If You Lack CONFIDENCE & Want To Raise Your SELF-ESTEEM - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty

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  • @listentohillsong7600
    @listentohillsong7600 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter and a new identity... A child of God.. Hallelujah

    • @artube3290
      @artube3290 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was a Prophet sent by God

    • @fk8495
      @fk8495 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you want the real belief, follow Islam

    • @yourdailydoseofme7945
      @yourdailydoseofme7945 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fk8495 what “real belief”? Don’t stop them from believing the one true God in heaven

    • @justinawhyte373
      @justinawhyte373 ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise God!!!❤

    • @mamooshka9503
      @mamooshka9503 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats so Great to hear! ❤

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    "You don't know what you need in your life until you figure out who you are" - Jay Shetty ✨

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Sometimes, you just can’t get what you want, but it doesn’t mean that you can never have it. Everything takes place at the right time

  • @CreativeCashflow1
    @CreativeCashflow1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Don’t let anybody, especially yourself, make you feel like you don’t deserve to be in the room you’ve earned a right to be in. You have something unique to contribute - your ideas, your experience, your wisdom, and your point of view.

  • @deekshabehl
    @deekshabehl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    the words-"fear is a good push, and love is a beautiful pull". 😇😇

  • @DariusTan
    @DariusTan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    In summary on how you want to raise your SELF-STEEM,
    Three signs that you're struggling:
    1.) You feel pressured to know what you want to do with your life.
    2.) You've lost interest in your own life and get disconnected.
    3.) You don't know what your skills are or you feel you lack them.
    Three tips to raise your SELF-STEEM:
    1.) Don't let what's happening around you affect you.
    2.) Think what you can help to other people.
    3.) Generating positive result from negative situation.

  • @therealturph948
    @therealturph948 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's videos like these that can literally be life changing for people watching this!! Thank you Jay for all your uploads and thank you to all of your guests for their genuine vulnerability 💯❤️

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life changing and inspirational.

  • @lechae8924
    @lechae8924 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can’t change the people but you can change the proximity

  • @shirleyabanga3164
    @shirleyabanga3164 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this priceless wisdom shared (Ed Mylett and Jay shetty 👌👏)
    My take away from this:
    - We need a huge reason to push us towards our Dreams/Goals ( how big is your WHY)
    - Raise your Proximity - Surrend yourself with people who can increase your thermostat
    - Always think about how you can serve, contribute and add value into people lives
    - Fear is a good push and love is a good pull

  • @HouseOfLabelle
    @HouseOfLabelle ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That is the best analogy I have ever heard in my life. This will stick with me forever

  • @golopeters1152
    @golopeters1152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I heard his reason I was so touched I almost started to cry.

  • @mariannebloom3266
    @mariannebloom3266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow. I got chills at differents times. You are so inspirational you both. I am so glad to have listen to this video! Thank you so much for what you are doing

  • @angeliquebel
    @angeliquebel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Still loving this after years ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💯👍🏻

  • @ck6471
    @ck6471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Jay Shetty can listen for hours, completely focussed on the opposite person and try to understand his perspective and struggles. What a gem !

    • @kevinberkau7932
      @kevinberkau7932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have 2 ears 👂🏼 1 mouth, use them proportionally

  • @nathanleung5592
    @nathanleung5592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can listen to Jay Shetty for hours, days, weeks, months & years! My focus is completely going the right way! Genuinely l lacked my self esteem especially with parents around! After listening to Jay Shetty l feel more motivated than ever!

  • @marcusparasuramen442
    @marcusparasuramen442 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so true. The conversations we have with people around differs with the type of friends... an eye opener...thank you🙏🙏🙏

  • @smrithiglamup8251
    @smrithiglamup8251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🙏huge reasons makes the difference... Well said thank u both.. u guys raised our proximity

  • @KiddoVibe
    @KiddoVibe ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this gives me great motivation to go to work tonight even my body and my emotion and brain is very exhausted from
    all negative things happening around me

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc3344 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Immense gratitude thanks to y'all so much dearest all 🌹
    Y'all such an inspiration 🥰
    Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖
    Stay Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

  • @joe3055
    @joe3055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow this man has a wise perspective on this.

  • @optimisticc7040
    @optimisticc7040 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these guys! They motivate me to be better!

  • @sassylane6354
    @sassylane6354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2 of my ultimate favorite inspirational people on the planet ❤️ thank you both 😊

    • @shivahearty
      @shivahearty ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know Jay, May I know the other person in the vdo ?

  • @radhekrishna.88
    @radhekrishna.88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ed mylett I never knew anything about him but from this day I never gonna forget him the reason for his gym the bella'swedding day oh god he is such a loving father and his personality the way he reflect on things ok I m noting down I don't know to what extreme but I will try my best
    Jay seriously u never disappoint us

  • @AnnaLauraMigliorati
    @AnnaLauraMigliorati ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best video I have seen! Thanks 🙏 profoundly touched! ❤️

  • @DrPatrickKingsep
    @DrPatrickKingsep ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video Jay - interesting to watch and absorb! "Your self-worth regulates your life...." I like this quote. And the "power of other human beings" - again great quote!!

  • @panda-crux.165
    @panda-crux.165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have very low self esteem because i have Speech Problem I have a bifid uvula that's the reason why I'm getting Always bullied and Getting harsh word especially in school and public places that's why I'm always silent and Sad😢😭.

    • @ChuChuAndAhBa
      @ChuChuAndAhBa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do you have a hobby/passion you love like a sport, drawing, or singing? Getting good with a hobby/ passion you really love might help you gain confident, and probably find friends who share the same passion like you. Maybe you can give this a try. Or you can try doing volunteer work helping the more unfortunate, being compassion and be of service to others might also bring your happiness and even confident.
      A person that has confident and compassion will never look down, bullied and make fun of others. Those people who are bullying you are just people who have low self-esteem and lack of confident themselves. Just ignore them, you don't need them in your life to show your confidence. Look for those who truly appreciate you and you will find them someday. Just be confident with it and believe in yourself.

    • @jithinkk3349
      @jithinkk3349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go to gym and level up u r fitness
      It would be definitely change you
      Believe me

    • @panda-crux.165
      @panda-crux.165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChuChuAndAhBa Thank you Sir I will do my best🙏😊

    • @panda-crux.165
      @panda-crux.165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jithinkk3349 Thank you sir I will do my best🙏😊

  • @AnnTsungMD
    @AnnTsungMD ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Ed and Jay on the same stage! Thank you both for this amazing interview.

  • @suvarnapeta2219
    @suvarnapeta2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jay is just extraordinary 🙏🏻💞

  • @AchieversWorkshop
    @AchieversWorkshop ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can't change people, but you can change the proximity into how they affect you; coupled with the fact that someone pulling you upward can't be too far ahead of you, otherwise you'll just feel insecure instead of inspired. I really resonated with those points, thanks guys :)

  • @VivekYadav-hg4tv
    @VivekYadav-hg4tv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2uh Legends together.. 🔥

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Precious words like diamonds which makes our lives shining.Awesome conversation admirable topic.

  • @atasiarukhsa8882
    @atasiarukhsa8882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fear is a good push
    Love is a great pull😴

  • @RishabhMishrxa
    @RishabhMishrxa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good morning everyone

  • @johnmcfadden9620
    @johnmcfadden9620 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy your shorter videos like this one. Thanks for what you do.

  • @Yaavi-jx8jw
    @Yaavi-jx8jw ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this is exactly what I wanted to watch, what I was looking for. I've always let others affect me, but now I have to regulate my norms and values, have to stop other people affecting me. I really hope that I do that. Thanks for sharing such a good information

  • @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841
    @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Confidence, one's assurance of their abilities. As you look back through your life at all the downward spiraling failures. Was it the failures or was it the story you kept repeating to yourself?
    If, a baby was aware of itself. And it's starting to learn how to stand. And it fails to stand and it tries again and the parents laugh and the child is aware of their laughter. Would the child learn to walk? Would it give up on wanting to walk?
    A child at this age lives without a mind. It does everything in silence. But what if it had a mind like you. It would say to itself. I can't do this and they're laughing at me. And the child crawls to the room and closes the door. Never learning to walk.

  • @radhekrishna.88
    @radhekrishna.88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was much needed

  • @laxmigurung6007
    @laxmigurung6007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for uploading this video

  • @rajinderkaur334
    @rajinderkaur334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing!!! Thank You🙏😊

  • @joshthomas_1696
    @joshthomas_1696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very eye opening and informative video, Jay! You do an amazing job at inspiring many! Thanks for all that you do. 💙🙏🏽

  • @tornedsky
    @tornedsky 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you so much for the wonderful advice. you guys are really one of a kind

  • @laustephanie9290
    @laustephanie9290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Almost all your reason is either for other people or big dreams, simple yet wise.

  • @lauradeletant6243
    @lauradeletant6243 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that’s huge!!! Daughter’s wedding day! I love it ❤️
    Yes I will use this! Thank you Ed Mylett and Jay Shetty. 🙏

  • @aidayohannes1423
    @aidayohannes1423 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspirational both of them 💕💕

  • @mep8083
    @mep8083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never comment but this is the absolute truth. What a great way of putting it. This needs to be taught in schools! I wish I’d known this properly decades ago. Thank you.

  • @samchowdhury_29
    @samchowdhury_29 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is a feast for the eyes and ears.💫

  • @Squirrel_101
    @Squirrel_101 ปีที่แล้ว

    This.. This just explained things I've been trying to figure out for the past 20 years... Thermostat love it

  • @dearsariya06
    @dearsariya06 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much for this ! I really learnt a lot from this clip. It's so relatable and true. I 'm feeling great after hearing this!👍😊❤

  • @HappyLifewithMaria
    @HappyLifewithMaria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is incredible 🙏👏🙏👏🙏

  • @ayala7282
    @ayala7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How can I get into a great circle in growth?
    Listen to podcasts- digital influence.
    Where do these people congregate? I have to go where they are.
    Ask someone and see how I can help them.
    Work out- move my body to move my energy.
    I find someone who is a bit better than me and keep pushing up my standards.

  • @Active10711
    @Active10711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing thoughts

  • @kasulealex9036
    @kasulealex9036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is phenomenal ...wow 🥰🥰🥰

  • @claireroche8920
    @claireroche8920 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m cracking up y’all are amazing ❤️ hahaha MORE OF THIS ENERGYYYYYY

  • @marymichelle6426
    @marymichelle6426 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos. Thanks a lot 🙏❤️👍

  • @kevwhartman
    @kevwhartman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the thermostat analogy

  • @elizabethmoran6745
    @elizabethmoran6745 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is amazing.. the knowledge I got from here is wise…

  • @preeti1545
    @preeti1545 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • We make decisions emotionally but we justify and rationalize them logically.
    • It's not the external conditions but your internal thermostat, which governs your life.
    • You can't change the people, but you can change the proximity.
    • Fear is a good push but love is a great pull.

  • @browngirl2096
    @browngirl2096 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love jay . Great person

  • @girishva3823
    @girishva3823 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nicely said and true for almost of us, we keep ourselves open so that external conditions drive how we feel..to have thermostat is very good example to remain at a certain level come what may...Thanks 👍👍👍

  • @annanims7876
    @annanims7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great interview, if someone has more ideas on places to connect with higher frequency, positive people, please share.😊

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favourite speaker Jay genius

  • @MindscapingNYC
    @MindscapingNYC ปีที่แล้ว

    Mental health is constant upkeep. I’ve lived in a few different cities around the world, in NYC, I have to make the most environmental accommodations because hustle bustle ness of the city means I have to schedule more nature and self care. The busyness and hectic-ness of the lifestyle means more planning to connect with loved ones, etc. but I know I have to prioritize these things, because otherwise, anything else I’m building or working on, fails. I know this because I used to fight this idea and I made my life so difficult for so long because of it lol

  • @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841
    @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:30 Friends, not just friends, tv, sitcoms, cartoons, movies. The first 13 years, no tv, no toys, no friends, no stories told to me. All I was around was optimistic people, who did not live in the past. I woke up each morning to a state of joy.

  • @youcando5246
    @youcando5246 ปีที่แล้ว

    my the best author Jay

  • @nokuthulankoyana7450
    @nokuthulankoyana7450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this has been my favourite episode. I keep watching it over and over again.

  • @vallareedeshmukhofficial
    @vallareedeshmukhofficial ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing, such a meaningful conversation! 👏🏻
    Key takeaways:
    • We make decisions emotionally but we justify and rationalize them logically.
    • It's not the external conditions but your internal thermostat, which governs your life.
    • You can't change the people, but you can change the proximity.
    • Fear is a good push but love is a great pull.

  • @makefinanceeasy3682
    @makefinanceeasy3682 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best💫💫💫💫

  • @EliUnityGoldsmith
    @EliUnityGoldsmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes 🙌🏻

  • @Jayjamie
    @Jayjamie ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video 👏

  • @ireshasamarasekara4761
    @ireshasamarasekara4761 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great one👍

  • @khnsanoman8934
    @khnsanoman8934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't what to do with my life, i don't know what my skills are, i don't know my purpose or passion is, i don't have goal or vision. I watched all of the vid abt passion and purpose but i still don't really understand how to apply it in my life

    • @kevinberkau7932
      @kevinberkau7932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Delete all social media and things that distract and steal your time, time where you can find your purpose, find your purpose by using the time you have left over now you have A lot of free time to try new things and see what you love to do and do that that is your purpose if you choose to something that brings you up in the morning that you can be excited about and obsessed about that you think about all the time and feel good when you think about it and you get what you think about most of the time

    • @Iloveuniverse222
      @Iloveuniverse222 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can your purpose be just living life joyfully ? When your cup is overflowing with joy, you will be a joy to millions 🌞🌹❤️🙏🏻

    • @BRIDTA
      @BRIDTA หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi. I help people find their purpose and strengths. Let me know if you want a free consultation

  • @masthanrahman6632
    @masthanrahman6632 ปีที่แล้ว

    great motivation

  • @vsejejasno7836
    @vsejejasno7836 ปีที่แล้ว

    loveeeeee this ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @emyf9197
    @emyf9197 ปีที่แล้ว

    I woke up wrong side of bed today.. Fully depressed, lost & confused and now a bit anxious... I hope to God I don't go back to experiencing depression again bcuz tht was literal hell n waste of my life. But I do see symptoms again, lost of appetite and feeling really low today.

  • @mrelixirgalactic
    @mrelixirgalactic ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes indeed 🔥💪🏽💯🙏🏽

  • @bulbulsnest8338
    @bulbulsnest8338 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fear is good push love is strong pull

  • @LoyceFitness
    @LoyceFitness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love from 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @smrithiglamup8251
    @smrithiglamup8251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fear is a good push, love is beautiful pull,🙏♥️

  • @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933
    @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love self esteem

  • @madadaalochannel8265
    @madadaalochannel8265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ilove from somalia🇸🇴🇸🇴

  • @vineetsingh8484
    @vineetsingh8484 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy really has some good stuff 👁️👁️

  • @theotherside6436
    @theotherside6436 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great people

  • @Amir-A
    @Amir-A ปีที่แล้ว

    Jay Shetty is finding ways to make as much money as he can. Open your eyes everyone and be brave, there is no such thing as anxiety or depression (its all created by you and this business done by so called motivational gurus).

  • @JackdawLifts
    @JackdawLifts ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m going to a job interview at a gym in south london on Tuesday. It’s a popular UK “hardcore” bodybuilding gym. About 3,5 hours away from me. (Across the country).
    A part of me is like am I swimming upstream. Or am I following my inspiration.
    That’s why Abraham hicks teaching sometimes annoys me.
    It’s like. Don’t try make it happen. Don’t force it. It’s not about action. Etc etc.
    Like. “Wherever you go, there you are”
    But yes. I believe I am committing to it !
    And I’m arranging for a room viewing on the same day, 0.6miles from it, so I can walk to work.
    I’ve had a calling to move city ever since coming back home from one and well.
    I tried manifesting it.
    But I’m gonna action it I think.

  • @obakengmhatlhe118
    @obakengmhatlhe118 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow motivated klaar❤

  • @vikasyadav8777
    @vikasyadav8777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love from India

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the biggest secrets I discovered in life is to figure out how to love life more than you love to sleep!
    ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction TH-camr💜

  • @tedtalk548
    @tedtalk548 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adam Grants "Otherish Givers" concept 😊

  • @fredrikabodemar5434
    @fredrikabodemar5434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it! You dont need to add music to it, it distracts since it’s a ”feel piece” and he is explaining things, the two crash and his message is being cluttered.
    But love what he says and all your videos!!

  • @preeti_108
    @preeti_108 ปีที่แล้ว

    Krishna ❤ helped me in every phase of life... Hari bol!

  • @vikasyadav8777
    @vikasyadav8777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those things learn from your book and Thank you thank you so much. ❤❤❤

  • @thechangeyouneed2145
    @thechangeyouneed2145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jay Shetty and Ed Mylett. What an interview! Such raw emotion from Ed alongside the completely calm and effortless charisma of Jay
    Love these guys!

  • @aravindprabhu7377
    @aravindprabhu7377 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please Add subtitles

  • @phedelinetanis4737
    @phedelinetanis4737 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who’s the speaker in this video with Jay Shetty?

  • @waleed28ful1
    @waleed28ful1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can anybody please link me to the complete podcast

  • @imunique603
    @imunique603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't have self-confidence since the day I was born.

  • @bctinkerbell93
    @bctinkerbell93 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wealthy no happy yess

  • @ronbarton7799
    @ronbarton7799 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great conversation. Who is this that Jay is talking to? He looks a little bit like the actor Schreiber

  • @farhanmobin518
    @farhanmobin518 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! that conversation is fascinating! ( who's that Guy? Jay interviewing...He look's like Waqar Yunus. Pakistani X cricketer's twin bro :) )

  • @Joshdifferent
    @Joshdifferent ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️