wanted to build a wall. God bless you mami
Using money on girls is a stupid thing anyway great vid bro
Very fun video!
@2:30 Jesus. She said the quiet part out loud.
Women, influenced by male-targeted marketing, are adopting behaviors traditionally associated with men. This shift, coupled with men adopting behaviors traditionally associated with women, suggests a role reversal. Women aspire to have multiple partners, financial success, and thriving careers, often seeking a higher-value partner. However, their elevated status from financial success can raise their expectations, making it difficult to find a suitable partner.
Waiting for the cars to back over people kept the tension high throughout the video lol
This interviewer literally found the spot with the most low quality people to interview about dating.
The last latina is why passport bros exist 😅
I have a lack of social skills - may you make a video of how you think to get better in social skills? Thank you very much :) Greetings from germany
There is one way and one way only. Practice practice practice. No shortcuts no nothing. The more hours you invest, the more experience you will get.
I find latinas have purer hearts and appreciate more the basic things.
Stoning is a thing for a reason
The last one was so sweet😊
This lifestyle of going out and trolling around for sex from strangers is hopelessly pathetic. Meaningless. Buncha heart broken people and narcissists making the world worse.
Love these videos
When can we expect the simp x non simp video?
11:30 always follow actions. But obviously we don't have enough to make a judgement based on 30 second clips lol.
Very interesting about your street fight topic l. I was dating who I thought was going to be my wife and told her a time where I lost a bar right cause I thought the story was funny. The dude was 3times my size and had a swastika tattoo. I stood no chance.
This bleed into resentment next thing we are fighting all the time and then she leaves me for someone else.
I wish I never told her that story, I don’t get it, are we supposed to win every fight? How about Connor McGregor is he a “beta” cause he lost a few fights.
I could tell she viewed me as weak from that point forward. I hated myself for it
There has to be other reasons from this story. Maybe she saw other signs that you can’t protect her or make her feel “safe”. I’ve never been in a fight and know there’s plenty of people who can whoop my ass or worse. It’s never affected my dating life. Honestly it sounds like you dodged a bullet though.
Don’t beat yourself up about it. Most people are so sheltered and divorced from reality that they’ve never had to actually catch a square, so their idea of how a fight should go matches their favorite movies and TV series.
Real loud... cauze they're freaking drunk... Drunk people get loud. And drunk women get annoying and completely lose their filter.
I think the problem with dating now is that guys have assumptions for women, and women have assumptions for men. It's causing issues.
Your commentary is hilarious 🤣
I took a chick to in n out for the first date
I saw her again a few days later 😅
ATM I still see here from time to time
I know she got other dudes so I also have my roster
The dating world gives me a fucken headache.
Ive never been in actual relationships...but i WAS seduced,teased,flirted,& pushed for sex by my FORMER therapists,social workers....i was broke...somewhat socially awkward during this phase
Last one is a winner winner 🐔 dinner!!! Lock her down!
::: American women 🙅♂️
::: Foreign women raised by good & caring families 🛫
HHS should use this clip to combat STIs.
If you like a man and aren't getting attention, give him more attention
Don't let your ego get out of the way
We’re in the end times
2:37 she defines a relationship as a cash flow. Which is what a woman does.
37:00
One giant red flag
I have to say, I got an issue with these night time street interview videos. You have to take all of this with a grain of salt and not assume everyone is like this. Hell, all these girls might just be making this up. I know plenty that talk a big game but don’t actually have 4 dudes chasing them like they claim they do. Also, they might just be having fun. I know the shit my friends and I say on a night out could probably get us detained and questioned. So turn it down a few notches and you end up with videos like this.
TEAM LATINA- coming from RIO baby
"if he loves you uhm unconditionally uh..." Do you love him unconditionally? If he decided to save some money and not spend so much on you, would you understand? lol