Right? My Ma would tell this to me, (word for word) as a child. Although a devastating reality to us hopeless romantics... it's as true as the Earth rotates.
I am always alone. I really like to be alone and quiet. While I'm alone I like to day dream and think about the things I love to do every single day. Being alone is the most best thing to do when your sad or happy because some alone time could make you figure out things that your confused with or things your trying to understand. Sometimes you need to be alone and have time for your self. It is sometimes healthy to be alone and quiet rather than being loud and with your friends all the time.Thats all I have to say. I hope y'all understand what I'm trying to say because I'm not really good at explaining :).
My ex boyfriend changed, my best friend changed, my friends changed and now I should try to live alone and focus on my success because I know people now :)
Tuğçe Karaman everyone and everything is subjective to changing the space changes the world changes the life changes people changes the animals changes the trees changes the weather changes unless we complete standstill like Groundhog Day everything do same things and nothing different. Changes is experience new challenges new skills and growth like a seed changes to a plant then changes to a budding plant then to a flowed plant environment also cause of effect but the plant chooses to correspond to environment or not
Tuğçe Karaman I do to it’s not knowing what it is I am autistic so difficult although I study well but sometimes fear can take you right at edge the unfamiliar the unknown the alien changes being outside comfort zone even pandemic is dramatically change to life style and mind set changes because experience and not knowing were go next or what worse might come
I was actually feeling fearful being alone due to Covid and unemployment for over a year and being single I do feel however that I have gotten to know myself better Well I just want to send love ❤️ to everyone who feels alone and I know this feeling will pass 🤟
I never have lived alone even on my own for years. It is my first two years, alone and awkward I thought I hated it so much and I always was in a relationship many times but I never found love. Men play games. I am not a dog anymore. I don't want to deal with dating chaos or relationship chaos anymore. I found this and I want to learn how to be alone again. I was a child, I knew how to be alone and happy. I have forgotten about it for many years and I want to bring comfortable again.
Same here Let's see how it goes Don't know why, but sounds scary. Scary because, most of the time you talk to yourself, reason with yourself,you are in a loop, What if it never stops ? You know the very damn thing, but your heart pulls you to some other direction, and mind stretches you to some other domains and you are in a constant fight with yourself. How can you be happy living that way ? I guess, one can point that even if you are struggling, one day you gonna learn it and be happy with your new self but that doesn't sound logical to me. Bcz if it were something to happen to you the way you imagine, then it should not be a struggle at the very first place. Of course it gonna be a new experience, but it has to be a smooth transition. One is struggling bcz its against their nature, against what they really are at the core. Those who are happy alone( if they are not fooling themselves) would be miserable with the crowd. I mean, he can't be made to be happy with people around. Its like we as individual, are different from one another and can't fool ourselves of being happy when we are wearing only a mask of happiness. I am not saying one can't change themselves. All I am saying is that being disciplined and having a strong will is not enough. There are several factors which brings the lasting change and it takes time. So the idea of changing at will no matter what your intention is something I don't think gonna work ever. If you follow it religiously, after sometime, you gonna feel like you are living someone else's life, residing in someone else's body, or in other words, feeling like your emotions, your thoughts has been hijacked. How long can you brainwash yourself ???? If someone is not a loner by his/her very nature, then he/she still gonna need someone trust worthy atleast to talk his/her heart out and the best one can do to accelerate the change is increase the time with himself/herself but still it gonna take a long time or may be very long time to slowly change into a new yourself. How are you doing these days ? Can you share your life experience ? How did you handle all these ? Any suggestions ?
I'm alone and I've been alone for 20 years now. And I love it. I've been married and divorced for five years. No more drama or arguing over stupid little stuff. I'm more happy now.. People need to try it sometimes. You're love it 🙂
Agnes Leung I feel the same way! I loved just being home alone in high school but now i feel so pressured to make friends and network that i can’t enjoy being alone anymore. It’s been really hard. I hope things get better
I have never thought there was someone that that like me. In essence this make me feel not alone. I was once a man with so many friends and popularity. I had to ditch all that because I felt lost. After being alone for so long I started to miss what I once had. Now it gives me strength spiritually. Modern society has so much pressure towards success it easy to get lost. I just want to say thank you for making me understand that being alone doesn't mean you have to feel alone
Austin Alder u are never alone in this world. U don’t have to fit into society. I myself have always had the pressure to be something to have something to want something. But the question is, do you need that something?
I love being by myself alone with my guitar playing! I want to be the best guitar player I can be. I don’t need ppl in my life. I have my family and my coworkers. Music is my life my dream and my goal! I always make time everyday for my guitar. I believe in me! It’s really weird in that as I get older I don’t want to be around others. Just too much damned work! I love me! And not in an egotistical sense!
This is me, afraid to be alone with my own thoughts. However, it seems like you're saying that I will be free of this if I get that time alone. I am willing to do it, I have got to change the fear!
Man ik its Hard but you have to get Used to it its a tough World out there u cant Trust Everyone cause there are some People that Are Willing to Use you For their Own benifits etc so u have to be Strong.
Yes yes you are so fortunate you hear this advice ...just make sure don't engage and anything sexually ...becareful out there ...please don't get married until you finish college ok ....good luck I wish you well ...I people don't believe in you I do !!! You're enough , and worthy!!!!
When I get alone,I tend to think of all the bad things that could go wrong,ie,death,loss,melancholic feelings.i spend too much time like this,I’m getting better but the advice your giving is brilliant,thankyou.
I know that my being alone can give me an anxiety attack. I’m trying to learn about myself. You are probably much younger than me + I’d hate to see you go through life like I did. Don’t do it, Emmanuel! You enjoy every moment you can in life - whether you are alone or not. The trick is that if you learn to really like yourself, opportunity will knock!! Enjoy this time for now + take care of yourself!!
As an extrovert, its my weakness. I dont have a best best friend where they could be available for me 24/7. And im having a hard time being alone. But now i realize i cant please everyone and that i have to master this.
So so true . Same happening with me . Instead of making others happy I learnt to make myself happy .its been 2 months leaving all alone in this Corona situation. I call everyone and talk but no one calls me and talks to me . But its okay I am learning to live alone .
same,I've always gone through this..i don't have friends to talk to.I need to deal my breakup(that I've been so hurt ) myself. It was hard,but I've gone through till now,hope i can overcome again for the days to come..This World is so hard..stay strong everyone❤
As I reflected after this talk, I realized I've been feeling alone because I left myself alone. I did all these self improvement all these years but for thought and want of having others fill my cup. I hated my own company because I saw myself as uninteresting, and so I sought affirmations, adventure, and intimacy from others. But after listening to this talk, everything felt different. I see myself now. I am no longer afraid of staying up alone during late nights. Actually, the perspective shifted. I am not and will never be alone.
Im in the same boat right now. I feel so alone and unwanted. Sometimes i feel like an entity just walking by strangers day in and day out. I have many issues apart from being and feeling alone. Ive thought about seeing a therapist but shits expensive so books is my best bet. This video really immensely helped calm my nerves. Thank god for youtube otherwise idk what id do.
Half a century spent in the crafts making fixing stuff, taking the work home is essential, when alone things get done repaired created visualized and prepared for the next day's work, bringing to material reality what the night before was insights dreams and emptiness ~ great human process of creativity ~
So true . I'm doing this now. People that bring me down. I'm leaving them behind . I use to need them. Then I saw a picture of myself in my 40. I ddint rely on people . I came in did what I had to and left them to it.
Being alone is being yourself. No judgement no matter how crazy it sounds. You can wear, eat, watch or just seat idle without justifying to anyone. Be alone, be creative, be crazy as normal world is not my cup of tea :)
Girlfriend of 4 Years left me recently. We talked about our future all the time even up until the end, when she decided to she wanted to live the party life. I tried talking to other women and all that and it only made me miss her more. This is the true path to growth and recovery from anything. As sad as it sounds, you are the only person you can 100% trust in life, but that should be something were okay with. Stay strong everyone.
I have come to the level where I’m listening to this because I wanna find some inner peace with myself. I was a truly, truly loud and proud extrovert until life said I’ve had enough of it. I fell so so deep into darkness and I have picked myself up so many times. I tell myself that life does this every time. I tried to gain strength and continue living as an extrovert because I felt the happiest being loud and socialising. And again I was proven wrong. This time I have had enough and want to actually take a break and isolate myself from everyone and actually finding who I truly am. I wanna figure out if this is really a better way of living. I wanna find peace and happiness being with myself and no one else.
Always was seeking love my whole life, trying to makeup for love I didn't get as a child but spent 37 years married to wife beating husband, I finally woke up and realized I would eventually be dead, I looked around and didn't see any support, I decided to be my own best friend, I spend most of my time alone when I'm not working, lm learning to appreciate it and appreciate me as a person, self love is the best love you can truly give yourself, you can be your own best friend, by doing so, you will never ever settle for less than you deserve.
I used to LOVE and CRAVE alonetime (introvert) although I have the best husband and kids 💞 Then one day I developed panic disorder. It's been 6 months and right now is the first time I'm home alone (ok, my son is in his teenage cave) and here I am googling how to be comfortable home alone 🤣 I just want to be independent again. I will get there, I am in therapy and have started meditating but it will take time... 🥀
I thought i was having a rough day with loneliness so i sought out this video to get a grip. This insight actually helped me realize how far I've come into my personal growth & validates how comfortable im becoming alone. Still got patches to smooth out but im working on my relationship with myself. Thanks!
Pretty much I have spent the whole year by myself .lot of thoughts pours in ..not necessarily all positive thoughts.and in those time I had to deal with myself.accepted my flaws,my fears and those poor decisions. Admitting is hard.slowly letting go of regrets and guilta. I realised only way to sustain is to fall in love with yourself first.
I listen you each day morning. .... Thankyou so much for your contribution ... I read all your books...Love reading your books Thankyou for being so amazing
Interesting point about how many of us are addicted to distractions. So important to be intentional and productive as we go throughout our day. Great topic and so important for everyone these days. Cheers!
Wow. This is the most life changing and valuable video I have ever seen in TH-cam. Thank you Robin. Sincerely appreciate your video. I feel my life will never be the same again and I will strive for improvement.
Thank you so much 💖.. this video has validated me for how I lived for many years. I always tell myself: " If you look to people for value, acceptance and happiness; I will be disappointed 99% everytime." I mentioned this in AA, and pissed people off
Thanks for this video. I am a social guy, have been my entire life. 10 years ago I became self employed and work from home selling products online. It has always been my life's goal to work for myself, have lots of free time and be financially set in life. I have reached all three of these goals. However, working for myself and being alone the majority of the day has had it's own challenges. I have noticed more thoughts and anxiety over the last decade being alone. Many times, it can get so lonely and out of hand that I need to pick up the phone and call someone to talk to. Or take a walk around the neighborhood. I envy some of my friends and family members who can be by themselves for DAYS maybe even WEEKS without interacting with other humans and feel perfectly content and at peace. For 2022, my resolution is to learn how to be alone and be more comfortable, happy and content.
your powerful package of thaughts like this video is the best finishing shot of my everyday life which i hit everyday before going to bed THANKYOU SO MUCH MY GURU ROBIN👍👍
Amazingly great wisdom ! Thank you sir ! I've placed this video on my saved list ! I'm Jewish and this wisdom perfectly lines up with Jewish wisdom ! Shalom friend !
there's a limit to this. i am alone pretty much all day every day - I work from home, fairly limited hours. i have absolutely no problem being alone and quiet and with my own thoughts. I've been single most of my life. I've travelled a lot (on my own) and done quite a few different things, probs more than most. but eventually it gets old. going to dinner by yourself, hiking by yourself, travelling by yourself, gardening by yourself, going to the beach by yourself, doing yoga by yourself, cooking by yourself, learning to scuba dive by yourself, seeing a play by yourself, etc etc. it gets old eventually. and it's expensive.
@@stefaniakonstantinidou981 I do. I run a meetup group, currently doing belly dancing and horse-riding classes, sometimes spanish classes (as well as teaching myself piano). But most people my age have busy jobs, partners, and children. So it doesn't really change that much.
When u r alone then it is ur personal growth ...when u feel the pain u release the pain...u always stays with urself..u r your bestfrnd....when u understand urself,stay happy by ur own company then u can understand every relation and sort out everything...ur relationship with urself sets up ur entire relationship with the world
This was so beautiful! Thank you so much. Most searches lead you to "learning social skills". This has really helped me embrace the beauty that is solitude. It really is about your ability to change your own mindset.
This is literally being happening to me ,when he said when u are alone,ur deepest feeling which u have been trying to resist comes up. So thank u ,i have finally accepted myself after sooo long .thank u soo much
Being alone contains a power that very few can handle 💥
Absolutely
Indeed.
It's painful
Authentic Self Guide I need some tips on how to learn to live a good life on being alone
I can't handle it now i Just want to do sucide.
I stay alone most of the days . Best person to be with, is your self.
Exactly! Living alone is just awesome 😊
yes
Of course
Same
Agree
“The way to heal a wound, is to feel a wound.” Hardest thing to do
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Yes lt's so hard I try to avoid it it's hell if I try to feel it cause of C-PTSD it's like I go back to the same fear anxiety doubts and terror
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Actually, pray for courage. Once we acknowledge our feelings, we can become free.
There's nothing like inner peace.
this is how you see the world :)
The best line "You are the only person who's gonna be with you as long as you live"
Amazing video...
Love your books sir.. Huge fan
Stupid statement, if you have family and friends many of them will outlive you.
@@km4hr but not everyone will be there for you. You can only trust yourself
Right? My Ma would tell this to me, (word for word) as a child. Although a devastating reality to us hopeless romantics... it's as true as the Earth rotates.
@@km4hr That statement applies to ones persona not others.
He speaks so warmly and with so much simplicity.... listening to him....feels like meditation ⚛️
Tarunpreet Kaur damn true✨ mediation would be the best word to describe his sessions 😊
I feel the same thing
Smoke weed while listening to this
Or he have mic with high sensitivity!!!
Same
Being able to be okay being alone is the most powerful. I need for nothing. I want for nothing.
Amy 75206 You have everything
I am always alone. I really like to be alone and quiet. While I'm alone I like to day dream and think about the things I love to do every single day. Being alone is the most best thing to do when your sad or happy because some alone time could make you figure out things that your confused with or things your trying to understand. Sometimes you need to be alone and have time for your self. It is sometimes healthy to be alone and quiet rather than being loud and with your friends all the time.Thats all I have to say. I hope y'all understand what I'm trying to say because I'm not really good at explaining :).
i agree my friend thank you
Not easy for me and the tfl community
U hit the wall. Nothing u can do about any wants now 😂
*Believe it or not* , being alone is better than feeling alone.
I've tried a lot of things to get some friends but that didn't work, so here i am.. watching this video😂
Exactly dude...same here.. still can't figure out what's wrong!
Same here
Same! It is hard to fit in or even chase so i dont want to force myself into
Azizah Febriyanti I feel that
Same, but we could be friends ;)
Being alone is free and priceless at the same time.
Day 4 up @ 4am I love it!
U can say that again.
My ex boyfriend changed, my best friend changed, my friends changed and now I should try to live alone and focus on my success because I know people now :)
You go
Same with me
Tuğçe Karaman everyone and everything is subjective to changing the space changes the world changes the life changes people changes the animals changes the trees changes the weather changes unless we complete standstill like Groundhog Day everything do same things and nothing different. Changes is experience new challenges new skills and growth like a seed changes to a plant then changes to a budding plant then to a flowed plant environment also cause of effect but the plant chooses to correspond to environment or not
@@djpatt81 I don't know, I am afraid of changes tbh
Tuğçe Karaman I do to it’s not knowing what it is I am autistic so difficult although I study well but sometimes fear can take you right at edge the unfamiliar the unknown the alien changes being outside comfort zone even pandemic is dramatically change to life style and mind set changes because experience and not knowing were go next or what worse might come
I was actually feeling fearful being alone due to Covid and unemployment for over a year and being single I do feel however that I have gotten to know myself better Well I just want to send love ❤️ to everyone who feels alone and I know this feeling will pass 🤟
You be fine
"I mighty be alone but never lonely" ✨
how do you do it
Sometimes I feel sorry for myself and feel lonely. Then it goes away and I'm okay.
@@lonerhappy I have gone through the same feeling many times.I dont knw how to handle with it
@@kodedbadguy1903 phone social media does that count alone.
One man can sit in a crowded room and feel alone. Another man can sit in an empty room and never feel alone.
I never have lived alone even on my own for years. It is my first two years, alone and awkward I thought I hated it so much and I always was in a relationship many times but I never found love. Men play games. I am not a dog anymore. I don't want to deal with dating chaos or relationship chaos anymore. I found this and I want to learn how to be alone again. I was a child, I knew how to be alone and happy. I have forgotten about it for many years and I want to bring comfortable again.
Gudddd
Same here
Let's see how it goes
Don't know why, but sounds scary.
Scary because, most of the time you talk to yourself, reason with yourself,you are in a loop, What if it never stops ?
You know the very damn thing, but your heart pulls you to some other direction, and mind stretches you to some other domains and you are in a constant fight with yourself. How can you be happy living that way ? I guess, one can point that even if you are struggling, one day you gonna learn it and be happy with your new self but that doesn't sound logical to me. Bcz if it were something to happen to you the way you imagine, then it should not be a struggle at the very first place. Of course it gonna be a new experience, but it has to be a smooth transition. One is struggling bcz its against their nature, against what they really are at the core.
Those who are happy alone( if they are not fooling themselves) would be miserable with the crowd. I mean, he can't be made to be happy with people around. Its like we as individual, are different from one another and can't fool ourselves of being happy when we are wearing only a mask of happiness.
I am not saying one can't change themselves. All I am saying is that being disciplined and having a strong will is not enough. There are several factors which brings the lasting change and it takes time. So the idea of changing at will no matter what your intention is something I don't think gonna work ever. If you follow it religiously, after sometime, you gonna feel like you are living someone else's life, residing in someone else's body, or in other words, feeling like your emotions, your thoughts has been hijacked. How long can you brainwash yourself ????
If someone is not a loner by his/her very nature, then he/she still gonna need someone trust worthy atleast to talk his/her heart out and the best one can do to accelerate the change is increase the time with himself/herself but still it gonna take a long time or may be very long time to slowly change into a new yourself.
How are you doing these days ?
Can you share your life experience ?
How did you handle all these ? Any suggestions ?
I'm alone
and I've been alone for 20 years now. And I love it. I've been married and divorced for five years. No more drama or arguing over stupid little stuff. I'm more happy now.. People need to try it sometimes. You're love it 🙂
Did you learn anything from your experience and did you grow as a person.
Its easy for me because i find most people exhausting to deal with.
Yes and they will let you down eventually at some point so why even bother that much w other external factors and people haha
18ys
I used to be okay to be alone when I was in high school, but no longer in university, your video helps, thank you
Agnes Leung I feel the same way! I loved just being home alone in high school but now i feel so pressured to make friends and network that i can’t enjoy being alone anymore. It’s been really hard. I hope things get better
Lauren Sturdivant Thanks, I feel better than I was a month ago. Maybe it’s because I finally found something that I want to do while I’m alone :)
@@newbiepetrohead what do you find ??
"You're the only person who will be with you your entire lifetime"❣️💯🎯
... now that line is absolutely golden 🪙🥇🎉 🥳 🥂
I have never thought there was someone that that like me. In essence this make me feel not alone. I was once a man with so many friends and popularity. I had to ditch all that because I felt lost. After being alone for so long I started to miss what I once had. Now it gives me strength spiritually. Modern society has so much pressure towards success it easy to get lost. I just want to say thank you for making me understand that being alone doesn't mean you have to feel alone
Austin Alder u are never alone in this world. U don’t have to fit into society. I myself have always had the pressure to be something to have something to want something. But the question is, do you need that something?
@@luciarutz6985 truth
I love being alone. I only need books, films, nature, my dog....I lile my soul and my thoughts...I enjoy revelling in them
Wholesome 💓
I love being by myself alone with my guitar playing! I want to be the best guitar player I can be. I don’t need ppl in my life. I have my family and my coworkers. Music is my life my dream and my goal! I always make time everyday for my guitar. I believe in me! It’s really weird in that as I get older I don’t want to be around others. Just too much damned work! I love me! And not in an egotistical sense!
"Ego is just the voice of your fear" had to stop at that
Yes... a good way to think about it ...ego
“Tranquility is the new luxury” i felt that statement💯
This is me, afraid to be alone with my own thoughts. However, it seems like you're saying that I will be free of this if I get that time alone. I am willing to do it, I have got to change the fear!
I get depressed when I’m by myself. I’m trying so hard to feel sufficient with my own company
You have to be strong 🙏
I relate to this so much :(
samee
I get anxious in my own thoughts, just know you’re not alone in your battle ❤️
Man ik its Hard but you have to get Used to it its a tough World out there u cant Trust Everyone cause there are some People that Are Willing to Use you For their Own benifits etc so u have to be Strong.
Beautiful people make this world beautiful!
Such extremely powerful advice. I’m 18 years old and grateful knowing I can use this advice for the rest of my life.
Yes yes you are so fortunate you hear this advice ...just make sure don't engage and anything sexually ...becareful out there ...please don't get married until you finish college ok ....good luck I wish you well ...I people don't believe in you I do !!! You're enough , and worthy!!!!
When I get alone,I tend to think of all the bad things that could go wrong,ie,death,loss,melancholic feelings.i spend too much time like this,I’m getting better but the advice your giving is brilliant,thankyou.
I know that my being alone can give me an anxiety attack. I’m trying to learn about myself. You are probably much younger than me + I’d hate to see you go through life like I did. Don’t do it, Emmanuel! You enjoy every moment you can in life - whether you are alone or not. The trick is that if you learn to really like yourself, opportunity will knock!! Enjoy this time for now + take care of yourself!!
INTROVERTS UNITE
With themselves.
In small groups for a short amount of time!
@@MH-cv5ye XD
We in the building
Paradox
I hit like without listening to this man. I know he nails it all the time. Been a follower for years. Listen to him, you're fuelled.
As an extrovert, its my weakness. I dont have a best best friend where they could be available for me 24/7. And im having a hard time being alone. But now i realize i cant please everyone and that i have to master this.
So so true . Same happening with me . Instead of making others happy I learnt to make myself happy .its been 2 months leaving all alone in this Corona situation. I call everyone and talk but no one calls me and talks to me . But its okay I am learning to live alone .
@@preetman7829 you can do it bro!! i believe in you 😍
I am just the same. We can't change our nature.
Amen Brother. Amen.
same,I've always gone through this..i don't have friends to talk to.I need to deal my breakup(that I've been so hurt ) myself.
It was hard,but I've gone through till now,hope i can overcome again for the days to come..This World is so hard..stay strong everyone❤
This guy's voice is so soothing
I do enjoy my own company, I always say when I started spending time alone that's when I met myself - reintroduced myself to myself!
As I reflected after this talk, I realized I've been feeling alone because I left myself alone. I did all these self improvement all these years but for thought and want of having others fill my cup. I hated my own company because I saw myself as uninteresting, and so I sought affirmations, adventure, and intimacy from others.
But after listening to this talk, everything felt different. I see myself now.
I am no longer afraid of staying up alone during late nights.
Actually, the perspective shifted. I am not and will never be alone.
Living alone is solitude of sublime joy
The way you speak, so warm and polite gave me relaxation at the moment that i am alone and sad.
Im in the same boat right now. I feel so alone and unwanted. Sometimes i feel like an entity just walking by strangers day in and day out. I have many issues apart from being and feeling alone. Ive thought about seeing a therapist but shits expensive so books is my best bet. This video really immensely helped calm my nerves. Thank god for youtube otherwise idk what id do.
Wow he is a good human being i respect to you sir
And people around me doesn't understand my idea of "I maybe alone but I'm happy." but I still keep myself up the way I want it to be.
Yes..I am alone all the time.Alone is power.Yes.More time to think and grow!
Why would you be alone?
It's better
@@chethanct5156 Incase you need a few insights: th-cam.com/channels/JThivKk9_zFAi3Zy6T2HWA.html
Half a century spent in the crafts making fixing stuff, taking the work home is essential, when alone things get done repaired created visualized and prepared for the next day's work, bringing to material reality what the night before was insights dreams and emptiness ~ great human process of creativity ~
If you are happy alone then you are admiring who you are and how nice you are !
So true . I'm doing this now. People that bring me down. I'm leaving them behind . I use to need them. Then I saw a picture of myself in my 40. I ddint rely on people . I came in did what I had to and left them to it.
"So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom." Psalm 90:12
Seriously being alone itself has a strong personality.
Being alone is being yourself. No judgement no matter how crazy it sounds. You can wear, eat, watch or just seat idle without justifying to anyone. Be alone, be creative, be crazy as normal world is not my cup of tea :)
How true
Girlfriend of 4 Years left me recently. We talked about our future all the time even up until the end, when she decided to she wanted to live the party life. I tried talking to other women and all that and it only made me miss her more. This is the true path to growth and recovery from anything. As sad as it sounds, you are the only person you can 100% trust in life, but that should be something were okay with. Stay strong everyone.
I have come to the level where I’m listening to this because I wanna find some inner peace with myself. I was a truly, truly loud and proud extrovert until life said I’ve had enough of it. I fell so so deep into darkness and I have picked myself up so many times. I tell myself that life does this every time. I tried to gain strength and continue living as an extrovert because I felt the happiest being loud and socialising. And again I was proven wrong. This time I have had enough and want to actually take a break and isolate myself from everyone and actually finding who I truly am. I wanna figure out if this is really a better way of living. I wanna find peace and happiness being with myself and no one else.
I did it you can too!!! Life will be much better when you stop dealing with toxic people and delusional!!!! .
It is very important we find
That inner being who God's plan is for us
Getting to know our inner self is a journey
Tranquility is the new luxury 👍👍
Being alone …
Being Clarity … is breeds “Mastery”
Thank you ‘Sir 🙏🏻
Finding out that no one will ever truly love me has got me feeling extremely alone.
You're the only person that will always be with you. Get used to spending time with yourself. Thanks for sharing 🙏
Just broke our friendship but this Video Just made my school life easier
Always was seeking love my whole life, trying to makeup for love I didn't get as a child but spent 37 years married to wife beating husband, I finally woke up and realized I would eventually be dead, I looked around and didn't see any support, I decided to be my own best friend, I spend most of my time alone when I'm not working, lm learning to appreciate it and appreciate me as a person, self love is the best love you can truly give yourself, you can be your own best friend, by doing so, you will never ever settle for less than you deserve.
I’m hoping you are now safe and happy.
I love being alone but I never feel lonely 💖💖
I feel . I can do this and be alone .
You will become the way to behave with yourself when you are alone.... Great says. 😊 🇮🇳 🇮 🇳 🇮🇳 Wish 🌷 🌷 🌷 🇮🇳
Very few ppl can handle it.. Be proud of it 😊😊😊😊
I used to LOVE and CRAVE alonetime (introvert) although I have the best husband and kids 💞 Then one day I developed panic disorder. It's been 6 months and right now is the first time I'm home alone (ok, my son is in his teenage cave) and here I am googling how to be comfortable home alone 🤣
I just want to be independent again.
I will get there, I am in therapy and have started meditating but it will take time... 🥀
Im like you. Introvert that just had panic disorder.
Thank you very much!
When people ask if I live alone, I usually reply, "not alone, no, I live with myself".
It is something you learn to do.
I thought i was having a rough day with loneliness so i sought out this video to get a grip. This insight actually helped me realize how far I've come into my personal growth & validates how comfortable im becoming alone. Still got patches to smooth out but im working on my relationship with myself. Thanks!
I'm alone for the most part of my life and I'm truly happy. Love you Robin.
Hey robin
yh our one book changed my life
Who are you and why do you have so many subscribers?! 🧐 ¿¡Quién sos y por qué tenés tantos suscriptores!?
You are an angel on Earth, God bless you
Sharma, thank you for sharing your wisdom. I love you! ♥️
Tranquility is the new luxury...love this❤️
Thank you so much Robin Sharma....thank you so much .
Pretty much I have spent the whole year by myself .lot of thoughts pours in ..not necessarily all positive thoughts.and in those time I had to deal with myself.accepted my flaws,my fears and those poor decisions. Admitting is hard.slowly letting go of regrets and guilta. I realised only way to sustain is to fall in love with yourself first.
Yes Life is hard.
But do remember however it is sprinkled
with bits and pieces
Of happiness here and there.
It can't always rain
I listen you each day morning. ....
Thankyou so much for your contribution ...
I read all your books...Love reading your books
Thankyou for being so amazing
I'm never alone. There's always me myself and I Am.😊
And God ❤
I’m the only person who is going to be with me as long as I live.
Very powerful and good thing to keep in mind always :)
Interesting point about how many of us are addicted to distractions. So important to be intentional and productive as we go throughout our day. Great topic and so important for everyone these days. Cheers!
Wow. This is the most life changing and valuable video I have ever seen in TH-cam. Thank you Robin. Sincerely appreciate your video. I feel my life will never be the same again and I will strive for improvement.
Accepting being alone.
#Believe :)
Hey Evan!
Evan hey!
Are bhaiya ji aap
Thank you so much 💖.. this video has validated me for how I lived for many years. I always tell myself: " If you look to people for value, acceptance and happiness; I will be disappointed 99% everytime." I mentioned this in AA, and pissed people off
Wow absolutely. I’m going to start meditating more and have time alone to understand who I truly am so I can attract what I am wanting in my life.
This made me cry. Thank you 🙏
Your work is a legacy. I am so glad that I am living in the same era.
My favourite video on the subject....
Thank you
I think, its the best videos ever I've ever seen by Robin Sharma. Its the 'Next Level stuff! Good Luck!!
I wasn't expecting this video to make me cry. Hit all the right buttons on a more emotional level than a how-to-level
This really just changed my life 😳 it confirmed every inner vibration I’ve had for a while now!
Thanks for this video. I am a social guy, have been my entire life. 10 years ago I became self employed and work from home selling products online. It has always been my life's goal to work for myself, have lots of free time and be financially set in life. I have reached all three of these goals. However, working for myself and being alone the majority of the day has had it's own challenges. I have noticed more thoughts and anxiety over the last decade being alone. Many times, it can get so lonely and out of hand that I need to pick up the phone and call someone to talk to. Or take a walk around the neighborhood. I envy some of my friends and family members who can be by themselves for DAYS maybe even WEEKS without interacting with other humans and feel perfectly content and at peace. For 2022, my resolution is to learn how to be alone and be more comfortable, happy and content.
How has it been for you? Whats the progress been like so far?
your powerful package of thaughts like this video is the best finishing shot of my everyday life which i hit everyday before going to bed THANKYOU SO MUCH MY GURU ROBIN👍👍
Sometimes Being Alone Is The Only Awnser
I love being alone.
Amazingly great wisdom ! Thank you sir ! I've placed this video on my saved list ! I'm Jewish and this wisdom perfectly lines up with Jewish wisdom ! Shalom friend !
there's a limit to this. i am alone pretty much all day every day - I work from home, fairly limited hours. i have absolutely no problem being alone and quiet and with my own thoughts. I've been single most of my life. I've travelled a lot (on my own) and done quite a few different things, probs more than most. but eventually it gets old. going to dinner by yourself, hiking by yourself, travelling by yourself, gardening by yourself, going to the beach by yourself, doing yoga by yourself, cooking by yourself, learning to scuba dive by yourself, seeing a play by yourself, etc etc. it gets old eventually. and it's expensive.
Why don t you join some clubs of interest to get to know people???
@@stefaniakonstantinidou981 I do. I run a meetup group, currently doing belly dancing and horse-riding classes, sometimes spanish classes (as well as teaching myself piano). But most people my age have busy jobs, partners, and children. So it doesn't really change that much.
Get a dog!
@@litaswatd6049 A dog is great but also greatly limits your freedom, especially when you are on your own.
Thank you for this clarity, Robin 🙏🏻
I like your podcasts so much robin... thank you for mastery sessions 🙏🙏
When u r alone then it is ur personal growth ...when u feel the pain u release the pain...u always stays with urself..u r your bestfrnd....when u understand urself,stay happy by ur own company then u can understand every relation and sort out everything...ur relationship with urself sets up ur entire relationship with the world
Thank you so much for the love sir Robin. ❤️
Thank you so much for this!! GOD bless you!
Content is very nice. I am glad you choose this subject. Thank you.
You make a lot od sense. My life living alone is much better. I have rediscovered my true self, my paasions and desires. Priceless!
This was so beautiful! Thank you so much. Most searches lead you to "learning social skills". This has really helped me embrace the beauty that is solitude. It really is about your ability to change your own mindset.
Thankyou so much
Robin seems a bit ill...
Great respect robin... God bless you with good health..
This is literally being happening to me ,when he said when u are alone,ur deepest feeling which u have been trying to resist comes up.
So thank u ,i have finally accepted myself after sooo long .thank u soo much
Thank you sow much sir its really helpful.. from 🇧🇩 Bangladesh